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I actually thought you DIDN’T mean this one. From what I’ve seen it’s still full of men getting off on spinning plates and receiving as much sexually charged attention from all women, in addition to their wife.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 11:25 PM
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And those 30yo men are looking for 25yo women, just like you. I’m not saying there’s no hope for me. But if I want biological children, I have girl bossed too close to the sun.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/23 02:14 PM
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Of course he is, he’s an adult. I don’t “allow” anything. So no, not a tough question. I think you are accusing me of eavesdropping. It’s my house. They were drinking beer that I paid for. I made plenty of noise. Maybe I should avert my ears so I don’t get my feelings hurt next time?
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/23 01:03 AM
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Which one is that?!
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/23 12:47 AM
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Tbh, no idea. The landscape has turned upside down since Generative AI went mainstream. I chose to be a generalist after working in big tech for a while. I’m better off in mgmt. My communication skills work well there, but everyone’s different.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 09:24 PM
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Short answer is both could be considered experts. There are like 14 different skill profiles you could have as a data scientist or machine learning engineer, so add even more interdisciplinary skill sets to that pool (edge or HPC, LLMs, vision) and some experts emerge.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 05:30 PM
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PS you have heaps of time. Go date. Read Surrendered Single. You got this. I’m rooting for you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 03:16 PM
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31F woman in STEM here. I started as a data scientist and now I lead a team of AI experts. I have plenty of regrets about focusing on the kinds of achievements that did not get me closer to a happy marriage or motherhood. I’m unmarried and childless, and I expect to be engaged soon. But it was not an easy road. I have competed with men more often than I have loved them. And I’ve been respected by men for achievement instead of femininity. I’ve been resented by men who could have loved me, but co…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 03:11 PM
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I don’t want to say that’s unhelpful, but that’s unhelpful. Now I’m just imagining my man being ridiculously happy surrounded by other women’s bodies (as men usually are, obviously). That’s triggering for women because we have a hard time understanding the paradox of our men wanting/loving/respecting us at the same time as they are lusting (or mildly, browsing) after another. The idea that both are true does not compute, even if that’s the case.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 05:30 AM
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I’ll speak for myself but I think that’s weird.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 02:07 AM
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What has me losing respect is the fact that he would go through with all of the steps of commitment (preparing for engagement) and still be vocally expressing to friends that he’s wondering if grass is greener. It’s incongruent and inconsistent and I find that discovery unattractive. The salary gap does not bother me. He’s got drive and interests and is very capable in every way. I worry that the salary gap subconsciously emasculates him (I saw that dynamic with my parents, and they were miserab…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 01:32 AM
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Yea I’m super confused you have another recent post about this gf NOT being attracted to you and being close to leaving you: which is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:13 AM
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All of that is fair. But I would guess that the % of men who don’t watch porn because their girlfriends are uncomfortable with it is close to zero. I told him it bothered me. He still does it. There’s a man out there that would stop? I’ll believe it when I see it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 11:34 PM
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Insightful. I’m new to RP, but I’m familiar with “dread”. I can’t agree that it’s a good thing for the relationship. I don’t find myself trying harder. I find myself retreating and preparing for the worst. Readying myself to leave if I must. If anything I’ve lost respect for him. So, if I want HIM to try harder, to overcome his biology in favor of something greater, how do I match this dread? How do I influence HIM to try harder? I’m 31 staring at the wall. Some background info: I make twice $ w…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 10:50 PM
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This is a great helpful comment. Fwiw, he owns up to looking. And defends that it’s natural. And believes I should cope. I guess he’s right. I should cope, if I want to be in a relationship with a man, at all. I can only control me. And that’s where I’m hitting a roadblock - am I making myself miserable? Or is he making me miserable? I’m sexually adventurous, generally. I do everything he’s asked for sexually. Even when I’m not in the mood. I’m afraid I’d lose him if I didn’t. While I’m aware of…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 09:37 PM
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Your comment is appreciated. I don’t think it needs to be censored. I’m a grown up. One Reddit comment is not going to be the straw that breaks us up. :) Fact is, I really can’t afford to start over and try with someone else. I have to make the best of feeling like shit, tbh.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 09:28 PM
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There’s a difference between objectively noticing someone is fit or symmetric or has striking features and wondering what it would be like to have sex with them. My boyfriend said, “yea its just hard to think that it’s going to be the same person forever”. That IS literally his perspective. And how is that not supposed to hurt?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 09:08 PM
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Thank you. There’s something to be said for listening to our instincts on this
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 08:06 PM
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There’s a lot to unpack here, but first, what does any of this have to do with brainwashing and pop culture? The issue is I don’t really want to open my legs for someone who’s going to be wishing / imagining they were with someone else earlier that day. I cannot be intimate with someone who’s mentally cheating all the time. No, honestly, I’m not checking other people out. How hard is that to believe?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 08:01 PM
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These conversations come up when I communicate to him the insecurities I feel, either if I’m down or nervous. He defends himself when that happens. It’s all my feelings and none of his actions. Idk. I’m trying to take accountability for my own insecurities.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 07:51 PM
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I’ve felt special in the relationship. I’ve also felt miserable and unseen. I know I won’t have a fairytale nonexistent man who never notices another woman. I was hoping I was with a man who didn’t see it as such a sacrifice to be with me forever. Because I don’t see my commitment to him that way - like I’m giving up other options.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 07:31 PM
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Agree, this is more of the story. Catcalling, no. Raging, no (according to make standards, but weekly is a lot to me). He defends his attraction to other women: “it’s biological. Men are visual” doesn’t make it turn my stomach any less. I think he could be the bad boyscout. Just intuition.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 07:18 PM
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We’ll he would never say that he wonders if the grass is greener to my face. That would be cruel. That doesn’t make him a good man. That’s just a good practice for not rocking the boat.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 07:12 PM
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So, ignore it or reframe it. I’ve been doing this: looking the other way when he looks at other women, sweeping porn use under the rug, shutting off my insecurity about it during sex. I’m exhausted. Idk if I want to run mental gymnastics anymore to avoid my true feelings about it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 07:10 PM
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I get that message. I really wish men understood how degrading and depressing it feels for a woman to always feel like they’re not enough. I’m not really looking forward to a life of barely hanging on to his fidelity in our relationship because I have to be enough to keep his hormone monster at bay. It’s discouraging.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 06:52 PM
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I hear ya and I’m going to push back a little. What subtext is it? It sounded like his guard was down because he was in safe company. Seems like that should be a pretty clear picture of his truth. It’s not like he was talking with his friend saying, “of course other women are attractive, but man, I can’t imagine being with anyone else. She’s too great.” That wasn’t the conversation. Fwiw, I don’t think about how attractive other men are. I’m focused on my own man and situation. I don’t chat with…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 06:47 PM
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Interesting! I would have assumed otherwise from all of the stories that circulate in womens circles. Funny how I get downvoted for asking a simple question. Thanks for sharing info!
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 12:18 AM
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It’s crossing a line, but it would be crossing a line for him to deceive you. Of course it’s dishonest, but it would be dishonest for him to lie to you about where he goes. Women are biologically inclined to be hypervigilant and therefore more insecure about their relationship to their partner. This is a natural response to what technology has given us with geotracking. Why wouldn’t a woman find ways to use technology for self preservation?
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 08:21 PM
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Most men don’t cheat? Where’s the data on that?
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 08:14 PM
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This. I would say don’t even consider traveling on your own dime until you are official.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 10:09 PM
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Curious, how old are you and how old is he?
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 07:35 PM
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Perfect timing! I just finished the audio book last week and I’m working through the podcasts. Not a wife (yet) myself, but I’m hoping early adoption of the skills will set me up for success! Joining!
/r/RedPillWives26/02/23 08:57 PM
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The whole taking baby steps at work thing is great. I have good friends at work that I feel I can share almost anything with. The closeness of a true best friend who knows all the darkest parts - that’s still my man. I would love some more close female friendships.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/23 08:55 PM
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Self awareness might be a blessing but it feels like a curse sometimes. I’m often thinking “wouldn’t I be happier if I did no self reflection?” :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/23 08:53 PM
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