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State the obvious. Thats the way I feel for average women. Both are nothing sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 06:07 PM
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I'm a male in his mid 30s and they are attractive but it feels almost like their daughters or little sisters. I just cant think of them in a sexual way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:29 AM
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Just no men applying? I based my statistics off the UKs data online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:28 AM
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One school banned teachers from sending a student out unless they were physically harmful. All I can do is remind people that if 29 people want to work and 1 person doesnt want anyone to work - that one person often wins. I eventually left that school for my own mental wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:26 AM
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I've worked as a teacher for 4 years and never even heard of a single allegation yet (thank God!). Our problem is always our male teachers hitting on the TA's (usually younger women)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 02:31 PM
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I'm a male teacher: just to be clear its 69% of teachers that are women (not 90 percent). I have no strong feelings on the matter but I have theories as to why: teaching is low paid, we're not given a true power to handle issues in the classroom, women do seem to care more for the younger students (I'd theorise its cultural rather than biological). Beyond all that, I don't believe the gender of your teacher matters. There are good teachers and there are bad teachers - and those teachers come in …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 02:29 PM
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Depends on the person. I have a relatively low sex drive and once a week is fine by me. This has been an issue (but not a deal breaker) with many women I've dated. It seems sex is important to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:52 AM
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Interesting. I have a semi low sex drive and I wish this happened to the women I lived with
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 12:01 PM
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I dont but I think they do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 10:11 AM
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I wouldnt know. It would be impossible for me to know if you slept around or not. You could lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:39 AM
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how would you know if date had slept with 3 women or 300?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:13 AM
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Would a narcissist date an ugly woman? I dont think so. They're more likely to go for a trophy wife. They wouldnt be seen with an average or uglier woman as it would ruin their image. I imagine going for less capable socially and less wealthy will be attractive to a narcissist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 01:09 AM
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Its a bit of both. People dont really commit to each others these days (if you need to search the definition of commitment) and also there isnt as much stigma to divorce (although there still is as they are judged a lot)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 02:49 PM
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Its not a question of think - it is overrated. So many people have wasted years of their lives pursuing the opposite sex.
/r/MGTOW211/01/21 05:32 AM
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Tom Hiddleston doesnt have a full head of hair - he's not quite jude law in terms of balding but his hair has gone backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:56 AM
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Danny Devito and Christopher Hitchens are wonderfully charismatic but I dont know if i'd go to bed with them (i'm not saying no either!)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:55 AM
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It can pip you over - Tom Hiddleston is only semi attractive compared to the likes of a Chris Pine but you know Tom would be most peoples top pick based on his personality and charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:34 AM
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Ah fair point if you look at it from the individuals perspective rather than society I feel like I'm sigma. I rebel against authoritarian types but I hate being a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:21 AM
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So thats the point. Only 20% should have kids and relationships? Can you imagine the affect that would have? Also, arent there many in-between types? Sigma male or something - those who arent submissive or dominant - they'd probably be better to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:41 AM
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Wait. Arent 90% of people beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:28 AM
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Whats to stop people getting a test and sending it abroad? I know legally it wont help but if you found out some woman you were datings kid wasnt yours you could begin to look at ways to exit.
/r/MGTOW205/12/20 03:06 PM
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Nice. I live in Vietnam. I only make about 1.6k a month but the cost of living for me is about 800$ a month so I still save 800$ each month. I eat out twice a day and go on four vacations a year. There are a few downsides though - the cities are crowded and walking is terrible.
/r/MGTOW217/11/20 12:29 AM
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Its one of the worst echo chambers online
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 10:29 AM
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Damn 3 or 4 sexual partners. Can tell they arent young and in big cities where anyone still in single numbers is essentially a virgin still.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 10:26 AM
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Depends on the porn
/r/MGTOW214/09/20 01:43 PM
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Mods tend to like power and controlling things. Most normal people dont become mods. They'll probably delete this message or ban me for even saying this.
/r/MGTOW213/09/20 12:07 AM
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Well clearly she's not relationship material. Its just one of those things.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 01:55 AM
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How do they get away with that if the man lived with the woman? They just fuck new men on their lunch breaks?
/r/askTRP10/08/20 11:42 AM
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I was doing a training course for a whole month and we were all given hotel rooms for a month. One girl i'd only spoken to very casually a few times offers to come to my room because I was feeling ill (just a cold). I actually thought she was just being nice so I said yes. One hour later while talking her hands get frisky and the next thing I know we're taking off our clothes. She totally led the whole thing and I wasnt even thinking about hooking up as I wouldnt normally hook up with someone fr…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 02:06 AM
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If you got no matches then theres either something wrong with your account or (not to be mean) but you may be mediocre to ugly.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 07:55 AM
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I'm a 6 or 7 in looks and I can go on there and match and meet with half way decent women. I dont get this need to look like Brad Pitt thing.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 07:53 AM
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Its not the end of the world if you cant lift heavy. Lots of successful men from Elon Musk to DiCaprio and attractive men from James Franco to George Clooney arent the overly muscled types. Just dont be fat and do what you can do. You wouldnt want your main selling point to be your body anyway. Women do that.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:03 AM
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Only insecure people care about n count
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 08:13 AM
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If we deem sex as an achievement then well done to them!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 12:53 PM
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People are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships. Fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 02:47 PM
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wow thats so unique with the older generation! I know young people are shooting up and catching up with the scandinavians now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 02:42 PM
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I've never met a woman over 6ft (in the UK) but they do exist. I dont mind if they are heavier than me as I dont mind fat women. I know some women will be stronger than me as there are some competitive weight-lifters. I'm unattracted to muscly women so it would most likely be unlikely to be an option for me. As for fighting - I would happily date and mma woman even if she could beat me. There are some female ufc fighters who are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 01:26 AM
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I drink roughly 3 drinks on a night out around twice a week. Most of my friends are similar but drink 5 or 6 drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:09 AM
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Not just men - all people! Too much time spent dating and not enough time chasing passions!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 08:42 AM
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Sure, barking dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:59 PM
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Out of curiosity - what do you lot call a female cuckold?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:36 PM
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Just dismiss the word from your vocabulary as you would with the N word.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:15 PM
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Forget the word cucked. Its an old shaming word made to coerce people into monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 09:20 AM
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You wont find a virgin. Give it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 09:19 AM
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I really wouldnt give a damn if someone I was dating slept with someone else. I dont own them. Maybe they just fancied sex with someone else for a night. Same with me. If I wanted sex with another woman then just do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:51 AM
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I guess we'll have to embrace open relationships in the future. Even the term cheating is old fashioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:50 AM
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'good' is a subjective term, but if we are to say cruel, malicious, and petty - its easy to say women dont want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:56 AM
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A fact plucked from ones derrière
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:11 AM
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Most balanced people dont even care if a person has 10 sexual partners or 20. It makes no real difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:32 AM
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Half the time its easy to fixate on the downsides. Getting unwanted and lustful looks from men and sometimes getting bitchiness from other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 11:26 AM
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Oh finally somebody sees beyond this idiotic mental masturbatory crap cycle that is hypergamy theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:38 AM
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You should look at the men they date. Nothing to envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:37 AM
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I'm not amazing in bed and i've had a lot of partners so dont think experience will change a thing. It usually comes down to experimenting and communicating. I'm bad at experimenting because i'm vanilla in tastes and dont want to do a lot of things. I'm only really good at giving women oral sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 08:12 AM
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You're projecting your insecurities of your performance in bed on to her. Dont worry so much. Most men are quite bad in bed anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 07:51 AM
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I dont but I always knew I was probably selfish to be a great dad - and I wouldnt be a father unless I was going to be a good one. Also, the financial would be tough. I can probably save 500$ a month on average: having a child would probably wipe nearly all that out so i'd only be treading water if I had one. When I weigh it all up its good I dont have kids (I'm not quite 40 yet so I could still change my mind but its very unlikely).
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:50 AM
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I dont believe in hypergamy for women - i see too many with ugly men for it to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:16 PM
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Something bland like edward norton - not fat but not athletic, not tall but not a midget, average face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:13 PM
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Very easy in UK as well. Literally most single people use tinder or bumble so its easy to match with someone. Dating culture is simple and is centred around going to a bar and drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:45 PM
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I think there is probably 10% of the population who are physically or mentally handicapped who cannot date functionally. Theres also probably a number of people with severe social issues that prevent them for dating which will skewer the 'norm'
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 07:10 AM
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UK - medium size city of 300k
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 05:57 AM
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Yeah, I sometimes feel there should a separate group for people in conservative areas. I feel its totally different in the UK as well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 12:42 AM
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Other way around. This group has bordeline incels who think you have to be rich or brad pitt to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:39 PM
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In Europe, at least, sex is easy to get for any gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:38 PM
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And yet tons of ugly women have partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:37 PM
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Women date down more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:04 PM
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I dont buy it. I often see women dating down on the looks-scale. I seldom see hot guys dating ugly women. I often see good looking women dating average looking men. I think women often date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:14 PM
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Haha you're judging looks on people you cant see to fit in with your narrative of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:51 PM
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Or overestimating myself when i'm really a 4!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:31 PM
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I totally agree. An average looking man with half decent social skills can date and have fun with ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:31 PM
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Maybe its different cultures. My country the average for first marriage for men is 33.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:30 PM
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Yeah, that does make sense if they are dating that person for 2 or 3 months (which is the new modern norm for mini relationships)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:29 PM
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I'm similar 5'11, healthy, 6 out of 10, 34, but slept with 30 or 40 women. I did actually put a lot of effort in to dating between 24 and 28 though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:28 PM
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Ooo thats terrible for them. Hopefully they can get out there a little bit over the next few years!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:26 PM
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What happened? Did you choose not to meet new people or is it just not working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:26 PM
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I do have a few friends who married in their 20s but they come out less now so its easy to forget about them. I live abroad so I think my own sample is skewed as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:25 PM
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A 6 sleeping with sixes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:01 AM
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I'm from England, but live abroad now. Most of my dating experience is from the UK. I think it may be more simple to date here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 10:19 AM
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Thats a fair point. I live abroad and a lot my friends are probably meeting a lot of new people for hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 10:18 AM
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Interesting. Are you happy that you restricted the number of partners you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 10:17 AM
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I had a LTR from 19 to 24 and 28 to 29. I'm in my mid 30s now. Between 24 and 28 I think I had 15 partners - it sounds a lot but really just had a bunch of back to back one or two month flings. I agree on your last point: a lot of women have go-to men they can contact when they are horny (i presume many guys do the same)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:22 AM
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What about if they just ask out an average and normal looking and down to earth woman? I'm sure the results will be much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:18 AM
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Oo La La. The FSM is most kind!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:17 AM
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Looks like our experiences match up. Its almost hard to keep numbers down if you actively date people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:16 AM
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We need to get rid of this silly dichotomy between chad and incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:15 AM
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Thats a valid point. Usually we grow out of it but I have one male friend in his 40s that is like a playboy for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:15 AM
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Hopefully most of us will get married or find a LTR in our 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 07:06 AM
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Why cant they? Just ask a girl out and date. You dont have to be rich or brad pitt to do it. I'm neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 07:03 AM
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Its almost like people are nuanced with variants of tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 01:41 AM
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I can easily say this myth of women being money grabbers is over hyped.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 05:02 PM
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Nah theres lots of a wide age group. I think PSY is still the biggest selling kpop star (unless bts or black pink are selling more now)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 03:26 PM
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Its really not about money. I dated a lot and i've never made big money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 03:24 PM
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Ah you're into young men! All the power to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 12:20 PM
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You mentioned kpop and black pink are the biggest kpop group right now. They just broke a record for most viewed video in 24 hours with the last song.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 12:06 PM
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Its blackpink that are cool now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 11:21 AM
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Haha physical standards so high! The amount of women with questionable boyfriends and lovers, with peculiar faces, is abundant
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 11:20 AM
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Looks arent fixed either. Height and skin colour is fixed. Body fat, clothes, muscle, style, hair, hygiene, and much more alters our appearance to a great proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 02:56 PM
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The last link you posted contradicts what you're saying. Its not all about looks according to that article (which incels mostly think its about)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 02:47 PM
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I only pay attention to real studies. I'm sure someone with an agenda can easily set up multiple accounts and vote more than a few times
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 03:37 PM
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Where did you pull out that statistic? From which country and which professor led the study?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 01:55 PM
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For sure! I'm happier now seeing friends and following passions compared to when I was going on 3 or 4 dates a week and hardly seeing friends
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 10:42 AM
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Yeah, it requires effort for people to get laid. As a young man we'd just go to bars and clubs and get laid here and there when we were all drunk. Wasnt too complicated. Now I'm older I think a lot of it was a waste of time and these people who just do their hobbies are winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 07:42 AM
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You've jumped to a conclusion - incels are involuntary celibates. A lot of men can have casual sex but opt not to. Basically nearly anyone can get sex if they put effort in. The truth is a lot of people just dont want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 01:43 AM
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Yeah, I read about that. Its still a fantastic picture for what it represents.
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 06:09 AM
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I think this can only work in countries where the culture is for men to pay for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 12:54 AM
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I dont approach very hot women. Just prefer cute and normalish looking woman. I try to date an equal and not somebody I feel looks like a bloody supermodel
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 10:43 AM
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I see. Like a Chris Pratt body - a little muscle and a little chub. Do you prefer the leaner look? I think most women like lean men like a soccer player or that guy from hangover.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 02:15 AM
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What I get from this is you dont like the aesthetics of tattoos. Thats fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 01:25 AM
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Out of curiosity: is dad bod defined as just no muscle like leonardo di caprio or does it mean chubby like a seth rogan?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:12 PM
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Doesnt nearly every human get uglier as they age? I can think of few who look better at 45 over 25
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:28 PM
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I'm only in my mid 30s but i'm so glad sex drive goes down already. When I was 19 I could have sex or masturbate 6 or 7 times a day and it would be on my mind always. Now Its once a day or once every other day and I dont think about it so often. Its such a relief to be normal and not feel like a sexual maniac. I can now interact with women without wanting to flirt
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:27 PM
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Seeing some of the men on the streets means some of these women have peculiar sexual tastes. Plump and hairy is apparently in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:22 PM
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Just a bunch of neo conservative men with weird biases
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:43 PM
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Haha I love how a tattoo might suggest a question of low morality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:37 AM
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Within reason I dont care about their sexual past. Perhaps i'd be alarmed if it was exceedingly high or extreme like bdsm orgies; but a normal and active dating life is good. If i met a women in her 30s who had less than 10 partners i would be shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:25 AM
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Did you grab her head and push down as she was giving oral? I know some women who hate that with men they dont know well
/r/askTRP26/06/20 12:01 AM
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But imagine the world without jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:54 PM
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As a man i've only had sexual offers on dating apps. I get women adding me on facebook and trying to chat but thats more innocent and less sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:50 PM
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Because we're not having a debate so theres no need to discuss the pitfalls of tax rates and the various discontents
/r/MGTOW25/06/20 08:38 AM
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Traditionally in the UK the Labour Party are for the working class. They were created to fight for workers rights and they helped bring in health care for everyone and pensions.
/r/MGTOW25/06/20 06:50 AM
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Thats why I call myself left leaning. I shun the term liberal as that isnt traditional left leaning, support the working man, values that I was raised on.
/r/MGTOW25/06/20 04:46 AM
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I've read a lot of Foucault and his works on control, Marx (but who hasnt) and a few Dostoevsky novels. I'm still baffled by Freud's popularity to this day. Lovecraft is a bit racist for my liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 04:44 AM
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Unlikely. I wouldnt trust the conservative party in my country to strive for a good basic living wage for lower skilled workers or affordable housing. Job security, good schools, and decent healthcare thats free at the point of use should be okay with the conservative party
/r/MGTOW25/06/20 02:50 AM
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It just seems excessive to theorize so much and many sound so angry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:43 AM
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I'm decent at oral sex. I have a big dick but it rarely makes people orgasm. 80% of orgasms came from clit stimuli from hand or mouth. Overall, i think i'm above average but only because a lot of men are clueless and happy to be so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 05:24 PM
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I hear you. I can only say as i 20 something male sleeping with a new woman every week - and a 30 something male avoiding that - it doesnt impact on your wellbeing one iota. I'm almost embarassed how much attention i gave to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 05:02 PM
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Well I appreciate the honest answer. I've always said: its easy to find someone to spend a night with but hard to find someone to spend a life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 11:02 AM
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You think most people posting a lot on here are unhappy with their love lives? Its a compelling theory
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:37 AM
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Why do people sit around theorizing on the nature of sexual dynamics so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 06:47 AM
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I'm actually left leaning but I am sickened by the way the left has gone and the virtue signalling is getting out of hand. I still want the old fashioned values of: a good living wage, job security, affordable housing for all, easy access to health care, and excellent schooling for children. Its not extremism and its logical - the left changed some time in the early 00s and its tragic.
/r/MGTOW24/06/20 01:26 AM
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I way prefer sex the first 2 or 3 times and its a massive problem. Any relationship i've had that goes beyond 3 months my interest in sex with them goes down. Its so sad as it can undermine a relationship and make the other feel no good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 01:15 AM
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There must be a grey area with MGTOW here. Both are classed as red pilled but mgtow refuses to play the game and they just dont date or have relationships, whereas usually red pilled men usually still date and have relationships but also accept the nature of sexual dynamics
/r/askTRP23/06/20 03:19 PM
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I personally think this is kinda extreme. I have lots of friends and socialise normally. If ever asked why i'm single I tell them I prefer being single and I'm not into casual sex (which is true). I also feel I have nothing to hide with my facebook as i'm pretty moderate in all my views.
/r/MGTOW223/06/20 02:14 AM
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Do you actually need sex though? If I gave you 5 million dollars to not have sex for 10 years would you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:54 AM
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I've got your back. Your wife gets a compliment and you've got one less bill on the tab. You still go home with her as she loves you and you love her. The other people commenting are over theorising internet chumps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 02:23 PM
2

Nope. Same with men who use their appeal. I empathise and pity those who fall for such things so easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 02:21 PM
1

This may only be some men as a lot of us dated women in their prime. Most women i've dated have been between 21 to 25.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 05:23 PM
1

Haha i'm trying to explain i earn a normal income. I'm neither rich nor on the breadline. Most women dont care if you earn 150k a year - some people in the media just portray women as goldiggas and gullible men buy into this idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 05:01 PM
4

I've only dated one wealthy woman in finance. The rest were working normalish jobs in the 30 to 60k range; teachers, PR, HR, and admin. As far as I could tell, it wasnt a huge issue for them, and they I never felt they were overly focused on wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 04:18 AM
21

My experience is that women dont care that much. For example, I'm teacher on less than 50k a year. Not once have I met a woman or dated someone where its been the slightest of issues. This portrayal of women as money obsessed creatures needs to stop. As long as you can pay your way and have some self respect its fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 12:55 AM
3

I thought people were still complaining that men earn more than women? Now we dont earn enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 12:52 AM
13

I know one man who got called creepy because he brought up intellectual conversations on staff night outs. The ones who couldnt keep up with the dude just labeled him weird and creepy. He always said interesting things as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 05:03 PM
6

I'm glad you've given it all some thought. Its easy to be lured into extreme and black/white thinking when young
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 05:01 PM
5

I flirted with feminism even as a man. Now i'm much more mutual and just say equality. I noticed there were/are a lot of women who generally have ill will towards men in the feminist movement and there was a lack of overall empathy and blindness to nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 04:59 PM
1

Theres a lot of men without fathers in absentia or in death who are successful. This post was a bizarre assertion that somehow gained traction with people on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 04:56 PM
1

I think they dont understand what light makeup is because thats what they normally mean by makeup free. They probably dont know she is using a little eye liner and concealer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 09:50 AM
1

Sometimes. Unless the man doesnt like casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 03:39 AM
5

Never heard a woman complain about being approached. Its only when they linger when they are clearly not welcome or when they get all worked up in rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:51 AM
1

Celebrating a match. When you first sign up you'll get 20 or so matches as tinder puts you top of the pile
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 07:52 AM
1

First match on tinder - god that is tragic. Is he quite ugly?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 05:47 AM
1

Ah dont worry about women. Just had a good career doing something you like/love that makes decent money and have great friendships (look after your help on the way). Dont worry about kids and all that for at least 5 years (at the very least!).
/r/MGTOW212/06/20 04:57 PM
2

If you dont like hanging out with the others then dont do it unless in a big group.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 10:19 AM
2

Just remember this sub is just a very small fraction of the population who over theorise dating and try to dumb male dating dynamics down to 2 personality types. Take it all with a pinch of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:32 AM
1

If you grow it threatens their mediocrity.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 10:11 AM
1

That makes sense.What freaks me out is half end in divorce but a proportion of the ones still married are not happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:59 AM
1

If you go on tinder you can be honest as a guy. I used to put 'not looking for a relationship' and it still worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:58 AM
4

I guess they'll come soon enough. It would be a statistical anomaly if more than 95% of marriages worked out in your town.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:06 AM
3

Are you seeing the first rounds of divorce now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 06:55 AM
2

I'm 33. I feel anything much older this would be the generation who didnt grow up on internet dating and hookup culture (for better or for worse). There will be a generational divide between what under 35s say and over 35s will say here. From my own experience I dont think income matters that much. I got laid a lot as a man in his 20s but never had much money and often lived with a housemate. Never affected me in the slightest. Perhaps income matters more as we age as we want a fancy lifestyle, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 06:54 AM
1

Sounds cool. It would only be weird if it was like a 25 year old wage gap
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 04:03 PM
1

You wouldnt even notice hairloss in men in their early 20s. Its just mild recession. People like Jude Law or Heath Ledger didnt have their hairloss noticeable until their late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 04:06 AM
2

Is that a looks thing going for a younger man? Or do you think they're more fun and open minded?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:37 AM
8

Men usually start balding around 21 but its not visible that much until their early 30s and most dont shave until their 40s. Having said that 25% men dont actually go bald and just go grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:34 AM
2

I think getting laid is pretty damn easy at this age, but finding a similar aged woman for a relationship without too much baggage is quite hard.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:04 AM
2

Gym is a good place: dont need to be jacked but have some muscle and dont be overweigh. Hair - nicely styled and always washed. If you're balding probably shave it all off. Facial hair - choose a style and stick with that and maintain it. Just dont have the lazy look. Teeth - basic teeth maintenance of clean, healthy, and somewhat white teeth is the min. Skin - wash properly with a good skin cleaner and just throw on a little moisturizer after. Consider a good exfoliate every week. Clothes - thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 07:13 AM
1

Take a break. I was in the same position as you. I quit dating around a year ago and I'm happier. I'm just focusing on other goals and having fun seeing my pals. When I feel like dating again, I will.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:11 AM
4

At least he can sue the college
/r/MGTOW04/06/20 02:33 AM
1

Maybe just see your parents on your own, barring very important things like christmas.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:14 PM
2

Not me. I think women looks best early 20s but its annoying to be around them. Women (and all people) are usually more interesting 10 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 02:18 PM
2

Well i'll just say have fun pictures and exhibit some personality in the bio without writing an essay. I guess messages are each to their own but I never even mention sex or anything like that over messages as many people find it cringey or creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 01:45 PM
2

I hate when men make out tinder is so hard. I'm average looking, 5'10, bald, heavily tattooed, average job, I'm not even captain charisma - and I can still get a 5 or 10 matches a day and a few dates a week with little effort. People over think this whole thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 10:09 AM
2

Most people who claim to be feminists dont know what its about. I often ask people who claim to be feminist to name 5 feminist writers and academics and they cannot. I had to study feminism for a term because I studied literature and just those 4 months of study gave me a better understanding then what many women think they know about feminsim
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:19 AM
5

Nearly all of us have options with dating if we get ourselves out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 02:11 AM
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I love how online everyone is either high or low value people. In reality most people are pretty normal and not some extreme end of the spectrum of being a loser who lives with their parents or a millionaire big shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 03:45 PM
33

No way - I would hate to be a woman. Have a sex life - whore. No sex life - prude. Assertive - bossy. If they dont have kids they're criticised. If they have kids they're write offs. Heaven forbid they end up a single mom. They're judged so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 03:05 PM
1

I think this applies only really to americans as most of other western nations has decent student loans (or non at all).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:19 PM
3

I'm a teacher and i've worked with a few. Most are actually normal people who have turned bitter with being over-worked and disrespected. I think if I ever started going like that I would quit the profession
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 01:20 AM
1

That normal, average people cant get laid? Thats so extreme!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 12:59 AM
2

Volcel for just shy of one year. I was a womaniser before and slept with a new woman every month for years (on average). I realised it was making me unhappy and I was validating my own worth as a man via sex. I've had to cut down many interactions with women as i'm not to be trusted but I'm safe with women i dont find attractive (in that i wont flirt). I dont know what the long game is, as I get annoyed dating women long term as they irritate me, but i'm just playing it by ear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:01 PM
1

Appreciate the story but its kinda irrelevant. We're just talking about normal men getting laid if they want. People online make out its hard but in truth there has to be something really working against you if nobody wants to sleep with you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:55 PM
1

Its true. I make less than average and work in education. I can hold a conversation and have things to say but super funny or anything. I can still date women easily. Theres no trick
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 08:41 AM
1

They can get laid easily if they wanted to. Most dont really care so much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 08:39 AM
1

I was doing most of my dating late 20s. I've dated younger women and its fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 08:38 AM
1

Not true - date shows that the number of sexual partners we have is increasing - whats decreasing is the amount of sex we have (with the same people). I'm an average looking man, lowish income, decent social skills and i've always been able to get laid when I make an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:38 PM
1

If she was a guy she would be as autistic as she is now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 05:28 AM
5

Wasnt there any signs on the body of loose skin. My ex lost about 60 pounds before i met her and her skin was a little loose and boobs were not firm.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:18 AM
1

Are you all from small towns where you can only hang out with people you knew 20 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:05 AM
1

Yeah, depends which ones are users. My friend isnt on drugs but he will happily drink some beers if he has the cash for it (same as me!)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:57 AM
2

Identify as a woman and say a woman cant impregnate a woman? I'd do go for any loophole i could
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 04:37 PM
5

I disagree with the 'women are incapable of empathy' to men. I used to be friends with a young homeless man and whenever I sat on the streets and talked with him a long while it was always the women that would bring him meals or little gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:16 AM
2

Some of my female friends I met through work and some of my met at bars when drinking with friends. Sometimes you just bump into people and you end up hanging out and swapping details. You know how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 11:50 PM
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erm because they're interesting and fun. I have tons of female friends and I'm not trying to hit on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:22 PM
3

I disagree. I have a lot of female friends and I'm not interested at all and they just enjoy hanging out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:20 PM
1

They go to school and uni, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:12 AM
2

Thats not true for me. I use tinder primarily and dont feel the need to approach as they may be in a relationship or gay or just not interested so I usually dont bother. I personally have still approached on a rare occasion but i've only done this if i know i will kick myself if i didnt at least say hello.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:12 AM
0

I meant the kids. Its hard to believe weird stuff like that when they're raised in the culture. They'll know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:50 AM
2

For sure! I definitely want to be single long term!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:49 AM
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I'm sure it will be fine when they die - your parents children and their children will assimilate and adapt to the local culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:32 PM
2

I dont care about getting laid to be precise. I did all of that in my 20s. Enough for a lifetime. I'm not saying i wont have sex again, but i'm fine if i dont
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:25 PM
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Yes, but not all the time like when i was a teen, and the important thing is I dont really give a damn about sex so its liberating for me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 01:50 PM
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I have that problem. Within 6 months i'm usually bored with sex with the same person. I realised that sexually i just like variety with partners, but not that into fetish/kink sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 11:59 AM
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I no longer crave sex (and i'm now single) and i find it liberating as I feel no need to date or meet women. Its so peaceful but I'd be reluctant to admit as people would question my testosterone levels or claim i'm depressed or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 11:57 AM
1

Its also mostly the ones wanting sex posting as well. I think a lot of us guys get are needs for porn and can live without sexual intimacy easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 11:55 AM
1

I'm bald at 34 and I do pretty well with women. I think I hit a certain type as I'm in good shape, wear a beard, have a lot of tattoos and it works for me. I think us bald men (who look after ourselves) often polarize women. It will either be hell no or hell yes. You'll get less of the 'he's kinda cute,' women and thats a good thing
/r/askTRP15/05/20 03:32 AM
1

Like i said, i'm pretty vanilla and when i slept around i asked what womens kinks were and what they wanted to try and you would be surprised at how many had rape and domination desires. I was always honest with my tastes and non of them were about sub/dom scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:01 PM
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Haha how old are you? I know a lot of 20 something women who sleep around and play the field (dont know how it was for previous generations)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 02:04 AM
3

In my experience it is women who like kinky bdsm type sex most. I'm pretty vanilla and I found many women i've slept with have rape or domination fetishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 02:00 AM
1

Dorky question: this wasnt auto-moderated, right? you are a mod and you manually deleted the post. I'm not really complaining but just curious why they say auto-mod when its not automated
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:14 PM
2

Yep, chosing what to settle on his hard - time, money, looks, charisma, sex etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 10:40 AM
9

Both sides often seem bitter on this group but I also love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:10 PM
2

Up until 25 i'd only slept with 4 women. Between 25 and 30 I slept with, on average, 6 or 7 women a year (so it wasnt as crazy high numbers as some) but after 5 or 6 years it added up. I'm mid 30s now and stopped wasting my time like that around 2 years ago.
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 05:20 AM
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I'm actually glad I had a PUA/womanising stage as it taught me a lot about people and I had a lot of interesting experiences. Plus. now i've been a 'player' I know its short lived pleasure and doesnt make me happy and I can walkaway from it knowing for well it isnt a good life.
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 02:47 AM
1

I agree with the idea - but he's not wasted his life as he's not old yet. He's still probably got 40 years left on this rock.
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 02:45 AM
0

I actually dont believe this. Think about all the ugly and obese women - can they do fans only stuff? The only downside is we dont plan to date the ugly ones.
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 02:44 AM
1

I dont think this will end well as you've tried a lot already at fixing this. Is she interested in working out with you?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:01 AM
1

Yeah, its only average to be 6ft in Holland and Norway I believe. The average for a young man in my country is 5'10.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:31 AM
1

Nah its weak and there no evidence for the 80/20 with sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:06 PM
11

60% of america is fat so I bet the fat people are still having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 12:26 PM
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They diminish in your 30s usually. Less matching with people in their early 20s (blessing really). And a lot of people your own age are married or have kids so its a no there. Just less options but in a big city theres still enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 12:26 PM
1

Like attracts like; so ugly women will get the ugly dudes and the good looking women get good looking guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 11:35 AM
3

Mental masturbation; all this theorizing does no good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 02:41 PM
1

And you can never know how many people have had
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 02:40 PM
1

Marriage went down as we're less religious but cohabitation is way up - so people are still in LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 11:51 AM
2

How many times can a man or woman have sex before you call them that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 11:50 AM
2

Why? What are you motives to have sexless people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 10:39 AM
3

What is that saying - women are the gatekeepers of casual sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 09:45 AM
1

Wrong. Most women are single and under 30 will at least have a couple of flings a year. Its normal and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 09:43 AM
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The 80/20 rule just isnt true. I see loads of ugly people with partners and kids. Ugly people will mate with ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 09:42 AM
1

Because we should identify in which women are worth investing time in. Who is trustworthy? who is kind? who is good company? who has a career? who has hobbies? who has a personality and passions? Us men should get better at defining what we want and seeing if she has that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 02:35 AM
1

Thats not the reason and theres been quite a lot of articles and books on this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 02:33 AM
2

I've dated a lot and never had a woman ask me to pay their rent or their holidays or anything like that and i've dated normal women not the top twenty percentile
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 02:15 PM
2

Its 2020 and I dont think many educated women need a person to be their rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 02:09 PM
1

People are becoming more open minded with age. I'm a 33 male and I was surprised when a woman my age hooked up with a 21 year old guy. Youngest age gap I will do is 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 02:08 PM
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I think its because men are genetically larger than women and thats how they assert dominance. Not sure if there is any nationality where the average woman is bigger than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:56 PM
1

High value can mean a lot of things - perhaps someone is high value because they are incredibly charismatic or fun to be around. If they meant rich i'm sure they'd just say rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:53 PM
1

Yes, one of the issues with red pill is they hardly identify traits of a high value female.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:50 PM
0

Betas dont miss out. Betas will be more likely to be in a long term relationship younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:36 PM
2

30lbs of muscle on a normal frame is great looking. Just being 180lbs at 12% body fat looks great for most men.
/r/MGTOW28/04/20 07:37 AM
2

I was tempted but decided not to. We still look great natty if we follow a good diet and lift right.
/r/MGTOW28/04/20 01:16 AM
1

How can we know the average height of actors? Is that just a random 100 people sample?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:40 AM
1

A lot of us dont even want sex that much - i'm busy with work, hobbies, friends, gym etc. Its not a competition who has sex more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:01 AM
3

All good points !
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 01:51 PM
24

Looks are temporary but character and personality are permanent. I see this with both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 01:00 PM
18

She doesnt even have to try - less than 20% of the world is white - we're a global ethnic minority.
/r/MGTOW22/04/20 05:15 AM
2

Awkward to say but he may have a fat fetish. Embarrassingly I also prefer fatter women (probably get downvoted for liking them) and I'm sure people have thought it was weird who I chose to date.
/r/MGTOW22/04/20 01:12 AM
1

Its weird because I choose not to date or have sexual encounters but being truthful it is nice to still be looked at and be liked; I guess thats an ego thing but it does feel nice. Non aspects sexual aspects are huge - I sometimes think of some famous people I love like Danny DeVito or Quentin Tarrantino and both are pretty ugly yet both of them are such vibrant people. I'd love to emulate that kind of charisma and it goes to show how people can be very valuable beyond a pretty face or hot body.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 02:52 PM
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Its usually down to career and being a bit free spirited. I remember not having my career settled at 30 and it bothered some women my own age but women in their early twenties didnt really care and just wanted fun dates. Many people get more serious as they age and screen people out if they dont earn a certain amount but younger people are less judgmental in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 11:13 PM
1

Casual sex is easy to get for many people as theres so many apps like tinder and bumble and you can get a hookup if you really want. Its harder to find someone long term who is compatible (as i'm sure you all know). Also, what you are referring to is often termed looksmatching
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:35 AM
1

I teach kids and I do believe that some people are natural followers and some also just go with the flow. Not all are good leaders or even free spirits
/r/TheRedPill18/04/20 11:12 AM
1

I dont believe a beta can become an alpha - not a true alpha. They can only wisen up and minimize their beta traits and maximize any alpha traits.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 05:49 AM
1

I like this as i've always known there is more than the dichotomy of alpha/beta and most of us are somewhere in the middle
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 04:55 AM
5

Its clearly a joke. The wisest way to display taste is to say what you want not what you dont want (positive over negative)
/r/MGTOW17/04/20 01:52 AM
3

I only heard of this FDS recently - is it a new thing? People use to say gold digger back in the day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:07 AM
2

It does if you use tinder. A lot of matches are cool with a simple hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:05 AM
4

Sounds like they want good looking, wealthy, but submissive - probably very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:04 AM
2

The FDS is cringey and they seem to just be considered with getting free meals of other financials gifts. Its actually kind of weird from grown ass women to be so like children. As for the question: a HVM is one is pursues and eventually succeeds with his goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:00 AM
10

It doesnt really. I'm a guy and I slept around a lot in my 20s and calmed in my 30s. I'd be a hypocrite to judge you women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:00 PM
11

Nope. I was a broke ass dude in my 20s and I was never in want of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:56 AM
4

WTF?! They're hookers - they dont care about your face. They just want to earn some cash. Btw Thailand is often like that as some of the women have very little money and seek a husband for financial security. It will probably end within a generation though as thailand is slowly becoming a success story in terms of economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 10:42 AM
1

Haha this is fodder for the toxic masculinity brigade
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 02:46 PM
2

I wouldnt date a woman who looked like a super model as I just wouldnt be comfortable. I'd be happy to date a woman smarter than me or richer than me, or even funnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:57 PM
0

I disagree. I know a few ugly guys with little to offer who still have girlfriends. People over theorise dating, but in real life I see all sorts of weird couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:33 AM
10

Thats the opposite of hypergamy if the woman is dating down
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:12 PM
3

Fair play. Do you think you at excel at something else to compensate for looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:41 AM
8

Thats gonna cause chaos
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:16 AM
25

most couples are looks matched - its actually very rare to see a married couple where one is hot and one is ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:42 AM
2

I'm in that group that is really at risk. My income is really low right now so i'm living off savings. I worked out last week I can go 4 months without work (and i'm lucky compared to some). If we were in lockdown and cant work in 4 months I will run out of cash.
/r/MGTOW06/04/20 03:05 AM
2

When I got into my 30s the juice is hardly worth the squeeze. I'd slept around a lot and I had some good relationships over the years as well. I got the point where I just wanted to focus on career, friends, and hobbies. I dont dismiss women and dating forever but it isnt worth it right now. The answer is simply what are your priorities right now and are you pursuing them
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:36 AM
1

Between 16 and 17 I had no friends. Left school at 16 and all my mates fell into drug use. I got a crappy job as a waiter but I knew I didnt want to be like them so I cut myself off. I literally spent a year just working, reading books, watching films, and playing computer games. I went a college at 17 and then began making more normal friends after that. Other than that - I've lived in 3 different cities in the last 10 years and had to make a social circle from scratch each times. Usually I mak…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 02:25 PM
1

Isnt this true of men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 12:51 PM
1

We're waiting for someone to say they like short, chubby, balding dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 07:46 AM
0

I agree with that. I've never felt people care if you earn 60k or 80k. It wouldnt be the difference between date and dont date. I've never felt my income as a teacher has hindered my dating chances in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 12:26 AM
7

I work in education and most women i've dated have earned more than me: as far as I can tell women dont care that much as long as you arent broke and can pay your own half.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:09 PM
1

What country are you in?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:06 AM
1

Has anyone get tips on working out from home? I only own a random 10kg plate and no other equipment.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 02:14 AM
4

I am. I actually swipe left on really hot women as I feel they'd be hard work. I just want a normal looking woman who is fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:12 AM
6

Women are usually prettier but men arent supposed to be pretty. The essence of male attractiveness is usually in masculine traits and features.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:15 PM
2

To any men freaking out over the jaw thing that you dont control - there are actually a lot of good looking people without brick jaws: dicaprio, ed norton, tom hardy, miles teller. I've done decently with women and i just have a normal jaw not a strong one - and i used to get confused when i read online that we're supposed to have this massive jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:52 AM
1

Good post. I think the original poster is a little closed minded about the whole thing and he'd be wise to actually listen and research the topic/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 09:28 AM
1

I've not experienced so its hard to tell - but I see suicide is way up with those who receive online bullying vs physical bullying. I'd have to do some research to know why
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:20 AM
2

I tend to go to bars on dates and we just buy a round each. Its really simple and lots of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:01 PM
3

The internet bullying is often worse then the kid that gets a dead arm or a shove here or there. The internet bullying erodes their self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:21 AM
1

Don't worry about social proof. I haven't a ton of close friends. I just go on tinder and hook up with women and enjoy the process.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 02:30 PM
1

I rose the fanny carousal if it makes you feel any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:17 AM
6

Nearly all humans want to be liked and admired.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:18 AM
1

I think most people don't like dick pics in the same as I would want a close up pic of a vagina. They're pretty grim to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:38 PM
1

You should go and commit to a certain number of days per week. You all ready know this, but get your sleep hygiene in order.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 03:27 AM
7

Apparently those with low IQ or high IQ and those with severe mental illnesses are very much likely not to get married or long term cohabit with a romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:23 PM
3

I'm really not into but many women I've been with like hair pulling, dirty talk, spanking, assertiveness - i'm not really into it that much but I try and play the part to keep them turned on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 09:40 PM
3

Hasnt the looks standards gone up though? Wasn't Rick Astley and Chesney Hawkes seen as sexy back in the 80s?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:35 PM
1

I'm a guy and I will say its a want not a need
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 11:20 PM
5

I agree. I'm a little bit feminine and I have never struggled to get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:06 PM
4

Both genders decline in looks in their 30's. Stop this mental masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:01 AM
2

Girl taking a selfie and sticking out her tongue - I vote no.
/r/MGTOW07/01/20 07:17 AM
2

Its actually very common for this generation to sleep around - i had a mad summer and slept with 10 women. Imagine if i decided to do that for years: easily be in triple digits if i wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:08 PM
14

I guess a lot of us (not just women!) go downhill in our 30s. I'm in my mid 30s and most of my peers have gone downhill in terms of looks (and a small group actually look better). But this is life - we age and we tend to be less beautiful as the years pass. Its no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:06 PM
-1

This is pure rubbish. Almost everyone who went to college would have had sex in their prime with people in their prime. Get over yourselves dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:19 AM
3

Totally location based my friend - places like Paris you may only get 2 or 3 matches - normal UK city you could get 15 a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:22 AM
2

For while I dated many women at the same time and obviously slept with them - eventually I met one woman and stopped seeing the others. Modern Love 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:42 PM
8

OLD dating is working great for some of us men - so the short answer is NO. I'm not even that good looking - decent face, healthy body, dress pretty well, not high status, can hold a decent conversation - and I get 10 or so matches a day and can pretty much go on 4 or 5 dates a week if I actually wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 10:46 AM
2

TBF i'm quite mgtow in lifestyle but i dont get why we should hate gay folk - makes no sense - they just hook up with their own sex and it makes no odds to me
/r/MGTOW04/01/20 05:48 PM
1

As others have stated: its mostly a status symbol and a need to be part of a collective herd - to be 'in the group' so to speak.
/r/MGTOW02/01/20 07:45 AM
1

They get a lot of self value via sexual interest so when you fail to give it to them they feel worthless. She will lash out at you but she's really just angry with herself.
/r/MGTOW02/01/20 07:43 AM
2

In a way, yes. I think ideally women prefer more muscle mass than what he carriers, but considering that more than half of americans and Europeans are overweight - just being a healthy bodyweight puts him above a 6 or 7 for his body
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:51 AM
2

I'm judging by looks alone. If it was skill or talent i'm sure he'd go up to an 8. Its just that the OP asked for it to be in appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:03 AM
2

In my mind a strong 5 would be an Edward Norton.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:36 AM
2

What has worked for me is just going to bars on first dates and just grabbing four or five drinks. Its very rare that a woman wont pay for 1 round. Usually costs me around 20 or so gb pounds per date and they end pretty well. I never go out for dinner personally as I don't like the format and I've got a few food allergies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:17 PM
2

They're getting smarter - I wonder about the programmers motive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:15 PM
1

I hate these bots
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:03 PM
8

I think americans pay more on dates and they dont go halves like us northern europeans
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:28 PM
4

I'm in the UK and fortunatley our norm is to go halves on dates - another cool thing is dinner is more like a 2nd or 3rd date thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:25 PM
1

Maybe I am naïve, but I thought the majority of people believed in only being for your biological children - I didn't know people wanted men to pay for kids that aren't theirs.
/r/MGTOW28/12/19 05:46 AM
7

My two gripes were organizing meet and being on time and them trying to make me jealous. The jealousy game was silly and women over 25 in my country (uk) don't really do it. Latina woman, in my experience, often do weird shit like mention a guy that was checking them out or talking to them and then they watch your response. 'do whatever you think is right,' is apparently not the correct response they want.
/r/MGTOW24/12/19 10:50 AM
28

I'm pretty similar in that i've dated women from most cultures. For me, Latina women are the most high maintenance.
/r/MGTOW24/12/19 08:16 AM
1

Late 20s. I was dating 21 to 30 year olds usually. Only ever dated 2 women over 30 so far, but i'm sure it will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:06 PM
1

Why I don't believe in hypergamy: I'm medium to low income, not high status socially, not alpha (I'm a relaxed person, mostly), not super buff, only 5'11, okayish face but not hot. And despite all this I've dated lawyers, accountants, businesswomen (and tons of average tier jobs) who have all been at least average in terms of looks. I can say for sure that some of these women were definitely not dating up with me! I think the only thing i'm better at then a lot of men is i'm genuinely a good lis…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 01:33 PM
1

The most helpful advice will probably come from people in a similar situation (or even worse) situation than you and have worked beyond the issue that you face. They will understand better than anyone what you are going through and they will offer you good advice, rather than just toxic positivity.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 03:25 PM
1

I'm in my 30s and I usually dislike dating women in their 30s as most have kids or are wanting them (there are about 10 or 20 percent who are chill). So thiryty-something are the only ones i'm wary of. I think it would be nice to get into my 40s and meet another childfree woman and settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:12 PM
20

Perhaps stop going to developing nations if you don't like this behavior. You would have been better off going to japan/korea/europe
/r/askTRP16/12/19 01:10 PM
1

I hear you there. I don't think I can live in the UK long term anyway. Every time I come here i'm fed up after a month. I worry slightly about retirement but that's 30 years away for me
/r/MGTOW15/12/19 01:41 PM
2

Its not as cynical as that. I know a successful filipina woman who earns okayish money and she sends a quarter of her wage home to pay for her mom and austistic brother. I asked her why the state don't help (apparently its not a thing there) and I asked her why she paid so much and she said because to not do so would make you scum in the eyes of the community
/r/MGTOW15/12/19 01:18 PM
1

TBH I slept around a ton in my 20s so its not about that.
/r/MGTOW15/12/19 12:38 PM
1

Is her family interfering at all?
/r/MGTOW15/12/19 12:37 PM
3

I don't think so. I live on and off in asia, and I have been tempted a few times. Some sweet and affectionate women out there but I sometimes feel off put by their families and a few other things.
/r/MGTOW15/12/19 12:37 PM
3

Off topic, but: are you still a Christian?
/r/MGTOW14/12/19 01:41 PM
1

Of course we do: I want to end homelessness, tackle addiction, reduce crime, give people access to low cost healthcare, ensure people have social care when they retire (if needed). I'm just rational about these aims and still believe in balancing books and making it economically viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 10:43 AM
4

Hell yeah! Dating is easy in the UK (more or less) and theres no reason to overly theorise why we're doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:31 PM
1

So just by not being fat we're in the top 50%. Awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 06:31 AM
2

I love going for hiking and you'd be surprised at the number of women down for this. In the winter its nice to cozy up with a film.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 06:28 AM
3

Probably like Ryan Gosling has his
/r/BlackPillScience05/12/19 12:05 PM
26

I actually quit dating and sleeping around. My whole 20s I ran around with women and had a new woman on average every month. I look back now and I regret the amount of time, money, and effort I put in. I wish I followed my goals more. For now, i'm very happy taking a few years away from women and focusing on my ambitions. Once i'm there and I succeed I will consider wasting time on flings again
/r/askTRP05/12/19 06:33 AM
3

Call the movie KAREN.
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 09:59 AM
1

I wouldn't call anyone a loser based on money - I call people losers who don't follow their goals and passions and end up regretting life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:25 AM
10

I've seen too many women date losers to agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 06:51 PM
1

We've all done it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 03:35 PM
1

His argument isnt there to begin with - he idea is fragile as hell. It looks like he was drunk posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 01:56 PM
1

Anyone who describes men as either alpha and beta and only that comes across as an imbecile.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:02 AM
1

Not at all. Charisma, has a career, has interests and hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 01:32 PM
2

Looks: 7 Wealth and status: 4 Conversation/fun: 8
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:49 PM
3

A lot of women will chase you due to white worshipping, you'll at alpha the locals physically, and you'll be relatively rich to them. I've been all over south east asia and not getting sex there is like not being able to get meat at a BBQ.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:06 PM
3

My worst nightmare is one of those nagging types. I met a few during dates and you can see it usually within a few dates if you are careful on the signs.
/r/MGTOW20/11/19 01:26 PM
3

It does. I still have blue pull dreams. Its hard to crush them.
/r/MGTOW20/11/19 01:25 PM
11

I had this a few times - i'm polite so i stay for a drink and then leave after 30 minutes.
/r/MGTOW17/11/19 04:46 PM
1

I don't know if people read the whole thing but I very much agree with everything you wrote. I have mild symptoms of arthritis at age 33. I do worry that one day I will need joint replacement and that's why i'm making changes now to my diet. The only bad thing is I sometimes feel guilty going for runs or lifting heavy as its not the best on my joints.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 01:00 AM
1

You hate artistic women? Fair enough - i'd happily meet them even if it isnt a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:06 PM
1

Its not for some. I prefer artsy women who are cultured and well travelled. This is like 5% of the population so its way easier in a big city.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 02:02 AM
1

I've always done well with women and I think my only assets are I hold a good conversation, I can listen, and l'm relatively attractive. When I tell them I've published a few articles over the years and some short fiction they usually find it somewhat interesting but its not a major point of interest to most women I have met.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 01:09 AM
1

I'm not a 'hot' guy nor am i rich and i always did well with women so i think their is something in the concept of 'game' or charisma
/r/MGTOW202/11/19 01:19 PM
1

Dont need to justify - one of the criticisms about mgtow from more balanced people is why dont they go their own way instead of just bashing women. These kind of posts are what the mgtow group needs. Sadly we get a lot of men in the anger phase and they are the most vocal so we look like a womens hate group (which is something i'm not down with)
/r/MGTOW230/10/19 04:21 AM
1

You touched a nerve
/r/askTRP30/10/19 12:41 AM
1

Very interesting. I'm actually spending some time in Bucharest and Belgrade next year so i'll find out the hard way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 03:14 PM
1

That's fair enough. I dated a Slovakian woman who always went halves but she told me it was usually expected for the man to pay for a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 02:48 PM
1

He probably is better looking than you but that's the way it goes. I'm decent looking but not elite - you think I lose my shit every time someone hotter than me is mentioned? Personally I couldn't care less about being the hottest man in the room.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:12 AM
1

Its cultural - I know first hand that in UK and Finland nearly all under 40s split bills or at the least take it in turns to pay. I know Slavic cultures the man has to pay for most things and women may make a token purchase here or there. I'm not sure with America though as I see very contradicting things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 12:01 AM
3

I used to do it all the time. You just put on music and most people just let loose.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 02:18 PM
8

Yep - average age gap for married couples is around 3 years. Women tend to date men 2 to 4 years above them, not 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 06:44 AM
25

We'd also probably fuck the girl who sleeps around as well
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 07:46 AM
44

I agree but women probably say the same thing about us. They see us dating multiple women and they'll complain about us guys being players. I guess most of us who can sleep around usually will sleep around - at least for a while
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 05:21 AM
3

Exactly!
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 01:48 PM
1

It doesn't make sense to me
/r/MGTOW19/10/19 08:52 AM
-12

Most people wouldn't want to be a victim - that makes you the loser.
/r/MGTOW19/10/19 05:45 AM
19

The woman starts shrieking: what good does shrieking ever do?? Has it ever had a positive outcome?
/r/MGTOW19/10/19 03:16 AM
1

For sure. We're still human. I helped a woman who was run over recently. I'd have to be a psychopath to not do anything.
/r/MGTOW218/10/19 01:34 AM
5

I liked the concept of mgtow because I've personally opted out of relationships (and of casual sex) and I thought there would be similar guys. Sadly, many are right wing dudes who just hate women. I'd love there to be a group for people who just choose to be single and live their best lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:48 AM
3

I'm basically mgtow but I agree that there are lots of problems within the community. I feel we need a new mgtow group for men who want to self improve, live a good life, not fixate on finding love or sex, and just help our fellow dudes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:04 AM
1

Statistically it would be extremely unlikely for her to be pregnant.
/r/MGTOW212/10/19 01:50 PM
1

Yeah, explaining to people that you choose to be single but the problem is they don't believe you. I personally don't explain the reasons as I don't think it will help.
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 11:19 PM
2

Or just in the same social circle
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 11:27 AM
3

Beautiful countryside and beaches - not into the cities myself. I went with a woman last time I was there on holiday and I deeply regret not doing it with mates or by myself.
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 08:45 AM
0

We must get private pensions.
/r/MGTOW04/10/19 10:57 PM
5

In the UK its just biological children we have to pay for (unless we adopt)
/r/MGTOW04/10/19 02:23 PM
4

But the good thing is 5 cant keep an 8 or 9
/r/MGTOW04/10/19 02:11 PM
8

It may be the controversial but the only way to not be mgtow is to marry/date down. If you are a 7/10 you'd have to date a 5 or a 6 so that their hypergamous nature is fulfilled as they cant do any better. However, its hard to live with yourself when you settle for less so its not much of a choice.
/r/MGTOW04/10/19 01:56 PM
6

They'll lose cheap labour that's for sure. We do have plenty of unemployed to fill the positions but most of east Europeans who come in have a better reputation for working hard (which is actually true) but we need to fix this issue within our country rather than importing workers.
/r/MGTOW04/10/19 12:18 AM
32

From what I remember it was because they might have grandchildren (i'm not joking) and they also suggested that women in their 60s are more prone to sickness. Retirement will now be 66 for women and 67 for men.
/r/MGTOW03/10/19 03:03 PM
3

I'm curious if they are seen as physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 11:06 AM
1

What physical traits are you into with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 09:42 AM
3

You got a thing for the darker man!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 09:39 AM
3

Are you grossed out by decent looking men over 30 likes Chris Pratt or Jamie Dornan?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 09:37 AM
1

We all peak at different ages but its usually under 40 for men. I probably looked at my best late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 09:36 AM
1

But they are free to say that crap - we shouldn't ban it because we don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 01:39 PM
2

Broke and ugly would be mine - if you are gonna be broke then you better be hot otherwise its a no for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 01:39 PM
1

Its horrendous - most of its about self improvement and how to improve dating life with practical advice. I think they are cynical in that they say women are hypergamous (when in reality tons of women marry absolute losers and they do date down), but even though they believe that its no problem and its not like they are inciting violence or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:40 AM
3

If its in the office its essential.
/r/MGTOW30/09/19 11:10 AM
26

The best rejection method is to tell them you are seeing them so then nobody gets their feelings hurt and there is no backlash.
/r/MGTOW30/09/19 08:14 AM
1

Entrepreneurs in Cars is fantastic - check him out
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:15 AM
2

Not quite. The country i'm staying in now in asia absolutely smashes women in divorce. Men even get custody of the kids (and he sends them to his parents).
/r/MGTOW28/09/19 10:57 PM
7

So glad I live in a country that don't have alimony.
/r/MGTOW28/09/19 12:50 PM
5

Dating has never been easier for the top 20% of men than right now. I believe its harder right now for average men, and awful for below par men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 05:49 AM
1

I'd rather have health treatment on the NHS in the UK than private in Asia (i'd probably trust Korea or Japan though).
/r/MGTOW28/09/19 05:46 AM
1

They've seen tons of white people in this city for years.
/r/MGTOW28/09/19 05:45 AM
1

Yeah, you need a degree to teach in most countries.
/r/MGTOW28/09/19 05:45 AM
2

If I could live anywhere it would probably be somewhere like Croatia or Italy as I respect the culture a lot more. With the UK leaving the EU I need to wait and see if we will still be allowed to live abroad in Europe or if its game over (Norway and Switzerland are still allowed to work in the eu so I'm hopeful still).
/r/MGTOW27/09/19 10:57 PM
1

If i'm honest; I've never been sick these past few years so I've never had a chance to use the health insurance in asia, so I cant say if its any good first hand.
/r/MGTOW27/09/19 10:55 PM
1

Its just creepy as hell. I've travelled half the world and some Asian people look at us like we're zoo creatures.
/r/MGTOW27/09/19 10:54 PM
1

I've got health insurance in Asia. Healthcare isn't free in the UK - we pay 12% of our income towards healthcare but we all get the same healthcare (whether you are paying 100$ a month or a 1000k a month). Its good in the sense that it helps the poor and vulnerable: it covers kids, students, low income, pensioners as well. So no matter if you're having a bad year you wont die if you get cancer or ulcer or something.
/r/MGTOW27/09/19 02:52 PM
2

My mind is on that: at the moment I have almost no pension or major equity. I feel saving 600$ or so a month is fine for now - but not going to get me anywhere in my 40s and 50s. Most of the people I know at my age don't have pensions either and I feel we may all be fucked in 30 years time.
/r/MGTOW27/09/19 02:44 PM
3

That's a good point. As long as I keep enough money in the bank I could always set myself backup in asia again (tbf - its only around $2000 to set yourself up in this part of the world)
/r/MGTOW27/09/19 02:08 PM
2

Do you like it? For me I like the weather and easy lifestyle but hate the traffic and pollution and how the locals stare at us like imbeciles.
/r/MGTOW27/09/19 02:06 PM
3

He's fine. His message is good. He's basically sworn off relationships, but is fine if men date and sleep around. I still have casual encounters with women from tinder just because I enjoy sex.
/r/MGTOW26/09/19 01:45 PM
2

Same. I prefer normal looking women, in general. The turks have a curse 'may you have daughters and may they be beautiful*.' The gist being that beautiful people are usually difficult and lure in trouble. *its a very bad translation but that's a basic version.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:19 PM
2

You weren't fat before though
/r/MGTOW26/09/19 04:25 AM
2

I was miserable when I was seeing 3 or 4 women at the same time. I'd never date more than 2 people at once now, but preferably one as like my space.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 01:58 PM
3

I live here too. One more point to add: women tell me they dont like asian men because they want them to mother them whereas most younger western men don't need another mother.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 05:57 AM
2

Well i'll always go to the gym and hiking as that's good for my health and mental health. And i'd always see the guys as that's what I probably enjoy the most. Its only reading or watching movies that would take a hit.
/r/MGTOW219/09/19 03:54 PM
1

I quit gaming during its demise when it went online. But I've noticed recently its returning to the storytelling narrative and open world games and I could see myself getting into it.
/r/MGTOW219/09/19 03:13 PM
1

Its a taboo topic but I've seen a ton of my mates age pretty badly in their mid 30s. The thing is its easier for men to avoid 'the wall' just by staying in shape. The biggest one most men face is hair loss - some men suit bald and some men don't. It definitely ages us but it can look damn good on some men.
/r/MGTOW219/09/19 05:15 AM
1

You need to get out!
/r/MGTOW18/09/19 01:16 PM
1

Is this generational? I think the vast majority of under 30s who are single have done tinder for dates and sex.
/r/MGTOW18/09/19 02:32 AM
2

Isnt that high income anyway? I've always had the impression that everyone in IT is at least middle income.
/r/MGTOW17/09/19 01:29 PM
1

Its only 300$ to fly back home to Europe but to Chile the flights are 800$ one way
/r/MGTOW216/09/19 04:41 PM
1

I actually live in Vietnam so I know all about cheap countries (for better and for worse)
/r/MGTOW216/09/19 03:48 PM
1

I'm totally fine with being single and really like it this way. The only time i'd rather be with a woman is for vacations as its easy to get bored in the evenings. I actually bypass this by using tinder on vacations and getting hookups.
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 04:23 AM
1

Her before in that movie is almost perfect for me lookswise
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 04:21 AM
2

So true - I think its subconscious though - they don't know they're sabotaging
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 04:15 AM
6

What kind of business do you have?
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 04:12 AM
1

I've used it for one night stands
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 04:11 AM
2

Are you more of a powerlifter? I know a lot of women who just perceive it as fat and don't realise the muscle going on.
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 04:11 AM
1

Good post. I cant wait for the mgtow community to go from incels and bitter men to just normal men who are opting out of marriage. I can see the change happening in this sub as i'm seeing more balanced posts.
/r/MGTOW214/09/19 10:59 PM
1

Everyone is different and requires different levels of social interaction. I'm personally happy spending most evenings reading, watching movies, or working out. I think I only see my mates once a week to go out for some drinks. I see family members once every few weeks as well and all of that is enough. Occasionally have the odd sexual fling, too. If you feel you need more social interaction then you have to become more active in meeting new and likeminded people.
/r/MGTOW212/09/19 07:57 AM
1

I love the nature, food, weather, beaches - I must warn you though that nearly all the women in the bars are sex workers or paid staff who are their to entice customers into the bar to buy drinks.
/r/MGTOW210/09/19 11:06 PM
1

I'm left leaning on certain issues - i'm in favour of the European healthcare system; I believe we should protect the most vulnerable in society; everybody should have access to free education; and I believe moral issues that don't really affect others isn't our business; I'm also quite anti-war unless under dire circumstance. I'm right leaning on crime and illegal migration
/r/MGTOW209/09/19 08:49 AM
1

Haha i'm no salty in the sense of bitter - i'm just careful with money to a fault.
/r/MGTOW206/09/19 11:04 PM
1

I've noticed it, but many people laugh it off. I remember growing up poor so now I struggle to waste money. I will always chose the bars where the drinks are 3$ over the places where you have to pay 6$. Its an issue with holidays though - I legit want to visit Japan and Chile but end up visiting places closer in Europe because i'm reluctant to spend stupid money on flights.
/r/MGTOW206/09/19 05:20 AM
2

I'd agree with all but this: Most people accumulate wealth, fame, career or experience in their life The vast majority of people are not successful or famous.
/r/MGTOW05/09/19 11:05 PM
4

I've had sex with people who were physically not attractive but great and interesting people and it doesn't end well. Sadly both looks and personality matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 01:18 PM
3

Its fine as long as its choice. I prefer to be single as I like to do other things then date. I feel bad if someone craves a partner and cant find someone suitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 10:44 AM
3

This whole dating apps is for the top 20% is rubbish. I'm probably not even top 30% and I do just fine. Its usually down to an awful profile or an inability to hold an online conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:29 AM
1

Plus 4 pound pints and not 7 pound pints
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:20 AM
2

Nottingham was probably best. Theres 2 good unis there and for some reason at uni of notts the women out number men - its something like 60/40 split.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 04:24 AM
1

I was in the midlands and I loved it. Birmingham and Nottingham have great dating scenes. Italy the online dating isn't that big though. In Nottingham it would take a month of swiping each day to run out of new people. Milan, a city 4 times the size, you will run out in 10 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:47 AM
2

Italy, UK, Vietnam were all fine for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:35 AM
3

I'm still dating and sleeping around with 20 something women and I'm not anything special. I'm 33 years old, in decent shape, work as a teacher, can hold a conversation, lives abroad etc. This whole thing where you're supposed to be elite to have sex is simply not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:02 AM
8

One of my closest friends has a weight problem that essentially pushes most women he likes away. He kind of knows it though, but struggles to keep it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 06:04 AM
1

I think some people get intimidated by their partners high numbers and feel they wont live up to their partners previous people they have slept with. When we see people worry about high n counts we can see they are scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 11:41 PM
6

As I man: I don't care that much about sex either. I know sex will happen eventually. I just want to have fun, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:28 PM
2

I'm mgtow leaning and I can understand why feminism occurred - property rights, rape, equal pay, harassment etc. I even acknowledge that both genders face their own burdens and I don't believe that any gender is the 'villain'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:04 AM
3

Maybe if Brock Lesnar was gay and very forward and handsy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:54 AM
1

I feel like mgtow has plenty of good points but many members seem to have taken way too far. I imagine most people who are lurking on this sub reddit feel a similar way about mgtow. I'd bet the majority of us are not full blown mgtows living ghost mode, but we haven't fully dismissed the concepts as some are valid/
/r/MGTOW215/08/19 08:27 AM
3

I'm a man and I will say she isn't wrong. In my 20s I took risks and presumed every normal woman is on birth control. I'm in my 30s now and in my experience only half or do are on birth control so I have learned to wrap up as I dont want kids. I'm actually really lucky never to have gotten an std.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:19 PM
2

I've never been a pua. I just occasionally meet women in bars or tinder and have a mini fling for a few weeks. I'm not wanting to do the god pill. I think roosh did it to cope with the murder of his sister.
/r/MGTOW10/08/19 11:15 PM
11

For me, the motive for marriage and children is so damn low. Its a wonder that more in society haven't opted out already.
/r/MGTOW10/08/19 03:37 PM
2

I just don't want a favourite. I like having many foods I love. To get off the food analogy: I could do monogamy in terms of bonding, but I couldn't ever imagine having sex with the same person every day or two for the next 40 years. Its just not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 01:33 PM
2

I just cant imagine having the same healthy (hopefully) meal every day. Maybe marriage just isn't for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 01:19 PM
6

Like eating a nice but same meal everyday isn't ideal for some of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:53 PM
6

Nothing happens - they live their lives albeit with no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:07 PM
8

Most men these days don't want kids - the current generation between 21 - 30 are so far dodging them pretty well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:23 PM
4

You do know tons of just don't want to marry and have kids, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 02:06 PM
3

For sure - obviously you cant be attracted to each other and both parties must be honest with each other about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:53 AM
1

The world is overly populated so this may be natures way of fixing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 12:51 AM
4

'Wasted'
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:41 AM
1

Online dating is super easy - try that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:12 PM
8

I disagree. I'm in my 30s and not wealthy by any means and I am just working as a language teacher and I'm actually doing well in dating. I don't agree that women or as obsessed with money like some people make out. The women I've met just want to have a good conversation, a laugh, treat fairly, and all the good stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:29 PM
0

In the UK we tend to have sex in the first 3 dates. We're also not too fussed about status and all that. I see americans often worried about income whereas wages aren't a huge factor in romance or sex here. You're right about Vietnam: sex is abundant here if you want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:12 PM
-1

Maybe its location dependent - it works great in England, Italy, and Vietnam
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 06:28 AM
0

Online dating like POF and okcupid are dead - we're all using tinder and bumble and hinge these days. Its super easy and people are pretty chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 06:28 AM
-1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:35 AM
21

I just use tinder and bumble and it works for me. If I don't know them on the street they may be: gay, married, celibate, just not interested, and so on - at least everyone on tinder who matches with me is single, mutually attracted, and open to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:36 AM
5

In Vietnam and Cambodia its even cheaper - closer to $1,200 a month
/r/MGTOW13/07/19 09:17 AM
7

Yeah, sounds awful. I'd avoid them at all costs.
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 12:30 PM
3

I'm 33
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 12:10 PM
2

I tend to date my age or younger (but never under 25).
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 12:10 PM
1

'You have to look your best, say all the right things, and be funny. ' Not true - I'm average looking and I'm no comedian and I always got laid easily enough. Its a myth you have to be perfect. I just chose not to date as its simpler.
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 11:40 AM
1

Ah that's unique. I dated for many years in the UK and we always halved. We just took it in turns paying for a round (bar hopping to new bars each time). It never affected my results. Maybe some guys just prefer to pay out of a macho sense of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:59 AM
2

I'm too old to by called a fuck boy - probably a womanizer after 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:57 AM
4

We got dutch in the uk as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:47 AM
2

Other people have said it and i'll say it too: don't go on food dates until after you're fucking. I've always just gone on drinks date and I've had many great dates and nights out because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:44 AM
11

The redpill is a bunch of dudes talking online about being alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 12:11 PM
6

I don't know and I don't care. They're not my first choice either. We're all fucking and that's all that matters.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 09:48 AM
7

I'm not sure if its true. I do very well with women and i'm just a teacher who is athletic (not jacked) and has a slightly above average face. I don't have super high status and I don't own property or drive a fancy car (I've only got a motorbike). And yet I can still date relatively easily from meeting people in bars or by using tinder.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 05:25 AM
0

They're just normal people who may sometimes try to repress certain emotions in public due to them trying to 'hold frame'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 04:42 AM
2

1, No 2, No 3, No 4, Men are, on average, stronger than women - its not even worth asking 5, Nope - when i'm mad or sad I tend to hang out with myself until I feel better (i'm told it makes people feel shut out). 6, as far as I know, no 7, nope 8, I lost my temper at a security guard who didn't let me out of a car park because I lost my swipe card even though i'd just been IN 3 minutes prior (I drove around his gate and fortunately they didn't call the cops) 9, my ethnicity is british/danish
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:32 PM
2

They're mostly banned from mgtow1 for using balance and nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:49 AM
1

We can point flaws at something without having to critique something else. I can critique communism without having to critique libertarianism; I can critique modernism without having to criticize imperialism; I can critique mgtow without having to critique womens rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:47 AM
8

Haha I found redpill dull because it was a bunch of people obsessed with being alpha. There was some good content but the average poster lowered the bar quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:36 AM
19

That I can agree with. I semi agree with MGTOW but non of the conspiracy stuff about how society is unfair to men - but more the not focusing on childrearing and marriage, and instead focus on careers and passions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:11 AM
182

I actually like the notion, but when I joined the sub it was mostly just woman bashing. I thought it would be men who went their own way and were chasing their goals without distractions. Such a shame really as theres nothing wrong with not dating and just spending your time following passions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:52 AM
1

In defense of online dating for a man - before online dating I wasn't really successful with women and couldn't date that well because I was introverted. When I discovered online dating aged around 26 my world changed and was able to date and meet many cool and interesting women. I managed to have a few years of interesting dates and lots of sex, and eventually I was able to meet a wonderful woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 01:06 AM
1

Nope. If you're from the bottom lower medium is good. Its all perspective. I bet there are a few anomaly's where they are middle-higher income. Lets not totally shit on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 06:08 PM
1

They go out with unambitious men who do the accounts of the successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:08 PM
1

They say it matters and yet they go out with an accountant or the IT guy and you know its just something they said without really thinking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 11:46 AM
0

You're a shitty person if you fuck a married person - she's even worse though as she said the vows.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:43 AM
0

Grown male civilians don't carry pepperspray though
/r/askTRP29/06/19 12:50 PM
2

Only in America and England - it isn't that valued in Europe, Middle East, and Asia (I don't know much about culture and attraction in Africa or S.America).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 12:14 PM
18

A lot of men - rapists, domestics abusers, thugs - have ruined the reputation of ordinary men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 11:39 PM
1

Most men I know looked better in their mid 20s not their mid 30s (mid 30s guy writing this).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:30 AM
2

The alpha/beta dichotomy is for mere simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 12:36 PM
5

I'm not super hot - just decent looking. The cool thing is going on tinder and getting matches and dates really easily. I never realized this was a privilege until I went onto reddit and found out some men don't get matches at all. As for what I like in a woman: same as everyone - sexual attraction, similar tastes, good conversations, similar outlooks.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 06:24 AM
2

Anyone who writes extensively about being alpha on reddit probably isn't all that alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 03:02 PM
4

I laughed at her greed - the court will give the kid the right amount
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 05:32 AM
2

Would you have said yes if you didn't work together?
/r/askTRP23/06/19 10:54 PM
6

Haha i love that. Did she contact you after asking for the 800??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 08:31 AM
2

I've got nothing to 'steal'. I've got no debts but also no real assets either (just a motorbike and a kick ass book collection). I'm also lucky to be from a country that doesn't do alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 08:30 AM
1

I prefer bigger women and its annoying as hell because i'm working abroad in a skinny nation (currently in Thailand) so the women do nothing for me. Back in the UK I always saw liking bigger women as an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 10:44 PM
0

Most men have options - they just don't realise
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 12:16 PM
1

You don't wear a condom with a blowjob is what I meant
/r/askTRP20/06/19 01:33 PM
2

It just wouldn't be fair unless your partner also had hsv.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 02:03 PM
4

Take the suppressant and always wrap up and never receive oral sex if you cant/wont tell people.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 06:23 AM
1

As a man I peaked in most ways physically at 28, but the decline is slow for us so its not so bad. A little hair loss and joints getting a little more sore with heavy exercise are the first signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 11:19 PM
-9

I'd ignore the question and ask,'indian or Mexican?' If you say friends then it wont end well if you intend to date - if you say 'date' its a little cringey.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 11:03 AM
1

That 30% number doesn't mean they are incels. Some men choose not to date whether they don't have the time, religious reasons, mgtow, porn, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 01:47 AM
1

I've got plenty of gay friends - they're the same as straight friends.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 01:00 AM
19

Keanu Reeves is an actual nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 11:57 AM
1

Some of us still have low self esteem due to other things (due to bad childhoods, or poor self perception etc) and the validation when young really helps you realise that you aren't totally worthless even though you feel it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 11:27 AM
1

Not in the slightest. I just dated conventional girls as a teen to fit in as a teen because I was popular. Now the conventional girls bore me death and I much prefer dating someone with way more character. I only had the courage to date how I liked after 18 or 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 06:30 AM
5

Well at least you tried it out!
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 10:39 AM
1

So that's my main point - we have sex with more partners than ever before (rather than with same person again and again and again).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:57 PM
1

I'm not; all the studies I've read show an increase in lifetime sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:03 PM
1

And yet they said humour is correlated with attraction. I disagree. I'd point out that his wife is attractive but its kind of a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:39 AM
0

Yeah, because Bill Hicks, Louis CK, and Frankie Boyle are famous for their beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:05 AM
0

I'd act the same - they either like you or they don't. Imagine trying to pretend to be someone you're not long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:03 AM
0

Do you think it was easier to get sex in the 60s or 70s? People have more sexual partners now more than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:18 AM
-2

The study doesn't show much because a lot of these guys can get sex but choose not to. If they were determined they'd join a sex app, tinder, or go to a club and get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:17 AM
-3

Men also have more options. This is the easiest time in history to get sex for men in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 10:30 PM
0

Dating isn't that hard - you just go on tinder and chat to your matches and set up a date. Meeting people in real life is a little slower but It can still work as well. So many people overthink it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 10:30 PM
1

I'm an average looking dude who does well in terms of dating and sex so it can work for you. A lot of success just comes down to making sure you both have a really good time together when you do go on your date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 12:34 PM
1

That rooshv forum is super right wing and they all seem to think marrying a south east asia or e.european woman and making her your wife/domestic slave and breeding to fuckery is the answer.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/19 10:55 PM
1

Yep, sigma personality is way more compelling then the bland alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 03:13 PM
1

Wait. How does this work? What happens when we turn down the women we're not into? It breaks this rule.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 05:44 AM
1

I think this is the thing with 'the wall' subreddit. People enjoy seeing people get knocked back to reality
/r/MGTOW210/06/19 12:07 AM
1

Does a woman who hit the 'wall' and lose their SMV continue to be attracted to the same guys as they did when they were attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 12:06 AM
1

Who blocked who? on this chat?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 11:51 AM
1

Haha swiping right messes with the algorithm and gets you no matches - they do that at tinder hq to get rid of bots, spammers, and the desperate.
/r/MGTOW209/06/19 08:51 AM
2

Just walk around a mall and theres tons of men with partners who are short.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 06:53 AM
3

You've never seen a normal man who is below 5'9 with a GF??? Nerdy dudes have GF's - they often date a looksmatched nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 10:58 PM
1

Have you at least tried tinder? you can just get hookups from there if you look ok and are decent to talk to - you don't money or anything (I got laid a lot and I used to be broke)
/r/MGTOW208/06/19 10:24 PM
1

Haha how do they look then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 10:05 PM
1

You're right to do so. I also find some fat women attractive, but with anyone over 300lb i could see how out of breath they could get just walking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 02:57 PM
6

Nah man - look at all the dudes with girlfriends - theres so much variety in how the men look! You'll see hipster boys, bodybuilders, nerdy types, straight laced office dudes, skinny rock lads, fat guys, dandy types; theres such a massive variety of male looks that succeed with women (never feel like you have to be the boring buff dude)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 02:55 PM
1

I agree on that age thing. A lot of men say women peak 18 to 22 and it may be true physically, but being around women that young is annoying as fuck.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 10:47 PM
4

Ouch, i'm relatively low income (lower middle class).
/r/askTRP07/06/19 10:46 PM
1

I'm 33 and they are 34 - i'm considering a relationship as we've been dating a month.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 10:45 PM
9

As I get older and care less about getting laid I begin to think less about what women want and I have to say its liberating.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 03:18 PM
10

In france if you are on the birth certificate you have to pay for the kid even if its not yours. If you ever have a small doubt never sign the birth certificate!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 12:59 PM
1

How would the law know you tested??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 12:59 PM
1

Our generation may destroy that stat soon though
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 11:08 PM
1

I pay my own way too for dates - in the UK that's totally normal.
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 11:08 PM
1

So you've sworn off all long term relationships now? I completely relate to you saying you don't want kids and you value your own personal freedom above most other things.
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 03:31 PM
1

I'm 33. I think most of us think about this more in our 30s then any other time. I feel if we get to 40 and still don't have a wife and kids then we probably never will. 30 is where we decide once and for all.
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 01:07 PM
1

Its different when you chose to be single. I'd cautiously recommend self improvement; but dodge all that lookism stuff.
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 12:55 PM
1

Similar to what I feel - the juice aint worth the squeeze!
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 12:45 PM
1

Even I think about a three year stretch where I went on a date on average 3 times a week . I basically spent 10 or so hours a week chasing women (not to mention swiping and chatting - so maybe 20 hours). Every month must have been close to 80 hours on dating. I only had cheapish dates where we'd go out and get beers but even that can add up you can easily spend a few hundred a month (so lets say way over 5k in 3 years). It wasn't an entire waste as I learnt a lot and sometimes the sex was good. …
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 12:36 PM
1

Thanks, its good to see other men also debating and thinking about the topic. How old are you? Do you still hope for a family? As for dating: i've only really used to tinder - I just go on and chat to matches and just get drunk with dates and sometimes we hook up - its definitely a simple process (but is repetitive and often leads to nothing meaningful)
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 12:13 PM
1

I disagree with prostitution on moral grounds (but I wont judge people who do).
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 10:09 AM
1

I'm 33 now. My sex drive is lesser now and when I have been in relationships 2 or so times a week for me was fine. I just start feeling weird if I don't have sex at least every few months so I end up back dating and hooking up. What I hate most about that is the financial cost: I even do cheap dates where its just beer or wine but that can cost a fair amount if you meet up 3 times in a week.
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 07:36 AM
1

Haha I love it!
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 07:34 AM
1

What about sex and intimacy?
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 07:06 AM
1

It still just blows my mind the thought of being single until I die - I guess theres still some blue pill in me
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 07:05 AM
5

It depends on your nationality with this. If you are from Europe and get cheap or affordable degrees it may be worth it still. I did a lighter degree (law and politics) and it landed me a teaching job: I may do a masters at some point and head into law eventually.
/r/MGTOW05/06/19 06:43 AM
1

You didn't read my original post - it said keep working out, going for runs, home exercise - its about quitting the gym (I think a few posters made the same mistake as you)
/r/askTRP03/06/19 11:08 PM
1

I don't think you read my post. I said quit the gym and do running and home workouts.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 10:52 PM
1

Yeah, I said in my original post i'll keep running and doing home work outs
/r/askTRP03/06/19 10:51 PM
1

I should note I already have a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 10:50 PM
1

Yep, you could argue most things are at least a latent a response to patriarchy; much like a Marxist could relate nearly anything - including gender relations - to capitalism and the means of production.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 12:20 PM
1

Seeking validation through beauty and attention* ​ *Although a feminist would probably argue this is a latent side affect of patriarchy where women are reduced to objects of beauty. If society sees them as objects of beauty then that's how they see themselves and, naturally, seek to enhance that beauty and then harness it into a commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 12:11 PM
1

Awesome to see positivity. I'm planning to do at least two runs per week, push ups and planks for core strength. I may get two 10kg dumbells just to give the shoulders and biceps something to think about.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 11:58 AM
1

I cant lift heavy anyway - I've get a slightly bulging disc and torn shoulder ligaments. I do a lot of preventative work with stretching and do low weight, good form, very slow reps, and its worked wonders in helping me lift despite having old injuries.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 07:17 AM
1

As for the mental side of things - it was always the cardio that was a mental war for me which I felt pushed me in ways that weights could not.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 07:06 AM
2

I've never even done 1rm - i'm a pure hypertrophy guy so its always about mind muscle connection. When I did this I found my muscle mass increased dramatically (with good diet too). (career wise i'm a teacher but I've sold my first few short stories recently so i'm hoping it could change within a few years).
/r/askTRP03/06/19 07:05 AM
2

Appreciate the advice even though its not where my head is at. Do you not think we are tunnel visioned though? Think how many great modern men don't lift? Think of all the business men, writers, artists, musicians, and so on. Sometimes I think we're buying into this 'must be jacked to be hot' mentality whereas I feel its somewhat overrated in terms of attraction (so I may just do the home workouts instead).
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:56 AM
1

I'm going to keep running and home-workouts
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:53 AM
-1

Haha avoid passive aggressive criticism
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:31 AM
1

I'll still watch what eat. Read the bottom paragraph of the post.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:31 AM
0

You love the gym?
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:30 AM
2

Good diet mostly for me - I quit the gym once before (due to a 5 month injury) and managed to stay slim. I think some people need to do weights to stay slim but most don't (look at everyone pre 1980s)
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:30 AM
-3

Do you know any alpha men who don't lift?
/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:38 AM
1

Being totally honest - the reason I worked out so much was because it made me look better than everyone else (in terms of body). Now i'm well into my 30s most of the guys my age are now fat. Just be being thin i'm already above them. But I digress, I actually don't want my motives to be about women and looking good anymore - and instead focus on personal fulfilment and chasing things that matter.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:19 AM
0

I hate lifting heavy (due to injuries) - hypertrophy is the only thing that worked with me due to limitations. I definitely miss the hiking you mention; that's the downer of living in a massive city. I can still go for walks and runs though so I stay sane.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 02:44 AM
2

I was kind of looking at the physique of soccer players and I decided i'd be okay with being just lean and not that muscular. It wouldn't make that much of a difference to my appeal (not that I should be chasing that) if I lose 10 or 15lbs of muscle. Before I lifted I was around 165lbs at 12% and that looked ok.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 02:26 AM
-1

Haha yeah i'm just done with it and all that goes with it.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 02:24 AM
1

I'm saying I want to quit the gym. Just fed up with it these days.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 02:21 AM
2

Because its taking up my time which is stealing time from my goals. Also, the physical ideal now just seems needy - like you're working out to be attractive to other people - just seems weak. As for gaining years to your life: I think that's more heart health and that's just having decent cardio and diet over big biceps.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 12:42 AM
1

I hate lifting heavy and do the traditional bodybuilder work out which focuses more on form and hypertrophy. Its also easier on my joints as I get a lot more sore if I go heavy. I'm thinking about just doing pushups and plans at home from now on.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 12:40 AM
2

We can be weird over it. When I was a virgin I just wanted 1. When i'd been with 1 I wanted to be with 3 then i'd be happy. Then I thought get to 10 and then I will be a stud. When I got to 10 and didn't feel a stud I went for 20. Somewhere between 30 to 40 I began to view myself as weak for needing the numbers to feel like a real man. A year or ago I managed to stop counting as the numbers don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 11:12 PM
10

'Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times.' ​ Literally never heard it before, but I like it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/19 01:07 AM
1

On ethical grounds I don't, but I don't interfere with the rights of others to do so.
/r/MGTOW231/05/19 03:03 AM
1

I don't believe in a unicorn but I still believe that some women can be compatible and could be worth spending a life with.
/r/MGTOW231/05/19 02:09 AM
20

Well I think they try porn out and then realise its not for them and quit. I know some of the cam-girls have normal lives with albeit low paying jobs - hence for porn to pay the bills.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 10:23 AM
203

I didn't know you could really do porn anonymously - if your face is all over the internet then somebody is bound to see it unless you have barely any views.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 08:42 AM
1

But its not the sole reason for existing. If we look back at the important people who never had children and we cans we can see how a life can be if lived well. The truth is that most people shouldn't be parents.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 05:25 AM
20

Well theres no legal repatriation for citizens from different countries. For locals it would be different. For example, an American could have sex with a filipina or Vietnamese woman and have them pregnant but would bare no legal responsibility to that child. For this reason, the sole responsibility of contraception falls to the woman. The foreign man only needs to wear condom if he fears sti's or has a moral backbone.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 03:12 PM
8

Ah, I presumed they were European. I know where I am in asia there's no laws forcing people to pay for illegitimate children.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 02:50 PM
8

Well you're from different nations so you'd have never seen her again either way. She'd have been insane to have gone through with the pregnancy without a father.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 02:32 PM
1

Sexually generous - you make it seem like she's the prize
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 02:02 PM
1

Lookism shite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 12:31 PM
7

I've got quite a lot of female friends - I don't find them attractive so its fine
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 08:53 AM
1

100% I just go out for drinks on the first few dates as its relaxed and you can both take it turn to buy rounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 05:09 PM
2

Completely cultural - in certain cities and nations splitting is normal, whereas other its weird if the man doesn't buy stuff for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 09:27 AM
1

I didn't think it was pro incel here (thanks for the info though - I didn't know any of that)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 08:08 AM
1

Pretty sure it doesn't work - never seen a vote rating below 1pt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 07:08 AM
1

how??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 02:49 AM
0

I'm pretty sure you cant get really downvoted - you'd have to go full psycho and go on their bio and dislike other posts from other subs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 01:13 AM
0

*you cant get downvotes on purple-pill. Its good because we can see our controversial opinions and not feel the moral brigade bashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 12:20 AM
0

Yes, even though it will change how she sees you. The only reason is she will find out one day anyway if you spend your lives together. Perhaps don't build it up but tell oher there have been a few periods in your life where you've had it, but right now you've got it together. In that way, you've been honest and she's been forewarned. If you two are in love I don't think it will hinder you much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 12:19 AM
2

Nothing, if its something you wish to do
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 12:47 PM
1

They've started putting monogamy and breeding onto a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 05:37 AM
9

Wow, I noticed the men on there are going super right wing over the years and beginning to put marriage and kids on a pedestal - I never thought it would go this far though
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 11:35 PM
2

I agree within reason. People often fail when they date outside their culture.
/r/MGTOW24/05/19 09:21 AM
1

Would you advise him or keep your opinion to yourself?
/r/MGTOW24/05/19 06:05 AM
1

We're relatively close - I hang out with him at least every month
/r/MGTOW24/05/19 05:35 AM
3

Haha i'm presuming so.
/r/MGTOW24/05/19 05:35 AM
1

Fair enough - if its an organic conversation and not you asking 20 questions then its reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 11:24 PM
0

Haha she probably wouldn't sit there talking for 10 minutes about her ex and if you asked a ton of questions you'd come across as needy af
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 10:39 PM
1

The thing is you can never really know everything. When people ask me about my ex I give them a condensed version that takes less than a minutes to tell as nobody wants to sit around listening to your woes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 10:26 PM
26

Yeah, if you're ugly you bet have something else exceptional about you otherwise you are screwed (not literally - you wish, dude!)
/r/BlackPillScience22/05/19 12:56 PM
1

I'd just never want to know - its pretty damn dull talking about exes and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 11:59 AM
1

How would you find out all this unless you interrogated them about all their exes? I would be super weirded out if someone asked my loads of questions about my dating/relationship history and how I broke up with each of them. Maybe its being over 30 but I just wouldn't have patience to hear about it or tell it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 10:24 AM
5

Don't do this in the UK - I think nearly everyone has a piercing or tattoos aged between 25 and 50
/r/BlackPillScience22/05/19 12:13 AM
1

Nope. Lots of mentally well people kill themselves.
/r/MGTOW221/05/19 09:00 AM
1

Some of us just aren't psychopaths.
/r/MGTOW221/05/19 08:31 AM
1

I kinda agree - I've always felt this group is more mgtow light - we don't have has extreme views as they do, but we share common ground
/r/MGTOW218/05/19 08:25 AM
1

I have nothing against people doing this tbh. I tend to swipe left whether I meet their criteria or not because I just see them as high maintenance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/19 05:27 AM
1

I've not been banned from there yet, but I agree, they lack any nuance in their arguments.
/r/MGTOW215/05/19 11:58 AM
1

Man, late age to start. They'd be like 65 when their kids went to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 03:54 AM
2

Just note that depression and anxiety are mental illnesses so that's why the numbers are so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 11:26 PM
1

You can find studies on it in academic journals with ease
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 11:24 PM
0

Yep, get on with our lives as we cant change sexual desire. All we can do is pity the folk that want to have sex and cant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 11:01 AM
1

In the UK you are an adult at 16 but I think the USA is 18. Its quite arbitrary but you have to respect the laws of the land. I think some countries may even be 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 10:14 AM
1

Is it really an issue that the underclass don't get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 10:11 AM
7

So many guys dont want kids now. A lot of my male friends have give a big NOPE to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 09:59 AM
-1

Well 1 in 4 people are mentally ill so that may just be a lot of sick people who aren't healthy enough to date. I see there is a 10pt gender differential in your example which is also worth observing. That men may find it harder to obtain sex isn't new and has always been an issue for them. I'd imagine if the majority of that minority put their minds to getting laid they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 09:58 AM
8

I'd date an older woman who didn't have kids and didn't want them so as they are still attractive. I'm 32 so its not really a big deal to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/19 06:09 AM
0

I support a woman having the option over this topic and don't agree with men deciding their fate - but this idea of a sex ban would never work. I'd imagine she's not serious though and would suggest she's doing it to attract attention the debate - for which she has succeeded.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 12:48 AM
1

All we can give is opinions. I personally think its good to have the option of dating via tinder. I recently got a date the old fashioned way, but I dislike doing that as the rejection is harder in real life then it is to being ignored via tinder.
/r/BlackPillScience11/05/19 02:09 PM
1

Well what else do you expect? Scientific studies with qualitive data all fully referenced?
/r/BlackPillScience11/05/19 01:58 PM
1

I feel a level headed democrat who's somewhat likeable what trounce Trump.
/r/MGTOW211/05/19 06:46 AM
11

Cringey though to be seen with. Everyone will wonder if you are his care worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 06:11 AM
16

Love the honesty. These sub-reddits need honesty like this and not just nicey nice stuff that cheers everyone up for a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 06:09 AM
5

Yes. Because they struggle to communicate and are sometimes socially awkward. Why would anyone prefer a disability? I have ADD which isn't really a problem and i'm honest about it, but if someone said they're 'into it' i'd think they were a nut job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 06:07 AM
5

Nooooo lots of women in their 30s still look good. Throw in a decent personality and you are a good to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 02:04 AM
1

Not quite true. I've dated a few uglier women on there who had a fun profile. In the end, it doesn't work with people you don't find that attractive, but you may have a handful of fun dates and maybe fool around in the bedroom.
/r/BlackPillScience10/05/19 11:59 PM
2

Perhaps - personally I wouldn't want someone super perfect and as long as they haven't let themselves go and still make an effort with hair and clothes then I wont have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 11:53 PM
17

Its just a useful tool for people who no longer go to bars or clubs or feel comfortable approaching for any given reason.
/r/BlackPillScience10/05/19 01:29 PM
0

Very true. Plus it would be embarrasing for most twenty something men to be seen with a much older woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 03:23 AM
3

Fat women and pregnant are very mild fetishes/preferences compared to the crazy shit that's out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 03:21 AM
3

How did she know they were racists? Was it a BNP rally?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 03:20 AM
3

Somewhat true, but sagging, hair thinning, greying, and wrinkles will happen (for both genders). Metabolism also slows down a little so we that means more diligence is required. Not to mention we do become less vain as we age so meeting a beauty ideal is no longer worth quite so much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 03:20 AM
1

Is it so bad to have less sex? I used to go out and have sex all the time but these days i'm just not into it. There came a point where the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 03:39 AM
2

Damn gotta be tough if you are a white dude who fell in love with an Asian woman - seems hard on the kids
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 05:02 AM
18

Yeah, hapas seem messed up for some reason
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 12:21 AM
6

Not attracted to them as a whole :(
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 12:21 AM
2

Youth is guaranteed to fade whereas money is more likely to stay. Its a precarious thing to be loved for something that you know will vanish.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 09:12 AM
5

Haha I did the same thing - I was a good boy until a break up and then spent 3 years going wild and sleeping with a constant stream of new women. I calmed down at 30 though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/19 03:42 AM
1

Totally agree - its just a weird dislike - like how some people dislike ginger people for no reason. Its idiotic but you cant change how you immediately feel.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 11:43 AM
17

I know - its an irrational dislike
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 11:42 AM
11

Good advice - I find scrawny as awful as morbidly obese people
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 10:31 AM
4

I think they look good for now - but will look awful when the women get close to 40 and will look atrocious after 50,
/r/MGTOW22/04/19 11:19 PM
3

Do you get paid for the additional labour?
/r/MGTOW22/04/19 01:34 PM
1

I don't think theres anything wrong with the red pill men. The two differences is those who think the juice is worth the squeeze and those that don't. Red pill men know that women are difficult and take your time and resources but they still believe its worth it. As long as its an informed decision then I have no issue with men choosing to still mess around with women.
/r/MGTOW222/04/19 04:01 AM
1

Hell no. I'm a low maintenance guy and someone calling me or texting me all the time would drive me crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 05:34 AM
3

Disagree with 8 - i'm still going on desination vacations. I've got a lads holiday to the beach in 7 days.
/r/MGTOW20/04/19 04:20 PM
6

I prefer chunkier women so for me his theory doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 09:18 AM
2

Check out Verona if you have the time. That's easily my favorite place in Italy
/r/MGTOW18/04/19 12:18 AM
1

Nice to see something that's not just beta vs alpha
/r/MGTOW217/04/19 01:03 PM
-4

Maybe she isnt after a leader alpha type.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 11:36 AM
1

Just ask him out - don't be weird about it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 11:36 AM
480

Mods wont delete this - its a quality post and its better than all of the memes on here.
/r/MGTOW14/04/19 06:26 AM
1

Why did you stop drinking? I only stop when I do a weight loss phrase - and I don't date then as well because its hard to go out for food on a diet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 05:12 AM
1

Ah relax - i'm also an introvert and have also been with plenty of women. We're actually at our best one on one (especially after a few beers) so don't worry about it. We have pro's and cons and its just the way it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:21 AM
2

Going against the grain here - if you're still interested in dating and sex then theres nothing wrong with inviting a woman out for just drinks on a fri or sat evening. I always say I gotta go to a staff meal but i'm free after 9pm if you want to get drinks. They nearly always say yes.
/r/MGTOW13/04/19 09:32 AM
4

This exists in the UK but its after 10 years I believe - the good thing is the UK doesn't really have alimony. We just have child support (if you have kids) - which is usually fair.
/r/MGTOW13/04/19 09:29 AM
3

As a guy I don't care. I use online dating and if you're in a big city you can get plenty of matches and if you're a good conversation over text then its simple getting dates. Even if there are more men online I don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:12 AM
3

Yeah, its different when you don't deserve it. I recently made a few mistakes which damaged my career a little, cost me 5k, and lost 4 months of my life - but it was my mistake and three months or four months I will be back on my feet. I cant imagine what its like to lose 10 years of your life, a shit ton of money, all for something that is not even your own mistake.
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 09:41 AM
1

Having a moral back bone and producing something of worth (whether in work, charity, or family) is probably at the top of the list. Negative aspects of masculinity are bottling up emotions - the only downside is that if you express suicidal thoughts and anxiety people will think less of you (most people) so that's why we keep it to ourselves (and one of the reasons male suicide is an issue).
/r/MGTOW209/04/19 08:19 AM
-2

Hope I don't get banned for this but 1st and 2nd wave feminism was ok - 1st wave was winning the vote - 2nd wave was contraception pill and the right to equal wages (I'm sure we agree they should be allowed to vote and have contraception) ​ Its 3rd wave that's the one with the big issues.
/r/MGTOW09/04/19 01:39 AM
6

Part of being a young man is enjoying sex and meeting new people - but you grow out of the womanizing by a certain age
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 11:50 AM
3

Yeah - the whole alpha, beta, gamma etc thing discussed on here is weak as piss.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 01:39 AM
2

omega: you are the polar opposite of the alpha male, but in a good way. like the alpha male you are confident, intelligent and have a sense of charisma about you, but unlike the alpha male, you are completely your own person. you do not need anyone, and you can even be emotionally distant due to your complete self-possession. you trust few people and foster even fewer intimate relationships. omegas do not care for leadership by others as they are perfectly capable of leading themselves gamma mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 12:53 AM
10

The problem is everyone thinks its just alpha and beta - so they latch onto the alpha thing even though they aren't. The truth is there are gamma males and sigma males as well which can also be desirable depending on the woman/man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:44 PM
3

This Is Gold.
/r/MGTOW06/04/19 02:48 AM
2

Great point. Even as a man I was told I had gained weight (10lbs) so I quickly went on a diet to fix it. In the west nobody would ever comment on your body unless you gained a large amount of weight.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/19 08:29 AM
1

I totally agree - Asian women are vastly overrated. ​ The thing is - relatively ugly men can get young and attractive women in asia (especially Cambodia, Thailand, Vietnam, phillipines) so I think a lot of men are willing to sacrifice many ideals when discovered because its better then a lot of the women they can get back home (in terms of looks). ​ ​
/r/ExRedPill05/04/19 08:10 AM
1

He's not alpha or beta - perhaps a gamma male.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 03:45 AM
3

Wow - I've never heard of someone desiring a single mom but its nice to hear they are out there!
/r/ExRedPill05/04/19 01:40 AM
3

So men are hypergamous in looks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 01:28 PM
1

Most guys in my family are skinny-fat or chubby. My father is an exception because he works out still.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 11:15 AM
1

If you don't lift weights then you will look scrawny to most people unless you have high body fat. That's why men who care about their appearance go to the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 10:17 AM
1

Depends on your nationality and ethnicity. For a white or black dude its slightly below average. For an Asian or Latino its normal to good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 09:20 AM
2

I meant women tend to prefer a guy with some muscle over a scrawny dude. I'm sure Ryan Reynalds will beat Tobey Macguire most days of the week in the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 09:19 AM
2

Most people like some muscles - but theres a spectrum between someone like Adam Levine and Chris Hemsworth. Not many women like scrawny men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 06:13 AM
-1

6ft guy. Statistically 60% of Americans are overweight so even being skinny-fat puts them in the top 40% by default. Also, 5ft 5in is crazy short. If it was something realistic like 5'9 then it would be a good question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 06:11 AM
1

Haha its why we just do online dating as its simple and easy and we know if we match and chat then we have mutual attraction. There's minimal chance of rejection and the embarrassment and loss of face that goes with it. Someone would have to be amazing for me to approach in a supermarket.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 05:21 AM
1

I suppose it means of being higher value - like what does someone bring to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 05:17 AM
2

I agree with you. In the Freudian sense most things that are knowable or unseen or trapped in the subconscious. I think sometimes its better not to know who is 'better'. Or perhaps, blue pilled is it may sound, that one person is better at one thing and the other person is better at something else
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 03:55 AM
9

All humans are mostly hypergamous - why would you want to go out with someone below you??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 03:38 AM
11

Theres too much focus on beta/alpha. Sigma and Gamma personalities are also very common and attractive.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/19 01:49 PM
2

Nope. So you are ex red pill?
/r/ExRedPill02/04/19 11:09 AM
3

Nope. Bro, this is ex-redpill. We're all dudes here.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/19 10:57 AM
2

You're illiterate and your opinion is invalidated.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/19 10:36 AM
3

A lot of men put fibres in their hair so you cant see balding - the thing is its so good now that you wouldn't know that a lot of men are wearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 10:36 AM
1

Drop to 2000kcal per day for 12 weeks and you will probably drop 15kg
/r/MGTOW202/04/19 04:22 AM
10

Most women in their 30s don't want to date a 22 year old guy and they'd rather date someone close to their age. If all the men their age are chasing younger women then where does it leave them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 10:46 AM
3

I think if women aren't hurt by these things then its great! Lets all go on and have some fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 06:08 AM
56

This is gold. The posters hate him just because he's enjoying himself at long last.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/19 11:48 AM
1

I think this could work for high tier women
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 10:27 AM
4

Men in terms of looks often begin depreciating in our 30s. Lets face it - most men gain weight, lose hair, grey, and stop trying with clothes around this age. Obviously not all men, but the majority of my peers looked way better 10 years ago then they do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:02 AM
9

All great points and I lean towards agreeing with this. I don't tend to date single moms because i'm actively childfree and plan to stay this way so our lives wouldn't match. My issue with the red pill is more to do with the fact that they shit on single moms so much and make out they are the scourge of society
/r/ExRedPill28/03/19 12:44 PM
1

There's nothing wrong with her post. Its actually very honest.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 09:22 AM
8

I find myself getting annoyed at the skinny/scrawny ones. The irony is that I used to be that when I was 13 and it was only the gym and puberty that saved me. I think some of annoyance comes because its something I had to work hard to avoid. (footnote: I never vocalise this dislike of the scrawny popstars).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:18 AM
2

Suicide in men would go even higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:43 AM
1

Don Frye is the manliest man in the world but in many ways he's beta - always bitching about his ex wife and saying shit like his new gf wont let him drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 09:29 AM
5

Pretty much - i'd date someone who isn't wealthy, so long as they aren't in real debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:44 AM
3

This is only to do with looks. The theory goes that the vast majority of women lose their sex appeal by 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 11:18 PM
6

Having kids with a guy at 41 and still getting wrong :(
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 04:09 PM
5

100% agree - you gotta be beautiful for it to work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 10:13 AM
9

I think its nice to see feminine looking guys do well with women. It seems online -according to keyboard bro's - that the only men who get laid are alpha macho guys. This simply isn't the case in real life as lots of pretty boys do well with women - my best friend is a skinny fuck too and he still hooks up on the regular with decent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 09:04 AM
1

He said he was 5% in an interview - but he could have been wrong. Either way, looked best in troy with a little more body fat and muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 07:55 AM
1

He was 155lbs at 6'0 but was apparently only 5% body fat. I don't know his weight for troy, but I know he looked a lot more muscular for that role.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 04:51 AM
2

I wish we could see the 'muscular' men they used in the study. I wonder if the men are toned muscular ala brad pitt or genuinely big like henry cavill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 04:38 AM
2

I grew up blue pilled believing its all personality and charisma. In my mid 20s I went lookism and believed its only ever about looks in sexual attraction and strongly believed in looks-matching (still do to a lesser extent). I felt red pilled at around age 30 as it helped explain how men who aren't beautiful get women. Recently flirting with the purple pill but only because the red pill and mgtows seem so dogmatic and right wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:23 AM
1

Short dudes are also angrier (napoleon syndrome) and shout the loudest on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 11:25 PM
0

Biased
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 11:22 PM
1

Are you short? Checking for bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 05:08 PM
1

For sure - they're becoming more popular and the stigma is fading fast. Apparently 40% of young people have them; although most people just get one small one so you wont really notice them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 09:47 AM
1

That's good to hear - don't want to look unfriendly to smaller folk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 05:40 AM
1

I was raised by a single mum and my dad was abusive to her so she had a good reason to get out. Also, a woman (ex) prevented me from homelessness when I lost my job and she let me live at hers for free for over 4 months until I was earning money again (aged 19 at the time). I never bought into this women are evil shit.
/r/MGTOW221/03/19 04:16 AM
1

In the UK the right wing have them a lot too. I'd say the people who don't have them are rich kids from nice families.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 04:06 AM
1

I wasnt sure how tattoos are seen - I see a lot of angry comments about them on the internet but people seem fine with them in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 11:35 PM
3

As a guy I have a beard, tattoos, muscles - and I suppose this is about as welcoming as a resting bitch face because people presume you aren't friendly due to the look. I don't mind it too much as I get to surprise them with who I am and with my career helping disabled children in schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 05:24 AM
1

Its just natural. Most men wont date a woman stronger or taller than them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 04:05 AM
4

I don't know - I often wonder with ugly couples where both are obese or have weird faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 11:47 AM
7

They're screwed. Nearly all couples are similar on the lookscale unless the one way higher up as an ulterior motive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 11:12 AM
2

Yeah, they love it! I'm not tall - only 5'10 - but I lift and am at 195lbs and I get similar compliments but on my muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 10:37 AM
2

Discriminate on who you want. I don't agree with it but its a free country. If it genuinely bothers you then don't accept it in a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 09:34 AM
2

Evolutionary I believe that has become cultural. A woman usually like dudes who look like they can take care of them: hence the likes of Jason momoa and chris hemsworth being popular. Its a bit cruel but sometimes really short guys just seem comical - especially when dating tall women - think Jamie cullan or Bernie ecclestone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 09:16 AM
5

Yeah, I don't get these guys who are insecure about dick size. As long as you are over 5 or so inches just enjoy yourself and live!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 09:01 AM
3

Nobody gets a 'slutty' reputation unless you live in a baby town. Big cities nobody gives a damn what anyone else is doing. With height - everyone can see and it women (usually) like to feel feminine and don't want to tower over a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 08:59 AM
2

100% believe they are insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 08:49 AM
4

I think women don't want a short guy because its embarrassing in public as everyone can see they are with a manlet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 08:48 AM
3

Shame culture will get you nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 08:32 AM
7

As a guy - I couldn't care less if a woman has a fair amount of sexual partners in her youth (I did too). Its pretty normal to enjoy sex and have fun while you're single - I know a lot of us come from puritan nations but we need to move away from the shaming culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 08:03 AM
1

That's good advice on the hooking up in the morning - I never considered that tbh. You got so close to having your life ruined.
/r/MGTOW16/03/19 10:51 AM
1

Were the rape accusations from people you know or just random?
/r/MGTOW16/03/19 10:21 AM
3

The last study I saw was that 1 in 3 new relationships start via online dating - I imagine it will soon be at least 50 per cent within the decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 09:44 AM
1

Nearly everyone just uses tinder so we don't ask people out on the street or at work anymore. Tinder is super easy to meet people that theres little reason to risk flirting with people at work etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:18 AM
3

I've always hated clubs. I prefer going to the pub with mates though and getting drunk and having a laugh
/r/MGTOW16/03/19 01:46 AM
3

Ah they're pretty hot - I forgive their annoyingness until they begin to hit the wall.
/r/MGTOW15/03/19 05:22 AM
0

Come on - by 40 any high value guy who doesnt have kids or an ex wife probably has major commitment issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 10:54 PM
2

All the best guys I knew had met someone by their mid to late 20s and we all married by 30. There will be a few guys left over in their early 30s who aren't awful, divorced, or with kids so don't panic, but obviously the number will rapidly diminish by the mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 10:51 PM
2

I'm western but live in asia: the women aren't as submissive as they seem. Yes they are beautiful and feminine but behind the scenes they are highly demanding and controlling. The only good thing is that they don't hide that they want you to provide and pay for things - theres no games being played in that aspect.
/r/MGTOW14/03/19 10:00 AM
1

Most people can get a woman but it just depends on standards. The truth is that the majority aren't worth it though.
/r/MGTOW213/03/19 02:23 PM
1

Of course it is. I didn't even think this was up for debate. Having a child would be the biggest decision of your life and will impact your work, love life, finances, social life and so on. You also don't just have a child for 18 years. You have them for the rest of your wife. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 02:19 PM
1

As long as you can get laid with a decent looking woman then it doesn't matter if you're top 20 or 30 percent. Going mgtow when you have a choice to not be with women is more meaningful.
/r/MGTOW213/03/19 02:11 PM
1

Haha us guys who get laid or who used to get laid a ton but are opting out are finally realizing we're top 20%. Kinda crazy though, but I guess its just hypergamy.
/r/MGTOW213/03/19 11:41 AM
2

Sometimes they are high educated but low income.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:08 AM
1

Awesome post. Really helped explain something for me there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 03:58 AM
3

I don't know - I hear women going mad for chris hemsworth and tom hardy and they are way bigger than normal dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 01:28 PM
2

Honestly, I just googled omega and it gave the definition of an independent man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 03:24 AM
2

To who?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 02:29 PM
1

Nothing you think really matters unless you are a writer or artist or have some way for your thoughts to live on beyond your death.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 12:46 PM
3

Keep believing in the false dichotomy between alphas and betas if you must. It really doesn't matter what you believe anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 10:16 AM
1

I havent cheated yet - i once broke up with a girl and hooked up with a new woman same day - but that was after the break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 08:23 AM
3

Get out a little more and you will see many couples who treat each other as equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 08:22 AM
2

Omega's can also make excellent leaders as they don't thrive on power and only want to get the job done. The only problem is they confuse alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 08:20 AM
4

Nah, omega just doesn't play ball - if someone tries to rule them they rebel and if someone is beneath them they leave them alone. Its the individual version of libertarianism
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 08:19 AM
5

100% yes you can. I hate this alpha and beta false didactic. Many of us are in-between (I would call myself omega - which is independent, don't want to rule over someone and don't want someone to rule over me). The only thing about the woman i'm dating is she can never chose a venue on where to eat so I have to do it but apart from that its 50/50 power divide.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:52 AM
1

I wouldn't care about the number of partners you had (I've had over 50). These days I wait around 5 or 6 dates because I used to have a problem with sex and rushing in and then hurting people. I now take my time and make sure I really like them before we have sex. This, for me, saves so much pain and drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 12:48 AM
1

How many weeks would you be willing to wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 12:18 PM
1

Yeah, I did last time I had a girlfriend. It was only 15 pounds a week and they came for two 45 minutes periods every 3 or 4 days. I still my clothes washing and dishes but they do nearly everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:18 PM
3

I'm very messy but clean up before a woman comes over. I think if I was living with a clean freak woman i'd consider hiring a cleaner once a week to help out to keep the gf happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 10:46 PM
2

Lets just agree that most people in their 40s don't look good anymore. I think for men staying in shape and keeping hair is about 80% of it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 06:02 AM
5

Yeah, only handsome or/and masculine men can pull off baldness - ala jude law and Kelly slater.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 05:33 AM
12

I've always felt that maybe 50% of 22 year old women are attractive (roughly) and yet about only 5% of women at 42 are attractive. I think the percentage of men attractive at 22 is much lower at 22 years old, yet it stays roughly the same at 42 (maybe a slight decrease). This is all hard to measure objectively though and all we can do Is add our own experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 04:54 AM
2

At 8 inches we can hurt women and we have to do way more foreplay or it can cause tears. Don't worry about being average!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 12:51 PM
1

I honestly just met 80% online via pof (6 years ago, pof is dead now) and more recently tinder and bumble. I've met 20 or 30 women in hostels (I travelled a lot from 25 to 28) and through friends. I don't have a strategy or a game plan so I cant give that much advice. All I know is once you have a few sexual options it makes you non needy and it stops you becoming pushy or outcome dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 03:55 AM
1

I had a form of sex addiction stemming from deep insecurities and wanting to be loved/wanted. I was raised by a single mum with no male role model. I was very beta and had only slept with 4 women by age 25 (ltr for 5 years). At 25 I became single and to avoid feeling lonely and to prove I was desirable I began to use online dating. I would go on about 3 first dates a week and sleep with half of them (usually on the 3rd date). I'd probably sleep with about 2 new people a month for 3 or 4 years. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 03:31 AM
1

When I was younger I liked troubled women because I liked the openness and the conversations we would have and I thought I could be the one to help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 02:21 AM
5

One cool thing is that lately women are paying 50/50 for dates. Some women have even paid for dinner as well. Still ending dates with a makeout and sex. Crazy to think how dating norms have changed for the better lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:08 AM
4

No, I get it. Theres a few exceptions; Pitt and Clooney still look great. Its the same with women though; michelle pfieffer and Jennifer aniston have both kept their looks. For a very small demographic of people get away with ageing and still being attractive - its a shame for most of us to lose our looks, but perhaps that's the beauty of youth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:53 AM
7

I get people hating on the looks on other 30 women - there is a wall and 95% of women hit it and lose their sex appeal by 40. However, one thing these mgtows and red pill guys don't seem to comprehend is that most men by 40 or 45 have also lost their sex appeal compared to their 20 as well. How many hot 50 somethings do you see walking the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:29 AM
1

I do. Always been excellent at sport. I still lift 4 times a week (used to be 6 but I have more going on in life now).
/r/askTRP13/02/19 10:13 AM
1

Just a little above average. I get told I look a bit like Chris Martin but with Tattoos.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:37 PM
1

I've slept with 50 or 60 women - probably normal numbers in this group. Had two relationships over a year over this last decade as well.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 01:20 PM
1

Just curious why i'm successful when i'm not that high status right now. I'm actually into vanilla sex tbh - girls have asked me to spit on them and chain them up and i'm not even into it - I sometimes pretend to be into some kinky stuff just to keep them happy.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 01:18 PM
1

I hate smp - it looks fake and what happens as you age and you go grey and the hair on top stays dark?
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:52 AM
2

I'm on it already - just losing a little ground still
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:36 AM
1

I mean it in terms of natural body size - like narrow shoulders wide shoulders or narrow hips and wide hip bones
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:35 AM
1

Was you a nw2 going to nw1? Because that's not too many grafts.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:30 AM
1

I think that's something I intend to do with the body. Check out the difference between fue and fut transplants though because fue doesn't create the line scar.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:36 AM
1

Already tried it all. My hair isn't terrible but i'm looking at long term options.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 05:19 AM
1

Its not even that expensive in Belgium and Turkey: around ten thousand dollars from some of the worlds top surgeons (UK and America surgeons charge the most). Theres still risks of minor scarring and even failed grafts with a top surgeon so that's why I haven't done it.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 02:19 AM
1

I'm already in good shape - I'm naturally an ecto so I can never get huge like henry cavil, but I still do well given my natural size/
/r/askTRP03/02/19 02:17 AM
1

She had depression but was kind of handling it, but she also told me she wanted kids. I never wanted kids unless I was wealthy, and I wasn't wealthy so I said no to that. She quit university due to depression which killed my dream of moving abroad with her (because she wouldn't get a visa with no degree). So a collection of these things made me leave. I did actually love her when I broke up with her. I ended up following my dream of living abroad (both Italy and asia).
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:01 PM
1

Sex losses its appeal with the same person after about the 10th time I've fucked them. Also, personality traits sometimes wear thin after a month or two.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:12 AM
1

After a break up it was just about having sex while I was in my prime. After about a year of doing that I began looking more for a relationship, but that didn't work out.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:11 AM
2

I'm cool with being the boyfriend if I liked their company for prolonger lengths of time. Usually after a month i'm ready for them to leave.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 05:40 PM
3

I don't consider myself alpha either - I don't think you can become alpha anyway - its more of a born trait. I just make sure I'm not beta (which I'm not normally anyway - had to erase a few blue pill thoughts though). Perhaps we're Omega. Are you on a dating break as well then?
/r/askTRP19/01/19 05:39 PM
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