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CULTURAL MISOGYNYazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:10 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:35 AM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 01:04 PM
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Question For Menazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:40 PM
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LIES MEN TELLazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:45 PM
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STRATEGYazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:30 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:25 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:27 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:08 AM
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LIES MEN TELLazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 02:29 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:50 PM
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DISCUSSIONazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:46 PM
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STRATEGYazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:53 AM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:27 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:28 AM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 03:48 PM
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azngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:51 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 02:32 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 06:22 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 01:05 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:25 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 01:56 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 01:40 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:24 AM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 03:36 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:43 PM
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LIES MEN TELLazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 12:49 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 01:27 PM
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LIES MEN TELLazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:00 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:25 PM
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NAH, SISazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:23 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:40 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 01:29 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 01:29 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 12:46 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:33 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 06:14 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 12:44 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:05 PM
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azngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 04:14 PM
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Question For Menazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:19 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:46 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 02:08 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 01:39 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 01:26 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:22 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?azngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:10 AM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:29 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 02:40 AM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 02:17 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 05:54 PM
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Question For Menazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:31 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 02:01 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 01:42 PM
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STRATEGYazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:38 AM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 12:42 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 02:51 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 02:51 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 01:15 PM
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DISCUSSIONazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 11:37 AM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:26 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 12:54 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 12:51 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 02:06 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 12:39 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:33 AM
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azngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:47 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:59 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:18 PM
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Purge Week!azngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:20 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 02:17 AM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 01:48 PM
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Purge Week!azngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:18 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 04:47 PM
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Question For Menazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:22 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 07:58 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:06 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 01:38 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGEazngirl7689/r/RedPillWomen03/08/17 02:25 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 08:00 PM
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Question For Womenazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:26 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 04:06 AM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 03:23 AM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 01:07 PM
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Question for RedPillazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:28 PM
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Purge Week!azngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:03 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:45 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 02:15 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 01:44 PM
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FIELD REPORTazngirl7689/r/RedPillWomen23/08/17 03:37 PM
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Question For Menazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 12:21 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:53 PM
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Question For Womenazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:20 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:40 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:49 PM
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NAH, SISazngirl7689/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 01:47 PM
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Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:14 PM
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CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 04:19 PM
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Purge week!azngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 04:31 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGEazngirl7689/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 10:50 PM
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Question For Menazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:49 PM
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Purge Week!azngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:17 PM
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Debateazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 02:52 AM
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Question for BluePillazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 05:37 PM
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Purge - Discussionazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 02:10 AM
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Purge Week!azngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:37 PM
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Hell masturbation will do the job to scratch the itch. Partnered sex is nice but solo sex is also a fun time that doesn’t get enough hype.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:37 PM
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No, but best believe I’d be having affairs. A girl can only go without sex and affection so long. He wants to short me? Well guess who is cheating? The funny thing is...men don’t dump women for affairs. They chase them harder. This guy would probably suddenly want to be close and affectionate if he found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 02:04 PM
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I avoid that board like the plague! I’m planning now but stick to the engagement forum as they have the info I need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:22 PM
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The WeddingBee waiting board is similar. I was on there when I was waiting for ex to propose...it definitely will f*ck you up if you’re already low self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:21 PM
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We really need to bring back some little bit of kink shaming again. This stuff isn’t normal or natural.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:15 PM
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Same. Tried it, not for me and won’t do it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:47 PM
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I actually buy that they think this. Men’s happiness is prioritized and some ladies actually take it seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:51 PM
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The odds of that aren’t zero but it’s more likely that he was mucking it up on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:59 AM
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Accurate. The only time I’ve seen it done is when there was infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 06:38 PM
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I want a family- two kids and spouse. I want to make the Boston Marathon and maybe get fast enough to win even higher. I want to read every classic book in the world. I want to find a career that I can tolerate that pays me well. Yes I went off course but relationships are such a small amount of my life that that answer is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 11:11 AM
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Being kidnapped is fine if the guy is hot and has kinky sex with you that he forces onto you /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:01 PM
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That’s pretty open minded. Kudos to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:21 PM
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Whichever you care to share!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:38 PM
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*azngirl7689 I CAN’T BELIEVE YOU DON’T REMEMBER MY NAME. I’M BOILING YOUR BUNNY.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:27 PM
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It’s definitely pretty hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:33 PM
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That’s kind of hot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:29 PM
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Lemons are way better and more useful than cocks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:03 PM
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You can get to know someone without the fog of hormones. So many red flags passed over because so and so is good in bed.....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 11:43 AM
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Potential is for teenagers. That’s the only time it’s vaguely OK to bank on potential because really what do teenagers have to offer each other?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:15 PM
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I want this man’s confidence. Imagine looking like a human index finger and having that many dealbreakers and needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:13 PM
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At least there’s a 99% chance that I’ll get off from a plastic dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:41 PM
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Even in the country itself it’s more like cultural Islam than actually dedicated Islam. My mom for example won’t eat pork but she will drink and dance. She’ll wear shorts and no hijab but will wear a headscarf to masjid on the 2 occasions a year she goes. Think like christmas Easter christians.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:20 PM
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Those pants look comfy AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:13 PM
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Pretty much, everyone else is Muslim but not that serious about it or at least not like those folks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:10 PM
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I’m from Uzbekistan. Only the fundie Muslims wear burqa and there aren’t a lot of fundies there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:22 PM
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Daddy issues and poor relationship role models. As uppity as some rich folks are, they have the right idea asking what the SO’s parents do and how much they make.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 12:37 PM
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No, you need to get out more.....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 11:15 PM
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Calling bullshit. Leave your house occasionally!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:58 PM
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I hate the idea of struggle love so much. Relationships are work but they shouldn’t be THAT hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:38 PM
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Average man= hideous and socially retarded? I don’t think so. This is just more PPD hand wringing by low value men. 99% of men don’t struggle this much with social interaction. They don’t need 1000s of hours, most are able to read the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 09:28 PM
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I forget now. Something stupid about telling them later. Nope. Just wanted to keep me around without formally committing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:10 PM
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My ex proposed to me after a fight when I said I’d have to move out since he wasn’t proposing....so he proposed right then and there. But we couldn’t tell anyone. My self esteem wasn’t OK when I accepted that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:59 PM
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Someone’s cutting onions in my apartment. My allergies are acting up. :P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:32 PM
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Yes, I fell into this trap myself. It was only after 25, that I started developing a relationship with myself and surprise I don’t need marriage to be fulfilled now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:33 AM
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I didn’t and I just kind of gave up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:09 PM
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Send me link in PM if you can? I can’t find it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:18 PM
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Him the first night that baby 1 came home: hurr hurrr they didn’t say your mouth was broken LOL just kidding unless.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:40 PM
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He’s just now worried that he killed his marriage? It’s like shutting the door after the horse escaped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:39 PM
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I don’t understand why people treat a BF/GF as anything serious. If a BF/GF isn’t working out- leave. It’s just dating. They aren’t shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 12:00 PM
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Yeah no. I spent years “compromising” and “being equal partners” and “communicating.” I wish I’d left the minute any issues came up, it was a waste of my early 20s. I don’t want to have to try that hard with anyone ever again. If someone isn’t right- they aren’t right. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 06:43 PM
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Picking or staying with the wrong partner is a recipe for disaster. Ditch the person that isn’t right for you sooner than later. No man/woman is worth being miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 05:32 PM
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Good for them! Life is too short to force relationships. In 99% of cases it isn’t worth working things out. It’s like a mirror. You can fix it but the cracks are still there. Living this situation now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 04:41 PM
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My ex tried to convince me that living together was just like and even stronger than marriage. lol no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:27 PM
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You shouldn’t need to send nudes to get a man’s attention anyway. It’s sad how normalized that’s become.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:59 PM
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But did she CoMMuniCate 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:17 PM
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Very! This is the possible father or mother of your children and lifelong partner. This is who you’ll be at the nursing home with. Be very choosy because that’s a long time!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 12:50 PM
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Yes, this really irritates me. I’m already not that high libido and if I had to have fancy sex with all kind of toys on the rare occasion I am feeling that way, I’d never have sex. Not all of us are high libido porn stars who love facials and anal and I’d love to stop feeling bad about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:49 PM
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Ohh, sorry I didn’t realize the punishment would happen so fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 01:06 PM
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My bad I hadn’t seen you post it before. That sounds really awful. Did she take the breakup after OK or did you just block her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 01:02 PM
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Story time if you care to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 12:58 PM
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Poly in my experience usually only involves girlfriends, which sucks because even though I’m bi, I don’t want a girlfriend, I’d want a boyfriend but this is apparently unacceptable. Just like how I’m expected to muscle through a FMF threesome but my desired MFM threesome is disgusting and awful. I do have some non zero attraction towards women but not the way a lot of these men want me to, I have no desire to act like the actresses in the porn flicks they watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:58 PM
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Liam was the one dragging it out? He always blamed her. I feel bad for believing him now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:53 PM
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My ex who had a 5.75 inch dick told me in all seriousness that he was too big for condoms. Lol no buddy you’re fine, you’re just psychosomatically manifesting symptoms, because you’re high on the fact that you’re .75 bigger than average.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:52 PM
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Loyalty is so Iill defined. Loyalty is not sticking by someone in all circumstances, it’s being there when it’s appropriate and necessary. A situationship is none of those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:50 PM
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It’s the only way to get them to learn. It’s sad AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:47 PM
4

You think men have the capacity to care enough to “fix”? Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:19 PM
18

No the sexiest thing is good foreplay and nice equipment downstairs not chores. That’s a bare minimum standard to meet, what pick me told him that chores were sexy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:54 PM
-1

Yes, have an attractive hairstyle and fashion sense and be clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:42 PM
5

My first was a guy who I was messaging on a night I was feeling particularly bad about being a 22 year old virgin LOL. Mine wasn’t powerful at all, he was just a dick to ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 11:56 AM
13

I’ve been looking at MBA programs! Not the same as a MD or PhD but it’s still something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:21 AM
48

Idk man I can see her foot. Very scandalous. What a sl*tty foot. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:28 PM
10

Yes, PTSD/panic/anxiety sufferer here. I was a total kinkmeisha when I was sick and my disease wasn’t managed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:46 AM
9

I’ve been told I’m too vocal about my mental health issues/mental health in general and don’t cut people enough slack. I’m glad because back when I wasn’t vocal and gave second chances- I was miserable. If me saying that I’m not having a good day and will be using X technique I learned in therapy makes you uncomfortable- just leave now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:45 AM
7

The very fact that life is short is an encouragement to only keep relationships that benefit you positively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:20 PM
2

Well yes I’m somewhat socially retarded yes! At least I admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:16 PM
2

Socially retarded- hence why you need the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:11 PM
3

They’re socially retarded autists who have major FOMO. When they grow up, they learn what you’ve typed in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:08 PM
6

In my teens and childhood, my high grades and extracurricular activities were my achievements. I was an excellent swimmer, ballet dancer, figure skater and student.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 08:57 PM
6

Yes, because that’s what makes me who I am. My looks will fade, I will gain weight, I will get scars and stretch marks but my brain hopefully won’t deteriorate too soon and my character will stay strong. I don’t want to be seen as just a vagina, it’s not flattering to me. Men will fuck McChicken sandwiches so their sexual attention means nothing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 08:53 PM
2

Ooh my ex called me this too! Apparently setting boundaries and having expectations means I hate men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 02:00 PM
4

I don’t think so. Any money I’d get would be earned in the anguish and jealousy I’d suffer being his second wife. Nothing in life is free.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 12:03 PM
1

It’s just socializing, even outside of dating- hinting and signaling is used a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 12:02 PM
5

Yes, I’m not cut out to be a step mom at 26. Maybe I’ll change my mind as I get older and have my own kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:08 PM
2

Moderately- no bigger than 6 inches please! My kitty can’t take anymore than that without being in pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 01:23 PM
4

Yes once in the morning after my workout once before bed at night
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:59 PM
5

Older women aren’t as naive about men. I believed that men weren’t lousy horndogs who just wanted to fuck in my early 20s, now I know that’s not true. I also now know that a man’s word is not to be taken as fact. Watch his actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:08 PM
48

When someone needs a whole room for gaming that’s someone who games too much for my taste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:04 PM
3

Yes, exactly. Vanilla normal stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 09:29 PM
8

No. Sex is supposed to be fun not painful. Most folks aren’t into BDSM and just want to have some nice vanilla pain free sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 09:12 PM
5

People have bodily autonomy and have a right to have enjoyable, pain free sex. A lot of the time if someone says no to an act, it’s for a good reason and if you care for someone you should accept that. Why do you want your SO to potentially be unhappy or in pain?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 09:06 PM
8

So why should she do it? Sex is supposed to be fun and happy not painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 09:02 PM
63

My father told me to consider myself single until the man proposed. His reasoning was that a proposal shows he’s serious and only at that point should I take him as an exclusive suitor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:08 PM
9

I bet you she’s doing the naked pick me dance whenever he wants. It’s kind of sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:07 PM
9

Dress looks amazing but people wait to get engaged to start planning for a reason. That’s just gonna sit there taunting her until she and LVM break up and no one wants a used wedding dress so good luck recouping the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:05 PM
5

It’s fun and it makes me feel pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 03:13 PM
4

I just like tall men! Also I’m 5 foot 8 and like wearing heels which shorter men can get fussy about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:40 AM
19

They still won’t believe it! Some folks learn the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:58 PM
77

And talked in public and how she was groomed into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:54 PM
105

Honest to god, she’s my girl crush. Outspoken hottie with her own sense of self? Yessss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:38 PM
57

The sad thing is, I hate that we’re praising something that should happen without prompting. Keanu is what every man should be in this regard, he’s not and shouldn’t be special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:37 PM
19

Bisexual here and sopping wet vaginas are totally a male fantasy. My female fantasy is more like a nice time for both involving intimate touching and cuddling not...whatever that song talks about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:16 PM
8

This is why “did she say yes?” was the wrong way to word it. I was happy when it changed to “did she consent?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 12:52 PM
1

It’s just not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:46 PM
1

God and trying to find where I fit in in terms of organized group
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:15 PM
1

I don’t go to any church but I do believe :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:04 PM
1

They mean if their man waits decades to propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 07:21 PM
4

Why? Rules for thee but not for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:12 PM
2

If that’s what you want to do, then do it. It’s your life!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:11 PM
5

If you can’t get over that, then you should do what you feel is best for you. I don’t control you or your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:18 PM
2

Most people don’t date with the intent of marrying every person they date. You’re an exception. I’m the same way but I’m not normal/usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:00 PM
7

And you’ve been sleeping with women for a decade. I don’t buy that men sit at home knitting chastely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:59 PM
1

Yes. You have girlfriends just for fun yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:56 PM
3

No one is asking you to if you don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:56 PM
1

How do you suggest these young men turn it around?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:49 PM
3

I’m sorry but that’s how the comment came off....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:37 PM
7

Then dump those shaming you! Waiting is perfectly normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:12 PM
7

You don’t think her priorities and preferences actually changed? I am not attracted to the same men I was at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:03 PM
2

Bitter won’t help anything. The milk can’t be unspilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:02 PM
6

That sounds kind of incelish. Most men I know have actual standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:01 PM
2

I agree to both. Complain sure but realize that’s just how dating can be. Women- wait a few months to fuck him to make sure he’s invested Men- wait a few years to marry to make sure she’s the one. Let her true colors show.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 12:53 PM
3

I will cater to my man once he proves he’s a good moral person, doesn’t pressure me to live in sin and doesn’t pressure me for sex (we have it when I want it which admittedly isn’t often.) I’m not even that religious! But these guys would lose it dating me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 12:39 PM
3

Low N women are low N for a reason...she says as her libido is so low she’s got cobwebs on her vag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 12:30 PM
2

I agree manwhores are flaky af
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 12:29 PM
3

Forever. I don’t place much importance on it anyway it would be a relief not to have that stress in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 03:16 PM
9

At least prostitutes get paid unlike this pick me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 11:11 AM
12

I used to do BJs mainly FOR men and I just don’t think I have in me anymore. I’m ok without oral on me so it’s not like I’m being a dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:51 PM
8

Y’all wanna start a fake women club? I’ll bring muffins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:33 PM
14

I’m the same way. It’s cultural for me. My folks do not care to meet every man date, they only want to meet my husband. If I tried to bring just a boyfriend home...they’d ask why we were wasting their time. No timeline for engagement, they aren’t pushy like that but they don’t want to meet a man who hasn’t declared his serious intention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:31 PM
1

Strong family relations here (not without a lot of work and tears and emotional trauma) and I use a version of this as a test. I bring up how I stay the weekend with my family once a month as a way to test for men seeking women they can control. If they react positively and don’t call me a daddy’s girl, they’re OK. If they react negatively and try to tell me I’m wrong for doing this (literally has happened), then it’s a no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:55 PM
5

I feel validated in my choice to sport cotton bikinis all the time- sometimes even cotton briefs if I’m having a “fat day”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:45 AM
1

Religion. How do you control people? Control their personal lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 11:46 AM
1

It’s fair. Larger ladies/people aren’t for everyone. I am not personally into larger men so I’d a hypocrite if I whined.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:14 PM
13

I like my finger not green so no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:39 PM
65

Did he text her back?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:38 PM
8

I think we dated the same guy though I ended it after 4 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:35 PM
11

Blue pill: personality is all that matters Red pill: If she doesn’t fuck you in one date she isn’t attracted to you. FDS: no woman should do FWB, LTRs only. Sometimes women don’t want a whole relationship! It’s OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:59 AM
6

It’s totally a unicorn success story. Sorry, just how it reads :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:39 PM
5

Enough with playing dumb, you and I both know IOIs exist and most men can read them....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:34 PM
5

Ping there is one already about Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:50 PM
1

The assumption is if you’re going to a gyno you’re having sex therefore you’re either a “whore” (very bad) or married (very good). It’s like the Madonna whore complex on speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:17 PM
3

I’ve been in therapy and I don’t believe them but I still can’t call a gynecologists office or use a tampon. Hell even sex is still difficult. I don’t think that will be broken until I’m married and am not a “whore” for doing those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:11 PM
1

Come off it...there’s a difference and you know it...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:42 PM
7

Shame. I wanted to expand on this. I grew up in purity culture and to this day, my libido is still damaged. I can’t go to the gynecologist and I can’t use tampons. It was burned into me that only whores and married women used tampons and saw vagina doctors. I did lose my V at 22, but that was because I felt like a super freak virgin and now I wish I’d saved it. Shame is very powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:37 PM
10

Translation: please pick me dance for me to decide to date you, it gets me hard thx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:28 PM
18

My ex used to only cuddle me when he wanted to fuck. It got old fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:23 PM
2

She doesn’t really want to fuck but you do so she’s doing it for you. Duty sex/I love you sex basically. A lot of LLs do this when their partner can’t take another rejection. She’s just not great in bed and/or doesn’t know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 12:21 PM
0

I wasn’t (26F). You can try and ask her but I don’t think pushing is OK- it’s borderline rape IMO. If she isn’t into it, she isn’t into it- if you don’t want to catch charges leave her alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 12:18 PM
18

How to make sure your wife never touches you again 101. Seriously, what a baby, who the hell does that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:57 AM
17

Yes yes and yes. Men aren’t dumb no matter how they try to push this narrative. They’re very shrewd and know how to play the game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 12:42 PM
8

He’s gonna dump her next. Fiancée isn’t gonna want a poly situation anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 05:00 PM
16

Anything other than normal vanilla sex merits a discussion, in my opinion. That’s kink and isn’t the whole thing with the kink community (they brag about it)- communication? So the logic goes that one should communicate before doing any kind of kink?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:55 PM
1

He wants a mommy bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:46 PM
9

That and the men usually dump the woman after she’s done fixing him because he’ll feel he deserves better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:41 PM
8

I’m not a construction worker. This isn’t build a man. Men don’t appreciate this anyway. They just start thinking they’re too good for you, even though you built them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:36 PM
47

So basically every doctor ever? They seem to think we make shit up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:28 PM
133

I bet he was really proud of himself too. Typical LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:26 AM
4

Sounds like a great way to die slowly, totally not alarmed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:33 PM
61

Hold up are women out there prioritizing a man who isn’t even their actual man? Clown sh*t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:03 AM
1

Well you’re not a neurotic mess so you’re willing to date your FWB. Most men on PPD aren’t nearly as level headed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:11 PM
39

Fellow PTSD here. Actually I have the trifecta of PTSD, anxiety and panic disorder. I’ve actually had really good luck only telling boyfriends- they’ve been very considerate. Or maybe I’m just that fucked up that they’re scared to be anything but supportive haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:19 PM
16

Or your humor sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:01 PM
3

No. Men are lazy and would kick that can down the road while wondering why they aren’t divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:37 PM
3

Yes more women file. But that’s just filing papers not that the divorce wasn’t in process before already.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:29 PM
2

Yes, anyone can do this and file ASAP. It’s not a woman only thing. It’s intended to help folks who need to divorce fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:27 PM
3

No it’s months and months of discovery, mediation/trial, attorneys battling it out, dividing things up, creating parenting plans. It’s not just cash and prizes. Some states require a separation period too, it’s not that easy where did you get the idea that it was all cash and prizes?????
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:24 PM
3

What? No! Divorce has never worked like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:19 PM
240

And think that blowjobs are super easy and don’t get why they don’t get one every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:49 PM
2

Hmm, no no cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:34 PM
3

Most normal folks have a libido. It’s not natural to just feel nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:03 PM
3

True
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:57 PM
4

They sure as hell sleep around a lot more than no libido ladies. It’s healthy, so I’m not judging them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:54 PM
3

Most folks marry at some point. Even Bachelor for Life Clooney did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:53 PM
0

But this is what you run the risk of getting with low n women. High N ladies at least you know they have a real working libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:52 PM
7

For women who have a real working libido, they typically don’t stay celibate between boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:51 PM
2

Seriously it’s jumping to the worst conclusion in a way that would make an anxious person proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:35 PM
6

The only issue with low n women is that we’re usually not HL women. There’s a reason we are low N. I’m basically assexual, but hey my n is 2 and that’s all you care about right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:33 PM
19

Yes. It makes no sense to me. Don’t sleep with men until you’re in a relationship, it’s the best way to avoid pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:31 PM
14

I know it’s so annoying. I’m low n and I’m sick of being told that I’m probably just downplaying. No! I have an LL and don’t date that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 02:53 PM
1

If you do have kids with losers, the child support office and parallel parenting (not co parenting) is your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:39 AM
2

Yes save it for that right moment, I went for a “teacher” type thing and I wish it had been just a touch more special.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:28 AM
10

They use white girls as cum dumpster all the time. Those stupid twits really think these guys like them and it’s kind of sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:21 AM
102

No fake tits or ass and her stomach isn’t perfectly flat. So you know a normal woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:44 PM
13

activate Scrote mode well um babe It seems like you’re too busy to date but you know um vibrators get old and like I have a dick and you can like suck it on occasion if you want. Like totalllly up to you, just lemme know oh and I hate condoms they make my magnum 5 inch dong hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:39 PM
15

If my father found out my husband did this, he’d show up to my house, make the asshole pack his things and help me file for divorce. He’s a little patriarchal on some things but heaven help anyone who tries to hurt me like that. He turns into aggressive Papa Bear in 3.5 seconds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:27 PM
34

That’s why he whispered I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:22 PM
58

Shockingly the comments were sane. I was pleasantly surprised....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:22 PM
28

Not even a hi? A how are you? Did his dick type this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:20 PM
23

Because it’s not sex. The “free love sexual revolution” was really for men to get their ideal sex lives. Nothing about female liberation at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:19 PM
8

Men? They DARVO and make themselves the victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:18 PM
7

This is exactly what they were trying to do. Next step if you agreed was to pitch the merits of FWB to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:18 PM
177

Or for a hookup or sexting or something. If it’s not a friendly conversation that leads to a date or at least just a friendly normal conversation, his dick is texting you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:06 PM
10

Call me when the men are loyal or ride or die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:16 PM
3

This is why you need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:35 PM
7

Being a healthy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:35 PM
5

None. I’m no longer the same weak willed jellyfish spined young girl anymore. I know who and what I am and what some jerk says doesn’t impact me beyond maybe a temporarily bruised ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:26 PM
5

In your 30s, it makes sense. This guy is in his 20s though, where we don’t blink an eye at 4-5 years before marriage. At least my circle anyway, YMMV. Hell we may even live together (not me personally but other folks yes.) it’s the age gap I think. Dump him, you’re not compatible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:55 PM
4

Because he didn’t feel he needed to before because you were patiently there and supportive. Edited to add: indifference is really hard to come back from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:49 PM
10

Duper’s delight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:53 AM
11

I was told starting a movement was useless because they’d get too much pushback. Hello, how do you think early feminism was?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:50 AM
19

HE wAnTs iT to Be a SurPriSE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:48 AM
1

Well no, a drunk hotel hookup in retrospect isn’t how I wanted to lose it. Looking back maybe some corny flowers on the bed and lingerie would’ve been nice and maybe some champagne. All that soft girly stuff guys hate basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:20 PM
1

I did like him. It wasn’t like he was a total random.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:12 PM
1

I think I would’ve waited. I felt really embarrassed still being a virgin at 22 for some reason and wanted to rip the bandaid off. If I could go back, I’d keep saving it for a truly special time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 01:46 PM
3

Brothels and porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 01:40 PM
1

No I just don’t think I’m made for hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 01:35 PM
1

No lol. I’m super LL this was a freak thing to lose my virginity. We ended up dating, so I suck at NSA.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:58 PM
1

He doesn’t. I’m horny and he’s there. The one time I did this, the guy was maybe a 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:49 PM
165

Anyone else’s parents treat them like a co parent as well? I eventually stood up for myself and said that’s not kid that’s my sister but it definitely has strained our relations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 04:03 AM
46

They’d just blame the woman for being alone with them...no attempt at self analysis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:55 PM
3

I’m horny and he’s there. It doesn’t make him special.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:53 PM
1

Not sure what a slide thread is, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:48 PM
1

Personal responsibility, I like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:41 PM
1

OK so go start your own movement to mandate paternity tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:37 PM
2

So you’re poor. Because I am UMC and my parents would die of shame and march me down the aisle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:54 PM
99

I get off on partners who give a crap about me and are sweet and attractive. Yet men act like this is asking for a supermodel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 06:09 AM
3

Men don’t try and then expect us to kiss their feet in gratitude for bathing and getting haircuts. It’s easier to blame others than fix the internal issue. I’m not a hypocrite, I’ve been there before. So don’t @ me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 06:08 AM
0

My idealistic ass wishes everyone was treated well. My PTSD dxed ass knows that’s not true. My PTSD dxed ass also knows it’s possible to heal and become good again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:45 AM
8

This exactly. Marriage is still the gold standard. Long term BF/GF is just basically labeled as kid stuff. Men and women are looked down on for not marrying their long term boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:44 AM
3

Honest Treats me well Follows through on his promises Reasonably experienced but not a manwhore Want marriage and kids eventually Is ok with no premarital cohabitation Likes to go to concerts, bars and out to restaurant experiences (no Applebee’s or Chili’s!!!!)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:56 AM
12

Yes Bill’s stink on top of everything else wrecked her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:08 PM
2

That’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:03 PM
2

Sounds like a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:51 PM
4

:D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:34 PM
2

Because it’s true. If you don’t like yourself why would anyone like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:34 PM
12

Girls like me aren’t for everyone. Its OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:10 PM
16

Conservative upbringing here. It was beaten into my head not to be an easy slut or men wouldn’t take me seriously. So far that’s been correct. Men don’t take sluts and whores seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:49 PM
13

Not all women. Maybe your circle...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:48 PM
-1

Yes you can. You can’t be loved until you love yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:45 PM
5

So sex isn’t that urgent to you. To some of the men who post here, you’d think they’re going to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:41 PM
5

OK so do that. I’m just saying, if sex is that pressing of a need, go buy a whore and fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:40 PM
5

In the meantime they’ll be here whinging to women online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:39 PM
7

They’re waiting for women to do the emotional labor. Just like with everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:34 PM
5

Well yes but if you’re super hung up on a dry spell or being a virgin, isn’t it better than nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:34 PM
14

My libido is already low, and I’ve only had two partners. Sex is a big deal to me when I have it. It takes months for me to comfortable with the idea of even thinking about it. It’s just not something I think about. I’ve literally watched porn and spent more time admiring the camera angles and how nice the girls body is with no sign of life down there. Hugs/kisses/cuddles don’t have to mean sex. They can be very innocent mad almost platonic. I hug my friends all the time, and I’m not trying to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:32 PM
10

Men will fuck a McChicken or a maggoty coconut. A hard dick means nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:26 PM
7

The internet is forever. When you’re done with the easy money, it makes getting money harder when you get a mainstream job. People judge sex workers hard. It sucks but it’s true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:20 PM
0

I don’t think so bud but if that’s what gets you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 02:06 PM
3

Because what is there to share about fucking a married woman? Pussy is pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 01:47 PM
7

I’m so tired of it being “insensitive” not to take people’s BS. It’s never directed at men either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:41 PM
6

No I don’t know. I’ve never had my vagina “tingle” that sounds like an STD.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 12:11 PM
12

Oh shut up. You’re substituting your stupid manosphere terms into something I already said. Feelings=tingles. Tomato tomahto. Don’t be a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 11:37 AM
7

Women have affairs for feelings which they love to talk about. Men have affairs for sex which they’re less likely to discuss in too much detail online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 11:22 AM
14

You sound like a rational person, what are you doing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 09:10 PM
40

All the “happy h**ker” interviews I’ve seen, they always always bring up sexual abuse in their childhood. Not a coincidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:35 PM
3

If a man genuinely believes that crap- don’t bother proving anything. Just walk. It’s less work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:34 PM
2

Only works on low self esteem gals
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:33 PM
21

Men would fuck a McChicken...male attraction means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:33 PM
2

Because they don’t actually like women as people, they like them as vaginas. It’s kind of sick actually, it’s why women shouldn’t have sex with their men too often.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 12:36 PM
116

Don’t worry, they know the difference between a catcall and a compliment when a gay man does it to them, they’re just playing dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:55 PM
5

They should get dogs. Dogs will do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:54 PM
12

Dick you chase doesn’t respect you. It’s not even a nice relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:53 PM
1

Following. Always wondered about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 05:41 PM
2

I have actually. She didn’t act like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:40 PM
3

Not a bad thing, that’s cool that you’ve found a thing you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:16 PM
6

That’s kind of sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:03 PM
10

That’s a great analogy, I like it. Patagonia looks cool AF by the way. I just googled it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:03 PM
2

I agree. Some people are very into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:01 PM
4

Buddy I think your picker is broken. That’s not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:00 PM
8

You bet your ass I’m a texter and caller. I also love quality time and dates. I’m pretty normal I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:48 PM
1

Nah I don’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:47 PM
1

That’s true. If you’re friends/know them, it’s a touch less awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:46 PM
4

Yes. I’m a very affectionate, clingy person in a relationship. If you don’t like hugs and kisses during all waking hours, don’t date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:45 PM
13

I don’t lmao. I just noticed how men tend to talk about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:45 PM
3

Alright fair enough maybe we operate different
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:41 PM
2

Especially if alcohol is involved. I’m not a member of the bubble wrap gang but that seems dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:40 PM
7

Indicator of Interest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:16 PM
1

Those things are a lot more fun than just sex all the time. Experiences vs just being in bed. Sex isn’t that great as to be better than real life experiences. And yes, I thought this even when I was HL. I’m LL now for some reason but even when I had a libido, sex wasn’t a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:11 PM
22

You seem avoidant. It’s normal to worry about folks that you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:01 PM
29

LTRs and FWB are two different levels of commitment and emotional involvement. All that stuff you think is bad in an LTR happens when feelings go beyond surface level. If you want easy breezy all the time, stick to casual. A woman/man who cares will do all that stuff because LTR is so much more involved than FWB. If my SO didn’t worry about me, I’d think they didn’t GAF.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 02:24 PM
13

I move on. I don’t chase and I can take a hint, I’m not 15 anymore. My someone is out there and it’s not the unavailable man who can’t be damned to give a shit about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 02:18 PM
2

I think you found a submissive girl. This doesn’t mean every girl is submissive like yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 04:46 PM
17

They never want to do a MMF threesome which me personally, is a bucket list item. FFM is not something I’m remotely interested in. Bi lady here too! I’ll play individually with women but I don’t like to have a man around during because they make it weird and porny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:19 PM
16

Their level of disgust at anything going in their holes shows how they view penetration in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:18 PM
44

David Carradine says you’re right. What a humiliating way to die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:14 PM
24

Yes, when I was more naive and sweet, I would give these guys a chance because I felt bad for them. Empathetic I guess. Anyway I learned eventually that they were like this for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:09 PM
65

This situation is maybe acceptable in your teens (just maybe not even a full hearted yes) and just completely a red flag in your 20s. Trying doesn’t mean anything honestly, if you’re that messed up in your 20s LATE 20s, I’m not bob the builder. Get it together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:59 PM
13

Spoken like a responsible man. Wrap it before you tap it unless you want a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 07:52 PM
4

Sure but if you’re married to someone there is less stress about who the daddy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:01 PM
4

They’re usually lower class where out of wedlock births happen more often and this situation arises.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 05:45 PM
26

And you know he demands her to shave it all and smell like a flower before he’ll go down on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:13 PM
8

Bigger dicks will hit different spots just by virtue of size.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:03 PM
9

No heat from me. I am the same way. PIV is the main event and as fun as foreplay can be, it’s just that...foreplay. Give me D please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:02 PM
4

This is what FDS pushes and everyone bitches about it. It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:04 PM
2

Because they’re usually damaged and a lot of work. Sure they might be great in the sack but you aren’t having sex all the time. So her crazy will be directed at you 24/7. She’ll simultaneously want you to be around for her and also push you away and also be a massive pick me while playing the victim. Just don’t date a bunny boiler.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:01 PM
236

Cue 50 phone calls. Where is the babies diapers? She’s crying help, she’s hungry what should I give her. Worst.babysitter.ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:33 PM
2

Man isn’t being a good partner? Give him time! Man is a shit parent or doesn’t even try? Men just need patience, help him out. We’re told to cut men so much slack.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:30 PM
2

Because men are too lazy to do it themselves, they will stay where they aren’t happy out of laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:21 PM
-2

Women are more likely to push through what should be red flags in the name of empathy. We are told to give men chances to change and yada yada. This leads to women marrying men they aren’t attracted to because he hasn’t hit them or cheated. I’m not saying TRP is right I’m just saying women take a lot of BS and won’t call time on a relationship when a man would.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:54 PM
53

I had this whole thing about not being an old maid. Well...being an old maid is a lot more fun than being with that prick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:19 PM
32

Mark Manson is gross but he’s right about Fuck Yes or Fuck No. it’s gotta be a Fuck Yes or it won’t work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:18 PM
4

For a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:15 PM
7

FDS is the opposite of that stupid libfem advice that doesn’t work. Sleep with him when you want? Lol no he’s just gonna call you a slut and not date you. Pay 50/50? No then he just takes you for granted. Pursue him? Have fun getting pumped and dumped. FDS is the antidote to stupid man centered libfem BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:01 PM
32

She only made 12K in three months and made loads of videos. They hate her because she bursts the “porn makes $$$” bubble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:16 PM
2

Agree. I use FAM and it works if you’re diligent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:51 AM
43

The fucki*g IUD cult makes me crazy. They have side effects and they do hurt to get put in!! They’re not easy peasy BC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:15 AM
68

COnDoms DoN’t FeEL gOOd on my MagNum c*Ck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:37 PM
17

Why are women pushed so hard to cOmmuNicAte? I never understood that..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:57 PM
2

It’s an ONS! I’m not sure why I need to be getting friendly with someone who is essentially a breathing dildo...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 02:52 PM
3

Well no but the conversation is superficial and usually both parties are drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 02:22 PM
1

I don’t really know. I’m low libido so my bedroom personally isn’t popping. Back when I wasn’t an asexual blob, there wasn’t really a difference. Everyone got the same enthusiasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:46 AM
6

ONS: 1 hr max of fun, we don’t talk much or exchange names FWB: we talk, have sex, maybe get a drink occasionally if it’s appropriate. Relationship: love, affection, 24/7 hugs and cuddles (I’m a very huggy person), little favors, I remember what food you like and buy it for you etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:37 AM
39

He’d be incensed when he likely has done the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 11:33 AM
32

I have one but don’t baby it that much, I figure if it’s that fragile, it don’t belong in my kitchen. I don’t completely neglect it but I do use a drop of dish soap to get stuff off it. I tried the salt method and didn’t really like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 11:32 AM
2

It’s learning that men shouldn’t be wholeheartedly trusted. It’s learning that their sexual attentions mean nothing because they’d fuck a McChicken if they got horny enough. It’s finally coming around to the fact that self development is best and you’re better off learning to save yourself rather than depend on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:45 AM
3

No, if she’s going to be sexualized anyway, why not cash in? Men will sexualize a McChicken sandwich so she shouldn’t let it go to her head but otherwise go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:42 AM
4

My ex wanted me to be perfectly surprised by a proposal. So to achieve this, I had to not talk about it or even hint at wanting marriage and just live with him with no complaints. I wanna say I told him to pound sand right away but I actually tried to do this for 3 years before I lost it and said I wasn’t going to allow him to make me play his special little puppet to get a ring. If he wanted to give it to me, he would’ve with no conditions or stupid games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:44 PM
374

They’re raised to be confident go getters 100% of the time. Women get a weird mix of “go get em girl” and “don’t be too extra men don’t like that.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:09 PM
4

As a 35 year old he was still so young?? I wish I had half the confidence these scrotes do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:58 PM
10

That’s great for you but OP does care.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 10:53 AM
17

I got this after I’d had enough too! He had a plan the whole time apparently. A beautiful plan and I’d ruined it! Suuuuuuure. Me not sitting quietly like a good dog was definitely the issue. NOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 10:52 AM
23

Sharpay seriously got fu*ked in the movies. She works hard for a role and some ungrateful idiots get it instead because of popularity??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:24 PM
8

He wants a fuck buddy. I’m sure some pickmeisha will go for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 12:26 PM
23

In addition. Moms don’t have sex with their kids so no more of that! They wanna be mothered? Here you go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 12:23 PM
21

Be the bigger person is such a cliche. How about holding people accountable? I don’t care about being called rude or a bitch. I don’t and won’t tolerate folks acting ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:51 AM
2

I was on some sort of sports team/gym my whole life. Definitely an ingrained habit at this point. It’s good, has kept me skinny and metabolism good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:21 PM
2

I prefer the treadmill (yes I’m a unicorn) but I’ll do road running if it comes to it. I usually shoot for 3-5 miles a day and 5 as a long run on weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:53 PM
2

Ancient. Just ancient /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:20 PM
7

Because women who know their worth don’t justify or explain excessively.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:17 PM
4

Why what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:15 PM
3

No. That doesn’t make up for being a lardass. Lose some weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:16 PM
1

Same. Gym rat here definitely like skinny/fit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:15 PM
3

Yes, sorry. I run 6-7 days a week and I’m willing to bet you don’t. I want a guy who is active and into fitness not a lardass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:14 PM
10

Porn isn’t reality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:11 PM
17

I have myself to offer. The whole package, looks and character. I have found plenty who want to commit. Your average internet denizen is probably just being edgy because women don’t want him. A woman with good self esteem won’t even entertain this question seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:08 PM
1

Your average makes me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:38 PM
1

Sorry but that’s basic standards for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:26 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:20 PM
0

:D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 12:36 AM
2

Why is it wrong? Why are modern men worse off than before?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 07:53 PM
23

Sure but I don’t know what that would be like
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 01:36 PM
2

They’re perfectly normal men with normal jobs and looks. Not supermodels but cute. I don’t think 80% are below average. Not sure what that stat is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 01:18 PM
6

I disagree. I know lots of average men who manage to have full lives. I think the issue is your attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 01:11 PM
1

I like doing it occasionally but like all things balance is important, I don’t want to be the initiator every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 01:05 PM
28

I wish I was as confident as this man. He really thinks he’s something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:37 AM
2

Someone whose into working out, is kind and love to travel, likes to go to the beach and country music. Not a hick but not a city boy, happy to live in the burbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:00 PM
-1

I’m on the flip side of this. I’m pro life which also extends to use of birth control (personal No for me, I don’t like the moral implication, I am also ex religious so that plays into it.) The amount of men who don’t think I’m serious and will take BC/abort is too much. Like listen when I’m talking and believe me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:22 PM
254

Men talking about their preferences: blah blah blah blah Men when women talk about their preferences: what the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:57 PM
67

It also won’t leave you and tell you it doesn’t love you soooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 02:30 AM
2

That’s one dream that’s gonna stay a dream. Way too complicated irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 01:53 AM
9

Yes, he pretended to like the things that I did to make me happy and it just wasn’t him. It ended badly when I discovered he’d lied to me. I don’t like being lied to even as a kindness/to make me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 06:33 PM
3

Sexual arousal isn’t always the best barometer. Sexual arousal is plenty of things that aren’t good for you. Take fantasies for example, I love the idea of a threesome or group situations...as a fantasy that I will never fulfill irl. Things that sexually arouse aren’t always the best things to do in real life. This is why it’s a bad barometer for attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:12 PM
1

Tried it, didn’t work. If you suggest anything I’ve probably tried it. It’s like scratching my elbow in terms of pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:14 PM
2

In the rare moments that happens? Things go great! The issue is my libido just doesn’t wake up and orgasms don’t work to awaken it. I tried all the tips and nothing’s worked. I guess I’m just LL which is weird cause I used to be pretty HL. On the plus side I’m low n as fuck haha. Dunno if any dudes want low n but no libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 05:54 PM
3

Just not interested. Great at orgasming but not interested in sex and rarely think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 05:36 PM
6

Yes, then maybe I wouldn’t have to feel so awkward explaining that my libido is non existent and not feel like some broken freak who isn’t normal. I know it isn’t normal but nothing I’ve done to fix it has worked. I’ll have sex if it’s absolutely necessary but it’s not something I look forward to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 04:42 PM
51

Good thing you didn’t ask him? How arrogant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:32 PM
1

Men are just as hypergamous. They don’t stick with the pickmeisha who built them up. They use her and move onto another girl. And so do women. So I’ll amend that- don’t build anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 11:06 AM
1

You’re only 25! Don’t write yourself off. Improve yourself a little (I bet there is things you can work on) and give it another go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 11:03 AM
2

Not married but an LL lady here. I don’t feel sexually attracted to anyone but I sure as shit know when someone is a good person and has their shit together. I guess that counts as Beta Bux?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 11:40 PM
9

He’s so jealous of her supportive family structure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:46 PM
35

The first one. If you build up a man in that manner, he’ll get high off the fumes and start to think he deserves better while ignoring all the stuff you did. The second one is probably a tad more humble and grounded through age and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:35 PM
10

Did we date the same guy? Same experience. I felt bad for him until I realized he was able to speak up in every other context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:36 PM
21

My answer to this is “why the hell did you go along with it if you weren’t into it?” It’s absolving men of responsibility to speak up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:15 PM
1

Yes, people are multi faceted. It’s be silly to see someone as one dimensional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:15 PM
22

I’ve gotten repulsed reactions when I negotiate my pay. But you know once they get over it, I usually get paid more. My money> any repulsion that person may feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:02 PM
44

No one goes crazy in a vacuum. They either have poor judgement or make women crazy. Neither is a good implication.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 11:08 PM
27

The man will also never respect them. Men don’t respect women who beg for love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 11:09 AM
0

Men have a Madonna/Whore complex. They fuck the whore and marry the Madonna.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 12:03 PM
2

Sorry about your breakup dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 01:12 AM
2

Sorry it’s not a loss. I’m not looking to teach someone social customs and stuff like that. I’m not a teacher for a reason. At least those men don’t need babysitting...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 11:23 PM
4

If a man isn’t socially aware enough to play the game- it’s a loss if he walks. And yes sometimes I’m fucking busy. It happens. It’s not personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:51 PM
4

No. If someone doesn’t want me I’m not begging them to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:46 PM
3

Not gonna yuck someone’s yum. Not for me but if that’s something men/women want? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:08 PM
175

In dating If it isn’t an enthusiastic yes it’s a no. Don’t date someone who isn’t whole ass excited about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:52 PM
17

Is she sure there was ever a relationship? This doesn’t sound normal for a man in love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 01:42 AM
6

I’m in my late twenties. 4 years is still OK for me. I’ll probably change as I get older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:23 PM
3

Around 40 or so. The skin gets a little fresh looking and the beer gut begins to form. Sometimes they start getting gray.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:45 PM
10

I agree. After 4 years, they should know. At least that’s my outer limit of tolerance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:07 PM
3

Why wasn’t he wearing a helmet? I feel like he’s lacking in accountability and self protection. Has he considered sporting a helmet at all times?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:36 AM
8

Some money is too expensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 01:28 PM
3

It looks beautiful :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 01:26 PM
3

That’s a banging impression of a tradwife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 01:25 PM
2

9 aided greatly by the obvious effort he puts into looking good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:12 PM
1

You guys seem to dunk on them a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:34 PM
2

It’s not for everyone that’s for sure but it’s silly to pretend like everyone wants a whole relationship every time they bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:00 PM
9

No, you guys are allowed to have limits too. In my case, I had some doormat tendencies that FDS helped fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:49 PM
1

A certain amount of “force” can be fun on occasion but vanilla does it for me 99.9% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:57 PM
0

Get??????
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:56 PM
13

Yes it definitely helped me grow up a lot. I was a late bloomer, didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22, so I didn’t learn a lot of stuff that most women learned in college. I thought the guy I lost my virginity to really liked me because he went for drinks with me and would talk to me. If I’d had FDS I would’ve known he wasn’t serious. We hooked up twice and he dumped me. I was devastated. My second boyfriend/fiancé for a while, I compromised too much. I bent over backwards to accommodate him …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:54 PM
6

Maybe it was a blessing a la “he’s all yours sweetie”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 10:10 PM
18

You’re so sex negative. I love when my man pisses on me and calls me a whore /s - some pickmeisha probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:56 AM
7

Ah yes that famous pick me scene from Greys Anatomy. I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 10:18 AM
1

I agree but no use crying over spilled milk. Can only move forward....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:54 PM
1

White. The real issue was that I lived with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:53 PM
1

Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:53 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:28 PM
1

I mean it explains her choice in frames, which is by and large black and plastic. No you have a point, I get the same frames every year (im not kidding.) Maybe it’s time to change it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:39 PM
1

No but I play nice to make my friends and family happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:26 PM
1

Ex Muslim but most of my family and friends still practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:24 PM
2

He was white and I was shunned for living with him before marriage. I was the example of the whore girl who was now dirty and untouchable. It sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:23 PM
1

I had brown glasses one year and didn’t hear the end of it from my mom so idk If I’d go that route lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:22 PM
2

Especially when you’re disowned by your own cultural community and they use you as an example of a bad person, that part honestly hurt the most
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:04 PM
2

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:04 PM
2

If my eye appointment in June goes ahead I’m getting new frames
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:04 PM
1

Central Asian
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:03 PM
5

https://imgur.com/a/mWW4aWY The light was really good so I took a selfie
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:38 PM
3

Yes sis go off
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:05 PM
24

Because wouldn’t you be annoyed if your sex doll talked? Men who are like this see you a hole/flesh light so they don’t care to know you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 01:18 PM
18

A 4 year old definitely said this it was wasn’t made up at all /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 12:59 PM
2

I loved Tolstoy and Dostoevsky and Grossman. :) Anna Karenina was and is a favorite reread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:20 PM
1

Have you considered not dating high maintenance women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:21 PM
10

I know a guy who hates “narcissistic” women and dog moms. So women who own dogs and have self worth. He’s also single. I wonder why..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:44 PM
2

That sub is cancer I’m glad there’s no actual children on it but goddamn that’s pretty fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:41 PM
111

I’m a D cup and I can’t walk around without one. I envy smaller chested girls who can skip the bra.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:36 PM
48

Those women don’t end up “psycho” in a vacuum. Ask him what he did to push her buttons. It’s not victim blaming just the simple fact that people don’t randomly go batshit. Not usually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:34 PM
2

Why do I suck at reading older novels? I gave up on Don Quixote and I just had to take a break from The Divine Comedy. It’s like anything before 1600 I just can’t connect with enough to read in one go like I can modern books.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:28 PM
2

As long as he didn’t step out on me with prossies, yes. Relationships are hard enough without bringing insecurity about the past into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:23 PM
9

Aww congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:33 AM
34

Honestly I’d suspected this. That’s not a normal way to hold a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:27 PM
57

Guys aren’t the only ones who like good looking people. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Idk why they’re so shook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:36 PM
59

So blowjobs aren’t mandatory then right? Oh wait, we’re obligated to suck dick but he can choose right?? That’s totally fair. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:02 PM
18

He also was emotionally abusive. It’s not a lesser form of abuse- it’s just as serious as rape or a beating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:01 PM
15

I don’t think I’m high libido enough to do this. Even if I was idk about sleeping with randoms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:59 PM
23

I’m in this video and I feel attacked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:15 PM
2

I agree. I was speaking more about the perpetual bachelors/never marrieds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 03:17 PM
15

And Saturday Bath was considered the pinnacle of hygiene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 02:14 PM
2

Oral and PIV. Anything before that is “hooking up.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 02:11 PM
7

As more and more people are off the market in a marriage, you’re often left with people who aren’t married. For a reason. It’s not always a bad thing but sometimes someone is single for a very good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 02:02 PM
24

They’re picturing Kim K’s typical look. No makeup makeup which ironically takes more makeup to achieve than a regular “loud” makeup look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:02 PM
2

The only men who ever say no fat chicks are usually fluffy. Let’s see a full body picture of this prince.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:54 PM
0

It’s just decent person code. That’s a scummy thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:19 AM
0

Who the hell hooks up with a friends ex and asks permission after the fact and expects to stay friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 11:40 PM
0

None but I had it done to me in high school. She called me to ask permission after she hooked up with him. Friendship over after that for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 10:47 PM
8

It does! As far as roses go. Only red ones really scream romance to me. Other colors can totally be platonic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 01:08 PM
17

You don’t get family flowers? Roses don’t have to be weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:57 PM
5

Even in HS, my first dates were to places like Olive Garden or Chilis (still shit I know but we were 15-16 years old.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:24 PM
12

And makes her pay for her own food
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:23 PM
20

I’ve taken my sister on my fun days out. It’s not weird. It’s just fun sister bonding time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:22 PM
28

It’s just that generation. They film everything. My 17 year old sister is the same way, she’s still a kind person she just loves her social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:20 PM
12

I’d like to disagree I have a talent for fucking up anything I try to bake. I should go on Worst Bakers of America.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:18 PM
3

DiD yOu tRy taLking To HiM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:16 PM
16

Honestly same, when I lived with someone I found out he didn’t shower daily. He used to shower before seeing me. That went to shit after I moved in. Definitely didn’t want to marry that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:15 PM
115

Can confirm they’re doing this. Ex reached out to fish for nudes (don’t worry I left his ass on read)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 08:59 PM
63

Or getting fucked in a car on a “car date”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 08:58 PM
4

I binge watch the Christmas movies because I’m a giant sap about that stuff LOL. Don’t really use it as a life plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 07:31 PM
9

I love them for mindless TV watching but you’re right, the message is kind of disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:25 PM
1

Better quality content.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:24 AM
5

Same. I’m hotter and better dressed than I was in my late teens. Of course I’m more attractive now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:53 PM
1

Yes. People change, I know I’ve changed. No use in holding grudges, it just poisons you eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:53 PM
9

Maybe he should’ve paid his support. It’s never Dad’s fault right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:46 PM
11

Imagine being married to a guy like this. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:44 PM
5

Wait. Hold up. What was she doing at a frat party? That’s not the kitchen or doing housework. I thought women were emotional and should stay home. Isn’t that their whole thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 04:27 PM
58

My kink is having orgasms with a partner who cares for me on a personal level and loves me. Crazy I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:43 PM
11

I remember that time Lauren Southern tweeted about how badly alt right men treated women. Yes sweetie, that’s because you messing with alt right men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:19 PM
1

Aunt Lydia really stepped up her anti aging routine! (Handmaids Tale reference!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:18 PM
2

We’re turned on by adult men who can take care of themselves and their homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:22 PM
13

Not a kink girl but typically a “Daddy” in the sexual sense is a little more charming and good looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 01:08 PM
8

Bare minimum: kindness, self awareness, responsibility, honesty, emotional intelligence and the traditional kind, General pattern of follow through HVM: empathy, romance, commitment, willingness to compromise when needed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:43 PM
43

I want his confidence. Imagine looking like that and thinking that you’re Daddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:38 PM
2

Who does this? Not any of my circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:28 PM
38

Men are focused on looks. Objectively, people in their 20s are the hottest, so they feel they’re getting a bad deal when they “have” to marry a 30 something. Not saying it’s right- just how they seem to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 03:36 PM
40

I’m shocked he found someone to cheat with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:32 PM
57

He totally has a porn problem- see use of the word “holes.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:28 PM
9

Their actions will show it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:49 PM
14

We’Re a ToY FrIenDly CouPle I suspect HE is toy friendly for him. She didn’t talk about any “toys” she owned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:31 PM
3

I didn’t know hard boiled eggs could wear glasses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:28 PM
32

This is why we don’t tell men we’re saving sex for a committed relationship directly, they’ll falsely say they want a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:26 PM
8

He should probably get some therapy. Even if the sob story is true, it’s really something he needs professional help with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:50 PM
14

They’re exploiting feminism or showing their distaste for women wanting equal rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 09:36 PM
5

Because you can’t make no baby when you properly use a condom. Most men who whine have nutted in a woman. And whine when biology comes through.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 01:27 PM
5

Yes, when you nut in a chick expect a baby. Use common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 01:25 PM
8

Anyone who seriously says “ride or die” is a red flag too. They’ll put you through all manner of bull and expect unrequited loyalty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:08 PM
1

To get laid sure! But that moped joke isn’t a joke. You know the one. Not riding a moped in front of your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:36 PM
8

Child support is an obligation. You must provide for any children you have. You made them, now take care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:35 PM
1

Health and Fitness Dating and sex/personal relationships in general Work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:33 PM
1

Whoops missed it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:08 PM
0

Lady version: bald men, men who are shorter than me (I am 5 foot 8), really pasty/pale people, obesity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 07:10 PM
14

When he kicks the bucket she’ll be filthy rich, I see what she’s doing LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:18 PM
22

A coworker of mine sported one for 5 years waiting for her man to be ready to propose. She was 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:11 PM
24

That’s the only age group they’re ok for for TBH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:10 PM
17

Women having their own money and jobs and the court being slightly more woman friendly than it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:08 PM
2

So find more of a wallflower type! Lots of fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:44 PM
0

IMO the BB position is more legit and emotionally fulfilling than being with a gold digger. You can’t have sex all the time, being with someone who you can talk to is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:47 PM
2

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 09:06 PM
2

Because they want to feel special and desired. A GFE isn’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:53 PM
19

No wonder dead bedrooms abound. Who wants to fuck their child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:41 PM
14

Well shit ladies she better put her gran clothes on. She’s hit the walllll /s Ok enough jokes that cake is freaking awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:39 PM
24

All the broken promises. Something allllllways came up and yet when he wanted something he got it done on time and fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 12:30 PM
2

I’m not that old- 26, but it’s because they just look like babies to me. Anything under 22 is just a no go. They’re in a completely different stage of life and are just kind of naive. I like men my age or slightly older for relatability.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:36 PM
35

So men are socially and emotionally stunted? I mean I knew that already but didn’t think they’d @ themselves like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:27 PM
8

As much as Varya sucks....she seems to have decent self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 01:33 PM
4

They’re trying to get you to cool girl lower what your profile says. Peer pressure in a sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 01:30 PM
11

Him and his cheater forever girlfriend are scum. She’s begging him for a ring apparently. Honey, if he wanted to marry you he would. He’s content with you and his son not being a formal family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 01:23 PM
7

Lmao I’m the opposite. I started only washing hair every other day even though I run 3 miles daily. It’s not like anyone sees me and dirty hair does better in a bun anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 01:22 PM
1

I’m 26. That’s a little fast for me. Different strokes for different folks I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:28 PM
1

Female, yes, because the hope is that we improve and change together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:11 PM
1

I said with the right person, marriage was worth it. My secondary point was that I felt that determining “right” took more than 2 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:49 PM
3

So don’t perform wife duties while vetting him. Just don’t rush.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:20 PM
2

I think it looks cool and I wish my hair wasn’t so dark so I could do it without damaging my hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 04:02 PM
5

This again. I bring a good paying job/career path, smarts, cooking and organizational skills, ability to handle my finances, ambition for a masters, willpower and determination to hit goals at work and in my personal life, and a well read mind. I’m more than my looks. Though those aren’t half bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 04:00 PM
28

I used to think arguments and compromise were just part of a relationship. I’m still willing to argue and compromise on occasion but never again am I staying in a relationship where 50% is arguments and compromise. That shit is exhausting. If we’re fighting obviously we aren’t compatible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:16 PM
5

No roast needed. That ring is a fatal burn all by itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:13 PM
3

At least he’s paying all housing expenses for said private porn star?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:12 PM
1

With the right person, yes. This is why I disagree with the fast engagement thing proposed by FDS. I want to know who and what I’m committing to. That takes time. A man who wants to marry will propose, he doesn’t need a timeline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:08 PM
8

Doubt all “single dads” ask for background, women don’t leave over nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:58 PM
13

They hate women in general having confidence. Makes easy sex a lot less easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:53 PM
42

This is up there with “relationships are work.” Yes they are! Within reason. It shouldn’t be that hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:23 PM
17

She knows deep down it’s BS. That’s why she gets pissed. Never ending wife auditions suck, I know I did one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:48 PM
175

I used to do this and cherish the three word texts. Clown moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:06 PM
1

I shave on Saturdays. As far as men being disgusted, no, they haven’t cared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:46 PM
17

They all think they’re George Clooney. It’s hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:07 PM
1

No of course not, they want a woman who does for them without asking him to do for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 06:11 PM
3

Age gap? Yes Early marriage? Yes Wow I can’t believe things went wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 02:02 PM
2

And yet people are screamed for months of isolation. What privileged people.!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:51 PM
3

What are the odds “she” even knows he’s trying to find a threesome partner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:50 PM
4

Only if the box gets eaten afterwards. Otherwise no sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:36 PM
1

Everyone eventually settles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 12:39 PM
94

I was arguing with someone who said that women were petitioning to get a day off on women’s day and I was like “ok men’s day is 11/19. Get to stepping!” His response: it would get turned down anyway. k
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:12 PM
5

I want to have the confidence of mediocre white men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:41 PM
24

Chad probably talked to girls and left his house. He exercises and takes care of himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:27 PM
-1

Edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 10:53 PM
3

I already know everything you’re saying. I’ll be I promise. I’ve got it going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 10:52 PM
2

The question wasn’t well intentioned. I’m not stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 10:29 PM
2

Don’t act ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 10:14 PM
2

If you give up before trying please never complain about women potentially getting a day off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:25 PM
7

What responsibility don’t we have?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:05 PM
8

International men’s day is November 19. Start lobbying now!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:02 PM
2

We don’t. That was the point of my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:56 PM
15

Men having options isn’t scary to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:53 PM
3

There are women in those professions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:49 PM
4

Instead of whining, work to become chad.....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:44 PM
4

So it’s only men in positions of power?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:43 PM
2

How do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:36 PM
10

It’s being maintained just fine with women working and being equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:36 PM
4

How will society regress that far?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:33 PM
3

I gave an ex 3 chances to stop sexting me and speak to me like a friend (like he insisted we stay after the breakup.....) I should’ve put my foot down after the first dick pic. I really thought telling him to make conversation with me like I was a person was something I had to do.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:24 PM
3

I loved Gone Girl, I didn’t see her as that much of a villain. No one ever held her husband responsible for what HE did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:12 PM
5

I don’t get why they take pride in being emotionally stupid idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 10:56 PM
1

I have common sense. I’m not a total idiot...but I have too much going on already to worry about things in the past that I can’t change. I just watch people’s current actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 02:18 PM
14

I remember when I was a pick me I yelled at my mom about judging some LVM I went on a date with on his job. I told her she was materialistic. Mom. Was. Right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:03 PM
4

How much do you wanna bet even if she took him up on this, their dates would consist of....his or her bedroom? So FWB basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:02 PM
1

Is he cheating on me right now? I’m not in the practice of worrying about stuff I can’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:35 PM
1

Doesn’t matter! Focus on your budding relationship. What she did with others isn’t relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:25 PM
3

Pushing for sex early because she did it one time with someone else is manipulative. You can be attracted to someone and not want to fuck them quickly. You men have this annoying tendency to want women to sleep with you and then whine about sluts. So women adapted. We don’t want to be your sluts. We want to be your girlfriends. Waiting for sex achieves this goal a lot faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:03 PM
24

WoW wHy woUld U dEAdbedRoOm youR huSbAnd?? -LVM probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:44 AM
1

What did you learn?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 01:28 PM
6

Good show themselves as trash early
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 02:13 AM
8

I don’t fuck them LOL. I’d be the worst prostitute ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:49 AM
30

How little of a shit they give about women, it makes it hard to be nice to them. Really all I am is tits and a vag? Me, my personality, my hobbies don’t matter? I used to try to see men as whole people. It’s harder now that the rose colored glasses came off. I feel less bad about them paying for drinks/dinner if all they want is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:06 PM
16

It’s like the slutty virgin they all want :) doesn’t exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:00 PM
9

The tradwife sounds like an absolute blast at parties...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:59 PM
23

I was in a “relationships are hard” relationship. It turned out I was just doing all the work for someone who didn’t care. Fuck that. If I’m not happier I’m leaving. End of story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:55 PM
1

I’m waiting for the dude with the Bangmaid from the DR to appear
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 08:19 PM
11

And forget birth control!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:14 PM
4

Looks matter. Personality and attitude are important but pretty people get cut a lot of slack...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 06:57 PM
13

Female. I definitely get cut more slack than a man would.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:13 PM
8

Date when you’re no longer desperate to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:26 PM
84

There is no sex before marriage. Men are expected to respect women and not push it. They’re expected to propose fast and no cohabitation. They want traditional??? Well here’s the lifestyle! They’re welcome to take it slow and not rush things. No living together, proper courtship and no sex. They have to pay for dates and plan them. Family is heavily involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:21 PM
2

Female 20s, purple, was dark blue a year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 04:16 PM
21

r/sex is pick me central. Every girl there loves BJ/facial/anal and doesn’t mind not orgasming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:25 AM
5

This has been exactly what happened every time I fell for this line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:21 AM
27

Hi sis this reminds of the time aforementioned man said that my long text explaining why I was hurt after he called me a selfish bitch was proof of my extreme sensitivity. And I actually entertained this BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:18 AM
34

I once sent a man a long paragraph explaining why I felt hurt after he called me a selfish bitch. In case you want to know- the wig goes on after the clown shoes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:17 AM
3

Yes but it gets embarrassing when someone is like “let’s do X” and you’re like “shit I don’t know how to do that.” I bet high n girls never have those awkward moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 12:32 AM
2

No, they don’t care. I’m low n and if anything it’s a hindrance. I can’t do the stuff that higher n girls can do in their sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:24 PM
10

I don’t get why you’re so proud of dumpster diving. Is it a power thing? Do you not want an equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:23 PM
8

Exactly these women never meet the family. Maybe the boys but that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:21 PM
9

No foreplay, uncomfortable positions and blowjobs that last forever. I’m not averse to BJs but I’m not spending hours down there. I don’t bend that way and please touch my clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:05 PM
1

Fine as long as he’s taking care of it and isn’t expecting me to be a free therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:44 PM
12

I’ve said things like this before to men, they all claim they don’t need to because they only care about “fun, cute and flirty.” OK THEN. You do you....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:11 PM
10

As if they don’t have mouths to say no. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:09 PM
3

For a boyfriend? Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:37 PM
18

You’re right to do this. Ex came from a divorced family. Guess who had extreme issues with commitment and follow through? I’m not saying people shouldn’t divorce. But his parents dragged out theirs for 9 years. That fucks a kid up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:13 PM
1

Bars/tinder! Lots of thirsty men there. Not that I’ve ever fucked a random but it’s super fun to flirt :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:11 PM
2

Put simply? I won’t stick around where I am miserable and not wanted. I don’t stick around where my goals and needs aren’t met. Only pets and old people are loved unconditionally. I expect my partner to leave if he/she is miserable too. Please do not take one for the team. Leave. If that makes me a bad person so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:10 PM
8

“I’m watching!!!!!!” - he said as he snored on and off Mine liked to spend 2 hours in the bathroom when my shoes were on. Come out and be like darn I missed it!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:00 PM
33

Key word hesitation or delay. Mine strung me along saying he was planning a big proposal. It doesn’t take 3.5 years to plan a big proposal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:02 PM
10

Be yourself doesn’t mean let it all hang out. It means be your best self.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:53 PM
1

As are you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:45 PM
1

I was very attracted to my LTRs. They wouldn’t be LTRs if not. But there is stuff I don’t like to do. No one will change that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:44 PM
57

Why would anyone want a man who is mean? That’s crazy. Even in my pick me days I’d push back on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:37 PM
1

I’m serious. Not every girl has STRs. I’ve had two LTRs and been reasonably open with them sexually without crossing hard boundaries. We don’t all have ONS and FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:31 PM
1

Not the intended girl but I didn’t have STRs I had LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:28 PM
1

It’s not true. Anal is very uncomfortable and dangerous. Women who don’t do anal don’t love you less they just have basic self respect.l enough to know it isn’t for them. Back when I wasn’t mentally healthy and didn’t have self respect I would do everything. I’d also be miserable and suicidal. I’m much healthier now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:15 PM
5

Self sufficiency and fulfillment in a way that SAHM never will do. Not having to depend on a man, which can be dangerous. I can always get a new job, can’t always get a new man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:12 PM
1

Midday? I’d kill for that. That sounds awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 04:18 AM
53

“That’s what I signed up for” that’s bone chilling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:53 PM
8

Someone should make this app so the fuckboys can leave the apps meant for dates.....anyone in haha?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:38 PM
5

Is that a grown up version of “Netflix and Chill”? He thinks he’s so sneaky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:36 PM
16

It’s even worse if you have a savior complex. I would deliberately pick projects and try to fix them. It didn’t go well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:35 PM
11

They love when a woman is vulnerable, it’s sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:12 PM
23

I once got called a Daddy’s girl because I called my dad often and had a good relationship with him. I later realized he was just frustrated he wouldn’t be able to lie to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:02 PM
9

They get validation from getting laid and don’t get that women don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:40 PM
2

Remember she pushed for a wedding. She chose this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:05 PM
3

Ooh! Lying manipulation AND attempts to incite pick me dancing!!! Trifecta of awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:15 PM
3

I don’t wear makeup. What you see is what you get
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 06:13 PM
3

Did he also call you crazy for crying when he said mean things to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:04 PM
10

My ex tells everyone I’m a crazy demanding bitch for asking him to keep promises he made. Sooooooooooooo nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 05:49 PM
9

Don’t excuse red flags. You can’t love away red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 01:03 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:37 PM
1

Same to you friend
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:37 PM
6

Why do sperm banks cap donation at 35?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:37 PM
7

No your sperm ages and becomes rancid. I wouldn’t bank on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:24 PM
13

I stopped watching political videos and participating in politics because he said he didn’t find it sexy. Instead I watched hair and makeup videos only so he wouldn’t be intimidated. Politics is a big interest of mine. I now realize he didn’t like that I knew more than he did about politics and wanted me to stop outshining him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:02 PM
10

I hate that. He didn’t have to marry her, he had a choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:56 PM
6

No. Chances. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:19 AM
1

Yeah that’s a fuckboy. Do not fuck him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:17 AM
68

I suspect forever girlfriends regret marrying. Maybe once they get what they thought they wanted they realize the whole man is trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:16 AM
45

Did/do you ever get the “I’m not as neurotic as you” when you ask him to do anything? Mine loved that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 10:10 PM
182

My last relationship every argument eventually went back to how I sucked. Our decline started when I stopped him and said “enough blame game. I’m not the only one who ever does anything wrong.” And I wasn’t. Did I do everything right? No. Did I deserve to be berated every time I raised an issue? Also no. One sided work wasn’t ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 08:05 PM
5

It exists like a unicorn scenario. Rarely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:41 PM
10

It’s not. That’s the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:25 PM
15

That sounds like date rape. Accidental anal after drinking? Not planned at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:27 PM
17

Yes BUT, don’t be surprised if he turns on you later and asks why you haven’t fucked him. It’s easier to call female friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:23 PM
1

I like it for a first date. Easy to bail if he/she’s not what you expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:14 PM
4

It tends to weed out the guys looking for an easy lay. Guys who want to fuck won’t pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:51 PM
24

So Colton’s season?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:06 AM
20

Says he goes with the flow. Expect to be the event planner who makes things happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:33 PM
4

He was 25 20 years ago LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:25 PM
2

If a man wants to commit, he will. It’s not an age, it’s a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:19 PM
4

Go outside and hang out with people. People know women who know women. Etc etc. Making connections is how you get things not by scrolling a phone and hoping people come to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:16 PM
1

It works for women with FOO and daddy issues. Women with healthy family relationships? Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 01:19 PM
1

Why didn’t he just hire an escort from the get go?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 01:16 PM
3

Honestly, yes. Sex is important in dating but not to the level they claim. And they wonder why they end up with crazy chicks on occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 01:09 PM
3

He can want it. It doesn’t mean he will get it. As to your second part, yes he should vet me for commitment. Sex isn’t a part of that vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 01:02 PM
120

4/10 max -LVM probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:03 PM
3

Smart, resourceful, imaginative, creative, fast learner, able to groom herself well and pick flattering clothes, takes care of herself, good conversationalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 01:13 PM
3

Sex is very YMMV. Just talk to your partner and find out what they like. Some women do like it. Some women don’t. Talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 01:39 PM
6

She wanted to lock down her man! Well she got him!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:38 PM
9

Was he expecting a BJ on the spot for some chips? Even prossies charge more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:37 PM
15

My ex did this too, he was trying to get me to pick me dance for it. Don’t get me wrong I did pick me dance for it. I definitely goofed up and I should never have pick me danced. I realized at month 26 of pick me dancing what BS it was. I now never want to see an engagement ring ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:31 PM
4

Nah just give it back. She’ll get maybe 19 bucks for it? They devalue crazy fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:27 PM
4

YES QUEEN. You got this. Nothing to do but forge ahead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:25 PM
19

Wait but the Reddit bros told me women get piles of cash from divorce. Did they lie???? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:22 PM
34

I think HE isn’t for you. It doesn’t sound like you’re compatible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 03:28 PM
3

I guess I’m an old then......
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:45 PM
2

Exception not rule.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:23 PM
6

No, men who use sex robots were never in the dating market anyway. It would be no great loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:21 PM
1

No, it takes time but you move on. You’ll be ok. Just give it time. Be patient, it does take a while for real “meh” to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:20 PM
2

Nothing said I couldn’t. So yes dear sir I can :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:24 PM
7

Men are largely ignored so they take small platonic stuff as “she wants my dick.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 04:12 PM
3

They’re HVM to men, who value sex above all else. To women, yes he’s pretty much trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 04:09 PM
19

Yup. Learned the hard way on this. I wanted him to become a responsible adult who planned stuff and didn’t forget things. Ask me how that turned out.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:02 PM
6

Go off u/poppy_blu, Dead on girl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:25 PM
1

A lot. I like to travel and have weekends off and do fun things and that takes money. I make my own good money too so it’s not like I’m asking some ridiculous thing. I’m willing to go 50/50 on stuff and don’t want to be held back by a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:46 PM
19

Sharing money....with a boyfriend??? Sis had to learn the hard way not to do that......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:34 PM
21

Yup! Look out for number one at all times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:44 PM
1

That’s a really general statement. Women have preferences and different personalities. YMMV is the motto for sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:08 PM
8

Less stress in regard to men, set better boundaries at work and with family, improved family relations, improved friendships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:17 PM
3

Pear shape, white gold band, no halo. I’ve done a little IG ring stalking hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:17 AM
42

She’s just going to have to learn the hard way....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:30 PM
19

Imagine being proud of mediocrity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:03 PM
22

How’d you meet my cousin lmao?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:00 PM
18

At least no more unreciprocated building/emotional labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:45 PM
15

“Remember when you did (minor thing)? You can’t ask me to do anything now.” -them when you bring up issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:21 PM
16

Girl same. I let myself get so wrapped up in having a man I let so much bad stuff slide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:19 PM
18

I used to be a pick me and sacrificed a lot of myself for others. After finding FDS, I built self esteem and set boundaries and became A WHOLE PERSON (complete with self love and self esteem.) Catering to men was destroying me. ❤️ FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:18 PM
3

He messaged me after I commented an r/exmuslim post. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:14 PM
73

Why don’t these men go to actual hookers? That’s all they want anyway...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:13 PM
8

I wanna get myself a galentines day present to celebrate how awesome I am. I have my eye on these cute reasonably priced sapphire earrings (for special occasions.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:11 PM
1

Dude it’s like 3 months, y’all need to get your info straight. No one on there claims LTRs don’t involve sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:07 PM
1

Well yes....no women expects a man to stick around long term without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:04 PM
1

The....beginning......the rest of relationship certainly involves sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:04 PM
1

Some of us don’t just take every dick that comes our way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:03 PM
2

Interact with better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:02 PM
1

Relationships usually involve sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:01 PM
4

Sure...men have. Women don’t tend to improve themselves only to get laid, IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:25 PM
4

Dating and self improvement are two different domains.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:20 PM
2

I used to, that’s why I settled for someone who wasn’t right for me. Anyway, after that blew up I started working on seeing and creating value in myself and I no longer believe I have an expiration date. I am more than what people think of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:17 PM
3

Key word.....discreetly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:16 PM
2

Yes, some cultures are very “don’t bring home babies or diseases.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:15 PM
3

Have you seen the sister sub? FemaleLevelupStrategy? FDS is for dating....FLS for self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:14 PM
1

It’s that or never take a dump......choose one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 12:46 AM
2

Have friends who have kids. They take toddler into restroom with a toy/book.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:28 PM
4

I did haha. Never would date but man knows good music when he sees it Edit: damn y’all I just like the song
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 01:09 PM
2

No, I wasn’t ready to date/marry then and I’m not ready to date/marry now. That’s a big decision to make and I’m going to date/marry some random just because how old I am. I will do it on my time when I’m in the right mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 12:58 PM
24

Did he text her back????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 12:56 PM
10

I love that song though. Yay for Mariah Carey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 12:55 PM
2

“No kissing then today” “I wouldn’t have kissed you anyway”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:02 PM
17

So like a property settlement in a divorce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 07:48 PM
1

Yeah, it was fine but no sparks. They tried though and he was objectively a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 07:41 PM
16

You’re single right now. You don’t know how you’d react IRL. You’re being kind of a cool girl pick me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:00 PM
2

No, it’s a great way to get stepped on and exploited though!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 01:08 PM
5

I always wanted stability, I wanted a life like my parents had and that requires stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 01:05 PM
1

The last part, yes. I’m an ambitious lady with big dreams and it’d be nice to have a male counterpart. The first two are meh. I care about effort and follow through not money. Though...usually big dreams people make good money by having work ethic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 01:02 PM
31

Y’all don’t file divorces as a workout????? Its awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 02:03 AM
7

No strict guideline. Whatever works for each couple, some fast some slow. I find FDS’s 3 year rule a little restrictive in this regard. Some people genuinely need more time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:36 PM
3

:D thank you! Happy to be here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:16 PM
37

A moment like this is actually why I called my engagement off. I wanted a happy willing groom and didn’t want a life full of “You wanted X NOT ME.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 03:13 PM
2

Oh oof that could’ve gone south so fast
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 02:02 PM
27

How much you wanna bet she ends up a perma fiancée because SO never wants to plan a wedding?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:51 PM
10

Really consider if he’s worth marrying. It’s a big step and there may have been red flags she missed in her desire to marry so fast. She may have rose colored glasses on. Really take a harsh look at the man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:11 PM
36

Unfortunately....99% of lady proposals happen when men drag their feet. That’s why people assume that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:10 PM
39

A to V is definitely not safe. Never let a man do that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:09 PM
3

Dick pics are fine....from someone where that dynamic has been established. Context matters. Random dude dick pic is gross but from an established sexual partner? Right on!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 04:01 PM
3

Oddly enough, we don’t always need to be finding men. Besides they’re there when we want them. Dick is cheap and abundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 12:49 PM
5

Would you like your sexuality restricted?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 12:47 PM
59

The thing I’ve noticed about me who whine about child support is how they don’t go for custody. That would cut the child support down. But they claim it’s not worth 10K to 20K to possibly lose. OK, so you don’t love your children. If you did you’d already have hired a lawyer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:32 PM
31

Not all relationships are meant to last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 04:02 AM
8

Didn’t we get rid of chamber pots in the 19th century?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:07 PM
12

How does one install a restroom and shower into such a contraption?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 06:13 PM
9

It makes sense. Marriage with a partner who doesn’t want it is much different than with someone who is psyched to be with her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 06:11 PM
10

Yikes. Not good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:32 PM
13

Oh no they share finances. No sis no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:27 PM
9

She should propose! Some people only learn the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:26 PM
17

Stop. Wait. Don’t go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:24 PM
28

It’s not even a nice ring WTAF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:22 PM
25

He’s giving me abuse red flags. I really hope I’m wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:21 PM
2

You need more self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 04:30 PM
3

So how do so many women marry in their 30s and 40s? I guess lots of men are weirdos. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 04:17 PM
7

TRY. That’s all we are asking, if you truly care for your children, you will do it gladly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 04:13 PM
5

Women always have a chance babe. The wall isn’t real. Quit buying everything men say wholesale.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:46 PM
1

At least TRY!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:43 PM
10

No but most mothers will use the money to support the kids you don’t want full custody of.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:40 PM
4

Dick is cheap and abundant. Never ever chase or value a man that much. They just aren’t worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:37 PM
0

Your ex is caring for said children.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:29 PM
0

Your ex is caring for said children.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:29 PM
2

Your ex is caring for said children.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:29 PM
12

They don’t. But they also don’t want to pay support, they want cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:28 PM
-1

So apply to that court for it! It’s always available.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:28 PM
0

You’re welcome to go for custody fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:25 PM
2

In that area
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:00 AM
2

I live in the philly suburbia. So it’s an hour train ride max.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 01:20 AM
3

Do I gotta tell y’all my real name if I go to meet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 10:55 PM
6

You can meet me!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 08:59 PM
1

I bet you wouldn’t make Chad take it slow /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 08:38 PM
1

New guy? Subtle. We likely just met, let’s take things slow and not rush. LTR? Both are fine. There’s a base connection there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 08:37 PM
2

No, men don’t change and are trash. So one shot and that’s it, they’ll take advantage of you if you show weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 08:35 PM
1

Good for them. Profit off the thirst of dumb fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 08:26 PM
8

Oh I’m sure. Aren’t you happy with your submissive bangmaid? Why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 08:30 PM
20

Because sex is their whole personality. They pride themselves on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 02:52 PM
13

Yup! Keeping dates public tends to keep things PG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:51 PM
1

OP I don’t think you like women. You wouldn’t need to be convinced If you did. Men who love women Love women. We aren’t men with tits, we are people. I’m sorry you don’t see it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 01:46 PM
40

Girl yes!!! Men who want to marry will marry. Leave that non marrying man’s ass behind. And so what if he marries the next chick???? Why are you protecting a turd in your hand? Put the turd down and go wash your hands! (General you)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:42 AM
3

It’s not hatred, it’s just something you don’t agree with.. :) you have a good day too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:06 PM
2

Cute sarcasm. I’ll keep living my life and you keep living yours how you want to OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:47 PM
11

And they want us to feel special when they stick their dick in us. HahahaahHh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:34 PM
31

It sounds like he wanted a real doll TBH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:03 PM
30

Well yeah, my point is they call you a liar even when it’s true and you were a late bloomer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:01 PM
40

I’m actually at 2 and men don’t believe me. It was a fling that I lost my V to at 22 and my first adult boyfriend shortly after that I was with for 3+ years. And these fuckers don’t believe me and accuse me of lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:57 PM
40

I bet he complains/complained about dead bedrooms too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:53 PM
3

They still love them! For a one night stand after which they’ll call you a slut and say your pussy was loose. Men.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:52 PM
2

I hope Esther Perel gets fucked by a cactus. Fuck her and her enabling of trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:50 PM
2

Let people look how they want to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:26 AM
6

And RPW is full of doormats. And MGTOW is full of losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:06 PM
7

You like older men because of your mental illness I bet. Get help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:31 PM
11

You’re ripe for picking by perverts. I would get help so you aren’t a target anymore. Start your schooling again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:57 PM
1

Of course she likes Lana Del Rey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:33 PM
8

She’s young and she’s mentally ill. This is how bunny boilers happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:31 PM
4

Y I K E S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:30 PM
2

Is abundant and low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:17 PM
19

My question is do we get pumped and dumped or do we make men wait and are prudes? PPD should enlighten me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:48 PM
5

And why care? These MFers our there doing what benefits them. Compassion shouldn’t be given to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:01 PM
19

FDS is about avoiding pumping and dumping. I thought our waiting rule was evil? Be consistent please. In addition, RPW is for doormat pick mes who genuinely think men will help them. No, men are out to get max benefits for themselves...FDS is for ladies who realize that they need to create their own destiny outside of men. Ironically, this is when you’ll have the healthiest relationships, when you’re secure in yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:48 PM
7

When you expect your plates to treat you like real boyfriends that’s when it gets annoying. You’re just a dick to ride. Shut up and get a boner. You want the boyfriend treatment? Ask her to be in a relationship. Women usually plate hot losers they’d never be seen in public with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:56 PM
2

Hi same. 5’8 here. I like 6 foot or taller as well. I’m not super excessively tall but tall enough where it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:51 PM
0

Honestly I’m cool with coffee and walk dates for first dates and chill low key lazy dates. Not every date has to be a production you know? I know FDS doesn’t like them but I’ve had good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 01:50 PM
45

They should blame themselves. If a dog is better company....wellllllllll....what’s it say about you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 01:22 PM
2

I would’ve said it was bad before but that was when I still mattered and was a catch. Now what? I don’t care anymore. Whatever happens, happens. At this point, sure I’d do it, I don’t even want to marry anymore. Engagement rings make me feel nothing but panic and weddings make me feel nothing. So sure live together, it sucks anyway, better to just be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:28 AM
3

We’re humans not animals babe. That’s why. Biology controls us but not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:24 AM
18

Remember she fought to marry this loser. She deserves all the things that come with said loser. Maybe she will wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:00 AM
9

Why are men trash?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 09:38 PM
2

I had one fling, that’s why I say mostly. That’s where I learned I should stick to LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:38 PM
1

No. Not my style. I’m mostly an LTR girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:15 PM
1

No. Not my style.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:44 PM
3

They want a slutty virgin who does giga anal on the first date and fucks like a pornstar,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 02:24 PM
8

At least he’s upfront. He sucks but he puts it all out there....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:10 PM
3

Oh and don’t pressure him! He’s a timid forest creature who must be convinced to commit in anyway. Men aren’t built that way. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 02:03 PM
0

Sometimes it was a rush to marry or unwillingness to abort. She didn’t get to know him over a long period of time and get a good idea of who he was and his red flags. Unwillingness to abort is just that. It’s a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 02:02 PM
0

No, I don’t like it from anyone...I think that approach is really gross.....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:10 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:08 PM
51

Pushed for sex way too fast. Chill dude, i haven’t given you any OK that I want to fuck you. Aggressively texting me about blowjobs and the size of your dick won’t do the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:23 AM
2

Does FSU count as mixed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:31 PM
1

I don’t need some shrimp hanging around, no.....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 08:50 PM
1

Why? If you stick around with an aint shit what do you expect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 06:05 PM
1

We don’t know what went on behind the scenes. We don’t know about Jesse and Cara either. Maybe there was a dealbreaker going on both ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 05:11 PM
5

Yes but too many women see it like this. They fixate on marriage as this thing they must do and ignore the other person they are marrying, that’s what I’m trying to push back on. I see this sort of idealization of marriage. Hell I used to do it too! And it truly is just a piece of paper with some legal benefits. The man doesn’t change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 05:09 PM
0

Why? Sex is sex is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:57 PM
2

Yes but you walk the walk. You don’t manwhore around town and then demand a low n woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:42 PM
1

He’s racking up his own while slagging her off for the same thing......
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:41 PM
8

I’m 5 foot 8. Take a guess why.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:37 PM
10

He got fat and got a role at work that requires 60-70 hours a week and both weekend days. I may not have gotten any promotions but I lost weight, got fit, reconnected with myself and my family. I’m happier than I ever was with him. I realized my employer sucked and I’m on the hunt for new position. I say no to working weekends more often than not. I’m a whole person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 04:14 PM
2

I love this. Use their tactics against them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 03:59 PM
4

Why rush into marriage? Marriage doesn’t or shouldn’t change anything. A wedding won’t make you a different couple or fix your issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 03:58 PM
3

So at what point do we place blame on the woman for staying so long without a wedding? He didn’t stall the relationship all by himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 03:56 PM
46

MeN aGe liKe fInE WiNe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 03:48 PM
2

Yes, stability is sexy. I’m not a college student anymore. Poverty doesn’t turn me on nor is it something I want to deal with. I want someone who is in my SES and has it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:43 PM
38

I did when I was 12
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:34 PM
10

Less drama. A secure woman won’t start drama over something that doesn’t merit it. Your life will be a lot saner and quieter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:28 AM
4

Agree. Include Gabby in HVW and Susan in pickmeisha Edie also HVW and Renee as a mix
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:44 PM
11

Yes, they age hard. It’s not pretty. No amount of money could entice me to fuck an old fattie with thinning hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:36 PM
32

My friend did something similar.....my friend is me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:27 PM
27

Wait explain the propose to yourself thing. You bought your own ring and told them you were engaged and they were cool with this? Did any weddings come of it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:31 PM
4

Yeah same, or at the very least I’m waiting a long time to really get to know him before I take that big of a leap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:50 PM
127

I made my own birthday dinner reservations because he said I was better at it. It was a website. That you put info into. Facepalm at myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:37 PM
9

That would please men yes. Women stay 25 forever and they can be obese and ugly and still get hotties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 01:38 AM
1

Indirect parental alienation......
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:10 AM
4

You aren’t owed sympathy. Own your shit and fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:10 AM
5

Stop playing the victim. Go make some friends and call your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 12:59 AM
1

Do you make more than mom? You owe support. One house can’t be vastly different then the other. Kids notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 12:57 AM
1

Pay for your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 12:41 AM
6

*12
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:16 PM
33

I guess men don’t age? Press X to doubt. Age hits us all...no one escapes. I don’t know what they’re so smug about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:00 PM
5

Again this is what I’m talking about when I talk about lifestyle compatibility. Long term you need more than looks and niceness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:50 PM
3

Well most of them are lazy tards........sorry the truth hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:55 PM
2

Because men are lazy retards who don’t and won’t file because they can’t plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:36 PM
2

Get an attorney get her an attorney negotiate terms to make it fair sign you’re good to go
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:23 PM
2

Properly. Done. Prenup. Properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:17 PM
4

Properly done prenup......
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 02:01 PM
4

Divorce is not the same in all cases. Keep that in mind. It depends on your financial status and children if you have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 02:01 PM
1

YMMV. Pick the right out and figure it out through clues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:55 PM
29

I would’ve offered her an alibi lol. Yes sir she was my house all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 01:51 PM
20

How do you deal with clients who push for them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 01:22 PM
36

I know we aren’t fans of sex workers here but ever notice they sell (SELL) their nudes and videos. Sure there may be an occasional sneak peak of 30 second promo but you gotta buy that stuff from them. When you send nudes you’re acting like a cheap sex worker. He’s going to lose respect and value takes a hit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 01:20 PM
2

I like it, I wonder if a secular version could be created.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:51 PM
1

Didn’t want to give you a flip answer. Plus someone in comments gave me a better idea anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 03:01 PM
2

Ooh perf. That’s way better than my idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:46 PM
1

Pasty white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:46 PM
5

His karma is being him. That’s all the karma you should count on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 02:01 PM
7

Hey me too! My family made me feel like if I didn’t marry by 25, I was spoiled milk. That’s not true. I’m not spoiled milk. I am a whole person who isn’t defined by how many kids I do or don’t have or by who I’m married to. I see marriage as a prison now anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 01:51 PM
5

I agree. I definitely got like this. I was so embarrassed to tell my family and friends I almost became a forever girlfriend. That was the wrong way to look at it. My value doesn’t lie in if a man marries me, it lies in my accomplishments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 01:48 PM
10

Please don’t commit to someone after two dates. That’s barely any time. You’re not in love with your soulmate yet, CHILL. Marriage isn’t a goal. Don’t turn every guy you date into your future groom. That’s the patriarchy talking. You’re afraid to date too many men and get too old. It’s not true. The FIRST time he acts ugly- leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 01:41 PM
1

Well in that case, the child is in moms belly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:34 AM
0

Child support. Only for the child
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:21 AM
2

Let me think on this a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:21 AM
1

I’m not trying to date Doosh V. He’s a pig anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:17 AM
2

That’s where child support comes in! If he leaves while the bun is in the oven. He must support you as if child was born. Male side- paternity tests. No birth certificate write ins.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:08 AM
1

This post is about Doosh V...c o n t e x t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:05 AM
2

Fuck this neighbor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 12:05 AM
1

No one cares if his sister died. He’s still trash
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:54 PM
1

Why are you defending a lying con artist wannabe rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:54 PM
15

When someone tells you who they are believe them -maya angelou
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:46 PM
32

Marriage fixes nothing. Only marry men who prove why you should give up your freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:42 PM
3

I don’t care to be showered in riches so I don’t care. As long as he is kind and honest and a good partner, we’re golden. I care about the now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:38 PM
4

Not relevant. His stupid awakening doesn’t redeem him. Let him burn in his sadness. Stupid asshole deserves it. Hell I’ll throw a log on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:34 PM
4

He hit the wall lmao. I hope he dies alone surrounded by no one with no pets. That mfer is trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:12 PM
2

I don’t see my friends that often, I’ve kind of pulled away :( . Maybe I’ll start with that change, see if it helps. I really want to be the person who doesn’t need a lot of social time but I don’t think it’s working. I’m saving money cutting back on that stuff but I wonder if it’s worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 08:24 PM
2

I think I want a change in life but I don’t know what exact change I want. Anyone ever dealt with this? Fun and thrill is one thing I know I’m missing so that’s below but I don’t know what I’m dissatisfied with in my life in particular beyond that. At this point I’m coming up on 5 years in my job and I’m doing well in life but something is.....missing. I feel like I don’t do anything fun or thrilling anymore. I want to do fun thrilling stuff but I’m afraid to shake up the good stuff in my life. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 08:11 PM
1

Because women can’t fix these men. Therapy and some friends will.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:12 PM
1

Ok but is it wrong? SOs ain’t shit. Family wins every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:45 PM
2

It can be nice if the stars align and everything’s perfect. Beyond that, it kinda feels like a backwards shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:12 PM
1

I made this mistake before. It was out of love and I wanted so badly for him to come through, he didn’t. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:11 PM
1

I’ll call you for sure! (Delete and block)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:09 PM
-1

Festivals are fun, you make your own experience. Have sex.....don’t......up to you. Y’all should go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:08 PM
11

Some dude messaged me one time that he was a virgin. Out of the blue. I suppose this was to inspire me to take it? Weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:05 PM
3

I’ve had the membership for a few years. I’ve brought their entire B and N classics collection lol. Go at the right time they’re 5 a book for classics My bookshelves: https://imgur.com/a/CRwNuyH
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:52 PM
2

Then WTH was your last post?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:52 PM
1

I use to deal with stress and get happy hormones going. Dunno about everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:51 PM
2

Very. I want truth and to be able to see what I get. After an experience with a people pleaser who lied to make things “happy”, I never want to do that again. It was exhausting figuring out what was a lie and what wasn’t. Just be YOUR (key word) BEST ( also key word) self. Be you. I don’t need a show put on, I don’t need someone who pretends to like what I like. I need to know it’s real.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:47 PM
4

You’re never gonna be happy if every sex session needs to be 1000% porn star enthusiasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:44 PM
3

So do I. I was surprised I couldn’t finish DQ since I got through War and Peace, Brothers K and Anna Karenina. Actual bookstores still exist :) I throw a lot of money at my local Barnes and Noble
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:35 PM
2

No kidding. Shame too, it was funny at parts. Now I’m reading Zora Neale Hurston.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 03:48 AM
2

I made it through first half and couldn’t do it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:00 AM
3

I couldn’t finish Don Quixote. It was just not my style. I got through 416 pages and just. stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 11:52 PM
1

I’ll go ahead and be one while doing touristy shit all over London. Tips and must sees welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:26 PM
2

I’m tagging along on my dads work trip to London in March! :) Call me a daddy’s girl all you want but no way am I passing up a free trip. We return 4 days before my first half marathon, so wish me luck haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:07 PM
22

Was he expecting you to drive to him? Cute.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:25 AM
4

Family > SO always. SOs leave, family don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:39 AM
2

Yes, since when was he such a sniveling bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:38 AM
1

Meghan is a narcissistic cunt who wanted to be the special one to reform the royal family and when that didn’t work decided to get her pussy whipped husband to break away. She got fat after first baby after acting too good for the royal family. She cradled her bump excessively like she was the first woman to spread her legs and get creampied. Harry will regret marrying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:37 AM
1

Agree but I’m in mortgage and even married people pull BS. It’s not a guarantee. It’s the same process to QCD a person off married or unmarried. Please don’t think that being married makes it any easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:55 PM
7

And I chose to listen. Something in my gut told me it wasn’t a joke. Thank god for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:41 PM
2

Because fidelity matters. We wait so we can make sure he’s an OK guy and not a fuckboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:39 PM
1

That guy or girl you love finally takes you out of the friend zone and they’re super happy about it. Personally I’d reject that offer. Fuck that. I’m not sloppy seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:38 PM
3

I don’t know but it’s fucked up and disgusting. They’re gross pedophiles who deserve punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:36 PM
7

The fact that yes women can get dick in 3.5...but is it quality dick? Is it a guy we can stand for more than a minute? Is he groomed? Is he attractive? Yes we can get laid really easily but the goods are usually odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:36 PM
7

I knew someone who didn’t think pillowcases had to be washed because he would lay down on it after he showered. Men are dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:34 PM
3

I think the rule should be don’t buy a house with someone you don’t trust. Married couples divorce too......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:32 PM
5

I’m with you. I had an ex who used marriage and my desire for it to manipulate me so I’m currently anti marriage for myself. He actually at one point “joked” that he’d fuck me over in a divorce and take all I cared about. Fun fun fun....... Thank god we didn’t marry. I think I would marry after getting to know him fully over a couple years living together and had full knowledge of his family. I don’t think I’d rush it. I don’t think marriage means enough to me anymore. He ruined it for me but al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:31 PM
12

Is he sure he isn’t gay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:28 PM
7

It is but I wouldn’t bank on it. Just assume you’ll be FWB forever and go find an LTR guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:27 PM
6

Children get loved unconditionally. That’s it. Maybe pets. Adults are loved conditionally. Everyone learned this by age 12....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:01 AM
7

Ding ding ding! The trash usually reliably takes itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:59 AM
14

My ex “jokingly” said he would fuck me over in a divorce and take all I cared about.....that was the moment I started to fall out of love with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:58 AM
8

So I did this with ex too. We had a secret engagement (yes total pick me move now I know hindsight is 20/20)....anyway, I made the same excuses and so did he. Wanted to make it specialll and all that. It actually led me to reevaluate why I even wanted marriage..which boiled down to being insecure about “getting old” at 25. I’m now over marriage and would only do it with the right man. I’m not able to be manipulated by marriage anymore and it’s only made me a better and stronger woman. I have wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:56 AM
-59

This may work for women LOOKING for NSA. Let’s not auto Pooh Pooh stuff we personally don’t like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:47 AM
7

Girl why you still with him? Leave the trash in 2019...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 02:19 AM
8

Agreed. These types usually don’t handle that well..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:45 PM
7

Yes but it’s usually pick mes who brag about being cum dumpsters and fucking daily.....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:17 PM
14

I think they exist but not to the degree that men claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:06 PM
1

That’s the spirit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 04:58 PM
1

1000% with this yes agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:59 PM
1

I agree. Can’t change the game and expect the player to stay
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:31 PM
-2

So because one dumb bitch somewhere did it all women should?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:20 PM
1

So be better and quit your bitching. So many men stop trying and get or stay fat and wonder why their SO is not hot for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:12 PM
12

This was something I had to work on. I thought if I wasn’t married by 25, I was done forever and so I tried to make a relationship work out of fear. I let him silence me by threatening not to propose so I wouldn’t bring up issues I had with him, than he did and I couldn’t tell anyone or plan a wedding. I put up with so much because I was scared to be unmarried by 25. Once I got over that I was able to see the relationship for what it was- trash. It changed my views on marriage too! Previously I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:23 PM
49

“Sis that ladies husband isn’t your soulmate”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:21 PM
6

This is why I don’t take dead bedrooms sob stories seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:27 PM
10

I’m a one drink person too. My tolerance is laughably low. It doesn’t take much. Also, I’d say this is a safety tip for all. If you need to get drunk, do it at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:15 PM
6

Yeah I don’t really agree with this or like her actions. But yes men will move mountains if they want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:11 PM
5

I admire his upfront honesty. But he’s such an LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:13 AM
7

That was beautiful. Own your needs ladies. Be NEEDY. Take back the word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:10 AM
1

Love isn’t real. That’s really dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:11 PM
6

With a boyfriend?? WTH? Just set your money on fire while you’re at it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:02 PM
8

This is what I mean by lifestyle compatibility and why it matters..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 07:17 PM
1

It can be nice when the stars align and done properly. It’s a lot of work though. It’s a couple times a year event max.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:20 AM
27

She means joint account right????right??????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:52 AM
8

Yeah, agree. I want to see all sides before I commit. I don’t really know if I want a man forever if I don’t see him day to day..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:05 PM
5

What if you don’t want casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:49 PM
10

Do you think women exclusively go for Chad??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:48 PM
1

How would a woman figure out if he likes her enough to date her relatively fast?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:44 PM
3

If these things weren’t options and protections, I wouldn’t be wanting to become a mother. I mean look at Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:40 PM
3

That girl needs to dump his ass. He sounds like a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:47 PM
1

Still not my thing...sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:23 PM
2

It wouldn’t affect how I see him but I wouldn’t do it. Not my kink, we would have to break up so he could find a dominatrix.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:45 PM
0

They’re more like a power bottom. They control the top with subtlety.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:08 PM
2

Yes. This is the image sold to entice them in. In reality, not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:08 PM
12

Yes we’re unlikely to get swept away with the same stupid love feelings as western women. Our whole thing is practicality and how much money does he have, have you gotten your education, when was your last raise (last two questions to the woman.) Losers not wanted no matter how much a women wuvvvvvvvs the loser. Does the man want kids? Is he ready to marry? Is he mature? Asian women can be very tough and worse than any FDSer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:06 PM
2

No. I know very well sausage is made, not naturally produced. No one reasonable expects perfection without work..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 09:52 PM
7

Hol up...this was a problem to begin with???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:00 PM
2

I’m a runner and work out 5 times a week so in order to be truly compatible with someone they must also be some degree of gym rat. It’s just my lifestyle. It’s not about looks though that helps, it’s about lifestyle compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 04:44 PM
4

I took a minute off my 5K time (no race just personal challenge!) yahoooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 04:42 AM
29

Sadly men think even if they bail we can just go get WIC/food assistance like easy presto
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 09:19 PM
28

Before I lost my virginity at 22, I blamed women for getting pregnant for not using protection and “trapping” men into pregnancy. Turns out it’s men who hate condoms. Cringe AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:14 PM
68

Don’t underestimate Pickmeisha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:12 PM
2

No one listens to losers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:24 AM
1

Not getting laid because you’re incompetent and ugly Isn’t suffering
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:10 AM
2

OK good. If they can’t keep up they should exit the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:09 AM
2

Women born yesterday who believe every stupid thing men say. Pickmeishas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:03 AM
1

Same. I was just really tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:01 AM
-6

That’s right, I’m glad you finally caught on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:44 AM
-5

Low value ugly losers will always whine on the internet about how dating is over
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:16 AM
1

Dumb low value fucks will still whine on the internet and people will keep being normal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:02 AM
1

Girl I told off your little stalker friend. You’re not up for discussion and he’s a twat if he thinks carrying someone’s child is a goddamn honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:20 PM
75

Women who think marriage is a life goal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 04:05 PM
1

Pass. Don’t have one don’t wish to deal with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:53 PM
2

Excessive cheapness, being nasty to waiters, cashiers etc, and talking smack about people. Not here for that. Don’t act ugly. Not liberal. Don’t like them. Very right wing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:28 AM
13

Does whip mean car or does he want to whip you with a whip??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:37 PM
38

I’ll be your alibi if you rightfully exact revenge. Yes officer she was with me all night having a girls spa night
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:36 PM
1

I’d just leave. I’m a grown woman, that’s just not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:01 PM
157

It’s so funny how all of them are perfect husbands who do all the chores and she’s a b**ch. HMMM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:35 PM
134

This is why we don’t talk about things we’ve tried to men unless you tried and loved it. Just say you’re not interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:34 PM
2

You didn’t have a bed frame? What did you sleep on?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:01 AM
12

I will blame her for not being like my single mom fuck buddy who loved BDSM whom I rejected for being into BDSM. Logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:58 AM
7

Hey Goat :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 11:57 PM
59

5 years into his marriage.....my wife isn’t kinky enough. DB. I’m not saying sex is the first and foremost component of a life partner. But don’t marry a pineapple eater if you’re into coconuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 10:17 PM
10

dontbenice2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:13 PM
4

Never sleep with a man before commitment if you want to keep him around, if you don't want him like that go ahead. Never go over a man's house and be alone with him if you don't want intimacy, you know how they are. Don't call them, let them reach out. Believe about 25% of what they say sober and 50% of what they say drunk. Don't do anything for free, don't be a wife before he makes you one. Basically a lot of "men are dogs" and it's proved correct. So my parents were right. Also they advised me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:36 PM
5

It’s usually some dumb naive lady who thought that the man genuinely cared about and liked her. He just wanted sex so she gets pissed and does this lying BS. Hint: men will say anything to get laid. Watch what he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 06:47 PM
28

Make the prenup work for you. It doesn’t have to be bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 05:25 PM
7

EW EW EW. How does he sleep in those sheets?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 05:22 PM
35

I agree. If he’s going to be a kid no more sex. Kids are off limits!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 05:14 PM
2

Ehh animal lover here but my bed is my bed. Pet has their own bed. As far as human babies, no to cosleeping too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:29 PM
1

Not my thing but I’m sure this arrangement works for some. Not a big sharer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:28 PM
1

No it lands you a guy who wants you to be the “cool girl” at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:00 PM
1

Yes. In that case walk yo ass out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:50 PM
3

Omg you like a post of mine. Has hell frozen over
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:59 AM
-1

No dear Sir. Glad to outrage you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:32 AM
2

That’s a good way to vet someone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:30 AM
2

Which one has the right to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:13 AM
2

It’s the precursor
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:10 AM
1

Nah cause I’m never alone with them. What are you doing at (preferred gender’s) house if you’re not open to fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:04 AM
1

A come on leads to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:59 AM
2

Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:58 AM
1

At the very least, sex at the most
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:54 AM
1

You consented to a come on at the least
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:52 AM
3

Anything past a hug is sexual activity. I sure as hell don’t make out with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:52 AM
1

They took down a less agreeing post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:50 AM
3

Making out is sexual activity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:50 AM
3

Post it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:49 AM
1

You’re dumb for believing him yes. Men will lie to get you home.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:45 AM
2

Sex isn’t a contract. You know what I’m saying is common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:44 AM
2

If you bring friends that’s a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:44 AM
2

I’ll concede to that point. That’s very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:43 AM
2

Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:39 AM
1

Quitting my job to run that blog brb
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:39 AM
2

Put this under automod. You’re agreeing. Sorry not to play mod but they’re gonna take this down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:37 AM
2

It’s consent to something sexual and or a come on. Maybe not a full ass gangbang.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:36 AM
2

The law is too soft on dumbassery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:35 AM
2

Context fren
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:34 AM
3

Caught me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:33 AM
2

Yes but you still did sexual things. Which was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:33 AM
3

Good so do that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:32 AM
2

I’m roosh xiv. u/hammerhaunts is doing my marketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:31 AM
2

Thanks creating my blog now. You wanna do my marketing? I’ll pay in exposure (unspecified.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:30 AM
2

Reporting live from a basement in Maryland
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:28 AM
1

Thanks for the idea lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:27 AM
2

Ding ding ding.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:27 AM
3

Solid strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:26 AM
1

A no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:25 AM
3

In the US overturning the sexual revolution since 1998 babe :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:25 AM
5

So does not acting naive or like one was born yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:23 AM
16

Ok I can jive with that. You have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:22 AM
2

Negotiate terms when you get inside
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:21 AM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:21 AM
2

Change your mind and leave if it’s not to your taste. But don’t go over a man’s house not expecting to put out or for him to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:21 AM
1

Well yeah, they don’t tend to see you going home with them as a chaste event of board game night.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:19 AM
2

I’m trying to get women to not be delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:17 AM
3

What’s the balance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:17 AM
10

Context matters. Your date of five minutes doesn’t give a fuck about your rock collection. He wants to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:16 AM
-1

Fuck the police
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:15 AM
3

Nah. Gotta be decent but going home with someone generally implies that you want to and ready to put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:06 AM
2

Cute. Not an argument though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:05 AM
-2

Ok so say no. Better yet don’t go home with him until you’re ready to put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:05 AM
43

That’s a lot of words for FWB. Male word salad man.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 01:02 AM
13

Yes engagements mean nothing without a date set, it’s a damn layaway ring at that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:19 PM
8

10 dollars??? Jeez these men think we’re stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:00 PM
55

Stay out of it, you can’t handle casual sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 05:37 PM
-2

Yes it’s so his hookup knows he’s married. Don’t date him and it’s not an issue, some people look for hookups...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 05:33 PM
41

This just proves that the ring doesn’t mean it’s right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:00 PM
4

Ironically, no. You can puff up and tease short hair to greater effect than long hair. I'm currently sporting waist length one length hair and the volume can be a tad lacking (not that I care because it's usually in a bun 24/7.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:06 PM
15

Context: she’s on 90 day fiancé. Her 90 day fiancé is a russian dude who is on marriage 3 and he’s in his 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 01:56 PM
11

Yeah my bad yup she’s fiancé and future divorce 3. It’s a mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 01:55 PM
8

Hair gets thinner as we age. Also not all women look good in long hair, some women genuinely look better with short hair. I am not one of those ladies but I envy those who are. If the women is freshly post partum- well pregnancy can do a number on your hair. Hello bald spots! So that’s why you see the mummy cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:53 PM
1

Be yourself to me means be your best self. Exercise, eat well, nourish yourself socially, have hobbies, chill with friends. Not being yourself to me means bending to peer pressure and not being true to your character.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:51 PM
1

The guy I lost my virginity to said I reminded him of Asa Akira the porn star. Mid. Act. MID. ACT. Save that shit for the pillow talk fellas. No I didn’t stop the encounter but did step up efforts to help him reach the natural conclusion.....I’m not an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:23 AM
5

Yeah this dude has clearly never been on a tinder date......
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:20 AM
6

Absolutely! And they’ll leave her in 3.5 seconds if Stacy so much as glances at them!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:16 AM
10

You can use Snapchat to make them unscreenshottable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 03:04 AM
10

If you must send nudes don’t include your face and also don’t do it for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 03:03 AM
22

I’d be willing to do a new family name for both. But I won’t be the only one doing anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:38 PM
45

Cause it’s my name bisssssshes. No one pressures men into this S.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:37 PM
2

Yeah seems to have stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:29 PM
2

Not rough it was fine I just wasn’t that into it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:08 PM
32

He doesn’t need to afford a family. Pick me Sally is there for that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:35 PM
3

Yeah I don’t think triathlons are for me. Maybe I’ll stick to running.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:06 PM
9

And Duchess Catherine waited some stupid amount of time for him to propose too. Jesus. Hope that the ring was worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 12:01 PM
14

Alrighty. If that works for her. Sounds like a lot of drama. There aint no smoke where there isn’t a fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 11:41 AM
24

He cheats on her. ARod isn’t a prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 11:21 AM
1

Do what you need to do. Just don’t rush into marriage to hit some arbitrary timeline, make sure he’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 11:19 AM
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