Daily Community Chat Megathread

dysonRing · 2022-10-19T05:35:14+00:00

Got an Ukraine scammer annoying me they are barking up the wrong tree by sending me selfies of a 8/10 thinking I would lose all reason

nothatyoucare · 2022-10-19T01:44:34+00:00

Baumeister to the rescue again to teach these ignorant fools the substance behind the lock and key analogy.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-19T00:09:29+00:00

this is probably very typical for a man but I detest shopping for clothes. I hate that shit so much.

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-10-18T23:45:44+00:00

My workout leggings had a semi large rip in them on the side and my thong was almost revealed while doing squats jesus christ I cannot catch a break

Willow-girl · 2022-10-18T23:38:11+00:00

The sibling bond ... Imgur

Merlin and Aggie, almost 1 year old.

HazyMemory7 · 2022-10-18T23:23:32+00:00

u/LilLeeLoo why did you report this post as threatening violence at someone?

Please do not abuse the report function. It's not a toy for you to weaponize with false reports. That includes reporting people's subjective opinions as "misinformation" too. Jesus christ man.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-10-18T23:18:35+00:00

Lifeprotip (for the fellas)

Hit on women in exclusive areas instead of places the general public can attend with no effort.

For example: instead of approaching a gym honey at your hole in the wall $20 per month gym, get a membership to one of those $120+ membership gyms. Women there will be more receptive because the perceived higher status of the population there.

Example2: The ski resort. It costs $1000 for a season pass or $120 for a day pass so really only cool people get to go. So just by being there you already show you are cool and they are more receptive.

Sign up for boat parties and shit that not anyone can just attend and you'll have better luck.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-18T23:10:43+00:00

Rate this mans voice and the add I guess

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=tAGQZZMfLjg

tinasnow-poty · 2022-10-18T16:25:41+00:00

So sad for many reasons but a reminder why putting your financial health in someone else’s hands is the worst thing you can do. Even if you’re a SAHP having absolutely zero idea about your family’s finances is brain dead.

The updates are a nice reminder that despite all our differences and arguments we tend to help each other in times of need. All the strangers chipping in for the kids Christmas presents 🥹

https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/y6rscf/my_husband_was_killed_in_a_car_accident_and_i/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

gastongang · 2022-10-18T16:54:24+00:00

the more stuff I read on the red pill sidebar the more I realize that all the red pill-specific stuff goes beyond Evo psych, basic self-help, and social psychology. It's all geared toward dealing with a specific brand of women who never emotionally matured past being a teenager, sure you can argue that women in general don't mature past their teenage years due to societal conditioning, and thus they develop the entitlement complex a lot of dudes complain about
but either way it doesn't change the fact that some of that red pill shit you gotta throw away when you are talking to a women with some actual brain cells

-mixedsignals · 2022-10-18T16:01:17+00:00

Before the internet I thought that the default was masturbating with your imagination

Are there actually people who need to watch porn to masturbate? And they can't do it any other way?

When I started reading about how watching porn was a red flag I never knew they think the default is watching every time they jerk off

_Masaniello_ · 2022-10-17T23:44:46+00:00

This is going to sound narcissistic, but as a man, my favorite moment in any relationship is that point when the dynamic flips, when you notice the woman is now more invested in and attached to you compared to before when the man is making all the moves.

I've had women pursue me before and show obvious interest right off the bat, but I always felt like I was still playing the game trying to keep it going. I had to put my best foot forward because even if you're a 10/10 girls have other suitors on standby. But after enough time passes you'll get a text, or you'll see her after a while, or she'll do something for you and the realization hits that you now are the one that has to be entertained.

I don't use this as an opportunity to become low effort and distant. It just feels so nice to be truly wanted by people that is not your family, and be able to finally relax into a bond with somebody that isn't treating you as the pursuer.

FjbhBoy · 2022-10-18T01:23:14+00:00

People on this sub can be ridiculous lol. Saying it’s a red flag if you live with your parents at 23. Yeah maybe if they aren’t employed or have no future plans. I know plenty people that age or older who live with their parents

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2022-10-18T04:06:32+00:00

I feel autistic for admitting this but man I locked eyes for a solid 3-5 seconds with the hottest girl at the supermarket earlier today

I really struggle making with eye contact with strangers so that was a big step for me

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-10-18T16:27:34+00:00

PPD guys pretend to have no standards. That's clearly wrong. Most men do have standards especially for relationships. Let's look at the things that are necessary in a woman for me:

Healthy BMI (not obese)
Ages 22-32
Must have a decent job (server, bartender, retail are disqualified)

That's already a small percentage of women.

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2022-10-17T23:12:57+00:00

As it’s been stated before I’m convinced female ovulation is the equivalent of male baseline horniness because lawd I can’t even think straight I wanna get dicked down so bad.

Don’t come into my DMs, I’m a bitter, angry post wall slut and I gots one of dems menz.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-17T23:53:12+00:00

pro tip : get into social work or psychology where 80 percent of students are women and you're gonna clean up like mad

scwizard · 2022-10-18T05:33:37+00:00

I know it's victim blaming but it's very hard for me to feel sympathy for girls (under 65) that fall victim to pathological liars.

So they believe their boyfriend used to be a professional boxer and he fought and beat Connor McGregor but it was before anyone had heard of him.

Do they also believe that a consignment box containing 37 ounces of 24 karat gold coins that's in their name will be mailed to them if they send a itunes gift card in the amount of 200 dollars to cover the demurrage and shipping fees?

buffin-big-bowls · 2022-10-18T15:57:49+00:00

Dudes really go to parties just to stand in the corner and say “damn she bad” for three hours.

And yes I’m speaking from personal experience.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-18T01:05:47+00:00

Why is it that women think going above and beyond is looking nice for the man, putting make-up on, dressing nice etc. When it's just the bare minimum?

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-10-18T11:59:48+00:00

I have noticed that dumb men will rationalize whining about gold diggers while doing nothing to avoid gold diggers.

Guys seem to think just because a Golddigger has a job means she’s not a Golddigger.

Worst of all, they’re complaining about men paying alimony even though this is avoidable by getting a prenup (which they also refuse to do) or marrying someone within their income bracket (which they claim is not a priority).

The irony is that they complain that women don't take responsibility for their actions....while they themselves also do not take responsibility for their inactions.

TLDR: Too many men want to fuck losers and then whine why these losers are terrible.

732-Anathema · 2022-10-18T14:34:29+00:00

Imagine you're walking on the sidewalk and somebody drops a grand piano on you. Then your head pops out the piano and and then, boom, an anvil drops on your head right after. You're seeing stars now. Yikes - that's gonna leave a mark. Oops and your crush saw you too. You just gave her the ick. Just stop bro. She doesn't want you. This is why you don't have a date to the prom.

2baloons · 2022-10-18T00:39:51+00:00

Dating preferences are weird. I never liked white boys but now after being in a place devoid of white boys for months, I really want to date the whitest of white boys lol

WhyDontYouLuvMe · 2022-10-18T02:50:13+00:00

I wish there were more women who were into philosophy. It sucks when im out here studying Schopenhauer or Emerson and I'm meeting women berating me for not having a tiktok account 🤦

I wonder if theres women into psychology who feel the same way

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-10-18T11:16:54+00:00

the juice isn't worth the squeeze

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-10-18T12:35:01+00:00

CMV: guys who call themselves nice guys are just guys that are too ugly or have no game so they know they can’t cheat

The9thElement · 2022-10-17T23:44:37+00:00

I’ve made it my mission to turn my brothers into feminists

FjbhBoy · 2022-10-18T00:22:19+00:00

Q4W How much of a dealbreaker is it for you if your man had sex with other men before he met you? Does it matter if he was the top or bottom?

WhyDontYouLuvMe · 2022-10-18T00:24:08+00:00

Fuck the automod for making new megathreads in the middle of the day ive been chillin in a dead thread for hours fkn hell

Willow-girl · 2022-10-18T00:43:30+00:00

Yinz say a little prayer for the Willow here; this bug is kicking my ass! Haven't been able to get my fever under 102 all day. I'm gonna try to see my doc in the morning ... was hoping to avoid the $80 co-pay but I'll need a doctor's slip if I take a third day off work. Right now I'm working on not pissing myself every time I stand up ... don't think I'll be fit to run the floor scrubber for awhile. LOL

My man is taking good care of my whiny self.

732-Anathema · 2022-10-18T01:16:49+00:00

There's this hot French booktuber that I really enjoyed watching until she did a review of a book that I actually read, and it snapped me out of the trance. It was really obvious that she either didn't read the book or that her understanding was so minimal that she probably rushed through it so she could make a video criticizing it.

She proves how powerful the halo effect actually is. She's super cute and has a hot french accent. I used to think she was insightful and intellectual but now I realize that 99% of her content is just stating platitudes and faux-intellectualism.

lulll · 2022-10-18T01:58:00+00:00

ok ppd women which one of you was this

FFTzzz · 2022-10-18T02:11:41+00:00

PSA for women

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-18T05:41:30+00:00

I saw a podcast clip on YouTube where girls were claiming textbook AF/BB bullshit.

Like "Nice guy, you're the ones that always win in the end, yeah you may not find much luck in your early 20s but as women get older you become more attractive to them."

How the fuck is that a good thing?

LaloTwins · 2022-10-18T06:16:31+00:00

Lol co pay is the most insidious thing I’ve ever heard of

America is insane

whittingham_centeno · 2022-10-18T06:55:14+00:00

There’s also another phenomenon in chimps is that the beta males will top the alpha male through anal sex to provide prostate stimulation in order for him to produce more semen. ... At the same time the beta male is sexually satisfied and isn’t trying to fight off the alpha. With the alpha reproducing with all the females, the fittest is then survived.

It’s in the best interest for the beta to stimulate the alphas prostate as opposed to fighting against him because they never would win..

Alphafuckmaxxing?

whittingham_centeno · 2022-10-18T07:14:28+00:00

Short stature among men may also be a risk factor for suicidal death (27) and suicide attempts (28) evidenced by two different samples, study 27 focused on Korean men and women whereas study 28 reported on a sample of young male Swedish conscripts. Short stature was a risk factor for suicide mortality in women, but to a lesser extent (27).

Fuck this cruel world 😢😭

Lysa_Bell · 2022-10-18T08:03:20+00:00

My tarot cards and the stars tell me you should get off your ass if you don't want to spend christmas and New year's alone.

Tramelo · 2022-10-18T09:53:20+00:00

I've noticed that I can't be happy with a "redpill" mindset. By redpill, I mean telling myself things like men aren't loved unconditionally, most people are wolves in sheep clothes, nobody really cares about you but only about their agenda, stuff like that.

Instead, I need to believe that people are at least chill, and despite being selfish they still care about you on a human level.

One year I was deeply into Robert Green's books, and it was the year I was the most suicidal.

But maybe the redpill mindset is the one that might push me to improve in my life, idk.

The9thElement · 2022-10-18T11:29:27+00:00

Why don’t women do their hair like this anymore

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/b/ba/Farrah_Fawcett_1977.JPG

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/ee/56/bf/ee56bf4666f3eafbf7137deea46bf777.jpg

http://nostalgiacentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/afro_400.jpg

https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSqPL5QSVOrMmb-ndx_2wMgPD757cjW3WK0_A&usqp=CAU

Everyone’s hair is flat and looks the same now. It’s so sad.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-10-18T14:52:22+00:00

From my experience most normal women don't really have high standards, but rather something like "holistic" standards.

An example would be like GPA in school:

Lets say you have an B in looks, A in status/money, B in social circle, C in personality, and D in other intangible aspects.

Guys would think we would get a simple weighted average and be good enough.

However the twist is women take the lowest grade and weight that disproportionately as the biggest factor to date you.

So really even if you are an A guy with most of your attributes but you have a C or D in even one then you will be perceived as a C or D guy to them.

Best thing we can do as guys is be mostly well rounded with one or two great qualities and minimize the bad qualities as much as possible.

6negative4 · 2022-10-18T15:41:47+00:00

Gotta be rude to women by default so none of them ever think I’m trying to hit on them. Rather have them all think I’m a dick than have a few mistakenly think I’m into them. I’m an asshole for your benefit, females.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-18T15:53:27+00:00

Damn. My friends sister is married to a super fat, short guy and they have 2 kids. She's slim, too.

The bluepill stays undefeated.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-17T23:06:56+00:00

This is how women react to older attractive men

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lEd5viL-dJc&ab\_channel=extratv

Truth_Sellah_Seekah · 2022-10-17T23:42:04+00:00

Being judgemental is great and I'm tired of pretending that isn't.

pinktuliplover · 2022-10-18T00:29:01+00:00

Is it a red flag that I don’t enjoy comedies?

SKY_ACTIV3 · 2022-10-18T01:40:09+00:00

CMV ranch is better than blue cheese in most cases and I’m tired of being called trashy for liking it w/ pizza

dbz19_kai · 2022-10-18T02:30:08+00:00

Q4men: seriously, those of you who are dissatisfied with the state of dating and relationships in the west and are totally put off by the modern empowered liberated woman, why not get a woman from a non-western country?

Feminists will judge the shit out of you for it, but do you really care?

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2022-10-18T02:42:47+00:00

In order for you to be chad you need to have almost no trauma. If your parents didn't hug you when you cried then it never even began.

whittingham_centeno · 2022-10-18T04:14:45+00:00

The reason why Australians are so hot is because it was a penal colony and we all know criminals are hot Chads

gastongang · 2022-10-18T07:10:59+00:00

what's your guy's reasoning for why bullies, psychopaths, jerks, assholes, and violent criminals are so attractive to women

is it the propensity for violence, social dominance, dark triad or anything else

LaloTwins · 2022-10-18T07:34:48+00:00

"I know what it feels like to have nothing" I only got $6700 a month in child support

LMAO

Willow-girl · 2022-10-18T09:27:11+00:00

My fever broke and I'm up at 5 a.m. washing dishes and hanging up laundry. Can't let myself get too far behind on my work here or I'll never get caught up!

My union steward tells me I can call off for two days without needing to produce a doctor's slip so I think I'll lay low again and go back to work tomorrow. My boss is a super-nice guy, also I look like hell so it's obvious I'm actually sick and not just faking it. It's so nice to not having to worry about losing my job over a case of the flu, though. GET YOURSELF A UNION JOB, PEEPS!

Another PSA of sorts: Ladies, get you the kind of man who waits on you hand and foot when you're sick, brings you tea and hot rice bags, and threatens to take you to the ER if your fever goes over 104.

Funny, last night when I felt really awful, I couldn't help thinking back on my childhood and the year when I got measles and chickenpox back-to-back. I told him, "When I was a little kid and was sick, that was my parents' special time to tell me how useless I was and how much they disliked having me around." He said, "Well, I don't think your useless and I like having you around!" LOL

gold_panther23 · 2022-10-18T09:40:16+00:00

I don’t know if women are more attracted from jerks, violent men, bullies etc. I’m sure someone will quote a study (especially that dark triad one) saying that they do. If they do then to what degree they do I don’t know. But even without this innate preference for them that women apparently have they would still be waaay more successful with women for the simple fact that these are the types of guys that go after what they want. They’re not going to hang around in the friendzone for 10 years like some type of pussy coward hoping for the ideal opportunity. They’re going to make their intentions known loud and clear. Fuck you pseudo nice guys whose only redeeming qualities are their lack of propensity for violence caused by their lack of power and backbone. Your weakness is not a virtue. You probably couldn’t protect your woman from harm. Why would she want you? You’ll suck in bed, can’t fight, aren’t physically attractive, can’t stand up for yourself, have no tenacity because you give up when things get hard and have no ambition. Go fuck yourselves. You don’t deserve to procreate.

Libah05 · 2022-10-18T11:05:32+00:00

Life is so funny: Been beating my meat into a tissue for the past 4 months and suddenly I’m going on 3 dates with 3 different women in the span of four days.

gastongang · 2022-10-18T15:23:22+00:00

the basic traits of being attractive to women

be hot, be interesting, have positive confidence, leadership skills, assertiveness, a backbone, social status, spontaneity, dominance, and have a bit of a dangerous edge to you,

Do you guys got anything you want to add

lulll · 2022-10-18T16:03:46+00:00

i refuse to hold doors open for old ladies. i blame ppd women. this is your fault

2baloons · 2022-10-18T16:37:13+00:00

CMV wholesome social media presence > no social media presence

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2022-10-18T17:02:14+00:00

Never would've thought we'd actually go down the state-mandated gf timeline

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-10-18T17:14:25+00:00

Am i finally unbanned

Edit: yes,hello everyone 🙏

RegTextoffender · 2022-10-18T23:05:22+00:00

Pfizer finally admitted in a eu hearing that they never tested if their "vaccine" actually limited or prevented transmission of covid. I got permanently banned from a certain sub for pointing that out last year. Keep getting those pokes people I'm sure you're saving your grandma.

SKY_ACTIV3 · 2022-10-18T23:01:27+00:00

Do people here, men and women, realize that Southeast Asian countries aren’t just third world slums through and through?

Like, they’re not all hanging out in mud huts eating raw meat and shit. There are cities and industries, some of which are at least as good as ones in the west. Like, is Kuala Lumpur really shittier than L.A.?

Maybe I’m a bit biased, but damn, the way y’all talk about them sometimes just screams the fact that you don’t know anyone actually from there 💀

JDWhiz96 · 2022-10-18T23:00:38+00:00

The latest F&F vid turned me off of TRP for good. DJ Ak completely clowned himself and looked like a complete beta and loser against an admittedly masculine woman. He got all in his feels and she was stoic, logical, and laid some nice burns onto his ego, which was proven to be fragile.

The other guests (Mike Rashid and Brandon Carter) were stand offish and unamused, and Rashid even called Ak and Sneako (who I'll get to in a minute) out for their outlandish behavior; he ended up walking out of the show. Weekes failed to maintain control (Myron was absent) and was cucked on his own show by Ak, who I've already mentioned was clowned by the woman on the panel.

Sneako was a bum who was just looking to see who's point got more hits, that way he could play off it easier. He's a follower who's loud and brash and nothing more.

Though I still do think men are blamed unfairly for situations outside of their control, and that some women could stand to use some humbling/accountability, there's just too much extreme TRP content that is not conducive to healthy wellbeing. Hell even the Tate Bros aren't nearly this bad, at least they encourage men to up their status and women not to hang around bums.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-18T22:51:00+00:00

"Friends" is neither a funny or a good show/sitcom.

lulll · 2022-10-18T22:39:30+00:00

i have had this stupid goddamn song stuck in my head all day and now you will too have fun

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-10-18T22:31:12+00:00

Update: I am currently at the gym and no one looks like they wanna talk i shall do my lil workout and hope for maybe next time 👍🏻

So many bros lifting

FjbhBoy · 2022-10-18T22:28:37+00:00

Eating pussy is kinda meh I’ll do it but I don’t enjoy it

urbangoth · 2022-10-18T22:16:58+00:00

People who place moral value on sex as weird to me. It's just an act. There's nothing moral or immoral about it past what certain power structures deem. It has no real moral judgement behind the act. It's why people try so hard to attach morality to it so they can control it better

2baloons · 2022-10-18T21:55:42+00:00

Can people become jealous of fictional characters? And can it ever be reasonable?

Like let say, hypothetically, that your girlfriend loves a fictional character - say, for example, John Seed - and she thought he was the hottest guy ever, and she made his pictures her lockscreen and pfp, and she had a poster of him in her room, and she read John Seed fanfiction, and she had John Seed fantasies.

Could this constitute a form of disloyalty in the relationship, even though it's just fiction? Or is it ridiculous to even insinuate that a fictional character could ever compete with a real partner?

huhwhatokok · 2022-10-18T21:47:46+00:00

I keep hearing that European servers make a living wage which is why they don’t tip, but are they really making a living wage? Hm does a waiter in Western Europe at a food chain really making?

handsanitizer-- · 2022-10-18T21:46:27+00:00

CMV: Most guys date 4-6's and tell themselves they're really hot

scwizard · 2022-10-18T21:32:45+00:00

Fleshed out my ramblings in Q4W form.

I swear I'm gonna get a bunch of horny women who are like "hot guys have a god given right to use girls who consent any way they want, with complete disregard for their feelings."

meteorness123 · 2022-10-18T21:18:51+00:00

If you ever worry about sexually missing out, remember that Ben Shapiro is married with kids and still has never had sex. So it's all good

Lysa_Bell · 2022-10-18T21:06:02+00:00

Sometimes I'm reading this subreddit and it's surprising to me that men in here are so angry that the young guys aren't having sex anymore. Look at all the hate women receive constantly. "If you tell women honestly that you only want sex it's a trap and they will reject you". "I just want a harem of virgin submissive 18 year olds". "Women are so entitled - 30 and 40 year old women have the audacity to have preferences instead of just being an easy lay".

How can anyone be surprised that women aren't very keen to deal with this shit? Are you even listening to yourself when you talk?

meteorness123 · 2022-10-18T21:04:18+00:00

It's crazy how far men can go

Pull a Vincent van Gogh

Just to convince a damn ho

gastongang · 2022-10-18T20:53:09+00:00

both of the girls I attempted to flirt, with I'm the last week were lesbians, one of them even showed me pictures of her gf

but I guess now I have two lesbian friends so that's something

FjbhBoy · 2022-10-18T20:53:08+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/y77g5o/why_do_so_many_guys_straight_up_suck/

This is so painfully fake

scwizard · 2022-10-18T20:41:00+00:00

Apparently most guys are totally fine when girls are crying in their rooms cause they thought someone cared about them but they just saw them as an easy lay.

Amazing-Hearing3981 · 2022-10-18T20:39:42+00:00

Thoughts?

https://twitter.com/hunt4change/status/1582166917174808577

Young men aren’t having sex!

Nearly a third of men under 30 have not had sex. And a higher percent do not have as much sex as they’d like – not exactly surprising, but this kind of statistic is a sign of much deeper problems.

FjbhBoy · 2022-10-18T20:30:06+00:00

Reporting women for being uncivil ain’t much but it’s honest work

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2022-10-18T20:22:02+00:00

Men: Don't listen to women they don't know what they want!

Also Men: Hey why won't women tell us when the sex is terrible or pure agony?

scwizard · 2022-10-18T20:07:25+00:00

Here's the take of a Filipino on Omegle.

http://logs.omegle.com/a9cfa1be94baa92a

They say girls go for foreigners because:

Because they have hope to live like what they see on tv

They want life full of fun as the movies and media tell them

I think it's really messed up to take advantage of that kinda false hope for sexual gratification.

Everyone wants to feel like they're special. As I mentioned. So when you fuck a SEA woman at the time she feels special and hopes and dreams of a different life. But once you stop responding to her messages that's gonna break her heart and she's going to feel like the idiot that quite frankly she probably kinda is.

It's just cruel.

themayorofhoodville · 2022-10-18T20:05:04+00:00

To all of my cute PPD sisters… could you help a brother out?

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-10-18T20:03:57+00:00

I joined a new gym in the area I moved to & theres so many more people my age but I look like a sweaty gremlin and not sure how to make friends 😭

LaloTwins · 2022-10-18T19:59:44+00:00

Lol they banned Tate from AIRBnB 😭

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-10-18T19:52:39+00:00

slams hammer

take the 22 years of child support because the other guy is long gone already

https://i.imgur.com/olsNchX.jpg

Blast_Furnace2 · 2022-10-18T19:50:30+00:00

I believe people have a right to food - that doesn't mean I think that other people should be forced to grow that food. Some people like growing food, *especially* when fairly compensated for their efforts.

Growing up I thought sex workers were forced into that line of work, and started to view women as a human that they are responsible for their action , that they are a sexual being . Some women just prefer "selling their bodies" instead of being a janitor or some are nurses .

scwizard · 2022-10-18T19:41:16+00:00

The reason I'm against having sex with a bunch of different SEA women, is because it's difficult to imagine them not having regrets once the guy flys back west.

Especially if they lose their virginity to him.

Does anyone else empathize with these girls in the same way? Or am I just projecting something?

GridReXX · 2022-10-18T19:36:43+00:00

“Progressive” women have gone so far left they’ve signed up to be r-worded inadvertently!

Dummies.

But good for y’all men I guess smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

Her thread is actually supporting men’s rights and that’s nice... But goes to show you how diametrically opposed male and female imperatives are. Women supporting men leads to unwittingly violating women’s own bodily agency.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-18T19:31:39+00:00

Would you say "I long for your cock" is a good indicator of interest ?

RegTextoffender · 2022-10-18T19:26:39+00:00

I have to wonder what I clicked to get these adds on Youtube.

"The most beautiful Slavic ladies are looking for US men"

rivetcitymayor · 2022-10-18T19:26:03+00:00

Either my standards are low or PPD dudes are delusional

lostwanderer28 · 2022-10-18T19:25:30+00:00

Reading about how men go into other countries and use the kind hearted and nice women there for casual sex really disgusts me.

On that note, now, I understand the women who have high standards, who (seemingly) demand a lot from men. Truly, from a rational point of view it makes absolutely sense to want to be rather used by Chad (someone sexually attractive) than some sexually average or ugly man who is going to use them as well. I mean, it is no secret, a lot of men on here openly admit that they just want casual sex. Whenever I mention marriage first I only get very few support. Women are almost forced to settle themselves on "do I want to get used by a sexually attractive man (Chad) or by a sexually average or ugly man?". It is really sad that relationships boiled down to this very point. It truly is no wonder that dating is the distopia it is nowadays and honestly women cannot be blamed for it. If at all, women can only be partially blamed for this. Women who partake in casual sex do end up promoting getting used.

As for us men, guys, we gotta be honest, we are almost fully to blame for this current dating distopia. It truly is no wonder that women don't trust us anymore. It is sad. We did this to ourselves. We only have to blame ourselves. We promoted casual sex. We portrayed casual sex as the holy grail. In school we only talk about sex, who has the most sex, who has the wildest sex, some of us even lie to still maintain their "cool guy" status or to at least not get bullied. As long as we do not promote marriage first amongst ourselves this dating distopia will get worse and worse.

Oh, about the sex tourism, about "SEA" women, about Filipino women, it is just a matter of time until we make them shut themselves up and become reserved and distant just like we did to every other women on this planet. We men single handedly ruined everything.

This is the bitter and sad truth.

About me, I am a 29 year old unsuccessful virgin.

AquaChip · 2022-10-18T19:22:15+00:00

Men: don’t take dating advice from women. You wouldn’t ask a fish how to catch itself would you?😏

on fourth year of taking dating advice only from men: why am I still a virgin?!😩

RegTextoffender · 2022-10-18T19:15:02+00:00

US tried to stop Russian pipeline to Europe for natural gas.

Pipeline explodes in apparent sabotage.

Russia gets blamed for blowing up their own pipeline by media and governments with no proof and with explanation of their motive.

Eh?

EDIT: Oh yea the report done on it by Sweden I think is considered classified and not for the public to know about.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-18T19:05:15+00:00

Short bros and their girlfriends everywhere I go!

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2022-10-18T19:02:34+00:00

Q4W: Explain the sorts of men you refuse to date and why

daffyduckZZ · 2022-10-18T18:59:12+00:00

This is a dumb question but when someone says they want someone “making 6 figures” as their SO, are they generally talking before or after tax?

(obviously you’d prefer after tax but I’m just curious what it normally implies)

lostwanderer28 · 2022-10-18T18:52:31+00:00

Q4W

I am a man who isn't successful at all when it comes to attracting the opposite sex and establishing a relationship. I believe, because of my lack of success I began to find more and more women attractive, it is like I instinctively applied the "lower your standards" advice.

I wonder, do women who cannot establish a relationship also instinctively lower their standards or do women rather hang onto and keep their standards?

SeveralSadEvenings · 2022-10-18T18:49:07+00:00

Its funny watching white people discover Hotep nonsense via Kanye.

Anardus · 2022-10-18T18:47:54+00:00

So my current boyfriend in Turkey told me he loved me after a week, and when I told him that’s way too early he said how in his culture, people express how they feel and not based on some arbitrary timeline. I left it at that but asked him to stop saying he loved me until we at least hit 1 month together.

We’ve been dating for a month or so and I am always so skeptical of how attentive/romantic he is, but I was telling a friend and she called it lovebombing. When the hell is it just geniune vs love-bombing??

geyges1 · 2022-10-18T18:34:19+00:00

Nothing quite encompasses the idiocy of internet debate like hearing women and nofap men talk about porn/

I guess it doesn't matter how many studies shows correlation between porn and ED (zero) ; and how many show the minimal/no effect (all of them)

-mixedsignals · 2022-10-18T18:30:42+00:00

The problem with comparing if men are more emotional than women is that the definition of Emotional was created by men. So by definition it won't include sports fans murdering each other because they follow different teams. That's just "being a fan"

However, teenage girls fighting over their boy groups that is emotional.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-18T18:29:35+00:00

The Tyson Fury case shows you that you can be the biggest baddest mofo on the planet and still get utterly wrecked by depression and mental health issues.

scwizard · 2022-10-18T18:25:34+00:00

Oh Alexandra Hunt lost in the primary.

She made bank on her onlyfans though.

Incumbent Dwight Evans defeated Alexandra Hunt and Michael Cogbill in the Democratic primary for U.S. House Pennsylvania District 3 on May 17, 2022.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2022-10-18T18:17:09+00:00

The more I pay attention to the men here the more I realize my standards aren’t actually high but they’re high enough to filter out the very people I want to avoid for good reason.

gastongang · 2022-10-18T18:17:00+00:00

Time is a flat circle, the corset was once seen by feminists as a symbol of the oppressive patriarchy, but now modern feminists are saying that the corsets were a functional tool to support the breasts killed by patriarchal men who hated them, and right now the exact same shit is currently happening with bras and makeup

https://www.thelist.com/153746/the-complicated-history-of-corsets/

FjbhBoy · 2022-10-18T18:09:45+00:00

Women on this sub say they don’t get butthurt when guys like young women but they also consistently accuse those guys of being pseudo pedophiles who would go for younger if it was legal 🤔🤔🤔

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2022-10-18T18:09:31+00:00

Question 4 All: Is it better to share one good man for the rest of your or spend 10-years with one asshole?

meteorness123 · 2022-10-18T18:06:54+00:00

Theory time :

Men who always talk about "competing" (i.e. for women) are reallly traumatized and the need to compete really is an adaptive survival mechanism from childhood (competing with their siblings for parental affection etc). Unwilling to investigate this, it rather gets chalked to "evo psych".

Case in point : I know many guys who feel really at ease in social interactions and aren't really interested in "dominating" the interaction. There seems to be no fear of loss. Internal self-esteem.

Thise are some of the most pleasant people ever.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2022-10-18T17:41:13+00:00

TIL It’s wrong to be enthusiastic about fucking one person if you’re in a relationship with them. I’ve been gone a week and come back to this shit and a bunch of men thinking they need to act like chimpanzees just to get laid, and thinly veiled cuckold fantasies from the men yet again here🤦‍♂️

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/y36tvh/daily_community_chat_megathread/is9a2tv/

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FjbhBoy · 2022-10-17T23:03:03+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/1e2U9jk

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-10-17T23:28:25+00:00

This person is stalking me on Reddit. I woke up to my emails and saw like 15 of them of someone mentioning me in these random obscure sub reddits. It’s like ten different accounts and when u click on them they say this person is no longer a member of Reddit. I think it’s someone I triggered on this sub

gastongang · 2022-10-18T00:33:59+00:00

I can't even listen to normal music anymore, I'm out here listening to

"You can always be thinner, look better" Patrick Bateman x Turban (DxnnyFxntxm cover) TikTok remix or

“Look At Me While You Die Batman, Look At Me” | Yeat - Jus bëtter Guitar Remix | [prod. drummy] and

Yatashigang - Demons around (I will burn this planet down, Omni man)

Playful_Art_5364 · 2022-10-18T01:36:50+00:00

The whole ulta scandal proves that we dudes are the best at everything. Even at being better at being women 😤

‘#Easy_dub # no_competition

baresquad · 2022-10-18T01:43:28+00:00

Q4A: Do you defend yourself against bad dating accusations that you feel aren’t true? Like if someone calls or thinks you’re toxic or a red flag, do you go out of your way to change their mind?

I personally don’t and let them have believe what they want to.

gold_panther23 · 2022-10-18T02:14:34+00:00

A lot of men here complain that self improvement does nothing for them and it comes from a misunderstanding of how women work as well as dishonesty about their goals. I’m not saying that cold approach etc doesn’t work but for the most part women will be attracted to you based on a combination of face, height and mutual interests/proximity/status. The best thing you can do for your dating life would be to join some sort of club or society with a significant amount of women and then to work your way up in the hierarchy. The lifting, working on your career, hobbies etc will prevent you from being too needy, assist with logistics (how are you going to pay for dates or your own transport or place) and ensure that you’re not being rejected for fixable stuff (being overweight or dressing like shit). Also don’t actively chase women too hard. The women you will get along the most with will usually be the women’s with some sort of initial above average or high attraction to you. The moment you start to see increased resistance stop engaging! It’s usually not worth it! Also dating apps and clubs are mostly for low tier women.

gastongang · 2022-10-18T02:35:10+00:00

Senator Armstrong, I have a dream speech

skip to 1:17

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LmWQd8zhEg4

I will vote for this man next election

in all future elections we should have our politicians fistfight(preferably as cyborgs) while they give there campaign speeches

labormarket · 2022-10-18T04:06:19+00:00

sky bri, some pornstar tells adin ross (some twitch dude) on stream that her body count is 20 but 50 including professional work.
believe her or no?
tbh, i find it easier to believe someone in the industry on their body count than normies

Ok-Application-7614 · 2022-10-18T04:49:07+00:00

I'm listening to a podcast right now and a guy just said he's spent $600 on dating apps just to be stood up by one girl and threatened by the husband of another girl.

Quantum_Supremacist · 2022-10-18T05:45:53+00:00

Q4W

Door #1

or

Door #2

WhyDontYouLuvMe · 2022-10-18T05:51:02+00:00

What are your all-nighter tips because I need to be awake for the next 16 hours and im already tappin out 😩

gastongang · 2022-10-18T07:07:18+00:00

looking into dark triad stuff, so we know that the reason dark triad traits are so attractive to women is that they resemble certain masculine characteristics on a surface level(and I have my theory is that women without a strong male figure in their life to base the mental model of a masculine man off, mistake dark triad for masculinity)

so

narcissism=confidence

in that case what do psychopathy and Machiavellianism roughly simulate

LaloTwins · 2022-10-18T07:32:11+00:00

Lol how and why has r/Deuxmoi decided 50 cent's the bad guy for mocking his son saying $6700 a month in child support ain't enough

whittingham_centeno · 2022-10-18T07:47:16+00:00

Man I wish I was a woman. I hate bring a man

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-10-18T09:26:41+00:00

What do you think of what this lady is saying?

In fact, whats your opinion of her in general?

platinirisms · 2022-10-18T12:17:28+00:00

Maybe it’s just autism, but I have never understood the “I dress up for myself” group of people. To this day I still believe they’re lying.

Why would you wear uncomfortable tight and exposed clothes for yourself when going out? If it was truly for you why wouldn’t you wear something comfortable and warm instead?

When I dress for myself I wear comfy joggers, sneakers, and jumpers to keep warm. When I go out I dress for other people which involves wearing less comfortable but better looking clothes.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-18T12:22:08+00:00

Pete Davidson is not a ladies man. Bagging a 40 year old divorcee who got famous off sucking dick on camera is not an accomplishment. Every normal young guy who isn't fucked in the head would rather be a 25 year old woman whose main goal in life isn't to be famous

gold_panther23 · 2022-10-18T14:13:08+00:00

Men who are average or below average. How does it feel knowing that your gf would moan louder and orgasm more with an above average or big penis and there’s nothing you can do about it?

rivetcitymayor · 2022-10-18T14:21:29+00:00

Women can’t tell the difference between 5’10 and 6ft . Now that we know that, what’s the percentage of men are 6ft and above ?

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2022-10-18T14:26:11+00:00

Any meat enthusiasts out there have any idea what to do with a “boneless beef chuck rib?” Last time I made it it somehow came out both tender and dry. I can find info on chuck steaks and chuck roasts but no one seems to know what to do with these things.

VirtualRow4074 · 2022-10-18T15:18:53+00:00

What exactly is a pillow princess it can’t just be someone who likes missionary lol.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-10-18T15:29:05+00:00

Q4w: would you date a man with an hourglass figure?

TheKarmicWoosh2 · 2022-10-18T15:31:47+00:00

The biggest leverage a below average looking man has actually is his personality and social status.

Not Reddit-tier "good personality", kind awesome guy who worships the ground she walks on and buys flowers.

I'm talking being THE FUCKING MAN, type personality. The guy who acts like he's the Don. Life of the party. Doesn't give a fuck, zero fear, zero insecurity. Believe's he's the shit and knows it and can't be deflated by others opinions. El Chapo level of swag.

Despite the incels guys like this do exist it's just a level of Game that is unattainable for the average guy. That's why they're so rare. And life's about feedback loops so cultivating a personality like this is impossible ex-nihilo.

Brother if you end up in the group chat and the response is something to the effect of "Gurl HIM???", you better start cashing those charisma checks because if you charmed her you better get her friends too. And that's where some Men completely fail.

The Game never ends.

lewdakuma · 2022-10-18T15:43:13+00:00

q4m: thoughts on women with no social media?

QuenchlessGato · 2022-10-18T15:45:35+00:00

Q4W: highlander or shifter?

MalePsychopath · 2022-10-18T15:57:21+00:00

Heard this song and immediately had to think of all you lovely PPD ladies. 😊

Libah05 · 2022-10-18T16:14:01+00:00

this is what I expect all white incels look like

FjbhBoy · 2022-10-18T16:18:09+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/p/Cgw0cvruuM8/

Rate(SFW)

chilikettlechips · 2022-10-18T17:24:34+00:00

Woman moment

https://old.reddit.com/r/ContagiousLaughter/comments/y78vod/he_had_the_courage_to_say_it/

Why are so many selfish inconsiderate FEMALES like this? Simpy men need to stand up and show them it won't stand.

dbz19_kai · 2022-10-17T23:03:01+00:00

First

unloader72 · 2022-10-17T23:05:59+00:00

Unwanted gaze from women is really disturbing tbh.

I hate that I cannot look a direction because I don't want to give a wrong message by catching eyes.

On top of that, I may be paranoid but I feel like some creepy women take photos of me in public. That's also disturbing...

annabeelongx · 2022-10-17T23:55:00+00:00

Love me or hate me folks, but I’ve officially adopted wearing socks with sandals.

-mixedsignals · 2022-10-18T00:00:05+00:00

Can I store milk in the freezer? (frozen in small bottles) for later use? or is it like cream that it separates the cream from the oil?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-18T01:26:32+00:00

Why is it when men claim they're superior to women it's called chauvinism, but when women claim they're superior to men it's called feminism?

dbz19_kai · 2022-10-18T02:36:12+00:00

Not sure who’s side to take in the Bayonetta scandal.

Basically it’s Nintendo vs a woman.

Not sure which side to root against

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-18T09:52:43+00:00

Art? More like fart am I right guys?

baresquad · 2022-10-18T15:10:28+00:00

Cmv: Cold approaching is easy.

Unpopular opinion but too many overthink and try to strategize about something that should come natural without being given any 2nd thought.

r/seduction shouldn’t even be a thing, strategizing and planning for one of the most casual interactions is never gonna work. Naturally striking up a conversation with someone next to you at a bar is not something you need to stressfully gameplan for.

TheSinema · 2022-10-18T15:47:25+00:00

NSFW question: gave head for the first time last night, and he did finish, is that indication of being good at it?

I read so many articles about it, so I am hoping I am not bad at it

gastongang · 2022-10-18T16:56:57+00:00

Curious Indeed!!!!!!

https://www.instagram.com/p/Cj1c-mysuTO/?hl=en

CanOfWoody · 2022-10-18T17:29:03+00:00

SEA update:

Met a new girl today and have updates on two previous ones.

To start with the new one:

We talked online for a few days, at first she agreed to start fucking right off the bat, but she then she got cold feet and insisted we have a date first. Initially declined, telling her I only really go on dates with girls im having sex with. But after a bit of back and forth and "walking away from the table". I agreed to meet her because im still in the begining stages of my harem quest and am willing to make a few concessions while its getting fully off the ground.

Anyways, I really need to start having videocalls before meeting girls, cuz so many of them use filters. In person shes not bad looking. She has a nice body, her face is just eh though. Probably wouldve held strong on the fuck first doctrine if we videocalled before.

Theres a mall attached to my building, so I just had here meet there. This is a very good setup. If a girl flakes my place is right there, and if a date goes well I can invite them back up.

The date consisted of her watching me eat wendys. LOL. She did not order anything at all.

Shes really boring honestly. Totally had to lead the conversation the whole time.

Mostly was just small talk and getting to know each other a bit.

Didnt end up inviting her upstairs though, kept to my word and just kept things for a meal today. Definitely wont meet again if shes not DTF next time.

As for the other girls,

The girl I wrote about here:

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/y43o8q/daily_community_chat_megathread/iseqgwk?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3

Told me that she was a virgin when we had sex. She told me before we met but I hadnt quite believed it. Im starting to believe it now though, things just kind of line up. I know most ppl are gunna call cap tho.

But the reasons I believe so is because

She was super nervous when we met
She complained at times of the sex hurting
She bled during sex, but only a little, nothing the likes of a period.

Planning to meet her again, but shes really busy and works on an american schedule + goes to school too.

Heres the texts: https://www.reddit.com/user/CanOfWoody/comments/y7d5ts/_/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

As for this girl:

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/y5t7ez/daily_community_chat_megathread/isoqgqn?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3

Was planning on taking it slow with her, but just decided to be bold and push for sex the next time cuz she seemed very high interest. Very happy she agreed because I like her. Fucking on friday.

Text:

https://www.reddit.com/user/CanOfWoody/comments/y7d6i7/_/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Being bold and upfront here has been working very well. More guys in general would do it if they had this much abundance, but if you have low leverage and options its no wonder they dont, because they have to take the sniper approach with every lead to have a good chance.

Apprehensive_Cut_146 · 2022-10-18T04:19:04+00:00

If I hate anything else about women is the advice from immoral ones. And these days I think of my grandma as an example:

she had 4 children out of wedlock, yet complains about the burden of raising them. She could have married him after the first one, but no, she went on to have another 3 before it happened.
she never officially had a job more than a week, she’s been a housewife her whole. And yet, she somehow is receiving social benefit money for being a widow.
she was physically and emotionally abusive towards the children that she (these days) pretends to “love”. She would say how “children are the most important”, while she would beat my father to the point he would run away from home till the evening….when she’d be no longer mad, she’d scream he could go back.

But, pointing those out makes me rebellious, a disrespectful and ungrateful cnt etc.

With such relatives, no wonder I do not adore the concept of “family is the most important” or the same about being blood related…..Good old days, eh?!

decoy88 · 2022-10-18T12:09:49+00:00

I’m back baby!

LaloTwins · 2022-10-18T04:54:22+00:00

The most Fuckboi thing I’ve ever done was fuck this one girl while her friend was “sleeping” in the next bed. Make her moan how great I was. Cum in her. Make her get a plan B from some far off pharmacy by herself (I got her an Uber) and fucked her friend while she was gone.

At one point we were ignoring the buzzer to let her in the building for like 10 minutes as we finished and cleaned up. Claimed we were dead asleep.

They’re not friends anymore.

Girl only found out after that happened and is way madder at her friend than me.

Wish they were still friends I’ve still never had a threesome

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