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ADVICEbabyfacedmango/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 05:49 AM
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Thank you for empathizing. My husband does treat me well and I do feel a sense of mutual love that makes me want to fulfill his sexual needs. Him caring for me and treating me right boosts my libido from wanting it only a few times a month to wanting it twice weekly but not to the point where I desire it 5 times weekly (with the exception of when we first got married). I don’t want my resentment to sour our marriage so I guess changing my view of duty sex is supposed to help makeup for the gap, …
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/25 05:00 AM
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Its all good, I don’t feel attacked. Maybe I’m not normal. I mean all of us can’t fit on a bell curve lol. Thank you for understanding and bringing a different perspective to the discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 08:45 PM
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If I had known that, I would have posted in a redpill-ier sub 😂 They need to change the name of this sub smh
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 04:12 AM
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Thank you for saying this! I’m surprised this comment isn’t more popular in a redpill space. The idea that men can only have the amount of sex (and type of woman) they can afford is redpill rhetoric.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 03:47 AM
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The reason I see it as chore is 4. Our work schedules don’t align so we barely see each other and we don’t have time for proper foreplay so we do quickies on weeknights in order to meet my sex quota for the week which leaves me feeling unsatisfied and used.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 03:40 AM
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It’s not that I’m more interested in those tasks over sex. Food, sleep and exercise is basic survival for me so if those things aren’t taken care of, it’s like I can’t mentally move up to the level of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs where the sex need is for me. I have responsive desire so sex doesn’t randomly cross my mind even though I’m attracted to my husband. When he puts in the time to warm me up, I become interested in sex but we often don’t have the time so I resort to quickies to meet the 4…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 03:32 AM
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It’s like no matter how much I compromise, it’s still not enough because at a certain point there’s going to be time constraints due to the misalignment of our work schedules. Another commenter suggested I compromise even more by doing quickies on weeknights. I have been doing that sometimes (not often enough I guess) but I don’t like quickies because I’m guaranteed to be left unsatisfied which has led to me feeling used. I’m still trying to brainwash myself into seeing quickies as more like a f…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 03:02 AM
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It’s because I don’t have kids so most of these women believe I have no reason to be tired at the end of a long day. I’m glad you understand this full time work structure was not built for women fit into. I work so much and I do all this work while looking good. At some points during my menstrual cycle I have more energy than other times but I’m always expected to perform the same professionally, sexually and otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 12:18 PM
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True. I miss him so much. It feels like we don’t have much time together and sex often feels rushed. Thanks for your input. It was really helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 01:37 AM
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You’re such a sweetheart! Its hard opening up about such a personal struggle and I feel like you actually understand where I’m coming from. I’ll definitely start sending more flirty texts and touching him more in the evenings. After analyzing my evening routine, I just realized that the whole day is gone and we barely touched all day! That needs to change. I’m gonna boost touching by 1000% !
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 12:31 AM
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Tbh the fact that he gets off most times and I don’t has led to some resentment and has turned sex into a chore or a quota to meet rather than something the BOTH of us are looking forward to. But I’ll work on changing my mindset surrounding “duty sex” and start viewing it as a favor instead. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 12:19 AM
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Is quitting really the answer? I do miss being a housewife
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 04:42 PM
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Thank you so much! This has been the most helpful comment. You helped me realize that I have some shame around my low libido and not being the perfect homemaker and full-timer. I do struggle with insomnia some nights but I never considered it might have an affect on my libido levels. I will definitely try focusing more on stress reduction in the evenings. I do enjoy a good bubble bath!
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 04:40 PM
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The weekends is when we get it on the most. Or we’ll argue about the little amount of sex we had during the work week. Sometimes I work on the weekends too. It just feels like there’s not enough hours in the day to fulfill his bottomless pit of lust and still be an adult.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 04:24 PM
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I worry that he’ll feel completely abandoned if we ever become parents. That’s why I really want to take of this issue now. My doctor says I’m normal and healthy which is great but also really frustrating because then why can’t I keep up?
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 03:53 PM
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I had a full panel in January and the results came back normal which was kind of disappointing because I wanted to figure out what’s wrong. I am not on any medications or birth control and I find my husband to be very attractive but it just takes a lot for me to get to that point of arousal. I suspect I might be demisexual or something because sex more than 5 times per week with everything else going on in life sounds like another part time job to me. I didn’t feel this way when I wasn’t working…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 03:47 PM
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I swear full time work is such a lady boner killer but I’m really trying. How were you able to keep him satisfied when you were working full time?
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 12:26 PM
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That’s a good idea. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 12:20 PM
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I spend a lot of time at the gym, making food and preparing for work the next day. He works 5am-3pm most days with a 45min commute so he’s already in bed for the night at 9pm and I work until 8pm most days sometimes 6pm. He expects that we do it at night but by the time I get out of the shower, he just wants to release and fall asleep rather than spend 30 min for foreplay when he has to be up at 4am.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 12:18 PM
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Right. I’m surprised this comment isn’t further up.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/25 03:55 AM
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I just finished listening to it on audiobook. I felt it was a good reminder of the power we hold as women. There were some red pill stories in there like the one about the tiger eyelash. It can seem kind of woowoo because of the secular, whimsical, fairy tale aspect to it but that’s what I particularly liked about it most because of my vivid imagination. It’s definitely very eye-opening and I’d consider it a must-read for any woman. I think it should be mandatory for women’s studies majors.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/25 03:12 AM
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Happy to help! I feel like I could’ve wrote your post myself because I’ve been exactly where you are in my own marriage. I know how easy it is to forget that we still have to enforce boundaries with our husbands but there can be no exceptions. You have to learn to compromise with each other to prevent resentment from building up over time.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/24 01:46 AM
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Your priorities and values shifted in a more traditional direction and that’s okay but just because you took the red pill, doesn’t mean he has to. My advice is definitely stop TTC and stop trying to control/change him and manipulate him to be your idea of a “traditional masculine man” that he clearly does not want to be. If you don’t want to find a more suitable partner, then just support him, encourage him and let him play his lil video games if that’s what he likes to do. I find it funny how y…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/24 01:29 AM
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