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Both genders chest and their is no justification for it, why they do it is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:49 AM
0

Bro women weren’t spared from the front lines because society valued them lol..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:08 PM
1

Yeah if that’s the way you view it more power to you but that just gives me the creeps. I’m a guy that’s had a promiscuous past and I know from my own experience the amount of sexual partners you’ve had doesn’t make you a good or bad potential partner. It might have some small background impact but to pick and choose who you date based on that fact is just creepy in my humble opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:58 PM
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It’s funny because I’ve found it’s actually the total opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:53 AM
2

Even after you explained it I still don’t know what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:56 AM
4

Well if you think sex is better with a virgin because they are “cleaner” I have some news for you..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:40 AM
3

Red Pill dudes think way more about Chad’s than women do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:26 AM
2

How is that equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:10 AM
3

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:08 AM
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You hear them though, they congregate here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:54 AM
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Average men do it too just not as much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:18 PM
3

No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:09 AM
11

Huh? This is not true at all lol you’re projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:42 PM
27

From what I see in my part of the world yeah it applies to young people too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:42 PM
41

Body trends change every generation though we see it over and over again. When you go out side and mingle amongst people what you see is majority of couple being relatively looks matched with the occasional outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:39 PM
67

I genuinely don’t understand the point of this post. Your SMV is literally who you are capable of attracting. If you can’t attract many women then you are in a low league.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:25 PM
2

First I don’t think that follows, if you do well with women why even bother with tinder? Secondly when it comes to women thinking 80% of men on tinder are below average in looks, if you’ve had a look at girls tinder like I have you’ll probably become aware of just how many average looking guys have terrible photos on their profile
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:57 AM
2

But surely there are a lot of these “chad” types who are very successful with women and aren’t swiping on dating apps. This would skew the data so you would expect more average and below average men on tinder and such
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:33 AM
7

Just taking that at its world wouldn’t it seem reasonable that the guys using dating apps are more likely to be below average since above average men have less need for dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:18 AM
1

Of course they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:22 AM
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She already explained it to you. You don’t start out be telling her how good your going to treat her and all the nice things you’re going to do. You just do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:49 AM
4

It’s a privilege to babysit a man child? Lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:39 PM
0

The guys are usually far also be real
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:24 PM
2

The real truth is there is no objective standard to measure against. What you say is high another will say is low and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:21 AM
3

I you listen closely what they say is looks isn’t always the first factor that comes into play, they aren’t saying they actively look for ugly oriole to date like you’re implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:47 PM
6

If you have this attitude online you obviously have it offline as well. Do you think it’s some kind of flex to know care about making people uncomfortable? It ain’t dude
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:40 AM
6

I’d say it’s just human decency to not actively make the people you engage with uncomfortable but thats just me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:08 AM
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People with attitudes like this are the kind of guys that creep tf out of women honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:39 AM
1

I highly doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:35 AM
3

Sure that’s a natural human reaction, it’s also self destructive. It’s also not something that can be changed on a fundamental level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:36 AM
5

And a lot of unattractive women aren’t wanted by unattractive men, you only need to find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:24 AM
5

I don’t know why it’s so difficult to understand. Unattractive men date unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:59 AM
0

If you are casually dating maybe less so, if you live together for instance they definitely still are expected to do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:21 PM
1

You can claim anything you like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:52 AM
0

That’s impossible to quantify, you cannot claim there are not a lot of guys that fit this description though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:34 AM
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Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but nobody is born with actual inherent value, man or woman. Also, if you think women aren’t expecting in 2023 to cook clean contribute financially to a relationships you’re living under a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:11 AM
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Yeah that’s no even close to true buddy. The “nice guy” isn’t always unattractive. The nice guy usually has one of many potential character flaws wether ugly or not, they try and mimic “nice” behaviour to try women into thinking they are genuinely nice and when they get rejected they lash out at said woman. Actual nice guys handle rejection with respect and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:12 PM
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You know exactly what I’m taking about. “Nice Guys” are just guys that pretend to be nice to try and get girls to sleep with them. Actual nice guys are nice to everybody. I’m talking about the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:51 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:32 AM
0

🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:28 AM
0

The same equivalence doesn’t exist because more men are trying to woo women than the reverse. These “nice guys” try to manipulate women into liking them and are furious when it doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:09 AM
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Women don’t compare themselves to men.. they compare themselves to their women. In the same way a guy might do okay with dating there are always better men that make them feel insecure and insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:25 AM
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Because most awful men are good at disguising it until they have you under their control
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:56 PM
0

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:27 AM
3

That’s why ideally you should be self improving for your own happiness and well being not to get girls. There are people that struggle to self motivate and this obviously wouldn’t help your chances in dating. If you’re gunna complain about not getting dates don’t be mad if someone tells you why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:27 AM
1

So date suggest somewhere between 45-55% of adult Americans are in relationships. You think 50% of guys that comment in PPD are in relationships? Obviously not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:36 AM
2

Really? You don’t think the pill sites have single people as the majority of content engagers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:32 AM
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Sure, some women do that. More men do the opposite on reddit. The problem with these reddit debates on reddit dating sub doesn’t accurately reflect the dating landscape in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:29 AM
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No they don’t, they just point out both sides have upsides and downsides in dating when reddit sites try to act like there is no downside to being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:26 AM
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Lower standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:22 AM
6

Seriously we get it guys, dating is better for women in most areas.. what is the point in repeating the same sentiment ad nauseum? Will getting people to concede what we all know change this? Not a single bit. Honestly find something constructive to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:21 AM
6

And all the women that aren’t your acquaintances you know their lives too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:03 PM
40

The thing about invisible women is they are difficult to notice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:43 AM
68

How would you witness these women not getting attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:33 AM
2

It hasn’t hindered me so maybe this is an exceptional circumstance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:10 AM
9

Bro wtf is this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:07 AM
1

Being saying this on here for the longest. I’ve never heard a rational counter to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:04 AM
2

Are they getting dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:57 PM
1

It’s not easy to teach your partner to improve, some people are just bad, other people are also just incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:17 AM
4

Some yes and some no
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:46 AM
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I’m a dude and she’s absolutely right. There are many women that don’t mind being approached you just have to read the situation. If you get it right it’s fine if you get it wrong you create an uncomfortable situation. It’s just the way it is and it’s nobodies fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:35 PM
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They aren’t mutually exclusive..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:01 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:56 PM
4

How is that wrong? That’s a statement of people misusing stoicism not a criticism of stoicism itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:57 AM
2

I’ll be honest I don’t think I’ve ever seen or heard a single woman comment on stoicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:30 AM
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I’ve never experienced a relationship where my partner lost interest in me because I showed emotion, it’s always been the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:13 PM
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Guys get the exact same feeling lol. Having a creepy or unattractive girl pestering you is uncomfortable af
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:50 AM
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I treat everyone with respect until they show me they don’t deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:03 PM
2

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:43 PM
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Many things qualify as creepy behaviour. Just a few examples might be approaching someone who is trying to avoid you, introducing sex into a casual conversation, stalking and messaging women online that don’t know you, pressuring someone for conversation when they are dropping hints that they aren’t interested. There are many more examples different people are creeped out by different things ultimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:01 AM
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If they display creepy behaviour then absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:54 AM
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I’ll take that as a no buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:48 PM
1

Answer the question dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:36 PM
0

Plenty of attractive guys out there that don’t earn heaps of money, I’d you’re only average looking you’ll have to date looks matched girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:08 AM
2

You’ve made some good points here, I’ve experienced them in my single days
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:09 AM
1

A dude with no money can still get women too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:50 PM
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In this example there’s no reason to even ask the body count of these women since neither is promiscuous. Pick the woman you get a long with better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:48 PM
5

An inability to deal with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:14 PM
1

If you forget about reddit you’ll realise none of this matters in real life. Random people won’t care if you’re getting dates or a virgin. If you sit around waiting for women to come and prove you wrong you’ll be waiting a long time buddy. There’s no such thing as fair in dating, you either take steps to succeed or you fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:33 PM
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This is all reddit dudes talk about on this sub lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:24 PM
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The more common claim is the overwhelming majority of couple appear to be looksmatched based on observation, which I believe to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:55 AM
3

No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:49 AM
4

So be a normal person and don’t follow a pill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:45 PM
1

I disagree, if you are talking about red pillers in this sub maybe, not men in the real world though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:03 PM
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If you’re in a relationship where you are worrying I’d the split is 50/50 or 60/40 you probably don’t really love the person you are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:08 PM
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Men are responsible for preventing rape? What exactly do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:09 PM
8

More likely infatuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:10 PM
4

Both are expected to entertain
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:13 PM
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Who is this post even aimed at lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:58 AM
1

You’re forgetting the large pool of women that don’t use tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:28 PM
2

No it’s not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:14 PM
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This is pretty much expected unless their are children
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:24 AM
2

Who said it was?? That would be a bizarre opinion to have
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:29 AM
3

How many women do you get to date while you’re in jail? How many violent prisoners actually become famous, extremely low percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:43 PM
-1

It’s not gaslighting if it’s true buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:00 PM
4

Maybe if men on reddit weren’t constantly blaming women for their own struggles they might receive more sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:09 PM
0

I’ve dated many women, my height has never been brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:42 AM
1

I’d be shocked if the majority of men didn’t rank 80% of women as average or believe aswell. The majority of both genders are average or below.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:39 AM
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I’d say A is very average which demonstrates the problem of subjectivity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:15 AM
3

I’d say they are all variations of average
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:14 AM
2

Yeah that’s obvious dude, but the number is nowhere near 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:11 PM
0

Men openly acknowledge they swipe right on people they find ugly as a tinder strategy. The actual amount of women they find attractive is much much lower than 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:08 PM
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Neither of those things are actually true becuase a few guys in reddit say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:00 PM
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Not even close mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:24 PM
3

Yeah that number is closer to 20-30% than 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:36 PM
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Nobody finds 80% of all women attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:18 PM
1

I was quite obviously generalising. Not every single guy that struggles is a “nice guy” and vice versa. Use some commons sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:28 PM
0

Surely I don’t have to explain to you the difference between nice guys and “nice guys”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:22 PM
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Either you are purposely misrepresenting what I said or you have an extra chromosome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:17 PM
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Not what I said buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:12 PM
-5

“Nice guys” struggle, actual nice guys do well in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:49 PM
2

No it isn’t. Most couples you see out in the real world are average and looks-matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:34 PM
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If that’s how you feel then don’t, it’s that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:30 AM
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Don’t converse with the troll
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:11 PM
1

FDS is basically dead, no idea what those other two are I have a life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:32 AM
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If you convince yourself as a man that all men are worthless than you relieve yourself of any personal responsibility to be anything more than worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:18 AM
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I just don’t see this large amount of value you claim Tate has brung to anyone. Any good he might have done is outweighed by the harm he’s caused women and the predatory grifting he aims at his own followers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:04 AM
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Well the legality is a grey area but I’m not too concerned with that. It says more about his character than anything. If you think this kind of person is a good role model I’d have to disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:56 AM
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You think getting rich by pimping women on webcam and grifting depressed red pillers is something to be proud of?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:41 AM
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Because as you well know FDS is a female only echo chamber. PPD while it seems to more men than women is certainly a better representation of both men and women than FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:01 PM
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We all now FDS is a vocal minority so why would you try and use that as representative of most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:58 PM
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Men whinge and cry online way more than women do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:54 PM
12

I thought those men were invisible to women so why would they “constantly talk shit about” men they aren’t interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:49 PM
2

Bro Tate is a legit loser, If he’s your idea of success then you deserve to be grifted by him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:29 PM
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I agree, they definitely exists though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:23 PM
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You don’t see the hundreds of posts on here who say N count means everything go then? Yes it’s weird but they do actually care about it that much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:14 PM
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And social skills will get you through the door if you lack height
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:13 AM
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Yeah we know dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:11 AM
2

Everybody’s sense of average is ultimately subjective. We make probabilistic assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:08 PM
2

Yeah I’m not fat that doesn’t mean I’m not average overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:04 PM
2

I’m definitely average
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:49 PM
2

Everyone has different standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:48 PM
-3

As an average man I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:53 PM
-1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:05 PM
1

Don’t get married if that’s what you’re scared of
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:04 PM
-1

Bruh.. I said it’s not extremely hard, I didn’t say they can get it on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:20 PM
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Getting sex for the average guy isn’t “extremely hard”. That’s below average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:15 PM
1

It would be considered wrong in both scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:46 PM
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And men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:16 AM
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Seems like an incorrect use of the phrase hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:07 AM
1

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:01 AM
1

Yeah there are bad men and women captain obvious, that’s why you do your best to find a good one it ain’t that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:52 AM
1

That sounds like a you choosing the wrong women problem not an all women problem my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:48 AM
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1) I’m not a kid I’m a grown man, I’ve learned a lot during my lifetime and luckily I never got sucked into that incel mentality. 2) I’ve had many meaningful relationships with women and am currently in one so I can say either relative ease that while your views may seem to correspond to your experiences they aren’t an accurate reflection of reality. Oh and yeah it’s quite obvious the world isn’t a fair or just place any 6 year old could tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:40 AM
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Just lookin out for ya dude
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:34 AM
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I dunno what’s influenced your psychology so strongly this really is the type of backwards irrational ideology that turns kids into incels. If that’s how you think women are then what’s in your head doesn’t align with reality. Get some help man honestly this mentality is only going to hurt you moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:36 AM
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I don’t follow any pill I’m not a child
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:46 AM
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Who cares, don’t be so insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:43 AM
6

If someone ghosts you you accept it and move on friend, that’s dating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:24 AM
6

Most men aren’t using OF so this is a false equivalence
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:40 PM
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Girls actually want and date good guys, the thing is the good guys they don’t date are “good guys”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:40 AM
1

You can set any standards you like friend, that’s the beauty of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:46 AM
3

There are obviously exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:17 AM
6

This is an incredibly one sided description of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:38 AM
1

If you need the money it beats alternatives
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:51 PM
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I’m pointing out the relevant fact that if it’s such an awful thing to do there shouldn’t be so many men thirsting for content.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:28 PM
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If y’all weren’t so desperate and thirsty there wouldn’t be a market for OF to begin with lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:50 PM
3

A great man? Seems more like a grifter than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:10 AM
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And I guess everyone wants to settle down and have kids at 18 years old right? It’s not like people wants to taut until they are financially secure and mature until they settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:06 AM
9

Ahh okay, you’re right people don’t grow and mature with age and experience. None of us make mistake that at the time seemed to be good decisions, you are a wise man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:31 AM
3

?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:23 AM
3

I’d rather be alone than be this pathetic honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:30 PM
4

Which is idiotic and reeks of insecurity. If a woman made a mistake by not vetting men in the past why would you expect her to keep making that same mistake for the rest of her life? It makes zero sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:16 PM
1

And then plays the grifter card and sells them overpriced merchandise and “courses” so ha can extort them not only mentally but financially
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:20 PM
1

These traits never seemed to hurt me so I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:22 AM
9

Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:30 AM
6

You don’t want to know the answer to that last question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:38 AM
7

This is a bizarre take. By almost every metric hookup culture is worse for women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:37 AM
6

I’m assuming neither of these options sound particular appealing to most people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:30 AM
10

It’s called life my guy, there’s always millions of people that have it both way better and worse than you do. Be grateful for what you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:16 PM
13

One and done only if the sex was bad? Not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:22 AM
20

Nobody is forcing anyone to settle dude, if you think you can do better hold out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:44 PM
3

They don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:29 AM
7

Of course you can ask questions no one is saying otherwise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:52 PM
16

I think these people are saying no one is forcing you to date anyone or get anyone you don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:49 PM
17

No one is getting shamed dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:17 PM
8

I fail to see the issue, since when am I obligated to find all groups of people sexually attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:12 PM
5

The statement would be I don’t happen to find black people sexually attractive. A) sexual attraction isn’t a choice and B) since when ammo obligated to find certain groups sexually attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:09 PM
8

That is bizarre, since when are there rules for who people have to be sexually attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:07 PM
5

Is there something wrong with not being attracted to black people?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:02 PM
1

They never have my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:44 AM
12

Touch grass bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:58 AM
2

This won’t help any men who want relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:48 AM
-1

This sounds like a reddit neckbeard opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:36 PM
1

Any personal standard you have is completely reasonable if you accept the outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:24 PM
-1

I can tell you’re a real hit with the women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:49 AM
1

You could tell if two guys were standing next to each other otherwise no you couldn’t tell. Every male wants to date a supermodel so does that mean 99.999% of men in the world settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:24 AM
4

So the vast majority of women are settling? I think it may be closer to the truth to say women don’t care nearly as much about height as reddit neckbeards believe they do. Most people can’t even tell the difference between 5”9 and 6”. He’ll I’m a man that’s dated a lot and I don’t even know how tall I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:21 AM
3

Lol what? Women aren’t dating men under 6ft? Do you have a source for this incredible claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:18 AM
1

You’re on reddit lol it doesn’t exist here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:27 PM
1

It’s just sex dude it’s not worth getting angry about and it’s counter productive to your own mental health to get upset about what other people have that you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:29 PM
0

Sure, so why waste time complaining about things you can’t control?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:08 AM
2

I think while you’re busy being salty short guys are actually out touching grass and getting women. It’s much easier to blame something you can’t control than accept some personal responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:58 AM
1

Fake news lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:54 AM
2

It’s different for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:01 AM
6

No it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:20 AM
9

They needed to be posted more often because too many of these red pillers ignore them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:56 AM
3

Yeah that’s not true, I’ve done it many times and I’m sure a lot of others do it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:32 PM
1

Because that’s how the market works. If men weren’t so desperate maybe they could coax a little power back
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:55 PM
7

If you’re really complaining about having to do those things then just plan a life of celibacy because those things aren’t hard at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:37 PM
5

If you are a thoughtless human being that has no human connections and no real values then I feel sorry for you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:30 PM
2

Because sex isn’t the only thing of value in life..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:07 AM
1

What on earth are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:08 AM
1

I mean that’s obviously an exaggeration but that would make it even easier
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:50 PM
1

Try harder than the average man has to, improve yourself in other areas to compensate, and just be more patient. There are women out there that like short guys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:52 AM
5

You mostly only hear from the guys that really care about it, most the men that don’t care about it simply don’t comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:58 PM
–

By some sure, it doesn’t make you any less valuable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:28 PM
1

Society influences literally every choice we ever make, so to say it also affects our standards is rather redundant don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:13 PM
1

Bit of a false equivalency there pal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:04 PM
2

Not semantics at all. Women still choose which men meet their individual standards for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:46 PM
2

Influenced yes, not dictated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:30 PM
2

My point is what you consider “inflated” a lot of women think is a reasonable standard. Why settle for something you don’t want?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:27 PM
-1

It usually carries a negative connotation however.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:21 PM
5

Might they feel that way? Possible. Every individual has the right to dictate their own standards though so they’d have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:19 PM
5

What does that even mean, every person chooses thier own standards, by what bar do you measure them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:03 PM
13

Why are you equating women having standards to “discrimination”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:59 PM
3

High value is a very subjective term. What is high value to somebody may not be high value to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:53 PM
–

Discounted in what sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:52 PM
–

Once again your language is very hyperbolic, putting that to the side if you live your life based on how other people view you you’ll never be happy no matter what you end up doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:08 PM
5

So why are you complaining lol, noones trying to force you to settle down my guy, do what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:54 AM
15

You’re assessments are plain bizarre man honestly, most women are feminine and nurturing, no idea how you’d calculate the odds on how many are submissive or have been “ran through” you’d have to be a lot more specific about what you mean with those. Either way if your standards are strict that’s all good but you can’t really complain about your chances are you can always lower them or stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:06 AM
15

That’s a bit hyperbolic lol. There is more to a man’s value besides if they can find a partner or not you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:50 AM
2

You know if women were unhappy they have the ability to lower their standards right? So if women’s standards are too high as you claim women are fine with that and they have every right to enjoy that freedom of choice. The reason men get told to improve themselves is because you can only influence your own value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:23 AM
1

The man had bigger problems to worry about than who his wife was and wasn’t fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:09 AM
6

I’ve already I’m not a feminist so there’s no reason to strawman my position. So you admit there’s never been a period in history where women had more power than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:50 PM
4

Are you actually taking the piss? Have you never read a history book? Name what period in history where Men didn’t have more power than women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:40 PM
0

There is some truth in that statement for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:32 PM
1

One gender has traditionally been victims and the other hasn’t so I’m not sure his point is really valid at all. I understand the motive, being a victim in this social climate gives you a voice I just think it shows a lack of maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:27 PM
-4

I’m not a woman or a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:19 PM
8

Why do the guys on here try with such desperation to be victims? Just live your lives and worry about yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:47 PM
5

If you think that’s what it takes to find a partner that will grow to love you you’ll probably never find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 07:15 AM
2

Exactly.. if your standards are higher than what you can attract than it’s your option wether you’d rather lower them or you’d be happier single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:03 AM
11

It’s literally the same as with men.. Looks are a starting point but only part of the puzzle, many factors contribute to who is viewed as a potential partner. This is not isolated to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:39 AM
7

Why should American women change? Should we not have the right to choose our own standards no matter which gender we are?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:29 AM
10

You know being an edge lord only hurts you right? No one else cares what you think of women except future potential partners so if you ever want a woman in your life maybe come back down to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:16 AM
14

So the average guy on reddit then, they have double standards when it comes to the pasta of women. Good move for dropping him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:52 PM
1

What kind of gutter post is this? Cmon guys be better..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:00 AM
1

6ft is not considered short lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:09 PM
-1

Steve knows she’s married. Steve knows the only possibility I’d anything romantic happening is if something bad happens to her relationship. Steve should move on and find his own relationship instead of lurking in the shadows.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:41 AM
0

It’s creepy that “Steve” hangs around despite knowing this woman is creepy in the hopes that he might get thrown some crumb of pussy. Guys need to have more self respect honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:39 AM
14

He’s literally just explaining why it’s the case. Why are you trying to argue against things he didn’t even say?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:31 AM
3

If you think having creepy guys having around your life trying to fuck you lucky then sure lol, I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:24 PM
1

Is english your third language?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:02 AM
1

Bro.. how are women going to notice an improvement in hygiene on tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:02 PM
1

That literally makes no sense. Even if you didn’t get dates because of it it doesn’t mean your chances weren’t improved still. Even a 1% jump is still an improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:24 PM
1

Okay so you havn’t got the results you were going for, but if your hygiene was genuinely bad and you’ve changed it to good there is no doubt your odds have improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:54 AM
1

The posted is only aimed at men with bad hygiene and poor style
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:23 AM
1

If what you say is true than this post isn’t really about you is it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:52 PM
9

That refutes my claim in no way whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:54 AM
6

The truth is different women like men from all kinds of groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:49 AM
3

Nobody had the right to “cry”. Nobody is owed sex or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:24 PM
1

There is no bar for standards, we all choose our own, it’s purely subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:22 AM
4

You know these shows are made mostly be men right? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:16 PM
1

That’s literally the first thing people say, dating is hard lol. After you acknowledge that then it’s upto you to put in the effort or look for fulfilment in other areas of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:26 AM
2

Lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:16 AM
12

She said here eyes only wonder if the relationship is going BADLY. You interpret this as her eyes wonder whenever her relationship isn’t going PERFECTLY. See how fallacious your comment is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:07 PM
1

Why else would you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:59 PM
1

Nah you just like to misrepresent opinions that don’t align with your own because of you’re own insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:58 PM
14

Another dude completely misunderstanding a woman’s response
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:39 PM
2

We can agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:25 PM
1

For procreation, not recreation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:57 PM
11

I think you are exaggerating the need for sex. It can be controlled and to suggest otherwise it to shift responsibility from yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:40 AM
2

What I don’t understand is why there are so many men on this sub that put sex on this gigantic pedestal like it’s the greatest thing available on this earth.. If sex is the biggest priority in your life you may need to reassess your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:21 AM
1

So true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:31 PM
2

That is not true at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:34 PM
3

Big yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:33 PM
1

I didn’t say ugly, I said not beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:41 PM
1

I’d bet against that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:25 PM
1

She is mid tho unless you value money over everything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:20 PM
3

You’re assuming she writes her own songs, as bad as they are written I don’t believe that she does
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:19 PM
8

Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:07 AM
11

Dude is right, plenty of guys out there that could cheat if they wanted to. Y’all overrated sex way too much. I’d rather hold onto my self respect and respect for my partner than have a fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:01 AM
2

This is a garbage take.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:00 AM
2

You’re walking around with your eyes closed then. I see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:57 AM
1

Wtf is 2/7 and how does that accurately represent an average looking man lol. An average looking man would be a 5
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:56 AM
33

This is a troll post for sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:34 AM
1

Huh? No idea how you get that from what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:12 AM
1

It’s literally just paying for sex dude, if that’s what you want go ahead, if you want more you’ll be wasting your money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:10 AM
9

Just stop it dude lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:32 PM
8

So I don’t see the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:29 AM
7

Get better or go without, life isn’t fair and there is no solution to the problem that wouldn’t impede on the autonomy of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:24 AM
11

Is that not my right as an individual? To abide by my own standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:23 AM
0

What are you even talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:38 PM
15

Bro it’s probably 95% spam lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:12 PM
6

So should single mothers be supported more by tax payers if you don’t want the fathers to be financially liable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:56 AM
14

Not making dead beat dads pay child support burdens tax payers more not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:39 AM
1

And if she doesn’t you’d have no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:54 PM
1

You wouldn’t know anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:20 PM
4

Most opinions on reddit are skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:29 PM
1

So in your assessment would you say men that have no trouble getting casual sex with good looking girls are automatically chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:28 AM
1

How do you define low? What percentage?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:38 AM
4

If her ex did it better then get good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:54 AM
3

lol what? This must be a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:41 AM
2

Life’s never been fair for anybody and if anyone expects otherwise they are irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:28 PM
0

Not always necessary, but definitely sure for most people to be content in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:21 AM
4

Why would American women be bitter and jealous when them rejecting you is the reason this even exists in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:40 AM
-1

It’s important, not the most important part though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:31 AM
-2

Because relationships are more than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:18 AM
7

Shock horror some women care more about the person than the paypacket
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:52 AM
1

“Life isn’t fair” is applied to literally all these. We do what we can to change them and accept what we can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:50 PM
-3

Some things can be controlled some things can’t. It applies to men and women it doesn’t take a genius to realise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:21 PM
2

Huh? It applies to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:11 PM
4

r/neckbeards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:32 AM
1

All good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:57 PM
1

You obviously misunderstand my position, I’m literally preaching the opposite of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:59 PM
3

And if the roles were reversed and you were being told you should be settling for someone “worthy” you wouldn’t be insulted? I swear this line of reasoning is one of the cringiest on this sub. When are you guys going to realise that some people will do better than others, and complaining about that only makes you sound like a loser. Nobody is owed sex or a girlfriend, if you can get it good on you if you can’t bad luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:23 AM
6

But the majority of options women have aren’t attractive.. so what are they expected to date men they don’t want?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:53 AM
1

You seem to have pretty strong opinions on average men and dating but can’t define what average is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:33 AM
6

Yes, but how do you define what average looks are?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:20 AM
3

Yes, it’s obviously the same both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:19 AM
-3

The average guy will still have options, wether he wants them or not is another matter. Only difference is guy will have to wait a little longer to find an option they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:13 AM
1

Man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:11 AM
-3

A majority of them will be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:11 AM
6

How do you define average?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:03 AM
10

What worth are “way more dating options” if they are undesirable? May aswell have no options
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:03 AM
7

Physical requirements are still preferences friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:42 AM
1

Who and where is this stated?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:38 PM
0

Who said 90 percent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:19 PM
2

Nearly everything is a social construct. Morality is a social construct, it doesn’t just exist for no reason. I gotta say I do find it super weird when people try to tell people what they should and shouldn’t be attracted to though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:23 AM
9

Sorry friend but you’re delusional, it’s no where near as uncommon as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:14 AM
2

Except with the woman she would be straight, the guy would be bisexual so that adds a totally new element to the comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:05 AM
5

Which I just explained mixed up both gender and sexual orientation. So it’s a false equivalency.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:52 AM
10

Except your mixing genders and sexual orientations so it’s a really inaccurate comparison. Simply comparing n count to n count is a better equivalency than what you provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:44 AM
8

This is a poor attempt at equivalency lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:38 AM
2

I’m a guy but I find it to be the opposite. Women here seem to be more realistic with their responses than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:14 AM
-1

Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:37 AM
2

Because I’m a grown man and I don’t get insecure about what other people have done
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:02 PM
4

Okay cringelord
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:35 PM
1

How do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:37 AM
5

The average guy will, most couples are looks-matched
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:32 AM
-4

A 5/10 guy does not need y to o be dating 2’s. He will date other 4-6’s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:06 AM
3

Just admit your salty and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:24 AM
1

I have nothing to cope for friend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:09 PM
1

I’m skeptical about labelling anything objectively true since we interpret the world through a subjective lens and don’t have the amount of knowledge about how the universe works as we would like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:34 AM
2

I’d say so long as attractiveness is interpreted through subjective experience is remains subjective. If it was proven that there are specific features that encoded in our dna that all men or women find attractive you may be able to call that an objective standard of attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:31 AM
1

Sure, most people will agree in general on certain traits that increase attractiveness. This is still a subjective standard however.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:17 AM
0

Am I still stand by my point that the majority of western women aren’t interested in Kpop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:16 AM
2

Yet I’m not wrong, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:03 AM
1

A small minority of the US population is more than enough to support the fandom of a band.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:59 AM
1

I agree, we can measure societal preferences, but they are ultimately preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:57 AM
0

Maybe so but objective is a strong term, you should probably know what it means if you’re going to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:55 AM
2

Sure, but the majority of western women would have little to no interest in Kpop men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:52 AM
0

So they are using the term incorrectly. That’s fine as long as they are aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:48 AM
0

There is no measurement for objective attractiveness. What you may find attractive another person will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:43 AM
2

And very few western women would find kpop guys attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:22 AM
2

You need to borrow a girl friends phone and have a look at the guys, it’s pretty rough out there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:21 AM
4

They obviously aren’t all objectively attractive if all women don’t find them attractive. Looks are subjective it’s as simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:19 AM
1

And women want the security marriage provided, rightly so. This isn’t going to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:30 AM
1

Things are different but it doesn’t change the fact that men and women want families. As long as this motivation exists couples will marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:12 AM
0

Everyone did it before alimony laws existed, what makes you think it would be any different now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:07 AM
5

Man this is a super cringe post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:09 PM
3

It’s not 99% but it’s definitely a big majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:44 AM
1

Can y’all stop being creepy for like 2 minutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:27 PM
1

Not by choice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:32 PM
1

It’s not always the case, but it definitely is a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:07 AM
1

Always am 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:00 PM
3

Looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:48 AM
8

No? Who the hell said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:42 AM
1

No such thing as deserved or underserved sex bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:04 AM
2

Yep exactly, I think OP has misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:01 AM
6

And you know.. common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:55 AM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:59 PM
5

Beggars can’t be choosers I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:39 AM
2

But then wouldn’t you be stuck dating phillipino women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:35 AM
1

Who’s the blithering leftist fool?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:55 PM
1

That’s an awfully hateful view you have
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:19 PM
1

I know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:17 PM
1

Ain’t short bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:03 PM
3

You big mad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:26 PM
-1

Lol what? Looks like a he
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:18 PM
10

Mostly for the hilarious incel content
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:06 PM
9

This isn’t the flex you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:49 AM
2

It makes your point irrelevant if you offer no alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:01 AM
6

Removing courtship would raise far more problems than it would solve
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:59 AM
3

The only thing stopping you from being honest about your intentions with women is good character.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:55 AM
4

I hope all the women in your life are aware of the risk you pose
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:53 AM
10

There’s no way anyone believes this garbage surely
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:51 AM
0

And you’d still be chasing crumbs of pussy which you still wouldn’t get
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:04 PM
5

You are if you don’t think women wouldn’t just as happily replace us 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:02 PM
3

You are so full of cope lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:00 PM
0

Incels hating women has nothing to do with them being incels… okay buddy boy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:43 PM
3

And grass is green.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:15 PM
1

Cmon dude, guys on this sub openly admit they don’t want to have to live up to a partners past sexual experiences. That is insecurity 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:13 PM
0

If you’re that insecure that you get hung up on women’s N counts that’s your problem. You’re welcome to have preferences but you also have to take the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:10 PM
2

He looks like the Sandy hook shooter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:08 PM
0

No? Be realistic. Find other joys in life, besides the better you do in life the more appealing you are to women anyway so it’s a double win.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:04 PM
-1

Or just pursue other things in life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:56 PM
1

They just want some crumby sympathy pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:30 PM
-4

A lot of incels aren’t ugly at all, they just have some very negative attitudes towards women and probably some personality flaws that make them bad at socialising
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:19 PM
3

Are we pretending there aren’t lots of average guys out there with high n counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:21 AM
1

Not what I said buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:09 AM
1

Good thing sluts want nothing to do with you either 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:07 AM
11

Hardcore feminist? The sub is 90% red pill ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:50 AM
2

Nah neckbeard creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:33 AM
1

Honestly google any tall actor or successful entrepreneur and she could have dated some of them if she specifically wanted a tall man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:34 AM
1

Are you only thinking of basketball players?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:22 AM
0

So? There’s other tall people equal to kanye’s wealth and status that she could have dated instead
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:06 AM
1

If you say buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:35 AM
1

Flee the west because you can’t get a girlfriend? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:28 AM
1

You know you’re only harming yourself with these delusions right? Nobody is going to feel pity for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:00 AM
1

Okay as vague a survey as that is it definitely does not say women find 80% of men objectively ugly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:53 AM
0

Where did you read this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:48 AM
2

Where did you pull that number from lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:44 AM
0

So the rational response to not being attractive to a lot of women is to become an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:44 AM
0

So if she can have a taller man with equal money and status why did she choose the shorter version?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:32 AM
2

You don’t think own girl could have a different taste that doesn’t align with the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:30 AM
1

Themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:38 AM
2

I love how ridiculous this meme is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:35 AM
1

Nothing screams real man Iike looking at another dudes dick
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:35 AM
1

If you can’t have it then nobody can!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:16 AM
-7

This whole this is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:59 AM
1

Having your son catch aids would still be more terrifying than your daughter getting pregnant though surely
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:58 AM
1

Okay that’s fair, what if I throw in the factor of having to worry about the much higher chance of your gay son catching aids one day? And the abuse he might cop just for being gay? Does that even the scales?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:40 AM
1

What if the thot never gets pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:34 AM
1

Someone ban this neckbeard creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:00 PM
1

Wtf is this post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:44 PM
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There’s other subs for this garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:38 PM
6

I think you need to talk to a counsellor my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:20 PM
3

It’s not a legitimate issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:16 PM
1

And? There’s many other ways to find joy in life. What does feeling sorry for yourself get you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:20 AM
1

I’m asking from your perspective. Do you need to be noticed by women to feel like you exist as a human being?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:15 AM
0

You need to be noticed by women for your existence to be valid? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:13 AM
2

Bruh if women swiping left on you invalidates your existence you have the most brittle of brittle spirits my god
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:11 AM
0

Yeah that ain’t true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:44 PM
3

How can a girls standards be too high? We all decide our own standards. If girls are pickier than men then it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:49 PM
1

Yeah no idea wether those numbers are accurate to what a guy like him would actually get but they do seem a touch low. If they are accurate then for whatever reason a lot of girls just didn’t get the urge to swipe right on him. Fair play to them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:37 PM
1

Do we have any info on this guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:07 PM
3

It is a free market.. supply and demand my friend. If what you have to offer is in low demand your chances are harder. If what you have is in high demand you have more options, it’s pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:55 AM
2

Well yes obviously in the countries where women have less freedoms the dating market is more skewed towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:12 AM
1

I’d assume no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:50 AM
-11

Plenty of women happily date short or bald men. Yes I believe I already listed guys should be not socially awkward. The cultural background applies to both men and women. Yeah I don’t buy the college degree. You can easily succeed with a college educated woman if you have a successful blue collar job. Sure I guess, although if you earn enough money to live independently I’m sure plenty of women wouldn’t be fussed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:39 AM
3

Both average men and women struggle finding compatible partners. I never said an average woman has settled if she dates an average man, most the couples I come across in life are looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:33 AM
1

You’re wrong but if it makes you feel better to think otherwise do your thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:59 AM
-3

Not true, finding average guys that will root and boot you is one thing. Finding average guys that want to commit to a relationships with you is another challenge entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:57 AM
5

Absolutely is not unheard of for average women to struggle, I’ve known many
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:53 AM
11

Dunno why you made the massive leap to incel. Sure there are plenty of men that will drop their standards for casual sex but not nearly the same for committing to relationships. Also women have the ability to remain independent instead of settling as much as they did in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:52 AM
3

Dating is a free market. Not everyone succeeds and nobody is owed success. There are a lot of average women who suffer lack of success also.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:47 AM
-1

Obviously it’s a generalisation, there are more specific factors that may help or hurt an individuals success
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:44 AM
9

What a man needs to do to meet the average woman’s standards • Not be fat • Not be crazy • Decent hygiene • Not a social leper • Have a job
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:16 AM
1

A lot are and a lot aren’t. There’s no way to quantify it. I know I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:20 AM
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Getting incel vibes from that phrase lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:26 PM
1

Oh right, I’m Australian
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:24 AM
1

I don’t even know what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:58 PM
1

We all do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:57 PM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:06 AM
5

No one “deserves” anything. You get what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:13 AM
3

Yep agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:11 AM
17

It’s socially acceptable to rule out any demographic. Everyone has the right to decide who they do and don’t want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:03 AM
2

So I’m just curious how come whenever I leave the house I’m surrounded by looks matched couples? Is there an explanation for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:26 PM
9

If they want a relationship they will, if they don’t they won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:17 AM
7

So if a woman wants more than sex she will date someone in her league won’t she
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:49 AM
11

If you’re getting consistent sex with a certain type of person they are not “out of your league”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:11 AM
4

Bruh if you can’t handle initiating or the 10 minutes it takes to plan a date then your spirit is so brittle you’re doing women a favour by jumping out of the dating pool..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:02 AM
1

Never heard anyone say this, you seem to be straw manning the argument that looks aren’t all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:15 PM
1

The equivalent of a wife getting fat is a husband getting fat. Or is that too obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:17 PM
0

Guys are more obsessed with height than girls are lol. So much deflection and insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:35 AM
1

More power to them then, each to their own
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:40 AM
2

Sure, a high N count to one person is just a normal Body count to another
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:20 AM
1

Okay, most men don’t care about body count except for very extreme outliers. Better?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:16 AM
-4

Why would you use such an extreme example?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:46 AM
-1

Hundreds? That would be the top 1% of women’s body counts and a total outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:43 AM
-1

Never met a man who DID care about body count in real life, that’s for internet dweebs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:37 AM
3

Define very high
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:41 AM
1

Equal as in men having more power in the SMP
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:01 AM
4

In the same way men expect the power dynamics should be equal when it’s just a fact of life that it never will be and there’s no reason to think it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:11 PM
0

Yeah all your guesses are way off base buddy, you don’t know as much as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:49 AM
1

Funny how off base you were then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:44 AM
4

I’m sensing a lot of projection here.. usually the guys that talk about how many girls they’ve been with don’t get shit all. You don’t know me or what I’ve done lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:40 AM
3

Just because you have a body count higher than 20 doesn’t mean you treat sex like some achievement.. judging women for N counts is just plain weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:31 AM
1

20 in one year? I thought he meant 20 all up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:33 AM
1

Pretty much same for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:27 AM
0

A lot of people in this sub need to touch grass then, no wonder they can’t get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:24 AM
2

Good for you kid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:10 AM
2

Literally everybody are right about some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:08 AM
1

The fuck does Aristotle have to do about body count 😂 and he was wrong about shit too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:05 AM
1

Y’all are insane lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:04 AM
-3

20 is nothing dude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:33 AM
3

Because women are already criticised so much more heavily than men are for the same behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:33 AM
1

No idea why the second question would bother you at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:33 AM
1

Nah he slimmed up quite a bit the last couple years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:41 AM
1

Depends which photos they are posting, he’s has slim periods and big periods
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:24 AM
2

For the most part it would be tradesman, guys that lift heavy shit all day but don’t really go to the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:47 AM
10

Literally just a dude with a small gut and muscular arms
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:59 AM
18

That’s not what most girls mean when they say dad bod
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:41 AM
129

Dad bod and being fat are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:32 AM
2

Well you may as-well be stealing it if you’re pretending to show genuine interest in a relationship when you’re real intentions are to hit and quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:12 AM
1

And the overwhelming majority are still dating men.. so they must have value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:15 AM
-1

Men are literally born valueless? That’s a bit of an exaggeration. If men have no value why do women even date men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:51 AM
3

I’d like you think all women have thousands of men in their DM’s trying to get dates with them it only makes sense that it would actually be very hard to find out which ones if any actually genuinely want a relationship and which ones are only pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:30 PM
7

The amount of men that are experts at feigning emotional interest to solicit sex and then leave. A very painful experience for a lot of women and something that happens a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:27 PM
3

Plenty that stops them getting a partner they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:26 PM
3

Plenty of difficulties
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:21 PM
9

And this mentality is exactly why so many men out there are struggling. The insecurity and entitlement they feel gets in the way of them actually forming a relationship with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:59 PM
3

That’s ridiculous lol. If you aren’t dating somebody you are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:49 PM
1

These standards only apply if you’re trying be be the top 1% of males in the world lol. You can have plenty of dating success without these qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:40 PM
-2

Hard to disagree with much of this, nice reply
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:44 AM
1

Not exactly as picky, but there’s not as large a difference as OP would have you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:46 PM
1

Simple observation.. only takes a walk down the street to see how many women are dating guys below 6 feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:46 PM
5

Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:44 PM
11

A lot of men are picky dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:33 PM
1

I guess you’re clearly wrong then, this guy does it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:36 AM
7

Absolutely mind boggling isn’t it lol, there are some funny theories on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:35 AM
1

Women wouldn’t put up with the amount of shit they do if it was just about claiming some social status lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:19 PM
0

That might be a slight exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:07 AM
1

Why not worry about both?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:31 PM
3

As would most people, a vocal minority. Still have the potential to do damage though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:19 PM
27

You probably wouldn’t notice on if you had, they do all their work online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:11 PM
1

It’s not a man/woman thing, it’s a person thing. Some people have high cleaning standards and some don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:25 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:20 PM
6

I’m a man and I notice the same thing as her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:33 PM
8

It’s not healthy to project that insecurity onto an entire gender however
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:07 AM
10

This reeks of insecurity my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:25 AM
1

It would be exactly the same but reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:08 PM
2

Nobody thinks or expects dating to be fair.. why would it be? Nothing is fair in life and you shouldn’t expect otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:30 AM
1

All your doing is hurting yourself, try and change what you can change and accept what you can’t, it’s honestly the only way to try and live a content life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:47 PM
22

Yes we are buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:14 AM
29

Yeah that’s exactly what she means buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:05 AM
23

These women are hyped by other women more than they are men..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:09 AM
1

Men have plenty of options too, just not options they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:52 PM
0

Yes. You can use the language without being an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:23 PM
2

I never called you an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:48 AM
1

Literally never been met by anything other than acceptance when expressing emotions with partners, where does this myth come from honestly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:54 AM
0

This is some real incel language.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:48 AM
1

Absolutely not, there’s never such thing as a perfect solution to a societal issue. I’m literally open to listening to any reasonable solution that might be proposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:19 PM
4

Me either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:56 AM
15

This type of post gets posted ad nauseam on this sub, but what I rarely see is guys actually trying to propose rational solutions. We get it.. women and men have certain benefits when it comes to dating that’s just reality, but what if it? Life never promises you complete equality or perceived fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:42 AM
4

This is the same for men or women, who actively seeks out to marry people they find unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:57 AM
24

If you can get it why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:08 AM
2

Whichever one she forms an emotional connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:07 AM
-1

Because it’s true..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:23 PM
4

If you have to do all that simping just to get a girl to like you she never liked you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:21 AM
17

Maybe if you thought more about the positives of being a man instead of the negatives your wouldn’t get so depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:42 PM
17

Nobody, it’s an analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:38 PM
15

Do you have societal privilege by being born white? Sure. You want them to apologise for it or something? Women have it easier in some areas and harder in others.. life it’s the perfectly even and fair it never been or will be so why complain about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:36 PM
3

They should be happy then because they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:59 AM
1

Sure if you believe looks and personality are nearly entirely subjective lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:22 AM
1

Fine it’s 90% subjective.. happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:21 AM
1

You might think that but if you actually take a few steps outside of your house and look around you’ll realise it’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:48 PM
1

to SOME women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:40 PM
10

Becuase a persons looks and personality are purely subjective.. how do people not understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:35 PM
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I read your post, once again what would make you think nearly all girls go through a hoe phase? This is incel type thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:48 AM
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Lol no why would you even think that? Too much reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:42 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:57 PM
1

And we all know your low IQ since you’re one of those cucks that goes through peoples post histories lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:58 AM
0

And I’d say you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:42 AM
0

Funny I’d say it’s actually the complete opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:01 AM
2

Yep cold approaches by women are very rare even if you are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:32 PM
1

That ain’t part of the brocode, that’s actually against it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:45 AM
2

Why should anyone hop out of the dating pool just to give struggling guys a chance? Dating ain’t make a wish bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:38 AM
1

Lol what? Are you trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:07 PM
5

The question is why SHOULD they stop? And why would you have an expectation that dating should be fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:57 AM
1

Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:20 PM
1

False equivalency, that’s not what I’m saying at all. If I can attract 9’s I don’t owe dates to 6’s. If I want to date a 6 I can but It’s my choice not anyone else’s. If I want 9’s then can’t get a 9 I either stay single or re asses my aims.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:08 PM
-1

The dating market is a free market, you are worth what you can get. It’s really that simple. If you want more than you can get you have to re evaluate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:56 PM
0

If that’s all they are looking for then they are, if they want more but can’t get more they probably need to look elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:51 PM
0

They do if they actually get dates with chads
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:16 PM
2

Doubtful
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:43 PM
6

Sure I agree with that, I just think this obsession the guys here seem to have about N count doesn’t exists in the same way in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:14 AM
22

I can’t imagine more than a minority of men care about body count honestly. On reddit sure but in the real world no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:16 AM
0

Chances are if you’ve been called creepy you may have some role to play in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:10 AM
4

Been dating for a long time and have never been made to feel like I was a worthless scummy creep. Chances are if you’re not a creep you won’t get called one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:08 AM
4

Yeah that ain’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:05 AM
2

Why would you think these two things are mutually exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 10:58 AM
2

Fairness? There’s no such thing as fairness in dating. It’s an open market. The world doesn’t owe you or anyone else a partner that’s not how things work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:02 PM
2

No they don’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:18 AM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:39 AM
1

What could possibly be done by women to men more appealing to them that doesn’t invade on their bodily autonomy? Even as a man I can see this is clearly a male problem to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:36 AM
2

He had deeper problems than not being able to have relationship with women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:18 AM
5

Not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:02 AM
1

A woman isn’t a 7+ just by not being obese.. what kind of alternative reality are you living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:16 PM
1

Well I’m glad you answered and that would have been my answer to. You’re question seems to be essentially asking donor why women have the right to choose their own parter. I’d say yes because it’s beneficial to society that way. I wouldn’t want to live in a society where men can just claim women for themselves with no bodily autonomy for the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:41 AM
1

You responded with a double negative. I’m going to assume you don’t want to answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:14 AM
1

That doesn’t even make sense. Can you answer the question or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:58 AM
-1

What are you talking about? I literally am living my own advice. I never complain about not getting things I want it’s a waste of energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:28 AM
-1

I don’t think entitled to things in life.. you can what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:25 AM
-2

There have been many things in life that I wanted but couldn’t get.. I focused my energies to other areas
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:03 AM
1

So if you’ve done everything you can do to make yourself more viable as a partner and it hasn’t worked look for happiness in other avenues. Don’t cry and whinge about not finding a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:35 AM
2

Why are you shocked lol it happens in the real world all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:17 PM
1

That don’t get mad, they get annoyed when y’all don’t stop whinging about it. It’s a fact of life deal with it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:06 AM
4

Dating is an openmarket, if you can get a certain level man then he is in your league. It’s really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:13 AM
1

Had to chuckle at the way you expressed “INSANELY handicapped” I’m not even a chad and I’ve never felt more than mildly handicapped at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:44 AM
53

Bruh this sub is weird af
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:22 PM
2

It would be categorically worse both both genders, what an idiotic notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:39 PM
3

Of course they do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:05 PM
1

Maybe because it’s very subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:19 PM
51

This is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:41 AM
3

That’s absolute garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:59 AM
13

Bro that’s a really unhealthy attitude ms is certainly not going to help you in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:09 AM
15

Yeah don’t put that on the women, it’s simple supply and demand.. if they guys weren’t willing to throw away their money onlyfans wouldn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:14 AM
1

A lot of women do consider men to be catches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:39 PM
1

How’s it my problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:47 PM
0

Stop getting life advice from reddit dude that’s your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:36 PM
3

Hard disagree but we can leave it at that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:25 PM
6

So why you on reddit trying to convince people that there aren’t a lot of men that aren’t interested in virgins lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:21 PM
3

This tells me you don’t have a lot of life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:19 PM
1

Big cap lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:15 PM
11

Those two scenarios aren’t exactly equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:09 AM
6

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:24 AM
5

This creepy shit is difficult to read, are there any normal guys on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:22 AM
6

To me settling would be dating someone you think is beneath you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:36 AM
15

So it’s pretty much pointless even debating the topic then, according to this logic 99.999% of people settle
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:19 AM
10

This is honestly bizarre, what would make you think you can only have a high body count by sleeping with prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:15 AM
0

Lol what planet are you from
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:35 PM
2

It’s appears the only people that don’t understand the term “nice guy” is used tongue in cheek is the nice guys themselves, everyone else seems to understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:57 AM
0

The term “nice guy” is used to describe a very specific type of male. The type of male that hits a girls dm’s with flattery and then calls her a fucking whore when she says she doesn’t want to see his dick. The kind of guy that rants about women only wanting to date “jerks or chads”. The kind of guy that tries to pressure girls into pity sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:35 AM
9

This is a complete misunderstanding of what the phrase “nice guy” actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:13 PM
2

I wish y’all would stop posting this same post every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:39 AM
1

If the girl knows noting about the man, had never met seen or heard anything about him it’s a cold approach, it’s really that simple dude. Stop trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:04 PM
1

Stop trolling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:11 PM
4

This whole argument is creepy as fuck, trying to tell anyone to date people they don’t want to just ain’t it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:23 PM
1

If that’s the strategy you want to take don’t complain the results if they don’t go your way, or if future women make you wait longer and longer to try and counter this behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:53 PM
0

It’s pretty simple, if you don’t like the woman enough to wait the month leave and find somebody else, don’t string a girl along just to pump and dump like a lot of men do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:37 AM
0

You can have intimacy without sex, if you can’t even wait a couple months you’re literally proving the woman’s point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:21 AM
1

Lol what, why would you not expect exclusivity if you’re dating someone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:59 AM
3

I don’t understand the problem with a woman deciding she wants to wait to make sure the new partner that’s telling her he cares about her actually cares about her. The amount of bitching and moaning I see from men on here because they don’t want to wait a couple months for sex is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:43 PM
1

Yeah this ain’t true, lots of guys won’t dare attractive women if they have shit personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:59 AM
30

Because his position is irrational
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:19 AM
43

People actually listen to that guy? I thought he was pretty much in on his own joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:15 AM
0

There’s definitely a type of man that gets more attractive as he ages, I have
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:43 AM
1

Women don’t need to do anything they don’t want to, sick of these cringe posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:36 AM
2

Women don’t need to do anything they don’t want to, sick of these cringe posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:36 AM
1

You poor guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:48 AM
9

Nothing>Something bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:18 PM
1

Yes but who actually measures themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:12 PM
5

I can see why you are sexless with lines like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:38 AM
2

Had to be done
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:06 AM
7

Easy to say when you didn’t grow up with pedophiles trying to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:37 AM
6

Then you immediately diminished it. Don’t even compare the two because one is way worse than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:33 AM
12

Are you serious? This sub is creepy as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:29 AM
1

It’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:34 AM
1

4-7 sure, but I’ve never seen a woman go from 4-9
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:40 AM
1

What is it with the men in this sub wallowing in self pity so much, life is more than just getting women Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:47 AM
2

I’d say 90 percent of all relationships are doomed to fail eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:07 AM
1

Surely guys that are out dating and getting laid and sulking around on dating subs right? PPD and even reddit in general is not an accurate representation of the wider public
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:03 AM
2

And all the women that get men they think are worthy of dating, are they settling too? That makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:27 PM
2

Yeah that’s not accurate, if it was there’d be barely couples at all..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:15 PM
1

Lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:58 AM
1

People want to date other people not their own level, what’s a shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:30 AM
4

Men absolutely can get women that are a looks match, literally go for a walk in town and you’ll literally see couples everywhere that are looks matched. Y’all need to stop pushing this myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:16 PM
1

I highly doubt that “most” women have backup men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:48 AM
4

Oh loook out this guy gets pussy everyone! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:56 PM
1

Just the way you talk about women makes you sounds like a bitter 12 year old who reads incel forums
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:41 PM
4

What are you talking about dude
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:19 PM
12

God there are some super cringe attitudes towards women in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:17 PM
2

As far as I could see TRP wanted nothing to do with incels and it’s followers made that pretty clear
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:39 PM
0

That’s a shame, be better if it was removed all together
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:06 AM
1

Did it get deleted or did it just go private?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:48 AM
3

Either does yours
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:46 PM
14

“Most men are completely turned off when they learn a woman has a boyfriend or is married” bro what actual planet are you living on 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:20 AM
1

Yeah you couldn’t be more wrong from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:18 PM
0

Most men would stay single then marry a loser also
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:12 PM
3

HVM can be defined many different ways depending on who you ask
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:44 AM
-1

Man, I don’t think it matters at all personally, I’m not an insecure type.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:47 AM
17

Literally just giving men women’s problems and women men’s problems
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:14 AM
1

Yeah this is not the hill to die on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:44 PM
1

Since when do men get shamed for seeking looks matches? Is this a new thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:33 AM
11

No, I mean actually justify, like claiming she did nothing wrong by seeking out murder victims.. I don’t mean merely sympathising for someone that had an abusive upbringing, because there has been at least one post on FDS that was exactly that and the comments section was full of women claiming she did nothing wrong, it was sickening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:27 PM
3

I’m clearly saying they are both toxic, it doesn’t matter if one Is more toxic than the other when they both deserved to be banned.. misandry always gets a free pass though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 09:25 PM
3

Why is you’re initial response always to screech about incels groups? We know incels groups should be banned and most of them are.. we are talking about FDS and how it deserves to be banned in its own merits. It’s funny how you play the old BUT PATRIARCHY!! card, if we had so much power in society why are we shutdown silenced or cancelled for saying anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:59 PM
4

Why should only one be banned but not the other? Incels groups do at least get banned, Just because FDS doesn’t support killing people it doesn’t mean it’s not toxic as hell and worthy of being shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:39 PM
17

FDS do praise and defend Aileen Wuornos so there’s that.. they also say it’s okay to denigrate someone that suffers from mental illness or is gay. Not to mention all the kink shaming that goes on there, encouraging it’s members to financially and emotionally abuse men, it’s a pretty hard group to defend if you’re honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:33 PM
1

I’m saying when it come to sex and relationships women behave with more reason than men on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:47 PM
1

We are more animals then women are, we have that wet at least. I dunno why men think they are owed equal opportunity in the dating market, it’s a marketplace. You offer what you have to offer and if it’s not enough then bad luck, life ain’t fair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:53 PM
1

Seems a bit prudish but as long as you hold yourself to the same standards it’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:18 AM
1

Purely depends on what you classify as a “hoe”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:02 AM
4

Their intuition is pretty much the only tool they have to protect themselves against predators, if you take that away what else do they have to replace it with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:20 AM
1

I think it’s clear if a girl finds you funny that definitely makes you more attractive to her, wether you cross her threshold is another thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:42 PM
2

If you can stomach the idea of sleeping with a prostitute and have the money I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:22 AM
1

I’m sure sugar babies are super attracted to the guys that have to pay them for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:32 PM
1

Highly doubtful they’d be best at everything, why would you even care anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:32 PM
2

You seriously wanna fuck someone that is repulsed by you? Jesus that’s bleak
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:59 AM
1

Why would anyone even think it’s possible to find a partner who is the literal best at everything? some people live in a fairytale world
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:50 AM
1

For me to be a cuck, my long term partner would a) have to be sleeping with someone else, and b) I’d have to stay with her, even if one of these things occurred they both certainly wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:07 AM
2

Sure, if you want to go deep enough there is a level of insecurity in that also, but to a much smaller extent and one that can be justified
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:48 AM
2

I’m simply trying to ascertain what qualifies a woman as a “town whore”, so you think 5 sexual encounters outside of relationships does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:46 AM
1

Depends what you define as high
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:08 AM
2

Maybe not being a virgin doesn’t make you a “whore”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:06 AM
0

Not sure how that would benefit me in anyway, I’m just calling at as it appears to me. Judging the character of a person simply on N count with no other details seems like behaviour that comes from a mindset of insecurity, if you disagree that’s fine
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:57 AM
1

I’m clearly speaking in a general sense since there are always outliers. What could I possibly be “coping” with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:25 AM
2

Yeah I can’t say I share that sentiment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:09 AM
2

Sure, how many random women flood reddit guys inboxes though do you think? I’d wager next to none
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:58 AM
2

Even guys that appear nice can be using a thin veil of niceness to get what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:46 AM
-6

If they want to deflect then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:40 AM
2

Are you really that naive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:22 AM
3

Drowning in creepy reddit men sending lewd messages, yeah those are great options..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:13 AM
1

I’m not mad at anybody, you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:35 PM
3

Yeah I’ve had quite a few partners in my life and have never asked their N count, judge people by their character.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:19 PM
6

Or people that aren’t insecure as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:15 PM
0

Dating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:23 AM
9

I disagree, most people would agree that yes women have more choice when it comes to dating than men, but the important thing is what is your response? Sit around and complain? Build up resentment towards women? Or do you actually want to respond in a constructive way and try and do things to increase your chances?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:12 PM
0

Depends what they mean, if they mean good men then they may have a point, can’t say I’ve seen many women online claim it’s it’s easier for men to get dates than women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:23 AM
2

Not bad if you’re happy to date a looks match
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:01 AM
3

No shit lol, who thinks it’s tougher for women to find partners than for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:08 AM
1

Yeah that’s not true, the top 20% of men have an earlier time but can we stop pretending they are they only single men having sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:01 PM
-1

Men are also getting their needs met while single also?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:21 PM
1

Yeah definitely can’t relate to that, I have no interest in sex if I’m not attracted to somebody
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:49 AM
7

How does a high N count mean a person has no self control? You think people aren’t capable of enjoying casual sex at a certain time I their life and being faithful when they are ready for something serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:14 AM
1

Seems like a lot of women believe the opposite, Especially the women only subs like FDS and the like. You could ask them the same question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:10 AM
1

So if a woman has a high N count due to casual sex there is no issue according to your logic right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:23 PM
5

You seem to think these two things are mutually exclusive, they aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:31 AM
2

This is something I’ve always struggled with and am going through right now, I just don’t seem to be able to get on top of it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:41 PM
1

Well that’s a perspective I can find understandable, what I don’t understand is when people claim to view sex as special and intimate but expect a partner to give it up whenever they want it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:51 PM
1

Is this like a jealousy thing? Where guys on here get bitter towards women because they get laid but you guys can’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:48 PM
1

I agree with you, 20 over the period of day 10 years is nothing. I personally don’t even care about N counts, it’s a juvenile way to judge a persons character
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:45 PM
1

Yikes, agree to disagree on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:41 PM
-4

20 is a high count? Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:35 AM
1

The girl in your scenario was probably just out having a fun night and isn’t looking for a dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:27 PM
1

This is fine, but don’t label men toxic that want to be manly men, that’s where I take issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:01 PM
1

Having a desire for virgins is plain weird
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:54 PM
13

So just date a man that helps with chords.. there’s heaps out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:03 AM
1

Mission Australia shows very different statistics, so I guess you could try argue the merits of the different studies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:20 AM
1

Once again, you try and strawman me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:09 AM
1

That is very clearly not what I implied, I’m sure you understand that and are just trying to strawman me. I was simply implying that there is a correlation between male neglect and women instigating divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:06 AM
1

I’m general men are more abusive than women, so what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:54 AM
1

Mens also does as well right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:19 PM
1

So you’re just not gunna answer his question?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:18 PM
2

This is a bit hyperbolic don’t you think, most guys have standards of varying degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:14 PM
3

I mean looks are subjective, to me 6-7 is a fair rating for her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:17 AM
2

Don’t red pillers believe in chads too though? I lose track of all the ideologies tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:47 PM
1

So you pretty much judge people the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:29 PM
1

I think it’s also Red Pillers who severely overestimate the level to which looks is important. If you listened to them you’d think a reasonable looking man would have absolutely no chance of finding a partner, but take a step out in the real world and you’ll quickly find yourself surrounded by looks matched couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:16 PM
1

Heard this point made on this sub so many times and it’s just a false equivalence. Clearly you’re not going to approach a casual fling the same way you’ll approach a potential life partner. Reeks of insecurity from the man tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:10 AM
1

Most men don’t care about the quality of woman they are having sex with? Surely this is not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:08 AM
3

Why do you assume all men would love to receive random nudes from any moderately attractive woman? That would be creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:01 PM
1

Not that I’m aware of, I’m open to ideas though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:28 PM
1

No I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:05 PM
4

Yeah India is not a place to aspire to in the way they treat women.. that’s way worse than the marketplace we have right now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:41 PM
0

Just limiting the amount of children you’re allowed to have? Is that what you’re referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:36 PM
11

Regulate the sexual market? That sounds a creepy as fuck and I don’t even know how that might work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:29 AM
3

Yeah I’ve pretty much just always been myself, worst thing you can do is try too hard, you’ll just seem desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:06 AM
11

I can’t attest to mid to late 30’s, but I can attest to early 30’s, it’s definitely happening at some level
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:30 PM
1

Yeah I really agree with this, ever asked a woman her N count and I never even kept track of my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:23 PM
1

28-33 might be closer to accurate win my opinion, in a very general sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:21 PM
1

I’d say less sexist for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:22 AM
2

I do think majority of women want men to be open with their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:11 AM
4

So it looks like 70% of Australian men are overweight to 60% of women so you are slightly correct
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:09 AM
2

What country do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:23 AM
3

Obesity rates for women are just as high as men, and higher in some nations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:17 AM
0

Who says women hit the wall at 30? That doesn’t seem correct
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:15 AM
1

Not a chance lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:34 AM
2

I think you’re highly exaggerating the percentage of women that don’t like men that open up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:33 PM
1

I’m talking about women I’ve dated
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:31 PM
21

I’ve opened up to numerous women about my childhood trauma, I was always met with support.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:23 PM
1

Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:22 PM
1

You’re not understanding. Women aren’t dating men because they need them to literally survive. They choose men who can offer a whole range of things that can make their lives better, more comfortable, happier, or all of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:38 PM
1

Okay? I’m still wondering what this has to do with evolutionary survival? Women want to date men that make their lives better, which favours a bunch of positive traits and doesn’t favour a lot of negative traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:27 PM
2

Because high status men usually have a bunch of positive traits that appeal to women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:20 PM
2

99% of western women don’t need a man to provide for them so they can survive, it’s merely a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:50 AM
1

We don’t live in a society where evolution dictates our choices so this question is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:02 AM
11

That’s pretty hilarious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:48 AM
1

This is hilarious lol, never once have I had a woman ask wether I can fight or not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:57 AM
1

Could not care less
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:54 AM
3

Okay buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:42 PM
2

You have some issues my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:34 PM
1

Hours a day? Who the hell is watching prom for more then a few minutes? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:45 AM
5

Yeah I’m not here defending TRP by any means, it’s very toxic also
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:10 AM
10

Gotta call BS on this one, they openly endorse shaming gay and trans people, men who seem mental help, constant kink shaming, they promote their members using manipulative tactics to get what they want from men, it’s definitely a toxic group.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:55 AM
1

Why would someone leave a country just to look for a date? That shit sounds ridiculous to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:31 PM
2

Stop talking sense in this sub, it’s not allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:27 PM
1

Well that’s just plain wrong so we’ll have to agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:58 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:27 AM
1

Attractive or even reasonable looking guys, if you have decent features and look after yourself they seem to get better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:05 AM
2

I never implied they weren’t, I said they got more attractive not that they were ugly to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:41 AM
1

I’m not talking about celebrities, I’m talking about men in my social sphere. Yes you do lose muscle definition as your metabolism slows down and yes you do start losing hair, but it seems to me a pretty general trend that a guys actual looks seem to peak around early 30’s, just my observation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:33 AM
1

Sorry autocorrect, I meant features
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:40 AM
1

I’m not talking personality, I mean facial gestures mostly seem to mature as men go into their 30’s, from what I can tell anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:38 AM
1

Maybe it depends on the people you know I guess, I’ve always been decent looking but for some reason it seems mens looks mature as they hit their 30’s, provided they life a healthy life of course
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:48 PM
5

Really? Most of my make friends look their best right now, myself included
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:31 PM
9

Because a lot of men do look their best in their 30’s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:12 PM
14

Both men and women are both becoming less attractive, mostly due to skyrocketing obesity rates
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:12 PM
4

FDS is every part as toxic as RP, just in different ways, it might also contain more self delusion as at least RP encourages men to look within to improve their own flaws, whereas FDS seems to be built on deflection:
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:58 AM
2

OP said it was a comment not a post
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:38 PM
1

I’m a dude, just giving some reasons why women don’t like sharing details like that, personally I couldn’t care less about N count, don’t even know my own so who am I to judge a girls N count
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:46 PM
20

Creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:44 PM
3

Most men are insecure though, and even if they aren’t there are other men that will use that information against you to try and hurt or tease you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:43 PM
1

I struggle to believe most women care wether a guy has a 6 pack or not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:53 AM
5

Is this a troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:39 PM
0

In dating, yes. In life? Not a chance in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:26 AM
1

Red Pill coaches aren’t even Alpha’s themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:37 AM
1

Yes, and no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:57 PM
2

This isn’t accurate, I’ve had a lot of hookups over the years and there were a few that ran for the hills when I raised the prospect of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:35 AM
4

For the same reasons guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:19 PM
0

Niceguys aren’t actually nice guys lol. They are nice to try and fuck girls, the second they get rejected they explode with rage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:40 PM
3

These guys have been fed this garbage by other idiots on the internet, they don’t know any better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:40 AM
3

This obsession over N count is just bizarre to me.. I’ve never asked a girl what here is and I have no idea what mine is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:39 AM
1

I disagree, most couple I know met on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:29 AM
4

That was always allowed dude 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:59 AM
11

We are all expendable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:44 PM
3

And? That’s life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:44 PM
1

Your missing the point, of course there are girls that are attracted to those guys, but they are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:38 PM
1

Can always count on PPD for a good chuckle
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:27 PM
1

Yeah got the most part I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:22 PM
1

More men punching up for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:01 AM
1

Big yikes dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:32 PM
2

I would imagine the incentive for the woman to give birth to a child is that she also wants a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:22 AM
3

There’s a study in 2019 that says both men and women are happier when they are not married, so maybe it would benefit men and women if we just remove marriage from the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:17 AM
3

That is all very subjective also, and a very specific circumstance, I think a lot of men would be better off if the stopped obsessing over women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:12 AM
1

Yes sh was severely abused in her childhood, however she murdered innocent men in cold planned for petty theft, she was a monster by any definition. If you’re going to accept mitigating factors for Wournos you have to do the same for all the male killers that were also abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:09 AM
3

Why makes you think women thrive single but men did? The happiest and most productive periods of my life were when I was single
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:07 AM
3

Because it’s logically coherent. Because it’s happened to a lot of men, myself included. I’m not trying to say it’s super common, but it can’t be denied that it occurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:19 PM
2

What’s scary is I seen a post on FDS about Wournos being unfairly judged, they really are a crazy bunch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:14 PM
1

I suspect this is the same effect FDS ideology is having on men, making it easier for them to identify toxic women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:09 PM
6

Being raised in an environment of abuse can lead to all kinds of trauma that can affect sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:58 PM
1

The two favourites would have to be either religious reasons or insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:57 PM
1

You’ve moved the goalposts a little, you started asking what would a man need to deserve that woman, to what does society think he needs to be co spidered equal, the answer is there’s no such thing as deserve, if you can get it than it’s yours, if you can’t than it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:19 AM
3

So even if this is true you’re talking about an exceptionally rare type of woman, so how is that useful?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:58 PM
0

Not really, I do t care about a woman’s N count because it is literally irrelevant to me, people get way to insecure worrying about peoples past
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:55 PM
1

Could literally be anything dude, everyone has different preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:52 PM
1

No it doesn’t, if she has 5 qualities she looks for in man, and he’s better in 1 but you’re better in the other 4, how is that settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:22 PM
2

No not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:19 PM
1

Yep, a lot of guys on this sub simply equate better with looks. It takes a lot of insecurity to get that upset about your gf having previously dated someone better looking than you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:42 PM
6

This opinion is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:24 PM
1

Seems like petty jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:22 PM
1

I’m probably a 7 or 8 at my absolute best, you don’t have to sleep with unattractive women to get a high N count, also having a high N count does not make you a better man than anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:25 PM
1

On what basis are you calling me a liar? You really think it’s an outrageous claim? I’ve seen it in my own friend group so don’t try and tell me it doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:44 AM
0

I can read perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:25 PM
2

Absolutely have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:15 PM
-5

?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:15 PM
-1

You really think men don’t get criticised for their partners behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:42 PM
24

This is bs lol, I’ve heard countless guys get dragged about having ugly gf’s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:41 PM
7

I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:31 PM
5

I don’t believe that is even a RP belief
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:27 PM
2

80/20 rule is an exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:26 PM
0

According to me it isn’t lol, I’ve been with virgins and non virgins and sleeping with virgins is not more satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:52 AM
0

Yeah I don’t really agree with that, besides, specifically targeting a virgin seems creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:01 AM
2

I don’t view other guys as competition, and I don’t consider non virgins as promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:26 AM
3

I’d steer clear of virgins for relationships also, unless I was one myself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:25 AM
1

What’s sexy about a virgin? The sex is terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:13 AM
1

Whichever one I get along with better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:12 AM
1

It’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:35 PM
4

Why do guys get excited about virgins? I’m a guy and the thought of hooking up with a virgin is a turn off to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:09 PM
1

Couldn’t care less about either of these scenarios, depends what her personality and values are like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:07 PM
0

This is a total false equivalency
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:44 AM
0

Typo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:09 AM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:50 PM
5

That’s nonsense, but even for the women that do, who cares? You’re insecurities will drive her away.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:46 PM
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Yeah it would absolutely be a minority of men doing this nasty shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:47 PM
1

No, they want someone in their league, as in them being a 6 and not settling for some guy that’s a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:39 AM
1

Because there absolutely are average looking women that struggle to find sexual partners, the reason for this is because a lot of women won’t debase themselves just to get laid, they’d rather wait for someone they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:11 AM
0

Y’all are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:28 AM
1

Yeah that’s a false equivalency my guy. And you don’t have to be done big stud to sleep with a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:35 PM
1

Exactly, so it makes no sense to distinguish only prostitutes when referring to a persons N count
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:29 PM
1

That doesn’t really make any sense, when you refer to a man or woman’s N count you’re never asking how many prostitutes they have slept with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:24 PM
1

Why would you use the example of prostitute instead of just casual sexual encounters?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:04 PM
1

Yeah that was in my partying days, I’m in a totally different friend group now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:17 PM
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1, 2 and 3 for men doesn’t seem at all accurate to me, maybe I’m an outlier but I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:57 PM
1

Exactly, a lot of guys on here don’t seem to understand that average/less than average girls can struggle to get sex also
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:51 AM
1

You’re referring to FDS right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:16 AM
18

It is public humiliation when the poor women can see all the guys laughing at them for being ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:44 AM
12

Some of my mates used to go to clubs and make a game out of seeing who could make out with the ugliest girl, it was horrible and made the girls feel like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:37 AM
28

Oh stop it that is not true at all, the way men talk to and about ugly women is fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:28 AM
21

You’re not implying the reverse isn’t also precedent though right? Ugly women cop it badly also
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:12 AM
2

Women definitely can’t have sex with any man they choose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:06 AM
4

Make a will?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:54 PM
1

I’ve rejected quite a few women over the years, alway respectfully of course. Are there men here that think this doesn’t happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:55 PM
1

Gos this question is cringe lol, women don’t give a fuck if you stop masturbating for a month 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:05 PM
1

And vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:04 AM
1

Different strokes for different folks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:05 AM
2

I’m not talking strictly bodies, if it’s average body + average face then no the majority of them aren’t attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:52 PM
1

There’s a difference between being not being ugly and being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:41 PM
1

Highly doubtful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:19 PM
1

This question really brings out the creepy language doesn’t it. What is so wrong with accepting you aren’t sexually attractive to most women? Are men really that pathetic that they can’t find any kind of enjoyment from life if it doesn’t involve copulating?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:53 PM
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You made it painfully obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:22 AM
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Yeah I’m the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:21 AM
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spotted the future rapist, get help dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:18 AM
0

What could possibly be done about it? Just accept it or make personal changes seems like the only reasonable responses
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:09 AM
1

You’re free to get it if you can dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:07 AM
2

Not something I care about enough to ask a partner, and if a partner ever asked me I’d find it a bit strange
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:25 AM
1

Why does the child of a celebrity deserve to live a life of luxury? That’s absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:01 AM
2

Shhhhh no facts here please
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:02 PM
1

Anyone caring about N count is stupid and weird, unless you’re religious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:22 PM
1

Most women know they aren’t their man’s absolute first choice either so this seems kind of pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:39 AM
1

Probably absolutely nothing, except an increase in the amount of violent incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:38 AM
1

I don’t have a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:54 AM
1

This is cringe af, I hope it’s a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:05 AM
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Not it’s not, behaving the exact same around different people would irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:44 AM
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All it shows that all people are different so why would you expect a person to behave the same way with different people?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:36 AM
1

A lot of scumbag ass men would think twice before attempting to assault a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:44 AM
6

If you were a woman you would most likely want to be fucked by men but that’s totally irrelevant. The point is western society has been male dominated since its inception, anyone who thinks women have it easier than men is either delusional or ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:56 AM
10

If you offered me life as a woman plus a million dollars I’d say no thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:06 AM
1

Who said anything about garauntee? Nothing in life is guaranteed except death
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:00 AM
1

Real talk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:59 AM
20

You must be taking the piss surely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:56 AM
2

Yep that’s one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:53 PM
1

If you’re anywhere around 5”6 or higher height shouldn’t be an excuse to not get a woman, but yes I’d agree being 5”4 would make it more challenging, can be overcome with other qualities though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:31 PM
-1

No but most men would get turned more often than they don’t, a lot of factors go into it not just looks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:30 AM
0

All men get rejected mate, wether you’re a 1 or a 10
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:04 AM
1

It seems like you think there’s some set of rules off people should follow when decided who or when to date another adult? A man in his 40’s doesn’t have a responsibility to stay single just so a younger man might find a partner, that’s a ridiculous notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:04 PM
2

Jobless is way worse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:18 PM
0

Sounds like you’re an outlier to me, there’s just way too much casual/short term relationships taking place for women to only find 1% of men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:44 PM
-2

And if women really only find 1% of all men attractive there would only be a fraction of the amount of people in relationships as there are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:44 PM
5

There’s no way that’s even close to accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:24 PM
3

Or if you’re a normal human being you don’t even consider wether people are alpha or beta
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:43 AM
2

Yes most the tile it’s ignorable but sometimes it’s so blatant that’s really annoying. They make it worse for all the women that try and avoid being looked at whilst at gym also.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:51 PM
4

Would you rather be a woman than a man in the dating game? For me no, but then ask yourself, would you rather be a woman in all aspects of life? I suspect the answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:07 PM
1

No, too men men place a high value on sex, there’s a thousand other ways to find enjoyment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:12 PM
0

You spend too much time on reddit buddy, almost none of that is accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:52 AM
0

Yeah it actually didn’t, maybe we have different ideas of what ugly is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:05 AM
-1

Absolutely, yea I’ve always been able to get dates, but I was always happy not being in a relationship and never wanted to settle into a relationship if it wouldn’t improve my happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:44 AM
1

I guess, almost anybody can find someone to settle for though if that’s all you’re worried about, as long as you have the self awareness to know you’re a 3/10 or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:47 AM
5

If you’re average looking you’ll like find someone eventually if you actually properly rate yourself, if you’re quite ugly then yes you may have to accept staying single, nobody said life is or should be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:26 AM
3

A bad option and no option is essentially the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:23 AM
6

You don’t have to settle, you can stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:23 AM
-5

Speak for yourself, dating isn’t hard for everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:27 AM
0

I disagree on that, just having any option isn’t what anyone wants, you want someone with shared interests that is compatible with you, nobody men or women wants to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:26 AM
-1

You want a pity party? Is dating harder for men? In some ways. Is life easier for men in other areas? Yes, what’s the point crying about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:22 AM
2

Maybe it’s a location thing, because I’ve never seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:01 PM
1

More than real life, but definitely not unlimited, and a lot of those matches would but fat lazy or weirdo’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:44 PM
1

Of course, there are a lot of little factors that go into it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:00 AM
1

If you were clothes that fit either bulking or getting lean will both give you a big advantage over overweight guys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:57 AM
2

For being alive and not being a starving aids child in Africa.. complaining about not getting laid is literally first works problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:00 AM
1

😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:06 AM
1

“Most men aren’t lean” that’s the point.. put in the hard work to get fit and you will have an advantage over most men. Get your own place and that’s another advantage you have, it all adds up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:03 AM
1

Jesus y’all always take it right back to the height don’t you, such a lazy and pathetic excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:00 AM
2

It’s like they have never walked around literally any populated area and seen the vast number of couples around them of all shapes and sizes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:14 AM
2

And most women don’t have unlimited options, and most women looking for relationships consider other things besides looks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:06 AM
1

Oh shit, reddit males gunna be screeching about this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:04 AM
1

Woman C, which is somewhere between A and B
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:29 AM
11

Any evidence to support this? Or just your wishful thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:28 AM
1

You know preferences aren’t set in stone right? There are a lot of preferences that we look through when deciding wether to date someone, height is just one and it can be outweighed by other better features
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:14 PM
1

Claiming these women are “repulsed” is horse shit, you’re being completely hyperbolic like the rest of you reddit pillers do. If you’re good looking or talented or successful in other areas being average height won’t be a problem at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:44 PM
0

The average women is 5”4, so as long as you’re around 5”5-5”8 you should be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:49 AM
1

I swear I only hear these cringe ass terms on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:47 AM
-1

Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:35 AM
0

What the fuck is a Chadlite lol, y’all come up with the dumbest phrases
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:34 AM
1

You’ve cherry picked a handful of messages to represent millions of women lol. I don’t think you really understand how’s my weird creepy guys women have to deal with on a daily basis, it’s not something I’d want to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:30 PM
1

By treating him differently you mean just ignoring him right? The same way guys treat ugly girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:56 PM
1

What makes you think women are more shallow than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:54 PM
5

I think this is meant to be an FDS Queen lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:50 PM
11

You know women on reddit are only a small minority of the female population right? Abs you’ve only shown a handful of examples lol, nice troll
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:44 PM
1

Not nearly as true as reddit dudes would have you believe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:36 PM
1

Some do some don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:20 PM
1

Some do some don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:20 PM
1

In America he will be slightly taller than average
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:23 PM
1

The desperate ones
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:22 PM
1

Rubbish
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:38 PM
2

Fuck this is accurate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:36 PM
2

I mean the mass shootings don’t help things..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:28 PM
1

You guys and height, it’s all you talk about.. 5”7 isn’t even short, it’s average
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:26 PM
0

And lots of ugly men think they deserve average women, it literally happens on both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:27 PM
1

Now your shifting the goalposts. Of course there are men out there who can’t find a partner, that’s life, no one is owed a partner by the universe. My point is that you trying to push this this narrative that woman have so much higher standards than man in relationships is just myth, it’s what guys think happen on reddit but in the real world both men and women usually date people in the same looks range.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:43 PM
1

We must live in a different world then because I can’t leave the house without seeing couples everywhere and on average they usually look to be on the same level looks wise. Sure there are outliers, sometimes the man is a lot uglier or the woman is, but people usually dare to their own level looks wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:24 PM
1

You can get comfort and companionship from friends and family
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:22 PM
0

This really is true, I hardly ever hear women talk about so called Chad’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:49 PM
1

Some men do, some men don’t, I definitely don’t nor do most the guys in my social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:38 PM
1

Maybe because it’s not accurate to say “all women act this way” or “all men act that way” or maybe because people learn and grow form certain experiences in life and just because they did something once it doesn’t mean they want to do it again. Maybe some women don’t feel comfortable being honest about their sexuality with men they don’t know properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:27 PM
5

Yeah that is absolute rubbish lol, if anything it’s the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:08 PM
7

Isn’t your whole premise that average women think they are too good for average men? So if most average women seem to be dating average men your argument isn’t really coherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:04 PM
2

I mean that goes against everything I’ve seen and experienced in my lifetime but maybe things are different where you live
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:57 AM
7

No, you just want attractive girls to want to fuck you. Stop pretending you actually care about how these women are treated. If I come along and dictate to you who I think you should be having sec with you’d tell me to piss off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:51 AM
0

Because if you need to be in a relationship just to be happy you’re not addressing the things in your life that are leading to your unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:48 AM
2

Seriously why would anyone, man or woman care about your sexual life? I wouldn’t expect anyone to care about my sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:45 AM
5

It’s sad that people really think like this. Why do bitter guys cry on reddit about women not lowering their standards enough when if the roles were reversed they’d be exactly the same? Just plain weird lol. What do you wanna do? Force attractive women to fuck fat ugly guys in the name of some arbitrary sense of fairness? It’s ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:43 AM
5

No man or woman is owed unconditional love. If you can get it great but you shouldn’t feel like you need validation from others in order to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:36 AM
3

That screams small dick energy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:27 AM
1

Bro you need to chill
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:18 AM
1

Finally someone says it? This is like every third comment in this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:36 AM
2

I’m not assuming it’s just someone I’m going to sleep with and dump, even if it was someone I was committing too it means I’d be committing to someone who had never slept with anybody except me, that’s not something I’m looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:23 AM
2

For the most part I don’t care either
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:14 AM
2

I mean I’m in a committed long term relationship atm so I think you may be reading me wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:09 PM
3

It’s a matter of perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:47 PM
3

Quite the opposite actually, I’m not interested in hurting people emotionally just so I can get laid, that’s why I always approach relationships with openness and honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:46 PM
5

I never once said they were equal or even implied it, so don’t try and strawman me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:26 AM
6

Yes they aren’t as shamed as men are, but they definitely still get shamed. Dunno why you guys need to throw pity parties about who has it worse
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:19 AM
8

Yes make virgins can be shamed, usually by other men, but that doesn’t change the fact that women suffer the same treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:10 AM
6

Cmon man, don’t put too much stock in what you read on reddit, it’s only a small percentage of society
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:54 AM
15

Yeah that is a part of it, also you have to be very careful when dating someone that has significantly less sexual experience than you do. It is easy for someone to become overwhelmed in situations that you may feel comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:25 AM
5

Except my personal preferences refute one of your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:24 AM
13

When you’re also like 18 it’s not a big deal, but as you get older the thought of dating a virgin is exhausting. It comes with a lot of emotional responsibility. I don’t have any interest in dating someone in that situation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:15 AM
2

Nah I’m not questioning you just something I found funny! Seems to be a real selling point for them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:14 AM
7

I’ve met quite a lot of OF girls on tinder, none of who I had any interest in subscribing to, I found it funny that literally all of them tried to sell me by telling me they were in the top 1% of creators, it seems like they all are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:08 AM
29

31 year old white guy here, I am not particularly attracted to virgin women or would want to date one, not worth the baggage for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:05 AM
1

Yeah I have a few genuine female friends, never pursued anything sexual or romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:33 PM
4

This is nonsense. It’s equally bad no matter what the gender
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:45 AM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:57 PM
2

Could not care less tbh, a woman being wife material has nothing to do with her N count for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:56 PM
1

So if I say there’s 1 bullet in a 20 bullet gun do you take that risk? Because they is longer odds then the odds women face of being sexually assault within their lifetimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:58 PM
1

Maybe they should get less fat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:20 AM
1

That is absolute nonsense lol, unless by short you mean 5”5 and not 5”8 like most reddit guys like to pretend is short
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:26 AM
1

So by being fat they aren’t giving themselves a very good chance are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:26 AM
0

You don’t think they’d have a better chance if they weren’t fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:02 AM
0

Who else’s fault would it be? He said some of his friends are chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:47 AM
3

No matter how good looking you are I’d you do it wrong you’ll still give the girl the creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:46 AM
13

FDS is straight toxic, and quite disgusting at times in the way it shames people with mental illnesses or same sex people, truly a bunch of sad bitter women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:43 PM
6

FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:47 PM
2

Not all but many do, all my casual relationships were set up this way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:32 PM
3

If that’s the case then the person that got the job is clearly a shit person in general, therefore they are both better off without each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:29 AM
3

I’d say if a man or a woman leaves their partner as soon as they get a better job then the relationship probably wasn’t good to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:12 AM
3

Sure, but less than 1% of society ever reach that kind of success
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:57 PM
9

It’s pretty weird to spend time worrying about what celebrities do with their personal lives, they are a small minority of society
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:25 PM
1

Yeah I also have no idea what you mean by abandoning their femininity, can you be specific
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:22 PM
3

Yeah I’m an average guy that has always had success in dating and I couldn’t care less what a woman’s N count is, I don’t even bother to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:18 PM
6

Huh? I see no reason why a masculine man can’t appreciate the feminine traits of a woman, if a man dislikes a woman because of these traits then he probably has some serious insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:22 PM
2

That’s is absolute rubbish, is this really what they teach at colleges these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:19 PM
2

I dunno in my last relationship my gf wanted me to sleep with other women, didn’t have any trouble finding girls to hook up with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:35 PM
2

Absolutely lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:45 PM
2

Try telling my gf sex isn’t a need lol, she’ll slap you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:41 PM
2

Why would I be in denial? I have no skin in the game
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:23 AM
1

So why ask the reason? The premise already establishes we are dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:06 AM
2

Sounds like you’ve been indoctrinated dude, spend less time on reddit, that is not even a close to what women are like in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:53 AM
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