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It's not only men who do it... Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:57 PM
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It is when you respond to such comments with "and that is why no woman wants to..." That is what OP was talking about. It is hypocritical, no matter how you look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:56 PM
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The list is endless. ^ You're just reinforcing his argument, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:31 PM
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-_- Do you even know what an implication is?... A relationship can end for many different reasons. One of them is cheating. So whatever thing they did in bed can also not be the reason why it ended. I do not live in fantasies. I know women use men and lie to them. So believing that women only go for better and better as they move from one partner to another is laughable to me, borderline delusional. I do not believe I am better or worse than others, that is such a toxic way of looking at things.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:23 PM
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Exactly!!! For some reason, the way they describe relationships sounds so selfish in a way... It is such an immature way to look at things, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:18 PM
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The funny part here is that he is a man. Why are you asking him about men?... Why would he care about that? Women should be the ones to care about that. But guess what? They don't. So your problem should be with them, not men LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:13 PM
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You cannot be serious... Why are you reframing everything as "it has to be only what they like" in this discussion? The implication of rape/coercion in your argument is disgusting and so unserious. The entire point of this discussion is about women treating men differently depending on how attracted they are to them, which does happen. That's it. A very easy example would be a woman having more sex in her youth, less sex in her 30s, and then more sex in her 40s (this is a stereotype, by the way)…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:54 PM
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It is. People here are just acting stupid and trying to reframe it as rape, for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:08 PM
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Do you seriously not fucking realize the million excuses you are giving out for women in this simple situation?... Jesus Christ...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:06 PM
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-_- He literally told you it has to do with attraction. Are you serious? Why are you arguing in bad faith?... Women treat men (yes, including their partners) differently depending on how attracted and/or useful they are to them. That is just a fact. So, logically, it follows that if you are not having sex with your partner at all, yet she was having sex all the time with her ex, then that probably means you are being used and she doesn't like you that much. It is really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:47 PM
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Exactly. It's all a facade. It is almost like living a lie is better than knowing the truth to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:39 PM
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That doesn't make any fucking sense. A man can care about who his partner really is, and if she is actually attracted to him or just using him. This is just another form of the old question: "if she makes you wait, and she doesn't make any other man wait, does she actually like you?" And it is obvious why such question is necessary. Women get away with a lot, but this is one they shouldn't get away with. I may disagree with accepting a horrible partner as long as she has been horrible with all o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:36 PM
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LMAO He would just get his ass banned in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:39 PM
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He’s been arrested for CP. if he’s “so good looking” he can pull women why is he now in jail for that? ^ I don't think you are making the argument you think you are making... He is clearly sexually attracted to kids, and that is why he was arrested for CP. What the fuck do you mean "if he can pull women why is he now in jail for that"? The fuck does that have to do with his criminal behavior and attraction towards kids?... Do you fucking seriously believe that pedophiles are only pedophiles beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:29 PM
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I don't think you quite understood what Clavicular meant by "doing it for the money." He meant taking drugs and streaming is not what he likes to do, not that what he does is a scam. There is a difference there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:20 PM
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There are 2 interesting things about this comment: You assume, or, at the very least, imply, that women are automatically "very reasonable, empathetic people." That is false. You also assume that Mizkif (her ex) was ever a good guy, or perceived as one by the masses. I never thought of him like that. I never understood how people, especially women, couldn't see how pathetic he was. He always came off as rude, arrogant, and weird to me from the very beginning. I think he became popular because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:05 PM
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Oh, God no... You also believe in the myth that people are not having kids for financial reasons... Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:55 PM
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Do you realize that you just mentioned entitlement as a counter to my comment that women are acting entitled?... LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:54 PM
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Plus less people= less workers which will drive wages up. ^ You cannot be serious... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:52 PM
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The government exist because there are people, or in other words, families, that rely on its existence for survival. That is the main reason societies exist. Without people having kids, there is no more reason for it. Everything boils down to "the survival of the fittest" once other social norms collapse. There is no more right or wrong, it is only "what can you get?" Why are people acting as if the low birth rates aren't an issue at all?... Literal governments (politicians) across the world kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:28 PM
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I don't think women are acting entitled to men's help. ^ ... You have to be joking... Feminism just managed to accomplish everything on their own in your eyes?... You seriously believe the biggest lie ever told?... LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:00 PM
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Women love to downplay it somehow. I guess they are so used to it that they've become desensitized to it, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:43 PM
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Again, so you cannot claim it is better as a fact. Because it clearly is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:34 PM
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That's a subjective opinion, not a fact. It is shrouded in a very obvious and stupid ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:12 PM
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-_- So now you go against men in this sub. Jesus Christ...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:02 PM
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Yes, 10-15 overall. I do not use the word "friend" so lightly. I would rather call people acquaintances or classmates. I guess the word "friend" means more to me than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:00 PM
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How lowly do y'all think about men?... Do you seriously believe most men want to get with women for “social currency”?... Seriously?...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:01 AM
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I specifically said breakups for a reason. It is clear that you cannot say it is better now because people are not getting married as much as before, yet you chose to say this: Most men are either married or cohabitating by 34. as a counterargument to that. That is wrong because breakups are happening. We just switched divorces with them. So how the fuck is it better now?... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:59 AM
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That wasn't really my point. She is acting as if it were definitely better now, but the truth is that she cannot say that. There is no aspect or metric by which she could claim that, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:56 AM
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How old are you? I don't know how people, who already are out of school/college, can have more than 10-15 friends, to be honest. I actually finding suspicious. At best, I could see someone having a handful of close friends, and overall 5-10 somewhat close friends. But having multiple "friend groups" sounds like pain in the ass to deal with and kind of fake, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:54 AM
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The world does not work that way. Women do not act in good faith, tell the truth, or are not fair, a lot of the time, for example. It turns out that acting in bad faith, and doing the opposite of what you said, gets you what you want more often than doing the opposite. So what is your response to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:26 PM
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Oh, you're just wasting my time. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:17 PM
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What does "basic respect" look like to you? I wonder how women would answer this question, so that's why I'm asking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:16 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:15 PM
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But I've never seen a blue piller even try to find such a term for redpillers ^ You cannot be serious right now... LMAO. They call red pillers: incels, misogynists, virgins, losers, etc. all the time. In fact, it is the blue pill that loves to use sex as an attack more than the red pill ever does, yet the red pillers are the ones obsessed with sex?...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:07 PM
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He doesn't owe them anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:00 PM
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Because there are less marriages... Bro, keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:57 PM
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Only dating within your friend group is disgusting to me... I don't know why a lot of women do this, but to have all of your friends be your exes is wild to me LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:56 PM
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And the divorces/breakups are happening more. So... It is clearly not working LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:18 AM
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^ This comment alone is probably going to red pill a shitload of more young men, ironically enough LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:05 PM
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You are literally proving his point... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:43 PM
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LMAO What is it with women and "types"?... So he is not the "type" of multiple different women, yet he is still a "catch" somehow?... Yeah, right!~/s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:37 PM
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I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:45 AM
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LMAO What you just said is a harsh truth they will never accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:44 AM
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The real irony here is that you are using "incel logic" to demonize incels LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:33 AM
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-_- Are women seriously that delusional to think that men only want to have relationships with "baddies" or "10/10" women?... Most relationships start because a man wanted to have one with a woman. And no, not all of those women in the relationships are 10/10. The fuck are we even talking about here?...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:08 AM
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Only women are the ones saying all men cheat. And that is not true, at all. I hate this idea than men cannot be faithful. This is one of the things I hate about the red pill; the idea that "men are only as faithful as his options" is sickening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:00 AM
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Yet, somehow there are more virgin men than women. Ummm, I guess something might be a little wrong with your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:00 AM
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LMAO You seriously think men have the same ability to get sex as women?... Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:53 AM
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^ That's about the stupidest thing I've read in this sub... Jesus!...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:39 PM
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He is saying that women also don't know what an average man is. And there are many reasons for that, but it is their responsibility to fix that if y'all demonize men for not knowing what the average woman is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:54 AM
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The entire message that came across from your post is that you are calling anything that surrounds sex happening early in a relationship or dating to be the same as hooking up. I fundamentally disagree with that. What would be the alternative to that then? You mentioned that the only people you could claim to know and date are your friends (other than that would be a hookup if sex happened early, basically), which is what I based my comment on (the idea that the only way to not "hookup," using y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:40 PM
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By your logic, we should only date within our friend groups, which is kind of an insane thing to do (if that is the only way we are allowed to do it). Are they really your friends? Or are you just labelling them as such to bypass calling them what they really are? The red pill calls them "orbiters." Because a person cannot seriously have more than 10-15 friends (I will look at you funny if you told me you had 30 friends... I mean, really? LOL. That sounds like child speaking), Anything more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:29 PM
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LMAO Your point would make more sense if women actually cared about what men liked. They do not, at all. Most of the time, they criticize men for their standards or wants. They do not try to meet them, ever. What woman has ever said "uh, men like low n-count women, I am going to be one!" for example?... LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:14 PM
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LMAO So money just "appears" out of nowhere and we paid nothing? Are you really saying that?...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:28 PM
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It's funny and sad how women are so contradictory when it comes to looks. On one hand, they preach and say that looks aren't everything and that men should stop calling them superficial. But on the other, they say shit like "how could a man do that to/cheat on someone so beautiful as her!?" or "I would never date someone so ugly and awkward as him!" LOL. I just saw a short of this one couple that was so famous for both being very attractive and the woman and her shenanigans that caused the man t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:25 PM
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Oh, shit!... You're right. Thanks! I will move it there before they get me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:24 PM
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And we still are the ones paying for that... Your argument is really a flawed argument when dissected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:20 PM
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It's funny and sad how women are so contradictory when it comes to looks. On one hand, they preach and say that looks aren't everything and that men should stop calling them superficial. But on the other, they say shit like "how could a man do that to/cheat on someone so beautiful as her!?" or "I would never date someone so ugly and awkward as him!" LOL. I just saw a short of this one couple that was so famous for both being very attractive and the woman and her shenanigans that caused the man t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:01 PM
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Thinking that getting rejected is a useful tool, or a "heuristic," is one of the funniest and out-of-touch things I have heard in this sub so far... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:52 PM
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You are speaking the truth!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:39 PM
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-_- So your entire argument was misleading from the start... What a bad faith argument LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:35 PM
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Very Freudian of you LMAO. Not necessarily wrong if you actually listen to some feminists speak about sex and men... It really makes you wonder how they get to such conclusions some times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:53 PM
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Y'all take a book club like if were the most serious meeting of all time LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:53 PM
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This just shows you are talking out of your ass here. If you knew anything about bodybuilding, then you would know that it wasn't always as popular as it is right now. In fact, more young men are taking steroids now than ever before (which is another issue in itself).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:16 AM
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What a way to prove his point LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:08 AM
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An easy example: crass jokes or jokes that are sexual in nature or very mature are not accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:06 AM
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Yet, somehow, it is women who live longer, go to the doctor the most (which does have a positive effect on their health), and the government funds it more for them. Does that sound like privilege to you?... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:12 AM
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Feigning ignorance now?... LOL. You knew what you were doing by asking so many leading questions, to begin with. It was clear that you were arguing in bad faith from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:51 PM
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It is funny because whenever they try to describe the "huge amount of privilege" men supposedly have, it always revolves around only 2 things: us not being raped/sexually harassed as much (which is very misleading because of the lack of support and reporting men receive, and the other types of violence men do experience more than women) and the percentage of men in the top 5% in the world (which ignores the other bottom 95% of men). Their arguments are literally a prime example of the apex falla…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:36 AM
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LMAO That is your "proof" for saying that men are incompetent in sex because of their "misogyny"?... Gay men literally having approximately the same percentage as heterosexual men disproved your point already. Making women orgasm is literally harder than making men orgasm. Those are just facts. This mixed with the idea that "men should just know" is what leads to those numbers being different between lesbians and heterosexual women. Women do and will communicate with other women during sex. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:19 AM
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Excuses?... What were the "excuses" for?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:06 AM
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I don't think you quite understand what an excuse is... For example, explain how having standards makes it easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:13 AM
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You guys literally have some of the worst birthrates in the world, yet you still believe "forced births" are a thing?... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:01 AM
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Are you seriously comparing abortion being illegal to the false concept of "forced births" (which implies, in a very dishonest way, that rape is legal)?... If that isn't a bad faith argument, then I don't know what is one LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:52 AM
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Okay, so just one more question. What would you have done had he looked ugly to you?...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:08 PM
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The point he's trying to get at, I think, is that such way of thinking doesn't really fix anything or make it less painful. He still got rejected by someone he wanted to go out with. Rearranging how he feels about her because she was rude in her rejection is somewhat unnatural in a sense, and it serves no real purpose, to be honest. So saying that changes nothing (because if she had accepted him, then we wouldn't know if she was really an asshole or not. Believe it or not many people date asshol…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:01 PM
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Trying so hard to redefine attraction and not say you just liked how your boyfriend looked is just... hilarious LOL. Just say he was hot and leave it at that. We're adults here. I mean... "Aesthetic appreciation"? Really?...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:42 AM
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-_- Who the fuck wants to date a promiscuous woman?...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:55 AM
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That is clearly not a reason for a war. What the fuck?... The US can literally block any ship that goes out of Venezuela instead (they were doing this with the excuse that it was because of drugs).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:58 AM
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Well... The U.S. wants a war against Venezuela... This will definitely inspire other countries (Russia and China) to be more ruthless now... I said that things will get worse this year and the next one last year. I wanted to be wrong... Fuck! I hate this so much. Now, we will see the U.S. in a war that should have never happened... Fuck anybody who wants this shit! You can suck a dick! Men are the ones dying in wars! Why the fuck do you support this!?...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:05 AM
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You don't know what men will risk or put on the line to get what they want. He might be okay with the consequences of his actions, no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:34 PM
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He is not really paying directly, though. It is the company's money LOL. Again, how is he losing here?...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:29 PM
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So... your "perfect alternative" is to give up?... The dude in the OP is in his 30s. He is getting the best deal he can get at that point. It's very hard for me to see how your "perfect" solution would work here, really. You sound delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:23 PM
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I don't really give a shit. Everybody here seems to always do what benefits them, no matter if it affects others negatively. I just find if annoying and disgusting that y'all have a problem when it is a man doing it, but not when it is a woman... That shit is infuriating to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:20 PM
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So... your "proof" is a bunch of women in college in their ho phase?... LMAO. In fact, how does that not prove the things the red pill says about women hoeing around?...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:16 PM
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It's funny how misandrist women like you always think they get to define what a "good," "healthy," "perfect," ect. relationship is. It is also extremely arrogant. Have you ever stopped to think, for a second, why those men decided to follow the red pill to being with?... Why do you assume they had a perfect relationship before that just because the women in those relationships say so?... Isn't it obvious that that wasn't the case, at all? As always, women putting women on a pedestal. Nothing the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:04 PM
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It's funny that you think you're the one who gets to define what "better" is here LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:51 PM
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And he should care about that because...?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:47 PM
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You sucking 10 dicks in one night just because that is what you do as a woman is not the same as an average man having sex with younger women, at all. Thinking that it is so easy to do shows just how delusional you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:46 PM
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^ This is yet another example of women not having any clue on ehat the average man's life is like... Y'all sound delusional, I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:44 PM
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Yeah, I never quite understood what is the aversion towards average or normal for... Did it come from greed? Arrogance? Delusion?... Who really knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:31 AM
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"Cocky nice guy"?... What!?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 07:25 PM
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But that wasn't the point, though. White worshipping, along with white supremacy and colorism, is a real thing. I don't know why you cannot see that... Any POC that is old enough and experienced enough can attest to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:43 AM
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Tbf, I never bought into the idea that kindness specifically creates sexual arousal. ^ Finally, a woman that understands how stupid thinking that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:37 AM
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...most poc women aren't lowering themselves with a substandard white men. ^ Now, I know that you are lying. A lot of women who are minorities, for some reason, worship white men. Shit, the entire concept of "yellow fever" might as well be called "white fever," for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:34 AM
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Man!... That first paragraph couldn't be more true! I swear to God that is the main reason for most dating issues that are happening right now!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:30 AM
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This weird narrative women like you love to spread around to scare other women from having kids is just... So now no woman has kids because she actually wants to?... LMAO. Do y'all hear yourselves?...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:15 AM
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I don't think you quite understood what he said... He said that the man is successful regardless. And because he is successful, then women are more attracted to him. This means that those numbers would show a correlation, not causation. One does not become rich or earn more simply because he is married. It is that he was rich that he ends up getting women and therefore gets married, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:09 AM
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What a disgusting midset you have...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 07:24 AM
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That is such a horrible thing to do... And a huge red flag too! Knowingly taking advantage of someones feelings, or feigning ignorance as long as it benefits you, is wrong. I don't give a shit how much you try to make it sound good, it just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 07:04 AM
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And I have seen men who women claim "love them so much and are so fun to be around" leave them and betray them. So... Which is more important? Fun times or loyalty? Which one is the one truly closer to "real love"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:25 PM
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Women do all that shit thinking it is for their partners, or what their partners want/want them to do, but more often than not, it is just something that they wanted to do for themselves. Believe me, most men do not care about candles or flowers, for example. Also, it is very interesting that this same mentality applies to other aspects of relationships, too. A lot of women assume that their partners asked them to do something, when in reality they didn't. Yet, they end up blaming them as if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:52 PM
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I don't know how to explain it... I just felt bad for her. Her cries and screaming just felt real to me. They were ugly, embarrassing, and loud. But above everything else, they felt real... There comes a point when you just feel that something is serious based solely on the sound of it, and that was it. I guess I wasn't accustomed to that (women showing such emotion), or maybe I just forgot about it. It may sound fucked up, but I genuinely believe that I need to see more instances (not that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:22 AM
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Meh, not really. If that were truly the case, then she wouldn't have made the distinction between bf and husband prpspects being allowed to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:12 AM
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I just saw an IG post of a woman crying because she was cheated on (it appears that it was on the day she discovered it. It's ring camera footage), and I never thought I would feel the way felt when I watched it... I guess I haven't changed that much, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:06 AM
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It is not only women in sororities, though. Even after college, when was the last time you've seen a woman throw a party that was fun that also included both genders and a large amount of people. Also, what does the loneliness epidemic have to do with throwing parties?... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:04 AM
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So your counter-argument is that half of them voted for trump?... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:00 AM
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Oh, I know how they do it. My question was clearly rhetorical and to have one of you who believe in these studies defending them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:59 AM
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This is just funny... You bought into the whole "women are wonderful" thinking (pathetic) that you cannot even see reality like it truly is. Go look at how women voted in last year's elections. They voted for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:43 PM
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Exactly!... Like, what the fuck is she talking about?...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:33 PM
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LMAO If men don't want to be part of the military or police anymore, then all this bs you are speaking about means nothing, really. The social contract depends heavily on both sides upholding it. Yet, it appears it is women like you who do not understand it... That's truly unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:30 PM
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Boy... there's just simply too much truth in this!... Damn. I really hate that people don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:55 PM
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A counter-argument to your argument is that people (women do this shit a lot) don't necessarily always want what's good for them, or what will work for them. Most often than not, people do not think that deeply on how their partners will change their lives (in an unbiased way). They ignore so many red flags, for example. They just do it because they're either horny, "having fun," "having feelings," etc. It is simply not objectively done most most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:40 PM
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It may sound fucked up... but parties aren't necessarily great because they are "safer." They are great because they are fun. Men know how to make things fun and exciting. That's why their parties are great. Only caring about safety (which should be a priority, really) doesn't necessarily make the party better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:28 PM
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So you think women are more likely to be virgins than otherwise?... LOL. Calling you naive would be an understatement. Women are having sex. You just bought into this lie that they somehow aren't and are disgusted by it. It is simply not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:43 PM
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-_- So women are masochists then?... This is exactly what I mean by stupid bullshit. It is clearly just being used and created to push a narrative. It is not objective, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:23 PM
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Because they heavily influence and brainwash other women. One day, we will see the true effects on society that are caused by women's actions. Once we see that, I do not want none of you to act surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:21 PM
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^ Yet women claim they haven't been brainwashed... Spewing stupid shit like this. almost word by word, like many other women have done LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:13 PM
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People have different things that make them happy, and have different definitions for it (happiness). This is why studies on "happiness" are bullshit to begin with. How can they even begin to compare "happiness levels" objectively?... Studies that attempt to do that are probably the worst things to use to construct an argument, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:02 PM
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How the fuck is what he said "bare minimum"?... Women never do that shit for men, not even half of it. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:53 PM
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No, that is not what he said. He said that women do not do anything to deserve such efforts. And you cannot deny that. That is why you had to purposely misconstrue his argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:42 PM
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The hypocrisy of being okay with age gap relationships when it involves lesbians but not otherwise is just... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:38 PM
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It's funny how women like you want to break parts of the social contract because that would benefit them and other women, yet you still expect men to fulfill their parts of such contract. If women are allowed to not care about men, at all, then men are allowed to not give a fuck about what happens to society or others. That is the same logic women use, but you refuse to admit it because of your own bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:36 PM
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Did you not realize that the OP (woman) is essentially creating a hierarchy of attractiveness with how women view men?... How is that not ranking them, especially if they do not "meet your standards"?.... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:32 PM
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Men aren't picky, though. That was his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:27 PM
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Bruh... I just watched a report on the "virgin market" in Colombia (happens in other countries as well), and I was left speechless... I understand not liking promiscuous women, hookup culture, and the difficulty in getting sex. I also understand how older women can be annoying as hell sometimes. But come on now... That shit is disgusting. Some of those girls were either captured by the cartels, sold off by their own parents (including their own mothers, by the way), or simply end up doing it out…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 10:15 PM
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Again, how does that go against OC's and my argument then?... You appear to be saying the same thing; it was better before. So things are, in fact, different now from the 90s and 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:05 PM
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I've never heard of that app... I just looked it up. It wasn't the app version that was created in 2007. It appears that it was a Facebook app (a different thing from a mobile app) that was created. So it makes sense why I have never heard of it before. The mobile app version of Zoosk was created at the end of 2010. Also, do you have any numbers to say that Tinder was more successful than older websites like OkCupid or Match.com?... I believe it is the opposite, which makes OC's point even more …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:59 PM
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How does that go refute my argument?... It actually may help it, not gonna lie. What was the 1st dating app then? Grindr? Wasn't that created in 2009-2010?...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:45 PM
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That's cool. I also feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:44 PM
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Are we still seeing those ads? Or were they stopped due to their negative consequences and the body positivity movement of the mid 2010s (that was mainly only for women, by the way)?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:43 PM
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Dating websites, not dating apps. There is a massive difference there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:35 PM
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Then you are changing the entire argument into a "all men are incels/misogynists and this has been in society since the very beginning!" argument. There is a massive, and necessary, difference between the 2000s, 2010s, and 2020s, perceptions and definitions about incels and the BP. You cannot seriously argue against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:33 PM
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Yeah, it is hilarious to see the drastic change LOL. In fact, I just listened to a woman, who years ago was criticizing red pill ideas and concepts to death, now spewing the exact same things. It is astonishing to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:26 PM
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Hey, I'm going to be very honest with you here. Depending on your age, it is sometimes extremely difficult to find an attractive woman with a low "n count" (the older you get, the worse it gets, basically). Sometimes, even if she does, then that may be an indication of other red flags she may have LOL. So if you don't really care about that a lot, then go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:23 PM
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They just use "insecure" as a get out of jail free card for any conversation that may paint them the wrong way. We just need to get used to that style of non-argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:19 PM
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Exactly. It is very rare for them to like that shit, in reality. In fact, who would really like that shit?... LOL. It always sounds like the "perfect partner" to them is a pseudo-cuck, or a full-blown cuck, who is also a doormat and would be okay with anything they do. He will never pushback, never disagree, etc. No, he is "perfect" because he does what she wants and she never has to compromise with him. Why? Because he somehow does not have wants or needs of his own. Do you hear how insane that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:36 PM
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Why do people over-romanticize love, relationships, and trust?... It almost sounds childish the way some of them describe it as, especially blue pill people (women and their white knights).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:31 PM
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Yet, somehow, we are meant to do both: believe there are men who put on an Oscar level performance and fool women, and men who cannot hide their "true intentions" or "true thoughts" so much so that women can just "tell" there is something wrong with them (they get the "ick") without them saying anything LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:47 PM
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... You think men come here with the hopes of meeting someone and end up having sex?...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:25 PM
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So he is right, and you agree with it. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:21 PM
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LMAO Is it because you speak Spanish or have an accent?... If so, then that makes sense. The US has 2 huge problems that intermingle a lot of the time. And those are: racism and xenophobia. I tend to believe that the latter is becoming more common since the entire rhetoric against immigrants began. Republicans tried their hardest to create a scapegoat to direct their hatred towards, and they used immigrants for it. And what is the largest group of immigrants in the US? Exactly, Hispanics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:18 PM
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We dont make entire forums crying about it. ^... What!?... You must not know about the sub called TwoX with 14 MILLION SUBSCRIBERS! Are you fucking serious now?... All those groups like "are we dating the same man?" on social media, the Tea App, etc. but women aren't "crying about it"?... Yeah, go lie somewhere else. If you won't argue like an adult, then just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:06 PM
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Exactly!!!!!! Hell, even on this same thread, they are saying a lot questionable things that are borderline racist or discriminatory. But it is fine, right? Since it is all about dating and relationships, every and any stereotype becomes the truth somehow LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:50 PM
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You... You do know that Spaniards are Europeans too, right?... LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:37 PM
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I agree. I don't really know why this lie and the women-are-wonderful effect are so wide spread... Just talk to a woman for more than 10 seconds! You will see that they can also be as hateful and as discriminatory as any person, ever. Women and a lot of white knights online defend women so much, no matter what, that you would think racist women are an anomaly, or they don't exist, but just look at the presidential elections of last year. Yeah, A LOT of women voted for Trump. So... Are women stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:34 PM
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Exactly! I don't know why it is so hard to get it for a lot of people... It is very clear what OP's point was LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:04 PM
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You seem to be the only person here who seems to get it. Are you a man, by any chance?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:40 PM
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What kind of homophobic bullshit is this?... Why are women so quick to jump to homophobia when they are cornered in an argument?...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:59 AM
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LMAO So now being asexual and aromantic is the norm?... Are you fucking serious?... Socialization is decreasing. Read a fucking book for once!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:45 AM
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You sound like an asexual and aromantic... Of course you wouldn't understand it LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:36 AM
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No OP, but I definitely felt something along the lines of what you're saying for a while. The choice was either becoming something I'm not or just accept it and keep it pushing. I still haven't decided fully, and that's what is creating the constant conflict within me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:08 AM
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You proved nothing. You are childish and annoying. Either argue like an adult or just leave this sub. I'm done listening to your lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:46 AM
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Jesus! You sound like a kid. How was I wrong to begin with?... You took my comment (that's 2 years old, by the way) way out of context, and you didn't even understand it to begin with. I find a comment of where you say that these two things are different - which is all I needed to prove my point. ^ You did not understand this or that discussion, at all. That is not what I said. If it was fine to treat them the same, if it was fine to your own highlight do both at the same time, I wouldn’t be mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:41 AM
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See, that is the misunderstanding here. The way OP is defining "standards" and the way you and other women define "standards" are different. OP is probably saying that those standards are basically looks, money, and status. For example. let's take looks. This reduces his chances because it is harder to just be attractive in terms of looks (for men in general, to be honest). So it makes sense that the "standards are higher" to get sex if that is the only thing needed to have sex with women. Now, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:27 AM
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Part 2: Do you see it now? Hell, I was even defending that woman and comforting her by telling her that she is not a slut by just having multiple partners (if she had actually dated them seriously, not simply had casual sex with them) LOL. I'm not contradicting myself here. In fact, I'm basically saying the same shit LOL. Lmao. And just FYI - virgin women (who you also wrote you think are all lying that they are virgins) ^ I guess I should restate this part. I do not necessarily think virgin wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:43 PM
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Part 1: So your initial accusation fell flat? Got it. You just like accusing people of stuff they never did, huh? LMAO. So even you..., can acknowledge that people hold different standards for different relationships. I don't think you quite understood my point there. Hell, even after 2 years, I'm still making the same argument, really. The point of this argument, when compared to that one (the one in the picture), is that you cannot hold both practices at the same time (treat people differently…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:43 PM
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No, I meant that whenever women do wrong, you turn around and tell the man that "they are not worth the effort," instead of, rightfully so, criticizing the woman in the scenario. If the roles were reversed, you would dunk on the man. That's it. I was pointing out the double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:51 PM
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That's a very specific subset of men you are talking about. In fact, most men, who are into casual sex, probably end up with a partner who has a past of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:48 PM
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It is because there is a fundamental disagreement on what "making a move" means nowadays. It appears to me that you, and most women nowadays, define "making a move" way different from what men do. That causes a lot of confusion and headaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:43 PM
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Are you generalizing "social cues" or "signals" women give to men?... Because that could not be further from the truth. In fact, many men know that one thing may work for one woman, but not others. And that is the point. You have to read the specific woman's mind in order to decipher what would work on her. curiously enough, there seem to be an increase of self reported difficulty in interpreting social cues in young men, and i wonder if the younger generations being increasingly more and more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:37 PM
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No, that isn't the point. The point is that anybody could make it harder to get in a relationship by simply just inflating their "standards." Therefore, comparing the ability one has to have casual sex with their true ability to have relationships would be impossible. Especially when the latter is, as I said, very dependent on your intentions (in the debate, and overall).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:34 PM
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YOU YOURSELF DO THIS ON A DAILY BASIS. If I go through your comment history, I WILL find that you yourself have commented that there are women you’d sleep with who you’re not vetting for a relationship and women you’d have meet higher criteria to date. ^ DO IT. I dare you to find those comments. I know myself very well, and I have never said anything close to that. In fact, I have said multiple times that I do not like casual sex. So who are you really talking about here again?... Who are you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:52 PM
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I don't think that's true. No man, who isn't a virgin or isn't expecting a virgin partner, I have ever known has said "I don't want to date her anymore. She had sex with me too fast." Most often than not, those were his intentions from the very beginning (not having a relationship and just have sex with her). If they do not want to date her, it is mostly because they learned something about her that bothers them. They're just okay with putting up with it if they end up having sex with her a few …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:32 AM
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Because you can't. That's it. Why else would you mention them if not for an accusation or to imply that it is so rampant here? That you deny, or choose to be blind to, the clear hypocrisy is just... Damn! It appears that only women can be hypocritical, selfish, assholes, huh. At least in your eyes that is how it is. Now, I understand why there are so many dead bedrooms out there. Women with your mentality are literally using men who they're not attracted to. Making them jump through countless ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:00 AM
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I mean... They are literally never around LOL. If women wanted to date for relationships and not casual sex, then they would date for relationships. But they don't even do that. It almost seems that they are avoiding men altogether. So, again, mentioning them is kind of pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:33 AM
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Point me to 5 men in PPD who have said that. Because I never have said that. Why would any guy do all that when that woman would fuck an attractive man just for his looks (or money, status, etc.)?... It does not matter if he is an asshole, has his shit together, etc. He has to do nothing for it... I cannot fucking believe how y'all don't ever seem to get it!... It sounds like a shitload of responsibility with nothing rewarding about it, at all. It's a terrible deal objectively. No matter how you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:24 AM
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That doesn't make any sense since women made the entire body positivity movement everyone's problem. That is the reason why it became so huge in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:05 AM
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...the ones that don't are not worth the effort. ^ Is that really your entire argument against his point?... Why do you guys always give women an out in these discussions when you dunk on men in the same scenarios?...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:03 AM
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You were the one that added the extra condition of compatibility, though. So you are the one who moved the goal posts first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:54 AM
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LMAO You know it is a no, but refuse to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:52 AM
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And you seem to avoid the arguments others make. Instead of using analogies that are pointless and inaccurate to begin with, you should learn to actually debate the point that is being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:31 AM
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The "moth guy"?... When have I ever said anything about moths? What part of it is flawed? You still haven't proved it. The fact of the matter is that it all boils down to lying to get what you want. That's it. You aren't addressing it because you cannot disprove the statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:23 AM
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How is it derailing any more than what you did?... The point of the discussion is that women lie to men as much as men lie to women in order to get what they want. Yet, in women's eyes (you literally just proved in yours it does), it is only wrong when men do it. Do you see why that is arguing in bad faith now? We are not discussing the "ethics" of dating, we are arguing hypocrisy here. Also, using rhetorical arguments in debates in the way you did is arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:40 AM
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That only makes sense in your head. That is literally not what he was getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:30 AM
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How the fuck does that even make any sense? You defining "consent" in a way that only justifies the actions of women, and helps push your narrative, is arguing in bad faith. Of course he cannot "move the argument forward." You literally made the entire discussion about agreeing with you or else he is justifying rape... Do you fucking hear yourself?...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:29 AM
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They are not part of the discussion because they wouldn't be considered hypocrites if they aren't having casual sex in the first place. But, they are really rare. So mentioning them is kind of pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:24 AM
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Are you admitting that women do use less attractive men then?... Well, that's a first LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:23 AM
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I think that you are forgetting that women also have casual sex. I think that is the point he is getting at. If you have casual sex, but judge a guy you actually want to get into a relationship with harsher than the guys you have casual sex with, then are you really attracted to him?... "Other guys didn't have to do all that to get it," basically. In this case, he wound have meant standards as in looks, money, status, etc. I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:20 AM
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Genuinely nice guys do nice things because they are good people. ^ See, this sounds extremely selfish and manipulative in a way. This is why I give a fuck about being considered a "nice guy," or whatever. It almost sounds as if you have to be a slave to other people in order to be considered "nice." And nice for what, really?... Yeah, for nothing. LMAO What you would probably get is people using you, and that's it. After all, "genuinely nice guys do nice things because they are good people" with…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:11 AM
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You're literally doing what he just said... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:54 AM
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The... fuck does that have to do with what he was saying?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:41 AM
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LMAO You missed the millions of posts of women complaining about men approaching them, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:32 AM
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Exactly. If every single part of your description of yourself sounds good, then it most likely is bullshit anyways. Like, are you serious?... Only good things?... And people think that's being honest? LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:27 AM
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I seriously would love for all women like you to try to date other women as a man (dress up like one). These "social cues" or "signals" you think women give off are not as clear as you appear to be thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:38 AM
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Those are 2 completely different things LMAO. In one (men trying to date women), women offer no input (it kills the vibes, he is not man enough, etc.), so you really are trying to read her mind. In the other, you basically chose to be blind to his actions, and deaf to his words. You cannot seriously compare both as if they were remotely the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:37 AM
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He's essentially saying that if she is okay with a guy making moves, why is she uncomfortable with men actually making moves on her. That's so stupid and contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:32 AM
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The irony of criticizing incels for calling others losers, by also calling them losers... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:59 PM
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Exactly. Like, what the fuck is she talking about? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:51 PM
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You lost me in your second paragraph, ngl. I mean, what do you even mean?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:50 PM
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Why do people like you act as if most people here don't have to interact with others irl?... I seriously doubt most people here live with their parents, unless they are in college, which is very likely, tbh. And if you do interact with people irl, then you would realize, very quickly, how disgusting and assholish people can be. If you don't believe that, then you either live a sheltered life, or are in a bubble. That's it. Also, most interactions one has irl are pretty surface level, nothing rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:22 PM
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"Who the fuck likes France?" ^ LMAO. NGL that was hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:58 PM
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Tell me a group of animals that do that, if you may.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:42 PM
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Did you... not read the first line of the post?... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:39 PM
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Now, she is quiet, huh?... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:34 PM
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Exactly! I cannot believe we have to point it out. I mean, do they all really want to live and be treated like wild animals? Really?... LOL. Because that is basically what they are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:23 PM
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It's so funny how women like you appeal to the natural behavior of wild animals in these discussions, but when parts of such behavior (such as killings, rapes, brutal fights, etc.) are also brought into the discussion, then y'all look the other way LMAO. Y'all are a bunch of hypocrites. In fact, the reason we don't act like animals is because we literally don't want to, and we have created concepts like morality, laws, ethics, etc. to guide ourselves by and to not do it. We are not like wild ani…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:13 PM
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The average man masturbates to pictures of his gf's family and friends?... The average man has that many threesomes?... That's just stupid. The average man has never experienced a threesome, for example LMAO. That just says a lot more about the men women actually pick to date than the actual average man. Y'all just be dating disgusting assholes, I swear LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:00 PM
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Now, that is a completely different thing. You are purposely doing something to the AI, it is not guessing. It is doing what you are most likely asking it to do. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:04 PM
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I suppose my issue is with the usage of "guess" as a descriptor of what is going on in AIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:41 PM
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That makes no sense. It does not "guess." That is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:39 PM
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That's... literally not how it works... LMAO AIs are TRAINED for a reason. They do not just spew random shit. In fact, that is almost impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:47 PM
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Nicest lifestyles?... Is that really the way you compare stuff by?... LMAO. China is literally surpassing the US and they are way more "patriarchal" than us, for example. Also, my point is that if the connection between men and women ends due to women's disliking of men, then, at some point, men will have no reason to care for what happens to women. That's it. Whether you like it or not, society was built on the concept of families. A society without them is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:17 AM
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LMAO "emotional attunement"? Does that mean I do not agree with you? If so, then good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:48 AM
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First of all, you are just low libido/low sex drive. That's fine. Just look for someone who is the same as you. Second, what type of men are you even dating?... LOL. That sounds like an asshole to me. Stop dating/picking assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:40 AM
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Well, you see, the issue here is that men could do something about it without caring about what happens to women. A true patriarchy could be made. After all, women already despise men. So why would we care for what happens to them? Especially if resentment towards them begins to increase in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:16 AM
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I don't think you quite understand the scale of WW2 and how different it was in comparison to WW1...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:07 PM
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So men should do something against the wealth inequality... for women's sake?... The same women that despise men so much so that they would rather die single than ever pair up with them?... LMAO You're funny. If self-centered wasn't a perfect word to describe those women, then I don't know what word would.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:57 PM
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The point he is making is that none of you lived through that. So using that as an excuse is misleading and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:26 PM
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LMAO As if socialism has ever worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:25 PM
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LMAO I'll play with your very biased example. What if I say I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:23 PM
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^ This is yhe most disgusting and wrong comment I've ever seen in my life... Jesus!...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:10 PM
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^ -_- This sub is... LMAO This is seriously becoming another feminist sub, huh?... We have a male feminist too, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:05 PM
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LMAO You seriously think we would experience another baby boom in these times!?... Calling you delusional is an understatement...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:58 PM
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I don't think you have seen the current birth rates... We are one war away from disaster, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:36 PM
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LMAO Of course your SO is the "exception." Every other dude that tries is a creep, right?... Y'all are really funny sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:40 AM
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LMAO The arrogance in this comment is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:39 AM
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Depends heavily on who is asking you out, and why. Your own example was about a guy being hazed, for example. In most cases, the guys who never gave a fuck will continue to not care about women's feelings towards his approaches. They won't change, at all. Then, who does? Well, those who actually care. Isn't this obvious, or ironic? MeToo revealed a lot about our dating dynamics and personalities. It destroyed many things regarding dating and relationships, but only for those that actually care f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:36 AM
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The amount of condescension in this one comment is just disgusting. Not only are you showing that you think you're smarter than you actually are, but you actually believe what you're talking about. That's just so sad. If insulting short men makes tall men feel insecure, and that is something you are willing to do as long as you're hurting those men, then that still makes you an asshole. I don't know why that is so hard for you to understand. This weird fantasy y'all have about making evil and po…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:38 AM
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Of course~! Because that makes so much sense, right? /s LMAO. First of all, I'm not even short. Second, why would tall men be insecure about someone calling them short?... Y'all are just attacking short men for no reason whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:47 AM
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Toxic masculinity?... After saying some of the most hateful and unnecessary shit against short men in general?... Yeah, right~ /s LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:47 AM
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That wasn't the point of my comment. I've never cat called a woman in my life. I'm just asking what could possibly be a punishment for such an offense as making someone uncomfortable... People, men and women, will make you uncomfortable in a multitude of ways in your life, not only sexually (?), which appears to be the case with cat calling. That is inescapable. So what would be the punishment in those cases as well?... Or are the sexual undertones the real reason why this one in particular both…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:40 PM
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How? What is the consequence?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:21 PM
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The ironic part here is that if those series began to do that in mass, then men AND A LOT OF WOMEN would stop watching them. It seems that the real issue here is that men are more attracted to women than women are attracted to men (hell, even women are attracted to women), which is what OP was arguing originally. So... You understand now why they do it one way and not the other?... Why don't women get attracted to most men in a sexual manner if they truly want men to be sexualized as well?...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:19 PM
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You want punishment for cat calling?... I've never done it, but how is that a even punishable offense?... LOL. Words hurt that much?...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:00 PM
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That didn't happen as much as y'all want to make it seem it did. It so easy to make people scared by spreading the worst of the worst stories around, huh?... This is exactly the reason why so many women are paranoid nowadays. Also, even when women give their consent and choose their own husbands (the present), that still happens. What makes you think that abuse stops just because a woman gives her consent and has the right to pick her husband?... LMAO. That's what I'm saying. It doesn't make any…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 01:53 PM
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Hypergamy is always aiming above your league. Therefore, if women only aim delusionally above their league (Ex. promiscous women who have fucked hundreds of men expecting to marry the top 1% of men), then that makes the entire thing stupid. The only guys who will be able to take advantage of the system would be those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:56 PM
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Hey, at least it is a good memory, I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:34 AM
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Amazing! That must've been a great ceremony then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:32 PM
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So why do you give it as an advice then?... It sounds as if that is what women (and you, I believe) wish the guy they like would be like once they are in a relationship. It does not sound like that is what they are actually looking for, for the most part. Meaning, it doesn't matter until you are already in the relationship, basically. A guy who struggles already with dating won't really change his success rate by following that approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:37 PM
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Damn!... That's facts, unfortunately. But, on the other hand, you could call that a work of charity LOL. Okay, I'll stop
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:15 PM
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How does that relate to a man wanting a virgin woman for a partner, though?... Being a "good" person is just that. It doesn't really help you most of the time. In fact, a lot of the time, it turns out to be detrimental, unfortunately. Therefore, being a "good" person ends up becoming more of a choice than a method to achieve things. So I still don't get how is that used as an advice...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:58 PM
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That's so vague... What does that even mean or look like in this scenario?... How would a virgin man looking for a virgin woman showcase that to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:13 PM
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Okay, I'll play. Tell us an example of "going the right way" about it. if you may.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:57 PM
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Exactly. I will vote democrat because they do more for people overall, and are less annoying, childish (the politicians not the voters), and insult multiple people of different demographics less. But, I do not buy that women such as OP vote democrat to help men LOL. They just want to vote for democrats because of their own agenda and self-centered goals (abortion rights, etc.). That's it. I just hate that they never stop virtue signaling... That shit gets annoying after a while!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:43 PM
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You are being very misleading here... Hell, even the damn politicians who talk about those things almost always mention women and children as the ones who will get the most help. I have never heard any democratic politician say "this will help men!" It is almost always about women and children first... Again, you are being very misleading with your descriptions and the actual intentions of such plans. If what you are trying to imply is that men will get help as a side effect of such plans, then …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:37 PM
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MFs cannot match my 80s love songs playlist! Bet your ass on that!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:31 PM
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Very interesting that you used Kaepernick here... Given that the NFL basically black balled him for it LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:52 AM
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it's only ever okay to promote masculinity if it's defined by feminism or women ^ THAT IS WHAT I'VE BEEN SAYING FOR YEARS!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:36 AM
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Feminist have promoted that men should be allowed to express their vulnerabilities (IN HEALTHY WAYS) like women do You have got to be kidding me...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:32 AM
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It's actually funny that people spread this point as if they could actually prove the percentages of false accusations accurately. Especially in this biased and racist justice system LMAO. How do you even prove that something actually didn't happen, for example?... At some point, it becomes a she-said-he-said case. It can only be proven to be false if there is also evidence showing or contradicting the accuser's side. That is the only way to "prove" it is a false accusation. A lot of the times, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:42 PM
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Exactly. It is almost as if you have to be dirty, evil, narcissistic, selfish, etc. to even struggle in dating in their minds. Such assumptions are so insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:22 PM
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It is very sad, although still interesting, that women deem self-deprecation to be the only way to talk about one's own struggles (when it's done by men). It is almost as if they want men to humble themselves to such a point in which they could finally feel pity for him, or make pity justifiable at least... That is very interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:15 PM
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LMAO Got her ass!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:09 PM
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I don't think you quite understand and know the women from NYC... LMAO. They are probably some of the most superficial women you would ever meet in your life. So I don't think all those assumptions you are making, even if they were true, would lead to more success in dating overall for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:07 PM
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I don't think you quite understood what he said...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:57 PM
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-_-
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:01 PM
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Treating someone as an individual (it is very ironic that I have to point this out LOL), despite the generalizations one may have about them, is not being insincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:08 PM
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The whole post and discussion is about approaching... What are you on about?... So now approaching is "weird" no matter what?... LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:03 PM
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I was mainly talking about the roommates stuff. But even then, most men have hobbies that are male dominated (the same goes for women in female dominated hobbies), and sports are literally segregated by sex, so I do not understand how doing those help in getting dates/gfs. Again, why should everything have to happen within your friend group?... At some point, you have to grow up and interact with people outside your friend group. That's all I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:02 PM
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I don't think you quite understood the point... Men, unlike some women, are still willing to find out if the woman has something else to offer. They do not stop trying just because of a generalization. Do they like sex? Yeah, why wouldn't they? LMAO. It still doesn't change the fact that once they know the woman a little bit more, then they are able to make a better decision on whether or not they continue trying to pursue a relationship with her. That's it. It is not that complicated. I'm prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:57 PM
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If someone is offering something and I take it, it doesn't mean that that something is the only thing that I wanted. For example, if I walked into a store and someone were offering me to buy X product, and I ended up buying it, it does not mean that that was the only thing I was looking for when I entered the store. It just so happened that, upon further inspection, it was the only thing they were offering. When some men say "the only thing women offer is sex!" what do you think they are saying,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:43 PM
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That sounds like the only time you have to date is during college LMAO. So naive and childish...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:35 PM
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Exactly. I swear to God that if we followed the weird and unrealistic script they have in their heads about how dating should be like, then nobody would have been born LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:28 PM
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I find it fascinating how paranoid and afraid ADULT women are of strangers... "Everything has to happen within my friend group!" sounds so naive and childish, basically. This is literally how y'all end up dating the same guys over time. The same 5 guys in the group have dated all of you LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:25 PM
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Work!?... LMAO So now work is an appropriate place to approach a woman? LMAO. HR was literally created to stop that (they suck at it, but they made things worse for sure. Now, people are secretive about it).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:20 PM
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..."the only thing women offer is sex!" but then get offended when women say "that man only wants sex." ^ Those 2 statements have nothing in common and are not even equivalent to begin with. So what you just said doesn't make any sense whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:16 PM
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Exactly. The ironic part here is that they still believe that you aren't confident somehow... Yet, even if we show them that we don't really give a fuck if they like us or not for our opinions (confidence), they still believe we lack confidence somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:43 PM
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Just talk about whatever. Most conversations occur based on the energy you give to the other person (this is about surface level convos that are either man to man or woman to man), rather than the actual topic at hand. This is an advantage you have as a woman. Because if the genders were reversed, then the woman would hate to talk to a man about meaningless stuff (unless he is super attractive). This is one of the things that woman do, yet they do not notice somehow, that shows how high of a bar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:41 PM
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I mean.. That just makes sense. I don't know why anyone would have thought otherwise. If you did, did it never cross your mind how such pairing happened?... It is not normal for it to happen, so something is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:36 PM
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Any woman who seriously thinks that is just showing how terrible she is and her taste in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:29 PM
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So... you agree with what he said... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:35 PM
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Quick question for the men: At what age did you begin to view girls/women sexually? I want to see something...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:19 PM
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LMAO NGL She got your ass with the 1% commenter argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:31 AM
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LMAO So they aren't fat? How is that supposed to be a bad thing for me?...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:29 AM
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^ This reads as if you thought that people can never change and stay one way forever. People can do multiple things in their lifetimes, it does not mean that they stay one way forever most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:24 AM
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... I love this!!! Damn! Why are you the only woman (well, technically the second one) who I have seen say this in this sub!?... That is unfortunate, but I'm still happy about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:18 AM
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Your "message" is actually what is destroying dating and relationships. She is getting married. It's funny and kind of sad that y'all refuse to accept it no matter what...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:16 AM
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I didn't say that. I said that after a while, without any success, instead of trying a new approach, they would simply just leave. That's all I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:37 AM
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I don't think it is a good idea to encourage people to have sex in middle school... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:36 AM
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Logic?... Why the fuck would they keep using the apps if that isn't the case then? Again, it sounds to me that you don't really understand the average man's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:16 AM
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It appears that you did not understand my point... All I said was that, at some point, after many failures, those men just stop using the apps. What's left in those apps after they leave? Those who don't give a fuck about manners and are straight up with it, and those who don't need to do all that (chads, fuckboys, etc.). That's it. Also, whether one finds more meaning in life than sex or not, it doesn't affect their wishes to engage in society. Those are not mutually exclusive things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:44 AM
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Yeah. Again, you probably are friends with either very good looking men, or very few men LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:28 PM
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See, the actual point is that if a true "gentleman", as you describe them, were to accept constant failure without ever changing his approach, then what would make you think that he would stay using the apps?... At that point, he would see that it is pointless to use such apps and he would stop using them. My main point was that you do not understand men's approach because you refuse to put yourself in their shoes. You have never experienced the same things as them. So it comes off as being very…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:25 PM
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Exactly. I don't know why women don't seem to get that... How the fuck is it going to ever go to more if nobody actually pushes for more?... That just doesn't make any sense whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:19 PM
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The irony of this post is that even if women love to criticize men's approach to dating and continue to preach about what the "correct" way of doing things is, they still wouldn't do much better... In fact, many of you wouldn't be able to get a date if y'all played as an average man in OLD with your "strategy" LOL. So please, tell us, what is the "correct" way of doing things for a man in OLD?... It is not even like women were so unique in it either LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:08 PM
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Then you live in a bubble. If all your male friends or men you know have such a high success rate, then that is truly suspicious... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:52 PM
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You're making a lot of assumptions here. Who even said "vapid bitches," for example? First, who said anything about hating women?... Criticizing women does not mean hating them. And, in my case, I'm saying that women are as superficial as men. It is just that they are more hypocritical about it. In this particular topic, women love to virtue signal a lot. Basically, look at what they do, not what they say. That's it. Second, I said that having no spine makes them doormats. No matter what anybody…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:49 PM
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Men of actual substance, loyalty, strength of character, intelligence, skills, etc. Because the way women describe their "perfect boyfriends" online sounds to me like they could only fit 2 categories: the dumb, pathetic, doormat who is always agreeing with her and acts like a puppy with his tail wagging whenever she is around, or the abusive boyfriend she somehow ended up with due to her bad luck (or his "manipulation" LOL). The last one is the reason why TwoX is filled with stories about how ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:17 AM
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...This is the first time I've ever heard of "abuse" being used to describe online arguments... That's funny. By that logic, any time 2 angry people argue would be classified as abuse LOL. By the way, the majority of rapes and abuse women suffer and receive comes from their partners (the ones they picked) or someone close to them. My point was that if that is the "correct" choice in your opinion, then why should we be concerned or care about it?... After all, those are the better men in your eye…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:41 PM
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Younger generations are getting married less than previous ones. That's just a fact. Deal with it. I don't care about what kind of bubble you're living in. Reality is what it is. Do I need to remind you what the definition of "incel" is?... Proving that something that didn't happen could have happened is impossible. So I don't know what kind of proof you're looking for here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:23 PM
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First, women (and society as a whole, tbh) already don't take abused men seriously. So what is really the point of you saying you will somehow change how you talk to them?... Verbal abuse?... LMAO Give me a fucking break 😂. I said I was following your logic, not mine. And by the way, you seem to be defining being "kind, gentle, and sweet" to be a woman's doormat. That's interesting... It's very interesting that you do not consider thinking that abusive...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:18 PM
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First, I was joking. Second, so now it is about personality, huh? Third, it sounds to me that y'all consider a "good personality" from the guys you wouldn't date to just "stfu and learn your place." LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:34 PM
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LMAO Y'all seriously love to make shit up, huh. No wonder the dead bedroom sub is as popular as it is. Women's perceptions of their own relationships are probably much different than reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:58 PM
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So... You are inferring all that from the post?... -_-...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:44 PM
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I don't go around looking at people's entire history whenever a debate is happening. Also, that still doesn't prove that you weren't insulting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:36 PM
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Pathetic losers who grovel at women's feet for any crumbs of sex and fake affection that they may throw their way. Those whose putrid existence should disappear from the face of earth, because they make everything worse... I could go on and on, but I think you get the point now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:35 PM
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Most men get married?... LOL Give me a fucking break! Those numbers are being carried by the older generations of men and women who don't share your stupid ideology and thought process. Also, your fucking logic reads as the dumb and contradicting statement of "the abusive incel." How the fuck can an incel be abusive if he never talks to women or is able to date them to begin with?... So fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:31 PM
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LMAO Rights? What rights? You never had that right to begin with. Learn about history first before attempting to lecture others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:25 PM
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So he doesn't know about y'all, but somehow you do know about him?... Make that shit make sense LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:22 PM
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LMAO Women just be saying anything here, huh... So now, Simps/white knights = love, emotional validation, and support. You cannot make this shit up, I swear!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:19 PM
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LMAO As if you didn't talk to men like that before this. Y'all love to act as if you were the morally superior ones, but in reality, your attitudes are putrid and superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:14 PM
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The men you pick. Let's be honest for a fucking second here, for once!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:05 PM
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Ok, then I will follow your stupid logic here. We shouldn't care about what happens to women anymore, especially when it comes to their abusive relationships and experiences. After all, based on your description of them, they are perfect beings who only make perfect decisions LOL. What a way to pedestalize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:03 PM
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Radically different?... Why do you fucking love to lie so much?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:55 PM
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^ What a... Hold on... Let me not get banned again LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:51 PM
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LMAO Not insulting him?... Yeah, right /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:50 PM
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LMFAO So no comebac, huh?... Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:48 PM
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I don't think you understand what the word "superficial" means... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:42 PM
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... Those aren't really compliments, tbh. Also, if you knew those women existed, why did you feign ignorance at first?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:36 PM
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So you are agreeing with OP then? Because what OP is basically getting at is that women are superficial and are hypocritical about it. And you are talking about "what do those men offer?" with your comment. So you agree... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:35 PM
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You want me to go to HIS Instagram for proof of women who don't like him?... That does not make any sense LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:32 PM
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...why some people believe misandry isn’t real, and the concept of the male gaze,.. ...And you seriously think they are "erudite"?... Look at those topics... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:28 PM
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I agree. Subs like that one and TwoX are so over-moderated that it is laughable. They are clearly echo chambers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:21 PM
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super awesome guy that women everywhere are calling a green flag So now we're just lying, huh...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:16 PM
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You seriously think all male volunteers have gfs/wives?... That's cute! I guess you seriously bought into the just world fallacy LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:27 PM
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It's really not. It takes less time to go to the gym a couple of times a week than volunteering.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:26 PM
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^ Just world fallacy in full effect here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:16 PM
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-_- You sure you're blue pilled?... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:07 PM
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LMAO You clearly didn't see Selena's comment section when she revealed her engagement. That wasn't just a "little side eye." Y'all just have to be always the morally superior ones, huh? LOL. Y'all bend over backwards trying to prove it anytime you are shown the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:04 PM
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Yeah, it isn't even that bad. Most of the jokes are about getting drunk LOL. On a side note,... High School DxD was (and it might still be) my favorite anime when I was a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:31 PM
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It was actually 2, but the last one is the one that made me think she was overreacting. The first one they watched was KonoSuba (a lot of fanservice here), the other one was Grand Blue (the fanservice...is different here. It is mostly a bunch of college-age jokes about drinking, wanting to pick up girls, etc.),
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:22 PM
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What do you mean by porn?... It was a reality tv show. They did not show it explicitly (they censored their naked bodies). It has that security camera point of view, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:14 PM
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I think so... Maybe, Netflix? Do you consider Netflix TV?... LOL. Oh, I just looked it up. The earlier iterations were on Fox in the early 2000s. Netflix picked it up in 2018.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:08 PM
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I was watching a reactor react (LOL) to an anime I used to watch when I was a teen on YouTube a few weeks ago. In the reaction, she started to basically criticize the "sexual content" of the anime. She acted so uptight and prudish. It was as if everything sexual in anime is wrong to her (EDIT: Ironically enough, those guys in the anime were doing kind of the same things that she was doing on the show... In fact, it wasn't nearly as bad in comparison LOL). I thought that that was just her persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:57 PM
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LMAO That would be like telling men "hey, stay single and virgin forever." Such woman, who actually verbalizes that she wants to have sex with you, is rare. This is the reason for OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:37 AM
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Then why is what OP is saying wrong to you?... Women are the main ones who use the bullshit known as "non-verbal consent."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:32 AM
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Give some examples of "cues" that happen in everyday life that even compare to those that happen in romantic settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:14 AM
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...You kind of proved OP's point. "It kills the vibes!' LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:04 AM
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I would argue that those "cues" don't really happen as much as you think they do in everyday life. Most of it is mundane and shallow interactions with strangers. They don't really require too many "cues." That's about it. On the other hand, romantic settings and situations just require way deeper understanding of how others react to certain things. Because of the vulnerability and very personal aspect of love and sex, this simply makes sense. This can vary massively depending on culture, languag…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:00 AM
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You only agree when it's convenient to you and women, huh. LMAO That's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:55 AM
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It's funny how women and feminists like you think that women act "enthusiastically," or, at the very least, show such "enthusiasm" outwardly, when they really want to have sex. It shows how you don't shit about how women act around men. Most women act vaguely exited, not like happy, tail-wagging, dogs that clearly show how exited they are for it. It is very subtle more of then than not (especially around the early 20s). So I don't blame guys who read signals wrong. It is up to the woman to use h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:48 AM
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You're arguing in bad faith here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:41 AM
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^ Why is it always promiscuous women who say this?... LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:21 PM
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You didn't read a thing a wrote, huh. You are acting like a child, which isn't surprising by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:15 PM
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Romantic/dating rejection is way more painful and personal than the others. I cannot seriously believe you don't get that... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:05 PM
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It is very interesting that you reduced it to sex... when it goes even deeper than that. Also, a job is an artificial thing that was created in capitalist systems after the industrial revolution. It is not a natural thing LOL. How can you even compare them when they are not remotely similar?... Also, thank you for reminding me why men aren't worth sympathy ^ Did you seriously get this triggered just because I said that not getting one's own dream job isn't the end of the world?... LMAO. This is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:04 PM
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Then you really had your head so far up your ass if you believed you were going to get it (your dream job) just like that, to begin with. Is it painful? Yeah. It is definitely not the end of the world, though LOL. A job is just that, a job. I don't really get why women have this obsession with jobs.... I will never get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:28 PM
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Rejection = male privilege?... What!? Y'all really be looking for anything, whatever, to call privilege. I swear!... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:25 PM
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My bad. I didn't see it was a joke... I was on go when I wrote this LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:26 AM
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I mean... She used to date Diddy and do wild shit with him. So... I never really expected any good things from her, or any other celebrity to be honest. It's just so wild to me that she is 56 (!!!!) years old and is still unable to be accountable and mature. It is baffling! She will be 60 and still think the world is in the wrong LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:13 AM
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That is probably the point (date the same person again, and failing at it again) in which everyone should look inwards and ask themselves "is it really them? Or me?" Because there ain't no way you do the same thing twice and still not know how to make it work LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:09 AM
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Approach men, don't judge them as harshly as most women do (most men aren't 100% competent in everything they do), do not demonize their sexuality, tell your friends to do these things, stop playing mind games, if you're giving out hints, and the man isn't getting them, then your hints suck and you must ask him out straight up, etc. Those are the most basic ones, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:31 AM
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If that is the only way you can perceive romance in, then you aren't as romantic as you may think. Your imagination is lacking, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:23 AM
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I mean... Madonna did get a LOT of backlash for 'Like a Virgin.' Brittney got some, but not too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:20 AM
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The Jennifer Lopez interview is so wild to me!... How can anyone have multiple failed marriages and relationships (sometimes, multiple times with the same man) and still think it is them (the men), not you, who are the problem?...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:18 AM
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I think he meant that if you were going to argue in bad faith and use the "natural selection" argument here, then take it to its actual conclusion. Which is: in nature, things aren't civil and polite, they're horrible, cruel, and the stronger one rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:26 AM
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I mean, not to be rude or anything but... if the only thing stopping someone from having a relationship is losing weight, then that is the luckiest position to be in. Losing weight is very doable. It is nowhere near impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:15 AM
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And that makes her an expert?...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:39 AM
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Thinking that a comedian is an expert on men and dating is wild... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:33 AM
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Isn't she a Zionist who supported Israel in the Palestinian genocide?... LMAO Yet you guys claim to be the ones who are morally right and good, huh...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:19 AM
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It's because they are promiscuous and feel called out by it. LMAO If they weren't, then it wouldn't be such a big issue and they would actually reveal their real body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:15 AM
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... You really think the dudes that come here are all serial killers or rapists?... If so, then the just-world fallacy is back at it again! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:58 AM
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LMAO We all know that's cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:54 AM
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This is such a non-comment... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:50 AM
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How is it even "panic" to just be real and authentic?... Now, I understand why women have that weird, "fake," tone when they talk to one another LOL. Y'all are okay with being fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:50 AM
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Perfectly explained!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:34 AM
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"Professional army"?... LMAO. You cannot seriously believe that is a thing when shit goes down... Do you?... "Professional armies" are just for show, or to do some very specific and isolated missions. For example: Afghanistan, Iraq (depending on who you ask...), etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:17 AM
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This is what I will never get... Why do middle-class people think they are somehow richer than they actually are?... Or, at the very least, they love to appear as if they do have money. Things like traveling, buying expensive clothes, having expensive cars, etc. come to mind. It is all about optics and theatrics, really. But in all truth, you can paint a piece of shit with golden paint, it still won't stop the smell of shit from getting to people with a nose for it. "~Sniff! Sniff!~ I smell bull…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:51 AM
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Yeah, but the overall point was about what makes someone happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:30 AM
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The fuck does that have to do with what I or she said?... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:18 AM
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You don't get to tell others what would make them happy. And, how old are you?... You are romanticizing relationships a little bit too much here, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:54 AM
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Read the definition of masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:34 AM
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If it can be done for multiple different reasons, then why is it so weird to draw emotional intimacy from it?... That is the overall point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:32 AM
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Do you know what synonyms are?...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:29 AM
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-_- Are you a troll, or simply just fucking stupid?... Where the fuck did I say any of those things?... Both genders have their own roles. It appears that only one (women) is allowed to refuse theirs. That was my point. Why in the hell should men still have to fulfill their gender role?...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:27 AM
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LMAO What part of what you described is even mutual or reciprocal to begin with?... You can write 10 thousand pages, using as much feminist bullshit rhetoric and verbiage as you want to. That still doesn't erase the fact that what I said is true. Especially if you know that men get pleasure from penetration, and that is your main reason for refusing it. "It's also unwittingly revealing that even in this framing you have above, you still see men as active and women as passive." ^ Are you really s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:22 AM
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You have a nice-smelling spider now LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:46 AM
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You picked the most extreme ones. I was merely talking about having separate bathrooms, hiring cleaning services, etc. That is simply unrealistic. Also, having showers before sex?... What is this? It just sounds so inexperienced and naive LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:36 AM
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The "financial issues" that cause divorces are not issues that men are worried about, most of the time. These issues are basically all about women not liking that their men cannot make enough money. Women initiate most divorces, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:29 AM
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LMAO So you basically only want men who will masturbate you. Essentially, they are toys to you?... Damn!... Those men are surely pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:26 AM
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I don't think you quite understand the sentiment here. They, men, are not saying that because they don't want to pay for dates, the rent, etc. (basically, their gender role) just because. They are saying that because women are not fulfilling their own gender role nowadays. That's it. It is because women have become very hypocritical and solipsistic that men are saying "Fuck my own gender role! Women aren't worth it. The juice isn't worth the squeeze... etc. ..etc. ...etc."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:20 AM
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-_- NGL, you definitely sound like a germophobe LMAO. But not only that, almost everything you suggest is unrealistic to the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:11 AM
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Exactly. On one hand, they say they are not promiscuous, yet on the other, they say that sex is just sex and having it without a care is normal LOL. Make up your minds, please!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:02 AM
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I wasn't defending Ray Rice. My overall point was that you are being very misleading by using his case to push your narrative. A perfect victim does not exist most of the time, yet people become outraged as if they did. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:09 AM
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LMAO Do you know who our president is?... People are finally getting tired of feminists and their hateful rhetoric. That is causing what we are seeing now. Unfortunately, this means that many other people will get hurt as a side effect of the response. It is not because people are supporting gender equality more, now. That is you just pushing your ideology on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 12:54 AM
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Are you seriously drawing that conclusion out of the Ray Rice situation?... She was attacking him before he punched her. Do not lie to people. The way you are framing it makes it sound as if he did it out of nowhere. And, didn't she stay with him after the fact?... Yeah, I don't think you really know what happened in that case, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 12:41 AM
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-_- That you seriously believe things are not that much different nowadays than almost 100 years ago is simply hilarious. I cannot seriously believe you think that way...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:57 PM
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You know you are comparing someone that lived almost 100 years ago to women now, right?... I'm pretty sure I do not have to explain how asking my grandma would be pointless, do you? Women nowadays are nowhere near experiencing the same thing as they did back then, nor do they have the skills necessary to live in such a way. And it was not only my grandma, by the way, my grandfather (on both sides, really) was a farmer and merchant (they spent a little a lot of time outside the country). Also, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:15 PM
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Because he already has those characteristics, huh?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:34 PM
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Don't listen to him. He just says a lot of things that are clearly not true but sound good to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:32 PM
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You want to know the real funny part here? The overwhelming majority of HR is female. So such mindset by recruiters isn't that surprising LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:28 PM
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I mean... All the fuckboys I have met in my life referred to women as "hoes," "bitches," "sluts," "joints," "things," etc. So.., Yeah, I don't think you truly understand what we, men, mean by "women will break their own rules if they are attracted to you enough." Because once you see it, then you will never deny it ever again. This lie that in order to be successful with women, you need to be a good man is the goddamn reason why the whole "nice guys finish last" thing even exists! It is simply n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:47 PM
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That you think speed dating events/church single events are the way they are (in terms of male attendance) because men don't like them as concepts is just... It probably is the one thing that proves red pill theory the most of all things. Hell, it even proves OP's point! LMAO Have you ever gone to one?... Women there have no desire to talk to or date most men who go to those events. They almost always go for a very small group of men (very attractive men, which are a rare thing in these events. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:37 PM
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In the past, approaching used to be more aggressive. But due to cancel culture, MeToo, social media shaming, and etc., many of such practices started to be looked down upon. This caused approaching to become a very subtle thing, most of the time. I do not fault you for not seeing those actions as "approaching," but a lot of the time, if a man helps you with something, or starts trying to have a conversation with you out of nowhere, then he more likely than not is propositioning you. Does this me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:31 PM
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True. And also because women, after MeToo, started to demonize men's sexuality and approaches to such a large level that it became a taboo thing to do, for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:23 PM
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You guys really do overrate women... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:21 PM
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It's funny that you are using a guy who did get to date your roommate to compare to guys she didn't date. That is exactly OP's point. She picked him. Maybe not because he was really a good guy, kind, etc., but just because he looked good. Also, And if my roommate says it's hard to find a good man, I'm absolutely going to believe her. ...Because?... I don't want to get banned again, but you definitely seem like THAT kind of guy. Blue pill fits you so well, LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:49 PM
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in a LTR where it's constant work, effort, compromise, sacrifice etc. ^ What kind of relationships are y'all having?... Yes, there are moments of hardships, arguments, etc., but it is not all about that. A perfect life doesn't exist, after all. But, why do women always want to make relationships, marriage, kids, etc. seem like the worst of the worst things one could go through?... LMAO. I can only think of it as a concerted effort to make men look worse than they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:42 PM
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This: If everyone is interchangeable, all you’re saying is “nothing about me distinguishes me from the man next to me”, in which case you can’t complain that you aren’t being chosen is literally admitting that dating is a competition. Yet, many of you, blue-pillers, refused, for years!, to accept it as a thing. Interesting... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:33 PM
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Submission is not about domination. It is simply about not being combative. How is that so hard for women to understand (ironically enough)?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:31 PM
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He was basically saying that women demand men to do a shitload of things for them (women), but they never reciprocate the effort they ask for. In other words, they want something from others they, themselves, don't even offer the other. And if you refuse to do so, then you are labeled a "bad man," "selfish," etc. P.S.: If you plan on bringing up children and pregnancy, don't even try. Most women nowadays don't even want to have kids or be housewives anymore. So that argument is moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:24 PM
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It is an urban phenomenon for the most part. Especially in cities, you will see how cruel and heartless dating can really be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:14 PM
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The issue is not whether or not women want/like sex. The issue is that it is a small fraction of men they would have sex with. That is the real issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:52 PM
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LMAO You said: "men are oblivious and start with the assumption.." then go straight to this: "the woman THEY ARE WITH is truly sexually attracted to them." Shouldn't that be just the logical thought process for any adult human, hell, I could even say animal in this case, to go through?... The fuck is she with him for, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:50 PM
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I think you are confusing what men want with what they think is a strategy for getting other women to notice you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:47 PM
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I don't think so. Why? Because just look at those countries (since women love to compare men from middle-eastern countries to other men) where men have 100% of the power. They literally make women cover themselves completely. Why do you think that is the case if they really "cared for showing her women off to other men"?... Most men do not like promiscuous women! They may not care if the woman is or isn't, but most definitely don't go pursuing a woman because she is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:44 PM
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LMAO That's just you pushing your own ideology and politics to explain why women are so indifferent towards sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:40 PM
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^ And I get banned for saying things not even half as bad as this one?... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:39 PM
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No, I'm not asexual, far from it, really. Is sex everything in a relationship? No, it is not. Is it an important thing? Yes, it is. Also, I never really bought into the desire to have "eye candy" (LOL) on my arm. If I find a woman attractive, then I will be with her because I want to, not because other men will admire me for being with her. That seems stupid and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:28 PM
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-_- And this is exactly why men shouldn't listen to women's advice in dating. Your mentality is what makes dating difficult and a pain in the ass. Doubling such mentality will just make things worse LOL. You want most men to end up single forever?...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:55 AM
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Man! That last part couldn't be more true! Women swear they're all the best wingman or match maker, but that is clearly not true LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:06 AM
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Okay, this is getting way too deep in anthropology and sociology. My main point was that patriarchy worked, but it can be changed for the better. You cannot seriously debate that it worked in the past, because we never saw any other type of societal structure succeed like it did. I never said it was morally good. I said that it lead to a lot of the progress we have made. That's it. Also, what do you think happened to matriarchies and egalitarian societies?... If they were so much better, why did…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:54 PM
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-_- How old are you?... Drinking doesn't magically make you start touching others in a way you didn't do before like that. Also: In her house, which she invited him too, alone, ^ That is a huge mixed signal in itself, especially if they weren't friends to begin with. And you add this to that scenario!?: snd they were drinking together. ^ Like, seriously!?... You are really showing your lack of experience here LOL. Drinking is possibly one of the biggest reasons why people have sex. And no, not i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:36 PM
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What?... Once you start touching someone, you make it physical. How is sex not the logical next step?... Are people more naive nowadays?... That is like saying that a woman touching your crotch is not a sign of her wanting to have sex with you. Have we gone mad?... LOL What he did was stupid (why would you antagonize someone you want to have something with), but what she did was also beyond stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:30 PM
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It is very interesting that you are ignoring my overall point... First, I meant the entirety of recorded human history, not just the 50s. Second, it appears that you are making the assumption that things could have been better had we never gone the "patriarchal route." That is a very huge assumption to make. Not only is it unsustainable by evidence, but you are literally ignoring thousands of years of progress we have made. Third, you pointing out the bad in every era in history does not erase t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:25 PM
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I don't think you quite understood what I wrote... I specifically started with: The best course of action would be to understand where it came from, why it happened, how it helped us in moving forward, and how to change it for the better. ^ I said that ignoring our past is stupid. That's it. If you are referring to my second paragraph, I also said that it wasn't good that it happened that way. It just was what it was. We saw that it was working and we keep at it for a really long time. Nowadays,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:52 PM
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‘why it was created’ becomes irrelevant when it is no longer needed. ^ That is not necessarily true. If what replaces the old structure ends up making things worse, then we need to go back to what worked. Ignoring past successes because you don't like them is the stupid move here. The best course of action would be to understand where it came from, why it happened, how it helped us in moving forward, and how to change it for the better. Just replacing it with the new, shiny thing, that makes som…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:25 PM
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How was his situation a show of "lack of skill"?... She was giving him mixed signals. Who touches another person like that and then pulls out the "oh, I didn't mean anything by that" move?... That is the most dishonest and childish way to behave, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:06 PM
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While I agree that him "punishing her" is pathetic and kind of dumb, I also think that she was giving out mixed signals, which makes her an asshole. Who the fuck starts getting touchy with someone they don't want to have sex with?... That is stupidest thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:05 PM
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-_- This is one thing I will never get about women... Why do they all expect a perfect reaction from men to their flirting?... It is almost as if, as a man, you aren't allowed to mess up even a little, or be confused. This is one of the proofs that women expect men to be competent in sex, dating, and relationships just because they are men, which is kind of ridiculous. Also,... "Embarrassed her"?... I really need to know what happened here LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:01 PM
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I think you are greatly underestimating the "looks matter" part in your scenario, though. She already thought you were attractive from the very beginning, so you had a leg up in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:44 PM
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^ And they say misandry doesn't exist, LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:47 PM
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Hell, it gets even worse in the last couple of generations because of social media, which appears to be "more real" than the others in comparison. That sense of "realness" or "closeness" is what makes it more damaging, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:32 PM
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Yeah, I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:37 PM
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Meh, yeah, I agree, but I also think that if you know that someone has feelings for you, and you still allow them to continue building up this fantasy of a relationship with you because you are benefiting from it, then you are a massive asshole. That's just how I view it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:07 PM
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Exactly! Like, how hard to see are his intentions here? It is very obvious what he was doing LOL. But a lot of women win by feigning ignorance when this happens to them, though. They are getting "free things" and it is "not their responsibility" how someone else feels, after all. I would never lead someone on. Never. I do not care if I'm getting stuff from their one sided feelings towards me, I just cannot ever see myself being ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:03 PM
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This is the issue, though. He might have thought that what he was doing was "expressing his romantic/sexual feelings" for her. He might have never done this for any other woman besides her, like the comment stated. A lot of men really grew up believing that treating the woman you like nicely and respecting her were the ways how you showed you liked her. Why do you think the red pill even exists?... LOL. The analogy is about waking up, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 02:59 PM
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LMAO Chalking it up to "lack of self-esteem" is crazy. So all the men in those comments are insecure now?... It is extremely normal for men to doubt the attraction of women. Why? Because: Women do not approach men like that. Even women themselves state that they are picky or have high standards. Women, even in relationships, are not as sexual as you probably are thinking they are. What does this mean? It means that those men have zero evidence to prove that their partners actually are attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 02:48 PM
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The 2nd Amendment is there for a reason. People seemed to have forgotten it, but I believe that in the near future, we will see its real purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 02:33 PM
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I made a bunch of posts back then. This is one of them after the election: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/NGm2WOOajr I don't know if I said it back then, but my opinion was that the economy would collapse, wars would increase, and the US was actually going to get involved, the divide between left and right, men and women, and rich and poor will get worse, etc. It hasn't happened yet, but I do believe Trump is testing the waters this year with what he is doing... The censoring, the de…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 03:15 AM
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I didn't make a post here on reddit. I thought I did... But I did post something regarding the elections last year and how it will affect everything, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:48 AM
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My prediction: Next year, the world is going to see very hard and bad times. In this year, the climax of what we have experienced during the past 10 years is going to be seen. Then, many people will try to point fingers at each other in order to push the blame onto someone else. But that will only be a distraction to prevent people from attacking those who are causing this problem. I was right in saying that Donald Trump was going to be re-elected and that the US was going to shit last year. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:04 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:53 AM
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^ Now, how is this not getting deleted for being a personal attack?... I've been banned for much less like 4 times!... Mods are really showing their bias now, huh... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:32 PM
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Yeah, nowadays it just feels like they are moderating based on unwritten rules or biased interpretations of them. That just sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:39 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:21 AM
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A simple question: if women were so oppressed back then, so much so that they didn't have that much money to live on their own, own things, etc., then where did all the money in feminist organizations come from?... The real answer is that feminism didn't do it on their own. That is a misleading lie that has been told in order to make feminism seem "independent of men." That is just the reality of things. Optics matter more than actual facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:24 PM
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It's pretty niche and not at all the norm ^ This is my point. You made the claim that old school dating was like you described, when in fact it wasn't. It has always been a very niche way to approach dating and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:05 AM
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LMAO You clearly don't know what old school dating actually looked like. And by the way, stop trying so hard to pat yourself on your back so much... It is very weird...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:50 AM
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Can you link the thread then?... I was just explaining why when someone says "he was like you and he succeeded!" it could create some doubt and skepticism. I wasn't justifying any possible insults they may have thrown your way. I'm sorry if it came out that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:20 PM
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As opposed to being overly optimistic?... That is also bad LMAO. In my opinion, a balance must be had. Too much of anything starts to bring in problems that are undesired.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:33 AM
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I answered your first question already in a different comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:19 AM
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Meh, comparing your own situation to others is pretty normal, to be honest. So being skeptical when you are told that someone in your place was successful makes sense. Especially if you have only known failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:18 AM
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Are you serious?... Everything we have done for the past millennia has been to better our own living conditions, and that includes women. Where did you think that women's higher life expectancy came from? Out of nothing?... We did not ignore women. That's a lie that has been spread around for a long time. Medicine, education, security, shelter (infrastructure), food, etc. were all created with the specific purpose of helping our own communities and families. Those include women. What is a societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:49 AM
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What kind of question is this?... Is there even a way to measure empathy to begin with? LOL. Most men are very empathetic to women, contrary to popular belief. But I know that is not what you want to hear. I suppose that you will bring a lot of politics into the discussion with your answer as proof of the opposite. But that only means that there is a fundamental misunderstanding of what empathy truly is between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:34 AM
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I really loved what you wrote! It is very true! Nowadays, there is a lot of entitlement, weakness of character, hypocrisy surrounding dating that many people are too afraid to talk about it honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:27 AM
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The issue is that the guys who responded to you with anger and angst don't know your SO. You could be lying, basically. The suspicion only creates more doubt and makes them think about it in a very skeptical manner. They begin to ask these questions: how do we know he is average? how do we know he struggled? is he really like us? etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:15 AM
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You almost had me...! Almost! I disagree with the ending and the ** point. Your point about the apex fallacy being at play in how women think about men's dating lives is 100% true. In fact, I have been saying this shit for years! The apex fallacy and the just-world fallacy in combination is what creates 70-80% of the misunderstandings and arguments surrounding dating and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:06 AM
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Eh, logistics can mean anything, to be honest LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:08 AM
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They just like rubbing it in, huh... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:00 AM
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What a way to avoid his question LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:14 PM
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-_- You missed his entire point, clearly. This all hinges on the fact that men like more types of women than women do for men. It's just that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:12 PM
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Yeah, I agree with you... It is just so sad, to be honest. It's gotten to the point that I cannot seriously watch a lot of 10M+ YouTubers or anything too popular because it just looks and sounds so fake. You can even tell when there are companies supporting the person from behind the curtains. And this happened to a lot, if not most, of social media, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:29 AM
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Facebook and MSN messenger were nowhere near what they are now. Pictures didn't need to be "professional level" for people to be interested in you, for example. Back then, it was way more about your actual personality. And you could see that everywhere. Take YouTube for example. Back then, the videos that you would see were all trashy videos with poor quality. They were fun, but they did not have the quality in video production and the writing that is required nowadays. People are not looking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:20 AM
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THANK YOU!!! Jesus, fucking, Christ! If it weren't for the dumbass rules banning any race related topic, then we could actually have an in-depth discussion about it... That is just unfortunate, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:39 PM
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^ That just means you just notice the tall guys, which is ironic given the discussion at hand LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:37 PM
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-_- Why do you think we keep on saying that social media destroyed everything?... The world was way different before it. Your dating experiences will reflect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:19 PM
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What kind of dumbass logic is this?... Since when did it become a thing that making something harder makes it somehow easier?... Adding more standards to the hell that is modern dating will never make it easier or better. You are delusional if you think that LOL. That would be like saying that you will only apply for Ivy League schools because that will somehow increase your chances of getting into a college. I hope that I don't have to explain why that is a terrible strategy... 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:13 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:33 AM
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Shhh~! Women like her believe that only women's standards are realistic and good. Men's standards? Yeah, they can only be too high or too low in their eyes. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:27 AM
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Being skinny is nowhere near as unattractive as being overweight. Are you being serious now?...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:25 AM
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But you are implying it by saying what you said. What other conclusions could even be drawn from what you said if not?...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:20 AM
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You are arguing in bad faith here. So I will stop it here. I has become pointless to talk with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:40 PM
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I guess attractive men never abuse and we should Ignore any woman who says she's been abused by one. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:37 PM
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There is a massive difference between someone who has done it before the relationship and someone who changes during the relationship. His scenario was the latter. This is why he said it was the first sex scene she has done. The selfishness comes from the mentality of "I don't care what you feel or have to say, I will do it regardless!" At that point, WHY THE FUCK DO YOU EVEN DATE OR HAVE RELATIONSHIPS!?... Damn...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:29 PM
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Well, if it wasn't you, then I would like to apologize for the assumption. The generalization was mostly an exaggeration of a growing trend I'm noticing in modern relationships and dating. I did it to spice up the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:26 PM
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Yeah, I agree with you. I was exaggerating to spice up the debate a little bit. The attitude of not caring what men have to say in relationships is just something that I have noticed many women doing nowadays. That mindset is increasing, too. That is truly annoying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:56 AM
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It wasn't the scenario per se that I was mad at but the attitude surrounding your answer to his third question. I believe that in every relationship, both people must understand and want to take into account each other's feelings, opinions, and thoughts surrounding any major decision in their relationship. But as you have shown me, that is clearly not in the minds of women in the western world, clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:53 AM
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Question no. 3 is very interesting... Look at how she answered it. Men, all over the western world, should know that women don't give a single fuck about what you think or have to say. They will do whatever they want, not caring if it could hurt you or not. They are selfish, self-centered, beings nowadays. So it is better for men to accept it and do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:48 AM
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Yet, if he actually did that, then you would be saying "he wasn't actually nice." That was my point. You can never lose, right? You're always the good person in every situation, of course /s LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:15 AM
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No, he is saying that you only will consider good looking men. That's the whole point! Jesus... Personality is a nice add-on, not a requirement, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:04 AM
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These posts are not about that. They serve as a counter-example to the argument that personality is over looks in dating. That clearly is a lie, but women refuse to admit it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:59 AM
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Are you seriously comparing him being heterosexual and not interested in men to heterosexual women friend zoning men?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:53 AM
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-_- You will never know that unless you spend a lifetime next to a guy who is nice to you and who also wants to have sex with you but you don't want to have sex with him. This happens by the way. The cause of this is guilt (of breaking off the relationship after rejection) on the guy's side. That is an unfair assessment by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:42 AM
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At this point? Yeah, that is true LOL. That dumb ass term gets thrown around so much that it has become useless and misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:25 AM
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Besides the clear virtue-signaling and whiteknighting in this post, my only fucking problem, that many other women do by the way, is this: For the guys here, imagine if half of the fat women you saw flirted with you. Imagine if old ladies tried to ask you out whenever you went shopping... BLAH BLAH BLAH ^ Why are you all comparing average men to the ugliest and worst of women?... This is the most biased way to look at things. It only serves to overrate women and support their delusional beliefs.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:15 AM
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That's... quite literally a red pill point LMAO. Hell, it probably is a black pill one at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:50 AM
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I love my curly hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:40 AM
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No. It is that, by design, most people don't care too much about porn. It doesn't take too much thought to create, and people do not hold it deep in their hearts. Basically, it doesn't really say much about people. It is just a passing fantasy put in a video. That's it. Or do you think that people genuinely believe they will fuck hot women while working as delivery drivers?... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:10 PM
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... That question in itself is the answer... LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:07 PM
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No, it is the fact that women TREAT it as a competition that dating and relationships are fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:46 PM
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The media and art take way more effort than porn does. Are you seriously comparing both?... Porn does not really have anything of substance to it. Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:45 PM
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What comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:38 AM
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C. high I have a high libido (or, at the very least, think I do...), and I know that it doesn't make sense to expect this from women-given that they can have sex if they just wanted to. So expecting a low n count/virgin woman with high libido is a fool's gamble, really. But if I ever find a woman like that? Then that is the greenest of green flags, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:33 AM
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It does... At the very least, it does so logically speaking. If you are more likely to have sex with more people, then you are more likely to have sex with other people while in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:23 AM
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You're right! I didn't need to do that. I agree with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:19 AM
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He is talking about average people, yet you bring out porn?... LMAO. Porn is no different than just a fantasy or a dream. It is not real. Just by watching a video, it does not change who you are in any way shape or form more than a thought crossing your mind does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:10 AM
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It is all about behaviors. Why do you think things such as girl trips or going to clubs are such red flags?... It is because we know what happens in those places. So if you tell us you do X thing, then we will guess Y follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:54 AM
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^ Women always have to win, huh?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:47 AM
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Women will straight tell you, to your face, that they want a man with experience LOL. The preference just goes the other way when it comes to them (women like experience, while men like inexperience, generally speaking). They are so unapologetic about it that it is hilarious to see all the hate red pill men or incels get for this preference (however they voice it). Somehow it is them who are obsessed about it?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:41 AM
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I completely agree with you! In fact, that explains a lot in how society interacts with men on a daily basis. It is always about "men being threatening" if you think about it... That's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:17 AM
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A lot of women are homophobic and society just accepts it and is okay with it. It's kind of like how bodyshaming men is accepted but not women. Think about it. Whenever women describe what a "real man" is, or when they attack what they consider to not be one, they use a lot of stereotypes of gay men as a tool for their judgment. That is very interesting. This is one of the examples where I say feminism is hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:35 AM
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You're almost right. Women had a survival expert in their team. They never listened to her LOL. You're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:47 AM
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Yeah, she is just a troll. Her first paragraph, "trying to show empathy," was clearly just her poor attempt for a disclaimer before mocking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:44 AM
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Because sex says a lot more about how men and women interact with each other than just relationships. It tells a bigger picture. For example: what's considered attractive, how often men and women meet, is there an std spread and how fast it is, etc. If you were only going to do it using relationships, then that would be the worst selection bias ever LOL. Also, it is very interesting and telling that you are saying all teens, male and female, don't want to have sex as much as before (they got sca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:18 AM
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Oh, ho~!... The halo effect is in full effect in this post LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:46 AM
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What?... What even is the logic there? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:25 AM
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What?... We are talking about what women do here, not what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:44 AM
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... The only redeeming quality about this shitty post is that, at least, you're honest... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:03 AM
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That doesn't make sense. Those women don't suddenly stop wearing makeup when they're with their men. It is all hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:59 PM
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Yeah, I don't buy this whole thing of all "content" single ladies being celibate or virgins LOL. If you have ever been to any resort or bar near tourist areas, then you would see that sex happens a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:42 PM
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No, the fuck they don't LMAO. What?... Cam girls caring for their simps?... We are just lying at this point, huh?...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:37 PM
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-_- So you don't do it...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:29 PM
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You know that the creator of the Tea app you are talking about is a man too, right?... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:48 PM
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As much as I have my issues with modern women and their ideology, I will never advocate for them losing their right to vote. In fact, in this very specific situation, you will see me protesting alongside some of those I probably hate the most.. feminists LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:56 PM
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"Feminist"?... You aren't any better LOL. I guess hating men is mainstream in your case, though. And don't try to come here with the "I am married/have a bf, so no, I am not a misandrist!" response, because that is clearly not a valid response. It is the same logic as "I have a black friend!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:54 PM
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Why? That is how women, and people as a whole tbh, act in modern dating. Nobody seems to value or cherish loyalty anymore. It is always a "I will get mines, you get yours" mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:43 PM
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shy and abrasive ^ Well, I never expected that LOL. I guess that is where the RBF comes from (that mixture).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:38 PM
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It's not really that hard LOL. It is tiring if you don't exercise regularly in some way, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:23 PM
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I think the whole discussion was about single women rejecting other single men, not including all women in relationships rejecting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:21 PM
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When most of such "education system" rewards social skills, which have been mutilated on the men's side, and social movements like feminism (for the past 50 years), then you get the "better fairing academically." In other words, most colleges and universities are biased towards women. It also doesn't help that college education is extremely expensive, and the ROI is decreasing as the years go by.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 05:19 AM
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^ LMAO This is the best example of women giving the worst dating advice to men. If men did what you are saying, then they would be single for most of, if not all, their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 05:06 AM
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Someone want to watch 50 shades of grey with me? I find that movie hilarious LOL. The dialog is just... so bad it almost becomes a comedy, and the story is so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:50 AM
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I never said I was LOL. So women always date "good guys"?... Are you seriously implying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:32 PM
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Then, all those times where women have said they only date "good guys" or "men who treat me right" just to end up dating the entire opposite, plagued with red flags from the start, we were just meant to just "listen" to them? LOL Yeah, right. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:44 PM
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I agree with everything you said 100%. The older I get, the more I begin to understand that while there are patterns that one could see, there are also patters that one cannot see. For example, how can you know that there are women who don't have sex, if you never see them not having sex, or not being in a place and flirting with men with the intent of having sex? They are probably at home, doing nothing of the sort. But that is just an assumption, at the end of the day. Those women could also "…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:56 AM
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You were the one who called them that... What?... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:37 AM
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What is your definition of "listening"? Agreeing? Because how can I show you I listen to you? Because if you say "well, you would actually be successful if you did!" then you will only be arguing in bad faith. If "listening" were the only thing men needed to do to be successful in dating and relationships, then they would have done that a long time ago, Incels wouldn't exist, and the red pill would have never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:35 AM
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It is not necessarily the fact that being more attractive gives you a lot of perks and privileges what's causing the bitterness. It is the incessant arguing, virtue signaling, and moral grandstanding that many women do about these topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:31 AM
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We listen to women perhaps a little bit too much... Where do you think the red pilling moment of men actually occurs? When they listen to women just to find out those women did the entire opposite of what they tell men. That is what actually fucks up men's understanding of "reality" when it comes to relationships and dating (this is actually where the whole Matrix analogy comes into play, i.e. the pills).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:24 AM
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Chess... I used to think people were lying when they said that it was addictive. I was wrong LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:49 PM
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Ok, now you're just lying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:38 PM
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No, I do not think it is reasonable. I am against casual sex/hookup culture. So I am not the kind of guy to think that is reasonable. Does that change how women approach dating and sex? No. That is just how I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:28 PM
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The funny part about this (bad faith) question is that there is no good answer you would ever accept. For example: 1 week? No, too short, right? 1 month? Umm, not enough. You clearly just want sex still. 1 year? Good, but... That still means you want sex. Just be honest! 10 years? Better... I just don't think you are being honest. Gosh, men only care about sex! ^ This is basically how it is going to go with people like you who ask such questions. Sex is important. We will not live forever!!! Ple…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:25 PM
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First, them not having a purpose ( making this about relationships for the sake of the argument) is what caused the shift, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:06 PM
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It's also funny because they claim to not be brainwashed on other topics. So... Which is it? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:46 PM
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So you DO disagree with the woman above?...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:38 AM
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When will people realize that rich people and celebrities will always choose the side with money?... It has never been about morals or ethics LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:06 PM
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-_- No, the fuck is not. It is because women are either lazy or don't need it (because of a lot of men being too thirsty and desperate to take anything that comes their way).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:13 PM
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I thought that part was optional... not a requirement... If it is, then that is just racism passing off as "dating preferences."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:11 PM
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Yeah, it really pisses me off when I hear women say "well, say something about her personality not her looks! Did you even read her bio?" in response to OLD complaints from men. Why? BECAUSE THEIR BIOS AND PROFILES ARE EMPTY MOST OF THE TIME~!... Like, damn... Where the fuck do y'all think we would get your information from? The sky? LOL. I know why they have them empty. They don't need to. But my anger isn't necessarily towards them. It is directed towards the women who attack you for complaini…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:23 PM
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The irony here is that the women's top 1% is easily attainable for them to reach. The men's? Hell, no! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:17 PM
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"West coast best coast. " ^ So now we're just lying, huh?...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:53 PM
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Competition. Just look at terms such as "arm candy," or its predecessor, "eye candy," you will then realize what type of competition there was before. And competition doesn't necessarily mean less community, by the way. I just said that it could be a reason to not open up to another man and consider him your friend as quickly as it is with women. That mixed in with the other reasons makes it the perfect storm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:10 PM
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There are many reasons why the 1950s are so romanticized by many men. One of those is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:02 PM
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I don't think women truly understand how hard it is for men to form such "deeper social ties" (especially after they graduate college). In fact, it surprises me that they don't get it if they understand the feminist ideology. It is undeniable that stereotypes, ideologies, religious beliefs, culture, and etc. are intertwined with one another. It is also undeniable that we base our concepts of self and others from such a combination. This gives rise to the ways in how we treat ourselves and others…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:48 PM
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I was merely being facetious. But it is true that such apps are childish and a clear scam. Most people in those apps are just gossiping about men they don't like or who did them wrong (cheated, dumped them, etc.). I would have supported it if it only showed those who actually were on the sex offender registry, charged of sexual crimes/murder/etc., or something along those lines. Everything else? It is just childish gossiping. It is no different than a high schooler's group chat LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:22 AM
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After learning what the Tea Dating App is, I decided to give up on dating and relationships. That such an app is allowed to exist is just...! ~Sigh~ There is no point in relationships anymore. This is so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:33 PM
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A lot of tough decisions do not have a clear best choice in them. That is exactly what makes them tough decisions. That's my only point. I didn't say "should we have kids?" I said "can we have kids right now?" There is massive difference here. The one I used presupposes that both people do want to have kids, and have agreed to do so in their relationship. They are just not sure if it is a good idea to have them at the current moment. The one you are accusing me of using is the one in which one f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:08 PM
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You are confused. A leader also makes decisions, especially in regards to where the company/group/ship/etc. is going to. Without someone having the final say in "where do we go?/what do we do?" everything else that follows becomes a mess. It is just chaos. Shared values? That only works for day to day interaction with one another, not tough choices like "where should we live?" "should we pay for that?" "can we have kids right now?" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:50 PM
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I fucking hate the usage of the word "equal" to describe relationships. It is not equal~! By what metric is it equal? Who decides it is?... Do you sit down with your partner to calculate how much of each thing each other does? No? Exactly. I would rather people use "compromise" or "agreement" to describe their relationships. In that way, nobody knows who is "winning" or "losing" in the relationship. In fact, it will cease to be a competition if we begin to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:38 PM
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That is only if you truly think that sex is something a man does to a woman, and not a decision women make on their own. Also, it wasn't only about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:25 PM
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$300k for a down-payment!?... Yeah, our housing prices are stupid LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:21 PM
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Yeah, it has been like that for a while. After the pandemic, it became worse LOL. People are seriously losing the ability of small talk, and that is truly terrifying because that is literally how you interact with strangers out in the real world. You cannot go through life without interacting with the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:19 PM
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3% of 100 million people is still 3 million people LOL. And that's just the difference between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:16 PM
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Not really. Many men don't cold approach anymore because it became demonized. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:35 PM
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So men not treating them like sexual objects or sexualizing them is wrong too?...Doesn't surprise me. Who the fuck knows what women want anymore?... All they do is demonize what men do, no matter what it is LOL. Also, I can assure you women will ignore this comment LMAO. You should have make it a post tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:02 PM
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This screenshot, while absolutely harsh and asshole-ish, says something that cannot really be denied. A lot of women treat time as if it were unlimited, why should men bow down to them and do what those women want?...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:48 PM
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LOL If that angers you, then you haven't seen women use dating apps like games. Hell, they even admit that they use them for confidence boosts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:45 PM
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Is this a gotcha for the man vs. bear thing?... It is a pathetic one if so LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:43 PM
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It is very ironic that you used the "men are physically stronger than women" argument here to say that feminists don't take it as a slight. Because whenever that is mentioned to feminists, they have a meltdown and start to call you misogynist. For example, the many discussions surrounding equal pay in sports like basketball, soccer, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:39 PM
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So taking the attacks is the "mature choice" here?... What?...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:35 PM
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And most women aren't killed by men. There's 4.1 billion of you, after all LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:22 PM
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LMAO Try to even ask for a scientist to study misandry seriously. You will get laughed at. Now, if you asked about misogyny? Then, you would have the last 20 years of pop psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:18 PM
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Wasn't that woman also married, though?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:59 PM
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Yeah, I'm like... Isn't what she said classism/elitism?... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:49 PM
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I have so many things to say about that...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:33 PM
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Not if you do boycott the other car makers and create entire ideologies and political movements to do so. See? It is way different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:44 PM
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Then... good luck! I hope one day you get her!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:36 PM
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It is not "inclusiveness." It used to happen to me, too. It is that those people are suspicious of you, and they are trying to "protect the woman." It sounds paranoic, but think about it. When did those people come out nowhere?... It makes more sense if you think about it. This is also why whenever I hear women say "just talk to women before asking them out. Treat them like normal human beings!" I laugh a little. They clearly do not know how it is to approach a woman in today's society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:49 PM
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LMAO I originally thought you meant something else because of where we are 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:44 PM
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On the bleaching of the skin part, it is really sad that that is a thing... Beauty standards that put white over everything else are disgusting... I guess women don't want to change that... That is truly unfortunate. But if that is truly what YOU want to do, then I wish you nothing but good luck! 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:06 PM
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You should probably delete that (don’t worry I already took a screenshot) ^ Either you are a troll or just plainly pathetic... Jesus... Screenshot?... LOL. But anyways, then you admit your original response (the one with the quote) was pointless? Because you are now basically saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:49 PM
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-_- So you quoted someone basically saying "well, sometimes this thing happens" as a response to a different argument?... That's even more stupid. Anything can be considered right if that were the case. Also, again, whenever this "not all" counter-argument is used, it is only a last-ditch effort to save face. If what you wrote wasn't meant to be taken as a quote to guide oneself by, then it is a pointless quote and statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:28 PM
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The irony is: Why would anybody study if there would be no jobs for it?... If AI really takes over all the "repetitive" jobs, then almost all of them will be gone. The only ones that would still stay will be manual jobs (which is what the billionaires want. To secure their wealth to a point where nobody else can become rich, make most people extremely more dependent on them for survival, and to get rid of the poorest people are their real goals). That's it. So education adopting AI is kind of ir…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:13 PM
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No, the problem here is that you equate a bunch of unrelated stuff to sex. Sex is sex. That's it. You cannot really compare other actions or activities to it. It is a false equivalency.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:09 PM
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LMAO Selfish people aren't always alone. And you can be considered "good" to others and still be an asshole. Such absolutes and platitudes are stupid. They rarely, if ever, describe the world as it actually is. It just sounds good to the people who have already a predefined worldview. They are soundbites. Sometimes they are even filled with the just-world fallacy (like yours). For example, if we take the quote to its logical conclusion then the next would happen: - All selfish people end up alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:56 PM
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Happy birthday!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:41 PM
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What do you mean by "clearly"? Do you personally know them?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:29 PM
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No, I agree with you. I just find it funny that many people would agree with her version of such concepts. What you say is true; she did a great job in "playing" both sides in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:35 AM
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It's... literally word by word what the red pill says LOL. The only thing is that the reasons why those men are successful are good looks, social status, and/or money (based on what the red pill says).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:39 AM
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I'm talking about dating/relationships fuckups, to be precise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:31 PM
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It's less about being called it than actually being tread like it. The treatment is what actually matters here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:30 PM
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I think she can get a man. The type of man she wants?... I don't know. That depends on her "standards." Now, if we were to talk objectively on her looks, then I would say that she isn't that ugly. In fact, she is close to being average. The only things that I can see being improved are: her weight and her nose. Fortunately for her, those 2 things can be changed. So... That's pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:22 PM
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What is "life-affirming"?...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:42 PM
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... I'll help plan the gender reveal party! 😈🥴 JK
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:41 PM
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Congrats! 🥳 May the baby be healthy and strong! 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:39 PM
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He never did anything creepy in those scenarios, though. It was the woman assuming he wanted something from her because he was close to her. Kind of genius, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:35 PM
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Stop it!... You're breaking the matrix! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:33 PM
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That looks refreshing, especially with this heat 🥵 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:26 PM
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LMAO Because they know the rest of the world will look down on them if they do so. It is so obvious, though LOL. Anyone with at least half a brain can see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:22 PM
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Whenever women fuck up when they're young, it is: "She was young! Leave her alone!" "She had low self-esteem!" "She was naive!" "She was finding herself!" "She was exploring her sexuality!" "Her past doesn't matter!" Oh, but when men fuck up?... You carry that shit forever: "You're a creep..." "You're a weirdo" "You're an incel!" "You're a misogynist!" "You're an asshole!" Etc. This is why men shouldn't tell women the truth about their past. No matter how far removed you are from it, they will a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:16 PM
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Exactly. Where did this lie that all men who are successful in dating have the best personalities come from?... It is not true, at all LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:18 AM
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It is demonization, not cuddling, that is affecting young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:08 AM
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It depends. It does kill your social circles in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:15 AM
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I never understood this obsession with ambition... What is 'ambition' to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:11 AM
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Agreed. I guess it comes down to how those men don't think what they are doing is that bad... Stupid, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:59 AM
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Well, time goes by fast. So don't rush it. Just try to do your best in school and find a good job that allows you to have a family without affecting you negatively. It is possible. So good luck! 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:39 AM
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...Tell your bf/husband 💀 LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:33 PM
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Most men aren't sexually and romantically attracted to other men. I know that it is a stereotype to think that all women are secretly bisexual, but that is not the case with men. So comparing men and women as if they're 100% the same is pointless and naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:53 AM
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The idea that there is one specific way to treat a person that defines what "treating someone like a human being" is stupid. It is more stupid that such a way, somehow, is always defined by women... It is also arrogant to think y'all are the ones who get to define that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:17 AM
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Are you seriously angry that you cannot attract the Jeff Bezos kind?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:29 AM
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That would only work if you actually thought that all men will be approached or treated in a similar way. This is just simply not true. In fact, I would bet that it will only help to show that there is, in fact, a minority of men who get the overwhelming majority of the attention/sex. That's all it is going to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:08 AM
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they immediately think of what they would be like as “a sexual being” (no joke, I literally read that exact thing). Meanwhile women think of attractive men as actual people, ^ First, there is no such a thing as "an actual human being." That is just you getting on a high horse, trying to judge anybody that does not go through life making decisions as you would like them to based on your morality. 'Arrogance' is what that is called. Second, women have way too high standards nowadays. It is not bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:01 AM
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... I don't follow your logic... What do you mean by saying that men should improve their looks if they are more visually stimulated?... Most of them aren't bisexual, homosexual, autosexual, narcissist, egomaniac, etc., so there would be no real reason to do so. This brings into consideration the idea that bisexual and homosexual men care more about their own looks than heterosexual men, which is an interesting topic for discussion... But I will leave it there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:51 AM
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I'm saying! Like... It cannot be both. It has to be one or the other. That's just logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:42 AM
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Roseanne Barr was married... multiple times LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:27 PM
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Drug addicts often date and have relationships with other drug addicts. Have you never heard of the joke of the meth/heroin couples being the strongest type of relationship ever?... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:20 PM
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To be fair, we really don't have any other "study" for this. Most scientists don't care about stuff like this to do a study on it. And most studies that kind of relate to this topic are psychological, which are often very bad because they are biased. So... Whenever someone asks for a study, I don't ever get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:26 PM
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He's implying that if a man has to hide his bisexuality from women, then a man who slept with a trans woman will also have to do it because of the same logic people use in both scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:16 AM
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Did you even read her post and comments?... She literally is trying to transform women into promiscuous women or, in other words, hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:31 PM
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Yeah, it is just so obvious. Why can't everyone else see it?... I mean, she is literally shaming women in the comments who basically just tell her ''I don't want to have sex with strangers/casually.'' It appears that she truly doesn't believe that people, not just women, aren't horny rabbits that want to fuck 24/7. Why can't she get it through her head that not everyone wants to be promiscuous?... I will never know why and how people like her think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:24 PM
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LMAO What is with the incessant need to transform women into hoes?... Like, they just don't want to be one, Karen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:12 PM
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'Wife' (aka Slave) And people still say this isn't a cult LOL. This ideology is just brainwashing people... yet nobody does anything to stop it. It is very interesting how nobody controls women (and some men) more than an ideology that was created more than 100 years ago. Nothing. Also, the amount of misandry in this post is very telling... That along with the clear militant groupthink makes what is happening in society nowadays make more sense, sadly enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:00 PM
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What kind of extremely aggressive dudes y'all be dating?... If any person reacted like that, then that is a black flag not a red flag. Break up with them!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:37 PM
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What does that have to do with what I said?... I said that the same viewpoints stand because nothing is done to fix the problems that they refer to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:24 PM
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I agree. I don't know where the lie that it tastes the same came from, but what surprises me about it is that some people actually believe it LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:16 PM
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And why do you think that is?... Because society refuses to change when it comes to dating. That is why you see the same points, even if sometimes formulated in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:14 PM
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You could literally search for any political point of view on reddit. In fact, it is only on reddit that you will see some political views that are so extreme most people IRL don't even have the balls to defend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:08 PM
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Yeah, yet we, average men, are the monsters:
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:55 PM
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I don't know why people still think women have the moral high ground?... Why do most people pedestalize women so much?... Also, this is proof that whenever they say ''the reason why you don't get women/laid is because of your personality!'' it is mostly for shock value and to shut the conversation down. Because... a literal Nazi? Really?... And multiple times!?... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:52 PM
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I was joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:41 PM
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You are controlling. That is abuse! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:37 PM
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My best friend survived a life-threatening disease. You bet your ass I will be there for him to celebrate. I will never treat my friends or anyone like shit just for sex... What would I do in that situation? I will tell her: ''Sorry, I have other plans tonight. My friend is celebrating beating cancer and I will be there for him. If you want, you could come with me and celebrate with him. And if that doesn't sound appealing to you, we could exchange contact info. so we could meet again.'' If she …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:34 PM
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LMAO As always, you guys imagine the most extreme scenarios and think guys only ask women out in those places. When in fact, it also happens in places where dating and hooking up occur! Have any of you guys never been to clubs, bars, speed dating events, etc.?... Y'all sound naive and inexperienced LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:34 PM
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Exactly. I was about to say that. Overall, a lot of people don't really like others who move up in the social hierarchy very fast. And it doesn't really have to be about social status only. It could also be about financial status, fame, etc. This is why many rich people say that people around you change once you become rich. They start acting different. Some even appear out of nowhere to ask you for some shit. The saying ''crabs in a barrel mentality'' comes from somewhere, after all. Because if…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:30 AM
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Not really... But that is only if she eats a lot, and she still works out. Meaning, eating isn't the only thing she does. That is a quick way to get fat and sick, after all. Also, that would show a lack of discipline, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:21 AM
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NGL... I agree with this LOL. Why do people want to overcomplicate relationships and romance nowadays?,,, That is a question I will always ask myself...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:14 AM
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Because they go to where they have more leverage?... Or what?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:09 AM
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You want to know why it is a trope in sitcoms? Because it is so unrealistic, it is funny on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:54 AM
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It's because they don't want to hear you complain or your struggles. It makes it easier to shut you down. That's it. They do this often when they disagree with your worldview or argument/point, but have no good counter-argument themselves. EDIT: Ok... I misread your post. I actually disagree with you on some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:10 AM
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Part of the problem, in my opinion, is how heavily scrutinized classical masculinity is online and outside. This causes the identity crisis because nobody wants to be hated on (and being alone), especially as a teenager growing up. So what do you do? You end up looking for any community that would accept you. And it turns out that the "sissy community" (for a lack of a better term LOL) that you're talking about accepts them very quickly if they begin to degrade themselves and basically make them…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:56 AM
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Love it! 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:17 PM
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I have a suspicion that they’re saying that about people whose comment history probably does detail an unattractive interpersonal comportment. What kind of logic is that?... So NOW making a moral/character judgement based on dating struggles is ok for you? LOL Also, Can you share a link? Are you fucking serious now?... Are you seriously trying to deny that those comments happen here on the regular?... LOL. I know you are trying to get me banned for ''personal attacks'' if I show you screen shots…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:00 PM
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he gave me the best sex that I’ve ever had. Ufff... I pray to God no man you ever date finds this comment... Jesus!... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:21 PM
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because a woman’s body and time isn’t a trophy Womansplaining what men should like about women, huh? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:20 PM
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That is exactly what they are trying to do here! LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:35 PM
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I’m saying in my experience most folks aren’t calling someone “a bad person” because they’re unattractive. What?... You are a mod here... There are plenty of comments here about ¨It must be your personality!¨ from women and some men! As if women could read minds LOL. Also, another type of comment that hints to a judgement of character and the just world fallacy is the ''you must treat women like human beings! It is because you don't that no woman wants to be near you, incel!''
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:28 PM
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That's your argument?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:16 PM
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OP was talking about how women's sexuality isn't as demonized as men's is. That is why I mentioned women being promiscuous (in other words, hookup culture). Watching porn, in this case, is a consequence of men's sexuality. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:57 AM
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So porn is being harmful for men, but women being promiscuous isn't?... See? These are the double standards/hypocrisy OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:43 AM
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So your comment is about a specific thread?... How is anyone supposed to know that? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:32 AM
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Here: Women don’t “demonize and hate” male sexuality. Sexuality is a personal, internal process. We only disparage male sexuality when men inflict it on us and make it our problem to solve. Who the fuck was talking about rape and harassment?... This all sounds like dog whistling. You seriously think women tell their rapists and harassers their complaints against their sexuality? LMAO. Would they even listen to them? Hell, no! They tell that shit to every single man in existence who experiences s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:18 AM
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LOL The comments are going against the women who are clearly misrepresenting OP and his point. Women, and society as a whole, do demonize male's sexuality. That is just undeniable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:14 AM
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You seriously think all men are sexual predators and rapists?.. What strawman is this?... If you didn't think that, then you would think all men are asexual (which they are obviously not). Because that is the only way I could see any woman defending attacking male's sexuality in all their forms (because then being non-asexual would be the rare thing to be). No matter what, you would be wrong LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:12 AM
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No, the fuck we don't is the point. Most of us, at most, will ask you out (only a few will commit a sexual crime against you) Other than that? You will never know how many men think about you sexually. And this is the point OP was getting at with his post. Men's sexuality is so demonized that we have to hide it from the world to such an extreme that you will never know who (and how many men) is attracted to you. Hell, it gets to the point that many women don't even like, or even demonize, gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:07 AM
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LMAO Yeah, right /s That is exactly why they also hate when they bfs/husbands follow OnlyFans/IG models, right? What is your excuse now?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:02 AM
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It's interesting that just because the direction switches from a woman to another man, you change your view on it... Very interesting LOL. It just goes to show how hypocritical many women are, and that they DO in fact demonize and hate straight male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:57 AM
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You didn't get the post, at all LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:53 AM
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No, he is saying that you are a hypocrite if you disrespect his but are offended by yours getting disrespected. He didn't say that one is good and the other isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:51 AM
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Where the fuck did you get those numbers from?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:47 AM
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If selection bias and confirmation bias were mixed together, then your first point would be the result. Jesus Christ! LOL. You cannot seriously draw conclusions about dating apps from your exes and friends. You just can't...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:45 AM
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I like your way of thinking in this comment... But I must ask, would you be receptive of him asking the same from you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:55 AM
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I'm saying! Like... What the fuck is he talking about!?... LMAO It's not even CLOSE to being the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:36 AM
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Are you misunderstanding what the OP was talking about?... He is not justifying raping or harassment. He is saying that male sexuality is attacked by society and women all the time. This is why people react differently when a man says he is horny compared to a woman saying the same thing despite probably meaning the same thing. In fact, the whole AF/BB, hookup culture, etc. are proof of that!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:31 AM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:26 AM
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So every man is some semi-asexual being who, coincidentally, only gets aroused or turned on whenever a girl who he likes and likes him back allows him to?... Do y'all even hear yourselves sometimes? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:24 AM
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You clearly didn't get his point, at all LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:22 AM
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LMAO Yeah, right /s That is precisely why a lot of women find men watching porn repulsive, right? Give me a break!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:12 AM
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Exactly. That is why I say that men who cannot get women do get looked down on. Women deny this, but it is just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:04 PM
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Exactly! Why do women always deny that that is something that actually happens?... No, most people aren’t as unique as you may think, people! Trends wouldn´t be a thing if otherwise, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:56 PM
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That would presume that society doesn't have social conventions or traditions that change with time, which is ridiculous!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:00 AM
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No... What happens if I do!?...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:46 PM
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The Snickers ice cream bar is way better than the regular Snickers bar. It is not even close!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:10 PM
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There's drama in the PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:42 AM
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EXACTLY!!! People make it seem like you would just have open the door to go outside to find a bunch of virgins everywhere LOL. After a certain a in age, it becomes extremely difficult to find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:40 AM
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^ I love this comment! 💯 Beautifully said!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:35 AM
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Exactly. I take what makes sense and leave what is so stupid and irrational to the side. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:30 AM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:28 AM
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LMAO For real! All of a sudden, every woman is a fan of that show 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:10 AM
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It's so funny how women think they are so unique and special that if they ever experience something "bad," then it must be the fault of all men. If that same mentality is shown by a man, he is banned and called an incel to oblivion in an instant... Men who struggle, are angry, sad, and lonely are made fun of and attacked. Oh, but if it's a woman? "We must protect her!" LOL. Just look at the comments, man... <image> I was watching this TikTok of a girl who, by the sounds of it, got cheated on by …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:38 PM
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LMAO It is not "to be with A man," it is to be with a specific type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:37 AM
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LMAO So being hornier than women means being sex addicted now?...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:23 PM
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-_- ...What?... That's not even remotely close to being the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:17 PM
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Exactly. Yet many of those same people will come here and say that they do not participate in hookup culture, ironically enough LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:44 AM
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... You just admitted that you are the one making a "contract" in your relationships... What?... How am I the one looking for loop holes if there is no contract and I am not trying to sleep or do something that would hurt the other person involved?... And it is interesting that you brought up cheating as if I am trying to find a way to cheat LOL. In fact, if my point is correct, then there would be a generalized definition of what cheating is. So no, it is not looking for loop holes to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:33 AM
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-_- Did you seriously not read half of my comment?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:31 AM
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So... You agreed with me... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:24 AM
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... He didn't sleep with other women... That is precisely why he was hurt. Where did you get that he was sleeping around? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:06 AM
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I literally have said, multiple times here in this sub, how much I hate hookup culture and promiscuity. I find it disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:37 AM
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Kanye was already rich before going crazy. In fact, he was almost a billionaire (he lost that status by being canceled, LOL). What he does have in his favor is the possible excuse of being "mentally ill" and... ~Sigh~ Fuck it, I'll say it. He has another excuse because he is black. Many people do not consider what he says as "punching down" because of it. And if you fight against him, you run into the possibility of being called racist. I'm not even white, but I can still see why Kanye is a "spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:44 AM
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EXACTLY! This is why I hate when people get on their high horses or act holier than thou in these convos, as if their shit didn't stink too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:20 AM
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It's incredible that I almost agree completely with you on this one...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:01 AM
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I will still have the same point of view... What is the point of such hypothetical?...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:50 PM
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By the looks of it and other comments, that appears to be the case... I guess I was too naive with my intentions. I just sympathize with the guy in that post, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:44 PM
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Who said I wanted to date you?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:04 PM
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I was pointing out how the logic of "perfect communication" fails in actual practice of it. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:56 PM
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Not to this extent, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:46 PM
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7 years is too stupid... That man was a huge asshole, in my opinion. It is true that nobody needs to get married but... 7 YEARS!?... Hell, after 2, I would have probably started talking about marriage with my girlfriend then. Men who take 7 years and say that they do want to get married are so unserious to me. They are just wasting the woman's time, in my opinion. Also, those people defending him are also assholes LOL. I guess it is the mainstream mindset then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:43 PM
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I agree 100%! Like... We love each other! Why should I have to ask you if I can kiss/touch you all the time?... Why date me then!?... LOL I understand having a bad day/mood, being sick, being busy, etc., but if none of those are the case, then why not?...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:36 PM
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So it is for omission of truth?... I don't understand what you mean by the last part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:34 PM
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So love didn't exists before the 2000s? Got it. It sounds extremely paranoid and pessimistic to believe that nobody loved anybody in the past. In fact, it sounds almost dogmatic to say that. Who came up with that idea? Feminism? LOL. So you agree with me they are more like contracts then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:33 PM
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That is my point. It sounds just like a contract and loop holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:30 PM
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Then don't get angry when someone looks for loop holes in your relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:26 PM
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It is not a feature that came up naturally in dating. It is new for a reason. Dating today is completely different from what it was 10, 20, 30, or 40+ years ago, after all. What has changed is how pop-psychology and new-age feminism have more of an impact in relationships now more than ever before. This is also why certain concepts like "love bombing," "emotional abuse," "gaslighting," "red flags," "toxic masculinity," "boundaries," "codependency," "attachment styles," etc. have become mainstrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:24 PM
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Of course, perfect models of dating or relationships do not exist. In fact, "perfect" is not human, after all. I was just trying to point out how this trend I have noticed occurs in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:17 PM
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My problem is why assume non-monogamy?... That is a new thing modern society has changed in dating. It is less riskier and painful to assume monogamy for both sides, especially after a long period of time like 3-4 months! Since both people wouldn't have to deal with the feelings of jealousy and possible infidelity in that case, it should be easier for both people involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:16 PM
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LOL This is exactly the mentality I was talking about. This is also what gave rise to the "consent" jokes. Do you record them and make them sign contracts?... If not, how do we know she consented and wanted to have sex with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:13 PM
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I agree. I think I didn't take into account that part of relationships, the "talking stage," and how it is different from engagement and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:10 PM
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Cardi B (a big celebrity) literally admitted to having drugged and raped men in the past, and nobody batted an eye to that... In fact, her fanbase, who are mostly women, supported her doing it! Please, tell me you are not saying that society views men's rape and women's rape in the same way. Because they definitely do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:03 PM
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I never said the "dating market incentivizes cheating," I said you and your logic did. You ended up proving this by saying stupid shit like this: Dating is, again, a free for all. Whatever you can get away with is the law of the jungle here. And this: Best you can do is find someone who shares your values, whining and pouting about “[x] isn’t fair!!!!” is going to fall on deaf ears because those who are successfully dating don’t give a shit what you feel is unfair or hypocritical. ^ LOL That las…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:21 PM
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LOL. What stupid logic is that?... It sounds like everything that benefits women is good and well, but anything that benefits men is evil and wrong. Stupid and misandrist. Also, most people do not come to an "agreement" of being monogamous. What are you on about?... This is like the whole joke of men having to record women and make them sign contracts to show they consented to sex. That shit doesn't happen that way naturally!... Jesus!...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:38 PM
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LMAO Do you even know what "hypocrite" or "hypocrisy" even means?...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:17 PM
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LMAO Expecting gender roles, yet not following yours is hypocritical. Is that really so hard to understand for you?...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:12 PM
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Hypocrite. Either be a full-blown asshole, or don't. There is no middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:08 PM
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So you are justifying cheating as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:06 PM
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Ok, show me one. If they are so common, then it shouldn't be hard. I would like to see a woman, who completely satisfies their partner, still face rejection from such partner. I doubt such a thing really exists or happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:16 PM
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LOL Avoiding his very valid point, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:05 PM
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-_- Why is it always "Oh! Misogyny is spreading! Men are disgusting! We need to stop it!" and not "Well, men (across the world) have experienced a lot of similar things and have come up with a conclusion that, for some reason, many of them agree with. Let's see what WOMEN are doing and how they are changing to cause such men to agree with it"?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:02 PM
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LMAO If you really think that is the reason why men would rather jerk off than to actually have sex, then you don't understand men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:44 PM
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And you think those guys have their sexual needs met by their girlfriends?... Because that is a bigger can of worms society and women will deny exist or refuse to open.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:57 PM
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IMO It is always about money or "the economy." Everything else is just used as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:10 PM
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Because your math skills are lacking! Get your skills up! LOL JK
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:41 AM
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You can't be fucking serious... "Something better"?...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:18 AM
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Because when they have too many options, an extra one is useless to them. When such options start decreasing, then there is panic. It is actually ironic how much women in their prime laugh at men being distressed, sad, or angry about their dating struggles. They would 100% understand it if they went through those. For example, the women in that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:16 AM
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Well... We are headed into another war, maybe even a possible WWIII. After years of people saying that "it will never happen," I come here to tell you: you don't know your world history that well, do you? This is just all too stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:01 AM
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It's not that at all. It is that women in the US are hypocrites. They destroyed gender roles FOR THEM, ONLY THEM. They still expect men to follow their gender roles. That is exactly why many men call Feminists hypocrites, misandrists, and liars. They want women's superiority, not equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:56 PM
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LMAO When has an utopia ever existed?... You guys sound immature whenever you mention things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:35 PM
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-_- If that even were remotely true, which I don't think it is because women vastly overestimate how much attention/options most men get, how the hell is he supposed to know that the "nerdy, shy, or busy" girl is interested in him? Most women do not approach men at all. Nobody can read minds!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:24 PM
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LOL Any time a woman uses that word, they use it as in "this man does not agree/like what I think or do. He must be insecure!" I seriously question any person who calls others such words out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:18 PM
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Every relationship i know is like this. ^ LOL I seriously believe you are just being biased as hell, live in a bubble, or are just seeing what you want to see. Also, I really wanted to say this... but reading your comment made me realize that even if I did, it will not lead to any fruitful conversation/debate. I will say it anyways: Just because you want to do something, or you want your kids to do something, it does not mean the man wants to do it. An easy example of this is when women want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:17 PM
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Insecure?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:10 PM
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That's a weird reaction, ngl...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:12 PM
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I have 2 questions: Why do you consider that equitable? What percentage of the women you believe do that today? If so, do you think it is more of an older bracket dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:11 PM
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-_- Again, nobody needs to be perfect to be considered smart. There are many problems in life that currently have no solution (in our current understanding), yet truly smart people are working on it. Cancer, the Riemann hyphotesis, string theory, number theory, N = NP, global warming, etc. Would you call them stupid because they can not solve such problems then? That's just ludicrous! There is no such a human being that can solve all problems, whether in his life, academically speaking, or other…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:54 PM
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... That still implies that nobody can consider themselves smart, or smarter than someone else, if they aren't perfect in everything. Do you see how that is simply just not the case? People can be both, smart and an asshole. They aren't mutually exclusive characteristics LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:39 PM
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...Are you seriously trying to convince us to raise other men children being better for us?... Fuck that LOL. That shit is only beneficial to women. Who the fuck wants to live that way?...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:30 PM
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If y'all seriously want to go back and live like animals, then be our guests. We will drop you off in one of those islands that have nothing in it but wild animals. Choosing to evolve in that way (in a stupid way) is deffinitely... a choice LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:22 PM
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What a stupid comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:18 PM
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What unpaid labor?... Most women nowadays don't even cook, or know how to, clean, etc. Did you miss the entirety of all the feminist waves?... LOL. Your comment would have had more weight 30-40 years ago. Nowadays? Hell, no! Society won't collapse if the couple of women still doing that stuff stop doing it. The majority of women are already not doing it, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:12 PM
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Then why the fuck...? ... -_- Do you realize you just agreed with the person you first disagreed with?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:56 PM
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-_- And where is this "care" coming from?... None of you seem to see the stupid and flawed logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:40 PM
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You do realize that if people stop having kids, then there won't be any people doing the "specialized healthcare" for old people? And not only that, many more things as well. It is a crisis in other countries for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:38 PM
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Saying this as if the world isn't experiencing an increase in wars, living cost, violence, billionaires exploiting people (AI is the new way of doing it), etc. is so dumb... It shows how disconnected from reality you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:34 PM
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So... Your evidence is "someone agreed with me!"?... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:24 PM
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Interesting... Why are you saying they "desire" a certain outcome that is possible? And why do you think there is an actual method that achieves it?...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:07 PM
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^ The white-knighting is insane... Debunked? When and how?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:55 PM
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That's just a different version of the halo-effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:48 PM
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The good old "bully the nerd" mindset. That's exactly what she is implying with such a post, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:44 PM
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Your definition of intelligence is flawed to begin with. There is no such person who excels in all aspects of life. At the very least, they are extremely rare. If you think otherwise, then your bias is providing extra characteristics to people you may believe deserve them. Easy counter examples are the universalists who existed previous to the 19th century. A lot of them were very anti-social or lacked the ability to socialize well, yet they were geniuses in many different fields, without a doub…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:41 PM
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By the sound of it, I think she may have accused him of stalking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:26 AM
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So... Basically, nobody knows what you like, or you evade speaking about it. How is that even relevant to being shamed about it? In order to be shamed, other people DO need to know what your tastes are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:09 AM
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Yeah, but remember? "All women are unique. Not all women are like that!" LOL Yet, they seem to all have the same mindset when it comes to these discussions, ironically enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:47 AM
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There is no such thing as "basic human"... That is such a stupid and naive concept. Nobody treats everyone the same. Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:41 AM
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You know why "there is no backlash"? Because the guys who do it don't give a fuck about social status/stance, legality, manners, etc. They have nothing to lose most often than not. And proving harassment and assault is difficult to do anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:34 AM
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See? This is what I don't get. How is that privilege?... That is just a man committing a crime. Committing a crime is not a privilege. Anyone could do it. Privilege is getting better treatment than others based on a characteristic, which is unfair to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:44 AM
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Damn!... Getting roasted with ChatGPT is something new here LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:34 AM
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YES!!! I AGREE WITH YOU 100%! Jesus... I swear women switched from religion to therapy. In my opinion, they use it as a religion LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:28 AM
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Disabled black man oppresses white woman in matters of sex. ^... What?... You lost me there. See? This is why a lot of people don't take y'all seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:08 AM
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You are literally extrapolating. What do you mean? LOL Why else would you even mention them then?...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:30 AM
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That's like saying men are super privileged because the 1% of billionaires are mostly men. It is called Apex fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:59 AM
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Are you seriously using 4% of the sample as your only argument?... 4%!?... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:49 AM
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No, the fuck it doesn't. Being sexually attracted to someone doesn't mean you think they are perfect... What kind of immature and stupid logic is that?... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:18 AM
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Why do you think I keep saying that "the demonization of men and their sexuality is the most disgusting thing that's widely accepted and pushed forward by society"?... Did people seriously think that creating and pushing ideologies that demonize men were not going to have a negative effect in society and the young boys?...Really?... And this is just the beginning, by the way. Society chooses to be blind towards this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:12 AM
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Ummm, probably NFL.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:03 AM
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I just saw the most pathetic post about a woman having total control of the relationship (the man basically on a leash), and the women in the comments still blame the man (they allude to him being a controller in their situation)... Jesus!... The woman is called Cassey Ho. She made a post on Instagram about the difficulties they have had (and are having) with pregnancy. But, the more I read about the story, it just starts to sound like the entire relationship they have is all about her... She is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:58 PM
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^ Misandry example no. 9,989,997 archived.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:46 PM
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Wanna bet she ends up dating a musician or an athlete? If I had to guess which, it would be an athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:41 PM
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-_- I have actually approached women, as well as many men here have as well. Who are you even talking about?...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:20 PM
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Interesting that you said "single" and not "incel." LMAO Anybody could be single at any point in their lives. In fact, that is actually going to happen to everyone. Being an incel, though, is quite different. Of course, I am using the classical definition of incel (involuntary celibate), not the new internet version of it which is synonymous to misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:31 AM
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WHAT!?!?!?!?!?.... Have you ever not hear the "quite kid" jokes/insults before? They literally imply you are a serial killer, or potential school shooter, if you are by yourself. Are you kidding me?....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:28 AM
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EXACTLY~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't believe I had to read this many comments until someone pointed out this basic aspect of logical thinking... Damn!...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:27 AM
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LMAO "Useful men"? Women like you love to act as if you weren't shitty yourselves LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:22 AM
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Stop. Do not break their flawed logic. Let them continue saying illogical things, it is hilarious to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:13 AM
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ya'll think men and women are sooooo different until a difference comes up, then we're not different, ... What?...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:00 AM
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Interesting logic... What happens when those men you are implying are perfect cheat, abuse, and lie to those women?... Can we please stop acting as if women's judgement of character is flawless?....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:48 PM
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Mulan isn't either LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:06 AM
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It's funny how the new meta is calling men entitled misogynists if they ever choose to not support women in everything. When in reality, the entitlement is coming from them for believing men owe them anything to begin with. I was watching this short of a tennis player getting angry at the cameraman for having the camera on her, and I'm sitting here thinking "isn't that part of your job?... where do you think the hundreds of thousands of dollars are coming from?..." And this is just one of the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:02 AM
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LMAO Yeah, right. From a nun to a promiscuous woman. LOL Women love to make shit up in this sub, I swear!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:04 PM
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-_- Do you even have an original thought of your own?...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:01 PM
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It sounds like a bunch of platitudes connected by a slew of assumptions someone just pulled out their ass. Also, who the hell is Steve Maraboli?... I seriously question anything that comes from anybody with a website that has their name on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:47 PM
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-_- What a stupid quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:39 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:14 AM
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Okay, I'll bite. Because women are not the same as men. If they are ever single, the overwhelming majority of the time, it is by choice. I cannot stress how much that fact changes the entire psychology of a person when it comes issues like this one. It is the difference between wanting to vs. being forced to do something. Meaning, if women want to, let's say, forget about having kids and/or marrying between the ages of 18-40 (which many are already doing nowadays, by the way), they could do it 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:05 AM
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LOL That you think feminism tells women to DO something for men. It tells women, more often than not, what not to do, or that men have no reason of telling them what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:45 AM
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Once again, spot on. People who don't have the free time to bother with meaningless debates in here, do not come here. It is really that simple, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:01 PM
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LOL Don't necessarily disagree with this description tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:45 PM
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It was fun but not anything life changing ^ LMAO Yet, women love to say they have realistic standards and the bar is in hell. Those are lies. Thank you for proving that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:41 PM
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I completely agree with you on that! It is so weird how much people care about such a ceremony to me. I'd be like "Thank God it is over! Finally, I'm free~!" and continue with my life. It really is the least important aspect of the 4 years of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:26 PM
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Nah, that is the wrong question. It is in the same vein, but you should ask this instead: Q4W: How many of you have ever said Sorry, or have apologized, to the men in your lives? I find that many people, no matter if it is men or women, don't know how to apologize, or refuse to do so. But whenever it comes to things between men and women, I believe they tend to not want to do it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:22 PM
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One could say it is a rite of passage LOL. Just kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:19 PM
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-_- That is quite literally what is called "circular logic." That is so wrong... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:45 AM
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Don't disagree with the main idea behind this post, but I do disagree on the idea that choosing to only date any type of woman, as if it were as easy as flipping a switch, is an option all men can take. That is unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:31 AM
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That's such a wrong and weird way define "average"... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:23 AM
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Your lives are much more comfortable and safer compared to other countries. ^ Do you seriously not know why that is the case?... It is not by good reasons/methods. If there are winners, it is because there are also losers. That just seems to be how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:22 PM
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When you truly learn about the history of feminism, then you will realize how interconnected it was (and still is in some ways) to racism and white supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:14 AM
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^ It's always funny how women always assume they are in a "happy and healthy" relationship, LOL. When it goes bad it makes it even funnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:52 AM
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What!?... That's not true. Being ugly affects one's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:46 AM
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-_- Are you really sure you have the correct flair?... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:41 AM
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This idea that women always dress a certain way or that they never change once in a relationship is extremely stupid and naive. Women do change how they dress as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:02 PM
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LOL Just because I pointed out your ignorance about arranged marriages?... Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:08 AM
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^ Just world fallacy in full effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:22 PM
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LMAO Feminists love racisn when it benefits them, yet women like you love to ignore that, too. Ummm... Hypocrites everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:13 PM
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And men created those companies. So? Women aren't entitled to positions of power just because they're women. If I create a company, I decide who to put in charge. I give a fuck about your ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:55 PM
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I don't think you've ever seen or experienced a culture that actually practices arranged marriages... Your naivety and privilege are showing up in your comment LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:41 PM
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Exactly. Just world thinking is stupid as fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:39 PM
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Exactly. And that is not counting legacy admissions. That is a whole other mess by itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:04 PM
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Just food alone will require you to make enough money to raise a family of 6 LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:01 PM
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This is one of the most misandrist comments in PPD I have seen in a while... Wow <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:44 PM
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It was built by men who were IN POWER/RICH. For fuck's sake, can any of you stop using the apex fallacy to judge all men?... Not every man is a powerful billionaire with a plan to "oppress" women. In fact, it benefits them to use men as pawns the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:43 PM
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he's totally supportive of pick-up, is one of the top five most masculine men here, ^ What?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:35 PM
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...Truer words have never been spoken!... I agree with you 1000%!!! I truly despise the whole "just world" mindset that is really prevalent in reddit. It is so immature!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:41 PM
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I'm not sure about that... I have seen women forgive cheaters before. These cheaters, though, fit the "bad boy" stereotype, ironically enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:39 PM
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I'm not sure. I didn't read all the comments. A lot of them weren't mentioning that part at all, to be honest. But there were a lot who were saying that. I don't disagree with you on your second point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:38 PM
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Fair enough. I might have missed the real purpose of what they were saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:34 PM
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What exactly is "thinking this way"?... I have seen women say a lot of those things at different points in their lives to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:31 PM
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I just saw a post on the AmIOverreacting sub about a woman being more angry about her husband pathetic messages to other women than the cheating itself (he was unsuccessful at it). A lot of women agreed with her. They said that they were more disappointed to find out they were with such losers who no other women wanted. That made me laugh at the irony and hypocrisy of women. The reason is that THAT IS LITERALLY WHAT THE RED PILL HAS BEEN SAYING FOR MORE THAN A DECADE! Also, why do women seriousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:05 PM
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I never disrespected her. Re-read it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 05:27 AM
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Give a percentage then. Because these weird statements that kind of try to allude to a "normalized action" or behavior in men is dumb. It is clear that it is a very extreme minority of men that react this way, but women love to act as if these men are some sizeable percentage of them. It is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:23 AM
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Then those women are delusional. They are not the 6s or 7s just because they wear makeup or wear better clothes. They are lying to themselves if they believe their match is a guy who is actually a 6 or 7. That is just the truth!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:21 AM
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Yeah, like what the fuck is she talking about?... Women bias at full display here LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:18 AM
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-_- Have you actually ever gone to one of them?... Because that is exactly how they work. Maybe some of them work differently (?), but some of them do work like that LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:16 AM
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Ok, I don't want to speak ill of the dead (especially those who commit suicide. I have a lot of sympathy for them. Believe me.), but I have to say this. Just because she was your ex and she was hot, it doesn't mean she is a good person or has a great personality. What would anybody know about another person before getting to know them fully? In fact, does that ever happen to begin with? Knowing someone completely?... It is stupid to blame the loads of men who were just attracted to her and asked…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:07 AM
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This dumb idea that women 20 years before the current time somehow all were so extremely oppressed that they never married a guy they liked or loved is so fucking toxic and stupid... Jesus...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:30 PM
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If women getting killed every time they reject a guy were the norm, then they would have gone extinct a loooong time ago. Stop spreading these stupid narratives!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:26 PM
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Do your mates not joke around and call each other the most terrible things for shits and giggles? ^ While I do understand and participate in banter, this is a little bit too extreme. Are you really sure they are your friends?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:23 PM
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I have heard similar things in the past. Dating can negatively affect your self esteem, even dating apps where you are not really rejected in a similar sense. Speed dating, however... Getting rejected by so many women and seeing with your own eyes in person what is actually happening. That is not only a straight up humiliation ritual, but I can also see that being a nail in the coffin to a man's self esteem. This is so true. I still don't understand why women go to these kinds of events if they …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:19 PM
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Ask who?... LOL I'm asking this question because I saw a thread on AskMen about how women never really get taught how to please men. How men's pleasure is always taken for granted. Then, someone mentioned magazines like Cosmopolitan. They began to talk about how ridiculous the advice women get on how to please their men is (coming from women, too!). That led me to believe that maybe men are being told the same dumb advice, as well. I'm not really going to use anything in particular that's said h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:50 AM
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The idea that a huge portion of women do not think like that is as much as an assumption as thinking they do is what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:19 PM
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That's cool! I agree that a big part of sex is mental. That's a fact. listen which actions feel good, we'll both have a good time. ^ Truer words have never been spoken. but I do not want to direct a man forever, after a few months I expect us both to get the hang of it. ^ So you expect him to know what the deal is after a point?... That's interesting. I would have to say, though. I do not think this is as easy as you think it is: it's not that hard to ascertain which men get turned on by pleasin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:17 PM
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Appreciate the honesty! So girth over length in your opinion? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:38 AM
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Anything in particular? Does a specific size, shape, etc. stand out? If you don't mind me asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:58 AM
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That's cool. I always thought doing en pointe was painful. I can't imagine myself ever doing it.😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:56 AM
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Ok... This is probably going to be a controversial NSFW question, but I really wanted to ask it. We, as men, have always heard that "men don't know/care about women's orgasms." We have also heard about women being all unique and different when it comes to what gets them off. So the question is: What really gets you off when it comes to sex?... And if you don't know (have no experience), what do you think it would be (if it were masturbation for example)?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:49 AM
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Yeah... Like, what?... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:28 AM
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LOL The last part is a contradiction to everything you tried to say before. If you truly believe fairness is pointless, then you would never complain when something unfair happens to you or your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:17 AM
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-_- Making an entire video yapping about it worlds apart from just a common complain... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:11 AM
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Yeah, I'm like... where's the threat?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:09 AM
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^ People aren't as unique as they think they are. Yes, that includes women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:08 AM
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They did not just say that shit with a straight face... They just... What!?... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:20 AM
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LMAO That couldn't be further from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:20 AM
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What!?.... LOL You clearly do not understand why people say boys are easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:13 AM
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No arguments, huh? Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:12 AM
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It's funny how women like you imagine the lives of most men to be the best lives ever LOL. Wasn't there a woman who tried to prove it before?... Spoiler alert! She was wrong. She killed herself afterwards. We still don't know if it was because of her experience ,or if it was because of something else. RIP Norah Vincent, regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:11 AM
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You sound so stupid LOL. Catholicism is a denomination of Christianity... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:08 AM
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avoid facing their own defects. ^ LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:04 AM
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“I saw you from across the room and thought you looked beautiful" ^ Women are funny when they attempt to portray a good approach by a man LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:57 AM
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You can just say "it is intentional"... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:52 AM
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^ Exhibit A of what OP was saying LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:48 AM
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What is the golden advice then? I will not say anything that looks like an excuse. What I will say is if I have done it or not, though. So let's hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:40 AM
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How does this even relate to what OP is talking about?... He is talking about shaming and demonizing men LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:38 AM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:33 AM
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LOL I've been sayin the same thing for a loooong time. Once you realize that women who complain about what men do or chose as their partners are hateful and stupid, then you will realize that you should have never paid them any attention to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:31 AM
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If you say "My girlfriend cheated on me, this is what happened, I'm hurt and angry!" I don't think anyone is going to call it misogyny. ^ LMAO You've never been in r/relationship_advice, huh...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:42 AM
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Well... A man saying that is probably in an emotional state LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:40 AM
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The problem here isn't about being more "attractive online." It's that what women consider "attractive" is based on standards of what they do or other women do. That's it. How can you judge a man by looking at him the same as you do women?... That... just doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:16 AM
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What is "common" in this case? I see that many people do not even know what common or average really is about men and women in this sub all the time, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:12 AM
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Seriously?... That is a horrible action to you?... What is AOC?...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:21 PM
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LOL So women do not call guys creeps for anything now?... Is that really what you're saying?... Misogyny?... LOL. Also, when did I say all women are the same?...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:18 PM
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What?... No, the fuck I wouldn't. People who talk shit about others behind their back are assholes. Especially when that will affect them negatively in the future. What does reddit have to do with anything?... The impact is way worse when it is people literally close to you who you see every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:16 PM
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Huh?... Hell no! LMAO They get defended by white knights all the time. Are you serious?... Anybody who points out the hypocrisy is literally called incel or misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:31 AM
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Sure~ /s It's not like we don't have a billion threads or posts about women "changing their minds," or "their past don't define them," in reddit all the fucking time. But go on. It is so clear the double standard is present even in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:28 AM
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LMAO The girl destroyed him socially, but ok. Keep defending how much of an asshole she is. We see what you're really doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:25 AM
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LMAO I've seen girls call guys creeps for much less. Why do you all (or most of y'all) think women are perfect all the time?... That's my question....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:17 AM
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"But maybe he changed his mind!" ^ Or does that only apply to women?... The double standards LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:12 AM
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What horrible actions have been justified here?... I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:04 AM
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You're almost speaking my language!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:27 PM
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Why is it always hoeing around the way women go when they are trying to "find themselves"?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:25 PM
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Because, most of the time, dudes that look like the right picture are the ones that get the most women. That is why we don't believe y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:54 PM
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He was genuinely crazy... Once any man says something along the lines of "I never asked a girl out. They should bow to me and ask me out! This world sucks!" You are not a regular incel. You are delusional. It is fine to want women to ask you out, make moves, or give signs, but to believe you are being done dirty and nobody wants to go out with you, when you have never actually asked out a woman? No, you are just crazy, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:11 AM
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LMAO Nowadays... It is kind of hard to tell sometimes... Fuck plastic surgery!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:05 AM
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Am I the only guy who gets turned on by pastel colored nails on women?... I feel ashamed... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:57 AM
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Agreed 100%!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:59 PM
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That wasn't really the reason I thought it was ironic. It was that the entertainment industry is probably the no. 1 reason beauty standards are so shallow and fucked up as they are. And, what do you think happens when an attractive guy plays the role of the criminal, serial killer, etc.? Do you think women begin to not trust or be attracted to those guys who possess such "beauty standards"?... Hell no! It actually makes them like them even more LOL. That's where the irony lies. Although, it is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:48 PM
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Can you name any men have over women?...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:25 PM
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Yeah, that is the point. Things are way different if you only concentrate on the older folk. That is because they think about and approach dating and relationships differently than newer generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:09 PM
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No, it is because if we say certain words, then we get banned. An easy example is the race topics. Nobody goes there because it is field full of landmines.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:11 PM
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LMAO You are the one who mentioned underage people. Nobody in here mentioned them. Also, how is it predatory to like 20-24 year old girls?... Explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:09 PM
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Define the "ethics" in dating. Define "harmful" in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:08 PM
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Also, the majority of people do date. Where are you getting those numbers? Also, what age brackets/generations are we talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:05 PM
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True!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:03 PM
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Black women do marry racist white men... What are you talking about!?...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:00 PM
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Very interesting that you used "colored people" in that way... Very interesting... And ironic LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:59 PM
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LMAO There is racism in dating, what are you talking about!?... There are literal women with race fetishes, but I know you will deny that!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:58 PM
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"Men should stay in their place," right?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:55 PM
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LMAO They want to derail the convo to ignore the blatant double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:54 PM
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I would be banned again if I said what I really want to say about this comment... DAMN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:52 PM
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So... money and fame?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:47 PM
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All I will say is this: People's actions have consequences. It is a fact that dating has changed, but not entirely because of "free will." I would say that it changed due to certain ideologies spreading a specific thought pattern to the masses. That is what really changed dating. In a couple of decades, we will really see the consequences I'm talking about. Until then, you can go on and believe that what's going on nowadays is for the better of society or humans as a whole (It is not). You are "…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:45 PM
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But why does it matter? It isn't any less superficial than any of the reasons women like certain men for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:38 PM
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But actively seeking for a particular age group is creepy. ^ I'm asking why does this matter? It isn't any less superficial than any of the reasons women like certain men for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:37 PM
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I'm starting to believe that every argument, ideology, etc. women have has to, at some point, always restrict what men do in one way or another when it comes to dating... Prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:26 PM
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Nah, women who think like you are just misandrist. Let's keep it a buck for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:23 PM
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You literally just insulted a lot of people's jobs... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:19 PM
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We just don't say it out loud, 'cause that will get us banned on a subreddit like this that is moderated by feminist extremists. ^ FACTS!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:18 PM
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What is the difference? And why does it matter?...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:15 PM
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I agree 100% with this!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:15 PM
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True... I guess there is not really a good way to portray how it really happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:36 PM
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That's such a stupid platitude based on nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:08 PM
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You seriously have never seen or been shown a video of a guy fucking a girl you know?... LOL You sound sheltered and naive. Many guys take videos of themselves fucking girls. They take pride in it, in some cases... Where do you think "revenge porn" came from?...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:01 PM
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The irony of the entertainment industry not being able or not wanting to cast a truly "ugly" person to play the ugly person's role is just... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:53 PM
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If you were an "actual human," you would know why it is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:24 AM
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.... This is what he was getting at, yet a lot of women in the thread still don't get it LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:15 AM
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Do you honestly believe that women become more attractive or stay as attractive after having kids?...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:13 AM
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Most men here are... heterosexual... Why the fuck would they care about the deadbeat guy? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:58 AM
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If you truly think that is the only scenario where they would say that, then you are very naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:44 AM
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That's such a disgusting thing to say...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:42 AM
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LMAO What he said is the truth. You just believe women would never use men for some reason...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:34 AM
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Damn... They are going to throw so much hate in your way because of this post... But you aren't lying. There is a lot of truth in what you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:12 AM
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This is why I have a special kind of "hatred" towards the women in r/deadbedrooms. Because women spend all the fucking time demonizing male sexuality, cold approaches, etc., yet, when they end up with a man with low or no sex drive, then they act like victims. LMAO You can't make that shit up!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:26 PM
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LMAO Getting such "experience" after a certain age, especially after college, is extremely hard. Most people who had experience do not want to deal with inexperienced people after a certain point. In this case? The experienced people would be women, and the inexperienced people are men. Those are just facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:05 PM
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So women didn't love men in the past? Is that what you are saying?... Because that is the funniest lie ever told LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:54 AM
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Go to r/deadbedrooms and say that. I want to see something...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:45 AM
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LMAO Believing that men are single by choice is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:43 AM
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They are constantly praised in general as the people who build our roads and keep society going. They’re who people in the US (and Congress) refer to as “hard working Americans”, not women’s jobs. Nobody argues those jobs are for “useless pencil pushing paper jockey” or that they’re doing “make work”. ^ People who say that, or praise men in those jobs, are not women, especially younger women LOL. It is old men in politics who actually know how much those men matter to society. And even then, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:45 PM
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You truly, in your heart of hearts, don't think that some women actually are like that?...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:13 PM
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Well, I agree. I just don't like all the "acting" that occurs in the beginning stages. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:42 AM
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Propaganda?...The US has admitted they did interfere in Latin American countries, multiple times! The fuck?...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:31 AM
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I cannot believe I'm agreeing with you... but yeah. What the fuck is that other guy even talking about?... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:26 AM
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LMAO This just tells me you know shit about what the US does (or has done) in Latin American countries...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:25 AM
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Are you serious?... He is better looking than her LOL. Just based on athletism alone, he is way above her. I cannot see how you would say they are matched in looks... Unless, you believe white skin is more beautiful than brown/black?...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:20 AM
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LMAO You definitely are the person I was referring to in my original comment... Interesting... Do you even know what "spontaneity" or "humility" even is?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:59 AM
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What, to you, is respect?... People doing and thinking everything you want? Is that it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:28 AM
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Are you seriously comparing masturbation with actually sleeping around?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:26 AM
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It was an example... LMAO Thinking that one always has to do what's considered "as good as it gets" by the majority is exactly what I meant by trying to look "too cool," arrogant, and posturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:14 AM
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That's so interesting... Are you asexual and aromantic?... It sounds like you don't really "love" if you value friendships over romantic relationships. Logically, romantic relationships should be above friendships, after all...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:51 PM
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My dream woman is the one who could say "fuck it! Let's do it" to anything. For example, going to a fast food restaurant in the middle of the night, after having watched a movie and getting drunk (I don't drink, but the experience is not something I'm against). Spontaneity, humility, and desire to experience life are really attractive traits to me... Unfortunately, that's not what you find out in the world. Everyone is always trying to be too "cool." It's a lot of posturing out here. Also, I rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:26 PM
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That is the interesting part. Government would have to calculate the cost for any of those "needs," and men and women pay half of the cost each.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:21 PM
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Nah, the actual funny thing is when the percentages were the opposite (60% men and 40% women), people were rioting and protesting. Now? Nobody says a thing... Hell, if you do, you get labeled a misogynist or incel LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:14 PM
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Fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:12 PM
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Scholarships only for men, men's shelter, men's health insurance, etc. We could do a lot with it, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:11 PM
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That says more about the hatred men receive. We literally are getting "pimped out" by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:10 PM
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That's the point. Such funding clearly does not benefit men as it does women. For example, college.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:09 PM
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Sauce?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:05 PM
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-_- Are you seriously angry that you cannot find a man and get pregnant by him?... That should be the easiest thing to do, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:58 PM
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Tip... WHO!?!?... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:48 PM
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No, the fuck you haven't LOL. The whole 6ft tall thing is about dating, not being CEOs LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:46 PM
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I wonder what would happen if we segregate taxes by gender... Meaning, all taxes men pay would serve fund things that benefit men, and the same thing for women, all taxes they pay would be used for things that serve them... That would be an interesting thing. Based on the amount of disrespect and hatred towards men that society and women have fostered, we should try that instead. Separation is the only solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:45 PM
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Entrapment?... LMAO Delusion would be a better way to describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:15 PM
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LMAO You're not even a man. How the hell would you even know what a man needs to do to be successful?...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:02 PM
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LMAO Society will collapse. It won't "progress."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:44 PM
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LMAO, the economy?... Yeah, right /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:42 PM
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LMAO The economy?... Yeah, right /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:42 PM
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Have you ever been to any college, feminist rally, or feminist sub before?...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:31 PM
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That last part 100%. Like having a degree makes anyone more special than others LOL. Getting a BS, MS, or PhD is more about discipline than intelligence, IMO. That is not to say it does not require a base level of intelligence, though. It is just not only about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:16 PM
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"Feminists are less likely to think that women are angels" ^ That shit is such an obvious lie LOL. That you think you could say that without anyone realizing how dumb and wrong it is is hilarious, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:12 PM
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So, as long as it is legal, it is fine by you?... Because someone else brought up Trump and the things that he is doing. And, he technically can deport anybody who isn't a US citizen, no matter the reason. So what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:04 PM
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There is also a definition to incel, but nobody uses that word correctly, especially here LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:00 PM
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LMAO Now, you're lying!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:52 PM
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LMAO That still doesn't change the fact that it is against "freedom of speech."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:18 PM
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LMAO He literally gave you a perfect example of men fighting back back firing, Henry Cavil.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:06 PM
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This sub is really becoming TwoX... LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:35 PM
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The fuck kind of porn you watch... LOL. Also, women are always the victims, huh?...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:28 PM
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This sub has definitely changed... LMAO Also, the definition of the male gaze is, though I will say if you think the definition is “male sexuality in general”, I’ll need you to do more research cause you’re way off. ^ Just be an adult and say it with your chest!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:59 AM
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LMAO The idea that there aren't assholes whose entire life revolves around them being abusive is childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:49 AM
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Where the fuck did he mention "morbidly obese women"?... It was you who brought them up LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:28 AM
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Show me how it is working. If not, then I rest my case. The birth rates, marriage rates, single men numbers, etc. are facts that support my argument. What supports yours?...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:26 AM
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Cool. If we are about to start creating a society where "because I wanted to" is enough of a reason to do anything, then I don't want any of you complaining about politicians and billionaires doing what they want. After all, they are doing it because they "want to." "Society" and "individualism" are antithetical to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:25 AM
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Yeah, because your way of thinking is clearly working /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:10 AM
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LMAO He is right. Your mentality is what is killing society. But whatever. I know that many women don't really care how they affect society as a whole, to begin with, This new "individualism" that they have will be the end of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:06 AM
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Yeah, because women are sooooo perfect /s LOL I swear some of you don't hear yourselves before you say stupid shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:03 AM
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Women’s hierarchies are much more personality based that ties into certain qualities, ^ "Women are wonderful" in full effect right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:56 AM
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What a way to twist what I said just so you can avoid the matter at hand. Such a childish response...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:54 AM
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Women who think like that are the most arrogant, self-absorbed, mfs. How the hell are you even comparing average men to morbidly obese women?... What kind of disgusting logic is that?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:31 AM
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-_- Childish
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:30 AM
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<image> I don't ever want to hear any of you fuckers say "I do not hate men" LMAO. A college professor?... Yet, "colleges do not discriminate men!"? Kiss my ass!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:21 AM
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Who? Jesus? Where in the bible does he even say "born-again virgin"?... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:14 AM
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well, maybe men should be kept in zoos What a fucking disgusting and putrid thing to say... And you are a professor!?... Yeah, now I understand why Trump wants to destroy the department of education... I cannot blame him... A professor who hates theirs students because of their sex?... And people support that bullshit!? You deserve to be in a fucking zoo, fucking idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:09 AM
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^ If "white knight" had a definition, your name would be it LMAO. Damn... That is truly pathetic...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:07 AM
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^ If "white knight" had a definition, your name would be it LMAO. Damn... That is truly pathetic...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:07 AM
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It does seem like the more guys made masculinity central to your identity, the less you had room to focus on going forward and being a whole human being. ^ LMAO And women in this sub love to claim they don't hate men, huh...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:04 AM
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It does seem like the more guys made masculinity central to your identity, the less you had room to focus on going forward and being a whole human being. ^ LMAO And women in this sub love to claim they don't hate men, huh...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:04 AM
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LMAO Those numbers rely heavily on couples from a completely different generation. I really wish we could go 10 years into the future so that you finally realize how fucked up it really is nowadays...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:58 AM
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I'm pretty sure that if any man cannot get sex, then they also cannot get relationships. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:54 AM
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LMAO You find any and every way to justify women's actions, huh?... I guess you are just another misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:54 PM
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LMAO I literally answered your question, now that I think about it...: he is not really that attractive or she doesn't love him that much ^ But sure, continue arguing in bad faith. That shows you lost the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:57 PM
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You tell me. Women change a lot when it comes to their views on sex or relationships. It wasn't men who created the term "born again virgin," for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:54 PM
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Because men are way more open minded, even when they are older, than women. It is not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:51 PM
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For example when they complain that "she had anal with her ex but won't do it with me". If she doesn't want to repeat the sex act it's because she didn't like it. So it's kind of creepy for guys to want to do anal with her anyway. You seriously fucking believe that it is a one off?... LOL You are giving women a lot of benefit of the doubt. Most often than not, it is when she had done it multiple times across a long period of time, then she suddenly stops when she is with you. That shit is pathet…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:50 PM
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Maybe we could use a few less people on this planet. ^ I knew it! I knew there was something wrong with the comments you were making... I just couldn't put my finger on it. Now, I know I was right. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:11 AM
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people with fwb or casual sex ^ You seriously think most young men do that?... Isn't the amount of virgins in the younger demographic of men also increasing?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:07 AM
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Those are a lot of ifs... Also, everything in that, very specific, scenario depends more on luck than on morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:04 AM
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I doubt this idea your proposing takes hold, though. The indoctrination of young men, from single mother homes to K-12 education to media, is pretty good at creating white knights. God... I have never seen so much truth in 2 sentences in my life...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:58 AM
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The mods removing his comment is very telling... Something wrong is going on in this sub...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:46 AM
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^ The irony of claiming someone else has bad grammar and sentence structure, while showing exactly that same thing in a response is hilarious. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:33 AM
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What the fuck is happening to this sub?... Where did all these white knights come from!?...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:27 AM
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Which can actually increase your odds of having a successful relationship. ^ This sub loves lying, huh?... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:18 AM
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This is the most white knighting I have seen in this sub this year... Jesus...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:16 AM
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^ Now I'm convinced. Women do not love anyone, nor anything really, but themselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:12 PM
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So... a regular modern woman?... LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:03 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:20 AM
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No, you wouldn't love your son in the original scenario. You love your dumb ideology. Be honest for one fucking second!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:01 AM
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^ The irony
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:50 PM
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LMAO Women demonize incels as the unforgiveable scum of earth. So now he can "change" because he is your son?...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:44 PM
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You're changing the scenarios to fit your narrative. Answer the question or don't. Don't waste OP's time!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:40 PM
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That's such a disgusting thing to say!... Jesus...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:39 PM
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No, it is because he is unhappy in B. You chose your views over his happiness. That's what the OP is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:33 PM
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Don't ever have sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:32 PM
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By women LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:27 PM
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You're making another assumption within your logic. The assumption that all men are sexist. Don't you see the problem with that?... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:22 PM
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Please, don't ever have sons! They do not live for you!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:21 PM
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Yes, it is. LMAO In what world will attractive guys ever loose?... 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:17 PM
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"Perhaps I think better of men than you, I don’t believe most men are out to hurt others. " ^ What!?... HAHAHAHAHA. Don't make us laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:57 PM
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^ Jesus... Christ... This is such a biased and wrong response... Damn!...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:46 PM
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Also I think purposefully not trying to get in a relationship will not make it more likely that one will happen. ^ She probably is from the group of people (mostly women, really. I think you know why...) who believe in the "it'll happen when you least expect it!" LOL. That clearly is such a stupid, childish, and untrue statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:39 AM
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That's a conversation many don't want to have. As with many "movements," they hide their real thoughts and goals behind the more digestible and acceptable slogan... I completely agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:37 AM
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^ LOL I just love how women brag about their "perfect" relationships here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:58 PM
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Because she is clearly conflating many subgroups of men. And clearly, that is just wrong to do. Any assumption that follows from such logic is going to be wrong by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:29 PM
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Children, who will never be yours, certainly are. They and their mother can tell you "you are not the/my dad!" whenever they feel like it. You are never really a part of the family completely, regardless of what anybody else says. Also, if you don't have kids yourself, you will definitely bear the responsibility to pay for them and take care of them LOL. Believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:05 AM
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If you truly believe men are such monsters who will start raping women in masse out of nowhere, what makes you think that they will not go to female prisons to do it again?... LMAO The misandry a lot of you spout makes no sense whatsoever!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:23 PM
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... An abortion is not that... Are you serious?...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:17 PM
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Show me the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:14 PM
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Interesting... I have never seen a parade/protest against women for tricking them,,, Also, that is not the same thing as wanting more abortions/contraceptives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:13 PM
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How the hell does that even equate to this example?... Abortions are illegal in many places, and the argument that you are inflicting onto another person (the baby) is still there. Vasectomies affect only the man who gets it. Also, sperm can never create another human by itself. So, again, how the hell are these 2 arguments even close to be similar?... I think you are drowning in your hatred for men a little bit too much... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:11 PM
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“Fair” requires equal faculties and bodily harm. ^ That is simply not true. Also, I began my comment with saying that your definition of "fairness" is not the definition of everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:03 PM
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Then those men don't want contraceptives... How does that relate to the men who get it? Those men obviously wanted it if they were willing to get their penises cut open LOL. Those do not affect the others. It’s not fair that only men can get vasectomies!! ^ That is an entirely different argument. That is about fairness. I was talking about those who want to do something, will do it. Those who don't, most likely won't. I never talked about fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:40 PM
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Your definition of "fair" is different than other's, or many men's, to be honest. That was my point. Saying "childish concept of fair" is, ironically enough, childish in itself. If you truly believe that fairness can only be achieved when 2 things are equal (men and women in your example), then all this discussion about abortion and contraceptives are stupid to begin with. There is no such a thing about fairness when it comes to men and women if that were the case. And we should probably just ig…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:35 PM
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But who wants birth control/abortions more?... Feminists or men? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:26 PM
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There are literally people who stand outside abortion clinics and people fighting to have planned parenthood shut down but literally nobody rallying for better male birth control. Let me ask you this: do you think all those people you talk about are the same people (the ones against abortion and the ones who impregnate women and leave them)? Are they all men, or the same men?... You will be surprised to the answers to these 2 questions. Also, the abortion issue, which is really what this post is…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:26 PM
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I think you meant they aren't identical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:15 PM
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Says this: "childish concept of fair" While also crying and saying this: Men don’t care because they aren’t concerned about the physical consequences of pregnancy, childbirth, nursing, and being solely responsible for a child’s well being for 18+ years. ^ LMAO Either you care about fairness or you don't. Because as of now, you look like a hypocrite who spouts nothing but double standards and misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:05 PM
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That is mainly used as a counter argument against women who go mental and start crying/screaming for abortion (mainly feminists, to be honest). And not only that, it is mostly used after those same women mention the "patriarchy" or "men's oppression of women" during their rants. If a man wants to use contraceptives, he will use contraceptives. Yes, this includes vasectomies. What is the issue then? Well, a lot of men don't care about contraceptives, or the abortion topic itself. That's it. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:57 PM
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Interesting that you are equating "need" with "necessary to live." No one ever died from failure to fuck. ^ Men have killed themselves for it, and others... but that's beside the point. You are clearly wrong on this one. The only thing is that it is a minority of men. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:16 AM
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Man... Just change your pill color to blue already LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:12 AM
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try being hot ^ LMAO That was, ironically enough, funny as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:49 PM
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Why is MTG used as an example?... Aren't 40% of their players women?... LOL This is like using anime as an example. Where some anime have become mainstream, a lot of it is still considered weird or not interesting/boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:44 PM
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What man... compares sex to a hug?... LOL Also, why are you acting as if promiscuous women are such a small minority?...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:31 PM
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So your example is a man not being okay with dating a trans woman, and that not being okay with other women?... I swear this sub is becoming more stupid by the minute... Why the hell do people want to force straight men to like trans women this much?...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:29 PM
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Men are also to blame. It’s not entirely a woman’s faults. People need to express anger, if you internalise it you can end up with behaviours like self harm. You don’t need to relinquish accountability to express anger. Two things can exist side by side. ^ I don't necessarily disagree with expressing anger in words, rather than actions. All I'm saying is keep that same energy for both men and women. Also, my point was about believing men because they are attractive/hot to you. If we consider tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:20 PM
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Had you considered women are indeed blaming themselves, they’re just not saying it out loud to you? Why does it need to be stated directly to you? ^ Then why do women publicly blame men?... That is his point. DV includes the abuser blaming their victim for everything they should be accountable for. There is no way of knowing you are choosing the right person. You just can’t know. Abuse is insidious and happens gradually. Usually when people leave such relationships they carry a huge amount of sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:49 PM
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You clearly don't know how often men approach and why they do it... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:45 PM
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EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:41 PM
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It is because it is often used with an insult before it. Like this: It is so obvious why you guys cannot get women to like you... It is that disgusting and evil personality that repels them. I swear, if it doesn't work with my husband, perfect in every sense and the only exception [exaggerated to prove a point], then I will never get back to the dating scene. You guys are just so disgusting. See? It is often done like that. Also, it is often also used in a post of a man complaining of how dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:39 PM
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LOL What!?...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:07 AM
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LMAO Thinking nerds are casanovas is so out of touch with reality...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:05 AM
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Don't even bother. Just look at her other comments in this very thread. To her, if a man isn't getting women, he is evil and deserves what he is getting. There is no other explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:03 AM
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Yeah, she is so wrong, it is impressive she cannot even see it LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:57 AM
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"your body my choice" Not all men in the PPD are saying that stupid sentence. Not all of us even believe that. I think you are conflating 2 groups of men you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:43 AM
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