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Bro, move to a different city. Ideally a big city. You will find action where there's hustle/bustle and where there's thirst for life.
/r/seduction18/09/22 06:14 PM
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Peacocking theory in action. Wearing santa outfit- demonstrated confidence and telegraphed the women out there that he can handle social pressure. This qualities sub communicates that he is 'high status'. (Usually actors, celebrities, rockstars and PUAs are used to such kind of social pressures) DJs and bartenders have high social proof and are pre-selected in the venue. Which makes them 'High status'. Women are attracted to a man's social value- his status. So there's your answer on why girls w…
/r/seduction18/09/22 06:11 PM
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Join a club where there are a lot of women in your college- for ex: dramatics, arts, etc. Go there, Meet them, attract them, get to know them, go on dates with them and hopefully u will get urself a fwb/gf whatever is it u want.
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:56 PM
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Try this. Next time, when u talk to a person u like. Don't show them that u are attracted to them for initial 10-20 mins. If she is a blonde, tell her, "too bad you are a blonde, or else u would be so my type." Basically don't convey any sort of neediness or approval seeking behavior until u know she's into u. From there do ur thing, tell her funny stories, make her laugh, show her ur personality (the one you have when u are with ur best guy friends). This should probably make her attracted to u…
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:40 PM
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Hey don't worry! I get it that you have social anxiety. But trust me, it will go away as u slowly desensitize yourself to social situations. Here's what you can do:- List out your hobbies. List out the qualities u like in your ideal guy or partner. Now find places where u can do step 1 & visit places where u can find the guy who ideally has those qualities. For example:- if u like guys who are into music, go visit a guitar shop or join a music class. If u do the above steps u will most likely ru…
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:24 PM
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They use to say, text only for logistics. But i think it doesn't apply in today's world. Instead use text to setup calls..were u can build comfort/ attraction with her and setup a date. Always move things forward. If u text just for the sake of texting u will be stuck in friend zone.
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:40 PM
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No i don't feel weird for going places to cold approach. All your emotions are going to try to mess you up. They are there to confuse you, so know right now that they cannot be trusted at all. You will feel shy sometimes, and self-conscious, and you must deal with it like you deal with a pebble in your shoe. It’s uncomfortable, but you ignore it. It’s not part of the equation.
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:35 PM
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U finish each other's sentence before it's even spoken. She texts u when u are missing her or thinking about her. Vice versa. Deep level of comfort with her.
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:23 PM
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I think u telegraphed too much interest and neediness when it wasn't required. Your options:- Leave her alone, go into a no contact mode... Don't contact her on ur own..This includes social media stalking (unfollow her or delete ur insta whenever u feel like stalking her) ..Once she has stuff sorted..she will contact u. When she does contact u don't act butt hurt.. Don't tell her how u missed her & how u were eagerly waiting for her while she was taking her space..Keep all this stuff to urself..…
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:09 PM
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Hey man, appreciate your comment. Yes I am in my 20s..I have a fulltime day job (9-5) for 5 days a week. I like your idea of practising in college campus. I will try it in future. Thing is though, the college campus is very far from I live..like more than 1 hours by drive. Hence, I chose a busy mall in my area...so if i am able to pull..I can take her back to my place quickly..I have my logistics handled. All my previous lays before I got into game were because of good logistics..So I made sure …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 02:56 PM
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Hey man appreciate ur reply.. I will try the last tip. Thanks for the info!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 06:33 AM
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Hey man, appreciate your reply..I read your posts and I will be honest..your field reports and progress inspired me to start cold approach pickup.. Don't stop posting cause we need more reports from guys who actually go out and are not just keyboard jockeys. Peace!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 06:16 AM
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I am going through all the comments and I would like to clarify the following: I approach in malls after work for 1.5 hours doing 7 sets daily cause I don't have the means- time or money to go out everyday in night clubs. (Atleast for now). I use scripts because it allows me to automate and control the interaction to a certain extent. Now will I continue doing this for the next 50 years of my life. HELL NO! I am hoping i will get better and find better ways to interact with others over time as I…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 05:53 AM
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I am going through all the comments and I would like to clarify the following: I approach in malls after work for 1.5 hours doing 7 sets daily cause I don't have the means- time or money to go out everyday in night clubs. (Atleast for now). I use scripts because it allows me to automate and control the interaction to a certain extent. Now will I continue doing this for the next 50 years of my life. HELL NO! I am hoping i will get better and find better ways to interact with others over time as I…
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:49 AM
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I appreciate your reply :). I maybe a newbie but I am not a keyboard jockey.. The stuff that I posted above is based on my own experience.. Theory or concepts maybe out of fashion...But the underlying human psychology remains same beneath them. And I think this process is currently allowing me to get out of the house and actually meet women in real life. And I am asking for advice that I am unable to close..from my introspection I think it's because I am not seeding my date earlier in the intera…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 03:41 PM
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Hey man, I don't disregard the direct approach...In fact I started doing it and got 6 closes (5-IG and 1 number)...My current situation only allows me to approach during daytime. The venue were I practice game is mall. I know it's not a ideal place to pickup women. Now I am all for going direct stating your intent..because of the efficiency it offers. However, whenever I am out in malls, FINDING solo girls is giant pain in the ass.. Now, even if i find them, attracting and closing them is anothe…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 03:33 PM
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Hey man, I understand were u are coming from and I totally get it. So no offense taken :) Please note that these odds are something are based on real world data..I will explain.. I am a huge fan of Mystery (in terms of technical PUA skills). I was reading his stats from the time he started doing this thing. He said he had been with 56 girls (this number was in 1998) in 5 years since he started (he started in 1993).. So 56/(2957×5) would be 0.378 % ~ 0.4% success rate. I am sure this number must …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 03:20 PM
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Hey man..thanks for your comment and info..will check them out..:)
/r/seduction14/09/22 01:13 PM
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Sorry to debunk your assumptions. Cause adding a false time constraint work, the sets open well and they are more receptive to what u have to say..You can experiment yourself and check..what gets u more time..FTC or non FTC. The point of doing all this is to earn time..Make myself interesting to her in a short window by conveying my personality, hope that this will attract her and finally structure an opportunity so that she and I can go on date. I don't have the time to hangout all day at the m…
/r/seduction14/09/22 11:25 AM
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This is how I solved this problem for myself. I have used this line to open groups and single women with great success. This is called as 'Love vs Being in Love with someone' opener. (Took this from rules of game) Me: Hey i have only got a second before I leave, but i want your guy's opinion on something. Group/Girl: Sure. Me: What is the difference between love and being in love with someone? The reason I am asking u is this because I just received a text from a friend of mine, her bf broke up …
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:54 AM
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I appreciate your reply...I tried giving them honest replies about why they should know me, but it didn't work..Most of the times..the conversation goes south...either she leaves or I leave from the interaction.
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:22 PM
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By profile, I think u are assuming Online dating. The question I asked pertains to offline interaction.
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:14 PM
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Very smooth...will use this one too! Thanks!
/r/seduction19/08/22 11:55 AM
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Hahaha..good one...I will use this one next time!😂 Thanks.
/r/seduction19/08/22 09:52 AM
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Dude just say 'Indian' instead of 'South Asian'. Indian hone pe itna sharam hai?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 08:07 AM
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Wow!! Thanks uncle Andreas!! That was..... quiet detailed!!🙌😂
/r/seduction08/06/21 12:27 PM
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They do, but since i had not carried my phone with me. I had to go for that option. Anyways next time number close it is.
/r/seduction08/06/21 12:14 PM
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No, not yet, will talk to her and will get to know her a lil more, I would like to learn more about her, before asking her out. The more she's warmed up to me (and more I am warmed up to her), the odds of she saying yes and not flaking me will go up. Also, i will be more comfortable with her, which will increase the chances of date going well. :) So that's my plan
/r/seduction08/06/21 06:52 AM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction08/06/21 06:47 AM
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Thanks man, i'll check it out.✌️
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:28 AM
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Got it!..So, basically i should not be the one planting the idea of the conversation being 'random' or 'weird', right? I agree with, what you say. But how do, I make it seem more 'smooth'? In all of my approaches today, one of them was indirect( i think 3rd one), I didn't hit her or compliment her, but I asked for address, made small talk and was able to crack a situational joke, to which she laughed and I was on my way. How do I move the conversation ahead?
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:12 PM
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So according to you, how should we go about it?
/r/seduction05/06/21 08:58 PM
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Good point.🙌 I will approach other women again tomorrow, just for fun.
/r/seduction05/06/21 07:08 PM
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Mujhe bhi! :) Just go for it. Ignore your emotions that come in your mind, before you approach. You'll do fine and feel great. Use that momentum in your next approaches. I am no pro, but I think I am going to keep doing this.
/r/seduction05/06/21 06:45 PM
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Definitely, i will try going to grocery store..Malls seemed a little overwhelming currently on asking woman opinions.
/r/seduction20/12/20 03:14 PM
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I asked them, "can you tell me the time?"
/r/seduction20/12/20 01:04 AM
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On streets.
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:16 PM
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Their reactions were neutral. Most of them were in the middle of conversation when i asked them what time was it.. Plan for today was just to ask time.. hadn't planned on moving the conversation forward.
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:09 PM
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Nope.. I wasn't the one.
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:03 PM
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Context: None. I was just walking by the street outside a park near my home.
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:03 PM
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Thank you.. The country were I live in comes in top 5 nations with most cases. So, I was thinking the same. But then I thought, how long can I wait and give myself excuses for not taking action. I wore my mask, sprayed some cologne, got out of my house, maintained social distancing and just did it.
/r/seduction19/12/20 06:12 PM
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Nice idea..I will incorporate this in my opening.
/r/seduction19/12/20 05:57 PM
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I will be trying opening women by wearing watches and having a cellphone in my hand. Potential benefits that i see to this are as follow:- Adds more social pressure on me, which makes my brain go into autopilot and come up with something witty. I can't think anyother right now..but will do in few days..😂
/r/seduction19/12/20 05:54 PM
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Thank you, your comment means a lot.. Will keep posting updates on this goal!👍
/r/seduction19/12/20 05:48 PM
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Mission 2 will involve me asking 15 women for time and hopefully asking them for recommendations on good places to eat and chill out in the city where I live.
/r/seduction19/12/20 05:21 PM
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My current goal is to reach a point were approaching a woman doesn't feel scary. Asking for time icebreaker was just to get started and gain momentum as a newbie. My plan is to try more alternatives in different scenarios and expose myself to more socially awkward situations where in my improvisation and conversation skills improve.
/r/seduction19/12/20 04:50 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/seduction19/12/20 03:31 PM
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I started this challenge 1 week after breaking up with her. But, how is having a goal of amazing social life, cheating on her? I am doing it for my self improvement and enriching my life.
/r/seduction19/12/20 03:31 PM
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