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Perhaps there's a less tactical reason. Maybe the lawyer needs to take leave or is dropping her as a client. Prepare for the worst, hope for the best.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 12:41 PM
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Women in society do nothing but boost each other's egos and lie about everything. They lie every time they put on makeup, are "just friends" with their ex, or fake an orgasm. They're raised with "princess" mentality and think they've earned everything when, more often than not, they're ungratefully leaching off any man they can.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 03:24 PM
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Because she's a woman and feels entitled. Plus, a woman is (traditionally) supposed to be the primary caregiver of children. Even if she isn't capable of doing it, it's an attack on her womanhood.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 11:23 PM
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Dating is a joke. Women aren't worth it. Enjoy single life.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 02:13 PM
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It's been over 5 years since, and I have no intention of having any more relationships. I'm all out of trust for people, regardless of gender. It's only a matter of time until you're betrayed.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 12:41 PM
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I was "jackass" in her phone. Don't know if I still am. Says more about her than me.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/23 11:45 PM
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Thinking with your dick is what got you in the marriage predicament in the first place, no?
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 04:29 PM
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My ex is bipolar. Had a diagnosis. Had proof of her bad behavior. (Leaving my 6 year old home alone, driving with suspended license, perjury, etc.) The courts DO NOT CARE. They will bend over backward for the mother, danger be damned. There is no focus on PREVENTING disaster. The justice system is reactionary. That doesn't mean you shouldn't try everything you can. Hell, maybe you'll get lucky. Welcome to family court.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 11:13 AM
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Yeah, I've learned long ago that the number of tattoos/piercings/etc correlates to the severity of the mental illness. Look at any porn that would be deemed "rough", with women being used and humiliated, they're covered in tattoos. It's not a coincidence. This trend of people opting for these "alternative treatments" for mental health issues is ridiculous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/23 09:59 PM
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Ended up doing a little Easter egg hunt and visiting family. I don't usually have my kids on Easter and don't really celebrate it myself. Even on weekends that I had them, she'd take them for Easter Sunday. This year my daughter told my ex spent her money on a "St. Patrick's Day party" so, yeah... I'll read between the lines on that one.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 10:46 PM
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Women will make up any excuse, whether there's truth behind it or it's a complete fabrication, in an attempt to blame the man for everything. They'll make mountains out of molehills and hold grudges for stupid, meaningless shit from years ago. All of this is to convince their entitled selves that they deserve better because social media has warped women's perspectives and given them inflated egos.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 10:37 PM
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It's important to be able to co-parent effectively and respectfully. There will be times when, whether you like it or not, you'll have shit happen to you and need her help. (I just changed jobs and needed my ex to help with a couple of school pickups. She did the same a few months prior.) You have to squash the negativity and work as a team for yourselves and your kids. What impacts her affects the kids, both good and bad, don't forget that. They'll notice her stress, she might take out her frus…
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/23 01:31 AM
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Modern feminism has become misandry. There's rotten apples in every group. The difference is that men will publically condemn misogyny. But women won't acknowledge misandry and, in fact, seem like they're promoting it. Just like politics, there's no winning. I'm just sick of being demonized for no reason.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 01:29 AM
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Remember: Questioning or contradicting what women say, regardless of the fallacies they may expose or facts you may assert, makes you a misogynist. Also, if that blog post was about men instead of women, it would be labeled "misogynistic".
/r/PussyPassDenied06/03/23 02:06 PM
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The "go girl" support exacerbates issues exponentially. The echo chamber of ego generated is impossible to fight.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 01:53 PM
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You know what the hell is going on. Do you just need a push? Okay, you're a fool. She's playing you like a fiddle. Move on.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/23 11:26 AM
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Careful. I thought I wanted just sex before, but I ended up wanting more. It's a slippery slope.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 11:47 PM
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Divorce is reality. Everything that I was raised to believe about love and marriage was a lie. The only person who really cares about you is you and not anybody else. After having my parents lie, gaslight, and manipulate me, finding love gave me respite. Then my love did the same to me. Combined with the overall shit state of the world, I'm just done with people. I'm just going through the paces until I die.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 04:34 PM
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It's been over 5 years, and I have no interest in dating. I've tried, and I even have a FWB thing going, but dating just feels like too much effort. It almost feels like narcissism is a feminine trait at this point. Every woman covered with tattoos or has more than one color of hair is immediately deemed mentally ill in my mind. The funny thing is I've never been happier. I can play video games when I want and have been able to catch up on a lot I missed. I can watch what I want without trying t…
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 04:06 PM
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This would require women thinking from a different perspective. They can't fathom their worth being any less than the height they've inflated it to. They've collectively huddled around on social media, cheering each other on in an echo chamber. When reality is cruel and they don't get their way, they return to social media to be assured it wasn't anything they did. That they're perfect and right, and they can do no wrong. Doing the same thing repeatedly, but expecting a different outcome is fool…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/23 02:27 PM
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Unfortunately, as others have said, the law doesn't give a shit about prevention. You'll have to wait until your kids are abused, and you'll have to have proof of that abuse, too, before the law will step in.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 12:04 AM
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Not only a PI and stuff like everyone said, (obviously, there's something to hide if they're that secretive), but amend the parenting agreement to include conditions around new partners like meeting them first.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/23 08:33 PM
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There is no rationalizing with a woman in this situation.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/23 02:21 PM
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Judges don't take kindly to being lied to.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 12:45 PM
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But women don't actually want equality...
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/22 01:49 PM
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Didn't help me, even with kids and her new boyfriend with felony assault charges. Broken system.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 02:39 PM
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She had undiagnosed bipolar and a series of events triggered a severe manic episode. Drug abuse, cheating, etc. I read a lot of stories and behaviors in this sub that track with bipolar symptoms. I'm sure many are in the same boat as me and don't even realize it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 02:06 PM
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Your kids will come to resent her in time.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/22 09:17 PM
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She wouldn't reciprocate, and neither should you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/22 06:12 PM
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If I learned anything from this sub, it is that if roles were reversed, she would've brought two dudes home and not given a fuck about you or your feelings about it. You made the right choices, OP.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 12:49 PM
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I'm 5 years divorced from a similar situation, (bipolar), so I'll put it simply... Plan for divorce: document everything from txts to social media, separate your finances, and do not move out of your home. 99% of the time there's nothing you can do for them, especially without proper hospitalization, diagnosis, and medication. At this point, the person you know is probably gone. Forget "playing nice" because you're seen as the enemy. Any sense you try to talk into her will result in her hating y…
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 07:29 PM
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Do a background check on the guy. You want to know who your kids are being exposed to, even if you can't do much about it.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/22 11:40 PM
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I'm choosing to imagine the chair looks like this and you took it out of spite. lol https://www.amazon.com/AWESOMETIVITY-AfterDark-Magical-Wand-Chair/dp/B07PQ9QCM3
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/22 05:06 AM
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Where do I find the women offering pussy? The only thing I've seen offered is debt, kids that aren't mine, and narcissistic attitudes.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/22 02:57 PM
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This happens so frequently I can't help but wonder how effective it is. I find it hard to believe anyone catfished like this would bother to follow and harder to believe it's worth the cunt's time to go through this effort.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/22 04:29 PM
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You both make over 200k each but you're both dumb as fucking bricks. How? Why?
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/22 08:13 PM
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36 here. I tried dating, which led me to a long-term FWB situation. I learned I'm not a ONS guy and after being burned by everyone I've loved, (not just my ex-wife), I'm basically done with people in general. Order takeout, play video games, watch movies and TV... That's basically my free time with occasional friend hangouts and sex until this FWB thing runs it's course. The only one you can really trust and rely on in life is yourself. Took me over 30 years to figure out that lesson.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/22 03:45 PM
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It feels good to hear it out loud with such fervor.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/22 06:40 AM
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When she's spiraling out of control and you're trying your best to help her... "You're controlling!"
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/22 03:39 PM
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His looks, fame, and money make up for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 04:33 PM
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If men had a weird, biological condition that caused them to gradually shrink to below 6ft in height by the time they hit 25 women would be DCaprio-ing dudes left and right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 03:27 PM
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For some time I would say I'd never marry again, but I don't usually like to deal in absolutes. If I ever felt the inclination, and that's a big "if", they can expect a prenump, separate finances, etc. I've learned from my mistakes. The only person you can depend on and trust in this world is yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/22 03:02 AM
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Masculinity =/= Courage Yes, the cops were cowards. Cops, fire fighters, military, etc. all need the ability to push past the fear and overcome the barrier that blocks most other people. This is true whether you're a man or otherwise. These cops all lacked that. They were not fit for the job and should all be replaced with courageous people regardless of gender. Despite a lot the article being crap, I do agree with the current state of today's women... "Trained from childhood to be entitled and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/22 05:51 AM
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My ex posted pictures on Facebook with her new boyfriend before anything was even filed and before unfriending/blocking any of my family or friends. Be happy you have some control of how the information gets out.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/22 05:58 PM
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I offered for my ex to have the kids today and she passed. Evil has many faces.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 03:53 PM
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Bitch already took more than she deserved. No way would I would voluntarily give her more.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/22 11:56 AM
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I want to believe, but I need a legit source.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/03/22 02:48 PM
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You're being gaslit bro.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/22 02:40 PM
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Decided to get snipped after a date eluded to enjoying getting creampied and assured me she was on birth control. Noped out of there as gracefully as I could. Sorry, I'm done trusting women. Anyone really.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/22 03:37 PM
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It can be seen negatively as misogynistic or it can be seen positively as a caution. I fall into the latter for reasons such as: personal experience, corroborating information from others, and the fact that when the concept(s) are gender-swapped it becomes not only okay but considered empowering by women. At the end of the day, regardless of gender, race, class, or whatever, some people are just assholes. I think a lot of red-pill style thinking makes it difficult to want a new relationship, esp…
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/22 05:59 PM
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My "man cave" became a "man house". Meanwhile, her 3 bedroom apartment in the ghetto became a 4 bedroom because she got knocked up and they decided to repurpose their living room. We're both living our best lives! 🥳
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/21 05:37 PM
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Document everything for ammo in court.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/21 02:43 PM
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$10k is fucking peanuts dude.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/21 02:04 PM
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My ex got knocked up! sad trombone lol
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/21 03:40 AM
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"lingual intercourse" this guy talks
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/21 09:42 PM
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My ex, basically verbatim. Staying single until I'm dead now. Won't be fooled twice.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/21 03:13 PM
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Could be a legit mental illness...
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/21 05:34 PM
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Civ mods are getting creative nowadays...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 03:36 PM
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🎶 Bailout beluga you're too good for me, Loves tattoos and astrology, Must be 6 foot, not an inch below, And wealthy and fit to spoil this ho, Bailout beluga, bailout beluga, Life is a shitstorm, Luck stay at home mom of 5 babies...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 02:51 PM
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Yes. At the very least stop after first born because my second born is a problem child.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/21 11:56 AM
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Can't wait for facial recognition to link porn with social media. It'll be so amusing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/21 06:28 AM
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My ex is diagnosed with bipolar. She refuses to accept the diagnosis, (as most do), yet she still provided evidence of her diagnosis to the court. Go figure.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/20 12:12 AM
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Called the police on herself? Sounds like she needs inpatient mental health care. Don't be around her again without someone else with you or having it recorded.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/20 07:30 PM
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It blows my mind that it became this way in the first place. Women are so great at playing the victim that the justice system just bends over for them. Even I was blind to it until I was thrown into it myself. They all make it seem like they're heroes, but behind most single moms is a dad who's not just barred from seeing his own kids, but forced to pay more than he can afford in support and alimony. Nobody cares about injustice towards men though.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/20 03:11 PM
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I'd sooner live on the street than live with my ex.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/20 04:24 AM
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I can relate. The stress and anger, worry and concern, everything that comes from feeling forced to have your child in potentially dangerous situations with people. People who, parent or not, clearly have issues with mental health, addiction, etc. The justice system is horribly broken and they would rather deal with the aftermath than put effort towards preventing tragedies. Two kids on my end. My ex is bipolar and her boyfriend basically got away with murder. While I hate thinking this way, I c…
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/20 06:03 AM
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Your lawyer sucks. Get a new one. It stinks, but keep paying her and the bills. Keep track of everything, especially her refusals to pay. Present it to the court and make her look like the piece of shit she is. You should get the bill money back and with any luck end the temporary support.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/20 01:17 PM
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Wow, certainly sounds familiar, down to the financial irresponsibility. There must be something you can do legally concerning some aspects. Unfortunately, at least in my experience, court is often dismissive of mental health issues. If there's no open dialogue there's nothing you can do. Even if you could talk to him, any discussion involving mental health issues would likely erupt into denial, aggression, and ghosting. You can check out the BipolarSOs subreddit to feel a little less alone. I'm …
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/20 03:57 PM
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It could last months, but in the end nothing would likely change as you said. My ex is bipolar, so I can only speak in regards to that. It could certainly be something else, a mix of things, or even nothing and he's an asshole. In my situation everything felt rather abrupt though she made it seem like it was on the table for years. She was loving and caring and then suddenly I was less than nothing to her. She surrounded herself with people that wouldn't question her decisions and cut ties with …
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/20 02:55 PM
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It's easy to jump on the hate wagon, but this has echos of mental health issues. Without knowing the details of him and his behavior it's easy to assume he's just an asshole. From what I read this could probably pass for a bipolar manic episode.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/20 06:11 AM
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I switched midway and it was definitely for the best. She came highly recommended and was very experienced, but when we went before the judge it was a disaster. She seemed as prepared for it as if I had rattled off an explanation of the situation 20 minutes prior and continued to put focus on all the less important aspects of my case. If you have any doubts at all, just move on to someone else and don't look back. Just make sure you secure any documentation as well. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/20 10:58 PM
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When you're young, dumb, and full of cum, all the red flags just look like flags.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/20 02:34 AM
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I had a similar situation where my ex posted outings with the guy she was cheating on me with on Facebook. Not that I used Facebook, but she had blocked me anyway. However she didn't block, unfriend, or warn any of our friends or family. Bipolar is a hell of a disorder.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/20 04:48 AM
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Congratulations! Same happened to me! From me, a software engineer making 6 figures, to a janitor/maintenance guy living in a rooming house, no car, alcoholic, with felony assault charges. She wanted someone different, well, dude is an introvert like me and into similar stuff I am. She just gets to support him and see the kids half as much.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/20 01:06 PM
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Yeah, co-habitation is seriously a joke. The second she gets the incling she'll give herself a black eye, blame you, and walk away with everything. I had a nesting arrangement with mine and she didn't understand why I'd always have someone else along with me in the wings when we met for discussions. Sure enough, she eventually flipped out on me and got arrested for a minor assault on me. Banned from contact with me for months and banned from the house going on over 2 years now. She broke her vow…
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/20 12:29 PM
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Get proof of the cheating. Just because nothing is joint doesn't mean she can't/won't try to milk anything she can. Don't assume she won't, she obviously isn't the person you thought she was.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/20 12:38 PM
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She would not, could not, on your door. Unless you're at least 6'4". She would not if you don't buy dinner. She could not if you aren't thinner. Not until you own some boats. Not unless you'll buy fur coats. You need a sporty car to drive. You must accept her kids of five. She does not want a decent man. She does not want you Sam I Am.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/20 01:25 PM
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