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Discussionex_red_black_piller/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:36 PM
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Oh so you get x amount from the govt and have to give a % back boo fucking hoo. Fund your own orgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:47 PM
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Try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:52 PM
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Yeah I know. Quick for the hot guy, string along the not hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:31 PM
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The mocked group may be different decade to decade but there's always someone. The sexually unsuccessful male has always been mocked. If slutshaming is wrong, why is mocking virgin dudes ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:58 PM
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NEET not in education, employment or training, and refers to a person who has left school and/or college but has failed to secure a job or placement in some kind of vocational training.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:57 PM
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It really does suck but it's how the world works. True, and that's why I advocate for normalization of NEET lifestyle and UBI. Let the ugly loners have some semblance of happiness by stopping all the shame around "basement dweller gamer" stereotype. Why can't we just acknowledge that not every guy can have meaning in life through work, and many of those guys are not gonna win in the romantic sphere either? But no, society insists on shaming them and dogpiling on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:49 PM
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The kind of guy you're describing will still have some difficulty getting a meaningful relationship if he's unattractive/not conventionally attractive, but he can still do it. But you understand, that it can get incredibly depressing? The asymmetry is just mind boggling. An equivalent woman will have 0 trouble hooking up with guys out of her league. Even if she wants a relationship, the casual options are SOMETHING. The man has nothing to fall back on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:04 PM
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That wasn't the point. The point was, men aren't the assholes women paint them out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:01 PM
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open about her past In most cases, the initial phase is fun, and when she locks him down, it's game over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:57 PM
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At least you're honest about it. Sorry but this is all depressing. Depressing to know that some men can put in enormous amounts of effort, into their looks and career and hobbies and life and still be seen as backup options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:56 PM
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Lazy "it's all a wash" answer. 2 thumbs down and a third up your butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:24 PM
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Bottom 30% will have nothing, top 20% will have whoever they want, and middle 50% will get settled for. OOF.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:14 PM
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I play it by ear it's different for everyone Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:07 PM
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honestly I think it's men. Dead wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:49 AM
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So you date women now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:48 AM
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Something most women do not understand is a man feels different to make love to if she has been with one man or a thousand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:46 AM
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The college years are for getting weird with shit. Oh yes, the big 4 year party. This is why loan forgiveness should not be a thing. The tax payer shouldn't be paying for your 4 year sex and drug orgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:39 AM
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> babies "Won't somebody please think of the children?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:35 AM
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The girl who flashes her tits at a concert is even more likely to be exclusively fucking the stereotypical frat douche/chad. So it doesn't matter if men filter them out, those girls would not be interested in the average guy anyway. The bigger problem is when these women were sluts for chad and prudish for the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:33 AM
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And if you're not a supermodel yourself then its definitely worth thinking about if you're overlooking women who aren't models. Lol I can't believe we are still on this. It's women who exclusively want Chad. The average Bob is happy to fuck the average Becky.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:27 AM
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When you want to see the truth of how any large group/society works, ask the people at the bottom. They will tell you the unvarnished raw truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:24 AM
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he point is not that one is a widow and the other not, the point is that one has only bonded with a respectable man, and the other one is the left overs of some worthless piece of shit, crude but thats what it produces me. Exactly, her choices of who she fucked says a lot about her as a person and her attraction patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:20 AM
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so you didn't hook up with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:25 AM
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Forgot about him why
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:15 AM
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ALL of my female friends immediately block or ignore men who sexualize us immediately. That isn’t husband material or anyone I would be interested in whatsoever. Doesn't mean you never has casual sex. It's a rare guy who is trying to be husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:10 AM
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“I….have not been approached or asked out by a man in 8 months.” You commented about a man giving her his phone number at a coffee shop 43 days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:04 AM
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I'm not sure what you're saying You taking stupid pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:38 PM
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“I….have not been approached or asked out by a man in 8 months.” You commented about a man giving her his phone number at a coffee shop 43 days ago. You said she you sex with a male friend 32 days ago. You posted in amiugly 51 days ago with self confidence issues as well. ​ Now I can't take you seriously. Begone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:28 PM
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Exactly, that's why I kept my distance too. But I thought there must be some knucklehead who thinks it's not a joke. Maybe some version of the truth has finally filtered down to the average Joe. Unless you're Chad, don't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:25 PM
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To be fair to them, the assumption is every woman has been or currently is some Chad's bootycall. They shot their shot in that sense. Men who don't get much of a shot at casual sex will take it when they get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:45 PM
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I remember seeing a woman on public transit once, wearing a t shirt that said "ask me out". I just kept looking around the entire ride thinking SOME guy would approach her. NOT.ONE.GUY. I don't think anybody even noticed her t shirt. I was speechless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:24 PM
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You need to give a guy SOME signal that it's cool to approach. Contrary to popular belief, not all of us are gigachad alpha slayers. I would not bother approaching either, unless I was doing some kind of challenge to get rejected a 100 times or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:21 PM
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This a dating and sex based subreddit. If you want to discuss astrophysics, there are other places. Feel free to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:43 AM
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This classic experiment came to mind : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZTIbHIsIYw
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:41 AM
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Society equated men who don't have sex with low worth. Few exceptions have been mentioned below. We are social animals, and if society keeps telling you you are a loser, at some point, you will believe it. No man is an island.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:47 AM
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It's Lilith bro, even I made the mistake of responding. What else do you expect from her...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:47 PM
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> It’s really lust at first sight. If there's no lust, she can fuck right off. No self respecting man wants to be with a woman who wants him for "other reasons".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:46 PM
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Casual sex is...nothing. An unfulfilling pursuit of pleasure that feels good briefly. But you don't understand, women NEED to fuck chads indiscriminately and then cry about getting dumped for a few years before pretending to wise up and lock down some dude under false pretenses and make the rest of his life miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:44 PM
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I'll put a book down if the chapters are trash. I can reject people for the same reasons. Bingo bango bongo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:43 PM
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As long as people can be in different chapters at different ages? Just because the average woman hoed around in the 20s, doesn't mean the average guy did too. Maybe his opportunities came later and he will take advantage of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:41 PM
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Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:45 PM
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Feminist and highly left wing women also seem to gravitate towards exceptionally toxic guys. It's baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:45 PM
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Once she panicked and realized she can't lock down chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:09 PM
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Most people are dumb af. I have heard story after story of someone being told by their friends that the person they are seeing has a ton of red flags, but they don't listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:17 PM
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Become Chad or die trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:07 PM
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considering a small small minority of men have more wealth and political power than women everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:06 PM
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women that want a wealthy man but get upset hes a workaholic... Plenty of women want their partner to be ambitious on their terms. To work hard when she doesn't need him, but be immediately available when she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:13 PM
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If we actually like a guy, we don't want him to assume we're easy. even if you are easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:10 AM
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Men lie all the time to get women to sleep with them 🤷🏻‍♀️ so women lie to get men to commit 2 wrongs don't make a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:08 AM
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inexperienced Since women rack up experience way faster than men, that could make sense. A 30 year old woman with an n count of 50 would not be a great fit for a 30 year old guy with an n count of 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:34 PM
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That explains hot women being into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:28 PM
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I have had much hotter, much younger girls thirstily pursue me Are you really extroverted? drug dealer? Kind of asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:20 PM
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Since his teeth are yellow, he has an unkept beard with food in it, and illfitted clothes. WTF kind of men are you around? Even in nerdy engineering departments, I don't see men like that. In fact most guys I knew worked out, wore nice clothes, and were extremely social.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:14 PM
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I saw a women living in a scandinavian country post her tinder data on dataisbeautiful. She was average looking, and she was EXTREMELY picky on tinder. Swiped right on maybe 1% of men. She is already in an area with a higher proportion of tall white chads, and she was extremely selective. Plenty of people in the subreddit noticed it. She was a good example of what OP pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:12 PM
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Ah this was the reality check I needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:07 PM
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random dude Hot dudes, not random dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:06 PM
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There are SOME women definitely like that. It just seems you haven't been around those.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:05 PM
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> but it's really that this woman was one of those Chad simps (and there are many) and the man falsely ascribes her behavior to all women's innate nature. God I hope you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:51 PM
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No professor, please explain /sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:37 PM
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the prerequisites to being thought of as masculine tend to be a zero sum game with no reward. Your status is raised by stepping on other men, so the pinnacle of success is just being the biggest piece of shit in the world. This is what women don't want to accept, because it makes them complicit in the game due to their attraction to the winner (the biggest piece of shit).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:04 PM
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Nope, still never seen it and completely does not line up with my experiences "I haven't seen it, so it doesn't happen. It doesn't matter that you have seen it, your experiences are invalid." What you sound like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:02 PM
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If a woman was that into you, she would act more excited. Proof that most women are not really attracted to the men they are dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:33 AM
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Research says bullies and assholes have a great time in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:26 PM
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Even if she's the bottom bitch and he has a harem which she helps him manage?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:24 PM
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Bad sex is for the majority of women a universal experience. It's common for men too. Plenty of women starfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:50 PM
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model He said he was 3/4 facewise. Long ways off from being a model. It's a legitimate concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:48 PM
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If it works in the workplace, it works in dating too. People are people, wherever they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:41 PM
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Why, why, why do you guys think that women specifically WANT a promiscuous man or admire that behavior? Observation. ​ I know some guys who will tell women about all the sexcapades (real or made up) on even the first date. A ton of women find it a great topic and want to engage the guy more. ​ Sure there are some that don't care, but no woman I know is actively disgusted by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:39 PM
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Do they find taller woman attractive thou ? Yes. Speaking as a short guy. Women filter me out on height, I don't filter them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:06 AM
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This is a woe is me post. If a man posted asking how to get around his short height, would you really be this charitable??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:04 AM
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Why aren't you a criminal, if their lives are so great? Because achieving things in life requires discipline and a long term outlook. As much as we desperately want casual sex, becoming a criminal would require us to abandon all long term pursuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:01 AM
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This thought has crossed the minds of a lot of people close to me too, and considering what see happening in marriages, can't say we disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:02 PM
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What are you advocating for? Men to avoid marriage because it personally offends you? He made his claim in the title. Are you illiterate, stupid or blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:01 PM
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You have no idea why people get married, why they divorce, and anything in between. That's why he cited the papers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:59 PM
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Women are attracted to abusive men in general. There was a movie released here in which the lead male actor is an abusive alcoholic asshole who slaps his gf around. It was a big success, made tons of money and there are videos of women saying they would love to marry a guy like that. Edit : there was also a case of a woman who got together with this complete asshole and alienated everyone who told her this was a bad idea. He would burn her with his cigarettes and beat her up. He threatened to ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:46 PM
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Sure I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:28 PM
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Men get attacked for just existing too. Anyone who is a bit of loner and doesn't get laid is automatically a creep and an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:32 PM
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none of them take him as a serious partner. But some of them WILL fuck him casually?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:32 AM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:23 AM
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At the frat party fucking a fratbro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:21 AM
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There's nothing that sticks out as abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:59 AM
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You have a link to that? She does give off the vibe that she's hoed around a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:47 AM
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Lack of communities for men to engage openly and sincerely with one another. You think billionaires are stopping men from doing that? Men would rather self destruct that do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:31 AM
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You're taking the side of the bloody sociopath. So is she.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:33 PM
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Blip on the radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:32 PM
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Oh I thought "women are independent, and would prefer to be alone than in a bad relationship" Now suddenly it's oh so hard to leave a bad partner. So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:30 PM
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Not all men want to can be alpha dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:22 PM
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nothing will change Nothing will change, I assure you. Women will ALWAYS hold all the cards and most men will continue being simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:08 PM
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man #2 approached with serious intent Common mistake among men who are not natural alpha dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:05 PM
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Because they are not as attracted to man #2, and they have ulterior motives when dating him. Women play games with the bf material guy, not with the hot casual sex guy. Then these women gaslight us into thinking they care more about the bf guy. Yeah right. Also, the man #1 probably has a lot of options. If she plays games, he will simply next her to move onto someone who IS willing to fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:39 AM
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We live in a hyper sexualized society. Sexual images are everywhere This is something nobody wants to talk about. Every sitcom is full of sexual innuendos, all the advertising is sexual, casual sex and hookups are there in every type of media...... I found some series where sex was almost nonexistent as a plot point and I was surprised at feeling a lot more chill watching it. I am sure someone will call me a prude for saying this, but I'm serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:14 AM
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Noah was toxic af. "Date me or I'll kill myself" dafuq?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:51 PM
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"Well they're not really attracted to them of course, I know this for sure." Attracted for "other reasons". Attracted to his "stability" yeah sure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:03 PM
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I have never seen anyone who talks like an incel or like some extreme twitter feminist in real life. Because that shit is best kept for REALLY close friends. Nobody wants to broadcast these views and be ostracized from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:52 AM
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There is a difference between a partner and a friend, or I'd be able to marry my male best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:49 AM
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Women always say this after having spent their 20s being ran through by whole bunch of Chads and Alpha fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:49 AM
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Yep, I have a friend who is deeply insecure but had a bunch of casual sex because he knew how to fake it, and he used preselection to great effect. Just come across as someone who has been with a lot of women, and more women will be swooning over you. It's like women have 0 capability to make a decision for themselves and can only be ok with a partner if other women have been with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:28 PM
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So you are going to pretend like men have never asked you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:16 AM
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Because that is abnormal thinking. Good job ignoring the heaps of scientific literature on how childhood bullying can completely fuck up people well into adulthood, and a gold star for you for using the tired old line "get over it". It's not like I have ever heard THAT as a man /sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:05 PM
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Yeah I have noticed lovebombing works well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:11 AM
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“grow the desire to kiss me” This is exactly what women tell ugly men to placate them. "I grew to love you" blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:05 AM
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where women use PETE DAVIDSON as an example of a "Kind, stable, emotionally mature" man. oof
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:02 AM
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Except women are the ones who keep harping on about how "personality matters more".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:59 PM
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how women won’t acknowledge them unless they act toxic There was an experiment where men tried different types of openers on thousands of women on tinder. The one with max results was a negging opener.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:58 PM
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Men are more likely to get involved in violence because they're violent. The male version of "she was asking for it" victim blaming ​ And when men do get involved in violence, they're typically able to hold their own Says someone married to a criminal, sampling bias much?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:25 PM
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And women did NOT love Luke, even though he took huge risks to save the galaxy, going up against 2 sith etc. That contrast tells women don't just want a risk taker, they want an actual cocky asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:37 PM
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Good, date cops then. Oh btw, they have one of the highest rates of domestic abuse lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:29 PM
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Jessie from Breaking Bad A complete and utter moron. Also, heart of gold my ass, he went into a group of recovering drug addicts to sell them drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:21 PM
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Tall attractive men are automatically considered "leadership material".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:11 PM
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High school never ends. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:49 PM
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My point was that they might be in relationships, but they don't have the fire and passion that toxic men seem to inspire in women. And you are a bit of an anomaly. Aren't you on the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:11 AM
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I wish I could show you all the men I know who did follow the same path as you and did get into a decent relationship With all due respect, I have never seen women lust over a decent guy. I remember one friend from grad school who sticks out as an example. Funniest dude I ever met, in great shape (he was into swimming), had all his hair, average height, outgoing etc. Now works for a FAANG. Didn't have much success. Women just seemed bored with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:48 AM
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Then we saw guys who were more traditionally masculine, those who were more aggressive, more forward, "stronger", those who didn't show a variety of emotions, they got girls The first guy I saw get a gf in high school was a complete bully. He stole people's lunches, was constantly in trouble with the teachers, would stick a phone under women's skirts (when they were distracted) to take pics and would show everyone. Later on I noticed a trend. Tall guys all seemed to have gfs. Short guys didn't. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:44 AM
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massive body builder guy What women think is a "toned body" is also a lot of work and sometimes, men use gear to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:36 AM
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And then I saw with my own two eyes men saying things that I thought for sure would get them slapped, thrown water on, maybe even arrested, and the women were actually being receptive and smiling behaving the same way with them. It's only creepy if an ugly dude says it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:33 AM
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Plenty of women also see sex as something they "give" to the guy in return for good behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:30 PM
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a woman tinder who slept with 37 men The definition of stupidity, doing the same thing and expecting different results.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:30 PM
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Women : "Her past isn't your business" Also women : "2. Yes, absolutely"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:34 AM
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What a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:18 PM
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100%. Get your no and move on, instead of wondering "what if".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:04 PM
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This is what I tell everytime a girl wants a gym bro. They look hot, but they're not available, takes too much time, dedication and discipline to get there, they're boring. At least she wants to bang him. No woman is looking at her average husband and wanting to fuck his brain out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:02 PM
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I wanted to fuck his brains out And you were waiting for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:01 PM
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There are few MGTOWs. Mostly MSTOWs, men sent their own way. This is why I respect blackpillers more. They are honest about their low station in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:00 PM
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Is this a novel you are writing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:52 AM
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It doesn't matter what the location is, just follow the 2 main rules and you can get dates and plates anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:50 AM
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https://twitter.com/heightismxposed I'll just leave this here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:54 PM
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Someone hasn't seen those long twitter threads of angelic women telling short men to kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:52 PM
5

True sigmas set that song as their wake up alarm sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:51 PM
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Why get married at all? The prenup protects you from the harmful effects of marriage. Get rid of the root cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:15 PM
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>raping and murdering women and little girls. Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:14 PM
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You all don’t listen. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:09 PM
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And these assholes will later say "relationship sex is better", "sex is just a small part of life". Clown world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:08 PM
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Ah gotcha, so sex IS transactional. Man does shit for woman, and she "gives" his sex in return. Thanks for clearing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:02 PM
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I care about having a structure to share/separate assets and liabilities if someone chooses to leave. Aka I want to make sure I can get my hands on my partner's assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:00 PM
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So he can be an emotional tampon while Average Amy is a bootycall for Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:58 PM
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Average Amy can fuck Chad anytime. Average Adam can't fuck Stacy ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:58 PM
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on camera The only difference between sex work and other types of work. But ofc, in your mind men are treated as kings everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:57 PM
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Any guy who expresses any frustration with dating, gets labeled immediately as a boring-entitled-neckbeard-creep. Everyone reduces everyone else to something as long as it serves the narrative in their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:55 PM
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I think a large percentage of MTF transition, like impersonating women online, is sexually motivated. I disagree. I think they are simply more feminine and since the bounds of acceptable behavior and personality are so narrow for men, they feel suffocated and lonely, and feel like outcasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:19 PM
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"Relationship colleagues"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:05 PM
1

Good practice for banter and passing shit tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:43 PM
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Casually calling everyone a pedo I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:34 PM
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One can enjoy rollercoasters at any age bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:30 PM
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Some are trolling, but when 1 gender gets empathy and kindness from purely existing, you can see why they do it. MtF far outnumber FtM.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:27 PM
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Most women have never seen a guy be truly vulnerable. To be fair, men haven't either, but they know what it's like from personal experience. There's a tik tok video going around of men admitting that they don't call anyone in their lowest moment. They're men, nobody gives a fuck. You can refuse to believe it, but that's our reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:02 PM
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this fake put on of "I'm just giving random strangers I have no idea about aside from random snippets of text tough love because it's helpful" is just so gross and transparent as a roundabout way to suck yourself off Rekt him/her. Good response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:33 PM
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Hello me, meet the real me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:30 PM
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A lot of people in south asia pay lip service to religion, but aren't deeply religious. Middle east might be similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:09 PM
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Real life women actually tend to avoid the "hot CEOs" Press X to doubt. Only the ones that have been burned by such a guy before would actively avoid him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:56 PM
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Do men want to wife up the women they see in porn? But they do hope they have kinky sex with their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:55 PM
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This doesn't contradict the OP, it just explains the reasons behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:54 PM
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South Asia and Middle East.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:53 PM
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in 2021 320millions of people used dating apps And in 2022, another 320 mn and in 2023 another 320 mn. People don't stay on dating apps forever. What were you expecting, 40% of 8 billion?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:43 AM
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said Don't listen to what she ways, watch what she does. She wouldn't sleep around so much if she got attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:48 AM
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will likely die alone They will find someone who doesn't fit those preferences and take it out on their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:46 AM
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are scared of how they perform Gee I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:45 AM
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> Not to mention most female virgins at or past the age of consent are either not as attractive or ultra-religious lol This is true in a western context. There's conservative cultures still.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:44 AM
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That's where the gender differences come in. A man not actively chasing women is the same as a woman actively avoiding casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:43 AM
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I prefer supreme pizza but if pepperoni pizza shows up and supreme isn't an option, I'll happily eat pepperoni. In a world where 40% people meet online, and height is a filter not just a preference, it matters a great deal. The height most included in women's filters was 6'6". Unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:42 AM
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"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve my best" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:27 AM
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Men who are like this naturally, seem to have an easy time dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:38 AM
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I have known many guys who spout off redpill shit, but then sometimes will admit in their low moments that they want to get married and they are lonely etc etc. OTOH, I also know 2 dudes who really are redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:36 AM
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weird faux wholesome dude who never wants to be without her and won't shut up about her on all social media platforms. Seems there's a trend of these types of guys being exposed in Hollywood as cheaters. Ryan Reynolds gives off this vibe so much, I don't think he's genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:33 AM
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couple of months Makes sense considering your tagline. This is just promoting simp behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:49 PM
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Define dad bod. I bet it's someone who has a whole lot of muscle underneath a bit of fat, not an actual dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:57 PM
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Lol typical non-response from a woman. "You'll never get laid". The last response of a woman who has lost the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:06 PM
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That wasn't my point, and it's telling you jumped straight to personal insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:19 PM
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I've seen more than a couple average joes level themselves up to the point where they couldn't keep the ladies away. Get jacked and extroverted?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:07 AM
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The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:01 AM
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Most women don't have a triple digit n count, but they definitely hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:59 AM
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That most of the guys who complain about it on here would absolutely date a single mother with a high body count if you liked her enough and she was attractive enough Yep they will, as long as she keeps her mouth shut about her past and they don't run into any exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:58 AM
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parents still have a crazy sex life You got a cam in their bedroom or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:56 AM
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Link or channel name?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:49 AM
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So you have casual sex with assholes got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:47 AM
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You don't need to rationalize. Just be happy your partners are more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:21 PM
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I have seen a guy walk into a chain store and try and talk to the manager there. The manager said "Yeah I'm sorry but it's all centralized now, you will have to apply online." I have been to career fairs where I was told to apply online, even for small companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:49 PM
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I did not select on the basis of looks though. But it just so happened....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:03 PM
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Star wars too. Women wanted Han Solo the temperamental bad boy, not Luke Skywalker, the genuinely good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:25 PM
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You’re just mad that you let the truth slip +1 they let the mask slip from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:57 PM
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Every girl has already dated their version of the romance novel trope, and it always ends terribly. Clown world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:53 PM
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You're selectively picking examples Ok then, give examples of stories where women chase good guys. Guys can't be way richer than her or way more good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:26 PM
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The underlying theme is still "guy majorly out of woman's league in some specific way or a bad boy".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:25 PM
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most convos are low-quality. I have noticed that women who say this, generally do not have any conversation skills themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:27 AM
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Next day the guy could take her out. Time delay in whoring doesn't change the fact that you are meeting men there. Just because you didn't go home that night doesn't mean that the venue wasn't THE catalyst that made a hookup happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:01 PM
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She's gonna jump ship soon, by the looks of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:27 PM
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There weren’t any woman only clubs when I was young/over a decade ago where I live. There still aren't. Ya'll are lying your assess off. Most women go to clubs to have fun yes, but also free drinks from men and the attention, and the off chance of hooking up with some Chad. The only reason clubs exist is because men buy women drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:25 PM
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He's extremely talkative and can spin up bullshit quite easily. But I know him well, it's all a performance. Beneath those webs of bullshit, there's nothing. But he sure attracted a lot of women. And the social proof led to more women being into him just because. I envied his single life. Def not his married life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:19 PM
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I have many in my inbox all the time. Lol, it's always funny when women inadvertently reveal their privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:15 PM
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If this were true, women only dance clubs would be a big thing. They would automatically attract clientele since there would be fewer safety concerns etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:12 PM
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If this were true, women only dance clubs would be a big thing. They would automatically attract clientele since there would be fewer safety concerns etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:11 PM
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boring, average and milquetoast dude. Funny how women just assume they are interesting and not milquetoast.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:47 AM
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So you did hook up with Chad types a few times right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:41 AM
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I wouldn’t become obsessed: I would leave Lol you all say that and yet the hot douchebag has women lining up for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:45 PM
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every weekend How many weekends then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:41 PM
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Well lucky for you, The Rock is a complete outlier. Unless you visit a bodybuilding show or a hardcore gym or something, you will never meet anyone with that physique. Which is why that example is disingenuous. What women call "toned" also takes years of careful workout to get. Look at the types of bodies men had before anabolic steroids were invented.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:31 PM
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A friend of mine who had a bunch of casual sex (and who I thought of as a player) is now married to someone who doesn't care much for him. He has shared his frustrations with me. RP would tell us that all these players have nothing but options and get dutiful amazing wives. I guess not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:26 PM
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You'll be fine unless you go for just any dude to get it over with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:24 PM
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manipulating, controlling, and demeaning women They just use women's tactics against them. That seems to get under their skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:40 PM
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There's plenty of other examples in modern media, like Friends or HIMYM where the trope is the "nice guy" waits in the wings for the pretty girl until she finally falls for him. It's a stupid idea and I wish it would die. If she's not into you, move on fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:38 PM
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stuck having sex with someone they're not attracted to for life. hence the deadbedrooms and once a year blowjob. Duty sex, missionary etc. Uninhibited sex with chads etc, almost nothing with mr husband. I have seen these stories play out bro. Don't tell me you haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:52 PM
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Women have lower sex drive and if they are horny, can get some anytime they want. So they can afford to marry for "other reasons". Huge privilege, and I have seen women have this logic while marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:00 PM
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Drunk or not, she ain't fuckin some ugly dude casually. If anything, being drunk brings out her real instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:58 PM
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There's very little risk of us getting stuck married to someone we don't find hot. But a huge risk of being stuck in a marriage where she doesn't find us hot. End result is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:19 PM
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Are women OK with their man venting? No? Yeah that's what I thought. Get a therapist. Partners are useless for this kinda thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:05 AM
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ONSs are great if the novelty is important, which is for many men. For me it's more about enthusiasm. If she's really feeling it and is freaky, great. LTR or ONS or FWB or whatever, doesn't matter. I'd go for an enthusiastic 5 anyday. Which is what baffles me about women. Why not select for enthusiasm and willingness to please, than just going for the 10/10 model looking dude? And then complain "all men are trash" because some guy way out of your league pumped and dumped you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:12 PM
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I don't think a lot of women find their casual partners better than their husbands. I made no statements about better as a whole. I was talking about sexuality. If women have better sex with their husbands/serious bfs, then casual sex would not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:33 PM
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Divorce is still better than being married to someone who only married you as a last resort or sees you as sexually beneath her. Since most women have casually fucked a good looking dude, their husband will never match up to him. Average women can fuck Chad casually anytime they want, average men can almost never fuck Stacy casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:07 PM
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Women fuck redpilled guys casually and use blue pilled guys for the security of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:02 PM
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Women are anal retentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:47 AM
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No woman wants to sleep with someone who needs her to pick up/cook/clean after him They absolutely want to, if the guy is hot enough or makes enough money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:45 AM
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Except men as a group bring this on themselves. A friend used to throw parties, bunch of men and women used to be there. Then one day someone suggested we have a boys night out. Only a few of us showed up. I know plenty of thirsty ass simps who will ONLY go to a party if there's women there. Seems like men don't want to keep up any friendships or networks. These same idiots then complain about not having a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:05 AM
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They already left women out of it. It's funny that you are so triggered a bunch of kids doing nothing. Maybe attitudes like yours are the reason they avoid dating and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:32 PM
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Maybe these kids already feel the dating game is rigged against them. So why bother. Chad can go fuck a 100 women, good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:33 PM
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>He made it sound like the whole ordeal of dating and relationships was bothersome making not worth his time. The other two were the same, would rather play video games or anything else but chase girls. I find it hard to believe but if it is true, then they are based af.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:31 PM
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I learned that many women are genuinely unaware of the social privileges that they enjoy I know women who look at their male friends' dating apps and cannot fathom them not getting matches. It just seems to blow their minds. It gets even better when you let them use the app to talk to other women. Takes them just a few interactions to start hating being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:24 PM
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Their husbands are probably betas who don't know how to keep feeding these beasts with eternal hunger for drama and conflict. This might explain the absolute explosion of dating reality shows and murder porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:21 PM
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if she fucks you casually, it means you’re a Chad Most of the times yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:20 PM
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> If they say stupid shit > LilithOfBabylon ​ Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:18 PM
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Lol idk. Keep an honest accounting and we'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:58 AM
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Yeah it's a good idea. Being in each other's faces 24x7 is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:49 AM
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‘bad boy’ Who generally happens to be good looking. Ugly bad boys can get some, but their asshole game needs to be strong. Looks > Everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:33 AM
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Dude a man paying for a dinner date is not a simp. If he pays every time, he's a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:28 AM
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Spending money to get sex is called engaging an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:26 AM
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I'm basing it on the multitudes of men who say that opening up to their wives was a huge mistake, and that their marriage suffered after it. Women can't handle male vulnerability. Just look at all the "feminists" making fun of Jordan Peterson when he cried thinking about the hopelessness he saw in some men. These dudes cover it : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=abQo5wWkMxs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:21 PM
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Women won't change, attraction is not negotiable. This incentivizes toxic behavior from men. So the cycle continues. Therapy can be expensive unless you are on a decent health insurance plan. I don't see a solution. A good % of men will go on living lives of quiet desperation, esp the ones who aren't alpha dog types. Which is why I keep saying that the only quasi solution is to make the NEET life acceptable. These men are not gonna win, the least we can do is stop mocking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:07 PM
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I've had a good male therapist. But yeah you have some really shit ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:17 PM
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I have started to see anime obsessed people the same as sports obsessed dudes. Different interests but same idiotic fanboyism and closemindedness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:19 PM
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I have had mostly awful experiences with people who are into anime. It's a common trope now that gamers with anime profiles are all hacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:13 PM
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Just a roundabout way of saying you equate expensive things with love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:10 PM
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We have no option. Show any vulnerability as a guy and you WILL get mocked and humiliated. By men AND women. Men can only open up to a licensed therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:53 PM
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If you think that she's using you by talking to you about her problems, you don't see her as a friend Will she help me fix my car? Help me move? Listen to my problems? More than likely, she won't. Women don't even do that stuff for their actual boyfriends sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:45 AM
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Narcissistic men get laid more than normies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:44 AM
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They keep talking about how unhappy women are if they are single. It's a revenge fantasy. Women mostly have an army of simps at their disposal. Men are desperate af.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:26 AM
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forgiving attractive 10/10 women anything? Full of it. Yes? A lot of men are like that. The difference is, men will totally fall for average girls too. And I mean be really into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:22 AM
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Especially divorce. Been there, done that. Why am I not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:09 AM
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Actually you're right, in some cases I have seen women absolutely head over heels for thuggish assholes who think abusing everyone is fun. The types of guys who the rest of us men see and want to avoid because we know his involvement only means drama and trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:06 AM
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I think 20% of young men are NEETs. It’s similar in Sweden although not as extreme. This could be a whole post on here. This would prove feminism is not about equality, it's about revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:02 AM
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Women are capable of loving high status guys and Chads, yes. That's about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:39 PM
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Women fail to understand how much it hurts to be a man who had no options when he was in his 20's and somehow he is more desirable in his 30's They refuse to understand, because accepting that is contrary to their interests. Can't blame them for looking out for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:38 PM
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For men it’s 1.0 and for women it’s 1.4 I think Wow that's a massive difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:37 PM
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Women are all beautiful QWEENS!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:36 PM
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capacity for trauma Capacity to be traumatised or capacity to handle trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:35 PM
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tried to get casual sex Most guys I know don't try to actively get casual sex. You'd surprised at the small % of men who actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:02 AM
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Plenty of short kings out there who get treated like shit (by men and women) just because.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:57 AM
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You need a bigger showerhead and sharper shears.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:56 AM
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Did you try taking 100 haircuts and 500 showers a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:21 PM
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Yes ofc, I mean, look at that balding 5'2'' janitor. He sleeps with supermodels everyday, what's stopping these incels ​ /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:20 PM
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Women are all perfect queens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:06 PM
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I'm sure criminal con artists never covet anything lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:04 PM
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No person is an island. We all adjust things about ourselves based on feedback from society and people around us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:20 PM
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he literally god fired over this Probably because of the PR problem, not the cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:16 PM
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constantly bragging about his wife is actually a red flag...like he's feeling guilty and trying to remind himself of that. Ryan Reynolds also gives off this vibe to me. The more they try hard to come across as perfect family men, then more I suspect their motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:34 PM
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Celebrity marriages are basically PR exercises. All the dudes have other partners or are seeing escorts on the down low (see: kevin hart). Their marriages are arrangements. Their wives know the score for the most part. The cheating isn't the big issue for them, the public humiliation is. Adults who think of any celebrity marriage as #relationship goals should grow up. Their world is nothing like yours, and those people play by a different set of rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:31 PM
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> Most women that I know have a strong aversion/disgust to homosexual behavior or past actions in their romantic partners. ​ The past is the past, and you are allowed to experiment. ​ Unless you're a man of course, then you get judged for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:36 AM
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Just cuz he got lucky doesn't mean most guys do. I firmly believe that the best relationships start with that type of basic, animal attraction. Just to be clear, it's a necessary condition, not a sufficient one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:08 PM
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We brag about the ones that plan romantic dates, surprise us with little gifts, send flowers. And men brag about being your dirty little secret, the guy you fuck at 2am when you're horny. THAT guy is the one you are really attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:45 PM
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People don't fantasize about things they perceive as being easily attainable in the real world Exactly thanks. This is why men don't fantasize about romance, because 95% of the work in romance is done by men. It's easily available.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:51 PM
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The original mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:35 AM
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In the age of social media, you are being compared with every other successful dude on the planet. Women have constant exposure to celebs, athletes, billionaires, artists. So even though those guys are 1 in a 100,000, to women it seems common.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:34 AM
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senior vice president at D.E. Shaw & Company Everybody in finance has an inflated title. My friend's wife is a "Director". That just means she has 4-5 people reporting to her. She isn't an exec, not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:31 AM
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Nothing, women just like stirring shit up because it pisses them off that some 50 year old celebrity is fucking a 20 year old model. Either these women need to work to increase the age of adulthood, or stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:13 PM
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Has anyone forced you to date a teenager? No? Then what other consenting adults do is not your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:11 PM
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If people have a problem with age gap shit, then work to increase the age of adulthood. Otherwise an 18 year old can date a 50 year old. It's not your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:10 PM
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guarantee a 100% success rate Moved the goalposts to another dimension, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:23 PM
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Maybe if there were as close and vigorously studied link (not correlation), people would take these “predictors” more seriously. https://opentext.wsu.edu/social-psychology/chapter/module-12-attraction/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:22 PM
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Yes actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:31 PM
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> I have been rated a 5-6/10 and do not get many matches on dating apps From who? If you are only swiping on 10s then yes, it would be a bit tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:12 PM
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Because people ignore those predictors and do whatever they want or what's convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:24 PM
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You're the one using the word "sordid" to describe your sex life with your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:23 PM
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Attraction and a good relationship rarely follow a formula or can be predicted by scientific studies. Wrong. There are clear predictors. Love is not some great mystery from the beyond.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:28 PM
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I don’t even want to know what Twitter is like but I heard its x10 worse. Literally women screaming that all short men should be killed. There have been long twitter threads about it. But hey abusing men is all cool. I am sure shitting on short men today will undo all the injustices their grandmothers had to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:26 PM
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The fact that it took this subreddit for these women to realize that their bf would like to feel loved and appreciated. smh. Solipsism at it's finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:25 PM
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> we're ridiculously great for each other, work well as a team, and always are each other's biggest supporter and best friend. Lol sounds like a platonic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:19 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/56dJoqz.jpg Someone like Taissa Farmiga? She can easily sleep with an 8 casually. 8 being one of these : https://i.imgur.com/IP2LiZ6.png ​ A 5 guy in that rating scale will never be able to sleep with an 8 woman, unless he's a celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:42 PM
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I never said ugly, I said average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:01 PM
1

>celebrity/actor/model You have never heard of groupies?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:11 PM
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Average women can have sex with super attractive guys any time they want. Average men cannot have sex with super attractive women any time they want. You can rage at men, belittle them, scream at them, but this asymmetry is always going to bother us. If only I got a penny every time men got called insecure for this......
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:18 AM
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females objectify gay men As a gay best friend or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:22 PM
0

Those dudes are probably chads at 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:22 PM
2

It's a financial contract. That's the only enforceable part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:21 PM
2

Then they’re back in your life like nothing happened. That's when you shouldn't pick up their calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:17 AM
2

It's not like it's an enforceable contract. It is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:02 AM
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You won't believe me, but one of the biggest players I knew also went to see escorts. Nobody shamed anyone for it. Some were afraid of hiring an escort, but never any shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:34 PM
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And men who pay for sex are also losers. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:21 PM
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They sexualize a small small % of men. So it's not something that affects enough people to be a big thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:11 PM
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He probably wanted fame like Metallica's. Known for being amazing in their genre. Not for being good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:09 PM
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Rich guys know what it's like. You suspect every woman's motives in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:58 PM
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100 women to one guy. Yeah right, and I have a bridge to sell you. Any activity that has a lot of women, and is open to all, will inevitably attract a lot of men too. There are no cheatcodes to this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:56 PM
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it isn’t just societal shaming and pressure. It's a massive part.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:01 PM
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Men will continue being frustrated as long as "virgin" is an insult. Stop shaming men for checking out of society and becoming NEETs and then we'll talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:30 PM
1

So your partner is your property?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:28 PM
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If you need that external validation, it says more about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:40 PM
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If men don't get a choice, maybe it's a good idea women don't either. EDIT : People like you convince me to vote for making all abortion illegal. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:55 PM
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Let's start sacrificing the prettiest 20 year olds. Keeps the ego in check for the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:52 PM
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Dates fuckboys, *pikachu face when it backfires.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:51 PM
1

Pass the shit tests, don't give her too much attention. Bring her ego down a notch or 2, you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:49 PM
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Women are soft eugenicists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:46 PM
1

that's proven to be false. in casual sex? no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:45 PM
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So you are pro life then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:44 PM
4

It seems like every society needs a set of people to abuse and look down on, so others can feel better. Then one of them snaps and becomes violent, and society goes "how could he do this".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:37 PM
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No I’ll just retain my choice over it Well, if you're in the US, we'll see about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:36 PM
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Tell that to the women going around hooking up left and right with the same small set of dudes. It's between those people, most men aren't involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:32 PM
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what women have to go through Take it up with mother nature, don't make it our problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:31 PM
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As long as she gives him daily blowjobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:29 PM
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His choice doesn't lead to a child, just a fetus. That clump of cells can be easily rid of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:28 PM
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If she decides to keep it knowing he's not interested, that's on her. Can't force someone into being a good father.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:28 PM
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Like it or not, nobody can be forced into being a good parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:27 PM
3

Then why lie about your n count to potential partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:24 PM
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No, some of us know that women will always have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:23 PM
2

Yes there have been reddit threads on this very issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:22 PM
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Inb4 "I am a 500 year old woman/corpse and chads still hit on me everyday. Also chad is a figment of your incel mind."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:16 PM
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There were entire twitter threads of women saying short men should be killed, they are not even men etc. Women advocate for genocide on twitter and nobody bats an eye. Man says something slightly aggressive, entire world loses it's mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:14 PM
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Only interested in me when he doesn't have a gf. So I just yeah sure and ignored his messages afterward. Exactly. I also had a married friend reach out after a long time, only because he had a business idea and wanted help. Ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:08 PM
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There are no benefits to men in marriage. It only incentivizes bad behavior. It's a contract that's hard to get out of, and any one party can start behaving like crap because of the security of it. It should be a religious ceremony for people who want the social proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:07 PM
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That doesn't answer anything. So what if there are great men? What does the wife status have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:21 AM
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Because it's a legal paper. It's a contract. If you love someone, you don't force them to sign a contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:20 AM
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Men are loved for what they provide. The day that stops, it's all over. Only women and children are truly loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:55 AM
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Cuban was in a frat. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Cuban
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:30 PM
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adults don't really want to have friends They don't, unless you are good looking or some kind of party animal, or involved in the drugs scene. Married people cut off their friends asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:07 PM
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100% better. The biggest most abusive assholes I have known all have gfs and multiple options in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:36 AM
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It's called meeting people through friends etc. We can thank social media and online dating for destroying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:34 AM
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There is no solution. Some people are just fucked in all ways except the one good way. The only quasi solution is to stop shaming men for living the NEET/gaming + porn life. They already got dealt a bad hand, just let them be. Piling on shame and abuse is only going to lead to bitterness and anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:32 AM
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Mark Cuban for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:27 AM
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Someone on PPD only talked about this 45 year old guy who is really good looking and some women, even beautiful women, are more or less chasing him for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:16 AM
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Fitness can make a huge difference You are wrong. There was this guy who got shredded to prove face matters. He got lean muscled like brad pitt in fight club, and posted some photos in the same angles and lighting. Pitt looked better. Way better. They weren't in the same league, even though they had the same body fat %.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:10 AM
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I've also never seen a guy so good-looking I'd fuck him on a whim "I have never done it so it never happens"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:03 AM
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Tech seems to give more opportunities to nerds. Other types of billionaires are more likely to be ex-college athlete frat bro types.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:53 AM
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Lol. It's a surefire way to chase off women. Even your partner of 5 years will gag the moment you open up about your insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:10 AM
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From what I have seen, too many parents do incalculable damage to their kids with garbage parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:05 AM
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most winners are born winners and most losers are born losers This is the cruel truth that I noticed too. Of course, there are some exceptions who have a bad start then overcome everything. But not that many. The dude in college we all knew as a bit of a Chad is now worth 8 figures. He was always a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:03 AM
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They don’t want high n count men Which low n count women EXPLICITLY want a low n count man? There's maybe 1 or 2 women on PPD who have said this. Never heard it from women otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:42 PM
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I'd bet anything they have never had a casual hookup, and many probably never even had a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:14 PM
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I'm sorry we are not all Ralph Lauren models.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:13 PM
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If they are good looking sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:00 PM
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feigned decency yup
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:09 PM
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figure your shit out and move on. You can scream that from the top of the mountains and it won't change anything. If it was that simple, people would have done it, and therapy wouldn't exist. Also, some people have deep issues. I know someone who suffers from paranoid schizophrenia. "Figure your shit out" lol. PS: Stoicism sounds suspiciously like "Serenity now, insanity later" from Seinfeld.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:48 PM
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> They cannot find women to be on the app. Because outwardly, women want to pretend that they want egalitarianism, and also, the men on that app might just be physically unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:25 PM
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I see everyone coming around to some version of the blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:01 AM
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a significant minority of women who are even having casual sex. At any particular point of time, yes. But wasn't there a statistic that the vast majority of women have casual sex from time to time, or at least have a phase? What % of women younger than 40 can we say have at most only tried casual sex and then never did it again?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:12 PM
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I absolutely wasn’t doing that You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:02 AM
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So sex is a reward? Thanks for clearing that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:57 AM
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if he just gained weight alone but everything else was good it wouldn't bother me. But you made a point of mentioning his weight, so it clearly did bother you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:49 AM
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he stopped focusing on ways to please her in bed after they got married. Or maybe she feels tired and taken advantage of because she’s doing most of the tasks at home while also working and he’s not contributing enough. It's always his fault right? The woman is ALWAYS an angel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:44 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:43 AM
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If communication and trying set up a date is difficult, thats when you know shes not into it. This has been 100% correct in my experience. Delete her number as soon as she makes a simple date a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:51 PM
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Any discussion of race will get you in trouble in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:46 PM
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know plenty of females who will date a less attractive tall guy over a great looking short guy If the guy is 5'6'' or below, he'd need a chad face. Ofc, this excludes all the 5'2'' janitors of certain ethnicities who are dating victoria's secret supermodels. Those guys are a different breed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:45 PM
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he wants sub 25 year olds Under 25 supermodels are with him. Even if it's just for clout, you don't think a huge number of average <25 yr olds will absolutely drop everything to date him? Be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:21 PM
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That courting does not resemble today's approaching in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:05 AM
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The only Baye's rule women care about is what Beyonce said this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:03 AM
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She will see that he spends money somewhere, hard to keep that a secret. The reason why they get so grabby of their partners' money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:51 AM
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you still had to initiate contact That was done using parents and matchmakers. While that system was crap for many reasons, this was not one of those reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:43 AM
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You love musician while they are up there un the stage, but you're not intrested in the dude while he's practicing 5 hours a week at home alone... Awesome comment. +1 especially for this. Women are such clout chasers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:58 AM
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Wanting me for my money or to get citizenship in a western country, or because they feel pressure to get married and see me as an easy option.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:55 AM
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Well yeah, if you don’t put in effort and initiative you won’t get laid. Typical woman comment. You have no idea how hard it is to constantly approach and get shot down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:38 AM
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I don't see what an LTR adds to my life. I don't want kids, and most married people my age seem miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:36 AM
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Please, without specifying, I and my friends work in artistic fields. The only guys who got action were either semi famous locally, or had the same qualities that any non-artists who got a lot of action had (either looks, or they were incredibly arrogant).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:31 AM
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Not true. There definitely a lot of women who fall head over heels for Leo etc. Not saying men don't go gaga for any semi famous woman that shows some skin, but I hate this pretense that women are somehow "wiser" or less shallow. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:50 PM
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Tate/Bilzerian are to men what Kardashians are to women. Superficiality maximized and a vapid lifestyle for people to aspire to. Good for all of them for being successful capitalists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:46 PM
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fame can be a method of easily demonstrating that It's the only way of demonstrating success in artistic/subjective fields. If the Beatles hadn't been discovered, or some quirk of fate had caused them to not be famous, all their talent and songwriting ability would not have mattered 1 whit to women. In fact they'd be called losers for playing local pub gigs, even if they were having fun doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:45 PM
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Assuming we are comparing a 10/10 LTR vs 10/10 countless hookups, yes I'd take countless hookups. 10/10 here doesn't mean just her looks. It means everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:38 PM
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> Do you think that validation from casual sex will bring you happiness and it's worth more than a Long Term Relationship with someone that loves you? ​ Yes and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:28 PM
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We're not talking about the child. We are talking about the fetus, when there is the option to have an abortion. Don't change the argument because you know you are on thin ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:21 PM
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You can’t take the sperm back out That's what morning after pills accomplish. Abortion is another, albeit delayed way of dealing with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:17 AM
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I don't see women thirsting over John Oliver, but I do see men thirsting over chubby women who play musical instruments.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:11 AM
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Top musicians are the real MVPs here You should see the video of Hozier performing at a Victoria's secret show. 1 of the models blows him a kiss on the stage. What an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:04 AM
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Gang leaders and quasi criminal businessmen always date super hot women. The nerd working on some cool shit in a tech startup is generally dateless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:02 AM
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which is always the only one irreversible Not even close to true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:22 AM
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It doesn’t matter when life “begins” either Lol it's a political wedge issue, so I'd say it does matter. ​ each person only has the choices their biology and the law allow. “I don’t have to wear a condom as it’s not the critical choice since I don’t have a womb”… please. Birth control exists for both parties, and there are a ton of options that can be exercised to get rid of a pregnancy. The only thing you’ve mentioned that you think makes this choice “special” is that it’s the last choice to ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:54 AM
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Once a child is born The choice to keep the clump of cells that turns into a kid is the moms. The critical choice is hers, unless you live in a place where legally, life begins at conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:06 AM
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settle for John Oliver Settle for? Incredibly egoistical to say that. Just say he's not attractive to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:19 AM
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man put his sperm inside her body consent to sex is not consent to have a child. If it was, we'd outlaw most abortions worldwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:07 PM
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Or women refuse to see the red flags until there's a massive blow up when she gets pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:57 PM
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The man also decided to give her his sperm, letting her decide what to do with the resulting fetus. Men who really really don’t want of pay child support should probably not give their sperm to a woman who doesn’t believe in abortion, who can’t afford an abortion, or who lives in a place abortion is difficult to get. And the woman should not have given her egg before ensuring the guy will be a father. Moreover, it might not have been a decision. Multiple birth control methods can fail. ​ Just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:28 PM
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multiple choices The decision to let a fetus turn into a child was her and her alone. Her decision, her responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:08 PM
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Women have the choice of only having sex within very committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:01 PM
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Don’t just say adoption like it’s a happy ending. Having someone be forced into being a father is a happy ending?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:51 PM
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> What if she just doesn’t believe in abortion and thinks it’s murder? That's her problem. > a kid that took two people to create A fetus. It's not even a life yet. You can't turn it into a kid when it benefits you and make it a lifeless fetus when it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:50 PM
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Why should they get that choice. Once the kid is an adult, it's a choice between 2 consenting adults, the absent father and his kid. What they do between them is their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:47 PM
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parting with their money was worse than parting with their child It's not a child until late stages of pregnancy. It's just a fetus. Nobody owes anything to a fetus. It's not a life yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:46 PM
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Which just means that the sexual attraction is still there like it was. Good for you and your partner, but it doesn't answer the question of what your partner brings to the table that your closest drinking buddy doesn't. If anything, I'd say same sex friendships are closer because men and women have completely different perspectives. So a guy will always relate better with another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:35 PM
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I'm a dude, and I have seen so many such guys. They only marry doormats, so they can continue being shitheads in their personal life. The women end up shutting down and having 0 boundaries, 0 preferences, 0 opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:51 PM
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A lot of this resonates with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:45 PM
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You hear from them all the time. People just choose to focus on the loudest incels. This 100%. There are a lot of guys who don't talk about it, but have retreated into their hobbies/gaming/whatever else they like. They don't even attempt to date anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:13 AM
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Simping. Getting possessive and controlling. Being a dick to everyone just to prove how alpha and badass they are. Dating women who are doormats just because their fragile ego can't handle a woman who can stand up for herself. Then cheating on those women with the "party girls". (Basically the male version of AF/BB).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:23 AM
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Hormones are related to sexual attraction. Nature wants us to fuck and make babies. The fact that research says the honeymoon period of most couples is over in 2 years, and the drudgery then begins, should tell you there's nothing more to it. That's why they call marriage/long relationships work. It's the price you pay to have kids. It's a chore, like a part time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:53 PM
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There's an emotional element too, there's something more intimate about the type of love that you have for your spouse that you don't get with other people. This is a completely hand-wavy explanation. Next you'll tell me "you'll know once you're in love". There's nothing concrete in your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:38 PM
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If that's the only thing you could come up with, then you implicitly agree with men who say women are only good for physical intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:17 PM
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As opposed to pumping out 2.1 kids and shacking up with some nagging wife for your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:44 AM
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You have as long as you want. Congrats on wanting to break out of the "wife 2 kids and a white picket fence" crap. The next step is following through and realizing that there are no rules to this. If you can travel and party and have fun till 80, you should do it. You don't need permission from PPD to do it. These idiots will call you sad blah blah blah. Their opinion is just that, their opinion. Go do what makes you happy. I know enough couples who are absolutely miserable in their marriages an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:43 AM
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The issue is that you will look more nd more pathetic as you go on And why should he care about someone's opinion if he is having fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:37 AM
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What's special about it? What is better about it than your friendship with your closest drinking buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:35 AM
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They scream about WNBA players not being paid enough, and yet they themselves don't watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:45 AM
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The fact that post divorce suicide rates are higher, means at least some death are likely related to the divorce, or it's likely marriage/divorce increases mental illnesses, or mentally ill people are more likely to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:47 PM
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I could point you to a thread on PPD itself where women gave their preferences on who they would fuck casually. You don't open to changing your mind, or I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:46 PM
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most women don't want casual sex Lol. We JUST had a thread on number of sexual partners of women by age 23 or something. Average women ARE having casual sex. Average guys just don't know about it. Ask any college athlete or frat dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:32 PM
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I think it’s pathetic when a man puts in effort to sleep around. Unlike women, we don't have the option of swiping on someone hot and have sex. So your opinion comes from a point of extreme sexual privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:29 PM
0

No answer huh, just as I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:25 PM
1

You are obsessed with men jerking off. Also, don't change the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:21 PM
9

Must be triple digits, she's been ranting and raving all over. She's really invested in this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:17 PM
1

Ok? This is a little aggressive for no reason lol. She probably has a high bodycount to be so invested in this point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:13 PM
0

She can't be the ideal if she had a lot of past lovers. What are you mad about? She can go find someone else, and the guy can keep looking too. Women would pass up on "absolutely ideal" guys is they were shorter than her, which is something the guy can't even control.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:12 PM
0

Why are you worried if some obscure forum has some people maligning women? It's hardly the mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:08 PM
0

The problem with the RP community is that you want girls with high libidos but at the same time want a virgin who never has sex. The problem is, people who make this statement are creating a strawman out of either ignorance or sheer stupidity. Good luck to those people with all their brain damage. What RP says is that finding low n count women who always wait for sex is nearly impossible, and women lie a lot. So it's a decent assumption that she has fucked SOME dude on the first date. Be that ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:07 PM
0

I don't need luck if women are so "helpless".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:03 PM
-2

It's a simple question. Answer it or fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:00 PM
1

If I am talking to someone, and it turns out she's just a sex worker trying to get johns, I'd be pissed. I'm not there to talk to sex workers. Would she be cool with me selling comic books at wherever she sees her clients? You are really having a hard time with basic logic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:59 AM
2

mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:58 AM
3

I have literally never seen this. "I have never seen it so it never happens." The logic of a climate change denier.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:57 AM
-1

I've come across multiple comments talking about how pornstars "take advantage" of lonely guys. Ppl really want men to be helpless. Next time a woman dates an abuser and complains, this is going to be our response too. Ppl really want women to be helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:47 AM
0

You're ok with sex workers plying their trade in a church or some religious place?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:43 AM
0

Stupid take. People who are fans of something or into a hobby, don't want people who aren't into those things at their venues. If I go to NAMM, the last thing I want to see is some famous rockstar's whores trying to sell sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:42 AM
1

Sounds like my friend is right. People want to get married to get fat and stop putting in any effort. Esp women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:34 AM
1

This. I'm surprised people are taking public presentations of relationships seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:08 AM
2

Just because something happened after another thing doesn’t mean it was caused by that thing. But it's likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:04 AM
3

"It's not the parachute that failed, it's his mentality when he jumped"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:03 AM
1

So why do women complain when they gain weight and their bf stops being attracted? Why can't they shut up and get on the treadmill?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:01 AM
1

The women will still fuck the frat boy douchebro way more than your son or any of his autistic friends. Harsh truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:56 AM
0

Stop trying to recommend idiotic mental gymnastics. You people move the goalposts so much that the match starts in England and ends in Argentina.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:54 AM
1

Women, children and dogs get loved unconditionally. Men are loved only for what they can provide. We are trying to correct that imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:51 AM
2

being relationship material, they’re focused on access to sex to from a lot of women, all of the time, with no strings attached. Which one is harder? There's your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:47 AM
2

they feel entitled to very attractive young women who are out of their league. Women fuck out of their league all the time. If average beckies are fucking chads, why are you surprised that average billy is resentful he cant fuck stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:46 AM
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see short ugly men with wives Settling for beta bux is something we already know of. It's not something men (who have any self respect) want, unless they are desperate to have kids. Most of those wives were probably hooking up guys that were very different from their billy beta husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:45 AM
1

Big beefcake dudes dominate Hollywood too. Women simp over the rock a LOT more than kevin hart or chris rock. Of course, you might bring up BTS here, but we think they are notable BECAUSE they are attractive despite not being beefcakes. Tom Cruise has to height fraud even now. We think the romantic landscape is bleak because for us, it definitely is. If you were a really ugly woman, you'd know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:30 AM
1

Wha is your definition of “exception” like how small of a percentage <5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:17 AM
1

So all my friends who are head over heels for their boyfriends/husbands they aren’t 6’+ Chads? Are they then the exceptions? Not sure. What about me? I don’t even like when a dude is over 6’ foot and the big beefy buff guys do nothing for me. Am I an exception too? 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:25 PM
1

You're implying that somehow EVERY case I observed was an exception. It's very very unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:20 PM
1

I don't need to read their minds, I just see how things play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:51 AM
2

What I observed in life regarding dating and sex did not make much sense to me, until I came across redpill and blackpill, and some psychological phenomena. Since then, it's been easy to predict what will happen, so my beliefs have been reinforced by more observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:39 PM
1

Ok. I will give you that both are nearly the same level of difficulty, but they are both higher than mid level.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:37 PM
34

being unnatractie meant it was over even IF you could communicate. Basically that is true. Some men will never be desired. That's the brutal truth we need. No more gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:32 PM
2

Give me something else that's mid level difficulty for an average guy for comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:31 PM
2

Non hot women grudgingly settle for non hot dudes. Those dudes typically seem to be those who have been into her a long time, but she strung him along cuz he wasn't top tier. The guy puts in enormous efforts to convince her, one day she feels like she might not get a real catch, so she agrees to be with him. Seen a few such stories. When I find out how they got together, I am shocked at just how much heavy lifting the guy did, and how little the woman did.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:30 PM
4

they fail to realize to what extent they negatively contribute to things in general It's interesting that women say they come here for the lolz, but then make a complete effort to twist what some men say and refer to anecdotes. If they spent half the time giving well researched studies or research papers with high sample sizes, they could actually change my mind and that of some other men. But by gaslighting and aggravating men, they are definitely negatively contributing to the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:25 PM
5

So easy. Amirite fellas?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:15 PM
4

the vast majority of men haven't been in a fight since grade school. If I have been, does that make me more attractive? only half kidding here....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:41 PM
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If your attractive, it doesn’t matter if your a good communicator or not . Reported for blackpill content /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:37 PM
2

Women completely reject any man who has even a hint of social awkwardness (not talking about some basement dweller, but someone who has friends and a social life but just has a bit of hesitancy wrt women). Women are just as close minded. They all want the same guy, tall rich handsome with high extroversion and supreme confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:35 PM
-1

White men get drooled over by women in many many parts of India.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:51 AM
5

I never did hookups So you're an outlier, congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:14 AM
6

Nice assumptions you got there. Would you like a side order of gaslighting and a dessert of manipulation with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:09 AM
4

Because god forbid a WOMAN has to carry the financial burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:08 AM
3

women are not the great communicators they think they are They are generally worse than men at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:06 AM
6

Women want equality of outcome without equality of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:05 AM
2

Exactly, so when a profile says "no hookups!!!!", she's down if you're attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:04 AM
3

The dating market isn’t as big as people make it sound. Go online in any major a city and an average woman can sleep with a near model tier guy easily. ofc it will never be a relationship, but those kind of experiences will change her perspective forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:03 AM
1

I preferred men closer to my own height with better body proportions anyway. For a hookup or a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:57 AM
5

men don't listen to what women say they want If anything, men listen to women TOO MUCH. Watch what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:57 AM
3

The abuser is always in the wrong, but that doesn't mean some women don't make idiotic decisions. Have seen enough cases of women being warned by all of her (even female) friends that a particular guy is sketchy and she should avoid him. They refuse to listen and then whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:51 AM
1

So there's always something she hasn't done before, or high n count is always a negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:30 AM
1

I hope he reads this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:29 AM
2

Chad bullies woman, woman takes it out on incel. Perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:21 AM
1

Are you Lilith?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:20 AM
2

Lol you said the quiet part loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:19 AM
3

I support the right of men to be lazy bums! Hear hear. More men need to dump the rat race and start doing the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:18 AM
3

You are also not entitled to their vote, just fyi. As long as they follow the law, they don't owe society anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:17 AM
7

It's telling that nobody responded to this comment. I guess some people just don't want to hear the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:03 AM
3

At this point, I would maybe characterize it as you washing your hands, advertising it, while contributing to the ongoing conversation that follows this topic. Whether it's being insensitive, or misrepresenting something, or being unwilling to listen or believe. You got her there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:59 AM
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You don't really have to misrepresent or strawman these groups, when they're doing a great job creating the worst image for themselves. All of them? To use an example on the other end of the spectrum, why should a newly minted billionaire care to help society? They get demonized as a class right? He could just say "well in that case, fuck you guys, I got mine". Not all of them are like Bezos or Zuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:56 AM
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the more *unique* things a girl does for me, the more she is into me. After a certain n count, there's probably nothing she hasn't done previously. It could be a plus in some scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:38 AM
1

How many women are virgins at marriage? How does one even find a virgin in the west, once you're past a certain age?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:33 AM
2

you’d turn her down If she wants to wait to have sex, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:32 AM
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You couldn't find a single poster who wants a virgin but expects sex by the third date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:07 PM
2

Many of these guys have engaged in casual sex. Those are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:06 PM
3

>seen many men >more of a general trend Make up more stories honey, whatever floats your boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:11 AM
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She didn't. It's a strawman. Most men here would be willing to wait for marriage to have sex with a virgin, or pass on her altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:08 AM
1

Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:58 AM
1

Anyone can change their opinion later, so there's nothing different about this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:35 AM
1

I already answer all those questions since I'm from south asia. But nice attempt to shock me lol. We literally have to list our income when looking for a wife/husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:34 AM
1

This. If it's a virgin, I can wait till marriage, as long she can at least talk about physical intimacy and tell me what she might want once she is married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:59 AM
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morally worse Morality has nothing to do with sex and relationships. People date and fuck who they want, and if women want hot douchebags, who are we to question it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:47 AM
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.5 hehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:46 AM
1

Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There’s too much fraternizing with the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:09 AM
1

Says the winner?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:05 AM
2

No, it's 5'9''.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:59 AM
1

Most people end up having kids. Doesn't mean I get to ignore a potential partner who says she doesn't want kids. If she doesn't and I do, that's a major conflict, regardless of what happens "generally".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:51 AM
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If your dating prospect doesn't want that, then it's your obligation to leave and find someone else. I don't understand how you're not getting a simple concept. You don't have the right to define what someone else wants out of their partner. If he doesn't share your ideas, you should leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:29 AM
1

No. A lot of people clearly don't want to be settled for or seen as some kind of backup option. You don't get to decide that for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:12 AM
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If you had life experience and common sense you wouldn’t be clinging to “data” wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:52 PM
1

Why wouldn't they be? Then they could do us all a favor and not settle when they are not attracted to the bottom 80%ers. Stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:52 PM
9

As long as you maintain those same looks standards for the relationship guy, no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:47 PM
4

how useless a man using you as a human fleshlight is. Hookup culture says otherwise. College campuses are seen as nothing but sex fiestas so you can say what you want, but evidence says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:45 PM
2

Stoicism Bunch of garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:25 PM
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The stringing along and games are for relationship guys. Casual sex guy is treated like a real human being, ironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:35 AM
1

long in the past ​ July of 2021 ​ Huh? How quickly do you run through women for that to be long in the past..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:36 AM
2

Career success has nothing to do with a positive personality. If anything, sociopaths are more likely to become successful because of their ruthless prioritization skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:34 AM
8

I used OKC. I would target profiles where there was a very high % match on our answers, and they had given a lot of answers so the match was good. My openers were always something interesting I found in their answers or profile. It was still a miserable failure. No matches from that strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:28 AM
6

Lol It's insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:53 PM
8

I mean it could be an important message, like tyrone texting her "wyd?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:52 PM
1

Yvan eht nioj.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:33 AM
11

Look up the pig woman experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:02 PM
3

100 1000
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:02 PM
3

Chad fishers rarely ask someone to meet in person, since there's no point to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:59 PM
1

Be more mad lol. Creeps my ass. These women know what's up. You'll call out caprio et al for dating young models, but not the models for being a bunch of gold/fame digging whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:14 PM
1

Older women might have problems finding LTRs. Unless they are hags, then can bang hot young dudes anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:56 PM
0

And rich and famous men will always bang 18 yo models. Suck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:55 PM
3

this is looked down upon Hardly. At worst they get called cougars.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:18 AM
2

That's the sad part, in general they seem to want the same type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:17 AM
3

We all make sacrifices in life for the greater good and for happiness. Can women make those sacrifices and give me a blowjob on demand?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:16 AM
1

But what am I supposed to say to her? "I'm sorry, but it's over." The more you talk, the deeper the hole you dig yourself into.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:07 AM
2

Wouldn’t mind casually dating 3 men at a time The memes write themselves. Somewhere in NYC, some dude is crying rn cuz he knows he couldn't date 3 women in his lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:05 AM
3

You will still have been with a 10/10 super model tier woman which will go a long way towards your pre-selection case. This actually changed my mind. She would give any guy insane levels of preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:00 AM
4

Or women actually want trashy bad boys. Start becoming the local drug dealer and see how many nice girls are suddenly interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:57 AM
1

Your husband will 100% notice your sagging tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:54 AM
6

It means nothing. You just need to admit that vast swathes of women would LOVE to lock these dudes down. Yes it's their fame/money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:54 AM
4

Men tell women what they want to hear to continue getting laid. They don't actually change their thought patterns. On rare occasions, they actually do fall hard for someone. Doesn't happen often.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:52 AM
1

Looks, money, height and asshole game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:49 AM
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Lol only 1 woman here expressed clear interest in him. I bet the rest just thought 5'7" ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:48 AM
3

Say all that louder, maybe 1 of the horde of models lining up to date him might hear you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:40 AM
5

How is that your problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:39 AM
8

it's about time we start holding them accountable for their actions too It will literally have to be judgement day for that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:39 AM
6

You can repost this everywhere as many times as you want, but even if true, nobody who matters cares. Leo's still pulling supermodels. You just come off as jelly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:38 AM
11

A lot of them have this obsession with age gap relationships, not illegal ones, but legal ones. I feel it's from an extreme insecurity. They loved being that young wallflower that was the object or preciousness and sought after, forbidden. They enjoyed having that relationship with older rich men. But they've aged out of it so it makes it really bitter for them whenever they see anything about other women doing such. Ding ding ding.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:36 AM
15

He's not their husband, and doesn't seem to have any desire to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:34 AM
6

80% of men can just stay single Make it happen. Women can band together and decide to make sure 80% men stay celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:33 AM
2

Or maybe the women start wanting more and he isn't up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:30 AM
1

his peak in both looks and popularity was titanic era Titanic launched him but you need 1 look at his filmography to know he has delivered a LOT more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:26 AM
6

All leading male actors have been suspected of being gay at some point. I even heard that stuff about bradley cooper.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:25 AM
2

So he's obligated to continue a relationship with them even if he doesn't want to? This is the same as some men feeling that women are obligated to date them and fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:23 AM
4

What are you, jealous that you don't get to bang dicaprio?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:21 AM
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>Old grandma may have ultimately settled down with average Joe the Plumber, but she'll tell you stories of being railed by Leo on his private yacht and swallowing a gallon of his cum...who can beat that story? Similar to the story of Titanic. Old granny still pining over some homeless dude she banged over 50 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:19 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:16 AM
1

every woman who left a Man would leave right No. Players exist. Men who keep multiple women as casual sex options exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:58 PM
1

Those men are not "dating", they just have a bunch of women as casual sex partners who they hit up whenever they get horny. These are really good looking dudes so women keep responding hoping that he changes his ways and becomes more serious. I have personally observed a few such guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:57 PM
1

When you tell women you have no friends and don’t go out, how do they react ? Is that what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:54 PM
1

Because now they only want to meet on their terms and want everyone to bend to their convenience. Nobody agrees to it so we never meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:15 PM
3

Ah the old "married people are more mature" trope. It's interesting how they always look down on single people. Maybe it's their condescension that puts us off. This whole "I got better things to do" energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:19 PM
1

How tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:24 PM
5

Married
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:19 PM
3

Maybe 20 years ago, or in very rich/class obsessed circles where you NEED to find someone on your own level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:03 PM
12

They do this to all of their friends. Without fail, like /u/Hot-Stranger24 said. My married college friends have mostly stopped talking to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:02 PM
1

Only because women use it, find someone and quickly leave. They only reinstall it if things don't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:57 PM
4

Social circle is useless. I have NEVER seen anyone pair off in a social circle. Women are out there fucking hot dudes off of tinder. You will always be the shoulder to cry on once she finds out that Chad doesn't want her for anything more than a quick fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:56 PM
20

once your friends get into relationships or married, you must they immediately stop being friends with them you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:54 PM
-1

You are just proving that all women have the same taste. Handsome guy with the cool job. That guy more than likely knows this and is dating multiple women, and unless you are hot with the cool job, why would he be interested in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:53 PM
1

Height, looks, muscles, being a complete dickhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:50 PM
1

Really I was sleeping w like 5 different guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:18 AM
1

Looks good and sounded like he has a cool job. And then complain about being dumped by guys like that super tall designer in NY who was id'd by multiple women on tik tok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:16 AM
-1

Just like women who will date all the bad boys and then tell their sons to "just be nice".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:09 AM
2

Gay guys have standards too you know Far lower than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:13 AM
1

there’s a niche for you No. As long as you're really handsome, your profession will put you in a niche. Otherwise your vibe does nothing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:10 AM
2

I have seen the opposite happen a lot. Even introverted, average women get hit on and get bfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:07 AM
3

weird and awkward women don't want weird and awkward men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:05 AM
5

Observing them closely for an extended duration or being really close friends with them and knowing what's going on in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:02 PM
2

People don't seem to be interested much in platonic friendships. Like someone you date doesn't translate into liking other people platonically.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:59 PM
1

I mean there's a lot of things that don't matter for sex, but matter more long-term (sense of humor, intelligence, kindness, friendship, morals, honesty, religious/political views, etc). initial attraction and long-term term attraction aren't the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:01 AM
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what I hate is when a woman who used to dye her hair purple but stopped because shes now a wife and feels the need to "dress more mature". +1 I don't like this either. I married the person you were, not who I thought you would become.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:39 AM
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I hardly ever get to practice Stop being a misogynist and treat them like human beings /sarcasm This is what women will tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:56 AM
8

I think you and your friends just don't notice it when average men hit on you, so in your mind "that doesn't count".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:49 AM
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That's a very female perspective to think sex and attraction are meaningless in a relationship. /r/Deadbedrooms would disagree with you, and most men would too. Frankly it's an incredibly myopic and idiotic mindset to have and I have seen it backfire a lot. But hey, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:47 AM
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And for sex/flings...surprise!! Women also care about a hot body & handsome face! So why relax those standards for relationships? Clearly sex is important to men in a relationship, and if you're not into him as much, he's gonna notice (if he isn't a simp).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:07 AM
0

I was talking about platonic company.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:05 AM
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This is why women focus on immutable factors like height. There's no bullshitting that (at least in person).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:52 AM
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If people liked the company of other people more than their phones, they'd do something about it. Most people prefer their social media feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:46 AM
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Cuz men are horny, and for every creep out there, there are 10 men who strike up a normal conversation nd try to get your number.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:45 AM
8

This is hard to believe. Do you all live in highly rural areas?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:58 AM
0

So brutal survivalism is fine when forced on men? You ok with rape too? Cuz it happens in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:57 AM
2

There's a LOT more suicides than violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:52 AM
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Or just tall and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:50 AM
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As opposed to all those women respecting fuckboys lol. Respect had nothing to do with dating and sex. Average men should get shredded and see how their dating lives change radically (*doesn't apply to short or ugly dudes). 0 personality change, just get muscles and abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:48 AM
6

Your friends don't get approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:41 AM
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A dude who is weird and awkward probably has 0 exes. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:38 AM
6

Which is why everyone embellishes their resume and makes up jobs with their friends as references lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:29 AM
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i can’t just “sit and wait.” It's what most women do and they do fine. Men WILL do all the heavy lifting. Ofc, everything is flipped if it's a top 10% guy. Women put in effort to snag them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:27 AM
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Only because they can't physically overpower men. If they could, they would. There are videos of strong women beating the shit out of their bfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:24 AM
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Most bi people prefer dating men for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:01 AM
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lack of empathy from the bf stop
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:03 PM
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Non experienced men are VERY uncomfortable to most women. Because relationships are a job for men, and the woman is your employer (the extent to which this dynamic manifests itself varies a bit). Every employer wants a highly experienced employee who will stay at the company for a long time for low wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:54 PM
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Except our threshold for looks is way lower than that of women. I see attractive women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:50 PM
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My ex boyfriend wouldn’t get me an ice cream cone He must have either been really handsome or typical alpha badboy/fuckboy. Or both, in which case, they can get away with ANYTHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:49 PM
7

If you're not chad, you need asshole game/bad boy energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:48 PM
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/thread Chad can be a jobless loser methhead douchebag with 80 iq and still get it whenever wherever. Looks >>>>> everything else. For men who don't believe it, get shredded and see what happens. *doesn't work if you're short or facially ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:46 PM
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This is actually a really good point OP. Nice discussion topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:40 PM
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In what ways do men want to feel special? Sexually. Not have her lose attraction when bf shows vulnerability. ​ > how does it correlate to misogyny? The whole "you are not entitled to anything" mindset. He might not be entitled, but he certainly has every right to feel like shit if his gf treats him vanilla but was happily freaky with all her casual options. Men just get called misogynists as soon as they dislike how they are being treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:23 PM
2

Cyka blyat rush b p90 no stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:48 PM
5

There's an army of simps out there to pick as a last resort. Women will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:30 AM
1

What happened? The 6'2'' model looking guy ignored your texts?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:24 AM
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And those guys can't score. At all. And honestly, it's probably due to either a lack of social skills and the inability to join groups where they can meet girls. This is 100% true. Once you fall behind socially, it's harder and harder to get back into the right place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:21 AM
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This. Women don't need men as much, in my experience. They have better emotional support networks and infinite options to hook up casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:19 AM
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Try being short AND asian. It's like playing a competitive shooter where the entire enemy team has every cheat on. You'd better be a pro level player to even stand a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:14 AM
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Ah yes, women chase chad and call men superficial. Pure projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:13 AM
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It's another expression to represent this delusional idea that women aren't superficial af. It's a con job on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:11 AM
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They want restraint from billy beta. Alpha fucks chad gets down to business asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:41 AM
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Women want to be seen as special. Every fantasy ever. Ofc when men want to feel special, they are MiSoGyNiStS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:40 AM
1

Dating shouldn't define your life and happiness at all At all? So you think the average person can be completely happy and content while being a complete failure in dating? /u/AdvocateFroggy is right. This is the shit take of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:07 AM
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Bullshit. Being very aggressive is a net positive in dating. Being a bully and an asshole is a net positive. Just being assertive is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:58 PM
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You think I wouldn't put in 20 minutes of work if say, hypothetically, I could gain an extra 3 inches in height? Excellent point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:37 PM
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Introversion is 50% genetic Ugliness is largely genetic Height is all genes Wealth is the only decently controllable variable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:59 AM
1

Do you know that if a guy is hopelessly in love with you, he will find it very hard to do that, esp initially? Even the best of guys end up with "adjusting" their boundaries temporarily for someone they are totally into.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:25 PM
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When a guy calmly but firmly puts me in my place. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:04 AM
1

That's cuz there's more truth to blackpill than redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:15 PM
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We all have girlfriends/wives Redpill is not particularly in favor of marriage, so your "win" isn't a win in their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:57 PM
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I will tell you a new reason your problems aren't your fault. Redpill kind of pushes the idea that it IS your fault, and you either level up or be a bottom 80%er.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:56 PM
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They are looking for validation, or their real question is, can I attract a tall handsome rich extroverted astronaut surgeon vagabond pirate muscular alpha sentimental guy at my age?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:52 PM
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think you just need to work out whatever issue you have personally. You assumed there's a fixable issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:51 PM
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If she goes online, she will have 2 dates set in 2 hours, assuming decently high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:49 PM
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Esp when the team represents nothing. The owners change, the players change...what are they even identifying with? And the whole 'we won' thing. The players and the coach won, and the org supported them. The rest are NPCs, literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:41 PM
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Ad Hominem: the last resort of a lazy mind with an empty arsenal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:38 PM
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Being 6ft is rarer than being an extrovert.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:52 PM
1

So you have no opinion? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:51 PM
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Haven't they already? Esp in developed countries? I think the biological clock is the main reason women think of LTRs. Without that, dating culture would be way different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:51 PM
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No one’s killing themselves just because they’re single Oh many have. You'd prefer not to know about it. There's literal lists of people who offed themselves on incel forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:48 PM
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If you have different people to share different activities with, like hobbies etc, what would a life partner bring to the table? Why put all your eggs in one basket?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:36 AM
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Idk man, if you have health insurance, you could use a therapist and get all of that handled by a pro. What can she provide that I can't get elsewhere, except sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:26 AM
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I bet most of these women only want to do missionary with lights out, and a once a year birthday blowjob. Can't even call them women. No thanks. Porn is actually a better option than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:23 AM
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With all due respect your partner was a virgin before meeting you based on your recent post so he wouldnt have the courage to stand up to you and say it makes him uncomfortable. Kind of a sick burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:21 AM
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There’s a lot of women on Reddit who complain about their man having a porn addiction and just masturbating instead of having sex with them. That an issue. If those women can't satisfy their man, that's on them. They should level up their sexual game. Getting beaten by a fucking screen is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:15 AM
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Women are more often the ones who ask their man "Do you think that girl is hot?" Fishing for an argument or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:13 AM
1

growing a big dick to fuck my husband with Strap ons exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:11 AM
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let me fantasize about some hot guy doing some kinky shit to me my husband would never do I would never let my husband do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:09 AM
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what is the point of being in a long term relationship with a woman if I can't even express my feelings? What indeed.....been wondering that myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:07 AM
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P90. No stop. Smoke Molly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:06 AM
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Yes that's because they can effortlessly maintain that superiority. Others have to cultivate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:07 AM
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Women can also be ugly, poor, short, introverted. Those women don't want men similar to them, unless they got baby fever or something. A 3 looking woman can still hookup with a 5-6 looking guy. ​ > And the disintegration of society is not due to a bunch of whores The causes are a mix of opportunity and nature of people. ​ > It’s not only happening to men. Some men are having more fun than they every could. Others have been near permanently sequestered into certain communities. Which I WOULD be f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:15 AM
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Are extroverts not seen as emotionally available and emotional communicators? Those 2 things are not necessarily correlated. Do you think a guy who’s 5’9 but an extrovert would do better dating than a 6 foot shy introvert? The fact that you had to make the introvert 6ft tall proves my point. Even introverted girls hate introverted men, whether for casual sex or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:36 PM
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mentally appealing is mostly optional. Tall rich handsome guys with shit personalities have 0 problems keeping partners. In the EXTREME long term, like a 10 year timeline, their abusive/shitty in some way personality MIGHT become an issue, but by then the short poor ugly dude has probably offed himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:28 PM
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ugly, short, poor, introverted Game over for that dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:26 PM
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Do just ask them how many people they've slept with or do you ask for dirty details? That's the hard part, although I just tell them my preferences now. I'd say 4/5 are respectful and we end it right there. Some are more cryptic, which is a risky thing so I'm inclined to end it right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:20 PM
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Tall rich handsome extroverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:18 PM
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I have known a few dudes who were being chased by women all the time. They loved every minute of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:15 PM
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Why don't the men here just become assholes so they get women? Because, it comes across as fake if you're really not a dick. There's a difference between being an asshole and just being whiny. You need to maintain an air of superiority. For people not naturally like it, it's a skill you need to pick up on. I have seen some people in high powered professions (where abusive work cultures are common) eventually became assholes with sheer practice. They learn from the best. Some are born like it, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:13 PM
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You can filter for whatever you want just like she can right? If the information about her past is easily available, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:10 PM
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There’s equal risk at only being desired for your looks in a relationship if you’re a high SMV man. Which is just as likely to not be genuinely loved, only lusted. Yes, let's all play the world's smallest violin for the man who gets lusted after all the time. ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:09 PM
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How many men today have repulsive personalities but have no problems getting a gf? I have met a small number of genuine, complete assholes. Guys who start abusing anyone at the mildest inconvenience, esp friends etc who least expect it. These are same people who are GUARANTEED to have women swooning over them, apart from the handsome ones. Women's preferences have not changed. They just spew politically correct garbage now to gaslight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:57 PM
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> They prefer men who are emotionally available, good communicators, and share similar values. Snort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:53 PM
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Guys with average SMP and high RMP are most in danger of being treated like OP posted. I hope that puts it in terms that you can understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:50 PM
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*goes to Ibiza, sees women hooking up with the same small set of guys they hooked up with back home. Comes back with his dick in his hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:49 PM
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So we should all be ok with our future wives having been banged out by every local Chad. Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:38 PM
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I did because I didn't want to lose him just in case because many, many men take issue with women being "easy" because it somehow impacts their ego and then their perception of a woman's worth. If you've had more than a few hookups, then in general terms, you ARE easy. You proved OP's point, you are trying to deceive potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:31 PM
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I know myself and I know that I get attached when I sleep with with someone that I actually like and want to build with, so I prefer to wait until I get to know him a little better before I choose whether or not to sleep with him. It's literally just a vetting technique. I have no need to vet men that I have zero interest in outside of a one night fling. You can do what you want, and men can dislike you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:29 PM
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Prolonged hesitancy will make the guy question HIS future with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:24 PM
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learn They learn the wrong lessons. The association in their mind seems to become kinky and degenerate fun is inherently bad, because I had bad partners when I did it. They can't separate the act from the person anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:22 PM
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First time sex is with husband, and sex ends up kinky and fun. I genuinely wish you the best, you are the inverse of all the stupid shit I see women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:20 PM
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Personality sweaty /sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:11 AM
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It’s makes women feel like you’re plotting something nefarious. Unlike all those bad boys they date, I'm sure they NEVER plan anything nefarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:24 AM
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>as long as I force-faked a hyper-social know-it-all 'street smart' persona girls would stick around I know a guy like this. Been a close friend for years. Beneath all the fast talking hypersocial thing, there's nothing. But he attracts a TON of attention from women. I am trying to emulate him, but it's really not easy. >this would be like doing performative masculinity as a stand up gig 24/7. It is absolutely exhausting, but I guess it is what it is. Women will give you some leeway on it if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:21 AM
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The floor is top x% of men in looks. Generally considered top 20%, but I think it's a bit higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:02 PM
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blind or deep in denial Pot, kettle, black.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:41 PM
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Sampling bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:01 AM
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You can believe what you want, but it doesn't seem to be that way. The CPR thing was an over the top joke, sure, but the fact that he's controversial means plenty of people do take him seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:59 AM
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timid nerdy personality Any proof of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:54 AM
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I have been getting bombarded with his content even though I never searched him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:53 AM
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"I walked into a Starbucks and asked for a coffee and they asked me what kind. I just want fucking coffee" Me likey.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:36 AM
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Don't bother asking, they will say yes, but in practice, it does bother them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:34 AM
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Relationship under false pretenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:33 AM
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Lol if you think cougars will jump into bed with average guys. There's a reason the stereotype of the the cougar who fucks the hot poolboy exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:14 AM
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I see the High school type mentality even as a much older person. It's rampant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:20 PM
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No, she cheated on her bf with him, bf found out and she claimed rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:13 AM
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Whatever attractive people do, is seen as confident and charismatic. Whatever ugly people do, is seen as creepy and weird. /facts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:01 AM
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Do you think the misogynistic males in this sub are as rich/fit as Andrew? You are making his point for him. You essentially admitted that looks are all that matter, and personality is a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:57 AM
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human traffics women I hate Tate but this turned out false.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:54 AM
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It's rarely a "few". It's both men and women. EVERYONE cares. We are social animals, no person is an island. Stop pretending that you are oh-so-cool and above everyone else around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:53 AM
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In short, if you don't fit into the box people put you in, they will not like you at all. Doesn't matter if your true personality is nothing like what they expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:51 AM
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Yes, that's possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 12:13 PM
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Women go after the guys they like period. And the guys they like exhibit the same small set of behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:20 PM
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Finally, finally, he broke down and told me what was wrong. He’s been grieving a death that happened a long time ago but he never got the chance to cope with it properly. He cried in my arms and we talked and then cuddled for a long time and ended up having sex three times that night after a dry spell. You're an outlier, congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:07 PM
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Yet we assume women have more "emotional maturity". Have rarely seen that to be the case. More men admit they have their fuckups, women just refuse to admit any flaws ever. Perfect angelic beings lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:05 PM
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If it works, it's because the women want it. They can left swipe as soon as a guy is being a dick, but insulting messages get higher response rates than normal messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:50 AM
0

Equal rights equal fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:30 AM
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healthy individuals will smell this shit on you a mile away and be automatically creeper out by you. I have seen enough women be head over heels for men who were stinking of toxicity from day 1, to know this is false. And before anyone asks, some examples were guys who would show up at these women's workplaces without telling them (after 1 date), asking these women to change fundamental aspects of their lives (again after 1-2 dates) etc. Everywhere I look, it's the same thing. The most controlli…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:06 AM
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This post is a good example of the phenomena of nice girls also only wanting players. Nice guys def finish last. I guess I need to be more like this dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:57 AM
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Because the sky is blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:22 PM
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He will probably keep fucking other, Norwegian and liberal women on the side once he gets his pious virgin wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:21 PM
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This is all extremely likely. I have heard of a lot of men from conservative cultures who do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:19 PM
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I’ve seen my less attractive guy friends get with women based off of personality. For casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:51 PM
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Money works for gold diggers yes, personality is meaningless in a casual context.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:16 PM
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Except average guys can sleep around. Not with much hotter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:09 AM
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I’m sure he has also slept with women hotter than me. Wrong most of the time, and if true, probably in a relationship context. Average Guys aren't sleeping around casually with above average or hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:05 AM
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Why would your bf want to be with you when you clearly think he's a downgrade
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:17 PM
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I wouldn't touch that man with a ten foot pole. Not even for a ONS?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:39 PM
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Being a twat got someone elected president of a country. It's what gets you visibility, esp on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:38 PM
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Data from dating apps tends to do that awfully frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:46 PM
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it's been fine If that's really you in the dp then no shit sherlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:45 PM
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/s ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:44 PM
1

They don't want you to be at your worst at all. Women want a monopoly on your emotions in some fucked up way. Like some kind of emotional predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:40 AM
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And this is why being a bf is worse than being a fuckbuddy. You get all the responsibility of her emotions, but you get nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:36 AM
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Do you also work as a janitor and sleep with supermodels every weekend?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:12 PM
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imperfections Not being 6'6'' is an imperfection now lol just lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:11 PM
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They have all the power in dating and sex, so even if we win the argument, we don't win anything. Men should just stop trying to convince them. Most women are so fucking blind to their privilege, it's insane. And just like any other group with inherent privileges, they refuse to accept them and play the victim card.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:11 PM
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And there it is. I hope women on PPD stop saying that bf > casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:08 PM
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You set a range. The % means that x% of women have included this height in their criteria. So 90% of women have included 6'6''. Only 5-6% have included 5'6''.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:07 PM
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Some people have such a gigantic ego, they need EVERY woman on the planet to be into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:59 PM
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she doesn't have the same empathy I do with the potential male struggles No surprise there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:58 PM
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It literally doesn’t matter how much or what kind of data you show them, they will hamster it away to make it mean “men bad women good” Basically this. You could post studies all day and it will all get banned under the guise of "no incl content". Sorry, reality is more black than blue or red.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:10 PM
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The vast majority of modern relationships start with casual sex. Once the woman decided to "give" sex, it's 100% the man's call to commit or not. Not really. Women put men into boxes, somebody is a casual option and one is a serious option. The serious option is almost always less good looking than the casual option, and gets treated worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:43 PM
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In your perspective, when is an average dude not betabuxxing ? When the guy doesn't need to offer commitment to have sex with her. Exceptions are the rare cases where the woman has never once had a casual encounter in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:31 PM
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a) People are though. Plenty of single people (men) here vocal about the fact they aren't having sex or long term relationships and they are really struggling with that. 'I'd just like someone' is a pretty common sentiment. Even on Incel forums, they don't want a relationship in which they are wanted for "other qualities" and not sexual attraction. ​ b) Probably a throwaway comment but are you really calling 'average man in relationship with average woman' beta? That's a...weird , slightly unhin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:30 PM
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While the more quite girls give off the "don't approach me" type of energy True in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:00 AM
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Most women are having tons of casual sex with chad. Most men are not having tons of casual sex with stacy. ​ /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:34 AM
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Yup, I know women who would ask every friend their opinion about a guy. ​ That guy is generally showing massive red flags, but she will keep asking her friends until 1 says "he seems fine go for it".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:29 AM
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Apparently average people don't date, fuck, marry or procreate even though every fucking where I go I see average looking men with their average looking wives and average looking kids in tow. Nobody is jealous of a dude betabuxxing. Men are jealous of other men who get casual sex easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:26 AM
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to be one of the dudes that gets all the pussy. Be a total asshole. The type of guy who goes into bars and deliberately antagonizes people, but just not enough to get kicked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:16 AM
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Women got the vote shortly after men did. ​ But go on and keep focussing on the extremely small section of men in aristocracy to assume all men had a voice and all women don't. Go get your gold medal in victim olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:50 PM
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That's balanced out by women having fun with certain types of dudes when young and then marrying the safe guy, dumping every goddamn responsibility on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:52 PM
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But we don’t get to speak out Shoe's on the other foot now eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:50 PM
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The wage gap. This is fucking controversial but one of the contributory factors to wage imbalance is not necessarily misogyny but the assumption many women have that they're not deserving of competitive wages. I feel it must be difficult to feel confident enough to demand adequate renumeration. There is no wage gap when you consider the same jobs and same level. Women just pick lesser paying professions and do part time work more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:46 PM
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No, we call women insane because they ignore EVERY red flag as long as the guy is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:44 PM
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Men are less likely to admit to problems so in some ways, women have it better because at least there is more acceptance of their mental health problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:36 PM
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Upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:56 AM
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"Oh my God, just get it out of the way!" What shit advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:39 PM
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Same advice as that for men. Looksmax, personality improvement etc. Also, you CAN approach men. Approaching them doesn't mean you have to fuck them or do anything physical, esp since you're a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:37 PM
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No he's right, you might be objectively stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:25 AM
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Again, I think a lot of women on this sub talk a good game about their virtuosity but comments like these really reveal many for their true nature. They are getting really good at lying and being duplicitous because of their time on PPD. A lot of PPD men are practiced in calling them out on their shit so they are getting better and better at manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:22 AM
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I choose to focus on the stuff I like about him and the stuff I can actually SEE like when he made and sold those flame throwers on the boring company website haha he just seems like a goofy guy that was passionate about lithium batteries and other nerd shit. I think he's an alright guy. "I choose to only look at the good side of the guy and ignore all the red flags" "Why do I only meet assholes when I'm dating?" "Where are all the good men?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:18 AM
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someone like him would be attractive to me Tall white narcissistic billionaire is attractive to women.....more at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:16 AM
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What's your claim that I don't have male friends? Even incels have no shortage of male friends. As a man, opening up in front of men is a shit idea. Exceptions are there, but even your "friends" will mostly just make fun of you. This is male behavior 101 we all learn in childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:01 AM
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They have to concentrate on improving their relationship with other men. This is the part that I don't see ever changing. Any man that tries to form a support structure for men will be shamed by many other men and women too. Women just have no idea how much of a dog eat dog world men live in. When a man posts about wanting to kill himself, the responses are either "man up" or "lol go for it".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:46 PM
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Feminists don't care about the majority of men, just the minority that manage to get the jobs the feminists want. Which is why they are always whining about getting into the C suite or getting elected. Few feminists are fighting to have equal representation in dangerous professions. Feminism pretends to be about equality, but it's really a lobby for female supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:43 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/m8o93p/the_main_criterias_women_use_when_it_comes_to/ ​ Top response.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:45 AM
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you'll get some attention by your late twenties early thirties. even the runt of the litter gets to eat once all the big dogs are done.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:28 AM
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Don't hate the player, hate the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:34 PM
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because they were too stupid pathetic to stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:23 PM
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men who get used, abused and cheated on also wanted that to happen to them Weak and pathetic men deserve some scorn, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:22 PM
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Save all that for your lord and husband who will purchase you Depends on the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:21 PM
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If manipulating men for money works then so be it. That is already the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:20 PM
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Being moral has nothing to do with dating, as we have been told repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:19 PM
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I’d be more willing to bet that more often than not, the signs were there and the writing was on the wall, yet they chose to ignore those signs because women like projects and they like to think they can tame the bad boys. They can’t resist the excitement. Yeah this is true. I know women who would meet a guy who was a total asshole, anyone they asked would tell them the guy's a jerk, and they would just keep asking people until someone said they should give the guy a chance. This is why I always…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:18 PM
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I already said it's not optimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:48 PM
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Are you saying men just take what they can get rather than trying to find the person they have the best compatibility with? A lot more than women do, yes. It's not optimal, but I have sympathy for someone who feels like he has no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:42 PM
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They just don’t want to feel like a used sex toy. Unless you're Chad, then it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:21 AM
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I never wanted to say yes because I didn't know if I'd miss out on someone better. Lol women in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:50 AM
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Man finds kind woman attractive. Woman : "That's pathetic" Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:02 AM
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The woman may know that his behavior is deplorable, but finds his attractive because of it. There's videos of women admitting "I like dickheads".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:12 PM
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it's obviously not going to work for me anyways so why should I embarrass myself? True
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:41 PM
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You're nicer than me because I would have told her to rent a beachside air bandb if she was so desperate. I would have asked for money, and a deposit to cover any damages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:40 PM
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does this shit work with other guys? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:39 PM
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wife lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:28 PM
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Why would you want to make people hate you? Seems weird to me. Like purposely being an ahole. It gets men laid a lot more than if they were boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:23 PM
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who's friends are constantly and regularly introducing them to single women? If you are highly attractive, then you can be sure they are introducing you to every female friend and almost showing you off. Otherwise, nah. Only seen it happen once, when this dude was being a total whiner and someone pity-introduced him to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:19 PM
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Love is for good looking people, and bad boys. Some people are not meant to find someone, men should have learned this by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:17 PM
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Most of them have a GF or a wife by now though. We're in early 30's. Hardly a consolation to have started your dating life at 30, when your women peers are out having fun and having a more complete life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:16 PM
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Which is why tech guys are frequently alone get together with tech girls It's not an exaggeration. Most engineers I know have nonexistent dating lives, and plenty of them work at FAANGS, are involved in sports etc. Not basement dwelling neckbeards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:58 AM
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‘invisible’ to whom? I bet normal guys do approach you, you just don't notice it because you're not interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:40 AM
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young men don’t want to face IRL rejection Nobody does, they are not special in that regard. Romantic rejections suck. Job application rejections suck. All rejections suck. We only deal with them as much as we need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:37 PM
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A guy that sits in a closed up dark room playing video games is not attractive Aka men should give up things they enjoy doing to go do things they don't enjoy in the slim hope that it attracts women. Also, "be yourself". Also, women are not a hivemind and find men with different interests attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:33 PM
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Hobbies don't matter to women, unless accompanied by fame or social status of some sort. A musician playing in front of a 100 people is attractive, a musician who only likes to practice and jam with his buddies might actually be a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:32 PM
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Men making say $1M-$5M would be pretty happy finding doctors thst make like $250k. Any man making 5M who is dating a woman making 250k is an idiot. ​ Most high earning tech guys around me ask to be introduced to my doctor friends all the time. Cuz there are barely any women in tech. ​ They make more money than doctors, but the women doctors still prefer other doctors. Not substantially more, and doctors have a lot more social status than some nerd engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:30 PM
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Shake it harder, it might start working.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:56 PM
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race has nothing to do with it Lol sure, you go ahead and sleep comfy believing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:55 PM
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kissing hundreds of people is nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:54 PM
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Only because women will only date equal or up, and as a female doctor, a male doctor is the easiest option here. If they could lock down millionaire businessmen, they would ditch doctors in 2 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:48 PM
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Those are just a few anecdotes. By and large, women have more options and a far better dating and romantic life than men. It's just that we acknowledge and try to help women with their insecurities, while we tell men to stfu and stop eating cheetos if they talk about theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:41 PM
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It means you are not attractive enough to fuck, but she will use you as a last resort option if you make more money. Then you can enjoy your annual unenthusiastic BJ while she times the delivery of divorce papers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:00 AM
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Dating is not about fairness, isn't that what PPD says? ​ If he can find a chaste woman despite being a manwhore, good for him right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:55 AM
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Chad shows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:53 AM
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"I used to be a starfish in bed, but then after the 12th random dick that fucked me, I learned to move around" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:51 AM
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And either their husbands were themselves whores, or spineless simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:46 AM
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>Either get on the self improvement train or shut up Always the advice of people who had everything handed to them on a platter. You're a white guy I'm assuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:44 AM
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Not everyone has the same gross ideas as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:41 AM
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insecure And as we all know, insecurities are only allowed when women have them. Then the whole society has to bend itself to cater to those insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:37 AM
3

Cri is free.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:06 AM
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No self awareness in them whatsoever. A 10 is not having any problems. Unless some drug lord has forcibly kept her as a trophy gf or something, she has no problems floating through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:03 AM
1

Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:28 AM
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If you are hot, you have a good personality (aka halo effect).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:21 AM
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Probably? Likes attract so maybe your friends are like you. Curious, are you asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:37 PM
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Exception
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:45 PM
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This is what most attractive men and almost all women do in their 20s. Fixed it for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:45 PM
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I just get into relationships whenever they are convenient to me and make me happy. Imagine having this level of privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:43 PM
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My partner is hot Compared to the guys you hooked up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:43 PM
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It's pretty sad to say but the majority of red pillers I've seen on this sub are simply trying to get their sausage wet from as many people as possible And what? Women aren't having hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:39 PM
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drugs and alcohol Being the "drug guy" just seems to attract women like flies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:39 PM
2

feasible sex robots begin to be commercially viable. Those are not close to happening unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:28 PM
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It's not where the majority of people are finding success, though. It was 40% last I checked, and now it might be the majority. ​ And it's especially not the best place to find out what a person is actually like in their daily lives. Nobody wants to use dating sites where you find out more about people. I used OKC, where I would only send personalized messages (based on something in their profile) to women who had answered a lot of questions and there was a very high % match (97-98%). I also fil…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:05 PM
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Hint : more and more people are now meeting online.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:35 PM
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But men are equipped to actually go to war and deal with the trauma in the first place? Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:06 AM
1

> because you missed the promotion is unattractive Crying might be a bit much but I guess you have no idea what it feels like to work and work towards a goal and have it snatched away at the end. I have see the strongest of men get knocked out (even if temporarily) by major career setbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:38 AM
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the bad boy with the thuggish vibe, the talkative extrovert, and the one with some fame. Then those dudes fall into one of these categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:42 PM
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I don't want women lowering their standards for anyone, last thing I want is to be settled for. The difference between men and women is, men have a lower threshold for attraction and they go head over heels for average women too. Seen many men totally in love with chubby women. GENERALLY, I don't see the opposite. Women fall for the same 3-4 stereotypes. The chad, the bad boy with the thuggish vibe, the talkative extrovert, and the one with some fame. That is not in itself bad, women should fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:32 PM
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No personal attacks sweaty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:51 AM
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>The best way to impress a woman is to take a genuine interest in her, her hopes and dreams And then get friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:57 AM
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It is more the supposedly successful people who propose such solutions. "Just be yourself" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:55 AM
1

You're on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:54 AM
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Don't you value anything else in a relationship? Girls just wanna have fun /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:54 AM
1

99.99% of these options suck 80/20 HAS BECOME 99.99/0.01 !
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:52 AM
0

Just be yourself LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:49 AM
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>Like could you not possibly get into a relationship if you just take care of yourself, have good manners and are just in general a decent human being and like idk, walk up to someone ask them for their number in a nice way and through that get to know them better and see if you’re compatible? Not if you want any consistent success.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:48 AM
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You get some relationship experience under your belt Not everyone gets the opportunity, THAT's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:42 AM
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Man bad woman good. -Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:48 AM
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Women also create 70% of the bs work in the house. They are generally the ones to overfurnish the place, and then complain about how it takes so much time to maintain everything. Men don't give much of a fuck about having 35 pillows on the bed or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:47 AM
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Women really don't have any self awareness do they? How long have you been on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:15 PM
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Learning to love themselves "I am dating a tall rich handsome doctor, why don't incels just become tall rich handsome doctors? It would solve all their problems!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:12 PM
2

Failed hard. Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:11 PM
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I knew that my value didn’t come from what people thought of my looks Hilarious. Here's the truth : looks, money and power are the main things people value each other on. It's a childish fantasy to think "who you are inside is what matters". It doesn't for the vast majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:05 PM
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So blackpillers not wanting single moms when they themselves are not single dads = them wanting hot young things? Nice leap o' logic there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:47 AM
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Nah we simp for average women too. Last I ever kinda simped was for a chubby girl. Women ONLY drool over hot/famous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:55 PM
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Where's the lie
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:53 PM
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You said "women" not "pretty women". I already responded to this. "You only think that a small minority of women get these privileges, because the extremely beautiful ones are treated ridiculously well. Women in general are treated much better, and it's so common that you don't even notice it." ​ Plus, the pressure of physical appearance and the misery and stress and dehumanization that weighs upon women is not fun, even with the benefits. Believe me. Many would trade it in a heartbeat to actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:52 PM
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Out of curiosity, are you on the spectrum? What kind of parenting did you get? Controlling overbearing type?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:41 PM
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The whole clubbing experience seems like it could be totally free for a woman. It is, unless she's super ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:28 PM
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The average 5 woman wakes up from her bed she got at Ikea which Bobby, her totally just-friends friend Tyler picked up and drove home for her. She walks to the bathroom, takes a shower and laments the 2 lbs she gained on her 120lb frame despite the 1hr co-ed volleyball she participates in once a week, and applies the effortless beauty she bought off a shelf. 6. She dresses herself in something flattering (6.5) and readies herself for the day. She catches the bus, but oops, forgot her bus pass. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:25 PM
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Women don't need to sleep with the guy to get the privileges. You only think that a small minority of women get these privileges, because the extremely beautiful ones are treated ridiculously well. Women in general are treated much better, and it's so common that you don't even notice it. Ugly women know what I'm talking about, their experiences are similar to those of average and below average guys'. You are basically conflating pretty privilege with female privilege. They are 2 separate things…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:04 PM
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Men treat pretty women with kids gloves. No men treat average women with kid gloves too. You can say they treat ugly women poorly and that would be true, but that's like the bottom 10% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:00 PM
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They are dicks to each other. Not so much to women, although some guys are. Most guys treat women with kid gloves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:51 PM
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So things that are options to you are not options to average men. Traveling is expensive. When a woman goes to Europe, she can have Pedro the fuckboy drive her around everywhere on his bike, and stay over at his place for free. Nobody's gonna do that for a dude. If anything, there are a lot of places where single men are not even allowed in (stage entry rules). We don't get to have the same experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:49 PM
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Travelling, meeting new people Women use these as euphemisms for fucking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:40 PM
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Lots of women are against the hookup culture too. Then they don't have to participate in it. If they refuse to participate, it falls apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:00 AM
2

I found some stuff in incel subreddits quite relatable Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:54 AM
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Experience what in life? The life of an average guy and an average gal is polar opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:50 AM
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Ofc you do, free meals for you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:30 AM
1

gender based pay discrimination Doesn't exist in the western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:28 AM
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expecting women to sleep with them on the first date at his place without spending a dime So if we pay, we get to sleep with you on the first date. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:19 AM
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A lot of men treat eachother better than they treat us, Stopped reading right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:53 PM
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Trust me, it's the same problem for guys like me. So many women just have this switch that flips. Initially, they want all the fun and good times, but it's all with chasing bad boys/chads etc. Then they suddenly go into "responsibility" mode where they suck all the fun out of life. It's like they have no idea of what balance is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:31 AM
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they told me just be yourself and don’t change you’re adorable Lol as usual. Any man who listens to women for dating advice deserves to stay virgin forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:59 PM
2

I have heard stories about how some women hate it when their bf/husband works out a lot. They get insecure af.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:18 PM
2

The shy nerdy man tries to go for the shy nerdy woman. Nerdy woman is drooling over fuckboy athlete Chad. /End story
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:35 PM
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Here's an example : https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/dqka4/my_friend_is_misogynistic_but_does_amazing_with/ ​ TLDR : Attractive misogynistic dude says outrageous shit to women and beds them easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:21 PM
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But hey, if you ask "how to be attractive" as a man, you must be a rapist asshole loser. Unless you are an actually attractive asshole, then it's all fine and dandy, and you just need to "grow up a bit".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:09 PM
5

There are things that generalize really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:08 PM
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Chances are those guys who just get it had good examples growing up and they mimicked those while the rest of us mimicked our henpecked dads and romcoms This. I have noticed those guys have specific family dynamics, or sometimes they are so good looking they have to barely try.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:06 PM
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> Never having sex again unless the men proves that he cares about me, can provide financially, mentally, physically and more ​ 3 days from now, Chad will text you "Wyd?" at 2 am and we all know what will happen then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:23 PM
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If I wouldn't fuck a guy casually, there's no way he's attractive enough to date. That's not how a lot of women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:52 AM
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Ah yes, god forbid women exercise any agency and take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:45 AM
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If Black women can find a way Don't black women complain a lot that even black men don't find them attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:18 PM
7

If she gets pregnant for having consensual sex, then that's her own damn fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:15 PM
8

well adjusted Makes me laugh when you use these words to describe these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:14 PM
4

What if a man is baby trapped? What if what if what if.....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:33 PM
4

I’m 20 and can’t support a baby Just don't have sex, jeez. You guys are harping on this like it's a basic need.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:31 PM
3

Invest in the prison industrial complex now!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:29 PM
1

Use raw milk ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:27 PM
3

So this is a good thing right? Cuz most of the justices who passed roe v wade were men. Now we are back to a blank slate. States will decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:22 PM
21

It is 100% your personality Lol I doubt any dude on PPD is stupid enough to believe this. I know enough sexist assholes who have 0 trouble with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:20 PM
1

Gaming and porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:13 AM
0

This is exactly why there are so many stories of men inflicting themselves on the woman until she falls for him. SO.MANY.STORIES. And these women are convinced he is the one true love or some shit. Sometimes it feels like they want to voluntarily give up any agency, so that good or bad whatever happens, it's the guys' decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:55 PM
3

Because LTRs are the only form of relationships that exist huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:54 AM
8

Looksmaxxing is the only advice that works. Love is for good looking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:42 AM
1

unless a guy is attractive/rich/famous
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:12 AM
3

So interpersonal chemistry had nothing to do with sexual chemistry, damn. Disproves all the shit women spew here about "connection" mattering. How good looking are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:28 PM
1

How many times a week do you go out, and how many women do you approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:25 PM
1

That physical attraction trumps everything else, man or woman, LTR or fling or ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:04 PM
5

Alfalfa genes run in their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:46 PM
0

I question how far we should drop our standards I hope women don't drop any one of their standards. I encourage them to keep them as high as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:45 PM
2

#1 - ok #2 - Lol unless a guy is attractive/rich/famous, he's not in control of anything. Women hold all the cards. #3 - Woman can make any allegation of abuse and you are absolutely fucked. #4 - We deal with other issues, like balding and prostate cancer, higher suicide rates, involvement in more dangerous professions and therefore more workplace injuries. #5 - Fuck off with this point. #6 - Just your personal opinion so not worth a response. ​ Men have to be worried about other things. We are …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:43 PM
7

Women flock to these guys for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:53 PM
3

And as we all know, finding them fuckable = fucking them. Or was it that women didn't want casual sex? Sorry I am not qualified to participate in female mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:07 PM
-1

I don't want them to lower their standards. Tradcons probably do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:06 PM
-1

What's wrong with being a nerd? Invariably they are social losers who women wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:33 AM
0

If he was on the football team, what makes you think he was a nerd?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:32 AM
3

Nerds have been replaced by sociopathic techbros.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:32 AM
3

Future is Hikikomori for bottom ~50% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:43 PM
23

You almost had me in the first line lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:20 PM
48

How many haircuts per second are we talking here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:19 PM
1

If your strategy is working for you, then all good, you don't need to make this post really, because it's a non issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:02 PM
1

This post does not surprise me. Women want the guy to "just get it". If that involves literal mind-reading, then so be it. Delusional and narcissistic. No wonder dark triad guys do well in dating, women can chew up and spit out a good guy like it's nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:57 PM
1

Not unless I were a single father (which is unlikely to happen). Reasons are obvious. Her kids are her problem. If she got knocked up by some deadbeat, that's on them, none of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:24 AM
12

So he started having success, and you argued with him and made sure he went back to his idiotic bluepill ideas so that he remains a failure, and now you are going around preaching "there's someone out there for everyone". If my sister was like you, I'd be relieved to cut her out of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:03 AM
7

Hehehe he got you good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:55 AM
2

In this state of oligarchy both men and women must work. There is no incentive for women to change. They have mostly already "won" in the western world As a woman once said, "I will have my cake, eat it too AND get the cherry on top. Watch me."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:18 PM
2

I also feel sad that a lot of men seem to feel their self worth overall is based on their penis size That + height + hair + wealth. 3 of those are genetic, and wealth is not THAT easy to get. And I'm saying that as someone who was very lucky in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:32 PM
1

all this bullshit reverts back to their penis measurements Let me guess, you also use the expression "big dick energy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:26 PM
11

It's always better to be the "dirty secret" ex of hers, who she did all sorts of stuff with, than be the billy beta who gets vanilla missionary once in a while and has to deal with her controlling behaviors and nagging all day every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:23 PM
1

How you evaluate the behavior of men is up to you. As a guy, I am only going to be calling out the behavior that is directed towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:17 PM
4

And then going and dating the most dominant, toxic guy you can find.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:54 PM
7

Dumb hot dudes have no problem getting either sex or dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:48 PM
2

just be yourself Ghouling around in the corner Doesn't work if some guy is naturally very introverted (ghouls around in the corner) Doesn't work on introverted girls even.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:08 AM
17

Brutal but correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:31 AM
1

Nothing is warped here. Asshole game works on a LOT of women. It's almost never a turnoff. Casual sex with chads is rampant. Whatever the reasons behind these phenomena, it will lead to angry dudes. Nothing you SAY will change their minds, because what they see is more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:18 PM
1

If you have nothing to say, you can stfu?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:50 PM
2

how you move Like Jagger?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:37 AM
6

He's rich and famous, and probably has some asshole game too. That's more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:37 AM
8

do nothing but different girls every night notoriously bad in bed Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:55 PM
10

she was visibly disappointed afterwards Hahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:54 PM
1

You don't "get" sex from someone Ofc you do, you can pay for it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:19 AM
6

Even ”Chad” struggles Anyone who has chadifshed will tell you getting casual sex as chad is easy af. I would literally ask women "dtf this weekend?" and plenty said "love the confidence".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:15 AM
2

Women are not more or less moral, in fact they studiously avoid making moral choices at all. I see this all the time, whenever there is a difficult decision to be made, they kind of just throw their hands in the air, cry and moan, but never take a final decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:12 AM
3

Traits in general don't matter Bingo. When it comes to attractive people, we fill in the blanks with whatever we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:06 AM
6

I was refuting your earlier point about bad boys being something boring dudes made up. Don't change the argument to weasel out of what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:47 AM
6

This stereotype is exclusively for boring dudes trying to denigrate non-boring dudes by calling them “bad boys” and putting the halo effect on themselves. Hardly. I know some guys who are abusive bullies. They are one of those typical ones who are happy to start screaming obscenities at you in a friendly game. Almost every guy I know got sick of their antics. But these guys seem to have no problem attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:13 AM
10

> "find herself" > slept with 7 guys in under 3 months Why is it always this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:25 PM
12

I have never approached someone. Tutorial mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:08 AM
1

> negative It's not a negative if you are truly redpill and not severely limited in some capacity (extremely short, disfigured etc). Hookup culture is the best thing to happen to men who know how to navigate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:38 PM
1

Redpill never says anything is wrong with women. In fact, it tells men to accept things as they are and change themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:03 PM
0

Lady, I have also had to all that. Welcome to regular life. You weren't disadvantaged, your brother was privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:39 PM
1

Work your ass off how?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:16 AM
1

This is the crux of the problem in many ways. If we don't respect ourselves and take our own issues seriously, why should women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:15 AM
1

or men have been socialized to not expect it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:14 PM
1

shamed for not being romantic enough
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:07 PM
1

They get shamed for it. Women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:55 PM
2

Do you directly ask "would you like to go out?" or drop massive hints hoping he'd ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:36 PM
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I don't think I'm attractive (I'm definitely not pretty). My fiance is much hotter than I am. He is tall, has amazing face, hands, everything. I do get hit on in real life, but I never used online dating so I don't know how would it work. I've never been rejected because I never approached a man. Tutorial. Mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:19 PM
1

Yes it's pointless. They have the upper hand, why should they care? Men are stupid to be expecting solutions from women. Band together to change things, or stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:48 PM
1

Lot of women don't do that. Some because they are shit human beings, others because they don't know how to do it. They assume they are supposed to be recipients of romance, not initiators.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:45 PM
1

I know it doesn't mean me being a performing monkey while she sits back and enjoys the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:34 PM
1

Equal effort in dates and activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:33 PM
1

limited view Lol, says someone whose view of romance is chocolate and roses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:08 PM
1

Doesn't mean anything since it doesn't translate into action.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:07 PM
2

Physical affection. Equal effort in dates and activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:28 PM
2

If that's the limit of what you consider romantic, then that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:54 AM
2

In all those romcoms, women are recipients of romance. What do they ever do for the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:53 AM
1

Women are more "practical" about this stuff. Just saw this today : https://www.reddit.com/r/india/comments/v7t9qu/ended_my_4year_old_relationship_tonight/ ​ She gets a high paying job, and suddenly a 4 year relationship means nothing. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:51 AM
1

Wtf are you saying? Can you word it more clearly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:49 AM
1

It's not that difficult for men to have sex Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:48 AM
1

It works, you just need to mix in a bit of lovebombing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:47 AM
1

I'd say the vast majority of women do this at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:46 AM
1

Those women are not Nonmonogamous, they are just hoping that Chad dumps the other girls and becomes exclusive with them. They don't like his fucking around, but they put up with it for a while, hoping he'll change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:26 PM
3

Cool, don't be surprised at men becoming more toxic, after seeing what works on women and what doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:24 PM
2

It completely does. CEOs politicians have far higher rates of narcissism and sociopathy. I have know only a few really abusive toxic guys and they never have a problem attracting women. They make more money, have more sex, are treated better by everyone. It's a good life if you can learn to be as toxic as them, which takes a lot of practice for people who innately have empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:23 PM
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Almost every man disagrees, but hey, ignore 50% of the population at your own peril.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:21 PM
1

Not all friends are deep friends. So many friends are just casual friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:21 PM
2

You know what, you compared disrespect to rape. I don't even want to engage you because those 2 are completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:20 PM
1

So being friends with toxic men is not ok, having sex with them is. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:31 AM
3

Sex isn't an incentive or reward. Can you stop with that moronic line?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:08 AM
2

That's not disrespectful, it's illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:06 AM
2

If being toxic helps me be more successful, in both my personal and professional life, why would I not do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:05 AM
1

It's not like refusing to have sex with them would make them any better, and it's not like anyone particularly cares about the personal views of a hookup. Hahahahahahhaha oh my lawd did you win the olympic gold in mental gymnastics?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:03 AM
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Yes I'm sure casually sleeping with them makes them reconsider their toxicity lol. Be more deliberately obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:02 AM
2

Radfems tend to have the most toxic, assholish bfs I have ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:01 AM
2

Become attractive or die trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:55 AM
1

Large numbers of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 09:40 PM
3

So the answer is no, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 09:39 PM
2

it's also heavily male-dominated Doesn't surprise me at all. If we take everything into account, being the "feminine" side of the dating equation is easier and more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:11 AM
4

If women want their tall handsome chads to commit to them, they should ask themselves if they are really on his level.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 09:20 AM
5

That competition is what makes "winners" jaded and prone to cheating. Their mentality becomes "if it's a competition, and I won, I get the spoils too, I get to do whatever I want now".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 07:56 AM
1

Virgin then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 07:54 AM
0

consensual There's your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 07:18 AM
12

They are single, not necessarily celibate though. That's probably why they are not complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 07:18 AM
2

That's why redpill suggests spinning plates. One of your plates might be getting nitpicky one day, but another one could be down for anything. Of course, the main thing is you need to put some effort into replacing the ones that leave. Which is why having a repeatable, successful game that generalizes well is useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:43 AM
1

high value life partners Life partners? It's just casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:22 PM
1

Income isn't too big a problem, esp when it comes to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:54 PM
1

There was a reddit thread by a woman about her tinder usage. She was below average looking, living in some nordic country, and swiping EXTREMELY selectively. She said she only swiped on guys she felt a spark with. Turns out, in a country full of tall white handsome dudes, she was only swiping on hardcore 10s. So, sometimes spark = looks. Other times, spark = a guy who is incredibly extroverted, talkative, always the center of attention wherever he goes. Those guys have a "spark" with even introv…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:23 AM
2

Well done on getting rid of that first bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:59 AM
1

Chad bot ​ Genetic Appearance : 8 Maintained Appearance : 8 Social Skills : 4 Net Worth / Income : 1 Logistics : 2 ​ With 8 for both genetic appearance and maintained appearance, I'd be Chad. Women will move heaven and earth to fuck Chad so fewer points on logistics are not a problem. Income isn't too big a problem, esp when it comes to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:15 AM
1

The women here are not incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:54 PM
1

Why would the statistical sample of PPD women be biased?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:50 PM
2

Why would I not? They all claim to be extremely functional in happy relationships, and they are all over the age ranges too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:08 PM
1

Those men generally marry a doormat wife and have their fun with a high n crazy side chick. They don't want to marry crazy, they just want to have some extra fun. Or they are scared of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:47 PM
1

Men communicate sex through love.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:45 PM
2

Attraction is king. Become hot or die trying. Niceness is literally a nice to have. A hot douchebag will ALWAYS have a better dating life than a good normal guy. If you are hot AND a reckless bad boy, you will find women who will go to the ends of the earth to help you. If you break up, they will forever pine for you. These men have the strongest hold on women. Their exes never get over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:24 PM
10

Why would a bad guy change his behavior if the world rewards him for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:20 PM
2

Yes, women do. There was a thread on PPD wherein a guy said he doesn't do casual hookups and would like to find a woman who also doesn't. Every woman on PPD said that it will be impossible for him to find someone who doesn't hookup, and that there's too many great guys out there for women to not engage in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:21 PM
1

Things have improved for men yes, but women are just coasting now. There's nothing difficult left in their lives. They have managed to force society to acknowledge obesity as beautiful. It's nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:36 AM
1

/u/houstongradengineer Anything else lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:35 PM
1

Those gains have mostly plateaued for men, due to other issues cropping up. Women on the other hand have every goddamn advantage now. More women getting into college than men, easier jobs, privileged treatment and support everywhere. A woman would have to actively make efforts to ruin her life in the western world. Everything is handed to them on a platter. The barest of effort will get them incredibly far.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:57 PM
1

Are you trying to make a point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:03 PM
2

https://www.economist.com/europe/2017/06/01/who-gets-into-more-wars-kings-or-queens
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:38 PM
0

men here constantly claim women never did anything hard or dangerous or important Hard? Sure. Dangerous, sure, but the most extreme and dangerous jobs were still mostly men, like wars and exploration. Important? Most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:34 PM
1

In the past 100 years, things have eased up for women a lot. With the rise of the middle class, women have had it exponentially easier, and in the past 50 years, it's been nothing but coasting, esp in the developed world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:33 PM
1

Most are average, not particularly nerdy. None tomboyish. Makeup etc : I'm sure they put some effort into it, but no bombshells.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:32 PM
2

men rulers started these wars
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:30 PM
-1

Men couldn't opt out of war. You won't win the victim olympics. Men died on the battlefield all the time. Still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:22 PM
1

It says that you are probably used to being catered to and treated special, and men are more willing to do that for women. Other women would be more likely to call you out on your crap so you don't end up getting along with them. Every woman I know who has mostly male friends, tends to be entitled, demanding and narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:23 PM
1

People don't have an incentive to understand something, when understanding it goes against their interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:48 AM
13

So all that we have proven is that both genders had it pretty bad. Anyone trying to claim one gender worked more or having it worse is a bonafide moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:21 AM
18

Germans are very social people what
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:56 AM
11

And men just laid on their asses doing nothing right? Oh right, they were down in coal mines since the age of 11 dying from black lung.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:05 AM
1

watching too much porn Observing too much reality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:08 PM
0

It's also evolutionary for men to be violent and rape. So you don't have a problem with the occasional Elliot Roger right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:07 PM
1

EVERYONE on /r/lonely is trash? Women too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:56 PM
-1

most of my friends are guys Most women who say that are raging toxic bitches and other women have no incentive to be friends with them. It's funny how ya'll think men on ppd are toxic, when you can't make friends with your own gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:43 PM
0

If that company is so terrible, why do most women I know seem to keep breadcrumbing these guys, keeping them on the hook?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:41 PM
13

Bad sex with men who don’t really care about them has little value to most women. Hookup culture is rampant. Enough of this lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:41 PM
0

They don't want meaningless and bad sex from strangers they don't know. "We don't want it but somehow we keep falling on chad's dick halp" Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:36 PM
1

Well now you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:57 PM
1

I was talking about casual options being massively abundant. Read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:56 PM
1

Women have unlimited options if they want a casual fling, One night stand or a regular fuckbuddy. I don't want to hear anything about how "women don't really want those things.". The prevalence of casual sex says otherwise. For the FEW women who have always had a "boyfriend only" strategy, yes they have to go for their match and work hard at finding the right person. But that's just the experience of the average man too, so it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:12 PM
9

Man should fuck her and then decide if he wants anything more with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:29 PM
12

And in this environment, it makes no sense to present yourself as bf material. Be the guy she wants to fuck immediately. Become hot or die trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:20 PM
13

It's a reasonable assumption in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:19 PM
3

> If you want a nice, good girl, who is not a slut and has been with only 2 guys her whole life Lol like that exists in the western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:18 PM
1

Lol no. And don't even get me started on casual options.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:30 PM
1

Yeah go off on how average guys have plenty of options lol. You must be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:04 PM
2

Attraction cannot be negotiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:13 PM
3

No it's not hate. Women are in general not as strong as men. Is that hate? It's just a biological fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:12 PM
1

They are shooting way out of their league. Same difference. When some fat single dad with no job asks for put together beautiful women, he is deservedly mocked too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:09 AM
1

/r/whereareallthegoodmen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:17 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:12 AM
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Unless a woman is really fat or ugly, she will always have dating options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:11 AM
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Obviously?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:27 PM
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Average women wanting to lock down tall handsome millionaires/celebrities/athletes is not a struggle. It's delusion. EDIT: They are entitled to their delusion, but not to sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:23 PM
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When the f have men fought for women Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:21 PM
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How else will you really test the claim that both genders are having the same amount of casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:12 PM
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Dread game. Nice. I had the same experience. Due to some hobbies, women assume a lot of other women are in my DMs etc. It doesn't make them back off. They just fight harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:33 AM
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Him : "Hey I'm an asshole, just so you know" You : "Tee hee you're so funny"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:29 AM
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Because that will tell how much casual sex members of each gender are actually having over a long duration.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:23 AM
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People die everyday. Time to move on. Just like women will once Roe v Wade is overturned. Time to move on from that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:23 AM
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And all women deserve tall handsome millionaires?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:07 AM
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Actually I think it's great if women do that. Makes it easy for me to filter them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:02 PM
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Men seem to not want any friendships. Idk why, but it seems to be what it is. This is one of the few points I agree with women on, men have 0 interest in supporting each other, and dump everything on their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:35 PM
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Friendships are not unnecessary. You need someone to talk to other than your partner. All real world evidence seems to contradict this. Every single one of my married friends have almost permanently stopped talking to each other. And I'm talking about 10 year plus friendships. All thrown aside the second they got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:24 AM
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It's hard to see those tables. Do they have the information of how many members of each gender have had 1,2,3.... casual partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:07 PM
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how often would you wanna see your partner? Probably every alternate day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:54 PM
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All women have had at least some casual sex. Not true for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:47 PM
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How long have you known that she is beyond triple digits? And do want to even be with her now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:45 PM
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Ask women. They seem to care a LOT. A man having seen an escort even ONCE in the past is a massive problem for them for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:32 PM
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I can't even imagine her baggage. This is really really extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:30 PM
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They'll put out if you dangle a relationship in front of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:15 PM
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This kumbaya bullshit is why we have so many bad actors in society. Forgiveness can only come after penance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:09 PM
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For women, casual sex is always available, so their percentages are meaningless. Chad gets to fuck her no strings attached. Random guy wines and dines her before anything happens. It's easy to see who's the sucker here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:07 PM
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Ofc you do. Didn't expect anything else from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:04 PM
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Cuz nobody wants to play second fiddle to some chad who fucked her in the club bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:36 PM
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so I won’t be marrying any “whore” anytime soon. How convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:34 PM
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Top 20% of men are having 80% of the casual sex. Pareto principle. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pareto\_principle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:17 PM
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What part of that was unclear? If n counts are inconsequential, go marry a whore. You people rave on and on about how high n count women are so great, go marry one with triple digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:12 PM
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Easy to not care when you have access to unlimited sex at the drop of a hat. Next you'll tell me millionaires don't think money is that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:07 PM
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All the other relationship stuff is much less important What other stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:05 PM
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80-20 applies to casual sex more than relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:04 PM
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Yeah? Go marry an escort. Put your money where your mouth is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:02 PM
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Bro he's estimating 200 maybe. If it's a 1000, I don't even know what to say. That's professional escort numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:59 PM
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So any lie is forgiven once years have passed? I could lie about seeing hundreds of escorts, and once we are married, she should let it go because "what harm could it do?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:43 PM
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Damn bro. What's your count?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:42 PM
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