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cakeandtart/r/askFDS17/03/21 03:56 AM
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The bf could also have psychologically broken her down. "You're ugly, old, fat, have a kid...... No other man will want you.... Who would want a broke single mum?" and so on. She likely does not think she can do any better. She likely does not even realize that being SINGLE is better. Even if no other man wanted her, it would still be better to be single and away from this jerk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:50 PM
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Blake IS above his league tbh. Beyond Deadpool, Ryan Reynolds has done nothing of note. He's not the A-list hottie he thinks he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 04:31 PM
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He lives up to his name: Crisp Rat. He truly is a rat. It seems like he was a genuinely decent person back when he was tubby Andy on Parks & Rec – but as soon as he beefed up and got that Marvel fame, it all went to his head and now he thinks he's the second coming of Jesus. A LOT of people get weird, jerk vibes from him. Even men on the Marvel sub sometimes admit he seems unlikable. One time there was some Twitter hashtag or something which semi-jokingly called him the "worst Marvel Chris" (whi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 04:21 PM
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"Most guys aren't trying anything untoward!" Yet there are literally millions of rapists around the world and 99% of them are men. So. Honestly, I feel insanely blessed that my mom always instilled FDS type of values in me about how a man should treat me. She was like "And why shouldn't your husband buy you nice things? He absolutely should." Because of her, I found an amazing HVM and together we live a high value life where we both spoil each other. You can BET ima teach my son to take pristine…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:49 AM
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Forget peeing in a bucket or vandalizing. Bieber was literally caught speeding and doing 80+ mph in his sports car in a residential neighborhood. Straight up endangering lives! He could have killed someone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:48 AM
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My kids def won't be allowed to do sleepovers. idgaf if people think that's harsh. My parents didn't allow it either (except for at cousins' houses) and I see why. I have heard WAY too many stories of little girls sleeping over at a friend's house and then getting molested or raped by the friend's brother or dad. Fuck that. Nope. No way in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:44 AM
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Silver fox my foot. He looks like shit. Men are insane if they think they "age like fine wine." Even male CELEBRITIES, with all their money and access to derms and surgeons, don't age like fine wine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:20 AM
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The concept is also funny because.....why would we NEED men to provide free dinners for us? Most of us have jobs and can buy ourselves dinner? (And for the women who don't have jobs and truly are looking for a free meal, well why are men asking these broke women out then?? Hello, learn to ask some basic questions before you ask someone on a date.) I don't need a man to buy me free dinner, but do I WANT him to? Hell yes! Because that tells me that he's at least somewhat invested. If a man can't e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:38 AM
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Unfortunately, I just can't see any good in the sub. Half of the stories come off as insanely fictitious and beyond cringey. So many users are blatantly misogynistic, racist, ableist, classist, and they even promote eugenics! I've seen ideas floating around there that seem almost neo Nazi in nature! 90% of the posts are doing the same shaming and controlling and bingoing to parents and kids that they hate being done to themselves. They LOVE to dump on single mothers and give deadbeat dads passes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:40 AM
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Don't ever go there. A ton of the childfree women (and men obv) there are misogynistic and toxic as fuck. Their favorite hobby is insulting literally everything they can about mothers and pregnant women ...... especially their bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:18 PM
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Stay strong. Stay vigilante. Clear your search history and cached websites ALWAYS so he never finds this account. Utilize any and all women's DV shelters and hotlines that you can. Escape as quickly as you can and never look back. Leave all your belongings; taking them might tip him off and you could be in danger. Please let us know if there's any way we can help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:08 PM
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Yeah, SAHMs work like 16-19 hour days, especially if they have kids, so... 🤔🤔🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:56 PM
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This is just a constant nightmare in basically any college class where you discuss ethics, morality, philosophy, or politics 🙃 They all really be thinking they're Aristotle, da Vinci, Einstein, and Newton all rolled into one. "iF i cOuLD jUsT PLaY dEvIL'S aDVoCAtE fOr a MiNute..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:27 PM
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I just wanna say I am loving and vibing with your whole rant so much lmfao. You literally put into words the thoughts that I was screaming inside my head when I looked at this photo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:38 AM
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wow, the bros actually looked out for the girl for once? That's kind of amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:35 AM
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CRAWLING? bruh fuck that, I'd be calling 911 and the FBI because that's some slasher movie shit. wtf? That is deranged and terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:33 AM
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I'm so sorry that happened. How devastating to lose your sister, and have your whole family torn apart, because of something like this. How sickening and sad :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:32 AM
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In fact....it's a reason TO LEAVE. Like hello???? This man sent nude photos of your sister, your family, to himself! Do you really trust him around your kid now? He clearly doesn't care about familial boundaries or respect, so uhhhhh that's not a man I want near my kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:30 AM
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These women truly are trapped in their own minds 😭😭😭 I want to shake them and scream "YOU'RE TOO GOOD FOR THIS!!!!" and free them somehow lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:23 AM
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Stoppppppp lmfaoooo this made me laugh too much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:21 AM
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This is actually so true???? I swear at least half the guys (if not more) I see talking about gold diggers.......AREN'T EVEN RICH? And I'm always thinking, Bro you earn like 40K yearly, that isn't really the gold that anyone wants to dig for...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:19 AM
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GOOD FOR YOU, SIS. And I noticed you added "Haha I'm not superficial" and even that, to me, almost seems like you're apologizing for being confident in your looks. No! Don't apologize! Don't feel the need to clarify you're not superficial! You're hot, you know it, and you should enjoy it 👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:22 AM
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And also, the phrase "happy wife happy life" IS TRUE. I bet that LadyL1234's father had an amazing marriage and a supremely happy life because he took care of his wife. His wife was able to look good, feel good, be relaxed, and be treated well -- and I bet in turn she was loving and kind and awesome to her husband. I don't know any wife who is treated well who DOESN'T enjoy making her husband's life enjoyable as well! My husband treats me like a princess, and because I'm so happy, I will go out …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:08 AM
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They do! My husband is like this! Sadly, they ARE rare now, but...don't give up hope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:06 AM
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Literally. Men are so embarrassing. They make memes like this and it's like, congrats, u played yourself. You just admitted you can't even take care of a woman and keep her healthy or happy. Are we supposed to laugh at HER? Because you come off as the pathetic loser here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:04 AM
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Yeah it's all about balance. It's important for the man to have ambition and a solid job in which he can provide for his family. But that doesn't mean I'm gonna pick the rich ass lawyer if he's abusive, douchey, dumb, or ONLY cares about money. I'd rather the normal guy who works a normal office job earning $70-80K yearly as long as he's intelligent, kind, respectful, generous, etc. It's idiotic that FDS haters think HVM = rich man. Don't they realize a lot of rich men are abusive as hell and us…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:39 PM
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A HVM is one who is ambitious, competent, and has solid financial prospects. He doesn't have to be wealthy. But he has to have a good job, be able to provide, and not be some lazy ass bum who wants to just sit at home playing his vidya games all day. And sorry, but that's not an unreasonable thing to ask. Do we see a legion of men lining up to date broke, poor, or homeless women? No. We don't. So why should women date broke, poor, or homeless men? I mean, unless the broke bum is going to do all …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:36 PM
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Nah he really is lucky that's all she did. If some random man tried to grab me, my instinct would be to go ape on him. I wouldn't even necessarily be thinking it through! It would be fight or flight kicking in. Nothing riles me up more than unwanted touching by someone you don't know! The ONLY man who can touch me is my husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:32 PM
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And we love that for you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:30 PM
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I sound like a white Republic man named Todd by saying this lmao but Demi Lovato is literally the epitome of the "perpetually triggered and oversensitive SJW snowflake." She's such a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:47 AM
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A-FUCKING-MEN. I could not have said it better myself and I've been ranting about this for years to my friends in private. I'm fucking sick of the "woke mental health SJW" crowd essentially forcing their mental illnesses and traumas onto the universe, and refusing to take the responsibility of handling their own shit. No! Yes, we should all be tactful and respectful with our language, but that only goes to a certain extent. I will NOT tip toe on eggshells out of terror of offending or triggering…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:45 AM
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Yeah, it's willful denial. They're doing it on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:23 AM
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Literally serial killer shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:21 AM
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And "roasties" 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:21 AM
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Can you chat me the link? 👀👀 I wanna see the comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:40 AM
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Right like what was that douche even implying? That only......fat or ugly women feel uncomfy with sexual harassment??? NO, loser, any woman can feel uncomfortable with sexual harassment or being partially unclothed around creepy men! Doesn't matter how hot she or her body are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:39 AM
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It's also a fucking lie. There ARE high value men out there who don't watch it. I married one! They WANT women to believe the lie that there aren't, so that we settle for their creepy, disgusting, perverted asses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:34 AM
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That was the worst part of the post tbh. Like worse than the part where he insulted her body. Because that meant that even BEFORE he insulted her, she'd accepted that and been "okay" with it. Why WHY WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Are girls accepting this shit! IT'S CHEATING!!!!!! (And disgusting)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:31 AM
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I'm shook because I was today years old when I learned Lundy Bancroft IS A MAN lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:28 AM
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Or they try to act like your marriage will be doomed because "yOu dOnt tRuLy kNoW a PerSoN tiLL yOu LiVE wiTh tHeM." Bitch that ain't even true. You can live with a man for YEARS and he can still hide parts of himself, he can still have a mask on, and he can still change after marriage. I've seen it happen a million times. Living together does change things and show you some truths, but nowhere near the extent that people act like it does. If you're with a HVM, he will behave well regardless of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:22 AM
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How rude and xenophobic of them to blame your culture. First of all, even if your culture DID influence you to not move in before marriage, so frickin what?! That's a good value that your culture would be teaching! Where's the issue? Sounds like these people had the xenophobic idea that "West is best" and that only Western cultures know what is good/right/appropriate/proper when it comes to relationships. Which is obviously a very dangerous idea -- and also an incredibly idiotic one, considering…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:17 AM
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Because we can't have it all. Because we're not human to them. There ALWAYS has to be a tradeoff. We can't be treated well and still be seen as equal. We have to sacrifice being treated well in order to be seen as human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:35 PM
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Also, like...notice the difference in "preferences." Men: We like BIG TITTIES and FAT ASSES! Women: Could you please, like........bathe and not be disgusting like a literal rat? It's a preference to want someone who BATHES AND IS CLEAN? What the fuck is wrong with men? A preference would be "I want a man with huge biceps" or "I want a man with a thick head of blond hair." Not "Hey, can you not be a literal dirty animal?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:33 PM
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I'm so thankful that I was raised differently. BIG UPS to my mom for teaching me that I should absolutely expect my man to treat me, pay for me, take care of me, and be an equal partner in life/household/childrearing. It paid off because I married an awesome HVM and we have an excellent life where both of us are happy and spoil each other in various ways (I like girly gifts, he likes good food). Ladies. Raise your daughters to have standards. We need to fight against the Pick Me culture and miso…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:25 PM
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frrrrrrrr lmao. And let me add a little bit more: "Can you provide a NICE home and pay all the bills? Can you treat me to nice things like clothes, makeup, etc, so that I can doll myself up and look pretty? Will I have enough me time to be able to work out so I can have the hot body you want?" Crickets chirping. They really want women to work, cook, clean, raise kids, split the bill, AND look super hot while doing it. All while they...work and idk, sit around scratching their privates and splitt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:35 PM
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Marriage may be risky but I'm not staying with ANY man or having kids with ANY man without the legal safety of a marriage contract 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:28 PM
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Me too. You can tell she was the kind of woman to look down on women who wanted nice rings or enjoyed material goods or wanted their bfs to treat them. Well. Look where that pragmatic attitude got you, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:58 PM
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Major NLTOG vibes. I'm honestly not agreeing with the ppl here saying "Aw I feel bad for her." Like homegirl did this to herself. She's a grown ass adult. At a certain point, these Pick Me Not Like The Other Girls have to take responsibility for their own unhappiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:45 PM
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And tbh, it's 100% on her. She didn't ask for nice treatment, so why would he give it? (I mean ok sure there are HVM who would insist on treating a woman nicely whether she asked for it or not, but we all know those men are rare lol.) Had she made it clear from DAY ONE that she expected nice treatment and commitment, he might have shaped up and thought Oh ok she's not playing around and he might have played ball if he liked her enough. But she was lazy and passive and a Cool Girl 😎, and she gave…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:42 PM
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And this, ladies, is why being a lame ass Pick Me "casual, low maintenance cool girl" is so stupid. All this effort to convince your man you're Not Like The Other Girls (who have standards) and what's the end result? Exactly what you asked for. You're not like the other girls to him. Other girls are for marrying. Not you! You're just his casual, Pick Me fallback girl who he's been keeping hanging for over a decade. When he eventually does decide to marry, he'll suddenly decide he's bored with yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:39 PM
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"My fetish ruined my life and hers." He mentions his life first. "Maybe if I'd ... forced her to get help she would still be with me today and we could have spent the rest of our lives together." Not "Maybe if I'd forced her to get help, she'd BE ALIVE"? Only focusing on what he lost? A relationship? I'm sorry but this post is truly sickening. I feel genuinely ill. I'm logging off the sub for today because this man is scum of the Earth, and reading this made me feel so dirty and horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:13 PM
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Wow, what a queen! We had to stan! Also, idk if her hair is a wig or her real hair, it looks like it might be a wig, but WOW. What an amazing color! And it's so glossy and shiny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:32 PM
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Your friend sounds like a high value man! Good on him for being a man who openly recognizes, acknowledges, and calls out the toxic, misogynistic, dangerous trend of older men seeking out younger women. Seeking them out isn't even the right term...they're PREYING on young women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:13 PM
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I do the same thing! The more confident and matter-of-fact you are about it, the more other women are like "Say...you're not wrong..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:30 PM
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I feel bad for laughing as hard as I am at this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:06 AM
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omggggg 😭 at that point might as well LITERALLY just marry yourself! Because that's how useless the man is in that situation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:45 AM
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Men want us to pay for dates and ask them out now. Can I ask what MEN bring to the table when a woman basically is expected to now do everything men once did? Seriously. Lurking men. Think about it. We women birth the babies. We cook and we clean. We get degrees and we go work jobs. And now y'all want us to pay for dates, buy you engagement rings, and ask you out. So what are YOU bringing to the table? What masculine energy are you exuding here? Seems to me like you want us to be the woman and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:42 AM
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Yeah, as kids we were conditioned to be disappointed that Esmeralda didn't end up with Quasimodo, because according to general society, he "deserved" and "earned" her. But as an adult, I'm like HELL YEAH, Esmeralda ended up with the hot blond dude!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:29 PM
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tbf about Edward, the books (especially the newest one, Midnight Sun) make it pretty clear he's still mentally very much the age that he "died" and got turned into a vampire: 17. Like, he's literally an immature teenage boy mentally and doesn't really have the thought process of a mature adult lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:27 PM
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Great episode! I however disagree that Ariel, Jasmine, and Belle were Pick Mes. Belle never did anything with the intention or goal of getting a man. And she didn't soften towards the Beast until his personality actually changed for the better. Ariel and Jasmine were way too naive and trusting, sure, but I think their stories were more about the perils of locking girls up and not letting them experience any type of real life. Of course they'd be naive about love and fall in love with the first m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:12 PM
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so why then is it assumed that every bi woman must be a freak? ima be real, I feel this is so much the fault of the LGBT community in general. I mean, yes, biphobia and misogyny and straight people being ignorant plays a big role — but I hate how so many LGBT people portray the community. A lot of them are like the same as libfems, where they constantly espouse stupid ideas and representation that actively harms their communities. Things like Pride, where people run around butt naked and covered…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:52 AM
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Libfems also like to pretend that if you don't support sex work, you must be an evil and wicked person who wants to harm sex workers because "you're intentionally making their lives harder!" No, you morons, I actually feel nothing but sympathy for women who have to do sex work — and I want to create a world where NO WOMAN has to degrade herself in such a way. You libfems want sex workers to be paid well and have legal protections. I want sex workers to not even have to do such degrading work; I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:25 AM
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Spot on. And here's the thing...even IF all sex workers were safe and not endangered or forced in any way, the sex work/prostitution "industry" would still be disgusting because we would still be living in an unequal and misogynistic world where women are a dehumanized and objectified commodity that men can PAY for. There would need to be an EQUAL number of hetero female and male sex workers for an EQUAL number of hetero male and female audience/demand for sex work to ever even remotely be consi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:22 AM
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I wish I could give you so many awards for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:05 AM
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Beautifully said. They're benevolently letting us know that they're halfway ceding the power and control — but reminding us they still have the power and control to even cede in the first place. And they want pats on the back for it. It's like when men try to use "We gave women the right to vote!" or when white people try to use "We gave POC the right to vote!" as some sort of example of their goodness. What makes them think it was ever okay to even have power over another person's rights in the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:51 PM
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Pickmeishas are like "uwu he's twying 🥺" Like eff off, do men gently coddle us when we enter male-dominated hobbies? No. They haze us and tear us apart. And here are these pathetic, silly women, trying to spoonfeed these ugly manbabies who, quite frankly, I have NO DESIRE to see them with their nasty ass nail polish or makeup or ugly outfits anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:48 PM
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That reminds me of that post posted recently on relationships where the guy was like "Where did the girl I married go? She's not fun anymore. We never even have sex anymore. Whenever I'm in the mood, she says she just wants to go rest. WHAT GIVES?" She had a 6 month old, a 3-year-old, and a 5-year-old. She worked two jobs and did all the housework, cooking, cleaning, and child raising. He had one job that he worked part time. With the rest of his time, he watched TV, played video games, watched …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:44 PM
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Cough F. SCOTT DOUCHEGERALD cough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:26 PM
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The second and third ones piss me off so much, especially the second. It's so blatantly smug and looking for a pat on the back or validation. Piss off. If you can't silently observe without TELLING us you're going to silently observe, then you're an attention-seeking loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:25 PM
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This is so true. For example, women will post in beauty subs asking for how to become hotter and I've been downvoted for saying that losing weight is a major component in leveling up your hotness. Pickmeishas are extremely sensitive because they simply don't want to improve. They simply want to hear "uwu you're valid just how you are!" and "You need to love yourself as you are, you ARE beautiful!" They don't want real, pragmatic advice, such as: lose weight, get toned, stop eating like shit, and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:23 PM
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The men in the nail polish subs piss me off. Like, take your ugly ass hands with your sloppily applied polish to MalePolish, please. I don't want to see it and I certainly won't praise you for it. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:02 PM
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Yes, screw all this "dOnT kiNkShAme" bs. No, I think I will shame. These aren't "kinks" they're disgusting and weird perversions. And shame is good; shame helps regulate society and teach people what is and isn't appropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:08 AM
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This is so true and I never thought about it before! The roles for women have largely stayed the same — cook, clean, grow and raise kids, groom and look nice — but the roles for men have gotten so much easier. No more hunting, no more gathering, no more wood chopping and fire starting, no more building your own house, no more fighting off predators or other men. All men now have to do is...go to school and go to work. That's it. And what makes it worse is, WOMEN DO THOSE THINGS TOO! Women go to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:57 AM
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The way Skylar was treated by fans became so famous that it actually coined a new term: the Skylar White Effect! It's that thing where a woman is demonized and hated more for reacting normally and not standing by her man, than the man is for being violent or a criminal. She's a "heinous bitch" for getting angry at violent men and for having boundaries; meanwhile the man is super cool and awesome and "complex and layered" for being a hero who also commits crimes. See: Lori Grimes, Tara Knowles, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:28 PM
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I once got into an argument with someone where she kept arguing that prostitution is real work for women and I kept saying, "No, it's not. Do we see a ton of men doing it? No. So why should I support it for women?" and her reasoning was that "It's one of the oldest trades in human history." And all I said was "All that tells me is that men have been evil and exploitative of women for all of human history. And that's supposed to...make me support it?" Surprise surprise, she had no response. Liber…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:45 AM
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And then liberal feminists will say "Well, why not BOTH? Why can't women be judges, doctors, lawyers...AND strippers and prostitutes?" Because, my dear, are men being asked to be strippers and prostitutes along with judges, doctors, and lawyers? No? Let's think about why. And that'll tell you the answer to "why not both." Liberal feminists act like it's so ~eMpoWeRiNg~ to give women these two avenues. Meanwhile, true empowerment is how men live: they don't even NEED two avenues. For them, it ain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:32 AM
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In my experience, these areas filled with "progrsssive, woke" white people tend to have some of the MOST passive-aggressively racist people. And because they think they're so liberal and woke, they're actually more annoying than the ignorant dinguses down south/in other less "progressive" areas, because they have this air of smug superiority. They fully believe they lack the ability to be racist (and sexist), and they LOVE to speak over people of color (especially women of color). Ugh. And nerdy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:37 PM
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No offense to women who live in the PNW, nature-wise it's a gorgeous place, but it seems like such a nightmare place to be a women. Not only do a ton of serial killers come from there, but it seems like it's filled with two of the MOST ANNOYING, condescending, pretentious types of men: the skinny tech bro and the hipster bro. Both the type to constantly mansplain to women day in and day out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:25 PM
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It's the same as the trope of men refusing to stop and ask for direction (VERY true btw) because they can't stand asking for help. So honestly...any man who's walking around asking women for help getting somewhere/carrying something/etc is highly suspicious. What a woman can do — if she really WANTS to do something because the guy seems genuinely injured or whatever — is retreat to a very safe distance and loudly say "I can call 911 for you, sir," and immediately dial 911 on speakerphone. Then w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:19 PM
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Thank you. I find it SO EMBARRASSING when I see so many women these days talking about how they don't need marriage and how they're fine just dating for...idk, forever. I want to shake them by their shoulders and say, You've been brainwashed into accepting no commitment and low standards! Seriously, imagine being a man's GIRLFRIEND at the age of like 45 — when you've been dating for years and years — and knowing he could walk away at any given moment and leave you totally empty-handed, with no l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:21 AM
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This is one of the WILDEST things I hear men say. "Men have less DV shelters! See? We're not privileged!" Yes..........you have less shelters because you literally..........get beat less....... Wow, how privileged women are, getting more shelters because they get beat up more............. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:06 PM
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True but at least men in the past used to hide their lewd magazines because they knew it was wrong and their wife would be upset. Now men boldly, proudly show their wife that they watch porn and accuse HER of being the crazy/bad one if she has an issue with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:59 PM
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If I could give you all the awards for this, I would. Also: they SAY they want to be approached, but if they suddenly started getting approached by hobos, by women 30-40 years older than them, by obese women, by women who have zero hygiene, by super muscular and ripped women who tower over them by a foot, by women who look like they just got out of prison, by their female coworkers who they hate...suddenly these men would run screaming in the other direction. What they really want is a super hot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:35 PM
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And have you noticed how, whenever a man online even remotely says something which implies that he thinks of women decently (or as humans at all), men will respond "Hope she sees this, bro"? They honestly think the ONLY reason a man could ever be decent about women is to get laid. They think so lowly of women and of their fellow men! Yet when we point this out, suddenly we're the "man haters"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:34 PM
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You are so right. Even though history was NOT kind to women and was NOT a great time for women to exist, at least history placed some responsibilities and requirements and standards on men. It used to be normal to expect a man to be able to provide for his family, to be able to pay fully for his wife, to be able to buy her a nice engagement ring. It used to be a sign of honor and masculinity for men to be able to do these things. Men who couldn't, or refused to, do these things were seen as lose…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:24 PM
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And it's the reason why so many stories on JustNoMIL are written from the perspective of the DIL. Women have this disgusting tendency to see their son as some sort of Golden Child King God, and then they bother his wife until her dying day. I'm so sick of MILs bothering their sons' wives instead of bothering their sons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:14 PM
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