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“Take your chances with sluts or enjoy marriage” FTFY.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 07:01 PM
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Is everyone on this sub 14 years old? Tell her you’re not going to be giving her any more lunch money if she’s walking with other guys at recess.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:28 AM
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This is the answer. Don’t place such an emphasis on a “date” like it’s a one-on-one interview before sex. Girls just wanna have fun. Game the friend a little bit. Enough to like you enough to be alone with her friend, but not enough that she falls in love. Shouldn’t be a risk since you have been texting the 6, but you don’t want a jealousy situation with an uggo, because they usually don’t have the self-esteem to handle it. A few ways to close here: just move venues until she fucks off into the …
/r/askTRP10/05/18 11:51 AM
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Okay well that seems fine then. If it’s a no then play it off and don’t push it. I think agree and amplify works well here too. Playfully accuse her of the things that you know she’s thinking, as if you have the same objections. “Oh good, ya I thought you just wanted me for my ass. Can’t be too careful with you cute brunettes”, or whatever’s clever. Going back to friends is a good idea. Biggest thing for being able to reattack later is to not make anything sexual a big deal. Rejection like this …
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:38 PM
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Are you choking girls and trying to feel them up at the club in front of their friends? If so, don’t do that. I would not even make out with them at the club. Use that time to build and release tension and turn her on in ways that her friends can’t see. Make it a game to turn each other on without friends knowing, that way it’s your secret. Obv there are exceptions, but generally if friends see their girl getting felt up in the club, it’s gonna be a big warning for them that you’re trying to sma…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 01:19 PM
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Don’t be club make out guy. Next time you’re in a position to make out with a girl in a club hit her with laser eyes instead, and hold an inch away from a kiss. Fucking tease her with that shit. Playfully laugh at her eagerness to kiss you. By doing this you let her know that you understand the game. You know you’re both sexually attracted but can’t go at each other yet.... not with all these people around. If you’re really good, you might pull her into you very subtly and firmly press yourself …
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:37 PM
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Yes this is true. Some examples that jump out in my mind that I have seen: 8/10 girl in a wheelchair with a cast on her leg. She was the most popular girl on the dance floor. 7/10 girl with a walker outside a bar area after close. Guys were literally swarming trying to parking lot pimp this girl who had some type of physical handicap. I’ve heard the point made that a woman would rather have Henry Cavill than a guy that just looks like Henry Cavill because of all the associated status, whereas mo…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:08 PM
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Any updates? My general advice for tinder is to be flirty/sexual while maintain plausible deniability for her that she’s not just a hookup. Gotta keep it fun and witty. Purposefully misinterpret everything she says as sexual and her coming on to you and you agreeing in a fun way. Move to text ASAP, usually within 5 messages is my personal preference. First text is “hey it’s Tommy, your Tinder bf” or something similar if you already burned that line, and send a pic. I’d send one not on my tinder …
/r/askTRP21/04/18 12:46 PM
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Hate to agree with everyone here, but a festival is the ultimate volatile situation that has a low probability of translating to Monday morning. I agree that the angle isn’t to try and jam your tongue down her throat or slide inside during the festival, but odds that she would be open to building some type of deep emotional connection are high, either because of the environment, or drugs, or both. I would have tried to get super deep/emo with her via eye contact, touch, light but sensual make ou…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 12:03 AM
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Always game the dudes in mixed sets. If they went out together, you need this dude on your team, otherwise he’s going to spend his whole night trying to ruin your shit, and then the whole ride back with her talking more shit about you. While addressing both of them, pepper in some stuff like “are you guys dating?” to get her to emphatically state they are just friends while he probably hems and haws about “wellllll....not reallly”. Real pro move in busier venues is to pull other girls into the g…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:01 AM
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Pass them, then threesome
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:18 AM
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This might sound contrarian, but hear me out. Day game cold approach is bullshit. Okay not entirely, but the idea of waking up and cruising around by yourself and meeting a bunch of attractive women is far fetched in most places outside maybe NYC or some vacation spots. If you’re fucking around with your boys and having a blast, maybe carry that vibe into some interactions with randos on the street and put it up on YouTube. A better way to look at it, IMO, is that you are a funny and attractive …
/r/askTRP17/04/18 12:47 AM
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Incel? checks username Incel. See my first paragraph and look in the mirror.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 06:20 PM
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RP and pickup stuff can poison your soul if you only see the transactional nature of all relationships. Just because AWALT, doesn’t mean that they aren’t human. It is precisely because of their humanity that they are “like that”. You can focus on the irrational, hypergamous, and duplicitous side of that humanity, and you will go insane because you realize you can’t control it. You come to hate women because they are capable of harming you. The truth is, men are equally capable of harm, and all h…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 03:51 PM
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Only skimmed his post but got the gist. I didn’t see anything in there that sounds like he has an easy time getting a plate. Sounds like he gets butthurt at the first opportunity and dries up any girl that he tricks into sleeping with him.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 03:34 PM
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Your relationship to your virginity is what matters. If you see it as a shameful indictment of your lack of worth both as a sexual being and as an individual, then it will be repulsive to everyone the longer it persists. Someone who was saving himself for the right woman, on the other hand, might actually view it as a testament to his fortitude. If you are a high value individual and act accordingly, this could be attractive to some women. Like most things, it’s all about how you frame it and th…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 02:25 PM
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If a guy walks up to you and your girl at a kinda dead bar, boxes you out of the convo, and pretends not to notice you as you’re trying to interject over his shoulder, just leave and go to the gym. I don’t think I’ve ever been disrespected like that. Actually, this kind of thing does happen on dance floors or very loud venues. Hand of God is a very strong open when you spot a kinda uninterested girl looking aroundanything on the dance floor with a dude that looks like he’s trying to get a nut ri…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 11:20 PM
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Key takeaway from previous poster is to be less of a pushover without overtly breaking rapport. The line he used “try your best pickup line” or some variation of that can reframe this attempted swoop as you and this girl having fun, you try to include another guy in the fun who came over, but he got butthurt when you made a joke. He’s the loser. Being “less polite” isn’t about getting whiny and bitchy, but about having such a rock solid frame that you can verbally spar with anyone and maintain l…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:47 PM
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Shoulda joined the Air Force haha
/r/askTRP30/03/18 04:10 AM
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You need to follow it up with some rapport building. Take her out for a milkshake afterward or whatever you kids do so that it’s not awkward. Usually it would be having her spend the night and taking her to breakfast in the morning if this was over the weekend. Build comfort and close a few more times. If you’re not getting callbacks after that, the issue might not be with your pillow talk :)
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:37 AM
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Hey man, first off that sucks to hear, but all is not lost. I agree that you should pop over to The Red Pill subreddit and start reading. If you’re new to this perspective, keep an open mind and just see how many things start clicking into place re your girls behavior. Generally, I am one of the minority that supports marriage in this sub as a structure within which children should be raised. I also think if you’re going to commit to that, it’s full blown monogamy and you abandon all ideas of be…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 02:36 AM
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Ignoring is good in some situations, like when you’re trying to get a rando to just walk away, especially in a loud party setting. In this case, you are the rando, so you need to prove yourself and be invited into the group. The best example of how she would view the ignore tactic negatively might be explained like this: Say you and a male friend are in the same class and go there together. Some dude comes up to your friend and talks to him, asks if he wants to hang out and gets his number, all …
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:16 PM
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Abort! Abort!
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:43 PM
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Haha definitely too aggressive if you use an accusatory tone. Putting a girl and her gal pal on the spot isn’t the BEST way to get her to feel comfortable enough to go back to your place at a later time. Also, if you’ve never had a gf, I assume you need some calibration in these flirty social situations. This isn’t an easy spot, and what you’re describing is AMOG’ing, or this dude getting “blown the fuck out”. That is much better suited for encountering aggressive randos that are trying to clown…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:42 PM
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The best way to get past an orbiter is not through them, but using their gravitational pull to slingshot you to success. I’m serious, these guys will help you out and live vicariously through you. Helping you out is an opportunity to finally feel like he has some control over a situation he’s been desperately trying to influence. Later he can rationalize that you’re a cool guy, he totally helped you out, and you owe him one. You do this the same way you meet girls that are with dudes in any scen…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:14 PM
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There’s nothing to think about here. You need to respectfully communicate to her that you two are done, you’re not going to talk to this guy, and if he continues to try and contact you, you will go to the police. She is emotional right now, so you need to gently extricate yourself from this situation. There sounds like there is a lot more going on emotionally/mentally with these two, so you need to be absolutely done with her. Worst case scenario is that this guy shows up to your house/work look…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 07:01 PM
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Just gotta accept that you’re usually not gonna close in situations like this if the orbiters are playing hardball. Keep everything light, engage and befriend the orbiters, and then slide in her DMs later with some innocent hangout scenario if she’s putting out the vibe like this. One thing you see happen from time to time, usually in high-energy venues, if you get in good enough with the orbiters is that they will cheer you on and help you out. I think it’s a “one of us” dynamic where they live…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:54 AM
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https://youtu.be/EmIqfhr0L50 This should help.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:48 PM
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Let me just say up front that getting married and having kids is an awesome thing. If you avoid certain pitfalls, you will look back at your time spinning plates mostly as a colossal waste of time. It’s great that you learned how to do it, and the confidence you have in knowing you could do it all again if necessary will go a long way in keeping you sane. I credit going out constantly and meeting people, the PUA stuff I’ve learned over the past decade, and to a lesser degree TRP, for forcing me …
/r/askTRP27/02/18 01:32 PM
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Yes you should confirm a day she wants you to drive out there and go see her. You need to do this because you need to learn some shit, not because I expect it will be worth your time sexually. Think about logistics before you go out there: is there a time/place where sex could happen? Either way, this entire scenario will force you to be spontaneous, creative, and to think on your feet. It sounds like that situation is the shit you need to be practicing right now. Either way, don’t put too much …
/r/askTRP25/02/18 05:14 PM
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This is a very good point, and is part of why you sometimes see loser guys with strong frame that really buy into their own bullshit with girls that should be way out of their league. Case in point, I know this fat (like 5'9" 240 tubbo) who is really into his car (POS maybe spent 15k on it) and recently got a soft 8 to buy into it as well and goes to fucking meetups and shit like they are in high school (they're in their late 20's). I mean good on him, but just goes to show that women (and peopl…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 11:26 PM
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To your Sticking Point: If you're not in a pumped up mood (state), I just open with basic "where you from", "what do you do", "you from here or just visiting", blah blah blah, and then riff off that. For example, if she's a nurse, clown her out with something like "so do you save lives, or give sponge baths to old people all day?". Use pacing and leading with that as well, so that conversation might turn into: HER: "hehehe, I mean I don't ONLY---!!!" cut her off and plow through with YOU: "so wh…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 09:34 AM
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She's not responding to you on certain nights of the week because she is fucking other dudes that are higher up the food chain in her eyes. When I get flaked late on say a Tuesday night w/ some bullshit, I would tell my bros that "I couldn't even crack the Tuesday night lineup." Basically I'm not Plan A. You're not Plan A for this girl. When you don't hear from her all day and then get the 9 PM "heyy what are you doing?" and then you end up fucking her, you were Plan B and Plan A flaked. When yo…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 05:00 AM
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I came here after almost a decade of pickup in which I had cultivated a very RP outlook and lifestyle. I had tried for many years to be an outspoken RP advocate, but only garnered a reputation as a sleazy playboy. It hurts to challenge the pillars on which you have built your entire ego and worldview, which is why people don't do it. Unless you find someone who has had their world rocked, they likely won't be willing to change their whole outlook on life and actively work on fixing themselves.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:46 AM
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I really can't believe you're allowed to moderate this board.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:15 AM
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Do you have a plan to hurt yourself or someone else?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 10:27 PM
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Ya man, get jacked, get some shoe inserts, and/or head to East Asia.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 10:16 PM
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He wanted to be his weird-ass mass-murdering self, but have some virgin dimer love him unconditionally for no reason other than he was a bitch-made piece of shit. The dude was a deadly mix of trust-fund entitlement and concentrated blue-pill. RSD Tyler talked about him recently and evidently the kid was a member of a PUA hater group. He hated that comparatively disadvantaged dudes were putting in the work to try and fuck the same girls he felt like he should be getting just for being born. Watch…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:46 AM
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Women really do want a sensitive man. When Ryan Gosling approaches her on the street, it will be completely over-whelming and in that moment she needs him to be sensitive, reassuring, and nice, or she'll break down into hysterics. The real question is, "Why aren't you Ryan Gosling?"
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 08:54 PM
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Ehhhh, this story is probably true but would represent a positive outlier. It's the weekend so girls are all going out to the bars already which is why it would seem so many were willing to just pop down the bar so quickly. Also I would guess these women are over 30 so a little more versed in this sort of thing. Also Tinder generally caps out at a 7 as far as women who will meet up 1-on-1 the first night, so these aren't women who just came from modeling shoots, though probably not bad looking. …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 12:57 AM
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I don't have much to say about your second two goals, but the first one brings up an interesting point that I think is at the root of a lot of unhappiness in the world today. We are sold this idea that there is finality to life. That once we check off all the boxes of being successful, that everything will be okay and we won't have to do shit anymore. Once we get the high-paying job, the hot wife, the house in the suburbs, 2.5 kids, the car, the dog, and 2 weeks vacation a year, we can just phon…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 06:14 AM
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So the issue is that you're not getting laid? If so, I'm a big supporter of RSD and this video in particular is one I'd reccomend if you're trying to establish a baseline for pickup and being social in general. How long have you been at this? If you're still just a few months in, you might not be able to see many tangible returns yet, but I'm sure if you look back 6 months at your headspace now and then, you'll see some dramatic improvements. Hooking up with women is a skillset that you have to …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 05:52 AM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with saying something to the girl you're interested in first like you did to get her pawing at you, but not addressing the friends will kill you every time. Also instead of letting a drunk girl get sexual on you right there with her friends, riff off standard girl lines, punctuated with a shit-eating grin. Stuff like "stopppp i just met you, you might be some kind of creeper trying to diddle my b-hole ... are you a b-hole diddler?" and then speak to her frien…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 06:48 PM
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I didn't miss out on sex in high school or early 20's, but I will add that once you start getting good at this, the returns are compounding. Lost my virginity beginning of junior year of high school. 10 girls in high school, probably 50 by the time I was 22 but honestly I still felt inadequate and every night I wasn't getting laid was a huge blow to my ego and self-esteem. This is because I still needed constant external validation for all of my successes. The next 4 years I started taking picku…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 04:33 AM
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Entertaining conspiracy. I think it probably has to do more with SJW's measuring their dicks by how incensed they are at everything, and how politically correct they require everyone else to be. Rape is an easy one to get up-in-arms about because no one likes rape and no one is going to vote or speak out against a bill that brings rapists to justice. I read somewhere on here maybe a week ago a pretty good breakdown of female social dynamics that showed how in today's society, women proving their…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 09:12 AM
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I really just can't get over the fact that there's some guy out there that fucked 4 chicks in a public bathroom. I've been with a lot of women, done a lot of depraved shit, and had a few threesomes, but damn that is fucking impressive.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 08:47 AM
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Assuming you're under 25 I would second military or bartender. Bartender you might have to start out as a bar back or something, but you'll still be interacting with tons of people and will have a ton of opportunities to meet women. I've been in the military for 9 years and coming from where I started as a complete bitch, I've been completely remade. Even if you never see combat, you'll pick up habits that will set you up for success down the road. Managing 25 people has forced me to become pret…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:54 AM
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Alex RSD Took a bootcamp with him in 2011. If you want to emulate anyone's game, this is the dude. Not aggressive, always fun, massive abundance, fucks beautiful women like it's no ones business. A must-watch.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 04:03 AM
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I mean depends on what you mean by fucked up, but it's a huge school so I think you'll be okay. I've had embarrassing nights where I get shut down in front of people or shit like that, but what I've come to learn is that you just gotta play it cool with girls you just met. I have a frame of "I've been partying for 6 years now ... I've pretty much seen it all and I don't judge anyone for what they do." I let girls come and go when I'm out, always encouraging everyone to have a good time because I…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 03:35 AM
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Speaking to Florida State specifically, I've only not gotten laid 1 of the 6 nights I've stayed there. I'm 27 and have a friend to stay with there near campus, so logisitcs are decent. One thing that is maybe unique to younger girls in something like a college town or a spring break destination is that if they're with a big group, they might not be down to get pulled by some rando on the first night. A lot of Greek girls pair off with Greek guys because their friends all see it as normal and the…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 07:40 PM
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Build a social circle by adding value to people's lives. Take women off the pedestal and interact with them like you would any of your guy friends by having opinions and standing up for them in a non-confrontational way when challenged. Go to the gym. Don't put anyone's well-being before your own until you have the resources to comfortably offer help to others. Everyone loves making connections with people when there's something in it for them. On a college campus it's going to be access to fun,…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 10:45 AM
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This is great advice for those guys as calibrated as it sounds you are with being able to setup and close multiple dates per week. Being very at ease with your masculinity and knowing exactly how to build tension and then break away in a manner that shows your mastery of both yours and her emotions is like crack to women. Nothing makes women gush like a man that she is attracted to that can effortlessly dominate her physically and emotionally while almost mocking how easy it is. I would say all …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 10:02 AM
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I didn't read your whole post word for word, but if you can't get out of your living situation, save money up until you can because that shit is going to eat at you as long as you're there. Some things you can work on: -Meditation: Maybe its just the way you communicate via text, but your post is an incoherent jumble of emotional vomit. The details you pick up on in a situation are exactly how I would expect a woman to relay a story to me. It speaks to an emotional hyper-sensitivity and constant…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 03:22 AM
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I didn't mean that to be scathing of you, but again, you see a lot of criticism on this board of things like ADD/ADHD in boys as being bullshit. I am also highly skeptical of many psychological diagnoses as vague as "personality disorder" and "emotional imbalance". The definitions below sound more like a horoscope than something you'd find in a medical journal. "Personality disorders are a class of mental disorders characterized by enduring maladaptive patterns of behavior, cognition and inner e…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:11 AM
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Maybe this isn't the most red pill approach, but nexting a girl who you were with for 4.5 year is easier said than done. Especially one with an emotional imbalance and personality disorder. "Emotional imbalance and personality disorder"???? Hypochondria. Self-diagnosed. Excuse for everything. That is Reddit in a fucking nutshell. This feel-good hippy bullshit just feels like a product of the exact society that the Redpill lobbies against. A hyper-sensitive, sob story, "OMG I grew up middle class…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:45 AM
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From time to time you'll run into this. As others have said, it's not a bad thing if a girl will let you finger-blast her in bed but won't let you fuck her. Some girls just really believe that if they fuck you the first time they come over, they're a slut. This is especially true of younger girls without a lot of experience hooking up. The girl I'm dating now wouldn't let me fuck her the first night we hung out, but did the next morning. Letting a girl stay over after no sex isn't a big deal eit…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 02:20 AM
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I'll start off by saying that Tinder is a lot less solid for hookups than online dating apps like Plenty of Fish, so if you want to get deep into this, download a couple dating apps as well. Tinder is still the best when you're travelling and ESPECIALLY for festivals or other big get-togethers. Remember, TINDER AND OTHER DATING APPS ARE FOR GETTING NUMBERS ASAP, NOT HOUR LONG CONVOS AFTER WHICH SHE FORGETS WHO YOU ARE. I've hooked up with about 10 women from Tinder, and close to 30 using other d…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 09:50 PM
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You CAN'T be too hard on some girls. I suppose it's better to be too bold rather than not bold at all but in one case I made a girl cry and definitely blew any chances I may have had with her. I think some subtlety definitely works when it's needed and that's something I definitely need to work on. Just need to calibrate it for every girl. IF YOU HAVE STATUS, you generally need to be friendlier to girls who perceive themselves as ugly, and more dickish to girls who perceive themselves as hot. Th…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:35 AM
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This is definitely something I need to move to the front page of the playbook. There have been a few very attractive girls in the nightlife scene in my market that I haven't been able to hook up with either because we didn't click, I hooked up with another girl in that circle, generally flakey behavior if I try to hang out 1on1, etc. I have spent so much time perfecting the "Me vs The World", "doesn't count if you brought her out", purist cold-approach in venues I have no social proof in that I'…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 09:43 AM
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Hank Moody, Californication
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 04:19 AM
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I found the PUA community at age 20 when "The Game" first came out and subsequently Real Social Dynamics in probably 2008-2009. Was a butt-hurt Beta after having to listen to the girl of my dreams get fucked every night by my roommate who married, had a girlfriend, and was spinning a few plates beside her (military, if those logistics don't make sense to anyone). A real scum-bag in my world at the time and I spent a lot of nights crying myself to sleep. Been going out minimum 2 nights a week sin…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 04:01 PM
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Only two types of women in military towns: Those that were brought there, and those that were left behind.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 11:01 PM
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I've also heard the argument that everything they say they want is how they want to be treated by Channing Tatum (or their flavor of celebrity heart-throb). She would be massively intimidated, he has so much status and social proof, and she would need constant re-assurance that she was good enough. This applies to all advice women give about how they want a man to act.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 07:38 PM
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Younger girls (18/19) might still be very sensitive to being one of a few girls in a rotation because it makes them feel like a slut. However, you're out of your mind if you think that by the time they're 21/22, the girls you hook up with don't have another couple guys they are actively fucking or could call up at any time. Your frame should always be "You're amazing and I really enjoy being with you, but a committed relationship isn't for me because I'm still young and there are still a lot of …
/r/askTRP27/01/14 03:47 AM
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Shoulda checked his privilege some more.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 12:31 AM
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Hey man, I'm not attacking, just giving some insight based on what I've seen. im not really worried about what she tells her friends because girls know that girls are full of shit. The most important thing in the world to a woman is her friends' opinion of her. A woman will have the most fun possible without damaging her reputation. Keep those in mind. There is an etiquette to all this for most normal girls, and part of the dance is to absolve her of all responsibility. first off, it wasnt a dud…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 09:48 PM
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Very succinct way of putting it. It's abundance vs. scarcity. Offering vs. taking value. One is massively attractive. The other, repulsive.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 09:14 PM
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But the nerds love it because it makes her brand feel more accessible This is her appeal, 100%. She comes off as almost-attainable. Like a girl that you could orbit around in your social circle.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 09:11 PM
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Take your own advice and trust what she does, not what she says. You're basing this off what one dude told you. She might have told him that to not seem like a slut. Saying she likes you and was thinking you guys were going to date, but you were being a nasty player. Her family thing might have been her getting double-teamed by some other bros. See her again first before taking what she told one mutual friend as gospel. If she is developing feelings, you need to empathize with her and sympatheti…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 05:40 PM
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Excellent, excellent point here. When a lot of guys first embrace TRP, they get angry and try to be "Alpha" in everything they do. They swear to never be a beta provider again, to never let women walk all over them, and as a byproduct they become hostile toward women. After the anger subsides, however, and you realize that women are just people that for the most part are making decisions based on their emotions in the moment, a subtle paradigm shift occurs that for me brought it all full circle.…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 05:29 PM
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I have been in quite a few situations where I was socializing with a sub-par girl, and she got validation from making it VERY CLEAR to EVERYONE AROUND that she would not sleep with me and that my game wasn't working on her. Agree and amplify, say you want to put a ring on it and she's your only chance at love, etc. but the fact that this would even cross her mind, even as a shit test, is depressing.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 04:59 PM
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There's no helping a guy like that in this situation short of taking his pants off and putting his dick in her for him. OP also said the dude that got it in was his friend as well. The girl sounds like a skank anyway. You probably did him a favor. This is the kind of rationalization that will always keep betas in their place. Never need to look at yourself and realize you're a scared bitch if you can just classify every girl that will sleep with someone other than you as a slut.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 04:53 PM
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I do most of these and there is no problem with it. Expecting something in return for any of these behaviors is what makes them repulsive. I recently spent a day with my aunt who is in her 60's while visiting family for the holidays. Every chivalrous thing I did for her came from the frame of being a man who had everything handled. She appreciated being abdicated from nearly all responsibility and had a great time because she was allowed to just take in the experience and the world around her. A…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 09:33 AM
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Good point here. A knowing smirk is usually a very dominant expression. What this study probably references is kind of the pleading smile. I read somewhere that smiles a lot of times are to show submissiveness to someone more dominant, which could be why it comes off as unattractive. Also a lot more goes into a smile than curling your lips upward. I wonder if they had showed more "action" shots with a guy laughing if any woman would really find that unattractive. I would guess not.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 07:23 AM
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In actuality, it is the blue pill that will prove to be an aberration, a curious 60 year blip in the long course of human history where we, in a fit of insanity, threw out the wisdom of the ages in the belief that we were immune. I think a peaceful, socialist, androgenous, free-loving, society is the final form for humanity. We are slowly moving away from our animal roots where we are at the mercy of these animal impulses and doing things for reasons that no longer make sense. Moving away to cow…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 01:21 AM
1

This is a good metaphor for being good-looking. It can buy you a couple seconds with hot girls, but they have a ton of confident good-looking dudes trying to get it in, so looks are not impressive. You can bang fat/old/sloppy drunk chicks once in a while, but that's like going to the park and beating a bunch of 6th graders at a game of pickup.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 12:13 AM
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This 100%.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 12:10 AM
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Agree with this. The one guy that has stood out to me the most has truly getting it.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 11:10 PM
1

How would you feel if a guy walking ahead of you opened a door, let you go through first and nodded as you thanked him? Now how would you feel if a homeless person did it and expected a dollar for helping you out? I might be interpreting chivalry as just doing nice shit for people, but in that case I think it's always appropriate if it's something like holding a door open. As for women, they are no longer delicate little flowers. They have their own jobs, money (or they have someone they can get…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 08:00 AM
5

These connections are what the game is all about. When plate-spinning gets to this level, you realize how truly little there is to gain from a culture of dating and monogamy when marriage is not the goal. Cracks me up and breaks my heart equally when guys that aren't getting laid seriously suggest to me I quit fucking these "sluts" and find a "good girl". They don't realize you make them good girls go bad, and some of the connections can be long-lasting and probably more genuine than most relati…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 07:45 AM
2

The classic advice is to operate under the assumption that every woman can become attracted to you because you are a cool and well put-together man. Great advice if you are a confident guy with no attachment to the outcome with any one woman, are empathetic of how your interaction is causing her to feel and then socially calibrated enough to use that your advantage. For new guys it can be precarious as this is a self-delusional state of mind until you TRULY start believing it, and most newbies g…
/r/askTRP17/12/13 10:25 PM
2

Wouldn't believe unless had really good rapport with her and had already delved into male/female dynamics in a non-judgemental way and demonstrated an ability to speak on something that personal in an objective way. Couple girls I've cared to actually find out were telling me 15-20, then said it was actually more like 50. Kinda just do the math. Figure maybe 3-5 in HS if she started around 16. Depends on how easy the girl was for you to fuck, but 5-10 a year from 18-20yo and then 5-30 a year dep…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 05:21 PM
1

She knew I got her co-workers number, she was down for a threeway, and she loves when I bring up other women. Is this a "next her" situation ISHYGDDT
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 05:03 PM
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since blacks commit more crime statistically than other races, if you're black you're more likely to commit crime than that white guy) which is intellectually dishonest and offensive Offensive, yes. Dishonest? If cited, it wouldn't be dishonest. I know Reddit won't be sympathetic to it. TRP is on thin ice as it is Nothing you can do about haters. Unless they were trying to shut down this sub, who actually gives a shit how offended someone gets if they come here willingly and reject the truth bec…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 04:59 PM
1

I feel your pain man. TRP is mostly filled with guys in the anger stage and every post is just something to get everyone all riled up. Watch some Russell Brand videos. That dude gets it. Also I'll usually find a beta dude at work or wherever and take them under my tutelage. Helps to have a protege and teaching is the best way to really flesh out all the half-formed ideas you have in your head about this.
/r/askTRP16/12/13 04:39 PM
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As long as you never make her feel judged and you take full responsibility for sex, you shouldn't get anything close to rape allegations let alone girls that are even mad. I have fucked hundreds of girls in pretty filthy houses/apartments/condos that I've lived in over the years. A lot of them are shocked at how disgusting it is but if you play it off you can get away with it with younger girls especially. 9's and 10's over probably 24yo I would probably clean my room first or pull at their plac…
/r/askTRP16/12/13 04:31 PM
0

Realize that very woman is a unique expression of feminine energy, and it is that femininity you are attracted to.
/r/askTRP16/12/13 04:11 PM
1

At 19 you have almost no SMV outside of your looks, parents money, sense of entitlement, and what you can cultivate as a house party sort of promoter and networking. Keep acclimating yourself to game, expand your social circle and become the guy everyone hits up to know where to have a good time because he always knows where the party is. This actually isn't that hard but will force you to put yourself out there. As far as standard approaches being shamed, that's coming from dudes that are too p…
/r/askTRP15/12/13 04:30 PM
1

Agree and amplify or just straight clown it out depending on your relationship with her.
/r/askTRP15/12/13 03:29 PM
2

I feel your pain a bit. I live in a tourist town because I have to for the next year or so and any city worth a shit is at least 2 hours away. My roomate and I usually para-troop in to one of those places and either stay at a girls place or in the car. Otherwise branch out to different bars/clubs in different neighborhoods, and keep that online game going in your free-time.
/r/askTRP15/12/13 03:24 PM
1

u wot m8? Never right to hit a woman.
/r/askTRP15/12/13 03:21 PM
1

It's okay, dawg. Just fake it until you make it.
/r/askTRP15/12/13 03:15 PM
1

Sounds like almost a lost cause but I'm a masochist so I'd give it another shot. Her defenses are up either way, so you're going to need to invite her to something more fun/social than a hot chocolate date. A group gathering, at least something framed that way which is also beneficial to her i.e. my friends and I are all going Christmas shopping, I'm sure you need to buy something too (even if it's only one friend) should get her out and feeling like you are just friend-zoning her, which in turn…
/r/askTRP15/12/13 03:09 PM
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Uhh .... set up a time for you guys to meet up again? I like taking girls to brunch because I'm usually starving and I'm at my funniest after a night of drinking. Then back to my place for fuzzy tingle time disguised as nap time, TV/movie time, or more drinking. Otherwise later in the week I would hit her up during a lunch break with "Hey how's your recovery going?" See if she's free that night, then take her to a bar/restaurant that makes logistical sense (i.e. close to your house) with walking…
/r/askTRP15/12/13 02:49 PM
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I'm still kicking my self when a chick tells me she wants to settle down and then fucks a random friend the same night. This stuff is always going to happen. You're not going to play every situation perfectly if your goal is to be the "random friend" in this situation. Learn from it, and mitigate it in the future. Let it reinforce your RP beliefs. The article does a good job pointing out that women are people too that are now free to do whatever they want sexually. Don't swim against it, just ri…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 07:55 PM
1

Had me until: You got a fake number? You aren't alpha. If you don't get fake or flakey numbers that don't hit you back, you aren't going out. A lot of the rest is pretty accurate.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 06:12 PM
0

As an American jacked-bro in the Phillipines right now, I can tell you that the women here get soaking wet for masculinity. Everyone is so passive that I get away with a ton of shit I would never feel entitled to in America while they just stand there getting all wet. I seriously feel like a celebrity here.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 09:22 AM
6

Ya man, do what you want to do. Cop and blow is just a part of the game. Plates don't spin forever.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 09:14 AM
1

Brando in "A Streetcar Named Desire" was life-changing for a young me. Top 10 Clips Comment section is interesting as well.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 01:55 PM
1

I have been out with a lot of weak wings but it really doesn't affect what I'm doing. If a girl I'm talking with says something as overt as "your friend is being creepy" I would pass it like every other shit test ... agree and amplify. "Yeah we're brothers and this is our first time out of our mom's basement in over a year." Something like that. If he sucks he'll just blow himself out and walk away. Encourage him, maybe open a real easy set with some fat chicks to build a home base where you can…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 05:17 AM
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Don't change a thing. You are describing the concept of the Muse and the Muse-poet and that is Final-Form pimping. You understand you are attracted to feminine energy (the Muse), and that each woman is merely a conduit to that energy, while her personality makes her a unique expression of femininity. Russell Brand gets it. I really enjoy forming these bonds. Some may last a night, many a few weeks, some a lot longer, but I know that there are always many more women out there that can move in har…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 07:48 PM
1

Nice. Bunch of downvotes for telling it like it is IRL. Yes I game trashy 6's, and fat chicks, and old chicks, and ugly chicks, and dudes. I game everybody because it's all a fucking game. Approach it as such and the approaches that "matter" are just another opportunity to add to your party. I'm not saying OP's 5 points won't work, I'm just saying they are sub-optimal. "Saving approaches" for only girls you would fuck is a surefire way to leave alone, at midnight (lol), by yourself. I also stand…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 03:33 AM
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I gotta disagree with most of these. I go out to pick up because picking up girls is pure comedy. I'll buy a girl a beer if I'm getting one and I know it's going well because I'm cracking myself up. As far as dressing differently, I think I wear pretty standard "going out" clothes. I do have sick dance moves so agree with #4. Point 5 I disagree with the most, as I usually don't go out until 12 if the venue closes at 4am. The girls that are going to have the logistics to do a ONS are usually stay…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 10:45 PM
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My own foray into online dating a few months ago was pretty hilarious. I was at a neighbor girl's house on a Sunday doing some day drinking, watching romantic comedies, and swapping weekend hookup stories when she told me about a guy she met online. I had about a month before I was going to be leaving the US for a few months and figured I was going to lose almost all my plates when I left, so I might as well blow it up now and see how casual I could make casual sex. I borrowed her laptop and cre…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 09:18 PM
0

Also heard it called the "Million-Dollar Mouthpiece". Here's a brief how-to: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qsaxJCvahA
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:38 PM
4

Good stuff here. One thing that I think bears emphasizing is that you can actually "make it" after years of faking it. You've built thousands of reference experiences where someone had to take action, and it was you that did it, even though you were scared. I think that's all that "natural" confidence is. Tons and tons of reference experiences. I think these "naturals" that seem to be born this way were just ALWAYS the one taking action growing up. There was never a situation at home, at school,…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 02:40 AM
1

You answered all of your own questions. You know you just need to get out there. Fuck it up, learn from it, you might not fuck it up as bad the next time it happens. I don't remember my first approach, but I'll never forget my first experience in a vegas club. I had been going out for 3 YEARS at this point in smaller market bars, but mostly stayed away from clubs. I'd probably slept with 20 or 30 women that I had met at these bars during that 3 year period, so "game" wasn't completely foreign to…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 02:13 AM
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Hey guys thanks for the comments, and a special thanks to the guy that gilded it. As I was writing it, it did start to sound tragic. It was supposed to be a pretty brief point that I felt needed more and more backstory. I ended up with this because I don't know how to tell a story in under 5,000 words. The point was not to be sad, as I'm happy with where I'm at now and maybe I'll tell that story sometime.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 01:35 AM
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Some I've seen were good. He did one about choosing the middle path between constant stimulation and essentially no stimulation which I thought was interesting at least. Middle path one was gold and I sent that out to a bunch of my friends. That ridiculous hat/glasses combo was cracking me up as well.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 12:44 AM
1

That I definitely could believe. The sunny, mainstream side of TRP is all good(self-improvement, self-respect, being social) but the darker side I'm sure they have to stay away from. That's not what I originally meant, but it is very true as well. They do qualify a lot of their truths so they don't create a bunch of serial killers, which I think is probably the socially responsible thing to do. Can't create jedis without the occasional vader, so maybe best to dilute your message to begin with un…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 09:54 PM
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We all have a lot of work to do. Being Alpha to me is all about taking ownership of everything in your life, good or bad, and not playing the victim anymore. As long as you recognize that these tendencies exist that you need to work past, and you take action to do so, that's Alpha.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 08:33 PM
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"I'm not really here to hit on women, but I'll be passive and see what comes my way" mindset (blue pill, anyone?) At a house party there is a pretty large difference between being the guy letting girls see how much fun he's having so that they want to join his party, and sitting around on your wallflower ass waiting for women to ask you what's wrong. Usually the mindset of "I'm not really here to hit on women" is just a lie you tell yourself to protect your ego and gives you license to not put y…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 07:53 PM
1

I watch every video that Tyler or Alex puts out, most of them multiple times. Tyler isn't a fake at all from what I can tell, and the dude speaks the fucking truth. All his stuff on self-development outside of pickup is great. There are a lot of good anecdotes that come from pickup, but I think a lot of his ideas are limited by having to fit it in the context of a blue-piller's reality in order to reach a larger market. Here's a link to his latest video about the nature of entitlement. Pretty ad…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 07:22 PM
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OK, well then I would say it was probably this main girl suggesting to her friend and her mom that you were out of line based on her observations and "what she would do" in that situation. They probably agreed with it to abdicate themselves from any blame, and then she turned around with this "evidence" to confront you with. Sounds pretty standard.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 11:27 AM
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CONT: I had to reconsider a lot of things in my life at this point. I was 25 ... was I really going to be living my whole life weekend to weekend, running through girls who for the most part I wasn't interested in? I had no hobbies outside of pickup, now I had no friends to go out with, and I had about a dozen-girl fanclub that loved nothing more than to set up elaborate cockblocks for me in a city I couldn't get away from them in. I decided I needed a change of pace, so I booked a 19-night trip…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 07:28 AM
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Yeah this is definitely a thing. tl;dr Below pretty much turned into me writing my life story the past 5 years. Whoops. I had a great social circle in a city that I used to live in. Good mix of about 10 guys and 10 girls that all lived in the same downtown apartment complex and we went out together almost every night of the week. The girls started out as hookups and friends of hookups that ended amicably and were turned into social proof for going out. We were all pretty incestuous and there was…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 07:28 AM
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Just found this board after 5 years of pickup and a bootcamp with RSD. Not a Redditor as I generally think sitting around on the internet trying to get people to agree with you is much lamer than going out and having adventures, talking shit, getting laid. I'd say this is one of the best boards I've seen that relates to pickup and generally telling it like it is. Like most boards however, I do see a lot of anger on here, but it's definitely a part of the process that I went through as well. How …
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 03:23 AM
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Hmm. Agree with other posters that it's probably sub-optimal to be RP'ing around with co-workers. I think it's also been pretty well-covered in the comments the possibility that ol' girl is jealous or a hard-line feminist, so I'll touch on a few other angles. Something to consider is that maybe you were being more physical than you thought you were being. It's entirely possible that you're pushing a girls comfort zone a bit with too much contact, especially if they're not used to it. While this …
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 02:53 AM
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Im willing to admit that the level is probably pathetically low by the standards of this sub, but for me its a hell of a step up. 3 new girls in a month probably puts you in the Top 10% of people on this board and your whole criterion for success and concept of what other people are doing seems to be unreasonably high. You said in the comments you'd never made out with a girl you didn't know in a club, and had never had a one night stand. Having now done both of those things is huge progress. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 05:54 AM
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