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crash-8-ball/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:55 AM
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Fuck paying for 12 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:37 PM
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No one as far as I am aware. I am justy wondering where OP heard what he heard. This is the closest I could find, and its nowhere near close.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:19 PM
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Not being career focussed doe snot mean not having a job. It means someone who has something going on in their life other than just work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:35 PM
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I'm actually positive that if some of the guys on here, spent some time working in a bar, they may actuially improve their lot in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:45 PM
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I',m slightly older than you. I just find it easier to stand out amongst the majority of the dating pool. As I am older and its the age a lot of people let themselves go, its easier to stand out than if I were 20 again. However, that just means I have better options on the dating pool avaliable to me than if I didn't give a fuck about myself. Thats how I have always interpreted TRP, not turn 30 and magically have 20 ytear olds come after you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:42 PM
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Your probably the exception not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:38 PM
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Yeah I am in agreement The "Rational Male" which at least at one point was the Bible for TRP states that "At 37, if all goes well you'll be more financially stablke and mature than you are at 27" (The Rational Male) "The 37-year-old you will, in theory, be more ttractive to a LONG-TERM prospect than the 27 year old you" Now like you say, for some men this may be the only path. So if a guy is at the point in his life where he is turning to TRP. And there is normally a reason a guy turns to TRP, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:34 PM
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One of the most common redpill beliefs is to "ignore women for all your 20s, work on yourself, make money, grind, and once you hit your 30s, you'll have a bunch of hot 20 year olds lining up to date you ​ Where does that belief actually come from? I have read all the sidebar material and it actually says something totally different. Can you cite the source from an actual accredited RedPill Contributer?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:23 PM
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As for Maternity pay: the first 6 weeks: 90% of their average weekly earnings (AWE) before tax the remaining 33 weeks: £172.48 or 90% of their AWE (whichever is lower) So sure first 6 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:18 PM
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Ive nly heard what he told me. Like in conversation, people bring these things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:15 PM
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Anyway she has a kid, and now she wants a year off to bond and is demanding he gets a new job/pay rise. Its the demanding part after insisting on how th eguy will be the SAHD. Look I get telling men on ething and then doing another may be nbornmal to you. But nio matter how much his wife insists he gets a new job, unless he gets one, they be fooked. ​ In fairness when I worked weith him, I did tell him sort his career out regardless of what your wife says. And here we are, one big "I f**king tol…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:08 PM
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Nah it was kinda depressing and sad tbh as well as very fatalistic and dark. I'm kinda sorry it was shuitdown, over lockdown it was some amusement to pass the days as they blurred into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:04 PM
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Yeah... its me laughing at someone I used to work with. Who is complaining about a situation of his own making.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:02 PM
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Maternity Leave, problem solved. Also lmao, I ain't gonna pay for her fantasies Being able to buy food, pay for water and gas, as well as pay off two SUV's (yep, bright move when expecting a kid) as well as the mortage, as well as whatever the kid needs, ain't really fantasies. Its more like basics. Also this issue is litterallly moment Americá(well not even that,most mothers work full time in America too). She dosn't want too though. Also,the "breadwinner" is a stupid thing; just split stuff 50…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:58 PM
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Yeah I get that some guys do fine on OLD, itsjust bnot my thing. ​ But for these guys constantly complaining, if its so grim and there is no hope and it makes you feel depressed, then stop f**king using it. By their own admission it will never get anywhere anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:55 PM
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Its not even the wight for me, its the lifestyle. If your not eating like a pig (CICO) and exercising, then sure genetics may play a part. But if your over induiglking in unhealthy food, not exercising and generally you dion't care about yourself, then no thanks. Don't want that in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:47 PM
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I find the lives of feminist men so funny at times. Getting married to a woman who is "The Breadwinner" saying how even if she has kids he will be the SAHD so his career isn't as important. Anyway she has a kid, and now she wants a year off to bond and is demanding he gets a new job/pay rise. Like sorry bro, what was it you said last year? ​ Ots not actually funny, but having to listen to this garbage is annoying. Laughter is my cope, otherwise I would justwant to beat him round the head with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:39 PM
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And that’s being optimistic because really, men would be fighting and pushing for social advancement in order to try to survive. Men would start wars looking for their women, lots of men would simply choose to not exist without their loved ones. Well yes, its called natural selection. Imagine life without all the cheat codes enabled, thats how we were meant to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:24 PM
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We don't need every man to be alive. ​ Obviously natural selection will kick in. This leaves you with the survivors. Who wants dead weight in a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:22 PM
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The National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance (NAAFA) has worked as an advocacy organization for fat people, but was partly formed to help male fat fetishists and other fat admirers (FAs) find fat women to date and have sex with.[4][5] Pfeffer, Carla A. (2021). "17: Fat Activism and Beauty Politics". In Craig, Maxine Leeds (ed.). The Routledge companion to beauty politics. Abingdon, Oxon. ISBN 9781032043319. Retrieved 19 August 2021. \^ Jump up to:a b Saguy, Abigail C. (1 December 2002). "S…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:14 PM
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Then why are they initiating so many divorces if there lkives are so great with these men of their dreams?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:08 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:05 PM
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That is true tbh. As a guy I know I can get off quite easily. The fiocus needs to be on her. As busting a nut is quite simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:35 PM
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OK, cool I get it. I actually figured this out myself, so I stopped using it. The end. I didn't have to keep mentioning it. I imagine speed dating is a bad way to date for a lot of guys, why is that not mentioned 1000 times a day repreatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:26 PM
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I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:20 PM
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I think everyone has been agreeing onthis since at least Lockdown. Who is saying it does work for them? Why the hell are guys here still using it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:18 PM
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Huh, so you disagree that women change their attitude for the "Chad", because he makes them feel more feminine? Masculinity polarises femininbity. ​ Unfortunately in todays world masculinity is frowned upon. Also there is the issue there is no clear definition of masculinity. ​ But if we look at all the incels crying and weeping because they are too scared to go outside, there is hardly anything masculine or man like about it. There very complaints aboyut them putting women on edge, suppiorts wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:05 PM
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I live in UK, we just have knives. If your in London, the mayor even said "Knife crime is an everyday part of life, people just need to accept that". Goota love the lefties and their views.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:52 PM
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No, We are just sick and tired of hearing "Where haveth the good sires gone" after someone has spent their entire youth with potentially good sires. Sorry, that phrase just irks me. Its not the women, its the phrase. We are also sick of trying to warn a woman that a guy will actually just pump and dump or her, or has a history of locking women in his bedroom for 3 days and beating the shit out of them, only to be told "Your just jelous" or "But I am different" only for her to be released fromth …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:48 PM
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It depends on your outlook on your weight. I used to have a lot of excess weight, I have had some bad period, ie COVID lockdown where i gained lots of weight. Over the last 2 months i have lost 2 inches on my stomach, to me that is good, however besides the point (gained loads of weight whilst working and doing a dissertation at the same time due to 18 hour days with no exercise). However, I viewed myself as unattractive due to the excess calorific intake and to me it was acceptable that a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:44 PM
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Even if they did, if someone lost, they could still shot the other guy in the head with a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:34 PM
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Is it working though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:33 PM
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I've got a friend who went to university quite late in life. They were normal(ish) for their age when they went. But since coming back, they are just addicted and obsessed with smartphones, messaging and apps. There is defo an age thing here in those habits. Anyway,
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:31 PM
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I love the "men need to police each other" and "Men start wars". Yes a war is normally duue to some men. However it comes across like we are all in some grand conspiracy and do it for shits and giggles. All I can take from this, is we should of let Hitler kill more Jes so that WW2 could of been avvoided. That way the toxic masculinity of WW2 could of been avoided. Liek I say, wars are not men in a conspiracy. Its normally men priotecting their country, wiomen and children so that they can live. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:15 PM
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Tbf over lockdown they did not discriminate Subs like BlackPillFeminism were shitdown ​ But people on here were saying its unfair, despite there being posts literally sayuing "Women should all buy guns then gun down every man" Blackpill feminism was a strange place, they did come to a conclusion though that if all men started working together instead of being standoffish, they could easily outmuscle women and enslave them all so its probably better they dont. Like I say interesting place
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:04 PM
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These women will go on about how they love their men that they’re settling with but it’s honest to god the most shocking revelation seeing how easy these women cheat on these dudes, I’ve been the other guy a few times. Women are quite good at RedPilling guys themselves. Been that guy, heard what they say about their partners, no wait isn't a pertner "Oh thats just some guy I have twisted round my finger"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:35 PM
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If it hadn't been someone who turned their nose at me so much I possibly wouldn't of even remembered. Not saying the kids may still have caused concerns on the future of a relationship. But if your in that situation (single mum) then its on you to make yourself shine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:32 PM
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I don't believe its likely myself. If the Incel Rising was going to happen, it would of happened. Instead they just sit in their basement watching porn and playing videogames. Granted, there a complaint of men not achieving as much in education these days. But if men are not interested in education, well nothing is going to change, some men are happy just having a couch and a TV + Console. So what, its their life. I'm not a gamer myself, but if some dude wants to sit in all day and just play gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:22 PM
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Reddit closing down the Incel subs has definatley made Reddit better. Now instead of them being intheir own echo chamber which you could easily not enter they have infiltrated everywhere, polluting ALL the waters, being insufferable. The whole of Reddit is full of "Chad does not need to do that", constant "But the average man never gets a date" and "But that would mean leaving the basement Bro". I hope those who wanted the Incel subs shutdown are celebrating their success and victory and how it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:12 PM
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Just had a quick look, nope its mostly about dating and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:51 AM
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Best way. Don't knowingly stick your dick in batshat crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:47 AM
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They are not fantasies all the time, this shit does happen. I remember when I was younger, some girl would literally turn her nose at me like i was a pece of shit. Anyway many years later, I tried OLD (so help me god) and guess who I matched with and who wanted to meet up with me. Yeah her. She also told me about her two kids. Anyway once I realised who it was, I laughed and noped out of it. Unfortunatelky I couldnt tell from the photos. Can confirm all th eguys she got with when she was younger…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:22 AM
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People treasure their eardrums. Seriously telling an obese women to lose weight will not go down well. Its not worth the hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:53 AM
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The best way to use the Red Pill is go in, get some of the basic interpersonal things down, and then dip. You stick around and you’re gonna turn into a bitter asshole and then you will never get laid. Thats exactly what TRP used to tell guys to do. Not this hero worship of Mr Tate and chasing false idols. That was not part of the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:47 AM
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Just be yourself bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:38 AM
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"Just be yourself bro". Maybe return the advice "Just be yourself" and leave em to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:23 AM
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I'm not a gold digger nor am I looking for a sugar mummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:21 AM
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OK bro, you can now date, congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:53 AM
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L-Theanine. Try that. L-theanine's Mechanism of Action [A Complete Breakdown] (nootropicology.com)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:44 AM
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No, I see nothing supporting "Only Chad gets women". Near me there is a really short guy with some woman a good 2 feet taller than him and they have a family. Plus when I walk around the city centre or go to bars I see women of all types with guys of all types. Like when I hung around on PUA forums, I started to understand why some guys where with some women. I could also look back at my previous relationships and understood how I got the woman attracted in the first place or my previous oneitis…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:41 AM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:37 AM
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Nope ots the Blackpillers who are ranting the most. Redpill a d blackpill are different
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:35 AM
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It's silly. RP now means "anyone I disagree with" But tell people they are redpilled,sooner or later they start believing it and actually dive into the redpill. There is no such thing as bad press.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:34 AM
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You sound sort of like me, I would fall hard when I got with a woman, then either get friendzoned or get told I was looking for something serious. So yeah, needed to change myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:12 AM
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Tradcons and RedPill and Blackpill and MGTOW and MRA and PUA all fall under the manosphere (which people collectively class as RP), however simialr they are, they all have different objectives. Its kind of like Feminism, you have differnet types of feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:04 AM
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In practical terms that means what? How does that help people who are shit with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:55 AM
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Its changed, is all I can say. From what I can tell the worship of False Idols is still a thing. I was more into the PUA scene, to be honest it was just as bad, but in a different way. Guys were not interested in improving, they were just fanboys of their favourite "False God MPUA". It was just as cringe. The percentage of guys putting in work was quite low. Most were just trying to get validation from other guys instead. All that said, I think it has definiately taken a shift for the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:53 AM
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I just saw a hypnotherapist and actually changed everything. If what you have got ain't working, then destroy it and start fresh. Its the only way I could find to become what I wanted to be. It worked. More effective than traditional therapy in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:45 AM
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This has just removed benefit of the doubt. After all the "average man can't even talk to average woman" then yeah, average woman = unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:41 AM
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I'm starting to wonder myself. That pic just looked like average women for that sort of age in the UK. If it was a Thursday night or Friday night (depending on venue) they wouldn't stand out. Just average and I don't mean that in a bad way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:37 AM
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Feeling disappointed in the whole dating situation at our age. Likely my issues, or the guys I’m gravitating to, but sometimes doesn’t feel all that much different dating at this age (44f) than in my teens/20’s. Kind of assumed after marriage/divorce/LTR/breakups, kids, careers, and all the other adult experiences, that we’d have grown differently but not what I’m finding. Well I hope she used that new found knowledge to her advantage -Sex still major goal/focus… -Communication can be 50/50… -Em…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:15 AM
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I looked for a degree relevent to what I wanted to do. But thats just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:57 PM
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FDS actually had a decent reading list, lots of crossover with TRP recommended reading. That said, the most important for me was their handbook, the strategy ain't that great for a start, its easy to filter out FDS women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:53 PM
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I've tried this. The books are quite boring though, its just a woman yapping on about her feelings about some high powered guy, who treats her like a disposable object and how she gets wet to it. Or a woman with a gay flat mate and a whole chapter devoted to her walking in on him being gang banged by 10 other blokes. Then you have chapters upon chapters on how much rejection affects them. Rather bang my head aginst a brick wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:51 PM
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Then why do they complain when they are unemployable. At least they didn't have to be miserable for a few years. They got what they wanted right? They should be celebrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:43 PM
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Yep, I once made the mistake of showing sympathy to some guy complaining he ahd gone to university and gotten a degree and nobody wanted to hire him. I then asked what his degree was in and he said "Philosphy", I was like "Sorry bro, don't know any firms looking for a philosopher" and left him to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:41 PM
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Fair. I only know it as the evolution of the PUA community. Then there was PUAhate for guys that couldnt get anywhere with having it laid out on a silver platter, this led to the incel scene. PUAhate was a strange one, it actively encouraged trolling. I got IP banned from it for trolling its members.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:37 PM
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I miss when manosphere conversations were actually on how to become a more successful man, not just people complaining. I also know why a lot of the actual helpful communities have gone underground, this whining and complaining would destroy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:24 PM
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The thing is, men complaining "its unfairz" is not going to change anything. For there to be change in a womans behaviour it needs to come from the women, not the men. Likewise, if women want men to stop pumping and dumping and settle for relationships, complaining about it won't change anything (it will just let men know what they can get away with), for it to change men will need an incentive. And continually syaing "womenz have advantage over men" helps no-one. The Redpill explains how the ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:23 PM
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Nope outside this space, if you stated that with the genders reversed, it would be classed as entitlement or shaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:19 PM
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I just read the sidebar and ignored the actual "community".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:08 PM
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Which Red Piller posts are you talking about in particular?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:03 PM
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Penny stocks scene. That bit rocks. The rest of the movie... I can't really remember it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:02 PM
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Do you watch suicide videos when your bored? How many guys do you like to drive to suicide a day? Do you have a tally? Is Michelle Carter your role model?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:55 PM
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This whole sub exists because people got butthurt over what the RP said about women. If women didn't care what these men said and didn't give a shit the RP sub would never have been shutdown. NEXT And point to add, women were not the intended target audience of TRP, yet they turned up anyway (hence why they know about it and what guys were saying), so if they didn't give a shit, why did they do this. ​ NEXT
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:28 PM
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Nah I disagree, it was evolution from Game and PUA. Dudes were learning loads of stuff that worked but wanted a framework as to why. And if a guy is stupidly successful at attracting women, the women will RedPill the dude themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:11 PM
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Does BP even have any solutions other than: "Keep telling yourself looks don't matter" "Be yourself" "Be nice" Even if they are "solutions", I have never seen anyone get "success" from these "solutions". Like the whole "Be yourself", yeah actually I totally agree (I still think its as pointless as telling someone "Just be confident bro" though). But those who need that advice don't understand it and those who understand it, don't need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:09 PM
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Only BP thing I ever got told regarding the gym was "Looks don't matter, personality does". If you read my response on the "How has the RedPill helped you", yeah all those things are not Redpill specific, I totally admit. But its marketting and optics. BP is more "How to be nice". Where as RP is quite crass and crude, but it markets itself better. That said, it was the original layguide that got me into this. But its marketting and optics. The BP sucks at that for getting the attention of guys w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:07 PM
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I'm stuck on the metaphor of this story. Is beastiality OK, if a woman (the little mermaid) wishes it? Or is Chad that attractive, other species want to mate with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:48 PM
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I always find Rags to riches films interesting, not sure why.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:36 PM
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Classic fairytales with the genders reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:31 PM
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Only time will tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:30 PM
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Men think about sex more than they will ever let women, or even each other, know. Teachers think about f***ing their students, fathers think about f***ing their daughter’s friends, doctors think about f***ing their patients. And right now, for every woman with even an iota of sex appeal, there’s probably a man somewhere in the world who’s touching himself and thinking about what it would be like to f*** her. She may not even know him: He may be that businessman who walked past her in the street …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:27 PM
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Once upon a time there was a girl named Jackie who lived with her widower father on their small farm. Jackie’s father treated her like a little princess and even though they weren’t well off he always made sure Jackie was well fed and kept her up with the latest fashions. Eventually Jackie’s expensive tastes pushed the father to near poverty. Jackie’s father still loved her regardless, and as her sixteenth birthday approached he decided to sell their last cow to buy her a sweet sixteen gift. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:19 PM
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Once upon a time a hard-working shepherd broke his ankle and had to make his daughter look after their sheep. After much complaining she reluctantly obeyed and went out to the pasture. Utterly bored with this job, knowing that she could be in town hanging out with cute barony boys, the shepherd’s daughter sat on a rock and mulled over how much her life totally sucked. Then she noticed that, over in the next field, two cute shepherd boys were looking after their own sheep. Wondering how to get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:17 PM
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Deep in the forest lived Big Red and his father. One day his father marinated up some juicy steaks and put them in a basket with a six pack of beer. “Take these and go visit your grandpa,” Big Red’s father said. “You got it,” Big Red said. After all, as a man he appreciated his family and didn’t view visiting his older relatives as a burden. So Big Red set off along the path through the woods to visit his grandpa. As he was walking along a big bad wolf suddenly stepped out of the trees. “Where a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:15 PM
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Redpill in laymans terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:15 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:14 PM
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Was it always like this? Maybe it’s just my imagination, but it seems like 5+ years ago, RP was more about dating strategy (game, looksmaxing, increasing your income). Yep, its gone blackpill now. The question is how will it escalate next.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:39 PM
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The Red Queen: Sex and the evolution of human nature - Matt Ridley Sperm Wars - Robin Baker The Selfish Gene - Richard Dawkins
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:26 PM
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Evolutionary Psychology makes the world make a lot more sense. "The Red Queen" and "Sperm Wars" were very useful to me. Especially the study of that bird, that needs fake female birds put in the same field in order for the male to attract a mate. Its pre-selection taken to the next level.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:08 PM
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Why did he not want someone who "seemed like they liked to fuck". Sorry, its probably not funny to you, but reading that, its stuff like this why I like PPD. It shouldn't be real, but probably is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:06 PM
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So I can on hildays more and thing s like that. There are reasons to want a higher paying job other than women. Just better lifestyle as well shit costs money generally. However my point was TRP helped me in ways other than just how I come across to women, I managed to focus on my career better. Living for the weekend, career is just seen as a chore whilst your waiting for friday and saturday night.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:27 PM
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She didn't know we were all ex-army. Neither did we, until we started talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:36 PM
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I've currently got a stew going in the slow cooker. Time wise for me it makes sense, if I were to cook every night, I would have to sacrifice other things, gym, meditation, studying for career related certs, etc. So doing something in the slow cooker on a saturday and sunday when there is more free time, means during the week when its busy I can have some healthy meals in the freezer I have already prepared. So I don't need to waste time cooking. Just microwave a meal, then wash the dishes, happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:48 PM
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I looked at Urban Dictionary the practice of visiting a urban and low income neighbourhood and asking mainly male criminals or thugs for sexual favors, some of the favors may be in exchange for monetary gain
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:19 PM
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I'm too scared to google that. I have made mistakes in the past when people say stuff like this. Good try on the social engineering though bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:18 PM
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Same, in the UK. Its much cheaper for me to buy vegetables and meat weekly rather than buy processed food and premade meals. Like 2 bags of carrots will come to less than £2, a bag of potatoes is like £1 and so on. Meat ain't the cheapest but its still cheaper than living off processed and premade meals
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:14 PM
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Not really, but it can be more effort as you need to avoid processed shit and ready made meals to make sure your really cutting out sugar. I'd argue thats a good habit to get into though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:11 PM
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Must be a giant bed if it can fit you, 4 cats, 4 dogs and two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:08 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:29 PM
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WHo said a man will be in his "Physical" prime later in life. What pill are you taking. What does the Redpill actually say: "At 37, if all goes well you'll be more financially stablke and mature than you are at 27" (The Rational Male) Nowhere does it actually say "Physical Prime". "The 37-year-old you will, in theory, be more ttractive to a LONG-TERM prospect than the 27 year old you" (This has nothing to do with physical appearence). ​ Now as for women competing with "Maddison Beer", does she h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:12 PM
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Yeah true, but that would mean OPENING THE DOOR, just think of the anxiety that would cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:57 PM
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I remeber when I was 21, went out on NYE. Bouncer was like "No ID, no entry" Showed him my ID. My mate pulled out his ID, the bouncers said "Nah its OK, we don't need to see you OAP card". Priceless. Ruined my mates NYE though. But thats what happens when you don't exercise and eat surplus calories I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:52 PM
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True, and what I would tell those guys is: "Get lifting bro" Yet they don't, they carry on doing what they have always done and get what they have always gotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:50 PM
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Its the "The stats say" stuff that gets me. And the mention of outliers. ​ Maybe what makes someone an "outlier" is the fact they just go for what they want. Instead of seeing of applying the empirical rule and Bayes' Theorem, they just yeah, take a shot. I'm sure if I started running statistical probabilities on everything I have done in life, I would talk myself out of even trying. Its like applying for a job, yes if there is 1 position that I apply for and 250 people apply, I am going to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:56 AM
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Its what the guys always go on about in regard to AF/BB To many cases of a woman wantuing to settle with a guy, which looking back at the rest of her life, she should not want to and the guy should have no business being with her. Stuff like this can sometimes happen. Anyway, I am off swimming, have a good un.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:50 AM
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"You seem younger due to the energy you give off?" What does that actually mean, like in laymans terms, someone mansplain this to me dammit. Reason: Everyone seems shocked when I say I am 40 odd not early to mid thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:46 AM
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Its one of those things, other peoples misery can be enjoyable. I do take certain enjoyment in reading them, I cannot explain why. Its like videos of things being crushed by a hydraulic press, I cannot tell you what makes them enjoyable, but they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:42 AM
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I think its when the women say "Oh I have never done anything like that", "I was one of the quiet girls", "Women who do things like that are sluts, not me". Then the guy has a mate send them a porn video of her being gangbanged by 12 guys, or on the day of the wedding, he finds out everyone has been with her. And then he realises, everything she said... it was all lies. Then there is no trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:33 AM
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You traded learning how to use a kitchen for penises and cum? You have lost track of your purpose as a woman. ​ (That was sarcasm, in case anyone wondering)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:28 AM
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Are you happy with your dating life. Is it what you always wanted? Have you got the happy ending you always wanted (assuming you wanted a happy ending)? If you could go back and do it again, would you do it exactly the same? When you see people with a different relationship, are you always able to look at yourself and think "Goiod for them, but I prefer my life so much more"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:27 AM
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Testosterone Stew ( 5 servings): 1KG White Potatos 500g Red meat (good for Zinc, L-Carnitine, Iron and B12) 3 Types of Veg 1 Tbsp Coconut Oil Lemon Juice 4 cloves of garlic 1 Cube of ginger 2 Tsp all spice Handful of parsley 250ml Vegtable stock Avacado ​ Chop up the potatoes, meat and your chosen veg - set aside. Finely chop the ginger, garlic and parsley - set aside. Boil 250ml water and stir in veg stock. Blend up your 6 vine tomatoes. Line your slow cooker with your chosen fat source. Make a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:03 AM
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You are the common denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:48 AM
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What is this..... Some of this is the most bizzare stuff I have ever read.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:44 AM
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Just accept your shallow. Everybody is shallow, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:38 AM
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Its not "Offensive", its just an incompatible lifestyle. Either they will suddenly be fine with fitness and eating less, I have to eat more and be complained at for wanting to stay fit and active instead of slouching around or we can just be totally incompatible. I have obese and overweight friends, their lifestyle choices are completely different to mine. I don't even enjoy going for meal with them as they continually tell me how I should eat more, have a go at me because I don't want a pudding…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:27 AM
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Swimming booked for this afternoon. ​ Happy days
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:14 AM
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They thoiught you were the best hope for their daughter and were trying to make it happen. Why would they care about the other woman, she was just an obstacle, or a "bad choice" you made, in comparison to their perfect daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:39 AM
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Then don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:42 PM
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No, I don't use it that much tbh. I don't class Reddit as Social Media. Forums were a thing before "Social Media" existed. FB I mostly use for messaging. Not updated my profile pic for 7 years or posted anything for 3 years. But Messenger I use a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:04 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:05 PM
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I'm a lot happier than I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:04 PM
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Mostly bars, social events, events from Meetup. Mainly look for an in, make a comment on something happening nearby, get an opinion, whatever. I don't stick to them from then on. I go talk to other people, etc. Then they generally hunt me out and come find me or they don't (whilst at event). If its a daytime MeetUp event or something, I may then suggest going for a coffee. This works better when its a group of 2 - 4 women, than a single one. Probably seems less predatory. Then just take it from …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:47 PM
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yeah true. I have just always found there is something I can do. The most extreme thing I did when I was younger was join the army due to flunking university. Not ideal, but I got myself into the situation I was in being barely employable, so I did what I could to get myself out (join the army get a trade in Comms and IT). Also, when leaving the Army, I moved from the town I grew up in to a city with better job prospects. A lot of stuff that is game related has helped in Networking with peeps in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:27 PM
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Career matters. I spent a lot of my life living for the weekend and never saw an issue with it. PUA initially made this even more so. Then when I read some stuff that was TRP, it kind of clicked. I have doubled my salary since.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:41 PM
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Just Lift Bro - instant results. Now if that was due to muscle or just because it increased my self esteem, thats the question. I'm going with self esteem however. She is not your, its just your turn - I am a lot less clingy and don't get as devastated by things ending. Maintain frame - I am not a doormat. I will stick to my guns. I used to be a chameleon and mould myself to whatever a woman said, in regard to what she liked, didn't like, etc. Now I just stay as me. Women disagrees, so what. Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:38 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:26 PM
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Yeah, again anad again and again and again and again and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:23 PM
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Do you enjoy recieving gifts from your partner? Its not something I am bothered about to be honest. Recieving a gift makes me feel pressured to give them myself. Christmas and birthdays I understand and happily partake in. ​ Can you describe what type of gifts generally like the most? I would rather a partner surprise me with a weekend away or something like that. The partners who thoughtfully plan stuff, really stands out. It does seem rare though. If I am seeing someone for 3 - 6 months and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:19 PM
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A brief history lesson: Before the internet, men believed there xperiences to be unique. Then came the internet, men started chatting together from all over the world and noticing patterns. Then a few guys made an internet forum that discussed attracting women. Guys started trying this shit out and reporting on if it worked or not. This gave birth to the PUA community. Then Neil Strauss wrote his book "The Game". The community became saturated. RSD Julian got banned from 27 countries due to a vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:05 PM
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Sorry, let me fix that: Men + Women slut shame women Men + women virgin shame virgin MEN. I didn't mean virgins as in virgins of bothe genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:55 PM
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Not every man is homophobic. That is more of a topic for the men who are homophobic to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:41 PM
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How do you think he got to have sex in the first place. If nothing else he knows how to seduce a woman successfully. If its a FWB or multiple FWB then he knows how to keep them interested (until they are not), if he constantly finsing women for a rotation, then he must have some social skills. Men who get laid a lot don't have a collection of women in vegitative states that they just fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:36 PM
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Becuase if you care about this shit and are considering a relationship with someone, it becomes a concern. Yeah I agree it comes up to much in convo on here. Wether thats some of the men continually ranting about it starting these fun chats or Women bringing it up and starting these fun chats In this case guessing OP is a woman. Anyway, I don't which of these is the reason it comes up so much. But if someone has that prefrence, then its a prefrence and matters to that person. Shouting "women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:32 PM
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Nah, "WoMeNz OnLy CaRe AbOuT MoNeYz"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:26 PM
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Happiness begins within. Also people only value what they work for. You can tell me how to be happy all day. I have my own recipe for happiness based around meditation and visualisation. But I know unless some pays money or discovers this themselves, they will not value it, so I don't force it down others throats.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:21 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:20 PM
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He may grow out of it sooner or later. He may meet someone thats unique and stands out amongst all the other women, so is happy to settle. He may not. He may get bored of sex and/or women altogether. He may get one of the up the duff and decide to make a family. It really depends on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:09 PM
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Its not like we can just go and invade nations and start wars as easily these days is it. A challenge is a challenge. Finding a job = most people can do that or at least get some sort of resource Getting a roof over your head = I'm pretty sure these arguments on Reddit arn't happening with homeless people, so that is achieved. Getting in shape = You join agym or get a physical hobby. Hardly challenging. Getting sex as a man = now that can be a challenge. The ones who can do it super easy won't b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:08 PM
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To be fair, women slut shame each other as well. ​ Have you noticed: Men + Women slut shame women Men + women virgin shame virgins. ​ However I do not class refusing to date or enteri a relationship with someone as shaming. Its just called phaving a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:05 PM
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Will anything make us happy in the long run?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:04 PM
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Its challenging. I can't walk out my house and have 1000 women wanting to fuck me as I walk down the street, You see in phrehistoric times, as well as fucking owmen, we would hunt and kill the mammoth. These days, the mammoth no longer exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:04 PM
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Instead of telling men what to do on Reddit, why don't you focus on improving yourself and becoming a better person?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:02 PM
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Yeah but unless your into men, it dosn't really matter. I'm not viewing men as potential partners so sexual behaviours and relationship behaviours of men are not a concern as its nothing I have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:01 PM
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I'm not sure, why arn't women as harsh on men that sleep around. Seems a question for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:59 PM
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"Just become a murderer bro" Maybe that will be the next thing after Blackpill "Have you taken the murderpill bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:45 PM
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No but if thats bad, coming to peace with it and being able to move on from constantly wanting what is impossible for you to have, might help. Anger does not improve life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:36 PM
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Porbably got more money than you bro. Or her friends are jelous of her, and trying to sabatage. Or.. maybe you havethe personality of a brick. ​ Anyway leave her to it. Plenty more fish in the sea
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:25 PM
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Even if this is true, men are not breaking down and going schizo over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:35 PM
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what is the count on these n-count threads
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:33 PM
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An “average frustrated chump” could ignore all the toxic machismo OPs, threads, and commentary and leave with just the sidebar knowledge. Thats all I looked at, the threads themselves were garbage, anger fuelled garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:21 PM
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Not who you responded to, It seems better than last time I was on here. I took a glance at the allpilldebate and I am sure thisplace used to be more like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:20 PM
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But its all about looks bro. No wait.....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:15 PM
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Maybe it is "pointless", but its probably better than doing nothing. There is no magical forumale or silver bullet. And no-one is saying its going to be easy. If people had a better suggestion they would probably say it. But if your a social retard, its gonna be hard no matter what. But if all your gonna do is complain and do nothing. Then why not accept that and go 100%, just accept that you have no interest in being around other people and live it. Just accept you are not willing to pout in an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:01 PM
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Was that guy stoned? "Mahhh intentionzzzzzz were to beeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, but mahhhhhhhh"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:43 PM
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This is PPD, let me answer your questions. Why do men want to skip the basics so bad? Becaus ethey just want to get laid and are not interested ina nything else. They view talking as "Being a dancing monkey". Then they wonder why this is seen as unattractive. How do you learn how to write? Learn how to read. How do you learn how to read? Learn what the letters are. Now if I told someone who wanted to write a book, hey you gotta learn the alphabet first and read a wide variety of literature and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:05 PM
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Because of the intent. The word "Approach". If a guy has that mindset its very hunter-killer. Instead the mindset should be "I want to meet and interact with interesting people" Just my 2 cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:53 PM
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PPD in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:51 PM
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After being at work social events. Its easy to see why some guys end up talking to women and getting to know them and some don't. If your a guy sat in a group of other guys talking a video games and anime, yeah women probably are not going to be that interested. And by doing that you are not mixing with other people and becoming a part of the more social groups. Just turning up, saying "Look at me, I am socialising" then making a niche group with guys who also cannot socialse does not help. Yes …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:50 PM
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I'm a guy. It works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:38 PM
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It is what it is. I have trainwrecked my life enough times, and I am glad I can achieve these ideals of "most men". Ability to provide - I have never felt so entitled that people should worship and praise me just because I exist. You get out what you put in. emotional steadfastness and staunchness - Why the hell would I want to quit at my goals in life. If I want something, I need to make it happen. I view part of being a man as the ability to carve my own path in life and yeah this will take ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:27 PM
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Oh I know, I doubt they were actually after the passport. Just hope money wasn't left in the bag either in this case. When I travel, my passport and money is on me. Even a bag next to me or in my sight does not feel secure enough. Of course, there are issues when you forget your passport is in your pocket of something and you put it through the wash. But that was an educational experience for me as it taught me to always check my pockets before washing clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:14 PM
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Are there any original discussions on here? Th eonly thing I am going to say is when I was on here during lockdown the 80/20 was more common. I havn't seen that lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:32 PM
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Game and PUA was designed for the AFC's. Not the edge case, forever alone, complete loser type. It was never going tow ork for these types.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:31 PM
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Would an incel leave the basement to come to these events in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:29 PM
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That would require work instead of something just landing in our lap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:28 PM
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I am leaning in the direction of believing it is a larp personally. But who knows, this is reddit after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:22 PM
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I thought he was fine, until a week ago he told me that he no longer wanted to have sex with me. He said he loves me but he doesn't want sex anymore. I asked him the reason and he mentioned that he is not attracted to me sexually or physically, just emotionally and lovingly. SOunds like he is just not "Objectifying her". Isn't love and emotional connection more important than just sex. Should all relationships just revolve around sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:21 PM
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Have I met them in person? If I feel attracted to them in person, I will respond normally when I see the message. If I have not met them or do not feel attracted, I will respond probably in the evening or when I take a dump. How much time does it take you to reply back? How much initiative do you take? How much time you're willing to wait / think is normal between texts before you think they have low interest in you or lose interest yourself? Do you care about messaging to much/too fast, coming …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:17 PM
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Like it still sucks but agree. Its like saying, well I left my money outside on the doorstep, it was stolen overnight. Yeah it will suck, but we need these experiences to learn to human better. Valuable lessons in life are sometimes the most painful to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:12 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/171j4jy/no_women_spewing_he_doesnt_owe_you_sex_laughable/ ​ Is this really a woman being treated how some men get treated by women or is it a LARPer. Assuming it is true, why isn't she just happy that a man "wants her" and maybe she should stop seeing her BF as more than just a sexial object.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:58 AM
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Some people choose to live in fear. Just leave em to it, its their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:48 AM
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Not sure if username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:47 AM
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Yes, thats why PUA says build attraction. Of course if someone is not attracted to you, Kino is strange. But going on loads of dates without any Kino what so ever, then wanting it to physically escalate is strange as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:43 AM
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Why do you think women compete with each other. Also this is why they shut shame, to lower perceived value of competition. Although team woman exists when it's men vs women. Amongst women they probably ain't such a team.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:55 PM
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WIth the group I was in in Nottingham, there was me a few other "Regulars" who would actually learn "Game". But there a constant influx almost like a revolving door of awkward guys who thought they were going to be given a magic bullet and a GF or whatever they wanted, would just land on their lap. The universe dosn't work that way, it knows we don't value what we don't work for, so it makes us work for results. ​ I do at times miss those days, but once a bunch of us got to a decent standard of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:08 PM
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Do you honestly need to ask. FML
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:46 AM
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Was Reddit a thing when you were a young adult. People are more confident behind a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:58 AM
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No idea, however the Law of Unintended Consequences is a very real thing. However people will think it is going to go down, how it is meant to go down, will be totally different from how it does go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:49 AM
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I hope her bf gets the help he needs when they eventually break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:55 PM
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"I don't know" is at least a more appropriate response than firing back with "yeah well actually he's just an unshowered stinking misogynist who raves like a drunk every time he sees a woman, when he's not spending the other 97% of his life squinting at the porno on his TV beneath the smeary crust of jizz". Or whatever. Nope, in all seriousness I am not gonna say that. I just honestly don't know anyway these guys can be helped in large. Like, no idea. I was gonna give my own "Origins Story", how…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:52 PM
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So how are they going to repair that if they can't find people to be with? They can "touch grass" and "get out there" and "go to clubs" all they like, but if nobody's willing to offer that connection (as, in recent times, they appear ever less willing or able to do) then they're still fucked. They don't even have the basic tools to try and build a connection with somebody else who's initially closed off, they don't have that kind of charm, or confidence, or energy, or even ability to manufacture…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:36 PM
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Maybe its Chucky from Sons of Anarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:43 PM
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Yeah, these "Great Ideas" often turn into our worst nightmares.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:36 PM
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Prostitution dosn't exist in a vacuam.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:35 PM
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Go try it for a week or two and let us know how it goes then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:14 PM
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Not necessarily by choice either. People get them hooked and then force them to pay or become a whore. As they want more product they keep needing to earn more money. Its a savage cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:13 PM
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Christ. As a guy, I actually agree with women at times about men on this sub. Which is something I never thought I would say. Imagine the conditions you must be in that the only way you can make money is by finding Johns who not only have sex with you but really do treat you as a piece of meat and there is such thing as consent. Even if you say things are off limits, they may do them anyway. Lets look at young girls, that are not even of legal limit that are sold as products to "Customers". And …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:12 PM
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Not really. We will just look at a roster, how many construction workers do we need, how may carers do we need, etc. Then produce e,mbryos accordingly in the factory. As humans will be massed produced by then, normal reproduction will b e athing of the past. So the norms regarding reproduction, dating, marraige, will no longer be required. Brave New World is hardly a future to look forward to. That said everyone will have a career, so I guess it will be great
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:56 PM
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As to those women on whose part you see ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (next) refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly, if it is useful), but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allaah is Ever Most High, Most Great. [al-Nisa 4:34].
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:52 PM
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I think its a you thing. At the end of the day, women are just people, some short, some small, some fat, some slim, some attractive, some not so. Myself, I still see this wide range of people around me. Some days, I see more attractive women than other days when I see not so many attractive women. Maybe your brain has just been warped by porn, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:28 PM
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In this day and age I can only make assumptions of spending too much time behind a computer, not siocialing and with social media being everywhere, constantly having your face rubbed in it with what everybody else is doing. Now we have assigned blame, what matters is what these people do going forward. Do they replace their bad habits with better more productive habits or do they just continue doing what they have always done and get what they have always gotten. As for "what" they actually need…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:09 PM
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I've just a had a woman make small talk with me at the supermarket, she started with "where has all this rain and wind come from". Yeah people still talk with their mouths. Now if I was interested, I could of carried the conversation on, I wasn't so I politely rejected. Not saying it would of led anywhere, but deinately miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:58 PM
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Only socially uncalibrated retards worry about this, you're more likely to be stabbed in my country than this happening. ​ Ive seen it happen once in Nottingham. A guy being barred that is. And to be honest, he was taking it too far. We had to sit the guy down, tell him to stop scanning the room and stop going from woman to woman like a pinball machine. Then we got him to stop henpecking, etc. Anyway, he went from creepy guy to engaged in about 6 months. Part of someone "becoming better with wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:55 PM
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Rejection is part of the game. Men need rejection, it builds character. Until he is no longer bothered about rejection, he will always be awakward. However, blowing up after rejection is a no no. Handling gracefully and being polite is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:44 PM
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I wish I had had some mace, or if I was in America a gun. There I was stood under a shelter in the rain. And some old woman had the nerve to sexually harrass me. She interrupted what I was doing, so she obviously did not see me as a human, just a piece of meat and said "Where has all the rain and wind come from". I had not given her any invitation to talk to me. Like I say, if I had mace I would of maced the predator. She was older than me as well by about 40 years, so she was 80. Should 80 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:37 PM
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Fair enough. But in all honesty, if someone wants to improve their lot in life, they need to just go out and do it. Yeah there are online groups that can help (to an extent), but ultimately it will come down to them. They need to grow a pair of balls, go out do their shit, accept that they are gonna be seen as creepy for a bit. But hey I would rather be a creepy guy than a nobody piece of shit that isn't even noticed, its still progress and accept that it isn't an easy road. I've been there I've…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:33 PM
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Too many guys really do think its just the "I had to come over and say hello because you look really cute". It's more like you describe. Just tip little toe in the water and see how she responds and take it from there. In bars I generally use "WOW you look like your having the most fun here" in a sarcastic way, then just see how they respond to me and yeah take it from there. Maybe make an observation and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:27 PM
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I just replied to this and was thinking the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:21 PM
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Have you only just realised this? Did you think that guys that do approach actually cared or asked permission first. You sir, have made my day. Its like you have perfectly articulated this realisation you have had. As I am a tight stingy mofo though, no reddit gold for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:20 PM
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Its interesting, its by a plastic surgeon who noticed the way people whole personalities changed after going under the blade, mostly for the better. So he looked into what made people change, ie how to create change without having to use the blade.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:08 PM
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Socialising does not mean going from woman to woman running game without any awareness of your social surrounding or the social dynamics of the group in which you are part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:52 PM
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The Gunwitch method "Make the hoe say no" didn't help this either. It didn't help her by saying No as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:46 PM
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Even if a man spent his formative years gaming and consuming porn, he still has to go through the same social stages as everyone who didn't grow up behind a keyboard. Why is this so hard for people to understand. The only thing I am going to say in some of the case son here "Just be yourself" really is the worst advice ever. Please let them be anyone BUT themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:43 PM
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"BeCaUsE tHaTs WhAt ChAD dOeS, ChAd DoEs NoT tAlK oR GeT tO kNoW wOmEn, He JuSt fUcKs" or "wHy ShOuLd I Be A DaNcInG mOnKeY" or "I hAvE tOo MuCh AnImE tO wAtCh To Be AbLe To GeT tO kNoW sOmEoNe" or "If I TaLk tO wOmAnZ, I wIlL gEt ArReStEd" Sorry, was on PPD ages ago, this was the level of response when mentioning getting to know someone ort talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:39 PM
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Have you read Psycho-Cybernetics?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:18 PM
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Then why do we constantly have reddit posts about guys pumping and dumping, online articles written about this, the whole "Where haveth the good sires gone" thing not to mention TikTok. A lot of what guys say is based off what women complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:16 PM
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He likes talking about himself and his views of other peoples conversations obviously. Everyones favourite topic is themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:11 PM
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Thoughts? https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16zuj2l/wtf_is_going_on_help/ ​ Testing her to see if she is relationship material? Refered her to a friend? "The friend" got the guys phone and stole her number?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:08 PM
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Everyones favourite topic is themselves. Shocker huh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:54 PM
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Nah... just one of many Essex Girl jokes. They used to be a popular thing over here in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:49 PM
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Maybe it isn't, but if someone makes you feel ugly, unattractive and respulsive, its probably not the best basis to take it anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:48 PM
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If they burp, you get the pleasure of smelling another mans cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:44 PM
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Nope, non uniform day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:38 PM
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Oh there was the kid who had some mental disorder, schizo or something, so people would throw chairs at him until he went mad. And there was the girl that always cried. School these days sounds quite boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:34 PM
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Getting the guy to buyt the meal for her and her date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:32 PM
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is poppy_blu or whatever shes called still on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:31 PM
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Non uniform days at my school were a thing. We had one two kids of the same family who could never afford it so the guy would always get the shit beaten out of him or maybe kicked down the flights of stairs. His sisters were left alone but as we know women have a harder experience than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:30 PM
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Why is that a problem for them? If I bullied someone, how wouild it be my problem, it would probably be more of a problem for the person being bullied?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:28 PM
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Dudes didn't dance at my school. They had sense. I'm glad time machines don't exist, sending todays kids to yesterdays schools would be like feeding the sheep to the wolves. People were never bullkied at my school for wearing a watch, but they wouldn't keep the watch for long. Then you had the people who wore knuckle dusters and found it funny to punch you in the stomach. And we once had some girl pull out hair spray, spray some guys hair and set it on fire in the middle of class. It was quite g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:27 PM
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Yeah but these ones won't play hard to get, so its irrelevent. However the issue is a lot of guys arn't a guy these women want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:30 PM
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Need to link your account to ChatGPOT, then we can build a model based on all the successful Tinder interactiions. We also build an image recognition model based on women we find most attractive. Then after automated swiping and automated messaging, we get a calendar printout of when the dates are. Now if we can also access the owmens chat history, we can build a model of the phrases she is most responsive to. As it will be a photo of you, not someone else, this isn't Catfishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:24 PM
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I take it you didn't view talking to a woman as being "a dancing monkey", just merely talking to another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:20 PM
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The thing is there are guys that will put up with this. For the guys that just want sex however they will quickly get fed up with this. Otherwise whats going to happen, is a woman going to put out on every sinmgle first date just because they did it in the past. Even as a guy, I do see the logic to this. In theory she will just be left with the guys that are actually interested in her, not just the ones that want to fuck. However what makes it more complicated, is there are guys that thirsty and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:13 PM
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Its the "Have their cake and eat it" that I hate. People can easily have their cake and eat it, what they want though is to eat their cake and have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:48 PM
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Just learn to use some social skills or develop them. If you goto a walking club or something, don't just start "Approaching" women, just use social skills and get to know them, then when people break down into smaller groups, you are already known thus recognised and not some wierd creep who joins the clubs, hits on all the women, ignores everyone else and then gets banned. Sorry, I have seen this happen, its creepy as fuck. I'm also a member of a mountaineering club and can easily talk to wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:27 PM
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Fair. I know I get enjoyment from some aspects of it. But not if its just demands/standards that are basically just "Pay for my time". There are women of a certain profession that give a better service if i just wanted to "Pay for someones time".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:00 PM
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Have any PPD women been a star in this channel? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9V8dtf5BVNA
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:54 AM
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I've been thinking on the "men like women that are hard to get" comments and the way a lot of us guys disagree with it. My theory: If we really are attracted to someone and believe the squeeze is worth the juice, we get caught up in this emotionally and don't even relaise. Now if someone unattractive plays hard to get, we are not attracted so don't get caught up and yeah it just comes across as "Playing hard to get".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:37 AM
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Just google "posh spice".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:24 AM
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Crush your enemy completely. If you leave even one ember smoldering, it will eventually ignite. You can’t afford to be lenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:16 AM
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I have actually vut down the amount of meat and dairy products I eat. I did do Veganuary the other year. Although I grizzed it out, the food just got boring, different variations of beans, vegetables and pulses really. I also always felt hungry. But it was nice to never feel bloated. I do have Soy milk more often now as opposed to dairy milk, but its just lighter on my stomach. Also I do not have as much meat or cheese. But no, I cannot cut it out completely. I'm also not going to change my diet…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:05 AM
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Not sure. If I had a son, he would need a lot of guidence as this digital world would do him no favours. Hiowever, with a daughter, education is geared towards them, etc so it has its benefits. ​ But then on the topic of fuckboi's and pump and dump: If I have a daughter and she is made preggers, once she drops the kid if the dude deserts her, it is a burden for the rents to bear. Where as with a son, if he makes some woman preggers and deserts her. Well its her problem, not ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:01 AM
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40M Former cheater. Even if they started cheating agin, it is nothing compared to the drama being with a drug dealer could bring. As well as police you have to worry about other drug dealers. Stuff that, I would rather be cheated on than have battery acid poured over my face or who knows what (I have watched a lot of Topboy).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:57 AM
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But cooked flesh tastes so yummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:55 AM
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Priobably. Will they lecture me when I eat meat and animal products? Will I even be allowed to eat meat and animal products around them? Will they continually keep talking about their diet and how supreme it makes them? Will they try and shame people who have a different diet? If they were to meet friends and family, would they be accepting if these people ate meat? Could they accept that as we have different diets, we will probably never eat the same meal? Is this a sign of other strong politic…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:51 AM
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Why though. I would rather spend my energy figuring out a solution. Then as long as I take action, the problem beomes a thing of the past and no longer matters. Happy days. Crying does not assist in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:46 AM
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I don't understand where the advice of "Just lift bro" means you need to be some jacked out roid headed Professional Body Builder. Like, lets be real, if you intend on doing anything else with your life, its not even possible to reach those heights. Also Body Building competitions need to be prepped for, its not how the guys look normally, ie water intake, increasing it then dehydrating themselves just before a competition. To me, at least "Just lift bro" means stay in shape, don't let yourself …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:44 AM
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Only once, two guys were fighting and they actually were what this place would describe as Chads (over 6ft tall and solid slkabs of muscle). Some woman just grabbed me pulled me to the side, then one of the guys went flying into the space I had been stood. If that woman hadn't dragged me aside, I would probably have been obliterated due to colliding with "Chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:28 AM
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Hope it works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:53 AM
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I would say you have summed it up perfectly. Number 2 is the only one where I would definately say ask a woman. Hell, the last job interview I went for (and got the job), I realsed I needed a new shirt. Because I got a new shirt, I needed a new tie. Now I don't know fashion or colour matching that well. So I just asked some woman what tie whould i get with the shirt I bought. hen I put it all on at home and looked in the mirror, for once I didn't cringe on how the colours clashed. It looked fine…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:42 AM
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When I was fat and out of shape, yes pull o clock was was easy with a fellow female fatty but I had no confidence so couldn't approach hotter women. Then I lost weight and built muscle, the fatter women started ignoring me or bring outright rude. But the hotter women were more receptive of me. Of course as they assumed I was confident I would have to be the one approaching/making the moves. At this point fat women wanted nothing to do with me what so ever. By building muscle I improved my self e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:35 AM
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Have you never observed men out in the wild?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:33 AM
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Why are you asking women. Do you have friee ds that are successful at dating women, ask them, study them, observe them. That will bee more helpful than asking the fish how to catch fish. Same as women asking guys, I don't know what it's like to date a guy. I also know what I say I want, what I think is want and what I reedpond to are all different things so I won't have a scooby doo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:31 AM
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I will ask for help if I want it. But unsolicited advice is a no no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:25 AM
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Not a massive friend circle. Married Couple: Sticking together because of kids (fair). Always seem to be arguing. Wife forces hubby to socialise as he would rather sit on sofa playing on PS5. Hubby gets jelous when I date women, he often tells me how he wishes he could date like that also. Wife goes on holiday with kids and leaves him at home all the time. He dosn't mind as it means more PS5 time. Unamrried Couple: No RP traits or masculine traits in the guy what so ever. He is a complete nerd. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:16 AM
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Nope. Imagine there was an advanced virtual environment that you can enter by connecting your brain to a computer and once inside you could freely choose the appereance of your avatar Lets say hypergamy is definately real. What will this achieve. If everybody looks hot, then yes hotness won't matter anymore. Women will still want the best. So how does one become the best in "The Matrix". Any skill or ability can be uploaded. Being a doctor, a lawyer, good at King Fu, will mean jack shit., The av…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:52 PM
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Nah pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:46 PM
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Hope for death?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:45 PM
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It should go without saying. If some random guy is a fucking nutjob, how the hell am I going to influence him in anyway other than make him madder maybe and become a punchbag for a bit. Just because he is man and I am man does not mean I control him. A man can only police and control men who are weaker than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:42 PM
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What sort of sex worker exactly? Porn, Pro or Dancer? Would imagine they would get with guys involved with the industry somehow or at least somehow seemed to understand it. Plus probably shit testing them also, to make sure of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:27 PM
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Ok I don't know how old you are. I don't know how sociable you are, if you go out a lot, what your social circles are like or anything. But I worked in nightclubs when I was younger and I have seen players in action, I have seen women who have high "N-counts" (God forbid). I didn't see them throwing themselves at guys left right and centre like some of the peeps on here make out happens. If someone went out just 1 or 2 nights a week. That is something like 50 - 100 nights out a year. Over the sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:15 PM
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How many guys have you rejected though? We are only seeing half the story. Sorry, I am not obsessed with n-count like some people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:00 PM
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Yeah I know, I was being partly sarcastic a bit. But I do kinda get why some guys feel like losers, get a job, get a house, do everything society says, then get told your a piece of shit and someone who's ass is covered in literal pieces of shit is seen as more attractive. But it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:49 PM
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OTT as in over the top. Take Cat String Theory, yeah I don't want to seem to easy or to avaliable. But at same time I don't want to make myself totally unavalible to someone I am interested in. ​ As for the FDS handbook https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading/ ​ In all fairness, I do get the impression that FDS is more about filtering guys who you have never met before on OLD or Swipe Apps as opposed to organically meeting people IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:48 PM
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I'd rather just live and learn from my own mistakes. Its part of what life is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:42 PM
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I'm in agreement here but also not. Playing hard to get to an extent I get. But some of it just seems a bit OTT. But thats my view. Taking FDS for example, I have no idea if it works or dosn't work, I cannot comment, but after reading therough their "Handbook" I would say it makes them undatable period, not just hard to get, unless they are a super model or the guy is a complete utter simp. But ultimately I guess as a guy I have my own level of whats acceptable and what isn't for playing "Hard t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:32 PM
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The Cat String theory applies to both men and women. This is hardly new.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:11 PM
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Military is different than civvi street. Every base had ce3rtain women nearby, some that were used as initiations, ie if you are a sprog fresh out of training you had to bang the big hairy NAAFI woman. Then there were the well known women that slept with everyone hoping to be wifed up by an army dude. Especially more so in Northern Ireland where it got even more complicated as partners needed background checks run on them to see if they were from a "Red" area or they were linked to paramilitary …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:03 PM
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Chad can get away with a lot. As long as the guy is hot, its all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:53 PM
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So biological agents and nerve agents are OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:46 PM
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Only 21 times less if I am correct. However if you eat cabbage, you can flush the estrogen out of your system to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:43 PM
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Truth, if there is someone I am interested in and one of my mates tries to "warn me". Lets be honest, am I going to listen? Am I hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:36 PM
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If he is a full grown ass adult then he can make his own decisions. What he does and who he does is up to him. If it falls to shit, then I will give him the obligitory trip to the bar where he can drown his sorrows and get drunk whilst telling shit I wish he wouldn't, but as its a breakup he gets a free pass. Then its business as normal. Part of being a grown ass adult is living with the consequences of your choices. If I told him that he shouldn't get with her previously, then I will obviously …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:33 PM
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If I remember right from the era of Lockdown, you took quite a unique approach involving hiring a PI? Are you who I am thinking of?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:25 PM
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Among friends and family mostly. I have stepped in a few times in clubs, but was getting girl coded to help, so I obliged. Sometimes watching pathetic men get nowhere, is funny, I forget that it must still feel bad to the woman. Have gotten bouncers to intervene a few times as well. I generally let shit go but sometimes it does get to me. ​ I also know I shouldn't be doing this. But sometimes you gotta do what you feel you gotta do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:54 PM
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Its the best way. Lying, begging and getting women drunk is just pathetic. Being authentic may not always give you the result you want, but you know your putting out a true representation of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:51 PM
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Your looking at this too black and white. Yes you can use Red Pill and manipulate (use hypergamy to your advantage and appear higher value than a womans other options), yes you can use Dread Game to install a feeling of Dread, hell you can use "The Door" routine (tell a woman a story about a breakup and slamming the door, invoke feelings of emptiness and lonliness, then walk out slamming the door), yes you can a full on freeze out and remove all validation. Or you can build an attractive life an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:48 PM
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Some guys ae worried they will get rejected if they state the truth like that. Or they are nervous as hell when saying it, it comes across as creepy. Or they just don't wanna mess up whatever it is they have so instead of being authentic they say shit. Part of getting what you want, is being willing to lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:43 PM
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According to the Black Pill. However Black Pill is not Red Pill is not PUA. Lumping all these different belief systems under the same roof, must make this confusing as hell. Black Pill => Looks are everything. Chad just stands there whilst women get naked in the street for him to fuck them. If you are not chad, you should just rope/cope. Red Pill => Build an attractive life style that attracts women. But you still need to know a bit of game. PUA => Over analysis of Game. All totally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:42 PM
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One good thing of not being a King, I don't need to worry about Kingslayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:28 PM
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Not for the Skittles Man https://heartiste.org/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:17 PM
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Why were you dissapointed. HOW DARE A MAN BE PHYSICALLY DESIRABLE, HE SHOULD BE UGLY. ​ Seriously, go see a shrink and also tell your husband you are dissapointed that you like his physical appearence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:13 PM
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Why do we want to level it. Let nature take its course. Messing with nature can have all sorts of wierd side effects. What we need is more warfare, then the male population can be reguarly reduced and only the strong will survive. Lets bring back Darwinism and let nature do the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:10 PM
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If it isn't IG, it will be porn, or FB or whatever. But sadly until he admits and accepts he has a problem, it is not gonna be a happy relationship. Then... even if she splits up with him (which I would say she should), she is still probably gonna need trauma counselling as that stuff will affect future relationships (if she decides to have one after experiencing that) Its shit all round.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:07 PM
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How can you jerk off to someone and not want to fuck them. I'm confused here,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:05 PM
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Maybe he will have better luck with his mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:56 PM
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I dunno. It depends what you mean by "High Value Man". Some of the most successful guys I have known with women are manipulative as hell. Sometimes that stops though as they have a decent enough repuation, the reputation alone is enough. If you mean high value as in networth (wage) and social status. Then iots more about his networth and status, so what he says or does, does not really matter. I am sure there are other definitions of HVM, but its not something I really look into as never been af…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:47 PM
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IT just left a company that didn't believe in work life balance, and now working for a company where I have had free weekends and crazy stuff like that. Seriously after 2 years of no free time to myself it felt strange logging off on a Friday and having the whole weekend to myself. Plenty more free time now for being a barfly at the weekend. And plenty more time for gym and swimming during weekday evenings. All is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:44 PM
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Are they hot yes/no? End of thread
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:34 PM
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Manipulation existed before PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:33 PM
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Well ultimately its just a numbers game. You meet someone you like, you date them, if they don't give off loads of red flags and you enjoy being around them enough that you forget about other women, you go exclusive, then if your still exclusive after 2 years and you don't wanna lose them maybe think engagement and marraige or carry on as you are but accept they may be more interested in "being married" then any actual guy. But there is no super efficient tactic that I can see tbh. Its ultimatel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:24 PM
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Dont you mean "not giving off creepy horny vibes" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:17 PM
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Guy needs to stop working at home and leave the basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:15 PM
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OK, not being responsible for the kid.... fair enough his salary is irrelevent.... its not his job to raise his sisters kid ​ So far I'm like fair enough Then there is the wierd sex comment. That is just WTF. I have nothing to say other than What The Actual F**K
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:10 PM
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I spent about 3 months of lockdown on here and it did me no favours.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:03 PM
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Some people have repuations as everybody has been with them or know people who has been with them. Not so much in large cities if you both live in different parts, but small towns or close knit communities, reputations exist. Don't thinkits the norm, but it can and does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:02 PM
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PUA was around before Red Pill. It was initially lines and routines so that guys knew what to say and could focus on delivery so they could get good at talking to women. Then there were other schools that homed in on things like NLP and extreme push-pull and fractination which were very very maipulative if done correctly. Some guys would use it when going out so it was fake, some would internalise it so it became a part of them. Then along came Red Pill, which sort of gave a "Why" as to stuff wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:42 PM
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Get lifting and wearing clothes that actually fit properly and colour match. Then get used to being surrounded by women. Be it hobbies just hanging round places with lots of women. Just become desensatised, your putting them on a pedstal. ​ I don;t wanna be like "Just be abundant bro" as that helps no-one. But yeah, surround yourself with women, get used to them. But I cannot help in saying how.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:34 PM
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The bluepill is burying your head in the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:32 PM
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One of my long term female friends is platonic. However... her boyfriend is quite insecure and gets very jelous so its just a hassle. Obviously its also funny, but I can't tell her that. I'm not worried as it is not like he is capable of punching someone or anything. ​ That said, he is shorter than her and she is short. And yet again, real life disproves stuff people say on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:31 PM
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Some guys do when its a friend. It can get messy. Or sometimes the guys family just dosn't show up to the wedding and the inheritence is gone. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:26 PM
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Empathy means putting yourself in another persons shoes and feeling what they feel. I can't see a woman putting herself in a mans shoes and even understanding. Norah Vincent tried that shit and decided to endex for good. What can I say. As a guy, I can't put myself in a womans shoes and know what its like to be able to get 100's of potential dates day and be angry/annoyted/sad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:23 PM
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I have every faith you will figure it out. But I can't recommend this sub as being good for your mental health if your looking for a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:20 PM
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"But they are oUtLiErs, the StAts dOn'T sUpPoRt tHaT"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:18 PM
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Sorry bro. Thats harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:16 PM
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This is why I don't believe men and women can be friends. In my experience the women always want more. I know this is going off topic a bit. But for all the guys compaling about "Der friendzone", I will happily go for a drink with a woman and listen to her (yes I have done some course on "Listening" that is designed for shrinks, even though I'm not a shrink) as friends. They always want more. Sex, sometimes it happens, sometimes it dosn't whatever. Company is company. But male/female friendships…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:11 PM
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If it were atrue democracy, we could make it like that,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:02 PM
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Girls like to be chased by guys. I hope you chased.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:01 PM
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I had some woman walk up to me in a bar and ask what my favourite Marvel film was. Not sure if it was an approach or not. But I am not a fan of Marvel so I told her it was shit and walked off. Like as aguy, I need to put in way much more effort than asking about a shit film series. Like what the fuck, what sort of chat up line is that. She needs a fucking role model,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:01 PM
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Not full on approach, but they may linger around longer than they should or smile repeatedly. So yep time to make a warm approach. Sometimes theres a date, sometimes there isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:59 PM
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Maybe you should get fucked by a goat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:57 PM
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They beome Icarus and fly too close to the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:56 PM
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Thats a cool story bro. You should make a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:55 PM
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Men are not a monolith. Think of them as individuals. I'm not so bothered about N-Count or someone having slutted it up. Whatever, its 2023, its the norm. However, other guys are not me, so they mmay view it differently
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:52 PM
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The female relatives I have have never needed to ask how to attract a man. They are quite capable of putting on the skimpiest dress they have and make men worship them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:49 PM
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Straight for the jugular.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:45 PM
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What if she actually enjoys being around him. Like I have past relationships, that obviously didn't lead anywhere. But they had their highs as well as the lows. I still look back at them as good times, I don't see them as suddenly a waste of time. Enjoying time with someone is enjoying time with someone. Unless you are just using them as an ends to a means I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:27 PM
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It dosn't tell women anything. Its not for them. The whole "Just lift bro", isn't telling women to find muscular men attractive. Its just a well known fact that if you are a noodle or a fatso, if you develop some muscle more women will find you attractive than before. It dosn't mean every women and it isn't saying what women should or should not do. If these things make a man unattractive generally, it will be noted and classed as something not to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:22 PM
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Look, if your hot. There is probably some guy beating his meatto a mental image of you right now. It could be a teacher, a doctor, a friend of your parents, some random guy who passed you on the street. ​ Who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:11 PM
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Did you lead a sheltered child hood?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:10 PM
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Just nmake a dating profile, no need for profile pic. Just put your are female. Nothing else. No info, nothing. Should give a couple of thousend applicants within the hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:08 PM
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The reality is women want to be with someone who is strong. Who has his convictions, is not willing to bend and who can make her feels safe and protected by being a guy who has it under control. How many men like this can you name in your friend's circle? Most men shit themselves if they had to go talk to a cute girl at a bar. In caveman times a guy like that would be eaten by lions or killed by a competing tribe. If he doesn't have the balls to approach a cute girl how will he have the balls to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:56 PM
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Guy in 40's here. When your younger, the guys that stand out are the ones with wealthy parents or on the football team or whatever. The average guy gets ignored. When you hit your forties, your life choices start to show. Have you taken care of yourself or become obese. Do you still care how you look or just wear the same shitty clothes everyday. Do you even know how to wear clothes that fit properly. So at the age of 40 its easier to stand out from the crowd. I am in agreement about your age ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:44 PM
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Most male spaces are underground for this very reason. Making a male space or somewhere to discuss dating issues, male issues and making it easy to find and access, is always going to run into this problem. Its as though because we are men, our lives are meant to be perfect and claiming otherwise upsets the narrative. These places breed "Toxic Masculinity" due to that reason as this is what happens when men open up. It ain't pretty spo we have to go on being robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:37 PM
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Thi splace is full of Black Pillers. There is no point even trying to discuss dating, be it blue pill or red pill, as its just met with: "Only for Chad" "Not for the average guy" etc As a guy who is 6 foot tall, I never had women throw themselves at me, I had to work on myself a lot. My looks did not change just how I behaved and the shit in my head. But listening to the views on here then: a) Women would of been throwing the,mselves at me all my life as I am 6ft (and all that matters is height)…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:35 PM
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Is Lilith the actual Whore of Babylon still around? Then there was that other woman who seemed quite Red Pilled who went on about Masculinity Tokens and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:31 PM
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Plot twist, the women on this sub are his gf and her many alt accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:18 PM
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Only because there are other options. As a guy, why would I do expensive dinner dates? Firstly I am not a foodie and dislike restaurants regardless. But secondly if there are women who do not need to me to pay for their company via a pointless high calorific meal, why go for this option? ​ Now what if there were no other option? What choice would I have. The Game would change to who could create the most memorable dinner date. And that is how the game would be played.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:01 PM
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You would marry a woman who comes up to you and say's "Your cute, lets get married"? You would not have "some sort of screening process"? With all the info about how bad of a deal marriage is for men, you would just agree to marry anyone? This is a typical incel point of view and is not what most men want. Men want to select their partners carefully, to be sure they commit to the best possible partner. ​ At this point in life, I am not so fussed. When I was younger, yes I wish it was just a simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:57 PM
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Yep, in total agreement. In Robert Greene's The Art Of Seduction, this is covered using Cleopatra as a case study. She would use Verbal Kung Fu to tell stories left on cliff hangers, wear different dresses, etc, so that she was not executed. This kept men uin awe. However, like you say, this was not starting fights and just causing drama: “Her seductive power, however, did not lie in her looks [...]. In reality, Cleopatra was physically unexceptional and had no political power, yet both Caesar a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:43 PM
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If FDS works (I have no idea of how successful the strategy is) then in 10 years or so, dating will be men taking women on expensive first dates and waiting several years for sex. Like I say, men will adapt. However, sooner or later women will get annoyed with that system and want it to change again. The constant need for drama, is what drives this constant change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:35 PM
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I think us men do like to be kept on our toes, but not in the way that women create drama. That said, its always better to create drama yourself rather than wait for a woman to create it. Its just the way women have designed the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:33 PM
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Thats why beheading was a thing when the Queen couldn't produce a son. Much cheaper and less hassle than a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:35 PM
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Sometimes the King beheads the Queen, repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:34 PM
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Yes we know women manipulate men into relationships, whats your point,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:32 PM
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OK you have made an observation in the Real Wolrd, now what are you going to do with that data?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:07 PM
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I'm not an woman, I cannot answer on if its a Red flag or not. However.... I would say it makes guys more attractive if they are pre-selected by other women. Hence why you become more attractive if you have a date or a Girlfriend. Or hell just some woman ytoui are having a few drinks with just due to pre-selection. The loner guy by himself is not attractive as a guy who is with other women. Some definition from somewhere: Preselection is a principle which dictates that women are more attracted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:00 AM
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Pre-Selection is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:41 AM
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The whole planning dates thing, was something that took me a while to internalise. Despite all the screeching about "Men taking the lead" is toxic. Sorry I call BS, at least from the women I have met, they love the man to take the lead and be in charge of creating experiences on dates. If a guy does not take the lead, good luck. Yeah some women will make a first move but ultimately the man sooner or later has to take over. That was one of the big things I had to learn and work on myself on. As I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:37 AM
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Not who you responded to. For me, I was never jaded against relationships, I was jaded and bitter aginst myself. So yeah when I was younger I would frequently be in a dark place wondering why I was so unattractive compared to every other guy on the planet. I want to say I bought into the BS about looks not mattering, but really I was just being lazy and looking for excusesto not have to do things like goto the gym. So yeah thats on me. Its all on me tbh, only I am responsible for my own life and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:25 AM
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I'd ay Married Red Pill is more useful. Even though its for married peeps, it can be still applied in dating. Take the basic premise of Shutting The Fuck Up: Fourth, don’t go to your wife for validating behavior. So you lost five pounds. You fixed the things around the house you said you would. You bench-pressed more than the bar. You took the car for repairs and an oil change and got it running again. Good for you. Take that cup of STFU and drink it deeply. You shut up. You don’t talk about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:07 AM
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To be fair the guy sounds like a doughnut.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:36 PM
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Sounds like your the clear winner bro /sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:34 PM
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It's better to be the monster than to be food.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:32 PM
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I can relate totally to this. When I was younger I was a nice guy. Women were not interested in the slightest. These days, if I go bar hoppoing I am probably 90% confident I will find someone to go on a date with and about 60% confident I will go home iwth someone. This isn't from being nice, nor being a dick. I just don't care anymore. Women come, women go, whatever. Yeah women are more than a hole, I like female company but I'm not gonna lose sleep over any one woman. At first it did feel like…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:02 PM
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OK, lets go to the original question: ​ Shaved 5 years off his age ​ Yeah I would say thats lying and decietful but I wouldn't say its manipulating her. She was attracted to him obviously. Lied about giving me a fake number (it wasn’t his real number, Google voice or something) ​ Thats just lying, not really manipulation. Lied about random personal details of his life -misrepresented his views. For example, once I paid for my own food/split the check when he was up from the table when the check …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:49 PM
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Yeah exactly. Its a quick, cheap, effective filter. That said, I would really only use it for OLD. If I met someone in RL and had already interwcted with them, I would have already guaged their interest. As someone who is a bit of a bar fly at weekends, I generally don't need to bother with this filtering bit. OLD just complicates things. But I guess the bar scene would suck if I didn't enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:37 PM
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Do you think Redpill encourages men to attempt to control women’s behavior by not being straightforward with them? No more than women are manipulative in relationships. Hell even back in the day, when magazines with articles such as "How to manipulate your man into marrying you" were a thing, it was viewed as OK. Manipulation is only bad when men do it. Take the colour red, there is study in how it affects men. Yet its fine for a woman to wear red. Which gender is most likely to use crocdocile t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:14 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:09 PM
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Before I discovered this sub during lockdown, I used to read a fair few Manosphere Red Pill posts/blogs. But they were mainly on fitness, finding purpose in life (getting a "Mission") and pretty generic stuff like that. So it always amazed me when people where saying the RedPill was Toxic, I was thinking well if going to the gym and lifting is toxic and being able to hold frame as opposed to being an emotional leaf in the wind is toxic then I am toxic. Then I found this place and it was like a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:44 PM
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This is why I say being friend-zoned can be a good thing. But incels not wanna listen. Obviously being friends is not the friend-zone, if a guy has serious oneitis then he will be too obsessed to even entertain the idea of meeting a womans friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:27 PM
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Don't be daft. Men are legion and have no inducidual thoughts. There is just "men" not individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:15 PM
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Its better to be the monster than to be food.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:14 PM
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I think TRP mostly says "Do not MARRY women with a high N-count" not "do not enjoy their company".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:08 PM
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Porn used to be a taboo thing. Then good ole society normalised it. Maybe their was a reason it was taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:58 PM
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TRP is not some brotherhood. Its more like tales around a camp fire where people share their views and experiences. Take from it what you want, add to it what you want. It works for you or it dosn't work. However there is no enforced set of rules or objectives. Your viewing it like some sort of political movement or something it isn't. There is no endgame. Guys just say what works for them or dosn't. Other guys try it, and it either gains popularity or it dosn't. ​ Also, there are lots of differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:54 PM
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I am on it for now, I won't be it on for too long. I came on here a lot during lockdown and it was not good for my mental health. But neither was lockdown and I had stopped caring about my mental health and physical health at that point. But whilst at the minute I have got a wretched cold, I am dipping on a bit. But my word of advice is do not even bother trying to duscuss RL with Incel Blackpillers to try and make them more positive, it ain't worth the hassle. Also, it still seems to be the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:12 PM
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Not sure tbh. They were always out and I never really had any thought about what would happen after education until well.. after eduation. Don't get me wrong, I have a degree now and stuff. But I do wish at times I could just hit the "replay" button but maintaining what I now know,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:01 PM
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When I was younger I knew better than people who knew what they were talking about. Yeah.... I wish I had listened instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:55 PM
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Ive had and seen similar reactions from "Happily Married" men before, out on social events and in the workplace. These guys sure as hell are not Red Pilled and the fact they are married and have kids sure as hell crosses out Black Pill. That said, the guys who really are happily married for real, don't make shitty comments or behave like this so they never stand out to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:52 PM
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I'm actually happy with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:48 PM
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Dating but nothing serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:43 PM
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Nope, until then he had been telling me how I should be happily married like him and how great it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:27 PM
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I mentioned I had a date, then showed him her FB profile. Then he just wasn't happy and said some not so nice things about her and started saying I should find a single mum who wants to settle so I can have an instant family,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:26 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:21 PM
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Not that long ago with my "Happily Married" mate. Who also used to tell me how unlike me he had a wife and a loving family. Then his tune changed just because I went on a date with some blonde.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:20 PM
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Probably fucked more people as well. From what I have been told the gay scene is much easier than the straight scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:17 PM
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Do you not wake up wishing to be mediocre and average? What is wrong with you! Yeah but in answer to your question its easier to sit back, do nothing and blame everyone else than take responsibility for your life which is what you seem to be doing? Just keep doing what your doing and f**k everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:16 PM
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Why do "Happily Married" BP dudes get all offended and jelous when you get some woman hotter than their wife. If they are so happy, why do the ones that are your frinds with tell you that they wish they were single again ? Like shouldn't they be enjoying their "Happy Marraige"? ​ First they say "Awww you should settle" Then you find someone who is actually quite hot, and then they get all butt hurt. Like I didn't tell you to marry Shemmue the Whale, that was all your free choice!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:14 PM
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I've been obese and I've been healthy weight. I know the difference in how I feel, the amount of energy I have and how much happier I am looking in the mirror. To me, an extra doughnut matters. Ive been on both sides of the scale. Also I still want to feel attractive to whom ever I am with. ​ Thus, I would rather have a partner with similar values. Unfortunately this stuff isn't apparent straight the way, how they will act and stop giving a fuck about themselves once in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:05 PM
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The irony is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:38 PM
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Yeah thats when she gets dumped. The bait and switching is amazing. If you wanna be a fat slob then present yourself as a fat slob. Not this bait and switch bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:26 PM
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Maybe observing someone and being real instead of thinking "Once he wears a ring he will magically transform from a frog into a prince" may be better. ​ Oops, logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:24 PM
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Beacause you start out being nice and get laughed at, beaten up, ignored, being told "Lerts just be friends" or "Your not really my type". So you stop giving a fuck, or you become a delusional virgin blue piller who marries some woman who fulfills his "Cuckold fetish" whilst raising her 30 kids all with different skin colours. When you stop giving a fuck you become more of a dick to women, then they start getting interested. So why would someone want to make himself unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:14 PM
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Sorryto hear about your mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:01 PM
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There was that woman who went on national TV because of the horror of actually being rejected. It was that big a deal to her. Priceless
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:49 PM
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I'm not gonn sit around waiting for women to make the first move. It does happen, but I like to be in control of my life. Also I would rather go for who I am attracted to rather than have to pick from who approached me to make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:46 PM
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Yes but then its all his fault. If a woman makes the first move, their is no Anti-Slut Defence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:44 PM
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An ordinary woman or below ordinary woman still views herself as a Qween,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:30 PM
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As a guy, I don't see how the friend-zone can be the womans fault. Its the guy who gets himself into that position. That said, the friend-zone can be good for meeting other women. Although in that case, your willing to date other women rather than having oneitis so really your just friends its not the friend zone per say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:08 PM
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I have to ask these questions on here. Some BluePill people would say "Its the right thing to do"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:01 PM
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I'd just move on. Are her friends hot? Rejection is rejection. If you can't handle it, you shouldn't be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:43 PM
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Didn't relaise that. I had forgotten her name.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:26 PM
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Damn didn't realise that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:25 PM
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Well because he is her father. Where as some random guy is not her father, so why would he care what consenting adults do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:15 PM
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I'd probably laugh internally at him, unless he was friend or family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:11 PM
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I'm not sure if it is the muscles. I'm no muscular guy, but a couple of weeks in th egym just boosts my self confidence and esteem, for me it makes a huge difference. Feeling attractive vs feeling unattractive is where the difference is at. Physically theres probably no real visible change but internally I feel a hell more attractive. Thats all it takes. If guys have deep rooted BlackPill beliefs, then yeah, the gym and muscles will probably make no real difference as inside they still hate them…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:47 PM
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Because if he can't hack it without constant validation, he isn't suited to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:30 PM
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Who was that woman who lived as man and is still getting therapy due to the privalige she recieved?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:29 PM
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Well yeah. Sitting behind a screen all the time isn't living. I live in a city, so its easy enough to find a bar and befriend people even if I go out on my own. People who put in no effort then complain, have no-one to blame but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:31 PM
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I sometimes go out alone. Give it 20 minutes and I am not alone. I've never been arrested by the "Oh my god, you spoke to a woman" police either. If I were to sit in and do nothing however, then yeah, I wouldn't meet people and it would be no-ones fault but my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:29 PM
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Thing is... I am actually in agreement with you and yeah if I am on a date or just chatting to other owmen, I am not thinking about "The Competition". I fully agree with youir approach and promote it. However... I cannot bury my head in the sand and deny that it is competive because it is. However... competition or wanting to be better than others or doing something to "win over women" is a bad reason to do something, ie gym. However, in order to build enjoyment doing something, you need a catal…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:16 PM
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Why did you stay and listen? ​ Was there no door to walk out of? ​ Are you desperate or somthing? ​ Sticking your dick in crazy ain't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:55 PM
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You don't need ot fight people off. I'm in agreement with your attitude. ​ However other guys still exist, so I am still competing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:38 PM
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I can find a job easily, but generally I am not the only applicant, a company will go for who is best for the company, so it is still a competiotion. ​ If your so sure of yourself, then please quit your job, goto an interview wearing a bin bag and put in no effort. Its not a competition right, so you don't need to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:37 PM
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What so I begin doing things for self fulfillment, other men cease to exist and I am no longer compared to them and women will magically stop going for the most appealing guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:36 PM
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This is hilarious, As a guy, watching guys on here get bent out of shape, because some guys buy you a meal. Like its their choice. Not my scene personally, I'm not a massive fan of eating out and I am a fussy eater but geez, didn't expect so many guys to get bent out of shape on this. Anyway, I'm more of a couple of drinks and a laugh guy, maybe in a mellow cocktail bar. Which is where I think my disagreement would be as I would rather do something I enjoy on a date. But I am not every guy and y…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:58 PM
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