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I think it's important to be aware of what type of college you go to. I went to a big State School. I can recall a few instances where I would go one-on-one with a girl out to lunch or invite her to do something and she would pretty clearly decline it. I almost never saw any of these girls again after the class was over. And even if I did it wouldn't have been a big deal. My rejections could easily pass for just two students that never really proceeded to become better friends, it isn't like we …
/r/seduction31/08/19 07:44 AM
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Going to parties would not be weird if you have a friend there. Some organizations are student only but then others at my big university that whoever was local come. Like there were art classes and board games that anyone could come to.
/r/seduction31/08/19 06:10 AM
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Congratulations man!
/r/seduction31/08/19 04:36 AM
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Don't ask for it again. If things go well she will give it to you tomorrow on her own
/r/seduction30/08/19 03:51 PM
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Calling her beautiful is some of the most amateur hour shit I've ever seen. It's over with this girl, don't send three texts in a row
/r/seduction30/08/19 02:54 AM
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College is about building up the social network. You talk to people in classes, go to some student clubs, try to make a friend in a fraternity, find some buddies of the study variety. if you don't even have anywhere to go on thirsty Thursday you need to make friends to get you there. I personally dropped my course load from 4 classes to 3 after my 2nd year because I decided that I wanted a bit more of a chance to have a social life or just less stress.
/r/seduction30/08/19 02:49 AM
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Party vibes are different than going out vibes in my experience. Throw something small at your place with a few guys and a few girls if you don't have any party options
/r/seduction29/08/19 06:03 AM
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Yeah I think it's worth trying. Also if there's some formal dance coming up and you could ask her to that as an intermediary step it's an option.
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:28 AM
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Do you ever go to college parties? Do you have friends in fraternities or that go out every weekend? Seem like pretty straightforward ways to meet a girl to at least kiss if you are a senior at college and have connections to fraternity or House Parties
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:23 AM
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Break up with her. The only reason to stay with her is if you could see yourself marrying her and even then I would be very doubtful
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:21 AM
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No, it will set you apart as unique. It will give you a good way to meet women if you take any classes in it or join any sort of club related to it.
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:20 AM
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Oh haha that makes sense. Well I still think you might look better with shorter hair or a buzz cut but I don't think your looks are an issue. Just be sure to sit by cute girls and strike up conversations with them. You don't even need to game them necessarily, just could be friends and meet their friends. Or maybe it does turn into something. build up a network
/r/seduction26/08/19 03:56 AM
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Bro you are not ugly at all, it is just the weirdest haircut I've seen for a while and way too much of a peach fuzz/not full type facial hair. Get a short haircut and clean shave and you are good to go in the looks. Do you have male friends on campus? Are you talking to girls in every class?
/r/seduction26/08/19 03:47 AM
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That is very fascinating about creating your own Sandalwood cologne. I've always been really into smells outside of pheromones, like whenever I had my first girlfriend over I would use an essential oil diffuser. Different smells almost seem to set a different mood with her. Her favorite ended up being an orange type of scent and I like one that smells like the ocean. I found this candle many years ago that is no longer made and it was like so goddamn good I would do anything to get it back lol. …
/r/seduction25/08/19 05:02 AM
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I don't know what that organ is but I definitely have heard Placebo many times and that humans don't react lab pheromones in reality. Just based on what I've seen I have to believe effects from these pheromones exist. People treated me so differently. And I did nothing differently to the best of my abilities. People were way more receptive when I wore a specific type, and way more aggressive when I wore a different type. I would never believe it if it hadn't happened to me though. I will Google …
/r/seduction25/08/19 04:59 AM
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Unless you are going to see her through a mutual friend in the next week, I would probably just ask for her Instagram and DM her.
/r/seduction25/08/19 04:56 AM
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I'm sure you will see her multiple times again this week and next week and probably for the next few years if you get into the fraternity. I wouldn't worry too much about the number. In addition to dancing with you she has a lot going on in her mind. What will the other guys in the Frat think that are sophomores and juniors and seniors. What if she wants to hook up with them later instead? What about the other pledges? What about her friends standing right there? Just think of this night as an i…
/r/seduction25/08/19 03:04 AM
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I would shift my focus to other girls because even if it does work out with this one she will be annoyingly busy when you do want to see her a second time or third time Etc. I would just do something about dogs with her because it seems to occupy most of her focus, like go to the dog park with her and then out to dinner after you're already hanging out.
/r/seduction25/08/19 02:57 AM
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Because the stigma around the term seduction and the pickup community is so much higher than it should be based on how much value could be gained if they just show up for an hour
/r/seduction25/08/19 02:54 AM
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Get an apartment right by the best bars. Buy a Rolex.
/r/seduction24/08/19 02:59 PM
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I would DM her on Insta and kind of check the temperature of things, then possibly see if she wants to meet up. I don't think you need to completely blow it off simply because she didn't respond to your Snapchat.
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:44 AM
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Okay I've gone to a school somewhat comparable to yours, and in my experience it is both easier and a lot more effective for meeting women to focus on campus. Meeting people in student organizations and classes is still interacting with new people. Look up which clubs are actually under 21 that you can get into. Being inside the club is better than being outside. Releasing stress before you go out can be beneficial. Smells are a big mood trigger for me. If I have a cologne that I always feel gre…
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:30 AM
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Why are you going to the bars when you are under 21? Here's what I would do, I would spend time with my roommates. We would go out to eat and meet friends through them, and build up my social network. Going to parties. Having small get-togethers at the apartment. I would not tell them I was trying to be a Pick Up Artist. I would join clubs. I would talk to girls and even dudes in classes. I would try to befriend someone in a fraternity to get invited to their parties. Your biggest current advant…
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:07 AM
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You have basically nothing to lose by just asking for her number
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:00 AM
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Ask if they want to study sometime and get their number then. Or if you are going to a party or sports game and you think they might also want to go you could consider casually bringing it up and gauging their reaction
/r/seduction23/08/19 03:16 AM
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I know this is kind of a meme but Ryan Gosling's character in Drive, not that you're going to become a getaway driver but how to basically be as quiet as possible and still effective
/r/seduction21/08/19 11:03 AM
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Not getting women and being a loser are not synonymous. There is a way you will end up with a woman but it might require an attitude overhaul and some work in the self-improvement department of things. I disagree that women are higher level and they most definitely are not stronger from a physiological sense and probably not even an emotional sense. Like I feel for you but I disagree with nearly every point you just made
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:13 AM
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Go to the bar and just have a cup of something non-alcoholic in your hand. Or move to a better city. I don't think there's going to be some secret answer where all the women are hiding
/r/seduction20/08/19 03:13 AM
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I wouldn't just give up if she doesn't respond. There's nothing to lose by just texting her and trying to keep it going. Wait a few days and text
/r/seduction19/08/19 01:32 PM
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None of it is really real until you do it in the field. It is basically interesting and helpful, but it doesn't actually matter till you execute. When you're in college you will see what works for you and what doesn't, and if nothing works off the top of your head then you can go back and specifically look up things to help you. When I prepared for college, imagining how it would be, it was a lot different than what I expected.
/r/seduction19/08/19 01:29 PM
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Well your conditions might not be as ideal as a university in America , I think they're better than you perceive. You just need to get more proactive and out of your comfort zone. When you are in the cafeteria strike up a conversation with a cute girl. When you are in the library sitting next to a cute girl strike up a conversation. Go to bars around campus when they are having student discounts or whatever if that exists. You need to make your own opportunities
/r/seduction19/08/19 01:11 PM
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Well it sounds like your college kind of sucks to be totally blunt and if you were 19 my advice would be to transfer 100% of the time. Still your college has resources being in a trade does not. Until you've gone to every student Club, tried to start your own activity, failed at your sport, more classes outside your major, tried to join study groups, I would recommend sticking it out. I know being a virgin at 23 might be pretty frustrating but I imagine it will be even more difficult when you dr…
/r/seduction19/08/19 12:40 PM
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I know what you mean about everyone already making friends in the first semester. Next time, don't let that happen and join a stand-alone class lol. My recommendation would be something like psychology, social work. Not just lectures, you want a small class with group projects and stuff. If you have to take a 101 class because you aren't qualified to get in any higher levels yet, talk to the people around you and set up a study group. Meet once every week or two in the library or somewhere off c…
/r/seduction19/08/19 12:19 PM
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Do you have any free credits? When I was in university I would take two or three classes in my major and one class outside my major. Every quarter. There are many non stem classes which are primarily female based. I would try to get into one of those.
/r/seduction19/08/19 11:58 AM
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I personally believe you don't need to daygame in a big university setting. But rather should hang out with friends during the day and meet friends of friends. And then at night at parties is when things get real, and you can escalate
/r/seduction19/08/19 11:49 AM
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You don't have to make friends with all of them you just have to be friendly towards them and you will end up being friends with some of them. You don't need to be the cool guy every one likes, constantly evaluating your social status. You just need to have some friends. Don't put so much pressure on it. Most people go into their freshman year of college very empty on friends so everyone is super friendly around move-in Day. I would highly advise against joining a fraternity if you aren't aware …
/r/seduction19/08/19 11:14 AM
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Kind of, watching it won't hurt. The answer to your question though is to make friends with all the dudes in your residence hall and just be a friendly chill guy they can hang out in your dorm room when you guys want to play video games or whatever. This will get you into parties and meet friends through friends. Go out to dinner in the residence hall dining with people. Basically just be as open and approachable as possible as well as being nice. I'm not some expert Pick Up Artist so I imagine …
/r/seduction19/08/19 11:01 AM
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Not worth it. If they come back in MANY multiple times and start deepening the conversation with you then it is worth considering. But 99.9% of the time just Let It Go. Even if they kept returning I would leave it up to them to ask me out
/r/seduction19/08/19 10:58 AM
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I think it's interesting from the theoretical approach would be much better time spent on other things. Like you just need to know the very basics of it you don't need to be a master hypnotist
/r/seduction19/08/19 10:56 AM
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Just watch Van Wilder
/r/seduction19/08/19 10:55 AM
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A lot of the women I know usually take the more quiet passive role in a dating setting. Even in a group they're used to the guys entertaining them. It almost feels like a job to go on dates sometimes. So you can basically either be funny and interesting and try to entertain, or you can ask a lot of questions and get to know them based on their responses. Don't just ask dry questions, lead to interesting topics based on their responses
/r/seduction18/08/19 04:16 AM
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Tinder is pretty brutal unless you are really good looking or hilarious and reasonably attractive. I know people that have done well off at but they usually pay for the gold membership. All other dating sites are kind of terrible in my opinion. Without knowing much about you, your looks or your hobbies or your current occupation it is difficult to help. College parties are pretty easy all things considered, so if you know anyone that goes to these parties you might want to try to tag along and g…
/r/seduction18/08/19 04:12 AM
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