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A-fucking-men. Always stick to your boundaries. If he pressures you at all, drop him. I wish I would've done this. A hard lesson learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:23 PM
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Recently just had to block and delete a dude I was exclusively dating for two months. We had just started sleeping together too. Everything seemed fine when he left my place but then I didn't hear from him all weekend. He sent me a bullshit text about how hectic the weekend was and sorry for being AWOL. I didn't reply all day. When I finally did I was hit (almost immediately) with another excuse about how school work was taking up most his time and he wasn't really on his phone. Oh okay but you'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:08 PM
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Changed the dude I was mildly interested in going on a date with in my phone to "blonde dude from gym" and feel significantly less interested LMAO. I sometimes have a bad habit of getting way too interested if they're really good looking. Keeping their names out of my phone and just using generic descriptions really does help. 10/10 recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:08 PM
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Just had this thought the other day and proceeded to feel hopeless and depressed for the young girls being born into this society. This is probably the number one reason why I just don't want any kids. My sister just had a baby girl and I am terrified for her and the world she is going to grow up in where girls and women now "choose" to objectify themselves without the help of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:25 PM
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Yuup. She is being exploited by her own damn mother and again, I am not even surprised. It's just all so fucking sad that parents and people who are supposed to be looking out for these kids pimp them out like this. Absolutely horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:22 PM
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This so so so depressing. I have been seeing grown ass men in her instagram comments since she was 14 years old asking her when she is gonna do porn, when does she turn 18 etc. She already was posting really inappropriate pictures of herself for years. Twerking videos included. She was 100% groomed into OnlyFans bullshit by these predatory pedophile ass men all over her pages. And even the women talking about "yaas get that money!" UGH. I am so disgusted and sickened. But, I am not shocked which…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:29 PM
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He tried to sneak in anal while you were asleep? That is attempted rape. And he peed in your mouth when you said no????? Wow. WOW. I am so sorry you have to deal with this. I hope if you are planning on leaving him, that you can do so swiftly and safely. Just...what the FUCK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:17 PM
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Honestly if a dude isn't scraping his tongue and flossing daily...I don't want him LMAO. Those things are gamechangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:34 AM
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Eeeww wtf. He sounds like a child. Men who don’t have pristine oral health are a huge NOPE for me. I gag at gross smells. I’d be absolutely mortified if my partner had to beg me to brush my teeth because of stank breath 🤢🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:32 PM
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To the first dude...I honestly believe men over-exaggerate their ability to bed women. Any woman. Like...women will always have WAY more options in regard to sex and dating than men ever will. Because men apparently only think about sex 24/7 and cannot pass up ANY opportunity no matter how unattracted to her he is. Maybe if men upped their standards or practiced self-control, d*ck would not be so abundant and low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:10 AM
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Wow LMAO. I can't believe how much attention FDS is getting now. Considering I joined back in Feb. 2020 when there were still under 100 subs. FDS is one of the best things I have stumbled upon in my life. I know I would still be a miserable pickmeisha struggling with shitty dudes in my life and not understanding WHY I keep ending up in awful relationships. Please never go away!!!!!! On another note...I can definitely see why people (men esp) would feel threatened and make shit up about this sub.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:47 PM
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God and what is it with grown adults posting about their personal sex lives and weird ass kinks so openly? It's so gross and tacky. No one asked. No one consented to seeing or hearing about your fucked up sex life. I had a woman who I follow on instragram (know her irl) posting about her boyfriend stopping at the hardware store to "try something new" in the bedroom. She also posted about "not knowing if you're playing clue or planning your sex life...do I go with the candlestick in the study or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:17 AM
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This shit was everywhere in Seoul. There would be tiny holes all over the bathroom stalls in the women's restrooms at every single train station. All from hidden spy cams that were removed. They'd all be stuffed with toilet paper. There were signs everywhere warning against spy cams and up-skirt phone shots. You actually cannot turn the camera shutter sound off in Korean phones BECAUSE men would not stop taking up-skirt photos of women in public. I lived there five years and I would not be surpr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:37 PM
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I'm always wondering how they have the audacity to even think I'd ever be interested in their LV asses...I just
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:34 PM
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Every time I post in this sub I get creepy/angry scrotes in my DMs. Block and move forward!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:42 PM
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God bless this sub. I know I’d still be on my pickme bullshit if I hadn’t discovered FDS 😭😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:13 PM
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It must suck to be such a slave to your hormones...can't relate. I haven't had sex in almost nine months and honestly I couldn't care less right now. I don't usually feel like doing it anyway unless I'm really into the person I am DATING. Men are weak lmao. I'm loving the stress-free single life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 11:59 PM
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I miss vine. So much better than TikTok 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:31 PM
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666 ayyye 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:36 AM
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Are you serious LMAO omg...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:09 PM
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Left my ex three months ago. I’m honestly feeling great. I thought I’d be more sad. I know now it was the right decision. I’m working hard on my fitness goals. And I’m finally about to finish a seven month long training course for my career switch. Life is good despite the pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:07 PM
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Amazing. I wish I had half the brains and guts as you when I was 20. Could’ve saved so much time and hurt. Good for you. So proud 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:54 PM
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Why do dudes always jump straight into being gross and sexual? Especially on first impressions and when they barely know us? It's embarrassing. I can't stand it anymore. Once upon a time I just dismissed this type of behavior but it never turned out well in the end lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:50 AM
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I'm currently not dating, but when I start again I think I might date men who are younger than me too. I used to be super against it but I don't know anymore...I'm 30 so it wouldn't be a super big age gap at this point. A lot of the dudes my age (and older) ain't shit and don't seem to have much to offer anyway. On top of that, a lot of them have aged miserably. I can't believe it. I'm not attracted to them at all. If I come across a mature 25-year-old guy who has it together and is respectful A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:19 PM
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Sexpats are all so gross, have a spare tire and are balding. And why do they always wear cargo shorts? I saw them all the time in Korea when I lived there 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:19 PM
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I couldn’t wait before marriage. I would need to make sure there’s sexual compatibility before and that he didn’t start doing porny gross/violent shit even after all the vetting. Plus I think it takes some time to learn each other’s bodies and what we like. I’d still make him wait while dating though! Don’t rush into sleeping with anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:52 PM
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Yup. There was always little holes in the stalls and we’d stuff tissue paper in them. Where hidden cams used to be. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:03 PM
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This is my dad :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:47 PM
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An hour after my first post an incel messaged me lmao imagine having that much time on your hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:37 AM
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After living in Korea for five years, this is understandable. The amount on upskirt/spycam porn is RAMPANT. Absolutely rampant. So much so that if you buy a Korean phone you do not have the ability to turn off the camera shutter sound and there are posters everywhere about spycam porn. Korean feminists hold huge protests against this stuff as well. Idk why that dude behind them looks like he's holding his phone up to her backside too...yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:22 AM
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They use the same language as the LBGT community and claim they are “born this way” etc. It’s so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:19 PM
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Our society is well on its way to normalizing pedophilia. With the whole MAPs crowd (“minor-attracted people) worming their way into the LGBT community, California just passing SB 145 and the fact that Hollywood is full of them...it’s bad. Pedos are getting bold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:50 PM
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Use your imagination. If you can't get off from just that, are you that horny to begin with? If you can't get off, don't masturbate for awhile. Then try again another time when you're really feeling aroused and use your imagination. Hopefully you will be able to retrain your brain that's probably been a bit fried by regular porn use. Don't give up. You can go back to normal and not use porn.
/r/askFDS01/09/20 01:50 AM
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That's amazing!! Good luck!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:46 AM
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Lmfaoo you are way too nice. I must seem like such a b*tch...I usually just ignore guys who try to talk to me unless they seriously look lost or in need of real help. So random though wtf...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:36 PM
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This is depressing because it's true:/ Dudes will fuck literally anyone and anything lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:22 PM
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I am deceased 😂😂😂 But seriously...why 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 10:28 PM
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The bar is on the ground 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:54 PM
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Lolll I feel called out. I’m done trying to fix and mould dudes to my level and my needs 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:49 PM
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Legit just saw a post in r/relationships with a woman who found out her bf has been using tinder the entirety of their relationship...and she’s asking what she should do. It’s so sad 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:05 PM
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I feel the same. I really don't understand what my issue is. Or if if even is MY issue. I'm thinking about therapy honestly. I'm so tired of chasing guys and being a pick me to get them to fall "in love" with me. I feel like guys who really want to be with me for ME and who would give me the world just aren't attractive to me? It's so weird. I am 30. I'm tired lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 08:48 PM
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I needed to see this. I recently left my long term boyfriend and one of the major reasons was his temper and how he "fought." I walked on eggshells the last year of the relationship. It took me a long time to be true to myself and work up the courage to break up with him. I watched my father yell at my mother growing up and I swore that would NEVER be me. I am frustrated that I didn't leave after the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:36 AM
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“More hanging out than like dating” and fast food. What are you to him, old pals? Get out lmao. Good for you for not meeting up with him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:40 PM
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OH no no no no no. I could not even finish reading this. OH FUCK NO. NO. PLEASE tell me she is no longer with this absolute psychopath serial killer rapist in the making...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:43 PM
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Still crying... I know you're probably tired of hearing this but, I truly am sorry for what you've gone through and are still going through. I just cannot even imagine. You seem like a kind, genuine and strong individual with a lot of wisdom. I really wish you nothing but the best and I hope that you go on as much as you are able to in this life, pain and regret free. xoxo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 09:10 PM
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This made me cry. What a lovely partnership.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 08:30 PM
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Lmfao good riddance to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:54 PM
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Exactly. And what she tweeted and then so eloquently defended was TAME. Not a negative word against trans people. She’s pro woman which apparently means she’s anti trans. I’m hoping more people are waking up to this toxic and rabid fake woke cancel culture thing. It’s gotten so out of control. She’s un-cancellable though 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 12:02 AM
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Used to adore him. But now I’m so disappointed he can’t man up and defend Rowling when she needs it now more than ever. She shone the light on the BS and she said nothing negative about anyone. She’s brave af. He’s virtue signaling to score woke points. Either that or he’s terrified if he doesn’t speak out against her they’ll come for him too. It’s all so pathetic tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:55 PM
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Saw this earlier. Was too upset to comment. I can’t believe these women keep making excuses to stay with these shit men. It’s depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 06:37 PM
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This happened to me in college. I honestly thought I was either into women (nothing wrong with that of course) , asexual or depressed. Turns out, sex with my boyfriend at the time was just that bad. LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:32 AM
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I'm not 100% sure if I want kids. But atm, I'm leaning more towards no. I am terrified of losing my freedom but more terrified of choosing a partner and mate who will leave me disappointed at best and devastated at worst. I cannot imagine being tied to one person forever, even if I don't love them anymore, because we have a child together. I just can't. What if I thought I chose the right partner to parent with, and he ends up being absolute shit? I have this image in my head where I'm stuck wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 09:40 PM
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Don't forget "you need therapy for your self esteem issues." -__-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 07:02 PM
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I actually don’t! As I get older I don’t always feel a need to “identify” as something or label myself. I just say what I think and what I know and that’s pretty much it. I noticed people are more willing to have open and honest conversations with you if you aren’t coming in with things like, “As a ________, I believe.....” Do you know what I mean? So yeah lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 01:16 AM
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This. Feminism was supposed to be its own female only focused group with the goal of liberating women from male subjugation. The only feminists left who actually center and care about women and girls are denounced as “TERF/SWERF.” I’m so over this bs third wave watered down feminism. I don’t even refer to myself as feminist anymore because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:42 PM
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