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| – | Alternative hypothesisYup, something like that | /r/askMRP | 10/06/17 04:49 PM |
| – | Alternative hypothesisShe has been ignoring me sexually. Interestingly, she's been ignoring me more since I started lifting, dropped bf% considerably, started doing sports etc. And then these thongs on the GNO... It's like she's saying "no mater what you do, no mater how good you are, you will never get what you want from me". Implying: get it somewhere else. But of course if I do, she'll run home crying what kind of bastard I am, and everyone will back her up; she could spin this against me with the kids "daddy deci… | /r/askMRP | 10/06/17 03:28 PM |
| – | Alternative hypothesisIt's not her I care about. It's the kids. She wants to take them with her, that's her laverage. | /r/askMRP | 10/06/17 08:29 AM |
| – | Alternative hypothesisHer chad is her home. Spot on. She's not even denying it, it's just that i never put 2+2 together. I have offered her to go (not even long ago), but the kids stay with me. No, she would go and take the kids. Well no, while I have no problem with her leaving, I don't give her the kids. So it is not at all about oneitis. She is kinda pressuring me to do a "mistake" - just so she could get the kids. | /r/askMRP | 10/06/17 08:26 AM |
| – | Sure, I'll be the idiot who will support you, entertain you, only so you ignore me and dress sexy for other menWhy would I want to talk to a woman?? It's not like I could have a reasonable, logical discussion with her. Her behavior shows exactly where her motivation and priorities are. The record from her side has been set straight. And no, I dont buy it how it is everything on me. Yes, I have my weaknesses, but for some ladies even chad is not good enough. I mean, look at how melania slapped Trump in public. That is some unacceptable shit. | /r/askMRP | 08/06/17 09:03 PM |
| – | Sure, I'll be the idiot who will support you, entertain you, only so you ignore me and dress sexy for other menAnd if I do nothing she's gonna continue playing me. | /r/askMRP | 08/06/17 08:14 PM |
| – | Sure, I'll be the idiot who will support you, entertain you, only so you ignore me and dress sexy for other menFuck, I cant punish her without bringing the kids in the middle of it, can I? Meaning she has a certain position pf power over me, because she knows I cant punish her without being an ass to the kids. What can I do then?! On the topic of panties, arent you negating yourself a bit? And btw, why would a woman wear thongs, if noone ia to see them, and only under very special circumstances. | /r/askMRP | 08/06/17 07:41 PM |
| – | Sure, I'll be the idiot who will support you, entertain you, only so you ignore me and dress sexy for other menYes, right now I am unatractive. I admit, I am shattered inside. I STFU to minimise damage. Interesting, I thought IDGAF, but she got me. We just spent a great weekend and then this? Shit test? Well, ok, I could handle it with better style. I failed that part. But I won't fail the part toleraring this shit. | /r/askMRP | 08/06/17 04:18 PM |
| – | Broke frame. Dunno where to go from here.I am only getting older for one thing. I am middle aged, fuck it. Balancing between work, family and fun I've made progress with my body, and there are results (all male friends froum our group envy me and ask for advice), but I am not gaining much. I also do some sports with my daughter which are not muscle building, but they are our joint activity. Got promoted in job, and unless I accept additional considerable stress, I am close to the max (I earn good money). I am not fun. Too late to chang… | /r/askMRP | 08/06/17 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Why get married?In my country, after a certain period of living together, the relationship is equal to marriage before the law. Even though the constitution says one can only get married in front of a registrar. Fuck that. | /r/askMRP | 14/04/17 07:40 PM |
| – | What do you do when you have an eight month old and can't just leave the house to lift/hobby when you're turned down for sex?Something doesn't add up here... So you initiated, she said no, and if you leave you will "not pay attention to your son". So what was the plan if she said yes? Who's paying attention to the son then...? PS: birth, breastfeeding and lack of sleep change the circumstances... a lot! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/17 12:33 PM |
| – | [Married Game] If you're not flirting with/gaming your wife, you deserve celibacy (looking at you intermediate MRPs).It's hard to be fun with somebody who shows no effort and wears granny panties. It's like dance. You need fedback, it gets both ways. If the other person does not provide reaction... there is no incentive for fun and flirting behaviour. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/02/17 08:50 PM |
| – | Covert Comtract or Fucking Do BetterLOL yes. I manage business in terms of millions, and everything is abbreviated to M or K. Hence triple-K :) | /r/askMRP | 13/02/17 05:28 PM |
| – | Covert Comtract or Fucking Do BetterTransform from "dad body" to lean muscle. Triple digit salary. Engaging with kids (and family) in sports and activities. Implementing kino. Increasing dread. Still mostly got negative feedback from her how bat it all is for her. I ignore that shit, but it really kills the mood to the point I feel repulsed by her. Still, she is NOT attracted to me. Not sure if she ever will, tbh. | /r/askMRP | 13/02/17 01:07 PM |
| – | Covert Comtract or Fucking Do BetterAs much as people would criticise you, I feel your pain. AWALT, but all women are different as well. I had a GF a long time ago who was over the top sexual. She was keen on experimenting and really loved sex. Of course she loved it so much that she had it with other man (or men) and we ended it there. My LTR is on completely different side of the spectrum. Through the day sex is simply not in her mind. She wears granny panties and PJs etc. I've improved a lot, but she has yet to follow. So dunno… | /r/askMRP | 13/02/17 11:12 AM |
| 1 | feminism and my marriageAt one point she said "don't worry, it is a man flying this airplane" | /r/askMRP | 13/02/17 07:59 AM |
| – | feminism and my marriageFeminism is getting out of hand https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpFB9Sjj6ow | /r/askMRP | 12/02/17 09:08 PM |
| – | What's a guys equivalent to dressing slutty (or rather, to be noticed)Uh... tapered pants as defined by the urban dictionary?? What? That's terrible! http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=tapered%20pants | /r/askMRP | 10/02/17 09:03 AM |
| – | What's a guys equivalent to dressing slutty (or rather, to be noticed)This is a VERY insightful analysis, thank you. | /r/askMRP | 10/02/17 08:57 AM |
| 1 | What's a guys equivalent to dressing slutty (or rather, to be noticed)Picard | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 11:15 PM |
| 3 | What's a guys equivalent to dressing slutty (or rather, to be noticed)I'm not sure on that t-shirt vs polo. Polos are so... normal and boring. I used to have these tight,slim fit t-shirts which really stressed the body shape and masculinity. If that's inapropriate, a shirt is better than polo. | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys even miss your LTR/Wife when you're apart? How do you deal with LTR neediness?He he, good one. No I never sit at the hotel. And this time around I actually did some new things, was good! | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 03:36 PM |
| – | Do you guys even miss your LTR/Wife when you're apart? How do you deal with LTR neediness?If I'm traveling, frankly I don't miss neither the LTR nor the kids. There's usually so much going on there is no time to miss them. If I'm home alone and they visit their grandparents, then I do start to miss them, the kids more so. | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 06:06 AM |
| – | [Urgent] Wife moving in. How to reset the relationship?How dumb are you. She is not even moving in with you. She's moving because of you? Yes, that's why she is staying in the company appartment. I think you need a lawyer. | /r/askMRP | 07/02/17 06:47 AM |
| – | So pissed off. desperate for advice, Cant take the fights anymore.How does one end up like you? I really only saw it once, in the USA no less... I was camping there and there was a family tenting nearby. It was incredible. Her first words in the morning and last in the evening were along the lines "you piece of shit, you waste of time". All day long. Unprovoked, at all. Dude was having a breakfast, she comes out of tent, "you piece of shit, you xyz". In front of the kids and everyone else. You know what was the most fucked up? His son. Somehow, the daughter ha… | /r/askMRP | 05/02/17 10:09 PM |
| – | A different opinion on marriage and the red pillI personally do not think you should need to be jacked just to get your bitch wife to fuck you. So long as you are in reasonable shape (and this would include having a dad bod in your 40s), and she is not 2-3 points above you in SMV, you have every right to expect sex. Yeah, I stopped reading here. Right? What right would that be? I mean, sure maybe you have the "right" but no wife has an obligation. Big difference. You know, I had been bombarded by images of hot chicks in stockings and lingerie… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/02/17 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 31, 2017Fuck I dress like shit. I used to have this figured out, but now I'm... so fucking boring. I guess different occasions need different styles. Sharp for business. Cool for casual. I really need to improve this. Related: saving every last penny is boring. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/02/17 09:47 PM |
| – | Things to do on a business trip?Wait, you'd find somebody in a random city to rent you a guitar? No Craigslist where I am, so I dunno how that works... There are local adds pages, but I highly doubt anyone would browse a category for "guitar rent". | /r/askMRP | 05/02/17 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Things to do on a business trip?Will give it another shot, thanks. | /r/askMRP | 05/02/17 09:37 PM |
| – | Things to do on a business trip?United breaks guitars, don't you know? Seriously, I would love to have it here, but the trouble of bringing it over on a relativelly short trip.. no, just no. I'll consider dinner tomorrow. | /r/askMRP | 05/02/17 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Things to do on a business trip?That would be awesome and maybe I should have planned some time for myself and hiked. Damn, I fucked this up, hmm... next time. | /r/askMRP | 05/02/17 09:13 PM |
| – | Things to do on a business trip?Winter in the north really limits some options, and me being on keto the others. And I'm not big fan of food anyway, I don't get much out of it. It's food, that's about it. Hitting. Maybe. God I don't know where and how. Seems like a good challenge. | /r/askMRP | 05/02/17 09:12 PM |
| – | Things to do on a business trip?What would be the point of finding such woman? Other than seeking validation? I'm not ready to deal with the consequences of fucking another pussy, so what's the end game? | /r/askMRP | 05/02/17 01:51 PM |
| 1 | FR: either I'm on to something or screwing things up majestically, either way, IDGAFUgh... if anything I was worse, I think. An important detail is that the window of opportunity is very narrow in all the described cases. Like we are home alone for an hour and there's no time to spare... Or I just came home and she's getting ready to go out.. not much opportunity for kino and escalation. With two kids at home it's mostly like that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/01/17 07:04 PM |
| – | Struggling... N-CountYou've slept with one person because there is no way the person you were could have slept with more. The time lost is lost forever. Not all people get to experience all the awesome stuff. You think you have it bad to fuck one pussy? Well, there are children dying of cancer who have experienced much, much less than you have. The fact that you are bothered by her history shows some emotional immaturity. For that kind of thing therapy could help (but I would not recommend discussing TRP there, like… | /r/askMRP | 30/01/17 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Caught watching porn - Trust broken?What trust exactly would that be? Oh you mean, HER perfect world with a beta husband who provides and gets nothing in return AND who stupidly commited himself to her sexual mercy? Well good, that "perfect" world needs to burn down. Think about it man... think about who the fuck is she to "forbid" you something... anything really. Is she your mommy? Policeman? Is she your president? No, she's neither. Don't you see how submissive you are? How are you going to be the man if you let her set your li… | /r/askMRP | 29/01/17 06:58 PM |
| – | Couch is a fucking drugInterestingly, I was able to quit smoking the same way, a long time ago in my youth. The same with cutting sugar completely. I find it easier to cut specific thing as reduce it. Would be interesting to get rid of couch all together... | /r/askMRP | 28/01/17 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Couch is a fucking drugWise words... | /r/askMRP | 28/01/17 08:51 PM |
| 1 | FR: either I'm on to something or screwing things up majestically, either way, IDGAF"Wait, I can't like that" That describes it just perfectly! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/01/17 09:09 PM |
| – | FR: either I'm on to something or screwing things up majestically, either way, IDGAFTrue... I'm lacking ideas. Need to find new angles. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/01/17 08:32 PM |
| – | FR: either I'm on to something or screwing things up majestically, either way, IDGAFwell it could be handled better, sure... but really, for a split second when i said if she wants to suck my dick it looked like she was gonna do it... then in a second she was like "wait, i can't be doing this" and shut down. I guess with a better game i could do better. On the other hand, there is something about her absolutely resisting submission. I was not forcing her to do anything, I was really not touching her. The whole situation did however call her to submit. And that's something she r… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/01/17 08:32 PM |
| 1 | FR: either I'm on to something or screwing things up majestically, either way, IDGAFmy v-lines are showing and my shoulders are great, still working on those abs... and she notices all that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/01/17 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Just nuked my LTRFailed a shittest... why on earht do you care if she came or not... OI and DGAF apply here. | /r/askMRP | 27/01/17 10:37 AM |
| – | Shit Test/TantrumGo sleep in a hotel without telling here. When she calls in panic where you are "getting some rest which i need to win the customers" | /r/askMRP | 27/01/17 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Better than last night ;)I did not say anything but grinn. Even when she ran out. As i just commented to somebody else, she chilled quite quickly and it seemed as it sparked interest, dread and respect in her. | /r/askMRP | 27/01/17 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Better than last night ;)I had a narrow window of opportunity... i was working in a home office and kids were not at home. Went straight at it and faced resistance. The thing is, she was cool about it pretty soon. She made comments about it later on, bit more out of surpruse and amusement, no anger at all. Had i pushed so hard at my beta stage i'd have police at my back. So i don't consider it a failure. In a way it's raised the dread and respect if you know what i mean. | /r/askMRP | 27/01/17 08:51 AM |
| – | Why do women get angry when Betas tease vs when Alphas tease themAngelina? Aaggghhh, no, please no! | /r/askMRP | 27/01/17 08:39 AM |
| -1 | Questions about the dread levels in a LTRDo the others and 7 will come naturally. It will make you feel mich more alive and help you build abudance mentality. | /r/askMRP | 27/01/17 08:37 AM |
| – | Better than last night ;)I did carry her upstairs, throw her on the bed, start playing with her boobs... she was saying something about "you think you forcing me on the bed will make me wet!?". At that moment I should have ripped her pants off I guess. Instead I started playing some more and she literary ran out of bed, screaming. As I said, it seemed like a test... how far would I go... and I guess she likes it rough, but I'm not quite there yet. | /r/askMRP | 26/01/17 03:57 PM |
| – | Better than last night ;)Great! PS: I just failed doing the same. I'm sure chad would have succeeded. It almost felt as if she was just testing how far I would go. | /r/askMRP | 26/01/17 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Need a couple pieces of advice for some immediate help"Whine whine whine whine whine, she she she, whine whine whine, I need sex, send help" I mean, really? How about you? What would your wife tell about you? What would your daughter tell about you? What would a random 9/10 chick out there tell about you? Are you at 10% BF, funny, attractive, leading your family? Home fixed? Finances fixed? World doesn't owe you nothing, and nobody cares if you "need" sex. Rub one out for fucks sake. There are no easy paths here Superman. Take a year on improving y… | /r/askMRP | 24/01/17 09:36 PM |
| – | Wait a second... THOSE are shit tests!?worry not, that was no obligation sex but true tingles. | /r/askMRP | 17/01/17 12:40 PM |
| 7 | LTR and anxietyIf you were my son, I'd probably encourage you to get away from your LTR. You are not married. You have no obligation to suffer with her. It's hard and it sucks. But is it morally ok to waste two lives in one tragedy? | /r/askMRP | 16/01/17 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Dealing with the petulant denial of sexStart hanging out with people who you want to be like. It sucks, but at some point you will need to led go of your fat beta friends. You don't need to plan for it, it should just happen: hey, I'm going to do XYZ with my family, are you joining us? They won't because they don't have the energy. | /r/askMRP | 16/01/17 07:46 PM |
| – | Dealing with the petulant denial of sexIn those words...the "with you" part hung in the air like a toxic black cloud Auch. After a few seconds I just said "yeah that's what I figured." Uh oh... should have STFU man. Go somewhere to be alone if you need to, but really STFU. It was a shit test, and you failed it... because you are shit. However, my advice would be not to focus just on diet and lifting. I mean, keep the good work there, they are important. But do you have any good cards in your hands? Are you funny? Charming? What was i… | /r/askMRP | 16/01/17 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Wait a second... THOSE are shit tests!?I really think it's one of those things you need to experience to understand. Of course BP, fat and lazy me had no chance, and had he continued that would have been rape. You can't be shit and "fake it till you make it" pass a shit test. No. You need to first work fucking hard and improve. Then act accordingly. And it's way different then. Or, as people have figured it out about 50 shades of grey: if the guy lived in a trailer park it would be a f--king CSI episode. Same rules apply. | /r/askMRP | 15/01/17 09:38 PM |
| – | First post - seeking words of wisdomScheduled sex? IMO that's guarantee for 0 tingles, forget it. Look into kino. I've missed how important it was but have now started applying it. Kinda lightens up interaction and makes it more fun. Here's one of the tutorials, there should be plenty more. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Edh2GQHZmtI | /r/askMRP | 13/01/17 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How I am dealing with a fat wife. - followupshow her some progress pics at /r/keto | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/17 03:22 PM |
| – | Ashamed of my own betaness...Her: The food I gave you has enough proteins (or whatever). You should not put ketchup on it. | /r/askMRP | 11/01/17 10:26 AM |
| – | Ashamed of my own betaness...And I thought I had it rough.... Why is she preparing you dinner? Why does she need to take care about you getting enough protein? She's right on that and it's not her job. You let your mommy take care of you and then you whine that she won't fuck you. There are 5g of sugar in a teaspoon of ketchup. you really shouldn't eat that stuff, either. Check /r/keto , /r/intermittentfasting/ or /r/leangains. Choose your diet and own it. Don't let mommy take care of you, man up. | /r/askMRP | 11/01/17 07:45 AM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...Your marriage is sinking and you can't see it. I do. And sadly it's slightly better than it used to be. Sadly because it used to really, really suck. I sucked. Now I suck less. Apparently still too much. I don't think you have a clear vision in your own head of what you want your marriage to look like. True. Blue pill mentality is still with me. Fairplay. We are equal. Support my wife. All that crap. I don't dare to think how it could be and I have no clue on how to get there. | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 09:50 PM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...thanks. If you ALSO want to go see U2... then do that. By deciding not to do something because you think you might be entering her frame you have effectively entered her frame. Catch 22. Fuck. Damned if I do, damned if I don't. But if I start plans to go to u2 she'll be under impression she can get her way by disrespect to agreements. She doesn't know I might want to go, so if I don't in her percieved reality I might have a upper hand, no? you talked about bringing another girl but then went on … | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 09:44 PM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...it's extremely hard to not be but hurt and not try some kind of payback. She's squeezing my options between two dates now, which is not what i want to do. So if i plan with my wife, I'm totally in her frame. "Ah sure, let me cut my holidays short for a day so you can enjoy your concert with a friend"???? | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 09:39 PM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...You plan something, and expected something from her Not at all. She accepted, we had a plan. Only then U2 announced a tour and she cancelled me. I really expected nothing from her for accepting. Other than, well, respect the agreement. So, stop and think about that for a minute, and what does it say Yep. It certainly does, and you sure as shit know it. Yes. I'm quite clear on that. I'm shattered. But clear. What is plain, though, is that you're her second, no...not second...third or fourth choic… | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 09:36 PM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...I see. I totally misunderstood that then. The fact that blue pill me had been working over his head to create a safe heaven for his wife does not help me, at all. | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 09:27 PM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...Hm, ok, I see. I've been quite OI since and other than mentioning I'd take another girl I STFU. it's killing me on the inside now that I'm describing the whole shit though. To make things even better, there is the 3rd concert. It's end of summer and she goes with a girlfriend. Again she has not even asked me (which I see where it puts me, in a blue pill nanny for her kids). She assumes we'll be back from vacations till then. Well, I have not planned my summer yet. What's the game here? "You have… | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 09:25 PM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...Yes, I bought two tickets with the assumption she would go, too, because I know she likes the band. She accepted. If she didn't, I would have no problem, plenty of people would like to see the group. All is taken care of. She confirmed. Done deal. All concerts are happening months in the future, btw. Then u2 announces a tour and she just said "ohh... i won't go with you, I'd rather go see u2". I mean, fuck my life. | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 08:56 PM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...askMrp... so? Well yes, hence the title. Value of going to the concert with me is lower than going see Bono. Clearly she's dropping her panties and running to him. So what the fuck do I do here. This fucking hurts, because I thought I was on to something. Clearly, I was not. before you ask, no,I'm not fat. This was just a reaction, trying to dread her a bit. The concerts are happening in the future (months from now), so the act time will come. The idea was to change her mind with a dread. But cl… | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 08:51 PM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...All she wants is to see U2 Yeah, and I understand it. At if she communicated it in any normal way, I'd make a plan for us to see both. Yes, I am a bit butthurt. She canceled our plans with ease, she was not invested in it, at all. As I said, Chad is coming, his name is Bono. Would it be different if it was her sister? Ex boyfriend? | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 08:35 PM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...yeah and if I did I'd be puked all over due to "seeking validation". Interesting assumption that everyone is a fat sucker. I'm not. and I don't care if you believe it or not. | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 08:30 PM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...I've edited the text regarding the tickets under tree as it was not like I gave them to myself. Where the fuck are covert contracts here!? where?? I was telling her as I was buying the tickets, I invited her - she agreed. Then she canceled... I never expected sex in return. Where is a fucking covert contract here?? | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 08:28 PM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...ok, thank you But another question then.. how is hitting the gym (or going outside, anywhere, e.g. reading in your car) a dread response to refusal... and how is it any different than my manipulation. and what the fuck do i do with u2 | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 08:15 PM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...thank you | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 08:11 PM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...I have. As well as watched Blue Pill professor's videos. I really don't get it. Half the comment here are "don't give a shit, fuck other ladies if you want". Then a guy who's obviously lost at this tries, and there's no singe helpful comment. Just comments which are crafted in a way to make it seem as if there is another, better way, but it's "hidden in the sidebar". I'm starting to question if such "correct way" exists. If it did, it would be pretty easy for somebody to show it, rather than cre… | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 08:00 PM |
| – | Chad is coming to town...Am i at the wrong place? this was advertised as place for man to help other man, to exchange the experience etc. where do i find that place, then? | /r/askMRP | 10/01/17 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Decision timeHmm... to a degree I'm in a similar situation (moved to another country, wife could go back and take the kids with her). A month ago our relationship was really bad. I basically know she doesn't want to live with me in this country, and more, I'm pretty sure she doesn't want to live with me, at all. So far she has not pulled the trigger, but she could move back and take half of my salary and kids with her. Fuck this thing called "marriage". Anyway, then a week goes by and we fuck as rabbits, the… | /r/askMRP | 09/01/17 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Handling rejection late at night?I really can't decide if that were pure alpha or pure beta. It's all in the attitude I guess. | /r/askMRP | 09/01/17 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Because why can't we be the ones to laugh at subreddit drama too? Deadbedrooms and TBP get into a spat.Holy shit... didn't realise that guy became part of the gospel :) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/17 09:37 PM |
| – | Tough conversation with my wife coming up. How should I handle it?Your first mistake was answering that SMS. I think all you can do now is damage control. Don't try to reason with her. You'll need every trick in the book to deflect this attack without pushing her away. Just try to throw it out of porportion, continue with somwthing stupid as oatmeal (e.g. "Oh my bad, i should have cleaned the tish and mop the floors after i have already taken care of the kids, i see now how bad of a hudband i am") Just don't engage her and don't try to win with logic. And don'… | /r/askMRP | 06/01/17 03:58 PM |
| – | How to keep frame without coming out as a dickAgreed on the learning experience. Declining follow up times together however would be an ultimate loss. My family has a good time and I don't really care what SIL thinks of me or how she feels | /r/askMRP | 06/01/17 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How to keep frame without coming out as a dickAll in all I have good time, my wife ejoys some company as well as the kids (playing with their kids). I take it as a learning experience rather than allow her to spoil the week for me. | /r/askMRP | 06/01/17 03:03 PM |
| 1 | How to keep frame without coming out as a dickShe opened the door and left the room herself. It was very agressive move IMO, basically fircing me in her frame. Had I done what you suggest I would have been feeezing alone in her frame, no? And I mean really freezing to the point I could develop mayor headache in a few minutes. The only optios I see were: leave, put on clothes, close door. All of them suck and are in her frame to a degree. It feels as if it was a trap to make me look bad ni matter what I did: Leave - losing my chilling moment… | /r/askMRP | 06/01/17 12:03 PM |
| – | How to keep frame without coming out as a dickAhh, I always freeze in the heat of the moment and my brain isnot quick enough to react in a smart way. Need to improve there. It's hard to paint the whole situation as it was... Actually they both left the living room and I think they even put on some clothes on. Besides she already "commanded" me to put on some clothes if I don't like what she did, so this particular AA would bot have worked IMO. What are other options? "Sorry seems I have problemswith my ears and / ormemory as I don't recall … | /r/askMRP | 06/01/17 11:54 AM |
| – | How to keep frame without coming out as a dickIt's a holliday house (and we are paying more than they are since our family is bigger) Uhm... talking would get me in her frame... and I'm pretty sure I could bot have won once I opened my mouth. Besides, her imposing her wishesh on me without talking was the first dick move, no? | /r/askMRP | 06/01/17 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Fuck. I AM dumb. Help please!Agh... I was not throwing away a damn soup. We put this little pasta-like things in soup and if they stay in soup too long they get so soaked they "eat up" the whole damn soup. So it was just a nasty jelly of pasta floating in a few drops of soup. My question was more of the type "nobody is going to eat this, right". Annd... apparently between us agreeing on the fact that that shit is to be thrown away and me throwing it away she changed her mind and poured some more soup into the damn pot. Late… | /r/askMRP | 12/12/16 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Fuck. I AM dumb. Help please!it was more like "is anybody going to eat this" kinda question, not "do you want me to to x". | /r/askMRP | 12/12/16 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Fuck. I AM dumb. Help please!Ha ha, so funny and helpful. You should write a book. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/16 06:20 PM |
| -3 | Fuck. I AM dumb. Help please!No, you did exactly what mommy ordered you to do. Nope. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/16 06:19 PM |
| -1 | Deadlockyes... as i've said, i've read the sidebar about a year ago. I certainly am no mister nice guy anymore. She actually hates that and rationalises that's why she's behaving like a bitch towards me. As an example, she was recently baking a cake for a family member and never asked for help. I ignored it and was doing my stuff. Then she fucked up something and was in tears and I did calmly solve the situation there, however she proceeded bitchig how she has been making the cake and I just ignore her … | /r/askMRP | 11/12/16 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Fuck. I AM dumb. Help please!Ah, yes, yes indeed. I did fuck up there. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/16 04:07 PM |
| 5 | Fuck. I AM dumb. Help please!Read title. Because I'm a fucking buthurt idiout, that's why. And worse, I thought I could reason with her. Fuck me, right? | /r/askMRP | 11/12/16 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Fuck. I AM dumb. Help please!Wait... I asked if it was to be thrown away and she said yes. How is that my mistake. She has a habit of telling something mostly to herself without getting acknowledgment from me. E.g., apparently later on she changed her mind about the soup and "told me about it", while I was washing the dishes and talking to another person, and I never heard her. I mean, among bros I imagine it would go like "don't throw x away, ok?" Person B:"OK". That's what i consider normal. In her world, "don't throw x a… | /r/askMRP | 11/12/16 03:58 PM |
| -1 | DeadlockI'm fucking hot dude. I earn over $100k, my sixpacks are starting to show and I have a life. It's more as if she couldn't follow the pace and has just given up. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/16 03:14 PM |
| 1 | DeadlockWell I'm not blind... | /r/askMRP | 11/12/16 03:13 PM |
| -2 | DeadlockI'm really not sure it is that simple. Nothing has changed, if anything I upped my game. It's more like she has just given up, unable to follow / compete. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/16 03:11 PM |
| 0 | DeadlockIt's a fucking double edge sword. Initiate if she is wearing granny panties and she won't care to dress anything but. It's not just panties / thongs. Thongs just represent her total uninterest for sex. From experience I know if I initiate I would get a boring missionary sex which is really so bad I'd rather have none. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/16 03:10 PM |
| 1 | DeadlockI've read the side bar, albeit about a year ago. Sexless arrangement does not mean I have no sex... it means I have no sex within arrangement. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/16 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Keto alone?Intermittent fasting works great for me. I basically don't eat between 8PM and noon. In between I don't count calories, but I don't eat sweets and avoid carbs (but not to the level to be in keto). E.g., I only eat whole grain pasta, absolutely no white bread and no pizza, no rice... Shoot for high protein foods, usually they are rich in fat and protein. Peanuts are my snack of choice. Works great! Your food is your choice. If there's something you don't eat on the menu, you leave it. Simple. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/16 03:07 PM |
| 1 | FRShe wanted you so she didn't have to do the hard work to keep a high value man. Fuck... i never thought about it that way. Fuck. She wanted a BP $$$ provider whom she could control with ease and have it her own way. She really did not sign up for this. Fuck, now what!? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/16 08:52 PM |
| 2 | FR: Why the office girls are getting a divorceThe mother of my kids has a long face on, like, daily. Take yesterday, for example. I took the family out to sea on a speed boat. Woke up, went to a store, prepared sandwiches, drowe the family for an hour, found a boat, paid for the fucking boat and gas (expensive here), driving them around the whole day... Not to mention that's been i don't know which day in sequence when i fucking owned shit. I've been the fucking leader. After dropping close to 20 kilos that is. Nope. The long face. Why? Bec… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/08/16 07:10 PM |
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