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What do you mean "just"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 05:41 PM
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He generally marries an extro who's in good shape and has some level of career attainment either equal to, or slightly less than his. The type of chick who has fairly active social media and goes to Pilates classes. Attractive, but not in an exaggerated way. Neither a super ambitious "lawyer cunt" stereotype but not a "traditionally feminine" woman either. Probably has Blue Apron and make quips about how much she loves coffee and wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 11:17 PM
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I need to know what you mean by high value, low value, and normal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 09:31 PM
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But she's so good at seated backwards cowgirl and smacking herself with dicks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 09:31 PM
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it's generally more "good bj" and less "the dick god demands sacrifice"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 06:56 PM
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Do you realize a lot of acts are chosen because of how they look and not because of how they feel. And I don't mean to the woman either, to the man. Gay porn tends (tends) to have BJs that are more a reflection of what feels good on a dick for example. It's like you're saying Professional Wrestling is fake, but those guys would still be good fighters in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 06:34 PM
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why not tell him what he did wrong? t LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 09:29 PM
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explain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 06:07 PM
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People who are like that don't need guidance. The fetishization of dark triad in red pill circles is a product of omegas who can't connect to who admire the potency of sociopaths, because they're already empathy-deficient they just happen to be impotent in their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 05:50 PM
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The awkward weirdos that wind up on RPW looking for dating tips are still women, therefore they don't externalize pain/blame, they internalize it. I don't think there is a female anger phase that includes pursuing men. Anger phase women become like radfem/wgtow types because when it comes down to it women dont want men like men want women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 05:46 PM
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They can get a relationship, just not a loving one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 04:15 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 10:29 PM
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Precisely
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 09:06 PM
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Of course he wouldn't because he's not retarded. Most people don't need to be told these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:38 PM
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Yes. That's what relationships are about to some degree. I also don't want my h to come home and list every college student he saw on the train that he wants to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:26 PM
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Yeah he seems it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 06:58 PM
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I want him to be my boyfriend, but he won't respond to my PMs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 06:41 PM
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Feminism represents women's interests (or at least attempts to). If what you are saying is not part of the discourse, then women participating in said discourse don't consider it within their interest. Women's best interest are for them to define, not for you to define.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 05:25 PM
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This is tech solipsism. I don't know why people have such a hard time understanding that women are legitimately qualified to do jobs, more women are graduating from college, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 05:23 PM
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He's one of the few to monetize these people's insecurity, he's a fucking genius
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 05:22 PM
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surpassed woke and has descended into woke-fatigue. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 08:12 PM
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Nah what prepares kids most in life is having the space to freely socialize and access to a decent public school is generally sufficient. All those extras probably don't make a difference, the main difference is rich kids have a safety net where they can't fail hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 10:22 PM
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I assume you're being sarcastic and I don't know how to respond to this. I don't think kids need all the best things, or that poor people should not have kids. I just mentioned they have their lives set up in such as way they can manage without daycare
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 09:58 PM
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Thats shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 09:19 PM
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Hispanics have that extended family sitch even though they get married
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 08:35 PM
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The way OP is talking everybody who doesn't have a household income of 300k (which I guess is MC in some places but not most) is an unsophisticated prole. A lot of the admins I managed were African American mothers and none of them used child care unless they took advantage of some sort of program. What they did was live with their mothers and a sibling or two and somebody, if not multiple people, were bound to be out of work and around the care for the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 08:14 PM
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What? I never said I would, they decide that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 08:04 PM
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Define "lower middle class", and if you're going to list amounts I need a frame of reference for cost of living. I have seen it both ways. Somebody doesn't need to be lower middle class for child care to represent a financial burden for them. Will they still both work? Generally yes, since it becomes cheaper once kids are school aged and because it's harder to reenter the workforce. But for others, the margins are as such that it isn't worth it for them, or the spouse makes enough for the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 07:56 PM
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The cost of childcare is actually very middle class concern. Poor people tend to live in matriarchal situations, or use off the books childcare, or qualify for programs to help with that. If hypothetically the wife makes say 60k a year, which I understand is nothing in certain parts of the country and tons in others, but lets just say you earn 60k a year in an area where a 3 bedroom home is about 300k. The husband makes 90k. They have a 1800 a month mortgage and maybe 30k left in student debt ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 07:38 PM
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Well golly gee
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 04:02 AM
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And yet you won't take me home. Feels bad man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 01:38 AM
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For you maybe, but you're trailer park chad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 01:21 AM
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Maybe. I think "not getting out much" is the main issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 12:49 AM
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Not under the influence of anything I assume
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 12:46 AM
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I'm not in that socioeconomic class I have a snaggle tooth and come from a single parent household.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 12:45 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 12:40 AM
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"being a degenerate whore" = "having more sex than me with guys who aren't like me"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 12:28 AM
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Yeah I never met some "international child" who grew up with expats in Saudi Arabia or the type to go to boarding school in Vermont who also did coke or went to clubs. Never ever ever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 12:23 AM
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We can dance if we want to, we can leave your friends behind Cause your friends don't dance and if they don't dance Well they're are no friends of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 12:19 AM
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Who gives a shit what people in their early 20s do... you aren't married, you probably didnt even live together or share a bank account. Dating means people agree to fuck just you until they find somebody else to fuck. Looks like they found somebody else to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 10:37 PM
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sure. that's why I love happy hour so much. take me to value town and get me in pj's by 8
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 07:53 PM
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well just drinks at a casual place 100 per person is on the high side. but "going out" entails a 6+ drinks in my mind, so assuming cocktails or wine and travel it's totally reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 07:26 PM
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most people use main subs and look at cat videos. everbody I know has been on reddit for some reason , but I have only met one person who like knows what an incel is, and he trolls that sub and gchat me links sometimes. the casual reddit user is leagues away from somebody posting on mgtow candidly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 04:27 PM
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it doesn't sound that unreasonable. Friday night uber surge so 15 bucks each way. and a $70 bar tab with tip, especially if you pick up a couple of girls isn't weird. cocktails are lke 12 bucks, good whiskey is 15
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 04:13 PM
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just switch up with hands if he complains divorce rape
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 07:34 AM
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your mom's not on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 07:31 AM
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I don't know. I get that some women like them big but I don't think it's most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 01:07 AM
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I honestly think this is why the "cotton ceiling" thing is entering into trans conversations. While homophobes have a more visceral disgusted reaction to male homosexuality, people tend to trivialize female homosexuality. I personally don't think homosexuality is 100% genetic, I think it's partially epigenetic and possibly developmentally acquired. But abuse/rape isn't the only way women develop a predilection for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 12:33 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 12:24 AM
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Eh I had a black man go down on me without prompting too. Maybe he knew white girls expected it though? It seems black women will say shit "you ate my pussy with that mouth" to embarrass a man. It introduces a whole other subtext
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 11:07 PM
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Do you actually say "like a piece of meat"? "Fuck the shit out of you" implies desperation and desire, that's just something people say when they really want to fuck. Men love hearing shit like that too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 10:56 PM
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People have different levels of hygiene and different ph levels and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 10:15 PM
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What is this an acid trip? Am I on another planet or something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 09:38 PM
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Every man I've been with have put in valiant attempts, although sometimes it takes them a little while to learn you body in particular and settle into the things that are the most mutually satisfying. I have never heard of men brag about not getting women off. I have heard about them brag about the lengths women will go to fuck them. In general, women actually have much more involved and specific sexual conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 09:37 PM
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Sometimes I miss being 22 and doing these things, my body rebounded from partying so much better, I got more attention, and I got away with basically everything. I'd have a criminal record if I wasn't a small woman who's all cheeks. But when I think about my life day to day back then, I actually wasn't happier more of the time. I had angst, I wasn't satisfied with the small things. My body was effortlessly better, but I wasn't as confident about it. I was telling my dad just today at lunch that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 09:06 PM
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I have had sexual relations with 4 women and the closest I came to this was a chick with borderline personality disorder who was faking. When I stopped seeing her, she told people I sucked in the sack, but when we were together she was acting like a porn star. Glassy eyes, unnecessary posturing, the whole nine yards. I only have female narcissism though, so I could tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 07:17 PM
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Once the relationship levels out and she doesn't want to maintain the performance it's "starfish"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 07:02 PM
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Color me shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 07:00 PM
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So it's Pretty Woman with a handful of light bsdm scenes? Tell me, does the girl actually do a scene from Back Door Sluts 9 or does he spank her while the reader is assured how much he desperately needs her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:51 PM
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Because on the internet there is "vanilla" and then there is a competition towards who is the kinkiest kinkster ever to kink. I wonder if some of these guys go from girls who won't let him touch 40% of her body and won't leave the lights on to girls who like doggie style and dirty talk and see the need to portray themselves as totally dominant alphas because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:48 PM
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Women, for melting like butter and thinking shit like "you gotta do what you gotta do" When I was 15 I was dry humping, mutually masturbating, and exchanging favors with numerous boys and we were all having fun. I never felt like I was "doing it for them". I don't know these chicks are made of but I wish they would stop engaging the real people in a race to the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 05:13 PM
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sex is fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 05:00 PM
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I would never lie to make men feel better about their dick
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 04:15 PM
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To be honest, it does sound pretty bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 11:04 PM
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It was more fun when I was a teenager and the boys were more enthusiastic and appreciative. I don't take issue with it, my technique is 50% is applied pressure through covered teeth and 50% suction, not that weird gaggy shit people are into now. But practically biting your lips from the inside doesn't feel great after 10 minutes. Press your fingers over your incisors and wriggle them back and forth. Imagine 15 minutes of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 11:00 PM
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You're right, even the people who developed the test said that. Of course, the only response you'll likely get is that such women aren't real women, they're cunts or "bad women" and this happens to be most women, but no matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 08:28 PM
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Sucking big dicks is the worst. And even if you do it right, I swear they are less sensitive and take too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 08:21 PM
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IIRC statistically they don't last as long, but I wonder how much of it is a direct result of the woman outearning the man. Young women outearn young men, and I think this may have been true for a little while now. When women have children most continue to work but the stop putting in those extra 20-30 hours a week to advance, they leave early when the kid has an ear infection, they favor flexibility to more pay. In the strata where married women don't CANT do this, a "good" men (who isn't addic…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 08:14 PM
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People on here are nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 12:32 AM
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Sure. What's her phone number?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:50 PM
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I understand that, I still think it's abnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:48 PM
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I never said kindness was "bad" I just don't think it earns respect
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:32 PM
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"how many men/women have you slept with?" This is abnormal to me During conversations when the topics turn to sex, there's been drinking, you get to talking, she just starts talking about her past. Past partners, past sex practices, what she's done, what she did do, what she likes/doesnt' like. This is normal for people you aren't dating, or maybe in small doses for people you are dating without specifics. The thing is a woman can have a low N of like 4-6 and still have a breadth of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:31 PM
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Women used to have their own separate competitive spheres and they didn't climb to the top of them by being how you describe. But even if you think of the "system" as an aberration, and that the whole of history was Leave It to Beaver, women still live it now, why would they adopt the traits that would be rewarded in the past but not today?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:14 PM
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Ok. But what did she do other than have a baby as a virgin and stand in for a goddess when Christianity take over pagan Europe? I have never claimed things work the same for men and women. But I am a woman, I have a professional life, I'm married, and I've dated. I can tell you that being "overtly kind" has never earned me respect. Being competent, setting boundaries, being good under pressure, those are the things that you credit and respect. I have never, never, never, in my life heard men pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 10:59 PM
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So is it your experience that women who are yielding are venerated?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 10:26 PM
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Q4ALL: Why do you think so many women treat attractive men as the prize and willingly get pumped and dumped? They don't plan on getting pumped and dumped. It's like applying to a reach school, or a job senior job when you are mid level, or hitting on a 9/10. Q4M: Would you date an emotionally damaged woman if it is a consequence of her sexual history? Answering anyway. I wouldn't knowingly date anybody who is emotionally damaged beyond the normal idiosyncrasies and schemas that all people have. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 10:11 PM
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I'm familiar with those types of scams I thought they targeted the elderly primarily. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:05 PM
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I'm sure that happens but this even applies to female to female friendships. I call call a girlfriend up at 1 am and talk if I really need to. But she is not going to drive an hour to help me with some project. For men the situation is reversed, they don't even ask each other. I came home the other day and my brother was inside regrouting my bathtub. I never asked him to do this. But we have to get 5 whiskeys in to have half the intimacy in conversation as I would with a sister
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:04 PM
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Who bothers making male bots? How could you possibly monetize that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 08:49 PM
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To be honest, he's actually describing "magnanimous" not "warm and polite" the latter being closer to what people mean when they say "kind". If you really want to slot things into male vs female, men are generally more generous than women. Anybody who has ever worked in the service industry will tell you this. Maybe I live on another planet, but generally women are much more giving with their words, they are in many ways more selfish with their favors and resources save for the people closest to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 08:48 PM
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25% of the married ones are having affairs. 30% of the married ones have imposed dead bedrooms on their husbands. and probably 25% of them have had at least one abortion. Can you sit behind me at the casino, I didn't realize you could soul read
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 06:21 PM
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Wait, you talked to a number of people in real life about this actual concern and about half of them validated this concern as "real"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 06:19 PM
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Does one need a "sordid" past to have an unwanted pregnancy? I thought having somebody cum in your vaginal canal once would be sufficient. Either way, point stands abortion is the best way to avoid winding up on /r/wherearethegoodmen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 06:14 PM
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The whole point of getting an abortion is that Chad knocks you up and you don't suffer the consequences. I know 3 women who've had abortions and you wouldn't be able to identify any of them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 06:09 PM
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Then why do they have out of wedlock kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 06:01 PM
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Why you hatin?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 06:00 PM
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How do you know what her options were? If anything the mistake is not holding out LONGER and not getting an ABORTION I disagree that all the women I see featured on these sites are unrealistic. White guys on reddit don't seem to realize black men exist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:59 PM
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Generally speaking, men do treat you better when you are at the top of their range.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:45 PM
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I don't think they are trying to be bigoted or anything. It's as if they buy into this narrative that all women, including Stacey McBudLite, had access to unlimited "nice guys" who wanted to marry when she was in her youth and that the only type guy that could have left her and the kids was some gang banger who kicks kittens for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:39 PM
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I only see it vicariously, but I've known a couple of chubby 4s who date online, and they still have to go through a lot of messages. Granted, I don't think making demands and telling sob stories on a profile is advisable and I totally get why people make fun of it. I just don't get why people feel the need to project these thoughts and these backstories on the women. Most of them are working class chicks that are just living their normal, it's not like they had totally "nice" systems analysts a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:31 PM
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/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen it's like 50% trainwrecks and 50% "postwall" (ie 25+) women who write bad dating profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:21 PM
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While there is no shortage of crazy dating profiles, I don't think men realize just how inundated these women are. They see a woman who is overweight and has 2 kids and don't seem to conceptualize that she STILL feels obliged to say "No short guys, no drug users, be self-sufficient" because she is getting 200 messages a week anyway. I'm not saying that's the way to write a dating profile, but it's like they think she's shouting into the abyss instead of having to trudge through hundreds of non o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:17 PM
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I liked this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 09:48 PM
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Not to mention that 90 year old has 65 year old children. As in, their children are the age at which traditionally they'd be living their kids and doing softer labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 10:02 PM
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I somewhat agree with this, I just don't think people mean it when they say they'd do it at like 65 because their dick doesn't work or they have to live in the retirement homes that the system pays for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 10:00 PM
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Who's arguing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 08:46 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that. To be fair, that's normal for teenagers and college students.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 08:45 PM
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Or rather "Sure, I'll do that 30 second task sometime this month"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 08:33 PM
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It's the same thing practically. I wouldn't describe it as "flat-out refusing".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 08:19 PM
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Do many men refuse? It seems they mostly pay lip service and then don't
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 08:10 PM
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Romance is men doing things for women. This isn't my opinion, this is the way our culture is set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 07:58 PM
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Everybody puts special effort into justifying how they've structured their lives and everybody is the hero of their own story. If you are looking for women to admit "I did this for selfish reasons" or "This problem in my life is my fault" you'll have about as much success as you'll have with men, which is not much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 07:48 PM
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Taking care of aging parents is very different in a time when people live to upper 60s vs people living to their 90s and actually needing professional care around the clock.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 07:35 PM
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I bet there's a correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 07:32 PM
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its all good. you're nice, i just dont relate to the kink talk, since I'm just a vanilla bossy bottom :P. You have a good night, friend
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 12:28 AM
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Getting "triggered" is incompatible with my alcoholism. And I think the term is ravished but me dont talky so pretty so I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 11:11 PM
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I wonder about people who encounter so many BSDM followers in the course of life without special effort and why they describe healthy sex in those terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 07:13 PM
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I watched the time you linked and felt some decent points were made about how women respond to being desired and why female erotica is the way it is. However, I found the reality of transgenders forums a lot different than what this person is expressing. What I saw were men revealing they knew they were women when they realized they wanted to gag on cock and get pounded like porn girls. That's not female sexuality. Masochism may be more common in women than sadism, but most women are not masochi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 01:23 AM
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How many working class women do you think got to be housewives? My grandma worked as a hair dresser and a bank teller. There were certainly points where that money was pretty important, even if it wasn't the bulk of their money
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 11:29 PM
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My h isn't that diligent about picking up after himself, but apart from that he does a good share of everything. I could see how the picking up part is irritating, it's like some never ending sisyphus shit. But really, dinner and laundry is like 20 minutes a day total, and we can deep clean the entire house together in about an hour or 2 every 2-4 weeks depending, so how it's split this is pretty incidental.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 11:25 PM
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I remember reading an interesting study (Ill try to find when sober, actually no I won't) Basically they gave monkeys testosterone and all it did was make them more aggressive toward lower ranking males. It did not make them challenge higher ranking males. As in, rank was more multivariate than that, and aggression mostly just reinforces the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 02:28 AM
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When I say "dating" I mean seeing somebody regularly in a romantic context outside of serious commitment. I don't normally refer to people who were "dating" 6 months ago and now live together as "dating". I say they are "together" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 02:17 AM
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read my comment and try to find anywhere roids would fit into what i said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 01:55 AM
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no i didnt. the post isnt even edited
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 01:37 AM
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Please delete this is not intended for me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 01:03 AM
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I was actually a bit wrong. 5'9" is 1.9 standard deviations above average for American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 12:55 AM
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Elvis was one of the best looking men in the spotlight ever. people seem to think of his fat vegas days, not the period of time he was actually establishing that fan base. I'm at the vet but look up young elvis
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 11:24 PM
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In certain forms, sure. Whatever special marketing sauce Johnny Cash was, it wasn't intended to be a dream boat
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 10:49 PM
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None of these stars have ever made a career out of movies oriented towards women. For reference think of it this way: Johnny Cash was marketed more towards men, Elvis was the idol for women. Personal life aside, Elvis was marketed as a good boy who loved his mama and just happened to move in a sexualized way. The misunderstood jail bird was more of a male fantasy. Modern women in general have moved away from body hair as a preference but so have modern men. It's just a trend thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 10:44 PM
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I doubt that average in UMC suburbs is over one standard deviation taller than average, especially considering black women are taller than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 10:20 PM
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At 5'7" most women are shorter than him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:44 PM
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Same as a man of any other height. If there is anything you could probably be more cognizant of it you be how you dress (no cuffs, cargo shorts, tube socks, shirts too long, etc) Also 5' 7" isn't ridiculously short or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:30 PM
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All you need to seduce a chick who wears colored contact lenses is a strawberry daiquiri
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:48 PM
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All of them look fat but the one on the right looks kind of handsome. The dress and location looks fairly average. I would assume they have girlfriend closer to Group A types unless they sell drugs in which they get trashier versions of Group B.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 09:47 PM
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I don't but I used to play "jump off the highest thing chicken". Yes, I have been assaulted and mugged.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 09:44 PM
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You mean you learn empathy the more you look at other hoomans in the front part of their brain dome? Where they make the face moves with their hooman feelz? Next you're going to tell me doing angry boom boom games actually cultivate angry boom boom thoughts. Has anybody ever heard of water being wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 09:42 PM
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Well, I know he has made friends with women from work, so it's not just saying no to a group or strictly a work function. Most of our friends are coupled up, but it's totally normal for say, him to meet up with a female friend and me to join after I finish doing something else. We have a couple of friends who will stay with us for a week or so depending on the distance they travel, we can't kick them out of the house because one of us is away at work. There are two older men in my life who were …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 05:07 AM
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Our social and professional lives would suffer over this. I can't even imagine coming up with an explanation for other people. I already have defend running plans by my husband to my friends. This would be seen as outright insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 04:40 AM
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Chow chows are like the cats of dogs, why would you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 04:38 AM
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I want to get a bulldog too. I love their butts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 04:36 AM
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Silly rabbit, evo psyche is only to be employed when boys rule and girls drool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 06:21 PM
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It's more about them feeling on control than actually being in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 06:15 PM
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That sounds shitty but nobody wants to decide where to eat most of the time, unless they're picky and that sucks too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 08:08 PM
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What you are describing are asexual Boston Marriages between women. Go down to Florida and you will see widowed and divorced women everywhere living and interacting like a couple without being sexual. And yes, I think you will start to see this in greater numbers with the financial emancipation of women. Not because these women "turn gay" because it's "not that bad" but because a decent number of women are asexual or demisexual and don't get a whiff of the male desire required to ignite them. Ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 08:04 PM
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I tell men what I want and while it has worked out well IRL examples of me expressing my desires on here are not well received. I've probably just selected the types of guys who tend to be ok with that sort of thing unintentionally. But when it comes to where to eat and other petty shit that seems like a weird thing to be annoyed about. Whenever I am haging out with anybody, man or woman, there is usually that same stupid dance "Where do you want to eat?" "I don't care, where do you want to eat?…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 07:53 PM
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That dude was so hot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 07:06 PM
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No more mentally ill than the people who hang out here. This place is much more spiteful and contentious than that place. As far as the divorces, they perceive those relationships as dysfunctional and abusive. And honestly, while they do make mountains out of molehills, you don't have to dig that deep in to MRP to find bad men wanting to control their relationships for the sake of feeling good or to make others feel bad as penance. If you encountered women talking openly about dreading their hus…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 07:00 PM
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Probably yeah, that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 06:52 PM
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I don't questions like this is are good way of deciphering female attraction. If you asked women if they would have fucked David Bowie or Freddy Mercury during their prime years a great number of women would have said yes. And everybody knew those guys were light in the loafers even though we didn't have "news" dedicated to the personal lives of famous people and people were tongue in cheek about that sort of thing. When you ask women about bisexual men you are putting the idea of butt sex in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 06:43 PM
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Here's an honest question: If your wife fucked you more, would you do more chores without being asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 06:36 PM
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Who alt this be
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 11:44 PM
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I'm too drunk to find the automod but I just want you to know this is the best thing you have ever written and I just died of laughter RIP me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 10:37 PM
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I dont live in history, I live now. Why would what women had to do prior to 60 years ago matter to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 05:49 PM
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one can dream
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 04:17 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 03:21 AM
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I had the same exact thing happen with my HS boyfriend on and off through my late teens and early 20s. He first tried to say he didn't have a girlfriend but his social media practically spelled this out. Then he owned up to it but said she meant nothing to him. They are married now. The wedding pictures should make me happy, especially since we dated as children practically and could have been old friends. But they don't. Even he doesn't look happy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 02:23 AM
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I never set out to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:53 PM
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The guy would have to be super hot (according to my tastes), do it the way I like it, and show up with a pizza for me to even consider it before masturbation. Like I can get off in 30 seconds flat if I'm actually horny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:00 PM
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Sometimes I get attracted to men based on their looks alone. An example is a guy running shirtless down the street, I haven't gotten off in a few days, I imagine him moving like that while I am astride him. That happens to me maybe a couple of times a month when I'm working in pedestrian areas. Because this is such a minor part of my life I have a hard time comprehending the man vs masturbation thing. If I've hooked up with a guy some fashion without a relationship I can't in good faith say it "…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 07:05 PM
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Yeah, if you have two kids theyll be a boy and a girl half the time. Why reuse toys when you can buy more and more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:54 PM
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Ok. Well that's impractical of those parents. Why send a kid to a playground in a dress? That's insane
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:38 AM
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really? where do you live? even half the school uniforms i see are pants nowadays. like kakis and a polo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:33 AM
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Like dont climb in your sunday best or never climb trees. What kind of girl is always wearing that sort of dress? Even the catholic school jumpers I see every day are more resilient and less revealing than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:26 AM
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Yeah I know what you're saying. In truth I don't know of any parents who discourage their girls from sports and stuff. Like maybe if you're in your new Easter dress, but thats not the same thing. I do kind of agree that complimenting a girls looks rather than her actions might not be great. Especially because some girls will never actually be pretty and thats ok. I was such a gorgeous and gregarious child I was treated like a minor celebrity wherever I went, and I think it set me up for disappoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:21 AM
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Women who go through the normal developmental steps have grounded identities and don't need to enter into some sort of weird symbiosis you are describing to achieve fullness. What you are describing is an unhappy identity-deficient person who needs to dissolve into another. And that sort of person might appeal to you on paper, but that type of person will key your car when you don't call them back for a couple of hours. And yes, that is a feminine quality, but fully forming in a society that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:11 AM
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Look, I'm trying to contribute to your post, I put thought and effort into what I said. I'm starting to think you just read the first sentense and didn't even try to comprehend the rest. Female adolescents are borderlines who become grown women with solid identities. I think this is the crux of the issue for women who can't say no or are afraid of the scorn of others. Not the fact that they were encouraged to kiss grandma or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:05 AM
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I'm not sure how anybody is talking about girls hating themselves. OP is even trying to explore ways to allow girls to thrive, she just assumes the girl in question wants to some things and is somehow inhibited. That may be the case for some girls, and not for others. I don't really care about girly stuff vs boys stuff. Frankly, I grew up in a time when legos boxes along with most toys had a boy and girl on them, this was before they had gender-delineated kits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:03 AM
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No women are reverse men who were made to suffer. It's the natural order
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:52 AM
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I'm not sure what "sigh" means. Doesn't seem like a direct or assertive way to hold a conversation. Care to elaborate? I'm totally listening, I'm giving you permission to do more than "sigh"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:49 AM
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Do you think raising a girl this way would successfully erase being "female"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:45 AM
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if something is this innate how could it be socialized away so easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:37 AM
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I don't see the need to discourage girls from doing girly things if that's what they want to do. What you are describing in terms of not being a people pleaser is what I call "fully-forming". Girls usually move from an interdependent self-construal to an independent one. That's more of an adolescent thing, forging an identity. Women who fail to do this are subclinical borderlines stuck in some sort of arrested development at 13. None of this has anything to do baking cupcakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:27 AM
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Mostly southern italian
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 09:18 PM
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You know, I dont grow a unibrow anymore but did up until my early 20s. I think it's a sign of youth especially in hairy populations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 08:43 PM
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I don't know. Maybe I'm an anomaly, but in my childhood my fantasies were very much like this movie, romantic stuff wasn't really the main thing up until a certain age, and even then. I played with other girls and I remember them similarly. I didn't really grow up during the height of the Disney Princess times. Nobody took their 8 year olds for manicures. I think what was different was what "winning" represented. Like winning for girls was more about being the most admired, and I think it's slig…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 07:21 AM
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Shield that keeps air in and lets bombs out. The Force. Magnets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 05:32 AM
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Well that's kind of the point fiat and I were talking about the other day. There are ok explanations of why Rey is great, but most of it just magic. It's always been about magic. Like getting bitten by a radioactive spider is magic. There's nothing wrong with that.That's what these stories are intended to be. I do agree that the subtext and other features of the story are different. And this is because the protagonist is female. Again, I don't see a problem with this. I think it's good these peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 04:02 AM
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When they trapped the slug and it was scared and then everybody cheered. Hysterical
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 03:43 AM
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The reactions are definitely delineated. What I find interesting is a 14 year old boy doesn't see a Mary Sue, because he has been introduced to Female Power Fantasies before nice and early, and because they are largely indistinguishable from Male Power Fantasies. His journey to the "dark side" is compLETEH. Also, the idea that women like the Byronic Hero mostly because he is "alpha" or even a "bad boy" is completely missing the point. He was literally on his knees in front of her when they met, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 03:31 AM
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Well, as much as I appreciate the salt your thread attracted it's a generational problem that has come to a close among normal people. I saw this film a second time with a 14 year old boy, he didn't think it was a girl movie, he actually identified with the female protagonist. I have seen this my niece and nephew play whoever those sisters are from Frozen. Boys born in this last generation have grown up with female protagonists they can relate to, just like us girls used to have to play Han Solo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 03:11 AM
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Talking about star wars with people who know star wars
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 02:58 AM
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They hold up if you saw them as a kid and appreciate them for what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 01:14 AM
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The CGI used on people in the prequels was retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 01:14 AM
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That's a pretty big schema to have
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 12:45 AM
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It was written like a princess movie
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 12:23 AM
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If you don't like fairy tales don't watch movies that are fairy tales. Like all of star wars movies. Have you tried Star Trek?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 12:18 AM
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Up until the ledge he wasn't even swiping at her, just her saber
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 12:17 AM
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Right. Like it would have made sense for her to show up and be "Here's your dick back, rejoin the Star War" And he'd say "Gee, girl I don't know, after 10+ years in exile, you sure told me" THAT would have made her a Mary Sue more than anything. The ability for characters around her to constantly abide her for no reason. Then Luke was supposed to just go Chuck Norris on everybody's ass, even though he spent the last 2 decades not doing that anyway. The same guy who's two most important moments w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 11:38 PM
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LOL. Luke Skywalker contemplating killing his nephew for a moment after a prophetic look into his mind = Out of character Luke Skywalker leaving his daughter on Jakku to starve and get assaulted and robbed her whole life = Makes total sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 11:23 PM
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I know, I know. I had the OT MEMORIZED as a kid, line for line. But as an adult, I manage to see it clearly. Hell, the OT was less consistent from a story telling perspective than this one has been thus far. People aren't even comparing TLJ to TFA, they are comparing TLJ to some Luke Skywalker fanfiction they cooked up in their heads. The Emperor shows up in the second episode, it's clear Vader wasn't intended to be Luke's father despite Lucas's backtracking on the subject, and Leia was DEFINITE…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 11:15 PM
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They used the cute things in a less stupid way than they used the Ewoks, who home-aloned an entire Empire regiment into the ground with one casualty. I do think 3 cute animals in one movie is a little bit greedy. But that's the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 11:00 PM
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I think it had some problems from a story telling perspective and with pacing. But I agree visually it was beautiful and was rife with yonic symbolism, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 10:54 PM
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That scene was beautiful. Like above star wars caliber beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 10:44 PM
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You have to watch it like a child. People complain about how the humor changed. You think "will somebody get this walking carpet out of my way" would be funny to a 2017 audience. It's made for people who were born in 2003. People who don't give a shit about Luke Skywalker. That's how you revive a franchise. You sell it to 10-20 year olds. I saw this movie a second time with an 11 year old and a 14 year old. They loves it. My brother and I showed them the OT. They thought it was stupid and corny.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 10:42 PM
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You're right we don't see this, and they could have done better job with her. But it's pretty clear with context clues that what life was like for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 10:33 PM
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At the beginning of his hero's journey, he helps turn a battle at 8 years old in a ship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 10:32 PM
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The only problem I had with Rey was actually her mind trick with the Daniel Craig cameo. Because she doesn't even know that exists as a thing. The other things are amplified versions of skills she already possesses, and she's been using the force reflexively for some time. Like when she shut the door on the spaghetti monster. She grew up in a den of thieves as a girl living alone. We already see her take out a few guys with a staff, she probably had to learn to live that way, it's feasible becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 10:18 PM
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OMG right? Snoke = Emperor Emperor was just a villain in a backwards chair. We actually got more scenes with Snoke than we did with the emperor. The only reason there is any exposition about him is because of the prequels. As of ROTJ, nobody knew shit about the emperor and they weren't expecting some nerdy technical information about it. He's a spooky Lincoln Memorial. He's the guy who turns around in a leather chair and has a cat on his lap. He doesn't have to be anything more than that. It's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 10:12 PM
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I've been saying this for a while. Now we have an example of him at 100%, and it's obvious he wasn't all there in his first fight. TFA vs TLJ It's pretty clear either: He was severely limited due to his injury He wasn't really trying to kill her Some combination of both
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 10:06 PM
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Yeah if you compare Kylo in TFA and TLJ it's obvious he wasn't fighting at 100% in the former. She is shown to be unskilled but talented.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 10:01 PM
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He considers killing him, which is what his nephew woke up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 10:00 PM
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His time on Dagobah spanned the chase and capture of Han and Leia. So a week at most. Vader spent 13 years at an accredited jedi college and 25 years on active duty under Palpatine's tutulage. We are told in the prequels that Anakin/Vader is objectively the most powerful force sensitive person on record. Luke beats him after a weekend with Yoda and a few years of self study between ESB and ROTJ. Duels have never, ever, been an objective measure of people's power levels or even their training. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 09:57 PM
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I am very much drawn to the notion of you putting your engorged flesh shaft into my gooey cavern
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 10:04 PM
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That's cute but you only liked her like 6/10 instead of 10/10. Her fucking you wouldn't have changed that, at least not in some sustainable way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 07:52 AM
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I want to be on top because it mashes my giblets right. So if I don't get off before the sex and I'm hurting to get off I'll get on top. I am generally pretty active in the sack regardless, I have "fuck back" to get anything out of it. Sometimes I like to bit a bit aggressive, but I wouldn't call it straight sadism nor would I "demand" some particular thing from a partner, especially without any variety. I can't say whether or not I'm a good partner. First you'll have to define what a "good part…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 04:23 AM
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Responding to the title since I don't understand the body of the post: I never imagined myself as a mother and was never all that impressed with kids until they could at least talk, and even then they had to be genuinely cute kids. Not the ruddy bowling ball heads a lot of white kids are before like 10. Sometimes around my mid 20s I started responding to cute things in a way I never have before. And not just babies, pedomorphized representations of things, smaller versions of normal sized things…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 04:11 AM
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I hate to break it to you, but this dynamic is not going any where
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 08:56 PM
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This is somewhat true. The best advice for men is probably just to approach lots of women confidently. But you know what women hate and already get plenty of? Unattractive, delusional men approaching them confidently. If I were poll people what how they want to be sold to they aren't going to give actual sales advice. They'll say something like "Don't be too pushy, Be 100% honest about the product" etc. The true test is what and how people buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 07:49 PM
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My hand was very immediately drawn to any of the above flesh mounds You need to work on your dirty talk my man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 03:23 PM
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I'm more concerned about what they've done with other people and what their sexual demands are. If they learned to crack 100 safes in the dark by touch alone I'm down. If I have to compete in a race to the bottom with a bunch of anorgasmic BPD chicks who profess to like love anal I wouldn't bother. Now you get them pre-ruined before they even touch a vagina since they've had the privilege of a bajillion 18 year old oxycontin addicted losers pretending to like things they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 03:49 AM
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Now that I'm post wall, I can't get enough men do give me half as many things or do half as much for me. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 03:45 AM
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I do all the time and people hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 03:38 AM
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Jesus said you have to watch the movies through the eyes of a child
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 04:49 AM
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Yall can make up all kinda stories about "sci-fi" shit but you missed the emotional cadence of king author and his mail order sleeping beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 06:52 AM
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Middle class solipsism tells me this is more regional than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 09:07 AM
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most men are betas, there are better betas than STEMlords.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 09:03 AM
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whats most revealing is that most are just saying their major.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 08:58 AM
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It doesnt matter youll think everything over 120 is fat and everything under it is thin. women dont have heights, dummy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 08:53 AM
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you jelly or scurred
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 08:41 AM
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acromegacell
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 08:40 AM
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game me then. 6.5 men on here already have
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 08:38 AM
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ok but there's just words on here so use sexist ones
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 08:29 AM
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you got that Frankenstein monster mash height
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 08:28 AM
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read 8 words and no its not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 08:27 AM
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nom nom nom nom
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 08:26 AM
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vanilla midgets. vanilla midgets everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 08:25 AM
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All you have to do to have a Phd is not be mentally handicapped and study a certain amount
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 01:03 AM
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Anybody could have a Phd or be a millionare. And chose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 12:17 AM
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The men are talking to each other as if they are above women and have power over them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 12:13 AM
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No they are concerned about being tricked into not having the upper hand, having sex without the power or adoration they might otherwise expect
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 12:11 AM
1

Women don't really know what 6'0"+ means either, especially if they are under 5'7" themselves. Either way, people who have more buying power get something closer to ideal, they don't think of things in terms of "not worse than average" "good enough". Especially when they have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 11:10 PM
1

Close, but wrong. TRP is intended to give men the upper hand. Contrary to what many TRPers believe, women aren't reverse men who don't want to have the upper hand. Women aren't afraid of being "tricked" into thinking men are more attractive than they are. That isn't even a real thing. How can I be tricked into thinking men are more attractive than they are? Makes no sense, man. The truly devastating tricksters are the ENFP/ ISFP rake types whose song and dance is interpreted as a sign of long-te…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 11:07 PM
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What does that have to do with what I've said? And how many adult women do you think can actually maintain a BMI under 20? I'm not talking about a "not fat" weight. I am talking about an ideal, sexy weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 10:41 PM
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Yeah, exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 10:34 PM
1

In what universe is a BMI of 22 "thick"? You realize this is just like women who call men who are 5'10" short right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 09:52 PM
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Choosing beggars is filled 170 lb chicks demanding somebody 5'10" and fit because redditors for some reason don't realize that black guys exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 09:01 PM
1

I'm thinner than most women, how come I get more and better men when I'm fit and 110 as opposed vs 125 w/ exercise sporadic exercise?I'm smaller than almost all men at 125 why do they prefer me smaller than that? Why the fuck is one thing better than the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 08:47 PM
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That's a natural reaction for women to online dating. Because they get a bajillion responses. And only want a few good ones. Women are choosier online because they are choosers in real life and all online does is multiply their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 08:43 PM
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It's not that they cant enjoy normal women, it's that they can't enjoy normal sex acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 08:36 PM
1

cause you're sitting on it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 07:42 AM
1

then why you getting cozy? pass me a pillow boo boo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 07:39 AM
1

you trying for a cuddle?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 07:33 AM
1

I don't care what anybody says I think you are spectacular
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 07:27 AM
1

It's not the users themselves, it's just threads like this. it becomes as repetitive and personal as the incel threads used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 07:23 AM
1

Dude this comment is really making me think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 05:21 AM
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If that's their issue, youd think they would know more about divorce laws and shit. That being said, I agree some people are better off single and would be less happy in anything resembling a real life relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 05:18 AM
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You can be in a relationship and still be single at heart. This can be because you never stopped to consider whether you wanted to be single (due to social pressure) or you happen to be in a good relationship, you just figure you could have been happy if you were single as well. You can choose to be single (ie, GYOW), but still desire being in a romantic relationship. This could be because you have had bad experiences in the past, and have "given up" on finding someone. I thought a Harvard Phd w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 05:07 AM
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I admittedly scanned this article for 5 seconds. But since I'm lazy, explain to me the qualities of a "single at heart" person. If the only standard is "happier single", then MGTOWs and WGTOWs could still qualify as "single at heart"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 04:46 AM
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Looks like the first one provides suction and "pressure" on the clit rather than the conventional vibration. The second one isn't really masturbatory, those are meant for a hands free supplement during other sexual activity. Those dont really stay in place unless she is on top and placing her weight on it, straps are big and too giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 04:37 AM
2

You had me at bank
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 04:23 AM
2

Would you a consider dick implant? How does 16 inches sound? Because I'm a real woman and these are a real woman's thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:52 AM
1

The bio people can only do vanilla midget shit, I deserve better than that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:43 AM
1

Come come if we're lucky Skynet will have us on porn drips by then and we'll never have to even look at or talk to other hoomans
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:34 AM
1

I'm waiting for the blowjobs that need to be performed on broken glass shards. Groupon will offer glass removal services + butthole bleaching packages.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:19 AM
1

Super low
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:15 AM
1

I can't feel confident until women cry out "please daddy, cut me in half" anything less doesn't feel like enough of a credit to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:09 AM
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One time my aunt lied to me and said I was "gifted" with a limitless imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:07 AM
1

Those people used to be able to trick themselves into thinking penetrative sex was sufficiently degrading. Now in 10 years theyll need to watch CGI women get cut in half and have their guts fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:04 AM
1

Yeah the preference for big dicks is the worst thing that porn is doing to people's minds /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 02:59 AM
2

Why wouldn't a 30 year old be able to bang 25 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 02:26 AM
1

Because they want my lip gloss
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 02:22 AM
1

Why wouldn't people socialize?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 07:46 AM
1

No as a woman I think I am still driven to an extent by intrasexual competition and material security. However, if I never had to worry about attracting anybody I would probably do the bare minimum to prevent my teeth from falling out of my head or my smell from getting me fired. No more. I've decided to hit the wall recently and it's been great.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 07:38 AM
1

Only Chinese people buy "Lesus"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 06:05 AM
1

Why are only the men on here insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:25 PM
1

Cool story.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 08:03 PM
10

That's true. I was more thinking that people are conflating C level employees and/or jobs that require professional degrees with upper class. I think the men here are honest when they say men like that date hot bartenders, or even marry them. Or that many of those men don't really care that much about education or careers. I don't think this makes them "proles" either. But they aren't picturing waitresses with regional accents, boxed hair dye, crooked teeth. They are picturing the 25 year old ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 07:42 PM
1

definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 06:45 PM
1

I get drunk and mean. After I am forgiven for what I said. I don't understand the concept of make up sex. Sometimes after bad arguments we do feel closer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 06:32 PM
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I know women like this who wound up marrying older. 45 with a 65 year old guy, that sort of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 06:30 PM
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Like marries like. It's just "like" in this case can be the same class with very different careers. Plenty of middle class men go on to be doctors and lawyers and marry school teachers. I think this thread is confusing social class and career attainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 06:23 PM
1

yup
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 09:27 PM
6

I had several that could have counted as backups when I first started dating my husband. Now almost everybody worth anything is taken
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 03:46 AM
3

You can make other accounts for various characters you know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 02:05 AM
1

This place is filled with empathy-deficient men. Love for empathy-deficient men is entirely about ownership of a woman's body. For most men, it is only mostly about ownership of a woman's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 12:27 AM
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The women I have known have generally grown out this well before they became less attractive and while they were dating age mates who weren't at their attractiveness peak. Most of these girls were attractive, some were very attractive, some weren't attractive at all. The women who did not, had a particular set of personality traits, BDP might be too strong a diagnosis, but overall, the lack of stable identity and tendency to mold to those around them were defining features. These women were not …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 08:54 PM
2

I disagree. I think most women grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 08:30 PM
1

Sure. There's millions of people who do lots of everything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 08:08 PM
1

Lots of people. You new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 07:37 PM
1

If she isn't 16, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 07:35 PM
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You should be on the lookout for better people who are more committed under such circumstances. Nobody cares about 19 year olds who are "going steady" cheating on each other. And if somebody doesnt want to do this at 24 they don't love you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 06:38 PM
1

Cutters get more attention
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:42 PM
7

The real standard is cutting yourself and listening to Bright Eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:36 PM
3

Every teenage girl has BPD diagnosed or not and most of them grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:32 PM
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then type that in between commas or something
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 02:28 AM
2

Up your butt and around the corner
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 02:27 AM
1

Be careful what you wish for
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 10:20 PM
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Show me a picture of you and this chubby butterface please
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 10:16 PM
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Love that word, makes it sound so clessy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 09:54 PM
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"alas" is like "le sigh" + probably likes shit poetry. the women who use it are weird, the men who use it are weirder
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 09:49 PM
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All relationships where there arent explicit demonstrable and tangible forms of commitment are sort of open relationships, in a way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 09:10 PM
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Creep shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 09:05 PM
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Why are you making this about honesty and integrity and assuming I'm talking about myself. If you don't live with somebody, trying out another person and fucking once or twice before jumping twice isn't Cheating with a captal C. You don't even live together. You don't share a bank account. Dating is called dating for a reason, even if you say you're boyfriend/girlfriend a number of things need to happen before it's boyfriend with a capital B
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 09:02 PM
0

You got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 08:56 PM
1

Why are you asking me this? Why are you reacting this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 08:33 PM
1

Do you think most people do cold, objective analysis of their prospective partners in this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 08:30 PM
1

"You mean you got through decades of actually living life and did bad things?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 08:27 PM
1

That's common. The parallel dating part rarely goes on for long because its hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 08:22 PM
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They don't have to be negative, just intersting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:23 PM
2

Of course?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:21 PM
1

Why do you want to know why I want to see them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:19 PM
2

I never said they should be anything. I just said I wanted to see them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:18 PM
5

Women in their unmitigated state are serial monogamists who have opportunistic relationships with other men as well. There are number of indicators of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:16 PM
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^Get to the top of the page for being honest and because I want to see the shit smear that's about to happen underneath this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 06:57 PM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 06:49 PM
4

This seems like it should be a response to the main thread, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 06:49 PM
3

I know of two. One was a married woman and had an affair with a 21 year old direct report. The woman had 2 kids under preschool age. Obviously I don't believe the intention was to branch swing, lol. Her husband was working 80 hours and week and I don't think they were sexually active, so I assume it was a mixture of dissatisfaction and thrill. They are still together, and for the kids sake I hope it works out, if only for a few more years. I know another one who did this in the months leading up…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 06:45 PM
2

Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 06:38 PM
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Yeah I'm sick of hearing this and "you are reacting to the tone". I'm going to start compiling lists
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 06:38 PM
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Probably not that cartoonish or extreme but maybe. I don't even know how this plays out anymore either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 06:35 PM
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I am laughing a bit, because by 30 is when most women hit what we call the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 06:33 PM
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In large part women do that to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 06:29 PM
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You asked about my standard for one thing, I never expressed any interest in learning your standards for attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 06:21 PM
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Depends on the age. Before 25? Like 30%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 06:14 PM
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The women that catch his interest enough to remember/speculate about their personal details have more sex than the men in his peer group
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 05:47 PM
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More women than will ever admit don't experience that much sexual pleasure anyway. I have heard girl friends describe sexual experiences as "great" when they felt still had a chance with the guy at first and "terrible" when he eventually blows them off. Women who aren't fully formed have a very interdependent self-construal and most of sex for them is a performance designed to elicit desire, not experience pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 05:37 PM
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Yeah I'm just saying when I hear people saying all their partners cheated I assume they mean that person saddled up a new horse before getting it out of the stable. "Branch swinging" is a better term, not cheating. And branch swinging is what women who are 4s or better do, because they can and I can't see what's wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 05:30 PM
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In the abstract maybe, but in practice? From what I've seen not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 05:18 PM
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I disagree that only "low value" people cheat. At least in a non-marriage relationship. A lot of these guys seems to be hung up on their LDR cheating in college or whatever. Honestly, with a non live in "partner", the it's common to sleep with with the new one before officially and fully breaking up with them. When people call this a "betrayal" I find it pretty gay. That's just a breakup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 05:15 PM
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Well one thing I will say in favor of male cheating is this: While "I couldn't help myself" is a stupid excuse, I think "You weren't meeting my needs" is a worse one. Both lack accountability, but one assigns blame to another person. I think women are more likely to retroactively script their cheating as the man's fault. Men do that sometimes with regards to sexual frequency, but it seems less common than women saying the man was emotionally unavailable or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 05:09 PM
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Huh? If resources don't matter, why does it matter if you have 3 kids in the house and two of them arent yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 05:06 PM
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Is it worse for the relationship though, under this line of reasoning? If women cheat when they are no longer in love, then the cheating is in response to the relationship being "over" in her mind already. Her cheating didn't sever the emotional connection, it was severed already.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 05:02 PM
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If resources don't matter why does it matter if it's his kid or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 04:54 PM
1

Is a 45 year old woman cheating the same as a man cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 04:52 PM
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I agree with her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 03:39 AM
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No, I think women literally experience more feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 11:13 PM
2

That's interesting. And it makes sense. I wasn't really thinking "emergency" but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 11:00 PM
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Right. Also people seem to think that the extra money is going to frivolous "lifestyle" choices when it is wrapped up inexorably in how your life is set up. I love how this is posed like the woman was being wined and dined and now won't eat pizza. Say you leave your husband and keep the house. That mortgage was based on certain family income, you might not be swinging it with somebody who makes half as much. Oh sure you can move, but then you might have to move 30 more miles from work and thus h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 10:55 PM
1

I don't think that day to day women can't think critically like men can. But I do think in high stress situations or when thoughts and feelings collide women on average skew more towards feelings. I don't think women are "irrational" in an overall way. As far as controlling their emotions I think women just experience feelings in more expansive and all encompassing way. I think this is innate and physiological and it doesn't even always impact personality as much as you'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 10:33 PM
4

This is an great list. Thank you for taking the time to type this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 10:27 PM
1

Red Pill does a poor job of describing the inner world of women and is hypocritical in its distribution of moral outrage. I find it to be accurate when describing the SMP as a whole, but a lot of the prescriptive advice seems off, particularly with regards to marriages and LTRs. The rhetoric of the community has evolved as the readership has. Most of this stuff used to be limited a handful of verbal type nerds in the blogosphere. I suspect a high percentage of red pill leadership at this junctur…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 09:55 PM
3

and is more top heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 07:23 PM
2

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 07:18 PM
2

read my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 07:17 PM
1

put me in your mouth and don't over think it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 06:11 PM
1

Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 04:58 AM
1

so.... you're one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 04:17 AM
1

You know who they are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 04:15 AM
1

But it is always them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 04:11 AM
1

Because you like sweet sauce
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 01:04 AM
1

I thought we were having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 12:56 AM
1

You sound like you like Olive Garden sauce fam. You use tomato paste?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 12:54 AM
1

My way is right. Get better tomatoes. If you want sweet sauce go to Olive Garden and put 4 oz of cheese over the whole thing :P
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 12:48 AM
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I have never seen anybody use carrots or celery. Or most of this extraneous shit. Especially sweetening sauce. GTFO get better tomatoes sauce doesn't need to be sweetened
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 12:40 AM
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I have been cooking tomato sauce since I was about 8 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 12:26 AM
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Thank you, I thought I was going crazy. I bet they use tomato paste too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 12:10 AM
1

Would you say this flaw is intangible, kind of like the girl in link?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 10:16 PM
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The only reason to cut yourself is for the attention
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 10:13 PM
1

I don't think a bland personality is a big problem. People say it is, but it isn't especially for women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 10:10 PM
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I'm saying people don't stand back and do some SWOT analysis of their prospective partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 10:09 PM
1

That's a great example
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 10:08 PM
1

Describe a typical problem
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 09:59 PM
1

That's true your garden variety dick still can be good with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 09:50 PM
2

Hard to explain. Perhaps a bit more controlling and less likely to love me the way I need to be loved. I'm not talking like 5 years older, which was normal. I've always had the liberty of being more circumspect with men than they are with me. Perhaps my nature is so apparent and forward I eliminate those who wouldn't be that interested without realizing it. Either way, people talk about things in the abstract, but things don't always play out that way in real life. It could be men think as ratio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 09:48 PM
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Nobody ever looked at me that closely, I wish I could tell you it worked like that but it didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 09:11 PM
2

I was mostly responding to your scenario about student debt. I just joked that she better have a stellar personality and platinum pussy (i.e. not a bitch and cute enough), because not that many men these days are eager to pay for a girlfriend (i.e. she's not even attempting to pay for it herself). Rationally I am inclined to think this is broadly true, but in my personal experience it's not. That's my solipsism I suppose. I feel like subtle things matter more than finances. Like if I'm leap frog…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 09:05 PM
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I'm sure plenty do care, but it's not like enough care to create problems for poor women. Pickins are still pretty good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 08:54 PM
1

troo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 08:33 PM
1

Right. But like fiat touched on, the latter is actually harder to overcome, because it's "who you are" or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 08:29 PM
1

Yeah, that is a mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 08:16 PM
1

That this conversation is more semantic. I don't think of a mental problem like low self esteem as a self-contained problem. I liked your points
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 08:12 PM
2

Consider planes arent falling out of the sky I assume the internet is still working.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 08:10 PM
2

This is why my kids are going to be forced to eat real food. My nephew eats fried smelts and raw oysters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 08:07 PM
3

You didnt make puttanesca then. You made some weird mid west wonder bread shit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 08:05 PM
1

They go in sauce though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 08:03 PM
1

You can. Why would you? Use some drained anchovies. Stop putting weird shit in sauce
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 08:02 PM
1

Knew what? I use mirepoix base all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 08:00 PM
1

oh ok, so potato
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 08:00 PM
1

You sound like the type of person you learned cooking late in life and uses food network recipes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 07:56 PM
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It should taste like quality tomatoes and subtly like other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 07:54 PM
1

tomato, potato
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 07:54 PM
1

Yeah, stop putting weird shit in sauce
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 07:51 PM
1

That's a good point. But it dont know if low self esteem and that type of obsessiveness counts as a "small" or "discrete" flaw. I get what you're saying though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 07:51 PM
1

Huh? Mirepoix contains celery
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 07:48 PM
1

I never thought about most of this stuff for more than 2 seconds. I am a very good cook though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 07:45 PM
2

It means what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 07:42 PM
1

Shes charmless and weird
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 07:39 PM
1

That's true. Have you ever met anybody like this and couldn't tell them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 07:39 PM
1

That's why I provided an example
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 07:38 PM
1

I don't think we can, I just wonder if there usually is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 07:36 PM
2

I am 30 and my nips sit 1.245 centimeters below where they used to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 06:57 PM
1

Will they offer to move you into their house and have all sorts of plans set up without your knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 06:40 PM
1

No they wanted to love me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 06:24 PM
1

I basically freeloaded for years and men even tried to poach me. I don't believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 06:09 PM
1

You're going to get a fair amount of non grad/ "Eastern State Aspen County College" graduates who think 35k student debt is the worst thing in the world. But for the most part, men don't care about this shit. I don't know why you think men care about this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 05:32 PM
2

Sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 04:52 AM
1

Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 01:40 AM
1

I was thinking about doing that. Did you buy one of those kits or rig something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 01:34 AM
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[This is about 2/3 of the recruiters I have been talking to lately. (https://youtu.be/nYscs78R5Fs?t=17)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 01:32 AM
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Yeah I thought it was very "slice of life sundance short". Not really provocative or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 12:06 AM
2

LOL this thread omg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 10:55 PM
1

oh with the mattress and the ceiling stars? I misread. Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:43 PM
1

4 year age difference and buying her drinks. so crazy /s sure he's a dick at the end the whole point is to be a special of life dark humor story nobody here is "innocent" but nobody is "bad" either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:14 PM
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it doesn't seem like she found him deeply unattractive. at least not during their texting and flirting. she was just a wishy washy girl and the passion didn't materialize in response to his bad love making. the whole story was just so mundane I don't know why anybody cares
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 08:46 PM
1

I don't think you understand me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 08:25 PM
3

I hate that some people get weird when you make faces at their kid on the train. especially asians. let me get a smile out of that baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 08:09 PM
2

I chat with strangers all the time and find myself reflexively smiling at people who have open posture or smile at me, especially if they are attractive but not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 08:01 PM
1

Do you mean white black and hispanic men in first world countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 07:57 PM
1

she sounds unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 07:33 AM
1

Ask me about girl game
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 06:28 AM
1

Not necessarily. You're not effeminate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 03:21 AM
2

YASS KWEEN YASS
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 02:53 AM
1

No I love that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 02:40 AM
2

hear hear
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 11:27 PM
1

love your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 11:26 PM
1

I don't believe anything really. What is wrong with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 09:18 PM
1

He clearly thinks he is well liked but he is unlikable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 08:28 PM
1

I believe there is truth in what he is saying. But I don't think he is half as well liked and respected as he thinks he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 06:23 PM
1

You know there was a time in which most people didnt work for money. And that time, was most of time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 12:01 AM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 11:45 PM
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I don't agree that working or having sex is a "masculine" trait. In a vacuum I believe the median woman to be harder working than the median man. I think all the mitochondrial DNA floating around in the extant homo sapien population belonged to females, after the arrival of sexual reproduction, who FUCKED
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 11:40 PM
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I like you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 09:43 PM
2

Show me where I said it lost all negative connotations creep-shaming is far more socially damning than slut shaming. Which honestly makes some sense. This wasn't always the case and if you want it differently grow some balls and proclaim your creepiness to the world and show you are immune to the creep shaming like sex posi women do with regards slut shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 08:19 PM
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Why would that bother me? I'm not some neurotic weirdo. If people have a bad perception of me I cut ties with them so I needn't worry what they think
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 08:09 PM
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Women combated slut shaming as a SOCIAL problem through SOCIAL means without any edict. They co-opted the word slut like black people co-opted the word nigger and began calling each other as such in casual conversation. They stepped out and said how proud they were to be sluts. They slutted it up all over the place. If you feel the same way about "creep shaming" maybe you should have the fucking balls to step out and proclaim yourself a proud creep on social media and wait for other men to follo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 08:07 PM
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Right but if you grab my ass, and I say "Don't grab my ass, creep!" I will still tell other people you grabbed my ass. I set a boundary, this doesn't prohibit me from saying you passed that boundary before I stated and enforced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 08:01 PM
1

Why would anybody care if you're "justified"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 07:55 PM
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Nobody is saying these women are cryng themselves to sleep. They are just telling other people what happened as read from their brain book
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 07:53 PM
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The will absolutely care about "date rape". But I don't think anybody gives a flying fuck about the dude trying to grab your even though you didn't want him to. I have had some crazy friends who said this happened to them more than once but after they didn't report the first couple of "rapes" nobody cared to listen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 07:51 PM
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I'm trying to make an moral/ethical argument (rather than a legal one) about trafficking in gossip. If it can happen to you, it can happen to me. This already happens to everybody all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 07:48 PM
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A man can absolutely think an advanced is wanted and experience an event through that lens. A woman can not want said advance and experience it in another way. We are not talking about false rape accusations were are talking about something much more subjective and less severe than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 07:42 PM
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What evidence could somebody provide that another made an uncomfortable advance on them? If this evidence exist, beleive me it's shared. I've seen emails and text messages where are cause laughs so hard they turn into belly aches. But these don't always exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 07:41 PM
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No, in her experience, through her eye holes into her brain dome that has it's own inner world with it's own weather and it's own rules, and is telling itself it's own story, that man IS creepy and that man did VIOLATE her in some fashion. Thus she makes mouth sounds that vibrate into the other hoomans ear holes in order to tell them the story that happened in her brain book. A man and a woman can have two totally different experiences and perceive the same happening in the same way. This woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 07:34 PM
1

Saying bad things about other is not an absolute evil. It can actually be a great courtesy to all the other people around said person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 07:21 PM
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What if the woman perceives the man as having violated her, even if he does no feel this to be the case? You would recommend that she not relay and process these feelings with other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 07:19 PM
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Demand a higher standard of evidence before we brand a guy a creep. How does this apply to gossiping and shaming? How could this even been enforced? A lot of sexual smearing against both men and women could be mitigated if we all just learned to mind our own business and stop putting so much stock in gossip which invariably is serving somebody's agenda. This is, has always been, and probably always will be, the primary means of women executing power. It is innately feminine behavior that isn't g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 07:13 PM
1

What do you think we should do about "creep-shaming"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 07:06 PM
1

There is nothing "society" can do about individual people who might say bad things about you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 07:02 PM
1

How is a reddit post comparable to a report for work
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 06:54 PM
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I have not seen this playing out in any way IRL where actual consequences are likely. Women will call men who make unwanted advances creepy. Outside of a closed peer group like a school or a work place this matters not one iota. Anybody who fears being seen as creepy to the point where it inhibits normal social behavior probably also has a number of social fears. I have never seen or heard of anybody being legally pursued or fired over making somebody uncomfortable or even touching them at the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 06:41 PM
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I wasn't telling people what to do. I don't care what people do. I was descibin a typical scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 03:45 PM
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I would have banged all the interns in the office if not for those harpies in HR whose only job is to be mean and not like cut my paychecks or find me on linkedin or anything. This whole fempire is literally the only reason I can't pick up chicks at work. Or on the subway. Or at music festivals. Or
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 12:33 AM
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We got her back but now I'm thinking of gas lighting my husband into thinking it isn't really our cat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 06:29 PM
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we got her back last night. she was in everybody's back yards and once it was night and not raining she was running around. we were getting texts left and right and our neighbor sent her son after the cat. we eventually found her directly across from us on the roof looking like nothing happened. cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 05:50 PM
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You think Time lost credibility recently? Who do you think still reads Time?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 12:03 AM
1

Has anybody here ever held a fucking job before?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 12:02 AM
1

There was a cute one at the shelter this afternoon do you think if I adopt him, it will dread game my cat?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 11:40 PM
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I lost my cat :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 08:18 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=si03x9apLFU
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 05:53 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 07:06 PM
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Not necessarily better. In some ways worse. I'm not trying to sell you on marriage. I can't in good faith tell you things improve in some tangible way just because of marriage. Things do change as your level of investment increases though, if I said otherwise I would be lying. I assume you're really young. I didn't think about marriage at all when I was growing up. The idea of being inhibited or trapped is deeply uncomfortable for me too. But chances are one day things will change, not some fund…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 07:02 PM
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If you keep going it tickles, give me another 5 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 06:45 PM
2

I know you're tempering your compliment deliberately and through my narcissism filter you just gave me a big sloppy blowjob and loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 06:40 PM
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I might pretend otherwise, but I love it when people talk about me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 06:25 PM
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I think so highly of myself I am struggling to see how it's a trap. In all seriousness having the subtle weight of forever can be productive. I am not submissive but here's a better analogy: You don't treat a hotel room the same as you treat your apartment. You fuck all over the hotel room and when the lamp kind of breaks because you were sitting on the nightstand for some weird reason you turn it around so they can't see where it broke. You don't care for a rental as much as a home you own. Whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 06:23 PM
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100s of cat lady condos i showed people as a realtor. They have a shuttle bus to the theater though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 06:13 PM
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Well, I couldn't be with a man who needs to feel like he has power over me to that extent. Basically, this is what happens. While I am not the "feeler" in the relationship, I am more emotional for biological, immutable reasons. I can be psychologically irate and yet my body makes me cry, for example. My husband can be moved by sad movies more than I can but I have actually seen tears fall out of his face a handful of times over the course of a decade. My mood changes much more rapidly than his a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 06:06 PM
1

This would be better if you asked them about another man doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 05:50 PM
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Maybe I should do a post about it. It's like there are actually two relationships happening, not just one. MRP is a pretty good illustration. Some of these men start becoming more invested in their relationship when they feel they have control, and the woman is not experiencing this as investment, but as divestment and emotional unavailability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 05:48 PM
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What happens is when you think about being with somebody forever it changes context. you subconsciously measure the weight of a particular event against forever. will this matter in 10 years? is this worth forfeiting the forever we're trying to build? etc. that's not to say you'll just let everything go, but it becomes more important to be productive in your communication because you aren't really learning about each other anymore you're building something
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 04:43 PM
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it is interesting to think of sadism and masochism in a non sexual context. I do find myself thinking in a sadistic manner but I'm not sure if people who possess this as a native trait benefit from cultivating it. I'm not inclined to fear or flee from such thoughts or feel ashamed of them. but generally they stem from a feeling of powerlessness, but paradoxically if they are over indulged they actually perpetuate the feeling of powerlessness. thoughts are like muscle that can get stronger when y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 04:22 PM
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I agree. it's so alien I can't conceptualize it as anything but disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 04:16 PM
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I don't know what love properly means in this context but I do know I decide what constitutes me loving properly, not other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 03:54 PM
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I understand. I am saying I would not internally experience female submission as described by red pill unless that choice is taken from me or my ego was bascially broken down and rearticulated. this was never a natural inclination of mine and I was not socialized that way during my formative years. I can see the value and stability in socializing girls this way in the past. I think women are more easily socialized in general but I'm not convinced red pill nonsexual submission is a native persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 03:43 PM
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lol. I can't tell you because the whole thing is too paradoxical. I just hate how these conversations slide into nothingness when we don't use concept correctly. the more I read I think it has to do with how the man feels than anybody's behavior in practice. so when you describe admiration for your husband that is taken to mean submission. because men don't always mean actual submission, they mean how they feel about the idea of being the center of the story or the leader. I'm not convinced most…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 03:34 PM
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that's exactly how I feel. my fantasies as a girl always put me in the center, as either a hero or villain. there was never an innate inclination in me to be a help meet. it was never an organically occurring thought. red pill overall right about larger concepts but fails to describe my inner world in any way. like they couldn't be more wrong if they tried. it's so wrong I assume they aren't even trying to be accurate, they're just saying what they want to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 02:57 PM
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I was talking about this poster and his intention
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 02:51 PM
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Why are you saying this to me here, especially in the context of this conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 02:44 PM
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kind of yeah. the concept of submission under red pill is closer to the concept of masochism than the way you are describing. it's not sexual masochism, but it's still kind of close in some ways. the way submission is used in the context of this corner of the Internet precludes mutual submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 02:03 PM
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any reasonable person is going to agree with statements like that. the issue I see is that in the pillosphere submission means a specific, heirarchical thing, but this is constantly subjected to obsfucation when it suits the argument. obviously you have to yield to your partner some of the time. but if that's what submission is than the word doesn't mean much of anything other than don't be bossy and disagreeable. for the purposes of this thread it's cleaner to address the concept exactly as it …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 01:54 PM
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that's a good question. marriage is beneficial for economic reasons and family formation. I didn't really care about it that much but circumstances unrelated to the "wall" in that frame of time made me realize time is finite and how important family is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 01:13 PM
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Solitary confinement, sleep deprivation, and other torture would probably give me stockholm syndrome eventually. This is the main problem I always had with red pill. I literally cannot conceptualize how a fully formed person can willingly submit to another unless they are made to. I don't trust anybody who tells me this is natural, healthy, or "moral" for me. Everything about it is wrong. And not politically wrong. Instinctively, intuitively wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 12:51 PM
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You would know
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 04:57 AM
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Yeah maybe just cut this down to something smaller and more manageable, I don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 02:13 AM
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All that matters is if you're inspired
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 02:02 AM
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Samwise managed to find One-eyed Willy's gold with a SEVERE case of asthma and he carried Frodo's bitchass to the top of that mountain. AND he played for Notre Dame that one time to one of the best soundtracks of all time. So....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 01:49 AM
1

Why can't boys with asthma play sports
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 01:40 AM
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Well school size can affect how many kids you have access to. I'm just trying to figure out the extent of what you mean. There were some differences between how my brothers and I were raised but I don't know how much of this was a conscious decision
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 01:39 AM
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Where and when did you grow up? Did you go to a small school?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 01:17 AM
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Idk what you mean about “prepare her to be a good mother” what exactly does that entail? How do you go around “grooming kids” for that? Encourage her to baby sit on the side? Babysitting tends to be dictated more by birth order. Also, babysitting is pretty rare for non related people nowadays. And when it happens the babysitter is expected to be like college age, not 14. It's unfortunate but many people find it too risky. I don't know how OP intends to realize this IRL. As far as domestic tasks …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 12:59 AM
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While most parents eventually want to see their children form families and produce grandchildren, I have a hard time picturing the type of parent who would chose family formation over self-sufficiency training in their young girls. This seems fringe even among the traditional segments of society, like an FLDS church thing not even an evangelical thing. And while a traditional father is going to be more protective of his daughter's dating and cavalier about his son's, I have a hard time picturing…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 12:39 AM
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I agree but I think it can be great for girls too. For example I think having self-directed sensory experiences with one's body can mitigate body image issues and help a girl relate to her health and fitness is away that isn't spectatoring or seeing oneself through another's eyes. I encourage other women I know to lift because it gives you explicit benchmarks of improvement other than your weight, which comes with lot of emotional baggage attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 12:32 AM
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TRP often aims to address much more mild forms of behavior and the unnecessary guilt or shame that can follow. For example, some men who can be manipulated by women who treat them badly but have mental health issues or threaten self harm. Or believe embellishing their accomplishments and social status in order to seduce women for the short term is bad. Such men can benefit from learning they are not obligated to people this way. I agree that they jerk each other off about Machiavellian and shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 12:11 AM
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Somebody who went to college in the 90s and has no work experience probably isn't going to have the computer literacy to do this job. I was admin for most of my 20s and managed other admins. It's not just how many WPM, if you can't use software well and have the type of fluency to take care of new tasks you can't be effective. In this respect young people are a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 11:49 PM
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I can't agree or disagree because this is too vague. But I'm going to assume the "gender grooming" for girls is incompatible with autonomy and success in the modern world, which virtually no parents would want and thus won't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 11:38 PM
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Mine was about 15k full time per year. Between my husband and I was still working even without kids it was extremely hard. My assumption is if there is no semi-related work experience it would be more advisable for most of these SAHM to go into an 18 month trade program like dental assistant or ultra sound technician where they will be guaranteed a job and the hours are flexible. Nobody wants to hire a 32 year old with no experience who'll leave early every time their kid has an ear infection fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 08:17 PM
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Full time child care for 2 kids will gobble up the post tax income from a middle paying job. I still intend to do it because I have another 40 years of work in me and I don't want to interrupt that. But for a couple of years it will be a wash in the short term
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 08:06 PM
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They are thinking of something like coding which you can sometimes get hired for if you have a portfolio of work or get tested on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 08:04 PM
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Mine is costs the same per credit hour as the brick and mortar school, I just dont have a couple of facility fees or room and board.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 08:03 PM
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Sure. During the mid century that house with a white picket fence was the American Dream. People have a very idealized view of that period of time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 07:41 PM
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The wages are a big thing but I don't think people realize how much consumption has changed too. When I lived in older industrial areas, the old 1200 sq ft houses that surrounded the shut down factories were for "poor" people. These areas weren't even unsafe in the 90s and these houses still sell for like 100-120k. Something you can afford with one income, as many single mothers do now. If your parents had white collar jobs, however, you lived in 2000sq ft split levels surrounding these areas, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 07:35 PM
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Mine lived in track housing with the pink stove and everything, and my grandmother still worked as a hair dresser or bank teller whenever it was possible because there was no reason not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 07:01 PM
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14
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 10:24 AM
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I have a cavity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 09:22 AM
1

Would it mean one flavor isn't sour?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 09:12 AM
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If I said that lemon warheads arent as sour as the black cherry warheads what would you take that to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 08:59 AM
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Piqued everybody's interest swoon enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 05:55 AM
1

I replied to you but he was looking at that comment right when I left it. Look at the time stamps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 05:52 AM
1

Who has ever said women don't care about looks except moms to their ugly little boys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 05:35 AM
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:'(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 05:34 AM
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I dont think anything can be done. The only tenable solutions involve helping the collective, not these men. We can't really artificially place women below men and make them dependent on men any more, given that birth control and the current economic set up isn't going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 03:19 AM
1

This subreddit is 90% the /r/iamverysmart version or /r/okcupid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 03:04 AM
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I have plenty of flaws but I believe there are basically no ugly women, at least while young. There are lazy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 03:01 AM
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I'm not sure they do. IRL people use the terms facetiously if at all so how they're used is kind of useless ehre
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:59 AM
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Only you can answer that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:57 AM
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No. Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/7dp96u/normalizing_standards_statusbehaviourcharacter/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:54 AM
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Yes, I bet after 30 they are completely gone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:53 AM
1

Your system is useless because one of the categories is basically nonexistent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:52 AM
1

Not in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:50 AM
1

Then by that standard you are correct. Too bad nobody uses your standard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:46 AM
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Unless they fall in love with a woman whilst young and are more interested in retaining her than spreading their seed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:43 AM
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It does. It's just a weird standard. I like /u/fiatlux system better to address "innate" preferences. XXA and XXB. An ABB man probably won't cheat even though he can, for example
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:42 AM
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Sure, and they can fantasize about the other thousands of people they meet in the course of life too. Plenty of men who settle down could continue to spin plates into old age and they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:38 AM
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No man would only have sex with one woman forever and ever in a vacuum, in their fantasies, etc. I don't believe women would either. But we don't live in a vacuum, or in a fantasy. That is a preposterous standard to hold anybody to, especially men, including beta men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:35 AM
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Sold
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:33 AM
1

What does that offer me though? You got drugs? Connections to the best parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:28 AM
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Beta men are men who are not interested in casual sex or having multiple women. Eh. Like in a fantasy world or in the real world where options are limited and people make compromises? You could argue many women could be like this (to a lesser extent) as well but they aren't. They want one woman to build a family with, and they value aspects of the relationship beyond sex. They are willing to compromise and even defer to their partner's wishes. They rarely end a relationship. They see women as eq…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:27 AM
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I never said traditional marriages were slave master relationships. I have always argued against that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 02:13 AM
1

I cant really use recipes, but thanks I wouldnt be too worried those shits will last for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 01:34 AM
1

roasted butternut squash lasagna Oh man I love doing different lasagnas. I do so many different types. My fave is portobello mushroom and gruyere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 01:23 AM
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In all seriousness, this is a bad place to be sad, at least if you're sober. Hope you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 01:12 AM
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Thank you, it does make me feel better. Men are so intimidating to me I love when they feel bad about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 01:04 AM
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I recently looked at something on craigslist there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 12:49 AM
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True, but those are still things. I never said it has to be traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 12:25 AM
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You better not wear my clothes though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 12:24 AM
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Yeah I dont get the salad tossing thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 12:23 AM
2

fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 12:03 AM
6

it might not be much but you are listing some of things that women actually look for in a husband so you're ahead of 80% of the men in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 11:39 PM
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Oh sure. If he is good looking (I dont know how old he is) I would totally "go on adventures" with him in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 11:12 PM
1

Thank you for actually answering. If I was younger and nerdier I'd be interested. Good mix of boyfriend and husband traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 11:10 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OXyH1XkQo44
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 11:06 PM
3

So you think men handle power benevolently?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 11:00 PM
3

Do you expect any person to respond to power differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:57 PM
3

I take it that's how you talk to your Gorean girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:56 PM
5

So women are at fault for rising up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:55 PM
2

I dont think that means what you think it means
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:54 PM
4

How did women rob you of value?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:49 PM
3

Is demanding more than next to nothing really that unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:46 PM
3

What value do modern men have?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:44 PM
2

Troo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:36 PM
7

And then stew about all the porn sex with sane women they are allegedly forfeiting to be with their wife
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:34 PM
5

So he "doesn't need your money". Apparently "mooching" is standard he's exceeded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:16 PM
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As somebody who can fuck aggressively and contemptuously I absolutely think developing a pavlovian response to sexual release in this manner exclusively can make somebody incapable of connecting with a partner in an intimate manner. Maybe this is my bias as a woman but I think if somebody's intimate relations are entirely about relegating the partner to the object of sadism it will wear down their down the perception of this person. The male ownership without empathy is basically concubinage, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:03 PM
9

Is this supposed to be a selling point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 09:34 PM
1

This is a thoughtful response that is introspective and you're not even overselling it. Would you pick up a Nordic track for me in Sewell, NJ though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 09:33 PM
1

Deal. You got venmo?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 09:00 PM
4

Why would you assume that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 08:59 PM
1

tampoco una mujer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 08:56 PM
6

No but if he ever refuses to go to your parents house you can pick him up and throw him in the trunk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 08:53 PM
1

Say esperé porque no te quize interrumpir
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 08:51 PM
11

The question wasn't about me, it was about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 08:48 PM
1

I heard you won the 2010 winter olympics for tongue curling. Why do you think I want stoic man? Do you think other men consider being a stoic a good quality? Do you think a man in 1780s Versailles needed to be stoic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 08:47 PM
1

You are actually very funny and you can cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 08:41 PM
1

But if I wasn't. This is hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 08:37 PM
1

For him, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 08:19 PM
1

Traditional when and where? For example, in an many extended family systems, the hierarchy women submitted to was often the husband's mother. Husband and wife had little to do with one another. In highly religious communities, a woman may be expected to rat on or leave her husband if he violated some of the more important rules, rather than be excommunicated. Submitting to sodomy or other sexual demands not required for procreated was never traditionally expected of wives. In some patriarchal cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 08:08 PM
5

Have you tried bringing this up to real life friends rather than measuring "support" based on clicks and messages it takes 4 seconds to write
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 07:14 PM
1

Hey, did you know that the crime rate is actually kind of high in places like Cleveland and Cinncinati. And, this is in spite of the low walk scores and lack of pedestrians and public transportation?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 12:43 AM
1

You don't have any hot cousins you barely saw growing up? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 12:14 AM
1

They were not "kissing cousins", so to speak. They often only knew each other from events and what not. Especially if they were related through a brother and sister or sister and sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 12:11 AM
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Yes Very rarely. I used to party with some muslim international students in college. The Saudis were often married to their cousins in their early 20s, these girls were in college in other cities, these new marriages were often not yet consummated. The middle easterners that weren't like the medieval version of nobility had somewhat normal dating lives but except for the fact that girls were expected not be alone with guys. Dating non muslims was a no-no for girls but was passively accepted for …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 12:03 AM
2

Prior to hoardable resources, do you think many 50 year old men were the top of their social group? Like, I get the bowflex guy is "in the best shape of his life" but let's get real, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 11:29 PM
1

Same reason you don't talk negatively about previous employers or lie about being dismissed from a job in the past when in an interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 11:26 PM
1

Ever watch Spike?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 11:26 PM
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Does the word cunt offend you more than people explicitly assigning all these qualities or roles to your gender (edit: or sexuality or whatever) that you don't want? I'm being serious by the way. There are so many things I could find much more deeply insulting than words on here every day. By latching onto the language I'm inclined to think you're trying to find traction against specific users.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 11:25 PM
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What a stupid thing to get mad about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 08:15 PM
2

If you have to drive to errands or work you probably don't live in the "city".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 07:06 PM
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Is this done on anything objective like facial symmetry or based on subjective assessments of men and women? Obviously in terms of heterosexuality, men are more attracted to the opposite sex especially visually. I don't see how anybody who doesn't live under a rock could disagree with that. How we assess and compliment people in non-sexual terms is obviously going to be influenced in large part with what is expected of us socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 06:26 PM
1

I don't know why these people don't get. Even taking the subway through the nicest parts of town there are concourses and other spots that somebody would rob or assault you. I had a man try to grab my shit underneath a skyscraper in a financial district not long ago. These people live small lives so I wouldn't be too concerned. I'm sorry that happened to you. Anyway, have you thought about buying a gun?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 06:10 PM
1

You don't know ANYBODY who has EVER been robbed?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 06:05 PM
1

Maybe I wouldnt know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 09:36 PM
1

This has nothing to do with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 09:17 PM
1

Your dad sounds cool
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 08:58 PM
1

If she is making 60k in the northeast she isn't going to be making 60k in those areas. Also, those are places to retire. If you're accustomed to living a certain way you don't probably dont want to move to such places. People at like dumb everyday shit is exotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 08:47 PM
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My father was more interested in me knowing myself and not doing things because I was pressured to, as well as taking accountability. Then again, according to the descriptions on here, I wasn't raised like a girl "should" be raised, so maybe that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 08:38 PM
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No my father wasn't like that at all. He let me sleep over boy's houses and put me on birth control. He understood I was going to be sexually active but he did have conversations with me about bad situations or knowing myself, my body, etc. My dad was more concerned with my grades and my driving safety than preventing my sexual or romantic life. To be fair if I had brought home older men or bad boys he would have cared. One time I was hanging out with my 23 year old manager (who had pot) but was…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 08:00 PM
3

op
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 07:54 PM
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I'm still young enough to find somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 06:55 PM
2

stop reading stuff I didnt write
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 06:48 PM
1

hAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 06:47 PM
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He's 250. I hope he's tall
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:47 AM
1

You don't know until you try
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:43 AM
3

I once wrote a paper on how I admired Hitler and got an A. Jut for the exercise. I don't remember college being like how you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:39 AM
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Why are you writing your wife's papers? What type of school is this that all this correspondence is happening via email?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:26 AM
1

Do you think 50 year old men with 20 year old women is a "natural" dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:25 AM
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Honestly if that were my brother at 50 I would be worried that he is being used. I think he and other men would know what I know but still be holding on to hope that it's "real"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:24 AM
1

That's true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:15 AM
2

I got thrown out of franks twice but it was because the bouncer was trying to AMOG and I just can't even
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:11 AM
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I don't think it relies upon college education. People on the coasts, even non "SJWs" are like this to varying degrees even if they aren't educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:10 AM
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Shows are always weird like that. Ever notice people are always wearing shoes? Almost never in lounge pants at dinner time?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:08 AM
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It does tend to go in the opposite direction when it comes to other things. Gin brought up a great example in terms of grooming. I can see people arguing over parking in nice parts of Philly and it would never occur to me this is "trashy" or they'd actually get into a physical fight. last week I was describing going to a dive bar and it didn't even occur to posters that young professionals love such places only semi-ironically. It's like they thought it was a Route 66 biker bar out of a movie or…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 02:07 AM
3

So you assign some moral weight to abstinence. Do people around you who are educated share this belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 01:56 AM
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Below a certain age it is (rightfully) assumed there is an element of exploitation or power seeking. This is the quality that is incompatible with current liberal ethics, not the attraction. Also people thinking it's gross isn't shaming. It is somebody briefly imaging the sexuality of the couple or from the perspective of the younger woman. When I see some of these parings I imagine being sexual with one of these guys in my prime, and it feels gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 01:44 AM
3

If somebody is using birth control how are they being irresponsible?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 01:38 AM
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What type of irresponsibility? Can't birth control fail sometimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 01:31 AM
2

Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:56 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:44 AM
2

No I'm more talking about crushing on guys and eventually making the first move. It happens, it's just riskier for women. Depending on the guy he will bang you a few times or even enter into a short term relationship he isn't really devoted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:29 AM
2

Yeah, you go with your grandma basically
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:22 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:22 AM
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It's common, I just think there is some wisdom in telling women to make men chase them. Women who put themselves out their will have those feelings taken advantage of sexually. Men who admit feelings don't have as much to lose. If his behavior doesn't change the friendship will continue and it's not like shes going to start pretending to date him when he isnt that into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:21 AM
1

Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:18 AM
1

Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:15 AM
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Because who the Hell in their right mind wants to have an LTR with a woman that almost every man wants to ONS? If you are looking for the woman who men DONT want to ONS you're going to have to dig around in the garbage. Also, you don't seem to think very much of yourself if you find this is that intimidating to you. I'll be glad to know your opinion on crucial advantages of LTRs with hot women. Sex is better? - Okay's that's probably one (although I'm skeptical; skill and dedication go a long wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:51 PM
5

this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:45 PM
1

But you could just hire a prostitute!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:44 PM
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Can we give MGTOWs their town flairs or something? Also, these "prove to me women are worth it" posts are getting as persistent as the incels posts. I get that the posters less volatile, but the way the conversations go is fundamentally the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:41 PM
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Oh, this is a MGTOW sell me on women post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:39 PM
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As hot, for starters
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:37 PM
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YUP
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:31 PM
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You have it backwards. Average men you've described will never be reliably approached by women as good as the ones they could win by pursuing. Most women are highly reactive sexually. They don't even consider dating men until they sexualize their interactions with her and demonstrate desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:28 PM
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This is pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:18 PM
2

They are also sacrificing what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:16 PM
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Men aren't being selfish in these societies. Men crave more than one woman. You are literally calling men making concessions towards one another selfish. I have no idea why
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:14 PM
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I don't see how it's related and I don't find it logical
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:11 PM
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Because I see no logical reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:10 PM
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I'm saying its a double standard, like OP requested
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:08 PM
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I never said anything about it being bad. How does what you've said reveal that it doesn't matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:04 PM
2

ok. Again, how does this relate to what I'm saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 10:59 PM
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How is compromising not being at least a little less selfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 10:56 PM
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Work sucks but I don't really care about nipples showing otherwise. I miss when I was thin and I could go braless with certain clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 10:50 PM
1

It probably hurts your chances to wait until later more if you live in an area where other people don't wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 10:12 PM
2

The PPD community is shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 09:50 PM
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It definitely is, I agree. But these women would rather remain single than move outside the city or date down. The problem I see that is that men seem to take these New Yorker clickbait type articles and apply them to the SMP everywhere. It's exactly what I'm describing in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 08:43 PM
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I'm going to use the abortion thing as a litmus test, it's perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 08:32 PM
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Right. All of this is revealing differences between people of comparable SMVs, social class, but very different upbringings and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 08:27 PM
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I think these women might be middle class but just from a different area. Some people here seem to live in places where middle class women go to church weekly and marry at 23. Or getting an abortion is more shameful than NOT getting one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 08:18 PM
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Yeah even the description of city vs suburb is subject to bias. Growing up on the east coast, I have a certain concept of city living. It doesn't really include going to a coffee chain or shopping at Nordstrom's in the mall. What do you think the difference was between you and your coworkers? Did they have a more urban upbringing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 07:45 PM
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I think gold digging in STEM is regional too, less so than class related. Their aren't many 200k engineers on the east coast, the bigger industries are financial. So I hear this and it confuses me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 07:43 PM
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Illinois seems like a good example. In our youth, my friends and I tried very hard to be counter cultural, but our UMC cloistering all but guaranteed a perpetuation of the pleasingly Domestic Lifestyle. We were all married off by 25, relatively low N counts, risk averse behaviors, domestic/wifely skills, etc etc. Have you noticed a difference in terms of alternative behavior with your cohort depending on where they live? You seem to live in a suburb now, did you ever live in a major city? Was th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 07:25 PM
1

I have had guys in STRs with me ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:58 PM
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It was something people in his family did and had a family business for. Their "income" was not from working and hadn't been for a while. I knew a couple of people like this in different cities. Contrary to what people here claim a number of them did not have a conventional education and career route because they didn't need to. A lot of them were basically hipsters who could actually pursue and waste money on projects.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:54 PM
1

well high quality can attract more thoigh. but ypu didn't ask more people you asked me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 01:37 AM
1

How are you going to talk about this sort of thing without it being subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 11:10 PM
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the old money dude I dated dropped out to become a professional nose. studied in france his brother was a chef. correlation sure. I worked with scammwr jews and wops who made millions in mortgages. they had bright white teeth and wore rings and shit. you can get educated with the rich kids and still be treshy like me. people shouldn't overtly signal this shit. taste is the first thing you can go by. its also a static quality. lv bags are a great anti example, assuming it was still 2005.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 10:38 PM
1

aight
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 10:28 PM
1

skipping the terminal r completely or floating over it just so
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 10:02 PM
1

I'm not sure CT has an accent. just be you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 09:45 PM
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I always say regional accents are HUGE. even in new england, if you're born after 1975 or so and have a strong regional accent you aren't upper class. I swear. my h even made special effort to rid himself of hoagie mouth but it comes out when he's drinking and it can be cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 09:23 PM
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saying classy is the biggest tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 09:18 PM
1

I agree with hypereal that tastes are a big part. who was that french fuck who said that? that's what I see around me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 09:17 PM
1

honestly it is how they improve my life and make me feel and I can't give you a good description for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 09:15 PM
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Yeah I'm being serious. people for some reason don't understand my seriousness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 09:12 PM
3

I'm not sure it's just uc women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 08:46 PM
5

you say that as somebody with bootiful eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 08:41 PM
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No, I do not. Then again, I live in a major metro in a 1st world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 06:23 PM
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Yes. Most women alive today. A Baby Boomer grew up in the 60s for example. The US and Western Europe has been modern for while now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 06:09 PM
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Somebody say something so I can OVERPOWER them with my logic. Also, I know string theory. Like, I know what it is. You've been warned. Where is everybody? Come here so I can OVERPOWER you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 06:08 PM
3

You asked most women. 2017 is the current year. I never lived in 1917, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 06:01 PM
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Most women in 2017 in first world countries think being a good wife entails being independent but agreeable, hardworking, earning a living, and presenting the family favorably to the world through social networks and the right types of consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 05:24 PM
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Because it improves "mindset" by giving them imaginary power over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 05:19 PM
2

You just teach them to mistreat you if you give them reassurance when they don't deserve it. You think all men will behave benevolently if being exempt from consequences? You have an extremely charitable view of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 05:05 PM
4

that's ad straw solipsism fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 04:52 PM
3

God I hope this doesn't stop. I can't stop laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 04:51 PM
1

How do ypu deal with stupid monkey testosterone babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 04:42 PM
1

EXACTLY
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 03:34 AM
2

Send her to me. I'll warm it up so it feels doesn't feel like a wet willy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 03:16 AM
2

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 03:14 AM
1

When?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 03:13 AM
2

You taught me a very good word today
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 03:07 AM
1

For dating I just want somebody who is fun to be around and doesn't give me too much lip (except down there) For marriage I want that plus good paternal instincts and a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 03:02 AM
2

I love you too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 03:00 AM
1

I dont think that is a shit test, its some random running game. She's acting like some guy running game is one of those Mumbai scammers telling you the IRS is out to get you. If dude is leading with astronaut he's probably going to give you a fun hour of his time, I don't why you'd seek to prove him wrong when you're 99% sure he's lying. I would give him prompts to tell me an even better story
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:59 AM
1

I did like 10 minutes ago but wouldn't admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:57 AM
1

Ok, so long as there wasn't back talk we're cool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:52 AM
1

Im me pill. It's ok I know you want to swallow
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:52 AM
1

I guess not. Tell me, what answer would accept from women without any of that backtalk, mister
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:48 AM
1

Dude, if you think that about all women what do you think people would assume about your intentions?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:43 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5nqr8t/an_ode_to_the_red_pill_woman_unicorns_of_the_red/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:40 AM
1

The only right answer is Make my whole life about my partner Get better at sucking dick Learn to love anal Win an Olympic medal for kegels Now, If you say all of these things but mention getting better at tennis or some shit he's probably going to ask how come
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:38 AM
1

Yeah, but this time he can yell at them for not being "red pill" enough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:35 AM
5

Sounds like a wet blanket. I would ask about the catheter and the poopy bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:33 AM
1

You seem to talk about women not being "worth it" a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:32 AM
1

Probably the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:26 AM
1

I did
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:20 AM
1

There are plenty, they're probably not going to indulge this dude because he sucks and his MO is too obvious at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:15 AM
1

To show that ALL women of either pill don't think ENOUGH about being a good wife. To get "better" responses about of red pill women by putting them into the others. OP is a MGTOW who does various iterations of "Hey ladies, prove to me you're worth it, sell me on womankind or else I'll SCREAM"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 01:27 AM
1

The RP answer is that men don't want you to "pass" the shit test, or rather the way to pass the test is to actually submit or get anxious about it. If by pass they mean set yourself up for more shit piled on top of older petrified shit then sure. IMO the best way to handle this from men in reality is spin it around into a joke assuming his anger level is below a certain threshold. If it's above that, you go to the bar and let him sort himself out. Men are usually good at identifying their own ir…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 01:09 AM
1

Never ask men that stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 12:52 AM
1

Are there many men on the market after 40 who still want kids? It would seem that market is mostly divorced people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 12:46 AM
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Philly isn't a wealthy city overall, and pretty much all the white women I see are a healthy weight. Even in my neighborhood which is a slowly changing blue collar enclave. Even in the east coast suburb in which I grew up, most middle aged women were not overweight. Basically just soccer moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 12:44 AM
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But you only said one thing about being a good WOMAN (to me)! What gives ladies? Don't you know you dont have value to me unless you have value to me? Huh? HUH?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 12:38 AM
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That guy was a working class Jew from the Bronx. I worked with similar people who were into commodities, mortgages, etc. One even told me "everybody here is a gypsy". There are industries full of people like this from New York down to Boca Raton. They might have money but they aren't upper class. I'm not saying upper class is a good thing, but you don't see old money men wearing jewelry or taking their best car to the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 04:48 AM
1

A high quality woman is strong, makes good money, knows herself, and doesnt take crap from nobody
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 12:50 AM
1

I'd be down. I always wanted there to be a lampshade made out of skin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 12:23 AM
1

Thank god I found you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 10:24 PM
4

This read like beat poetry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 10:10 PM
1

Dude if we are in each others phones its to find an address that was texted or to share a funny exchange. I can't even think of guarding my phone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 10:10 PM
1

:)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 09:59 PM
1

No, they will almost never say that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 09:56 PM
1

Chad, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 09:51 PM
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It's seen as sadistic and predatory. 30% of the internet is enough to lay this bare without conjecture. Calling it like it is isn't "shaming"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 09:27 PM
2

This is very true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 09:19 PM
1

I have had these. I never told my H about it directly. I knew he had one at some intern in his office based on how he talked about her. I teased him about it. When I crush on a guy it's more about wanting him to want me than actually wanting him like that. My sexuality has been the only consistent way I've ever had any power and I guess I got conditioned towards liking it. These things dissipate over time. A crush will starve if you don't feed it. But I think it can be harder for women because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 09:15 PM
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Male sexuality is inherently predatory. They can, however, be socialized to be less predatory. That's one of the main issues with modern feminism, "male entitlenmt" and "rape culture" are not things are are imposed on men. AMALT. These things are "failure" for socialization fetter men in such a way that is beneficial to women. Socialization civilizes men and women alike. Basically you make them talky with other hoomans until the idea that other hoomans have a mind world in their head dome fills …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 07:02 PM
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High quality = "Woman like me who I relate to in some fashion"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 06:08 PM
1

Nigga look like Rolf from Sound of Music.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 05:56 PM
1

Keep my name outcha mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 05:53 PM
2

jeez why
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 05:23 PM
2

I'll tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 05:19 PM
5

I'm sure you've fucked lots of fakers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 07:30 AM
6

I wouldnt have felt the orgasm or lack of orgasm with a dildo or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 07:26 AM
6

I don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 07:06 AM
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Whatever the speaker wants it to mean, kind of like nice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 07:01 AM
1

Points and laughs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 06:36 AM
23

"I just want to eat a meal that doesn't give me e coli".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 06:34 AM
1

I disagree. Sounds like a great date. Enjoy that shit while you can in 3 years you'll have heard everything somebody knows. Maybe you can listen to podcasts together when you drive but those fun conversations get spread thinner over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 06:11 AM
5

80% of your sex life will happen with 20% of your sex partners approximately.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 06:07 AM
2

They sure don't seem to want that unless she's some imaginary dream girl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 09:42 PM
2

Your earlier retorts were better. You made out little dance hit rock, good going
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 10:08 AM
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Theoretically. In practice, I think you're unfortunately wrong. Much attention is paid to women being the problem in all subgroups at this point. The underlying problem for most men who stick around any of these forums isn't that they feel unattractive and want to be attractive. I'm almost inclined to believe they don't want attractiveness or unattractiveness to exist (for men). They want to be able to control female sexuality because it represents such a threat to them. Moreover, they are fed f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 09:55 AM
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These men have always existed. The fantasy you are describing is exactly what happens to low status men who are empathy deficient. It's like how unflanged male orangutans are more aggressive toward females. If unflanged male orangutans could type they would read like redditors, except maybe a bit smarter (hurr hurr hurr) So, I can't blame internet socialization for creating the problem so much as exacerbating it. An average healthy young man with a high sex drive will eventually find his own way…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 09:42 AM
2

If so that's nice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 09:20 AM
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These boys are being groomed by 45 year old losers online into permalosers. So no, I don't think it'll get better for them and I think they'll be ruining the YouTube comments section for decades to come. Imagine if every dumb self-centered thought you had at 16 was unmitigated by reality, and was actually corroborated by millions of other people either the same age or the same psychological age. Imagine a million other misfits telling that "nerd" girl at 16 that the reason the other girls didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 08:54 AM
1

Yeah but would you rather
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 01:52 AM
1

What if the not hot guys is rich
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 01:22 AM
1

it hurts, it hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 11:13 PM
1

this is a great troll account btw
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 10:09 PM
2

so you're a naughty nurse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 10:07 PM
1

Emotional lability is an expression of femininity like being a "bad boy" is an expression of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 06:54 PM
1

That might depend on your constitution. Maybe these men don't think "she's going to wear me down". Men don't tend to perceive themselves that way. Maybe shes challenging and invigorating at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 06:52 PM
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Yes. A difficult woman who is hard is a "shrew". A difficult women who is soft is "a drama queen"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 06:47 PM
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I'm not sure it's a conscious decision. Some people like conflict, men and women alike. They swear up and down they don't, but conflict can breed intimacy, and that emotional roller coaster deepens feelings for many people, especially if they grew up around it. Men who are unable to fully realize and express their feelings often wind up with explosive women who serve as a release valve for those feelings. When you ask people what they want, they answer in the abstract. Like a print ad of an unhu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 06:44 PM
1

Yes. Anybody with two eyes in their brain shell can see the world works like this. Have you ever had to manage men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 05:45 PM
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I know right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 05:32 PM
1

My h is an allegedly an ideal match for me. I don't think MBTI is some rosetta stone, but our relationship does work well for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 04:26 AM
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I don't even think any men would openly fight for a slot, especially with kids involved. They would be the ones enforcing this, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 04:12 AM
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I dont either. My h would hog tie me or knock me unconscious and put me in the boat if I tried anything. And he's not a hard man. This whole thread is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 04:09 AM
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Dude Im talking in generalities
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 06:52 AM
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It's not so much that. You want to marry a certain type of girl. That type of girl marries young. You can dip a bit lower in age, but realistically 10 years is probably not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 06:42 AM
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If you are looking for a good christian girl you are better off looking sooner than later. I could see how monk mode is helpful for men who need to heal and improve themselves. Being a late bloomer is not a big deal. You're probably on track for a normal middle class life style, and you can date a few years younger no big deal. It's a shame you didn't look around when you were in school, the place was probably teeming with hot young girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 06:24 AM
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I will say that the I see plenty of urban dwelling women who are very attractive and educated "settling down" in their late 20s. It's not exactly rare. These women tend to date more or less on their terms, so depending on how we are using terms like "plated" this basically doesn't happen to them. Basically most decent women are serial monogamists from 16 through whenever they meet their first husband. Women who aren't are either low rent or "alternative" in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 05:48 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UclCCFNG9q4
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 05:26 AM
2

My H said that was the first thing he ever jerked off to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 05:23 AM
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My butt still hurts though. Sorry bout that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 04:36 AM
1

Nobody on here has ever made me this happy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 04:34 AM
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No, no my friend, only filthy cucks^TM buy drink for women. Every real man knows that buying drinks is a terrible way to make friends, you might as well bend over the bar and let everybody run a train on you. I have in fact literally cucked all of mankind by swimming in the holy Ganges of milk, honey, and whiskey. Don't take that away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 04:20 AM
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That always happens on here and I don't know why. When I say this sort of thing in person people smile and laugh and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 04:16 AM
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Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 03:10 AM
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Looks gay, but Im going assume they men "yes" to sex. If they are claiming they dont want attention theyre lying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 11:36 PM
4

One and the same
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 11:34 PM
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They might not be. They probably want attention. Women can get laid with the same guy wearing something much more comfortable than that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 11:09 PM
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Thats why I said it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 11:05 PM
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Drinks and attention. I don't know why this is so hard to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 11:02 PM
2

Mine was like 2/3 women at the time. It wasn't an engineering school
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 10:56 PM
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I wouldn't always fuck them right away, the ROI can be greater if you wait a little while. Depends on the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 10:55 PM
1

I'm married
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 10:50 PM
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Right. And if you have strict standards, paraphilias, or a list of sexual demands chances are you'll never find a partner who is going to be "perfect" for you sexually. A sex life is something you create with your partner, not a suite of on demand services
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 10:33 PM
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Yes, I control all sorts of urges. For example, I dont just pee anywhere I want, I at least duck behind a dumpster first. The other day I had an urge to kick an old lady who was taking WAY too much time at Rite Aid check out right into the gum and candy bars. If your hands shake like that it's time to give up on coin purses and exact change. Sometimes I have the urge to slam into cars on my commute when they refuse to merge organically into the correct spot, and chose to drive all the way to whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 10:09 PM
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oh I totally agree. Ive never had bad sex unless my partner was outright lazy or unkind, this is a character issue, not a chemistry issue. My sex life has been different with each partner, not better or worse. One guy had an issue with his tongue that made it hard for him to go down on my for a length of time. I worked with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 10:00 PM
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Where am I complaining about the system?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 09:07 PM
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LOL of COURSE the "bad sex" meant not "bad porn sex", and not like, actual good sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 09:03 PM
2

You sure? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 07:25 PM
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If you want to have that argument you can PM me. I dont even believe that but it seems you really want to have that argument and I'm a good friend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 07:22 PM
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This is why if you really love a guy, you should move on if he doesn't spend a lot of time with you. Every LTR I had we were practically living together most days of the week after a month or so. Even cramming together on a twin bed. The idea that multiple gfs is possible for 6 months or more seems insane to me. A girlfriend of 6 months isnt somebody you see once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 07:11 PM
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Like I basically think these guys are dating girls casually and choose this terminology because it makes them feel more desirable and makes women less intimidating. These women aren't just dating him but he elects to ignore that in order to adopt a certain mindset. I think they are living the latter scenario but telling themselves the story in a more appealing way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 06:56 PM
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Would you say in the case of casual dating there are some very attractive successful women who might move frequently for work or study who are fine seeing guys for months at a time without being formally committed? I saw this a lot in my mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 06:39 PM
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no "high quality women" will not likely be plated for very long. I think the main issue here is that some people are using plate to describe a harem of women who are exclusive to one man they have no formal commitment to. The others are describing dating multiple women at one time, who could also be dating multiple men. The latter is not uncommon at all. It was never really my bag (baby) for any length of time but people who leapfrog cities for grad school and work fall into such arrangements pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 06:08 PM
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The main point of confusion is over these girls being exclusive to him while he is not exclusive to them. I have never really see this in real life unless somebody was being lied to, or it was a marriage still together for financial or practical reasons. But I dont even think these guys think the girls are exclusive with them. I think they chose to think of it that way because they hate the idea of fucking a chick hours after another guy could be doing it. In that respect it is a fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 05:58 PM
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I don't hate men, I have just spent my life around them so close and long I can't think of them as anything but peers. They have no special class or mystery to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 03:35 PM
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Of course it does, that's why I said it. It's ok though, the boyz love me :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 03:05 PM
4

This explains so much about your sexual frustration
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 03:00 PM
2

this doesnt men their commitment or time is worth more than womens, unfortunately. life isnt fair
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 03:01 AM
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If a man thinks sexual access on demand is something he is going to get, he is going to be disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 02:53 AM
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Right. I just think women offer sex and men offer commitment etc seems really one dimensional and sad. It is a scarcity mentality when it comes to sex, and commitment comes so easily for a chance at sex. Most long term relationships are a number of exchanges. Men might tend to favor some things, while women another. But things ebb and flow and change too. Men might not think they value emotional support, but when they need it, the woman in their life is usually the only person who can provide th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 02:52 AM
1

Hey, thats nothing to be ashamed of
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 02:39 AM
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I think he "gives" me sex too though. Then again, in that respect, he's giving, so I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 02:37 AM
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Where did I say it wasn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 02:22 AM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 02:11 AM
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If you think I'm distressed you obviously know nothing commenter snow. The buyer has told me how much he appreciates my company so I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 02:09 AM
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Not all men have to trade power and resources for sex. Not women have to trade sex for power and resources. Of course it happens. It should happen. Hell, I've traded the possibility of sex for thousands of dollars in free drinks, drugs, labor. Primates do it instinctually when you teach them "coins" buy grapes. It just doesn't undergird fucking everything like people make it out to, especially relationships. If I wanted to trade sex for anything I would do it on the open market where I would sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 02:07 AM
1

Who said anything about sexless?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 01:57 AM
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You don't have to defend yourself to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 01:56 AM
3

It could be contributing to a scarcity mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 01:40 AM
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She means to say a penis in her dry unprepared vagina doesn't feel good. And, if she is like most women, it's not going to bring her to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 01:25 AM
1

Yeah, like slightly curved and average sized is really good for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 01:20 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 01:15 AM
1

I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 01:03 AM
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One guy had a hot body, perfectly curved dick but an ugly face (imo). So I liked covering his face or making him service me from behind. Another one had kind of an unwieldy personality so it sort of grew with time. He'd tease me a little too much, I got the sense it was to subtly pull me down, it sort of upped the ante in terms of what he had to do to "prove" he found me desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:49 AM
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Read within the parenthesis
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:43 AM
1

John Mayer (outwardly, the public personality) has beta game. BPD either go for emotionally unavailable alphas or like to provoke alpha qualities out of men and then punish them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:36 AM
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It wasn't quite like that, but for what it was, no. Being "dominated" by man who stirs that in me sounds repellent. The ego investment in the game at that point becomes too real
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:34 AM
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I could see that. I can't describe how it happen precisely. I can't have "angry" sex with men I love. I can be aggressive in some ways, this is invigorating like a spin class is invigorating. This was something else. I don't even think I was trying to hurt this person, it just felt more satisfying to think of it in a certain way in my head. I needed to think of it as him being desperate for me, and prove it, in order to feel satisfied. It wasn't a bad experience to have, it did teach me to be mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:30 AM
1

I've always said the type of women who need the most "game" crave the most drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:22 AM
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I was in a relationship where I felt like this and I learned I can get the same sort of thrill out of it. Like I can fuck a guy I have a touch of contempt for, I like it when they beg, I like it when they put up with stuff I know they wouldn't for somebody less attractive. These weren't even super beta types either, more the opposite, at least relative to the average I'd date. None of this inspires love in me. I can lust in various ways, passion was never my problem. An emotionally intelligent m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:17 AM
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True. I can't even a man who thinks so little of me would even be good company to me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 11:36 PM
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We do the same. Basically we funnel the same amount of walking around money out of the account. All household expenses are charged to the joint. The individual accounts are good because we both gamble, we have our own outings with friends, etc. On some level it's nice to have this sort of privacy. I don't need to know he bought chipotle for lunch 4 days in row and he doesn't need to know how often I take ubers to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 11:35 PM
1

Have you read my blog?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 11:31 PM
1

Aww congrats! Glad you like spending time with your woman, I would hate to think of a man being tied to a woman he doesnt enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 11:28 PM
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Stop trying to steal credit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 11:16 PM
3

They are here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 11:14 PM
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Yeah now they are in massage parlors. Still, it seems this varied. In the US this was commonplace out west during settlement and in New Orleans, but not so much in other places, at least not openly. I don't know if it was as such that men were "allowed" to do this, so much as women couldn't really do much about it. If a married man was acting rakish and dishonorably, I feel as though it might be deemed ok for a woman to exit the marriage, although it might not be practical in most cases. Either …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:57 PM
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Sure, was this openly accepted? And besides, isn't sexual exclusivity sort of part of the exchange on both sides? I could pencil in new dick whenever I want without effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:50 PM
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It would seem time spent with a partner is paying for more than just penis in hole then....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:46 PM
3

Tongue in cheek how? Of course hugs are good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:37 PM
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That's fine for you. I do think sharing finances has risks, but honestly the whole point of the partnership is that you've made a sort of risk assessment and deem it worth it regardless. When I first met my husband I was working and he was still in school so I paid for all of our entertainment and he crashed at my apartment. But we have been primarily using a joint account since we moved in together. We were college age when we first met and moved in together as soon as he graduated. My credit i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:35 PM
2

But time with me isn't really leisure if it represents some sort of payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:28 PM
1

Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:27 PM
2

He could be working for money rather than sex, since time spent with me represents work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:19 PM
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That doesn't matter does it? The only two components here are time spent "on" me and $ex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:15 PM
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I am failing to see this from your persepctive. I pay for time with my time. If time is exchange for sex than I am multiples more expensive than a prostitute, and I would advise a man who sees things that way to visit prostitutes rather than date me. Other then the 45 hours I spend working and commuting, and the 8 hours I spend on my own separate outings, my husband and I spend 115 hours week within 3 feet of each other. He makes about $50 an hour after bonuses. Even if we had sex every day, thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:06 PM
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So now a individual women's primary value to a suitor male is sex. Honestly if this s the case he should just hire a prostitute and get a second job he doesn't mind. Whether it's being paid for by time spent together or nights on the couch watching Netflix. Other then the 45 hours I spend working and commuting, and the 8 hours I spend on my own separate outings, my husband and I spend 115 hours week within 3 feet of each other. He makes about $50 an hour after bonuses. We have sex a couple of ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:00 PM
6

Have you tried hugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 09:57 PM
2

she is giving more sex out than she otherwise would she decides not to have sex as much as the husband wants Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 09:55 PM
1

Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 09:52 PM
1

Was this the case everywhere everytime though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 09:48 PM
2

That's a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 09:40 PM
2

Is she?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 09:39 PM
1

To varying extents, yes. Was this openly accepted?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 09:39 PM
2

So?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 09:33 PM
3

Or less, sure. Women have the capacity to enjoy sex as much as men, if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 09:32 PM
1

Yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 09:31 PM
2

You just gave me like an hour of your time though, I didn't even have to ask for it :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 09:27 PM
2

I agree with this for the most part. But a marriage that extends til death will probably encompass those twilight years where penetrative sex might not even be possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 09:22 PM
1

You think the typical man had a mistress?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 09:21 PM
1

I get what you're saying. I'm just not coming at this from a place of deprivation and thirst. I said nothing about sex not occurring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 08:54 PM
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Is the fact that he values sexual time with her more than nonsexual time offensive or objectionable to you? I don't find it offensive at all. I find the idea that my time and commitment is worth less than another's insulting. I like me. I think my time is worth a lot, at least to the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 08:53 PM
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That's very true. Even when people on here reference traditional marriage they tend to take a very modern sexualized view. Women were not exchanging sex back then either, they were exchanging children and their own labor. Regardless, if we are to approach marriage from the perspective of a longer term friendship, it strikes me as backwards that the woman is giving sex for "friendship". Is she not also offering friendship as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 08:52 PM
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Men can get nonsexual time from anyone. They don't have to worry about getting nonsexual time from friends, coworkers, clients, bosses, whomever. And women can't? Women tend to have more robust social networks outside of their relationships. Again, why would a woman in an open market hitch herself to a man who values her time less than he values hers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 08:47 PM
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Non sexual time is being exchanged. Why is her nonsexual time worth less than his?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 08:39 PM
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Why would a fully formed woman marry a man who does not value her commitment and time in an open market place?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 08:32 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 08:26 PM
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A woman who is attracted to a man will see sex as exchange for sex. As in, sexual pleasure for sexual pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 08:25 PM
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The question is not how much the values sex relative to other things. If anything, I would say it falls behind quality time if the desire is met. A healthy man who isn't at his peek testosterone levels is not necessarily constantly. Say you spent 45 minutes having sex 3-4 times a week. You will spend multiples more time with interacting with you partner nonsexually than sexually in a typical relationship. I am inclined to think the overemphasis on sex comes from a place of not having it, rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 08:21 PM
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Commitment comes later, when he decides he wants to have her for himself and doesn't want others having sex with her. Ya
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 08:16 PM
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You can think of it any way you wish. I'm not confident a woman who would see herself this way is a fully formed person. Moreover, I'm not sure a fully formed person would hitch herself to a man who doesn't find his time with her as rewarding, if not more rewarding than his time with his friends. If this is the case, I pity the state of being intertwined with a person who is so burdensome and unpleasant, but I haven't found it to be a universal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 07:57 PM
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But I consider the sexuality/bedroom is entirely independent of the rest. Hard to describe but it sort of flows instinctively better this way. I agree with this. When you set up a scenario in which a woman pays with her body, it implies sex is not pleasurable for her. This manner of thinking can be self-fulfilling and arguably toxic if a mutually pleasurable sexual relationship is your goal. If sex is integrated into the other obligations of the relationship it is subject to outside forces which…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 07:47 PM
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A man in love desires the commitment of the object of love, even if he is not experiencing a dearth of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 07:06 PM
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Yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 06:28 PM
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I'm attracted to sensitive guys but I wind up hurting them if I'm not careful. I didn't really go through a true bad boy phase or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 06:13 PM
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When I did this it was for validation. Sometimes I even kind of crushed on the validation from somebody I wouldn't date in a million years. Like a contempt crush. I don't think this is all women. But really, I have seen women nurse attention from guys and then privately show me the text messages and we'd laugh about it. These guys weren't like doing big big favors or paying for lots of stuff though. More like the types of friends you can always hang out with if other stuff falls through. In high…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 08:09 PM
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They tell me how gross I am all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 07:25 PM
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Yes. I am very affectionate with my male friends but you have to understand platonic affection for men is mostly ribbing on each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 07:14 PM
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stop looking at things in terms of black and white. most relationships won't work unless both people compromise and admire each other. the girl game discussed ensures the man can do those things. this can also mean he might eventually do this too much. purely alpha men won't pass this test but most women would blow their brains chasing the dragon of affection from those types anyway. the whole point of pick up is to be a fuck boy not a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 06:48 AM
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I agree with this but if this person led into it with the assumption he wouldnt do what was asked and isn't doing anything anyway I would not wash shit to spite her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 12:27 AM
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You really said "since you'll be home doing nothing?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 12:24 AM
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catch an "alpha" husband? Be ok with them living parasitically and/or cheating. Learn to accept him as is without killing him, yourself, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 12:18 AM
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It reveals how much the guy likes you and how invested he is. It doesn't make him feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 12:12 AM
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It's still maleness is the point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 12:05 AM
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The men who seem to do the worst are extraordinarily male brained. Nerdiness is masculinity for very male brained types who cannot compete in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 12:02 AM
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nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 11:53 PM
1

call me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 05:09 AM
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get a room
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 03:33 AM
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Is his name on the deed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 03:31 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 01:48 AM
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if sex became like porn, all about discomfort if not pain to please men without any feel goods. I would just go back to women if men who liked good sex became hard to find, without a second thought. men are worth that special sacrafice and admiration they offer. without it, they are sadistic mind blind versions of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 01:47 AM
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would insurance pay for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 02:52 AM
1

there is no such think as "practically" deformed. most people call that ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 02:18 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 05:14 PM
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That sounds awful, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 05:11 PM
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Well why didnt you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 02:34 AM
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Have you ever fucked a chick who didn't want to fuck? Could you tell? Did you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 02:32 AM
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Click parent a few times. You did it first nananana booboo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 02:26 AM
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so what is the exchange rate of toilet cleanings to sex acts? do you want sex with women who don't want it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 02:11 AM
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go for it bae, you can do it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 02:08 AM
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You seem to be sliding around right now. are you esfj bech?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 02:06 AM
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How long after knowing him did he attempt to have sex with you? how many attempts did it take before you had sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 02:05 AM
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that's kind of what the person I response to was doing. counting toilet cleanings and everything. was that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 02:03 AM
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40% are one mbti type?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 02:02 AM
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You have only seen 1 out of 16 people do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 01:52 AM
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Man I wish I could somehow buy avocados that aren't either a bajillion dollars or last 3 minutes before they get all brown and shit. Unless I have explicit plans I won't buy them because they expire yesterday. It seems like people in this thread are keeping score tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 01:40 AM
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How do I know if they are "ESFJ"? will they say shit like YASS BECH YASS
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 01:23 AM
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The problem is you can give your partner sexual favors when your aren't in the mood, but generally (especially if they are empathetic) that will sour when they realize you aren't into it. Like I don't do a porno shoot when I blow my husband. Sometimes he jokes about me "sucking it like I'm mad at it" which he might get a small thrill out of. But day in and out, if it got to that point, I'm certain he would grow unhappy. This woman is saying she had no sexual desire for an extended period of time…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 01:17 AM
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thank you for such a complete response
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 12:57 AM
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A relationship is about my wants along with his. That means that sometimes I pester him to do things he doesn't want to do because it's fair. This is an interesting concept. So even though you love your partner, sometimes you don't want what he wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 12:23 AM
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Youre welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 12:18 AM
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My brother's wife's sister's roomate's dog once said not to take relationships all that seriously in your youth, which is direct proof of an iteration of the AF/BB model, however exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 12:17 AM
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This belongs under the automod thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 12:07 AM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 06:43 PM
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nomenclature here is short hand, it's efficient. it's not real. none of this is real
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 04:50 PM
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You don't know me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 04:46 PM
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I wouldn't want to know about it. no, I won't indulge that shit. where are the men with foot rub fantasies that don't involve me having to stomp on them or other weird shit? that's a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 04:24 PM
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Yeah I know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 04:01 PM
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manager at a retail store is also lower class tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 04:00 PM
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Did your dick work ok or did you beat it to a pulp by then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 08:01 AM
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It's not the spelling. it's the everything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 07:58 AM
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How is babby formed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 07:52 AM
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Society doesnt create this, if anything it mitigates it. Just not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 05:47 AM
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Thats already been done
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 05:44 AM
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I don't think OP was talking about run of the mill depression. He was talking about men lacking purpose because their dreams of dominating their environment are completely thwarted. The only widespread solution for this would be to sedate them, chemically castrate them, or upload them into the matrix.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 05:37 AM
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Thats exactly what Im saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 05:32 AM
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Try describing the men in your life in terms of their usefulness on here and see how it goes XD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 05:00 AM
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Oh ok. Well, I've always owned being AWALT-y so I don't really care. I don't really know why somebody would get PSTD over discovering people are selfish. Seems a bit dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 03:17 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:40 AM
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Not by unattractive men, no. Men who dip down that far class wise are usually unappealing for some other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:38 AM
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The only people I see identifying as Purple Pill are on here. They usually mean they agree with some red pill concepts but not others. Can you explain what a red pill aware, blue pill person thinks and acts like?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:37 AM
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Well some do seem to try once they've had a couple of kids, I bet a fair amount are eventually successful so I guess everybody wins!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:33 AM
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Where are they going to meet nerds? Nerds aren't known for leaving the house. The ones who do aren't hurting for women that badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:30 AM
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What sort of effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:28 AM
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"Rich niggas" obviously look like this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:26 AM
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Yep. Thing is, these women don't really have a choice, the idea that doctors are swooping in to rescue these store clerks and LPNs with regional accents because hypogamy is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:22 AM
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It's really not. Career front of house in major cities who arent working at like, chain restaurants, are usually educated and well spoken. You can make a lot of money in the industry and it's great for people who like late hours or have side projects in the arts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:16 AM
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5 days? Drink water? I dunno man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 01:54 AM
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Ive always thought trying to call fictional characters or even real life things unaffiliated with this corner of the internet "red pill" or "blue pill" was dumb. Most people don't think nor did they ever think women were wonderful or women dont care about looks at all, or women will reward you for being nice, or men and women are exactly the same. On the other hand, these same people manage this without thinking woman are inferior, women are hypergamous automatons, women shouldn't vote, etc. So,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 01:52 AM
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Money is not social class. Among low income people, it is common for the women to receive some sort of vocational training and/or do pink collar jobs while their male peers do unreliable labor in construction or similar. Such jobs used to be largely unionized, and paid the inflation equivalent of some middle management jobs do now. Now such jobs don't come with protection or a pension, even a minor injury or a layoff is a enough to justify not really working anymore. Likewise, most of the men I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 01:16 AM
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It doesn't really have stigma when clean cut people do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 10:45 PM
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I think they perceive this sort of thing from a woman as her challenging his power. There is this notion that if a man isn't treated like how you might treat your boss that he isn't "loved" Sometimes you see it on MRP, they start gaming their wife, she thinks of it as playful and teases him back. The whole thing could have gone so well... the two of them are basically flirting again. Except he didn't want to flirt, he wanted power, and she isn't following the script.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 10:43 PM
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she goofed on me when I didn't know something, but it never felt uncomfortable, condescending, or adversarial. I am beginning to think this underscores one of the major factors in play with some of the men here. Some don't see things this way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 10:36 PM
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You sound totally normal, why wouldn't other normal people relate to this? Who would be put off by this? Mormon girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 10:33 PM
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What is your "scene"? Who are people not in your "scene"? Most people I know are white collar cubicle jockeys who wear slacks and polos and wouldn't describe themselves as "in the party scene". But when we go to Atlantic City or out of town there might be a trip to the strip club or couple grams of coke involved. And then you don't really shout this from the mountain tops when you wind up at happy hour with their boss and coworkers, but if it comes up it's not that big a deal either. People who …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 09:50 PM
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Yeah, you're coming in very clear. Honestly most people I know have tried most every major drug, but at this age (Im 30) nobody spends much time bragging or even talking about it. So the notion that talking about drug use makes you "bad-ass" or a "partier" is a bit foreign to me. I'm not even sure what people mean by a "good girl" either. The dichotomy is totally lost on me. Good girls are still drinking from keg cups and trying new things here and there, at least where I'm from. It's like compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 09:34 PM
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My first thought was honestly, "this guy might have cocaine"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 09:15 PM
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There is a sort of aggressive self-assured wrongness that is almost exclusive to males. So, when you have an inexperienced man vs woman, the man will be much more likely to assert that the small world he knows represents the world at large than the woman will. I feel the same approximate feelings of protection or benevolence towards youths who ask me questions. I have spent hours talking to my teenage cousin and my almost-nephew about life, love, school. However, the young men who are know-it-al…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 09:04 PM
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This is such a complete and intelligent response.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 08:04 PM
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wait, you CAN'T masturbate to just thoughts? Hell, I don't even need thoughts sometimes, I can just focus on what my body is feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 07:31 PM
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Im finally decided to get my tubes tied. Rather never born than deprived of pleasure and mirroring it like an empty non person who seeks to please. AI cant come soon enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 04:23 AM
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the only place a label like creep matters is in the workplace ot maybe your high school class of 100 in some small town. why do men care if some chick they approach once thinks they're a creep?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 07:38 PM
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Sometimes evolution can be over-employed to explain these things, but generally speaking, pain (emotional or physical) is adaptive because it teaches to avoid such things, or because the stress can actually compel you to behave in a way that allows you to survive. The fact that you can choose to avoid rejection and actually be entertained and safe without people is a privilege that most people ever to be born did not have. Rejection is "supposed" to hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 11:40 PM
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Thats hot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 11:17 PM
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Its funny how quickly they suddenly like titles when another dick is in the picture. Then again, any man who actually WANTS a particular woman must be a pathetic beta cuck. Enjoy that loser who actually likes you /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 11:12 PM
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No, I should be shot for the time I gave my neighbor a wet willy without asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 11:04 PM
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I used to shoplift the more expensive mascara from Rite Aid all the time when I was 13, it's practically armed robbery
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 10:34 PM
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I don't know, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 03:40 AM
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How do you know if somebody is lying to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 03:36 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 03:22 AM
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I understand not wanting to think of it that way, but they do and it's better just to accept it and try to find one who's not as "bad" as the others and better suited for you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 03:21 AM
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To them "finding someone" means something other than what most people mean by "finding someone". I don't even think these types expect to find a super hot woman or something. Some are surprisingly attractive and could choose between a small assortment of 6s or 7s if they wanted to. The problem isn't as simple as punching above one's league or having poor social skills. I thought that too, but the more time I spend on reddit I think the problem as much about the fact that they want to find a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 03:18 AM
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The vibrator didn't get you to "submit" enough. If you give up your person, suddenly everything feels good. Or at least, you should make it feel good. Or something
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 03:01 AM
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How in your experience do you get warmed up before they go for the gold?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 12:44 AM
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For me starting out sexually as a teen I didn't really allow myself the time to actually fully enjoy it with my first partner. The mechanics weren't the issue, I was skilled masturbator who knew my body inside and out, it's that I didn't have the gumption or self-respect to allow the mechanics time to work or the confidence to ensure my partner knew when he was making missteps. I learned by the time I lost my virginity, which was a pleasant experience, but a bit underwhelming compared to all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 12:32 AM
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effective
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 11:20 PM
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So you still cum a lot like a real man despite being sterile?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 11:06 PM
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Just one :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 10:39 PM
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You sound like the sort of person that comments about the implausibility of sci-fi movies or the physics of video games
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 10:23 PM
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He thinks it's real
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 10:19 PM
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I thought that one was not progressing but they made mice stop jizzing and it worked better. I could be wrong. Personally I would trust to more if they didn't cum. I would assume if somebody told me they were on the pill they were a scrub who just didn't want to buy condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 10:14 PM
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If I were a man I'd cum buckets more than all of you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 10:10 PM
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If it's in the condom they can pretend it's a lot even if it isn't. Schrodinger's Cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 10:05 PM
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IIRC it prevents ejaculation. Men are obsessed with jizzing. Some even try to change their diets so they jizz more. The want to jizz ribbons of elmers glue like in the movies. It takes money to bring drugs to market. Men probably won't use this if it moves them further from their dream of spewing out buckets of powerful man milk. Companies don't want to invest money into something that won't be profitable. That's kind of the objective of companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 09:55 PM
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Studies seem to indicate that men in general do not cope well with women in a position of power. Anecdotally I'd say it isn't all of them, but having managed men I'd say the difference is palpable. I think hypergamy when it is applied properly (and not like women wanting taller men is hypergamy) is largely correct. However, if such women are trying to date such men then this factor is nullified here. Perhaps her position will erode her passion for her partner over time, but at the inception of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 09:19 PM
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Most red pill guys seem to need introduction to the (((party world))) so you'd think it would be opposite, if anything. Maybe they are saying "Chad" is naturally red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 09:09 PM
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If your reaction to "taking a drug that one time" was so positive, why did you stop? I can't even go to a baby shower without having a couple of mimosas, and in that respect I'm pretty normal. Please describe to me why you think casual drug use is "unhealthy". How many of the millennial polo-wearing cubicle jockeys you see every day would pass a drug test this very moment? While testosterone is probably what connects the constellation of traits you've mentioned here, I'm not sure being high T or…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 09:05 PM
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Shit tier post
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 06:01 AM
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Exactly. The thinking is putting on an act will hurt you in the long run. They arent considering that most guys who ask about attracting more women are not talking about the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 05:37 AM
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The truly unlovable types you mentioned were not considered because the woman commenting, and women at large do not consider them. Women assume the objective of a man trying to be attractive is to find "the one" because these are her objectives. She is not conceptualizing that the man wants to fuck many chicks who are hot as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 05:17 AM
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Oh jeez thanks! Did you still like my story?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 05:10 AM
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You think the police are more likely to kill a law abiding person, especially a white one, than an actual criminal?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 04:08 AM
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I think most women who like themselves wind up with men who like them too. So the assumption is a man who doesn't like women isn't going to attract women who like themselves. Obviously this assumption is flawed since hoomans don't have windows on our head domes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 03:56 AM
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You ever crush ants when they are making a chain gang line from the pantry out to wherever their ant home is? Their corpses smell like vinegar when you do this. When beta men are trying to play alpha mimesis women emit a similar chemical compound and we leave a trail of it as we walk away from the situation. That way, the hive ensures that all betas are identified and made to stay in their lane. Or maybe people don't like people who think bad things about them. But you know, they can't tell you …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 03:48 AM
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You should start forgetting how to do such things effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 03:42 AM
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How much does 200 calories "cost"? 10 cents a day of WIC peanut butter a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 03:37 AM
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I agree with this in theory, the thing is I personally dont encounter many decisions in life that require expertise anyway. If it does, I am more likely to seek out somebody who is more qualified than either me or my husband, not the most qualified from a pool of only 2 people. More often than not, it's who cares the most or the least. I know that's imperfect, but it's just how it winds up happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 03:28 AM
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I have just as many female clients on Medicaid as male clients. Why is this difficult to admit? I have seen this line of reasoning used on just general costs not associated with social programs too. For example women "cost" society more by going to the doctor and dentist more. How money spent "costs society" is something I am struggling to grasp. And since women comprise a higher percentage of consumption, you'd think it would economically efficient for money to be siphoned off of men and given …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 03:06 AM
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My assumption is men have a hard time admitting that they too benefit from protection from other men. Maybe they are picturing their equivalent from their peer group, not the type of person or place that makes them roll their windows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 02:49 AM
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Social security isnt going to be around anyway once everybody here is old so its a waste of time having this argument. Get a Roth, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 02:42 AM
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Who's "fault" do you think the need for the police presence is?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 02:34 AM
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Whether or not an injury prevents you from working ever again is sort of subjective. If you worked hanging dry wall for 20 years, hurt your back, "as is" without reeducation at 40 years old there is no job you are qualified to do that won't interfere with your profession. A lot of such claims can entail minor physical impairments or mental disorders that would cause you to miss work once a month, which would get you fired if you aren't a specialized and educated worker. Doctors will corroborate …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 02:18 AM
1

That makes a lot of sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 01:07 AM
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So it doesn't matter if the person shares the belief you are their leader, only your belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 12:20 AM
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Sure, but if things are so nebulous, whats to stop the other person over who you claim to be have leadership from saying the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 12:14 AM
1

How is not pushing boundaries a lack of respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 11:42 PM
1

Why would staying in relationships like the one I described be a lapse in judgement?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 11:40 PM
2

Oh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 11:28 PM
2

Im confused again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 11:25 PM
2

I think we agree then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 11:18 PM
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So you don't think there is any tangible, observable, measurable way these things impact the 3 dimensional world that other people share and see?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 11:14 PM
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The thing is such things arguments aren't even comprised of anecdotes. For example, if I say, "my wife and I discussed a selection of houses at length, but ultimately I made the decision". Well, unless the wife wanted one house, and I wanted another, and that's the one we bought, there is nothing there that illustrates who made the final decision. Saying my relationship functions a certain way without examples that substantiate as such is basically saying "I perceive my relationship this way" It…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 11:12 PM
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True, but I was more curious about why such dynamics are described in terms of mentality, rather than actions. It's one thing to say something happened to me. It's another to say I perceive a series of happenings through a certain lens, but provide no such examples of said happenings. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 10:59 PM
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I think relationships of many years generally don't entail a recurring testing of boundaries, those boundaries are nebulous and mostly invisible, since they needn't be tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 10:57 PM
3

I see a lot of female posters complaining about disrespect, just not from their current partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 10:53 PM
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That's a good point! My question isn't even that people are dishonest, its that they rarely provide tangible, common, every day examples of how this dynamic informs their decisions or impacts their life. I can say I'm the boss, but if there arent regular examples of me being a boss, how much of it is about me BELIEVING I'm the boss?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 10:52 PM
1

Do you find women who claim to have egalitarian relationships more or less likely to perceive various behaviors as disrespectful?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 10:47 PM
1

Do we know they were disrespected before?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 10:43 PM
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LOL. True, I'm just trying to tease out what it all means.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 10:42 PM
3

As opposed to in practice, rather than theory
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 10:41 PM
3

That wasn't really the question. The question was if they are more of less likely, based on the volume of words used here, to claim they are being disrespected.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 10:40 PM
3

Do you think the amount of respect felt differs reliably in either dynamic, or do you it's think perception of respect that differs? For example, do men who claim to be the captain complain more or less about being disrespected?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 10:37 PM
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I could do with fewer posts from MGTOWS demanding we sell them on women and relationships again. But most are fine commentors and not mentally ill like incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 08:39 PM
1

Thats the approximate ratio I hired for theme hospital. Better than theme park, imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 07:06 AM
6

http://www.boxofficemojo.com/daily/chart/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 07:00 AM
1

I would if SOMEBODY would take me out to someplace other than the strip club
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 06:49 AM
3

I would if SOMEBODY didnt keep crushing all the cocoa cola cans with his pure raw unadulterated strength
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 06:40 AM
2

!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 06:35 AM
1

Then how comes you spend all yourour money on scratchy lottery tickets?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 06:33 AM
4

Stop watching Lifetime then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 06:29 AM
1

10% impressed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 06:24 AM
6

You are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 06:15 AM
4

Really? Every time I decide to go to the movies for not a particular movie, its shit made for that demographic and has an "impressive" 70% on rotten tomatoes. Oh, yeah, I heard that was "pretty good"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 06:07 AM
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No it just a cost benefit analysis based on the premise that white males from 15-45 will see it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 05:53 AM
1

youre rich
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 04:44 AM
1

I made a hamlet movie for a school project it was very bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 04:38 AM
2

Like how do you get horny if you cant fuck cuoco even tho shes not cross eyed cross eyed?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 04:28 AM
3

I dont know what kind of maniac actually has a parched fuck when on coke. You got bring back people to talk at or else you have a serious problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 04:16 AM
4

EVERYBODY GETS A PART
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 03:41 AM
2

username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 03:41 AM
3

people with their sex circuits all burnt out and ruined shouldn't rate people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 03:40 AM
0

They were university employed at late 20s early 30s on the show, so like, recent non tenured professors. The one who made the most money would probably be the bird faced jew one anyway. I think they even alluded to that a couple of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 03:37 AM
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OMG I think the same thing! She has the face of a mouth breather, but not the mouth!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 03:35 AM
2

Yeah if you make a female AI it isnt loyal tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 02:35 AM
1

You owe me a story about 2 girls then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 02:21 AM
3

I dont think those pics were taken at 42. If they were, good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 01:56 AM
1

I think hes a 7 and shes an 8
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 01:51 AM
1

That is true, or even any good job really. I've seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 01:51 AM
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really? irl? She's taller than him, I'll give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 01:50 AM
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Her was about punching above your weight though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 01:43 AM
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Really? I think he's attractive and shes got a super hot bod half the time but not a stunning face. Would people call him a "lucky dog" in real life? Maybe. Would they turn heads or raise questions? Not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 01:42 AM
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I agree, but my major complaint about this is that looks comprise too high a percent of female casting decisions. Given how many more women are pursing acting careers, you'd think you'd be able to find watchable female leads, they don't need to be 10s. Most movies and shows with not so great budgets seem to cast dimes who would be outclassed by the average high school "Into the Woods" production.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 01:40 AM
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Only real answer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 01:06 AM
2

Old skit skat black men are good at flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 12:57 AM
3

That sort of line has worked on me before. Spoiler alert: They were lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 12:49 AM
1

Somebody did exact thing to me once. I offered commentary during and he seemed into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 12:35 AM
3

Nah, sometimes party don't stop
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 12:31 AM
1

dude I've never seen that shit. looks like it works though!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 09:35 PM
1

Can you send me the video?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 09:26 PM
3

those machines are a great supplement, don't be such a hater. Why people always hating on women at the gym? Do you ever see women benching at the smith machine or doing step ups on the bench? Yeah, me neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 09:12 PM
1

You'd care if Dave was your copilot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 09:01 PM
3

This is a good way to tease out which posters got that tortilla booty, and guess who's not allowed in the bunker? I only have so many wildberry pop-tarts, and they last 12 years at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 08:58 PM
2

Put strychnine in her coffee. Maybe just itching powder in her underpants
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:20 AM
6

Can we do one megathread about this topic for the rest of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:05 AM
2

You should kill her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 03:49 AM
1

She might not have been good at her jerb
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 02:56 AM
1

Last female obgyn made my vagina hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 02:37 AM
1

I think most male obgyns are highly empathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 02:24 AM
1

I would imagine working in your industry would be more wrought with this in adulthood than more mixed industries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 02:14 AM
1

Last Halloween party I was at was mostly medical students either in residency or medical research positions, and some recently graduated doctors. I like those people, but I'm not convinced most went into it because they are caring or selfless. Most are like a combination of intellectual challenge or are irst gen immigrants who do want status on some level, not like that sinister or anything. If caring is your bag you can be like a nurse, nurse practitioner, or other specialized nurse like midwif…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 02:04 AM
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Most are probably going to be disappointed in terms of the money part, if that's why they're doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 01:46 AM
2

A lot of stuff is being conflated here, such as money and status. Or confidence/social acumen and status. Or education level and money and/or status. I don't disagree with the concept of hypergamy overall, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 01:39 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 01:35 AM
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Nightclubs in Europe are much more fun. Im an awful dancer, but I could at least spazz out and jump in place and men would come over hips swinging. I had a french dude stick his tongue up that part of your neck under the earlobe after a song worth's of spazzing out next to each other, this was still more erotic than having somebody try to grind you from behind unsolicited for some reason. In the US everybody dances like they are rutting on Animal Planet, and everybody who isnt black or hispanic …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 01:34 AM
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