TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

_wildflower Archive

View 3 posts and 25 comments by _wildflower on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
4

I love your thoughts on getting dressed up for other people but not your husband. I never thought about it that way. In my work I can wear whatever I want so it's usually leggings, a tunic, necklace and a cardigan. I did try this last night actually. I had the day off and naturally had on yoga pants and t-shirt and no makeup. He came over to watch a movie and I got completely ready down to wearing a dress and sweater (nothing fancy at all). Now I don't know if it was the outfit, but he was super…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 02:38 PM
2

I'm in a similar situation. I'm gone 8:30am-10pm. I just devote my days off to doing all the big cleaning and whatever else I think needs to be done. During the week I just make sure the dishes are clean and put away and my clothes are hung up or in the laundry and set everything else aside for an off day. On my "weekend" (actually the middle of the week) I get up with my boyfriend and make us coffee. When he leaves for work I get started on what I need to do. Starting early almost guarantees a …
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 02:23 PM
2

It's going to be a soup week and oatmeal week. I haven't had a day off in over 9 days so I've run out of food. Does anyone have any brands of soup or oatmeal that they actually feel good about eating? I about died this morning when I realized my little cup of oatmeal was 270 calories. I also hate all the preservatives but sometimes it has to happen.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 03:41 PM
1

Last month I wanted to: Exercise 3 times a week. This one I'm still working on. I've gotten up to 2 days. Pathetic I know, I'm just so tired when I set my alarm at night but I feel so guilty when I don't get up in the morning. Keeping up with my day planner. This one in still doing! Keeping my closet organized. I'm doing pretty good with this. This month I want to: Get up to exercise 3 times a week. I'm going to set one alarm for the whole week and not touch it. Clean out my closet at the end of…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 12:34 PM
1

SUCH a good idea. I'm going to try this too.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 12:27 PM
2

I wonder about this too sometimes. What does your SO do specifically that you think shows a lack of respect? The only time I can think of that my SO showed a complete lack of respect is when he told me to shut up. We were in a store and he needed to find a bathroom and I was telling him a story. He said, "shut up where is the bathroom" Now I wanted to lose it but I just pointed to where it was and he ran off. He knew I was mad because he text me while gone and apologized. While we were talking o…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/16 09:45 PM
2

A lot of people are addressing the clumsiness so I will give my advice on cursing and arguing. With cursing, watch any MTV show. Those girls on there? The ones that are yelling and cursing and being all around vulgar? Ask yourself if you want to be that. Whenever I go into a cursing streak I think that's what I look like. Not an attractive look. With arguing. I argued all the time when I was younger but what's the point? Are you solving the world's problems in that one argument? Likely not. I ch…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 12:49 PM
1

I recently saw a picture of myself at 22/23 the youthfulness is there and I think I looked better then, but on a very superficial level. I'm in my late 20s now and I would argue that the internal self improvement I've done, the confidence I've gained as I've gotten older, shows and I would argue that it makes me look better now. I just look more comfortable with myself. I'm not saying I look old with wisdom or anything, just different. Personality wise, I am much better now than I was then. In t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 12:33 PM
3

For last week's challenge I tried nonverbally hinting at sex. Wearing no undies when I got into bed or keeping my hair down when I got into bed instead of putting it up into a bun. I would do this and then just go about my business and it worked! I think he liked the tease. This week. Water--EASY. I drink 2 liters a day. I just love water. It's either that or coffee everyday. Move--I'm continuing to work on it. I hate exercise more than anything in this world but I just keep reminding myself tha…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 12:49 PM
1

My ultimate goal is to be a SAHW or SAHM. I want a lot of land and a yard full of wild flowers. I want to cook, bake, do crafts, and keep the house looking nice without having to strategize maximizing all the hours in the day like I do when I work. I'm in a relationship where I was very upfront with what I want for the future, and fortunately, I didn't get a negative reaction. Fingers crossed this will happen one day!
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 12:20 AM
5

I completely agree with your thoughts on women looking tired/being too tired to keep themselves looking good. I am one of those women, sadly. I am 1000% happier when I'm not working and it shows.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 12:14 AM
1

With your degree I completely recommend teaching. Or tutoring. I'm not sure where you are located but growing up I had tutors and so did my friends. Parents will invest in and shell out major cash to tutors that are clicking with their kid. And you are doing really rewarding work!
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 01:04 PM
2

Like the other posters, I do not have cable either. I have all of the tv streaming services and I don't think I'll ever be able to give those up. Hulu is the greatest thing. I was never into Facebook and deleted mine about 5 years ago. I've never been the type of person who cared about what's going on in other people's lives. When it comes to my family, I want to hear their stories and experiences face to face when I see them so we have stuff to talk about. I deleted my twitter and I'm about to …
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 12:55 PM
1

I don't think I've told him that I have been seriously thinking about it. One option, and the best one as of now, would be to work in the same field but in an office. Offices works more along a 9-5 and have weekends off...something I haven't had in three years. There are some companies based in my city. I'm thinking of sending my resume out to them at the start of new year, when my current project is over. If I'm financially smart I can do job searching until the spring. I would be shocked if he…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/16 08:32 PM
1

Oh my that is hilarious!! I can definitely see myself doing that. Also, congrats on the little one!
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 11:17 PM
1

This is exactly what I need this week! I've been pretty irritable. I'm starting a new job in a few days and the nerves are getting the better of me. My SO hasn't been doing anything out of the ordinary but I've been so on edge that little things are irking me. I'm going to try and focus my energy elsewhere and continue being the happy girl I typically am.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 09:57 PM
1

That cake sounds delicious! Were you happy with the way it turned out? I haven't tried making black bean desserts before. My mom has and I've never been dying for seconds. If you liked yours, would you mind sharing the recipe?
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 10:02 PM
2

I have three goals. 1) I will walk three days a week for 30-45 minutes. I know this isn't a lot but I'm starting a new job and I'm not sure how my schedule will work out. I'm sure I can fit in three days. 2) I will keep my closet organized and continue flipping the hangers on clothes I've worn. Hopefully by the end of September when I'm switching out my summer clothes I will have a pile to donate. 3) I will continue to use my day planner. So far I have 1.5 weeks down and I am loving it! I even p…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 03:54 PM
7

I've started cooking dinner and weekend breakfast for us. It's an all around win because we are saving money, eating better, and my bf is SO appreciative. Says thank you multiple times during meals. And with breakfast it's making us get up at a decent time so we are more active during the day. I genuinely enjoy it because I'm learning new skills, building my recipe book, and it makes him so happy. He was actually bragging to his mom about how great my cooking is!
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/16 08:42 PM
–

I recently was in Europe working for a few months. My situation was a little different because I had an end date but those few months apart were so difficult but also great for our relationship. We decided before I left that he would not come visit. A ticket round trip would cost thousands. We agreed that putting the money towards taking a trip together when I got back worked better. So a lot of our conversations revolved around planning a trip. Now that I'm back we haven't taken a trip, but it …
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/16 08:32 PM
2

Thanks for the hello and advice! No, there isn't a religious or cultural reason for not moving in together. My end goal is marriage and I feel that moving in without being engaged will delay that. Although from the advice I see that's given to other posters on this subject, it sounds like men would be fine with not moving in and giving up their personal space. I guess I should change my thinking. I do like the way it is phrased in another reply: rather than tell him I want to be engaged when mov…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 07:42 PM
1

Thank you for your ideas on indications of interest! I just can't wait until I see him at the airport. I'm definitely one of the less openly affectionate readers and overall a cautious person when it comes to my feelings. I'm going to work on my body language. I'll keep you posted :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 07:22 PM
1

Thank you! I agree he is very receptive. He typically is the one bringing up the plans. I try not to live in fantasy land and share it all with him. For instance we saw this really adorable house that we both like. We talked about what we would do to fix it up. He says we should just buy it. I feel like that is my moment to have a talk but I just...don't. I think part of me thinks maybe his isn't serious? Would that be an appropriate time to say something?
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 08:22 AM
1

Thank you for your response! I definitely didn't see it as me asking him if he wants to propose to me is me proposing to him. The 6 months is a good time frame to work with. That will be right around the time I have to either renew my lease or find a new place. I like your phrasing of living with someone when we both know we want to build a life together versus being engaged. I'll have remember to use that.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 08:14 AM
1

I was in a similar situation about a year ago and it went on for about a year or so. The guy was a friend of my best friend. He was very alpha and I was incredibly attracted to him. We would hang out socially and initially nothing ever happened between us. Then, like it's so easy to do, we would hang out more and more without our mutual friend. We would have lengthly text conversations and eventually started hooking up. I became the plate because I never asked for anything different. Because I d…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 07:25 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter