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Yeah lol. Wmen already living like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:15 PM
31

Eh. I went to a very liberal university town and girls with a rep higher than their neck were definitely passed around but few would actually date them. The language may have been censored or couched in more PC terms sometimes, but the sentiment was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:15 PM
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Planety of women chase unattainable guys too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:03 AM
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I agree five would be unreasonable, but women do the same shallow shit. They go for attractive guys for superficial characteristics, or reject guys due to status and the work they do, etc. Trying to bring in shallowness to dating seems off because so much of it is shallow whether people recognize it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:31 PM
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Hard disagree. Men fuck those girls but if they aren't total losers , they often will not commit long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:29 PM
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Yet women throw themselves at men who conduct themselves in such a manner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:28 PM
13

Oh please, women are represented if not over represented in many institutions today. Some of them being very important when discussing this like school teachers, psychiatric professionals, and politics. How are you gonna blame men entirely for something like schooling, where studies have shown extreme bias in grading and a neglecting of boys by , you guesses it, primarily female teachers. And I've been there for my bros and them for me, so this is utter nonsense. I don't want to go into this bul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:26 AM
9

Again strawmanning. When did I say women are the only people responsible for societal ills in this case? And please, mental health services are woefully inadequate and the rhetoric around guys in the media and elsewhere it's toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:33 AM
12

Ok don't put words in my mouth. How about, for starters , society listens to men and tries to provide services that can help them out of their funks before it can lead to poor outcomes. Shooters are the most extreme version but let's be honest, most of the casualties of this are suicides. It's not just on women, it's on everybody to foster a society that doesn't let people fall out to such degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:47 PM
35

It's not on women to solve, it's on men and women to solve on a societal scale
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:46 PM
24

It's just dismissive , unhelpful, and serves only to shame and punch down on unsuccessful men which breeds poor psychological outcomes and resentment. There is an aspect of truth to it, yes, but telling someone that they aren't entitled to a need in life is not very useful or productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:30 PM
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How many guys truly do 'nothing'. Most guys have a full time job/career, college degree or not. Also nice job you immature twat, how about some civility or are you too dull for that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:06 PM
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Ok I'm gonna chime in to say that you're vastly underplaying the importance of sex. It's our biology and people that suffer from a lack of sex and intimacy often have adverse outcomes, psychiatrically speaking. This isn't up for debate, there's plenty of evidence to support this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:02 PM
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For how little women try, it's a laugh to hear that kind of argument. I really could give a shit if she has a piece of paper that lets her make 40-60 k a year lol. If she isn't fulfilling other needs and trying to be a good mate, she can fuck right off with it. Go be fat on someone else's time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:59 PM
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What an asinine statement. What about blue collar jobs? I have friends that are grossing over six figures in trades and I would say they're pretty bright. One guy dropped out of college because he saw that it's mostly a waste of time. He's currently managing electricians and making more than most I know with degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:56 PM
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I think the difference there is that men and women support a ban on abortion based on ideological grounds, ie certain strains of Christianity and beliefs as to what constitutes life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:55 PM
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Well it goes both ways too though. A lot of connections and institutions have abandoned men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:57 PM
1

Lol or you're just attractive. Man if you're attractive it doesn't matter what you do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:56 AM
6

Lol do you realize how mainstream reddit is and how many people use it? The days of reddit being just for nerds are long gone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:56 AM
2

Man I know everyone pretends like it doesn't matter, but most every girl I've known that had n counts approaching or over 35-50 we're rife with mentally illness, commitment issues, and of course, infidelity issues. I know that not EVERY woman is like this and exceptions exist, but by and large, most guys I know with successful relationships are with women that were not that slutty
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:39 AM
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I don't find it misogynistic at all but in the current cultural zeitgeist you'll get reamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:37 AM
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Yeah lol, it always seems like those types fuck and date the scummiest dudes. Either that or they have a cuck bf that they basically control
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 09:54 PM
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I think you are missing the point. If women are the net receivers and benefit the most in taxes, it's ridiculous to tell unsuccessful and forlorn men to that ' haha survival of the fittest, pay taxes and support the other half while you get nothing!'. Even without taking into account this topic, it's still brutally unfair. Why should there not be enough men's shelters and subsequent funding allocated when they make up the majority of homeless. Why are women boycotting the construction and alloca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:21 PM
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I'm not even an incel and it annoys me. I'm fine with allocating taxes to people in need / I'll never see, but to just funnel it to women is unjust
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:47 PM
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Yeah I think the goal as a society is not to adhere to unfettered darwinism. We fail on that often, but that's the idea
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:46 PM
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It's been demonstrated that people still lie on surveys even when they know it's anonymous though. I can't claim to know the true percentage of cheaters, but nothing presented here is definitive in the slightest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:14 PM
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No offense man, but I've had many friends who felt the same way. It's not like cheating is always obvious. Man some of the women I've bagged who were in relationships had zero guilt and I'm p sure most of their partners still don't know lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:12 PM
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I feel like men aren't explicitly told that often tbh. Also fatness is a bad example because it affects both genders and negatively hurts their chances at finding a suitable mate. A better equivalent would be something they can't change like your vagina is grossly big or your titties sag or are too small etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:43 AM
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I don't know what kind of studio she's going to, but that kind of behavior is not tolerated where I live ( at least in any of the good studios /halls). I'm honestly surprised they have a lot of guys because I'm usually one of like five vs. 20 plus girls in salsa
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:15 AM
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How on earth are those small changes? You can definitely develop a more optimistic outlook with those changes lol? You can mitigate introversion with those changes. Religion is debatable but I feel like the hardcore religious stick together and are a dwindling population among younger folks How you look, act, and your financial status are probably the three biggest things governing attention, and they widen your pool considerably
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:14 AM
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What kind of dancing? I've personally never witnessed this in any sort of dancing outside of clubs lol. Salsa, swing, Irish you name it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:07 AM
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Wtf...how about no? If you're fat or dress poorly? You can change that. If you lack social skills and confidence ? You can change that. If you lack means and a solid career? Yup, you can change that. List goes on and on. Every single one of these things will increase the girls that will be into you dramatically
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:06 AM
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To be fair, a lot of successful men also find it hard to empathize as well. When reality is that much different, it's easier to pretend it isn't so to preserve the just world hypothesis type of shit. I've found a lot for attractive guys are almost offended or feel attacked if you mention the huge advantage attraction plays. As someone who has lost, gained, and lost weight again, you'll never see me in denial. It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:03 AM
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The counter being, of course, that beggars can't be choosers. If a man can only get sub par options, it's that or being alone for extended periods or even forever. Women like to pretend the reverse is the same but most women have enough options to whittle down to something decent eventually, so long as their standards aren't unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:59 AM
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Yeah I hate this thinking because it's dismissive and places all the blame on men. It doesn't really provide any information on the percentages of 'good women's, whatever that means. At the end of the day, regardless of percentages, many men will end up with bad women or risk being alone. Many men lack good options
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:57 AM
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Kind of. The problem is that women aren't offering a whole lot and they over estimate their worth. This is further complicated by the unreasonable standards many women have
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:55 AM
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They do if they have money. Huge plus if they are still fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:38 PM
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Shit like this is why I stopped caring lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:36 PM
2

There are shitbag people in either sex dude. I never said otherwise. Getting defensive is silly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:31 AM
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Lol yeah because that's always easy. Ever hear of alimony, child support and custody, and divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:06 AM
1

I mean, most people aren't making as much money as the people he's referencing. That isn't even going into the height and the admittance that they're all good looking. Since when did reddit deny that chads have choices and standards ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:43 PM
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Yeah wtf? Of course those guys have the pick of the litter lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:42 PM
1

Talk about victim blaming lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:00 AM
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Dude for real. I've been with friends who have the looks and charisma and it doesn't matter how cool you are, if you're average they're taking the girl over you. The girl that was talking to you is now interested in him etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:03 PM
2

Don't conflate getting sex easier and thus having less anxiety/ more confidence with not wanting constant attention and sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:02 PM
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Bullshit. Most guys that fit into that category spend an inordinate amount of time pursuing women. It honestly gets annoying because a night out with friends never is about that. Been friends with guys like this my entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:01 PM
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Yeah I can't even think of an exception tbh. I'm sure they exist but I haven't seen it that much. Ml
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:09 AM
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I dunno I see way more men compromising heavily on standards than women. Usually if the guy is fatter or less attractive, he has other things going for him ie lucrative job.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:07 AM
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I hate it when people attack generalizations when it comes to dating. Most people are pretty fucking samey. If you have a decent- great job, good looks, and a shred of charisma, you can get with any given woman more often than not. Looking for these rare snowflakes that become attracted to you due to 'passiom' towards anything is pointless. Most women will not care if youre passionate about history or gaming. If it's a hobby that appeals to most people you will get more traction. Overcomplicatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:05 AM
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Agreed. It really does make people feel uncomfortable when they have to grapple with the fact that life isn't fair and humanity is just a bunch of fucking monkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:39 PM
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It's different form of it though They don't think they are and are usually good at masking their excesses. Also cog dissonance. I have a friend who's charming and attractive, who will get mad if someone insults a girl he's with or has a bad thing to say but doesn't feel shame or guilt when cheating. It's honestly asburd and because he's socially savvy/ attractive, he gets away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:26 PM
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Yeah it happens but it's rare. I'm not gonna try to defend all incels, but I'd bet a lot of money that aside from the insanely mentally ill ones, they would have turned out differently if they were attractive and or had status lmao. Thinking otherwise is just world fallacy at best and doesn't address the underlying problems
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:21 PM
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I agree but none of that will happen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:25 PM
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And sure, it might not manifest in violence in 9.9/10 cases, but with a population as large as the us has, that extra .01 is enough to be a problem. Furthermore, it often manifests in other forms of dysfunction like mental disorders , lack of engagement in society, and suicide. Mass shootings and participation in radicalized groups are the scariest manifestation of the frustration, but the other outcomes often suck too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:43 PM
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I mean ,clearly mental illness is important when discussing these matters, but I think you're underplaying the effects of social isolation and a lack of intimate contact with the other sex. These are fundamental needs and humans were not meant to suffer total deprivation. When you have people alienated for years, even decades at a time, shit breaks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:41 PM
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That's not true and there have been men and women! Who advocate for these issues, up to and including creating movements, organizations, and even institutions to help men. Anyone that does this is attacked and vilified , however. A good example was that woman who tried to build a men's homeless shelter and literally had to abandon the project due to backlash. This is a problem but when the media blames men for virtually anything, is it all that surprising? Look, if you think the media and societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:39 PM
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That's problematic but I think the real frustration stems from the lack of acknowledgement by society and a glossing over of men's issues in general. I don't claim to have an answer but there isn't enough talk about how to address this properly. I strongly suspect that the shooter epidemic is related
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:06 PM
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The men becoming violent thing is confirmed by studies into extremist groups lol. When members of ISIS , white supremacists groups, etc are analyzed, a common thread is that the men are lonely and sexually frustrated. Radicalization and a lack of sex/partnership go hand in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:42 PM
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Which is what trp tries to convey. The issue is that people front as if this isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:44 AM
2

I'm not so sure tbh. I had similar experiences when I was younger and shared his mindset.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 08:24 PM
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I mean..not really? Hes not the villain at all, just misguided. He's clinging to outdated ideals
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 08:23 PM
2

This is def a way to get friendzoned. A colossal time investment on something that is far less than certain. I'm all for advice tailored to uggos, but this ain't it. Should come as no surprise that many orbiters are fat and /or unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:41 AM
1

Yeah it's dog shit. There are women out there that won't do that but it's hard to find
/r/TheRedPill19/06/22 07:29 PM
1

Well yes, men adjust expectations and settle of course. This doesn't apply to attractive, successful guys though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:47 PM
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She's acting like the average gal these guys pull is a sti ridden, toothless meth addict lol. These guys are pulling all sorts of women, most of them desirable. It's laughable that she thinks that they can't pull quality women lmao, it's not like these guys are losers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:46 PM
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You're saying that not me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:45 PM
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I'm not saying all generalizations are accurate but enough are to extrapolate from. This applies to men and women. There are things that the vast majority of people are similar to each other on, and its very pronounced when you look at dating and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:06 AM
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Not sure wtf you're talking about tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:04 AM
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Yeah I really hate when people try to cite the individualistic aspects of humans. Generalizations are more accurate when dealing with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:51 AM
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Dude I'm gonna be real and say ive known and still do know some real Chad player types, and they don't text anything great on dating apps. I've seen them basically send some asinine bullshit, or other times being callously direct, and they close the deal pretty fucking fast. Women are so full of shit when they say we should compose some amazing prose when they respond to hot guys who go hey let's meet or you're cute, my place. Seriously, if you ever befriend one of these guys, take a gander at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:49 AM
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Yep and women always say , ' but not all women are like that !', which may be true, but how do you know off the bat? Well you don't, so you treat every gun as loaded. Men can't afford to focus on one person until that person has proven beyond a shadow of a doubt they're real. Don't listen to what women say really
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:47 AM
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For real. A lot of lesbian couples I have known have a dynamic where one of the girls is more butch and the other feminine and submissive. Their roles in the relationship uncannily mirror hetero relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:16 AM
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3 things : That's a very optimistic take and I used to think that as well. The truth is many leaders, corrupt governments, And even your everyday average Joe do not operate rationally. Putin is a good example where rationality has stopped applying. If profit is king, why is he willing to destroy his countrys economy for some stupid, vain war venture ? You're again talking about a pitched, conventional battle. Resistances employ guerilla warfare and operate cells. If power is all that matters, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:04 AM
1

Explain why it isn't sound? And don't merely say drone strike lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:35 AM
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You're being dismissive but the logic is sound. It's possible to believe the government will restrict liberties and rights and impose a certain level of power vs complete and utter annihilation of it's citizens dude. If they employed a strategy that even remotely resembled that, it would be almost a good thing because any fence sitters would immediately hate the govt lol. And it's a means of potentially fighting back if it ever comes to it. Successful insurgencies have beaten back foreign powers…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:29 AM
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Yes men are always at fault. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:18 PM
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Disagree. You think drone strikes would be used in dense, populated centers? That'd drive virtually everyone against the government. Even with drones, guerilla warfare has been hard for the us to deal with. Like no shit if the military took the gloves off and didn't give a shit about civilian casualties they'd win.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:59 AM
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I honestly don't get how you can live I'm the us with our government and police forces and really think that giving up the right to bear arms is a great idea. We just had trump and other fascist fucks in power and for plice look at uvalde, among countless other incidents
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:20 AM
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Or maybe address the actual underlying issues lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:08 AM
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I'm not about sacrificing liberty even if it's safer. I don't trust the government
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:50 PM
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Eh yes and no. I think a lot of people realize that they need to compromise for security.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:49 PM
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Not sure what's hard to grasp here but ok. Women tend to fall into apex fallacy and focus on a subset of men that are successful then erroneously assume every guy is that successful or at least benefiting to some degree. Outside of absolutely hideous guys, ive found that women don't understand that most guys aren't able to pull much and almost never have more than one girl interested at a time, if even that. I've known a lot of guys that are decently attractive and successful but they go months …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:14 AM
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Lol that's absurd. The most successful of my friends are attractive and basically exemplify red pill behavior. Im not sure if any of them have actually read it or if it's natural, but they're textbook examples
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:53 PM
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The average guys that have decent jobs that I know have either settled hard or have borderline trophy wives that limit sex and don't blow them anymore lol. Some are happy but most seem like they're going through the motions to fit in tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:51 PM
1

Yeah because women obesity rates aren't extraordinarily high lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:45 PM
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The difference being that ugly men that pull that shit get dumped while attractive men have girls pining for ages
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:29 PM
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It also becomes more complicated when you realize that certain behaviors are interpreted way differently or harshly depending on the looks of the man. Most people aren't cognizant of this. I'd bet my left nut that there are behaviors she doesn't see as bad with attractive men that doesn't apply to unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:29 PM
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I don't buy it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:15 AM
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Barely. Tommy guns were insanely accurate and used to great effect. Rifles have gone through some iterations but the m1, m14, and m16 we're all formidable. Keep in mind many shootings lack a ar to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:10 AM
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The country was far worse across every social metric years ago. Misogyny, racism, homophobia you name it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:09 AM
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They aren't the only variable but it's easier for idiots to digest rather than actually taking a critical look at society and our culture. The fact that people don't realize this issue is being raised by politicians for malicious reasons shows you how liberals are stooges
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:09 AM
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So some of the shootings were handled poorly / bungled. So what ? It's impossible to prevent them all so how does this affect the root cause of the issue ? By all means step up policing, but we need to ask ourselves why our society is breeding this soet of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:06 AM
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I find it hard to believe that our politics have not had any impact on the epidemic of shootings we currently face. It makes people uncomfortable but these are questions we should be asking if we are to understand and address the problem effectively
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:04 AM
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I don't think you can wrap this up neatly like you're doing. This country has been flush with guns for hundreds of years but it's only after 98 that we started to see a huge uptick in shootings. There is a societal problem here and even if red pill ideology is insufficient in explaining it, I think there are some cogent points to consider. I've seen people across all sorts of manopshere subs ring the alarms at the state of young boys and men today, often citing that they're sexually frustrated, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:03 AM
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Why top ten? I dunno, he seems pretty normal looking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:38 AM
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I mostly agree with you but I'm gonna play devil's advocate and say that most of those men would look good with any haircut lmao. Look, I see a lot of dorky and ugly fucks sporting insanely expensive and well groomed cuts and they are not successful with the ladies. That's not to say they never find one, but a good haircut won't always help you that much but it's better than a shit one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:37 AM
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Yeah I don't even get that horse shit. I guess it's good advice for the more slovenly men out there ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:32 AM
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It's too true tbh. I know guys that pulled out of their league due to having money but I always hear ' she doesn't blow me anymore', ' sex is regimented or rare' etc etc. Without physical attraction, she will never truly desire you and validate you as a man , full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:31 AM
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That's really the biggest issue here, especially when you realize some men have to grind WAY harder than others. I dunno, I've met very few women that inspire the will to meet all of those standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:29 AM
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It's funny when you feel more guilt than she does for the other guy lol. I've had guys buy me beers and dinner thinking I'm this great guy when I'm cleaning their gf and I honest to God felt bad. I don't do that shit anymore but man
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 04:54 AM
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Yeah they don't but man, too many do though. Gun is always loaded etc
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 04:53 AM
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Man even after finding red pill, shit like that shocked me tbh. It's one thing to theorize about it, and it's a whole nother thing to actually see a woman callously cheat on their significant others with zero guilt. I have so many stories
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 04:52 AM
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Yeah that's what red pilled me the most tbh. Being with a girl who is sleeping with me and has absolutely zero conscience / guilt about it as the guy is sending messages lol. The best is when their home screen on the phone has dudes picture. Women are fucked up lol
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 04:50 AM
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Wtf are you even on about lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:56 PM
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Lmao a women's only dnd game. Good luck with that !
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:55 AM
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Yeah if I was hot enough to just smile and have women approach me, things would have been easier. You gotta grind if you're not hot. I'm gonna assume the dude above is like some buddies of mine who lack the self awareness to know they're more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:53 AM
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Yeah that's another issue plaguing platonic friendships - you need to have harsh boundaries which ironically make them less of friendships than with guy-guy a lot of the time. But again, the issue is often that there isn't enough reciprocity. I've found that girls aren't very thoughtful to reciprocal and that is a big no no when it comes to male conceptions of friendship. Doesn't have to be 1:1 but there has to be something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:46 AM
1

Because we tell men that women can act platonically like other men do but in reality nine times out of ten the woman either fucks you, wants to fuck you and / or you bring her undeniable value ( in this case she actually makes some effort to be a friend), or she pegs you as an orbiter and uses you when needed, which ends up being a one sided arrangement that can hardly be qualified as a friendship. Exceptions exist but this is usually how it goes down. Most women don't even know that the orbiter…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:35 PM
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Only a woman could post this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:06 AM
2

Yeah for real. They might keep you as a back burner orbiter or a 'break glass in case you need to move a couch' type of friend, but they rarely respect or care about you. It's fucked up but it's true. I've seen the way I'm treated differently between weight gain and loss
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:05 AM
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I've kind of wanted to make a topic about this in regards to female friends. I've definitely noticed that women treat me better when I'm more attractive, and that extends far beyond dating and sex. I'd even go as far to say that most attractive women will not see you as a valued friend unless you hit a threshold of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:02 AM
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I never said any of that lol. I'm just stating facts. Women are often insanely lacking in self awareness or awareness of much outside of their life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 07:10 PM
-1

Lol whatever man, I know short dudes who are married
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:28 PM
1

They definitely have an in group bias though, insofar as women as a group are concerned. They'll band together on that shit no doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:24 PM
1

I'm gonna have to disagree here. I know of guys that try and it isn't easy, but persistence does pay off unless you're hideous. If a guy is working out, has a decent enough job, and actually puts in time and effort, he will get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:23 PM
1

They definitely don't lol. The idea of it is alien to them and they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:19 PM
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Yeah there's a huge disconnect. Sometimes they'll even assume you're getting play even though you're average. A lot of women lack awareness of the plight of men and even more don't care. Just how it be
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:18 PM
1

Ugh of course you latch onto one word instead of addressing the question. No not in every case but I'm done here because you just want to argue for the sake of it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:22 PM
1

Wtf is your point? I know of guys that use cold approach and online dating and they get laid more than the average dude doing none of that. Who gives a shit if it ain't common for average people? We're talking about people going for casuals ex and or many dating opportunities, not the average Joe who finds the one he's gonna marry early and settled
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:41 AM
1

For you. Again, this is only relevant for people that do them, whether online or otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:19 AM
1

Yeah that's the usual approach for normal dudes but we're talking about approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:22 AM
6

That..doesn't sound unreasonable? I honestly don't know many guys that can reliably pull above 50 percent and the ones that can, or seemingly could ( didn't see all their approaches, obv) were good looking, good shape, etc etc . Normal ass dudes pulling 8/10 women is a good ratio unless they're diving to the utter bottom of the barrel. Assuming standards here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:25 AM
4

I don't get the reference - care to elaborate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:28 AM
3

I don't get what you're not getting here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:48 PM
4

I'm saying how there is a baseline if physical attraction that has to be met before you'll feel those feelings. It gets even more confusing when you consider the fact that more attractive people tend to be seen as better across every metric, which leads to an amplification of good qualities and a diminishing of bad qualities in our minds. Most humans aren't objective or self aware enough to even recognize this fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:29 PM
7

I guarantee there is a floor for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:40 PM
2

Or if the guy compensates with personality and or status, she never really becomes all that physically attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:40 PM
2

The truth is that most people, men or women, tend to be friends with members of the opposite sex they find attractive or if they want an orbiter. Real platonic arrangements do exist but come the fuck on. I've met so many women that treat attractive guys better than their less attractive counterparts. I have had better friendships with women when I was more fit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:26 PM
1

Female friends are overrated. I've rarely met other girls through them, and the friendship often implodes if you two have sex, which is likely imr
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:26 PM
1

I mean, I don't think the argument was ever that more choice cannot be problematic...it's more that more options is preferable to less. Without options you're basically fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:03 PM
2

Hey, say what you want about gay guys, but iver never heard anything but redpilled advice from gay guys. They're real as can be when it comes to this shit. Many have expressed sympathy at the fact have to deal with women vs men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:57 AM
2

You can't do a 1:1 to chimpanzees. Being a close ancestor doesn't mean that you can draw parallels like that. As for monogamy, that's highly debatable depending on what socio biologist or anthropologist you study, and even then there is no true consensus. It is a fact that infidelity was usually frowned upon and knowing that a child was yours mattered alot socially, culturally, and from an evolutionary perspective. Women most certainly have employed a dual mating strategy that mimics primates, b…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/22 02:16 AM
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Dead ass. Lol dudes with little to no options aren't the problem here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:47 PM
13

And even if they won't, how can the man actually know? It's not like most girls advertise the fact that they're sluts or sleeping with others when dating. They're just a bit more socially savvy than all that. Race to the bottom is right. Men who have choices have no reason to wait because they have no idea if this hypothetical, singular girl is playing by the old school rules. Every gun is loaded etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:47 PM
1

I think I was responding to somebody else and accidentally responded to you. Someone said that education is the difference
/r/TheRedPill24/04/22 08:08 PM
1

He's not entirely wrong though. Women certainly slept with more than one man, but it was usually discrete or in the context of needing to fuck for survival when another tribe conquered yours. If a male didn't think the baby was his, he'd either leave or kill it outright. We've come a long way from that but for a long time that was reality
/r/TheRedPill24/04/22 07:36 PM
1

Oh please. There is sometimes truth to this but I've seen the same behaviors regardless of class. Some of the most vicious women I've been with or known had a degree and or enjoyed a high income lifestyle. Don't kid yourself
/r/TheRedPill24/04/22 07:29 PM
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Also, if you read my posts throughout the topic, I'm highlighting how attraction wanes in relationships. You may have once been attracted to someone but five years into a marriage, familiarity has led to boredom and / or the man in question has aged/put on weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:01 AM
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Yeah, it's not a coincidence that familiarity and / or men putting on weight correlates heavily with a lack of BJ's. The spark isn't there anymore due to x amount of factors. I'm not even sure it's avoidable in most cases. Familiarity alone results in boredom and a loss of the spark
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:00 AM
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Women and men hook up with partners they don't find that attractive all the time lol. Many people get married to someone that is less than ideal in that category due to other considerations they value more. If you haven't seen this or heard about this from people in your life, or deduced as much, I dunno what to tell ya
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:56 AM
13

Really? I know a lot of guys that complain about their wives progressively deleting various sex acts, blow jobs being the most common, from their repertoire. It almost always coincides with longevity of said relationship ( the longer it goes on, generally the less frequent sex acts become in many relationships) and / or the fact that the guys are letting themselves go. In almost all cases, regular sex seems to be semi frequent and the women in question show behaviors that indicate a lack of attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:53 AM
8

It's an act that takes effort and is relatively one sided. Ime , most women only get pleasure from the act when they find me attractive. I've noticed that when I get BJ's from women who aren't head over heels, it seems more like a duty bj than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:49 AM
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People will argue no but yeah, it def is. Every guy I know that complains of a lack of blow jobs as their relationship wanes on have let themselves go or the girls have become bored. It's always clear as day that the women who deny them BJ's have lost attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:47 AM
3

It's this desperate attempt to find fairness in things that aren't fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:34 PM
4

For real dude lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:13 PM
12

The amount of people that lead truly interesting lives is small lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:57 AM
4

On 100. These guys could work out in a certain way or dress better, maybe hone their social skills a bit, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with everything else lol. They're unattractive physically and have some negative social behaviors to iron out. Even with that said, I'd bet my left nut if they were more conventionally attractive, they'd get away with most of this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:56 AM
1

I fail to see how journaling, no fap, or even the gym is interesting. Gym is maintenance and while good, is hardly interesting. Lol at journaling being interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:53 AM
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Dude for real. I know guys that watch their diets and hit the gym semi regularly but all they literally do is game, watch anime, and go out. Women flock to them because they're attractive, full stop. The two guys described above just need to dress better and work out in the right ways and boom, suddenly interesting. Ftr , skiing is an awesome and interesting hobby lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:48 AM
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Yeah skiing is more exciting than most hobbies. I know of a lot of women and men that don't even do anything half as active and engaging as all that. As for weed and videogames, plenty of women are super into that too so what's the problem? Oh right , nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:45 AM
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Nothing, usually less in fact. I've dated a lot of pretty women without any brains or interests worth a fucking damn lol. I'd rather take the video game guy who is capable of intelligent conversation over the average woman I date when it comes to company and interesting topics of convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:44 AM
1

To women, getting fucked easily by certain types of guys is winning lmao. As if those guys ain't laughing about it with their boys later
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:42 AM
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Fair enough but the average woman isn't all that interesting either lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:40 AM
3

Dating is a fast and loose term and adhering to some strict definition is pedantry at its finest. I don't know of anyone that doesn't describe seeing people as dating. You could argue that fwb isn't dating but the effect is the same, if not worse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:29 AM
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Not boyfriends, but fwbs and random hookups wherever, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:44 PM
1

Fair enough but a lot of people do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:42 PM
10

I think it's more when you go on a second and even third and she's still fucking and dating throughout. Kind of sucks and this goes for the other way around too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:24 PM
8

The hilarious thing is that they get mad at the reverse on god.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:24 PM
1

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:15 PM
1

Being funny never hurts but I agree. I've known plenty of over weight guys who are a proper riot and everyone loves them, yet they score little to no pissy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:15 PM
1

It's crazy when you see how women just go full beta over a high value man. I'm not wholly unsuccessful but when a super attractive friend of mine shows me how crazy girls are goingo over him via text, calls whatever it's mind blowing. I can't relate to girls going bwtshit over me after a short period of time. Hard to feel bad for em lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:53 PM
3

This is pedantic. Its obvious the poster is referring to immutable characteristics and there is certainly a science to it. Symmetry of face is an obvious one but there are a host of commonly attractive features. Research has even shown this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:28 AM
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Pretty much. I've never met an attractive man that had to play the demoralizing 'numbers game'. That shit is reserved for the unattractive men out there and it kind of annoys me when people try to pretend it's a blanket experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:26 AM
1

I Mean, a lot of his shit is stages, but let's not pretend Dan has any trouble getting women lmao. That's wishful thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:06 PM
2

I think I worded that incorrectly lol. It did help me when I was younger. Kinda tipsy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:15 AM
3

It's not just a looks thing tbh, but looks help. It's also attitude and personality. Look man, I've never met player types ever lack in the getting pussy department. I don't even know how people can argue this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:26 AM
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I mean , of course attractive people have more sex as a rule, but that's not what I'm getting at lol. We're talking the massive disparity on experience between average, perfectly fine dudes vs. fuck boys and it's a big fucking disparity. That doesn't mean that the normal dudes won't get anything I've rarely met average women that cannot get sex and relationships fairly easily tbh. Not compared to the men I've known
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:22 AM
2

When did I ever say you didn't exist? I know of girls, past and present, friends and family, who didn't engage in that or if they did, learned quickly. Doesn't change my opinion that many girls engage in it , especially when they're younger. I've never met an attractive fuck boy that didn't get laid shit ton in his younger years and that's just reality. I have known a lot of decent, average guys who were sexually frustrated and or didnt have much sex I don't get why so many women assume that I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:14 AM
1

Let em run with it if they want lol. I could give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:08 AM
2

Interesting theories but nah. And who said they were the majority? They're a decent percentage of women, I only took issue with it being this Uber fringe group
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:08 AM
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Meh not really. I never got more pussy in my life than when I was kind of a piece of shit. Shit changes as you get older and there is always a decent percentage of women that avoid the lifestyle I'm highlighting but that goes without saying. I've never met an attractive fuck boy that didn't get more pussy than the average guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:07 AM
3

I'm not perpetuating anything lol. Reality is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:05 AM
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I mean that's great but let's not pretend that these guys don't have major success in their teens to mid twenties at least. I'm sorry but women are that age are not thinking about stability all that much, to call it a minority of them is preposterous
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:27 AM
1

It works but only for the right people. I've known guys that make it work consistently but they're very attractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:47 AM
2

What is this horse shit? If this was the case women wouldn't fuck guys they met on online dating or at a bar. Some women, SOME prefer the slow, safe thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:46 AM
1

Oh I agree, and that's mainly what I was referring to. Every time this topic comes up you have women using this straw man of elite body builders on tren, as if that group is ubiquitous in the slightest. A natural body builder? Oh yeah, he slays pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:43 PM
1

I agree on some of that but no one really waits if they're attracted to someone. Sex happens pretty quickly imo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:42 PM
2

Lol no they don't. Those men don't lose anything when 'found out'. I've seen guys like that have women chase them for ages before they finally give up, and later on in life they still find someone to settle down and have a life with. This reeks of just world fallacy bs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:40 PM
3

Yeah, they have easy access to sex at all times so why rush a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:19 AM
3

No shit, how does this contradict what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:07 PM
1

Exceptions do exist but this isnt something to bank on. Chances are most over weight guys won't land someone as attractive as you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:36 PM
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I'd say far less than .5 lol. How many people are actual body builders to that extent
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:32 PM
2

Lmao wtf was that about anyways? That guy wasn't some mega Chad but to say he's ugly is absurd. Easily above average
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:13 AM
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It's horse shit because we already know from stats and our own anecdotal evidence that most men are not having oodles of casual sex 247. The only guys I've met that are extremely non committal are those that have sex on tap, and they're a very small minority
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:42 AM
3

This is such bullshit. You're looking at one subset of men and extrapolating their behaviors onto all men. Most regular ass guys want a relationship with a decent woman. For most, it's the only real option for reliable sex and companionship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:40 AM
2

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:04 AM
3

Underrated comment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:44 AM
7

It'd work if most people upheld their end of the bargain but that's clearly not the case. Nice people get walked on and treated poorly, period. There's a line for sure, but you have to maintain strict boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:13 AM
1

Out of curiosity, where do you live ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:03 AM
1

You don't have insurance ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:32 AM
3

As I've said elsewhere, looks won't make up for crippling mental illness and or autism, but most people are at least somewhat well adjusted. Also see a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:11 PM
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Not to mention that if you're fit and good looking, she'll actually WANT you in a physical way. I can't tell you how many guys I know that have pretty wives but it's obvious she doesn't go wild for them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:10 PM
1

It really is shit. I honestly find the juice not worth the squeee
/r/TheRedPill30/01/22 01:05 AM
1

I don't get why everyone keeps asking me this lol. Be open and expressive of your intentions are the outset and escalate. What else is there ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:04 AM
6

My cousin used to work with special ops types and this jives with what he told me - many of them were kind of fucking weird. Most well adjusted people don't want to be the most hardened killers around and devote their life to a nations military. I feel like the other branches probably have more normal bro types
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 11:33 PM
1

Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:15 PM
1

You're dumb as shit if you think that hooking up after a few drinks is rare or indicative of anything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:12 AM
1

Seriously dude. People implying im some rapist for hooking up after bars and parties lol. Where I live people drink every fucking weekend so I don't get how it's so fucking weird to the idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:11 AM
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Lol ok? Never had a metoo accusation nor do any women think it was creepy but ok. It's not like we're blackout drunk dude. These are close friend and we trust each other It's just an example anyways. Sometimes they come into me sober but it's happened a lot when we're close and drinking on night and we both get goofy and horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:56 AM
8

Usually we just get drunk one night and one thing leads to another. I honestly don't have any secret it just happens. Sometimes it led to a fwb or relationship for a time but it's never long lasting ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:28 PM
5

I don't have any secret and no, they're not on the spectrum lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:27 PM
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Hm not necessarily. I've banged 90 percent of my female friends and for the most part, it hasn't affected much. Mind you, I slept with most of them months and sometimes years after meeting, so it wasn't at the outset, usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:53 PM
11

It can work but it's a huge risk. I used to waste so much time and effort with this route and cringe when I look back on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:52 PM
6

I will say this though : sex doenst feel special to a man if he sees a girl fucking willy Billy but making him wait because h e 'bf material'. The only way that is special is if she is consistent in behavior ie makes everyone she cares about wait. Tell me, if you were dating a girl, with all the effort, time, and money that can entail, would you be ok if she made you wait a month for sex yet was getting dogged by guys she barely knows? Would you feel special ? If the answer is yes, well...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:22 AM
7

I can't help you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:19 AM
12

You're being disingenuous here whether you're aware of it or not. It's not about the fucking time to sex, it's about the general inconsistencies in behavior ie she is promiscuous but not for you because of reasons. That's the hang up and the bullshit men don't understand nor appreciate. If she's consistent in the behavior across all potential mates then fair play. And before anyone says, ' b but people change', I'm not referring to individuals who underwent a ho phase in their youth and grew pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:03 AM
6

The women they want to fuck are? I agree that guys should say fuck it and move on to the next one, but that isn't realistic for many
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:54 AM
4

Missing the point per usual. Why do the bf material men ahve to wait lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:18 PM
0

That's being inept at something. Man if you're attractive but can't get laid you're fucking inept. I know awkward ass motherfuckers that have gotten laid and married, so you're somehow worse than them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:45 PM
6

Men's only value is to cater to the wants and whims of women !
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:29 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:28 PM
4

I don't. A lot of people reach higher income brackets by their mid to late 20s, so it stands to reason that its more of the right time than when they're below or at poverty level and /or still in school. I've seen people that rushed kids and those that waited til they had a shred of financial stability and you can probably guess the outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:27 PM
2

No one is saying that crippling social incompetence or mental illness wont impede your success but most people aren't that inept
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:21 PM
1

Not to mention that some guys just aren't wired for game. I've known a lot of shy guys that meet a shy , homely girl and they get happily married. Not everyone can spit game
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 07:03 AM
2

2-3 months works if they're only 20-30 lbs over weight but yeah, that's about it barring severely unhealthy starvation lol
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 07:00 AM
1

2-3 months is realistic for some, but if someone's decently over weight they'll need closer to a year unless they want to crash diet which isn't a good idea
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 07:00 AM
1

Imagine the outrage if you reversed the sexes. Women have a problem? We just find a solution and men are the problem! Men have issues ? Bury it and censor them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:53 AM
3

Yeah, it's always so frustrating to see guys over analyze the breakup, especially since most guys who do so ( ime) are beyond decent. They'll literally over analyze every behavior and ultimately blame themselves for it, lowering their self esteem in the process. It's always another dude or dudes, and when you realize that you can save yourself a lot of hurt and move on faster.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 12:41 AM
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There is literally nothing to debate, so I don't even get why women posit this bullshit here or anywhere else. Men who are unmarried tend to have worse health outcomes and higher mortality, full stop. To say nothing of just general diminished quality of life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:53 PM
22

Why don't you actually do your due diligence and understand the terms you're attacking ? Awalt never was intended as a catch all for every single women on earth, but it's more of a 'treat every gun as if it's loaded' type of advice. The fact is that many , if not most , women exhibit awalt behaviors and it's highly unrealistic that most guys will find that unicorn, at least not with some skills and getting and time
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 11:24 PM
5

Man, how can anyone not be disgusted with that woman. What a cunt. Even the comments in YouTube concur
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 11:16 PM
1

People literally die earlier from lack of intimacy and sex lol. It's been proven in studies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:29 PM
0

If we're getting into paying for touch in afraid that isn't the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:47 PM
4

I'm not saying that all women are getting touch and validation, but I'd venture that more women are getting these needs met than men, which is clearly supported by data. The fact remains that most women have options and if they wanted to, they could resolve their touch issues at a moments notice. The same can't be said for a lot of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:31 AM
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Men also get less validation and access to sex compared with women. I have never met a woman who didn't have lots of men pining got her daily and /or giving her attention. Being alone as a man is not even remotely the same as being 'alone' as a woman. Even if she's uninterested in the majority of these guys as suitors, it's still a lot for attentions and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:28 AM
3

It's a garbage excuse to act like cunt. They are being selfish and taking the easy route and justifying it after the fact. The risk of getting insulted on a platform that allows you to block does not outweigh being rude and awful to people. Make no mistake, it's a garbage rationalization
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:31 AM
6

Seriously. Not to mention that they may think something is wrong with such a sudden shift in behavior ie the other persona is in trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:34 AM
5

Yeah, they can. They'd rather destroy the feelings of a decent guy than just get called some names and report and block a person. What a joke. I've been called names by women and I still have the decencty to tell them instead of ghosting. It's hilarious how men are expected to approach and take major rejection but women can be assed to be polite out of fear that a guy will insult them. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:33 AM
10

Oh no... not names ! If only there was a report and a block feature on most apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:32 AM
17

Lmao it's far worse to ask someone about an immutable characteristic...might as well be asking their ethnicity and race next.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:14 AM
1

This. Unless you're a total sperg about politics and constantly injecting it into every Convo, it doesn't matter. Unfortunately a good amount of people have become insufferable in this country but I digress
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:55 AM
1

You should get screened for ADHD imho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:46 AM
1

Very wrong lol. People with undiagnosed ADHD most certainly have trouble learning. Taking medication can be night and day. One of the most common grievances shared by sufferers of ADHD is the feeling of being slow, stupid, or having brain fog. It absolutely can make learning harder As an example: I've worked with people that started taking ADHD medication and their ability to pick up on things and work efficiently changed over night. I've seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:45 AM
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Well I never said it'd be effortless. Rarely do good things come to those who put forth no effort
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:17 AM
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That's not an accurate metric for measuring intelligence. People have greater aptitude in certain things. Also, there are a host of physical and mental conditions that can account for slower learning, so you're jumping to conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:14 AM
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Bars, activities/hobbies, meet ups ..... Anywhere man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:12 AM
1

This is pretty much what happens. Sometimes it's mid to late 20s, but that's besides the point. I see a lot of average guys wife up aging sluts , girls with kids, etc. The leftovers I often don't get the vibe that the women in question are all that attracted to their hubbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:04 AM
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How do you even determine if you're low intelligence ? Via iq? It's not as if intelligence is necessary to getting laid, but I digress
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:04 AM
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Gotta get off the apps and meet girls in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:02 AM
2

You need to change your terminology. When you say roided ogres, people think about roided out, misshapen body builders, not jacked rugby dudes...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:07 AM
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I swear women can't talk in averages most of the time. It's always but but I don't like it, or my friends don't etc. It's like the universe revolves around them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:06 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:26 AM
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Not to mention that countless women willingly open their legs for guys they have hardly vetted within a short period of time. If women are so terrified, why do they keep engaging in hookups like they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:26 AM
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Men buy into it too. I'll never forget what my friends wife's sister said in her wedding speech. Paraphrasing : there have been other guys, but you're by far the best of them and you should feel fortunate to be the one that nabbed her in the end. Said girl has a kid that isn't even of his own race. Ridiculous lol
/r/TheRedPill30/11/21 09:24 AM
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I mean, you're not adding anything to the topic, which already mentioned how even loser guys can fuck chicks if they're attractive and /or bad boy personalities. Your post is redundant and that's why it comes across as a stealth brag
/r/TheRedPill30/11/21 09:08 AM
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I totally agree but I'm not gonna pretend women don't understand what's going on and willfully take advantage of it. Of course men need to stop being pussies, nothing in trp would say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:46 AM
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Lol as opposed to what, your bullshit anecdotal narrative? The funny thing is that studies have consistently shown that women are far more socially adept and good at emotional intelligence when compared with men, but ok ya jabroni
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:34 AM
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Oh please lol. I've never met a woman who doesn't know in a situation like this. I think you're being purposely obtuse here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:26 AM
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It's super rare to be sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:24 AM
2

I feel like this doesn't really argue against ops statements though. If most of them wanted to actively get in your pants, I wouldn't say they were platonic friends. It stands to reason that they wouldn't be around much it the attraction disappeared
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:23 AM
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I think it's highly dependent on age though. Being single in your early to mid twenties is a lot different than late 20- early 30s. All that freedom means less when social groups dry up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:33 AM
1

It really is a crock of fucking shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:17 AM
1

It works a lot for guys I know who have things to show off and /or attractive on apps like insta. Obviously it's not gonna work for an average Joe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:51 AM
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Not fucked, but it certainly doesn't make things easier
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:21 AM
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Also the focus on dating apps is misguided anyways. Instagram, fb, snap, and a plethora of other apps serve similar functions for many
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:40 AM
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Ok, sure, but sex and intimacy are in the hierarchy of needs and the effects of lacking these things are well documented l.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:24 PM
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Yeah, sure, but isn't that the thing though? You're talking about younger men who are just starting to enter the game so it's absurd to expect that they won't make some social faux pas or make some awkward mistakes as they learn. Imagine being some average to below average dude earnestly trying to figure things out and having to pay dearly for one awkward encounter lmao. It'd probably scar you for life.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/21 10:07 PM
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In very rare instances, as in she's conservative as fuck about sexuality and/or religious, yes. But most of the time it's a first class ticket to being an orbiter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:51 PM
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This is the real issue nowadays. There are women who aren't doing this, but it's not always easy to tell. It's safer to assume they aren't
/r/TheRedPill04/11/21 09:03 PM
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It's not about everyone being disingenuous in this, just that a lot of people are. It extends from Reddit all the way to major media. Maybe you read and understand how to critically assess studies, but I assure you that most people don't. They find shit that fits their conclusions. I can't tell you how many times I've read through studies posted on reddit and found that they were bunk.. same applies to the media. It's way too easy to search for a bunch of junk and have to lend credence to your a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:29 AM
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Oh please. Most people don't actually open the study and properly analyze it. All of this source war B's is two sides googling for anything published that may fit their agenda and linking as much crap as they can. Call me cynical, but when I see people post 5 sources, I tend to not believe they did their due diligence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:18 AM
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I honestly hate how everyone yells about sources in every debate when you can find a source, or ten to support your conclusion. If you don't understand research and methologies and each study isn't critically analyzed to discern if it has actual merit, it's about as useless as anecdotes. Way too many studies get published with shitty methodology these days
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:05 AM
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Ya I hate this shit. Don't have fun, ever ! For fucks sake, as long as you have a decent job and take care of your fitness and grooming standards, you could game and watch sports all the time and still land pussy with ease. This advocation of a spartan lifestyle I often see on trp is unrealistic, will lead to high levels of burnout, and quite frankly is unnecessary. The chad like dudes I knew did not lead this type of lifestyle. It's one thing to take care of you shit and balance things, but to …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 08:59 PM
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Honestly, the gaming thing is only applicable if you're a total recluse loser. I know guys that have good jobs, work out, and all of that good stuff, but they game A LOT. They also have no issues getting pussy or girlfriends. What I'm saying is that as long as you're attractive, you can do what you want lol
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 08:55 PM
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I mean, generally the only people that think about this are average to below average dudes that aren't sexually successful lol. Ie: trp. I feel like taking that stance is approaching the matter from a naive and privileged position.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:57 AM
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Tis important, yeah. Style and fitness go a long way though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:55 AM
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Yeah, there are a lot of variables but I really do think that we should always avoid telling men that it's not all looks etc because they'll take it to heart and not work on grooming and fitness. At the end of the day, I can't think of anything that will result in more immediate results tbh. Game is totally different when you control for those things
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:55 AM
1

There is a strong correlation with loneliness and reduced life spans and increased illness, to say nothing of general qol ( mental health is a big deal even if it doesn't kill you as quickly as other things). Generally speaking, studies show that unmarried, single men have significantly reduced life spans
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:29 AM
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I honestly hate it when people downplay the importance of intimacy and sex because you can ' live without it'. You can live without a lot of things but is it even living at that point? Furthermore, the impacts of loneliness and a lack of sex are well known and understood across various disciplines; whats ultimately ironic is that the impacts start as mental health issues that quickly lead to physical issues over time, with reduced lifespans being a common consequence, to say nothing of general q…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:52 AM
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Lmao yeah, saying your bf is decent looking isn't that great of a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:46 AM
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He's not wrong but yeah it's def a suckers game. When I think of the guys in my life that slay the most, I wouldn't say they have amazing game or go on lots of adventures. They just look good, can flirt, and hold jobs lol. Most of them just hit bars mote often than not
/r/TheRedPill07/10/21 10:52 PM
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I agree but as a man, it sometimes feels like I don't have a choice. I try not to string anyone along, but when the average girl I'm seeing gets more attention and options than I could dream of, it becomes hard not to inadvertantly do so. The truth is that if I bank one girl and invest heavily, I'm at a huge disadvantage and it hasn't worked out well in the past. I wish it could but I'm not entirely willing to risk it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:16 AM
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Lmao this has to be the first time I've ever heard someone say that George Clooney is average in the looks department. You need your eyes checked
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 11:09 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:41 PM
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You're inferring that I hate them for it but that's not true. Also it's true that women have more options on average, you'd be delusional to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:43 PM
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Some guys don't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:00 PM
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That I can agree with lol. A lot of guys need to compromise and thars. Fact
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:12 PM
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Honestly, I know of a lot to gay men that have huge issues in their relationships, so your point on that doesn't seem to make much sense. Id reckon gay men would have an easier time if they held a greater percentage of the population. Somehow I doubt that it helps any
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:58 PM
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I never said they can't find one person they like, but with less options, their chances of finding an optimal partner is far lesser. Therefore, it should come as no surprise that men get owned. I'm sure if the average guy had even half the options a woman has, he'd be able to be more discerning and success rates of his relationship, marriage etc would be higher
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:53 PM
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I think sharing is the wrong word to use here and it's distracting from the greater point, which is that certain men will bang the majority of girls in a given friend circle due to their high smv. Sharing is being used very loosely here and I think you're being caught up on the direct definition, which is somewhat understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:51 PM
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There's certainly a balance to be had
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:42 PM
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If that's the standard were going to measure things by, then wow that's low. We're in the 21st century lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:41 PM
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I sort of agree, in that men can and should vet better, whilst striving to become the best version of themselves they can be ( in order to maximize their chances at finding and keeping the best woman possible). HOWEVER, most men will never have the amount of options a woman has, and therefore they are more likely to have to settle with what they can get, which may not be optimal for x amount of reasons. Women rarely have this excuse, because their options are so damn high in comparison. It's har…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:34 PM
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Yeah I could believe it. I'm not quite old enough to have witnessed too many divorces so maybe that will change
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:32 PM
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Yeah her explanation is total semantics. The time frame or the fact that you don't feel like it's sharing doesn't change the fact that it's sharing and confirms the whole soft harem angle trp so often illustrates. I think most of us have either been that guy or been in groups and seen that guy run through most, if not all the women. I can think of a few friends groups I've had where this was the case. Becomes less frequent as you get older because most everyone is in a committed arrangement, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:56 PM
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I mean fuck, money ALLOWS you the option to get PROPER help for mental health if that's your issue. Most people can't take a month or more off and go to some high expense clinic surrounded by top of the line doctors and nurses and therapists, or even get top end specialists in out patient settings ! Having money gives you the means to basically do and fix whatever you want, within reason. It might not buy you love and happiness outright, but it sure makes it easier to find those things Edit:. An…
/r/MGTOW04/06/21 10:48 PM
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Seriously, it's not some magic button where you press it and you're happy, but it paves the way towards happiness due to the options presented. Dude takes for granted the fact that he has high level health insurance and the ability to pay for advanced specialists, or the fact that he can shop at a high prices grocery store without having to check his savings, or the fact that he can afford maintenance on a good car without worrying, etc etc the list goes on and on.
/r/MGTOW04/06/21 10:45 PM
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Yeah but how reliable is it to care about that Disney esque bullshit? Physicality plays a major role in attraction. Furthermore, I kind of disagree with your premise. It's not that a girl doesn't like you when you're overweight, it's that she doesn't find you attractive enough to fuck, whuch results in a friendzoning. I've had plenty of girls love me but not wanna fuck me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:44 PM
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I agree with everything you said but you kind of contradict yourself when you say that anyone that says Men and women cannot be friends doesn't have many friends. You literally stated prior that women will never be able to provide friendship you derive from male bonds, and further reinforce the falseness of the friendship by stating there has to be a lack of smv mismatch and the girl literally has to want to fuck you lmao. I'm all for utilitarian social bonds, but all of that basically disqualif…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 05:57 AM
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Not to mention that having sex and relationships in your late teens - early/mid 20s is HUGE, seeing as how your hormones are raging and you're at your horniest. Nabbing some postwall chicks later on will not replace missing sex during that period
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:37 PM
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I agree tbh. I'm not trying to say that women have no difficulties, but abundance is always better than scarcity, regardless of what you're talking about. Sure it'd be ideal for most to have this finely tuned, perfect balance of things that prevents deprivation and excess, but that goes without saying. The paradox of choice is still more favorable than scarcity, and anyone that argues otherwise has never faced true scarcity in anything imho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:37 PM
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They're not instant disqualifiers tho, which is the point we're making. If you're fit and have a decent job, no reasonable woman is gonna care you watch anime. I'm telling you that the other things matter more than anything else. Hell, most chadbros I've known game pretty extensively and own the latest consoles...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:34 PM
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Yeah I was just about to say lmao. Girls might get away with it more but if you're a guy with things going on ie attractive, hobbies, a decent career...you won't have any issues with being a bit nerdy. I've known guys who are built with decent jobs who watch obscure anime and play nerdy ass games. You just can't be average or below average and expect much wrih that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:32 PM
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I'm not a huge fan of the wall stuff personally, but it's kind of common sense that you should leverage all of your assets at their peak to obtain a solid, quality long term relationship. There's a trade off and opportunity cost to waiting, how couldn't there be ?
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 05:55 AM
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It's truly bizarro world when men/boys are failing across every meaningful metric but they still frame it as if women are the true victims.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 05:51 AM
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Yeah only the most reckless admit to it freely or get caught. It destroyed your reputation. Also what they tell you can be different than what they tell certain others
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:42 PM
1

This is what I've seen in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:37 PM
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Yeah lol. A lot of people are acting as though you can know this definitely. Depending on the people you're around, admitting to cheating can be disastrous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:37 PM
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I feel like this question is kind of hard to answer seeing as how some people hide this well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:36 PM
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I personally don't think it's a problem. Sure, it'd be better if you didnt care enough to block, but realistically it's not always that easy, especially if you're still early in your journey. I'd say do whatever helps you, who cares
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:51 AM
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The stupid thing is 99 percent of it is common sense that any guy that ain't completely brainwashed would agree with loll
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:25 PM
1

Lol that's funny because I knew many drug dealers in college that fucked college girls. Maybe if you're talking about a literal gang banger in the hood
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:53 PM
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Yeah it's funny how a lot of the people posting have no experience in this and will even qualify with a ' I've never personally had this problem but this is what you should do'. People that haven't experienced this don't realize what it's like
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:37 PM
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I mean you have to do things to meet people, so that much is true. The rates of success may differ based on gender but half the battle is showing up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:33 PM
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Yeah I definitely feel that. It's hilarious to see girls that once had it all suddenly have feelings for you. I honestly find it kind of insulting tbh, to have the audacity to try and lock down a guy after he's crossed the finish line
/r/TheRedPill11/04/21 11:57 PM
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Dude for real. Even with possible exceptions, it's such a risky game to play.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/21 11:52 PM
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Yeah I agree and that all sounds well and good, but nowadays if you focus on forging a bond, you often get stuck in the friendzone or become an orbiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:57 PM
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If you can truly moderate your usage and use it a few times a year, I'll concede that it isn't a huge issue However, most people get pulled into a scene and end up taking it 1-3 times a weekend for a time, which is most definitely not sustainable.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:47 PM
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Bla bla bla I don't give a fuck. I've used mdma a shit ton in the past, as have many of my friends, and it ended up having serious deleterious effects. Virtually all of it was tested. Im familiar with the studies on mdma and all of them focus on moderated usage with strict controls on dosage and setting, supervised by medical professionals. It is widely agreed upon that taking mdma regularly and in large dosages isn't healthy. Shit fries your receptors and induces mental issues over time
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:44 PM
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Yeah that's where he lost me lol. Mdma is pretty bad for you. I wouldn't personally touch that shit again
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:15 PM
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Man, I just cringe so hard at this. You know they're stupid teenagers trying to be edgy and don't realize how embarrassing this is lol.
/r/MGTOW11/04/21 06:49 AM
1

Damn that's refreshing to hear from a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:10 PM
1

I never understood this. Sex isn't difficult and virtually anyone will become proficient in a relatively short period of time. If you place a premium on sex being mind-blowing out the gate, don't expect guys that aren't players
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:10 PM
1

Objectively? I don't think it truly matters. By societal standards? Definitely past 20, maybe earlier. It
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:01 PM
1

I don't even understand that sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 05:27 PM
3

Lmao right ?
/r/askTRP10/04/21 06:04 AM
2

Dude if you have an actual medical condition , you shouldn't feel ashamed about it lol
/r/askTRP10/04/21 05:59 AM
1

Sometimes I can't tell if these posts are fabricated lol. I don't use dating apps but Jesus Christ, it can't be this bad, can it ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/21 02:54 AM
2

Lmao. I have a similar story actually. No shit stains though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:19 AM
1

Lmao, most of the gurus that organize those retreats shamelessly fuck the naive girls who attend them.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 03:04 AM
4

Who said anything about leftism? Guys are cucked regardless if political affiliation
/r/MGTOW08/04/21 02:00 AM
1

This honestly applies to people in general. Many people forget where they come from tbh
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:30 AM
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Dude mgtow viewpoints are not popular in the real world lol
/r/MGTOW08/04/21 01:21 AM
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It's not just reddit lol. We're in the absolute minority man.
/r/MGTOW08/04/21 12:17 AM
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Dude c'mon. 400 lbs is insane and no distribution is gonna make it look good
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:56 PM
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Lol can you imagine the screeching if men held an event on any physical characteristic. What a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:40 PM
2

Tf are we supposed to do about bad men? Lmao I don't know any rapists or hardened criminals. Damn like, if you keep running into bad men , maybe the problem is you
/r/MGTOW07/04/21 09:10 PM
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Narcissism on full display here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:47 AM
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It's a good fucking question lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:43 AM
2

Dude seriously, that woman is bitter and deluded. I know of so many truly nice guys that settled for girls and never ghosted them after sex lmao. She's a shit magnet but doesn't want to admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:33 AM
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I don't give a fuck dude lol. If a girl is impressed by fighting and wants me to risk my neck over her dumbass in dumbass situations, she can take a hike. Believe it or not, there are women that aren't fucking retarded about this, I dunno what kind of low class circles you guys are frequenting but you need to upgrade. Either that or you're all still very young. No one worth a shit in society gets into fights over petty insults or a dumb ho
/r/askTRP06/04/21 02:10 AM
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Honestly, getting into stupid fights over a bitch who doesn't respect nor stand up for you is one of the most beta and immature things you can do. Why risk charges, injuries, and even death when you can just find a real one. I'm sorry but hot headed idiots get into legal trouble, hurt, or killed. Rushing into fights isn't a viable way to operate in a civilized society lol
/r/askTRP06/04/21 02:03 AM
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Meh. This is some iambadass material. She's the one inviting these dudes out, talking to them, and not shutting them down. Assuming op lives in the first world, fighting will only lead to trouble he doesn't want. Even if he impresses this girl by laying a smackdown, what did he really win?
/r/askTRP06/04/21 01:30 AM
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Yeah, this is pretty much it. Either she doesn't respect you enough to stick up for your relationship in public and /or get rid of these orbiters, or she's too meek, passive, and low self esteem to set proper boundaries in her life. Either way, it's bad news and I wouldn't fuck with a girl like that for long.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 01:28 AM
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The chances of running into a ted bundy are so low that bringing it up is asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:25 PM
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Agree to disagree. This transcends trp shit, this is about friends and healthy boundaries. It's sad that things have devolved to this point tbh
/r/askTRP03/04/21 09:01 AM
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It's often desperation, but sometimes it's ego too. Either way, it's super weak and pathetic. Unfortunately, a lot of guys talk big game but fail to walk the walk.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 08:44 AM
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It's not really about whether you care about the ex still really, it's the principle of the matter.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 08:41 AM
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Yeah this is huge.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:21 PM
10

Going after the friends exes is such a big thing. It's such a bitch move and entirely too common.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:21 PM
0

When has trp ever stated looks are everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 02:00 AM
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They were all making fun of a guy that had the audacity to take a girl on a date that consisted of a nice walk by the lake and stopping at a coffee shop. They thought he was low effort and cheap, with no discussion of his other qualities, let alone an admission that a date like that could be nice or even preferable to an expensive dinner. Fuck em
/r/MGTOW02/04/21 01:52 AM
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I don't give a shit either way, but if a guy has everything a woman wants except for sexual experience, seems kind of strange that that's where they draw the line
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 06:54 PM
1

You're assuming they have different view points and that it's not due to other issues, mental or otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 09:54 AM
1

It's hilarious too because sex isn't complicated at all. Within a few sessions, he'd be at least competent. People vastly overrate the problems with inexperience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 09:53 AM
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This is why we need people to clarify when they talk about nebulous and subjective things like 'dating experience's and 'not knowing how to act in a relationship'. Both of these cases are extreme outliers and not necessarily related to inexperience. Ie ones a porn addict with ed and the other is an asshole player
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 09:51 AM
3

Yeah I don't get how people are acting as though women don't enforce this gender role / expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 09:48 AM
8

Yeah it's totally badass to potentially cop a life altering charge, get injured, or die because some idiot said something.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 08:50 AM
0

This is funny because when I see women make a serious effort to nab a guy, it usually is some attractive fuck boi type. I rarely see girls put forth the initial effort for a normal ass dude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:23 AM
2

Oh yeah. If it's a halfway decent club, at the very least they'd give him a harsh warning and closely monitor him for the rest of the night. It's not always easy to make a decision if we didn't see it, because people can make shit up or misinterpret something, but you can bet your ass he'd be watched at the very least. If we see it or the manager sees it on the cameras, he's out right away
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:48 AM
3

In my experience, if a girls into you, it doesn't matter what form of information you exchange
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:32 AM
2

I dunno man, this isn't always true lol.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:30 AM
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Yeah I know of two instances where a bar scrap ended in death or permanent, catastrophic injury. One time a guy took it outside and the other dude emptied a clip, enough said. The other time, the slighted dude waited outside with a crowbar he retrieved from his trunk and rendered the other guy a vegetable. That guy is serving a long prison sentence and the other dude is bed ridden. I dunno, I've seen some shit and worked in the industry, so believe me when I say that it's not worth it yall
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:28 AM
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Eh. In a night club it happens if you're an attractive woman. There isn't always a blatant reason for it, and being dressed a certain way is definitely not a good reason. I've thrown guys out of places for unprompted ass grabs more than once lol
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:26 AM
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As someone that worked as a bouncer in the past, how do you think that situation would play out? If you fuck him up, the cops are called and youre in camera and detained. Have fun dealing with charges. He fucks you up, you both will likely get beat and charged. Worst case scenario, he actually is nuts and pulls a knife and / or gun and you're dead. Just don't lol.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:24 AM
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Unless you're in actual danger and have no choice, I wouldn't personally recommend fighting ever. Too many variables and shit can go wrong fast. If a bitch is upset I didn't fight for her, she's definitely not one to keep. Just my two cents Also a sexual gesture isn't anything man. Pretty girls deal with that and cat calling semi frequently, so at worst I'd just laugh it off or say something patronizing as you move on.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:21 AM
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Yeah tiger woods is a total dork lol. Let's be real, if he wasn't famous and rich, he'd not get that kind of attention
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:53 PM
1

Fair. Yeah honestly, it's usually best to just move on entirely I think.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 06:47 PM
1

This is why I won't even date a girl that doesn't split the bill. I don't even care if it costs me lays tbh. I can go sexless for long ass periods and I survive just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:32 AM
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Not ghost persay but yeah, I've had chicks do a 180 on interest for various reasons If you hit it, do it in the most cold manner possible and then ghost her ass after. I might be cold as ice but that's what I'd do.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:56 AM
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Yeah better to give her awful sex and bust a nut than to get nothing at all. That kind of honesty could work in very rare instances but lmao c'mon
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:53 AM
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Well for one, don't admit that lol. Two, you sound like you just need to implement more game tbh. Try getting off the apps and meeting people irl? It sounds like you'd do well
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:53 AM
1

Honestly, it'd a combination of genetics and bro science. I honestly don't know because I've seen huge guys curl 20s and get biceps while other dudes struggle with a ton of bicep exercises to get shit One thing I'd say is if you're gonna do bicep exercises, do isolated and hammer curls. Maybe 21s. That machine is fine but I've had better luck with dumbbells Edit: also it's better to isolate and do a lower weight with high reps than go for your maximum or heavier weights in general, at least as f…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 04:43 AM
1

It says everything else is irrelevant but wants you to be the highest smv you can? Sounds like it expects a lot more out of you than just fucking well if that's the case. But even with smv, I don't think anyone can prevent cheating in all cases. I've seen girls cheat on all sorts of guys for literal bums and betas. Right time, right place sort of thing. Anyone that says they can guarantee you anything is delusional. If I wanted to hedge my bets with a chick, I'd probably judge her upbringing and…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 04:38 AM
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No one is judging you for not sleeping with every single person lol. We're judging the fds types that hold out sex for certain men but fuck others in the dating process. Rules for thee not for me type shit You don't fall under this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:39 AM
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The amount of energy that goes into a ten minute jerk session won't factor into anything lol. How much energy do you think is being consumed? Having sex would leave people unable to have energy to get out of bed the next day
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:08 AM
2

Show me any trustworthy data that points to this being a huge problem
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:52 AM
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That'd require actual introspection and empathy, something most women don't have lol
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 02:14 AM
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Lol quite the opposite , actually. Masturbation was considered a sinful and destructive act throughout history and science has shown that it's not that. Porn is another beast entirely though, so I'll give ya that one
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:39 AM
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It's not. The no fappers are a fucking cult. Guarantee a good percentage of them don't get laid lol
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:37 AM
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I swear, the no fappers that have infiltrated this place are insane lol. I've wacked off and gone to the gym, made food, and fucked a girl later that night. Sometimes I even wack off before seeing a girl so I'm level headed and we still fuck. Jesus christ, these people are fucking losers if masturbating fucks em up that bad. Short if a full blown addiction, masturbation is fine lmao
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:36 AM
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Like what lol? If you rub one out before bed, what did that detract from other than giving you some release? You no fappers are something else
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:34 AM
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It's bullshit. No fap is basically a cult. Cutting out porn isn't a bad thing but to forego masturbation is stupid as fuck, assuming you don't have an actual problem/addiction.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:33 AM
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Well it's not always applicable. Some girls do try to nab a long term guy early on, which is kind of what they should do.
/r/MGTOW28/03/21 10:07 PM
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It's not really an issue of force, but the principle of the matter. I can personally attest that girls who dumped me or blew me off are coming out if the woodwork and suddenly confessing feelings now that I'm a better man, which rubs me the wrong way. It's the audacity a lot of women have to sideline dudes and then expect them to be their dating retirement home. Now that they've crossed the metaphorical finish line, these girls are ready for them whilst having far less to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:55 PM
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You can be an individualist but still find and maintain relationships. It doesn't have to be one extreme or the other lol. Just because people make things work in a different way than you do doenst mean its losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:49 PM
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It's just an empty phrase people use to downplay and minimize the importance of sex and intimacy in the lives of most humans. It's an awkward topic that no one wants to actually address because it gets messy and complicated. That's really all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:47 PM
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Yeah I used to be that way but got burned so many times, finding out the girls were fucking around or entertaining a shit ton of men while I foolishly invested. Fds approves of this dual strategy btw. Shit only woeks if the women are committed to the idea and aren't fucking tons of other dudes and weighing their options as the guys in question waste their fucking time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:17 PM
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Women that are attractive will always find someone regardless if the ideology, so yeah that's true. And nah, it's not a great way to filter out shitty men. These girls will rejevt a guy who doesnt spend a lot on the first date lol. There was a whole topic making fun of a guy that apparently wanted to take a walk and get coffee by the lakefront lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:14 PM
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Yeah but when you see that fds wants to benefit from hookup culture while engaging in this strat, you realize how silly their fantasies are. The truth of the matter is a lot of women are driving hook up culture, fds included, and merely want to have their cake and eat it too. A mass adoption of those ideals would likely be a good thing for either gender, but it's not gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:11 PM
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Yeah but it's hard when he has two kids to think of. Leaving could actually be worse for him in that situation, depending on the court judgements. I dunno, I think he likely realizes this
/r/MGTOW28/03/21 07:02 PM
1

I personally don't give a fuck. Optics can suck my ass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 06:53 AM
1

Yeah true, but she has to give respect to get any, so to any sane person, you the man, man
/r/askTRP26/03/21 07:00 PM
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Unfortunately true
/r/askTRP25/03/21 10:16 PM
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Yeah I ran into the same thing. There have been very slutty girls that I liked a helluva lot but it's hard to imagine dating someone who is in regular contact with dudes she's fucked and you will run into a handful from time to time. Imagine your wedding day and half get friends have fucked her mouth. Lol
/r/askTRP25/03/21 06:42 PM
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That's fucked up , but unsurprising lol. I never marched for shit but I used to define myself as a feminist but that quickly changed after college lol
/r/MensRights24/03/21 09:13 AM
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That's like the one thing fds kind of gets right but even they fuck it up by promoting an dual mating strategy, which completely undermines their position Trp teaches men that they're owed nothing and have to work hard to achieve status, attractiveness, and a decent personality. You can argue over the individual aspects of various theories there, but the foundational basics are actionable and sound, regardless of what you actually believe in. That alone makes it more useful than fds
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:32 AM
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Fds offers shitty advice and almost none of it is wise or most importantly, actionable. Even if someone abandons all of the theory of trp, the general advice there is self improvement and not to expect results without having status, fitness, and a personality. Fds is just chicks posturing as queens and expecting the world to cater to them because reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:31 AM
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This is kind of the issue. Some people make the blue pill work, or at the very least delude themselves enough to rationalize their lives. However, for many men, they don't find the red pill, it finds them. Some of them are unable to learn even then. Ive known a fair share of dudes that get burned consistently because they won't leave the matrix for anything. I agree that spinning plates gets old and isn't worth your time / fulfilling after a point, but I disagree with the notion that men can jus…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 04:06 AM
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Autistic, asperger's etc. I'm not saying this disparagingly, but genuinely curious. I'd suggest therapy if you are. If that isn't the case, you just need to go out and try things. You'll fail but you'll learn. No one becomes socially competent without some practice
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:48 PM
2

You don't want to overthink it either. Are you on the spectrum ?
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:45 PM
1

It's either your delivery or your level of smv or both. You need to look at these statements in a less literal way and apply or infer nuance. When someone says they're honest with their intentions, it doesn't mean going up to a girl you met five minutes ago and saying I wanna fuck you. While that could work, it's too blunt and lacks finesse in most situatuons
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:37 PM
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No fap is basically a cult imho. It's probably good for severe sex addicts or chronic masturbators, but I find a lot the claims of the adherents to be questionable at best. You'd think these guys were gaining super powers from not jacking off. Probably the only thing I agree with is that limiting porn usage is beneficial, regardless of who you are.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:10 AM
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Yeah I feel like virtually any crime besides white collar disproportionally affects minorities in the US lol. I personally dont think our drug laws are great, but I don't get how you can filter them out if someone has a fairly reasonable preference for a partner that doesn't partake ? Also, possession and dealing of meth or heroin paints a far different picture than a charge related to marijuana, so I'd be interested to see how they reconcile that shit. Drug laws or not, id like to know if the p…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/21 05:46 AM
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Lol right? Tinder is a trashy hookup app. What girls are using tinder to find a beta provider type? Not many
/r/TheRedPill23/03/21 05:27 AM
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Yeah these discussions are useless without having pictures of guys comparing tactics lol. Or information on their lives. It's not a 1:1 thing
/r/askTRP23/03/21 01:51 AM
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I mean, based on those stats, he sounds like someone that can pull it off. By your admission, he's fit. Also what you consider and average face may not be so average to these girls. This type of game would never fly it he was unattractive man
/r/askTRP23/03/21 01:47 AM
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I mean, if the girls are into you and /or you're attractive enough, texting semi frequently won't hurt you. With that said, look over at the phones of some of these girls and you'll likely notice they have a host of orbiters. Trp is trying to prevent you from falling into that trap and recommends texting for logistics / infrequently at the outset. Obviously, as one becomes more attractive and successful, they can and should text more because it's already established that the girls into them and …
/r/askTRP23/03/21 01:45 AM
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There's a welll regarded chubby fitness trainer at a gym I go to and his clients get RESULTS. He just likes to eat and powerlift so he never cuts. He's consistently one of the most requested trainers You're also engaging in a fallacy where you assume that they never were once fit, or players, or whatever the fuck. Said dude used to be low body fat and jacked but stopped giving a fuck when he got married and rwlisxed he liked to power lift and eat. He's had years of being at the goal fitness leve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 11:52 PM
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Why is this even a question? This has been covered a thousand times and the phrase beta bucks, alpha fucks should be self explanatory
/r/askTRP22/03/21 12:59 AM
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Right. If you want to find someone with similar values and viewpoints on sex, the words you talk better be the words you walk. It's fucked up to lie to your prospective partner and pretend you're someone you're not. Especially if they're literally waiting to have sex with you and only you, thinking that you're doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:05 AM
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Yeah I clearly said that above. Good reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:00 AM
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I just disagree that it's emphasized all that much. They def advocate for hitting a certain level of financial status, but that's practical and necessary in a capitalist, western world, especially in the US. This is a variable that affects dating options and general quality of life across virtually every metric imaginable. Like I said, flashing wealth or becoming wealthy to attract women on that facet alone is generally frowned upon, hence the phrase 'alpha fucks, beta bucks'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 07:40 PM
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I think the worst part is that even with all of my misgivings with mgtow and trp, or certain elements within those communities, I still think that their advice is sound and actionable OVERALL. TRPs advice on lifting / getting fit/ grooming is all practical and on point, and while the theoretically discussions can get dicey, the general concept of frame is a useful one. They even dole out advice on how to further themselves in career - for all intents and purposes, trp is a good source to knowled…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 07:30 PM
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I think the concept was originally from the netherlands, because they adopted the idea of splitting on dates earlier than other cultures. It's kind of an outdated term now in most western countries because norms have shifted for many, but everyone knows what it means so it's still ubiquitous
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 07:17 PM
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Where does trp focus on wealth or superficial wealth? Most of the content that pertains to wealth and career is practical, and I've never seen any serious contributor advocate for the flashing of rolexes and fast cars. There's a big difference between an encouragement of becoming financially solvent and/or independent vs. being a flashy, wealthy dude. There's even a derogatory phrase for guys that attempt this ie 'beta bucks alpha fucks' lol. If you're referring to trps preoccupation of status, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 07:11 PM
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Therein lies the problem with fds and their bullshit : it only works if you're consistent and don't think you can have your cake and eat it too. I honestly have no issues with the idea of vetting and holding out on sex, but if this strategy is applied, the woman in question must be chaste and forego sex with randoms / fuck buddies. If she is just sleeping around the entire while, it undermines her entire position and she's a fucking hypocrite. You can't be a slut and a virtuous, chaste woman sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 06:57 PM
1

As others have said, just become the best version of yourself and surround yourself with quality people / people that truly care about you and have your back. No point in letting these past fake ass friends live rent free in your head or making some sort of dramatic departure. Fuck em man, life's too short to deal with shit heels ,and you'll run into them enough in life in other scenarios like work etc
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:13 PM
1

I agree with this but good fucking luck finding girls that don't do this who are also attractive. It's hard lol
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:10 PM
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You just have to get used to it. With that said, it's not a good thing nor will it ever be, but finding a girl that's attractive and who doesn't entertain oodles of male attention is next to impossible. Your feelings are valid but there's absolutely nothing you can do but adapt to this reality we face
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:01 PM
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I don't think you need to be super passionate tbh. I know some guys on here are gym rats and will tell you to workout 4-6 days a week, but you'd likely be fine if you did 3 days a week if your diets solid. You also shouldn't look at the gym as a passion project but rather as maintanence- it isn't really a 'fun' hobby for most, but rather a good way to stay in shape and stay healthy. An alternative to the gym could be a martial art, sport, or outdoor hobby. But seriously, if you keep on with the …
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:25 AM
1

The sti risks are real too. Can't trust women that are promiscuous to practice safe sex. I can't tell you the number of times a girl let me raw dog it and said she doesn't usually allow this but she'll make a special exception, just for me. Lol bitch please
/r/askTRP15/03/21 06:25 PM
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I still don't get why I should feel bad for a girl that is 'pumped and dumped'. In the vast majority of said cases, it happens when a woman fails to vet a guy in any real way and then puts out super early. It's as if they want to frame it like a nice dude spent time with them for months, leading them on the entire way, only to dump them after they obtained sex. While I'm sure this can happen, it's exceedingly rare because guys that employ this strategy are not the type to invest heavily before s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 05:23 PM
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I mean what else could it even mean? I don't even get why people believe that it means like meditating or self improvement, because those things can be done whilst in a fucking relationship. The only thing that would make sense is wanting to set some boundaries for personal space via limiting time spent together. If someone truly loves you, they aren't gonna need to break it off officially, that just means they don't care that much and want strange, real talk
/r/MGTOW15/03/21 01:53 AM
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Unless you're not into games at all, this is a no brainer. Fucking a hot girl for a weekend will make you feel good for about a week or two tops, but then it's just gonna be another memory.
/r/MGTOW12/03/21 04:21 AM
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Lmao a weekend of fun with a girl. Unless she shares one of your hobbies, that just translates to ' putting up with her bullshit so you can have (hopefully) lots of sex.
/r/MGTOW12/03/21 04:16 AM
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Honestly, I think a lot of people just throw that out there because they're either a. Ignorant or b. Don't even know what to say. It's easy to just say, 'try counseling' than it is to actually dissect and analyze the problem. It's a easy way to answer this q without actually answering it
/r/MGTOW12/03/21 04:13 AM
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Lol for real. The hysteria around rape is predicated on delusion and misleading studies. The 1 in 5 stat is over blown and I remember when I didn't realize it was bullshit, it severely colored my views.
/r/MGTOW11/03/21 10:22 PM
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I gotta hand it to vice for at least being critical about it. Fds is the red pill on steroids, and they should not get a pass from anyone. Their rhetoric is so vile
/r/MGTOW11/03/21 10:20 PM
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I like your comparison to gluttony, because I can't help but agree. Lacking in all restraint when it comes to raw hedonism and throwing caution to the wind is hardly an admirable trait, but for some reason we make an exception for sex. I don't think we should always indulge desires and having some discipline is a virtue. If a girl wants to have reckless sex with dozens of guys, what does that say of her character. Ftr, I don't think mega slut guys are much better. Nothing's more pathetic than a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:43 AM
4

What the actual fuck
/r/MGTOW10/03/21 12:06 AM
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I don't either, but expressing that opinion is verboten. How many women didn't sacrifice their dignity and didn't achieve what they wanted, or had to work much harder to achieve their status? Harvey was absolutely abusing his power, but women could have decided not to sacrifice their dignity for fame, and aired him out before they all secured what they wanted at the expense of women unwilling to compromise on principles
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 09:48 PM
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Yeah , until I see a charge against a woman who does this on dates, I'm gonna say this is pretty fucked up. Usually if someone dines and dashes, the person left is stuck with the tab. Why should this be different when it's a man?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 09:36 PM
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Yeah, but it's just as bad , subtle or not. We all know what they mean when they ask so the direct approach is almost preferable in a way. At least she isn't pretending
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 09:32 PM
2

Honestly, I can't stand posts like this. I've known guys that are muscular and get puss yet they play video games. It's all about balance in all things. It's actually pretty cucked to forego doing something you like because of what some women may think. Newsflash: you can watch anime and women won't care if you have a decent career and you look good.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 07:47 PM
1

For sure. I've fucked a handful of taken women and you'd never know if I didn't tell you. They have no shame about it and put up insanely good fronts. It's honestly fucked up to the max but what can ya do? You can know the truth or you can persist in delusion. I know id rather understand reality, personally
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 07:43 PM
1

This. It's not some nice guy shit. I mean sure, she knows he's nice and will likely be down for a relationship or to fuck, given the opportunity, but he's just one of her many orbiters. He was choice orbiyer in rotation for that week and now that his purpose/use is done, she has put him back in rotation. Common stuff. Even if he was only looking at this platonically, it wouldnt change a goddamn thing from her end. He learned a valuable lesson in how women are as friends lmao
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:43 PM
1

Learn from it and don't do it again, that's the long and short of it. Everyone here has likely done something stupid like that one or ten times, so it's not that crazy. At least you didn't bankroll her or pay for shit, so you didn't lose that much. Consider this a lesson obtained at a relatively cheap cost. I know it may sound extreme, but it's rarely if ever wise to be too generous with a woman, even a friend. Little things here and there are fine, especially if you establish some reciprocity, …
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:35 PM
4

Lol bikers. The only badass bikers are the ones in the actual gangs. Most of those guys are fucking tools. Source: worked a biker bar
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 10:01 PM
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Yeah but both the men and women in these situations need to grow the fuck up and learn from the experience, not allow it to affect their future outlook. Short of serious trauma, most of this is a normal process of growth for people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:59 PM
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Yeah, men that were mostly , obviously not gonna fulfill that but tehy overlooked their glaring faults anyways. With the amount of options women have, it's absurd to have a pity part because chad was abusive or negligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:05 PM
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Yeah this just sounds like horseshit to me. So if a guy has a few bad experiences in high school or no experiences, he's justified in being a uber misogynist asshole layer on in life? No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:04 PM
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He's not really wrong. Some of the biggest losers I've known have tats and ride a motorcycle. It doesn't actually translate to them being formidable in any real sense, it's just marketing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:58 PM
1

Yeah it's hard to say how many of those guys aren't putting in even the most basic of effort, but who knows. I feel like the numbers are high enough that something bigger is at play here thoigh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 06:44 PM
2

This type of messaging misses the entire point tbh. If they want guys to get married and have more sex, they have to address the root causes of this but they won't , not in a million years.
/r/MGTOW04/03/21 06:43 PM
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Lol why? Why should we ? If it were up to me, a lot of these women would have their kids taken away and forbidden to procreate again. Stop having kids when you can't afford it
/r/MGTOW04/03/21 04:34 AM
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Based on what though? I can't speak for a lot of guys out there. Saying it's not that bad means nothing unless you share the same circumstances and characteristics as the guys complaining, of which there are many. Clearly the dating game is demoralizing and difficult for a lot of guys out there, and we even have hard stats to prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:15 AM
1

Well for two reasons. 1. We have had prominent posters advocate for conservative and / or alt right policies, which is annoying and 2. Regardlrss of where you fall politically, the red pill is at ends with a lot of dominant social discourse from the left, ie it's inherently incompatible. Trp wholly rejects feminism and a lot of right think leftist policies/ideologies, so it puts us in an advdversarial position. With that said, Im a moderate or a classical liberal at best, and hardly could be cla…
/r/askTRP02/03/21 04:40 PM
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Shes most certainly fucking with you and I think you responded correctly. No point in investing energy and effort into someone that is gonna reject your advances and talk about another dude she's gonna suck after having wasted your time. Id bet my left nut that if she contacts you again, she'll flirt heavily and leave the night open for you. She knows you're not a pussy at least
/r/askTRP28/02/21 10:52 PM
2

It has its downsides and opportunity costs but what doesn't? That's the problem with people that are pro relationship - they fail to see that there are distinct benefits and negatives to both lifestyles, and that any opinion on the matter is a matter of personal value judgment
/r/MGTOW28/02/21 08:50 PM
2

Hard disagree. A lot of guys can't deal with this emotionally and from what I can tell, op is no exception. Most of the time it's better to move on
/r/askTRP25/02/21 04:31 AM
1

Anyone that fully grasps the consequences and does any due diligence would neevr engage in sex work. There's a good reason that they start in their late teens/early 20s lol. It'd not as if people decide after 25 to do the
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:22 PM
1

Hell to the fucking no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:17 PM
3

Link?
/r/MGTOW24/02/21 07:07 PM
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Yeah and think about the information and resources available - you google this and you get leftist reddit forums, feminist articles and websites, and a host of god knows what else. Google even prioritizes and restricts what the results are. You ARE being gas lighted at every turn and anything contrary is censored. Short of meeting people in person who know their shit or stumbling on a decent book, you're absolutely boned. Be thankful that you all were able to find this info before it was closed …
/r/MGTOW24/02/21 06:53 PM
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It's also our society tbh. The predominant culture is churning out cucks and if you don't toe the line, you end up cancelled. Anything contrary to this is suppressed (see: mgtow, trp etc )
/r/MGTOW24/02/21 06:03 PM
5

The only time I ever feel bad for a guy in similar circumstances is if he's a loser and has no options. I totally get why you'd be a cuck and whipped. But a prince in the royal family? The fuck on mate
/r/MGTOW24/02/21 05:59 PM
1

Real talk, wtf is wrong with this guy? He's rich and motherfucking royalty, so it's not as if he's without options and power. I just don't get it, how someone in his position can be so cucked over a single bitch
/r/MGTOW24/02/21 05:57 PM
16

It's honestly just fucking sad at this point. Society is churning out broken, messed up women like this and there's no real pushback. We will look back on this time and regret it
/r/MGTOW24/02/21 05:54 PM
1

Lol what a wild ride. Tbh, this guy is a fucking idiot to be fucking a girl that is so obviously insane though. She just reeked of mental illness from the get go
/r/MGTOW24/02/21 05:53 PM
7

Man, I could give a fuck if women want to use only fans, but fuck this faux outrage over facing consequences. You sent your kids to a private, CATHOLIC school, so quit acting like you're shocked when they cancel you for engaging in pornography. Fuck this shit
/r/MGTOW24/02/21 05:06 AM
2

Imagine having 500 dates in four years and still not being able to find a man. Lmao, imagine having standards that unrealistic.
/r/MGTOW22/02/21 04:38 PM
4

Not even exes, even just some chad they like who decided to finally message. Girls will drop you like a hot sack of potatoes in a heartbeat if the right guy comes a knocking
/r/askTRP22/02/21 04:13 PM
6

You learned a valuable lesson : never listen to what they say, watch what they do. Also, whatever a woman feels in the moment can change in a minute
/r/askTRP22/02/21 04:13 PM
16

Guarantee that there was more to that story.
/r/MGTOW21/02/21 12:05 AM
3

Guarantee there's more to this story. Also guarantee that this proud sex worker is a terrible and pernicious influence and the guy in question sees and knows that. The story of her getting beat is probably a lot more complex than she's framing it
/r/MGTOW21/02/21 12:04 AM
6

You're 19 man lol, you shoudlnt be taking anything so seriously
/r/askTRP20/02/21 11:20 PM
2

Also funny how so many of the blm poster boys were literal child and woman rapists /molesters LOL.
/r/MGTOW20/02/21 08:10 PM
1

Yeah but extra judicial murder is at ends with a just and liberal society. This isn't liberalism, this is medieval thinking.
/r/MGTOW20/02/21 08:04 PM
10

Yeah, I scoured the entire thread and there is not a lick of evidence. This guy is a fucking murderer and his victim didn't even get due process. Even if the victims was a rapist, we aren't in medieval scandinavia
/r/MGTOW20/02/21 09:21 AM
22

Yo gender issues aside, does anyone find it fucking ridiculous that reddit is so gleefully ok with vigilantism and extra judicial murder if it fits their narrative ? How TF can you be a progressive in favor of concepts like decriminalization, abolishment of the death penalty, and rehabilitation if you condone literal murder in the fucking absence of due process. Fuck these people. Maybe the guy was a rapist, but we'll never know and it wasn't this guy's right to take his life. He got what he des…
/r/MGTOW20/02/21 09:19 AM
8

Ive had plenty of women in my life, past and present. None of them are ever in a position where they can't find a partner. I've seen their social medias, their dating profiles, and the guys they reject irl. I'd say most women I know are fairly attractive tho. I def know a few forever alone fat girls but again, they choose to not date guys in their league. I know for a fact they could find a guy if they wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:01 PM
4

Meh. Rich people may not be able to cure depression with money alone, but it allows them the option to afford things that can fix , or at the very least, alleviate their suffering. I don't think there's a single average man on earth who wouldn't rather have the lonely because I have too many options and can't decide vs lonely because I have minimal to zero options. Come on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:52 PM
3

Yeah it's downright ridiculous tbh. It's like if a fat guy was rejecting all girls in his weight class and bitching about lot being able to snag cardio bunnies at the local gym. When I see the vast amount of options women I know have, and then witness their constant rejection on superficial grounds, it's impossible to empathize. It's even worse when they're chubby or not all that hot- who tf do they think they are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:38 PM
8

Short of having physical and mental disabilities that are wholly dehabilitating, I don't think I've ever met a woman who couldn't find ANYONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:36 PM
3

Yeah their 'loneliness' is often due to devaluing most of their options and pining for one certain guy who will never settle for their bitch ass
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:34 PM
1

The only feeling I ever get is pity, because in some cases a woman is so insane that she drives everyone away. Even with that said, these women often have no problem finding people to cater to them and often can rope in a less than ideal but caring boyfriend, who they tend to disrespect and devalue over time. Fuck em
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:33 PM
5

Lol yeah it's insane how women will totally be ok with you playing the therapist role to a host of issues but then mock or leave you as soon as you express any of your feelings and mental issues. Been there, done that - I'm cold as fuck to women and ignore their bullshit now and it has made me more attractive. Go cry on someone else's time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:28 PM
1

Should be a criminal act and this whore face legal production. Furthermore, how cucked is the nhs for funding boob jobs? Fuck this world
/r/MGTOW19/02/21 06:59 AM
1

Kill it, kill it with fire
/r/MGTOW19/02/21 06:47 AM
13

The only chance a woman of her size would have would be to deliver a swift kick in the head before the man or bigger opponent could close. Anything short of that and she's fucked
/r/MGTOW18/02/21 10:03 PM
14

Yeah but that's an entirely different skillet entirely. That sort of fighting has a lot of street fighting techniques and judo. Even then though, I think you'd be shocked at how well a lot of normal, in shape guys would do against them tbh
/r/MGTOW18/02/21 09:58 PM
10

Yeah seriously. Karate and most martial arts are borderline useless in most situations, especially with massive differences in weight and strength. The only thing that would MAYBE make a difference is a high proficiency in judo, but even then I'd place my bets on the stronger man.
/r/MGTOW18/02/21 09:57 PM
7

I guess. The difference between him and most guys is that when he does decide to settle down, he has the pick of the litter. He's also immune to ever being in a position where abundance mentality doesn't apply - even if he's with someone and it fails, he'll be able to replace her in no time at all. I'd say he's got it made tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:11 PM
4

Exactly my thoughts. I'm no expert, but I know the grid doesn't work that way. There are a lot of reasons that would explain why these people have power. I'm willing to bet my left nut that many poorer neighborhoods have power as well, but of course she won't show that
/r/MGTOW17/02/21 09:22 PM
1

Lol seriously. You might be able to work on the person over time and get a result, but even that's time wasted when you could find someone into you from the gd get go
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:07 PM
1

Men rag on the idea because operating under that mindset leads to them being friendzoned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:05 PM
1

When has trp denied that status and finances don't matter lol? Pretty damn sure the central tenets emphasized in all trp discourse are status, game, and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 07:41 PM
2

Ok I was sort of with you but 'a shared derision of modern culture and 99 percent of human kind'? A world that includes no one else? That's a miserable outlook and misanthropic as fuck. It's also kind of fucked up that you'd want to be so connected to someone at the expense of everything else in life. That's unhealthy and even if you found someone that shares this outlook, you'd both be miserable fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 07:34 PM
1

Eh, the consensus I see generally, online and irl, is that you ARE controlling if you dislike that your girlfriend is talking to guys she fucked , orbiters, and exes. I totally agree with you 100 percent on how it should be, but most people don't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 07:29 PM
5

This. At the end of the day, this is what burns the most. You spent so much time and effort on one person only for her to callously disregard and disrespect you. To make matters worse, this was all time you could have spent elsewhere, on other things and different people. It's something you need to let go, but it feels bad and induces anger that's understandable. You have a limited amount of time on this earth and it hurts to waste it
/r/askTRP15/02/21 09:57 PM
2

Lmao you almost had me for a second there
/r/MGTOW15/02/21 05:39 PM
2

Especially considering the fact that he ate her out lmao. Some guys are beyond saving man, hate to see it
/r/MGTOW15/02/21 05:33 PM
1

Lmao
/r/MGTOW15/02/21 05:26 PM
3

Yeah, he's perfect but somehow he's not good enough. I'm SURE she'll find someone better, right ?!
/r/MGTOW15/02/21 05:23 PM
2

I swear, relationship therapy has to be the biggest scam in the world. You cant negotiate attraction yet the entire field of psychology seems to think otherwise. I'm struggling to see a point unless there is a communication problem that can be resolved lol. People being fleeced by these so called professionals
/r/MGTOW15/02/21 05:22 PM
4

Yeah lmao, reminds me of the girls I'd get caught up in. Daddy issues? Check. Mental illness ? Check. Still in contact with tons of dudes, including many she fucked ? Check. Tattoos? You betcha. In the future op, don't hand waive any of these things, especially when she has 2 or more of the above criteria. I've fucked with enough chicks like this to definitely say there are no exceptions to the rule. Even if you 'succeed' and ltr or god forbid, marry a girl like this, you've actually lost in a b…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/21 05:11 PM
4

Yeah, generally speaking, fucking girls you're around a lot due to work, living arrangements, etc etc is going to be rough when it falls apart. It's perfectly natural for you to have this reaction - were not programmed to be ok with seeing girls were messing with going out with other dudes or being fucked by em ( within reason, the level of exposure is the main point of contention here). I'm guilty of being a shit eater so I'm saying this from experience really.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 04:15 PM
5

It's just a stupid day man. Trust me, a lot of guys are buying shit for awful, ungrateful wives today and having an abysmal time
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:27 AM
4

Funny how genital mutilation is fine on a massive scale if the victims are male
/r/MGTOW14/02/21 06:22 PM
1

Yeah there's a reason they're ghosts of the past.
/r/MGTOW12/02/21 12:24 AM
1

Yeah they'll randomly try to ping you and rope you back into an orbit when they're bored or feeling a certain type of way, at least for a time. It's annoying
/r/MGTOW12/02/21 12:24 AM
4

The push for normalization fo promiscuity and any fetish imaginable is largely to blame. Porn has its own issues but it's a reflection of the values and culture that feminists advocate for
/r/MGTOW12/02/21 12:03 AM
4

The glorious, empowered future feminists have envisioned
/r/MGTOW12/02/21 12:02 AM
1

You talked of status and money. I know of guys with that who get jack or scraps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:48 AM
1

I've known poor ass or blue collar dudes that absolutely slayed due to their looks and game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:17 AM
1

How is spending a lot of time at the gym a 'narcissist red flag'? Id much rather be with someone that spends ten hours weekly at the gym vs netflix watching and scrolling social media feeds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:16 AM
1

You underestimate the power of certain hair style or wardrobe on an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:14 AM
2

Eh, I wouldn't put much stake in what a few women in ppd say tbh. It's also kind of a strawman to bring up examples of dudes who are openly vain and psychotic about their rigid standards and looks - how many people actually go this far besides models lol? Being fit and well groomed will go a lot farther than most things you can do, and don't let anyone tell you differently
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:08 AM
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Lol I never said that I didn't believe women exepriences that. There are things that many men do that I'm not in denial of. Furthermore, the funeral example or death of a loved one is extreme. Ime, it's usually a cut by a thousand knives of being too expressive and appearing weak. I don't fault women for not being attracted to this because it's their biological programming. The fact that some of them overcome this is great, but it's hard to know who has and who hasn't until things get real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:03 AM
3

For sure, I was just raising the point that whites will be out bred and irrelevant in this country within 50-60 years lol.
/r/MGTOW11/02/21 12:43 AM
1

I feel like this predominately applies to whites, not latinos.
/r/MGTOW11/02/21 12:34 AM
1

Not to mention the latino population is growing. Their culture is pro family and fairly conservative, so I think what were gonna see is latinos becoming the dominant demographic, for better or for worse.
/r/MGTOW11/02/21 12:34 AM
6

As long as a woman is halfway attractive, she can do the bare minimum and still get men.
/r/MGTOW11/02/21 12:30 AM
2

It's confusing though, because most serial killers are violent, but they're usually timid and strange folk. They prey upon weak targets in a decidedly depraved way. I guess id understand it better if they gravitated to a man that just straight up gets into fights and kills people over things, ie a brute, rather than a cold, calculating psychopath. I just don't see the connection to cavemen and aggression when it comes to your average serial killer that preys on the weak in secret
/r/MGTOW11/02/21 12:27 AM
12

You're vastly underplaying how prevalent this type of behavior is and how easy it is to 'vet' for. Pray tell, what would you suggest? Getting emotional and vulnerable early on in the dating process? That'd be a huge turn off for a myriad of reasons. How on earth can you properly vet for this without being too forward and dumping shit on here before the minimum investment of being together for a time makes it palpable? This isn't something that has obvious red flags from the get go
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:18 AM
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This isn't exactly something that is easy to vet for and a lot of women across all walks of life have these hangups, whether they consciously understand it or not. I mean, everyone puts on their best face early in the relationship, so it's not until things get more real that you figure this out. Ie after you've invested
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:06 AM
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When women start to become distant and cold after opening up and being truly vulnerable as a man, and this happens more than once, how do you expect men to act? This is a two way street and a lot of women that advocate for it arent holding up their end of the bargain
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:53 PM
2

Yeah wtf lol. Men do this all the gd time for women. this paragraph describes how women approach inter personal relations mote than men by a long shot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:51 PM
5

Lmao she's ok with getting molly, which is usually full of adulterants or another substance entirely when bought on the street, but thinks that popping an adderall to get through a tough work day/study or a singular vicodin or xanax to chill is WORSE than ingesting street drugs. Fuck man, at least you know for a fact what the dosage and substance is if it's prescribed. Edit: prescription pills are only dangerous if you're a fucking moron. All of these kids popping like 12 mg of xanax a day and b…
/r/MGTOW10/02/21 04:47 AM
2

His advice was kind of applicable in the 90s and early 00s or earlier, but nowadays it's a risky proposition.
/r/MGTOW09/02/21 10:42 PM
1

High quality prostitutes are pretty damn good tbh. The problem is that you need to she'll out real dough for good experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 11:01 AM
1

I'm totally alright with paying - been around the block and banged plenty of hotties without paying, so I have no hangups. The problem? Quality escorts are expensive and prostitution is still heavily shamed and illegal in the US. IF i was wealthy, I'd regularly use them no doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 11:00 AM
32

What an amazing and empowered world we have created
/r/MGTOW09/02/21 06:52 AM
18

Man, dating an ex stripper with three kids that won't blow you? Holy shit , some dudes man
/r/MGTOW09/02/21 06:50 AM
8

That's always the funniest part about this entitled shit. They expect the man to do everything and pay for a lavish meal but they just show up. It's honestly a disgusting mindset and these harpies will never be happy
/r/MGTOW08/02/21 11:49 PM
1

Studies into the matter are showing that people are more depressed and lonelier though. It's becoming clear that being on a screen is not an adequate substitute to irl socializing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 11:00 AM
3

I didn't even read the whole thing because I stopped at 'she had a pad'. Dude, most girls don't wanna fuck on their period.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 02:46 AM
2

I can list off three instances off the top of my head that involved girls pressuring their friend to not date /marry a guy and the age range was 23-30 for all of them. Most of the woman involved having set careers and let's/husband's. A lot of fucking people are immature and shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:44 PM
3

I've fucked a lot of dancers in actual dancing professions and they're almost all skanks
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/21 06:28 AM
1

Dude for real. The amount of horse shit I've put up with in regards to women would not have occurred if they weren't sexy and has a vag. I'd be tempted to place bounties on most of em if they were men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 01:07 AM
5

What's the purpose of maintaining gay ass streaks with people you don't know? Any time wasted on that is pathetic dude
/r/askTRP02/02/21 12:14 AM
2

I concur. Porn makes it look amazing but that's because it's fake. I wouldn't mind trying it with two professionals tbh, but irl it's meh
/r/TheRedPill01/02/21 11:22 PM
0

What a waste of time lol
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:03 PM
1

Not much to be salvaged here. She's clearly not ltr material so at best, you should demote her to a plate. She's disrespecting you and making excuses for it
/r/askTRP01/02/21 10:51 PM
1

Notice how she starts the topic claiming this urge had blindsided her and manifested from nowhere, but then reveals there's a coworker she fancies. Classic case of hypergamy
/r/MGTOW01/02/21 09:42 PM
2

As for influences growing up, the same can be said of anyone interested in ANY hobby. Most people don't organically pick up an instrument or choose to play football. It's parental and or societal pressure all the way down. What ends up sticking is another story, but I don't understand how we can single women out in this
/r/TheRedPill01/02/21 10:44 AM
2

If you want to attempt to reduce their interest in certain fields down to an evolutionary strategy for finding a suitable mate, then every hobby a man does should be scrutinized under the same lens. This, of course, is pretty silly. A man that games is unlikely to attract women and a girl that dances will primarily be around gay guys. I disagree that it's so reducible
/r/TheRedPill01/02/21 10:43 AM
2

This certainly applies to some women, but is highly reductive in many cases. I know of women that play for a highly rated symphony orchestra. I know of women who are professional dancers. The list goes on and on. If you're only meeting trash women with no goals or passions, that's more on you
/r/TheRedPill01/02/21 03:50 AM
3

I dunno why you're being downvoted lol. Women in ancient and civilizations predating ancient always had an active role in the procurement of food. In hunter - gatherer societies, they foraged; in agricultural ones, they assisted with farm duties and raised the children, who would also be put to work at an early age. Maybe people's conception is based on period dramas that focus on the elite, because it's completely erroneous to assume women just sat around. They just didn't do the work that was …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/21 03:47 AM
1

What percentage of mass killings have actually been conducted due to inceldom? I'm sure social isolation and sexlessness were contributing factors to the mental deterioration of certain shooters, but killings solely rooted in misogyny are exceedingly rare. Eliot rodgers is the only one that comes to mind
/r/MGTOW31/01/21 08:51 AM
2

Lmao the image of a guy nervously saying a racist joke when picking up a girl is hilarious
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 09:31 AM
2

It's funny because being wealthy will trump any need for game and looks
/r/MGTOW30/01/21 09:08 AM
1

It's always funby to see sentiments like this considering that a lot fo guys achieve great things because they don't spend a lot of time on women. The new billionaires if our age are hardly casanovas
/r/MGTOW30/01/21 09:07 AM
17

What is this from? I can't find any evidence of it online. Who is Andy thomas?
/r/MensRights29/01/21 02:33 AM
1

I love how they act as though rapists and the act of rape aren't heavily vilified and punished severely in society.. Lets face it, if you're gonna rape, you just don't give a duck and exhibit anti social behaviors
/r/MGTOW28/01/21 07:39 AM
3

Even if her intentions were good, you have to be an idiot to not see the optics on this. If you're saving for a rainy day fund in the event of a divorce, then he has every right to want a prenup( he should have done it anyways, but I digress). You also can't say you share finances in a joint account and keep savings on the side. That kind of defeats the entire purpose lol
/r/MGTOW26/01/21 11:21 PM
1

Yeah I was just talking about undergrad. Professional school will cost more because generally speaking, you're gonna be nearing or over six figures
/r/MGTOW26/01/21 01:55 AM
2

It's backwards as fuck because with a degree, you are more likely to make decent money vs those without, generally speaking. If you go to a state school, your debt shoudlnt ever exceed 50 k. All of the people that chose to spend 100 k plus on a degree at a private or out of state school are fucking idiots
/r/MGTOW26/01/21 12:22 AM
2

It's honestly fucking ridiculous that they expect us to respect women who take the easy, slut route as much as a woman that works hard and achieves something without ever sacrificing her honor and integrity. I accept only fans, but I'm not gonna respect it lol
/r/MGTOW26/01/21 12:13 AM
1

Yeah fuck giveing a shit about others and their feelings! Fuck virtue and being honorable and having integrity! Yassss kweeen
/r/MGTOW26/01/21 12:03 AM
2

I can't fathom how stupid you have to be to think that an entire race of people would find this endearing or attractive.
/r/MGTOW25/01/21 11:54 PM
1

It's hilarious because I know of a guy making well over six figures that has moved home for familial reasons and to save money on rent during covid (nyc is a rip-off). He has enough in the bank to rent an expensive hotel room five nights a week, so it's not like there are no options lol
/r/MGTOW25/01/21 11:41 PM
2

Lol at how twisted and entitled her mentality is. Yeah, sure, fuck those guys that want to get to know if you're worth investing in before they drop money. Furthermore, she's basically admitting she was a pseudo hooker with her past hook ups- the guys were basically paying for her shit for sex lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/21 11:26 PM
3

Even assuming that sherbert is right and a lot of that group are getting 1-3 days of mind-blowing, amazing sex, its still absolutely dismal lmao. Were talking about men under the age of 32 ? Iirc, so that's pretty damn low for men at the height of their sex drives. It's abysmally low considering a large majority of them are in committed relationships lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 11:12 PM
15

That or a lucky, circumstantial lay even. The stat is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 11:06 PM
2

Dodged a bullet. Any girl that blames her bullshit behavior on mental health issues and cites that she's impulsive is best avoided.
/r/MGTOW25/01/21 10:50 PM
2

Lol this will end well
/r/MGTOW25/01/21 10:47 PM
3

For real. It's the apex fallacy thing at work again. They focus on a small subset of elite men who can get away with having many partners and /or cheating, and then extrapolate that to men as a whole. The funny thing is that in my experience, even within that subset, men still tend to be more faithful and honorable when it comes to relationships.
/r/MGTOW25/01/21 10:45 PM
3

Social media has been a double edged sword, to say the least
/r/MGTOW25/01/21 10:38 PM
2

It's a real shame that men are feeling unwanted and unfairly pushed out of these fields because in my experience, male therapists are sorely needed. I've had my fair share female therapists and the vast majority of them are just useless, both in terms of their general efficacy and most importantly, their ability to help men. The only women that bucked the trend were older, which really explains a lot. The younger female therapists we're all wish washy in their methods and often couldn't comprehe…
/r/MGTOW25/01/21 10:01 PM
1

It's funny because some of her post isn't half bad, especially the bit stating that you should date men who find you attractive at your current weight level. With that said, we all know that they mean attractive men who are fetishists, which I expect are in very short supply. They'll happily reject the guys at their weight level, believe it
/r/MGTOW25/01/21 09:58 AM
1

The difference is that most men realize they need to either become something great to nab that 10/10 or they COMPROMISE. Most people coompromise because no one is perfect and finding perfection is impossible. It's honestly pathetic to rationalize the insane standards you're touting - if every man a woman can get isn't up to their standards, they are either overvaluing themselves ( delusional) or completely unreasonable in what they want out of a partner. With that attitude, they should basically…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 09:13 AM
1

I'm not missing any point lol. I said that it's ridiculous and unrealistic to have standards to the point that you reject every guy within your league and you keep typing out justifications for women to be this arrogant and unreasonable. I'm sorry but if you can't re read what you said and see how it's absolutely absurd, I can't help you. You wanna say I'm biased, try rereading your responses
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 09:00 AM
1

Ugh, you just keep going in circles. Fine, all of these single women are that fucking amazing and the thousands of men in their league are clowns. Queens deserve better. Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 08:53 AM
1

That's a lot of words to basically rephrase what I said. No matter how you cut it, these women want something they're not good enough to get. If a man said something like this, I'd rightfully tell him the same shit. The only advice I have for these delusional people is to improve themselves to the highest standard possible because they'll never have a shot in hell finding this perfect mate otherwise, and even then they may not find it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 08:07 AM
3

I find it incredibly arrogant for a woman to deem all the men in their league as unattractive or poor candidates. That's the epitome of having ridiculous standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:53 AM
2

You'd be surprised lol. The tech sector is full of guys like this. Same goes for acturarials.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 10:20 PM
1

Seems like a strawman to me. How does this relate to the ops assertion that women who date within their league, or that ate willing to compromise, won't face any issues in dating ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:46 PM
1

Because many of us have been that other guy lmao
/r/askTRP23/01/21 07:38 AM
2

Shell run a smear campaign on him regardless if whether he says anything or not. You can't win in that regard so why bother? Her friends are unlikely to ever take your side
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:39 AM
10

One of the only good ecs still around.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:37 PM
10

The only time I witnessed true domestic violence was when I was hanging with lesbian friends lol
/r/askTRP20/01/21 02:38 AM
2

Yeah, in today's day and age, a girl making you wait for four dates is pretty telling. He probably realized
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 09:09 AM
2

I honestly don't think a liberal universitys social work program would ever bar her for stripping lol. If anything, they might prefer someone like her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 07:19 AM
3

Jesus christ man. what were you thinking ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 05:53 AM
10

I'm a late bloomer, as in a virgin until 25, and I've fucked girls aged 21, 24, 26 and 29 in the last two or so years. I'm currently 33 and no, I'm not a chad ( working on that aspect lol). So yeah, I'm gonna go with 'its not too late'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 03:35 AM
5

Lol. Someone doesn't know anything
/r/TheRedPill19/01/21 03:32 AM
2

I disagree. Obviously there are people with distinct advantages and disadvantages, but for many it's just a matter of working hard and trying. Sure, it won't guarantee that you're a millionaire or the chaddest chad in physique, but ones maximum potential is often far greater than they realize. Obviously this is impossible if you have an abysmally low iq or dehabilitating physical or mental illness, but those are outlier cases
/r/askTRP19/01/21 01:31 AM
1

What does this even mean? Are you attributing success to some imaginary concept of energy? A wavelength? You're overlooking aspects of certain people that make them successful and unsuccessful. I promise you that it's not some innate thing For example, the rich and shredded dude may be getting laid less due to having zero ability to speak with girls or deep seated mental issues you don't see. Or he just spends more time on his other pursuits to the detriment of getting laid, which the bummy guy …
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:32 PM
1

Only people finding fds are insane women and/or wall hitters
/r/MGTOW18/01/21 09:44 PM
1

He kind of has a point. While I don't think op intended to be a groper, he autistically handled the situation and ended up being one. Unfortunately, he could be charged in this scenario
/r/askTRP18/01/21 02:59 AM
37

Lol you just had to knock up a girl in fucking mexico. Good luck on the abortion angle
/r/askTRP18/01/21 02:46 AM
1

Women do it all of the time so if one side plays dirty, the incentive to avoid it is lessened considerably.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 11:10 PM
2

Not op but I see them as people, just piss poor ones. When I'm fucking a taken girl who lies to her bf five minutes prior on the phone, I reel in disgust after the act is done. The complete lack of ethics and any regard for others is what gets me, coupled with the mental / emotional instability many of them possess. They're humans alright, but shitty ones most of the time
/r/askTRP13/01/21 10:10 PM
1

It's so bad that it makes you wanna go into a trade or construction, just so you can avoid female coworkers haha Edit: but seriously, you can't win. I've had to deal with piss poor female employees for years and they always get away with their bullshit because a. Diversity / gender quotas and b. A lot of managers are fucking cucks
/r/askTRP13/01/21 10:00 PM
2

This actually becomes a problem more often than not. Some of my friends lives are completely dictated by their wives and you can sense their wives are threatened by my lifestyle and influence ( even though I don't try to exert any influence, seeing me living on my own, doing what I want and who I want haha, makes them resentful
/r/MGTOW13/01/21 09:31 PM
3

Probably the only thing that is attractive about marriage is having kids, but seeing as how most modern women make for poor mothers, and society is beyond saving in its degeneracy, even that has lost its luster.
/r/MGTOW13/01/21 09:30 PM
1

What does this even mean? Women podcast as much as men do. If you are successful, it's a more than valid career choice seeing as how the popular podcasters are raking in dough. I don't even understand
/r/MGTOW13/01/21 01:27 AM
3

If you're friendzoned, continuing contact like this is orbiter bullshit. Answer is obvious
/r/askTRP09/01/21 05:15 AM
2

It's not in their interests but in the man's interests, so therefore they will rally against it. A decently high percentage of women cheat so they're actively cognizant of the fact that they could face such a situation, or even have. The ones that aren't are more concerned with how they would feel if they took a paternity test than the man's feelings, ie being relieved that he doesn't have to spend the next 20 years raising bastard child. Think about that for a minute lol
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:38 AM
1

You ain't wrong lmao!
/r/askTRP08/01/21 11:47 PM
1

Just act as they do and think as you like man. Divert conversations towards hobbies or interesting topics whenever possible. Over time, you'll find some people you can talk to openly, but until then, just keep your politics and beliefs to yourself and have as much fun as possible. Ive had the interest of girls that would label me a nazi for centrist beliefs or even some right leaning ones, but they fucked me just the same. Why? Because I didn't engage in passionate political debates
/r/askTRP08/01/21 11:45 PM
1

Yeah that sounds about right. The problem at this age range is that the quality women have, for the most part, been paired off already.
/r/MGTOW08/01/21 11:41 PM
6

This argument sucks. No one can know for sure and rates are hjgh enough to be concerned. If anything, 100 percent certainty is irrational. Love is blind and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:28 AM
16

Yeah it's all thier own fault. Guys often don't have robust and plentiful options, so they usually have to take what they can get which results in them being fucked. Women purposely choose sons of bitches and straight up bastards, even with their insane levels of options, so it's on them. No one forced you to date a piece of shit girl
/r/MGTOW05/01/21 09:56 PM
2

How TF is that 'healthy'. I don't mind their parroting of beauty at any size because whatever I guess, but saying it's healthy is just objectively wrong
/r/MGTOW05/01/21 09:29 AM
1

Yeah the only section I take issue with is the last part, where he gets a tad hyperbolic.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 12:59 AM
2

Lol man he was fairly prophetic to be saying this ten years ago. A lot of this is pretty on point
/r/askTRP04/01/21 10:07 PM
10

Let's be real, very few attractive women would even be in something like fds. Attractive women don't need to devise strategies lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 02:57 AM
10

Lmao this is what an fdser looks like. How can you have such lofty expectations and look like THAT? If someone on trp posted a body like that, posters would tell him to drop the cheeseburgers and hit the gym.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 02:53 AM
1

Good ass post
/r/askTRP04/01/21 01:44 AM
6

What a dumb bitch. If I employed her, she'd be fired immediately. This is not how an employee should act to their customers, who they'll likely lose a significant percentage of due to this sort of bullshit.
/r/MGTOW04/01/21 01:38 AM
2

I just love bloop research. How about the fact that women recoil from a man being vulnerable and shwoing weakness, even going as far as to use that weakness as a way to further destroy him. Fuck this roundabout bullshit , we all know why men withdraw. There's no support to be had
/r/MGTOW04/01/21 01:10 AM
5

A lot of modern women aren't even worth talking to , let alone dating. It's a fucking joke
/r/MGTOW04/01/21 01:03 AM
3

Tinder is only useful if you can display massive status and / or you're obscenely attractive, ie top ten percent. It's just a fools game for anyone that is neither of those things. OP could be a solid 7-8/10 and have a decent career and still not pull well on tinder. I can count on one hand the amount of guys I know that do well on there, and it's uslaly because they're borderline model looking lll
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:11 PM
2

LmOoooooo. I came here to post this. Mothafucka
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:33 AM
3

It's pretty much a fact tbh. I have never met a girl that gets drunk and high regularly who isn't easy lol
/r/MGTOW02/01/21 04:26 AM
6

False accusations are something that seem distant or rare until you deal with em. I was actually involved in a court case as a witness and had it not been for my testimony, the guy on question would have been screwed. Thankfully I was a witness , all I gotta say
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 10:50 PM
1

Your points stupid so it's not worth addressing. Most people tend to hang out with people they like and find attractive. Id be willing to bet that your entire circle is full of people you like and find attractive on some level. Friends fuck all the time so get off it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 10:24 PM
15

Female friends have been the most unreliable, disloyal, backstabbing, and generally useless friends I've ever had.
/r/MGTOW31/12/20 10:18 PM
6

Seriously. Female acquaintances are useful, but never trust them as you would a true bro - you'll end up sorely dissapointed
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:14 PM
1

I struggle with this because there's no way to truly quantify it. I've been with a lot of taken women tho and it has fucked my psyche a bit.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:10 PM
3

While I agree that being angry is a waste of time, I still think it's pathetic that as humans women can't strive to be better. I can accept that but I can't respect them with an awalt mindset
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:08 PM
8

This also applies to friendships with women as well. They're just trash lll
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:05 PM
1

It just happens dude lol. Once you're fuckable a lot of friends end up fucking ya - I initiated less than half the time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 06:15 AM
1

Yeah hazing and strange rituals do occur. And yes it IS nepotism lmao. Look at how many huge businessman and politicians were I'm frats. Spoiler alert : it's a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 12:33 AM
5

Why would anyone disbelieve you? If you live a bohemian lifestyle , you can just easily attract hippy/raver sluts
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/20 09:31 PM
1

Bullshit. The idea that every unsuccessful man is that way because he chases models is ridiculous. Most people aren't even around girls that are more than average lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:44 PM
1

Lol barely watch tv and this is from my observations of female friends but ok. It isn't always the case, but it's frequent enough
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:42 PM
1

Lmao, I was never a frat guy, but you couldn't be farther off. My friends that were in frats had intense bonds with their frat mates and forged powerful connections that led to powerful careers down the line. Many frats also take academics seriously. Stop getting all your information from movies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:20 PM
1

You can look at the first two pages of fds on any given day and see open misandry that makes any misogyny on trp look like child's play. On trp you even get chastised for virulently hating women and being stuck in the anger phase, something fds doesn't engage in. On fds you often do see women talk about disenfranchising men in the professional sphere as well. I've never seen that level of bullshit in trp
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:15 PM
2

Fds regularly posts shit openly and without any pusbback that is worse than the vast majority of red pill posts, past and present. It's unbelievable how shitty those people are and how trp is held up to such utter contempt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:10 PM
1

Yes, on a macro level they are on team woman, but when it comes to individual friend ships they are competitive and back stabby
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:07 PM
1

The in group bias applies on a macro scale , but in micro interactions women are quite competitive and brutal. Ie: a woman will blindly support a cause with a lot of female traction and support, or believe and support an individual woman at face value that they don't know, but in actual friendships they can be ruthlessly cuthtroat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:07 PM
1

Most men realize that their mates and family are usually the only tow groups that care about them. The bitterness comes from feminists telling men to open up, but then complaining about emotional labor and /or not being attracted to a man that does. This conflicting messaging is fucking dude's up hardcore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:03 PM
1

This. It gets hard to maintain female friends when you realize a lot of them don't make for good friends vs yr mates and when you've fucked all of your female 'friends'. Acquaintances ate a thing, however
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:00 PM
1

Not really. I had the most female friends when I was an incel. Male friends were always a constant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 07:59 PM
0

Not true. I had more female friends as an incel in the past than after I fucked a lot. After you start fucking, female friends are either acquaintances or girls you fucked that still hang around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 07:55 PM
0

Ding ding ding, we have a winner. You answered your own question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 07:53 PM
1

No argument there. Keep being a friend, stay a friend I say
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 07:52 PM
3

It's offensive that women find themselves entitled to my commitment just because they sucked my dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 07:52 PM
1

He started out cool and while I still like him, let's just say that he's changed. His material pre change is almost all gold though
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:22 PM
1

I actually left the field of sociology due to this kind of shit. It's a shame because I had some good ideas and was all for in depth, reliable statistical analysis on a myriad of issues, but the brainwashing and cultural zeitgeist prevalent in the university was too much. Shame, because there is value to the field if approached correctly
/r/MGTOW30/12/20 08:18 AM
4

How fucking delusional... And I hope that guy gets rid of her soon , what a fucking cunt
/r/MGTOW30/12/20 08:02 AM
2

Call her bluff and tell her to come over, nothing mote, nothing less. If she tries to drag out a convo , ignore. Don't fall for girls pinging because it's all a validation game to them
/r/askTRP30/12/20 01:28 AM
1

This depends wholly on where u live tbh I could walk around my town at any time safely and the only thing that could happen is a cop takes interest.
/r/MGTOW27/12/20 09:05 AM
2

Yep. Even if you confront it , it's just false apologies and deflections and excuses. Like holy shit, just say you're not interested you cunts Edit: if women were actually honest about this and didn't work to keep men as orbiters for validation and attention, I feel a lot of the hostility would be abated. It's this back and forth, hot and cold dance that makes men lose their fucking minds.
/r/MGTOW25/12/20 06:25 PM
3

This. I've had friends that game and get laid, and when I say game, I don't mean casual sessions of nba 2k or modern warfare, but indie title, nerdy ass rpgs and so on and so forth. With that said, they hit the gym, groom well, and have their proffesional lives in order. If you control for your smv, it doesn't matter what you do
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:13 PM
1

Besides getting laid, the biggest disincentive, at least in my eyes, is the disrespect and being taken for granted that occurs when you're nice to women. They label you a 'mark' in their minds and you're treated accordingly. Even when it's relatively benign, it still feels like a suckers game to be in
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre24/12/20 10:05 PM
3

The doctor is a cuck too. After the first, he should have advocated for a goddamn paternity test. When the odds are that much against something, it's borderline malpractice to automatically assume that you are the one in a million. Simplest explanation is almost always the correct one
/r/MGTOW24/12/20 09:01 PM
2

Marriage contracts are probably the worst contracts to sign from a male perspective. Imagine any other sector of life sending out a contract with terms like that ? No one would sign it
/r/MGTOW24/12/20 08:58 PM
7

It could be fake but honestly? This isn't that outlandish of a story at all. I've seen the same story beats play out in real time with people I knew. Cheaters don't usually have all that much finesse when it comes to this shit
/r/MGTOW24/12/20 08:45 PM
5

You do realize that a lot of pornstars escort, right? It's so prevalent that the joke is that porn is the advertisement for their actual career. Almost every pornstar you see today had escorted or will. Don't believe me? Google an escort agency and see. Furthermore, strippers turn tricks as well. I've known some in my time and trust me , they turn tricks. The fantasy archetype of the stripper with dignity and a heart of gold is something I have never perosnally witnessed irl.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 07:55 PM
1

It's gonna be wild when ai and vr is more advanced. I know people talk about sex bots, but imo that's farther out into the future, while having a realistic vr gf that you plug into everyday is around the corner, relatively speaking. Id say within a decade to a decade and a half, we'll see a reality in which guys forego dating enmasae and just plug into vr for intimacy. For a more basic version of this, the movie 'her' is a good case study. I think it'll be far more advanced than all that though
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 07:52 PM
1

Yeah I know that this may be an unpopular opinion to some round these parts, but I'm gonna def take advantage of the fuckathon that ensues lol
/r/MGTOW22/12/20 06:21 PM
3

Lmao. I love how he's treating like she's a victim yet she could easily get a fucking job. Unless she's in the top 1 percent of creators, I guarantee you the money isn't better than working a PT job. Min wage is 15 in many places now for fucks sake
/r/MGTOW22/12/20 05:20 PM
3

Yeah and their competitor programming is much better. You still get some woke shit across every platform, granted, but at least amazon, hbo, and hulu have legitimately well written and produced shows
/r/MGTOW22/12/20 05:13 PM
13

Netflix is cucked as fuck and the only good shows they ever had were narcos and mindhunter, which is cancelled. If I choose to watch narcos, I'll just pirate
/r/MGTOW22/12/20 05:11 PM
6

Lmao, I knew Netflix was cucked but this is a new low
/r/MGTOW22/12/20 03:08 PM
6

Eh she's not wrong. Also, that behavior is what the average man does, not hvm. Let's face it, the average man projects what he wants to see lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:25 AM
2

I love how were shallow when field like her were unwilling to ever be a companion to some average guy while they still had youth and beauty
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/20 12:09 AM
1

I guess I dont get how that'd affect your ability to figure out if its your kid or not. Ftr, I've never used these sites nor am I well versed in Them, so maybe I'm missing somethimg
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 11:37 PM
1

I'm not sure understand- are those services compromised?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 11:09 PM
3

Lol for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 11:00 PM
1

It's especially hilarious when you realize how callously they treat the men in their life, most male 'friends' included. She's guilt tripping you for not giving a shit about her insane bushit, but you know damn well she doesn't give a rats ass about your problems
/r/askTRP21/12/20 10:38 PM
2

Man it's real sad that it's so common that the military literally spells it out for you in training lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 10:06 PM
2

You ever notice how the majority of truly far left areas are racially homogenous, insanely wealthy, and generally insular as fuck ideologically? I always find it ironic how tHheseese willfully segregated and wealthy champagne socialists have the audacity to espouse the ideals of socialism and racial equality to everyone from atop their ivory towers. What a joke
/r/MGTOW20/12/20 07:39 PM
23

Honestly, even when I've played all the games, been fit, and charismatic enough to fuck em, it always ends in disaster because it never feels natural to me. It's like, I want to cherish her as we grow together, share our vulnerabilities, and work as a team, not act like some sociopath to retain her attention. I can do it, but it's not fulfilling other than the fact it gets me pussy, but sexual needs can be met in other ways
/r/MGTOW20/12/20 03:49 PM
3

I hope that is a fake post
/r/MGTOW18/12/20 09:59 PM
4

No disrespect to mtg because it's a ton of fun, but yeah, it's always dude's into these hobbies that don't get shut for action that engage in this level of hyperbole as soon as a woman validates them
/r/MGTOW17/12/20 09:28 PM
1

This is next level pedastalizing lol. It's not healthy
/r/MGTOW17/12/20 09:22 PM
19

Lol for real. There are so many variations of this too. Other examples : ' I thought I replied but it was in my head ', ' phone isn't receiving messages for some reason ' , or ' I didn't see it'. What's ultimately hilarious is you can see their last online status across virtually every app too
/r/askTRP16/12/20 06:19 PM
3

Your wife will age and become less attractive over time. There are far more practical considerations to consider when it comes to marriage, which include but are not limited to traits of loyalty, ability to be a good mother, and general compatibility
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:53 PM
2

A lot of what you're saying is pretty baseless. That last paragraph is especially glaring. I've known trad men who have been with one girl and never cheated or been tempted to. You're projecting
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:51 PM
10

Yeah, I think the same applies to jackman as well. For guys that actually give a shit about relationships, it only makes sense to stick with a true ride or die woman.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:49 PM
2

I agree, but the forces amassed against us are too powerful. I feel like there will eventually be a self correction that manifests in some way, but in the meantime, I'm not gonna be a martyr for a lost cause
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 03:35 PM
11

I hate it when a woman who can't support a child without governmental support shrieks 'my body, my choice !'. Well why the fuck don't we have a choice if we're spending our tax dollars on it...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/20 11:51 PM
3

Lol what a fucking retard
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/20 11:49 PM
5

The way I see it, given the current trends, things can go one if three ways : 1. We see cultural paradigm shift that resembles relationship dynamics of the past ( unlikely, barring some catastrophe), 2. Women as a group take accountability and decide to adjust their standards / self reflect (lol) or 3. Technology fills the void. I'm thinking 3 is the most likely
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 11:23 PM
2

Dayum!
/r/MGTOW14/12/20 10:06 PM
1

If you're seriously that financially independent, I'd travel. Honestly, if the gym isn't fun for you, why not move to a state that is rife with outdoors activities ? Go live near the mountains and ski, climb, and hike. You can do insanely cool things to get and stay in shape if income isn't an issue. I envy you lol
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:04 PM
2

Man it blows my mind that she'd have a video of a guy getting head from her in her phone. Lmao like why.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:00 PM
1

Not black but I've had similar situations occur in my family.
/r/MGTOW14/12/20 08:32 PM
3

Lmao
/r/MGTOW14/12/20 11:54 AM
40

The amount for bullshit I've had to endure from female partners as far as mental issues are concerned is insane, as in, if I displayed even a small fraction of their issues I'd be nexted. A lot of women are exhausting and I think it's hilarious when they say, 'we don't want to be your mommies/therapists' when they want us to be their daddies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 11:31 AM
1

Nothing of value was lost
/r/MGTOW10/12/20 09:02 PM
2

Lol she's getting a small taste of what it's like to be an average man
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 09:53 AM
2

Yeah , truly accurate, unfiltered AI would not go over well with leftists lmao.
/r/MGTOW09/12/20 09:51 AM
2

This is a brilliant essay and should be read by every man
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:09 AM
1

Lmao isn't that the joke
/r/MGTOW09/12/20 12:40 AM
2

I've never been a bb ( never wealthy enough for that lol), but I've fucked a handful of married and taken women. Funnily enough, I wasn't really an alpha when I did all that though, just a friend at the right place and the right time whilst lacking any morals whatsoever lol. And yes, being in that position fundamentally changed my outlook on women forever. A lot of these girls were from varying walks of life and their ability to lie and cheat was similar
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 08:11 PM
5

Flag so red it should be flying over the kremlin
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:53 PM
8

Apply this to everyone tbh. It's just good advice across the board
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:52 PM
3

I can't imagine being a participant in that lol. Ugh
/r/MGTOW07/12/20 08:11 AM
2

A lot of idiots on here are larpers or children. They don't understand shit
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:26 AM
2

What utter horse shit and a complete misunderstanding of stoicism. It's quite the opposite of learned helplessness and passivity lmao. You think stoicism encourages passivity and requires you to have no boundaries, goals, or actions? It's not just about enduring shit, maybe you should actually read more about stoicism before you critique it.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/20 12:13 AM
1

Yeah it's funny how experience is the biggest red pill of all. I was able to entertain delusions before I had experience, not after. That's why I scoff at the virgin or incel labels lmao
/r/MGTOW06/12/20 02:22 PM
6

Working in a bar is red pilling as fuck lmao. Good way to get easy pussy too
/r/MGTOW06/12/20 01:49 PM
3

If you're a bachelor, you shouldn't be talking about it at work. If the topic does arise, say you're seeing someone.
/r/MGTOW06/12/20 12:51 PM
3

Honestly, in my experience a lot of the higher value beta guys will politely refrain from commitment with these types. I've seen it play out countless times. It's all left unsaid and the dudes may virtue signal in public, but if they're relatively high value bloopers, they still forego commitment.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:34 AM
2

Then they wonder why the highest value dude's they get with forego commitment lmao.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:33 AM
1

Meh. Then when men do open up, they're demonized and women lament at the 'emotional labor's they're incurring on them. Or men open up and realize women are unattracted after the fact. The list goes on and on. Feminism always sounds great in theory, but it fails in practice. Until women practice what they preach, it is hurting men to follow feminist ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 11:00 PM
3

If you are trying to prevent someone from cheating, you've already lost. If she wants to chest, she will cheat.
/r/MGTOW05/12/20 10:47 PM
1

It's weird because whenever I see an unrealistic romance on tv or any other form of media, I just automatically recognize it as fiction now lol. It's as fictional as horror or sci fi
/r/MGTOW05/12/20 10:37 AM
9

I have a few relatively woke friends but most are utter blue pill cucks. I stopped trying to air shit and help them after they started referring to me as a misogynist loi It's hilarious because two of my friends that have taken issue with my commentary have gotten either divrode raped or cucked. They internalize it for a bit but go right back, every single time. A lot of men just do not learn
/r/MGTOW05/12/20 10:20 AM
3

Lol man, unless there's something you're not telling us, attempting to get a kiss and getting smacked isn't going to result in a manhunt.
/r/MGTOW05/12/20 10:19 AM
1

Some of the girls I've been with had seriously disgusting habits and places. With that said, I think that when a place is insanely gross, it's usually due to mental illness, regardless of the gender.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 04:53 AM
1

I'll usually say I have enough friends, and leave it at that. On at least two occasions, it led to her sleeping with me lmao. They don't know what to do with that shit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 03:31 AM
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It's really a testament to how amazing of a swimmper phelps was that he could still get silver after a long hiatus and competing against people a decade younger and in their primes. That's insane
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 04:13 AM
1

I feel like telling someone to see a therapist over relationship issues is a farce. I've never seen that work irl lol.
/r/MGTOW03/12/20 10:19 PM
4

What's hilarious is that the girls on only fans are not only less attractive than regular pornstars, but their content is also priced insanely high for middling content, which they continue to nickel and dime you for after you pay the monthly subscription. I was bored and did a month trial of one of the top girls on of, and on top of the 15 recurring monthly charge, you has to tip and pay for videos. Meanwhile, you could either use pornhub for free or pay a measly ten dollars a month and get an …
/r/MGTOW03/12/20 10:04 PM
10

It's also just fucking annoying after a point. You think you want it when you're dying from dehydration in the dessert, but the grass IS greener. Id say it's a better problem to have than zero validation and/or sex to have, but it gets old quick
/r/askTRP03/12/20 01:54 AM
3

Women drive the economy tbh. The bulk of consumer spending is due to women and the men that support them.
/r/MGTOW03/12/20 12:51 AM
1

Or even margaret thatcher lmao
/r/MGTOW03/12/20 12:50 AM
1

The number of likes thing is hilarious because it's pure projection-- only women care about that shit lol. I've never heard a guy talk about how many likes his post got or how a girl he likes has few likes on a given post. That's some next level insecure levels of hilarious projection
/r/MGTOW02/12/20 10:44 AM
6

I think that's an overly reductionist take on romance lol. While sex is an important component and goal of romance, I think there are greater concerns of true companionship. If it was just about sex, men would just take on prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 12:14 AM
3

Me neither. Most bastard guys, and really just bastard people in general, are not very good at hiding it lol. The amount of true psycho / socio paths in the world is very small.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 10:27 AM
4

I seriously think this distinction needs to be raised more. When confronted with this topic, many get defensive and resort to the most egregious examples of singlemothethood, when most single mothers are just downright irresponsible ( at least when we look at women in their 20s and 30s)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 10:23 AM
7

The only way to be 'successful' with most women is to either allow insane amounts of indiscretions and bad behavior go unpunished or uncommented on, placing you in the provider/ bloop mindset, or to become trps definition of chad, which is an empty and hollow existence, even with the sex. I'm sure there are a small minority that find a middle ground or something approaching reasonable, but it's too rare to consider
/r/MGTOW30/11/20 06:26 AM
7

Dude for real. Women irl have red pilled me harder than trp did. The more experience I have with women, the more I'm 'radicalized'. Ironically, being successful pills you the hardest
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 09:17 AM
1

Not sure, but I know madison, wi was considered to be one of the best, but that could be due to the fact that it's a college town.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 01:02 AM
1

Id try to learn things from him and see if he can introduce you to people and / or wingman. Assuming you guys are close, it seems like an ideal situation to help you get laid
/r/askTRP28/11/20 12:23 AM
1

Denver is actually rated as one of the worst places to date for singles based on surveys
/r/askTRP28/11/20 12:19 AM
3

Ok, as someone familiar with boulder and Denver, I can honestly say that the competition is fierce due to the active, outdoors culture coupled with the fact that it's the fittest state in the nation, with obesity rates being the lowest statewide. Id say that those two cities have some of the best looking people in the united states, so the competition will be fierce. And yes, a lot of dudes hike/ rock climb in that region due to easy access to mountains
/r/askTRP28/11/20 12:17 AM
4

This is bullshit. Unless she's tall, there is no way she's not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 10:23 PM
3

No shit. Women have a suitor or ten lined up prior to breaking up, while men need to actually put out effort to find anyone. It's easy to get past a breakup when you have nigh unlimyed access to hundreds if not thousands of men with little to no effort on your part.
/r/MGTOW24/11/20 01:01 AM
1

That isn't always true. I've found that bosses who are stern but friendly make for happier, more productive work places. Hardass, mean bosses often create a toxic environment and they hemmorage workers. You can't too friendly, but showing that you have at least some concern for the welfare of your subordinates and their lives goes a long way
/r/MGTOW24/11/20 12:06 AM
1

Honestly man, as long as she is responsive to meeting with you in person, I'd consider it an ideal situation. What benefit do you get from being another one of her text buddies lol
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:47 PM
4

Honestly, women understand things but they don't actually care. I've never found the women in my life to be genuine, whether they were friends or a sexual partner. They are good at pretending, but it's easy to see through
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:43 PM
71

Lmao, based on your cousins history and his current behavior, that man is a lost cause.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:42 PM
1

Yeah, I'm just saying if you were younger, more social, And therefore around more people and meeting them, I think that would be a major contributor. All things equal, you'd do ten times better if you're shredded. If you're not meeting people and your life is stagnant, you can't properly gauge how much of an advantage it is
/r/askTRP23/11/20 03:27 AM
3

Unless your behavior changed for the worse, I'm willing to bet this was due to other variables, like getting older and not being around as many dynamic social groups.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 01:38 AM
3

Sometimes I feel vas sounds unrealistic, but I've known some older bartenders who get chicks with daddy issues quite a bit , so if he's high status, I could see it
/r/askTRP23/11/20 01:36 AM
13

Is there any actual evidence , though? His girl friend wasn't a looker. He definitely understood game, but I feel like everyone brings him up as this huge pimp, but I haven't seen much evidence that he slayed homies regularly.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 01:32 AM
4

I kind of agree with you, but the amount of charisma and game you need is drastically less when you're more attractive. You have to be a real autistic fuck to not get pussy if you're good looking.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 01:29 AM
3

This is correct. Consistency and ease of access is key. I've slayed hot girls while fifty ish lbs overweight , but retention and frequency is a whole nother thing
/r/askTRP23/11/20 01:28 AM
4

I mean, I think we need to not resort to extremees here. Being reserved doesn't mean you awkwardly stand in silence.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:27 AM
10

Gaslighting aside, why is your wife even traveling without you? That's a red flag in itself
/r/MGTOW20/11/20 04:45 AM
4

Solid point. It's better to have these men come here and get mentored by men who have figured it out vs concentrating in backwater incel forums that reinforce toxic mindsets and black pill ideologies
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 11:22 PM
1

While I agree that invoking that type of langauge and mindset is ultimately toxic and unproductive, I think it's absurd to excuse utterly poor and immoral behavior via an appeal to nature. Where do you even draw the line? As humans, were capable of overcoming our base instincts and adhering to higher virtue, so that sort of argument seems like a justification of poor, path of least resistance behavior. I totally understand the anger and resentment men have, and I support moving past that because…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 11:19 PM
1

Imagine that, censorship doesn't work
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 11:12 PM
3

Your selective reading of history is pathetic dude. No one is claiming that christians committed zero bloodshed over time, but the point remains that Islamic empires led bloody conquests across christendom for hundreds of years. The reconquista was messsy, sure, but how can you handwaive the fact that Islam spread by the sword and terrorized Europe for a long ass time period? Are you Islamic by chance, because I sense bias
/r/askTRP18/11/20 08:51 AM
3

It's not an ideal scenario and I think I speak for many here when I say we'd prefer it to be another way. I honestly don't have an easy answer for your question because everything you have stated is true. How you adapt to the modern reality is up to you
/r/askTRP18/11/20 08:32 AM
8

I've rarely found women to make good platonic friends. They're fleeting and lack the bonds if loyalty I share with me , even after I've known them for years. I've let a lot of them go because they're basically useless, and most of the effort is one sided, at least where it matters
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 10:33 PM
5

Wtf even is this shit? A girl's smile is comparable or as good as sex? Dude sounds like a total loser. Getting girls to smile isn't some feat, and it doesnt mean shit. What's next, are we gonna talk about hugs ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 10:29 PM
2

When there is any noise around relationship woes, it's always centered around women and blame is offshored onto external factors and or men
/r/MGTOW17/11/20 08:28 AM
1

It's not hard lmao. Maybe if we're talking like top clubs in LA or Vegas, but strippers are easy as fuck
/r/MGTOW17/11/20 03:24 AM
3

Ime , it's only woke white people that defend stupid bullshit like this
/r/MGTOW17/11/20 03:23 AM
5

As someone that has personal experience with all thots, including strippers, I have to laugh at these people. I don't think they have any experience with girls like this and with this mentality, they're precisely the type of guys that would get chewed up, manipulated, and spit out by these women.
/r/MGTOW17/11/20 02:43 AM
5

Silent hill 4 and that's your girlfriend's head. I'm not sure if it's supposed to represent something or not, but it's in some random in the second half of the game
/r/MGTOW15/11/20 06:00 AM
17

Sounds like you got love bombed and then she moved on.
/r/MGTOW15/11/20 12:06 AM
3

Yeah, not to mention the very real social repercussions that can impact your employment, among other things.
/r/MGTOW14/11/20 11:25 PM
24

And this mentality, regardless of how stupid and unworkable it is in reality, is why dating modern women is impossible. You're a disposable and replaceable, that's what she thinks going into a relationship. How romantic
/r/MGTOW14/11/20 10:54 PM
1

It depends on the activity, but you shouldn't be fixated on just girls,but rather on expanding your social circle. Assuming the clubs you're in are not dungeons and dragons, you will probably meet people that know girls and it will snowball from there. You need to do something thoighh. With covid, it's gonna be tougher tho
/r/askTRP13/11/20 09:43 PM
1

That adage isn't as prevalent as it once was , though. In fact, it's basically shunned, so it should stand to reason that trp , and places like it, could be the only exposure that a lot of men find in modern society
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:33 PM
23

This shit gave me cancer
/r/MGTOW13/11/20 09:59 AM
2

Yea, seriously. When I lost fifty lbs, it was night and day treatment from virtually everyone. Old, young, male or female. Doesn't matter
/r/askTRP13/11/20 01:58 AM
31

Is that all?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/20 10:06 AM
1

Lol yeah, way more terrifying than a man losing his sources of income and having his reputation and legacy potentially ruined. Wayyyyyyyy scaryyyy
/r/MGTOW12/11/20 04:47 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:39 PM
1

I mean, I've been off the field for a while now but I can still relate because I have dealt with many of the issues discussed here and elsewhere. It's not alien to me, but it does feel like faraway, petty concerns when I hear about it.
/r/MGTOW11/11/20 09:51 AM
1

Why put up with this? You'll likely be fine financially, with or without her. I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 08:17 AM
2

I totally feel ya on active social media. How the fuck can anyone hope to make a relationship truly work with that barrier ? I can think of a dozen relationships that ended due to social media, as in, they started getting e cucked right under their nose
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:16 AM
2

Eh. I have some people I know in seemingly happy arrangements but even one of the knwon and respected power couples has ended in a tumultuous divorce lately. That shit seems perfect til it isn't.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:12 AM
6

Man , the former category can turn into that fast tho. Even when I was one of those guys, I'd fuck some of the chicks when the time was right. I mean, I never flirted or did anything sexual prior. Trust me, it's still dangerous
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:01 AM
2

Not to mention that the vast majority of her male friends treat her far differently than they would an actual friend. If her idea of friendship is based on how her orbiters treat her, she's basically just used to being pampered and will have unrealistic expectations in virtually everything. Unfortunately, that's a lot of women these days
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:46 AM
2

You'd think, but a lot of feminists are for prosecuting john's whilst protecting prostitutes. It's backwards
/r/MGTOW10/11/20 11:12 PM
68

'i engaged in a degenerate sex cult and it wasn't fulfilling, how could this happen ?!' What a fucking idiot
/r/MGTOW10/11/20 11:07 PM
21

Yeah, and almost all of them pop ecstacy, ketamine, psychedelics, and whatever other dueg they can get their hands on. Soooo enlightened.
/r/MGTOW10/11/20 11:01 PM
11

Hippy girls are the worst. They believe in all sorts of pseudo science or straight up gobbedly gook nonsense like healing crystals and the paranormal. They pay lip service to ideologies/ religions like Buddhism yet have never meditated or read anything beyond surface level bullshit. The worst offense though, is that they claim enlightenment while they go to festivals and eat copious amounts of drugs whilst sucking off dudes. Ugh, this subset always bothered me the most
/r/MGTOW10/11/20 11:00 PM
2

Yeah, usually. I dunno, girls I knew that were diagnosed with bpd definitely would show red flags, but generally their houses and lives we're fairly meticulously organized. This girl sounds bat shit in a special way imho
/r/TheRedPill10/11/20 10:28 PM
1

Hahaha, damn you found a crazy one. This is def a crazy hall of famer. Well, at least you have a good story to tell the boys
/r/TheRedPill10/11/20 10:25 PM
6

Upgrading your smv trump's refining game ime. Unless you're hopelessly socially incompetent, chances are your biggest impediments to getting laid are external, ie status and fitness/ grooming. If you're attractive and or successful, you don't even have to play games; these girls will just fall into your lap and do the majority of the work. Can game help you if you're less attractive in other areas? Sure, but do you really want to expend that level of effort on women when it can be so much easier…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/20 11:14 PM
21

She's always been an unprincipled politician in her pursuit of power. As a prosecutor, she was known for being notoriously draconian in her sentencing, which destroyed the lives of many colored people for relatively victimless crimes. She even sentenced innocent people, which was the subject of a short vice documentary a year ago. Blows my mind that people don't see her for what she is : a power hungry politician that will do anything to advance her career.
/r/MGTOW09/11/20 09:46 PM
5

Kamala Harris is the definition of a career politician, with all of the negative baggage that entails. Champion of colored people? Hah! When she operated as a prosecutor, she was a ruthlessly ambitious, clout chasing menace, known for being extremely draconian in her sentencing. She sentenced so many people on trumped up charges , including innocents, in order to get ahead and further her political career. Champion of the people my ass, she's a shrewd, unprincipled, and powermad politician, thro…
/r/MGTOW09/11/20 09:41 PM
1

Yeah the men benefiting from height aren't complaining, one of whom had fucked you lmao Ftr im 6'1
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 06:15 AM
1

Plenty of men appreciate smaller breasts. Look at the top pornstars of the past ten years lol. Men like smallish breasts so much that they'll literally be upset when a pornstar gets implants
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 06:12 AM
3

If I lived in an area more conducive to cool outdoors stuff, lockdown would be paradise tbh
/r/MGTOW09/11/20 05:28 AM
1

I'm sorry, but the stakes are way too high nowadays for someone to be willfully naive about human nature. This is a lot to words and flowery thinking , but doesn't serve the average man in a practical sense and at worst, will actively hurt him. I appreciate your point but the world is transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 03:53 AM
1

Because most women don't face the trials and tribulations men do....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 03:50 AM
1

I mean, it's in our genetics and the result of 100s of thosuands of years of evolution. Asinine question, it's our biological imperative to want women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 03:49 AM
4

Seriously lmao. My favorite bullshit is how people try to rationalize their results on dating post weight loss as 'its due to the confidence I found bro!'. Nah dude, 60 lbs earlier and girls were treating you as invisible or like trash lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 03:14 AM
3

Oh wow, that's bad lol. jives with my experience though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:44 AM
2

I feel like it all comes down to circumstances of the divorce tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:43 AM
1

I honestly don't think 10 or so men would bother me all that much, especially if she was mid twenties or older. It's when it's over 20 plus that I'm like, ok somethings up. This is just based on personal experience. Ten guys spread out usually means she has kept her ho phase to a minimum and likely dated a decent number if them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:42 AM
1

Yeah I'm not so sure I buy the jerking off correlation. I've always been social and jerked off a ton when I'm bored and on days off lol. I dunno, I have never noticed a gd difference
/r/TheRedPill09/11/20 02:40 AM
7

It's really bad rn. I've been able to keep in contact with close friends and even met a few ppl, but it's HARD to really go out and socialize. I'm curious as to how many people will exit this pandemic with newly developed social anxiety they never had
/r/TheRedPill09/11/20 02:38 AM
6

Yeah we're currently in an unmitigated social disaster. Social media has quite literally undermined everything
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/20 01:50 AM
2

I honestly can't stand weed. I mean it's fine to indulge once in a while, but living in a legal state gets annoying when everyone is hitting that shit constantly as if it's as normal as taking a drink of water. I mean, at least with alcohol people tend to pair it with events and nights out unless they're an alcoholic. I get that weed isn't as addictive or destructive, but I don't want to smell that shit and look at people getting high 246
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:34 AM
6

Yeah, life is certainly not fair and we must work with what we've got. Some advice for your face and general look :go to an expensive salon after growing your hair out for a bit and ask them what they think would be the best cut for your face. Experiment with facial hair if possible. Develope a style with your wardrobe- go on male fashion forums for ideas. You might never be the most handsome guy in the room, but you can stand out. Also, develop game, obviously
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:11 AM
1

Oh I think you're good then. Lots of outdoors people round there.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:08 AM
1

People saying that she likes you might be right, but in my experience there are women that will just fucking hate you for no rational reason. I've experienced this with some coworkers
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:07 AM
1

What region do you live in?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 11:30 PM
1

Depends on where you live tbh. If you're in the denver-boulder area, it's actually super common and lots of people wouldn't find it strange. But yeah, it reallllly depends on where you live and how popular said acitvity is
/r/askTRP08/11/20 11:30 PM
13

You can become this if you want it enough
/r/askTRP08/11/20 11:25 PM
2

Have fun, don't get too attached.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 10:48 PM
14

Virtually every girl I've known or been with displayed varying degrees of narcissism. Some are better than others at tempering the worst excesses, but our culture and technogy facilitates the development of said traits, especially when it comes to women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/20 10:45 PM
3

The majority of guys have already had that experience lmao
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/20 10:43 PM
1

I've heard girls express sentiments like this.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 09:00 PM
1

I'm not gonna say I can personally attest to the veracity if his story, but I've seen coworkers get flowers delivered to them by dude's they've just met outside of their own residence. That part isn't entirely ubelievanle
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 08:56 PM
2

Yeah I have stories from my personal life that would seem like fan fiction, I feel like. A lot of girls are fucking savage and cheat without remorse
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 08:53 PM
1

What...no way. I thought it was like 400 thousand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 11:08 AM
2

Same. There are some exceptions, but by and large, same
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:41 AM
3

Well yeah, but there are still observable trends and behaviors that can explain a lot. If that wasn't the case, the fields of socilogy and psychology would be useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:37 AM
3

Yeah, I really don't get the deferring to what the average person does argument. The average person is a fucking idiot with little to no self awareness or critical thinking skills lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:36 AM
1

Seriously, besides unattractive, beta men, what kind of guy is gonna wait ? It's the fatal flaw in their stupid strategy. Also what's stopping even the beta guy from meeting a girl in the interim period that gives him everything he wants and losing interest? This strategy cuts both ways but they're too selfish, vain, and wretched to see it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/20 09:31 AM
2

I've inadvertantly done this so many times. It also lights a fire under the ass of the wretched woman stringing you along.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/20 09:29 AM
3

Even if it worked and had no effect on the women in question and their ability to pair bond, it's probably one of the stupidest strategies a woman can employ if she wants to lock down a high value man. If you want to get a guy who's high quality, you can't expect him to wait and ignore the fact that you're banging other dudes in the meantime. The only way this courtship dance works is if the women is chaste lmao. What incentive does a guy have to wait it you're gonna be a total whore in the mean…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/20 07:16 AM
11

Eh, that's a small hiccup but I think he did pretty well tbh. The fact that he cut it short and was curt in his responses on the way home shows he has balls. Bloopers woulda been polite the entire way and let the night drag on far longer than it should have
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:54 AM
1

Oh yeah, university is a whole nother beast. And don't get me wrong, sometimes a girl will give you iois and you'll strike up a convo in line somewhere, but just cold approaching is hard asf nowadays, usually
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 10:37 PM
7

I also think that the whole ' day game' thing is really outdated too. I say that as a guy who has dated throughout the past decade and a half and employed such strategies. Approaching girls on the tram or in the grocery store doesn't work like it used to
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 09:55 PM
4

I used to think this was conspiratorial but after being close to women that were, for lack of a better word, players, it soon became clear that they like the dichotomy. They def want the fuck bois and the betas, and recognize that both suit their overall strategy. There are decent women that aren't like this, of course, but a lot of the modern women that trp laments about are far more self aware than many think
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 09:17 PM
1

Yeah poorer women are def looser. You can bat well above your league
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 08:55 PM
0

I think he was kind of poking fun at the bias implicit to highlighting inequalities faced by black people and not applying that term to poor whites. Regardless of their political affiliation ( which is often influenced by their low status ), poor whites are still victims of an inequitable system.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 08:49 PM
1

It goes beyond just class on here tbh. A lot of people that have bloop opinions and successful marriages (for now) are above the age of 30. There are a lot of older people on here doling out dating advice that is outdated- how can you seriously advise people if you didn't grow up with / date in the modern environment ? Furthermore, survivorship bias is also a problem regardless of age. There will always be lucky people that manage to avoid the pitfalls of modern dating for x amount for reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 08:34 PM
3

I'd honestly sue the fuck out of that university
/r/MGTOW07/11/20 08:24 PM
2

Please tell me this didn't happen to you? If it did, I'd like to hear the story , if you'd be so inclined
/r/MGTOW07/11/20 08:08 PM
9

This is an American mindset tbh. Most cultures live with their families for a long time, sometimes forever. I'm not gonna try to make a value judgement but living at home is def closer to the norm worldwide than the reverse. Let's face it : most people won't have your back like family does, and they're the most important people in your life at the end of the day
/r/MGTOW07/11/20 08:05 PM
1

Exceptions always exist
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:37 PM
13

The only text for logistics was relevant when it was first written about in like 2010, but the old heads need to update that. A lot has changed in a decade
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 07:33 PM
15

These posts were more relevant like ten years ago. I agree with the younger posters here - you need to message
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 07:32 PM
43

Every guy I've known that was labeled a fuck boi was insanely successful with women, and usually the women calling him that had been rejected by said guy after having put out countless times for him. Lmao it's such a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 09:49 AM
6

Sure, but most women in the states are over weight, so no amount of grooming standards is gonna change the fact that they're low value
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 02:30 AM
2

I actually see chubby girls with fitter men more than the reverse tbh. Are you from the states ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 02:26 AM
6

Fair enough, but I'd like to hold women to the same standards. Bigger or homely women should date guys within their league
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 02:23 AM
1

Honestly, I think you're out of touch. I'm two decades younger than you, so I've dated before and after huge cultural and technological shifts that have affected the scene, and really society as a whole. I cannot imagine the differences from when you dated as a young person, but I'm willing to go out on a limb here and say they were wholly different. I'm not trying to be a dick here, but young women these days are playing by a different set of rules and technology has eroded what was once good a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 02:14 AM
5

Generally, if you're dating a girl for a bit, the truth comes out in one way or another. You have to put yourself out there, but if you are properly vetting, you will figure it out
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:19 AM
2

Smart phones and the subsequent apps, dating and social, have seriously destroyed dating. It's honestly absurd at this point
/r/TheRedPill05/11/20 05:15 AM
8

Politics are dumb and both candidates are a joke. If you think you're intelligent for voting for trump , ho man
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:28 AM
9

Lol there is likely a racial element to this unfortunately. I'm not sure if he realizes it or not.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/20 02:36 AM
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Lmao I know this is likely scripted on some level, but this is how a lot for women react when you call them out on blatant offenses, or attempt to correct them on awful behaviors.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/20 08:58 AM
1

Lmao wtf. Yeah ok, yet all of the manosphere stuff is either quarantined, or on the way to being quarantined. FDS doesn't stand out, it's literally the only thing you can access besides seduction
/r/MGTOW28/10/20 04:36 AM
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It amazes me that a guy could say this and have lived that reality yet still think there was anything there. I mean come on
/r/MGTOW28/10/20 04:10 AM
2

It can be anything from pissy residue from improper cleaning to an actual full blown infection. When it's the latter, it often smells like full blown cat piss rotting in an alley way - very disgusting
/r/MGTOW28/10/20 04:02 AM
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It's nowhere near one of the 'worst forms' for weight loss. Lifting whilst dieting mediates the extent of stretch marks and helps to fill in your body in good ways. You will even look better as you lose weight due to the musculature. Dieting and lifting is preferable to just dieting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 10:55 PM
1

What changes are you referring to? Energy levels ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 10:54 PM
2

Lol 275 is mote than a little chub my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 10:47 PM
1

Generally, exercise is for health and muscle growth. It also accelerates the process considerably.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 09:56 PM
5

It's easy in the sense that dieting isn't hard to figure out, but anything that requires half to a full year of time isn't easy really. Takes a lot of will power and discipline to see it through
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 09:54 PM
3

Trp heavily addresses that. I can personally attest to the fact that being obese is dating on hard mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 09:51 PM
2

Lol for real. Women have to be really fucking bad for the courts to legally seperate them from their children. Whatever she's up to or has been up to, you can rest assured it's real bad
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 07:36 AM
1

To be fair, this is really out there lmao. I don't often run into chicks this toxic
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 07:26 AM
2

I understand entirely where you're coming from, but we need social workers like you. When you're out in the field, you will likely be far more effective, especially with males, than most of your female coworkers will be.
/r/MGTOW27/10/20 05:18 AM
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I'd find it to be a big turn off if a woman didn't offer to split. A lot of girls I've seen did at least that , christ
/r/MGTOW27/10/20 04:45 AM
7

Yeah , channel those qualities into places where it benefits you. Fucking around with politics in the current climate will likely do you no favors.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:00 AM
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It's honestly more trouble than it's worth. I personally only open up about views with people that I know are similar or at least open minded. For the rest? Just nod and agree, you stand to gain absolutely nothing by arguing. In fact, you stand to lose a lot
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:51 AM
4

I'm curious as to what ops age is. If he has been out of the dating game for ten plus years , I could see why he's confused.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 01:58 AM
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No offense man, but I think you're likely better looking than you give yourself credit for. At least based on your post. Guys that are naturally good looking and have good habits ie fitness, diet often have little trouble dating. You have likely had positive reinforcement your entire life and you're taking that for granted. Like, I've always been decent, if not above average with women considering my lack of looks and heavy set past, but being nice was never enough. It took improvements to my we…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 01:17 AM
1

I honestly see a lot of people squatting, it's dead lifts that are neglected ime. The leg press machine sees a lot of use tho
/r/askTRP24/10/20 10:33 AM
2

Lmao
/r/askTRP24/10/20 10:03 AM
1

Yeah, people on here are lazy as fuck when they label a stance that's clearly mgtaw as trp. I've never gotten the vibe that red pill thinks you'll be fine as an involuntarily single person, which is likely what this study is addressing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:30 AM
2

Yeah and then you see the photo and it's exactly the type of dude that you'd expect. I'd feel bad if these guys weren't so defensive and egotistical
/r/MGTOW24/10/20 06:28 AM
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Well yeah, I was just using more modern examples to illustrate that it wasn't that long ago that this shit was common.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 12:40 AM
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Lol right? It's apparent when you read or watch stuff made in the 80s -eaely/mid 2000s.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 09:57 PM
1

Lol at thinking that the vast majority of reddit users are not from the US and europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 07:04 AM
1

Because fds women overrate their value and feel entitled to men that are much better than them. They are also contradicting themselves constantly and talking about hooking up yet they want men to jump through their hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 12:04 AM
1

The real question is why do chubby women think they're entitled to fit men? Can't tell you how many girls I had to drive up to and drive off on because of misrepresentation on dating sites
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 11:51 PM
5

You do realize the horror genre encompasses more than just slasher flicks, right? Watch something like midsommar, the witch, or mandy and tell me there is no depth to horror
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 11:01 PM
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I don't think it's a matter of people can't change, but rather many don't and no matter how you cut it, someone with a tumultuous past is a greater liability than the alternative. You're basically gambling when you could be more selective and greatly improve your odds by choosing someone without the baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:57 PM
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I've said it before and I'll say it again : if insurance companies ran cost/benefit analyses on individuals and their viability in stable relationships, people with a high n count would have premium rates on their insurance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:55 PM
2

Lmao that's on the sidebar. Contrast that with this post. Women man
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 04:10 AM
1

While I would never promote bitterness or encourage a man to go down a road of anger, what can you really fucking expect? The current state of affairs is actively hostile to men and they feel lost, lonely, isolated, and dejected. Should come as no surprise that a lot of men are realizing that dating is a raw deal and women are trying to have their cake and eat it too at their expense.
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 04:07 AM
3

Unfortunately a natural consequence of a general degradation of values and the subsequent thristiness and desperation that results.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 11:43 PM
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Comparing yourself to others is always gonna lead to unhappiness, regardless of what it is. There will always be someone better looking ,smarter , more competent, wealthier etc than you. This guy is likely a natural and genetically blessed, so he's always gonna do better than most guys. You can't let it get to you, you need to focus on being the best version of yourself
/r/askTRP20/10/20 07:15 AM
1

And you know what ? There are likely exceptions to the rule and I'll concede that much. But on average, the girls I've known that are promiscuous make terrible partners, as far as a serious ltr is concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:25 PM
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Lol ok , I've tried to date promiscuous women and it always ended in disaster, but ok. Meanwhile, all of my frienfs that found a decent girl are happily married
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:23 PM
2

It's one of those things that's fine in moderation, but if that's the only way you find any happiness in life, it's just sad. At least past s certain age
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:05 PM
1

I think we need to ignore the hardcore incels and tradckns and realize most well adjusted men don't expect virginity, but rather a relatively chaste girl who kept most of her sex life in committed, monogamous arrangements. I personally don't care if she had a n count higher than 1, but I do care about the circumstances surrounding said n count and if it's abnormally high
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:03 PM
1

A relatively small percentage of men ' get away with murder' as far as the smp is concerned, but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:01 PM
2

If it's a matter of 20 lbs or less, you aren't really fat enough for it to be a true detriment. You may have more success post weight loss, but you're not gonna be utterly screwed at such a low amount if weight
/r/askTRP16/10/20 10:24 AM
2

Right. If there was a sizable chunk of the population that chose bachelorhood or some sort of alternative lifestyle, it'd be one thing, but that's just not the case. For the most part, being an eternal bachelor is lonely and isolating.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:40 PM
1

I've been thinking about this a lot lately. There are definitely organizations and hobbies you can get involved in, but at the end of the day, it's unlikely you'll ever be able to make new friends as close as those you enjoyed throughout your younger years. It's not hard to see why people get married and have children, because at the end of the day, there ain't that much out there for you past 30.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:30 PM
1

Yeah , it's too bad that most guys today won't have this kind of thing. Never take it for granted
/r/askTRP14/10/20 11:28 PM
1

Crabs in a bucket man, that's just how petty and pathetic most people are. They were used to your place in the pecking order or social hierarchy, and you punched upwards and basically became a whole new person. Now they're intimidated and/or threatened by you. My advice would be to ignore the haters and retain the people who have been there for you and accept your transformation. It's ok if someone's a tad envious, but when they try and knock ya down, you gotta cut them out.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:39 PM
1

You do understand the concept of outliers in statistics, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 09:07 PM
0

Lol what the fuck is this rant ? Lay off the meth pipe dude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:44 PM
1

Yeah, if there was an institution that ran an objective cost / benefit risk analysis on dating like insurance companies do, you can bet your ass that people with a promiscuous past would be labeled high risk and would have premium rates
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:41 PM
2

Past behavior is one of the most reliable predictors of future behavior. Using your past as a criteria to evaluate risk is ubiquitous across virtually every institution, whether it's the credit bureaus, insurance companies, or virtually any center of employment. Your work, credit, and legal history are analyzed by virtually every institution on the planet. So yeah, I find it funny that people think a person's sexual history has no relevancy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:39 PM
1

Sluts are a ton of fun but that fun comes with a lot of baggage, ime. Said baggage becomes a liability for the men foolishly trying to date them .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:17 PM
1

It's funny because a lot of guys that use escorts, and I mean the high end ones, are anything but losers. The only people that can afford them on the regular are high end professionals and celebrities lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:12 PM
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Yeah they get REAL defensive. Its like, just own your shit and respect the fact that not everyone feels the same as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:08 PM
2

Data and studies on the matter aside, I've just observed this to be true in read life. Girls that are heavily promiscuous often have a host of issues that prevents them from being good partners. It's kind of a chicken and the egg type of situation, but regardless of what precedes what, the outcome is the same. Now with that said, I don't dislike sluts as people. A lot of them can be fun and caring, but it's rare that I find one that doesn't have mental issues up the wazoo. They tend to be impuls…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:06 PM
1

I don't think cold approaching should be taken that seriously in the current social climate. When a lot of the founders wrote about that stuff, it was almost a decade ago. So much has changed since then. Can it still work ? Sure, but the costs kind of outweigh the benefits when compared with other strategies. I personally don't think that most guys can pull it off anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 12:57 AM
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Lol, the fact that you have to ask this question when so many red flags are clearly present and on display is pretty sad.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 10:51 PM
1

Lol as if a woman would respect and be attracted to a guy, per her definition
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/20 01:03 AM
4

It's literally an impossible situation for normal dude's.
/r/MGTOW11/10/20 12:45 AM
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This is why I can't take women seriously when they say that there are a ton of avenues for men when it comes to relationships. During highschool and college, sure, but generally after youre past those phases in your life, you have less access due to a dwindling number if friends and the prevalence of work in your life. The only hope is that you have friends and family that matchmake for you, or you risk it all on a coworker. If you cant do well on online dating, the game is 10000 times harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 12:37 AM
1

Well in the not so distant past, courtship was the norm in the mating process, so what were dealing with now are guys who are still being influenced by outdated ideals and ways of behavior that not only used to work, but we're expected. That's rapidly changing in the modern era, I'm sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 12:34 AM
2

The economic factors argument holds such little weight that I'm surprised it's trotted out. In poorer countries, people get fucking married all the time. There are actual distinct advantages to marriage here if you're economically disadvantaged. The only people that take issue with marriage in an economically disadvantaged situation are those that want a lavish wedding
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 12:26 AM
1

This is why businesses should always require prepay. Assholes ruin it for everyine
/r/MGTOW10/10/20 09:17 PM
1

Yeah , it's always easier said than done for sure.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 05:43 AM
1

Assuming that the caste thing is as big of an impediment as you say, why not move elsewhere ?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 11:42 PM
1

I love how guys need to directly ask in a sperged out manner if a girl would date them. If you waited ages to ask that and you're firmly in the friend zone, it should be pretty gd obvious. Furthermore, if he's been pretending to not like her for this long while maintaining friendship, the odds are that thisll eat at him slowly if they continue to hang and he sees guys come and go in her life
/r/MGTOW09/10/20 08:39 PM
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She's past her prime and they're desperate to marry her off. Asian families are hardcore brutal on women that are unmarried and hit 30 lmao
/r/askTRP07/10/20 10:24 PM
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Yeah and that arrangement only worked if both parties were non promiscuous lmao. Dating today is hardly the same thing, and you cannot expect men to be happy with courtship rituals when the other party isn't upholding their end of the baragin ie being chaste and upstanding. I'm not gonna pretend that the prior system was perfect, because I'd feel constrained under such a system, but it was predicated on what I outlined above
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/20 10:10 PM
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While I agree and I know of people in happy marriages that share these types of values, even if they're not overly relgious, I think what uncle vas is trying to say is the demand for that type of girl outpaces the supply, and the supply is dwindling even further with each passing year. Therefore, it's quite literally impossible for many guys to find that, so they might as well arm themselves for the reality they will likely face.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 09:45 PM
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As you get older, your libido just isn't as high as it once was and assuming youve fucked hot girls im the past, the allure just isn't there anymore. I have nothing to prove to myself or anyone else, so unless a girl is very low maintenance and adds to my life, I'm not gonna deal with it. If and when sex comes easily I'll take it, but I'm too grown and experienced to spin plates and game all the time. Just not worth it anymore
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 09:39 PM
1

I've honestly been disrespected in a similar manner. You'd be surprised lol
/r/askTRP07/10/20 10:00 AM
1

Lol at the amount of likes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/20 07:32 AM
1

Yeah it doesn't even feel like 'winning' when girls are this easy. I totally understand how incels and average guys are envious, but theyll be shocked if and when they make it, how gross it all feels. Like these girls are giving it up for so many guys and they're literal public toilets. It's gross and base
/r/askTRP06/10/20 11:10 PM
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I feel you tbh. It is disgusting and being a participant in the degeneracy isnt all it's cracked up to be. My advice would be to vet women and try to find something better. It's not gonna be an easy task, but fucking with whores starts to wear on you after a while.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 11:08 PM
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Yeah I get where you're coming from, but I doubt you'd be cool with the reverse.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 08:04 AM
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Oh ok, that shines more light on the situation. I would say if your friend had a boyfriend and/or you're with other friends, that wouldn't be poor optics. For some reason I thought you meant mano v mano; I also didn't know she was taken. Carry on then
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 06:50 AM
1

Focusing on exceptions to the rule is basically telling guys to get lucky and it'll work out. It's a nonsense solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:20 PM
1

Trp doesn't account for every variance because it's useless. Focusing on exceptions to the rule is a uselese endeavor. Most men will deal with women that can be generalized. I guess what I'm saying is if you find a exception, great ! But to advise men on finding exceptions and leaving a lot of things to luck isnt a sound strategy and leads to unhappiness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:19 PM
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Honestly, I'm not gonna defend your ex too much here, but I kind of understand why it'd be a point of contention. More often than not, hanging out with a member of the opposite sex frequently, coupled with booze and night time activities, is what it looks like. I think most here would agree that in an ltr, that would be unacceptable behavior if your girl was pulling that. I always think that even if something is benign, you should go the extra mile to avoid optics that point to impropriety. Just…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 09:58 PM
1

Yeah that's definitely a point that should be raised. Having gril friends as a high value guy is a completely different experience vs being low value. Youll not only have more of them, but the interactions will be very different. When I was low status in life, I rarely derived too much real benefit from female friends, whether it was meeting their other friends, getting sex, or having a reciprocal friendship
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 09:54 PM
1

I think it's best that you fuck and get it out of the way. Some people can't handle this and it ends the friendship, but when it doesn't, I feel it strengthens it. Almost all of my female friends are girls I fucked at lesst once or twice
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 09:52 PM
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I agree. I don't rely on the women in my life, although some of them are better than others, to be sure. Overtime, you start to realize how fleeting these friendships are.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 09:49 PM
5

Cheating has to be defined too. A lot of people, especially women, have differing definitions and they compartmentalize or rationalize what many others would consider cheating
/r/askTRP05/10/20 09:21 PM
2

I just meant in the way they talked about dating and shit. They felt comfortable around me to tell me things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:57 AM
1

'wish I was never unplugged from the matrix for a brief while'
/r/MGTOW05/10/20 09:32 AM
2

Not to mention that the guys who white knight the hardest tend to be inexperienced fucking losers. Every guy I've met irl that shilled hard for women in a overly bloopy manner was a fucking loser. No joke, actual incels with superiority complexes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/20 08:42 AM
12

Basically everything in trp has been confirmed by all of my female friends throughout my life. There have been points where I felt some girls were parroting actual content from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:03 AM
8

It's also a utter lack of self awarenes. Most people aren't self critical enough to break down, dissect, and challenge their ego. This applies to men too. It took me a while to accept that I'm a tad shallow and it's delusional to think otherwise. Required a lot of self awarenes on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:01 AM
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The problem with these defensive, myopic responses is also the fact that all things equal, most of those girls would have chosen the fitter, taller guy. They either couldn't lock down said guy or their pool of guys that fit that description were utter assholes who were unfit for anything beyond a casual fuck. Are there some weird exceptions? Always. But exceptions only prove the rule as they say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:00 AM
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It's amazing to me how someone can be this dehumanizing and cruel on a public forum and face no backlash. Imagine if a guy posted this. It's also just fucking cruel in general. Do I like it when homely or fat girls pursue me ? No , but I don't think I'm a lesser person because of it or have any disdain for those people. How shallow and awful can you be?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/20 07:08 AM
1

That advice is actually not horse shit sounding at all. It's stoicism through and through
/r/askTRP05/10/20 03:06 AM
1

Why do you need 4 k to move out?
/r/askTRP05/10/20 03:03 AM
40

You're an idiot if you try to fuck with the family of your neighbors. This is worse than fucking with coworkers. Jesus christ man, this is where you fucking live
/r/askTRP05/10/20 03:01 AM
1

I had no idea were facing a doctor shortage...that's scary
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 08:27 AM
1

Yeah, I always hated the proponents of game Uber alles. I've always seen mote tangible gains when I improved my looks and weight. I actually have a decent personality, so it'd get laid with hot girls but they'd never stick around because it's impossible to always be on 100, and that's precisely what is required of you if you're meh looking. Even then, it's not a true safeguard against hypergamy. Edit: assuming you're not truly ugly and have some social skills, I think being over or under weight …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 07:54 AM
2

The fact that everyone unleashes commentary whenever they see a mismatched couple should tell you all you need to know, tbh. If it was normal, no one would ever go, ' damn he must be rich/big dick/etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 07:49 AM
2

I'd cut that bitch out immediately. I'm not gonna theorize as to why she's doing this, because there a few reasons I could speculate on, but regardless of the reasons, I know this bitch is toxic. Cut her out man, that isn't a friend or 'like a sister's. She's a cunt and doesn't respect you
/r/askTRP04/10/20 12:53 AM
1

When it comes to men, usually it's either a dehabilitating mental condition that destroys their chances are a stable relationship/ chases women off, or a lack of motivation in all things, which leads to then being too low status to be taken seriously. Some of these men still get laid, though. For women, it's always mental issues/ trauma that renders them unfit for a relationship. Symptoms of this include promiscuity, infidelity, mood swings, etc .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 12:28 AM
1

I think a lot of this is very subjective. I can definitely agree that a guy straight up lying about wanting a serious relationship and being commitment oriented just to get sex is skeezy, but if you're wish washy in your intentions and don't clearly nnwo what you want, there's nothing wrong with sleeping with someone over a short period and moving on. Investment is minimal at that point. And look, I have never met a traditionally minded girl who put out within three dates. Girls that are serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 10:36 AM
3

It's honestly astonishing to see how effectively women lie, and without any shame to guilt to boot! Ive honestly been shocked by the brazenness of women I've bedded who were taken.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 10:20 AM
1

I don't know if I agree. This isn't the 19th century where we have elaborate courtship rituals and are prudes with sex. Going on 2-3 dates and having sex is nothing these days. If someone wants to find traditional, they need to employ methods that make the guy wait for much longer than that. I'm honestly confused as to whether or not you're making a moral judgement on the current state of affairs or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 10:18 AM
1

What if I'm not sure if it'll go anywhere, and don't mind checking sexual compatibility if you're willing ? Am I the bad guy when I say, oh shit sorry, thai ain't gonna work? I thought we were talking about some long con here, so my gears didn't really change a
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 10:05 AM
1

Nah, if you're giving up sex and thinking you have endured commitment based on two dates, your strategy is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 10:04 AM
1

If a woman is that caught up in a guy over 2-3 dates, that's on her tbh. If she wants to be extremely careful, she can make a guy wait longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:42 AM
1

And honestly, that strategy doesn't even work that well, hence the whole nice guys phenomenon. Most guys that employ that are willing to date the girl. It's the guys that are aloof and attractive that make girls lose their goddamn minds and read into everything, often erroneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:35 AM
1

I couldn't disagree more. Most men that put in that level of time and commitment are interested in more than just sex. The guys who 'pump n dump' girls are usually the type that gets sex easily and girls want to believe hell commit. When he predictably doesn't, they label him a fuck boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:33 AM
1

No one gets pissed at a woman for losing interest or being non committal though. That's the disconnect. I could over analyze and read too much into a woman's perceived interest and id get no sympathy, and most would not condemn here for potentially having led me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:11 AM
1

It's funny because no one bars an eye when a girl goes hot to cold on a guy, when she may have been sending out serious relationship vibes for a long while. If you tell a girl you're not sure if it'll last or not, and she still wants to fuck you, the blame is all her own. I sincerely think the amount of guys that are truly pathological, sociopathic liars is fairly small. In most cases that I've seen, women had made up their mind even if the guy was non committal or unsure, and subsequently get i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 08:50 AM
1

The real issue is that women read into shit and make their own reality. So many friends of mine have been vilified even though they were fairly clear in their intentions or sincerely didn't know if it would lead anywhere serious. Women make up their mind and get insanely upset when it doesn't pan out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 08:47 AM
1

Eh, I get laid and while an n count doesn't matter for the purposes of sex, I most certainly won't date a girl who has one that's especially egregious. Even if I didn't care about the number, high n girls are rife with bad qualities as far as relationships are concerned Now that I think about it, I almost exclusively meet and sleep with total sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 08:38 AM
2

If you aren't bold and confident as a man, at least on some level, you should strive to make those natural characteristics that you have. Men don't do very well if they're overly sensitive and lack confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:19 AM
5

I'd say that at best, be more of yourself after you've improved your behavior , become fit, and reached a place of relative financial / career stability. It's good advice after you've improved yourself enough that your individuality can actually matter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 03:12 AM
1

Small towns are a whole nother ball game, my friend. I've only lived in big clusters of suburbs around urban centers or within cities themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:01 AM
1

Well it's also pre selection in general, which red pill espouses. If other women value you enough to sleep with you, it means you have something going on ( or at least they think that). Which is why high n count men don't have any issues
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 02:49 AM
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This is def true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:50 PM
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Not always true. I've had girls take interest and eventually bang me after they heard I banged one of their friends or coworkers. It was like a switch was flipped. Sometimes, word of your sexual deeds can generate interest in other women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:49 PM
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Yeah, and girls will talk amongst each other. With that said, throughout my 20s , I knew guys that seriously banged everyone across my social circles. One guy in particular was quite the braggart of it, and girls would literally say oh so I heard you have a nice dick, fuck well , etc. He was an extremely fit exmarine with a very handsome face. No one else stood a chance. Pretty sure he fucked a few of my friends girlfriends, but I looked the other way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:47 PM
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Cheating isn't a very good example. You're conflating a guy that gets around with one that cheats, which is a glaring flaw in your argument.. cheating has social consequences. Now, with that said, you have to realize that high n count guys are not always advertising it, especially in a small community, and it's real hush hush with the girls too. It's not all in the open. There's a good chance you don't know what all theae girls are doing. Lastly, hs isn't the best place to extrapolate from
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:40 PM
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I don't think it's an art, but when you're inexperienced, even normal positions and thrust game is wracked by anxiety. You're delusional if you think that some guys don't over think it and fuck up prior to ezperience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:25 PM
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Funny how women don't like high n count men yet all of the high n count men I've known have always had women chasing them in droves. It got to the point that most of their friends wouldn't bring girls around, because they'd be attracted them and they'd get sniped
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 05:48 AM
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Lol do you have direct experience in the matter? No? Well I do, and I can confidently say women have written me off when I was inexperienced. One girl would say I fucked like a virgin but she was the only one to let me hit it for a bit and build experience, bless her heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 05:47 AM
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It hasnt- these are older posters who have no idea what the fuck they're talking about. Cocaine has seen a major resurgence in the last ten years and it's cleaner and cheaper than it's been in decades. Acid, shrooms, and weed are ubiquitous on any campus. Mdma and ketamine are common party drugs, and often cut with dangerous additives. Don't even get me started on the adderall and benzo abuse. They're out of touch. If anything, it's worse now with all the cut drugs and research chemicals Source:…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 11:19 PM
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Lol you think that this isn't a thing now? I could buy ketamine, molly, cocaine, And weed on my floor, And this was around 2009. You guys are out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 11:15 PM
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It's the pack of blacks he's afraid of, not the singular black guy. They tend to jump you in numbers
/r/askTRP28/09/20 09:46 PM
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I hate this type of bait. I've lived in various cities and black people are by and large the most aggressive demographic I have to deal with, whether it's at work, on the road, or at the bars. You can say it's racist to say that all you want, but the fact is that black people tend to be uneducated, poor, and unusually aggressive compared to the majority of the populace. This doesn't apply to all black people, but that should go without saying
/r/askTRP28/09/20 09:42 PM
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Generally, you should keep your mouth shut in public because you never know who you are dealing with. With thAt said, you defused the situation and handled it correctly. Thankfully, these guys were able to let it go, but I'd seriously reconsider talking shit in public, especially around uneducated people
/r/askTRP28/09/20 09:39 PM
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Dude, when you're younger, that stuff doesn't matter, but after college it DEFINITELY matters. Also, your personal ratings of men are useless because you're (presumably) not gay. If you don't internalize anything here, you could turn into a beta provider, no doubt about that. But make no mistake, if you are not a high value make post college, you will not get much play unless you're super hot or casanova himself . Even then, you won't be taken very seriously by any women worth a damn
/r/TheRedPill25/09/20 09:38 PM
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I love my cycle of getting fat and then losing weight every few years. You stay woke and red pulled because of the contrast. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 09:26 AM
1

Lmao, welcome to the suck , brother
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 09:06 AM
1

Once you're past college, you won't have social proof or preselection if you're a loser. You might not have to be a educated professional, but you need some kind of career that leads to status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 09:01 AM
8

This even applies to friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 12:00 AM
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It honestly ends up hurting the actual decent women who aren't slags the most. Men get bitter, hurt and distrustful, and cannot even trust or believe a good woman is right in front of them. The modern dating dynamic and culture is absolutely, positively toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 11:56 PM
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Yeah it's not as if these girls out here are being honest and not engaging in manipulative tactics. That's my biggest issue with country arguments because so many women are pretty unethical in thier treatment of men and relationships. Being some upright, moral man isnt respected enough nor effective
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 09:36 PM
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Yeah it's like a stealth brag coupled with shit that trp is always harping on about. Oh wow, attractive guys get more interest, mind blowing stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 09:30 PM
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I'd politely tell them all to fuck right off
/r/MGTOW16/09/20 09:54 AM
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Some of the biggest pussies that I have ever met were covered in tats.
/r/MGTOW16/09/20 09:52 AM
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Some people just cannot be saved lol
/r/MGTOW16/09/20 09:51 AM
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Well yeah, there have been documentaries made about the subject. Divorce is big businesses, and the politicians, lawyers, and judges are all in on it. They want marriages to fail so the courts can extract fat payments for alimony and child support. Make no mistake , the state is driving this trend and wants it to continue
/r/MGTOW14/09/20 11:43 PM
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Setting hard boundaries and enforcing them is essential to being a strong man. If people disrespect and cross those boundaries, it's important to cut them out of your life
/r/askTRP14/09/20 10:59 PM
0

Eh , that's not entirely true. Most of the top men are fit or at least at a healthy weight. They also tend to be successful in areas that are attractive to women, whether that's a high powered career or something that signifies status, like playing in a band. They definitely put work in to maintain what it is that makes them attractive. I've met a lot of guys that would likely slay if they just lost 40-80 lbs.
/r/MGTOW14/09/20 10:52 PM
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Short of having a crippling sex/porn addiction, jerking off is fine. These guys are delusional. I knew of guys that watched copious amounts of porn but still fucked a lot because they were good looking/ successful. I'm not against curbing your usage to healthier levels or addressing disruptive addiction, but to think that it's gonna turn your life around with women is ridiculous
/r/MGTOW14/09/20 10:36 PM
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I can proudly say I have never sacrificed my standards to fuck a fatty
/r/MGTOW14/09/20 05:15 AM
2

It also displays a complete lack of respect for you as an individual and a man. Women only ask for open arrangements if they think their partner is low smv and incapable of truly benefiting from said arrangements.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/20 11:00 PM
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Appealing to nature is always self serving too, in that people pick and choose what aspects of nature they want in order to falsely bolster a narrative. Most 'natural' ways of doing things are pretty suboptimal, if not downright disgusting by today's standards. I'd rather have humans strive for higher virtues and forms of existence than reverting to base instincts and acting like animals .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 09:42 AM
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It's a shitty type of classification to engage in, but it's how things are irl. People do have values that are determined by society and ignoring that fact won't change reality. A wealthy person or incredibly attractive person is going to be more highly valued
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 08:29 AM
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Lol nothing worse than someone whose attractive complaining about attractive people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 08:26 AM
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Too many of you posters on here want to psycho analyze shit when it literally doesn't matter. If one bitch isnt feeling it or being weird, soft next her and move onto the next one. Most of the time, these dumb ass thots don't even know why they do the things they do, no point in giving a fuck. Life's too short, fuck em
/r/askTRP12/09/20 10:32 AM
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She's definitely considering a branch swing. I'd just try to enjoy this while it lasts and be ready to dump her ass if the offenses pile on. Your gut isn't wronf
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:58 AM
5

You obviously come from a place of insane pribeleage if you think the average suburban dad out sources lawn work. Lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 08:39 PM
2

In cases like this, there's no easy answer unfortunately. My only advice would be to relocate, maybe to a city where these false claims would not really hurt you at all. In a small town, you're basically fucked and it will likely affect you until you decide to leave. Sorry man, but that's how the world is now
/r/askTRP10/09/20 02:28 AM
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Honestly, unless your past affects your present ie you're a felon or you're paying child support etc, there's absolutely no point to dwell at all. Learn and move on
/r/askTRP09/09/20 04:38 AM
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Yeah I don't get why tradcons continually trot out this point. In a culture and society that is hostile to marriage and monogamy in general, you're just encouraging men to offer their lives to be slaughtered on the altar of idealism. It's not noble, it's stupid
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 10:20 PM
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In many states, yes unfortunately. No fault divorce is a bitch
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 09:57 PM
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Man I fucked around on school and have many regrets , but I never accrued even half that in debt. Blows my mind
/r/MGTOW08/09/20 07:52 PM
1

Seriously. I fail to see the point in settling down, seeing as how I don't really care if I have kids or not. People act like I'm crazy and it has even caused some tension in my friend groups as they try to match me with thier spinster friends lol. Sorry guys, I'm ok with being alone, really
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/20 08:55 AM
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It's really lame to deal with as a single guy into your 30s. These women act as though it's a given you'll want to date them, and get pissed when you reject them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/20 08:53 AM
3

This is unprofessional as hell and not befitting of an org like the UN. Shame on them
/r/MGTOW08/09/20 04:11 AM
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Learning to fight is a useful skill to have, but he vastly overstates its value in real world applications. If a thug or thugs are approaching you, in a good number of encounters they'll have a knife or worse , so busting out fighting moves like it's street fighter will just get you injured and or killed. Almost always a better idea to forfeit your wallet in these situations When it comes to an asshole trying to fight in a bar or something, I'd still recommend evasion over fighting - you're very…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 06:43 PM
1

Lol oh ok, well go drink heavily and see how you fare
/r/askTRP06/09/20 07:29 PM
1

Because of biology. You said you want to party hard, and that requires a high intake of drugs and booze on the regular. That is a young man's game
/r/askTRP06/09/20 06:59 PM
11

I feel like this guy transcends mere simp
/r/MGTOW06/09/20 09:43 AM
4

Lol wow
/r/MGTOW06/09/20 09:42 AM
5

Every guy I know over thrity that still parties hard is either a drug addict or a full blown alcoholic. I wouldn't say it's glamorous, even if some of these guys do snipe some young pussy. I dunno what op thinks it is lol
/r/askTRP06/09/20 08:50 AM
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It's doable but you won't be able to keep up with the youngins. I'm not sure why youd be so attracted to such a lifestyle into your thirties tbh. It's a good way to get laid but that's about it
/r/askTRP06/09/20 08:49 AM
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It's downright scary how hostile the culture is
/r/MGTOW06/09/20 01:42 AM
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He's sort of right ime. Girls know this type of girl is fucking all the dudes and depreciating overall value Andor sniping.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 01:05 AM
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Yeah I dont get this post and the people agreeing with it. I guess it makes sense if he's screening for an ltr ? I dunno
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 11:54 PM
2

I honestly don't even get the op. She's probably a tad crazy but I'd bet my life nothing bad would have happened save for crazy sex. He over analyzed the shit out of this. Source: I've fucked tons of girls that fit this description , still alive
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 11:52 PM
2

Imagine getting to the level of judge in the legal system and then proceeding to piss away that title because you're a shallow, hedonistic slut who just has to shit where they eat lmao. What an absolute disgrace of a human
/r/MGTOW05/09/20 08:06 PM
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Yeah , this is the more likely route
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/20 07:03 PM
3

Redlining went behind party lines, though. It wasn't just conservatives that were into those policies
/r/MGTOW05/09/20 06:55 PM
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Not even just dating apps, but all social media. Seeing the home screen of the average girl gives me anxiety , way too many constant notificationa, many from dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:31 AM
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Because they have more options, full stop. There's really not much else to it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:29 AM
1

I'm not sure I agree with who's at fault here, but it's refreshing to see this take from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 10:26 PM
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They really don't. There are some rare circumstances, but I've almost never found a friendship with a girl to be overly rewarding. I always felt it was rather one sided and most of the benefit in the relationship flowed towards her, not me. They are conditioned to think the way a lot of cucks treat then is friendship, so they never figure out what a platonic arrangement really us. Even their friendships with other girls are often fraught with drama and backstabbing lmoa
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/20 08:03 PM
1

Hemingway was real as hell and thars why women hate him lmao
/r/MGTOW04/09/20 07:59 PM
1

That last one is super fucked up. That's a good way to get someone killed tbh
/r/MGTOW04/09/20 07:57 PM
8

It'd take a real special girl to get me to give a fuck. I can hardly be assed to pursue sex, let alone a relationship.
/r/MGTOW04/09/20 07:27 PM
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I hear ya brother. I actually meet a lot of the criteria these women select for, but I won't stand for it either. It's disgusting
/r/MGTOW04/09/20 05:10 AM
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Imagine judging an individual solely on his level of education and earning potential, not his character and personality. Wow
/r/MGTOW04/09/20 02:41 AM
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I think a lot of attractive women just don't know how to be friends for a myriad of reasons, the biggest being conditioning. I find that attractive women are so used to oodles of free male attention and one sidedness that they start to think that's what platonic friendship is. That's often been my biggest issue with 'close' female friends - it rarely feels mutual, or mutual enough
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 09:32 PM
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I never feel like a woman puts in the same amount of effort I do, so not really, no. There's also a significant risk of developing feelings if you spend too much time with a girl mano y mano. I'd say I have a couple friends I'm relatively close to, sort of, but we share a sexual past
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 09:27 PM
1

Ignore him, he clearly has some axe to grind against mgtows or something. There's nothing wrong with abstaining from thots for a time and trying to find a decent chick.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:06 AM
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Lol what the fuck kind of weird ass living situation is this ? If you're gonna have roommates, make sure it's one or two good male buddies, not a weird guy and a single mom who wants to fuck her housemates. Move out , Christ .
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:59 AM
8

Lol wtf is this shit
/r/MGTOW02/09/20 11:12 PM
13

This is why you cannot date a thot no you can't you just cannot, she ask 'can I get a date' no ho we can't we just cannot
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/20 10:48 PM
21

If a woman expects a lavish first date all on the guys dime, she is not worth your time, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:25 PM
1

What's sad is he's looking out for his cousin here. This is not a good road to embark on but we're in clown worlc
/r/MGTOW02/09/20 10:15 PM
1

I'm so sick of this clown world where people act as though sexist comments against men are not common. The amount if bullshit misandry I've heaed online and from irl female friends/ coworkers will make your head spin.
/r/MGTOW02/09/20 10:13 PM
1

Women know no shame jesus fucking christ.
/r/MGTOW02/09/20 09:58 PM
3

What bothers me most about this shit is it's not even in the best interests of many women. Some women may b able to own and handle sex work and the subsequent consequences, but many are not able to and it's downright irresponsible for our society to encoruage it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/20 09:40 PM
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If I hear another woman talk about her cavalier sexual past the she was happy with at the time as 'trauma' I might suffer a brain aneurysm. Fuck you for misusing a serious condition /word
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/20 09:37 PM
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