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Antidepressants do lots of different things. I'm on one for bladder pain at a dose that doesn't affect my mood
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:56 PM
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A lot of feminists encourage women to stay single because men are so dangerous to them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:58 AM
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Men already do that. This OP seems to be angry that insecure women can get dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:55 AM
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Why don't men refuse to nut in women who aren't confident and likable? If it's such a burden on them to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:22 AM
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The topic just doesn't conjure much to my minds-eye other than hygiene, drug use and poverty. That's why it's an insult. It doesn't have anything to do with their behavior in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:28 PM
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they are so happy to get attention and welcome the romantic interaction. Sure they're happy to get attention but do you think that's why women date? Make men happy to get attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:26 AM
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Would you be in a 100% sexless marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:52 AM
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the ways women can change within their own feminist framework Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:53 AM
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No it doesn't make sense. Women are sometimes advised to split the bill so they don't get pressured into sex/feel obligated to have sex. Men are sometimes advised to split the bill so they don't go broke. Fairness doesn't enter into it and I don't see how you think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:43 AM
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I don't know how that follows at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:36 AM
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The motivation behind most dating advice or tips is the pursuit of fairness. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:39 PM
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You don't get that I can't just pick a man, he has to pick me back? Keeping hostages is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:26 AM
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"Willing" to do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:02 AM
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How can I pick the man I want unless he's picking me back?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:11 PM
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How so? Do you think it's common for men to have obsessive thoughts like this that prevent them from wanting to date or being able to have sex? That's where the therapy comes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:49 AM
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A fetish is a sexual obsession with something not typically thought of as sexual, like leather, surgical masks, or feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:40 PM
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That is not ever called a fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:39 PM
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Women here say that sex in the abstract doesn't matter to them, not that it's not important in the context of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:15 AM
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If you start out pampering her and then stop, how is that different from a woman who starts out sucking your dick and then stops when you get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:01 PM
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Do you think the men having casual sex don't have to put effort into making women feel special and beautiful? That's literally what seduction is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:38 PM
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How would you describe the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:08 AM
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They’re more difficult to use properly because the man has to make sure he stays inside the plastic with every stroke. That’s part of the problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:45 AM
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Not misleading. It means female condoms fail over twice as often as male condoms do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:27 AM
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Female condoms are actually less effective than male condoms so the messaging makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:43 PM
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I can definitely develop a huge crush on a guy in one night. You never heard of love at first sight?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:48 AM
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Making me feel like I'm undesirable, not good enough and so pathetic I'd be ok with him cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:18 AM
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How are women more likely to have deep connections? Don't those require two people?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:42 PM
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Existing around women is not labor
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:43 PM
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No the literal money security guards and police officers receive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:42 PM
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It's not erased if it's compensated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:29 PM
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Because they demand good treatment and inspire respect unlike pushovers who men know will put up with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:35 AM
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Still not seeing any hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:33 AM
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i’m scared i’ll never be wanted again How is that hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:29 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 01:47 AM
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When it comes to obtaining sex. Not when it comes to romantic relationships, earning money, managing your life, keeping friendships, raising kids, or any of the thousand other parts of being alive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 01:29 AM
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Not sure what men are doing but I don't use it as a percentile
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:41 AM
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Might as well just get a roommate if you want someone to split the bills and wash the dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:27 AM
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Love is far and away the most important thing and I would tolerate anything for it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:59 AM
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Most divorces are about money and lifestyle differences so marrying someone for stability doesn't seem to work out great either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:56 AM
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They reported more happiness, which is different
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:55 AM
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it's justification doesn't rest on anything Its justification rests on "rape is bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:03 AM
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It could have been given to us either by our own creation, or god-given. If it is a creation, then it's fall is amoral in nature, and so it's consequences! What was this supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:58 PM
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Female animals also resist mating so it's obviously natural. Pregnancy takes nutrients from their body and can leave them disabled or dead. Females of some species won't willingly mate at all and only reproduce because they're forced to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:53 PM
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So, what happens is we deny this biological expression in favor of the female ego to be our arbiters, which seems to be either some sort of gift, or man-made addition to create civilization and stability. Then what does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:46 PM
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What does your second sentence mean and and what does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:45 PM
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So you're saying we stop men from raping so women get to feel good about rejecting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:40 PM
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When a male mammal insists on sex with a female mammal and succeeds, that is not considered a failure of the female by nature, but the expression of the strength of that male). So you're saying males win by raping, but females don't lose by getting raped? If they're not losing, why don't they just accede to the sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:39 PM
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Finding other women beautiful isn't an indication of bisexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:53 PM
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Everything in the Handmaid's Tale has happened before in human history
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:06 PM
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I don’t think it has as much to do with standards, it’s just straight up anatomy. When I have bad sex, it’s painful. And for me to have an orgasm with a partner, the stars have to align
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:41 PM
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then surely they must kill themselves more often than men. They attempt to kill themselves a lot more than men do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:33 PM
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do you think women are lying when they say unaroused sex is painful? sure sounds like it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:10 PM
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So you think men are going to start proposing marriage to women they haven't dated or had sex with yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:45 AM
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but would women really accept that excuse? I doubt it. I mean girls who only wear padded bras (for example) are usually judged as being insecure. Makeup is not really an equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:44 PM
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And I also think that even in those cases, that's a far cry from the danger and abuse many women use to characterize "bad relationships," It's not violent abuse but it's still incredibly hurtful and emotionally damaging to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:53 AM
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You find it unbelievable that men are primarily interested in fucking (as opposed to seriously dating) young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:39 AM
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To quote you, there is no telling stupid to do better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:22 PM
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The woman is kind of a bum too, but you’ve been telling her to do better for like 14 comments now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:11 PM
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I want to spend the most time with my significant other as possible so I wouldn't go for a situation where he's working 15 hour days to my 8 or 9
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:30 AM
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you think women can't make a complete 180 after years and years of marriage? if a woman dates an abuser, the signs are there early and she can and should dump him You think men can't make complete 180s after years of marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:52 AM
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Well yeah? What else could it be...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:46 PM
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Nah. If a bunch of gay men were describing my father as a cumdumpster or something that would be disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:44 PM
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The father in both cases
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:13 PM
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So would you rather hear your mother described as a walking fleshlight or a greedy rich asshole? Because I know which one I'd prefer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:59 PM
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we are not a prize to be won That's not what a success object is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:41 PM
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Women can't get the emotional experience they crave if the man doesn't return their feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:40 PM
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You wouldn't like to hear your mother being described by a group of young men as a "walking fleshlight". But describing your father as a "really rich dude" wouldn't bother you as much, I'm guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:39 PM
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I don't think women would care if they were seen as success objects or romantic objects. There's something uniquely dehumanizing and gross about being seen as a walking pussy which is why women dislike it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:01 PM
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Pretty sure all the people who would say that also want to abolish prisons
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:24 PM
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What would portraying cheating as "empowering" even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:41 AM
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If men cared about romance like women do, they'd think a relationship without romance was equivalent to a "job" that doesn't pay you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:51 AM
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If men cared about romance as much as women did, they'd make it a condition for sex and relationships like women do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:35 AM
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do you really not understand why it creeps young girls (and their parents) out?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:06 PM
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The hierarchy is not the problem, are you missing the point on purpose or do you really not understand why it creeps young girls (and their parents) out?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:50 PM
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They don't have a chance at getting most younger women, just specifically the ones who are easy to take advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:37 PM
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Because you don't need to feel sexy to enjoy yourself. Women do, lol. How I look is like 80% of my mood
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:02 AM
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Consider that serious relationships are to women what hookups are to men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:16 PM
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It's brutal for LTR focused guys too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:12 PM
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She's going to wear it every day for the rest of her life so it has to be quality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:10 PM
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I can't help but feel they are living in a different world. Yes, low-income neighborhoods are a different world
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:09 AM
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But women only want to date men they're crazy about. I'm talking about women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:49 AM
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I think most books suck, but most of the time when I’m reading a book I enjoy it because I only choose to read books that I think are good. See how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:00 AM
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more likely that an individual guy is unattractive in women's eye than attractive This would be relevant if women were randomly assigned partners. But women only want to date men they're crazy about. Women's dating strategy is to maximize feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:51 AM
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Just saying most men are unattractive in women's eyes Women don't date "most men", they date men they love and are attracted to. Men are the ones who date people they're not crazy about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:35 AM
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Men will date women they aren't that attracted to for sex or convenience's sake, but women won't. There is literally nothing a man I'm not ferociously attracted to could offer me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:19 AM
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Who says I don't give people chances?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:16 AM
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Being into someone is an incredibly powerful and undeniable feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:58 AM
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I'm pretty good at knowing when I'm into someone because it feels like I've been hit by a truck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:00 AM
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The no job dude
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:59 AM
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Your point is unclear, that's why I'm asking questions. If we're making food analogies, the correct one is when you get sick after eating a specific food you go off that food for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:42 AM
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If she's gone off sex and men why wouldn't she be happier single?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:25 AM
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Women (if they're straight) want romantic relationships with men that are loving and joyful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:56 PM
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what they now provide is the sharing the "male experience" What about love, romance, a partner in life, laughter, joy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:16 PM
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I don't know why you wouldn't just get a $5 coffee for a first date (unless this is a person you know and like beforehand)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:00 AM
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If all women can get low effort attention how is it validating? For something to be validating, it has to be reserved for the special and desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:15 AM
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There are different kinds of male attention and it's not all equally valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:24 PM
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They're not vilified by me. But most people think that incels want sex, not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:22 PM
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Romantic relationships are pretty close to a need. If she can’t get it from a good guy she’ll get it from a bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:54 PM
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I don’t see how that disproves your Mom’s argument. Good people (men or women) are always in short supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:49 PM
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Those women can stay single. I’m not against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:47 PM
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A lot of women could “put in the work” but not find a good guy because there’s a limited quantity of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:44 PM
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You think a woman can "like" someone she can't even talk to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:58 AM
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Not only do women contract them more easily, they're more likely to be asymptomatic and not get treated. They're also more likely to confuse the symptoms for something else, because vaginas are more prone to all kinds of infections, not just STDs.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:20 PM
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I assume men are getting vasectomies because they dislike condoms
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:35 AM
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Biologically, it's easier for girls to get STDs than boys even if they're both doing the same amount of sleeping with infected people. Take it from the CDC: • The lining of the vagina is thinner and more delicate than the skin on a penis, so it’s easier for bacteria and viruses to penetrate • The vagina is a good environment (moist) for bacteria to grow https://www.cdc.gov/std/health-disparities/stds-women-042011.pdf
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 12:17 AM
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And yet the men in this country are as obese as the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:08 PM
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For lots of women with weight struggles it’s a vicious cycle. They hate themselves for gaining weight and they overeat because they hate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:33 PM
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Doesn’t being overweight seem pretty depressing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:20 PM
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It’s relevant because you’re using it in your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:37 AM
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Marital rape is a crime because rape is a crime. It would be really weird to think that raping strangers is criminal but raping your own loved ones is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:27 AM
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"do I look stupid? what if no one likes me? what if I get made fun of? what if all my friends get hit on and I'm left by myself like the only kid in class without a partner? etc" Are you seriously arguing that women don't feel these things? Have you even met women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:34 AM
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Relationships are primarily about sex Not to women. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:09 PM
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Teenage girls famously spend untold hours on their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:49 AM
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They might not tell you the truth even if they know You should know which of your friends tell white lies and which deliver harsh truths. they don't even see how you act. I mean are you acting like a completely different person on dates? You're probably acting pretty much like your normal self and maybe a little different, unless you're an Oscar-winning actor who can completely transform himself. Even if you're friends know what you're doing wrong there is no guarantee that they can suggest anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:49 AM
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Friends, unlike internet strangers, can see you and know how you act. If you're having trouble dating, it's due to one or more likely both of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:13 AM
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It's definitely better than asking internet strangers who don't know you at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:03 AM
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The scenario was getting "bent out of shape, online" about age gaps. That's exclusive to wokeness and differently than being mildly offended
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:56 AM
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I haven't. Wokeness is overwhelmingly a youthful, online phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:41 AM
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The only women I see having an aneurysm over men dating younger/foreign women are woke teenage girls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:30 AM
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Then why are you bent out of shape about guys dating foreign women or younger women. Why do you think those are the same women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:24 AM
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If women could paint on a whole new face every woman you saw would be young and beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:14 AM
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Sure, but you’re not arguing with the basic point that people spend money on things they value, and that that scales
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:03 AM
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If he’s not spending very much he probably doesn’t care very much
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:43 PM
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People spend money on things they value, in general
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:09 PM
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Weren't you just arguing emotions are detrimental? Emotions are pretty powerful things my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:07 PM
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Men are the ones fucking women they don't care about, impregnating them and deciding not to stick around. Male desire has always posed dangers to women and society. What do you think fathers warn their teenage daughters about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:52 PM
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If they weren't adaptive more often than not, they would not have stuck around
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:50 PM
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It's instinctual to feel hurt when you get the sense that the people who are closest to you don't actually care about you that much. Ancestral human beings were dependent on their social connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:50 PM
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men wanting women is good for society How, when that's also what creates single mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:44 PM
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Yes, they literally are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:36 PM
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You seem to be saying people's emotions are mostly irrational, no? Which is also subjective—that's the only way it's possible to talk about something like this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:34 PM
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What specific part of that do you take issue with? Seems pretty self-evident to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:50 PM
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I'm saying people who are normal react to things normally. People with a pattern of unreasonable emotional reactions, whether they are under- or overreacting, probably have some kind of issue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:36 PM
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Proportional according to the totality of the situation? That's what proportional means
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:27 PM
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People’s emotional reactions to situations are mostly proportional if they’re normally functioning. People who consistently under- or overreact probably have a mental health issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:11 PM
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You think emotions appear in the brain by magic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:59 PM
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I don't even know what that means...but no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:05 PM
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Sexual attraction is important in a sexual relationship. Would you be happy in a dead bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:52 PM
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Dressing up in costumes and shaking their ass is how women compete in the sexual marketplace. It's not a liberation from it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:35 PM
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Is dressing to look sexy the same thing as dressing to look nice or dressing to look beautiful? Because to me it definitely isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:00 PM
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The female orgasm is probably an evolutionary spandrel like male nipples but female sexual desire serves a clear purpose. They're different issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:47 PM
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Yeah the main character is by necessity one person. Not half the people in a room
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:07 AM
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Women don't know off the bat which men are attracted to them enough to want to commit to them. Of course men want to fuck anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:20 PM
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And men are much more likely than women to be in prison, be sexual abusers, be drug addicted, and have a whole other host of problems
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:32 AM
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and im sure theres plenty of guys who'd say that about their testicles as well hahahhahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:07 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:05 PM
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The point is that "you're a convenient fuckhole" is not validating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:07 AM
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If men want to fuck everything, and you’re one of them, then you’re adequate. So basically I'm a girl? I already knew that. What does being adequate get me in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:50 AM
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To me being "sexually validated" means being validated that you are actually sexy, beautiful, hot If men want to fuck everything—including ugly girls and chubby girls and average girls—how is that validating?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:32 AM
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Women realize this in high school 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:15 AM
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Being the "good enough for now" girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:14 AM
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Lack of sexual validation makes women feel lonely too, and many women experience it What I'm saying is men wanting to stick their dick in you doesn't make anyone feel less lonely. People feel lonely when they're not loved and admired and respected and understood by the people around them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:13 AM
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That doesn't touch loneliness. What you're describing is a lack of sexual validation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:44 AM
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I don't think it's a very different experience. Loneliness is loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:29 AM
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daily, guaranteed pain of loneliness. This is horrible...but it has nothing to do with gender
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:10 AM
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Wait can you expand on the disassociation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:32 PM
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I don't get this thought process, there is almost nothing 20 year old girls care about more
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:49 PM
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How is being disease-free not important
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:22 PM
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“I have an honest concern that you might be a cheating lying whore”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:05 PM
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It’s not disgusting if I’m aroused. This woman clearly wasn’t I feel the same way about female masturbation, by the way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:12 PM
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It's her bedroom too. Why wouldn't he leave, unless he was trying to be disrespectful?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:57 PM
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It's not "sexual assault" but it's still incredibly rude to masturbate in front of your uninterested, grossed out wife
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:35 PM
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Women are pretty grossed out by frank male sexuality, even if he's Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:23 PM
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Makeup does not boost the average woman 3 points lol, the average woman does not have a team of professionals spending hours a day on her face
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:16 PM
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normal woman Who says they're normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:07 PM
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Because whining and publicly masturbating are so enticing to women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:04 PM
1

And this is why grandma always tells you to play hard to get
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:13 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:48 PM
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It’s almost like men and women are different when it comes to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:48 PM
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Most women are not young and beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:28 PM
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It's tough that men pretend to actually like a woman when they're only sticking around for convenient sex. That wastes women's time and breaks their heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:21 PM
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Men are immune to beauty now? Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:19 PM
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...for men. And that's why dating can be tough on women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:11 PM
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That's not dating, that's pretending to date so you can fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:10 PM
3

The top girls are desirable, the rest are average or ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:10 PM
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A woman's desirability is determined by how she compares to other women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:55 PM
0

That's fucking, not dating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:53 PM
3

Men find most women fuckable, which is different Only attractive women are attractive, duh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:51 PM
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I don't agree. Women are desirable when they are beautiful (not fuckable, that's different), and most women are not beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:45 PM
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Undesirable people have it harder in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:39 PM
1

Doesn't "average" vary by context? I mean that man is certainly not average in, say, Los Angeles
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:45 AM
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Imagine what? What would happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:00 AM
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I mean is SHE the only factor? How fast and aggressively did the previous men press for sex? Are you just as fast and aggressive as them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:47 AM
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Women complain about men misinterpreting eye contact and polite conversation as interest. Guess what socially awkward girls don't do a lot of?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:41 AM
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The women you're describing don't get approached because men interpret their social awkwardness as disinterest
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:12 PM
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So...he wants and enjoys the sex. He doesn't feel violated by it, unlike prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:47 PM
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I wouldn't marry a man who had been divorced multiple times as I wouldn't be able to trust his judgment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:40 PM
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Faces is the combination of like 10 different features each with their own distribution. I mean kinda but when people evaluate a face they're only doing it on the basis of one metric, beauty. Beauty is universally good and extremely powerful. Height is good up to a point (there's such a thing as being too tall, especially if the girl is short) and is just not that powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:52 PM
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Except I also talk to women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:49 PM
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Celebrities are hot already. People are going to disagree on whether prime Megan Fox or prime Jennifer Lawrence is hotter because they're both 10/10s, so it comes down to a preference for black/blonde hair and hard/soft features. But no one is mistaking J-Law for some meh girl on the street
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:43 PM
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And men will definitely fuck down for casual sex. They will, yeah. They will take sex with an ugly girl over no sex. But they don't, in practice, because they're working on having casual sex with hot girls
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:35 PM
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I don't think there's that much variation at all in what faces people find attractive. And there's no such thing as a person who prefers an ugly-looking face And sure, women care about height but you're overstating it. Being short hurts, but being average or tall doesn't help men that much. If he's average height then his face is like 10000x more important
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:29 PM
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As I've said before, women are mostly hooking up with potential boyfriends who are in their league. Chads pursue Stacys, even if it's just for casual sex. And lol, women don't feel alphawidowed because of body parts, it's the romantic high that gets them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:21 PM
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There's no trait in women that men almost unanimously prefer and agree makes a woman superior to the same extent women do with height. Those traits are facial attractiveness and age (and yes, women care about these too)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:13 PM
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I don't understand why that means a man can't be Stacy-widowed if he gets with a pretty young thing for a few months and then gets dumped and has to go back to dating stout middle-aged women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:01 PM
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How about age or facial attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:59 PM
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That’s not what we were discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:04 PM
1

...and in real life, what does that have to do with anything? Commitment is not a function of kindness, it's a function of love and a few other things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:17 AM
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If I were going to generalize I'd say unattractive women are more likely to hate themselves and unattractive men are more likely to hate women. But I don't really care either way, I'm just fascinated that men here can't grasp that there only so many kindhearted people to go around
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:09 AM
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Then they were never kind to begin with...which makes my point even more true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:56 AM
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He's still going to watch porn for the variety
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:54 AM
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there are only so many rich men to go around and it's equally true that there are only so many kind men to go around, but somehow this escapes the men here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:47 AM
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as long as their partner fulfill them sexually completely Meaning what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:44 AM
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My related theory to this is that this unprecedented level of control has seeped into how women view men. Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:14 PM
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For the record I think both partners should compromise and do some sacrificing for each other. That means in your average relationship the woman will put out when she doesn't want to sometimes. I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy of thinking a woman's emotional needs are her burden to bear but a man's sexual needs are his wife's burden. She has no more control over what her genitals respond to than he does. She'd probably love it if she could stay horny despite her emotional state (I know I woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:13 PM
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That doesn't mean they're loved more lol, it just means they're less of a threat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:35 PM
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How much of a man’s sex drive is his own responsibility? If he wants more sex than his wife, how much is it fair to let that interfere with his relationship? Is she supposed to make sure 100% of his needs are taken care of before she takes care of hers?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:14 PM
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I mean if I'm upset/stressed I won't be able to get aroused. That's the way most vaginas work. Doesn't mean I "view sex as a chore" but rather my sex drive is directly linked to my emotional state in a way that isn't true for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:32 PM
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Women compare themselves to other women not men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:51 AM
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Finally someone gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:47 AM
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I propose (perfectly reasonable solution that might slightly inconvenience women). Like? I haven't heard one yet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:41 AM
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They don't hate ugly guys, they just don't think about them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:44 PM
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But that's the thing, why hate them? If you don't want to marry them no problem but the hate is straight up bizarre
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:35 PM
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I'd rather have money and respect. It's not good for the marriage when one person has all the money and power
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:18 PM
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Women are not trying to be "dateable", they're trying to find a relationship that they want to stay in forever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:17 PM
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But they also need emotional support more than men do, which is why they put huge amounts of time and effort into cultivating emotionally reciprocal relationships with other women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:35 AM
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She was gorgeous before she got sick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:31 AM
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the vast majority of married women are NOT the breadwinner. Does that automatically mean she's a gold digger? I mean if he's making $53k a year and she's making $47k it's pretty weird to characterize that as "gold digging".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:16 AM
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They're incapable of understanding that women experience sex differently
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:14 AM
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as I don't want to be in my 50's with kids in the house. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:57 AM
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Except men actually are the less attentive parents most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:49 AM
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Porn for men where the woman gets "pleasured" looks incredibly fake to women.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 06:03 AM
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Women are not intending that stuff to be dating "advice". It's supposed to shut up people who won't stop talking about they suck and no one wants them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:39 AM
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Male and female sex drives work differently
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:42 AM
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No human being likes working, but you need money to live as an autonomous human being.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 12:36 AM
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Watch what women do, not what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:04 AM
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Those women are porn stars
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:58 PM
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Posting nudes without her face? Maybe Being a verified pornstar? No way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:18 PM
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So 25% of the women you talk to are verified porn stars? What are the chances lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:15 PM
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I think this is yet another post confusing "personality" with "character". I can certainly tell if a man is funny and charismatic within minutes of meeting him, I only crush on men I find funny and charismatic, and nothing's stopping those men from also being toxic or abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:08 PM
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How does that make them femcels?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:00 PM
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But you already know if she's fat or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:04 AM
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Male attention is validating if: I'm attracted to him and/or he's objectively attractive and I get the sense he's interested in me, not just interested in sex But now you’re telling me if you’re getting attention from a guy who actually thinks you’re cool is validating. But what if this guy is unattractive? Still validating? I mean it's validating if anyone thinks I'm genuinely cool—attractive man, ugly man, woman, or child. That's not me changing my point. What if the attractive guy is eyeing y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:03 AM
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There are different types of male attention. What I'm discussing is men opportunistically hitting on women who just happen to be there. They get a certain look in their eye that resembles the way my dog looks at steak. It's icky for a women to be on the receiving end of. If a man thinks you're "really cool," that's different. That's validating. But he would have to get to know you to figure out if you're cool. If he just met you 4 seconds ago and hasn't torn his eyes away from your cleavage then…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:43 PM
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Only the attention of an attractive man is "validating". That has less to do with women's standards and more to do with the fact that men will give attention to anything with a hole, especially if they're old, creepy, or don't understand social signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:20 PM
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You're switching it up again. If a man only wants sex from her, that's a hit to her self-esteem that'll leave her feeling worse off than if he'd never approached her in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:13 PM
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Getting attention from hot guys is great, who's denying that? Women are complaining about something different
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:17 PM
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Do we know that it’s marriage making women happy? Another interpretation is happy women are more likely to get and stay married. Checks out, because men don’t want to share their lives with soul-sucking miseries.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:57 PM
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How is that a strawman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:53 PM
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The FDA decides if a medication is approved for prescription use, not voters
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:56 PM
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I mean I'd guess it's very bad but apparently staying married was worse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:17 AM
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Who says good looking couples avoid that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:29 PM
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Yes—if they're not aware of a problem and you feel a duty to bring it to their attention. Fat people already know they're fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:06 PM
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Sure, people love to be showered with gifts and attention and will push for more of it. So why don't men push to receive romance? Since when do men cry themselves to sleep because their girlfriend isn't romantic enough? Since when do men rage and attack because they're not getting the flower bouquets she gave other men? marriage Look at the rates of lesbian marriage vs. gay male marriage. It's pretty obvious that women like the idea of marriage more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:04 PM
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It's not optimal for anyone to be fat but they already know that. No one likes being fat. Pointing out their fat rolls is not going to help them so you might as well mind your own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:45 PM
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In relationships between average people, the woman is almost always the one pushing for greater commitment, the title of "girlfriend", more romance, and eventually marriage. I could argue that men don't really "want" woman if they don't want to be forever intertwined as life partners, but that would be unfairly judging men by the female standard. You're unfairly judging women by the male standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:41 PM
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Fat people already know the truth. It's not some revelation to them that they're dragging around an extra 90 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:36 PM
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Top men think sleeping around is a "better deal" than committing to one woman because they're less interested in relationships than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:33 PM
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Fat people already know they're fat so idk what the point of bringing it up is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:21 PM
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It's a sexual desire gap. Women experience more desire for romance, relationships, and marriage than men do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:13 PM
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They need to understand men in order to get what they want from dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:02 PM
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One of the social situations where there's no social pressure. lolllllllllll
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:30 AM
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Because?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:29 AM
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...neither am I, that's kind of the point of my comment. I'm objectively beneath some men in terms of SMV. Those men may or may not turn me on—but either way I'm still beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:38 PM
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They're different things from the female perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:35 PM
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It doesn't matter what his SMV is if he's not attractive to her. I've rejected guys who on SMV alone were probably way above me, but they didn't give me butterflies for whatever reason so I had no choice but to reject them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:34 PM
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Twox or a ton of other random women subreddits has plenty of threads they talk about what male redditors say and use that as evidence. Yeah and I discount what TwoX says as well (as everyone should), it's for undersocialized freaks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:28 PM
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You’ll get found out when you don’t call her again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:56 PM
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The alternative is that relatively large amounts of women are single for life, assuming some percentage of the male population will always be abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:23 PM
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Ugly fat couples are beating each other up too (fun fact)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:16 PM
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Where did "feminism" ever say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:13 PM
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That has nothing to do with what I said, but to answer your question, I think misogynistic men are more likely to aggressively pursue women, more likely to pressure/bully/coerce them into sex, and more likely to intimidate them into sticking around, making those men more "successful" by that count. But that's not the same as being more successful at arousing women. Can you answer my first question?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:11 PM
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Those are different women. The women who are actually getting beaten don’t always think “misogyny” is such a problem because they go back to him and lie to the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:35 PM
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What rate of domestic abuse would lead you to think women have good personality detectors in general? Do said personality detectors have to be infallible?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:29 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:55 AM
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Standards would shoot up because your genitals would be much less reactive. You wouldn't have conscious control over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:23 AM
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I’m talking about his fear of body positivity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:57 AM
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I think you're mistaking women telling women they should like themselves even if they're fat/slutty/old with women telling men to like them. The point of body positivity is that men's desires are irrelevant. But anyway....just don't date fat sluts. I'm not sure what the fear is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:46 AM
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What class actually is is relevant because according to you this conversation is about women claiming they're in the "same socioeconomic class"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:43 AM
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Oh. Class is more than income, it's also education and prestige. So they may or may not be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:25 AM
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Most of what you're saying is incoherent, but anyway, the white/blue collar distinction is legitimately important. Educated women think police officers etc. are too rough around the edges and won't share their values. That's in spite of the fact that lots of blue collar workers outearn office drones and get good benefits. Having money obviously makes someone a better long-term prospect, all else equal, but if you don't share values/a culture with your spouse your everyday life will be pretty suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:17 AM
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If you don't think they would reject him what is the point of this thread? You keep telling us that bullshit degrees don't increase your earning potential that much so it can't be about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:09 AM
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I can't imagine any woman would reject a high-earning software engineer because he didn't go to college. Educated women reject blue-collar men like police officers and truckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:44 AM
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It's not dumb. Having a mediocre office job is a thousand times better than working retail or fast food.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:15 AM
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Broad/narrow shoulders are mostly genetic. Working out increases the thickness of your arms but doesn't do much for the shoulder-to-waist ratio which is what actually matters. I'm not saying he needs to lose weight. Skinny-fat means you're skinny but you have too much fat and too little muscle mass. It gives you that undefined look. Emma Roberts is clearly not skinny-fat, she's the kind of sculpted skinny that you get at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:23 AM
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It's weird to compare male and female body types like this. Michael Cera is skinny-fat (bad in general) with narrow shoulders (bad for men). She's thin with long legs and narrow shoulders (all good points for women) but it's hard to really judge her body without seeing her naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:32 PM
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Most men don't have foot fetishes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:32 AM
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If a grown man emotionally relates to an 18 year old girl that's a bad sign. Musicians and athletes are also bad news, lol, but less bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:29 PM
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He didn't know, and now that he knows it's a slap in the face so I understand getting divorced but I don't understand how his love for his kid just disappeared overnight. It's unthinkable to me. why can't the mother get the guy she cheated on him with to step up and be the father. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:23 PM
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has had 0 real ADULT life experience. Why is that a benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:16 PM
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25 is when people on the coasts get out of grad school, etc., and start being seen by older people as real adults. To educated people, college-age adults are still children and grad-school age adults are also kinda children. It's a cultural thing. People in the past used to marry their daughters off at 14. This is like that, but in reverse. No one wants their daughter married and pregnant at 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:11 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:06 PM
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He's not an asshole if he leaves right away. He's an asshole if he leaves after 5 or 10 years after he's already bonded with the kid and the kid loves him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:02 PM
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It's her job to make men fall in love with her hard enough that they want to stick around forever. This is actually pretty tough to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:38 AM
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I'm making the point that some effort is also expected from the woman's side because you didn't believe that 3 comments ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:31 AM
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I'm making the point that it's not one-sided
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:24 AM
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It's her job to make men fall in love with her hard enough that they want to stick around forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:54 AM
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Why would apps be your only option
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:53 AM
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What is your job title and what are you paid?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:34 AM
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Like I said below, most people are nice in the early stages of courtship. It's more difficult to be nice when you've been married for 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:35 PM
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Because a committed relationship should take exactly one man and one woman off the market. Women date slightly older and there's a couple other statistical caveats but that's the basic concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:34 PM
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You don't need to be nice 24/7 in relationships. You have to be nice-ish in the early stages of dating (which basically every man is going to be because attraction/hormones/feelz are at their highest, and you have nothing to fight about yet). But the point is being nice is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:59 PM
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By that they mean that being nice alone is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:49 PM
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I don't think single and looking men actually outnumber women, people just lie on surveys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:48 PM
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IME single people have single friends and couples have couple friends. Birds of a feather and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:37 PM
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The average guy has a social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:24 PM
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You don't think average men date average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:13 PM
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It’s central to everyone’s lives lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:26 AM
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He should figure out why can't put dishes away. Sounds like unresolved childhood trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:50 PM
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From the article The wife doesn’t want to divorce her husband because he leaves used drinking glasses by the sink. She wants to divorce him because she feels like he doesn’t respect or appreciate her, which suggests he doesn’t love her, and she can’t count on him to be her lifelong partner. She can’t trust him. She can’t be safe with him. Thus, she must leave and find a new situation in which she can feel content and secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:31 PM
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🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:17 PM
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It makes sense for men to initiate because of the way female sexuality works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:13 PM
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IME it's usually losers dating fat girls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:10 PM
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Women like the right kind of attention from the right kind of men. They usually find other kinds of attention gross or insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:02 PM
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They're not called misandrists but they're definitely called screeching ugly nagging lonely bitches, so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:31 AM
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My vagina feels looser when I'm highly aroused, at certain times of the month, when I'm not clenching my pelvic muscles, and just randomly sometimes. There are a lot of reasons for fluctuation in feel beyond cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:34 PM
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I mean, maybe he's average for his age group but he's definitely below average in general. He's probably a 5/10. But then again I'd say a 7/10 is average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:54 PM
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That dude is not average
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:42 PM
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Longer doesn't always mean better. Longer means better for women because they need more time to get fully aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:33 PM
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Why would clitoral masturbation make it harder to orgasm from PiV?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:29 PM
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It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:29 AM
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I mean if we're talking about your wife or mother or something you should probably care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:03 PM
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IRL I don't think most women expect men to understand or care about female-specific problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:51 PM
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What do you mean you started showing interest in what they bring to the table? You had no opinions on women before this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:43 PM
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Do you mean sexual or romantic options? Because an average woman has near infinite sexual options but probably fewer romantic options than a Chadly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:32 PM
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Trades require upper body strength. Lots of women go into pink-collar jobs (childcare, nursing, the beauty industry) which demand degrees unlike their blue-collar equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:26 AM
2

If they want it more that means it’s not equally beneficial
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:43 AM
0

they don't have the same opinions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:36 AM
1

I wouldn't, but dates make me nervous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:39 PM
1

I mean, for example, to TwoXers slut-shaming isn't a "sexual preference" but an expression of misogyny that men and women are equally likely to engage in. It's criticized on those grounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:47 PM
1

TwoX would argue those are not actually "preferences", though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:37 PM
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do not listen to men on this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:20 PM
-1

Looksmatched relationships are unstable?
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 04:59 PM
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Women on dating apps are trying to dissuade inappropriate men, not sell themselves. They sell themselves once they've met you and like you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:52 PM
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I didn't say more kind/empathetic/thoughtful. I said "more likely to share her values and get along with the people she loves".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:56 PM
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They're legally capable of making those decisions but sometimes they choose wrong. "Rudimentary" lol. You guys don't understand how emotional 19 year girls are and how easily they can be crushed and traumatized by the wrong man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:54 PM
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An educated man is more likely to share her values and get along with the people she loves. That's very important to making a relationship work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:43 PM
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I've never understood the "standards" framing because you can't force yourself to like/love/respect someone you don't like/love/respect. If women could do that their lives would be like a thousand times less painful. But as it is now, love doesn't come around every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:25 PM
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We're talking about lonely women who no one ever chose. That's bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:16 PM
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The first is not unreasonable if she's in living in a big city or an educated hub. Location is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:14 PM
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It means you're bottom of the barrel yourself. That's the situation we're discussing...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:10 PM
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If what you can realistically get is worse than being alone...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:39 PM
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Dating apps allow you to set an age range, so I doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:34 PM
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If she’s in her 30s or 40s and wants a relationship I’d be verrrry curious why she wants her dating app to show her men in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:54 PM
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I don’t know why you’re framing it like their “standards” exclude all possible men. Most women who are dating in their mid 30s date just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:43 PM
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go outside and talk to the opposite sex All else equal, the more women you're exposed to the better. Most of the men here have no friends and no social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:27 AM
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Women optimize for psychological/emotional connection with their partner, and it's hard to maximally connect if he's at a different life stage. This is one of the reasons why age gaps relationships are generally viewed as bad for women.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 01:16 AM
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Why would that mean women supported polygyny? More likely they didn't have much of a choice in who they were married off to
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 01:13 AM
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When someone betrays you or hurts you it's tough to get over.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:07 AM
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But not necessarily related to my partner so that part really puzzled me. As a girl, I'd say most of my libido fluctuations are related to my partner/stuff happening in the relationship and the rest are due to hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:06 AM
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What's so confusing about that?
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 07:59 PM
1

Pretty sure women have always made men insecure (and vice versa).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:37 PM
3

How am I supposed to date someone I don't know anything about?
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 07:29 PM
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Physical foreplay is very important, but even more important is the mental foreplay that sets the mood for sex. For women, good sex starts outside the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:26 PM
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and are seemingly only asking this question as a sort of formality that they feel like they are supposed to ask They're asking it because they want to get to know you better dude
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 06:35 PM
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So wtf is it about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:25 AM
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What’s the female revenge fantasy on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:22 AM
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It’s weird to ask women because women’s assessment of their own merits doesn’t matter for dating. All that matters for dating is men’s assessment of them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:00 AM
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Isn't it men's job to assess their merit? This is a strange question to ask of women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:43 PM
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This is dumb because interesting is subjective. But he has to be interesting to me. I can't give a number because it's a binary (interesting to me, or not)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:37 PM
1

Literally everyone cares in every aspect of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:08 PM
1

Some people are much more attractive than others, and those attractive people (gasp) attract people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:28 PM
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I don't see that as preselection but as one guy being outstandingly attractive. In my school, 2 girls out of 500 won that game in a landslide. Not because of preselection but because those girls were extraordinarily attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:16 PM
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Women aren't filtered out IRL on "weight" per se, but on body type
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:17 PM
1

Why does that bother you the most?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:16 PM
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just because other women find them attractive. It doesn't work this way. Preselection might be a force multiplier (though I'm skeptical even of that) but it isn't going to inspire attraction where none exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:16 PM
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Usually situationships are what happens when the woman is in love and the man doesn't want to be her committed boyfriend. I'm just talking about the early stages of a relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:30 PM
1

Especially because people can't help what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:22 PM
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Telling your wife you don't find her attractive is one of the worst things you can say to her. I can think of a list of insults a mile long I'd rather hear before I heard that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:56 PM
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What he said is one of the worst things you can say to your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:13 PM
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They’re not having sex with the understanding it’s going to be casual forever. They’re having sex with potential boyfriends as a part of getting to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:46 PM
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I live in a big western city and there's no expectation that guys pay for dates. Some guys might offer as a gesture, but if he pays he's going to expect something in return, so in practice girls don't really want it to happen. This is especially true if they met on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:28 PM
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Because guys don't care about that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:21 PM
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Most boyfriends start out as casual sex. I don't understand why you guys think every relationship starts out with a 3-month sexless period during which guys pay for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:18 PM
2

The orgasm gap is not a separate issue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:58 PM
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Bad sex is painful for women. Women only enjoy sex when the man is skilled, men orgasm regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:50 PM
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They can have them, but only men can enjoy them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:50 PM
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Women have easier access to sex but not to sexual pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:11 PM
1

Men are more likely to cheat and abuse when they know the woman can’t leave
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:20 PM
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No they wouldn’t, because they’re men with male sexuality
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 07:19 PM
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Not the same if men can get physical pleasure from it and women can’t.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 03:09 PM
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But men and women are different. Men still enjoy sex with women they’re not attracted to
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 01:56 PM
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Women are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:05 AM
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Yep. This is exactly what every woman reports but this dude is clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:00 PM
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I’ve always wanted kids but I also acknowledge that having them reduces my power. Which I think you’ll recall is what this conversation is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:59 PM
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Bad for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:56 PM
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Nope. Some things are worth sacrificing everything for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:52 PM
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Still C. B is fine too. As a woman your husband’s day-to-day behavior is responsible for 90% of your happiness. If she was guaranteed the sweetest, most loving husband ever, then I’d say A. But most women are married to normal men and need equal earning potential to stop him from wielding his financial power against her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:49 PM
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In the context of her marriage, C.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:42 PM
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It was worth it to her, but she’d agree with everything I said. After kids her life no longer belonged to her. She had a lot less freedom and couldn’t do the stuff she did before (go out with her friends, feel good about her body, make the same amount of money, or negotiate equal power in her marriage). Women like babies and should have them, but having them objectively reduces their power.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:35 PM
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Kids take away from a woman’s freedom, sexual attractiveness, and finances, thereby reducing her power
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:09 PM
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Are gay men your options?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:07 PM
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The whole point of a job is doing shit you don’t like for money. Prostitutes consent so it’s not rape (though probably feels like it). You didn’t believe unwanted sex felt violating to women a few seconds ago so why the change of heart?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:24 PM
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No, rape would still be a crime (even if a prostitute was the victim).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:13 PM
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Yes to the first paragraph. Women don’t support it in general. Some feminists do, but that’s because they think legalizing prostitution makes things safer for the prostitutes. Right now if a prostitute gets beaten and strangled by a john, they can’t go to the police. Johns know that and take advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:00 PM
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They’re on drugs, and also come to the profession pre-damaged
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:50 AM
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Link to the CSA discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:34 PM
1

Twitter is supposed to be fun
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:37 PM
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—Because in some communities men with legitimate, consistent work are tough in find. —Which is weird because you seem to think her husband’s job is the only thing keeping most women fed and housed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:57 PM
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They’d prefer it if the woman liked it but they’ll take what they can get. That’s why prostitution exists and why nearly all women have felt pressure to have unwanted sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:53 PM
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It’s about his ego not her pleasure. That’s why women feel pressure to fake them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:50 PM
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I have known a lot of women with boyfriends who won’t work. I have never known a woman who was homeless or starving.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:46 PM
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No, because they have their own jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:43 PM
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Women stay through their husband’s job loss all the time. They tend to leave when he can’t hold down a job at all, as in not once in twenty years, or when he stops looking for work for years at a time. Seems legit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:36 PM
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The point is that if you really cared about her you’d be fine going without sex for a couple weeks because your wife is too busy sobbing her guts out to be in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:21 PM
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I doubt she’s getting what she wants from her relationship if her husband demands his dick gets sucked instead of comforting his grieving wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:08 PM
1

Every relationship is going to go through job loss at some point…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:07 PM
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If you’re in a long-term relationship 1-2 months without sex are going to happen at some point because…life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:53 PM
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If they are grieving or under horrible stress that should probably take precedence over your dick for a couple of months.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:49 PM
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Maybe, maybe not. It’s easier to obtain sex through bullying then start a whole new relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:57 PM
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So he made her fear his sexual desire, worsening the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:48 PM
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Everything matters, yeah, pretty much. Not sure what about this is confusing. Explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:48 PM
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I assure you people wanted out of marriages suffering from “lack of commitment, substance abuse, and domestic violence” in the past. They just couldn’t leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:38 PM
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That’s flat-out wrong. Feminists believe women play a role in their own oppression (see internalized misogyny) and men, being constrained by gender roles, are also victims of patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:06 PM
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The bar for what? Men and women are talking about different things
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:03 PM
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Many of those men would be be perfectly dateable if she met them in person. It’s hard to tell from a dating app so women err on the side of caution.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:54 PM
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There are lots of average guys I’m attracted to and lots of average guys I’m not. I have to like the particulars of HIS face because if he’s boyfriend I will be staring at it 24/7 and our future children will have his features.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:53 PM
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That’s not the “modern interpretation” though. No woman getting married today is a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:28 PM
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No one can be happy without status or respect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:41 PM
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What is this supposed to prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:36 AM
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Misogyny would still exist because women would still be physically weaker and vulnerable in ways that men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:33 AM
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My observation is that Chads pumps and dump hot girls and ugly guys pump and dump ugly girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:22 PM
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I really don’t think that that is clear. Most people would agree that men decline more slowly than women. This notion that they’re drastically improving in their 30s is something I’ve only heard from teenage incels on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:48 AM
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They can improve, just not in ways that are arousing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:55 AM
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Those things don't improve with time in ways that are arousing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:17 AM
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At best, men decline more slowly than women do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:45 AM
1

It may not be incels' fault that they're undesirable but...they're still undesirable? Pity does not inspire sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:17 PM
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It won't always occur but it should be occurring more often that not. You can't be married to someone who's getting you wrong most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:21 PM
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A spouse who pays attention and understands you is a "fantasy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:49 PM
1

Women do this more than men (because they are more people please-y in general) but men do it too, especially if they really care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:43 PM
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I think people are assuming he can do more damage to the 19-year-old.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:41 PM
1

I'm constantly monitoring all of my relationships (not just romantic, also friendships and family etc.) to try to figure out what the other person wants and where I stand with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:36 PM
1

He's not really compatible with anyone, that's why he's a 30-year-old virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:32 PM
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It doesn't, but you won't find a woman on the planet who's ok keeping things 100% casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:29 PM
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If you've paid attention to her and you understand her you should have a pretty good idea what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:27 PM
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I don’t think they’d “want” to work, they want their own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:20 PM
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Very few men earn enough to give their wife and kids a comfortable lifestyle by themselves. And many women are not married in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:54 PM
1

Having pets helps a little but doesn't cure it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:33 PM
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As a college-aged girl, I definitely have baby fever. I just don't act on it because I haven't finished my education or gotten a stable job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:15 PM
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Very ugly women are going to have a much tougher time finding men who care and want to stay with her forever. That's probably more of a bottleneck then what you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:43 AM
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Most women are barely showing at 4 months if they're showing at all so I don't even understand this tweet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:26 PM
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Western society (which is what we're talking about) believes women have sexual desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:33 PM
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if a society claims that only personality matters, then that society can more easily view sexual desire as abnormal. Society is saying that personality can inspire sexual desire
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:24 PM
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What's "average" varies by region and socioeconomic status so it's kind of a useless discussion unless it's localized.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:19 PM
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Asking for personal details about someone's sex life is almost always socially unacceptable. (Unless you're already sleeping with her—even then, caring a lot about a woman's n-count is going to make you seem like a weirdo in the modern west.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:18 PM
1

Apart from both of them being questions I don't see the comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:31 PM
3

Men have it easier because they can still have enjoyable sex with women who don't give them tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:36 PM
5

I don't see how being in a bad marriage is red pill. Spongebob isn't just uglier, he's worse in every possible way. The whole point of branchswinging is to branchswing to someone better. Taylor isn't woke lol. Her team got her to pretend for a couple years but that's long over and no one ever bought it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:28 PM
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Something like 1/3 of women who contract STDs will get pelvic inflammatory disease, which causes infertility and permanent sexual pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:20 PM
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They're not really representative of 37 and 40 though, even for Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:08 PM
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Ariana's situation isn't branch-swinging the way the redpill describes it. She was unhappy in her marriage and looking for a way to blow it up (if it wasn't over already). She cheated with a man who's uglier and broker. Some woke people on the internet think Matty Healy is a scumbag but I doubt any RP men would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:05 PM
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Women are not all that sexually attracted to their men, because they fucked objectively more attractive men than their husbands I don't understand the because in this sentence. Either I'm attracted to him or I'm not.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 10:01 PM
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Not sure about him specifically but Hollywood heartthrobs get facelifts and hair transplants all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:57 PM
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Ariana Grande cheated on her rich handsome husband with an uggo Taylor Swift...went through a breakup? I don't even see the redpill connection
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:43 PM
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Women are more likely to get and be severely affected by basically every STI in existence
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:23 PM
1

Most women have physical contact with men, so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:35 PM
1

Why would my interest in discussing gender and sexual dynamics go away because I'm in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:36 PM
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It’s difficult to date psychologically normal young women as an older man. But you can always find the high school fatso who’s desperate for love from anywhere, her own lack of attraction be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:20 PM
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Do you really think teenage girls are thinking like that? They’re comparing themselves to girls THEIR age, not older ones. The girl in the infamous age gap relationship in my high school was 300 pounds and couldn’t get a boy in school to sit next to her in public, never mind date her. So when a 28-year old cashier who wasn’t beholden to high school social dynamics strolled up…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:17 PM
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Do you really think teenage girls are thinking like that? They’re comparing themselves to girls THEIR age, not older ones. The girl in the infamous age gap relationship in my high school was 300 pounds and couldn’t get a boy in school to sit next to her in public, never mind date her. So when a 28-year old cashier who wasn’t beholden to high school social dynamics strolled up…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:16 PM
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It's not about changing your wardrobe, it's about being the kind of man who intuitively knows how to dress in a way that's arousing to women. That means understanding the current fashion (which requires social skills) but also slightly subverting it (so you stand out).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:14 AM
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Marriage is the domain of the educated middle class and upper middle class— not the demographics that date or produce single mothers—so no
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:14 AM
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It’s not customary for boyfriends to spend significant money on girlfriends, never mind their kids. And that’s assuming they even have significant money to give away, which the vast majority of Americans do not
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:54 AM
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Casual sex, boyfriend, whatever—assholes aren’t spending money on some woman’s kid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:22 AM
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Why would an asshole be providing for another’s man’s kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:42 AM
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It’s usually the opposite. Nice guys feel ick about single motherhood and wonder about the well-being of the kid. Assholes couldn’t give af that she has a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:02 AM
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Why else would I be here? I don’t like arguing with incels tho, they’re different
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:56 PM
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She's talking about treatment in a relationship not fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:12 PM
1

You think women are rejecting the perfect man because he’s 5’11” instead of 6’1”? It’s not a bright line “standard” the way you’re describing it. It can be compensated for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:25 PM
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How are they deducing a guy's personality based on six pictures and a few answers to some generic questions? They're not. Without getting a feel for his mannerisms and vibe they can't tell if they're attracted, so they swipe left. Many of those dudes would do just fine in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:09 PM
1

hey filter out such a significant section of men Meaning what? On dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:08 PM
1

I also want to discuss redpill/other politically incorrect views that r/sex bans. A lot of Reddit assumes a liberal sex positive feminist "all gender differences are socialized" world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:05 PM
1

I mean why are you here instead of r/sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:49 PM
1

r/sex is literally not a debate sub
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:55 PM
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That women was a prostitute. Do you think normal sex gives women incurable sexual trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:15 PM
1

From what I've seen r/sex doesn't welcome certain kinds of debate and r/dating is for underage boys to complain about women and/or impersonate them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:14 PM
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Because PPD is specifically for debates about sexual dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:05 PM
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I used to escorted before I got married now I feel doomed to never enjoy sex again it's been 8 years of faking it hating every moment its such a chore Don't you guys think that promiscuous sex is so great for women it ruins their sex lives forever? Because that quote is kinda making the opposite of your point. This woman has sexual trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:51 PM
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Men who look and act like software engineers are not usually arousing to women. No amount of career stability is going to change that. Men with social deficits are literally bottom of the barrel, not sure why the men here don’t get that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:07 PM
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Most men are invisible to me until they interact with me, then they make themselves visible
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:12 AM
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No, bad boys are "bad" with style
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:22 AM
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Because they're men, duh. Women have a different relationship with sex and it's not male sexualization is not really a positive thing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:28 AM
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I don't want to be an NPC to the love of my life, yeah. But we're talking about being an NPC to strangers on the street. And in that case I'm totally fine being an NPC and find it preferable to being a sex NPC.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:21 AM
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You're getting a little off track, but yeah, women would rather be seen as NPCs than sexualized by male strangers. That line of thinking isn't really unique to women though. Most men would rather their mother be seen as an NPC than as a facefuck object. Alas, we all learn to live with male sexuality's unpleasant aspects...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:10 AM
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It's not an "issue". But you're not going to find many women who like the idea that every guy on the street wants to choke her with his cock. I'm cool with the whole NPC thing though. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:55 PM
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I don't see how it's possible to view a female stranger in any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:36 PM
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When men see women as (sex) NPCs Yeah uhhh it's the sex part of that that women are objecting to, not the NPC part
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:35 PM
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That's weird. I see basically all strangers, male and female, as NPCs and I think that's pretty standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:34 PM
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what she sees is a strong, bold, intense man And that's what attracts her. You're overcomplicating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:28 PM
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They're NPCs until they interact with me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:10 PM
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No. Attractive men are a dime a dozen. The hard part is finding someone attractive AND who you wouldn't mind sharing the next six decades with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:30 AM
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If you believe in something strongly (God, communism, the education to middle class job pipeline) you don't want to share your life with someone who's on a different page.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:08 AM
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No woman on the planet thinks her degree makes dicks hard. Educated women want educated men because they share her values and make better husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:00 AM
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No. Women still need romance and love
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:54 AM
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Professional women are the most likely to be married
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:51 AM
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Middle class women don't think they're "hot shit" for graduating college because that's what's normal and expected of them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:51 AM
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I don’t think there is a competition of cultures. White and blue collar people live in different worlds and their cultures are appropriate for their worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:43 AM
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I don’t know what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:13 AM
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It could be something like retail, service sector, secretary , etc. You think those aren't working class jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:10 AM
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Nah, height doesn't make me horny the way other things do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:03 AM
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It's desirable but far from the most desirable trait
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:57 AM
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So you believe lay people think computer science is interesting and cool?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:39 AM
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Highly educated white collar men care a lot, lol. This is precisely the class divide we're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:25 AM
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Class isn't just income. It's also culture
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:19 AM
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Computer scientists are pretty much the only people who find computer science interesting. Other scientists need to know about it for work...got it...that doesn't make it cool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:18 AM
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Dating subs are a terrible way to go about judging something like that. r/dating is 80% teenage boys complaining about female privilege or pretending to be women. r/datingoverthirty is for people who want to seriously discuss relationships and I was a pretty prolific poster when I was 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:28 AM
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That has more to do with the demographics of those subs (r/dating is mostly men larping as women or complaining). If you guys want to see desperate 19 year old girls asking why they can't find a good man, may I point you towards r/relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:51 PM
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The kind of work a 5 would need done to be hot would be extremely significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:55 PM
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One of the reasons plastic surgeries/fillers can't take a 5 to an 8 is because they age a face by 8-10 years. Even more, if done on young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:49 PM
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Most men mate, so no one is "required" to have anything, but of course women prefer handsome men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:32 PM
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Lol she's not 60. The work she's had done has aged her, which is pretty common
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:22 PM
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Women are meant to be visually aesthetic and men are meant to be impressive in other ways. Humans form long-term relationships for the purposes of raising children and those relationships require mutual choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:12 PM
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If she's overlooking his politics it's because they don't actually disgust her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:38 PM
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You don't need a gigantic schlong to get women pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:08 AM
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You don't think women do nice things for their boyfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:57 PM
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This is why I laugh when the dudes here think all relationship strife would've been solved by "vetting"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:10 AM
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I just told you I'm not scared of men, I don't feel oppressed, and I'm not a victim, so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:59 PM
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I don't think the fact that men are 90% of violent criminals or 99% of sex criminals is "insignificant" at all. Seems pretty vital to understanding society. The more a woman realizes that her liberation is a tiny blip both globally and across time the more likely she is to be grateful for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:00 PM
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Nothing, apart from the fact that gang rapists are 100% male both places.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:45 PM
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What do you make of the fact that regardless of location it's only men doing the gang raping? I'm not saying that all men are gang rapists or that I'm afraid to leave my house or anything r-slurred like that, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:25 PM
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then I guess you pick a partner with a compatible personality from the start Ok and work with them on improving their other traits ....yeah dude that's the hard part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:30 AM
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In the uk women make up around half of doctors and solicitors. In the US women are now the majority of law and medical school graduates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:27 AM
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Then your comment doesn't make a lot of sense. A huge number of girls in their early teen years have bad acne, cramps, irregular periods, anemia, migraine, or something else hormone-related that their pediatrician treats with the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:10 PM
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Just because liberal feminism said it doesn't mean "women" bought it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:01 PM
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Of course its legal. The pill does a lot of things beyond preventing pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:57 PM
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I find it repulsive because of the effect it has on women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:13 PM
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The fact that men will fuck anything (no matter if you love her, like her, or find her attractive) is definitely an aspect of male sexuality that women dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:23 PM
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Women are not going to have sympathy for failed attempts to have casual sex. They have tons of sympathy for unrequited love, but of course that also happens to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:31 PM
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Very few gay men get married at all and the ones that do are older
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:24 PM
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Because women spend far more time with kids than men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:29 AM
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Neither is anyone else, so maybe you should chill about mean Twitter words
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:17 PM
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I don't disagree that money matters in a marriage but nothing matters more than how you make her feel
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:32 AM
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The one with more rizz
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:25 AM
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Just because I'm not fiercely debating her doesn't mean I accept what she says. Part of having social skills is keeping some thoughts to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:29 AM
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And women control that market. No. Women gatekeep sex (to some extent), but dating is a lot more than sex. Men control who gets approached, how frequently and how effortful the approaches are. In the early stages men are trying to fuck, sure, but women are trying to make a case for why they're worth more than a fuck. Both parties are trying to impress the other (and to figure out if they themselves should feel impressed). And although women can turn down courtship they find especially unsatisfac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:25 AM
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Men "need" sex, which weakens their bargaining power, but women "need" to be in a committed relationship, so I'd say it about evens out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:53 PM
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So that would mean women don't control the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:52 PM
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🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:59 PM
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I've never met a woman who wasn't looking for a relationship in her early 20s. Relationships are fun for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:44 PM
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No. Species that form long-term reciprocal relationships require mutual choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:23 PM
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That's true of many animals who have "casual sex" but humans form long-term relationships that require mutual choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:08 PM
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Link to people saying "you just can't win"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:02 PM
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Yeah it does
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:41 PM
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I haven’t seen anyone say that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:34 PM
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By what metric is Red Pill winning debates?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:19 PM
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It’s because men who actively desire me are the only ones I can “see” in a sexual way. Reactive sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:07 PM
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Because we know men would fuck anything. We have to find out if you actually like us enough to put in some effort
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:21 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:44 AM
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So you’re mad women swipe based on looks when that’s the only thing they can evaluate on a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:28 AM
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Men are just not as softhearted as women in general so even if a woman was dating the nicest possible men available they still wouldn't be as touchy-feely as women on average
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:13 AM
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Most reasonable people would agree that violence is worse than mean words, yeah. I answered your question: No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:57 AM
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You think having your entire reputation destroyed is preferable to being beaten up? Most people think violent people are the most dangerous kind of people. Reputation destroyers are also bad. The purpose of domestic violence isn't to kill I was talking about violence in general not just domestic violence. I'm aware that lesbian relationships have higher reported rates of violence but lesbian relationships result in much fewer domestic violence related injuries or deaths. Lesbians could kill and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:48 PM
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The only women I've heard of waiting months for sex were 16 year old virgins or engaged Mormons. Apart from that it's just not a thing in the modern west
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:44 PM
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They empathize with men more than men do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:37 PM
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I didn't say that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:36 PM
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Isn't that missing forms of dominance and exploitation that aren't as visible? Bullying and gossip are bad too but not as bad as violence. Women could close the violence gap with firearms, but they haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:36 PM
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I'm not arguing that women are moral, only that men are less so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:40 PM
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Women are less violent, aggressive, and rapey than men no matter where they are in the world. They're also more empathetic, more self-sacrificing, and more generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:44 PM
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When women say "men are trash" they're talking about their morals
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:35 PM
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If you're getting chemical treatments or color, you pay through the nose so your hair doesn't get damaged. Sounds like your girlfriends were just getting trims which anyone can do in the bathroom at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:24 PM
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What I'm saying is natural-looking makeup is actually more involved a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:12 PM
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It needs to be expensive if you want it to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:08 PM
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Skillful natural looking makeup takes a lot more time and money than the clownish look guys imagine when they hear “super involved makeup”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:37 PM
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I’m trying to explain to you why they don’t have access to more sexual pleasure than men and I can’t figure out what YOU don’t understand about that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:09 AM
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Not if you had like 6000% more dicks than you wanted in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:07 AM
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The ability to have more sex than men? Yeah, the ability to have more sex they don't want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:34 AM
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To give them 5 minutes of dick? They have pretty much all the men in their age group and older. Younger men would still fuck up to a certain point, but women don't want younger men anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:39 AM
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Even if the amount of men who'd fuck goes down 85% (which doesn't happen), no woman will ever approach sexual scarcity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:37 AM
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I was here before the incels and wish they'd go away. When they're not threatening rape, the incels mostly tell us we'll only ever be valued as cumrags. Not sure how that's supposed to be an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:23 AM
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I didn't say that. Read my comment again
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:19 AM
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So why don't men's libidos get even larger in their 60s and 70s, when their sexual options also get much worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:18 AM
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And I'm telling you that what declines is not a woman's sexual options, but her romantic options. Men are always up for free pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:17 AM
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You're saying young women live in abundant sexual pleasure, which is not true. You're also saying young women don't value sex they way they should because they can get their sexual desires met at the drop of a hat—which is also not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:15 AM
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No, but now you're putting conditions on it you didn't before. Sex per se never gets scarce for women. Sexual pleasure/sexual offers they like are always relatively scarce for women because they only want to bang guys they're actually into as people. By your logic, the male sex drive should skyrocket in their 70s when their only viable options are saggy grannies. If old men thought sex was scarce before...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:08 AM
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A male equivalent as in an ugly fat pop star? Lewis Capaldi, easy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:04 AM
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Can you address what I just said instead of repeating yourself? Women will always have an abundance of unwanted dicks in their age category
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:00 AM
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You need sources to tell you teenage boys cum quick and don't spend that much time on foreplay? Teenage sex is the worst for women, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:55 AM
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I don't value sex per se because it feels like nothing or is painful when I'm not 8/10+ aroused. But I value sexual pleasure a ton because it's not that easy to get. Your post is wrong because neither men nor women are living in sexual pleasure abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:53 AM
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Young men, no—but women are not attracted to much younger men anyway. Because men will fuck anything, women of every age are going to have way more sex opportunities thrown at them then they want or know what to do with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:49 AM
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There may be a hormonal peak, but the main reasons women have better sex in their 30s are because men do more foreplay, last longer and generally slow down, and women stop caring so much/ being so insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:45 AM
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I don't value sex per se. What I value is the men who arouse me and connect with me sexually because they don't come around every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:42 AM
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Nah, most people will only fall in love a few times in their life (if they're lucky)
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 03:29 AM
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It's not only done for women. Cars are fun toys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:01 AM
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It depends. 10pm in a club when I'm already feeling sexy: yes. 10am on a Tuesday when I'm wearing gym shorts and feeling hideous: nope, and in fact I'm kind of offended by it. Not only am I gross, now you want something from me? It depends. There's no set time. It's the totality of the situation. It matters. Older men looking at me is basically always creepy and makes me want to crawl out of my skin. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:27 PM
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Because love doesn't come around every day. No woman would choose a good relationship over singlehood.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 10:43 PM
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If I think his feelings are more important than my orgasm it’s not because I care about myself too much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:30 PM
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Yes it's corny, but it's also selfless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:05 PM
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They're a lot of things, but they're not "dumb" for caring about their significant other's feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:05 PM
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I'm not defending it, I'm explaining why it's something women do to make men happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:01 PM
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If he knew he wasn't satisfying her that would upset him, yes. That is again literally why she's faking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:59 PM
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Women are especially like to fake orgasms in hookups so
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:57 PM
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That women do things they're not into to make their boyfriends happy all the time, but somehow the reverse is unthinkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:54 PM
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I don't think most men want to be endured, they want to be enjoyed. ...which is literally why she pretends to enjoy it (in the scenario you came up with)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:52 PM
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That's fine, but the point is girls have sex they're not into for the sake of the man all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:49 PM
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What women mean by "they'd rather be alone" is that being in a bad relationship is even worse than being alone. No one is denying that being alone is horrible in and of itself. But I don't think the guys here can fathom how women are emotionally destroyed by being trapped in bad relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 08:45 PM
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Like I said in the other comment, most of the time girls fake orgasms to make their boyfriends feel good because they value his feelings above their pleasure. If she does want it to end then she was being selfless all that time she was enduring an unpleasant sexual experience for his sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:39 PM
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To make him feel good. His feelings > my pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:34 PM
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If there's nothing in it for her it's pretty selfless. Faking an orgasm instead of getting a real one for the sake of his ego is also something she does for him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:31 PM
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Her intent to cheat on her husband who she loves? I don't know why she'd need to communicate that. Just hop on a new dick, leave the husband out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:58 PM
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If she is cheating, posting pictures of herself and her husband looking in love is a weird choice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:52 PM
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Constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:48 PM
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And yeah dont women/feminists claim that most women have been sexually assulted and/or raped. Some rabid online feminists might believe that but women in general certainly don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:31 PM
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Reddit women are pretty different from normal women. If that was rape wouldn’t 100% of women have to be rape victims and probably rapists too?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:19 PM
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If they were in a relationship I’m having a hard time believing any woman would consider that rape
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:39 PM
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I would have to evaluate my own attractiveness It's not that difficult because I have a mirror. and if I was wrong I would end up burned. If only that was the only way to get burned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:23 AM
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Women are constantly warned that men are only after one thing, so no, it's not that mystifying to them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:09 AM
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What are we being dishonest about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:04 AM
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It's not hard to see why, if you agree that age gap relationships are not in women's best interests
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:32 AM
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How is that a nasty and sinister thing to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:05 AM
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What do you mean? I want an example
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:52 AM
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Values - What matters to you? What's interesting? What's important? What should you strive for? What should you do with your free time? Stages in life - This tends to affect a person's values and priorities. Are you in college? Are you working? Are you partying hard? Living with your parents? Are you a parent yourself? Are you retired?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:23 AM
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Study: In their tween and teenage years, girls become dramatically less self-assured—a feeling that often lasts through adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:04 AM
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What part of that could possibly confuse you? Genuinely asking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:03 AM
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That's not what the data says
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:57 PM
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Shared values, shared stage in life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:54 PM
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Choosing someone you have things in common with makes a stable long-term relationship more likely. That’s why it’s in women’s best interest to maximize for it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:49 PM
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Female self-esteem plummets in puberty and remains lower than male self-esteem from that point on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:47 PM
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Most party thots date other party thots, for good reason
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:46 PM
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All women are allowed to pick nowadays. And they exercise that choice by remaining unmarried instead of getting hitched to uneducated low class men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:16 PM
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They want the men they want, not the men who were assigned to them out of necessity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:34 PM
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Which goes completely against the narrative of "educated women don't want men", from the latest example: No. It's just we don't want to date you. Historically woman dated men out of need... All it shows is that when women are allowed to pick they only want to marry highly educated men who don't beat them or cheat on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:33 PM
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It's called a mother's love, and no woman can imagine it before they experience it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:29 PM
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I don't think she was being dishonest. No woman actually knows how they'll feel about unexpected pregnancy until it happens to them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:34 PM
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If you're at the same life stage as someone decades younger than you, you're a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:12 PM
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amazing sex she got from the ONS Women have the lowest orgasm rate in ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:36 PM
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There are zero human beings who think their job as a waitress will prevent them from dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:41 AM
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Because if there's one thing men aren't effected by it's hot women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:15 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:46 AM
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🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:53 PM
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Average men aren't wanted by every woman, but their attention is returned often enough that they're able to have sex and relationships. You're missing the way context, interaction, and connection can transform a man from invisible to the only thing I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:36 PM
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Still rather have my arm broken
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:19 PM
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If say, you had to choose between having sex with someone they don't want to, or having your arm broken, I think the vast majority would bite the bullet and choose the sex(rape). Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:57 PM
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Most of my sexual fantasies are about situations, not sex acts alone (which I think is pretty female-typical). They're not really the kind of thing you can just request. It's not like saying "A little to the left" or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:48 PM
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I’ve never heard anyone say that. As a young woman, the competition is between other young women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:54 PM
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A shitty restaurant job is not a "career" Do any of you know what a "career woman" is anymore? It's more than just having a job
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:00 AM
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That's not how economics work. If the price wasn't worth it, men wouldn't pay it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:07 AM
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Paying a fair price for something really great is not losing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:02 AM
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The only reason for them to spend that time and energy is because they think it's worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:57 AM
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How could a man lose in the exchange of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:50 AM
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The things I mentioned have a direct effect on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:25 AM
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I don't see how someone I'm not attracted to could give me the best sex of my life, so
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:07 PM
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War/military history is boring, agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:55 PM
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The men in these communities will be the first to tell you that men who help with childcare are bitches, wife-beating is ok sometimes, and male cheating is normal and expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:47 PM
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Bad people will always exist Stupid people will always exist too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:33 PM
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People should be nice and smart, absolutely. And yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:27 PM
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Most women are marrying men they're somewhat attracted to. Whether that attraction can withstand aging, kids, money stress, and the disagreements and disappointments that are inevitable in marriage is a different question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:25 PM
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In a perfect world we could make everyone be loyal, kind and mature If you don't think we'll make all men loyal and kind, but you do think there's some way to make all women smart and thoughtful judges of character I don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:14 PM
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I don't think that's the logic for either tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:55 AM
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Camille Paglia thought what we call "charisma" was a perfect combination of masculinity and femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:26 AM
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Of course you care what women look like. You just don't understand how things like skillfully applied makeup, fake lashes and a flattering hair style can change a woman's face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:06 AM
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I expect another woman to comment on my makeup/hairstyle/diet/body shape/eyelash curling every time I leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:56 AM
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Cardi B isn't a role model, she's a source of entertainment and sometimes a fashion/sex symbol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:53 AM
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Women can't change their facial bone structure or turn younger no matter how hard they try and as you manosphere guys constantly remind us you don't care about anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:41 AM
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You're doubting the existence of women who are ugly in the face?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:35 AM
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A lot of times the "casual sex" isn't casual for her
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 05:58 PM
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I don’t think it’s fair to tell women that they “should” be happy without love. I might as well say men don’t need sex and as long as women aren’t actively abusing them they’re not struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:32 PM
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Women are looking for love. That doesn't come around every day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:39 AM
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They're more sensitive than men. Nature did it that way on purpose so they'd be better mothers and social animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:33 AM
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I doubt she's ever gotten past it emotionally. She stayed for the kids, not because her feelings and desires for him are still intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:27 AM
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Ah yes, having a lazy eye, the standard male experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:23 PM
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It's just good business. Women want to know what clothes will look like on their body type. Everything you put on a long, thin body is going to look fashionable
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 05:17 PM
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It's an aspect of my personality. It's internal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:39 AM
4

I people-please so much it's basically self-harm. I have to put everyone's feelings before my own. It's a drawback in interpersonal relationships and life in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:38 AM
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There is disagreement there, just not on stuff like the existence of thE pATRiARCHY! because that would defeat the purpose of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:35 AM
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I already have a stereotypically feminine personality and it holds me back, so no. I need to be a lot less nurturing and sensitive, not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:33 AM
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Women do more than half of the slut-shaming, so
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:29 AM
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echo chambers Askfeminists is for...feminist...perspectives, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:27 AM
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I have female role models. Is that what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:24 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:01 PM
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That's not what I said. We're talking about it what it means for a man to "commit" to you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:56 PM
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I didn't see that and that and I guess the boyfriend didn't either because he only mentioned her outfit in his tweets.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:55 PM
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It's important and meaningful. I wouldn't say it's a privilege because it takes so much from you. It's a sacrifice that women are willing to make for their kids' sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:51 PM
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How is that a privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:46 PM
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That's what my grandmother always said. When poverty knocks at the door, love flies out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:45 PM
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We're not talking about a normal relationship. She's an entertainer. Her job is to be eye candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:40 PM
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Most people settle to some extent Then I guess girls are perfectly right to complain because those men aren't really committed in their hearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:39 PM
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If he's only there because he has nothing better to do I wouldn't consider him "committed". Men and women seem to mean different things by that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:31 PM
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How am I attracted to them if I don't want to have sex with them? I said I'm turned on by the idea of being them
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 07:26 PM
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How could I be bisexual if I don’t want to have sex with girls?
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 06:52 PM
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Agreed. Speed of sex is a poor metric for attraction. I’m not saying women don’t like attractive men more, treat them better, or enjoy sex with them more (they do), but how fast they have sex is more of a circumstantial thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:47 PM
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(Im a girl) I’m physically aroused by sexy naked women but I don’t want to touch them myself or have sex with them. I don’t know how to explain it other then I’m turned on by the idea of watching her have sex with a man/being that woman, but not by fucking her myself.
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 04:28 PM
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Isn't violence already an evolutionary instinct? It's still illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:12 PM
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Many feminists still seem to assume that childcare should be a woman's job. What are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:49 AM
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Where are you hearing these stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:35 AM
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Between girls who get into it when they're drugged out and underage (like my friend) and girls who are forced into it by abusive boyfriends/pimps I'd say few have other meaningful choices. There's a reason sex trafficking exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:25 AM
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Normal well-adjusted girls don’t think prostituting themselves is easy money. They think it’s a traumatizing disgrace. One of my friends is a sugar baby. Her father graped her throughout her childhood. Sugar babying has only deepened her trauma and I doubt she will ever have a trusting relationship with a man again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:51 AM
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I always offer to split it and so do all my girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:25 PM
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OF girls and sugar babies tend to be desperate women from fucked up backgrounds - how is that proof of anything? Desperate men also prostitute themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:24 PM
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I don't think you'll find that many prostitutes "had other choices"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:00 PM
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You don't think women are capable of sexual arousal?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:37 PM
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She's an entertainer. Being eye candy is part of her job
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:33 PM
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A lot of women get D&Cs in the first trimester
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:09 AM
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How would you prefer they describe it? "It just happened" means it was a heat of the moment decision, not deeply considered or anything. Which makes sense when two people are drugged up and aroused
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:14 AM
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I'm not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:19 PM
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It's fine to glean advice from it but this sub was not designed for people seeking advice. It's not self-help for virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:34 PM
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Debate and advice are two different things. I'm here because human sexuality is interesting to discuss. I have no interest in interacting with people who are seeking advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:22 PM
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This is not an advice sub, it's a debate sub. Why are you coming here for advice in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:12 PM
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Go behave as if your married while on dates and see how that works out for you. Sexual dynamics are at play in long-term relationships and imo they're far more interesting and complicated. That's literally what a romantic relationship is: It's a sexual and gendered dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:12 PM
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They're not winning from a romantic or sexual perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:05 PM
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Uhhh do you understand that relationships consist of gender and sexual dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:59 PM
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Prostitutes (or unpaid prostitutes) aren't exactly winning at life from my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:55 PM
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Do you think "human sexual dynamics" are not at play in a marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:50 PM
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I mean either they're prostitutes or he's only interested in them for sex. Either way, bad situation for the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:49 PM
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They're implying there's no genuine emotional connection, which is something women want in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:26 PM
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So who are those women in relationships with? Ghosts?
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 07:48 AM
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If most women end up partnered that means most men end up partnered. Why do men cry about women's standards?
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 07:45 AM
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they're definitely not getting partnered to their 20s counterparts Again I don't see how that's relevant to anything. men find most women attractive. No, they find most women fuckable. That's different than thinking they're beautiful. Men have eyes and can split women into ugly-average-hot or rank them 1-10.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 07:44 AM
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most get in relationships with guys in their 30s though No. Even if they did I don't know how that's relevant to anything. relationships, good or not, still give hope that you're attractive enough that you are able to get in one If most women can get into a relationship, even the unattractive and average ones, why would being in a relationship mean she's attractive?
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 07:38 AM
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No man is immune to the power of beauty. AMALT
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 07:32 AM
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Being part of a dude's harem is not a real or committed relationship as I'm sure you know so that works against your point. enough attraction to your personality and physical traits for a long term relationship aren't enough? There are lots of bad/loveless relationships that men stay in for convenience and steady sex. I don't think dudes need to be that attracted to you to consistently fuck you. Finally, even good relationships don't always stay good. It's not like because he was into you 15 yea…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 07:30 AM
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I don't see how being in a relationship would be enough. Guys will have relationships for sex alone, as this sub constantly reminds us.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 07:15 AM
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They're afraid their partners won't love them the way they would if they were pretty
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 07:04 AM
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Don't contact her then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:01 AM
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How did it end?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:34 AM
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Did it help?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:56 AM
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Red pill concepts still apply in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:55 AM
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There’s a lot more young women than young men in NYC. It’s actually one of the worst places to be
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:26 PM
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Male engineers aren't exactly the most emotionally intelligent characters. I can see why they wouldn't go for the lovey dovey boyfriend shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:09 PM
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Not as much as you'd think. We're good at intuiting other people's salaries
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:05 PM
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I wouldn't count on that. Guys get jealous when their partners glow-up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:31 PM
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I can't be fasting and high on caffeine 24/7. I appreciate the thinking though.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 11:19 PM
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Male validation means a hell of a lot to me. Some dude trying to stick his dick into me isn't validating though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:18 PM
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When I fake orgasms it's because I'm not in the right headspace to cum. I don't do it that much anymore, but the reality is orgasms are a psychological thing for women. If I'm feeling bloated or stressed out or something, I'm not going to relax enough to cum.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 11:14 PM
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All you need is 10-20 minutes at best to put on simple easy natural makeup and do your hair. Lollll no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:45 PM
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I don’t think casual sex is for degenerates, but most girls realize they can have more orgasms for less stress and fewer physical/emotional consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:35 PM
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Because the overall relationship is super important to me? Condoms don’t protect against UTIs, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:13 AM
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Eh. I don’t see myself really liking more than one guy at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:07 AM
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Yeah, but the trade-off off getting BV or pissing blood from a gnarly UTI makes way more sense in the context of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:38 AM
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No it doesn’t. Women in the above comment are still only fucking guys they really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:36 AM
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This law applies retroactively to the grandmas from that bygone era
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:44 AM
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They should be assumed innocent by the legal system. That doesn't mean I have to assume them innocent if I think there's overwhelming evidence of their guilt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:39 AM
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He's weird and he sets off my spidey senses
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:38 AM
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How common is bruising/UTIs Extremely common along with yeast infections and BV. STDs are less common because that requires the guy to be infected.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:32 AM
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Women are more able to fulfill their sexual imperative (committed relationships) in contexts where they have the power. When men have the power, women can't delay sex until commitment as much. But their imperative hasn't changed! They still have overwhelming romantic feelings and a need to have them returned. They still only fuck the guys they really like and they still hope that someday he'll love them back and choose them for a relationship. There's no magical context where women stop having e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:15 AM
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I think the emotional connection would still need to be there. So boyfriends, husbands, and FWBs would get more action but random guys on Tinder wouldn't. And if no one's piquing her interest she'll just masturbate more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:52 AM
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Even when I'm really horny I still don't want to fuck random men. For that pill to work it would have to change female sexual psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:05 AM
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Humans don't think about romantic relationships in percentages, but if a man purposely misleads you, he...purposely misleads you? She's dumb for getting duped but lying is a very common thing in dating (on both sides) so I'm not sure what you're so incredulous about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:01 AM
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How many times someone's been used for their body tells me nothing about how lonely they are. Otherwise prostitutes would be the least lonely people on the planet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:40 AM
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There's no 0 or 100% in life. Chad makes girls believe that more than likely he returns their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:35 AM
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What do you think loneliness is. I’m dying to know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:31 AM
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Chads absolutely make girls believe they have feelings for them. No girl is fucking if she thinks she’s going to get dumped 5 minutes later.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:30 AM
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They’re not “so willing”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:37 PM
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It means he wants a new hole AND he’s comfortable betraying me for it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:36 PM
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I wish someone would ELI5 how random dick is supposed to cure loneliness (it doesn't even cure horniness)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:13 PM
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Disagree. Women are looking for love
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:11 PM
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You can be lonely in a relationship. That's why those women don't want to settle for someone they don't love
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:55 PM
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That's true. But some dating problems are natural and no amount of changing society is going to change the fact that some people are attractive and some people aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:09 PM
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You can be normal and well-adjusted and be unlucky in dating, sure. Normal people get dumped sometimes. But if no one wants to date you whatsoever, you're not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:02 PM
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Timid, shy, neurotic people are bad long-term partners
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:15 PM
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individuals fail in all these other aspects due to a multitude of complicated personal, social, and societal factors This is true in dating too, but society is not going to change overnight so you might as well work on yourself in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:13 PM
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The first person a woman hears "Men only think about one thing" from is her father
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:37 PM
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Its 2023, women outnumber men in higher education If you want to end alimony for this generation of women, that's one thing, but to end it for my ailing grandma with a 6th grade education seems a little harsh. There was no parity in higher education back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:29 PM
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A lot of men (most men?) are highly aroused by giving women pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:25 PM
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Women on the other hand are under social pressure to be emotional What
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:52 PM
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The party of family values is out here looking stupid Btw the bill applies retroactively to women who've never gone to school or had a job
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:39 PM
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“sometimes in real life” lol that’s the point, ragebait TikTok videos aren’t “lived experience”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:04 PM
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shittalk the English major on a website designed by code? Yeah but you're on a subreddit designed for reading and writing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:32 PM
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Where does she call them ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:24 PM
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She's saying they have no lived experience because they never leave the house
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:22 PM
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Nope
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 11:57 PM
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Men and women don’t value or experience sex equally. If they did you’d be having free sex with 12 women a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:37 PM
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How is she wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:30 PM
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they have eyes I just told you. They look better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:13 PM
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Women know why men want young women, they have eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:10 PM
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It's not porn that reduces the male libido but masturbation. But what normal man would pick masturbation over sex? As for sexual attraction, I don't think a man can psyop himself into believing his ugly girlfriend is mid by porn fasting. Men are going to be attracted to attractive women and unattracted to unattractive women; that's just how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:20 PM
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Men who choose their hands over real pussy have other issues. That's not porn's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:51 PM
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Are men going to marry porn or have children with porn or promise to love porn in sickness or in health? It's not competition for any of the things women care about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:28 PM
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Uhhh their fans are 95% female, 5% gay men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:11 PM
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There are a lot of $30/hr crack-addicted prostitutes out there my dude Also, a lot of rich and/or sex-obsessed men
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 04:32 AM
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Get off online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:26 AM
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If it was comically easy to be skinny you'd expect to see that 99% of Americans were skinny. Instead it's something like 25%.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:06 AM
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Do you think that's the way women and girls experience selling their bodies to men?
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:51 AM
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You can't have much experience around women if you think that. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:04 AM
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Idk what you're basing that on but most women are deeply insecure about their own looks about vicious about other women's looks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:47 AM
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why women have 0 fucking clue how to rate women's attractiveness in the eyes of men Why are you asserting this? Men and women almost always agree on which girls are hot and which are not. The difference is that men want to fuck women who aren't hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:42 AM
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They like grey sweatpants on guys they're ALREADY attracted to (like their boyfriends or their husbands). Seeing a random dude in sweatpants does nothing for me lol
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 11:33 PM
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I disagree, face > height There is no such thing as a male "butterface"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:31 PM
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wow why did you consent/enable/contribute to wasting 10 years? What would be the point of saying that? I'm sure she feels sick about her choices already and if she could go back in time she would. It would've been way better for her to get out 10 years ago, but plenty of women are too scared of being alone to get out at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:32 PM
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If your post had some point besides "women get hurt and heartbroken too," please enlighten me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:13 PM
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There are a lot of short and average height losers out there Who do you think the fat ugly women date?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:11 PM
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I'm confused, what point were you trying to make by posting that link. Genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:41 PM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:39 AM
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Women like talking about their relationships more than men do 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:44 AM
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I would assume so. I am right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:36 AM
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So it is a revelation to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:06 AM
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She actually wasn't cool with any of that, but he ignored her signals
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:44 PM
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Everyone gets hurt in dating, is this some kind of revelation to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:39 PM
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Women want 1) love and 2) love that lasts forever. That's a lot tougher to get than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:13 PM
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So what other professions should their be an unemployment benefit carveout for?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:26 PM
2

Thank god there are years between 24 and 40
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 06:19 AM
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It’s not your problem, it’s women’s problem and it causes the wage gap you’re so excited about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:11 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:25 AM
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I don't see how it's their fault that the entire burden of reproduction falls to women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:23 AM
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Getting dates is easier for women, but women are dating to find love, not "dates"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:09 AM
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Women go to the doctor, men don't Women are more prone to negative emotion than men They took "mother's little helper" (Valium) away from us
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:07 AM
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I don't think the world is more feminist than it was 20 years ago so I don't see the point of the question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:06 AM
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Back on the day they were on Valium, which is a far more potent and dangerous drug
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:05 AM
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Why do you need a man to be faithful to you, especially if he worked his ass off to be attractive to lots of women? And hopefully you can give me an answer better than "because that's what I want" Your question is dumb because "That's what I want" is pretty much all that matters in dating. What kind of answer were you hoping for?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:02 AM
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Literally 0 women think that. Don’t worry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:30 PM
1

Intelligent men marry women who are intelligent AND physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:29 PM
1

That’s the kind of attitude they’d do well to avoid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:26 AM
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I don't see it as a problem. Better have the lewdness out in the open where I can see it and avoid it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:33 PM
1

if it's basic human hygiene why do only women do it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:26 PM
1

I think the boys are giving themselves a little too much credit for texting "coffee at 2pm, cutie?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:20 PM
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It's not always "predatory" but 18 year old girls tend to regret their age gap relationships. 25 year old women, not so much. It doesn't mean teens can't make decisions or they can't consent—that's you strawmanning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:07 PM
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She literally says she did all the planning after a while and I don't know why you think he's top 5% of anything. He dumped her anyway, so not sure why you're pressed over this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:52 PM
5

Male models exist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:22 PM
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I didn't really require the help But the dude doesn't know that. Probably thinks his politemaxxing game is slicker than your husband's
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:54 PM
3

Your husband is embarrassed that he didn't help you himself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:26 PM
2

If you got held down and ass-fucked by a man would you be rushing to tell everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:23 PM
1

They don’t care about education specifically. It’s a proxy for ambition and shared values.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:16 PM
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That’s short-term thinking. Women are talking about the long-term (which requires money).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:15 PM
2

I’ve watched women be viciously cruel and exclusionary to neurodiverse women. Again, I think what you’re picking up on is the fact that neurodiverse women present as more neurotypical than their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:18 AM
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Maybe horny men will be more accommodating because weird girls still have dick-receptive holes? Other women will certainly not be more accommodating. Potential boyfriends/husbands won't either, because no one wants to deal with that shit forever. Anyway, I'd argue the reason women have better social skills than men is because they need social skills more than men do. (Think: intuiting the needs of children, lacking physical power, relying on both romantic relationships and friendships more for p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:58 AM
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Being genuinely weird is never cute. You're thinking of quirky, unique, irreverent, a flaunter of societal norms... guess what, it takes social skills to pull those off in a cute way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:47 AM
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They mask better because women have better communication and social skills than men to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:43 AM
1

You'll forgive me for doubting a 5'2" woman-brained bleeder experienced life "as a man"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:29 PM
1

I'm not on online dating, but I'd say a bio that's funny/interesting, shows effort, and doesn't mention sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:19 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:08 PM
9

Feminists stopped men from hanging out at home with their friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:02 PM
1

It's at least equally common. Girls are vicious to other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:01 PM
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Women can be unpopular and get bullied too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:55 PM
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I don't think it's normal. You just fetishize white girls
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:01 PM
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He'd be under criminal investigation Many, many celebrity women have had their nudes leaked. What happened to the men? He'd lose all his sponsorships He'd be fined/suspended, potentially lose his job Funny thing about porn companies, they don't have much of a reputation to uphold. She's kind of in an un-cancellable business.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:53 PM
3

I guess, but none of that has anything to do with love
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:46 PM
2

It's an issue of fetus' rights vs. women's rights
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:42 PM
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reverse the roles and imagine what would happen. I don't have to imagine, it happens to women literally all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:42 PM
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men are hornier and don't get pregnant true so that means men are more open to find love than those women not sure how that follows
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:35 PM
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Baby trapping hasn't worked in America for 45 years There is no expectation that baby daddy sticks around at all, never mind shotguns marries her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:03 AM
3

Mid 20s is not "age"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:52 PM
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It depends on the guy. Lots of guys start balding or gaining weight in their late 20s Anyway, I'm her age and looks are only a part of why I wouldn't date a man in his late 20s/early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:40 PM
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This is not supposed to be an incel sub. The married women predate the incels
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:29 PM
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Why would married people stop being interested in gender and sexual dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:19 PM
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They struggle because love doesn't happen every day, and sometimes love isn't enough to keep a relationship going
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:18 PM
2

Can you explain your disbelief I'm genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:05 PM
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Why would married women stop being interested in sexual and gender dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:43 PM
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There are only so many men who are nice and have good prospects. Some unlucky women are either going to have to date the losers or be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:09 AM
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The women I know are constantly working on themselves personally, professionally, sexually, and more. If you’re surrounded by low-achievers that’s kinda on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:49 PM
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Most women are insecure and working on themselves. But regardless only a very small percent of women will ever have what it takes to be a man’s dream girl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:44 PM
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Before we get to that, what makes you think women don’t know? Hint: Is it tiny insane communities on the internet, or real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:35 PM
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Lol how could women be confused when you guys never shut up about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:23 PM
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What are you referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:20 PM
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This is what I think too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:07 PM
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You're strawmanning. They mean they don't need men for romantic relationships/in their households
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:36 AM
2

I'm curious about the details (just saying)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:33 AM
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I can have sex whenever I want, I definitely can’t get a nut or sexual pleasure whenever I want
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:22 PM
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You can get pregnant sooner but doctors counsel you to wait at least 18 months to 2 years. Breastfeeding is nature's birth control and women who breastfed the way hunter-gatherers do have children spaced 3-4 years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:08 PM
2

Uhhh, nope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:10 AM
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It's not difficult to get a man's dick hard, sure. The legwork is in getting him to fall in love with her, stick around forever, and forsake all others for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:06 AM
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We don't have to live in a just world for people to date the absolute best they can get (their equal).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:38 AM
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A man who really cares about you would let you know, so chasing a man gets women rejected (at best) or wastes their very few attractive years on a man who doesn't really love them (at worst).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:35 AM
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They can approach, but it goes badly for them. Realistically a woman's options are the small subset of men who approach her who have a serious, sustained interest in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:37 AM
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Some kinds of male attention are validating, obviously, but getting treated like a sex object is actually insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:33 AM
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are just taking whatever they can get. So are women? They can only choose from the men who approach them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:22 AM
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Not if you're a woman who wants the things that women want. I'd rather nothing than the gross insult of being treated like a cocksleeve.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:21 AM
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they don't want it and it isn't useful Women say this after the 47th time they're told to be grateful that lots of men will dump cum in them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:10 AM
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honestly yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:57 PM
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mathematically if every woman has to get married, many will have to end up with shitty men Yeah I can't believe they don't understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:46 PM
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The funny one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:07 AM
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I was going to say fear of being alone (which is related to bad upbringing and sunk cost)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:34 PM
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Sure, but you’re specifically talking about men getting into relationships for the sex alone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:07 PM
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If he's only there for sex it's not a relationship. Women want real relationships/love a whole lot more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:40 PM
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How else do you explain women staying with men who abuse them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:36 PM
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What you're seeing in the market is men needing sex more than women need sex. That's different
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:36 PM
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You're underestimating how badly women want LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:34 PM
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It’s either weird daddy fetish behavior or a joke about weird daddy fetish behavior How about just steering clear of weird fetish talk around the love of your life all together?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:33 AM
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I would def assume it was weird daddy fetish behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:39 PM
2

How
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:07 AM
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People with young kids should be focusing on raising them, not dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:35 AM
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I don't know what that question means because I never used the word unique. If you care a lot about your career, your career is an important part of your identity. To you, not in some cosmic sense. That's all I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:06 AM
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This is soooo not the female experience. I think about my relationship night and day. If it was boring me, I'd think about the pain of that night and day. Even if you take the girly feelings out of it, how do you not pay attention to that lump of flesh that lives in your house and sleeps in your bed and eats your food? Do its actions and moods not influence yours at all? Do its actions and moods stay totally the same despite the all the circumstances life throws at it? Even my relationship with …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:02 AM
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Women want to marry the catch, that is, catch him. "Husband material" guys have it all, including the sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:13 AM
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Who the hell sits around wonders what makes their sister tick? Normal people, if they're close to their sister. that you don’t even actively think about them Imagine not actively thinking about your spouse. You're alone on that one, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:10 AM
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Husband material =/= being a catch In English those are literally synonyms
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:59 AM
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What's that supposed to mean? People don't know anything about the personalities of their spouses? Or that people don't identify with the professions they devote their lives to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:55 AM
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him just brining you up unprompted Weird. Who could have a greater influence on someone's life than their spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:37 AM
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I can't fathom being in love with someone but not caring about the important aspects of their identity. Anyway. Unless this man is independently a millionaire, his wife's job is going to have a pretty direct effect on his life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:34 AM
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how much their husbands love their intellect and hobbies and all this other horseshit People tend to like and appreciate their spouses for things other than sex because a lot of marriage involves activities other than sex. It's not that you fall in love with someone because of their hobbies or job title. It's that you genuinely like them as a person, and liking the things they do flows from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:27 AM
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Most husbands find that their wives are actually a pretty major aspect of their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:18 PM
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women conflate sexual interest with relationship value The male equivalent of this is thinking polite conversation or a smile means she wants to suck your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:17 PM
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Men do not give a fuck about your “skills” No one is arguing that your dick just gives a fuck, just that you might care about her as a person, and that includes caring about the things that are important to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:15 PM
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I don't think women want to have unaroused sex. They can have sex when they're not super horny for the emotional pleasure, it's just difficult to have sex when they're not horny at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:20 PM
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I think the point is that usually guys know how much they like you before sex happens
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:02 PM
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Why wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:59 PM
3

And what about the other 95 pages of the book?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:24 PM
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The difference between a 20 year old's psychology and a 40 year old's psychology is pretty huge. It's hard to think of anything that regularly changes a person's psychology more than aging and life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:40 AM
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The point is people in different life stages tend to have different emotional states and psychologies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:30 AM
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I don't know what that's supposed to mean
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:50 AM
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It's the exact same conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:43 AM
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Emotions and psychology don't matter in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:40 AM
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The most anti-age gap group of all is the dads of teenage daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:39 AM
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They tend to object them because they know what women prioritize
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:08 AM
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They're relevant (maybe not to you, but to women and many men) because of the emotional and psychological changes they bring
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:04 AM
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Women's standards for men matter, which is what I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:03 AM
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Women also bucket men by age and life stage and usually want to date men that share their life stage—according to their criteria of what a life stage is, not yours
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:50 AM
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"Life stages" are about age and psychological development. You can divide them up differently if you want, but you're kinda on your own there. Examples of milestones normal people consider: Moving out of your parents' house Graduating college Your first adult job The birth of your first child
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:45 AM
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Serious relationship > everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:33 PM
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Just one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:18 PM
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Abortion is about pregnancy, not parenthood. Otherwise women would just have the kid and give it up for adoption and abortion wouldn't even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:32 PM
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They actively seek it out and are thrilled when it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:50 AM
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99% of men don’t feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:36 AM
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It’s not that. Pregnancy is a bonding experience for both mother and baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:28 AM
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No, my lizard brain doesn’t understand that antibiotics and birth control are a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:52 PM
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Why would a sex strike only apply to casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:59 AM
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When she got with Pardi she was already rich and famous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:14 AM
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Uhhh some are important and some aren't? What does this question mean
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:12 AM
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Obese people can be any social class, sure, but they're far more likely to socioeconomically disadvantaged. And rich women don't need to dig gold because they already have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:08 AM
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Why should I feel bad for ignoring a chick's fat/ugly friend when I'm talking to her in the club? Uhhh, don't It's just that ignoring her completely makes you seem socially r-worded
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:02 AM
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It's just unfair that men get vilified as shallow misogynists for having the same high standards. They don't, you've gone down some weird internet rabbit hole No one is forcing you to date single mothers
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 01:58 AM
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The reason I like those subs, even though I'm not dating over thirty, is because they're basically an extension of r/relationships. The relationships sub is 75% female on a male-dominated app. r/dating, on the other hand, has much less relationship analysis and more 17 yo boys boasting and being weird.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 01:55 AM
1

how is it equal when only women are forced to gestate and give birth (that is, reproduce)?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:51 PM
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Public perception is that women are nicer than men, not sexier and skinnier
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:45 PM
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obese, single mother, trashy/ratchet, gold digger This is only true in certain social classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:42 PM
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fathers that don't really feel such strong connection until the child is like 2 years and they invested enough time to establish it, that is a huge advantage for women How?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:49 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:41 PM
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My mind is way closer to what I "am" than my body
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:28 PM
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So then women are valued for PROVIDING caretaking and nurturance and relationship-building and social cohesion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:27 PM
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If we're being gender essentialist about it, women are valued for providing too—providing sexual pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:16 PM
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🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:50 PM
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Women are looking for love
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:56 PM
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It's completely normal and self-acceptable, you're describing the typical middle and high school experience
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:55 PM
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Sticking around because you have nothing better to do isn’t what women mean by “commitment”. The female imperative is getting male LOVE and DEVOTION
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:38 PM
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I promise you he's not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:56 AM
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It's more likely he ends up with a woman as inhibited and inexperienced as he is. Extremely different people don't tend to partner up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:14 AM
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Those are different women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:45 PM
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By that definition virtually all men objectify themselves too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:17 AM
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Nice, do you like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:03 AM
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Are you a public defender?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:11 PM
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Women usually have to feel comfortable with a man before they have sex with him. That's why you don't show up to dates with your dick already out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:41 AM
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No, but it affects whether I feel comfortable enough to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:49 AM
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Women don’t have a problem “getting dates,” they have problems getting the right kind of dates from the right kind of men. So they look for advice on that, not “getting dates”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:42 AM
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Women look for advice on how to find love, get married, and be good wives, not how to "date"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:28 AM
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If the older person doesn't have more life experience what kind of fucked up life are they living?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:00 AM
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IRL women complain about dating constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:34 PM
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Wasn’t dating 20 years ago but I’d guess it’s gotten slightly worse because of apps, pornified expectations, and less socializing IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:27 PM
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So what is it?
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 02:30 AM
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What would "enforced monogamy" look like to you? Forcing women to marry men they don't love?
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 12:48 AM
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I mean, if they don't, why is it so much more difficult for men to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:36 PM
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Also women experience sex differently than men, so it's not a fair comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:19 PM
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Usually guys buy their girlfriends vibrators, not dildos
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:43 PM
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If being desired is the actual goal Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:10 AM
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Sky high standards and a gross personality makes it harder to date. That applies to both genders and is in no way controversial.
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 07:05 AM
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dealt a bad hand in life by being short, less attractive, neuro-atypical, ect. Yes, incels are unattractive, that's the point—because if they were attractive, they would attract people And yes, unattractive women also exist—I literally just said that
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 05:04 AM
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I mean, it seems pretty intuitive that gross-looking men with bad personalities and sky-high standards might struggle more than average, right? In no way does that imply that gross-looking women with bad personalities don't exist, or don't struggle with men
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 04:47 AM
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If approaching got women what they want, they'd do it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:55 AM
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It's almost always when the man shows himself to be weak, effeminate, incompetent, irritating, weird, embarrassing... Small actions can be revealing. Talking about "validity" is missing the point anyway. You can't rationalize" your way into loving or desiring someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:10 PM
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If it's just a one-time strange urge of course I'd ignore it. The "ick" is when you start to be grossed out by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:10 PM
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If the idea of having sex with him makes my stomach turn I'm not going to do it. No narcissism required
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:51 PM
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PPD attracts sexual failures with mental disorders
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:27 PM
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The exact opposite is true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:17 PM
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I mean if you're special and valued you most likely won't be dropped for somebody new? Isn't that the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:31 PM
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So these policies lift up everyone, even men, but you're still mad at them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:08 AM
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So you admit these policies are good for men too?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:00 AM
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Literally no one believes we live in a socially fair world
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:26 PM
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We live in an economically AND socially unfair world. But while the government can redistribute money, there’s no way for them to redistribute love, friendship, and desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:33 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:36 PM
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If a man only wants casual sex with me, that’s not validating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:48 PM
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Why are some men forced into the fattie purgatory? Because they are equally unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:10 AM
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I’m saying even sex isn’t a universal indicator
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:01 PM
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There isn’t one, anymore than there’s a universal indicator that a man loves a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:36 PM
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Just because men will fuck it doesn’t mean they like it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:21 PM
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Just because I'm attracted to someone immediately doesn't mean I'm comfortable having sex yet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:00 PM
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I love his tattoos 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:54 PM
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We have the same type.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:20 PM
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Quality of life has certainly risen in America
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:31 PM
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there are wayyy more hot girls than millionaire Chads looking to marry teenagers (assuming hardmaxxing can make you super hot if you're not already hot is...lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:30 PM
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there are way more 18 year old girls than there are handsome millionaire men looking to legally marry teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:24 PM
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Most women start dating their future husbands in college or soon after. Who do you think those good men are being taken by? But anyway, women peep the sobering reality of male sexuality when they turn 11 and 40 year old men start trying to be inside them, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:15 PM
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It's how women respond to you IRL that determines if you're Chad or not, not Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:27 AM
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How can you possibly think that kind of talk is new?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:37 AM
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Thoughtful gifts are a way to show your partner that you care. Not sure why being progressive would change things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:08 PM
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They do it so they look pretty. Are men blind all of a sudden?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:58 AM
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Did you attend middle or high school? I seem to recall girls would spend a lot of time talking about relationships...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:07 AM
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Like what? They don't want unattractive men, but of course a man's personality can make him unattractive—which you yourself seem to be acknowledging
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:05 AM
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You choosing to understand women not wanting unattractive men as women not wanting relationships in general? Because obviously women only want relationships with men they have feelings for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:57 AM
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It's pretty much all women thanks to this little thing called evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:50 AM
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Also, wouldn't it be great for women if they could have kids without tearing ass to clit and destroying their looks forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:17 AM
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Same goes for men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:46 AM
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I’m not blaming men. I can only be really attracted to one man at a time, and usually that’s a man I feel an emotional connection with. Just because I only have eyes for him doesn’t mean the other 99.99% of men are ugly or doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:17 PM
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The revulsion option best explains male-female relations throughout all of history, right? I mean why can’t you have sex with any woman you want anytime you want if to them it’s just like having a mediocre burger for lunch?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:42 PM
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Q4W: Would you accept being in a long term relationship with a man who did not find you intelligent and didn't care about your opinions, if he still went through the motions of listening to you every so often? No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:05 PM
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Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:32 PM
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It would still be disgusting for me, just less disgusting than the alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:28 PM
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I wouldn't really enjoy either of them, but I'd find kissing the man to be significantly more disgustingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:23 PM
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Definitely the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:17 PM
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If a man was doing everything right I'd definitely want to suck his dick
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:52 PM
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3-4 years without a ring (more if you got together really young)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:16 AM
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That's the way everyone intends it. If a man gets one drunk 9 into bed, but then she blocks him in disgust and never talks to him again, it doesn't mean he's a 9. But in the long-run things tend to reach equilibrium, because people only want to commit when they figure they've done the best they can possibly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:03 PM
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What you can "get" as a woman is what you can get for long-term commitment. That's the way it's intended
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:53 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:39 AM
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is this a parody
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:30 AM
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Marriages don't start out deadbedrooms. And any deadbedroom relationship is obviously miserable for the woman as well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:35 AM
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There are already sooo many reasons not to be fat, Twitter bullying is a very small part of the equation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:28 AM
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I'm not attracted to fat people (obviously), but I can't imagine being angry at them for being fat or thinking society should mete out some kind of punishment. Nature already has that covered
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:28 AM
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The alternative is they live in the shittier accommodations the lower-earning partner can afford, which isn't fair either. If I make money I want to enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:03 AM
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Yep. No woman wants a husband who doesn't turn her on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:03 PM
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You are not going to be doubling either of those things lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:49 PM
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This attitude only makes sense if they’re legally married and she’s not working at all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:44 PM
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Aren’t you working and doing chores either way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:38 PM
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Do you think men want romance and commitment more than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:03 AM
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Most men with healthy sex lives are still obsessed with sex, so
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:42 PM
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It's not women telling men their value grows in their 30s, it's men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:48 AM
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I’m not saying frat boy can’t be misogynistic. I’m saying there’s a particular flavor of misogyny that comes from not getting women, and people can sniff that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:30 PM
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I disagree that frat boys have the opinions on women that incels do. Not getting women warps your brain in a particular way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:13 PM
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No I'm saying the opposite. Frat boy misogyny is kinda normal and whatever, but incel misogyny is so angry and strange that people are repelled by it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:06 PM
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It depends on the type of misogyny. Frat boy misogyny is one thing, but incel misogyny is a different thing all together
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:01 PM
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looks have a huge affect on intrafemale hierarchies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:34 PM
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🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:16 PM
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Don't see how you got there but it doesn't matter, because fit people also proportions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:59 PM
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It’s not about huge breasts dude, it’s about proportions which are mostly genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:51 PM
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