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| 3 | When a woman say she was/is in an abusive relationship or marriage, Abusive is a Code word for women.It's even easier: even if she actually was abused, she dated and/or married the guy in the first place. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/20 10:36 AM |
| 3 | 33 Years of Marriage WastedConsidering that I got into two accidents within two years after buying my first car I saved a ton of (or rather: lost a lot less) money by having an insurance. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/20 02:16 PM |
| 3 | 33 Years of Marriage WastedI am living in a country with a hidden bachelor's tax, so there's that. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/20 11:51 AM |
| 11 | 33 Years of Marriage WastedHow is "I won't marry you otherwise" blackmail, sorry, "pressure"? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/20 11:51 AM |
| 14 | 33 Years of Marriage Wasted"I rode into town on an ass. Yo' mama's ass!" | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/20 11:49 AM |
| 5 | 33 Years of Marriage WastedI concur, can't complain about insurance so far (that said, the damages I was responsible for have been within reasonable limits - but I still got more out of it than I haid chipped in up until that point). | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/20 11:48 AM |
| 0 | Why do men avoid "sluts" for LTR/marriageWhatever helps you sleep at night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Why do men avoid "sluts" for LTR/marriageIt's interesting how that what feminists have achieved with their vilification of slut shaming is men pretending to be indifferent (while silently judging them) and women being more straightforward about it because they don't realize men are put off by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 12:59 PM |
| 1 | How did the TRP subscriber count grow so fast??Tbh I am doubtful. TRP grew steadily but slowly before the quarantine, and had between 200 and 300k before it was quarantined after... 5 years? And after that it's supposed to have grown by roughly 100k each month? Something doesn't add up here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/20 03:26 PM |
| 6 | Do you hold contempt against women who reject you at your worst but want you at your best?Now when I here women say looks don't matter I just roll my eyes. This is something men should ne made aware of as soon as they hit puberty - that looks are #1 for them as well, and that even the bestest and most virtuous maiden in the land will still mercilessly judge him in that regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you hold contempt against women who reject you at your worst but want you at your best?(memo to self: don't date a woman who, wenn overweight, doesn't wear that weight well) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you hold contempt against women who reject you at your worst but want you at your best?It depends on several factors - like how hard I took it, how much I think her rejecting me was understandable, what made her change her mind and so on. For example, there was a beautiful girl in my class at school whom I had a serious crush on. I am not sure she to what degree she was aware of it (but I am pretty sure she knew the effect she had on men, and the fact that she was still sociable and didn't seem to let that get to her head speaks for her), but nevertheless despite her lack of inter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 10:53 PM |
| 3 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceI am not talking about what women want or select for (even though I strongly suspect that the shit FDS call "HVM" is roughly 95% rationalization because they can't get the caliber of guy they actually want) and more about the general atmosphere and behavior in the sub. Women are already great at covering their selfishness with a veneer of faux-altruistic doublespeak (stuff like for example pretending that caring about looks is some outrageous injustice; but for some weird reason only when it doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 12:23 PM |
| 1 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceI am talking about genuine confusion. Kinda like I am irritated by someone taking out a gun and shooting himself in the foot without any prompting. That guy could be my archnemesis and I would still be confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 12:14 PM |
| 1 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceWhy do you even care what FDS tells women? Tbh (and I have been quite transparent about this) I am more confused by FDS than anything else because them trying to be a poor gender-flipped knockoff of TRP (down to the lingo) is so utterly self-defeating for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 12:04 PM |
| 1 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceDid you watch the video? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 11:07 AM |
| 0 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceI think he basically tricked himself into feeling he didn't settle. Let's be honest: if he was a charismatic stud, be probably wouldn't have dated her either. Dan Ariely made a pretty insightful video about this sort of assortative mating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 10:53 AM |
| 0 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceBecause he's a dork and I guess because he's on some level aware that women will never truly sexually desire him; so he settled at least for romantic attraction which Melinda Gates probably legitimately feels for him. Still doesn't make her an "ohmygodshessobeautifool"-catch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 10:48 AM |
| 4 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceYou're (I assume) a woman though, what women consider attractive in other women is of preciously little importance in that regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 10:42 AM |
| 1 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceNo, because she looks like an older man with a wig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Is the quarantine affecting women more than men?it does nothing to further the point of liberals being more prone to anxiety than conservatives. Well, ask yourself which camp is more likely to attract anxious people: the camp that promotes freedom above security, defends the right to offend, and where the prevailing sentiment is that deficiencies are on some level shameful, that you should man up, embrace masculinity (which includes stoicism), and that your community/country is more important than your own sensibilities? or the camp that is w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/20 01:52 PM |
| 1 | How is it possible for a man to attract younger women and yet not be good enough for women his own age?Women raising their standards on how they allow themselves to be treated doesn't necessarily contradict them lowering their standards overall - and apart from that, quite honestly it oftentimes even seems that on some (primal) level women actually prefer those guys who treat them like shit; or at least prefer them over guys who worship the ground they walk on and put all the effort into a relationship - and them stopping putting up with this sort of abuse is more the result of a learning process… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/20 01:16 PM |
| 18 | How is it possible for a man to attract younger women and yet not be good enough for women his own age?It doesn't really change the fact that the comment quoted in the OP is more often than not an awful lot sour grapes. Because with the justification, you could also say that older women tend to have lower standards than younger ones due to the bioclock in combination with being less in demand. And, quite honestly, my personal experience is that older women are all in all easier. They usually try to sell it as "we know what we want and don't play games anymore" - and don't tell me women don't, I h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Is the quarantine affecting women more than men?Not that this is r/politics, but why do you think liberals are more prone to anxiety? https://i.redd.it/x0wd1u2frds41.jpg In a conservative environment, people are more likely to be ashamed of their deficiencies and their inability to lead a normal, functional life, and therefore are more likely to keep it under wraps. This may be a net negative if you persist in denial and never work through these issues (which includes the possibility of them never having seen a therapist who could diagnose th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Is the quarantine affecting women more than men?It's like, what if they fall in love with me for some dumb reason like I'm tall and I end up wasting their life? Don't do it more than a few months then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you genuinely tried to become a HVM? (by the FDS definition)Sunk cost fallacy ahoy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 08:31 PM |
| 6 | Have any of you genuinely tried to become a HVM? (by the FDS definition)It's funny how throughout this entire thread you consistently omit the "pedestalizing the shit out of her"-part that is mentioned in the OP, and also the "without expecting her to reciprocate in any way or form" that is not mentioned in the OP, but is inseparable from the FDS mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 08:30 PM |
| 7 | Have any of you genuinely tried to become a HVM? (by the FDS definition)The transactional nature of that relationship is a lot more clarified, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you genuinely tried to become a HVM? (by the FDS definition)Henry Cavill is the sort of guy women think about when they say "I <3 nerds" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you genuinely tried to become a HVM? (by the FDS definition)Most of it is just wanting actual equality and respect. That's an odd way of spelling "supremacy and one-sided admiration" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 08:10 PM |
| 10 | Have any of you genuinely tried to become a HVM? (by the FDS definition)Because you have been misled into thinking it makes you more attractive? You're looking at this the wrong way: you probably think "why should I become a pathetic simp just to get a woman who'll drive you to suicide sooner or later", but that's the informed take on that question. Just imagine for a second that you were BP as fuck and were constantly told that the most glorious and sexiest thing in life was to be like the FDS definition of HVM; and that the worst thing possible would be to become … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 08:08 PM |
| 44 | Men being "intimidated" by women and refusing to date them is exactly the same as a company refusing to hire someone because they're overqualified.This. If there were one difference between getting rejected by a guy and by an employer, it would be that people who don't get a job over and over again usually don't write long-ass articles about how these companies couldn't handle a strong overqualified employee as oneself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 07:02 PM |
| 1 | If women are so attracted to dominance and fear-inducing behavior, why do they seem to hate men so much because of it?For the same reason women don't lift a finger when it comes to dating yet simultaneously hate being hit on: they desire that behavior in men they are attracted to, but the moment men they aren't attracted to display it, it becomes an actual problem because the very same behavior makes a guy not take no for an answer. This is also the reason why I am very much against strangling men with red tape when it comes to going after women: we can't label the behavior a lot of women plain and simply expec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: are you having more or less sex than you were pre-quarantine?That's unfortunate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | A guy not wanting to date a girl with a high N-count is not neccessarily a sign of insecurityJesus Christ, be civil. Both of you.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:31 AM |
| 2 | A guy not wanting to date a girl with a high N-count is not neccessarily a sign of insecurityJesus Christ, be civil. Both of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:31 AM |
| 3 | A guy not wanting to date a girl with a high N-count is not neccessarily a sign of insecurityThat is correct, but in her situtation the number in itself becomes a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:29 AM |
| 4 | A guy not wanting to date a girl with a high N-count is not neccessarily a sign of insecurityShe doesn't understand that it isn't the number, At 300, it definitely is the number. It's also everything else you wrote, but damn, she could be objectively great and most guys would still nope out of there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:23 AM |
| 0 | Q4all: are you having more or less sex than you were pre-quarantine?I could potentially masturbate in the bath but I can't seem to do it that way. You don't have a bathtub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: are you having more or less sex than you were pre-quarantine?I guess that people who are in a committed relationship (and aren't sick) may find more time to bump uglies now. (kinda like during prolonged power breakdowns). However, to me it seems that more casual stuff has taken a nosedive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Overwhelmingly, women prefer not to have relationships with men who earn less than they do, why do women change this narrative to, "Men are intimidated by successful women" instead?Overwhelmingly, women prefer not to have relationships with men who earn less than they do, why do women change this narrative to, "Men are intimidated by successful women" instead? I would argue that it's mostly "career women" who say this, and the motive is a mix of apex fallacy coupled with ego preservation. The apex fallacy makes sure that all they see is reaction of the men who qualify career-wise (i.e. hypergamy) while ignoring everyone else's, and the ego preservation makes sure that they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | If according to RP, all women become unattractive after 30-35, why do some RP circles also encourage women to settle down young? Why does it matter if the man will become unattracted to her anyway?tru dat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Is this a flaw in the English language? https://imgur.com/D5SEgvyConsider a person saying "I think women are just not as good at science as men". Anybody who ever uses the term will agree that this is misogyny. I would argue that it's sexism. You can think women are naturally worse at certain things and still don't bear any ill will towards them. However, I agree insofar that the people who liberally throw around accusations of misogyny tend to conflate the two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/20 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Can polyamory be a good thing?The same way being beaten up by your partner can be a good thing - some people get off on it. Most however don't, and trying to pressure an unwilling partner into a polyamorous or alternatively an open relationship isn't that much different from beating your partner up and labeling it as consensual BDSM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 07:34 PM |
| 30 | Joe Rogan is stunned at Miriam Nakamoto’s open display of hypergamyLet's just say you need to be satisfied with "not very much". | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the invention of personalized human-shaped robots will affect PPD?So? Humans are also beholden to a certain set of laws that restrict our behavior (or at least it does in the vast majority of cases). For us, our behavior is focused on individual and genetic survival (i.e. self preservation, food and sex); but we're still sentient individuals with the capacity for independent thought. What if the three laws would play a similar role for robots? I.e. that striving to serve these three directives would basically be their "sustenance", so to speak? You're making t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the invention of personalized human-shaped robots will affect PPD?I think it would affect prostitution to some extent. Inhowfar it would affect intergender relationships in general is a different animal - this would greatly depend on people's ability to blind out the fact that they're dealing with androids instead of humans; and we can't say how this will turn out before it happened. On the one hand you can argue that we'd never be able to ignore that they're just machines; but then again 50 years ago our grandparents would never have thought that people can b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/20 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the invention of personalized human-shaped robots will affect PPD?Funny how everyone sees that this is where the problem is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/20 06:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the invention of personalized human-shaped robots will affect PPD?My robot has decided that I gross her out and she's left me :( Sentience doesn't equal having the same expectations as bio humans. What if behaving in a three laws-compliant fashion gives them erotic pleasure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the invention of personalized human-shaped robots will affect PPD?What if they ick you out because you aren't used to them being a part of our everyday lives? We can't say (yet) how people will react to them once they're a common sight and pass every Turing test and the Uncanny Valley. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Don't believe what women say about dating, unless it reinforces your world view!CMV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Don't believe what women say about dating, unless it reinforces your world view!CMV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Don't believe what women say about dating, unless it reinforces your world view!CMV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Don't believe what women say about dating, unless it reinforces your world view!Don't believe what women say about dating, unless it reinforces your world view! The fact that I believed women when it did reinforce my (then BP) world view didn't exactly help. But when women say things like "I only date tall men" or "they need to be 6 inches" or whatever, those are believed as proof women are shallow and won't give men a chance. Unless we're dealing with OLD (where women have to filter guys out), they barely ever say that. And, let's be honest - it's a lot more likely that a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?The point is that women are no more likely to choose something morally wrong than men. You can't say that - choosing to do something morally wrong or not depends a lot of factors; among those whether some particular morally questionable act comes naturally to you or not, or inhowfar a particular morally questionable act is an option for you in the first place. For example, a random man you meet in a dark alley is more likely to mug you than a random woman. A random woman on the other hand is mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?This isn't any more realistic than saying because men are naturally more aggressive and physically stronger, rape will always be their go-to behavior. I would have argued that because men are naturally more aggressive and physically stronger, violence is far more likely to be a course of action for us than it is for women. ... Forsooth! I already did say that (bullet point 1)! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Would you move in with a woman?This doesn't even make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?This doesn't even make sense. Does it really? Even if I interpret female behavior in the most charitable way - like, say, saying they're people pleasers and therefore prefer white lies over the harsh truth - at the end of the day duplicity still comes natural to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Would you move in with a woman?No, I think this particular OP was meant for RP men and only labeled Q4RP because Q4RPM doesn't exist. I mean, the title kinda gives it away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?Just because you don't know them doesn't make it so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Would you move in with a woman?I think this was supposed to be a Q4RPM, we just don't have that flair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 03:15 PM |
| 7 | Q4RP: Would you move in with a woman?This right here. There may be good reasons for moving in with a woman instead of vice versa (for example when her place is simply better and/or more convenient, or it's her property while I am just renting etc.) - but the attitude OP is displaying would be a dealbreaker in itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?Why? All it takes is a woman who has the habit of only having sex when in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe alpha females exist? And if so, do they enjoy the same sexual and relationship benefits that alpha males get?But do you believe that such things as alpha females exist and if you believe they do, do they get the same (or similar) sexual and relationship benefits that alpha males get? It depends on how you would define "alpha female". I would say an alpha female is a dominant and decisive woman who has a similar effect on men (and not just beta and submissive guys) as an alpha guy has on women. In a way, she's the mirror image of the alpha male - a woman men want to date and other women want to be like.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?Eh, depends on where you caring starts. You want a virgin? Well yes, tough luck. You don't want a woman with a double digit n-count? A lot more doable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?"Women are deceivers" belongs with a certain set of ideas and it's not an objective one. Women are deceivers though; at least compared to men. Not so much because men are morally infinitely superior, but simply because men are both more blunt in general and also worse at lying (exceptions confirm the rule). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?I've been asked hundreds if not thousands of times. I like talking about sex. Probably because you actually don't really care about being judged. The women in here who claim that "truly HVM" don't care? Odds are that they stay clear of these topics with men because deep down they're afraid that they do (unless of course they don't really have stories to share in the first place; but then they aren't the sort of woman one wants to weed out with these questions anyway). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?The true ethical slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?Not a woman but Then take it to the automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?Most guys don't have a reason to check because they don't get to have changing sexual partners. Or were you refering strictly to players? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?...and yet here you are ;P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?Why would the town bicycle be your girl? You should vet anyone for a minimum of 6 months before you commit. That's semantics; some people hand out the label GF/BF sooner than others; but are probably also quicker at breaking off their commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?This. In order to get these numbers, you really need to voluntarily slut it up. Even a chick who sincerely only wants relationships but always gets pumped and dumped because she sucks at weeding out players is bound to learn at some point (if she still continues, odds are that she didn't sincerely only want relationships after all). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?q4w, take it to the automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:23 AM |
| 6 | How can a woman respect men knowing that they all want to fuck her?y'all stop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 06:07 PM |
| 8 | How can a woman respect men knowing that they all want to fuck her?"Fine lady, you are not a whore. But you are wearing a whore's uniform." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What are your thoughts on female-perpetrated sexual assault / harassment?Niccccce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you marry a man that couldn't provide for you?relevant quote | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 10:52 AM |
| 3 | [Q4RP] Do you object to defining Blue Pill as, anti RP? If you do, then why?Redpillers don't necessarily believe bluepillers are evil, they think they're gullible tools as a rule. It's a bit like with the Matrix movie (hence the metaphore) - bluepills aren't "bad" per se, but they are potentially dangerous because they work on behalf of the system they consider reality. In real life (and in the metaphorical BP matrix) this can take forms like f.ex. someone cutting contact with you and/or badmouthing you behind your back because you said redpill stuff (thus confirming th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Men: if a woman's male friends ALWAYS end up trying to fuck or date her, does that mean she isn't interesting/funny/good enough to be friends with?This right here. Also, it basically continues to be like that to old age. Men can get along swimmingly with the girlfriends of their pals or with the female friends of their girlfriends, and the same goes for women. But odds are that if these relationships are broken up, the same happens to the friendships that formed around them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 03:52 AM |
| 4 | Men: if a woman's male friends ALWAYS end up trying to fuck or date her, does that mean she isn't interesting/funny/good enough to be friends with?I think most women who sincerely think that are deluding themselves into believing that. However, most even don't do that. Does this look like them not being aware that their guy friends would want to boink/date them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 03:42 AM |
| 4 | Men: if a woman's male friends ALWAYS end up trying to fuck or date her, does that mean she isn't interesting/funny/good enough to be friends with?Even if what you're saying is true for you, it's far too specific to be of use for most others. Normally, people don't sleep with friends - and normally, friendships with people you sleep with also aren't sustainable because they're bound to become produce drama once someone gets into a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 03:38 AM |
| 5 | Men: if a woman's male friends ALWAYS end up trying to fuck or date her, does that mean she isn't interesting/funny/good enough to be friends with?Men: if a woman's male friends ALWAYS end up trying to fuck or date her, does that mean she isn't interesting/funny/good enough to be friends with? You seem to think that there's an inherent contradiction between the two, which isn't necessarily the case. But to sort this out: In general: yes, the odds are that your male friends are more likely to appreciate your presence because you have a coochie than because they think you're so interesting. Doesn't necessarily mean that they wouldn't keep yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Women that lure men just to get a self esteem boost are no worse than men who allow being played. Why BP men entertain these women?Be civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 02:30 AM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] Are most men even trying to be relationship attractive? (beta)I do agree that it is a risk, but it’s preferable to having the majority of men (who are not and will never be attractive ... to you. And that is the issue: literally every guy is going to be unattractive in some woman's eye, and most guys are potentially attractive to another woman. By promoting large-scale feminization, you're making lives worse for literally everyone. For the vast majority of guys, and for pretty much all women including yourself. "Why myself?" you may ask. Well, because you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Are most men even trying to be relationship attractive? (beta)The problem with this is that it doesn't work that way. Because the guy you're physically into (should he have been exposed to these feminist ideals) is also indoctrinated with them, and behaves accordingly - and this, to quote Karen Straughan, means the following: a feminist's explicit attitude is that she likes, desires and respects men who are nice, respectful, supportive, even submissive and always agreeable with her. Well, I'm betting that that attitude frequently does not agree with her im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you recommend your daughter to marry in her late teens/early 20s?Yeah, it's a D- instead of an F. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?I'm on my work computer, that's why I typed it like that. Why, does typing "white" trigger a tracking protocol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 04:03 PM |
| 9 | Q4M: Would you recommend your daughter to marry in her late teens/early 20s?Ah yes, because my 21 year old daughter should marry a guy she's known for 2 years right away. TIL that the correct order of numbers is 1, 2, 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you recommend your daughter to marry in her late teens/early 20s?Not reasonable (like most of the shit you find on FDS), unless you don't really have much time left (like, say, you being in your early 30s) - in that case the opportunity cost of waiting longer might be greater than the risk of of entering a potentially dysfunctional relationship. Women over 30 know this, which is also why they are disproportionally likely to treat dates like job interviews. In such an early stage of a relationship (and one year is super fucking early), it's a terrible idea to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 02:57 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: Would you recommend your daughter to marry in her late teens/early 20s?10 years is a stupidly long time period because it basically requires your daughter to have gotten to know the guy around 15 (preferably earlier) for that to work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you recommend your daughter to marry in her late teens/early 20s?If there's one thing I would recommend her, it is that at the age of 25, she should be with the man she intends to stay with long-term. If at the age of 25 she's either single or with a guy who is sucky LTR material, she should prioritize finding a new man who fits that bill. Because in that case she would still have enough time to have one normal or two short LTRs that go sour before she hits 30. I have a friend to whom I have said pretty much exactly that when she was 25 (her BF is a deadbeat … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 02:06 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: Would you recommend your daughter to marry in her late teens/early 20s?I would suggest my daughter to wait 10 years of knowing the person at least. You do know that people age and die? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?I was being facetious. ^^<sup>and</sup> ^^<sup>the</sup> ^^<sup>Vikings</sup> ^^<sup>stole</sup> ^^<sup>the</sup> ^^<sup>pretty</sup> ^^<sup>ones</sup> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?Yeah, because the Vikings stole the pretty ones! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 10:12 AM |
| 2 | Some women transition from being sexually wild during their peak years, to being picky and demanding after their 30s. Can men experience a similar dynamic but transitioning from giving committment too easily, to becoming committment-phobic plate spinners?AKA scarcity mentality. I know a few guys like that, all of them partnered up with really sub-par women. Though I have to add that one of them seems to be genuinely happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Some women transition from being sexually wild during their peak years, to being picky and demanding after their 30s. Can men experience a similar dynamic but transitioning from giving committment too easily, to becoming committment-phobic plate spinners?Are frats not a thing? Are they representative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Some women transition from being sexually wild during their peak years, to being picky and demanding after their 30s. Can men experience a similar dynamic but transitioning from giving committment too easily, to becoming committment-phobic plate spinners?and her riding off into the sunset with his money to have lavish sexcapades with Chad! I admit that I had to chuckle at the mental image of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Some women transition from being sexually wild during their peak years, to being picky and demanding after their 30s. Can men experience a similar dynamic but transitioning from giving committment too easily, to becoming committment-phobic plate spinners?Not really. The physical is much less important for men than it is for women. Confidence, attitude, inner strength/competency (basically "alpha energy") is much more important. You're having it backwards. The physical isn't less important for men, the non-physical is just far more important for us than it is for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Some women transition from being sexually wild during their peak years, to being picky and demanding after their 30s. Can men experience a similar dynamic but transitioning from giving committment too easily, to becoming committment-phobic plate spinners?I have seen men developing higher standards and lower tolerance for women's bullshit after they finally got the knack of dating. But generally guys who want a family are less likely to capitalize on it in their 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?Shit would just be sad but it makes me increasingly angry that all of the world seems hell bent on keeping their disadvantage a secret from asian men, to just gaslight them by telling them yeah what racial preference women are perfect just try harder make more money be smarter funnier just be more than any white man could ever be and you'll get your turn with the crumbs. Let's be honest - this is just a variety of the usual bullshit men are fed; Asian guys just got an additional spoon of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?How was that joke? Why are Swedish girls so beautiful? ...do you think the Vikings stole the ugly ones? This might also be an explanation for this particular issue ;D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?As an asian female I have never understood the stereotype that we will be more likely to be submissive. Probably Chinese- and especially Japanese-influenced. I also wouldn't be surprised if that cliché came from Western expats (or tourists) in Asia dealing with native golddiggers who were putting on their best behavior, and them taking that display at face value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 09:09 AM |
| 3 | Do you have racial preference ?Ironically, I've read multiple times that nonwhites have an easier time dating interracially in red states, which might be your problem. That said, these posts came mostly from redpillers gloating about liberal hypocrisy, so I can't say how things actually look. PS: You know you are allowed to type "white" instead of "wh*te"? ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?That's not a respectful formulation of personal preferences It's a perfectly neutral formulation. If you said for example "I respect all genders and orientations… it just so happens that my own orientation is that I only feel attracted to cis men", you would be in no risk of anything. That you'd be required to jump through hoops is the actual scandal. Now of course if someone gives an unsolicited statement and shouts it from the rooftops that (s)he wouldn't date someone from group X, that looks … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 09:01 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] What is it specifically that you HATE about pornsex?Either becoming addicts or thinking porn is real life. Technically porn also includes completely vanilla scenes with nothing more than PiV, but then again, you've said repeatedly that you don't appreciate men wanting that :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?Saying “I wouldn’t date a trans person” could literally earn me disciplinary action at my work place if the right people got a hold of it. Where exactly do you work again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 08:25 AM |
| 0 | [Q4ALL] Are most men even trying to be relationship attractive? (beta)Where exactly do you live? "Liberal Europe" still leaves a lot of possibilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 08:21 AM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Are most men even trying to be relationship attractive? (beta)Women have no sexual interest in harmless, emasculated men and feminsim seeks to destroy heterosexual male-female relationships. While I wouldn't deny that feminism seeks to undermine heterosexual male-female relationships and also that it seeks to produce harmless, emasculated and overly compliant men, I don't think the latter is done in order to further the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do men put in more effort when they think they are losing the girl?Rather "no dread game". Anti dread game would be if they always prostrated themselves at the feet of their partner even after the most minor quarrels. I.e. something complete pushovers do... or a subgroup of those, inexperienced young men who think they have to treat their GF like a princess 24/7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Why do men put in more effort when they think they are losing the girl?or gambling with a relationship that isn't theirs That's arguably the worst part. Also something you constantly see in relationship-oriented subs - women telling others to dump their partner over some minor shortcoming. I wonder how many of those are doing that mostly because they wish they had the spine to do it, but since they don't, they project their frustrations onto relationships they aren't even familiar with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Why do men put in more effort when they think they are losing the girl?i am def trying to work on this and i dont know if its from all my women friends always bashing on men saying men dont do enough. Some women also expect their man to have a 48 hour day - 16 hours to work a high potential job so he can make a lot of dough, 8 hours to work out so he's sexy to her, and 24 hours to coddle her. Sleep and hobbies not necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do men put in more effort when they think they are losing the girl?It’s only punishing if you’re doing it with the intentions of being petty and spiteful. I'd say "if you're doing it intentionally". Though what OP says does sound petty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Why do men put in more effort when they think they are losing the girl?Because focusing all their attention on you is unsustainable. They have to do in order to start a relationship with you because if they don’t, you would have rejected them in the dating phase for some other guy who will give you all the attention. Well, let's not forget that lots of guys also spend all their spare time with their new partner because they want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Why do men put in more effort when they think they are losing the girl?stating they didn't know they weren't giving me enough attention. What if this is a "you-problem", i.e. the amount of attention you demand is indeed not reasonable? It's hard to gauge from your post because you aren't giving any numbers, but stopping prioritizing your partner 24/7 and starting to hang out with your friends again is pretty normal after a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 07:58 AM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Are most men even trying to be relationship attractive? (beta)You're living in Brazil though. The fiancée of a friend of mine was a year in the Silicon Valley for their company and during that time she suddenly made a lot more than he made here (and he's paid pretty well) - and that was a bad salary for the location she was in. And now consider that he was living in one of the most prosperous areas in Germany, so not exactly low salary country either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 06:38 AM |
| 6 | [Q4ALL] Are most men even trying to be relationship attractive? (beta)Why 2012? Tinder? You know who are the leading people to promote beta behaviors today? Religious conservatives and self described feminists!! Tbh feminists have always promoted beta behaviors. I once summed it up as "feminists tell men to behave like women would like men they aren't attracted to to behave". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 06:31 AM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] Are most men even trying to be relationship attractive? (beta)I'd say he's effectively purple - most purples are more or less like "okay, TRP is mostly correct about intergender dynamics, but let's still be nice to women". (I am disregarding those purples who are for all intents and purposes except their flair red or blue.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 06:28 AM |
| 16 | [Q4ALL] Are most men even trying to be relationship attractive? (beta)I like to say "you really fucked up if /r/theredpill and /r/relationships would give you the same advice." I suspect this is such a case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 06:26 AM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Are most men even trying to be relationship attractive? (beta)Yet is it true that most men are trying to be beta? In my environment they certainly were. Though I have to add that I can't speak for the bottom of our school system, if I consider the accounts of those of my friends who knew that first hand, things looked a lot different there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 06:25 AM |
| 2 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itWtf does feminism have to do with it Look at how the card-carrying seem to take some pride in looking like. I am not talking about not putting on makeup, I am indeed talking about those for whom their (unattractive) appearance is presented as a political statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 10:34 PM |
| 8 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itI always wanted to post this to a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?Ah okay, I have to admit I envisioned this differently. The OP is basically just lying to herself about why men wouldn't want to date her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of guys on Red Pill do you think actually gets laid?Unless you believe that the women who don't give these men the time of day in public are secretly fucking the angry men who complain constantly about feminism and female hypergamy in private. You're mixing things up. The men are secretly angry and complain constantly about feminism and female hypergamy in private. Wearing that shit on your sleeve of course doesn't increase your odds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 08:20 PM |
| 6 | What percentage of guys on Red Pill do you think actually gets laid?but people who internalize both the techniques and the attitude / ideology probably get laid less. Objection here: the dose makes the poison. For a guy who has severe WaW/pussy pedestalizing issues, the "women hate" actually helps to get it out of him. After years, possibly decades of seeing women as more sublime, better, all in all superior creatures, seeing them as the complete opposite helps. Ultimately it's about achieving a decent equilibrium. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 08:17 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of guys on Red Pill do you think actually gets laid?but I’ve been brushing up on my PPD lore /r/reluctantly_red, you're famous! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:59 PM |
| 18 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itIf men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing it Okay, I'll C your V. The thing about attractiveness is that it's to some degree objective; and this applies to both genders. So what men find overwhelmingly attractive in women, women probably find attractive too (they just aren't sexually attracted to it). If men were suddenly repulsed by makeup and women weren't, I suspect that women would still continue to use it - at least for a time - … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?Won't work though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?a bunch of psychotic feminists who were merely trying to adopt our jargon and lingo. They're simply doubling down. They're trying to think of gender relations as a war, and they're trying to "win". Pretty much this. "Oh, TRP hates on chicks? How dare they! Let's hate on dudes even more!!!" "Oh, TRP hates on sluts? How dare they! Let's hate on players even more!!!" "Oh, TRP hates on old women? How dare they! Let's hate on old men even more!!!" It's basically a mix of some weird penis envy and the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?Even r/thebluepill and a bunch of female subs hate FDS. I have to admit that I was on the fence when it came to guessing how TBP would react to FDS. On the one hand, they should mesh well with their blatant pro-female bias. On the other, FDS basically proved TRP right (at least for the demographic that subscribes to FDS), and this in turn would be something TBP wouldn't be too fond of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?What, they actually did that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?it's great to see women who grow and support each other. ftfy. Someone at the askmen-sub once said about askwomen, when compared to askmen - that once could rename the subs /r/adviceyouwanttohear vs. /r/adviceyouneedtohear. Also funny was a comment from a female poster at askmen who, in a thread about male vs female dating advice, shared her experiences - how her girlfriends told her to change nothing about herself because she was perfect and only deserving of the choicest of men; while her male… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?Youre a delusional, bitter feminazi 2:1 chance that (s)he's a troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?and their top post from yesterday was literally shaming men and calling them “weak” for not wanting to date a single mother I hope you're making this up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?Which is what FDS encourages: Be high value so you can attract the same. Tbh I haven't noticed any of this so far. Okay, I also barely visit the sub, but what I did see was tons of shitposting and women convincing themselves they're supremely desirable queens without actually suggesting doing something for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?If she uses the male approach (always swiping right), that's very possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?Why is being attracted to generosity so much worse than being attracted to guys with abs let's say? A woman attracted to a guy's abs is effectively attracted to the guy, a woman attracted to a guy's wallet could very well do without the guy - she would also get what she wants if she just had his credit card. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Seriously... What do the women here actually want from men? What is your biggest obstacle or gripe with men? What is it that you wish the posters here would understand? What would make the women here want to be with us?If you do, you'll get the questions I'm asking. Not really; the metaphore is far simpler, the guy above was just needlessly verbose. But this should be changed: "How do they (men) manage to unlearn all the behaviors from their days of being good "keys", so to speak?" Ironically, that's actually a good question. Though one that women should ask themselves. Preferably before they let the key unlock them, thus vindicating him again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?AidsVictim :stars uncomfortably: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?Jesus was black/Arab FTFY :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Do you have racial preference ?Epstein didn't commit suicide Eprolled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Is there really only alpha and beta?No, but as with all theories, you sacrifice accuracy for general applicability and succintness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Men, let's settle this once and for all: do you believe that you're entitled to sex?It depends on how you define entitled: is it some unalienable right that can be enforced by law? Then generally no. Or is it something that you can reasonably expect to get in a particular situation, and if you don't get it, something is wrong? That's different. Also: Do you mean in general, just by virtue of being a man? That's some particularly vile strawman concocted mostly by feminists (and their lapdops), but has little to do with reality apart from a few unhinged individuals. When in a rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Men, let's settle this once and for all: do you believe that you're entitled to sex?is a woman that's going to end up with a string of men who don't treat her well. ...or a woman who ends up with men she isn't attracted to. Everyone should set their standards high and walk away from situations that aren't ideal. That requires either having a very lenient definition of "ideal" or being very comfortable with hte possibility of dying alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Seriously... What do the women here actually want from men? What is your biggest obstacle or gripe with men? What is it that you wish the posters here would understand? What would make the women here want to be with us?What you're saying here is that women have only a finite number of times to determine who they want to be intimate with before they lose that ability? Come on, that metaphore isn't that hard to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about cheating. 3 Questions.Upvote for honesty and for actually giving a more insightful account than most who talk about that issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 10:19 AM |
| 0 | Let's talk about cheating. 3 Questions.Is it cheating then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about cheating. 3 Questions.When a woman cheats, because the likelihood that I or one of my friends might be affected is a lot higher than when it's a man cheating :P But seriously: female cheating includes the possibility of paternity fraud, and that makes it potentially infinitely more devastating. A man who cheats communicates "deep down, I want more kids". A woman who cheats communicates "deep down, I want kids that aren't yours." While I don't expect women to be okay with the former, the latter is still a lot more per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?If you use "1)" instead of "1." reddit doesn't auto-format the numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?Caucasian, male Nope. In a way - a GF of mine was half-Arab (Christian Arab though), but didn't look the part. Other than that no, but that's more due to circumstance than anything else (the vast majority of non-Caucasians in my country are Muslims, which usually takes them off the market for interracial dating). Pygmies. Australian Aborigines aren't exactly a catch either. But seriously, if a woman is attractive, I don't really care whether 99% of her ethnicity are ugly or not. What I consider … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Now it should work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?poke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?It's not your fault, it's just something I'd be immensely uncomfortable with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?It's not your fault, it's just something I'd be immensely uncomfortable with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?• she only feels loved and valued when she is desired sexually, sex = love to her (she was sexually molested for years as a child) Some sound good, some not so much, but this totally gives me the creeps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Theoretically, are there any solutions that would satisfy everyone in this debate?Part of the bluepill lie is also that you lie to yourself about what you actually want. So basically you're "honest" in your dealing with others, but at the expense of convincing yourself that you're deeper and more cerebral than you actually are (because otherwise you'd be shallow and a bad person). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Theoretically, are there any solutions that would satisfy everyone in this debate?That is, until the laser-equipped drones from China come over and destroy everything. My money is on China for the win. Tbh if the scenario that Muslims conquered the West through demographic means came to pass, I would so root for the Chinese (also, the Chinese would most likely win). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?So it's odd these women can't pull these 4 things off with ease. Quite frankly I assume that their problems start with "reasonable" (if we interpret "reasonable" not only as "not nuts", but also as "has reasonable standards"). Because I can see a situation where a woman fails despite being reasonable in her dealings with the guy, loyal, sexually satisfying and not a nuisance - and this is when she wasn't reasonable when it comes to picking the right guy in the first place (for example by going a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Theoretically, are there any solutions that would satisfy everyone in this debate?Free personal trainers and surgery for all so everyone is beautiful and desirable! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?Oh yeah that, that was a good one :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Guys who prefer thin women vs. guys who prefer curvy/thick women: what does it say about the guy?A leaked sextape doesn't really make you a pornstar. It is a red flag though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?The sarcasm detector or am I mixing something up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?:beeep: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?Self-improvement in the Red Pill sense would probably be seen as catering to the male imperative. Quite frankly, I can't shrug off the feeling that the feminist take on self-improvement is influenced by their desire to "stick it to the man" - i.e. they deliberately uglify themselves because they know it pisses men off. Kinda like drinking poison hoping that the other person gets sick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:05 PM |
| 1 | How much does Autism impact dating life?but that's ghey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 09:51 PM |
| 2 | How much does Autism impact dating life?If you like nerdy girls you will do fine The competition for nerdy girls (unless they're really unattractive themselves) is extreme though, given the gender ratio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 11:01 AM |
| 2 | How much does Autism impact dating life?Forget that, odds are that your style sucks and your pics even more. Most of the problems young people of either gender may have with looks are something that could be solved with exercise, a good haircut and decent clothing - only a minority is actually really unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:59 AM |
| 1 | How much does Autism impact dating life?If it was a really hot woman, it wouldn't be "simping" (SIMP = sucker idolizing mediocre pussy). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:52 AM |
| 3 | How much does Autism impact dating life?Don't forget that people on the spectrum can appear normal in writing but enter uncanny valley-territory during conversations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:51 AM |
| 2 | CMV: There is no one cohesive “sexual marketplace”, but rather many different isolated “marketplaces” all of which require different strategiesGuys in the 4-6 range look ridiculous as skinny hipster types, that's the point of all that "go lift"-advice - becoming more masculine is almost always an option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Question: Do you think hoes make it harder for women to lock down a man?The guys in question were never relationship material. People lie to themselves about those they fancy being relationship material all the time. (not talking about you, but about those hypothetic girls who had the hots for the guys you were banging) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Question: Do you think hoes make it harder for women to lock down a man?No, not necessarily forever, but does it matter whether he's gone for good or just currently unavailable without potentially taking a woman who shares your aspirations off the market? However, I think that this assessment The type of man who's drawn to "hoes" isn't the type of man that non-"hoe" women want to lock down. is wishful thinking and an example of sour grapes - namely the idea that a guy who can be lured away from the RMP with the promise of casual sex is automatically "not worth havin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Question: Do you think hoes make it harder for women to lock down a man?It affects the RMP either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Question: Do you think hoes make it harder for women to lock down a man?Don't forget that if a man essentially is taken off the RMP without pairing off with another woman, this in turn increases your competition for the remaining men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Question: Do you think hoes make it harder for women to lock down a man?Of course, for the simple reason that they increase the # of men who forego relationships because they don't have to. This alone already affects the dating scene - even if it takes men off the market an individual woman might not want, it still increases the # of single women overall and therefore the competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 08:20 PM |
| 7 | It is extremely hypocritical to blame women for believing Chads who say they love them but victimize men who believe women who say “it’s all about personality.”Women are constantly told that men are pigs and that they should watch out for men who want to use them; they just decide to throw all caution in the wind for a hot guy. If the same applied with flipped genders as well (men always being told that women are bitches who just want hot guys and friendzone all the others etc.), then you might have a point. Alas, that isn't the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 09:31 AM |
| 4 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?Puberty is confusing. They are told what to want from parents, the smart nice guy, and think that’s what they do want. Isn't the whole picture, but yeah, won't argue with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 09:25 AM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPActually, I am coming up with the same scenario over and over again, you're just sticking your fingers in your ears. So I'll try to sum it up in the most concise fashion I can think of: female attractiveness hinges on their ability to offer children. In a similar manner, male attractiveness hinges on their ability to offer everything else. Some men can offer a lot for quite a long time, other men can't offer anything for their entire lives. A Gerard Butler closer to her age. I already covered th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 08:30 AM |
| 2 | The reason why the vast majority of women will never like the idea of splitting the bill on a first date, even though it’s the most egalitarian, is because it goes against one of the most core tenants of female sexual arousal and selection strategy - “I must feel like I am special”My mother. She also made it abundantly clear that women were expected to perform those acts of service and generally started ranting when they were displayed on TV. Similarly to how she started ranting when guys were behaving in an unapologetically macho fashion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 07:55 AM |
| 3 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?I wouldn't dismiss the other thing out of hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?Except that they don't punch or harass Nazis, but simply people they disagree with - and use the crime of the actual historical Nazis as an excuse for why it's okay. Kinda like the actual communists did when suddenly everyone and his grandmother was a fascist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?I am not worrying about antifa or SJWs, I am merely saying that if they could do what they wanted, they would most likely recreate the cultural revolution. I mean, we're talking about students who are ganging up on their teachers for the slightest mishap (even if it's just some offense they've concocted in their own twisted minds). Currently their power stops at their ability to cancel people, but what do you think would they do if they had the authority to hold their own cangaroo courts for wro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?Was that a rhetorical question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?This is reddit, there are bazillions of people who sincerely believe that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?The internet was indeed a gamechanger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?Was that sarcasm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?Would you really bet that the SJWs - if they were completely unrestrained and had card blanche to "punch Nazis" as much as they want, without impunity, but with official support of a totalitarian state - would not go full cultural revolution on people who don't share their views? I mean, the only thing that might save society is the possibility that most of them are too pathetic for it. But their more violent elements like, say, their mask-wearing antifa segment? Anyone who thinks this would be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?protip: the correct answer is always capitalism ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 11:03 PM |
| 5 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?Your comment sounds suspiciously like "I got mine (don't care about the rest)" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?Kandy, I generally appreciate your kandor (... okay, I'll see myself out.) ...but (provided you're as transparent IRL as you are) you're really more the exception than the rule. Whenever some woman has the choice between being straightforward with her preference for looks or with downplaying it, most of the type you can expect her to do the latter. What certainly doesn't help is that the women who are most honest about it are generally low value (nothing against you, just my general RL experienc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?This depends on what you consider a 7, and what you consider a Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?porque no los dos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 10:42 PM |
| 18 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?That's only half the truth. Sure, if women admitted what they are into a lot of men would probably get into their faces... but the actual problem would be that men collectively would stop simping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to be a misogynist than an idealist for a male's sex life?It is better, but mostly because being an idealist is so incredibly counterproductive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 10:34 PM |
| 0 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPNot really. But enough with the slap fight competition. Your general posting history indicates that you aren't here (or anywhere else) to debate anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 10:33 PM |
| 0 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPI pity your for your reading comprehension, must be hard being you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | I Still Can’t Tell If Y’all Think Women Should be MORE Selective Or LessMy, aren't we disingenuous today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 10:17 PM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPI historically don’t take shit from men. And I’m more than happy to put shitty ass men in their place IRL, believe me. I believe you that you perceive yourself that way. And you keep pointing to celebrities like that is the normal condition. Nope, I am pointing towards celebrities because they're nice examples of what both men and women both suddenly start to go for when status is involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 10:14 PM |
| 2 | The reason why the vast majority of women will never like the idea of splitting the bill on a first date, even though it’s the most egalitarian, is because it goes against one of the most core tenants of female sexual arousal and selection strategy - “I must feel like I am special”If you were hearing that from "age 6" you must have been weirdly interested in the adult world. Did your mum and aunts never cook? My mother grew up in a backward Catholic area during the 50s and 60s and had a chip on her shoulder when it came to conservative norms ever since. Though I think on some level she compensated with this for never having finished her studies (despite both being smart enough for it and having a partner who would never have pressured her into quitting) and taking the eme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 10:05 PM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPbut it's not the norm. I was never talking about the norm. Also, I will be totally honest: When a woman without severe daddy issues goes after an older man, most of the time hypergamy is involved. I am not talking about gold-digging, but the desire to snag a truly special guy (even if this means she has to compromise on age). And this already makes sure it won't be the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPBut even so, why cling to something that only happens in theory? Well, I already went into this. My original motive that led to me coming up with that theory however wasn't to trying to "prove" anything, but rather the following question(s) I asked myself: "Why do women regularly go after guys who are significantly older? And don't just do so because they're gold-diggers, but because they're legitimately interested in the guy? And do that even if the guy really looks his age?" (I don't think tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPAssuming the risk is low for a single condition, it is still higher compared to a younger man. Furthermore, we're dealing with multiple issues; it isn't just an increased risk for Down Syndrome but also stillbirth. It isn't just the risk Down Syndrome and stillbirth but a decrease in sperm motility, and it isn't just a decrease in sperm motility but volume. Then on top of that there's less of a chance he can even impregnate her. And despite all this, they're still far better at becoming parents … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPOlder men aren't in competition with older women, though. They're in competition with younger men. I already commented on exactly that elsewhere. I never said that such a guy would be ideal - of course he wouldn't compare favorably to the younger version of himself, or the guys who for all intents and purposes are younger versions of himself. What matters is how he compares to the dating landscape in general - and if he's a better catch than most younger guys, odds are that enough women are will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 09:29 PM |
| 1 | I Still Can’t Tell If Y’all Think Women Should be MORE Selective Or Lessshaming attempts by women, how novel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 08:55 PM |
| 0 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPFortunately I already don’t want early 20s men at 29... I would have pegged you for far younger. Let me guess: you ran into FDS rather recently and now for the first time you are "standing up for yourself" because you finally realized that you're a queen who is owed respect by virtue of being a woman, and mistake being catty for having grown a spine? (but only on the internet of course, because then at least you have the guarantee that nothing serious happens.) so I don’t need to engage in a fan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 07:24 PM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPLol nahhh. I’m doing great, thanks for asking! [X] for doubt Good luck making those millions so you can buy you a 18 year old Not exactly my ambition. when your man titties are sagging and you look like a weathered big toe! Be civil/no personal attacks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Are well adjusted men entitled in the SMP?Yup, sometimes people who feel they've been taken for a ride lash out, regardless of how mentally (un)balanced they are. I would argue that guys who are well-adjusted don't lash out not only because rejection bothers them less, but also because they don't let themselves be sucked into situations where rejection hurts them to such an extent in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPEven more FDS cope. Life must have been unkind to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 06:26 PM |
| 2 | The reason dating is so difficult is generally because of how shallow we areYour selective reading is impressive, because you definitely missed this: The female equivalent of the above chart shows a different bias: [graph] As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium. Very harsh. On the other hand, when it comes to actual messaging, women shift their expectations only just slightly ahead of the curve, which is a healthier pattern than guys’ pursuing the all-but-unattainable. But with the basic ratings so out-of-wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Is self-sabotage among women a trend now?this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Is self-sabotage among women a trend now?I concur. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I Still Can’t Tell If Y’all Think Women Should be MORE Selective Or LessWhatever helps you sleep at night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I Still Can’t Tell If Y’all Think Women Should be MORE Selective Or LessYou need new friends then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 02:58 PM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPAs I said in another comment using celebrities as examples is stupid because being they are multimillionaires, and having access to that kind of money trumps whatever disadvantages the age difference brings. I used celebrities because they're the most accessible examples. Of course they aren't the norm (and not only because they're rich as fuck, but also because they're high status and oftentimes quite charismatic), but they show what is possible if a woman is attracted you - especially if hyper… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I Still Can’t Tell If Y’all Think Women Should be MORE Selective Or LessAs I said, you don't get men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 01:51 PM |
| 6 | The reason dating is so difficult is generally because of how shallow we areYup. You're free to check, my numbers add up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 01:35 PM |
| 2 | I Still Can’t Tell If Y’all Think Women Should be MORE Selective Or LessA guy would only take offense if all he wanted is sex, and he can leave. "I sleep around with guys who meant nothing to me because it's fun, but I refuse to sleep with you and make you jump through hoops because you mean so much to me" is certainly offensive; and if you don't get that you don't really get men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 01:28 PM |
| 3 | The reason dating is so difficult is generally because of how shallow we areTru dat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 01:19 PM |
| 18 | The reason dating is so difficult is generally because of how shallow we areAaaand again someone who didn't correctly interpret the numbers. men ONLY messaged the most attractive women For starters, that's a lie. Men prefered the most attractive women, but also messaged less attractive females. But ultimately, the messaging patterns were rather similar overall: Both men and women sent roughly two thirds of all messages to the top 40% of women/men.... the difference is just that while men also rated the top 40% as "above average", women only rated the top 20% as "average… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 01:01 PM |
| 3 | The reason dating is so difficult is generally because of how shallow we areI'm just saying if physical looks were less of a factor a lot more people would pair off (or not). That having fewer boxes to check makes dating easier is kind of a nobrainer, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Is dating inherently uncooperative? (And the implications)I think it's more useful to think of dating in terms of competing with other members of your sex than "competing" with the people you're trying to attract. You can make a case for both. For example, you can say that men or women are playing with a game with other members of their gender; but also that people in relationship are playing that game. 1a) An example for the former would be, say, women and their stance towards casual sex on the SMP: If all women cooperate (i.e. don't have sex without … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Is dating inherently uncooperative? (And the implications)I don't understand why you would want to choose a partner whom you're unwilling to cooperate with, but to each their own. When it comes to (not only romantic) relationships, "Not cooperating" basically means "taking advantage of". Generally being all take and no give - like friendzoning/fuckzoning, or being an abusive or particularly lazy partner who relies on the other side doing all the work. And don't forget that some people naturally suck at cooperating: narcissists, very lazy people, extrem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Is dating inherently uncooperative? (And the implications)Why should this be assumed? Why will every potential partner be uncooperative? It isn't necessarily, it's just a possible pitfall of relationships. Functional relationships look more like this - i.e. even not getting what you want is still considered better than refusing to play for both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 10:52 AM |
| 3 | Is dating inherently uncooperative? (And the implications)Now, in the regular dilemma, you want to defect while the other cooperates. However, in dating, you don't necessarily want to do this, because dating is an iterated prisoner's dilemma. What does this mean? If you cooperate with a defector, they will be rewarded and continue to exploit you. If you defect with a cooperator, they will (typically) punish you by defecting. Now, there is an exception: Some people chronically cooperate against defectors. And if you are a clever enough defector, you can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Do men want a "mommy wife"?Never heard that one! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 10:27 AM |
| 0 | Do men want a "mommy wife"?i want someone who i can treat like a queen How was that saying? "If you treat a woman like a princess, in return she doesn't treat you like a prince, but like a peasant." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 10:22 AM |
| 0 | Do men want a "mommy wife"?Depends on how the men were raised. Some men were raised with the idea that women should basically be their slaves (usually those men who are from a very specific demographic SJWs including feminists like to the defend to the death); while other men have been raised with the idea that they should be lucky if a woman even deigns them worthy of their attention (these men are overrepresented within a very specific demographic SJWs including feminists really love to hate on). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 10:21 AM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPThat's why I pointed out the difference between percent and percentage points, because the same applies here. To mansplain why this is important: Assume that you have condition XYZ, and the baseline probability of a newborn suffering from this condition is 1%. Now assume that the risk of condition XYZ occuring is increased by 20% if a man over 40 fathers a child - what this means is that the risk is now 1.2%, and not 21%. In other words: even if you're dealing with increases that look severe on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 10:14 AM |
| 0 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPThe issue is that FDSers zone in on the decline of male fertility with age and pretend that it's even remotely comparable to the crushing nosedive female fertility with age. Which definitely isn't the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 09:59 AM |
| 0 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPLol TIL science a revenge fantasy. The revenge fantasy is the part where FDSers convince themselves that the decline in male fertility is even remotely comparable to the absolute and crushing nosedive female fertility suffers - and do so mostly because they're irriationally salty that a bunch of guys they don't even know (the manosphere) dared to come up with the concept of the wall. Women will always have an advantage in the dating/sexual market. Single women? As long as they're worth having, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 09:46 AM |
| 0 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPTwo words: Monica Lewinsky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 09:41 AM |
| 0 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPaka reality. Nope, an FDS cope, born out of the irrational desire to be a poor copy TRP, even if doesn't really make sense. "TRP shits on women? How dare they, let's shit on men even harder! TRP hates on sluts? How dare they, let's hate on players even harder! TRP denigrates older women? How dare they, let's denigrate older men even harder!" It's both funny and sad at the same time how still despite all your faux "strong independent woman"-posturing, all you do still revolves around doing what m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 09:38 AM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPLook I agree with you that women are more forgiving of a man's age when it comes to sexual attraction. But that does not mean they want to start families with these guys. I and several of my friends have dated attractive older men but we have never ever seen these men as husband material. I have a friend dating a very attractive guy 15yrs her senior, going out with him for over 3 years, and she has absolutely no intention of moving in with, marrying or having kids with him. If the guy can reliab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | I Still Can’t Tell If Y’all Think Women Should be MORE Selective Or LessWhy would I want a guy who lied to get into my pants? Could you elaborate inhowfar this relates to my post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 09:08 AM |
| 0 | Men only have other men to blame for the difficulty of dating appsAnd how does that equate to economics? My mistake, I meant economical. But yeah, effort vs. outcome - it's simply far easier and more convenient to swipe right on everything and then check whether your matches meet your standards or not. I wish that wasn't the case, but alas, it is. I have a friend who is super selective on Tinder (but he's also unrealistically picky considering that his profile sucks ass and he isn't even remotely as attractive as he used to be), who didn't have a single match … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 09:06 AM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPThats true but women have more options then men and women do not have the same mating strategy as men. A man simply being able to sire kids is not enough to attract a woman. That's also why I added a slew of other traits ("a particularly high quality guy can be wealthier, a better protector and have a higher status than 99% of men including those who are half his age, and he can still father kids"). Of course I wasn't refering to some average schlub - I was simply pointing out this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 08:57 AM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPFor instance, I can’t imagine dating anyone else and I wouldn’t want to. Lol like even if I met a man who was richer or more handsome- he doesn’t have the same personality or connection that my SO has. Idk, that’s love [...] I understand you referenced after a break up or second marriage but I’d rather be alone than try and date again. I can’t be the only person who thinks this way- I suppose it’s perspective. Yeah, because the connection is already there. This is also what I wanted to convey wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 08:51 AM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPAre the 50 year old men included in that 20%?? I went into this here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 08:35 AM |
| 0 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPThis is correct, but is also the point I made above: unlike women, 50 year old men can theoretically outcompete far younger specimen of their sex. Of course it's extremely rare, and even that hypothetical super-fit 50 year old can't outcompete the younger version of himself, but the thing is: he doesn't have to, as long as he's still high enough on the male population totem pole. Pit a guy who at his prime was a 10/10 pretty much across the board (genes, physical fitness, looks etc.) and has sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 08:34 AM |
| 1 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?Well as a general rule, if I don't like the man enough to go on a second date with him, I'll be much more insistent on splitting the cost. That's cool, but not every woman is like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 08:03 AM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPThat is so specific though. Why that? Of course it is specific, but we're also talking about what people (you could make a similar case for women) could pick if necessity and attainability played no role whatsoever. And at least for men you can observe this if you zone in on those guys who are spoiled with choice. Which is not your average Joe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 07:59 AM |
| 2 | The reason why the vast majority of women will never like the idea of splitting the bill on a first date, even though it’s the most egalitarian, is because it goes against one of the most core tenants of female sexual arousal and selection strategy - “I must feel like I am special”Jeez, you must be easily 'indoctrinated'. Or maybe I just hard practically nothing else between the ages of 6 and 20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 07:39 AM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPA 50 yr old man is not a catch. Amal Clooney seems to disagree. Also whoever the latest of Leonardo DiCaprio's hotties is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 07:35 AM |
| 2 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPWe can only make decisions based off of the cards we were dealt. Yeah, but in that case you can't make a valid assessment of what men would prefer if their choice is extremely limited. At the end of it, don’t you think a true, stable connection with a person is most important? This is an argument against trading in a starter wife against a younger model, not against the younger model as such. Let's take for example my father who has been with my mother for over 40 years by now - I can safely say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 08:17 PM |
| 0 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPTo date? Uh, yeah. Most relationships are based off of relatability and being at the same life stage. I think you're severely underestimating what a role attainability plays. There's a reason for why high status men - i.e. men who are spoiled with choice - who find themselves single after a breakup tend to go for younger women. Maybe not always women who could easily be their daughters, but still women who are definitely not at the same life stage. I mean, fuck, at the top of my head I could giv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 07:48 PM |
| 5 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPAs I said elsewhere, FDS revenge fantasies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 07:43 PM |
| 0 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPI'm not FDS but she's right. No 20-something woman wants to make babies with a guy twice her age. That's because the overwhelming majority of guys twice the age of a 20something aren't attractive. And I am not arguing about how many women go for silverbacks or not (that 20 year olds go after 50 year olds was just her strawmanning my post, as is to be expected from FDSers) - my point was actually a lot simpler: the age of a woman says practically everything about her ability to become a mother (w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 07:42 PM |
| 2 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPYou mean stuff like this? Dr. Eisenberg, Dr. Yash S. Khandwala and colleagues found that fathers older than 45 had a 14 percent greater chance than fathers in their 20s and 30s of their babies being born prematurely and at low birth weight. You know that there's a difference between percent and percentage points, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPMost men, however, would prefer to be in a relationship with someone close to their age. If all single men had their free pick of women, do you think that the older cohorts would go for their age peers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 07:24 PM |
| 2 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPYeah yeah, the usual FDS revenge fantasy. Still doesn't change the fact that the female ability to produce healthy babies (and, later, to produce babies at all) takes an extreme nosedive with age; whatever decline male fertility suffers still doesn't even remotely compare to this. Exhibit A: Rod Steiger and son But I think it's funny how FDSers gang up on this particular comment - seems as if I hit a nerve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 07:13 PM |
| 4 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPImagine how little you care about the average RP guy's opinion, and assume that the feeling is mutual. And now imagine that I care even less about yours than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPThat's correct, but you can still try to poke holes into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 05:09 PM |
| 4 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPOh look, someone who posts at FDS, how come I am not surprised at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPglad I could help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPMen and women may age equally, but women seem to be more accepting of many male aging features than men are of female ones. This. It also makes sense from a biological perspective - men don't lose their mating assets with age as rapidly as women do: a 50 year old guy can theoretically be a total catch in all regards (a particularly high quality guy can be wealthier, a better protector and have a higher status than 99% of men including those who are half his age, and he can still father kids). Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | heres an idea. what if a girl didnt "wait for sex", but demanded STD tests from every guy?Uhuh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 01:03 PM |
| -1 | Men only have other men to blame for the difficulty of dating appsthink again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 11:42 AM |
| 0 | Men only have other men to blame for the difficulty of dating appsSo, as an strategy, it makes no sense to spend time going through profiles to check for compatibly. It's less effort to like all, and then select from the girls you matched. This right here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Men only have other men to blame for the difficulty of dating appsFor men, it's the most economical approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 10:04 AM |
| 0 | heres an idea. what if a girl didnt "wait for sex", but demanded STD tests from every guy?That also helps him feel safer in that he knows I'm into it so I won't accuse him of anything (provided I'm not a psycho bitch) Being someone who is into being asked for every little thing correlates with being a psycho bitch though. (generally speaking.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 08:51 AM |
| 1 | The reason why the vast majority of women will never like the idea of splitting the bill on a first date, even though it’s the most egalitarian, is because it goes against one of the most core tenants of female sexual arousal and selection strategy - “I must feel like I am special”The only thing women have a leg up in is sex and dating, Nope. It's the field where they have a natural, undeniable and extremely pronounced advantage, it's hardly the only thing where they have it better. do you really think anyone would want to give that up? I don't expect them to give it up, I expect them not to pretend as if living as a woman was some terrible burden and that men have it better in every regard including dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 11:53 PM |
| 2 | The reason why the vast majority of women will never like the idea of splitting the bill on a first date, even though it’s the most egalitarian, is because it goes against one of the most core tenants of female sexual arousal and selection strategy - “I must feel like I am special”Come on, let's not pretend that today the risk of pregnancy is what it was for the last 200,000 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 11:50 PM |
| 7 | The reason why the vast majority of women will never like the idea of splitting the bill on a first date, even though it’s the most egalitarian, is because it goes against one of the most core tenants of female sexual arousal and selection strategy - “I must feel like I am special”"a hand or company" could mean multiple things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 11:32 PM |
| 7 | The reason why the vast majority of women will never like the idea of splitting the bill on a first date, even though it’s the most egalitarian, is because it goes against one of the most core tenants of female sexual arousal and selection strategy - “I must feel like I am special”I think the issue is a lot of women today don't reciprocate. They expect a man to show he is interested and invested but at no point does she do anything to make the man feel special. Not all women, sure, but it happens. Shit, I remember how absolutely confused I was when a girl who was into me invited me to her place to cook for me. I was so used to a permanent barrage of messages about how much women absolutely loathe acts of services towards men that this - done by a woman I barely knew - tot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 11:30 PM |
| 1 | The reason why the vast majority of women will never like the idea of splitting the bill on a first date, even though it’s the most egalitarian, is because it goes against one of the most core tenants of female sexual arousal and selection strategy - “I must feel like I am special”What’s most interesting to me is that the only time women seemed to care about going Dutch, was because they didn’t want the man to think that she owed him anything. Not because it was fair, just, or egalitarian. Now that it was in her own self interest does she actually give a shit. That's still preferable to her leeching off a guy she isn't interested in, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | A woman is less valuable the more men she’s been with. Why then don’t the most valuable men seem to care?Oh noes, a woman disapproves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Q for men--the polite first-date goodnight kiss--nice or insulting?I agree with you. Nothing is worse than mixed signals if she actually wants to say "no". And a peck on the lips would be such a mixed signal, because - as your anecdote demonstrated - it still left enough wiggle room to be interpreted as something other than disinterest (and so did her accepting your invitations tbh). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 09:27 AM |
| 3 | I Still Can’t Tell If Y’all Think Women Should be MORE Selective Or LessI think the issue is that selective != selective - I once made a post which tackled that issue, where I juxtaposed the "greedy picky" and the "choosy picky" types. The "greedy picky" types are those women who want men who are in high demand - men who are hot, rich, powerful, fit, tall, and every other attractiveness-related trait in the book. The "choosy picky" types on the other hand are women who want a man to be compatible with them - having similar interests, goals, values and opinions. So, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 09:16 AM |
| 4 | I Still Can’t Tell If Y’all Think Women Should be MORE Selective Or LessIts a large amount of women that its become significant enough to assume it's the vast majority of women. I wouldn't go that far; after all, not all women have casual sex. That said, if a woman has casual sex, it's save to assume that she behaves that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 09:04 AM |
| 5 | I Still Can’t Tell If Y’all Think Women Should be MORE Selective Or LessHonestly, I don't know a single woman who "fucks who they think is hot and make potential bfs wait." Various PPD women have admitted to this. Usually with the reasoning "if it's just sex I want, why wait; if it's more than sex I want, I want to make sure he sticks around". Another common element is that they usually don't understand why men could possibly take offense with that. Oh, and once I also dated someone like that. It didn't last. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 09:01 AM |
| 1 | A woman is less valuable the more men she’s been with. Why then don’t the most valuable men seem to care?The TRP take on this can be summed up as "sleep with women who sleep around, but date women who don't". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Men dont really believe "Sex comes before commitment" or "Sex comes before love" do they?Oh, you definitely can. Doesn't mean that you should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | A woman is less valuable the more men she’s been with. Why then don’t the most valuable men seem to care?I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | A woman is less valuable the more men she’s been with. Why then don’t the most valuable men seem to care?Except I am not American (and also not from a particularly traditional country). It's really as I said above - guys are flexible until you've hit a certain threshold, after that they nope out of it. Seriously what happened to the red pill? TRP has always been opposed to dating promiscuous women. You're probably mixing it up with the PUA credo - these guys were generally pretty big on not judging sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Men dont really believe "Sex comes before commitment" or "Sex comes before love" do they?It could mean she’s not that into you, it could mean she’s using you for free food, it could mean she’s low libido and not in a hurry to have sex, it could mean she needs a deep connection, it could mean she just always takes it slow because she takes it quite seriously, it could mean she’s worried you’ll think she’s easy, it could mean she’s trying to test you to make sure you won’t bail. So basically, it's one of the following: She isn't into you She isn't into sex She's a romantic and opposed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Men dont really believe "Sex comes before commitment" or "Sex comes before love" do they?just like i don’t expect you to treat me like the sexiest woman alive. Considering all the shit women say (including reddit - just browse your average relationship-oriented subreddit), this makes you an exception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 07:47 PM |
| 0 | A woman is less valuable the more men she’s been with. Why then don’t the most valuable men seem to care?Seeing as I only go for the latter - there's no reason for me to adjust my sluttery. And that's fine, you do you - even if 90% or whatever wouldn't date you this doesn't mean that there aren't enough possible guys left. But don't fool yourself into believing that most men don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | A woman is less valuable the more men she’s been with. Why then don’t the most valuable men seem to care?Nah. yep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | A woman is less valuable the more men she’s been with. Why then don’t the most valuable men seem to care?Most times they find their new husband in their sexual travels. Which is also why their relationships are less stable. In the manosphere, the high divorce rates of sluts is usually blamed on them being alpha-widowed, which leads to them breaking up with their less-than-stellar husbands - personally, I think this perspective woefully ignores the issue of them having terrible FTO and being skittish. Sluts tend to jump into relationships as they jump into beds: without much consideration and withou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | A woman is less valuable the more men she’s been with. Why then don’t the most valuable men seem to care?Because sex workers usually have mental health issues and other problems. So do bina fide sluts. Dating a Porn star risks your friends seeing your GF doing it and there's also the stigma from people who think it's 'immoral' (parents, colleagues ect). Also applies to sluts. Also (as I said twice) people don't like picturing their loved ones doing 'icky' things. It's not about 'values' or 'morals' - it's just viscerally unpleasant. Also applies to sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 07:27 PM |
| 2 | A woman is less valuable the more men she’s been with. Why then don’t the most valuable men seem to care?Outside of trad con cultures, backward cultures and the incelsphere - most people don't give a shit about a women's N count. Hahaha. No. Granted, I don't know guys who value snagging a virgin (and most would probably steer clear of one if they knew what they were getting into), but all guys I know more closely except one to some extent care about N-count. They might be indifferent to an N in the ballpark of 10, but if confronted with a woman who has an N of several dozens, things would be differ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 07:25 PM |
| 2 | A woman is less valuable the more men she’s been with. Why then don’t the most valuable men seem to care?Can someone explain? Various reasons: even if a woman becomes less valuable the more men she's been with, a 9/10 who got around is still going to have more raw sex appeal to most men than a 7/10 who didn't. Even moreso if she wasn't just putting out, but actually has some girl game. (seriously. Do you think the "most valuable game" go after average-looking sluts?) a guy who got around himself is going to give a woman a lot more leeway. Also, guys who marry pornstars rarely are high value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 07:23 PM |
| 1 | A woman is less valuable the more men she’s been with. Why then don’t the most valuable men seem to care?Be civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 07:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: No man should knowingly date any woman that participates in r/femaledatingstategyoops, I meant FDS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 07:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: No man should knowingly date any woman that participates in r/femaledatingstategyI think there might be a biological reason for this, Is virtue signalling biological? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 04:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: No man should knowingly date any woman that participates in r/femaledatingstategyBe civil. Your next infraction will get you a few days off PPD so you can rethink your approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: No man should knowingly date any woman that participates in r/femaledatingstategyding ding ding we haz a winnar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 04:14 PM |
| 0 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?yawn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Just ask men and women this question to check for entitlementOn a general basis, your argument holds some merit (if feminists complain about the workplace conditions for women, why don't they personally contribute to more companies being founded and led by women?), but on an individual basis it is a tall order to say that anyone who isn't willing to become an entrepreneur has forfeited the right to complain about (potentially valid) workplace issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 03:13 PM |
| 9 | Just ask men and women this question to check for entitlementYou shouldn’t have to start your own company to be allowed an opinion on how things are run, and it’s not unreasonable to want people to change to your wishes if your wishes are reasonable! I actually agree with this particular argument, and do so on principle. "If you don't like it, do better" is a bullshit deflection that's used far too often to suffocate criticism, and usually it's done because the one uttering it can't come up with a better defense. By that logic I wouldn't be allowed to sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 03:05 PM |
| 6 | The female dating strategy sub inadvertently proving redpill theory correct. Oh the irony.Yup. I mean, fuck, you even got a commentary in the NYT that was praising FDS. Imagine someone writing about TRP in a positive manner. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/20 01:39 PM |
| 15 | The female dating strategy sub inadvertently proving redpill theory correct. Oh the irony.The women in there want to have their cake and eat it. They want a "high value man" but they want the guy to prostate himself at their feet from day 1 and expect literally nothing in return. If a woman ends up with a guy by following the suggestions she got from that sub, odds are that the dude is a grade A doormat and she has spend the rest of their relationship lying to herself about how she managed to snag a keeper. How could this go wrong /s | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/20 01:35 PM |
| 2 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?I don't see how "taking advantage of men" is incompatible with feminism, though. It's not a bug, it's a feature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 09:57 AM |
| 1 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?It's not the only filter, but if a guy can't be bothered to pay for the first date it's a bad sign. The woman should offer to pay, but the guy should pay. You don't have to go to a 3 star Michelin celebrity chef hideout, but it's a stark contrast between taking a girl to a normal restaurant and paying, and suggesting maybe getting drinks at a dive bar near your place and sticking her with half the bill. It sets a tone in my opinion. You see, the problem with this is that - even if you're not opp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 09:56 AM |
| 3 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?I guess they think that if they make a guy spend enough money on them, he will have less chances of changing his mind, as he's got too invested in this relationship. It isn't entirely wrong, though. By making sure the guy is actually willing to invest you're weeding out guys who aren't serious (perhaps not all, but still), and by also making him invest you're making him more invested (duh). The problem is that they want to achieve all this without meeting the guy halfway or putting any effort in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 09:05 AM |
| 1 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?The red pill is just fake news designed to divide us. That's one of the weirder conspiracy theories I've read so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 08:57 AM |
| 1 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?You mean "doormat behavior". I mean, by your own admission you hate sex - a guy who settles for this is less than beta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 08:51 AM |
| 2 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?like this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Do women see gay men as “real” men?White cis straight female No, white cis straight females are for some weird reason extremely high on the oppression totem pole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Did men and women used to have lower sexual dimorphism in ancient times?Men used to be much larger than they are now [X for doubt] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 11:07 AM |
| 4 | Why are men becoming weaker and weaker?Societal development. I remember that back when I was a kid, my mother once mentioned how people had become overly protective when it came to their kids - that while it had been the norm back during her childhood that kids were roughhousing, getting bruised and tearing their clothes (and nobody was batting an eye over this), parents nowadays were super-sensitive and were immediately crying for damages (I don't know whether she was exaggerating for dramatic effect). And mind you, this was the 80s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 11:04 AM |
| 1 | What are your experiences with commitment-phobic or flaky women?automod plz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 09:55 AM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on being a SAHM/SAHW or providing for one?My parents managed and we're poor. It is lifestyle based though. If you want to own property in a good area and have cars, then yeah it'd be difficult. This. I mean, fuck, most Muslims in my country have such a lifestyle - man works in a job that usually isn't well paid (if he has work at all), woman is a SAHM, and they have 4+ kids in tow (these however increase their income due to state payment for children). They aren't living the life you'd be envious of from a material perspective, but they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Very low n-count and dead bedroomsIt makes it less outrageous and humiliating. Still doesn't make it more acceptable if that's a dealbreaker for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Very low n-count and dead bedrooms"If you want a virgin, don't be surprised when she puts you in a dead bedroom" Agreed. I wouldn't necessarily expect a DBR (although in the current day it is a lot more likely that a woman who is a virgin beyond a certain age does indeed have personal hangups about sex), but anyone who is totally surprised by it happening would be an idiot. "Sluts are the ones who will give you a satisfying sex life" Disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Do women see gay men as “real” men?I heard somewhere (I think it was a Tim Pool podcast) that the second-worst identity to have in the identity politics crowd is that of being a white gay cis-male. Though this was probably less because of the mockery, and more because of changing societal mores and dynamics - the less gay dudes are targets of harassment for their sexuality, the more their experience become like that of straight guys; and therefore they become legitimate targets for the identity politics crowd in their never-endin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: For those who were friendzoned, orbited, or had oneitis for a woman in the past...I think, in part, this is what's responsible for the lashing out that happens sometimes if these guys get rejected This trope bugs the hell out of me because in my experience, this barely ever happens. Personally I have heard of it exactly once in my extended social circle, and that guy orbited the (rather underwhelming) chick for three fucking years, all the while she - against the better judgment of her friends - kept him around. And then he blew up in her face and started harassing her. Grant… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 09:15 AM |
| 0 | Q4Men: For those who were friendzoned, orbited, or had oneitis for a woman in the past...While this is true, the problem is that this requires awareness of it being a problem in the first place. Taking advantage of the feelings of others was, so to speak, a "guy thing", something women wouldn't do. Of course there were bitches and golddiggers who would, but generally women were above this. After all, women only wanted love and effection but to sift through tons of bad boys and players and users to find it, and at the end of the day the guy who truly cared about her won out. The idea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: For those who were friendzoned, orbited, or had oneitis for a woman in the past...Was this woman exceptionally attractive or special to you Attractive no. She had a few attractive features, but was rather below average overall. Though younger me wouldn't have been able to see it (and believe me, at one point I actively tried). Special yes - that's a nobrainer, because why would one orbit her in the first place if she wasn't? Though it's more complicated: in a way, it's the act of orbiting that elevates her above other girls due to escalation of commitment; because she wasn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 09:00 AM |
| 7 | Q4Men: For those who were friendzoned, orbited, or had oneitis for a woman in the past...No, in my experience guys tend to get friendzoned/orbit the more average looking girls than the super hot ones. A big part of the dynamic is that the girl seems obtainable and just out of reach. Same experience here. Also less attractive girls are more likely to have a personality that enjoys having orbiters. A lot of it is due to insecurity. Also my experience as well. Super hot girls are used to having guys swoon over them as a rule, so she doesn't really have a reason to incentivize an indivi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 08:37 AM |
| 1 | If a man continuously sleeps with a girl below his league, she’s not stupid for believing he might want more than sex.https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/f8r81n/if_a_man_continuously_sleeps_with_a_girl_below/finjfy9/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 10:49 PM |
| 0 | If a man continuously sleeps with a girl below his league, she’s not stupid for believing he might want more than sex.I wouldn't see this as a binary choice between "stupid" and "aware", and more one between "has agency" and "is a victim". And you can guess for what the average feminist will go as a rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 10:00 PM |
| 7 | If a man continuously sleeps with a girl below his league, she’s not stupid for believing he might want more than sex.Also, I believe if two people want to fuck each other, they are in the same league. Hahahahaha. No. But I can see why a woman would prefer to think that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 09:54 PM |
| 14 | If a man continuously sleeps with a girl below his league, she’s not stupid for believing he might want more than sex.Half of being duped is being open to it. There's this saying - "you can't con an honest person". And women who - despite all evidence to the contrary - try to win over a guy above their league by taking a shortcut (aka putting out easily and eagerly with ulterior motives) check that particular box. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Dating experience and increased maturity for women versus men?Literally nothing from his post said he lacked social skills in general. Being a KHV at the age of 22 is a strong indicator. Moreso if she's female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 12:59 PM |
| 6 | Dating experience and increased maturity for women versus men?If you let women shame you into strictly dating women your age your frame is weak as shit. FTFY. I guarantee you: 80% of the shit we have at TRP wouldn't exist if men simply ignored what women said and wouldn't try to model themselves after presumed female expectations in an act of anticipatory obedience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Dating experience and increased maturity for women versus men?Don't compare yourself to women your own age, but like 5-6 years younger She's a girl though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Dating experience and increased maturity for women versus men?Biologically women have a built in system that "bad" decisions are potential pregnancies. ...and avoiding decisions for too long takes away the potential of pregnancies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 12:53 PM |
| 9 | Dating experience and increased maturity for women versus men?That is the level of thought about dating from most women. It still beats "never been on a single date in my whole life, asked out, or held hands" though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Let’s play devils advocate - Men, what issues do you empathize with women on that they have to deal with, and women, what issues do you empathize with men on that they deal with?Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Let’s play devils advocate - Men, what issues do you empathize with women on that they have to deal with, and women, what issues do you empathize with men on that they deal with?I empathize with women who are cold and guarded towards men they don't know because they have made bad experiences with being too nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 11:13 AM |
| 4 | Let’s play devils advocate - Men, what issues do you empathize with women on that they have to deal with, and women, what issues do you empathize with men on that they deal with?It seems to me that women's value is based on looks much more than a man's value. That is, an unattractive woman probably has a harder time dating vs an unattractive man. You're getting it wrong. Yeah, a man's attractiveness is based on more than looks, but that doesn't mean that individually, a man's look are less important - it means that on top of looks, he has to bring other stuff to the table as well (status, confidence, charisma, wealth etc.). A female 5/10 has it easier than an awkward ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Let’s play devils advocate - Men, what issues do you empathize with women on that they have to deal with, and women, what issues do you empathize with men on that they deal with?Yeah. I mean, has anyone ever complained that Chris Hemsworth as Thor looks like a fag? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 11:05 AM |
| 8 | Let’s play devils advocate - Men, what issues do you empathize with women on that they have to deal with, and women, what issues do you empathize with men on that they deal with?Also, masculinity standards can be fucking brutal. So many stupid rules governing what is and isn't "manly." As a woman I hate it when people try to impose their idea of "womanhood" on me, and I think this happens far more often to men, and that's got to be just plain exhausting (and infuriating). The fun part about this is that men who whip you into shape are actually doing you a solid if you get through this instead of spiraling into a depression. Because there's one thing for sure: The negati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 11:03 AM |
| 4 | I was banned for that reply. Ban message said that community supports FULL FEMALE BENEFIT. How does this sub exist and is not quarantined yet.I really am starting to see how pathetic that subreddit is. At first i thought it was a cool idea. I thought it was a group that valued women equally to men. But now i see that it is a place that values women OVER men. And, more importantly, it values unrealistic ideas and standards over what is actually reasonable and responsible. This subreddit was created by a few full-blown narcissists (presumably with a poor relationship record) who have some weird form of penis envy regarding the redpill-s… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/02/20 10:18 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many incels and MGTOWers delighted at the thought of "post wall" women being rejected?the other is a 65 year old woman who has lots of attention/interest/offers from the opposite sex but has stayed single because none of them meet her standards. Uhuh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many incels and MGTOWers delighted at the thought of "post wall" women being rejected?Being able to actually lock a guy down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many incels and MGTOWers delighted at the thought of "post wall" women being rejected?Barely anybody denies that women can get laid with men above their league mostly regardless of age. It's the other stuff that turns out to be a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 11:34 AM |
| 6 | Why are so many incels and MGTOWers delighted at the thought of "post wall" women being rejected?Women have been marrying men 5+ years older than them for centuries and not complaining about the dating market when they hit 60+ and their husband dies. I've never even heard of this before. This. TBH this OP is the first time I've ever seen someone conflate the plight of older women (who oftentimes aren't even really looking for a new partner) with entitled women who behave as if it was some cosmic injustice that the man of their dreams didn't materialize out of thin air and who are writing to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Why are so many incels and MGTOWers delighted at the thought of "post wall" women being rejected?gesundheit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many incels and MGTOWers delighted at the thought of "post wall" women being rejected?You would think that lonely people struggling to find a partner would have compassion for others in the same position. Generally because they aren't in the same position. Even a "nice old lady" who "wasn't a Chad chaser" still isn't in the same position - she might be a bad lightning rod for schadenfreude, but she isn't in the same position. A lot of seniors are widows who loved their husbands. I don't think incels/MGTOWs/etc celebrate septuagenerians being single. The gloating is first and fore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 11:23 AM |
| 0 | Why is this sh*t so addictive?Incels, transgender, redpill, feminism, mgtow, mens rights, etc... It's less this and more that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Straight people are nostalgic for awful times.You're talking about low income households though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Straight people are nostalgic for awful times.I think men should look at their situation and see that for example: my grandfather is still working to take care a woman that has never payed taxes. ....and back in the day due to the prevalence of single income households, this arrangement actually worked. I.e. you didn't work twice as much as today in order to compensate for your domestic partner, but actually could support a family on your dime alone; and partition of labor actually worked. Disregarding the whole "women not being allowed to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 08:01 PM |
| 5 | Moderator NominationsI will do it if you guys want me to there are Your name comes up regularly, I'd say that counts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Moderator NominationsAtlas is basically the mother hen of RPWives (represented at PPD by RPWs). However, what might play into your perception is that in many regards, RPM and RPW are essentially two different teams. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Moderator NominationsI am not sure it meets the test for uncivil here. Hardly. While I disagree with his assessment of sublime (otherwise I wouldn't have nominated her), it still has to be possible to voice disapproval, skepticism or distrust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Moderator NominationsMongrel would be great but she always turns down the nom let's grind her down until she gives in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Moderator Nominationslong as she stays on her meds. giggity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 06:56 PM |
| 10 | Moderator Nominationsgravelroads sublimemongrel EDIT and wtknight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 06:51 PM |
| 10 | Being "good at sex" is for ugly girls. Men don't actually care about your sexual prowess when you're pretty.Sooooo... since you've tooted your own horn when it comes to your appearance more than once... can we take this post as a tacit admission that you suck in bed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | What is the sex and dating landscape like for men and women on the autism spectrum?Thanks for playing, newbie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | "It's only sexual harassment if he's ugly"The problem here is that this isn't the point of his post, though. The validity of those claims is not what I'm here to discuss. They could be true or not for all I care. What I'm here to discuss is the fact that men who make those claims are hypocrites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: Do you feel men are too sexual in dating?Saying "you're ugly anyway" doesn't make you look better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: Do you feel men are too sexual in dating?Tinder is a hookup app so I'm not surprised by it... but God, does it actually WORK for men ??? I know what doesn't work: not being forthcoming and aggressive. Tinder girls have incredibly short attention spans and an extremely annoying consumer attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: Do you feel men are too sexual in dating?be me 315lb brown dude ugly af (go check my history lmao) You're exaggerating, and you certainly don't look 315lbs (at least not on that pic). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: Do you feel men are too sexual in dating?Like attracts like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 08:41 AM |
| 2 | What are your opinions and observations on "the only girl in a company" types?I thought it was immensely relatable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 05:11 PM |
| 9 | Do women hate sluts because they’re a competition?That assumes women are all going after the same types of guys. It doesn't even have to be the case. Why? Well, consider this: women's greatest ally on the SMP is male thirst, the presence of a slut disrupts this. She can monopolize the attention of more guys ecause they know they can get laid easier with her than with other chicks; and she can also snag away a guy because she's recklessly leveraging her sexuality. And this doesn't even go into homewrecker territory! Now you say "but what if I do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | What are your opinions and observations on "the only girl in a company" types?I think it also depends on you. Yeah, of course. If you are "one of the girls", I guess a female-heavy workplace is fine. Currently I am working in an office with four people (half/half) which is actually pretty entertaining, and the women are chill. But I also worked in an open plan office with very few guys and a dozen chicks, and two bitchy types among the latter already make it decidedly less fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 04:59 PM |
| 3 | What are your opinions and observations on "the only girl in a company" types?You must love Stranger Things then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | What are your opinions and observations on "the only girl in a company" types?I don't have experiences with "the only girl in the company"-types, but IME a workplace with lots of girls is less fun than one with fewer of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4W how aware/unaware are groups of single women of each other's levels promiscuity?q4w | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: Married Redditors on PPD, Why Did You Marry, Have Gender Issues Caused Problems, and Would You Marry Again?I guess I am surprised by how much other people hate it/find it difficult. Maybe because they ended up with a poor fit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Q4A: Married Redditors on PPD, Why Did You Marry, Have Gender Issues Caused Problems, and Would You Marry Again?Who are you then? I can't recall having seen your name when beachredwhine was around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Would you rather have one adopted child who you get to raise, or 10 biological children who you never get to know?No, that's part of the question. You have to decide between never having your own kids and never getting to raise kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Would you rather have one adopted child who you get to raise, or 10 biological children who you never get to know?Note that sperm retrieval is significantly LESS damaging to the donor than egg retrieval No shit. However, I think for the sake of the argument, you're supposed to assume that for some occult reason the invasive process of egg retrieval is as easy as a sperm donation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: Would you rather have one adopted child who you get to raise, or 10 biological children who you never get to know?I wouldn't want to adopt unless it was the only real path (like I was the only person to take my best friends kids in after a accident) I can relate to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Would you rather have one adopted child who you get to raise, or 10 biological children who you never get to know?Just want to beat the local high score set by a gay guy who has 9 kids through donation. Story time! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Would you rather have one adopted child who you get to raise, or 10 biological children who you never get to know?Give me the option where I have less to do with the kids I had to chuckle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Would you rather have one adopted child who you get to raise, or 10 biological children who you never get to know?10 bio kids, simply because having my own kids (even if I strictly speaking don't "have" them) is prio #1 for me when it comes to kids. Not opposed to adoption per se (still not marrying a single mom), but if it's an either/or-decision... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Would you rather have one adopted child who you get to raise, or 10 biological children who you never get to know?upvote for a nice shitpost | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Why is hypergamy viewed as worse than polygyny?This isn’t about me being right. The lady doth protest too much, methinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Why is hypergamy viewed as worse than polygyny?I’m asking you what YOU mean by “hypergamy stuff.” I've been here for several years, and so are you. I've been pretty clear about it repeatedly and you know it. And no, I won't be writing another essay just because you desperately need the satisfaction of having made me dance to your tune. Explain how in your mind this equating prostitution with polygyny. Oh for fuck's sake, stop arguing in bad faith and don't get on my nerves. It's pretty obvious that this was precisely what you intended (becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Why is hypergamy viewed as worse than polygyny?What is “hypergamy stuff?” You have been around long enough to know what falls under this umbrella, I am not going to entertain you now just because you're contrarian on purpose. And i did this where? You might want to check your short-term memory. You’re trying to claim that men here can never be polygynous because they can’t have multiple partners. Why can’t they? They can visit as many hookers as they want. Though I have to admit that I am curious how you're going to twist that around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Are there early signs of a man wanting you to be his forever gf/placeholder gf?Well, IIRC you aren't 30 yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Why is hypergamy viewed as worse than polygyny?Gonna need some clarification. It's in the title of this thread. And if you equate prostitution with polygyny, the title of this thread would be "Why is hypergamy viewed as worse than (frequently) visiting hookers?" And my answer would be: "Simple: it isn't." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Reality of 2020Mach im eigenen Interesse keinen Stress, für Incel-content gilt hier eine Null Toleranz-Politik. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 04:12 PM |
| 5 | When men date younger womenHave you been to /r/relationship_advice? When there's a huge age gap post about a relationship its normally a shitty relationship. FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | When men date younger womenBy that logic, men would never date because they certainly aren't mature at puberty and don't grow personally in the romantic realm because they can't get dating experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Why is hypergamy viewed as worse than polygyny?Aaaaah you're refering to single men, why don't you say that. Still, in the context of this thread: you seriously think that a man visiting hookers is perceived more positively than a woman doing hypergamy stuff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 03:57 PM |
| 1 | When men date younger womenI liked dating when younger because people were with you because they liked you, not because what they offered you. You surely mean "what you offered to them" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 03:55 PM |
| 1 | When men date younger womenSo now he is seeking younger women and he is willing to manipulate their feelings just to get a son. Crazy!! A guy who wants a (male) kid, what a monster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Why is hypergamy viewed as worse than polygyny?A loyal, attractive man is a surprise to most people. Cheating is normalized and encouraged amongst the same men worried about hypergamy. I have news for you. The perception and the ideas you find on FDS or TRP aren't reflective of reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Are there early signs of a man wanting you to be his forever gf/placeholder gf?/u/maybelowsmv I was wondering if it's something women learn over the years because other than convenience of age and life stages, how come the few women that ARE single in their 30s manage to hookup with a guy and get married much faster than say a 26 year old woman. Probably because they weed out clearly incompatible men more rigorously. As an example, the ex of a friend of mine. They started out as FWBs (with her wanting more) when she was 22, then 1.5 years in they officially got together an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Why is hypergamy viewed as worse than polygyny?They can visit as many hookers as they want. In other words: they're cheating. And again, in the context of this thread: I dare to say that this is hardly considered "better" than hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 02:53 PM |
| 0 | Reality of 2020In 2020 every sub-8 male is an incel. ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Reality of 2020No incel content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Why is hypergamy viewed as worse than polygyny?I said "Because polygyny is a non-issue here." and with "here" I didn't mean "planet Earth". So, unless you guys can make a case for men in the West routinely having multiple relationships simultaneously without being judged for it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Why is hypergamy viewed as worse than polygyny?So, cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Why is hypergamy viewed as worse than polygyny?How many guys have multiple partners? Alternatively: If you refer to cheating - that one is hardly seen as "better" than hypergamy. Especially if it isn't because of a DBR, but just because the guy wants some strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 12:55 PM |
| 5 | Why is hypergamy viewed as worse than polygyny?Because polygyny is a non-issue here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 12:17 PM |
| 2 | In modern day, being "good" for a man is a recipe for getting taken as a sucker.I dunno, if a post already has comments and isn't flagranty violating any rules... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Violation of privacy or lie by omission?Tbh on some level I can even understand that. My personal issue with the whole "sharing personal information"-thing is that I can understand why someone wouldn't want to overshare especially when the relationship is still in its infancy (you don't want to tell randos that you're an ex-whore, have an incurable STD, are transgender etc. because stuff like that are details I think we all can agree are reasonable to withhold from the general public). However the problem is that too many (and even a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 09:59 AM |
| 3 | In modern day, being "good" for a man is a recipe for getting taken as a sucker.That's all fine and well, but we had this post a bazillion times already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 09:25 AM |
| 3 | Is PPD biased against BP opinions?RP has stronger posters and commenters, whereas BP lacks the writing capabilities to better argue their points. I think this is the core of the issue. BP ideas are the default, and people who believe in them aren't used to having to defend them. People who have an RP position on the other hand are used to having them contested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Sex robots will affect the datingI'm not remotely sure why you think/presume self-awareness is off the table for an AI forever and always. I want to remind you of the possibility that it actually might be off the table simply because it could be impossible that an AI will never be more than a computer. There are scientists literally working on this right now and I've personally met some of them. Do they just use the term "self wareness" for a computer that displays lifelike behavior (having a wide array of possible reactions to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Sex robots will affect the datingThere's a reason I said it's not within our lifetime, and that's based on machine learning projects I've seen up-close and what their creators have told me. You see, the thing is that the level of progress is secondary if it's impossible for an AI to develop true self awareness. Because no matter how sophisticated an AI is , as long as self-awareness is off the table, it also isn't sentient. Sure, an extremely sophisiticated AI could convincingly mimic the entire range of human behaviors and emo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | When men date younger womenq4w | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 10:53 PM |
| 2 | When men date younger womenq4w | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | When men date younger womenq4w, male posts go to the automod so do circlejerk posts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 10:51 PM |
| 1 | When men date younger womenq4w | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Sex robots will affect the datingThat's assuming that society doesn't adapt. When the internet was a really new thing, people also said that only people who were in some way deviant would forge connections online; and the first relationships and marriages that were formed through these connections were treated as strange freaks - and even long after that relying on internet dating was still considered the hallmark of a failure. Today nobody would bat an eye at this anymore. So who says that "companionship androids" won't underg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Sex robots will affect the datingYou go that far (and we won't within our lifetime) and you've got, essentially, sentience Sentience requires self-awareness. It's like the issue with a chess program: the chess program can play better than any human mind, but it doesn't know it's playing chess. It just does. Basically the Chinese room argument. In that vein, we don't know whether a truly sentient, self-aware is even possible. Most of the AIs we encounter in fiction - whether it's Data in Star Trek, Ava in Ex Machina, AM in I hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What Exactly is Considered Porn Sex and Why is It Unrealistic For Men In Relationships To Expect It?bdsm: PORN SHIT, weirdo ugly theythem shit too Eh, I think BDSM is one of the few things were the female demand for it is larger than the male supply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 09:32 AM |
| 7 | How much does a career offer in terms of increasing the male smv?Choosing a job based on potential dating aspects is incredibly dumb and will absolutely end in regret. The same applies to choosing a master's degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 08:47 AM |
| 0 | When do most womens looks start to fade?For average-looking women? During her 20s. An average-looking woman is kinda cute between 20 and 25. She's at her physical peak, doesn't have to count calories to be slim, probably has her hair grown out, and any lifestyle-induced deterioration usually hasn't kicked in yet. An average-looking woman around 30 on the other hand has aged for the worse for the first time in her life (going from "kinda cute" to "meh"), has to watch what she eats in order to keep her weight (which usually means that s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls think that guys only want sex?Why do girls think that guys only want sex? Apex fallacy. Because women go after the guys who are in demand and thus can afford to only want sex from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 01:57 PM |
| -1 | Why do girls think that guys only want sex?Only on PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Aren’t women with high notch counts men’s best bet?Eh, girls with daddy issues seem to be slow learners in that regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Why is it so common for men to think that if a girl is nice to him, she must want him?Technically he isn't wrong, though. I disagree with those people who think that the FZ is some incel fabrication, or who completely absolve the friendzoner of all responsibility for that dynamic, but let's be honest here: it's called friendzone, not friendprison. Because a zone you can leave. I like to liken the FZ to a bagel-shaped ring: you can either leave it by moving in, to the center, or by moving out. And even though moving in usually isn't a realistic option, moving out always is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so common for men to think that if a girl is nice to him, she must want him?It really threw me off because I was convinced she liked me and was baffled that her behavior changed. He said she does that to guys a lot. He, reminds me of an ex of mine. When we got to know each other, she texted me on FB, asked me a bunch of (not too) personal questions, and generally displayed an interest in me, and met me the next day at a lake where we hung out one on one until the evening. Much later (at that point we were already together) when we talked about it she also mentioned how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 01:00 PM |
| 2 | So do guys only want sex? Or do they want relationshipsRemove the personal attack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 12:52 PM |
| 6 | So do guys only want sex? Or do they want relationshipsWoman, surely you realise She's an 18 year old girl who thinks being a sugarbabe is a good idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 12:49 PM |
| 2 | So do guys only want sex? Or do they want relationshipsand havnt found a healthy relationship. At 18 that isn't really a problem. Being a sugarbabe on the other hand is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 12:47 PM |
| 2 | So do guys only want sex? Or do they want relationshipsI'm still hung up on not knowing you were only 18. You seem way too jaded to only be 18. Gonna have to marinate on all this a minute:D pours Tyler_Gatsby a virtual scotch, then drinks it himself, pours him another one, hesitates, drinks that one as well, pours a third one and hands it to Tyler_Gatsby "you're welcome" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Which gender is most clueless about the other ?Yes, but I used to be younger and I knew this then. Then you were wise beyond your years :-* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Aren’t women with high notch counts men’s best bet?That's definitely true, but that doesn't nullify the existence of women who are after more. Between bona fide sluts without standards (the ones from the OP) and, well, how to call them? compliment-fisherwomen? there are most certainly bona fide sluts with standards who like fucking the best guys they can (and, let's be honest, probably also trick themselves into believing they can get more than that). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 12:43 PM |
| 2 | What are some things guys think women like that they’ve been sorely misled about?np | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 12:33 PM |
| 2 | What are some things guys think women like that they’ve been sorely misled about?I've met guys like that, who think thats flirting I have no trouble believing that. I am curious though: is it the players who say that or the more stable, nice and inoffensive guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Why would you expect people to maintain a naive vision of loving throughout their lives?man-repellant Your flairs are a sight to behold :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 10:37 PM |
| 8 | Aren’t women with high notch counts men’s best bet?I’m pretty open about not having an issue with sluts- even preferring them. I can’t understand the manosphere’s hatred of them. You're free to date them, problem solved. They’re women who like dick for the sake of dick instead of some kind of validation or status boost. I give you the status boost, but don't believe for a second that there aren't plenty of women who do it for validation. These are the least hypergamous kinds of women. Chads are rare as fuck; there’s NO way they sleep with only C… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 10:36 PM |
| 1 | What are some things guys think women like that they’ve been sorely misled about?Ah okay, it kinda read as if you had regrets. Not overwhelming ones, but still regrets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What are some things guys think women like that they’ve been sorely misled about?Why is it horrifying, why would it be hilarious, and why do men think women are into it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 10:01 PM |
| 2 | What are some things guys think women like that they’ve been sorely misled about?q4w | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What are some things guys think women like that they’ve been sorely misled about?On some level that's sad :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:59 PM |
| 3 | What are some things guys think women like that they’ve been sorely misled about?I also think some guys believe that if they talk about having kids with a girl it's a sign of commitment and romance, when really the idea of having a kid can be so viscerally offputting to a lot of us because of what it implies. Isn't that actually a perk if he really wants kids and you sort that out early on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | What are some things guys think women like that they’ve been sorely misled about?pumpkin spice Why that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP What is RP to you? Any purples leaning blue can also answer.b) agree but think men must be told it is because they are too dense to get it’s a factor at all. Considering what is sold to men as attractive to women, this isn't even that far off. A guy who internalized all bluepill messages about dating has developed an idea of what constitutes "attractiveness" that might actually be more harmful than helpful. However, in order to illustrate what I am getting at: Imagine you have two guys, to one you're 100% attracted (and I mean really totally viscerally a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:53 PM |
| 7 | Men, do you or should you lie about your N Count? Are there certain sexual encounters you’ve had you wouldn’t disclose to someone you’re seriously dating?I'm a male virgin, I'm not going to lie saying I've slept with women when I haven't, and that lie for most I imagine would backfire. It really depends how you personally deal with the backfiring. I wasn't as forthcoming as you when I lost my virginity (because had I been I wouldn't have lost it), and while my first time was rather underwhelming and initially also somewhat depressing, after I got over it it was as if I had flipped a switch - I actually started doing what I hadn't dared to do in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:41 PM |
| 0 | Dating in a politically polarized worldSee that past tense language? That's because you're talking about something that was nearly forty years ago. Except that she never distanced herself from that position - her latest take on that issue (years after Reimer had committed suicide, so actually rather recent) was that the reason the whole thing didn't work was something something patriarchy, and the reason for Reimer's suicide wasn't that Dr Money had destroyed his life, but because he had been mentally unstable anyway. Charming! Howev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP What is RP to you? Any purples leaning blue can also answer.Being a woman has nothing to do with understanding why it’s weak. Yes, because you very obviously dismiss a very relevant factor because you can't relate to it, which is a habit I've observed time and again in women - that they take various things for granted which aren't for men (one might even say they have... female privilege). Move where? How? When? This is utterly useless direction. Are you just contrarian on purpose or is this a misunderstanding? Okay, I'll entertain you and assume that it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 07:42 PM |
| 4 | Fuckboys are not High Value Men.Still wrong, but whatever floats your boat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 06:20 PM |
| 7 | Fuckboys are not High Value Men.No, he's gullible because he puts to much faith in the words of women who claim to be sapiosexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Fuckboys are not High Value Men.I guess that's why they're called trophy wives. Pretty, expensive and ultimately useless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 05:49 PM |
| 4 | Dating in a politically polarized worldI would consider it a win if feminists as a whole admitted this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Which gender is most clueless about the other ?Relax, 'twas a joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Which gender is most clueless about the other ?This is actually a more interesting question and going through the answers, I have a hard time deciding whether it's one or the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Which gender is most clueless about the other ?I think if it was necessary for women to "get" men, women would also start to share notes at a grand scale. However, the one thing that produced TRP, PUA etc. - the necessity to make the other sex attracted to you - is something women have already covered pretty reliably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Dating in a politically polarized worldOverall I agree. However... It’s just the wrong men listened to the message when it was never for them in the first place. ...the way I see it, this isn't entirely correct. I think that feminists really want #yesallmen to internalize feminist values - the problem is just that they are so incredibly caught up in their own ideology that they refuse to accept the mere idea that men could be affected negatively by listening to it. The sheer and utter hatred with which they attack men who dare to men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Which gender is most clueless about the other ?the mam I actually sleep with Freudian slip? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 04:31 PM |
| 7 | Which gender is most clueless about the other ?I do realise this. You're also over 40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 04:31 PM |
| 12 | Why is it so common for men to think that if a girl is nice to him, she must want him?Women are nice to guys that they are potentially interested in. I would say "women are nice to guys they like", and depending on the woman liking a guy can be absolutely platonic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 04:27 PM |
| 11 | Why is it so common for men to think that if a girl is nice to him, she must want him?This - and the younger women (the age peers of the guys who are most likely to fall for that) rarely being, well, nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Dating in a politically polarized worldThey should have been focusing on making high status attractive men pro female imperative. That's essentially what they tried, it just backfired. Your comment (that by the way looks suspiciously like poor trolling) aside: feminists have guilt-tripped men into adopting supplicating, self-flaggelating behavior, and constantly indoctrinated them into valuing female priorities above their own. I.e. a behavior that might (at least at first glance) be considered a net positive if attractive, high stat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 04:24 PM |
| 6 | Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier.Men brought money into a home when women didn’t have the opportunity to do so, they did not take care of their partners. You guys should really decide whether women weren't allowed to work or actually worked all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier.It’s a common belief amongst these areas Not gonna lie, you had me up in arms at the first half. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 02:16 PM |
| 1 | What types of women would you marry vs keep as a forever gf?I think the sad thing about you (I'm not saying this to offend) is that you truly hate the life you think you have to have to get the woman you want. Do you think most men like the life (or at least the work) they have? It is as Dave Chapelle has once said: if men could get laid in a cardboard box, they wouldn't buy houses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP What is RP to you? Any purples leaning blue can also answer.I think this a common RP talking point and it’s a weak one. You're free to think that, but then again you're a woman. I could say the same about proximity but no one would say that’s the most important factor in a relationship. Bad comparison, proximity is an issue with a solution that isn't complicated at all (maybe difficult, maybe extremely inconvenient, but definitely not complicated): move. IMO RPers know this is true which is why they have to strawman this stance as “ATTRACTION DOESN’T NEE… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP What is RP to you? Any purples leaning blue can also answer.But I wasn't giving advice on how to start a relationship That's all fine and well, but the problem of many men - especially those who have the comfort thing nailed down - is that this is where they're lacking. You're acting like "compatibility" is some kind of personal trait that women are telling men to develop- it's not. I don't even disagree - however, what you're glossing over is that all the compability in the world is worthless without chemistry. Why am I so insistent on that front? Well,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 12:17 PM |
| 2 | What types of women would you marry vs keep as a forever gf?Karma, huh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 11:58 AM |
| 1 | What types of women would you marry vs keep as a forever gf?I am living in a country with a bachelor tax, so if I am with a woman who is good enough to keep around forever, she's also good enough to marry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Dating in a politically polarized worldbut try to grasp that "women are identical in every way" and "women can perform with equal competence in any field" are not interchangeable statements. Disregarding the fact that there are non-fringe feminists who make or made that claim (in my country, there was a very prolific one who had nothing but praise for Dr Money's human experiment on David Reimer back when it took place, explicitly saying that this would finally serve as proof that the only difference between the sexes is physical... a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 11:39 AM |
| 0 | Dating in a politically polarized worldWell, considering the disproportional and overly personal nature of your response, it doesn't seem too far-fetched to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 10:59 AM |
| 0 | Dating in a politically polarized worldSeems as if I have hit a nerve here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Dating in a politically polarized worldNo feminist movement that I'm aware of (there's more than one) says this either. [...] Straw Man score: 3/5. Okay, you're very obviously in denial. The idea that there are (non-physical) fields where men are overall better than women - and that they are so by nature? If you claim that feminists have no problems admitting this is true, you're either even more clueless than you think I am or plain and simply a liar. Because the default mode for feminists is that any underrepresentation of women (i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Dating in a politically polarized worldthat they had no idea was so prevalent. Yeah, that's because feminism does its best to constantly tell everyone how catcalling is basically the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:55 AM |
| 2 | Dating in a politically polarized worldAnd many men in these areas also shun the term “feminist” but if you drill down into their beliefs, at minimum they hold mainstream feminist views. Yeah, this is because they got indoctrinated with feminist ideas all their lives to such an extent that they don't even question them. Take me for example: I would never have considered myself a feminist, mostly because I always had the impression that at its core, feminism is against me because I'm a guy (that card-carrying feminists in my country a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:52 AM |
| 0 | Dating in a politically polarized worldhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0csWC99OrXI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Dating in a politically polarized worldUntil I gently introduce them to my views, at which point they gradually realise that I'm correct. You must stop dating people dumber than you, then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Dating in a politically polarized worldPersonally I think it's unfortunate since it shrinks dating pools, but then on the other hand if someone feels strongly enough about left-wing politics that she mentions it on her dating profile, odds are that we wouldn't work out anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:20 AM |
| 3 | Dating in a politically polarized worldYou do know that if you get Bernie in 2020, the reason this is possible in the first place is that there are enough people who disliked Hillary so much that they actually preferred Trump? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:18 AM |
| 0 | Dating in a politically polarized worldThe fact that feminists tried to make them for decades is the reason why we're having the problems this sub is about in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:14 AM |
| 6 | Dating in a politically polarized worldWhat's up with this idea that feminist women want men who completely disagree with their political views? I think it's the wildly misinterpreted Vicky Spratt article about "The Dangerous rise of men who won't date woke women" and similar texts. There was also a thread about it here. What most right-leaning people seem to get from the original article is that the author is salty that fewer men want to date her (and the likelihood of them thinking that increases drastically if they only read the h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Dating in a politically polarized worldIf you can afford to turn down otherwise good options because of something as trivial as political views. You're probably already doing pretty well anyway. Well, let's be honest: women who are on dating sites are doing pretty well - or they think they are because they only see the hundreds of mails they get, but don't see all the other women getting the same mails from the same guys. That said, political differences aren't that trivial. I once read somewhere (I think it was even linked at PPD) t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Dating in a politically polarized worldmy age(18-22) Aaaah, that explains a lot. (didn't mean that as an insult, I just assumed that you are - like the majority in here - at least in your mid-to-late 20s and was a bit irritated by some of your posts) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 08:58 AM |
| 3 | Dating in a politically polarized worldWhat I said was whether trp labeling, and thus reasoning for its rejection of feminism could be politically motivated. No, the core of the issue is indeed a fundamentally different position regarding all things gender- and relationship-related. Though of course one may make the case that political differences only compound that issue. But then again, why does it have to be just one reason? Doesn't just apply to feminism by the way. not dating feminists isn't only about gender stuff, but also abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Do any other men lie about their sexual/relationship history?This depends inhowfar she took him evading the question as a "don't worry". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP What is RP to you? Any purples leaning blue can also answer.No, the fact that it didn't occur to you that a relationship - or just having the shot at one - doesn't happen automatically. If I had a male friend who was struggling with getting together with women, I wouldn't tell him to prioritize becoming "boyfriend/husband material" (which is what women are doing 95% of the time when they try to "help" men), I would tell him to prioritize becoming successful at dating and getting laid - that he should make it a prioritiy to improve his looks, to develop h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP What is RP to you? Any purples leaning blue can also answer.Let me guess, you're female? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 11:08 AM |
| 1 | If I can find guy friends who enjoy my company without demanding sex, why cant I expect the same out of a boyfriend?This sounds exactly like the criticism of the Nice Guy Syndrome, where the guy sees sex as the REAL prize and sees everything else as a burden. I think you're projecting. A friendzoned guy who pursued a woman and didn't get a relationship out of it is most likely frustrated because his (oftentimes extensive) courtship didn't yield the desired result and hence cuts off contact may retroactively see his time with the woman in question as wasted - but that doesn't mean he hated spending time with h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 10:45 AM |
| 1 | If I can find guy friends who enjoy my company without demanding sex, why cant I expect the same out of a boyfriend?Then we need to come up with a new term for you. If demisexual is a thing you are... quartersexual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 10:22 AM |
| 3 | If I can find guy friends who enjoy my company without demanding sex, why cant I expect the same out of a boyfriend?Not when she expects him to wait for years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 10:20 AM |
| 3 | If I can find guy friends who enjoy my company without demanding sex, why cant I expect the same out of a boyfriend?That sounds like something a Pick Me girl thinks "Oh! If I have sex with him enough, he'll see me as a girlfriend!" and turns out she's just his booty call. You do know that there are about 49 shades of grey between "I am his fuck doll" and "he is only sincere about me if he is willing to completely forego sex"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 10:19 AM |
| 4 | If I can find guy friends who enjoy my company without demanding sex, why cant I expect the same out of a boyfriend?Even worse, if you're told that it is not our responsibility to escalate (because women are strong and independent and know what they want and should never be pressured because that's rapey etc.) odds are that you won't get any sex unless you run into the occasional unicorn who is both more proactive and into you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 10:00 AM |
| 2 | If I can find guy friends who enjoy my company without demanding sex, why cant I expect the same out of a boyfriend?Since you've already mentioned elsewhere that you hate sex, pick a guy who does too. Boom, problem solved. This has also the welcomed side effect that you and a normal guy stop wasting each other's time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 09:58 AM |
| 2 | If I can find guy friends who enjoy my company without demanding sex, why cant I expect the same out of a boyfriend?If a guy insists on having sex, then he doesn't really like you for anything but sex. Ah, the great female guilt-trip many a man has fallen for. Every woman who thinks like that should be dumped on the spot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 09:57 AM |
| 3 | If I can find guy friends who enjoy my company without demanding sex, why cant I expect the same out of a boyfriend?Sounds like it, doesn't it? Though if I am not mixing things up she's ostensibly a virgin, so this might explain things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Q4BP What is RP to you? Any purples leaning blue can also answer.You see, the problem with the kind of argument you've made is that it is exactly the reason (well, half of it) why guys listening to it end up bluepilled. They have tons of women shouting from the rooftops how the comfort-inducing traits A, B and C are more important than attraction, implying that attraction is a negligible quantity and that they should instead focus on A, B and C instead. That A, B and C are oftentimes traits that get you straight into friendzone absent attraction only compound… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Do any other men lie about their sexual/relationship history?He isn't projecting the image of a boy scout, he's keeping her in suspense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Do any other men lie about their sexual/relationship history?Yeah, the # of guys who lie because they (feel they) had too many women is negligible; or the # of guys who lied because they had visited prostitutes. I won't make a guess about guys who don't mention that they cheated, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Q4BP What is RP to you? Any purples leaning blue can also answer.Attraction is fickle, selfish and all around a shit foundation to build a lifelong relationship on. I say that as a person who has been married 8 years who witnessed my parents who have been married 50 years. Unless you married a person you weren't that attracted to and your parents did the same, you can't really use that as an argument to dismiss claims regarding the importance of attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 09:10 AM |
| 2 | How compelling do you find the cheeseburger arguement?The analogy (which I consider a poor fit by the way) wasn't about orgasms, but about a lifestyle. And let's not pretend that people who gorge themselves on junk food for years secretly hated it all along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 09:06 AM |
| 1 | How compelling do you find the cheeseburger arguement?You may come back when women weeding out men for their past behavior is widely shamed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 09:02 AM |
| 1 | How compelling do you find the cheeseburger arguement?No, it isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 09:01 AM |
| 6 | How compelling do you find the cheeseburger arguement?The problem is more that you posted with a brand-new account and two of your three threads were about FDS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 08:57 AM |
| 0 | How compelling do you find the cheeseburger arguement?And then they start eating what they really like. What if they don't eat what they like, but eat what they would consider "healthy", and don't really enjoy eating it from then on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 08:51 AM |
| 1 | How compelling do you find the cheeseburger arguement?since many women do not actually get satisfaction out of casual sex. Then those women don't have casual sex, problem solved. We're talking about those women who apparently do get satisfaction out of casual sex. If FDS is any indication, more women than many suspected were just doing casual sex to try to secure more from guys, not because it was a pleasure in its own right. How goes the saying? You can't con an honest person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 08:39 AM |
| 2 | How compelling do you find the cheeseburger arguement?Most people live normal relatively healthy lifestyles Ha! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 08:38 AM |
| 1 | How compelling do you find the cheeseburger arguement?Not compelling at all, since the cheeseburger is a flawed equivalent. If a formerly obese person eats another cheeseburger, this isn't exactly a terrible lapse. It isn't even remotely comparable to someone cheating on you. If anything, a former alcoholic would a better comparison since apparently even one drink is enough to send that person back on a downward spiral. The problem with ex-sluts isn't just that the risk of them cheating on you, but also all the other things - heightened risk of div… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 08:36 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are jealous of lifting.How exactly did she manage to carry children to term? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 10:53 PM |
| 17 | Erectile Dysfunction - Women blaming porn for thatWhile I think that the blanket assumption that porn and ED are necessarily linked is bananas, what's even more bananas is zoning in on the tiny minority of guys whose performance was affected because they take steroids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Are former mansluts, manwhores, male pornstars, gigolos, male sex workers, escorts...a dealbreaker for women like it is for men?I kinda suspect it doesn't work like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 10:53 AM |
| 2 | How important is money to women, really?No, being sensitive/attentive/yadda yadda yadda is. Money (a) doesn't hurt and (b) isn't constantly touted as the nonplusultra. In fact, I dare to say that money is underrated - while people are often realistic about the appeal money has for sub-par women, they tend to underestimate the sheer number of sub-par women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 10:34 AM |
| 1 | How important is money to women, really?Or are in denial about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 10:22 AM |
| 1 | How important is money to women, really?Most women just dont want you to be a lazy ass who’d rather play video games than be productive. if only | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 10:16 AM |
| 2 | How important is money to women, really?I would only date women who grew up in the West in general - the culture gap that comes with marrying someone from an entirely different culture is often underestimated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 10:13 AM |
| 4 | How important is money to women, really?I see where Atlas is coming from, though. If you're dating a guy mostly because of his money and the lifestyle he provides, two or three times the national average isn't exactly huge. All this means is that you won't have serious worries if you spend responsibly and can still afford to have kids and buy a nice home. The stereotypical gold digger on the other hand is more likely into it because she wants to spend irresponsibly. Of course there's also the bailout-scenario where a woman who fucked … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Women should NEVER enter the porn industry. Even if the like earning money AND having sex.CMV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Women should NEVER enter the porn industry. Even if the like earning money AND having sex.Since this is a CMV: if you really like the idea (i.e. you want to be in porn for whatever reason and not just an easy paycheck), are smart about it (i.e. avoid all the shit you just mentioned) and are okay with the fact that your social life will be mostly with other people in the business (i.e. a normal life with outsiders is off the table), you might be able to pull it off. That said, I wouldn't suggest anyone to do it either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 09:54 AM |
| 1 | How much do you care about your significant other's income?jokes/trolling to to the automod... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 09:49 AM |
| 1 | How much do you care about your significant other's income?It's nice to get taken on holidays and meals out. Not to mention the free churros | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 09:48 AM |
| 1 | How much do you care about your significant other's income?Jokes/trolling go to the automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 09:46 AM |
| 2 | How much do you care about your significant other's income?technically it would be 24/4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 09:46 AM |
| 4 | How much do you care about your significant other's income?Now she makes $97k and I make $84. Still don't care. Her earning 96,916$ more than you doesn't bother you? scnr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 09:45 AM |
| 1 | How much do you care about your significant other's income?As long as you two work as a team, of course it is a benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 09:43 AM |
| 7 | How much do you care about your significant other's income?I would also add that poor women are also often low value. The fairy tale of the pretty, virtuous, diligent girl who is a half-orphan and works hard in order to support her sick mother and her aging grandparents is exactly that: a fairy tale. Her being a being a basic bitch and substance-abusing hoe is far more likely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 09:39 AM |
| 1 | How much do you care about your significant other's income?Could you elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 09:30 AM |
| 3 | How much do you care about your significant other's income?Until a few days ago, her flair was "incel larping as a thot" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 09:29 AM |
| 5 | Why do you think men are more prone to anger/rage?Because bending over all the time is a pretty good way for men to be weeded out of the genepool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?That's gynocentrism speaking. Just because he treated his wives badly makes him worse than the 60 other Monarchs since king Egbert? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 06:06 PM |
| 2 | If a man has an ugly face, can building a muscular body make that much of a difference in improving attraction?Yes, it improves your chances with chicks who dig muscles more than faces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think feminists enjoy submissive fantasies?Except maybe sex-negative radfems. No maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think feminists enjoy submissive fantasies?If you’re strong and dominant all the time you might want a period where you can step out of that role and be dominated. Bonus points if you aren't really strong and dominant, but actually more on the meeker side and just use ideology as a crutch because its tenet that you're perpetually victimized feels kinda true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How does a guy not know anything about girls?Lmao how can you be psychologist and be feminist at the same time? I wonder that too, but considering how many psychologists are progressives, I guess they're using their degrees more to rationalize human behavior in a way it aligns with their ideology, than to explain it rationally. Yeah I got a man-butthurt mother and sister, [...] I don't look much like him though. It was more about the "misguided mother/sister"-combo that reminded me of him. Though I have to add that the comments are interes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | How does a guy not know anything about girls?My mother and sister are the reason why I believed so much bullshit about women lmao. Hey, French Zac | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that all men end up paying to be with a woman in one way or another?This was a rhetorical question, kinda like "would people really lie on the internet?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How does a guy not know anything about girls?Even though this thread had been closed - save that comment; I'll guarantee you you'll get ample opportunities to repurpose it should you stick around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Who has more power: Stacy or Chad?Was "she ones" just a freudian slip and you actually meant "the ones"? ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?but to me he just looks like a guy who wants what he wants and to hell with everyone else. Hey, he was the king. Though I think the irony that he was the most powerful men in England yet couldn't even get a male crotch goblin wasn't lost on him... he just didn't find it funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Are former mansluts, manwhores, male pornstars, gigolos, male sex workers, escorts...a dealbreaker for women like it is for men?Now I am curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Will evolution fix the modern sex scene?Evolution takes a long ass time. It's a good question how long evolution would actually take if it was "guided", i.e. selective breeding. Various breeds of dogs for example changed an awful lot in the last 100 years alone simply because a bunch of weirdos envisioned some ugly monstrosities and thought "I want that" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?The female heirs probably didn't count for him, and regarding males - "one heir and one to spare" is a thing for exactly the reason that happened to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I was refering to the part with the "fault". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that all men end up paying to be with a woman in one way or another?I didn't know it's named "nude". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 12:48 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?That's because she died prematurely without any input from him. Wife #4 he didn't like, so he divorced her pretty much immediately (apparently at that point he had already gotten used to it), and wife #5 had been a tad too promiscuous which he hadn't known in advance, so off the chopping block she went (he must have gotten used to that as well). Wife #6 in turn survived him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 12:48 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?even though Bill Watterson disagrees this is not how it works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Are former mansluts, manwhores, male pornstars, gigolos, male sex workers, escorts...a dealbreaker for women like it is for men?I was. That faux-innocent emoticon at the end ( <:I ) was supposed to give it away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Why is being a former slut, pornstar, prostitute, sex worker, escort...such a dealbreaker for dating?You want detailed answers? You can't handle detailed answers! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 11:21 AM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?That's more ironic for him than for the guys who want to emulate him. his family Well, it's not as if there had been tons of Tudors on the throne. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 11:15 AM |
| 4 | Are former mansluts, manwhores, male pornstars, gigolos, male sex workers, escorts...a dealbreaker for women like it is for men?You're probably right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 11:14 AM |
| 3 | Are former mansluts, manwhores, male pornstars, gigolos, male sex workers, escorts...a dealbreaker for women like it is for men?why so bitchy? I am not bitchy, I was being facetious. I repeatedly made the same argument with inverted genders, and women in here routinely dismiss it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 11:13 AM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?Not a tradcon, and not really eager to adopt - though I'd rather adopt a parentless child than get into a relationship with a single mom. That said, the scenario where I would warm up to the idea of adoption is if a close friend or a relative of mine died and left kids behind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 11:13 AM |
| 3 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?They want to play at Henry VIII and prattle on about their "bloodline" and shit Ironically the guy who would have been content with one wife instead of six (...doesn't prevent him from having side chicks) had that one been able to give him a son. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 11:10 AM |
| 3 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?This. I mean, apparently some tradcons even go out of their way to explicitly adopt disabled kids because they know these are far more likely to be aborted otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 11:06 AM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?Why wouldn't they? (I assume we're talking about a kid that hasn't been socialized as a catholic yet) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 11:02 AM |
| 9 | Are former mansluts, manwhores, male pornstars, gigolos, male sex workers, escorts...a dealbreaker for women like it is for men?It's hilarious when the women at PPD come out of the woodworks with objections regarding "former" sluts as partners that are exactly the same arguments that repeatedly got dismissed by other PPD-women when men made them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 11:00 AM |
| 4 | Are former mansluts, manwhores, male pornstars, gigolos, male sex workers, escorts...a dealbreaker for women like it is for men?They are loud, pushy and very talkative, they like to party (A LOT!) and have very little real interest otherwise. What, you mean that there are personality traits that correlate with promiscuity? Who would assume such a thing? <:I | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe that all men end up paying to be with a woman in one way or another?I am with you, I was just being facetious (in case that wasn't obvious). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that all men end up paying to be with a woman in one way or another?trophy husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe that all men end up paying to be with a woman in one way or another?If the bluepilled or formerly bluepilled (and now pinkpilled) women in here are to be believed, there is an abundance of women who are completely self-sacrificial and would do anything for guys who have nothing whatsoever going for them (i.e. not even looks). And while I have seen women who have been unable to break up with a good-for-nothing guy, it generally was either because he had something going for him (and it also wasn't as if the women were essentially taking care of him). The scenario … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:40 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe that all men end up paying to be with a woman in one way or another?It's funny because a huge part of TRP (and its original driving force) is to make recovering betas aware of the fact that they shouldn't be the poor fool who pays for a woman's past mistakes - which usually means that the woman let herself be used by some guy and makes the next guy pay for it in one way or another. FDS seems to be the other half of that script. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that all men end up paying to be with a woman in one way or another?just as often I doubt it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe that all men end up paying to be with a woman in one way or another?But would women do that? Come up with some rationalization for something because it sounds better than them admitting that they are not the super-strong and ultra-independent females who don't need the approval of men after all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that all men end up paying to be with a woman in one way or another?nude eyeshadow TIL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe that all men end up paying to be with a woman in one way or another?It depends on what you consider "paying". Is it that you're expected to invest in some way into a relationship of any kind? Well, then of course the vast majority of men have to pay simply because relationships require at least some sort of give and take, unless you're able to exclusively subsist on free booty calls (and are attractive enough to make them happen). Or do you consider it "paying" if the bottom line of the mutual investment is severely lopsided in the woman's favor? That's less cle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:05 AM |
| 2 | CMV: As a bisexual guy women are generally far more homophobic than men are when it comes to their partner being bisexual or having experimented with the same sexI know plenty of white men I would call allies who have never dated a black woman before in their lives. Disregarding the expectation that you have to be willing to have sex with someone in order to be considered a truly woke ally and inhowfar this is retarded or not: what is so special about someone never having dated a black woman if you're living in a country where the population is still overwhelmingly non-black? Unless the person in question is promiscuous in one way or another, it's pretty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 09:11 PM |
| 9 | CMV: As a bisexual guy women are generally far more homophobic than men are when it comes to their partner being bisexual or having experimented with the same sexTbh I suspect that particularly campy guys do have trans tendencies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 08:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: As a bisexual guy women are generally far more homophobic than men are when it comes to their partner being bisexual or having experimented with the same sexmeat eaters vs vegans HARDCORE DEALBREAKER!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 08:44 PM |
| 1 | WGTOW: Why are so many women dissatisfied with men?cause toujours tu m'intéresses | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 07:55 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on the changing nuclear family?and there's a reason immigrant communities who live this way often do well. Usually tradition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 04:08 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on the changing nuclear family?Depends. If the extended family means that we're dealing with some sort of tribalism light (like, say, a Muslim extended family that is essentially a framework for excessive social control), I dare to say that the nuclear family is better. Having your parents or other relatives within reach to mutually support each other on the other hand sounds better than an anomic nuclear family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 04:07 PM |
| 2 | WGTOW: Why are so many women dissatisfied with men?I’ve never had trouble attracting high earners like me. Yeah, if you're reasonably hot and in your mid 20s (your handle indicates you are) and open to dating (with the guys who are open to dating you ofc), of course it works out for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 03:54 PM |
| 0 | WGTOW: Why are so many women dissatisfied with men?Satirical answers go to the automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 03:51 PM |
| 3 | WGTOW: Why are so many women dissatisfied with men?I mean I didn’t go into my career to land a man Ironically, the women who actually do that in a premeditated manner (the often-cited "Mrs Degree") are probably more successful at it than the women who go into a career hoping her excelling at it will attract some other high status guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 03:49 PM |
| 6 | WGTOW: Why are so many women dissatisfied with men?Considering that the notoriously single, childless women above a certain age are considerably more likely to be well-educated, for them I assume it's a mix of dissatisfaction with the options she has (oftentimes because of hypergamy as TRP defines it) being overly cautious (basically too much FTO: instead of taking a chance, they postponed everything until they end up alone) spending too much time on her career at the expense of her social life alienating potential mates because her (in her eyes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Who has more power: Stacy or Chad?I'd argue it's more In order of most power to least, it goes Chad, then Stacy, then the rest of the women (which explains feminism) and lastly the rest of the men at the bottom (which explains the manosphere.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Who has more power: Stacy or Chad?This is kinda self-evident, though. A person who has a whole slew of attractive qualities (socially, physically, intellectually) should have more power than a person who only looks nice and is maybe somewhat social apt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What makes you a HVW?I approve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 07:10 PM |
| 0 | Q4Women: What makes you a HVW?So you're black Jenna Marbles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 07:09 PM |
| -1 | Q4Women: What makes you a HVW?While the latter isn't wrong, the former isn't automatically right. It might just as well be possible that your entire social circle is buttering you up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: What makes you a HVW?Oh and the child is legit the cutest kid ever. I'm not just saying that, it's objectively true, people stop us to tell me how cute she is So you're the mother of Baby Yoda? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: What makes you a HVW?I think I'm just Flamingo. So... pink and awkward? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: What does PPD think of men who have had sex with sex workers?In what ways would having had sex should have helped me? It's different from person to person. For some people, losing their virginity helps them taking the pressure out of it - and I can safely say that for me things definitely changed a lot after I lost my V-card. Had I been able to achieve that result by simply paying for sex, it would totally have been worth it. Although I have to add that it was about the whole thing in its entirety, otherwise just visiting a whore would have sufficed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Welcome to PurplePillDebate!aaaw :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: What does PPD think of men who have had sex with sex workers?Personally I haven't used the services of prostitutes - back then I had a deep revulsion towards the dynamics behind the trade that I was fundamentally opposed to it; but I also always had (and still have) the desire that the women I am sleeping with should be into me and not see it as a transaction. BUT I know one thing: Had I been the type for whom visiting a professional would have helped in some way, like getting it out of my system and ultimately developing a less neurotic approach to that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think has higher sexual value a late twenties single mom or a 40+ year old woman?These are all valid questions when it comes to dating one of them, but the OP asks for sexual value. Though I wonder what this question is about then - everything else being equal, of course the young woman is hotter, kid or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 12:15 PM |
| 1 | FDS is the strategy to find a HVM while RPW is the strategy to keep him?Seriously, how do these women not understand they are self selecting for low value men? Cognitive dissonance. They're sourgraping the fuck out of Chads, redefine the term "high value man" so it means "compliant doormat who worships the ground I walk on and never expects anything from me" and attempt to condition themselves into desiring betas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 12:03 PM |
| 1 | FDS is the strategy to find a HVM while RPW is the strategy to keep him?so I would hope for their own sake they keep that shit wrapped up tight Which is mutually exclusive with FDS since they made "demonstrating men how little they care about them" into the cornerstone of their "strategy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 11:59 AM |
| 2 | FDS is the strategy to find a HVM while RPW is the strategy to keep him?Please, the term is "oneitis", because it's supposed to be reminiscent of a sickness. "Oneitus" sounds like a Roman general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 11:51 AM |
| 1 | FDS is the strategy to find a HVM while RPW is the strategy to keep him?As much as RP trolls about how much power women have, the reality is that women don't use it strategically. Which ironically is also something TRP points out: by going after guys out of their league (conveniently labeled "LVM" by FDSers :coughsourgrapescough:), women - especially young women at their SMV peak - squander that power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 11:46 AM |
| 2 | FDS is the strategy to find a HVM while RPW is the strategy to keep him?That's how TRP gained traction - it was constantly talked about in other subs as if it was the lovechild of Hitler and Satan, which of course made most redditors develop a strongly biased perspective, but piqued the interest of a minority. Though arguably FDS is more relevant from the perspective of PPD than TRP was to reddit in its entirety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 11:42 AM |
| 2 | FDS is the strategy to find a HVM while RPW is the strategy to keep him?Does this really surprise you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 11:40 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalNottttt at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 10:30 AM |
| 2 | Does it turn you off when a woman makes more money than you?I have a rather specific set of preferences, and this made me more tolerant about things I don't really care about (at least not directly). Income is one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 10:29 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI'm not sure what the subject is Gynocentrism and a strong pro-female (and subsequently anti-male) bias in the media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Biggest BP lie: exaggerating the number of demisexual womenBut then it’s not something unusual. It’s not a sexual orientation. I am not really disagreeing with you here, I was just refering to the general presentation of female sexuality the way it floated around when I grew up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 09:36 AM |
| 5 | Does it turn you off when a woman makes more money than you?Never forget the Tywin Lannister-rule - "someone who has to say 'I am x' is no true x". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever became obsessed/ really really liked/ fallen in love with a girl who's very average looking?Have you ever became obsessed/ really really liked/ fallen in love with a girl who's very average looking? Given you idea of "average women" - definitely yes. (I would even say that the women you've picked are partially even above average for their respective ages.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Discussion. I often see comments that porn style sex is unrealistic or not enjoyable for women. Then what is?That it's a troll or that it's the weirdest? both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 08:25 AM |
| 3 | Biggest BP lie: exaggerating the number of demisexual womenI don't know where you all grew up that"women are attracted to handsome men" was so unusual. In a way, yes. More specifically: that looks were overrated - it was something only men are fixated on (because, as we all know, men are superficial sleazebags and all-around worse people than women), while for women they were "not that important"TM , a nice cherry on top at best, and the actual attraction came from other things (the stuff mentioned in the OP). Women who transparently went for looks abov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Discussion. I often see comments that porn style sex is unrealistic or not enjoyable for women. Then what is?Be Rocco! ... so be ripped, handsome and well-endowed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Discussion. I often see comments that porn style sex is unrealistic or not enjoyable for women. Then what is?Can't even say with confidence that you're probably wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Discussion. I often see comments that porn style sex is unrealistic or not enjoyable for women. Then what is?If porn is the male ideal of how sex should go, what is the female ideal? Counterquestion - is there actually one specific version of porn sex that can be considered a universal male ideal? Because personally I suspect that for example the fuss about anal is less about that practice being a universal male fantasy and more about the fact that the supply/demand-ratio for it is severely lopsided. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 08:07 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: What's going through your mind when you deny a man sex after discovering he has money?Hey, this is PPD. Redpillers being charitable towards men, and bluepillers being charitable towards women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 07:36 AM |
| 2 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalJesus, could you possibly more annoying. Sometimes I wonder why I even bother responding to you when you very obviously aren't even remotely interested in actually discussing the issue at hand. Actually, this reminds me of a joke. A drunk is searching for something on the ground beneath the light of a street lamp. "What are you looking for?" a passerby asks. "My keys" the drunk responds. "Where did you lose them?" "Over there, beneath the trees" says the drunk. "Then why aren't you searching for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Biggest BP lie: exaggerating the number of demisexual womenEh, the term maybe, but the concept of demisexuality (long before the word became widely known) has been around for quite some time and women's sexuality - also in my experience - was usually described in a way that is best labeled as such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 12:54 AM |
| 6 | Biggest BP lie: exaggerating the number of demisexual womenDemisexuality means literally not experiencing sexual attraction until you have emotional intimacy with someone. Which coincidentally is also some bluepill myth we grew up with - well, the idea that this is the norm for women. However, it was inseparable from the stuff OP wrote. So in a way you're both correct. The gist of the story was "for women, lust is a byproduct of romantic feelings for someone, and said romantic feelings grow out of emotional intimacy (this is your version) - and said emo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Biggest BP lie: exaggerating the number of demisexual womenWhy not both? Unless you're kinda like Bill Clinton and are so good at connecting with people that they don't realize the gulf between your respective mental faculties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Biggest BP lie: exaggerating the number of demisexual womenHey, it's lucrative, that should count for something. You can do the sexually attractive stuff in your spare time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Biggest BP lie: exaggerating the number of demisexual womenShit tests become less frequent in a relationship. Or more frequent, if you regularly fail them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 12:19 AM |
| 2 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalSo what? Does he write all these articles by himself, or does he micromanage inhowfar every single word printed or spoken in his media empire conforms to a staunch paleocon position? ...or is it more likely that he has a hands-off approach when it comes to gender stuff because he personally doesn't care about it, and possibly accepts progressive positions here because it enables him to attract gullible young women as customers? Just because he's in charge doesn't suddenly make literally everythi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What's going through your mind when you deny a man sex after discovering he has money?That may very well be true, but you still have to use the automod for this :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What's going through your mind when you deny a man sex after discovering he has money?Do I get a cookie? =) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What's going through your mind when you deny a man sex after discovering he has money?q4w | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What's going through your mind when you deny a man sex after discovering he has money?Is this some inquiry whether OP is Indian or is it just that curry is an anti-aphrodisiac for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What's going through your mind when you deny a man sex after discovering he has money?I've never been in a situation remotely like this, nor has anyone I know. Reminds me of this diagram, only with "women of PPD" instead. Well, with the possible exception of kandyapplez ;P It sounds like you're attracting very laid-back women who aren't into material things. Then, if your apartment really is this swanky palace you're making it sound like, they feel out of place and perhaps a little intimidated. This sounds as if you're intentionally going with the most charitable interpretation p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:42 PM |
| 0 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalHow many men in TRP have (or claim they have) any number of women beating down their doors to give them whatever they wanted with no many strings attached? Redpillers don't delude themselves into thinking that the women in their respective rotations are high RMV girls. (though a case can be made that they probably exaggerate the hotness of the girls they're bedding.) Which makes me wonder if Hanna Rosen (or whomever the author of the WSJ piece is) has a mole account here. Everything is possible … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:33 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI leave it to you to figure that out; and to any passive and unbiased participant who reads this exchange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalIn the light of your comment above, the fact that you don't see anything questionable with this post tells everyone more about you than you would like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalLol nobody considers Sommers a credible feminist I consider her credible. Not really a feminist, though, unless your standards for feminism can be reduced to "both genders should have the same rights and opportunities" and doesn't include "routinely lies with numbers". And the latter seems to be a built-in feature among feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalIt's not hysteria, it's a credible study that is proven true by many similar studies and sounds about true to me personally. Sure, whatever you say. However, I consider her to be more credible than some random feminist on PPD. MYTH 4: One in five in college women will be sexually assaulted. FACTS: This incendiary figure is everywhere in the media today. Journalists, senators and even President Obama cite it routinely. Can it be true that the American college campus is one of the most dangerous p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 08:01 PM |
| -1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalSome of what is recommended is a really hamfisted way to go about it, but most of the people who read TRP and FDS have been traumatized by the opposite sex. I don't agree with the means either side tries to go about getting what they want. I do understand what they want and why. No, i don't think some of the stuff flying around FDS is healthy. Neither is some of the stuff on TRP, most of it on WAATGM, etc. Can't disagree. The woman's reciprocity was never fully discussed in this thread, but sure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalYou zoned in on the feminists of yore changing the definition of rape to include men, but completely ignored the entire shitshow about the Duluth-model, the rape on campus-hysteria, the "1 in 5"-lie (or was it even "1 in 4"), the promotion of university cangaroo courts etc. Please, tell me how feminism has nothing to do with this. Go on, I am waiting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalTrue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:14 PM |
| 0 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalThey contain a lot of bitter angry words about men and banning men from even posting in that subreddit to defend themselves Why would you want to do that, though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:12 PM |
| 0 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalYou asked why so many women don't like men and so I gave you a response. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f0xfya/why_does_the_majority_of_reddit_hate_women What, /r/aita is male-centric? That's almost hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:11 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalThat's like saying "many young western people on tumblr or twitter" Yes, numerically speaking it's a lot, but it still requires you to be on reddit and then it requires you to be exposed to it (via particular subs). At most the average redditor has heard about TRP that it's a terrible place full of woman haters and should be avoided, and that probably is also the extent of his opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:10 PM |
| 8 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalThat's some mad cherrypicking here mate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:04 PM |
| 2 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalTrp uses politically incorrect language so it’s hardly surprising it won’t be published on mainstream media But FDS doesn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street Journalhigh value woman. giggity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 06:37 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalA man caring for his woman's needs and also taking her wants into consideration is not subordinate, A man who does that but whose compliance isn't met with reciprocity (and let's be honest, FDS promotes a relationship that is built on exactly that foundation) is a subordinate. Or what would you say this is? Sure, you can say "but but but when we are married, I do a complete 180 and totally reciprocate" - the problem (or not a problem, depending on what you are after) is that by behaving like tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 06:36 PM |
| 3 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalPeople on reddit know about it, non-redditors are mostly clueless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 06:17 PM |
| 4 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalMen just don't listen to women so this is not the revelation you hope it is. Men don't care. Unfortunately that's incorrect. The fact that too many men listened to women too much is the reason why TRP exists in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 06:15 PM |
| 5 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI would never point her to FDS though because along with this decent advice comes a bunch of women with obvious signs of a cluster b personality disorder gathering together to justify self-serving behavior and interpretations of events, which I've been around before and these people basically reinforce each other's self-sabotaging behaviors. And judging by the mod list of FDS, I dare to say that the inmates run the asylum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalRather than emulate the bad things TRP does in a fight fire with fire approach, they should focus on positive aspects. Tbh it seems to be a feature, not a bug. Which is what really irritates me about that sub - unlike with TRP, I don't really see a surplus value in going full anger phase; a woman who is angry about men has the entire society blowing smoke up her ass already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 06:08 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalNo wonder y’all are so angry about FDS when you just imagine it says all these horrible things that no one actually says on the sub. does your mommy know you lie on the internet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to love damaged men? It doesn’t line up with any “pill”.My suspicion is that you're either really good-looking/date considerably below your league and thus give the women an "in" (kinda like "if I can fix him, this guy will be mine forever"), or you're dating notorious fixers, or you're dating women who are similarly damaged and thus feel better around you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 05:50 PM |
| 1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy banned me for being a female with AutismThanks for the gems! (to all the naysayers who like to believe that FDS isn't just a cheap knockoff of TRP with its intentionally inflammatory language: sure about that?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 05:45 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalNo, I meant FDS is a threat to the women who read it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 05:05 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalMen play women against each other, take advantage of women they aren’t interested in Congratulations, you just gave us a pristine example of the quite common apex fallacy. Most men don't even get to play that game; and those men who do aren't the ones who get a taste of their own medicine (at least not from FDSers) - because they nope out of such a situation before a cunning FDS-regular can exert her natural charisma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalIt sounds like you’re making a fictitious version of what you think FDS is without reading it. My point was about the abundance of rather pervasive female manipulation tactics even without FDS. However, full disclosure: I haven't excessively read FDS, but the treats I did read make me assume that behaving like that would totally in sync with the general behavior advocated by that subreddit. Which is fine by me, you do you and all that, as someone who subscribes to TRP I am not exactly in the pos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 04:59 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalMy angle was that female manipulation tactics are extremely pervasive (hence the examples), and that women generally already are pretty good at this stuff - and that I doubt that a community that basically tells you to double down on all this and on top of that to not even try to cover up your self-centeredness anymore is unlikely to be helpful. I mean, sure, if you've been a doormat before, getting reminded that you should look out for number one for a change can't hurt - TRP basically runs on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Men overestimate how much women care about male approvalLmao that's rich coming from you, dumb bitch. You can't tell me what to do. 😎 You're right, I can't tell you what to do. However, mods can revoke your posting privileges indefinitely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Men overestimate how much women care about male approvalSleeping with your orbiters does make you an exception. Also, I didn't say "all women", I said "numerous" (I actually know a few who had the decency to keep the guys they aren't into at arm's length - but unfortunately I also know a lot who didn't). Apart from that, be civil. And try to be more constructive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 12:26 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI understand the bulk of your comment but not what that has to do with the bit you quoted about TRP being associated with manipulation and lying. Sorry, my mistake, I was more refering to part about "the language being different". Maybe I didn't see the parts where FDS are trying to shit on men. I was under the impression they do not advocate shitting on them because some men shit on women, they advocate avoiding that type of man. It's a bit more than that. Sure, it's directed against a very spe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 12:23 PM |
| 3 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. Yeah, I see that. (and fixed) I just know that I am not going to sit and let you attack me for no other reason than being born female. "Staunch disagreement" = "being attacked for being female"? You don't have to say that you're a feminist if it's blatantly obvious from the nonsense you write. You wouldn't like it if I made a comment dehumanizing you because of actual things men do like rape and murder Pfff, I am used to it, because ideas like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 12:11 PM |
| 13 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalPoppy trying to put exit in his place, exhibit #31298. You see pumpkin, there's the thing about media - even the commentaries reflect the general line of a newspaper regarding specific issues (the private "overton window" of that specific outlet, so to speak); and if an entire media landscape follows suit, you get something like a mainstream narrative. And if newspaper allows blatantly misandrist bullshit to be printed but would flay anyone alive who did something remotely similar, only in a gen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 12:05 PM |
| 2 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street Journaldating multiple men simultaneously and flaunting this into their faces in order to provoke them into making a move having foody calls, or general exploitation of orbiters using a guy you aren't into in order to make a guy you are into jealous shaming guys and exerting social pressure on them to produce a specific reaction (whether it's a specific behavior, like whiteknighting women, or a specific change of attitude, like compromising their romantic preferences) feigning weakness in order to arou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 11:48 AM |
| 2 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalStuff like playing men against each other, or taking advantage of men who you aren't interested in etc. If you need FDS for this, you must have grown up under some rock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 11:31 AM |
| 9 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalIt's still relevant in that context: you don't have advocate for redefining rape or violating the privacy of men simply because you have an entire ideology with a lot of pull doing that dirty work for you. That said, most FDS chicks are feminists the same way most redpillers definitely aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 11:29 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalTRP is heavily associated with lying and manipulation. The language used between the two subs is different. I disagree here: the problem of FDS is that we have a bunch of women who are butthurt that TRP and other manospherian congregations dare to exist, probably got burned by players more than once - and now they try to flip the script by practically copying TRP in a childish "that'll show men"-manner. I.e. it's edgy out of spite, but not because it has a purpose. On the other hand, TRP having … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 11:23 AM |
| 3 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI concur. That's also what confuses me about FDS - women could do exactly the same shit FDS advocates for without being so in-your-face about how little they value the men they're dealing with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 11:06 AM |
| 19 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalWe don't advocate secret cameras to violate the privacy of men or push the envelope with the definition of rape to get what we wan Considering what feminism has done for decades, this level of denial is hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:58 AM |
| 12 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalBut Women are Wonderful, therefore you get articles on the WSJ praising that shitshow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:57 AM |
| 2 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalIsn't it more correct to say that men who say they will bail if they don't get sex fast more of a manipulation? Why is it wrong to fight back and avoid these men? Oh, I have always been pretty outspoken about my personal belief that not having sex right off the bat is a solid strategy for women, especially when you intend to weed out the guys who just want sex and nothing else (there's also the idea that you can avoid men losing interest if they get what they're after too soon, but I dare to say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Looksmatch is NOT objective. It's done by popular demand.Looksmatch is NOT objective. It's done by popular demand. The popular demand thing is wrong. Just throw people in a severely lopsided SMP and you'll see how demands for the underrepresented gender skyrockets. However, a 5 who can leverage his or her rarity in order to obtain a 7 or 8 doesn't suddenly become the partner's looksmatch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:32 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI am not "concerned" per se, more confused than anything else. As I said multiple times - women are already pretty good at manipulation and using guys, where's the surplus value in a "strategy" that tells you "that manipulation and using thing is awesome, but make sure you're doing it really transparently on top of that"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:28 AM |
| 4 | Men overestimate how much women care about male approvalI made a few of them into my friends with benefits. Then you're already extremely atypical and therefore your insights aren't particularly helpful for that subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:21 AM |
| 7 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalUnpopular opinion: FDS is no threat to anybody. To the women who read it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 09:03 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalApart from the fact that one could easily pretend to be a guy, it's about the gynocentrism that is supposed to stay out. The idea that TRP is a place for men is probably even more important than it is a place by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 09:03 AM |
| 4 | Men overestimate how much women care about male approvalI’m worried because I’m a parent. So because you're a parent you are... fighting with people on the internet over different ideas about dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 09:00 AM |
| 4 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalTRP has always shafted itself from going mainstream by being edgy and offensive. TRP was edgy and offensive in order to keep women out, because experience has shown that when seduction communities try to be inclusive and open to females, the pro-female camp would take them over. It's not a bug, it's a feature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 08:54 AM |
| 39 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalWhy the disparity? Because mainstream media is gynocentric, feminist or feminist-leaning and has a decidedly anti-male bias. I.e. exactly that what bluepillers have been telling us for years we're just imagining. Also, recommended reading from /u/dakru. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 08:51 AM |
| 10 | Men overestimate how much women care about male approvalMethinks the lady doth protest too much. If you didn't get your panties in a bunch about the opinions of men you aren't attracted to, then what you are doing in here? Or, more generally speaking: why are women (who aren't oblivious about these communities) obsessing over the manosphere and are going full cancel culture on them? It most likely isn't because they are disappointed that their dreamboat got out of reach - the fact that these opinions exist in the first place is what's worrisome, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Men overestimate how much women care about male approvalWomen don't desire the approval of men they aren't attracted to, because that's creepy. But they are offended by the disapproval of these men, because their disapproval likely correlates with the disapproval of men they are attracted to. Initially I wanted to object because I only read the first sentence, but yeah, I fully agree with this paragraph in its entirety. In a woman's ideal world, she would have the approval of men she is attracted to and neither the approval or disapproval of men she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 08:12 AM |
| 1 | What impact would widely available legal brothels have on America? (Culture, Dating, Relationships)Speaking for myself: prostitution wasn't an option I would have been able to come to terms with. Guitars, an ex-regular at PPD (though you probably don't know him, IIRC he went AWOL before you started participating) however told me of an acquaintance of his who also was notoriously dateless and gathered his experiences with a professional - and apparently his first attempts were cringeworthy to the max, with him being as gentlemanly as possible and insisting to give her backrubs and orgasms. Doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | What impact would widely available legal brothels have on America? (Culture, Dating, Relationships)But don't you think its because of the law? No, I am living in a country where prostitution, even when it wasn't fully legalized, still wasn't a legal offense in the way it was in the US, but despite that it didn't really have a notable on the SMP/RMP: those guys who would benefit the most from taking pussy of the pedestal inconveniently have it on such a high pedestal that they wouldn't buy sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 03:26 PM |
| 2 | What impact would widely available legal brothels have on America? (Culture, Dating, Relationships)I think you're putting the cart before the horse. Western men are no less neurotic than Latinos - the difference is just that our neuroticism has taken the form of being adamantly against the idea of buying sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | What impact would widely available legal brothels have on America? (Culture, Dating, Relationships)Nothing would happen. Prostitution is already legal in the Netherlands, Australia and other Western countries, but men who have used their services, let alone on a regular basis, are in the minority. Can confirm. Prostitution has been legalized here ~20 years ago and hasn't been criminalized before that, and it didn't really have an impact. The thing is: prostitution wouldn't help the bluepilled (and blueballed) guys who don't get laid because they're usually hopeless romantics who got the entir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 02:17 PM |
| 2 | What goes on in women who are 30+ that decide to settle down?Why not both? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 02:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: How people find sluts as being disgusting parallels how people find creeps as being disgusting. And neither party should be shamed for their disgust.The whole world doesn’t need to know. What else do we have the internet for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Canadian man literally burns $750,000 in a bonfire to avoid paying child and spousal support.These are men who subconsciously realise they are so worthless that they go out of their way to be genetic dead ends. Darwin Award. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 09:35 AM |
| 2 | What goes on in women who are 30+ that decide to settle down?I doubt that tbh. I mean, I wanted to be an inventor when I was 6 years old just because I liked the idea. Later it turned out that physics, engineering etc. aren't really my thing, so my personal regrets were manageable. Finding out that my only option for marriage were partners I am lukewarm about at best? That's more frustrating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 09:17 AM |
| 4 | What goes on in women who are 30+ that decide to settle down?Women show of to other women with the big fat diamond ring their husband bought her not her husbands abs. Women show off diamond rings because their husband don't have abs. A woman who isn't really attracted to her hubby at least needs a big fat wedding to show for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 09:04 AM |
| 0 | Women over 30, would you have dated the man you're with now when you were 20?The real question is would guys be drooling over the 20 something year old if they met her when she was post wall. Doubt it. Meeep wrong. What OP is (obviously) going for is inhowfar women "mature" when they age and suddenly "know what they want" aka start going for men who they're less attracted to, but who are a good catch from a rational perspective. The gender-flipped version of this is more "if you've been with your partner since you were 20, would you still date if you met her now for the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Women over 30, would you have dated the man you're with now when you were 20?Now, at 30, my attraction has broadened - older, more masculine features. [...] so idk what is typical. At least that part is pretty common and I dare to say also the more genuine change in taste among women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Women over 30, would you have dated the man you're with now when you were 20?so idk if that's too close to 20 to meaningfully answer your question I would say it is. I mean, the idea behind the OP is very obviously to check out inhowfar women's tastes change when they hit the wall; 23 is basically the same as 20 in that regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4M In your opinion, at what number would you consider someone a high N count female? Do you have a cut off number for too high to consider dating?Even if it's just a theory. Sure, if she was 5000 years old and had amassed a hundred boyfriends over that period it might be understandable, but a normal mortal human who had 100 LTR partners.... didn't have 100 LTR partners, but glorified fuckbuddies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Relationship books say, the longer you wait for sex, the more likely the man will commit to a woman. Why do most men push for sex early on then?If he sticks to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Relationship books say, the longer you wait for sex, the more likely the man will commit to a woman. Why do most men push for sex early on then?If you have a six months waiting period, you're also potentially sifting out a lot of gold dust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4M In your opinion, at what number would you consider someone a high N count female? Do you have a cut off number for too high to consider dating?(her age - 16) * 7 So 28 if she's 20, and 91 if she's 29? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4M In your opinion, at what number would you consider someone a high N count female? Do you have a cut off number for too high to consider dating?Theoretically she could have 100 of boyfriends and I wouldnt care. Uuuh you should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M In your opinion, at what number would you consider someone a high N count female? Do you have a cut off number for too high to consider dating?So 21 at 11 is fine but 40 at 20 isn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4M In your opinion, at what number would you consider someone a high N count female? Do you have a cut off number for too high to consider dating?120? ô_ó | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4M In your opinion, at what number would you consider someone a high N count female? Do you have a cut off number for too high to consider dating?but it would probably bother me if I knew a woman was having sex with most of her male friends on a regular basis, because that’s still treating sex too casually in my opinion. Uhm, I don't think that women who are casual about sex have sex with most of their male friends. That said, I totally get your objection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Q4M In your opinion, at what number would you consider someone a high N count female? Do you have a cut off number for too high to consider dating?Because being one of several million of people (being a member of the age cohort born around 2000) is so terribly revealing? Unless you're from San Marino. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Welcome to PurplePillDebate!I'd be in favor of a blanket ban on that topic, and I am RP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Welcome to PurplePillDebate!My experience has been that I don't think this sub gives a shit about debate or helping people navigate dating in the modern world. The reason for this is simple: this isn't a dating advice subreddit, t's a subreddit to argue about subreddits that are focusing on dating advice (and about other subreddits who are also arguing about them). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Society doesn't tell men that “All women are special and perfect”. Certain men just lied to themselves.Instead of writing several paragraphs, I just point you towards two older posts of mine. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3veiea/trp_is_better_err_on_the_side_of/cxnyle5/ https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3i9drr/what_pill_would_you_want_your_children_to_stand/cuevd1w/?context=3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Why doesn’t being hurt by alphas make women attracted to betas?Speaking as a dude who eats a lot of frozen vegetables that shit can be so much better but takes work. You gotta actually prepare and process and cook them. Yeah, pepper and olive oil make everything better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Why doesn’t being hurt by alphas make women attracted to betas?Make healthy food tasty then! Of course at some point you might still want a burger with mayo and cheese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 04:06 PM |
| 0 | Why doesn’t being hurt by alphas make women attracted to betas?Yea, you can't negotiate desire. It's still apples and oranges though: a woman's hotness is only loosely correlated with someone's personality, the link between a guy being a "bad boy" and him having a questionable personality on the other hand seems to be a lot closer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Is RpW the optimal dating strategy for women?Men and women are different. The same behaviors performed by women are held to much different standards and affect men much differently than the other way around. Are you blue pill? My flair says otherwise. And precisely because I know men I also know the type of guy who pines after a girl who is displaying that behavior (dating other guys, not meeting him halfways, being generally an entitled shrew). Doormat men need their girlfriends washing their clothes, begging him to stop playing games and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Is RpW the optimal dating strategy for women?Leaning back and letting him lead provides him ample opportunity to show how he’ll treat you in the future. This goes both ways; and the fact that he's tolerating that behavior indicates that he's a grade A doormat and not the stud you make him out to be ;D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Is RpW the optimal dating strategy for women?What, people lying on the internet? Who woulda thunk. What's funny is that the same people who tell these stories are adamant that TRP field reports are entirely made-up. That's genius :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 02:24 PM |
| 5 | Is RpW the optimal dating strategy for women?Men nowadays seem to expect women to treat them like husbands in the beginning while they get treated like trash in return. Totally novel idea: don't let yourself be treated like trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Do men REALLY like “good girls”?New here, being 5’8” and doing fine has me reading this kinda strangely. If you're otherwise doing great, you can easily live with lots of women weeding out due to your height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 10:07 AM |
| 6 | Do men REALLY like “good girls”?That sub focuses on women who are transparently attempting to use men (and do so because they're too stupid to realize how clumsy their attempts actually are). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 10:03 AM |
| 6 | Do men REALLY like “good girls”?How did you manage to format your post in a way that every line begins with either "submissive" or with "dominance"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Do men REALLY like “good girls”?Yes you shouldn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:54 AM |
| 14 | Do men REALLY like “good girls”?It's funny how I thought exactly the same thing. Literally first idea that came to mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Do men REALLY like “good girls”?If this is the case, why have SO many of my sweet, “innocent” friends gotten cheated on? Because despite being sweet innocent girls who cared they still went for selfish badboys who obviously didn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Nerd doesn't mean anything in the Dating World NowA luddite with crappy taste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Nerd doesn't mean anything in the Dating World NowI <3 Chelsea Peretti | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Nerd doesn't mean anything in the Dating World NowNerd girls have never been a popular demographic in reality... That isn't entirely true. Nerd girls are a popular demographic... for male nerds. And even though these aren't exactly the studliest guys alive, a female nerd (unless she's so hot that she can easily branch out into the "general population") will still be able to get a male nerd above her in attractiveness simply due to the gender imbalance of that group. If you're one of ten women studying engineering surrounded by 300 guys, or one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4women: What’s a better strategy for a man to get laid...To be clear though, I think A is ethically unacceptable no shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:33 AM |
| 3 | Q4women: What’s a better strategy for a man to get laid...It wasn't about what you would prefer men to behave (most women would probably say neither); the question was which questionable strategy do you think is more likely to lead to success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:33 AM |
| 3 | Is RpW the optimal dating strategy for women?If I am not mistaken (it was a regularly debated in here by the women with a redpill flair a few years ago, after the split), the RPW-sub is moderated by male redpillers; this might be why it's tilted in a particular way. Majority of FDS advice is actually sane, reasonable, and common sense. Considering who the mods are (at least those I know), I am doubtful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:28 AM |
| 4 | Is RpW the optimal dating strategy for women?I won't comment on RPW, but being better than FDS isn't really that difficult. FDS is a fundamentally contradictory approach - it claims to go for "high value men" and then does everything it can to alienate any man with options and instead selects for guys who are desperate and/or a simp*. If you're supremely desirable you might occasionally get a good catch who is willing to weather through your ballcrushing routines, but you could also have gotten such a guy without FDS. Sure, you can retroac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Is RpW the optimal dating strategy for women?The downvote ratio indicates that we have an overhang of FDS folks here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Is RpW the optimal dating strategy for women?I hope my offsprings would be naturally high value attractive people The problem with FDS is that it's extremely unlikely to work if you aren't attractive. I mean, ask yourself: what kind of guy would respond positively to an entitled kinda bitchy person who constantly demonstrates to him that she isn't lifting a finger for him, won't meet him halfway and will exclusively date on her own terms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Is RpW the optimal dating strategy for women?Coming from a woman who admitted to being single and complained about her lack of success in the dating world, this sounds a lot like sour grapes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:07 AM |
| 6 | Is RpW the optimal dating strategy for women?no sex until a ring rotational date 5-6 men at a time until one proposes no gifts to the man, no gestures like cooking him dinner or serving him no texting beyond a few short messages on the app, phone calls only no planning dates, no initiating dates Tbh this working sounds more like revenge porn fanfic from a woman who got burned than anything else. Because this particular combination sounds like a foolproof way to land you desperate bottom of the barrel men at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Is the average woman simply more attractive than the average man?Yes, modern dating revolves around childbirth, not. Except that our evolution revolved around this pesky question - "how can we produce the fittest offspring possible?" For the same reason men aren't into sluts even though contraception and paternity testing (or being a decidedly childfree person) has drastically mitigated the potential impact of a partner cheating - men evolved in an environment where a woman looking for strange was a potential catastrophe that could lead to him investing in so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 08:01 PM |
| 4 | Is the average woman simply more attractive than the average man?Several elements flow into your (somewhat valid) observations. "Beauty" as a concept simply means "signals of being good mating material". In the eyes of men that isn't a tall order - after all, all a woman needs is the ability to carry children to term in order to be worthy of investment. For women on the other hand - due to the high opportunity costs that come with procreation (among them the ability to have kids with other men during the same timespan) - men need to bring a lot more to the ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 02:24 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The Amber Heard audio is typical of how women treat men's grievancesI wasn't disagreeing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Are surgeries and hormones really want Trans People need?I find it a bit weird you claim identity politics are the problem, then proceed to shoe horn them in with your beliefs about the "progressives" Well, it's certainly not the conservatives who are enabling that phenomenon. I mean, seriously: who is constantly bashing being white/male/straight/cis/Western/Christian and who is jumping on that bandwagon? If it was just a tiny insignificant minority pushing that narrative, we wouldn't be having this conversation, but it's practically the entire left w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 11:22 AM |
| 6 | CMV: The Amber Heard audio is typical of how women treat men's grievancesShe's super fucking shitty no doubt but if I'm expected to feel for him amid a sea of men who demonize woman who pick bad partners (alimony is theft! Single moms are trash) then I struggle to feel for him. Meh. Accepting that he brought it on himself but that she's nevertheless a terrible person aren't mutually exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 11:11 AM |
| 24 | CMV: The Amber Heard audio is typical of how women treat men's grievancesYou're moving the goalposts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 11:06 AM |
| 14 | CMV: The Amber Heard audio is typical of how women treat men's grievancesIn the media and in the real world, any man who says she got beaten because she made poor life choices is going to be called out for being sexist. "muh victim blaming" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 11:05 AM |
| 2 | Are surgeries and hormones really want Trans People need?They take it too far because they're enabled by the mainstream. It's a sliding scale that starts with moderate progressives who enable ever more radical groups to their left, which in turn has a cascading effect on identity politics. It starts with moderate progressives or members of the wider left who think that a "scandal" cooked up on Twitter is actually a scandal and not just a bunch of navel-gazing idiots on a never-ending quests to be offended with too much time on their hands making up an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Are surgeries and hormones really want Trans People need?I actually agree. Giving legit transsexuals the option to transition and enabling them to participate in society as their identified gender (which would include acceptance, though this might be harder depending on how convincing a person passes) is one thing, and you don't need to buy into the idiotic idea that there are 400 other genders on top of the binary male/female divide for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 10:44 AM |
| 21 | CMV: The Amber Heard audio is typical of how women treat men's grievancesWhat do men say to women who are beaten, abused in marriage, women who become single mothers? "They made poor life decisions" That's what redpillers say, after a lifetime of having gotten it drilled into their skulls that female woes are more important than their own and that all women to whom something bad happens are poor unsuspecting victims who didn't contribute anything whatsoever to their personal misery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What female features do you observe men ACTUALLY vetting for in LTR candidates, and what features do you think men SHOULD vet for?Oh, I see that I already wrote something similar (only more verbose) about a year ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 10:30 AM |
| 2 | Is being a genuinely nice guy seen only as a detriment in the pursuit of sex or as a detriment period?And it will NEVER cause the amount of absolute disdain or hatred which it causes in relation to dating with women. Nothing engenders hatred in women more than guys who try using pleasant, thoughtful behavior to "attract" them. Here's a video from GWW where especially she gives also a pretty reasonable explanation about why feminists loathe nice guys; (13:00-18:30 is completely skippable, though). To quote from the video: "But it's my belief that it's just the type of conflict between explicit an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Is being a genuinely nice guy seen only as a detriment in the pursuit of sex or as a detriment period?It doesn't occur to women that men would "fake" something like this to get pussy, as again... women do these sorts of things for each other for free. Eh, disagree here. I think there's a reason why a lot of women have a hard time letting their most persistant orbiters go even though they're aware of his crush and it's very transparent that their relationship is thoroughly dysfunctional - and the reason is that the self-denying service the orbiter provides is anything but common. In fact, I think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 10:20 AM |
| 5 | Is being a genuinely nice guy seen only as a detriment in the pursuit of sex or as a detriment period?No, what gave birth to FDS was a few frustrated shrews who think they're smart by attempting a gender-flipped mirror image of TRP even though that approach is terribly unsuitable for women. TRP is basically a gender-flipped version of cosmo with harsher language (because some guys need that); how exactly do women benefit from FDS when they just have to resort to using the ubiquitous, freely available and socially totally acceptable run-off-the-mill gynocentric dating script our society as a whol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Is being a genuinely nice guy seen only as a detriment in the pursuit of sex or as a detriment period?then you're free to be as "nice" as you want. I kinda disagree on that one. Genuine "niceness" does indeed impede your dating success (for a specific definiton of "success") because it prevents you from actualizing lots of opportunities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What female features do you observe men ACTUALLY vetting for in LTR candidates, and what features do you think men SHOULD vet for?having low standards for sex (either you're sleeping relatively indiscriminately with people or you easily put out for the right people) being risk-taking (whether it's risking rejection, risking hooking up with the wrong person, risking exposure to STDs etc) being low FTO (comes with being risk-taking) having a hedonistic streak (self-explanatory) general promiscuity knowing lots of people with whom you've already been intimate (I read somewhere that cheating is most likely with that group - an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4 Men who independently decided on these deal breakers: (1) If they have to wait longer for sex than any of her exes, or (2) She has stopped performing a sex actThis depends strongly on your dating scene. If you are in a dating scene where being exclusive at a certain stage is the norm, not mentioning that you're seeing other people would indeed qualify as a lie by omission. Generally speaking: if there's something about you (whether it's your past, your current behavior etc.) that you have reason to believe would be a dealbreaker for the person you're dating, you're lying by omission if you aren't transparent about it. That can be a sordid past, an inc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Are corporations cashing in on childless millennial women with the "Baby" versions of all their mascots?It's only appealing because you don't have to take care of it in real life. And then they grow up! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of men describe women who have had a lot of sex (whether with one guy or multiple) as “used up”? What’s the psychology?I don't really disagree with the gist of your post, just one objection: Even when you're comparing apples to oranges you can still prioritize. For example when you compare "sleeping with 1 thug" with "sleeping with 10 Nobel Prize winners", you're comparing red flag A (questionable taste) with red flag B (mild promiscuity). Of course the comparison would be easier if you were using the same variables but you can still value one above the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Are corporations cashing in on childless millennial women with the "Baby" versions of all their mascots?/r/catsareassholes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Are corporations cashing in on childless millennial women with the "Baby" versions of all their mascots?Same here, and I am not even female. The Troll dolls were ugly as fuck, Baby Yoda is plain and simply adorable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Are corporations cashing in on childless millennial women with the "Baby" versions of all their mascots?Baby Yoda was even more popular, Nothing against Baby Yoda! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What female features do you observe men ACTUALLY vetting for in LTR candidates, and what features do you think men SHOULD vet for?I think it's generally more a mixed bag. For example, only a minority of men would sleep with current or former prostitutes; and the village bicycle isn't exactly popular either - village bicycles just have more opportunities than other women and as such are more likely to get together with men who care less than others. Telling a man that you slept with 100 guys is usually going to sour the relationship, and odds are that such a guy wouldn't really think of dating you in the first place (but mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Unattractive men have absolutely no idea what the life of an attractive man is likeWhile he's one of my role models in terms of personal growth, he isn't exactly crushing it in the looks department... or women, for that matter. Eh, young Arnold Schwarzenegger was looking good enough (unless you're repulses by huge muscles) and definitely was fucking around a lot before he married into US nobility. When he was married being able to STFU was probably more important than pure looks, which would explain Patty Baena (who, I have to admit it, apparently was really good at keeping he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Unattractive men have absolutely no idea what the life of an attractive man is likeIn that routine, bill Burr was complaining about those self righteous pricks without options who are outraged when super-successful guys cheat on their spouses. The gist of this was basically "you hypocrite don't even know how it is if women jump on your dick, so don't pretend that you would be better in the same situation." He isn't talking from his own experience, he just isn't judging guys who are in such a situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenHow cunning! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What female features do you observe men ACTUALLY vetting for in LTR candidates, and what features do you think men SHOULD vet for?I could lie and tell a man I’ve slept with 100+ guys and he’d stay with me. Guaranteed. The question is how long or whether it would poison your relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What female features do you observe men ACTUALLY vetting for in LTR candidates, and what features do you think men SHOULD vet for?n-count since it’s seen as a predictor of a women’s faithfulness. X for doubt Eh, it is an indicator. You can't get a high N unless you have a bunch of traits that also facilitate cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What female features do you observe men ACTUALLY vetting for in LTR candidates, and what features do you think men SHOULD vet for?The guys on this sub aren't exactly a representative sample of regular guys The topics in here also aren't really representative of actual discussions (outside of highly politicized areas). The bullet points you brought up (especially the first and the third)? That's pretty important, but barely ever talked about in here. Though I have to add that it's also outside the focus of this sub, and for good reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What female features do you observe men ACTUALLY vetting for in LTR candidates, and what features do you think men SHOULD vet for?What they claim they vet for: Submissiveness, cooking, cleaning. Claiming this social suicide, who does this? And I mean in real life, what guys say on /r/theredpill doesn't count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenThis. And I mean, I get it. As someone who isn't the most social person himself, an anti-social person would be super tedious. Shy and introverted is okay, but dating an Aspie? That would be fucking exhausting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" women"I am not like most girls!" most girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:32 PM |
| 2 | What makes a women relationship material? Instead of pump and dump or just fwbsAlso, she shouldn't have dealbreakers (clarification: what I mean is she shouldn't have traits I consider a dealbreaker; she can have every dealbreaker she wants). A woman who has a kid might have a lot to offer, I still wouldn't date her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of men describe women who have had a lot of sex (whether with one guy or multiple) as “used up”? What’s the psychology?you're welcome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Why do a lot of men describe women who have had a lot of sex (whether with one guy or multiple) as “used up”? What’s the psychology?Bragging about drugging someone is social suicide, it could even bring criminal charges and it should. What kind of fucked up group of people do you hang out with where this shit happens? This reminds me of a former regular bluepiller who was nauseatingly self-righteous and suffering from late stage Dunning Kruger-syndrome. Then at some point he talked about he had been redpill once before he became a Better Person (TM)... well, turns out that "during his redpill days" he, as an 18 year old, sle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of men describe women who have had a lot of sex (whether with one guy or multiple) as “used up”? What’s the psychology?Eh, a woman who - through a singular lapse of judgment - slept with 1 thug would still be preferable to one who slept with 100 well-balanced normal guys; but generally I can relate to what you write. I'd also prefer a woman who had racked up ten boyfriends over a former sugar babe who had a single John. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:16 PM |
| 0 | Why do a lot of men describe women who have had a lot of sex (whether with one guy or multiple) as “used up”? What’s the psychology?Responding even if the other doesn't like it is allowed, insulting isn't. Be civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Malicious blue-pilling is a thingTo put it incorrectly. "Woke people" have a set of beliefs that lead them to reject TRP (Woke -> Reject TRP). That's not the same as saying "if you reject TRP, you must be woke" (Reject TRP -> Woke), because you can reject TRP for many reasons. Jesus, this has been talked to death long before you made this account. "TBP" refers to the subreddit /r/thebluepill, and that sub does attract woke people with everything that comes with it (being profeminist, stalking other subs - even those without red… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Why should any woman take dating advice from TRPs?If you're going to hold me accountable for my mother's generation I am not holding women accountable for what their mothers did (although the roots of the problems can be tracked back to ~1970), and more for what they did (to) themselves. If I refuse to date you because you're a single mother, or slept with a hundred guys, or had a past of chasing guys unlike myself, or because you're a super-woke progressive etc. I am not rejecting you for someone else's actions. it is only rational I hold you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 08:48 AM |
| 3 | Malicious blue-pilling is a thingThe only core belief of “blue pill” is “disagrees with TRP.” No, that's the core belief of TBP (or rather: that's what people from that sub what say; but at the end of the day TBP selects for woker people to put it mildly). "Blue pill" is more a general set of beliefs or ideals and the unifying feature is less "disagrees with TRP" and more "TRP disagrees with it" - for the simple reason that bluepill is the default mode and most aren't even aware of TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Why should any woman take dating advice from TRPs?Tbh apart from the RPW-sub (and, well, the occasional feedback in here) I don't really see a lot of "advice giving" from redpillers to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 08:18 AM |
| -1 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDS"no no no, FDS is actually bad for you!" Well it is, for one simple reason - women are pretty good when it comes to masking the most selfish of intentions in some faux-altruistic manner. FDS basically drops that mask. Tell me again what's helpful about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 05:00 PM |
| 0 | Would you Date someone on the opposite end of the political spectrum.you I like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Would you Date someone on the opposite end of the political spectrum.That hardly makes him a polar opposite though. I mean, it's not like the archetypical labor voter was a tree-hugging hippie or the average Tory was Oswald Mosley. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Would you Date someone on the opposite end of the political spectrum.I believe government can be worse and often is worse than an organized lack of it (centuries of Russian history have made me believe it). Eh, people on the Balkans might disagree. Russians did get the short of the stick when it comes to good governance, I give you that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Would you Date someone on the opposite end of the political spectrum.You should read the article, the author also comments on the guys on the right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Would you Date someone on the opposite end of the political spectrum.Tory then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Would you Date someone on the opposite end of the political spectrum.fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:20 PM |
| 0 | Would you Date someone on the opposite end of the political spectrum.So where do you all line up on this? Would tradcon guys date woke women and would the woke women date tradcon guys? As someone on the conservative side of the spectrum, I would automatically exclude leftists who are either "woke" or intellectually lazy followers whose political opinions are mostly the result of uncritical media consumption; which means "most leftists" (on the right side I also exclude, say, female Neo-Nazis or super-religious people, but these are vanishingly few anyway). The yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN- You get offered a wishIsn't 3 reality anyway? The perks of (1) generally don't exist for obvious reasons (no woman would be 101% loyal for eternity regardless of what you do), so that one is already unrealistic. The perks of (2) might exist, but getting such a woman is completely unrealistic (women who are that hot are out of reach for the vast majority of men) and. A reasonably nice 7 who loves you but won't endure everything is certainly better than either option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN- You get offered a wishReality doesn't look like that. What, genies doesn't exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN- You get offered a wishOption 3 includes MGTOW, I'd say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN- You get offered a wishI think that is also a key information. I mean, some people also rated Rebel Wilson or younger Adele 2-3; and my thought was "yeah no, that's just a woman who should put the spoon aside every once in a while, not an ugly person." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN- You get offered a wish1 as a person is useful to have around. You can't leave or cheat though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN- You get offered a wishI would have agreed was it not for option 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 03:14 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: Where do your views on women’s behavior come from?They're actually easy to understand. I think this is coming from them generally being more skilled when it comes to gaslighting and manipulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Men: do you lose respect for women after sleeping with them?Let's just say that me losing respect (or rather: undeserved admiration that was the result of a WaW-indoctrination) for women in general correlated with me getting laid a lot more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Why does it matter that women can get a higher N-count than men easily? Why are men salty about it?Why would you date your gf for so long without getting that sort of information if it is such a dealbreaker? How could you date anyone for so long without being privy to their sexual experience? Personally I wouldn't, but if not all posts on all the relationships-subreddits are unadulterated outrage-inducing fakes, it happens quite often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on a graded consent system?14 and 21 still seem like a very big gap It is. If I should make an educated guess, the reason for this is that you can't age out of a dating pool that was legal at some point. I.e. if you are 17 and 14 respectively when you start dating, you don't have to stop as soon as you're 18, but can continue seeing each other. Of course this opens a new can of worms if you start dating a 15 year old at the age of 20, which would still be possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Why does it matter that women can get a higher N-count than men easily? Why are men salty about it?Yeah. My life became much easier when I stopped behaving as if I had to justify myself for my behavior to random women or women in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 12:21 PM |
| 0 | Why does it matter that women can get a higher N-count than men easily? Why are men salty about it?I do not think this actually does happen. Let me guess: Muslims in the West don't count, as usual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 12:18 PM |
| 5 | Why does it matter that women can get a higher N-count than men easily? Why are men salty about it?Nobody is ending a years long relationship and canceling an engagement because they discover their gf’s n is higher than they originally thought. What makes this so inconceivable? If I found out that my GF had fucked a hundred guys, I'd be out of there pretty soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Why does it matter that women can get a higher N-count than men easily? Why are men salty about it?Yeah, because the majority of women aren't virgins themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Why does it matter that women can get a higher N-count than men easily? Why are men salty about it?Women like the kind of man who would be able to get high numbers with ease. Whether he does or doesn't is secondary, possibly even immaterial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Why does it matter that women can get a higher N-count than men easily? Why are men salty about it?No personal attacks... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Why does it matter that women can get a higher N-count than men easily? Why are men salty about it?No personal attacks plx | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 12:10 PM |
| 1 | What do guys consider "fat"?Wouldn't what? "Tap that" or "call her fat"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 04:04 PM |
| 1 | What up with fangirls?Why there is always some cultish fangirls army centered around male musician (BTS army, The Beatles fangirls, One Direction stans etc) while there have never been analogue with reversed genders at such scales (not even close)? Whats the roots of that? Hypergamy. Celebrities of the opposite sex generally don't have nearly as much appeal for men as they do for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women with high counts can’t possibly only want Chad.The fact that women can use Tinder like that is exactly the reason why men complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | What do guys consider "fat"?Into. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Q4MEN: would you rather marry a 26 year old woman with $0 that you have to financially support while she works at a grocery store, or a 4” year old woman with $300k to her name who you don’t have to financially support who works full time as a nurse practitioner?or a 40 year old woman with $300k to her name who you don’t have to financially support who works full time as a nurse practitioner? That's oddly specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 01:12 PM |
| 1 | What do guys consider "fat"?That's why I said "was". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 01:01 PM |
| 1 | What do guys consider "fat"?My problem is that (at least for me), "fat" implies "disgusting, unpleasant, unhealthy, doesn't pass the boner test", i.e. where already in "very obese or worse"-territory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 11:25 AM |
| 1 | What do guys consider "fat"?Google says ~190 at 5'9". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 11:20 AM |
| 2 | What do guys consider "fat"?R_R is into women who weigh 300+ lbs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Why does sex matter so much to guys??I cant understand it Just get yourself a dose of testosterone and you'll get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that the manosphere underestimates the power of money in a man's SMV?It's comments like this that were the origin of the concept of AWALT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that the manosphere underestimates the power of money in a man's SMV?The problem with your guy B-scenario is that money is an "enabler" here; i.e. it facilitates his lifestyle. It doesn't make the women wet for him (although it might help him to attract them). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How much do you care about a man's sexual history?I think this isn't what the question regarding sexual history is about, even though technically it might be a correct answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 09:02 AM |
| 6 | What do guys consider "fat"?All in the right places tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men : Would you ever consider taking part on a romantic relationship that doesn't involve sex?No, but I am more interested in what you are trying to find out with that question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 08:58 AM |
| 5 | What do guys consider "fat"?The term "fat" is reserved for people who are obese (there's still being "overweight" though). For reference, I wouldn't call Ashley Graham "fat", Adele on the other hand was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 08:53 AM |
| 2 | 1 out of 4 Dads are cucksWants to bang ~20% of PPD chicks raises eyebrow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Can women feel strong sexual attraction to a beta partner?We know how to be friends! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Can women feel strong sexual attraction to a beta partner?Sure, there are horny women and also attractive betas. The issue is more that the supplicating or clueless behavior and follower mentality many betas display is offputting most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 03:04 PM |
| 1 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?Unfortunately you're right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | How many men can afford a stay at home wife?Kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 09:06 AM |
| 2 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?You still don't get it, but thanks for playing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Has the "keeping your options open" method worked for you?the horror | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 09:04 AM |
| 1 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?Which leaves those who aren't bragging about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 09:03 AM |
| 1 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?They’ll show it through their actions and what concerns they choose to vocalize Vocalizing concerns yes, actions far less so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 09:03 AM |
| 1 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/esvd9t/for_women_what_is_it_that_men_dont_get_about/ffcw0w4/?context=3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?And that's cool, you would actually qualify. You're still an exception though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?Talk about what? How kindhearted, empathetic etc. they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 07:43 PM |
| 2 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?I worded that poorly. What I wanted to say was "if only (as in: exclusively) women who were generous and helpful would actively talk about it..." - meaning all those women who aren't would simply STFU about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 07:41 PM |
| 2 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?The issue is that men mistakenly assume that because women like the cultivate an aura of altruism, it must be a nobrainer to qualify as being worthy of their attention and empathy, which isn't the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 07:40 PM |
| 3 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?I was just explaining why men are operating under this misconception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?Generous women will care about them and volunteer time and money to help these people. If only women who were generous and helpful would actively talk about it, we would save a lot of bandwidth that's wasted on pointless virtue signalling on social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Do women actually want marriage, or do they just want the wedding and special occasion?I'm not saying I agree or disagree with this view, but what do you think? Do women really want marriage or do they just want the wedding? I don't think "women" in general want this, but I do think that plenty of them are; and part of the vetting process should definitely be that you weed those out. If a woman is comfortable with the idea of having an outlandishly expensive wedding that she can lord over her girlfriends and you aren't billionaires, dump her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 04:53 PM |
| 10 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?Something men misunderstand is how unimportant most of them are to women. Men have a tendency to act like women care a lot about unattractive men That's because truckloads of women deliberately cultivate that impression by constantly playing up how big-hearted they are and how much they care about children, poor people and starving whales with cancer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 04:48 PM |
| 6 | Wait, Do Y'all Really Think "Exciting/Fun" = "Criminal Activity"??Y'all stahp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Would you marry if divorce meant you owed sex once a month to your ex?Some troll who likes to pretend to be a pickme? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 11:57 AM |
| 8 | Has the "keeping your options open" method worked for you?So... How would you make this method effective or how did this method work for you? The kind of woman I would want (permanently) is unlikely to let herself be strung along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 11:55 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Would you marry if divorce meant you owed sex once a month to your ex?Lol more of my life has been determined by avoiding paperwork than I'd like to admit. Let's start a club | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 11:54 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Would you marry if divorce meant you owed sex once a month to your ex?Or LARPing as one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 11:52 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Would you marry if divorce meant you owed sex once a month to your ex?I assume you're in your early 30s, going by your handle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 11:52 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] The 3 month waiting rule is always a bad idea for any girl who slept aroundI didn't say it means ladybody, just that it sounds kinda like ladyboy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Men and women of PPD: what’s your “type”?relevant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Men and women of PPD: what’s your “type”?Cute curvy dark-haired metalheads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Promiscuous women are marriage material?When I hadn't given any promise of fidelity to anyone, I fucked whoever I felt like fucking. Once I promised monogamy to someone I saw as being a good candidate for an LTR, I stopped fucking other people. Ask yourself what's more likely, though: A person who didn't sleep around also continuing to not sleep around when married. A person who didn't sleep around in the past suddenly starting to sleep around when married. A person who did sleep around als continuing to sleep around even when married… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Promiscuous women are marriage material?But I have not seen studies that show more partners means a higher probability of cheating. At least not yet. Well, IIRC there are findings that suggest that cheating is most likely with people one has already been intimate with in the past. One might argue that the more past sexual partners you have, the more opportunities of that sort you're bound to have. Also there's the issue that, everything else being equal, you being inclined to sleep around when single also means that you're more likely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] The 3 month waiting rule is always a bad idea for any girl who slept aroundboychik Sounds not that different from ladyboy, only worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Q4A: Is there part of your personality / behavior that you are embarrassed about that proves RP / BP / FDS right?"Naive and clingy" also describes most guys I know with their first GF. Might have something to do with a female-centric education, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 10:08 AM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on the Meghan Markle & Harry Saga?Have you ever watched British panel shows/ stand up? They're a running joke amongst gen X and younger. Are these as representative of the public opinion as this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on the Meghan Markle & Harry Saga?Meghan is a narcissistic cunt who wanted to be the special one to reform the royal family and when that didn’t work decided to get her pussy whipped husband to break away. Harsh, but I suspect that this plays a lot more into the situation than the "hurr durr it was Harry who wanted to turn his back on the royals and she has nothing to do with it"-crowd wants to admit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:41 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on the Meghan Markle & Harry Saga?That's a more azn perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on the Meghan Markle & Harry Saga?I doubt it - for better or worse, Camilla seems to be genuinely fond of Charles and vice versa. Not saying they're making the prettiest or least dysfunctional of couples, but hey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:37 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on the Meghan Markle & Harry Saga?I need some popcorn right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:36 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on the Meghan Markle & Harry Saga?Reminds me of her line in Suits when the protagonist finds out her father was some famous black lawyer and is completely taken by surprise: "does this look like a year-round tan to you?" My first thought when I saw that scene was "actually it kinda does" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:35 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on the Meghan Markle & Harry Saga?I would watch that movie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:33 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on the Meghan Markle & Harry Saga?Why you'd marry into it in the first place is beyond me. I think that was intentional on Meghan's part, she just found out that the royal life (especially including the media) isn't as appealing as she originally thought it was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:31 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on the Meghan Markle & Harry Saga?Harry chose to marry outside of the royals. So did William. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | If you don't want women to see you as Mr boring safe guy, why do you act boring and safe?Sounds more like your emotional baggage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:28 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on the Meghan Markle & Harry Saga?If it makes you feel better, Im british and don't know one pro-monarch in real life. Confirmation bias. From what you're writing here, you're rather far to the left and probably don't hang out with the people who have a favorable opinion of the monarchy (whether it's as an institution or because they're fond of Liz) in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on the Meghan Markle & Harry Saga?Wanting your country run by a bunch of inbred morons who are only in their positions of power because they were shoved out a royal uterus seems silly to me. You are aware that there are differences between absolute, constitutional and parliamentary monarchies? (just to pick these three types) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on the Meghan Markle & Harry Saga?I also think they like most of us in the western world think in the fact that there are still inherited monarchies is ridiculous I strongly doubt that tbh. My hunch is that the idea of marrying into royalty (and thus becoming a princess) was on some level, possibly subconsciously, very appealing to Meghan - which is why she picked Harry of all people... let's not pretend that a pretty somewhat successful Hollywood actress - 35 or not - didn't have other attractive opportunities. Experiencing it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Do guys realise when girls are playing mind games with them? Or realise the power dynamic in relationships in regard to who doesnt need the other partner has more power?"Seems" being crucial here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: So...tell me about this dancing monkey.what are you up tooo?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: So...tell me about this dancing monkey.è_é that's one mean looking emote | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4M are you worth the risk?Sweet baby Jesus on a tricycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 10:55 AM |
| 2 | What's a dealbreaker for you ?Which is okay, since this would be a fundamental incompatibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 10:41 AM |
| 10 | CMV: the women having lots of casual sex before settling down are only a small subset of the female population and more likely than not they have equal status to the guys they have casual sex with.Mainstream society denies that high n count or displaying high n count traits is an extremely common turn off to men. And because men have become aware that this is a total no-go when it comes to reasons why you reject a girl, they started to come up with other excuses - which in turn leads to women becoming even less aware of this and more open about their sluttery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 10:39 AM |
| 1 | If you don't want women to see you as Mr boring safe guy, why do you act boring and safe?What you're essentially saying is that it's outrageous that men care about their partners actually wanting them instead of fantasizing about other guys ("husbands vs lovers"); and that they expect more from a marriage than being a plowhorse for her evolutionary strategy ("marriage isn't about sex", "need stability and children"). And then you wonder why TRP tells men that they should ignore what women say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 10:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women shouldn’t be blamed as hard as they are for having an inflated sense of self.check da flair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 08:25 PM |
| 5 | If you don't want women to see you as Mr boring safe guy, why do you act boring and safe?no woman seeks that in a HUSBAND, that is a LOVER. [...] has nothing yet taught you women do not think about SEX when thinking about marriage? theyre thinking about stability and children Your sales pitch for the role of husband really sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 04:41 PM |
| 1 | What's a dealbreaker for you ?Still leaves this problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Why is Dirty Dancing so popular among women?Possibly, but I doubt too many people know of this franchise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 01:28 PM |
| 19 | CMV: Women shouldn’t be blamed as hard as they are for having an inflated sense of self.suckers idolizing mediocre pussy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Why is Dirty Dancing so popular among women?the rising of the isekai That's oddly specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Everyone of PPD, what are some common cliches/tropes in movies and TV shows having to do with gender relations/sex that annoy you?Remove the attack please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Everyone of PPD, what are some common cliches/tropes in movies and TV shows having to do with gender relations/sex that annoy you?No, a weird generation of men was rubbed the wrong way by men being consistently presented as incompetent dolts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Everyone of PPD, what are some common cliches/tropes in movies and TV shows having to do with gender relations/sex that annoy you?Flanderization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Everyone of PPD, what are some common cliches/tropes in movies and TV shows having to do with gender relations/sex that annoy you?And even Chandler occasionally has very attractive girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 11:31 AM |
| 16 | What Entails "Being Settled For"? What Criteria "Should" Women Enter LTRs With?The fear among straight dudes that women would only "settle" for them after "having fun" suggests a lot about how little these guys seem to think they have to offer (people who know they're fun tend to know why people like being around them - because, y'know, it's fun.) Nice shaming attempt, yo If a woman had her fun with 100 guys, she could legitimately and beyond any doubt think I am the best thing since sliced bread, I certainly wouldn't date her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 11:26 AM |
| 5 | What's a dealbreaker for you ?Women... who are suffering from some kind of psychological condition or who are borderline retarded with a severe sense of entitlement, i.e. the inability to be content (I know a lot of guys who dated or even married such women. If you ever run into such a specimen - don't.) outside of a certain age range who are unwilling to have children at a certain point or who already have children with a past in prostitution or sex work in general, or current or reformed slut who dated totally different gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Who is this imaginary PPD woman?who is this woman on PPD? i have literally never seen a woman HERE who matches this description? PPD selects for a particular brand of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 09:56 PM |
| 7 | CMV: A woman cannot be a slut and hypergamous at the same time.Bluepillers redefining redpill terms in order to fabricate a gotcha-moment, exhibit #82744 Hypergamy in the redpill sense doesn't mean you are only after the bestest guy ever and all other guys can kiss your ass. Generally speaking, it means one (or more) of the following: a woman wanting a man who is at the very least equal or superior to her in metrics like height, strength, income/wealth, intelligence, education superior to (most) other men in metrics like height, strength, income/wealth, int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 09:29 PM |
| 17 | "Being Settled for" and narcissistic wounds... a lot of the crux of incel/RP/MGTOW/BP/etc.....If I only want to get laid, it bothers me a lot less. The issue is if I it's about more than just getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Should women fuck a guy who let himself go?Only if they fuck guys who beat her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Should women fuck a guy who let himself go?Nah, it's just azngirl poking holes as usual. Of course her scenarios are oddly specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 03:27 PM |
| 1 | This sub is awesome and I like you guysyeah, what a noob | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:10 PM |
| 1 | This sub is awesome and I like you guyseeek I am grateful I got it over with when I was 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:10 PM |
| 2 | This sub is awesome and I like you guysElliot Rodgers kicked off the hatred towards incels in the first place. Before nobody knew about them before, after him it suddenly became cool to hate on sexually unsuccessful guys who dared to not take their plight in stride because people considered it legitimate to lump them together with guys who want to rape, enslave and kill women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | This sub is awesome and I like you guys/u/PierceTheEye relevant link | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: would you rather be the "sex guy" or the "relationship guy" to women? Show your workAs a former sex guy, you never were the "relationship guy" in the first place. Or did you just magically unlearn everything about dating and how to get women the moment you decided that you wanted to go for relationships? The thing is: sorry, but you don't really know what you're talking about. The guys who tried their bestest to become "relationship guys" (only to fail over and over again in one way or another) since they were 13 on the other hand, they know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Q4men: would you rather be the "sex guy" or the "relationship guy" to women? Show your workA guy with 100% awesome personality and 0% sex appeal has worse relationship prospects than a guy for whom it's the inverse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Q4men: would you rather be the "sex guy" or the "relationship guy" to women? Show your workSex guy. In fact, I think most of the problems young guys in the West have with dating are because they're basically indoctrinated to become relationship guys and definitely not sex guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 12:53 PM |
| 1 | How is a woman’s hypergamy worse than a man experiencing the Coolidge effect?My point is that R1 was the only watchable Disney Star Wars movie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 12:52 PM |
| 1 | How is a woman’s hypergamy worse than a man experiencing the Coolidge effect?If it's Rogue Two, I'm in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 12:49 PM |
| 5 | Involuntarily sexless women exist and they are suffering as wellI'm not really sorry for women's self-inflicted misery that they blame on men, they even use it as an excuse to reshape society into putting more pressure on men. This right here. In fact, it's precisely this attitude that drove me to seeking out TRP (or rather: the manosphere at large): Back in 2014, I stumbled over an article penned by a woman around 30 who had gotten rejected/ghosted three times in a row, and then wrote her sob story about how it's men who are the weaker sex because these guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 12:13 PM |
| 1 | How is a guy going to slut-shame women and then throw a fit if a woman has a three month rule?Some women have been with a lot of guys because they went on a few dates, had sex, and then the guy never called her back, because to him the three-date-rule was basically a ONS with extra steps. Then they are shit at vetting and go for the wrong guys (presumably guys who are out of their league), or are simply not worth keeping around in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:53 AM |
| 6 | How is a guy going to slut-shame women and then throw a fit if a woman has a three month rule?I'm a 24 year old virgin. I have to admit: if you're not lying, that makes a lot of your posts (not just in this thread, but in general) appear in a different light. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:51 AM |
| 8 | How is a guy going to slut-shame women and then throw a fit if a woman has a three month rule?This. You can't expect men to be perfectly fine with women sleeping around like there's no tomorrow when they are left out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:47 AM |
| 9 | How is a guy going to slut-shame women and then throw a fit if a woman has a three month rule?The problem with this line of reasoning, while not entirely wrong, is that you're already buying into the female narrative: there are guys who are only good for sex there are guys who are good for relationships while it glosses over the other the other possibility women don't want you to consider (case in point: this thread): there are guys a woman wants to have sex with there are guys a woman doesn't want to have sex with Men are easily misled to believe the former is true because that's how th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:45 AM |
| 3 | How is a guy going to slut-shame women and then throw a fit if a woman has a three month rule?I’m not saying men like this but I am saying there is no simple way of measuring a woman’s opinion of a man’s value just by sex wait time. Maybe, but when she pulls the stuff you just described, it's pretty easy to measure her value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:40 AM |
| 1 | How is a guy going to slut-shame women and then throw a fit if a woman has a three month rule?Is truth red pilled? does that mean that saying the sky is blue is red pilled? Nope, the sky being blue is self-evident and is, in fact, commonly used as a metaphore for something that is completely and utterly self-evident to such an extent that nobody would seriously deny it. The thing about a "red pill truth" is that you're dealing with truths that (a) aren't self-evident from the onset and (b) actively gets obscured by influential groups (like for example the media) to such an extent that de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:39 AM |
| 7 | How is a guy going to slut-shame women and then throw a fit if a woman has a three month rule?That's why she goes for "not Danny DeVito" when she wants a "hot passionate fucking". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:26 AM |
| 7 | How is a guy going to slut-shame women and then throw a fit if a woman has a three month rule?If all I want is raw passionate fucking, why would I want a guy like Dani Devito? As long as you don't date your hypothetical Danny DeVito, that's your decision. However, if you do and make him wait for years while immediately jumping some hot stud, you're communicating several things: The first message of your obvious behavior is "I don't think you're attractive enough to have sex, while other guys certainly are. Odds are that I'll deadbedroom you." The second message behind that one is "I thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:22 AM |
| 2 | How is a guy going to slut-shame women and then throw a fit if a woman has a three month rule?There are girls guys would sleep with if they are desperate but would never be seen in public with. Yeah, but they don't date and marry these girls and try to tell them that them that them not wanting to be seen with them was because they thought they were oh so important to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:09 AM |
| 6 | How is a guy going to slut-shame women and then throw a fit if a woman has a three month rule?That doesn't mean that the men in question have to bend over and take it from behind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:08 AM |
| 2 | How is a guy going to slut-shame women and then throw a fit if a woman has a three month rule?Sounds like mental gymnastics and deflection to me. and how! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:07 AM |
| 4 | CMV: TRP's obsession with lifting is cringy, delusional and borderline autistic.Not every guy Almost no guy who lifts turns into John Cena lol. Just fixed that for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 12:07 PM |
| 10 | CMV: TRP's obsession with lifting is cringy, delusional and borderline autistic.I would also add a few other things: It's relatively easy - if you start doing it and do so persistently, you'll see results relatively soon. Also (and this ties into your "100% in your control" bullet point) it's indeed something that isn't unrealistic to preach. On the other hand, telling someone who is an introvert and on the spectrum to "just be social" is like telling someone with an IQ of 70 to get a degree in something that isn't gender studies. It is to undo a lot of the brainwashing by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 12:00 PM |
| 6 | Is there a difference between redpill term "Betabucks" and Femaledatingstrategy's term "High Value Men"?You should really read what people write. He didn't say "Henry Cavill is unattractive", he said "Henry Cavill wouldn't qualify for their standards". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 11:51 AM |
| 0 | Is there a difference between redpill term "Betabucks" and Femaledatingstrategy's term "High Value Men"?10/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Is there a difference between redpill term "Betabucks" and Femaledatingstrategy's term "High Value Men"?"Beta bucks" doesn't really say anything about the quality of the guy (he can be rich or lower class, he can be reasonably attractive or ugly), more about his attitude - he usually isn't the one in charge of the relationship - and that most if not all of his value is derived from what he can do for a woman as opposed to the alpha, whose relationships are more about what she can do for him. I would say that all this also applies to the FDS "H"VM, except that the quality of the guy does matter ver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 11:43 AM |
| 1 | In General, Do Women Judge Quiet Guys Harsher Then More Extroverted Guys.Q4W | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL What are your thoughts on r/Vindicta ?Before you type a rushed response in the comments. They do not mean a "bad bitch" as a crazy, angry and confrontational woman. Judging from the mods whose names I am familiar with, yes they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: Better for a man to date a widow or a rape-victim?Truckloads of grief, for starters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 03:07 PM |
| 1 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?Disregarding this particular question: Thoughtcatalog is garbage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 10:02 AM |
| 1 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?Yeah, that's what the waitey Kateys don't get - guys who have experienced being friendzoned usually take waiting as "meh, she isn't interested in me anyway". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 10:01 AM |
| 1 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?In that case I would argue that you insisting on waiting is the reason you're still a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 09:57 AM |
| 1 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?I was more irritated by the lack of "you're" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 09:56 AM |
| 1 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?Back in 1998, things were different. Let's not forget that back in 1998, you were 22 years younger and probably had a fundamentally different approach to dating. I know I did, or rather "would have" had I successfully dated back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 09:51 AM |
| 7 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?I even know of a guy who dated a virgin (friend of mine) for years, [...] All that time, all he wanted was another v-card. Somehow I doubt that was the case unless he was dating other girls on the side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Is height a source of asymmetry between men and women?Height is the single most important factor in getting casual sex. I disagree, the single most important factor in getting casual sex is being willing to go for casual sex. If there's one thing all guys who regularly had casual sex have in common, it isn't height, or looks, or even attitude - it's the fact that they were willing to have casual sex and, if necessary, prioritize getting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Is height a source of asymmetry between men and women?Be civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 09:40 AM |
| 4 | Is height a source of asymmetry between men and women?was 4'9'' So you're dating midgets as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 09:39 AM |
| 2 | “Selling dreams to these girls with they guard down”The typical bloop response I see is that this strategy is wrong The archetypical bloop response is more that women notice it. Somehow we get both: women being so pure of heart and naive that they're easily misled by vile men, but also so intuitive and insightful that they immediately realize when they're dealing with a poser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 09:31 AM |
| 1 | “Selling dreams to these girls with they guard down”The Automod doesn't automatically nullify all the rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 09:29 AM |
| 1 | “Selling dreams to these girls with they guard down”Q4Men: have you ever sold false hopes and dreams to get laid or keep girls around? Mostly lies by omission, even when the women were DTF and only in it for the sex themselves. Because, believe it or not, even a woman who has no problem with something casual doesn't want to be told that seriously dating her because of XY isn't on the table. (I wouldn't call that "selling hopes and dreams", though.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 09:23 AM |
| 4 | Can a LTR be saved when built upon a shitty foundation?Hey, they prevent each other from dating normal people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?It depends on your perspective and what you're evaluating. On the one hand, /u/webernicke is correct, men are far more disposable than women by nature, and most men aren't really aware of that gap. On the other, women have an overinflated idea of their own value due to male thirst and thus get the wrong idea of what caliber of men they can expect to get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?Women, simply by virtue of their value being overinflated due to male thirst. Men usually get a reality check regarding their league pretty quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys not want relationships as much as women?Why do guys not want relationships as much as women? The issue isn't that guys don't want relationships as much as women, the issue is that when not wanting relationships, guys are a lot more likely to be still open to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 02:01 PM |
| 1 | If you had to choose would you choose a women with a beautiful face and average body or a women with an average face but hot body?I concur. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | If you had to choose would you choose a women with a beautiful face and average body or a women with an average face but hot body?A good face is when you are out with her, Eh, I wouldn't say that. When I see a beautiful woman I don't think "I want to date that chick because of those sweet sweet bragging rights", I am simply far more likely to fall for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:07 PM |
| 2 | If you had to choose would you choose a women with a beautiful face and average body or a women with an average face but hot body?Pretty much this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Did capitalism create feminism for profit?Edited it to make it less succinct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Did capitalism create feminism for profit?No, but capitalism monetized feminism. It's the same with all these progressive causes. Capitalism doesn't care about your ideology as long as they can somehow make bank by paying lip-service to it. And one has to admit that capitalism benefits a lot more from feminism than it does from, say, environmentalism or workers' rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:03 PM |
| 3 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?Okay, I worded that poorly: it's not the usual "women are wonderful"-fare (even if they're superficial as fuck), it's simply to get it out of their heads that women are somehow more sublime and noble than men (which includes horseshit like women presumably believing that it's "the inside that counts") and that the women who don't qualify to these unrealistic standards are automatically not worth having. Because this leads to impressionable guys dismissing perfectly datable (at least for a time) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:02 PM |
| 10 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?Before I landed in the manosphere I didn’t even realise that men thought women didn’t care about looks, it’s really shocking how some people spend so much of their lives in a bubble of ignorance. I like to paraphrase a female poster on /r/askmen: "before I found /r/askmen, I would never have thought that men genuinely believe that women as a rule don't really want to have sex, but only do it because they want to do men a favor". The shitty messages we grew up with are quite a handful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:28 PM |
| 9 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?Think about it ....everyone knows that being fat is a negative. Everyone knows that it's harder to get dates when you're fat. But yet fat people still complain about dating . Most people are lazy by nature and would grasp at every straw that allows them to perpetuate their laziness. However if you put enough pressure on them in that regard (for example by telling them in no uncertain terms that (a) it doesn't make a woman a bad or superficial person if she isn't into lardasses and (b) that one s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?Thanks for showing me that video, it's an excellent example of him falling into the 'naturalistic fallacy'. The fact that this is what you're taking away from that video tells us more about you than you'd like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?He uses 'post modern neo marxism' as a umbrella term for things he doesn't like (feminists, JSW, academics, corporate HR (lmao). If the people fighting him tooth and nail do so from a common starting point (which can be summed up as "JBP dares to be critical of feminism and blankslatism, let's hang him", which is the ideological element a feminist, a progressive academic, an SJW and a female-dominated HR would have in common) and use similar arguments against him, inhowfar is it strange or unjus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?But if you actually pay attention to how much time he spends talking about one thing and how little talking about the other, it becomes obvious what he cares about. Have you ever considered that maybe he talks more about one than about the other because talking about the pitfalls of extreme economic inequality is a topic that is extensively covered by other people (the same people who also covere normal and miniscule economic inequality), while barely anyone really talks about dating inequality … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 02:23 PM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?That said, the guy either has zero self awareness or is intellectually dishonest. He seems to think that having high openness makes him a liberal when he spends hours criticizing liberals but keeps his mouth shut about conservatives. Or maybe when he says "liberal" he refers to the ways Europeans understand the concept and not US-Americans? He would pass as a liberal-conservative here, in the US this label would almost qualify as a contradiction in itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?wat Well, technically guys like these two here were Nazis. As in: party members. I don't know whether that's what the poster above means, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 02:16 PM |
| 1 | How superficial are you? What's your minimum requirement of looks?Nope. supremely hot not supremely hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 02:13 PM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?No, he correctly labels all those people who have permeated the bureaucracy, educational system etc. and from there attempt to promote radically progressive nonsense, if necessary through pressure and even force. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 02:10 PM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?relevant thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:58 PM |
| 1 | The red-pill is just a reaction to the way women act, not an offensive attack against women.Nope, demonstrably wrong. Take for example PUA: while not being pedestalizing towards women, they were overall positive enough and certainly non-judgmental when it comes to promiscuity. Did women like it? No, they strongly disliked it (though not to the extent they hate TRP) and tried their best to subvert the /r/seduction-community to pressure it to conform more to female needs and priorities. Successfully, I might add (and now you also have the reason why TRP is as hostile towards female intru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:58 PM |
| 1 | How superficial are you? What's your minimum requirement of looks?Better. At least she doesn't look like a crossdresser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Good girls: a treatiseBut they don't present themselves as being open to sex or relationships like crazy people often do I think this is also a particular problem that is usually disregarded by TRP when it comes to the risk of dating high N women. The issue isn't necessarily (or rather: not exclusively) that the slut you wifed up secretly pines for her past lovers who were more attractive than you, the issue is that the slut you wifed up is far more likely to jump into a relationship and subsequently marriage without… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Good girls: a treatiseIME guys say they want a good girl, but in reality, to quote Anna from Red Scare, "men want to be tortured by chaotic whores." chaotic neutral or chaotic evil? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:43 PM |
| 1 | How superficial are you? What's your minimum requirement of looks?I've gone after skinny (like a ballerina) Black women That's a pretty dude with a wig ô_ó | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:40 PM |
| 9 | How superficial are you? What's your minimum requirement of looks?If she's chubby, gotta have some junk in the trunk. This. Being chubby without boobs looks horrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:39 PM |
| 1 | How superficial are you? What's your minimum requirement of looks?I am extremely flexible regarding height and hair/eye/skin color, as long as I find you attractive we're good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:36 PM |
| 3 | How superficial are you? What's your minimum requirement of looks?teeth. Bad teeth are a dealbreaker for me Sheeeet I can relate to that. Once saw a girl on the train, pretty though really skinny, but the moment I saw her reveal a row of rotten teeth I was immediately put off for good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:34 PM |
| 2 | How do women feel about dating a guy with a felony?So I take it that automod isn't a felon? because some seem to think he's the internet equivalent of a genocidal tyrant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:33 PM |
| 3 | How do women feel about dating a guy with a felony?how unexpected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:12 PM |
| 1 | How do women feel about dating a guy with a felony?you're adorable ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:11 PM |
| 1 | How do women feel about dating a guy with a felony?It makes me uncomfortable and makes my stomach do back flips. So it is on a gut level :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:10 PM |
| 6 | The red-pill is just a reaction to the way women act, not an offensive attack against women.They key for your approach is this particular paragraph: And this is why TRP will always be loathed, even if it dropped all the anger phase stuff and the vitriolic language today and was totally safe spacey for women henceforth; even if TRP tried to be so incredibly low-key and balanced with its unflattering statements about "female nature" that they would barely register as offensive. No, it would still be reviled because what TRP unapologetically endorses is putting yourself first and not lett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 12:14 PM |
| 4 | If a woman is rejected by an attractive male, she becomes more bitter towards an accepting male who is unattractive or of low status.Unless they're 10s themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 11:54 AM |
| 2 | The red-pill is just a reaction to the way women act, not an offensive attack against women.I do not think that is why, it seems far more likely that women "hate" The Red Pill because it is viscerally repugnant. You like to tell yourself that this is the only reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Do Gamer Girls have higher or lower SMV than average Girls?However IRL I've never heard of guys wanting gamer girls. A guy who says that he wants a gamer girl is severely limiting his options - which aren't that abundant in the first place if he's a gamer himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Is being “Not like the other girls”a good dating strategy?Are you in Lysistrata-mode again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 03:16 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The only type of monogamous relationshiop worth having (especially for a guy) is one in which you can regularly share your true feelings (including negative ones) without negative (especially sexual, for a guy) consequence.CMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 11:13 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The only type of monogamous relationshiop worth having (especially for a guy) is one in which you can regularly share your true feelings (including negative ones) without negative (especially sexual, for a guy) consequence.CMV. I mean, I agree, but still CMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 11:13 AM |
| 9 | CMV: We're the weirdos. TRP/TBP/PPD views are too different to intelligently speculate on the "reality" of normies.Who are we to say that it's wrong though? Because most people are a herd consisting of followers. Back in the day when the socially desirable answers were different and unmarried mothers or working mothers were considered borderline deviants, the stats for the second half of your post would have been inverted. What we're seeing here is people reiterating the nonsense opinion leaders told them for decades by now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Undesirability of High IQ Men120-130IQ is already way too high, that's the level of intelligence typical STEM students have and they are permavirgins. That's already 1%. Two standard deviations or more (i.e. IQ 130+) are 2% of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Undesirability of High IQ Men"smart" for most people is the dunning kruger sweet spot 110-120 IQ range where you can be both "smart"and not crazy/eccentric/socially weird/physically awkward etc. most people will NEVER meet people in the 140+ range and are never talking about them This right there, and this is something intelligent but socially unaware men (including younger me) don't get: intelligence as a desirable trait is not something that makes dating easier the more you have of it. It isn't even a trait that's sufferi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 09:27 AM |
| 1 | If I have to "work" for a relationship, why shouldn't I PnD?This reads even more as if you had used google translate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 09:16 AM |
| 24 | CMV: We're the weirdos. TRP/TBP/PPD views are too different to intelligently speculate on the "reality" of normies.This. Just because the majority believes something doesn't automatically make it so. Disregarding personal experiences (like the "67% of men disagreed/strongly disagreed with the statement "Marriage has not worked out for most people I know" ") or personal preferences (like "94% of men agreed/strongly agreed that "being a parent is worth it, despite the cost and work it takes" "), the last three bullet points are basically just people trotting out the narrative pushed by the media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 09:12 AM |
| 1 | If I have to "work" for a relationship, why shouldn't I PnD?I considered adopting instead of cats, but life happened and I adopted a decent programmer that I have no idea at what age I started being friends with. Please elaborate, because right now you aren't making sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 09:00 AM |
| 1 | If I have to "work" for a relationship, why shouldn't I PnD?Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 08:59 AM |
| 2 | If I have to "work" for a relationship, why shouldn't I PnD?That's still enormous - don't forget we aren't talking about guys between 16 and 20 or even 25, we're talking about guys up to the age of fucking 34. Sure, most of those virgins are bound to be in the lower quarter of that age bracket, but this means that for those we aren't talking about 10%, but rather something like 1 in 5 - which is far more severe than just a fringe problem one can easily dismiss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 08:58 AM |
| 2 | If I have to "work" for a relationship, why shouldn't I PnD?I think the issue isn't that both parties need to put in effort n order to make a relationship work (which is your gist), but the fact that guys need to put in work (with women as mostly passive recipients) in order to get into a relationship in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 08:55 AM |
| 0 | The Madonna-Whore dichotomy, why and how to fix it? NsfwI think feminists are "butthurt" by the hypocrisy of men that also have similar or higher count, yet they act prude. No, those internet feminists are generally pissed when women are judged for promiscuity. It doesn't matter whether the guy slept around himself or not, whenever a girl gets rejected for her sexual past, you can bet on the SJWs coming out of the woodworks calling him an insecure incel manchild and basically say that he doesn't have the right to have preferences. The cases of men be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 08:51 AM |
| 2 | The Madonna-Whore dichotomy, why and how to fix it? NsfwThis. Feminists are just butthurt that women who want to sleep around indiscriminately might also be relegated to exactly that role by a large number of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 10:51 AM |
| 1 | The Madonna-Whore dichotomy, why and how to fix it? NsfwLet's not forget that it's also a heavily ideologically charged term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 10:50 AM |
| 1 | The effects of war on the sexual market place?WWII 70 million mainly men died. The Vietnam war saw to what the public’s understanding was massive death. IIRC in Vietnam "only" a five digit-number of GIs died, so this hardly affected the SMP. However, a war with lots of dead guys really affects the SMP because suddenly women have to compete in order to get men and being picky is a luxury plenty can't afford (well, this also applies in current year, it's just more obvious if 25% of all men who should be present are suddenly missing). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard for women to accept that men were lied to?I’m kind of blown away by the fact that rather than conclude that women are different, and that one woman’s tastes might differ from another, that you formed a whole new paradigm for how the world works. I didn't form a whole new paradigm, I fit that observation into my preexisting worldview. That anecdote was more to illustrate how absolutely silly that worldview was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard for women to accept that men were lied to?I've been here for years and an awful lot of gaslighting that went wayyyyy beyond mere disagreements took place. Who made this dude a mod? Smdh Not you, and it really seems to bother you that you weren't asked personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Only Competent Women are LTR MaterialNo, the Cool Girl as desribed in Gone Girl has a few more traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Only Competent Women are LTR MaterialSorry, I prefer a ditzy woman who happens to be a Cool GirlTM over this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 11:29 AM |
| -2 | Do you like dad bods?ding ding ding ding we have a winner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Would You Date an Ex Gay or an Ex Lesbian?Disregarding conversion therapy: I wouldn't. Not because I am repulsed by lesbians, but simply because I suspect that she isn't entirely truthful about her preferences. If you are more than 3 on the Kinsey scale, I am not interested (and a 3 is already pushing it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Why is it so hard for women to accept that men were lied to?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3ckblo/what_unrealistic_expectations_did_you_have_before/csx79tx/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3jlyna/are_women_really_that_deceptive_in_their_tastes/cuqh9lj/ glad I could help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 11:02 AM |
| 11 | Why is it so hard for women to accept that men were lied to?And why should women care? I don't expect you to care, I expect you not to gaslight us on top of that. Ironically, this very gaslighting epidemic going on at PPD is a direct continuation of women's insincerity that lead to threads like this one in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Discussion: Would you be with someone who's in their "struggle" years?Men need to admit that they too wouldnt do it for some random girl they havent been dating for long. It would also be idiotic to play the love martyr (and this goes for either gender). I mean, imagine your partner of half a year gets into an accident and is quadriplegic as a consequence. Of course it's kind of a dick move to bail, but on the other hand staying in that relationship would essentially come down to forfeiting the right to actually live your own life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Would you be with someone who's in their "struggle" years?How long have you been dating? Has he ever since wanted to move in with and marry you or is this just a recent development coinciding with him falling on hard times? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 12:07 PM |
| 0 | 30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share.You're wrong, glad I could help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory?I hate to say it, but you're probably right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 11:45 AM |
| 12 | Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory?Lol I’d be willing to bet if they could find an attractive, high value partner they wouldn’t want to share. From the article: they don't really like sharing and they can't find another partner on top of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory?Whatever you're planning, DON'T clean your eyes with bleach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 03:28 PM |
| 11 | Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory?you just found an article about an ugly person five ugly people doing something stupid ftfy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 03:25 PM |
| 8 | Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory?No, not one of them is average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: If you were friendzoned, would you still stay friends with the person who rejected you or would you leave the friendship?I never called you an incel....? "I am sorry you have problems with women" is the poor man's version of "you're an incel/a virgin", so let's not pretend otherwise, shall we? And seriously, if a hint of (not even particularly vicious) sarcasm already throws you off balance to such an extent that you immediately get personal and go right into shaming territory, what we're dealing with is more of a you-problem than anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] How effective is marriage counseling?And Lol that I’m “anti TRP.” I said "anti TRP" (as in: TRP the community/manosphere offshoot) instead of "bluepilled" for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 03:14 PM |
| 3 | [Q4M] How effective is marriage counseling?There's a difference between "we have problems" and "our marriage is breaking down". Also because the anti-TRP camp is usually extremely adamant about their relationships being impervious to any challenges life throws at them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] How effective is marriage counseling?What am I, some bluepiller? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 12:30 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] How effective is marriage counseling?I agree, the willingness to put up with annoying shit is at its peak (for either sex) when the attraction is strongest. For some people it's only strong enough during the honeymoon phase, for others it lasts longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 12:06 PM |
| 4 | [Q4M] How effective is marriage counseling?If a woman divorces her husband, that doesn't really tell you anything about her attraction to him... Let's not pretend there wasn't a strong correlation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 12:01 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] How effective is marriage counseling?Tons of people will tell you their marriage breakdown had nothing to do with attraction and sex, myself included. You had a marriage breakdown? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 12:01 PM |
| 1 | The three date rule isn’t for everyone.General rule of thumb: If you're the one who makes the other party wait, you have forfeited your right to sleep around during that time. It's up to you whether you tolerate the other party sleeping around or not, but if you could have sex with someone you're dating (even if it's just the earliest stages) but decide against it, you better don't fuck someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 10:47 AM |
| 2 | The three date rule isn’t for everyone.It's a fine line, but hey, men are in the same boat. Maybe not when it comes to putting out, but in other regards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 10:46 AM |
| 1 | The three date rule isn’t for everyone.You can also convey this is in a less mean fashion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 10:43 AM |
| 1 | The three date rule isn’t for everyone.If she did it regularly and not just once, this doesn't apply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Is it expected that average or below average looking women would benefit greatly if the assumption is made that they’d need something other than looks to attract a husband?She's a troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 10:39 AM |
| 1 | I've seen men claim they don't trust women on N count. So, why are so many men offended when women ADMIT they lie about the N count?You haven't reached the epiphany phase yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 10:15 AM |
| 1 | I've seen men claim they don't trust women on N count. So, why are so many men offended when women ADMIT they lie about the N count?This idea that some chick is a slut for past bfs but not into sex with you SPECIFICALLY — does this actually happen? Yup. Already had that happen to me, noped out of that relationship pretty quickly. It was actually a pretty surreal experience when she - after I broke up with her - spilled the beans about how she used to sleep around (which I hadn't been aware of before, at least not to this extent) and now wanted her relationships to be about more than sex. Had I read this story on /r/relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 10:11 AM |
| 2 | I've seen men claim they don't trust women on N count. So, why are so many men offended when women ADMIT they lie about the N count?I personally think n - count should be about partners who fulfilled your expectations in bed and made you orgasm, which cuts my N count in half. That's some olympic-level mental gymnastics here, Daisy. According to your logic, if you were a literal prostitute or pornstar who only went through the motions but never had an orgasm in her life, you'd still be a virgin. Glad we sorted that out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 10:06 AM |
| 2 | I've seen men claim they don't trust women on N count. So, why are so many men offended when women ADMIT they lie about the N count?Wait, so non alpha men can pretend they're alpha to get laid but promiscuous women can't pretend they're chaste to get married? Holy false equivalency Batman! I'd argue that getting married to a woman you wouldn't even date if you had been able to make an informed decision is a weee bit different from having sex with someone you wouldn't have slept with had you had the whole picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: If you were friendzoned, would you still stay friends with the person who rejected you or would you leave the friendship?Oh, look, the pathetic "YoU jUsT sAy ThAt BeCaUsE yOu'Re An InCeL"-attack, never gets old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: If you were friendzoned, would you still stay friends with the person who rejected you or would you leave the friendship?They aren't "guy hobbies" because they're labeled that way, they're "guy hobbies" because they plain and simply are. Nobody ever labeled PnP RPGs or videogames a "guy hobby" to me when I grew up, yet for all intents and purposes they were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionYou see, the intention behind this RP obsession isn't that you coerce women into stuff they've never practiced (or only tried once to find out they hate it), but to weed out those women who are treating you differently from past partners, presumably with a fishy motive. And, my personal addition: also pushovers who did everything to please their past partners and/or gave in into every request and now bear the emotional scars from this experience - nothing good will come of this. However, if you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionSo you aren't exactly affected by this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 04:04 PM |
| 0 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionHe knows I will never do anal for him and he is happy to stick around. Did you in the past? And, yes, I am a feminist and proud of it. No surprise here. However, in one regard I agree. Women shouldn't want to date guys they're withholding something from, whether it's stuff they did in the past or the truth about their past shenanigans because they have reason to believe it'll sour their relationship. Because odds are the relationship is going to suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 03:58 PM |
| 0 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionThat depends on the quality of the guy and the quality of her options - but if it was as you say, then women wouldn't lie about things like that; which they do. That a guy who would act like that is automatically a terrible partner to a particular woman is feminist wishful thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | The Not-So-Great Reason Divorce Rates Are DecliningAs ideologues who are undermining religion as part of their power grab. Kinda like Orwell (who wasn't a fan of religion himself) described. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 03:38 PM |
| 0 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionThe pain is the same, regardless of gender. You’re being deliberately obtuse. No, you're not getting it. The thing with your reasoning is that there isn't really a gender-flipped equivalent to anal that isn't one some level loaded with lots of other connotations that make it problematic in advance even if physical discomfort isn't an issue - a guy could even enjoy assplay and still not want to be fucked in the ass because of other reasons unrelated to pain; and their partners as a rule also don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Why do people think Twitter and Jezebel Magazine reflect Real Life?Me neither. But you know what I'd do as well? Saying that those who came up with that idea are complete and utter dolts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Why do people think Twitter and Jezebel Magazine reflect Real Life?Yeah cause fight club was one realistic movie... The issue isn't realism, the issue is that it's simply a dumb idea and a terrible fit. It makes as much sense as reshooting Thelma & Louise with two male leads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 01:37 PM |
| 0 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionThat’s not the point. The point is, the pain factor is equal. The point is also that the pleasure factor isn't equal. I haven't met too many women who were into fucking someone's ass. The women who don’t want to do it, don’t do it for the same reasons some men don’t want to do it. I have yet to meet a woman who refuses to receive anal because it diminishes her masculinity. By the way, if you're downvoting (which is against the rules), don't do it as transparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 01:35 PM |
| 15 | Do you believe being masculine is catering to the female imperative?Being masculine isn't necessarily catering to the female imperative, being "masculine" how women interpret it ("real men should...") however definitely is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think Twitter and Jezebel Magazine reflect Real Life?As I said ;D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 01:28 PM |
| 0 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionNever heard of it and I am not intentionally avoiding this field. That said, for some weird reason most women aren't into men who bend over, literally as well as figuratively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Is “true nature” revealed in times of struggle or when all needs are met?I'd say the latter, since times of struggle are pretty rare and oftentimes lead to demoting dating as a priority anyway. Also, as long as you're merely "dating", odds are that you won't be willing to sacrifice as much for a new partner as you would for someone you're wayyyyy past the early phase; or (even moreso) for a child of yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 01:25 PM |
| 0 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionThat would already exist if it was feasible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Banned and Restricted ContentIronically, the original zoomer (Maxine from Stranger Things) is technically generation X. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 01:19 PM |
| 10 | Banned and Restricted Content"Noomer" is off limits as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionThen we're at an impasse here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionWhen women post a Q4RP-thread Just because that's why you use this sub does not compute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Is “true nature” revealed in times of struggle or when all needs are met?Both? Times of struggle show to which lengths you are willing to go (in order to survive). Times of plenty show what you prioritize and what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionlmao, not true. Lots of women don't cum from getting licked out - but it still feels nice. How does this contradict "women usually are turned on from receiving oral"? AGAIN they are NOT in the same camp. Receiving anal requires pain and discomfort. And AGAIN the dildo comparison still sucks. Come up with a better one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:52 AM |
| 0 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionWhen women post a Q4RP-thread, it's generally about something they feel personally slighted or threatened by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Why do people think Twitter and Jezebel Magazine reflect Real Life?Germany. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:49 AM |
| 16 | Why do people think Twitter and Jezebel Magazine reflect Real Life?female fight club is in the making Seriously? That must be the most retarded idea ever - if there's one movie that is so fundamentally male, it's Fight Club. Jesus, who comes up with these ideas. Edit: for those doubting Toms who can't grasp why it's a silly plan - more on this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:49 AM |
| 3 | Why do people think Twitter and Jezebel Magazine reflect Real Life?Or they're simply overly cautious and are willing to throw reason under the bus out of fear. From this thread: The activists make use of the fact that in the United States, universities have become brands. Like an Apple product, a Yale diploma is also a sign of distinction. The difference is the price and that would fall if the brand is damaged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think Twitter and Jezebel Magazine reflect Real Life?Haven't you seen this? Well that's a french "artist". Thanks, I hate it. And this idea that men were toxic to themselves and everyone, without literally calling it toxic masculinity, has been around for decades and has shaped one or two generations Neighbor to the East here, it's the same for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:44 AM |
| 6 | Why do people think Twitter and Jezebel Magazine reflect Real Life?I thought it was an American university SJW thing. This whole nonsense had spilled back and forth over the Atlantic Ocean for decades. The internet just accelerated this process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:42 AM |
| 0 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionIf the whole thing doesn't apply to you in any way or form, I wonder why it bothers you so much that you create an entire thread about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionAnd that's important how? If a woman doesn't, then she won't ask for it in the first place and the whole point is moot. The issue here is that women usually are turned on from receiving oral and that's reason enough for the men who practice it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionA better comparison would be you taking a dido in your arse. Poor comparison unless you find me a woman who legitimately orgasms from sticking a dildo up someone's ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:34 AM |
| 1 | The Not-So-Great Reason Divorce Rates Are DecliningExcept RR is big about career women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:31 AM |
| 0 | The Not-So-Great Reason Divorce Rates Are DecliningLeftism doesn’t seek to replace religion. It attacks religion because of its worn out ideals that are counter to progressive ones. That's how they like to see themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:30 AM |
| 1 | The Not-So-Great Reason Divorce Rates Are Decliningand then offer nothing of the structure that those religions provided to their members. Or worse, they do offer something. Like communism, or fascism. Though these days, the self-apointed intellectual vanguard is more occupied with undermining democracy and attempting to make the overton window progressively smaller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:27 AM |
| 2 | The Not-So-Great Reason Divorce Rates Are DecliningI just wanted to ding you ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionWhy would you feel bad for them? Because they're wasting their time with fake women? Of course I want to have an attractive man. Just like men want attractive woman. I'm just saying, that it's not enough. If he doesn't kiss me right or doesn't touch me the way I want then sex is not pleasurable at all. I had to teach my fiance how to kiss, now it's great. Before it was awful, even thought I was attractied to him. Congratulations to completely missing my point. And your fwb still might have faked… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:13 AM |
| 0 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionSeems to be a pretty strange idea to the womenfolk of PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:11 AM |
| 0 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionHe's just continuing your argument to its logical conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:11 AM |
| 0 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionFor some incomprehensible reason guys think that getting the former instead of hot enjoyable sex makes them high value. That's because you (general you) are creating the false dichotomy that once a woman doesn't want to do something with one guy, it's automatically something she doesn't like on principle. Fair enough, although I think a woman who would continue to let herself be pressured and hasn't developed boundaries will have a lot more issues than someone who has worked on past issues. Why … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionI had a dom once who was a 5/6 and I kept seeing him because the sex was so enjoyable. There you have it. You can get into certain acts because of the way you perceive a guy. Again, why is this so inconceivable that this applies to other acts as well? What you seem to be alluding to is a situation wherein a women is dating a man she is low-key repulsed by. Not necessarily, I aimed at covering the full gamut between "not attracted/repulsed" and "insanely attracted"; with the idea that the higher … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:03 AM |
| 1 | About friendships and the "friendzone"...My problem was that I took women at their word. And when I read or hear women complaining about that, I assumed this was indeed an issue for them and not (a) a first world problem for pretty girls or (b) an excuse for why they aren't interested in a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 08:51 AM |
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