Hola amigos!! This is my current gameplan. Please note that I am a newbie and a few days ago I completed seddit's 100sets challenge. During the challenge I was doing daygame only and was using direct game (stating your interest right at the beginning).

I learnt a lot about what game is and how to go about practising this beautiful art in a consistent manner. While doing direct game I observed that, whenever I reduced the time in between the sets I entered flow state which made my next interaction go very well..I was also able to get a few closes (5- IG close and 1- number close, although they didn't go anywhere).

The problem or challenges with direct game that I found:

As I was and am doing only daygame in the malls. I had a REALLY HARD TIME coming across a single girl, most of the women were in the groups and I had no idea how to approach groups. But out of naivety I once made a direct approach to a group of 3 women. It freaked them out and they gave me really dirty looks, which fucked my mental state that day. That's when I decided to change my strategy to indirect game.

I have used this gameplan to CONSISTENTLY open groups and single women in a daygame setting with great success (At my current skill level I am getting good reactions). After doing the initial 3-4 sets I am in flow state which makes me come across as outcome independent and confident. People pick on this energy and are drawn to me because of this.

Now the actual nuts and bolt of my gameplan:-

Opener:- 'Love vs Being in Love with someone' opener. (Took this from rules of game)

Me: Hey i have only got a second before I leave, but i want your guy's opinion on something. (False time constraint- very critical always use this before opening a set)

Group/Girl: Sure.

Me: What is the difference between love and being in love with someone? The reason I am asking u is this because I just received a text from a friend of mine, her bf broke up with her. He told her, "he loves her but he is not in love with her." What's very strange is that my friend heard this exact speech given by her friend the other day to someone. Since then she and I have been figuring out what it means?

Group/Girl: blah blah.

Me: I guess that makes sense. Because if i go to my best friend, hug him out and say, "I love you." It would be okay. But if go and say to him, "I am in love with you." He will probably punch me and freak out.

From here u can tease her about her shoes/goggles etc. (This is called as disqualification)

Then transition to cold reading/ring finger routine- google this u will find the required info :).

Try initiating physical touch in your interaction (CALIBRATE and then go for it)..

In every interaction try to push your limits..that is take calculated risks which will help u develope social intelligence.

Once u get 3 IOIs qualify her/ connect with her and finally go for close or go for Insta date if u feel like the interaction is going well. ( Go for close irrespective of how the interaction is going..just for practice)

Some foot notes & observations:-

1: I will probably get downvoted for this...but initially i was very skeptical about this material wheter it would work or not..But once I started internalizing this particular material...My delivery, body language, along eye contact and all the non verbals improved..which caused the interactions to go really well.

2: Having a memorized line helped me get over the fear of approaching. Because I know exactly what to say. This helped me to come across as more confident and make a great impression. Also, as a newbie I am opening 7 sets daily which adds to 49 sets a week..If u keep this up for one year..you will have approached 49 sets ×53 weeks = 2597 sets in a year (Imagine the experience and the powerful set of social skills u will have after a year.)

3: Even If i have a success ratio of 0.4 % in 2597 sets.. that translates to 11/10 in a year. (Not bad for a newbie)

4: Memorizing may seem conniving or unnatural initally but this is how the old school guys did it. The so called gurus u see today have got good by following a structure. Once they got good and developed calibration and social intuition they started doing advanced stuff..Use these as training wheels for your first 1000 approaches. Don't reinvent the wheel.

5: First set of the day is always the hardest, get it done as soon as u enter the venue. Follow 3 seconds rule. After sometime u will start feeling good..So do the sets irrespective of how u are feeling..(Use your common sense.. don't take this statement to the extreme and at face value, just because I said so.. Don't approach if u had an accident/friend died or some other traumatic life event.. REMEMBER TO USE COMMON SENSE)

6: I want to try night game but getting into clubs daily and paying for cover charges is a huge cost for me due to my current financials. I am currently solving that area along with this area.. Hopefully in six months I will be able to afford to go clubs daily and practice my night game.

6: I haven't still got a close from this approach any feedback on how to solve this would be appreciated.

7: Finally a quote from Bruce Lee to end this, "Absorb what is useful. Discard what is not. Add what is uniquely your own."

Hope this helps. Do try this and let me know how it went. :)

Credit to above info :

  1. Mystery method by Erik Von Markovic (aka Mystery)
  2. Rules of the game by Neil Strauss
  3. Game by Neil Strauss