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Purge Question For Women!lostwanderer28/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:28 PM
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Purge Science!lostwanderer28/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:21 PM
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Same in regards to first paragraph 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:29 AM
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I like sex and want to have it too 😅. Ok, I never had sex therefore it is difficult to tell whether I'd like it but I sure do want to do it at least once if not more (a lot of times lol). I believe, sex in a serious relationship with a loving partner is the best form. Any other form seems to be just a temporary "solution", a quick fix, which brings in more problems than it solevs in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:28 AM
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I grew up in Germany. As far as I can tell, nothing would have changed if I grew up where my parents came from. In my opinion even religious women like the (expensive and immoral) western style of living more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:58 AM
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Well, it is obviously the worry. Whenever I mention that sexual compatibility is the least of your issues people start to panic around here. It is the worry that they might not be sexually compatible which is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:56 AM
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I agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:55 AM
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Women being able to seduce even the most pious men actually supports the idea that women can almost lick whomever they want. Of course not every women will be able to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:54 AM
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… you do know people get abused by people they’ve known all their life too right ?? That is true. I am usually assuming a healthy environment when I talk about these things. I don't consider the extreme cases at first. Could it be that a lot of people on reddit lived through extreme cases? Abusive household etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:52 AM
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No, many women don't just jump into the arms of the men who just killed their very own men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:50 AM
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N-Count is something you accumulate over life. Golddigging is something you get from someone. I don't think both are exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:49 AM
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i tried the pegging but it really didn’t do anything for me,[...] That is what I mean. In my experience, women are usually not into it. That is why I broadly claimed to find me a woman who wants to peg me and then we can keep talking about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:48 AM
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No repenetence = Still dreaming and thinking about the hookups/casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:46 AM
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I believe people who slept around and had lots of meaningless sex are telling themselves that they have no problems with it because it is the only way to make themselves feel good about their very wrong decisions. There was another post, describing how women today are more depressed, suicidal and rely on anti-depressants, I think a lot of promiscuous women are lying to us when they say that they have no problem with their past. It is like someone who used a lot of porn. Nobody sane likes to admi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:44 AM
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The way this sentence is worded I dont think they complain, they just mock it, most women aren't sweating over a random inexperienced guy who hates promiscuity. Gives me a different impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:49 AM
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Counter question. Why do women not support me when I say that men and women should go for marriage first instead of for example demanding and pressuring for sex on the first date? I didn't exactly understand though, is this post about speaking up to bullies? Then, yeah, sadly, most people just look away, admittedly me included. As men, we definitely need to make a few tweaks on the "not my problem" attitude. On the other hand though, when there are total strangers fighting it off and I see them …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:37 AM
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Same. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:26 AM
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Strangely, the "inexperienced guy" always ends up to be the bad guy for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:25 AM
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I edited my comment. I was going to swing the "virgin shaming"-hammer in this reply but you ended up foreseeing it. But I think I can still swing that hammer in this case muhaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:24 AM
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From a certain standpoint, the test works perfectly then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:21 AM
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Women who complain about men demanding a low n-count probably have a high n-count. I simply cannot see any other reason why men demanding a low n-count would affect women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:52 AM
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No offense, but today I realized that browsing through reddit is like walking through a pile of shit after taking a nice and clean shower. At the end of the day you will end up smelling like shit (Edit: feeling bad/depressed).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:45 AM
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Wouldn't it be observable? Like him openly talking with other women, flirting, laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:42 AM
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I don't want to anymore. I still know what I wanted to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:41 AM
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Is it me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:40 AM
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I will instead simply prove how ridiculous the question in itself is. Find me a woman who is "into feet and pegging"? If we make sure that this option even exists, we can talk further.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:39 AM
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Sex is as easy as eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:37 AM
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Being afraid that you might not be sexually compatible leads to sexual compatibility issues. It is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:36 AM
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Yes, I might not have an answer though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:35 AM
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The answer to the last question is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:35 AM
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There is also no good reason to not believe in God.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:23 AM
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Money tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:20 AM
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I gotta say, you make some good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:19 AM
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Didn't you say it yourself? There were women with PhDs who were stripping to make 1200 (sometimes way more) in a 5 hour shift instead of making the 80+k per year they could make in their field. They could choose to wake up every day at 6:00 to drive to work, or they can wake up 2-3 days a week at noon and still make twice as much. It's not hard to see why so many would choose this. It is the quick and supposedly easy money which forces them. Women will probably won't like me for saying this out …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:14 AM
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I would also take B. Before the haters jump in. I am virigin myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:55 AM
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No, as long as there is no repentance the "outgrowing" has been incomplete.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:51 AM
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He was with multiple women. Amber Heard was one of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:49 AM
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If there is no repentance then the "outgrowing" is simply incomplete.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:43 AM
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Yet, you ended up reading and making a comment. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:21 AM
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Since you got to shit on religious values, can I shit on non religious values, for example atheistic values?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:20 AM
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You worded "being glad" strangely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:15 AM
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If you don't want to have to wait for sex, don't ask for a relationship. I really don't know how many more times this needs to be said lol 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:12 AM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:01 AM
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Man peak at 25. With that being said, I am 29M virgin lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:47 AM
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Rarely ever happens[...]. US soldiers raped a lot of women in Vietnam, Afghanistan and Iraq. Iranian supported terror groups such as ISIS raped a lot of women in Syria. Pretty sure Russian soldiers did the same in Ukraine and Lybia and Myanmar's troops raped a lot of Rohingya women, certain government ordered Chinese men still rape Uyghur women. Women are usually treated like plunder in war or a genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:41 AM
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There is still no fix for small penises. Boobs can be enlarged, but penises still cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:38 AM
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I would have been able to enjoy my religious upbringing more, have more people my gender who share my interest in STEM fields, and I think I would be recognized for my moral compass more as a man. As a (admittedly somewhat) religious male, we don't get a free pass for being moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:37 AM
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Or hope that your parents, siblings or friends know someone who seems sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:30 AM
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Try thinking about it as a woman though…try imagining that access to casual sex has negative value. This is very hard to prove nowadays, because most women do not support a "marriage first and then sex" mentality. In fact, casual sex and hookups are supported highly nowadays by both men and women. On an individual level, I agree with you. I support marriage first and can see that manipulative people who pretend to want marriage can take advantage of people who actually want marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:29 AM
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Islam is right about every little thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:24 AM
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Since I was born a man, I would like to keep being a man. I am content with being a man, even though I am a desperate loser 29M virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:23 AM
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A woman can easily seduce even a very pious and disciplined man. Sometimes she doesn't even need to move a finger, speaking figuratively.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:11 AM
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The solution to this issue could be to not date totally random men, but to date men who are known by for example your parents, your brothers or sisters or your friends. Of course if your friends, parents and siblings all support hookup culture and casual sex, don't expect to get solid results.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:07 AM
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Actually it is pretty simple. One question could be: Does he sleep around?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:06 AM
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They say, historically only 20% of men reproduced or something. I don't remember the exact numbers in this claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:05 AM
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Why do the words "nice" and "pleasant" trigger you so much? Don't you want the same in a man? Good points!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:01 AM
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This is a very thoughout reply. Thank you for this!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:57 AM
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Sexual compatibility is a self-fullfilling prophecy, just like the negative thinking of Blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:14 PM
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I would say it is a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:11 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:10 PM
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People are capable of learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:08 PM
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If you try to oppose your biology you will end up with mental problems. I thank the western world everyday for giving me mental problems in exactly that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:07 PM
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This is probably meant as a joke. How exactly does someone get off without stimulating the tip of the penis or the cliterus?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:06 PM
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I am gonna be honest. I am no friend of the sexual compatibility argument and it grinds my gears to the max. Like driving a car in the red area.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:45 AM
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Time to shatter the "sexual compatibility" argument: What is there to be compatible about? Penis goes in vagina, almost every teenager knows this absolutely simple fact. It is not like you are doing rocket science when you have sex. It is not like you are solving multi dimensional integrals when you have sex. What is there to be compatible about? It is not like one of you runs Windows 10 and the other runs Linux, or one of you being an iPhone and the other being an Android. You are both humans, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:40 AM
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Women have the power for relationships, but they willfully give it away for casual sex and hookups give, because "muh sExUaL CuHmPaTiBiLiTy".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:27 AM
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Yet women heavily take part and support hookup culture and casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:23 AM
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well it's no one's fault, we weren't sexually compatible and we broke up. Thank you from the depths of my heart for turning the absolutely empty minded "sexually compatible" mindset ad absurdum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:22 AM
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I am challenging your view. If women were truly interested in a relationship they wouldn't support hookup culture and casual sex like they do nowadays. They would shame hookup culture and casual sex. If you suggest on here to go for marriage first then your idea will get shot down by the masses by men and women. The majority of both men and women do want casual sex and hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:19 AM
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This exact mindset lead to the disaster that we call dating nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:12 AM
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Many women didn’t want a submissive lifestyle or children in the past, but were forced to have them. Maybe they did? One of the reasons why most of us need therapists nowadays is because men ditched their masculinity and women ditched their feminity. You don't get to force people either into something they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:11 AM
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What I am saying is not my personal strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:08 AM
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Well, words can be quite harmful sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:36 PM
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How is that obvious? That is what I expect from today's women. It's not like the majority of today's women are modest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:27 PM
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Obviously there’s nothing wrong with being a SAHM/SAHW, but it is very weird to promote being dependent as feminine and being a provider as masculine. Said noone ever in the last 30 years. The meta was "working, providing and slaving for totally strange men is a-ok whereas caring for your kids all days long is literally torture" for a long time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:25 PM
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My friend is open with both his gfs about the fact that he has two gfs It is funny how this is totally ok while someone having two wives is being shamed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:22 PM
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FDS is equivalent to the stereotypical male incel mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:19 PM
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Apparently for reddit it is totally fine when men get to made feel suicidal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:17 PM
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It boils down to the n-count discussion. I don't know if you want to go that direction. Women usually get pretty aggressive in such discussions, maybe because they feel guilty?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:00 PM
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My proposal is always marriage first before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:22 AM
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Christians should go back to taking their religion seriously as well. They got heavily undermined and shamed by atheists and LGBT.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:21 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:29 AM
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I understand it a bit better now. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:27 AM
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There most likely were other reasons. I am familiar with those kind of headlines.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:27 AM
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Yeah, I think you're right. Thank you! With this I can steer clear from those news.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:26 AM
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I learned it from a wise man. You can put a hashtag # to make what you write big. I think it is called headline. You have to put the hasthag right in front of what you want to turn into a headline. Like this: Headline 1 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:22 AM
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I never said that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:17 AM
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Group of girls ended up behind me, and one of them was doing the obvious "please dance with me" move by constantly bumping her ass and back into me (even though the dancefloor wasn't packed at all...) I never would have interpreted that as a "dance with me move", because in my book that is rather straight out sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:07 AM
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Focus on the women you can get[...]. Who and where?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:59 AM
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Idk, maybe Billy should be glad some crazy woman isn’t into him? I believe that is a really good point. Maybe it is in our human nature to believe that all the things we want are good for us, but we end up overlooking how not having certain things can be actually better than having those certain things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:54 AM
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You never select for the quality of women while accusing women of the same thing. Most men don't have the large amount of options that women have. Most men simply cannot afford to apply strict filters. It is maybe comparable to searching for a specific thing on the internet. Maybe a pdf document which you once found but forgot to save. You try to find it again but fail, so you end up loosening your filter regulations more and more until you even open sites on your search result list which have q…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:52 AM
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The only answer/solution is to stop hookup culture on an indivualistic level.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:41 AM
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Just like the inc*l subs, which got banned. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:39 AM
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That title. I don't want to question her intelligence and observational skills, because I lack them myself, but I do know that there are small dildos/vibrators. I mean, there are like dildos/vibrators which a woman can simply hide in her purse or bag and take it out when she has some alone time in the hotel or at home. On that note, I wouldn't recommend anyone to go that path, but there has been a way worse and way more devastating thread on FDS about small penises. I honestly read through it an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:35 AM
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Fair point!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:25 AM
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I disagree. It doesn't mean that all attractive women will be off the "market" by the age of "25".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:23 AM
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Good point, but I still disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:23 AM
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I disagree with the "quality girls" part, because it indirectly shames girls who just couldn't find anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:22 AM
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Too much information. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:16 AM
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I neither like nor share the public opinion. That is why I like to be reserved and keep to "myself". So far I haven't met anyone who is like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:11 AM
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As a muslim, what she did was not ok, she should have get sanctioned. I just read the title. What was the point of her action anyways? Is she like Pussy Riots everyone forget about in Europe? Do you remember Pussy Riots? They also talked shit about religious values, especially Christianity, but since it was Russia everyone in Europe and USA protected here. I do wonder if you also protected Pussy Riots. As a muslim, I am not allowed to make fun of any religion, it is even written in the Quran to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:08 AM
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I got a couple lol, especially recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:56 AM
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I care
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:50 AM
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Wow, I always wondered why this thread always had a "delay" in it everyday lmao. Now I learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:46 AM
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That person will get banned lol. The results are usually as expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:40 AM
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Isn't it true? Insert: my whole life has been a lie meme
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:28 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:26 AM
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Can someone explain to me the whole Amouranth situation? Apparently her "husband" has "abused" and "forced" her? It didn't interest me at first because I have no interest in women who make profit by showing off their bodies, especially on a website like Twitch, but I kept reading headlines about the whole case until I gave in a bit. I do have a couple of questions. As someone who installed the Twitch app on my phone and deinstalled it later on, Twitch had recommended me her channel, even though …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:24 AM
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Jumping into marriage as easy as casual sex, like marrying a one night stand partner or something, would not make loving relationship any more likely, it would make it less likely! I challenge this view! I believe the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:50 PM
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Your question makes it seem that sex is the reason to get married. From a purely materialistic point of view, yes, amongst other reasons such as a family sex is indeed one of the reasons. In my case there is also the point of view to marry as an act of worship for Allah. The sex could be good with all sorts of guys, but if I’m looking to marry, I’d have other qualities to vet. Makes sense. I guess, it makes sense to say that casual sex by its nature is cheap, it is easily accessable. Whereas mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:48 PM
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Unfortunately, some Muslim men betray their own values & have casual sex, in both Western & non-Western countries. Sadly. I agree with the points you made.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:13 PM
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All I know is that right before the genocide in Bosnia happened, muslims there got accustomed more and more to Christian and other traditions, their way of marriag, their way of living kind of forgetting their own religion, as soon as the bad things started happening they got drawn back into their religion. The clearest and easiest example are the people of the prophet Lot. He warned them yet they didn't stop partaking in the "immoral" activities. Interstingly enough, it was also just a minority…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:12 PM
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Thank you! That was quite interesting going through the latest survey. Apparently there are 60-70% single men on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:04 PM
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Lol, I like this chain of comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:58 PM
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[...]certain kind of man. I think I know which kind haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:56 PM
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Are you married? No, I am not. If you’re not, are you saving yourself for marriage? Yes, I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:55 PM
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I really wonder what the demographics on PPD is, because I feel like I mostly get with "niche" people in contact on here. I am "niche" too. I don't get along with a lot of people and my interests diverge quite a lot from the "normal" interests. Like, the things "normal" people talk about at work or the common world view they usually share is quite different than mine and it annoys me a lot, that is why I cannot partake in "normal" conversations or common world views. I like to look behind the cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:59 PM
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Just judging from PPD men, most men are after sex. I used to believe that men on here complain because marriage is difficult until I figured out they complain because they want to make casual sex even more accessible. At that point I lost hope in most PPD men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:56 PM
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I suppose trust does play a role here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:54 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:53 PM
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Then, how can we explain the women on here who state that they'd rather live alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:51 PM
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That makes me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:46 PM
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The only "issue" that I have come across is men that aren't virgins getting mad when virgin women don't want them. I agree, those men are indeed very annoying! I get the same from male perspective heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:45 PM
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I'd argue the standards are higher/more restrictive for casual sex Like what do you think is higher the percentage of men that can get married or the percentage of men that can have casual sex? It could be possible that from the male perspective casual sex is still not quite easily accessible, especially if we take into regard the 80/20 OKCupid stats. As far as I can tell, from the women perspective it is quite easily accessible and from my perspective women seem to make casual sex more accessib…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:41 PM
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Good question. The only answert that popped up in my mind is because of your faith. Well, my faith to be honest. I must say, it feels like my faith is the only reason nowadays why I still hang onto marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:39 PM
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[...]they are not that different from their western counterpart. I don't get upvoted whenever I mention to go for marriage first. Just like my original question has a vote balance of exactly 0. No, western men and I do not think a like. Western men are more after casual sex whereas I do promote marriage first. Western men want to make casual sex more accessible easier, whereas I do want to make casual sex more difficult and marriage easier accessable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:38 PM
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My question is meant to value marriage. My religion values marriage. I am just trying to spread the word one way or the other. As you can see, with all the casual sex being around, marrying has become way more difficult, the demands are quite high (this is not a complaint, just stating the obvservable) whereas for casual sex there are little to no demands. Basically, nowadays: Casual sex = cheap Marriage = expensive I don't think we should be surprised when societies are going down. Muslim count…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:35 PM
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From my point of view, women seem to have the reins in their hand in case of valuing/devaluing casual sex. I'm certain men could change things as well if they would demand marriage instead of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:30 PM
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For most men, sex is pretty much the ultimate goal in women, so giving that out easily as a woman for random men doesn't seem to make much sense from my standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:23 PM
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Wait a second there. If women are just as as horny, how come most of them can easily state that they rather live alone? As a man, I tried to go that route, I tried to tell myself that I don't need a woman in my life, that I don't need a female partner, but it just doesn't work. I cannot override my biology with that strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:22 PM
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Q4W Why do you make sex so easily available (casual sex) yet have in comparison rather high expectations when it comes to marrying? As we men are very much interested in sex, this action makes casual sex very attractive for us men and marriage very unattractive. Since PPD women mostly claim to want to be in a loving relationship, doesn't the actions of the majority of women (easy access to casual sex) contradict (difficult access to marriage) your words?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:27 AM
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I am a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:21 AM
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The only thing that can be concluded by reading PPD is that love between men and women is nothing but a mechanical exchange of resources and certain values.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:16 AM
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To be honest, most women would be rather with Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:12 AM
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To be honest, casual sex is being handed out like candy nowadays. If you want a serious relationship you have to be X, Y and Z and many other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:10 AM
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This is simply the most accurate comment in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:04 AM
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If I shouldn't put women on a pedestal, then why should I have to offer her anything at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:03 AM
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But that person chose you[...] I thought we shouldn't put women on pedestals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:02 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:58 AM
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It is true that everyone is individual but statistics show that people who didn't partake in casual sex can pair bond easier than people who do. This doesn't mean that people who partake in casual sex will never be able to pair bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:55 AM
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This is just me personally, I never meant to speak poorly about anyone it just makes me wonder "why not marry", you know? Why does someone who is able to get to know the other gender, build a rapport together, get along with each other prefers to go onto a streak of casual sex which might be more or less satisfying (like gambling) instead of sticking to one partner or seeking that one partner? I am a human being who simply cannot attract the opposite gender, so I wonder, what makes these humans …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:53 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:47 AM
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What are signs man can give?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:39 AM
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True, but she just pointed out two examples in her life where the man went for the "less attractive" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:38 AM
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Well, we are different, aren't we? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:37 AM
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Were you both virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:31 AM
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Netflix has a lot of downsides. I started to dislike them when they forced directors to put in sex scenes or homosexual scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:46 PM
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Good job Netflix. Good job for popularizing a criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:39 AM
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To be honest, I don't even understand what I wanted to say with that comment of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:43 PM
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If you did get a woman who met your current current low, desperate standards would you loss attraction to her once you'd slept with her for a while or do you think you'd stay attracted to her or fall in love with her? I wish the latter but I cannot tell for sure. I need to live through it to be able to tell accurately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:20 PM
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[...] don’t find casual sex like a drug [...] I still remember that when lockdown happened, a lot of "sex-havers" complained about it whereas for "forever aloners" and "virgins" it was just another Monday.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:19 PM
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My point is simple and clear. Marriage first and then sex should be prioritised. Having sex first and marriage afterwards is backwards thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:17 PM
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I think that most guys want to experience being desired and have a lot of girls and attention. 100% agreed. I understand your point of view, thank you for explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:46 PM
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This sounds to me like we are all headed onto a crash. I imagine it like we are all sitting in a train and there is a wall infront of us. We are driving full speed towards that wall, someone on the train suggests "hey, let's use the brakes to lessen the damage" and another one says "no, it is really not worth it", everyone ends up agreeing on not being worth it and thus we drive full speed towards crashing onto that wall. Did I understand your comment correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:44 PM
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Women who partake in casual sex do end up promoting getting used. Mentioned it there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:41 PM
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Ok, how about being with a real person. From personal experience I get way more aroused by a real person, than I could ever with a video. That is surely true. There surely is the added arousal of being with actually someone else who feels and sees you. But I can still imagine that I might end up not getting aroused or even orgasm because I got rather used to orgasming to my own hand lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:39 PM
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And the younger you get married chances are higher for divorce as well as not having independence. I don't believe this. The longer one waits for marriage, the stronger the urges get, the easier it becomes to just dive into casual sex, and I could imagine that casual sex is like a drug, like an addiction, like masturbating or watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:38 PM
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What happened to true love?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:36 PM
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In that case it is only a matter of time until we become like Iraq, Syria, Lybia, Egypt and the likes. Good game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:35 PM
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Wrong, most are muslim unfortunately all those western TV shows, movies, social media stars clouded our minds. They clouded us so much that we became non practicing muslims. On top of that there are also people who claim to be muslims but teach it absolutely wrong, like calling everyone disbelievers or bad mouthing the prophet or even verses of the Quran. The German ones ironically are more religious, bc they came from rural/poor areas of Turkey to do manual labor for the Soviet Union in East Ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:34 PM
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Fatih Sultan Mehmet conquered Istanbul at the age of 21 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:32 PM
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Reading about how men go into other countries and use the kind hearted and nice women there for casual sex really disgusts me. On that note, now, I understand the women who have high standards, who (seemingly) demand a lot from men. Truly, from a rational point of view it makes absolutely sense to want to be rather used by Chad (someone sexually attractive) than some sexually average or ugly man who is going to use them as well. I mean, it is no secret, a lot of men on here openly admit that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:25 PM
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Just like how I imagine the casual PPD man. Is this what other men were all about? I mean, afterall, whenever I mentioned marriage before sex to the men on here I got shamed to death each and everytime and they made it brutally clear to me that all they care for is casual sex with as many women as possible. I am disappointed by not only PPD men but also generally the men on reddit, because this mindset about "using as many women as possible" is not only bound to PPD men. I seen it amongst incels…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:12 PM
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No, I don't like competition in general. I like to learn and go at my own pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:05 PM
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Are there only two man on this planet? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:04 PM
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Sounds good. Some people are not good to hang out with anyways. A rotten apple inbetween healthy apples will make the healthy apples rot away faster. It is important to watch out with which people we hang out. If we hang out with negative people who complain all the time (like for example I used to do, complaining about women lol) then yeah, it will be easy to get stuck in that mindset. It is super difficult to get out there, and I think it is a wonder if someone manages to get out there. The pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:02 PM
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Death grip is real though. One does get used to the hand and it could happen that his wife's vagina might not arouse him that much. From personal experience, even in masturbation I get way more aroused and super hard when I abstain for a while. When I masturbate everyday my penis doesn't get like super rock hard, it does get hard but not as much as when I abstain. Though, I find there is not enough notice on how women also suffer from excessive porn and masturbation. Especially the vibrators can…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:59 PM
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As a muslim Turk, I wish he'd go for marriage first before saying all that "I love you" stuff, assuming that he is muslim as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:54 PM
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Q4W I am a man who isn't successful at all when it comes to attracting the opposite sex and establishing a relationship. I believe, because of my lack of success I began to find more and more women attractive, it is like I instinctively applied the "lower your standards" advice. I wonder, do women who cannot establish a relationship also instinctively lower their standards or do women rather hang onto and keep their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:52 PM
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I don't want to say you are wrong or anything. Surely, you make very valid and real points. I just want to point out that I am virgin at 29 and I still wish that I would have married as soon as it was possible, unfortunately I never had such a possibility. Also, I don't want to make this sound like I am complaining as well. I just felt like your points made marriage look quite negative, so I wanted to give a counterpoint to that because I value marriage a lot and wish that everyone would be in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:41 PM
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Too much generalization and too much complaining. Reads like an incel wrote this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:58 AM
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But why is so much casual sex happening then? If people were truly interested in relationships rather than just sex they would actually go for marriage first instead of sex first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:55 AM
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Seems closer to the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:54 AM
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It makes no sense anyways that two people with different faiths get together. Shaming and shittalking about religious people is therefore totally unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:51 AM
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The answers to these questions always reads like 1st world problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:46 AM
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Male here. To be honest I find it always highly creepy when a random man talks to a random woman trying to get in her pants, because that is the ultimate goal after all. A safer way for everyone would be through friends and therefore clear intentions. Maybe a male friend knows a female close relative who is looking for a relationship. From the get go, before you both meet, both of you and the people who introduced know that you are meeting to hopefully make a relationship happen. Of course, it c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:56 AM
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Is the latter even possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:40 AM
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Confession: Honestly, I would go on a date like I always go out. Mind you I don't go out in pyjamas. Of course I would look out extra hard to not have any food stains or anything on my clothes, but I wouldn't wear somethin extra fashionable or sexy just for the date. I'd just dress however I dress everyday, combing my hair, washing my face and putting some perfume or some good smell on me, also taking care of my beard and shaving my axle and crotch hair, not because I expect sex, but because it …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:39 AM
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But in that case, women have no right to complain about that they put in effort into dating by "dolling themselves up". After all, apparently that is something they do anyways independent of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:08 AM
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I didn't say what I said because of anyone's approval. I said what I said for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:06 AM
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I had phylosophy as well. When they mentioned that "killing is bad" out of nowhere, I couldn't get no answer on who told us that "killing is bad" exactly? In most religions, there is an authority declaring the rules. I am muslim, so in my case Allah, my creator says that killing is bad and I have to accept. It makes more sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:06 AM
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Women do that "multi dating" method as well, as far as I know. I have even seen women on here and offline showing no shame for applying such a strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:47 AM
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No, people throw the "your standards are too high" at our faces then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:44 AM
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Would it be rude if I said "based" in regards to that last sentence. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:41 AM
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Q4W Why don't women simply don't "doll themselves up" for a date? I mean, don't women have a handful of good options anyways. Men are disposable, right? Why not use this advantage to also get rid of objectification? If a man rejects you because you didn't "doll yourself up" there is another better guy available at your fingertips for you, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:39 AM
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Are there any women who just want to live "boring" aka "non-exciting" life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:30 AM
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Bob der Baumeister?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:23 AM
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I can't upvote you because of your flare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:08 AM
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Don't worry. That is why I never approach and initiate, so all fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:05 AM
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On the macro scale, the internet helped rid our culture of many religious dogmas which previously stuck around out of ignorance. Which actually is one of the bigger issues in today's dating. Thanks, atheism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:18 AM
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Nestle comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:02 PM
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Onlyfans seems to have mostly boring content though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:56 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:41 AM
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Filipino women still value love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:34 AM
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Same with the married women on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:33 AM
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I don’t think incels are approaching, because like I said it’s clear incels don’t interact with women AT ALL. Would you want us to interact and gross women out? Seems like a strange concept. I rather let people live in peace
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:31 AM
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I admit, I didn't understand that for a long time and falsely accused people of not being graceful and patient enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:18 PM
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I disagree. I find them high quality. But bimbos are not the only high quality women. There are other high quality women as well. A woman doesn't need to become a bimbo to be high quality, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:16 PM
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Q4W and rather Feminists We all know that a big part of women who reveal their body parts for money do that because they are basically force to do so. This includes besides the obvious pornographic content, also modelling catalagoues, instagram, ads, movies, TV shows and the likes. We also all know that a significant amount of women basically got forced to do sexual scenes on movies and also be sexual with the producers off movies (Harvey Weinstein, Quentin Tarantino, MeToo). My question is. Why…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:15 PM
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Judging from myself, I'd say highly unlikely, which makes me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:08 PM
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Sounds like the same thing women say about old virgin men. We are nothing but redflags.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:08 PM
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But the "Chads" having sex with average women aren't really desiring them either. Those women are getting used like a cum dumpster, and then ghosted or only hit up after 12. Agreed, but in this context these women get to sleep with the partner they desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:25 PM
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I saw that too late, I deleted all my two comments. It annoys so much whenever I read about a man who has sex with a woman despite knowing that she is already given. And I saw a lot of men on here who took even pride in it. That is what got me going off so fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:19 PM
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Anecdotally, me asking girls I’ve slept with that have boyfriends what exactly lead them to the situation we’re in. Why did you cheat with them? Why didn't you picked a single woman and married her and lived happily with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:14 PM
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Namely being a risk taker, being bold, not giving a fuck about any specific woman or being liked [...]. Looks like respecting boundaries is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:01 PM
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If however the tables were turned and the average guy had literally hundreds of new Woman available to him at the flick of an app every single day; wouldn’t he simply be swiping on the hottest ones? I am religious, I would pick one woman I find attractive and marry her. I wouldn't hopefully sleep around or go for "test drives".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:59 PM
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I had the impression that virginity in men is a red flag. Maybe there are women who don't consider it a red flag, but then maybe the majority does consider it a red flag. I honestly don't know. I am not sure on anything to be honest. I am just trying say how I feel, I guess, kind of venting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:57 PM
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That didn't cross my mind at all, but yes, as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:56 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:55 PM
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I can't know for sure but I have a feeling they wouldn't want me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:55 PM
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I am fine with wording it like that. I am also her property.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:31 PM
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There surely are overlapping factors between the different "top 5%".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:30 PM
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Virgins just aren't acceptable for a LTR, they're not bad people They are for forever relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:28 PM
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No, I don't. Would be quite a pleasant surprise to meet someone like that. To avoid confusions, the only woman I met was years ago, we were just study partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:27 PM
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Thus, the majority ends up looking for the perfect partner. Compromises are not being made or even considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:24 PM
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Where? I just want to marry one and stick to only her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:14 PM
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Why not just marry one and live happily ever after?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:58 PM
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Women can also loose sensibility down there from too much masturbation, especially if strong vibrators are being used. It would be best for all to just stop watching porn and masturbation. It is quite challenging though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:37 PM
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Isn't that what they call "sultry". I noticed that I like that as well very much. It turns me on quite a lot. But personally, as long as like her I also like her voice even if it is rather unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:07 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:24 AM
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I have an issue with it. So, I wait for someone special whereas that someone special got to sleep around with multiple top men and then suddenly wants to be with me? No wait I see the issue. I falsely thought again that anyone would want me. My bad. Forget everything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:51 AM
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Well, then only one bro, namely the top bro, gets to have sex with all of the women whereas the other bros are left out. Because, rightfully, women want to be with the toppest bro of them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:49 AM
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Q4 people who complain about the same topics popping up all the time. What is your solution to men apparently wanting a low n-count woman and women apparently having too high standards? Because, as long as there are no answers the same questions will keep popping up until there are answers. It is like trying to understand a math problem. You can only ignore a certain issue for so long until you feel innately forced to ask someone for a satisfying answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:47 AM
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Because of the brocode.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:45 AM
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What does that have to do with sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:45 AM
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She was turned off by guys not respecting her boundaries for stuff she didn’t want to do. I see it the other way around. If she was attracted to someone who respects her boundaries, she would have chosen to be with such a man first. It also has to be respected that many women also do not like to be dominated, their isn’t a one method suits all. As far as I am aware, women prefer a masculine man, with a manly voice. I don't want to shame anyone's preferences here, just trying to lead an objective…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:40 AM
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Might as well shoot myself in the head then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:36 AM
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There cannot be enough top 5% for all of you. And let's say you do, why is the divorce rate like 50% in USA?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:35 AM
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You're lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:34 AM
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They get pumped in with a lot of money by certain sponsors. Sponsors like George Soros. They can say a lot of things in public and get the people in general to side with them because mainstream news media generally is also sponsored by men like Soros.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:33 AM
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There cannot be enough top 5% men for all of you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:32 AM
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Then majority of PPD is doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:31 AM
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And I had none. Is this fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:31 AM
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In that case, I guess Ukraine shouldn't put their flags back in where Russia has put their flags, because after all it says more about Ukraine's crave for external validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:30 AM
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I checked. I commented exactly where I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:29 AM
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Yet, whenever I suggest to go for marriage first I get mercilessly shot down. I honestly don't have the impression that marriage is being supported around here or even in general anymore. The mainstream idea is that casual sex is empowering and marriage is basically a cage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:28 AM
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In my observation, women also complain about "where all the good men have gone".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:27 AM
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I love virgins too. I am 29 year old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:26 AM
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No, I am serious. If "Chad's" actually got off the dating pool women would have no incentive to keep on sleeping with the same top percentage of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:25 AM
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That won't stop today's dating problems and we will keep on discussing "n-count", "women's standards and preferences," Men being disposable", "women loosing their value by their own decisions" and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:24 AM
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From my point of view, you're more successful in life than I could ever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:22 AM
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Perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:18 AM
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Why the insulting tone? I am a virgin as well. As far as I am aware, nobody forces you to be with a virgin so you don't need to lash out at us like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:17 AM
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I had the impression that there are a lot of good looking men out there being available pretty much all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:06 AM
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On a lighter note the guy probably also had 100 strokes before bedtime but in a more depressing way This felt like a nuclear bomb. Well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:01 AM
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Now that she’s older, and she’s found a guy who respects her, she knows she can say no to shit she doesn’t like, and he won’t punish her for it. Wasn't she turned of by guys like that, who respect boundaries, because they are not "masculine" enough? As far as I understand, women generally expect the man to be dominant otherwise he is a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:54 AM
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Sex sells. It is amazing how mindless we humans become when sex is involved. Meanwhile claiming that we can easily control our urges and sexual drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:48 AM
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I agree fully with this. The avoidance to talk about risks such as unwanted pregnancies, stds and how dirty and suicidal such women like Melissa could end up feeling really drives in the point that this book is nothing but propaganda. It only highlights the "positive" aspects of a certain lifestyle without ever highlighting or mentioning the risks of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:46 AM
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I think she does have a point though. The book is truly written as if they are trying to force a certain world view onto the reader. When reading in between the lines, I get the feeling that the book constantly tells me "Sex outside relationship is good. Sex outside relationship is good. You will face no consequences whatsoever. No unwanted pregnancies. No STDs. Just have sex outside of relationship." It really reads like it is trying to say "Women, AF/BB is awesome" and the intentional avoidanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:44 AM
0

Women are not interested in men? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:37 AM
0

[...] its not MY fault [...] Well you could have waited or said no. As a virgin myself, I would say it is rather not my fault that I am not attractive to the majority of women. Most men simply are not attractive enough anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:30 AM
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First of all, I believe that it is a healthy preference for any woman to demand a man who doesn't watch porn. This of course also includes men who did watch porn in the past but ultimately ended up regretting it and stopped watching it for good for the rest of their life. Because porn and masturbation can cause death grip syndrome as well as erectile disfunction, which both could ruin the bedtime. Now, I don't believe that porn can be put on the same place as having had a lot of sexual partners,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:14 AM
3

You are religious. Why didn't you go for marriage first?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:03 AM
1

Honestly, I don't know who Sonya Sotomayer is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:45 AM
2

I can see where he is coming from. First of all, I want to mention that I nowadays believe that everyone should have any preferences they like. Now that that is off the table. Personally, it feels like a relationship is nothing but a transaction, a very valid question off the likes of "what do you bring to the table?" needs to be answered sufficiently enough to be able to open the gates to a relationship with that certain person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:16 PM
1

It’s really weird to me how often this question comes up on this sub. I might be wrong, but the only other time I remember such a question popped up was me asking the same thing with the same intention weeks, if not months ago. I got similar replies back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:43 PM
1

The "contract" makes it official. If you conquer a country you put your flag in that country to make it official. Similar with marriage. They bascially conquered each other's hearts and made it official.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:35 PM
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Do you think that marriage involves marrying one person or some amalgamation of all traits of the opposite gender? Regarding the requirement lists women usually have (seriously no offense intended, just trying to be objective) I believe the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:31 PM
1

Sounds like a band? lol. I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:30 PM
1

Human connection. Wanting to be known, be seen for someone fully for who you are. Wanting to share coffee in the morning and watch the squirrel w the weird raggedy tail together in the back garden. Seeking connection. Someone always in your corner, who’ll have your back when things go to hell. Someone to fall in love with. And regardless, love is one hell of a drug. Nowadays, this is very hard to believe for me. I assume this is the same reason men tend to date? Personally, I honestly don't know…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:26 PM
1

Due to myriad reasons the divorce rate is going down. My main ones are female income rising, and religiosity declining. Something is wrong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:23 PM
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AKA I've been on social media for a bit too long and need to go outside and touch some damn grass. Acting like those nutjobs on social media don't roam around the grass world as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:19 PM
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I don't understand what the first point has to do with the topic at hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:19 PM
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Funny how women support all the stuff that precisely benefit men that want to strings attached and make them more depressed and dependent on Xanax. This point is what baffles me the most as well. I don't understand it. To me it was quite obvious where the "sex positivity" and fake "empowerement" movements will lead but it looked like a lot of women willfully accepted and simply ended up jumping the boat and drowning themselves in the ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:14 PM
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I think women supported the "sex positivitiy" movement the most, claiming that is empowering to women if they sleep around and have casual sex. As certain men and others pointed out the dangers of that movement but got shot down even back then, already promiscuous men who are all about sleeping around profited the most of that sex positivity. They ended up having sex with women like they are using napkins.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:10 PM
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Ok, so he need to drop the M from ”men” and it will make more sex. sense*?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:08 PM
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The question is why SHOULD they stop? Because of the brocode. Why not marry one woman and get off the dating pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:06 PM
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By your logic men that engage in casual sex are also not being fair to other men[...] Absolutely true. I imagine if these men would go for marriage they would be off the dating pool and the average women would be left with average men, until they are also married off which leaves ugly women with ugly men, which eventually also will be married off. There might still be some left out because of standards and preferences but it would be way better than today's arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:05 PM
1

And with that comment, I thank you for prooving that women only share the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:02 PM
0

And with that comment, I thank you for prooving that women only share the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:01 PM
0

And with that comment, I thank you for prooving that women only share the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:01 PM
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And with that comment, I thank you for prooving that women only share the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:01 PM
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And with that comment, I thank you for prooving that women only share the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:01 PM
2

Virgin shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:59 PM
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Absolutely fine with me, but nowadays virgin men are walking red flags, especially after a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:58 PM
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He doesn't want to sleep around and prefers to wait for the chosen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:56 PM
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Same should go for women as well, who demand only tall men for example. But honestly, nowadays I like the viewpoint that everyone should have whatever preferences they want. Let people be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:50 PM
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[...] nor is it stopping them from marrying either… As far as I am aware, women on here don't like marriage anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:49 PM
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Even if, what exactly is the problem? I mean, these women probably got to have amazing sex with amazing men and most likely can get any other men they want. I truly don't understand why women get so upset when a man posts or comments that he won't date high n-count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:45 PM
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Well, to be fair, there have been quite a lot of women on here getting riled up over men claiming to not want to be with promiscuous women. Even I get shamed all the time whenever I suggest men and women to go for marriage first. I truly don't understand what the issue is since high n-count men and women get what they want all the time everywhere whenever they want. It makes more sense for me to complain about women's endless lists of requirements for men, but I also stopped doing that because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:42 PM
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If you want to increase the number of women willing to have casual sex, then kill off the view that women with body counts is unattractive. The mainstream narrative is already sex positive. It hase been like that for a couple decades now. I think the solution to this issue would be to stick to marriage and one partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:35 PM
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I think the "n-count" issue could be solved easily if men and women went for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:34 PM
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Yes, it absolutely is. Nowadays you are considered a looser if you don't have (constant) sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:33 PM
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Why not marry one of the top 5% and stick to one man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:32 PM
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This sub alone constantly bitches about promiscuous women. But does that change anything? It doesn't seem so. It still looks like majority of women are sharing the minority of men, doesn't it? Besides, I feel like virgin people are shamed much much more nowadays. See for example all the "you must be virgin" or "no wonder you are virgin" insults. On top of that, in general, being a virgin in old age is widely considered a red flag. Just trying to point out my observations of the situation. Didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:24 PM
2

But yet you are here? Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:22 PM
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And yet I am virgin at 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:19 PM
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Pretty much yes. My trick is, I am pretty sure that I am not on the list. points finger to head meme
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:00 PM
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I believe you. I admit, I was speaking in a quite general sense, which is unfair towards individuality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:29 AM
1

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:28 AM
1

Really? :O
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:27 AM
1

Yes, indeed!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:25 AM
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Just as an eye opener to the ones who are still asleep. I was asleep for a long time. This is not meant as an attack. I believe that women have every right to have whatever preferences they want. To keep things fair I will note that we men are shallow indeed. The following list is just to assess where I am in the hierarchy. What women want: be rich be handsome be fit be athletic be a sexual beast be animalistic be a gentleman be giving be mindful with your finances have a wide social network be …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:46 AM
1

Can someone get in and out of relationships with the snap of their fingers? I personally don't believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:39 AM
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The comments are strangely sexual. What is going on? Anyone knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:42 PM
2

Honestly, Twitch has weird rulings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:40 PM
1

breaking her butt. not breaking bad? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:39 PM
1

I find women who wear no make up to be rather strong and brave, because I heard that they usually receive stupid comments. I believe that a man or woman should dress up sexy for their partner and not for strange people on the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:06 PM
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Those came to my mind in an instance, not gonna lie. I admit, being shallow is sad. The traits I have listed are all indeed shallow traits. No worries, I am virgin and might end up staying like that as it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:37 PM
2

I don't count rape as sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:33 PM
1

An abortion could harm a third party. Depending on which status the fetus was.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:55 PM
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Nothing unfair about n count. Everyone of us has to carry the consequences of our choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:52 PM
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Weight Figure (bodytype) Outfit The way she carries herself (feminine) Face (makeup) Hair (makeup)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:49 PM
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OH! Btw, I like your sunglassess :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:27 PM
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Questions like these might send one to hell. Just saying. If you guys want to go to hell, all fine. Don't shoot the messenger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:11 PM
2

Don't do yourself like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:10 PM
1

I can't think of any
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:03 PM
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Do people realize that trying to discourage someone (women) from having multiple sexual partners means the amount of people (often men) getting laid will go down considerably if their wishes came to pass? The amount of sex will actually increase. No casual sex leads to more stable relationships, more stable relationships leads to more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:41 PM
1

Porn stars do look at porn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:06 AM
2

Going into marriage first would reduce the amount of partners immensely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:52 AM
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Women want relationships. Men are selective about who they want relationships with, and so women won't get them. Women just have to deal with it. There are just as much women who oppose the "no sex before marriage". Men are mostly after casual sex as well nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:37 AM
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Sex has become as transactional than ever before. "What do you bring to the table?" Even though it is not a bad thing to ask for and get to know, it very much shows that sex has become nothing but a transaction, love is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:35 AM
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I don't understand why women have a problem at all with men who want a woman who didn't do casual sex. I mean, there are a lot of attractive men doing casual sex, just stick to these men, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:31 AM
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Yeah, it ONLY affects men negatively... I suppose women are like immune...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:24 AM
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I believe it messes with my brain wiring
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:21 AM
2

My wife. Though she is not there yet lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:48 PM
1

Sounded like that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:04 PM
1

Anyone else slowly getting a headache?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:00 PM
1

Like atheists say, I won't believe what I don't see lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:09 PM
3

Yes, just imagine something like a "Sex in the City" setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:06 PM
1

I should be star amongst women since I never smoked and drank in my life and also don't plan on smoking and ever drinking, but I am not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:02 PM
1

Sorry, I felt a voice screaming in my head saying "no, I want sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:01 PM
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It is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:00 PM
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Really? I mean, I am right imagining a group of female friends talking to each other, maybe a guy catches their attention and they are like: Woman 1: "Mmhhmm, look at that fuckboy over there at 12 o'clock." Woman 2: "Right, he is young and sexy." Woman 3: "Ladies, I amma make him mine, you just watch." Woman 3 proceeds to stand up Now, I am curious on your reaction lol. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:58 AM
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I would expact the exact same reaction, maybe with an article on German news media that the foreigner boy was suspicious or something trying to further justify the whole brutal action.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:55 AM
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Everyone has preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:54 AM
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Let's be fair. What do women have to offer? Nothing, am I right? Just think objectively. Strip everything apart and think, what do women have to offer except for their bodies? Women are totally worthless pieces of shit, am I right? Women have even less value then shit because even certain kinds of dump can be used as fertilizers. I am not saying to insult women, I am saying this to open our eyes, to level the playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:38 AM
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We’ve depedestalize cigarettes pretty well actually. Alcohol too. Did we really? The advices I am constantly getting is to go to clubs, nightclubs, parties, bars, events, festivals... I guess those bottles of whines, whiskey, beer and cocktails are non-alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:32 AM
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Men aren’t entitled to sex, but plenty of people want to help them achieve other types of fulfillment and depedestalize sex. But... that... doesn't... solve... the actual issue, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:28 AM
1

Feminism nowadays turned into pure brown stink pill lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:27 AM
1

You're not entitled to good men. Men are not entitled to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:25 AM
2

Often when an opportunity is presented to men, they fuck it up with their incompetence. Typically by being overly sexual too soon, belittling, dismissive, and/or simply having no social development of any kind. Or underly sexual. There is no winning unless one plays the game perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:16 AM
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Meh, I am gonna chill and relax. Not gonna join the rat race.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:13 AM
1

Literally parroting the feminist narrative. Just saying it out loud for the newcomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:07 AM
2

[...] neither men nor women need to have a romantic relationship with the opposite sex. Please don't speak on behalf of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:03 AM
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Well, I as a man need and want a woman to be married with (survival is not in my hands) and to hopefully find some fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:02 AM
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Yeah, that's the lie feminism fed women with. There might be some truth to it but it is a brutal generalization. Feminism is literally insulting all of your parents, grandparents and grand grand-grandparents. Blood is thicker than water, at least it used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:59 AM
1

I don't want to feel masculine, I just want to feel loved by a woman, that will automatically make me feel masculine. Why make these matters overly complex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:33 AM
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No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:20 AM
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I think the issue is that this line The point is that you will have more men be accepting of your inexperience than I will women. turned the interesting discussion into a "we have it worse" battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:38 PM
1

Thank you for putting it all into one comment. 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:35 PM
3

Fuckboy sounds quite positive, actually. Just like stud.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:31 PM
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Nah, he'll soon get shamed for wanting a virgin as a virgin. I have seen it happening all the time here on wokeddit.com.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:30 PM
1

Sorry, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:28 PM
6

But, isn't it better for you if a lot of men drop her because she was promiscuous? Because that would simply mean more options for you, wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:20 PM
2

What does any of that have to do with Germany? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:18 PM
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Just presenting my viewpoint. I feel it. I am gonna end up painting myself in a very bad light but whatever... It's not a "few", it's a significant amount of men behaving poorly, and most of the time "normal" men simply ignore them[...] I assume we talk about verbal harassment, like sneaky disgusting remarks or comments. At the end of the day, I suppose it is also about risk assessment and since most likely nothing is gonna change even when I do something, interfering doesn't seem worth the risk…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:09 PM
1

We have to add to that to make it make sense. Anyone under 25 also shouldn't have sex with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:54 PM
0

I don't see any difference. To me it sounds like I would say something like, Biden is the president of Afghanistan or such.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:09 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:08 PM
0

I have no idea who Tucker Carlson is. Jordan Peterson makes quite reasonable statements. I am not his fan, our faiths are different, but I see that he does show effort to understand and explain and I applaud him for that. Comments like these are also quite stereortypical: He was called a hero to incels, not an incel himself. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:07 PM
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The president of the USA has actually nothing to with USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:01 PM
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Happens quite frequently lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:00 PM
1

I suppose the President of USA has also nothing to do with USA, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:58 PM
0

Which doesn't make you better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:50 PM
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If all she wants is sex, there are plenty of other guys out there. Why choose HIM? I thought women have a lot of options but most of them being non-decent. What is this nonsense about "plenty of other guys"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:39 PM
1

If women can find an amazing partner so easily, why do women come on here and complain about the low quality of their massive options all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:37 PM
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So to answer the other commenter’s question about why a woman should want him, no reason then huh…. . She gains nothing, but disappointed sex with a man who isn’t attractive. Fine. You can have the men on this earth. I'll get the women in heaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:36 PM
1

Wow, have women always been this cold hearted? I don't want to believe it. You could freeze the sun with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:34 PM
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Counter example. Türkiye is the only country whose central bank lowered its interest rate in these trying times. Economic experts called Türkiye crazy for doing so, because like you said, if you're the only one you are the asshole. But guess what, just last week, a UN economics expert advice every country to not raise their interest rates. This is a counter example to the overly simplified rule of thumb you presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:28 PM
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What goes through people's minds calling Jordan Peterson an incel? Let's look at it neutrally. That guy is married, and that since 1989, he is literally a non-incel. It is like me calling a triangle a square. Both are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:17 PM
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What are you talking about? The most ridiculous thing here is calling Jordan Peterson an incel, because dude is married and that for 34 years now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:08 PM
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Mature, serious relationships where you have already commited don't want to feel like a challenge or competition which directly hurts your self esteem. Interesting, this is also my take, but according to this subforum and several others I am quite wrong haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:04 PM
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I for once always wanted to stick with only one woman my entire life. It never happened. What I observe on these forums though is sad for me, because I get shown that apparently a majority of men on her desire frequently changing partners and I don't see how that will solve anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:59 AM
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Is this Red Pill, Black Pill or MGTOW in a nutshell? As someone who is still a virgin at 28 and was super frustrated until recently, it still made me laugh positively haha. On that note, I don't think today's mating problems are women's fault. The actual problem is that especially women got brainwashed into desiring and consuming rather short lived and unimportant materialstic things. Not every women of course, but a majority got brainwashed into forgetting their own superior biology. Of course,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:56 AM
1

I don't even want to read the comments. Are they all like ultra blue pilled wearing rose-tinted glasses?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:53 AM
1

I see your point. It is like accepting that you have nothing to loose which actually can free you up even more and make you speech and act freely much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:52 AM
1

I agree with everything you say. There is something I realized though. At the end of the day, not even women can escape their biological need for a man. Trust me, any men who feels miserable because of certain women, no matter how much she says she is happy, she will end up old and crying, crying after her young attractive years, and will keep on suffering if she doesn't understand for what we actually came to earth. This goes for men too, if we just live for earthly pleasures we will also end u…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:48 AM
2

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:43 AM
1

He makes a lot of sense. As far as I know he didn't shamed anybody. Are you butt hurt by any chance? Can somebody call the whambulance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:41 AM
0

Most men wouldn't get away with what she cough he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:32 AM
1

Certainly would have been a major turn off if he'd actually be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:32 AM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:29 AM
2

And people say love is not dead. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:24 AM
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I would have thought she'll be more attracted because she will be aware that other women approve of her husband as well as a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:57 AM
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He’s the type that doesn’t involve himself in interest (like mortgage or credit cards)/doesn’t follow any women on ig. MashaAllah😁 he doesn’t have a job. Understandable, as the man he needs to also provide, it is simply like that, I know that. looks at myself embarassed Might be my last question then I'll leave you in peace 😄. Why does following random women on ig increase his chance? I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:17 AM
1

Being religious = unattractive. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:10 AM
1

My theory is, that if people marry then the top males will be quickly off the table instead of hoarding everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:09 AM
1

What if they still do? Surely they will give remarks, comments or advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:08 AM
1

Only if we met in person. I cannot fly out like that lol. Needs to be somewhat local.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:05 AM
1

I am someone who is jealous. I wouldn't want my wife to dress sexily when she goes out and I would want to keep her safe from the male gaze, I don't want any other filthy men's eyes feeding off from looking at my beautiful wife. Personally, I know that I cannot control her, nor anyone else for that matter. I mean, at the end of the day, if she wants to cheat she is going to cheat, I cannot control this. Cheating most certainly would lead to divorce. There will most likely be some disgusting perv…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:50 AM
5

No offense to anyone, but I think most of us men here belong into the "not a good option" group. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:45 AM
12

Actually not, but I know that people on here, men and women alike, want to paint that in the worst way possible. Makes me always feel like "why get together with him/her at all then?".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:05 PM
1

We men are too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:26 PM
1

Understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:26 PM
2

Well, as a middle easterner we fucked up big time in 19th century and lost everything in 1923.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:19 PM
1

I don't think there needs to be a law for it. People need to just apply it for themselves. I like to believe that I will love my wife no matter how she looks under her outfit and no matter how she performs. I like to belief and hold onto this, even if it is seemingly getting increasingly difficult by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:17 PM
1

But, I don't understand. Why would "no sex before marriage" result in less sex? I have heard people on here claim that men and women in who are in serious relationships have the most sex. So, I am just confused here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:15 PM
1

I am 28 now. Nowadays my wish is to marry as early as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:14 PM
1

Really? I am really not sure if it was really like that. I will have to read more and get more knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:12 PM
2

Well, they two probably ended up being happy together now. I am happy for them. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:33 PM
1

Absolutely. Actions always speak louder than words!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:01 AM
1

I don't follow any "insta baddies". I use Instagram more for news and political reasons lol. And I also started to unfollow people who are women and post themselves on Instagram. I got to follow them because they had statements and posts which I agreed with but my newest personal policy is to not follow any woman at all on social media except for if she is a relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:58 AM
-1

Being thin is an attractive trait though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:52 AM
1

To this day, unlike women, I still have no list in what I want in a woman, I still have no idea what I want in a woman, all I know is that she needs to have the same faith as me lmao. I think we men are shooting ourselves in the feet here. If we truly would only have eyes for our wives these questions and doubts wouldn't even pop up. Just yesterday, when I walked down the street there was a woman walking in my direction, her style caught my attention, she hadded baggy pants and a colorful big ja…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:36 AM
3

Usually the advice is to not do anything for the sole purpose of getting women. For example becoming fit. Your number 1 advice contradicts the general advice on this subforum. Just wanted to point it out. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:17 AM
0

Since when is an average woman overweight? What about average men? Are average men also overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:12 AM
3

Can't you marry and buy a house or rent an apartment just for you two to live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:45 AM
2

Really? What is the reasoning for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:43 AM
1

I've met too many guys who still had curfews and mothers that they would talk to about every little thing in the relationship. It's extremely uncomfortable for me to date a grown man that needs to get his mom's advice on every disagreement or decision between us. Understandable, but there are also women who just make life not easy you know? They make your life almost hell and you need at least one person of trust then with whom you can discuss strategies and how you should further proceed especi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:40 AM
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The quick clips with the cheering and the blue light; I didn't understand anything any of them said lmao. Number 14 was super normal. Nothing wrong with wanting to be married as quick as possible instead of going through a thousand hoops and dates and possibly still failing. I also want to get married as quick as possible. I want none of that "getting to know each other for thousand dates" or whatever lol.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/22 08:05 AM
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Well, Germans are on the verge of diying out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:49 PM
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Wouldn't a strict "no sex before marriage" applied by most men and women solve today's dating problems? Because, the hot guys will get paired up quickly, leaving the rest of women only average guys. The average guys will paired up quickly as well then. And maybe the lowest guys might have a chance as well. Of course there will be still single dudes and virgins but wouldn't this solve the majority of the problems, in example the AF/BB problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:48 PM
4

But why do women engage in casual sex instead waiting for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:30 PM
5

The solution is to go for no sex before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:26 PM
2

don't walk alone at night Good to know that this rule of thumb doesn't only exist in Islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:14 PM
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I love you all but I think it is time for me to retreat. I cannot talk much more about "women this" and "women that". We all struggle. We all have our hardships. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:53 AM
2

Marriage first then sex, since it's no strings attached my answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:49 AM
2

I thought women like oily, greasy and sweaty men. 😁😁😁
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:48 AM
30

How do you explain the men who do get partners despite watching porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:14 AM
0

wtf? I will be super pissed when I get banned for my comment but you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:37 PM
0

Sees flair Sees objectifying and shaming comment confused
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:37 PM
4

Incel hero Peterson is friends with Ronaldo. I am proud to be incel. Hey, don't ban me, nowadys everyone is allowed to be proud of something, look LGBT for example, why rip me of my ability to be proud of something as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:35 PM
1

I am glad all of that shit isn't as easily reachable as they were. Liveleak, rotten etc is literally the same as all the people who slow down on the highway causing a huge traffic jam just to watch people dying or being hurt, I say, fuck these people, I hope they understand one day that such behaviour is super disgusting and also slows everyone else down in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:59 PM
1

Are the emojis AI generated?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:56 PM
0

There is Allah. For a believer, hardships as well as flourishing times are a blessing, because during the hardships he is patient and thus wins this world and the afterworld, during flourishing times he thanks Allah and thus wins again in this world and the afterworld. Winning Allah's pleasing is the greatest thing one can achieve. Even pleasing Allah a tiny bit is greater than the greatest thing that exists on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:55 PM
2

The site still looks... and is pretty much unnavigatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:49 PM
1

Never, you get molded in it, and hopefully become just like a sword or a shield. To make a shield or a sword you need to bring the metal to high temperatures and beat the shit out of it. You become more humane, more empathic, more sympathic, you feel with others, you see that others also need help and you see that others get angry because they have issues themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:29 AM
1

Didn't you tell him to get off the dating apps, like it is usually adviced to men on here from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:26 AM
1

I thought so too for a long time, a very long time, I am 28 now and honestly it is not pussy we are longing for. Our infinite souls seek our soul realm we forgot about. That is where we were fulfilled. In this world our ego tricks us into believing that we want to feed our sexual desires but the reality is that we actually want to feed our soul. Islam offers the ingredients to keep our souls strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:20 AM
1

Do I shame men when I call them "insecure"?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:09 AM
2

[...] let’s not pretend the world is chock full of great options. You might be right, but some people do act like that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:41 AM
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You make a good point. In my experience it is just difficult to get to that mindset though. Women say that men are the key holders for relationships. In my opinion women hold both keys, for sex and relationships lol. I honestly like and appreciate your take though. There is truth to it! It is just difficult for me to truly set myself free so to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:09 PM
4

So, 25 years old for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:06 PM
0

Do you know that you sounded just like an incel right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:06 PM
1

When people in Iran burnt the US flag people from USA got worried about it? It is the same with people burning the hijab. It is symbol yes, a symbol of hate. Hating on women is misoginy. Apparently women speaking their own truth is misogyny and a witch hunt This is mysoginy in its most disgusting form. I gather that for you, women who dress a certain way are simply "good" and women who dress another way are simply "bad". Whereas I say that neither the protestors nor Iran are the good guys in thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:02 PM
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Wasn't sex slaves legal in the ottoman empire? Isn't that rape? I don't know about sex slaves, but freeing slaves is heavily rewarded in Islam. Why do we focus on sex slaves anyways? Do you want some? I don't and I don't need one. The only thing I want is to marry one woman and stay with her until the end of time and if possible even further than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:00 PM
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As historian, why didn't you do the research by now? Sorry I don't want to be offensive but I don't like getting attacked like that. It feels like everyone simply loves to blame Islam and Muslims for whatever problems they have and as soon as someone oppose their world view... I mean why must I do everyone's homework? Sorry if this came off too direct. It is not easy to defend and be attacked and those attacks simply translating to "please do my homework". I am not a super human. I don't have in…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:53 AM
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Iran isn't an Islamic state though. It doesn't matter how much they call themselves Islamic as long as they don't live by the Quran and what the Prophet teaches they are not an Islamic state. Neither their laws nor the way they live get in line with the teachings of the Quran and the Prophet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:51 AM
1

I suppose everything before 1923 is just a lie...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:48 AM
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Why don't you speak for the 18 year old woman who got shot 13 times by Israel just because she didn't want to take her clothes off? She didn't have any gun on her. She didn't posed any threat to anyone. Funny isn't it? Why is she being forgotten where as people who burn the hijab are cherished? Neither Iran nor the protestors are fighting for a good thing here. If we are humans who care about other humans we shouldn't take any side in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:46 AM
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It was okay to have sex with the SLAVES IT WAS OKAY TO OWN. It was also okay to marry and fuck children. I don't know about slaves but marrying or having sex with children is forbidden. It's still legal to rape your wife in many Islamic countries. First of all, right now there literally is no Islamic country. The last Islamic country was the Ottoman Empire. It doesn't matter how much a country calls themselves as Islamic as soon as they don't apply what the Quran and the Prophet teaches they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:41 AM
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If you make a proper research you will see that this is the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:29 AM
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I don't know what you mean by that, so I cannot say anything. Don't misunderstand me, I simply don't know in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:25 AM
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I understand. Apparently, for you, the lives of women who want to cover themselves and don't want to show their bodies to you simply deserve to be killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:25 AM
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I don't like Iran either but burning the hijab and painting a certain group of women as evil is not exactly "women friendly" either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:21 AM
1

You simply check what the Quran says and what our prophet did and compare it to what Iran for example is doing and you'll see that neither their way of living nor their laws apply fully with what the Quran and the Prophet says. This isn't according to me. This is a simple objective method. I am not stating my own opinion here. I am just saying what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:18 AM
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No it didn't, but western culture taught me that it is totally fine that 12 year olds have sex. Woman in Nordic countries live without many men misbehaving, certainly they dont need "protection" so why cant man in Islam? Norway for example had 2600 rape cases in 2021 and over 1000 cases where people under 16 years were sexually abused. I understand those numbers might be "women friendly" for your standards and that is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:15 AM
1

😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:51 AM
1

Again Western idea of harems and actual harems in the ottoman empire are not the Same. First and foremost, the harems in the ottoman empire were purely about education. Girls were educated BY WOMEN. The only men that were allowed to get in the harem were men who are castrated so to say. And the Sultan himself? The Sultan most of the time was roaming his empire or being on the Frontline in fights, the Sultan literally had zero time to go into harems he had to trust his wife and his servants that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:38 AM
1

Done that my whole my life. Result: 0 action.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:04 AM
1

Can you just live my life for me? That would be nice. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:01 AM
4

I read a lot of anger out of the way you write. What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:58 AM
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It could be also that simply most men you know don't feel safe enough with you to share such emotionally draining informations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:56 AM
1

Que in the "your standards are too high, lower them" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:52 AM
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Women by and large prefer monogamy, not raising our partners but monogamy. I agree with the other commenter, because that is my experience on PPD as well. As far as I am aware almost all women on here claim that marriages profit men mostly. It is similar to these two statements: "Men fuck anything." and "Men are shallow." I agree with the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:49 AM
1

Some do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:39 AM
1

According to stats on here, meeting on Tinder has grown in popularity. As far as I know it is still not the majority but about 30%? I don't remember the stats every well, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:30 AM
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All these things you two pointed I experienced second hand. That is when I started to ponder whether I could really be able to hold a relationship, since it seems to be so extremely difficult to appeal to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:25 AM
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Actually a "switch" is possible but if you go from being straight to gay it might be long and wearing process. On that note, such a "switch" honestly isn't even worth it. There is something about women, it is not only their bodies, which is way more sexier and attractive than any men can be. I am speaking from a male perspective here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:20 AM
5

What was his age when you two "finally" got together (I don't mean being friends)?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:15 AM
1

That is why "no sex before marriage" is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:07 AM
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Do you know who Heşlemun is? She was killed because she didn't want to take off heir niqab. Let women wear what they want right? She was 18 years old. She got killed by the police, she had no weapon on herself, and was shot 13 times and no medic was let to her to treat her. I agree with you. Let women wear what they want. But why do you have to burn the dress of the woman that got killed for the very same reason? We need to be very careful. We need to be careful that when we want to achieve one …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:17 PM
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I will just say that for example Iran is "Islamic" only in name. They neither have Islamic rules nor do the majority of citizens live actually Islamic, unfortunately. In our current day and age there no country that actually lives the Islamic way. You also cannot just simply apply islamic law and say we are gonna live like that now, it doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:04 PM
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Well, then vote for the center. I don't like left neither right. Both are shit and evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:01 PM
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That is not Islam. Let me tell you a story of Jesus. We consider every prophet as muslim because every prophet knew that there is only one God and that Muhammed will be the last prophet. Once, a group of Jewish people approached Jesus. They told Jesus that a woman had done adultery. The purpose was to test Jesus. In that day, Jesus was teaching to "love thy neighbour". So, when Jesus would command to punish the woman, these Jews would defame Jesus by saying that he doesn't do what he preaches. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:56 PM
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Well spousal rape is legal in a lot of Muslim countries so yeah, if you make it legal to rape woman, and don't consider a woman's testimony on par with a man's you'll have lower rates of rape conviction. If we want to learn what Islam is, we need to look at how people lived Islam. Nowadays there is 0 country who actually lives the Islamic way. The prophet taught us that if your wife wants sex from you, you fucking give her the best sex of her life, end of story. You know who actually is repressi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:48 PM
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Have you seen all the Reddit posts about how horrible it is to visit Egypt as a woman? It's far worse than Western countries. Even having to say that sounds so obscenely obvious that I feel like I'm arguing for a spherical Earth against a flat-earther. Have you seen women running around in Qatar dressing super tight and revealing? Just browse through Instagram there are like millions of women like that posting sex pics they took in Qatar. Btw, are you aware that the current ruler in Egypt, namel…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:44 PM
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If you look at the Ottoman Empire there was at best 1 rape case in what, a thousand years. This is not only in regards to rape. When you look through historical recordings you will find at best 7 criminal cases in the Ottoman Empire. That is becasue during the Ottoman Empire people truly believed and practiced Islam. They didn't put a lable "Islam" on their flag or nation or whatever and called it a day. They literally lived it. This is the difference between let's say Iran and the Ottoman Empir…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:41 PM
1

Where are men whipping it out before sexy times? That is why I specifically mentioned marriage. You have sex with the guy first, see his dick, if you are satisfied you marry him if not you ditch him at the next best option. Isn't this how you guys operate? Sex comes first and foremost afterall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:39 PM
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I’m actually not making any statements specifically about you or any one individual man. This is true, but since I am someone who is circumcised a general statement such as And circumcision impacts sex, so it plays into the “sexual selfishness” so to speak adresses me as well. I actually understood it as "circumcised men are being selfish in bed and don't care for the sexual pleasure of their partner".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:38 PM
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Yes, I am 100% sure. Arabs used to burry female children alive. Islam forbid that. Arabs used to marry up to 10 or even more wives. Islam brought that down to 4 and said that marrying only 1 is the best choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:36 PM
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First, the rule in Iran is nothing new. Everyone knew about it. Don't act like you learned it just yesterday. Second, burning the hijab and therefore painting all women who wear the hijab as evil in person is nothing but a witch hunt and mysoginy! Neither the protestors nor the Iranian government do justice for the women. Third, Iran is Islamic in name only. Did you see their citicens? Of coures not all, but those who come to Europe or USA start eating pork and drink alcohol. So much for Iran re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:34 PM
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It is a book title and by the looks of it shows exactly what I am saying here. Culture and Islam are two very different things. Cutlure is not Islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:31 PM
2

Paradise is under the feet of mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:28 PM
1

Paradise is under the feet of mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:28 PM
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Man this is just super unfair. You basically say that I am or will be a selfish shitty partner without even actually having slept with me, meaning that you cannot actually know any of this. It is just unfair. I feel pissed. Also, I am a bit salty at the moment sorry if I am being rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:25 PM
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Far right *. And you know what far right did 1939-1945.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:20 PM
1

Are you aware that she is a far-right wing politician? I thought we shouldn't put women on pedestals just because they are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:20 PM
0

Don't you guys do that all the time nowadays? It is not like any of you are marrying the guy first and then look at his dick first, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:16 PM
2

Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:07 PM
1

Lol, this sounds like made up. For real?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:06 PM
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Male circumcision does nothing. I wish it made me less hornier, I am fucking unproductive as hell because of my stupid horniness and constant thinking about women. If you guys aren't circumcised please don't talk as if you know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:04 PM
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I am muslim and I never heard "nine parts of desire". Are you also one of those "Islamic experts"? Also, Islam doesn't oppress women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:58 PM
1

So what? Ukraine supports Zionists and Nazis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:16 PM
0

Why does your girlfriend wants to help another man? Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:13 PM
1

No u 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:54 PM
1

My ex’s have all been highly educated women who have their shiiit together If you're such a great catch, and I believe you are, why couldn't you never keep one woman around? We share similar views except for hopping around and exchanging partners like they are nothing but underwear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:54 PM
2

So you are the man stealing our potential partners? 😛 On a serious note, if you can pull women easily, why not date within your own age bracket, or don't women in your own age bracket want you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:59 AM
1

I am that person and currently I can confidently say that I still cannot fully surpress my desire for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:30 AM
4

I mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:35 PM
5

to be honest, both :D
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:35 PM
1

Oh no, this will bring me to the age old question which I had hoped I escaped: What do women want?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:18 PM
1

But I want marriage. No ONS, no FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:17 PM
5

To be fair, my impression is on PPD that most men here demand sex on the first date. The reasoning is that she apparently also gave sex to Chad as soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:08 PM
9

I wish men would stop pressuring women into sex as early as possible. Go straight for marriage instead. I think that would fix a lot of issues we have nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:51 PM
4

Right? Who would admit that their lover is someone who killed his own son? What? Why is he not in jail yet or something? Where is the FBI when you need them? They should stop watching me lmao.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/22 05:49 PM
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Bro, what is going on lol? I would like to call "FAKE" but knowing this earth and the atrocities people are able to do...
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/22 05:47 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:16 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:16 PM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:15 PM
0

Are women aware about the power they hold over a majority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:56 AM
1

Depends on which religion you speak about. Islam pretty much advices to have sex with your spouse, especially if your spouse is in need.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:55 AM
2

I always promote "no sex before marriage" but I feel you. I think it is all the movies and TV shows and nowadays social media. Back in the day it were those youth/teenager magazines giving "dating advices" nowadays it is pretty much social media and "friends" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:53 AM
1

- Confusedcious says :D
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:52 AM
1

Lol why tf would you wish to be with a girl that's been ran through by god knows how many cocks. I honestly don't understand either why that thought turns me on lol. Was for a long time disgusted by that thought to be honest. Maybe it is the desperation? Maybe it is me trying to rationalize things because I have been virgin for so long lol. I honestly don't know but I understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:50 AM
1

As a man I disagree. It is not simply "just a fantasy". Whenever I watch porn, and I am a virgin at age 28 trying to fully stop watching porn and masturbation, I really imagine myself being with that woman I see on screen. It is not just simply fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:05 AM
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There surely are men and husbands who don't watch porn or masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:04 AM
5

Even nowadays most women would rather go for a man who earns as much or more as themself. This is not necessarily a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:23 AM
15

Well, most of us men claimed that looks matter the most for women. So it is not exactly "water is wet" territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:21 AM
1

That is awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:19 AM
1

Honestly, as a man I feel the same about he majority of men. Men, why you go for casual sex when you could have a beautiful family, making them grow, supporting them and seeing you flourish with them? Why not just stick to one woman and support and love each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:18 AM
2

I do it all the time lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:12 AM
1

I believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:08 AM
1

Makes sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:07 AM
4

Don't do this to me man. This us quite saddening and discouraging.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:12 AM
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If it is only because of media influence then how sincere are these relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:08 AM
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😂 Best reply, but we two might turn into the legend [deleted] as well since we are off-topic and not under the auto-mod lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:02 AM
2

I don't see any woman drooling over dad bods lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:00 AM
1

Bro, why you trying to compete with someone else's husband? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:59 AM
1

Maybe some of these women are settling? 😅🙈 I honestly hate that word but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:57 AM
1

No u. 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:50 AM
5

If you consider yourself unattractive, you will come off an unattractive. Self-fulfilling prophecy, but this only works to some extent. I can't change my looks just by thinking that I am attractive. Thinking that I am attractive might give me a better posture, more confidence which in return will possibly lead to a slightly improved attraction, but I cannot ignore that there is still my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:46 AM
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I bet if I took the FYP of the man that believes that, his FYP would be Insta thots the whole way down. Jokes on you, as much as I love thots and their super sexy outfits and figures, my Tiktok and my Instagram is filled with only world politics and religious content, nothing else. The sooner you guys realize that, the sooner you’ll be able to actually become attractive to women. Please, stop the gaslighting. There are men whose Instagram FYP is filled with thots even though they have a beautifu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:37 AM
1

Blaming God is the easy way out. It is like incels blaming women for not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:30 AM
1

What I meant to say is that there have been countless proofs in the past. Why would you need new one? In the case of Santa Clause it is easy to show that he simply doesn't exist. Just observe the neighborhood, are any old men sliding down the chimneys and fill in the socks? God created everything. The mere existence of your body and my body is proof alone for God's existence. Also, God is not a human lmao. Allah is the one and only. It is perfectly explained by Islamic scholars, and I don't mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:42 PM
1

I don't know. I am a bit confused atm. The best choice for me seems to ignore my natural desires as best as I can. There are anyways much greater things to focus about. First and foremost I need to rescue myself from eternal hell fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:45 PM
1

Abraham brought wonders yet people have thrown him into the fire. Why would you be any different than those who demanded proofs and still didn't believe despite Abraham bringing proofs?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:43 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:27 AM
1

Women are going to do what suits their best interest. Why should we not do the same? Good point. Well no longer, I'm putting myself and my needs first. Will start doing that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:27 AM
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It’s not attraction trumps all; but if you and another guy are on the exact same level everywhere but you’re more physically attractive why wouldn’t I pick the more attractive partner all things being equal? I suppose I always put all the weight into "I would love her, I would treat her well unlike that other abusive man" lol. Conversely if you were a better person but less attractive I’d be be more inclined to pick you still. Wait, personally this is again a dangerous path for me lol. With less…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:25 AM
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Women prefer men they are more attracted to just like men women they are more attracted to. I agree. Personally it took me some time to understand and accept this lol. Is it more likely that a man will have an affair with a less suitable woman because she flirted and was available. Yup. I don't know if it is more likely but a pretty woman can even turn the heads of a highly knowledgable and religious man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:53 PM
2

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:49 PM
2

You guys masturbate at work place and public bathrooms? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:45 PM
1

Not always. But yeah, I usually caught myself singing after masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:44 PM
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The issue is when women getting undressed are cheared and women who want to cover themselves (and yes that includes the headscarf) gets shamed as if they did the worst crime possible. If you want to look at women undressing themselves just open up Pornhub or any other of the millions of porn sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:42 PM
1

n But it wouldn't end just because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:38 PM
2

Why not just do more things for her, apparently she does get into action with you 6/7 days a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:37 PM
2

Impossible :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:36 PM
2

There is nothing else to do, man. At least I have my religion and the principles still would make me treat women in a good way. Other than that, yeah, I also realized there is really not much. It makes me sad lol. All of that relationship mumbo-jumbo seems to be highly transactional especially in modern times like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:35 PM
2

In my personal limited experience, I might be the rarity or just simply don't have enough experience, I can get along with women easier when it comes to sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:28 PM
1

If Tom has a girlfriend then either his girlfriend picks Sally up or Sally needs another "hero" in her life. It cannot be expected that Tom ends up spending time with a woman who is certainly not aware of what she is doing. Who knows, she could end up sexually harassing Tom and if Tom succumbs to his urges then goodbye girlfriend. I can already see the arguments coming from Tom or people who defend Tom: "but she is just a platonic friend" blah blah blah...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:23 PM
1

Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:11 PM
1

I want to move towards it but there is just not feasable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:11 PM
1

Would be ok if I claimed that my computer assembled itself perfectly and thus it works and I can use it to browse this forum and write comments on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:09 PM
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Despite me wanting someone handsome, tall, and rich, it’s hard to find men with all that that share my values, or at least share the values that I’m not willing to compromise on. I hope this won't attract all the "See? Women only go for Chad" comments lmao. when I offered to treat him he got upset about it and said that it wouldn’t work because I’d resent him later. I can understand where he is coming from having read about things online and experienced how women react usually on financial matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:07 PM
1

I agree that is an ungly thing to do. I trained myself to smile and say "thanks" whenever someone compliments me. But I suppose I can think about it in private. I caught myself sometimes making compliments where I maybe was like 75% sincere and if I can do that others can do that as well. I make compliments with the hope to lift spirits and motivation. Personally, in the context of dating, it would help me to assess whether it is worth seeking a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:02 PM
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:D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:59 PM
1

This makes me think. Well it would help in assessing where I actually stand, you know? Like, what can I expect and look out for? Is seeking a relationship even worth for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:58 PM
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Same goes for men too. At 25 it is pretty much done. If you don't have a relationship by 25 then you are pretty much lost lol. I am 28 and am sitting in that boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:56 PM
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I don't understand how it is possible, but even being aware of this doesn't protect me from being affected by such TikToks. I need to actively avoid watching at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:55 PM
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She made a good point. I must say I see constant "shitting on the other gender" on here from both sides, it is ridicolous. Can't we just discuss without insulting and trying to tear each other down? Like always, innocents catch fire in all that crossfire.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:52 PM
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This feels more like a sub which is about who can shit more on the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:48 PM
1

Hmm hard to say. Russia is ex girlfriend? Reminded me of that meme with the guy having a woman in his hand looking back to the other woman lmao. I forgot the name of that meme. "Making girlfriend jealous" meme? Edit: Oh wait now I understand. From my perspective, Germany is the girlfriend, or if we want EU.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:28 PM
1

I forgot to say, I am in Germany :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:27 PM
1

I am a male and yeah, I don't support that equality stuff. I defend the viewpoint that men and women are simply biologically different!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:26 PM
1

😁
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:25 PM
1

Yes, indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:24 PM
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How can you tell if a woman really means what she says? Like when she compliments your voice even though you know you have like one of the most unattractive voices ever for a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:24 PM
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I would honestly say ditch Ukraine and become friends with Russia again lol. Ukraine is like the male partner that brings nothing to the table, is financially dependent and needs your help for everything, unable to solve its own issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:21 PM
1

I did, I am on Day 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:19 PM
1

Yeah, why? The company is looking for employees not the other way around. If the employees would quit right now the company would be dead. The employees hold the actual power. Also, women aren't jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:17 PM
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Waitresses make that much money? No wait. CEOs make so much money that even the, in my opinion, high amount of money you make is closer to that of a waitress than a CEO. This reminds me of the stats that 10% of earth's population holds the worth of 90% of earth's population. Like 10% are super ultra rich and 90% are kind of just poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:16 PM
1

I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:13 PM
1

Wait, it is night time where I am. Like 10pm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:13 PM
1

😁❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:13 PM
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[...] but that’s just because I don’t want to run into the issue of him feeling lower than me because he’s a man making less money. Aren't you making that deicision for him in this moment? We don't know how he would really react. But to be fair, I have heard countless times about men feeling inferior because they are the stay at home parent or bring less money to home than their wife. Exceptions exist of course but in a general sense I think you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:12 PM
2

Oh right true, I forgot that line xD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:08 PM
1

Chad is just the hypothetically best shallow man. He doesn't exist. There are men who come close though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:54 PM
1

Who doesn't want a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:53 PM
1

I know that feel :D I returned yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:51 PM
1

Yes, I could walk into a restaurant with a stunning woman on my arm, other guys would be envious, and I would get to fuck her regularly. Who cares about other guys being envious of your woman? Caring about that sounds like ultimate cuckoldry. I'd rather other guys don't even get to interact with my woman. That is how jealous I am and I am proud of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:44 PM
1

Sounds about right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:42 PM
0

Why should I approach women? Why should I go to the gym for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:40 PM
1

Most likely a joke, I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:39 PM
3

They should have just made a historically accurate movie about how French executed Algerians for not simply not speaking French and therefore terminating the local language on a wide scale and ending up killing millions of civilians.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:37 PM
3

My true self: lazy unmotivated weak anxious
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:35 PM
1

I have quite a feminine voice for a man ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:34 PM
0

We cannot speak for them. We don't know, maybe some of them or most of them will complain about why we killed them. There are countless people who lost their leg, their arm, even multiple limbs and still do more, they do even more than I do even though I have all my limbs. I find these people quite inspirational and motivational. Huge respects to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:33 PM
2

I thought most people on here are married or had already multiple sexual encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:30 PM
0

If life is that, why do most of us grind their lives away for literally nothing? I mean, there is more, there is God for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:29 PM
2

I am unable to pinpoint it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:28 PM
1

Why would I approach someone at all if don't want or need anything from them or if there is nothing that could be talked about? If I am content with myself, I could just don't approach and keep being content.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:21 PM
7

A good king does care. A bad king doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:19 PM
1

Because if he’s valuable for won’t leave, but I need my partner to be more than an ATM with a toolbox. I really don't want this to come a wrong way, but I really didn't get this impression from what you have written above.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:09 PM
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Sadly, a lot of people on PPD (men and women alike) give the impression that a relationship is purely transactional. There seems to be no love. I think the strongest form of love that exists on this planet is the love of a mother to her child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:06 PM
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I don't think $400k per year is a normal income. That would be like $35k to $40k per month. In Germany most people make like €2k to 5€k per month. It is already pretty good if you can make like €60k per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:01 PM
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From my point of view, that honestly sounds super unfair. In my opinion and to make things fair, both parties should wait for the "right person".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:58 PM
2

I had the impression that transwomen have even higher standards, because they put even more effort into their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:45 PM
1

It is better to have ridden space mountain once than to stay home alone? Honestly, I cannot compare a rollercoaster to sex. Rollercoasters are fun but in a different way than sex in my honest opinion. I mean, I don't have sex with the rollercoaster, or do I? xD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:49 PM
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My other nicks were like lostwanderer, lostwanderer1-27 haha, I ended up deleting most of my accounts, and maybe karmahunter and jerkstar or something lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:47 PM
1

What is the difference between both? I always treated both terms as synonyms, they meant the same thing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:46 PM
1

Its more about the hunt though. Thats where the fun is. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:45 PM
1

No :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:44 PM
1

Honestly, Russia could have just bombed Kiev into the ground like they did with Syria, but guess Ukraine lives are worth more than Syrians, whatever. Russia did make major mistakes and so did EU and USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:42 PM
1

Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:42 PM
1

That is a long journey :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:41 PM
1

Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:41 PM
1

Where is the connection?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:40 PM
1

ok :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:40 PM
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As far as I remember no. I did have multiple reddit accounts though, because... you know... or maybe not... well... :D But the last two years or something I only seriously used this account for commenting and posting and I think it was this account when I seriously dived into PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:13 PM
2

Same drain experiences Germany. German companies are leaving Germany because of the sanctions that lead to unbearably high energy costs. If anything, Russia isn't the only one that looses. Isn't it rather interesting that the so called Western democraty and peace orientated nations never try any diplomatic approach? I find it very strange that a supposedly Dictator like Erdogan managed to make a peace deal so now poor countries get supported with very important grain from Ukraine. I am absolutel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:11 PM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:08 PM
1

Sometimes lmao, when I feel like it. Even if, majority can take the trash out and probably better than I do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:08 PM
2

Agreed :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:07 PM
0

That forum is pukes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:02 PM
1

To be fair though, that election was quite weird with a lot of question marks. Doesn't help that the countings even stopped at some point.... very very suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:00 PM
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Taking photos and videos seems rude, though. I feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:58 PM
2

If she didn't motivate me to go hard in the gym[...]. Intentional pun?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:58 PM
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Sexually liberated women are still in committed relationships. It is right there in the name, isn't it? Sexually liberated. These women have a lot of sex with a lot of partners and some of them also shame people who just want to wait for marriage or that special someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:55 PM
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Russia is doing fine. I have Russian friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:53 PM
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Germany is gonna freeze this winter and companies are wandering out because the energy costs are much more affordable in other countries. German men, women and children are screwed because of the idiotic sanctions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:53 PM
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I honestly don't believe women should join the military at all. It is the men's purpose to protect women, all women, but most men seem to have forgotten that simple attribute. On that note, I don't mind women who join the military out of their own will. There have been very good women fighters anyways in the past and so there can be amazing women fighters in the present and future. In fact, especially in the western world (I was born and raised in Germany) it seems to be forgotten that women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:50 PM
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Why is casual sex so important to you? You have sex once and then? Isn't it all there is? It basically is nothing, no meaning, no sense, no purpose, just animalistic desire. You can be an animal if you like but we are called humans for a reason. We are not animals and we shouldn't lower ourselves to the level of animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:47 PM
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You can label it as torture. I feel your pain. It feels like I am burning, not physically but mentally, in a good way but also in a tortureous way. It is so difficult to resist, to be disciplined.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:45 PM
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Where does the need for wanting to be loved come from? Especially wanting to be loved for whom you are, for your essence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:44 PM
1

Isn't that also some from of transaction? You bring something, he brings something? Maybe I am looking at it too radical at the moment...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:41 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:58 PM
1

Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:58 PM
0

Yeah, but only because God helps me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:58 PM
2

No :D I need this, it is a wake up call for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:57 PM
2

What do you expect in your partner? How do you expect your partner to be? What do you expect your partner to bring on the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:57 PM
0

I could burn nature just now and it could do nothing against it to protect itself. In fact in the past multiple people already set fire to nature and it couldn't protect itself at all. Humans needed to rush to help nature lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:56 PM
3

What is nature? Nature is nothing. Nature cannot interfer in your everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:19 PM
0

Does love even exist nowadays, regarding that everything has become transactional, even relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:18 PM
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Just realized that I truly have nothing to offer for a relationship. Feels sadge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:02 PM
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Answer to first question: Gender roles and the expectations that come with it. Answer to second question: Nothing. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:17 PM
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My guy are you new here? Women choosing not to date is a daily complaint! We aren’t dating the men who aren’t trying. Yeah! I do read about women who say something like "I wouldn't date you even if you were the last man on earth" xD. The younger ones apparently are saying no thanks. So being a man who cleans up after himself, takes care of his home and knows how to change a diaper may as well be Fabio, but for some strange ass reason y’all don’t wanna do any of that. I am a bit off the grid lol,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:38 PM
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This seems to be a very difficult topic, because I heard different definitions throughout subtext. Sometimes HVM is used as a synonym to fuckboi. Sometimes HVM is used as a synonym to Chad. Sometimes HVM is used for a man who is top on his careers, makes a lot of money, has a big network of people, is super fit, has a sexy body, radiates a masculine aura, wear expensive clothes and accessories, wears the best perfumes and so on and so forth. For me HVM is the hypothetical top man. The best of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:34 PM
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This type of thinking is why women will leave men. That is ok. There are enough women who love to present themselves in the sexiesr ways possible for millions of stranger men on social medias like Instagram or Tiktok. Start taking them for granted and expecting things because of ‘entitlement’ and say goodbye To be fair, apparently being a good man is the bare minimum as well, so.... I suppose this "being grateful" thing goes all ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:47 PM
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My point isn't about vetting. This sub makes it seem like only men can be awful partners totally ignoring that there are women who are awful partners as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:45 PM
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Well, to be fair there is also a woman version of the awful men you just described.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:44 PM
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Few men rising to the occasion doesn’t mean it’s because it’s so difficult, it’s because all throughout history they never had to actually be someone worth being with, womens need for a partner meant they could be utter and complete failures but as long as they had a job they could still have a great wife. If these men are so awful, why would any women want to be with them anyways? I am confused. A couple decades ago women worked more and more but kept the pressures of needing to be a wife and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:42 PM
4

He actually believes in love and doesn't look at it as something transactional. What did you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:30 PM
0

Where else is he going to get his fix, from other women? Same goes for men who refuse sex to their wives. Where else is she going to get her fix? From other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:25 AM
2

To be fair though it makes sense that men will be able to rather spot the bad apples amongst men and women will be able to rather spot the bad apples amongst women. On that note, I don't like the "high and mighty" vibe of most comments coming from men on this topic. They act like it is so easy, yet, like you said, a lot of men fall for bad women too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:13 AM
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Since that hypothetical man is still single, I'd assume that he comes over rather feminine than masculine and therefore fairly will be not seen as partner material.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:06 AM
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It could be rather "feminine" than "masculine" but I don't know. Since apparently these men don't get picked I assume they don't present themselves masculine enough and are simply labeled as "boring".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:05 AM
1

I would show him to my father's and male siblings and he would need to show my family to his family so both sides can get a quick insight on the families and how they operate, that way I will have multiple opinions and when I have doubts I can simply ask my father or my brothers on what they think. I would always go for marriage first. The men who want sex on the first date are not worth the hassle. I have to say though that this is a very nice question! Actually, men should ask the same to wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:00 AM
4

Confidence is defined as lovingly not giving a fuck about what others think of you or whether you will be successful or not. That sounds like a very masculine trait to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:55 AM
3

I am too lazy to check but I don't think we ever talked about her needing to be a "socially outgoing woman"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:53 AM
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This makes no sense because personality and confidence is attached to masculinity and femininity. A confident woman and a confident man act different. A man with a attractive personality and a woman with a attractive personality act different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:51 AM
0

I'm not sure why I understand the question? You think its a "good or easy life choice" for a woman to have, to have to pick between a loveless and potentially abusive marriage, and homelessness?? I was trying to face the issue rather neutrally. Maybe I am missing some key aspects like periods, yes that could be an issue not being able to get pads or whatever, but generally speaking, if I have two bad options I choose the lesser evil, from my point of view the lesser evil seems to be to avoid an …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:49 AM
1

I also didn't google Andrew Tate xD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:39 AM
1

This time it is especially because of German's failed diplomatic approach with Russia. Putin offered to use Nord Stream 2, which is fully built and ready to use, yet Germany for some reason plays the stubborn child and rather let's their own citizens freeze and pay energy costs which are almost unpayable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:39 AM
3

Sex and dinner. I don't see them as equivalents.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:37 AM
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Let's take an exam for example. If the exam is hard usually a lot of students fall through the exam, they don't succeed. If the exam is easy usually a lot of students succeed. Now, we observed that There is a huge shortage of men with their shit together, sorry guys you can make any excuse you want if y’all really sit down and think about it, a large portion of men are simply not keeping up with their female peers. a lot of men fail women's test. Thus landing a relationship with a woman as a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:36 AM
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Ok, I suppose you just want to hear that he was not "masculine enough" or "rich enough" or "fit enough"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:26 AM
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Step 4: Aways claim that your boyfriend is beta, feminine, cries, makes less than her, is a fat unattractive slob.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:11 AM
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This questioning is getting ridicolous. He apparently offers what most women, according to PPD want, a committed relationship. What more does one need to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:10 AM
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I know exactly of one case where he is a great catch and she is a giant bitch. Let's not fool anyone here, women are not angels. They can be just as awful or worse than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:06 AM
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Nobody said anything about that he is or isn't a great catch and besides imagine it is your own son, what would say and do? Be as honest as possible please.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:06 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:55 PM
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The equivalent of physically attractive women is not financially stable or rich men. The equivalent of physically attractive women is rather a masculine man. I suppose that is what women mean when they say "personality" or "confidence". Women want a masculine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:53 PM
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Also the fact that guys will always remain deireable for women their same age, or are able to make themselves super desireable to women at any stage of their life; lol. Even if, this is way easier said than done to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:33 PM
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Cant say the same is true for most men, were all fapping and crying alone Sad but true :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:30 PM
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Personally speaking, I honestly didn't realize it for a very long time. I never thought about "women have it easy in dating" could be translated to "I suck at dating therefore I am a failure" from a woman's perspective. Though, I want to mention that I feel just like that for a very long time now just from the male perspective haha. Also, it doesn't really help to read shaming sentences such as "I bet you never got your dick wet" lol. That sounds so ridicolous but it is still surprisingly effect…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:20 PM
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In her defense, you worded it like there are no women who struggle. It is difficult to properly understand the word "I don't know" in emootionally loaded contexts. I understand that. All fair, happens all the time with these heavy topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:16 PM
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I don't think that is really your fault to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:14 PM
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We want relationships with people we find attractive and are compatible with. This all fair and we should also mention that the men who are found to be attractive and compatible are the same men as these: Why would women value being pumped and dumped by a HVM? It feels like a devils' circle. This is nobody's fault. It is just how it is. We all need to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:12 PM
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I'd rather be born a man. Becoming more financially stable is much easier than looking 25 forever with more and more responsibility. This is a way too simplistic view. You, preferably also need a decently sized sexual organ, a good stable mental health, having a masculine aura alltogether. The last two points are what women usually demand of men and what they call as "personality". As a man, you need to radiate that masculinity, you also need to be patient and need to take a lot of punches in, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:06 PM
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You’d be surprised how many men are in the dating field without transportation, to swim in pussy for a man is as basic as being average looking taking care of yourself and having your shit together, why? Because so many don’t! No one wants to own it but it’s true. No, if it would be easy you couldn't have made the following statement at all: Yes we have the power of choice but the good choices know they are leaps and bounds above many men and they use it to their advantage. Strange, even though …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:55 PM
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To be fair though, surely there are also men who simply refuse to have sex with their wife for literally no reason or shallow reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:36 PM
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I'd rather be valued for money other than looks. At least money makes yourself and your families life better outside of romance. This doesn't really work out because women in general prefer a man who makes as much or more as themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:29 PM
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Nobody cares about an ugly woman the same way nobody cares about a broke man. True, also masculine personal traits are quite important.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:27 PM
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I've taken the "active" role in a relationship before and I ended up having to be the leader throughout the relationship whilst he sat back and was probably with me due to convenience. I dont want the same again. I prefer empowered women who take the lead and are strong xD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:16 PM
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Ok I control sex,in todays world I can fuck a man in an hour. Commitment is what actually matters, thats what’s valued, that’s where love is received,that’s where the power lies. And MEN control that. What if you demand marriage first?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:14 PM
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The equivalent would be you choosing who you pay for dinner I disagree that that is the equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:13 PM
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"My Big Fat Fabolous Life" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:12 PM
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I am the bottom of the barrel men but I think it makes sense to go for the top 10% if you have chances, like, I would also like to get the potentially best option, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:09 PM
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Not being forced into a relationship with a man whom I dont like or even love, just in order to put food on my plate, a roof over my head and not die is, I guess, a step up from the alternative. I have a question and not even kidding here. If the partner is supposedly going to be that bad, why not simply risk being poor and homeless? I mean, the way you worded it, it doesn't seem worth being forcefully with a partner. To be able to earn my own living instead of being societally forced to marry (…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:57 PM
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The number of men who most women find high value is too small to ensure that most women will get who they want. Thus it is a "woman" problem, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:51 PM
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I don't understand why women are so scared about sexbots. Bots can never replace human beings. A bot is basically a copy of another human being, or of a group of human beings and it is unclear which limited aspects have been copied into the bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:46 PM
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I honestly only heard about Andrew Tate on PPD lmao. I still don't know exactly who that guy is and what exactly he did because I don't think it is worth looking him up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:42 PM
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There’d be a real meninist movement and women would be calling themselves allies. Just like they do for BLM and LGBT movements. Women could just as well shoot their own legs instead of allying with the LGBT movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:39 PM
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Look at the Taliban and ISIS Taliban are more or less government related and ISIS is simply a CIA project and CIA basically has a blanco check to do almost anything they want. They even couped the democratically elected Mohammed Mossadegh (the documents are available and released by CIA themselves) in Iran who tried his best to bring the oil of his country to his people and not gift it to foreign companies such as British Petrol. In comparison, most men, well, most people are simply poor. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:34 PM
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Not necessarily true but funny nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:26 PM
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This winter will be expensive but they're a very rich country -- they'll be fine. I doubt that since German companies already began moving out of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:20 PM
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I would like to know which region on earth these studies took in regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:19 PM
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Me neither honestly 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:56 PM
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You could have been born in Anatolia in 1050, and be dealing with a gigantic horde of Turks rampaging through the country killing, burning, raping, and enslaving. Except Turks never did that. But let's have a look at who did similar or worse things. Armenians together with Russians in early 20th century to Turks. Serbs to Bosnians in end of 20th century. USA to Iraq in early 2000s. Yeah, the only bad people according to you are "Arabs, turks and Mongols".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:51 AM
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Virgin shaming men, eh? And then we have women who act surprised to "why do men put all their worth in their sexual lives" lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:48 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:43 AM
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This winter is going to be very cold for Germany. And if not for Türkiye's diplomatic success with the grain deal, USA would have suffered greatly as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:43 AM
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How dating works is not dominated by some men or women, it is more rather dominated what popular form of media (TV shows, movies, nowadays Instagram, YouTube etc) influences the people who have access to it with. This, I will call it brainwashing affects the mechanics of modern dating. Because the people who have access to dating will make it a priority to their partners to follow certain standards they have seen from social media or heard from friends. Some men, or some women, have no say in al…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:41 AM
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To be fair, surgeries aren't necessarily easy to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:37 AM
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Well it actually does in some way. If the majority of class fails they are forced to put down the 60% down to 50% or even 40%, which is honestly nice. Otherway around, yeah, you have a point, I don't think they can increase the 60% out of nothing, at least I hope so, but I heard rumors that they sometimes do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:36 AM
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👍😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:33 AM
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They still have it very very good. The only people who had it better was their parents where mom also worked but was a full time bang maid for dad. This honestly starts to sound like a porn fantasy, which we all know is not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:32 AM
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What makes your life great, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:30 AM
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Meanwhile men still "need" and "want" to be with women. Surely this asymmetry matters as well, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:26 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:17 AM
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As far as I can tell, women like masculine men, which is absolutely fair, and as far as I can tell "beta men" are the opposite of masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:05 AM
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Isn't that user a man? Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:03 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:50 AM
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Merhaba, thanks hehe 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:50 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:49 AM
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From Islamic viewpoint, they are ruining their afterlifes unless they at some point (preferable before death) find Islam or truly repent what they did. Same goes for the men who use such sites and services.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:48 AM
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I AM FREE
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:29 PM
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Agreed!
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 07:09 AM
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It is our own fault for allowing the woke culture to get into everyone's bedrooms with TV shows, movies and social media.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 09:55 PM
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Well, it sounds contradictory but we cannot know what she has been through. With all the "you need to have sex otherwise you failed your life and are a looser" that is going rampant within friends circles, TV shows, movies and social media it is quite possible that she fell into that mindwashing and found out later that her faith was closer to the truth than what her shallow friends, TV shows, movies and social media told her.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 09:54 PM
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Lol :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:46 PM
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Asking the real questions here :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:45 PM
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I thought I am done with women as well but there really is no escape. I keep coming back no matter what I say, do, witness, experience and observe. It is quite interesting to be honest. There seems to be some inherent hope programmed deep inside of me. To be honest it is actually a nice feeling, but it can also lead to frustration ughhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:43 PM
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If everyone becomes muslim we'd have no problems. Proper ones though, like in the Ottoman Empire and not lunatics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:41 PM
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Man here: “Eating out girls is submissive. You are what you eat. If you, as a man, eat pussy, YOU ARE ONE.” I suppose I gotta eat dick to finally become a man? 😂 Serious answer: If she goes down on me I think it is only fair if I go down on her too. Personally, maybe it is because of P, but I am curious how she tastes and smells down there haha, so I would really like to go down on her at least once in my life lol. And descriptions are unfortunately not enough, I need to taste and smell for myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:36 PM
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I replied twice sorry. In my second answer is what I was thinking of. But I'll just say it here as well. I was thinking about Ottoman Empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:31 PM
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Ottoman Empire. Fun fact, ottomans never called themselves like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:23 AM
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I think you know the answer 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:20 AM
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28 I wonder if I will ever get my wizard status.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:13 AM
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Shall I make the same post, İ am a man 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:12 AM
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There is no perfect society, [...] There was, but especially Great Britain was very keen on taking it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:07 AM
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Secondly, it’s not that they don’t want average men, it’s that they prefer the above average. Why wouldn't a woman go for the man that she prefers? I didn't think through this, but at the first glance it seems to be more rational to go for the person you prefer, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:05 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:23 AM
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Well, ok, maybe i am speaking just for myself, but I'd like to stop seeing complaints. Admittedly I used to complain a lot myself but I stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:42 PM
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Hmmm I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:41 PM
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To be honest, I find the other critical as well. The hormonal change seems to influence the mental health quite heavily unfortunately in a negative way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:41 PM
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😁👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:21 PM
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"Nothing is wrong. Your complaints are invalid. You're such a belligerent nag." True story. But in my defence, most of the things sound like they could be solved by just leaving the past in the past so to speak. 😅 Then a therapist asks "well when was the last time you and your wife had a date night? (Years ago because he refuses) why do you throw your dirty clothes on the floor all over the house?" And they can't gaslight anymore. They've been brought into the light and they have to answer. Real…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:20 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:18 PM
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😁
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:18 PM
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I don't think it is fair to only blame men when it comes to sexualizing women. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:13 PM
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Are the women you could befriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:12 PM
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Relations
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:11 PM
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I think those were just used as memes. I don't think it was particularly meant to come over as aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:11 PM
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🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:10 PM
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I'd say pretty much, yeah. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:09 PM
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I wish we men would just accept women's standards and preferences. I know it can get lonely, but better to be lonely than to be with someone who hates your guts, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:08 PM
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I'd wish that no women would decide to become a man. I understand men who want to try and become women, but women becoming men? Please don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:06 PM
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I doubt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:01 PM
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I don't know man. You might be right, I give you that. I can only state my perspective. Talking give me the feeling that things will further escalate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:58 PM
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Haha no problem 😁😊
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:57 PM
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Ok I took it back lol. How do I sent a mod mail?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:56 PM
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lol :D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:09 PM
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I mostly see wives begging their husbands to go to therapy when something is wrong in the relationship and they refuse to address it. Usually divorce precursor. As a man that would honestly frighten me. Sounds like divorce is incoming and the therapist is going to further manifest divorce into my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:08 PM
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Also they’re not the one getting clicks it’s just street interviews and the camera is hidden Like in the reality TV shows? xD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:07 PM
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Wait I think I can give an award xD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:04 PM
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True lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:04 PM
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I can't wait :P
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:05 PM
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I think that is what he means. When men are supposed to "deal with their shit" by going to therapists, then women can also "deal with their own shit" by going to therapist instead of "making the partner a therapist". I agree with none of these, but that is supposedly the main narrative of people who get in and out of relationships all the time. I for once think that both partners are supposed to have each other's back and not just rudely say "I am not your therapist" or "go visit a therapist" as…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:47 AM
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Agreed. He should have said that she might loose attraction though. It certainly depends on the woman and how the man ends up "venting". If he ends up crying a lot I couldn't imagine women not loosing attraction. Though, I have no experience whatsoever either I just go by what I hear, see, witness and observe. I could be of course wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:42 AM
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Same with us men honestly. At some point it just becomes nothing but bitching about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:39 AM
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When are you guys going to sacrifice me mmmmmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:39 AM
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I don't even understand why Angelina Jolie was hyped up so much. I mean nothing against her or women who look like her but I had a lot of other celebrity crushes back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:38 AM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:34 AM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:28 AM
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Press X to doubt. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:19 AM
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[...] or reciprocating. This.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:19 AM
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This is nice. I just realized though that since I am a lazy tired piece of... I wouldn't expect any of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:18 AM
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I honestly don't know what needs to be done here. First of all, let me adress what I mean by expectations. Women in general, demand a man who makes as much or more than herself. <insert obligatory "I married a homeless ugly man and we are still together, strong and strive" replies> Demanding a man who makes just as much or even more is not bad. Everyone can have their preferences and standards. Women have also a very valid reason, which is the possibility of a pregnancy. Since women keep on oute…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:56 AM
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Many are pressured into accepting it. By evil parents, I guess. Am I the only one who has like competent parents? Mine aren't even rich and had a very rough childhood and even marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:50 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:48 AM
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Our gender roles are changing more and more in today’s society. That might be true but as long as expectations won't change nothing will change all together. It is like trying to bend a stiff stick, you cannot bend it forever it will break at one point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:45 AM
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I absolutely agree with you. But isn't that the truth afterall?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:32 AM
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Do you think old women want you? I do but they don't want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:31 AM
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True haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:29 AM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:29 AM
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I downvoted this comment. Can someone ban me please so I can stop seeing comments made by people who have bad personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:27 AM
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Unless he's okay with a meth head, and I don't think that's what they mean... Why would a "meth head" want to be with him lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:24 AM
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Nobody was saying "Someone they are attracted to" equals "Looks like Bradley Cooper"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:23 AM
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Him: What could a short, bald, dumpy guy say that would make you want to date him? You: Nothing Also you: The words that come out of men’s mouths are the number one cause of disinterest on my part. Is that personality? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:22 AM
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Not from the shit you guys think/say and your lack of friends, no. It is not personality, it is fame you're after, which is absolutely fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:20 AM
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Super sad but true. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:17 AM
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You are married. You get attention from your husband. Oh my God.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:13 AM
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I disagree. Especially given the fact that almost 50% of Twitter users are Bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:05 AM
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Man that is a lot of work lmao. Definitely not something I could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:04 AM
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her parents are both out of the country, dad is deadbeat (although he is very successful career wise) and mom working overseas. Looks like having a career works out quite amazingly, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:59 AM
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Just when I thought things cannot get worse, they did. Congrats to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:57 AM
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Well that is what happens when marriages are generally seen as evil by men AND women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:54 AM
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But also, if you try to say something even a tiny bit negative to a man, he's going to make that sad resentful face. We all make that face lol. It is normal I'd say. Sort of to be expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:53 AM
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My conclusion from this is that we men cannot even be sure that she finds us attractive even when she says so. Aka, men, we really need to be top 20% if not then we need to accept to live alone for the sake of others. Well, that is my personal take lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:52 AM
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I'd say it goes for both genders. In general being thin or somewhat "healthy" looking is more attractive than being fat or obese. To the other commenter, yeah people who are into fat obese might exist as well of course, but I wouldn't advise anyone to become fat lol. To the men, if you want to increase your chances (no guarantee for success though) become fit lol. I am saying this to myself as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:44 AM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:40 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:38 AM
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Quran is right about everything. The problem is, as long as we fight our biological imperatives given by Allah, we will keep on discussing and complaining about the male-female dynamics until we are all dead. After our death we will be more worried about the pain we might get for the bed seeds (deeds) we planted on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:37 AM
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Even though I see men complain about it so often, it’s so crazy to see them get so mad over what you said, “how dare women ever have a type”. And they always assume it’s the same type. Me personally, I like softer features, nerdier guys, glasses. Quiet, serious, intelligent enough to be interesting. Softer, feminine features and long hair are nice too. Clean and dependable. Never gave a shit about height, never ever heard one of my friends give a shit about height, didn’t know I was supposed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:33 AM
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As long as women keep validating these men nothing will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:32 AM
1

It is funny how we blame social media and at the same time take social media as perfect examples reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:30 AM
1

You gotta have the face
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:29 AM
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Guess they gotta step it up because now women expect men to put in some basic effort. We men ain't gotta do anything. The "I'd rather live alone" game takes two to tango. I’m talking clean your shit, maybe get a damned proper haircut, pluck your brows, skincare, lose weight etc. Can you please continue the list? I wonder how long the list gets when you aren't: [...] chiseled jawed 7 ft chad with the Arnold muscles [...] rugged abs Also The dudes who are presumptuous about “what women want” witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:19 AM
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Sounds good if you put it like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:18 AM
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While a bald guy apparently has to be Dwayne the rock Johnson and even then that only makes him "unconventionally attractive" XD It is as it is haha 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:17 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:12 AM
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They also have a lot of money and are celebrities lmao. There’s this obese guy on TikTok that goes around asking women on the street “would you date me if I was skinny” and they all say “I would date you now” and the comments are all full of women saying that women accept fat men but the reverse is never true. I have seen women crawling on the floor in public like dogs just to get clicks... not sure how trustworthy these videos are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:06 AM
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Kim K is armenian and she heavily influences American politics by, well, let's say she builds a lot of contact to lobbyists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:03 AM
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I sometimes see men and wonder why they don’t fix very basic “problems” but then complain about dating If I only had the money...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:01 AM
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In that case it truly is over. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:00 AM
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They don't remember the days where you had to court a woman by being cute and wholesome and then marry her even though she's disgusted by the thought of having sex with you. Neither do women, do they? He needs to be: <insert laundry list of conditions> And they don't want to spend money on women unless they are OnlyFans models who post naked pics every day. From my religious perspective, it is wrong to support this behavior, but I also cannot blame these men because they get at least something f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:50 AM
1

r/womenboners or something exists as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:49 AM
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Where do they find all that money from? If I had money I'd fix my teeth but I bearly get along, not that I am complaining, just my observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:46 AM
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Sometimes people post unrelated stuff. For example, in a deepthroat or facefucking thread there are a lot of posts which are just normal vanilla blowjobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:41 AM
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You guys cry all the time about not having mainstream appeal, that being attractive to a smaller subset of women who like your unconventional looks isn’t enough. If only such a woman would exist. 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:37 AM
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You guys cry all the time about not having mainstream appeal, that being attractive to a smaller subset of women who like your unconventional looks isn’t enough. If only such a woman would exist. 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:35 AM
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Sounds a lot like men, doesn’t it? So do you want to be like those women who obsess over expectations the mainstream ideal or do you want to be a little healthier about things? I just want to be left in peace lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:32 AM
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You get more satisfaction in thinking you’re universally reviled so you can quit your game early than doing the harder work of making what you’ve got work for you. Working for something without a more or less guaranteed output seems to be stupid from my point of view. Relationships don't have "put X in get Y" algorithm. Counterexample, studying for an exam. You learn subjects X, Y and Z and successful pass the exam.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:28 AM
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Maybe you both are an exceptional couple. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:25 AM
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Nah, I'll just wait until women do that lol. Afterall, there is onlyfans, Instagram, tiktok and several gonewild subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:13 AM
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Must have been me lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:10 AM
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Sad but true. As a man when I joined this forums I used to believe that my fellow men seek serious relationships. Later on I realized that few crave a serious relationship and the majority just complains about not doing what Chad does. When I first read about the complaint about "Chad", I thought people were complaining about Chad's behavior with women, treating them like condoms, thrown away when used. Unfortunately I was wrong lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:36 PM
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Ok some variety is there. Most are thing or "busty" though, I see in general three categories trending Petite/"Teenage" Big Boobs Bug Ass
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:33 PM
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Most likely the man will initiate stuff until he feels like it is over lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:29 PM
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People are quite hypocritical on here if I may say so. It is already weird enough that hooking up is cherished and marrying is frowned upon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:27 PM
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Agreed. Offtopic, but İ am quite annoyed that words get twisted and loose their meaning. It annoys me that "husband (material)" is painted in a bad light, just like "settling" is. With settling I understand to find a partner, settle down, build a family, like building a settlement lol. Seems to be a fun thing to do tbh. I dislike that certain words got brutally bastardized.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:23 PM
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I want to be a husband so yes I want to be husband material. Ideally, I'd also like to be my wife's hottest encounter but hey, can't expect too much on this world lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:21 PM
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Doesn't sound like a "sexual compatibility" issue but more a "I rather watch porn" issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:11 AM
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Personally, as much as I can until my penis gives up lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:10 AM
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No, men and women don't have the same sex drives. In general it takes more for a woman to be attracted to and want sex whereas for a man it is almost enough that she "just" exists. Same sex drives wouldn't explain the difference in standards and preferences men and women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:09 AM
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Why do we men complain about women having high standards and about women beta buxxing men? I mean, if I understand it correctly, we want women to love us for who we are right? We want women to get together with us for who we are, right? Shouldn't we then support women having preferences and standards whatever they are, because if we push women to lower their standards they will end up beta buxxing aka not loving her husband, secretly or even openly despising him and feeling hatred for him even t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:42 PM
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Unfortunately yes. (to some women). I think they honestly have been partly brainwashed to make their hubbies become cuckolds to giive specific men also access to even married women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:37 PM
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Thanks🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:36 PM
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Giant implants are still dominant though. Like every porn star out there is getting implants. Some also get face surgery. I still remember seeing the likes of Adriana Chechik, Riley Reid, Lela Star, Aletta Ocean, Lexi Luna, Luna Star, Victoria June and Emily Addison (I had the biggest crush on her during her Twistys-Arc) for the first time. As time went on all of them did go for surgeries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:32 PM
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Why is porn body positive for women? All I am looking at are big boobed, big assed, slim, fit women. I could imagine that porn causes insecurities in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:28 PM
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No problem 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:53 AM
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Hey, give credit to the women on here as well. 😁 Not only on this sub though. I talked to several people on other subs as well, long deleted or banned subs, men and women. The biggest issue is the situation I am in. Having an almost lifelong dream not being fulfilled whereas other people get what you dreamed of easily and even take that for granted. It is a little bit frustrating honestly. Doesn't help that this dream is one of my main motivators as well. But the motivation only works if the dre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:48 AM
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No, the OP specified that the partner would be picked up accordingly to your tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:46 AM
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She is being picked according to my tastes. Why wouldn't I love her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:45 AM
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She is not just randomly assigned. She is picked to his tastes. She is going to be an optimal mate so to say. That was the condition in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:44 AM
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There seems to be an inherent difference here between women and men. Generally it seems like women like to pick their partner, even if she is guaranteed that the partner who will be picked for her is optimal. Generally it seems like men like their partner to be picked for them, if it is guaranteed that she will be optimal for him. Interestingly, the dating world seems to be inverse to this in which the majority of men are expected to purse and majority of women are expected to be pursued.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:43 AM
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Caring for what your partner is up to is not insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:34 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:32 AM
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What sexual issues? Can you name examples please?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:27 AM
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I thought about this. First of all, it would take a lot of work, money and effort to become "passable". That fact alone would make me go for people who are higher on the ladder so to speak. If I go for men then I'd most likely go for those with interesting jawlines, manly faces, muscular bodies and optional big penises lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:24 AM
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There's never talk of making sublime art, or delving into sciences that could improve the lives of your fellow people, or serving your community, or even pondering the spiritual. Y'know - actually meaningful things. Even doing meaningful things don't necessarily give satisfaction. Sometimes even meaningful things need to be done by forcing oneself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:19 AM
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Where are your passions[...]? In the grave. I buried them with the help of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:16 AM
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Lots of guys here only have passion for getting laid. This is so unattractive. I will have to accept this. 🤷🏻‍♂️🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:14 AM
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I approve haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:12 AM
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All I said was that a certain percentage of men prefer masturbating to porn to trying to have sex with a real woman That certain percentage seems to be men who cannot get laid. Couldn't it also be that these men just didn't find anyone compatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:09 AM
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What you’re describing is the defeatist mindset I’m talking about. No one can half ass anything and expect great results. I just can’t stand how much of the dating conversation are centred around apps as if that’s the only way to socialise. It just signals to me a lack of willingness to inconvenience yourself. Most women aren’t even on apps Could we say that dating is not equal? I mean women expect to be approached and men are expected to approach, this is certainly far from equality, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:58 AM
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Accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:56 AM
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There is nothing to enjoy in this life. Well, personally there is one thing for me but if I cannot get that 🤷🏻‍♂️... even if I don't have any motivation to do so I have to focus on other things which I don't enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:54 AM
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Except preselection is bullshit. It’s like saying people only like Krispy Kreme because they see other people eating it. Nah, they like that shit cause it taste damn good. Coca Cola is unhealthy yet it is still being consumed by a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:49 AM
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The reason some men struggle to find a partner is nothing to do with their horrible personality but because they don’t look like Chad. That’s much more palatable, isn’t it. It makes sense because even people with bad personalities get relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:47 AM
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I don't think that the touch of a real women will ever be done accurately in a virtual world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:40 AM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:33 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:31 AM
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I am all for mommy bangmaid whatever lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:30 AM
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Lmao accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:23 AM
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That's big copium if you ask me. Having to change superficial stuff about yourself to get people to like who you are as a person. Oof. A lot of women feel forced to change their looks because of TV, ads and social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:19 AM
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That's what it is like, especially when you have had your genitals mutilated like so many of us. Bruh. I am happy with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:03 AM
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I can't seem to find anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:00 AM
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Sometimes it really just seems like men do not like women. Huh, what? You guys won't turn this around on me. I started the whole Women do not like men thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:56 AM
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Nice theory. It has a nasty underlying tone though. Every man who is single or cannot get laid is a porn addict now? This is just another variation of virgins = incels = misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:46 AM
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I don’t believe that the “33%” number has anything to do with womens standards. I could just as easily say that it’s the men that don’t go outside and spend all their time watching porn and playing video games. Easy quick fix There is a difference between both assumptions. Assuming that women having high standards implicated that women in general are not desperate thus they pick with whom they actually want to be together which could be seen as a positive to be honest. Whereas the assumption tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:25 AM
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So do we want them to have high standards? Or do we want them to be sluts enough to keep every man happy? Personally, I prefer them to have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:23 AM
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I like the honesty lol. If your options are go out to a bar and face rejection and maybe success or a night of gaming and porn admit it a lot of that 30% choose the gaming and porn. We cannot know what these 30% do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:21 AM
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I just need to hear an answer to my question, that is why I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:09 AM
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Apparently telling someone to "stop dating" is telling them to "become gay" in this day and age? What a fucked up world we live in. My issue was the word "women" when you said "stop dating women". If you had said "stop dating" I would have understood it as "stop dating alltogether", but "stop dating women" lead me to think that "dating men" might turn my chances up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:59 AM
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What if it is not my "self-esteem" and "self-hatred" issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:54 AM
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No motivation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:54 AM
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then u have poor self esteem. What if is not my "poor self esteem" but the brutal truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:53 AM
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Pretty solid answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:51 AM
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This might be weird but I honestly don't know what I enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:47 AM
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Maybe they just didn't find the right one :D I honestly don't know though. But even if those relationships are unhealthy, how can they get into another relatinoship so quickly? There must be a secret ingredient somewhere! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:45 AM
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I agree that that is a privelege in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:44 AM
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What if every woman is out of my league?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:41 AM
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Then stop trying to date women. Who else is he going to date if not women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:37 AM
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I suppose they posses "one easy trick" to get a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:36 AM
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I must have misread it lol. I thought the numbers were switched xD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:35 AM
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I think it is testosterone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:33 AM
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Men make fun of single women and their cats but they will literally self destruct if they cant get a woman? This made me laugh lol. Sad but true, I'd say. There are so many things outside of the pursuit of women The only time I was really motivated to study was when I was studying with a female study partner. Other than that I have to literally force myself to do anything, it is tedious, difficult and tiresome. I am trying to accept it though. [...] go to therapy. Make therapy a hobby xD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:26 AM
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There is no "one easy trick" to getting a partner. Learn and play the game. What about those men and women who jump from one relationship into another effortlessly within days?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:20 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:17 AM
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Observations of this forum and similar ones. If a man makes a post generally disagreeing with women then he will be labeled a virgin or incel whether or not he actually is a virgin or an incel. For some reason, words such as virgin/incel or even small-dick have negative connotations to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:16 AM
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A likely possibility indeed :D
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:15 AM
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Not his fault in my opinion. He is just stating observations which I also made.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:11 AM
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The issue is that OLD ≠ reality. I disagree, because apparently nowadays most couples meet on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:04 AM
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You’re the ones that created the “80/20” narrative which doesn’t reflect reality in any substantial sense. OkCupid's infamous stat and Pareto principle gave birth to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:03 AM
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True. I think the issue is that women already always think of a man they are attracted to or imagine themselves being already together with, even if men ask what women would find attractive in men if they met the men literally for the first time ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:00 AM
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On PPD, women are honest and get called a liar, get called names, told they have no empathy and want ugly men to FOAD, blah, blah, blah. No matter what women say, as a rule of thumb, there will be always a man who will call her a liar lol, like literally. I have seen this happening way too often now on these forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:57 PM
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Guys, do you actually believe the hateful rhetoric wouldn't be as bad if women were more honest with us? If so, in what way? Yes, I believe that but there is a condition. I am 28 so it was way harder for me to accept and swallow the bitter truth. My hope is that if boys get taught this during puberty they might be more likely to either accept defeat to focus on rather accomplishable things or work on improving themselves the best way possible to attract a woman. Eh, I'm starting to have doubts a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:56 PM
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I suppose it could be like masturbating or watching porn. During the heat of the moment it feels good and sexy but after it you're being washed over with guilt and bad feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:50 PM
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Most places that are hotbeds of STI spread are states (in the US) that teach abstinence only education instead of prevention and retirement communities with boomers. Plenty of young people taking PrEp, getting tested, and using protection. How can we categorize the monkeypox virus? Pair bonding doesn't exist in humans. It's a behavior exclusive to parrots and a few other creatures. I unfortunately forgot the source but I had seen stats on humans which showed a correlation between the amount of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:47 PM
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Personally, I see it like masturbation and consuming porn. It is fun in the heat of the moment I suppose, but after it, I think I'd barely be able to handle the guilt and bad feelings. For me the best option seems to be having a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:46 PM
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I really hope you change your mind about no sex before marriage. I can tell you that an incompatibility in the expression of, timing of, or any other of, sex will KILL a marriage. PLEASE make sure you at least start out compatible in this critical area. Thank you for your tip. Though I hope to die on this no sex before marriage hill, no matter how my life turns out to be. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:44 PM
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You might be correct. I noticed myself that I often misinterpret sentences. For example the word "settling". I alwas used to believe that "settling" is good, like building a settlement from scratch haha, but turns out people use it rather in a negative sense, like getting together with someone not because you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:30 PM
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“Pair bonding ability” is not a real thing (at least not for humans). It’s just another bs way to shame women who aren’t virgins. I am not sure if it is meant to shame. I rather see it just as stats, an observation if you want. It is arguable that I rely on "pair-bonding" beacuse it suits my view, I give you that. But so do I get attacked for supporting no sex before marriage. I think all in all, it is fair play.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:28 PM
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This sub's men. I can't see what you wrote since it got deleted, but I relate to you. I also got heavily weird feelings by this sub's women. I suppose it really swings on both ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:23 PM
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So you think women are getting married, just to divorce and get money? Quite the long con. If the laws are appropriate for this then yes, there will be women who will take advantage. You could see this happening in Turkey with the "Istanbul Agreement" after around 2012-ish or smth. The divorce rates peaked because women who divorced had to be paid for by their ex-husbands their whole lifelong. That is also one of the biggest reasons why Turkey retreated from the "Istanbul Agreement".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:21 PM
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Socially awkward virgin ‘I’-words who need marriage to have sex? Here we go again. Also, I guess in the pass and even today every male who married is a virgin or an 'I'-word, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:15 PM
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This mentality of "they didn't want me at my worse, so now they are not going to have me at my best" is going to hurt you in the long run because you are approaching women with resentment and general mistrust on the background and you are punishing current women who have nothing to do with the previous women you've encountered in your life that didn't give you a chance. The way he worded it, I understood it as that he won't put women "on pedestal" anymore so to speak. Like, he will just do what …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:11 PM
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Oh, there are plenty. It is just my feeling, but I don't think that there are plenty of women like that out there. Just like there aren't plenty of men out there who would be her equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:09 PM
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Rare and wholesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:06 PM
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For principally romantic men how did you manage to protect your values on sex and romance in the face of hook up culture? Religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:03 PM
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There are multiple factors which come to play here. For example there are people who just want to paint certain religion in a bad light, so that the women who follows this religion start for example undress themselves and go for casual sex. There are people who believe these false stereotypes and keep pushing believing that they are actually helping. If you want to take over another country, it is helpful to destabilize their strongest pillar which sometimes is religion. I think Churchill has so…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:56 PM
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I suppose everyone sees it differently. For me it is no fun. I didn't necessarily sleep around, but ended up sexting with others, which is not necessarily the same but I suppose close to it, it is just missing the "touching" factor so to say. From my emotional point of view I see it like masturbartion or porn. It feels good in the heat of the moment and one craves it a lot it is insane, but it also leaves scars and feelings of guilt. Casual sex(ting) becomes something like changing a piece of un…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:58 PM
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As far as I know, there are negative factors in sleeping around, like catching STDs, or sabotaging your own pair bonding ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:49 PM
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It is debatable to call "sleeping around" as "having fun".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:48 AM
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Nice one! 😁 Was trying to think of a reply as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:21 AM
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Probably because I tagged along lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:18 AM
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I agree that if the men who are popular with women stuck to one woman, the chance for other men would probably increase. So, yeah, not cheating, sticking to one partner seems to be the most beneficial for society. But with the consumerism mindset that we were programmed to become since the early 20th century, most just think about how they themselves can "win the most" without caring about how others feel.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 10:52 PM
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😁 It could be possible, I am not sure. My grandparents are pretty much from the outskirts of Antalya so to say, but apparently we also have ancestors quite far in the east in Van. They once contacted us with a letter written in Ottoman letters. Was awesome, unfortunately we couldn't reach back :( basically still on the search. Also, we couldn't read that letter which is sad, we had to go to someone who knows how to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:04 PM
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Like @huhwhatokok said.😁 It also raised my curiosity and I made some research, so one fun fact is that before Islam came and the rule about maximum 4 wives, Arabs used to have 10 or even more wives. Meaning, that with Islam the number was brought down from a much higher scale to maximum 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:02 PM
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Yeap lol. xD Well, maybe rather slimey than creamy tbh. Creamy reminds like of the cream that floats atop when I boil fresh milk. Is that called cream? If it is then yeah, it is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:39 PM
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I am used to the turkish abbreviation for Sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:38 PM
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Same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:35 PM
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Fully agreed with the first paragraph. Not so sure about the second paragraph. What is awful is making children believe that they need to change their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:33 PM
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Salty and creamy... I asked a friend.... ugh... runs away
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:32 PM
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I am the minority and I know and am aware of that but the only "serious relationship" that exists for me is wife/husband and none of that girlfriend/boyfriend stuff. Girlfriend/boyfriend feels like it is almost there but not quite yet. Marriage makes everything official with witnesses and all. People know you're a couple and that you belong to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:26 PM
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A friend of mine, who is also fat, made a analogy which stuck with me. Being fat is like carrying two big sacks of concrete with you all the time everywhere you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:20 PM
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I don't know what is going on here but felt the need to make some general statements. I am not judging anyone here, just trying to tell what has been taught to us by the Quran and the Prophet Muhammed (sav): Zina (for example sleeping around/hooking up/casual sex) is a sin. Basic rule of thumb is no sex before marriage and going for only one wife. A muslim wife can only marry a muslim man. A muslim man can marry a woman from the Abrahamic religion like Christians or Jews, BUT that woman literall…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:14 PM
1

Lmao, but who asked lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:10 PM
1

I cry too sometimes and try to hide it lol. I don't know if my dad accidentally instilled any insecurities in me, might be possible, but he did give me valuable lessons. I think the "boys don't cry" thing actually strenghthened me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:58 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:54 PM
2

What does "middowed" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:52 PM
1

There is always something new to learn xD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:51 PM
8

Men and women both send the most messages to people about 25 percent more desirable than themselves and almost noone responds below themselves...look at that, we are both hypergamous once what we value is factored for. I am glad this is cleared once and for all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:41 PM
5

Unlikely, that is a lot of messages. I can imagine it getting very tiresome very quick. "Hi, how are you?" "Hi, I am ..." "Hi, ...." :D I mean honestly, not blaming anyone here, there are only so many variations of a greeting :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:38 PM
0

A 20yr old man and a 38 yr old woman have about the same desirability. Aha!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:37 PM
1

ARGH! ok fair play.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:30 PM
1

Well, maybe it is normal or expected I have no idea, like I saw him kind of having to drive over every night bringing flowers or something. And then there were mixed feelings as well, like does she actually love me or not. It was a difficult period honestly. I don't know how well I could have handled those things. I honestly wish that if I should ever marry that there is a somewhat "easy" way lol. As far as I can tell, my brother's side helped of course as well but the bride's side organized a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:26 PM
1

My dad, too haha. I remember something like "men don't cry" or "boys don't cry", because I really used to cry a lot because my brother made me so freaking angry lmao. He (my brother) also always acted like he didn't know what he did :D Love my brother haha :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:23 PM
4

First! A question to get things started: What is a parasocial relationsip?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:15 PM
1

As long as we are married absolutely yes. If we are not married then it will be very difficult for me to rationalize holding out for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:09 PM
1

Do you live somewhere where forced marriages are normal or something? No, no that is not what I meant to say :D Despite my countless complaints in the past, which hopefully truly are in the past now because complaining doesn't accomplish anything in my opinion, I still have hope that miracally I might meet someone and we get along and marriage comes up. I wanted to say that I know how encounter such a situation where marriage should suddenly come up. I have a one major argument in my mind which …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:05 PM
1

Witnessing my brother marrying makes me glad for him but also glad that I am not the one marrying. Oh boi, all the things you got to do and take care of... I could at best only do a fraction of what my brother is doing and going through. Respects to him and I am happy for him. For me, even though I wanted to marry and have a wife since I was like about 10, I think I have to pass up on marriage. I already figured a way out on how to avoid marriage. I am just curious if my plan will work out until…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:28 AM
3

True lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:16 AM
0

I am afraid to ask but what is BTS?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:13 AM
1

What about the stereotype that black men have long schlongs? Surely some black men, especially those who do have long schlongs profit of this stereotype whereas those who don't have long schlongs suffer because of expectations not being met.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:12 AM
1

The difference being? 😅🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:17 AM
1

You know what, i think i had misunderstanding 😅. That sounds fun. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:04 AM
1

Thanks 😅 Are you young or in a city that just has a very non marriage attitude? Or possibly have OLD for your religion specifically? I thought about it and I think that I am simply financially not ready. It is tough to accept though. Thank you! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:59 AM
4

Either reason is super demotivating tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:46 AM
3

No sex before marriage. If the majority would employ this rule, especially women, since women are the ones with options, things would start spinning back into an alright direction. Also, no cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:41 AM
13

Guys are getting tired of dating and going for porn instead , waiting for sex robots to get perfected so they can marry a sex toy. "Why?" needs to be addressed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:40 AM
2

Call It What You Want The only fantasy I'll need is my wife and thankfully there are women out there whose only fantasy will be their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:29 AM
5

You mean to tell me that you’re willing to refuse retreating to Fantasyland even once after you get married? I am not OP but since I am trying to stop watching porn for the rest of my life and stop masturbating for the rest of my life my answer is absolutely yes! I don't need to fantasize because my wife will be right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:25 AM
1

You know there are also women out there who are devoted to their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:22 AM
1

I agree with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:21 AM
5

He did not say that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:16 AM
0

Men don't cry! 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:15 AM
1

It would be better to develop a method which does include any surgery or medical treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:07 AM
4

That should be telling men something about the quality of men available. That just tells me that women are not attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:06 AM
2

I sure do wish they'd pool their money and buy an island and go have a MGTOW paradise and leave the rest of us the fuck alone though. Eppstein.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:03 AM
4

Women date him though. He had had hookups and I guess he can have them again if he wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:00 AM
0

Wow...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:58 AM
2

N-count is just a preference I thought. Everyone can have whatever preference or standard they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:44 PM
10

And even that can backfire heavily.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:42 PM
1

My experience is very different. In my experience finding or getting a wife is quite a hassle xD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:39 PM
2

Thanks! :D In before these are just my standards or preferences. There are surely men out there, great men out there who have different standards and preferences. Just answering because I was asked. Are you looking for a religious women or have you broadened your scope to farther than that? Yeah, I do look for a religious woman as well, because of my religion. I basically cannot marry someone who is not of same religion. It makes sense to me as well, because as soon as we have kids, I am open to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:38 PM
1

Say no more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:23 PM
2

I think you accidentally a word or something. You did, too. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:10 PM
1

The wife see's him daily and see's his weaknesses. Add to that most traits women are attracted to aren't exactly respected/admired by the world world and the scenario of your friend can be a quite common. No, women only get turned off or lose attraction when the man becomes a "pussy" so to speak. I think women miscommunicated when they said they like emotional men. They probably mean rather men who can openly and calmly speak and express their emotions and their feelings. But I can imagine that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:07 PM
1

Wait a second that seems like a different question. I understood the question in the sense of. Would you rather be respected by everyone except your wife or everyone hates you and only your wife loves you? Ok, it is the same question lol. But with that explanation you made... since I am already married in that situation I would try to work it out somehow, patience, love etc, it is very very difficult I know, but it can be worth it. You need to be like a stone when it comes to her provocating you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:05 PM
1

What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:59 PM
1

I am not being asked, but yes, I fully believe that. I am so angry and frustrated at the a) replies. Ugh!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:58 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:55 PM
1

dafuq? why? why not b)?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:55 PM
1

b) The replies make me infirious. I am raging. What is going on? When you are single, even virgin, the most important people in your life are your close relatives, like, mom, dad, siblings. Once you are married, the most important person in your life is your wife! She has the highest priority, even higher than your own parents. Ok, only the first few comments were a).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:55 PM
1

As far as I can tell she is the provider. She has the pants on. She dictates the pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:51 PM
1

There surely are. There must be,
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:51 PM
1

Not the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:50 PM
1

I have no idea what is going on, but to be fair, it seems like he is doing his stay-at-home part not very well? Other than that, the second paragraph is something like 90% of male population goes through, except for the rich ones. There are men who even kill themselves because of the worry that they cannot provide anymore for their family because of external circumstances. It is quite a big shame for men. I don't think I'm asking for too much from my husband to step it up a little and help me ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:45 PM
1

I agree with all except for number 1. Number 6 is at utmost importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:36 PM
11

Wow! Thank you for sharing this! Gave me a peace of mind honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:54 PM
4

A secret told to another person is no secret at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:49 PM
1

I sure as shit hope that is not being taught in schools. You never know :D Things are pretty "advanced" in Germany lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:33 PM
3

First of all, I need to make a general statement. Everyone is different. Just because it would affect me negatively, doesn't mean that it would affect everyone else positively. Had to make this general statement to avoid general misunderstanding. Now back to the actual question: In my personal case, since I was very young, like about 10 years old, my biggest dream was having a girlfriend/wife and treating her and loving her well, at least better than the boys and men I see treat their girlfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:32 PM
1

What is "more"? But wait, when I need more than attraction, then I need to put in even more work? Not that I put in any work at all lol just curious though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:17 PM
1

FU*K
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:16 PM
1

I don't know. You might be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:00 AM
0

I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:57 AM
2

That said, it's possible that after learning the ropes with the first girl or two he can go on to be a "great lover" who "just gets it" with the next one. So, every women is the same afterall?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:13 AM
2

Nowadays we're being taught about sex in school as young as 10 years old or even younger. I think I got my first sex lesson, sorry sexual education lesson when I was about 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:10 AM
1

So true lmao. I honestly wanted to point out the same thing but just couldn't think of a diplomatic way. So, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:08 AM
10

Fully agreed. Issue: A lot of men need to change so that this option becomes viable. But I am ready to sacrific myself for the greater good lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:06 AM
2

Blasphemy! Just kidding I believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:05 AM
2

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:01 AM
5

I find many men attractive, [...]. Blasphemy! Just kidding, I believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:00 AM
1

Or maybe they don't date where they shit or how was that saying, I forgot. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:59 AM
1

New York (the downstate urban areas) has a very heavily skewed female population. Isn't New York an expensive place to live? I guess most women are richer than men then? Restaurants typically have way more female employees than male, [...] Wouldn't advice to randomly hit on waiters lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:58 AM
1

Asking for a friend, eh? Well, I am also curious about it.... beause of a friend :D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:57 AM
5

I truly wonder how many men think like me for example and dreamed about only sticking to one woman since a very early age. As far as I am aware, men are naturally more prone to sleep with 1 or more partners. I really wonder about the rates. How many men would really go with more than 1 partner if they had options and how many would just choose 1 and stick with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:55 AM
1

The primary cause of a mans success in the dating market could actually be attributed to personality. This is honestly a good point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:53 AM
1

The whole reason a lot of women are selective on dating apps is because they already have too many options and need to come up with a way to narrow them down, as they can’t just talk to and meet up with everyone that meets their standards. DoN't UsE dAtInG ApPs, yOu'D HaVe bEtTeR LuCk OuTsIdE oF DaTiNg ApPs. I wonder why "don't use dating apps" doesn't apply to women here. Questions we'll probably never get an answer for but still worth asking. I love mysterious questions and thrillers. Somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:52 AM
1

I honestly cannot properly imagine what would happen on a large scale. I can only imagine what would happen to me. I'd probably become less religious which is a huge negative for me. So, being still a virgin is actually an upside in my case, it is hard to believe, I know, but trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:50 AM
1

I was perfectly happy before my husband and while I love him very much, I also am way more exhausted, stressed, and just have to do more for him, his family, our house, etc. while he has had an overall quality of life improvement in having someone who hates mess and cooks food living with him. Omg. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:43 AM
1

I would advise all men here to become muslim lol. Bro, if you make it into paradise you don't have to deal with women who hate all men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:41 AM
1

Is there a version for man? I'd like to try and see my chances. Lol, I tried it there nonetheless. I got: According to statistical data, the probability a guy of the U.S. male population ages 28 to 40 meets your standards is 100.0% Should I turn gay? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:34 AM
4

By acknowledging women have been restricted and bought/sold as properly in the past, means they are now equal with men and their choosing not to be with certain men cause their just not good enough. This heavily depends from geographical location. It hasn't been the same everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:33 AM
4

Yeah basically what is happening now is that women can now choose whether to be with a man or not and many women are perfectly happy to be alone than to settle. Doesn't this show that women simply aren't attracted to men as much as men are attracted to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:31 AM
3

The rule of thumb is "666" bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:15 AM
2

As far as I can tell, no money no marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:01 PM
6

It never came to my mind that they were simply too big and had to watch out to not go in fully, especially when I saw scenes where the clapping happened quite heavily, which was surprisingly rare though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:19 PM
2

However it is, I don't think we have any say to impose what we think is right onto her. We can talk in another thread about the pros and cons of marriage or hookups. In fact there is a thread called "pros and cons of marriage".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:17 PM
1

True, now I remember one of our swimming lessons in school. I did my best to hide my penis. Always changed my underwear and swimming gear by covering my crotch area with the towel. Much loves to my mom for giving me that idea. One of the guys was shamed for apparently having a small one, it makes me sad nowadays that I was such a coward back then not stepping in/up. The biggest issue I see here is that it was such a ridiculous claim, because he probably wasn't even hard (I didn't look so I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:43 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:31 PM
1

The sad truth is that, unlike for women, just existing is not enough to be considered attractive as a man. Well, women also have to like fiddle around for hours with makeup, get some fancy clothes and such. It is not exactly 0 effort imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:29 PM
1

If I remember right, porn usually presents curved penises. I don't know if they do it intentionally or if it just happens that the actors usually are curved. It made me insecure about my straight penis to be honest. What also makes me insecure is that the actors' penises usually flip onto their stomach while being hard, mine just points straight up in the air like a rocket ship ready for take off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:23 PM
6

Uncalled for comment. Who is shaming small dicked men now? Other men or women? Reading your reply here I suppose the women were right that we men truly focus much more and shame much more small dicked men than women do. Your comment is proof enough for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:18 PM
3

No, it is not. Also, hooking up and possibly catching STDs or an unwanted pregnancy is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:15 PM
3

Your scheduled 69420th n count thread will be here shortly. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:13 PM
2

She could know by gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:12 PM
1

So long as he's able to penetrate I doubt there is one, by the time it's seen she's unlikely to just leave because it isn't the exact length she wants. I will assume this applies to most. Just wanted to point out that there are apparently also cases, even if rare, that she ditches once she sees his penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:11 PM
3

But porn has told us that anything less that 6 inches is not enough. Stop watching porn. I doubt I will ever be able to get it out of my head fully. I am abstaining and on day 2. I pretty much talked myself into believing that 6 inches are pretty much minimum. Anything below that, which i am, I can consider myself very lucky if she doesn't loose attraction when she sees my penis for the first time. If she does loose attraction because of the size of my penis then I was at least prepared and can …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:03 PM
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Ohhhhhhhh, I was wondering why the male actors usually never made it clap in those scenes, because honestly that clapping turns me on a lot. Finally there is an explanation for it. I usually only could find that clapping in really amateur scenes, but I do like the clinically, re-edited, maybe even photoshopped high quality camera scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:58 PM
1

Well, I’ve never really understood this cause how does she know your dick size prior to sexy time. Rumors. Spreading the word. Unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:56 PM
6

I wouldn't show my wife on social media exposing her to millions of strangers gawking over her. No, thanks. That is what marriage is for. In marriage there are enough witnesses to see that her and me are together and paired up. Admittedly I am not hot lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:31 AM
-2

In their defense, women probably bother with putting on make up and whatnot to take those pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:27 AM
2

For me 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:23 AM
1

I am gonna speak personally. My background is different than most men here and I was taught properly what these parties actually are about. So, if I managed to stay away from these parties, why didn't women managed to stay away from these parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:58 PM
4

Reading the replies makes me super depressive and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:48 PM
1

I remember reading both comments in their original threads 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:02 PM
5

Monogamy is rather simple. You just stick and have sex with one partner, namely your husband/wife. I know polyamorous couples that will go on monogamous breaks, etc. Sounds more like an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:50 PM
10

The truth is sex is important and it isn’t. Schrödinger's Sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:47 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:19 PM
2

Accurate description
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:15 PM
1

1) That is certainly not possible lol. 2.) I thought women don't go to gyms or hobbies to meet men. 3.) See number two. 4.) See number two.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:02 PM
1

Even if I went outside with the purpose of meeting a woman, what do I do? Just stand randomly somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:46 PM
2

People also misapply Islam and terrorists, or Israel and peaceful, or Buddhism and peaceful. There is a lot of misapplication going on leading to unnecessary hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:28 PM
1

All incels are virgin Not all virgins are incel Whenever the term "incel" is being used, the term "virgin" can be replaced with it facing no problems. Whenever the term "virgin" is used, the term "incel" cannot be used without problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:23 PM
1

All incels are virgin Not all virgins are incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:19 PM
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