Link : https://robkhenderson.substack.com/p/no-one-expects-young-men-to-do-anything

This article talks about how men respond to their environment, and what is expected of them, and what their motivations are (in general).

Since dropping a relationship at the drop of a hat is considered a-ok, men will do that.

Since there is no pressure towards having stable 2 parent households, men will abandon them too.

Here's an excerpt:

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In a fascinating 2012 paper titled Sexual Economics, Culture, Men, and Modern Sexual Trends,  the psychologists Roy Baumeister and Kathleen Vohs wrote:

“Although this may be considered an unflattering characterization…we have found no evidence to contradict the basic general principle that men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal more. (One of us characterized this in a previous work as, ‘If women would stop sleeping with jerks, men would stop being jerks.’) If in order to obtain sex men must become pillars of the community, or lie, or amass riches by fair means or foul, or be romantic or funny, then many men will do precisely that.”

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And this is why extensive courtship is dead. In conservative parts of the world, sex was mostly in the confines of a marriage, so men were fine with courting women for long periods. Now? 3rd date sex or gtfo.

Women can rail all they want, unless they are beautiful, men will not wait 3 months to fuck, knowing she blew some dude in a club one night.