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I had black beans!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:02 AM
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And the Johns want women with lower n counts than them… like ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:57 PM
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I mainly get approached by creepy old men (or even men who I don’t think are older enough to be creepy to hit on me but are still outside of my age preference)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:54 PM
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Someone once wrote multiple paragraphs about how I look like a nice genuine person in DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:43 PM
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You ignored me when I slid into your DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:16 PM
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I would block someone for that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:15 PM
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You will not be stopped!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:32 PM
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What happened to ok-party??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:47 PM
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The red pill collapsed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:25 PM
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Me too, hello!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:52 PM
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Yeah, my brother took my sister in law engagement ring shopping so she could pick and I think that’s a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:16 PM
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Prostitution is not good for society. Should we be subsidizing weed now instead of taxing it? It’s a (currently where I live) illegal vice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:50 PM
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You’re still mad you weren’t invited?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:32 PM
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So men have higher penis standards than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:47 PM
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I feel like if I were a lonely man I’d go to the nursing home to talk to the elderly or at least I’d shut the fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:46 PM
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I got it once and I don’t even think I said anything that bad to set someone off
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:43 PM
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I feel like lesbians don’t make their loneliness everyone else’s problem though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:42 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:18 PM
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Are they not already
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:15 PM
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They give you the hot people first (if I remember correctly)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:15 PM
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I think there should be a dating app that when you join you rank people’s attractiveness and then once you do you see profiles around your same level
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:50 PM
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People who don’t care about politics are weird. How can you not care about the laws and stuff around you that affect you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:12 PM
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I think it has more to do with the user base of Reddit being a bunch of nerds and not as many normies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:01 AM
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I think it’s annoying when they go around getting mad at women for not being a free therapist about them not having friends
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:02 PM
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Or one who wants to get into a relationship. It is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:53 PM
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Nooo coat that guy has good taste!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:31 AM
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If someone did that to me I would call the police
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 04:25 PM
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Booooo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 04:22 PM
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That’s so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:03 PM
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Yeah, that’s why I realized I would have better luck going for people I already know and am familiar with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:51 PM
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I already feel bad enough for firstborn daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:55 PM
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Unattractive people need to be more open to dating fellow unattractive people from what I’ve observed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:51 PM
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Not particularly tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:17 PM
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I prefer medium n count men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:49 PM
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Nah, just no raw attraction there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:36 PM
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There’s no way it’s someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:52 PM
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He was so mad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:39 PM
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Not to me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:39 PM
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I’ve stopped showing up to other places because creepy men kept bothering me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:30 PM
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Personality can definitely scare people away though (saying this as someone who was recently scared away by someone’s personality)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:15 PM
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Wait why is it funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:12 PM
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What does this mean
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:55 PM
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I hate situations like that, you’re just existing and some guy wants to bother you and make you so uncomfortable you have to switch gyms
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:47 PM
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Online dating takes all of the fun out of the beginning stages of meeting someone and turns it into a joyless slog. Edit to add: I can go to a bar and have fun even if I don’t meet someone, so even if I don’t get the intended results, the bar was still a good time. If I am on online dating I’m not having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:17 PM
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Therapy and forcing myself to go outside when I’m feeling under socialized makes me more confident than when I am a mentally ill shut in
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:17 PM
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Weird manosphere dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:10 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:06 PM
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I would be benevolent. I like being a nice person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:31 PM
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Why are you making a bunch of new rules for my reign
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:25 PM
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I’d probably just get to know them and flirt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:22 PM
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If I liked them sure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:41 PM
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I feel like I would date one of the cute court scientists after I get to know them after a while. I would try to rule fairly without violence but I am abolishing the patriarchy still
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:10 PM
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I generally assume men already know that diet and exercise could help in becoming more attractive to women. Usually I’m just trying to tailor advice to individuals under the assumption that most men already know that going to the gym could help with their luck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:05 PM
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It’s obnoxious when I’m trying to go about my life and delusional grandpas think it’s time to shoot their shot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:01 PM
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As human lie detectors, women should have picked up on his character in the first millisecond of meeting him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:30 PM
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No, they’re usually weird old men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:24 PM
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Yeah because they go shopping as a chore, not because all of the items only go to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:46 PM
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How are women benefitting while men don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:41 PM
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To tie your life together with someone you love and enjoy spending time with? You shouldn’t marry if you think relationships are only about sex, that’s crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:10 AM
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Some bisexual people have slightly different expectations for men they date than other genders, so I think it depends on the individual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:46 AM
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So how much luck do you have there buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:32 PM
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Yeah, I would like it if he did something like volunteer once a week in his free time though since he has all of that availability
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:57 PM
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Sure, those aren’t my complaints with online dating though. I have trouble finding people I can connect with on my end too, I think meeting acquaintances and seeing if I vibe with them generally works better for me and holds my interest
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:13 AM
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Idk I’m a vegan but a lot of women don’t like dead things
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:17 PM
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Good thing that hasn’t happened yet (but if it does, I guess ill stop dating people who can get me pregnant)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:52 PM
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Good thing I only get with guys who are on the same page as me on this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:34 PM
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A lot of women find the grind pointless too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:20 AM
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Idk hard work doesn’t get you anywhere anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:17 AM
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I think more young people should drop out of society
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:50 PM
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Most men use porn whether or not they’re in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:34 PM
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lol this is an interesting take that I somewhat agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:32 PM
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You’re so right, only attractive people can be evil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:29 PM
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Wait how are they being taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:28 PM
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A lot of other women and I would love a pony but we don’t want the government to fund that for us
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:18 PM
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An ounce of personality besides liking to travel. Liking to travel isn’t a personality trait
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:57 PM
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No because when we date men they often don’t listen to or respect our boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:52 PM
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I know, but this is a Reddit space so I’m speaking to redditers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:06 PM
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No idea
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:55 PM
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When I’m just going to work and back, maybe .5 times a week on average. If I’m going to social things as well or making longer commutes, maybe 1-3 times a week depending on how much I’m going out. I live in a neighborhood in a big city, 25 and I’d rate myself somewhere between 6-8
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:45 PM
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Yeah, not by that much, but imo if anything straight men should still be excited to date their percentile looks match because she’ll be more attractive to him than he is to her most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:35 PM
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What are all of the good men up to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:32 PM
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Yeah like pick one or admit you’re a little shallow too and that’s ok!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:31 PM
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I’ve seen this a lot too. I think people should be allowed to find whoever they want attractive, but they probably shouldn’t complain about others not finding them attractive all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:24 PM
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I don’t think some men are. They’re saying they’re having a rough time and then pursue average women if they’re below average, or above average women when they’re average
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:22 PM
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I think a lot of men are way more picky about appearance than they claim to be
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:17 PM
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I needed my air conditioning set up, so my roommate did it for me. She’s a woman I know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:08 PM
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I don’t think ChatGPT is supposed to be used as a source
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:30 PM
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“I can’t believe you cheated on me!” “Well, at least I didn’t alter my nose when I fixed my deviated septum as a teen!” Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:56 PM
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I would need a source for the “most men hate makeup” and maybe even one for the plastic surgery. I don’t think men are against plastic surgery if they don’t even know it’s been done
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:51 PM
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Every age gap post I read here makes me even more turned off by the old men that hit on me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:41 PM
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Yeah I’d say class background is a bigger deal in dating a lot of times than just salary
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:20 PM
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Women don’t agree on what a good life is, but they’re generally able to know their own opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:48 PM
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I wouldn’t care that much if it didn’t involve so much paperwork. Otherwise, I just think couples should take the last name of whoever has the cooler name. I think sharing a last name can be a nice way of signifying that you are a family unit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:26 PM
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I would rather be shot than be pursued by someone with commitment or loyalty issues again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:44 PM
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Just like how a lot of porn insecure women compromise with their partners by making porn with their partner, I think a lot vibrator insecure men should make homemade vibrators for their partners using a mold of their penis
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:13 PM
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How come no one gave my ex the memo before he dumped me even while I was meeting his stated conditions?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:27 PM
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It’s definitely been one hell of a year! Hope you’ve been well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 08:54 PM
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If I was a furry Celestia from mlpfim would be my fursona probably idk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:06 PM
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Yeah, it’s a little hypocritical of me because I’m vegan but picky eaters annoy me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:35 PM
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I get to spend Monday with my kinda bf! Yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:30 PM
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I’m a woman with some college, no degree, and this makes a lot of sense to me. I’m working a low paid office job, a lot of trades tend to be male dominated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:41 PM
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Usually, or a poly person trying to be monogamous for a monogamous person or a monogamous person also trying polyamory for a polyamorous person they like
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:13 PM
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I have long hair and don’t even notice myself flipping it, but apparently others do? Am I a diva now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:34 PM
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Glad she was nice I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:41 PM
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I’m reading about mono-poly relationships. I would rather be euthanized
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:40 PM
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Does anyone know anyone irl who “passport bro”ed? I know someone who I suspect might’ve gotten with his ex wife with that sort of goal, but idk for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:04 PM
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I feel like that could be incorporated into the game
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:06 PM
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The only thing that would get me back on online dating is if they made a club penguin-like game where you get on a server full of hot singles in your area and choose people on how they dress their penguin avatars and how well they can coordinate people to tip the iceberg
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:57 PM
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I’d rather be left than a person on rotation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:18 PM
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What about guys who go into the encounter being dishonest about their intentions?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:40 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@thecourtfort/video/7506563065157143851?_t=ZP-8wZgdrOvlAU&_r=1 what do you guys think about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:27 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:25 PM
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I wish I could figure out how to share TikTok’s without sharing my username
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:10 PM
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How can you be an incel if you could find a way to get a polycule to hook up with you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:10 PM
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Someone is a fake leftist to me if they aren’t both
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:56 PM
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A lot of people consider self identified incels to be weird freaks too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:55 PM
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If incels read a bunch of leftist theory and get into stuff that poly people are into and no one knows about their incel-identifying past, a group of people dating each other might be willing to add someone to the group
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:40 PM
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Im so performative
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:38 PM
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I’m thinking about one specific person I know because she annoys me so much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:38 PM
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I judge people who call themselves leftists and criticize their partner for not making enough (even though their partners make enough to take care of themselves). Doesn’t make sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:23 PM
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Exactly, so they might fit right in if their problem is their appearance. Also the poly people I’ve met are often neurodivergent too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:10 PM
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IMO if some of the incels here scrub their pasts and take about a year to read some theory there might be some polycules who would accept them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:06 PM
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He’s my on again off again bf and I am a little stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:34 PM
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There’s a statistic that is thrown around here a lot that a lot more young women are in relationships than young men People think there might be different reasons for the gap (age gaps, queer relationships), but one may be that women are self reporting that they are in a relationship while their partners are calling themselves single. I would tell someone on a survey I’m not single but I think my partner would say he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:18 PM
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I probably am one of the young women who would probably put that she’s in a relationship while her partner puts that he’s not (skewing that statistic that more young men are single than young women) 😭 but he might make the cutoff for old, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:56 PM
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Could be more queer women who are dating, women more likely to say they’re in a relationship than their partners for example
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:41 PM
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All the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:31 PM
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You’re almost me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:57 PM
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She sure does. I’m not friends with her for other reasons, but I didn’t want to hear all the time rambling about how youthful and young and hot she was compared to her partner’s ex. So annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:33 PM
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I have a cold, there is no hope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:06 PM
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The only woman I was friends with who liked “older” (22 and 29 I think when they got together) men has a bad relationship with her father and insults people her partner’s age for being the same age as her partner. I don’t even consider that to be that much of an age gap, but she would mention the age gap all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:06 PM
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People who have been in the workforce longer: has training always been so minimal in jobs you’ve worked, or has the amount of training gone down over the years?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:35 PM
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That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:40 PM
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I hope this annoying customer’s coffee is cold for the rest of her week ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:40 PM
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I ended up reading through your other comments, and I think you should only go for it if you would be down to bring him with you traveling or just let him go otherwise! It could be fun to go with him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:23 PM
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Is he ready to settle down now? What was he doing in the time when he wouldn’t settle down? Trying to plow the whole neighborhood? I would be turned off by that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:59 PM
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I did listen to it (and relisten to it today), but I thought they were mentioning the reasoning why men are reporting loneliness, not that their loneliness is worse than women’s loneliness. But maybe that was my interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:57 PM
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Tempeh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:54 PM
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People ignoring evidence that goes against the argument that the poor men are discriminated against because people aren’t fucking them? In this subreddit? So surprising lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:54 PM
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I think the talking everyday and not being friends with exes are the only ones I agree on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:01 PM
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https://www.npr.org/2025/02/17/1263527043/its-been-a-minute-male-loneliness-epidemic-real How is it a male loneliness epidemic when men and women are almost equally reporting loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:00 PM
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Does anyone else here have parents that are happily together?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:27 PM
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No, part of being a good parent is showing what healthy relationships look like
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:27 PM
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If there’s no damage, the person would probably not care enough to have someone check the cameras
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:26 PM
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Sometimes I wish I could force myself to believe in religion to be able to find a spouse more easily
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:16 PM
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Where would you go?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:15 PM
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Ranked obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:11 PM
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I’m pretty good at rubbing my own bean
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:03 PM
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Aw, that is sweet (I think?) gotta love free pizza
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:44 PM
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In my culture it generally implies a deeper level of commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:36 PM
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Is the “new friends” thing something someone can filter like gender or age, or is it a filter people have to pay for like height or political affiliation?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:35 PM
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I like the idea of two people having the mindset of being committed to each other and aiming for the goal of forever together
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:19 PM
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Yeah, the forever part is what makes me interested in marriage too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:12 PM
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Just no getting attached?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:11 PM
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Same here. I would prefer happy solitude over either a relationship doomed to end from the beginning or one that would leave me unsatisfied with the level of commitment for the end of time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:06 PM
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For people who date to marry: if a fortune teller (in this scenario let’s say the fortune teller is 100% right) told you that you would never marry, would you give up on dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:59 PM
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I haven’t been on the apps in a while, but for some reason I kept getting a bunch of likes from poly people on hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:51 PM
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Why don’t dating apps automatically let you pick monogamy or polyamory as filters in the same way they filter by gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:37 PM
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Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:15 PM
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Does she get free stuff in certain places like cities, or is this small to medium sized town stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:15 PM
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I’m not asking for instructions, I’m just curious what they think a woman has to do to receive the fancy gifts guys here assume women get all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:13 PM
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Yeah like I don’t see that happening to any of my friends who are also above average either though (also I don’t bum for cigs anymore, I’ve learned to chill out my drunk nicotine cravings)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:12 PM
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Sounds like you’re raking in that free stuff, so generous of him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:10 PM
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I’ve been offered a few free drinks back when I frequented bars, sometimes people of any gender give me a cigarette if I ask for one, and a guy who worked at a food court by one of my old jobs started giving me free lunches after I wore mascara to work one day. It was right before I moved and got a new job, though, so I’m not sure how long that would’ve lasted
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:54 PM
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What do you have to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:48 PM
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Yeah, the way guys here describe it I thought we were supposed to be handed free stuff out of nowhere without asking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:45 PM
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Do I just ask for free stuff when I’m on the dating app? Most dudes I’ve been on dates from online will also split the check
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:44 PM
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How much free stuff do you guys think the above average (but not model hot) woman in her twenties gets? I would describe myself as that and I’ve barely gotten any free stuff. I feel like I’m missing out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:35 PM
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I feel like it has more to do with the fact that she’s asking strangers to record her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:24 PM
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I think “only people who have experienced ego death on psychedelics” is an equally stupid statement
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:15 PM
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Same except for I am not normal. It’s so hard to meet people and once you go on a date to get commitment (yes, even from “ugly” balding men) imo idek
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:08 PM
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Do people win defamation cases for being called creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:57 PM
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I would be ruder to them to make them go away if I wasn’t afraid of being attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:56 PM
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Plenty of honest people think it’s creepy for people to hit on someone who is half their age
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:54 PM
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Depends on their reasoning and if they would buy my new wardrobe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:49 PM
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Why don’t you tell the old men that they can approach you the.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:48 PM
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Exactly. I get so mad when I think I am being stopped by an old man to be asked for directions and they start asking me where I live and shit and if I want to go on a date. It’s just gross idc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:47 PM
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I’ve had an older woman hit on me too and I also think it’s weird and creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:43 PM
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dont you understand? theyre just sad old men who want a hot lady to keep them company. I’m young and hot so I should be free game to approach without any judgement!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:40 PM
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Because they keep trying to date strangers via instagram I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:32 PM
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Is my mom approaching men my age who are minding their own business in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:31 PM
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I’m just surprised that would work on anyone unless they happen to be super attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:00 PM
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Defamation requires a false statement of fact. Calling someone creepy is an opinion based statement. If I said “old man Joe is creepy and hit on mid twenties me even though he’s 65” I would just be stating my opinion on the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:00 PM
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How is that defamation?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:57 PM
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I hate it when people are like “noooo hungrychick404, you can’t call that man older than your dad a creep for hitting on you! He’s just a lonely old man and your prefrontal cortex is fully developed! It’s totally legal!” Calling gramps a creep is legal too though…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:51 PM
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I have an instagram and I’ve gotten propositioned a few times, but it’s always by people I have met in real life (not random strangers)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:45 PM
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Yeah, I have to take breaks from here because I can get negative feelings towards men. I have to remind myself that the opinions here are held by a minority of men and plenty of men are good people who don’t hate me just for my gender
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:43 PM
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How many of you guys actually use instagram to flirt with strangers you haven’t met before? I keep seeing online people talk about finding people or cheating with random people who they follow on instagram, but I don’t know anyone in my real life who uses instagram like a dating app. Is this just something that younger gen z does?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:29 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:58 PM
1

The reward is a punishment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:17 AM
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Nah I’m going to go into cat lady mode
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:05 AM
1

Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:04 AM
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10
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:00 AM
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If I’m single again I don’t think I’m going to date unless I fall deeply in love with a friend and don’t have to date people. I hate dating more than anything in the world and I hate the idea of having sex with someone and they go and have sex with someone else the next day. I hate having to get to know people and dealing with rejection. I just like peace and to be left alone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:58 AM
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The one I met him at had more men but I’ve been to some that have more women. It depends on the activity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:05 AM
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Socialize with the men first to show that you aren’t just after meeting women (it feels desperate if you only interact with women) and be friendly towards everyone instead of locking in on one person
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:43 PM
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Well maybe if the guys who struggle work on their social skills by interacting with people it’ll still increase their chances! There are no guarantees in life but things can help or hurt your goals
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:36 PM
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Only on this subreddit will people get mad at you for saying that they can increase their chances of finding someone by meeting more people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:22 PM
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I moved about a year ago so I had to build one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:18 PM
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I mean I know I could. I am more receptive to finding a bf when I actually get to know people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:11 PM
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No one at meetup events is going to like you because you have a woe is me attitude tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:11 PM
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I would feel slightly flattered but I have self esteem issues lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:01 PM
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I met my current bf through a Meetup event. I feel like if you’re in a city and want to meet someone irl you really need to find a regular event like an art class and it’ll help you to get to know people and increase your dating pool. Even if you don’t date people through the event you go to, you can make friends with people. It’s easier to meet more people when you have friends to introduce you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:57 PM
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I was just reading that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:54 PM
5

When I got cheated on I compared my physical appearance to hers a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:56 PM
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Seeing weirdos on Reddit rate people like this and talking about women in this way feels disrespectful. I don’t want to be disrespected
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:54 PM
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Remind me to never sleep with someone new again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:18 PM
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I’d probably just tell her you’re looking for different things and that you don’t see a future and you’re sorry if she feels let down
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:14 PM
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Yeah, she should just not have medical issues obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:12 PM
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Got my first Reddit cares in almost a year. So nice to know that you guys love me and care about me 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:09 PM
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No I want him to like my outfit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:01 PM
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Why are you cutting her off
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:23 PM
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Like he doesn’t like that I like dressing hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:21 PM
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I love my bf but I am sad that he doesn’t care about my hot outfits
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:17 PM
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Why would you be thinking about another gf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:45 PM
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Is charisma or physical attractiveness more integral to finding a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:54 PM
1

So true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:35 PM
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I don’t think most men have rosters or most women, but the ones who do clog up the dating market because they have so much reach because they’re fucking everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:53 PM
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And women are the evil ones
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:35 PM
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Pretty much every man you know is stupid then and have fragile egos
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:35 PM
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I think it’s most people, that’s why I didn’t specify gender
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:34 PM
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I think most of the men on here want to be Chad while they complain about all women’s supposed promiscuity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:29 PM
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Idk, I don’t see multiple people romantically at the same time personally
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:26 PM
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Rosters and sleeping with multiple people at a time while looking for something serious is part of what ruins modern dating. Especially if you don’t let people know beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:18 PM
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I think younger people are more against diamonds because of blood diamonds though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:17 PM
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Left because he’s younger
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:15 PM
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If you think “husband material” is offensive, you’re stupid and don’t know what monogamous people are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:14 PM
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Protein. I’ve been trying to gain weight but avoid the stomach area, and it helps to build muscle in places I want to be bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:12 PM
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You’re mad at me for saying that people say that a lot? And no I’ve just been busy and forgot about Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:09 AM
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“All men look at other women, it’s not a big deal” “All men watch porn, get over it”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:46 PM
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I’m bisexual and I didn’t look at women either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:39 PM
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Men aren’t loyal at heart and often don’t see women as people and only as sex objects
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:38 PM
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Whether you appreciate it and actively notice it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:19 PM
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I decided I didn’t want a boyfriend with wandering eyes and ended things
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:48 PM
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There’s definitely a mindset that can influence how you view attractive people. When I was in a relationship I didn’t notice the attractiveness of other people besides in an objective “maybe my single friend would like this person because they’re her type” way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:47 PM
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I’m bi and I think that’s gross. Like why are you stooping to the level of a creepy dude
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:44 PM
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Exactly. When someone who is clearly with someone starts checking me out, I feel really sad for the person they’re with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:43 PM
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“I don’t care if my man looks at other women” I tried looking at other people while I was with someone (because apparently he was too) and I ended up less attracted to my partner when I stayed loyal with my eyes. I think avoiding checking people out can make you happier with what you have
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:34 PM
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Most people don’t want to be compared to a minor by the person they’re having sex with imo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:17 PM
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And this isn’t an insult like some of you weirdos think. I find him to be very attractive (like married people generally have sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:16 PM
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Glenn Rhees from the walking dead will always be my definition of husband material. I would marry him so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:14 PM
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Idk someone who is a friendly nerd not exactly the beauty standard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:15 PM
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So cruel! So mean!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:15 PM
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No, I think they just cast a wide net/have a social life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:39 PM
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You guys mislead me so much. Every time I try to give a nice guy a chance they happen to be more promiscuous than the hot guys I’ve tried dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:34 PM
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Thanks ❤️🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:15 PM
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It sucks because I find other men to be so boring 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:15 PM
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I think I’m compassionate and a good listener. I like to help cheer people up and listen to them if they don’t want to be cheered up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:14 PM
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Accurate sadly, but I know some women cheat too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:11 PM
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I think I handle loneliness better than heartbreak
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:11 PM
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I have no idea what this means
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:08 PM
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I’ve been cheated on before and my self esteem tanked for a while. I don’t want to risk that again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:08 PM
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I like my men a little depressed (because they can relate to me), but not in a doomcel way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:04 PM
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Found out the guy who I’ve been talking to has cheated twice during his previous relationships. For some reason it’s always the kinda nerdy guys who don’t seem like the type to do that (from my experience, I know other types do that and those are the type of guys I usually like)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:00 PM
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Idk I’ve known girls like that in college who would see who they could match with and swiped like this but they only met up with guys they met irl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:18 AM
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Stardew valley or chants of sennaar
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:13 AM
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Men also get uglier as they age. I’ve never wanted a man over the age of 35
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:51 PM
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I don’t like meatheads. They might try talking to me about sports
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:22 PM
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Only until they see my room
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:12 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/sxpivahukz7d1.jpeg?width=939&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e8e0f26f426dcbb1fad6972f687f64cba9931f3b I’m a damn bitch, you live like this?-cel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:41 PM
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NYC and LA are not the average though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:34 PM
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I think most of the reason body positivity has been pushed so hard is because of eating disorders being the deadliest mental disorders and women have classically been the most susceptible to that. Now that men are catching up (unfortunately, I’d really rather eating disorders go down for all groups), I think it would be nice to have some more body positivity campaigns for men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:32 PM
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Well idk about her opinion either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:09 PM
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I would be mad if an American doesn’t know who Helen Keller was too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:35 PM
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What do you guys think the average woman looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:26 PM
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Bathrooms have stalls so I don’t see why people care
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:24 PM
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Are they real women or just ones you see online?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:23 PM
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And they say women’s standards are too high
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:14 PM
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I don’t see neoteny as the pinnacle of beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:01 PM
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I feel like this helped with me. My face is slimmer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:16 PM
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You find 16 year olds attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:12 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:08 PM
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So I don’t care about the wall you guys just want women to feel bad about aging
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:32 PM
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I look better at almost 25 than I did at 21
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:31 PM
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It usually is a booty call, but I’ve had someone say that to make sure I had time for a late night deep text conversation before. That was kind of nice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:55 AM
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I can’t generally tell
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:35 AM
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If I could upload my consciousness onto the cloud I wouldn’t have to worry about falling in love
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:51 AM
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I cannot relate, but that sounds like my worst nightmare. I’m so sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:43 AM
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Getting drunk is fun and makes other things like socializing more fun
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:42 AM
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I quit within the past year and it is honestly one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I think the thing that made it easier is it was slightly less accessible to me in the place I moved to. I would definitely recommend making the barrier to getting nicotine higher if you can
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:30 AM
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Why does your grandma know so much about your bedroom life or lack of bedroom life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:22 AM
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I knew a girl in college who told me she tried out Fet life. She was interested in a specific but moderately common kink, and she told me she wasn’t able to find many men in her age range besides an out of state guy. I didn’t get too many more details, but I was surprised she couldn’t find someone more local
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:52 AM
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Sex can get someone pregnant and spread STIs. Massages don’t generally do that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:04 AM
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From the way you describe sex I’d say that’s a red flag for a lot of people. Sex is a lot different from a massage. You generally aren’t going to be traumatized from giving a massage, but I know some traumatized sex workers and former sex workers. I personally would never date someone who has paid for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:41 PM
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Happy Juneteenth!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:03 PM
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Oh I was talking about weed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:02 PM
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I don’t know enough about facial hair to give details really tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:01 AM
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Damn a girl can’t drink once a week these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:24 AM
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Id change the shape of your facial hair a bit maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:24 AM
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I feel like i combat this with friend groups, but only when no one brings their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:13 AM
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Call me Anakin but I don’t like sand
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:12 AM
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I’ve talked to like two guys who had this attitude. I’m not sprinkle sprinkle girl personally, but I got the impression that they were too scared I might be
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:10 AM
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My red flag is men who think their divorced moms are gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:53 AM
1

I went to the gym today thoughhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:45 AM
1

Should I smoke and drink tonight or just smoke? I have tomorrow off
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:44 AM
4

I live in a studio in already in the kitchen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:32 AM
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You can date in it and some characters have steamy scenes (plus you can mod some more dating stuff into the game too)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:27 AM
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Try stardew valley because no one will judge you if you have it in your steam library
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:23 AM
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Elon musk is two baby mothers away from her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:22 AM
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I hate it when men talk to me about sports. They’re so boring (please before anyone tries telling me that I’m wrong and that girls like sports, please consider that people can have individual opinions)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:18 AM
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I have a nice body and I barely work out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:46 PM
1

Some of it is just genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:41 PM
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Once or twice a day so maybe 12? Unless it’s my time of month which would be more like 5
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:39 PM
4

Just survived the most awkward work party and realized why I was moved to a non customer facing role
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:38 PM
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It’s cute but where are you wearing that to/will you be able to get multiple wears out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:37 PM
1

Just because men will fuck rotisserie chickens doesn’t mean we want to be seen as the rotisserie chickens to them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:36 PM
1

Also women: using dating apps way less frequently than men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:34 PM
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For men who realllllly want a relationship: would you give up porn to be in one?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:33 PM
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Maybe it’s not better, but it’s still more than your ancestors got until they found someone to mate with
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:09 PM
1

Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:31 PM
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Yes, I agree that is bad. I just feel like OP probably doesn’t care about women’s self confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:24 PM
1

They still do that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:23 PM
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They still get off to someone hotter than they’ll ever see irl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:22 PM
1

Most women I know follow celebrities who are also women. I don’t see women following Instagram models like men do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:18 PM
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It also baffles me why they don’t think this would affect their sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:15 PM
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It baffles me that men complain that no one wants to have sex with them as much as they want sex while they have access to seeing hotter girls than they would ever interact with in a lifetime naked in HD to get off to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:14 PM
5

Do women on social media follow attractive men who reach unattainable beauty standards via photoshop to lust over?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:11 PM
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I don’t tell people that I prefer medium sized because they’ll throw a fit that I’ve experienced bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:09 PM
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Because they want you to make the move if interest is shown, not if she sees the whole thing as platonic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:08 PM
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Friends to lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:52 PM
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Where are you getting this idea? Do you have any data to back up your claim, or is this just how you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:52 PM
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Why is someone stupid for taking someone at their word? How should they weed out the liars when they barely know the person on the other end because they’re strangers on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:51 PM
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Getting tricked into thinking someone is single in a place meant for single people to meet each other and someone getting tricked into thinking Only Fans models like them on a porn site are two very different scenarios like electric icy said. The comparison makes no sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:50 PM
1

It’s happened with me??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:51 AM
1

Are you questioning MY opinion???? Wowie
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:46 AM
2

So true, I’m playing that right now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:20 AM
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I haven’t played it in years and it used to be my most played game. I keep forgetting that it’s free now right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:20 AM
1

Idk they’re irrelevant to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:54 PM
2

Shy + shy is a cuter pairing than shy + confident imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:46 PM
1

I can only do that for those who act the same for me (including not thirsting after random internet girls or watching porn. I like all sexual energy going towards me and not random internet girls)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:41 PM
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There’s a subset of insecure women who are attracted to married men, but a lot of women are tricked into thinking the man is single. You might be in some weird circles if all women around you go for married men, because that is not what I see
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:40 PM
1

Interesting. What would you think about a woman who loves men who have masculine muscles. Esp in the summer with the cutoff shirts?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:37 PM
1

You can never win with a guy who has a Madonna Whore complex. Hes always going to desire both
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:32 PM
2

So true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:29 PM
5

Guys here think you have to date Danny devito if you don’t want to get cheated on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:24 PM
1

He was 5’5 and overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:19 PM
2

Bro he WAS less attractive and cheated because he was excited to get hit on for the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:20 PM
1

Well yeah lol a lot of guys aren’t generally running after nice modest Sally until they’re ran through and ready to settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:19 PM
2

Yeah, I was seeing a bi guy who complained about how a lot of gay men just want sex and don’t want commitment (and he later told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship, thanks a lot bro)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:17 PM
1

I mean, I get way more attention from men when I’m wearing less modest stuff? Though I can get attention sometimes when wearing modest stuff too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:12 PM
1

Can all of those guys get into LTRs?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:10 PM
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Hookup culture is kind of extreme in a lot of gay men circles imo, so I feel like they’re more likely to be open to hooking up but I’ve also had friends who were ridiculed by other guys for not living up to their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:09 PM
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We were dating for two years! Of course we were exclusive lol and talked about it explicitly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:07 PM
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I can’t get into too many specifics because I’m not a man who dates men but I always hear stuff about “twink death” and guys feeling pressured to have six packs and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:06 PM
1

Usually boring
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:03 PM
3

If my partner moves on that quickly after I die, I’m haunting their ass. My grandfather remarried less than a year after my grandmother died, and it still makes me feel a certain way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:02 PM
3

Bruh it took me a year to get over a guy who cheated on me I dated two years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:00 PM
4

The high standards of appearance of gay men makes me think that women aren’t the ones who care too much about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:58 PM
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It’s weird if she doesn’t dance when going out with him, but who tf twerks casually at home? If she’s not twerking ON someone, who cares, she’s having fun and dancing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:56 PM
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lol women also work hard jobs like medical care? That certainly keeps society functioning. It’s almost like people’s value to society is independent of gender!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:00 AM
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1,205 women died due to maternal causes in the US in 2021, 4,781 men died due to workplace accidents in 2021 US, 448 women died due to workplace accidents in 2021 in the US. I think lives sacrificed to keep civilizations running isn’t a good way to measure who has it worse tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:58 PM
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Guys working in those jobs aren’t doing that to keep civilization afloat either 😭they do it for a paycheck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:53 PM
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Idk, if it went poorly there could be drama?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:52 PM
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They die in childbirth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:51 PM
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I can’t tell you for sure because I’m young, but maybe that’s like a 90s thing that used to happen but doesn’t happen anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:47 PM
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Have you ever had a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:44 PM
1

Have you ever had a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:43 PM
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It’s almost like women also risk their lives to keep civilization afloat! Wow, maybe all genders make good contributions to society!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:42 PM
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How bad is it to date a coworker who works in a different department/building? There’s this coworker my other coworkers have been teasing me about who they think was flirting with me and he’s kinda cute but he was only training with us for a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:40 PM
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Was she more or less attractive than you? My thing is I’ve seen guys in a friend group go after the hottest woman who gets all of the guys first then try to get with the rest of the women after they get rejected. I feel like it makes the rest of the women uninterested because they already know you wanted their hot friend the most
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:37 PM
1

I mean why am I this hot yet so so single for three years? Because I’m undateable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:35 PM
1

Being bisexual is the best cause I hate everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:35 PM
1

I was thinking getting to know people in group settings is generally a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:21 PM
2

I don’t think most people on here are dateable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:19 PM
1

It’s wayyy easier to make friends than get into relationships, I’d definitely recommend tryinv
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:19 PM
2

Can we bring back getting to know someone BEFORE asking them on a date? I hate going on dates with strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:13 PM
2

Yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:12 PM
1

Yeah, I don’t have kids so I’d rather not be a step parent tbh but if I had to choose
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:17 PM
2

I see it plenty lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:14 PM
1

So they only want something serious cause they’re ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:09 PM
1

Oh? I’ve never gotten that impression, every mother I know does more domestic labor than the father and even spends more on her kids than the dad who makes more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:20 PM
3

Ew I hate old men and don’t want to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:18 PM
3

I would personally rather date a single mother than single father. They usually actually take care of their children
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:14 PM
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When red pillers tell women their value dries up at 25 and men still have their value while young men refuse to seriously date anyone, are they just telling women to date older men in a round about way?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:12 PM
1

I know, when will it be my turn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:07 PM
1

Yeah, I would miss the free stuff some guys give me, but it would be worth it overall
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:06 PM
1

Dating apps are a waste of time because they encourage attitudes like that. If I text multiple people at once I always lose interest because it becomes so overwhelming and I can’t get attached
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:08 PM
1

Sometimes I feel sad when I see fellow hot bi girls with ugly guys, but then I remember there is more to life than looks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:07 PM
4

It’s funny
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:06 PM
1

Looks wise, career wise, or otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:05 PM
1

I think I would gain respect, but men can also be mean for god knows why to each other. I would also stop being harassed and people would take my opinions a little more seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:03 PM
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I’d say it’s the goal of the majority of men on here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:00 PM
6

I kissed a cute girl tonight happy pride!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:45 AM
1

I know, women are so scheming and evil smh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:04 AM
1

I know, so evil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:57 PM
2

That’s kind of thoughtful of you though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:35 PM
5

Me, a woman (evil), wearing a push up bra to bamboozle all of the innocents into thinking I have larger boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:28 PM
1

Most of the ones I can find are cheap looking or a little too big (I would want mine smaller and slightly more subtle to match current jewelry trends), so I agree on the gamer merch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:13 AM
2

I honestly think I never chose
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:43 AM
2

I’m thinking of getting an Amulet of Mara necklace to wear around. Do you think it’ll attract a gamer?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:25 AM
1

This isn’t stardew valley sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:18 PM
2

Carl and Ellie are one of the few examples of real love
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:17 PM
2

It only takes one person to give you HPV
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:13 PM
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Idk, I was one of only a few women at an event the other weekend and all of the attention was concentrated on like two of us there (even though the other women were really cool too)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:13 PM
1

Yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:38 PM
1

I have no rizz just good facial harmony. I’m mega awkward unless I’m drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:38 PM
2

Omg so terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:37 PM
2

Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:31 PM
1

Oh like 1?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:31 PM
1

Why aren’t the ugly men hitting on the ugly women? They just don’t want women in their own league
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:31 PM
1

Actively going on dates with or having people in my inbox?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:27 PM
2

They hate chad but want everything in the world to be Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:26 PM
3

I get shit on and called ugly on here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:25 PM
2

I also can’t date men who buy trucks (unless they actually use it to haul stuff on a regular basis)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:23 PM
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I can’t date women with shopping addictions tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:23 PM
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Those loser doctors and lawyers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:29 PM
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That’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:29 PM
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He had a video about how finding a girlfriend isn’t a manageable goal but things like going to the gym twice a week is, and I think that is good advice to let go of the expectation and find different goals that are more dependent on things that are in your control
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:15 PM
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Wow, I thought I was going to expire!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:46 PM
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I’m so down to meet some cute nuns
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:03 PM
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He cheated on me WITH Bill Burr obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:02 PM
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I’ll name her Ms Whiskers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:02 PM
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My ex cheated on me so maybe his type of funny is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:59 PM
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Sending a vid would be revenge porn, which is illegal. I wouldn’t risk the jail time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:52 PM
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I’m about to be 25, will I be a femcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:49 PM
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Damn sorry you got cheated on, champ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:49 PM
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The world would also be so much better if more men were on Rogaine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:46 PM
2

Wouldn’t date anyone of any gender who did something like that. I didn’t take things further with a woman I was talking to because she used to be poly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:45 PM
2

No, what a garden tool
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:44 PM
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My ex liked bill burr and I didn’t know anything about him back then. Now that I know stuff about Bill Burr, I’m like damn red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:41 PM
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I think most people on this subreddit of any gender could benefit from watching or listening to Healthy Gamer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:40 PM
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They don’t need to be exceptionally attractive, just attractive enough, which really depends on the woman. And a lot of hot guys have shitty personalities women don’t want to date like I was saying earlier. You’re making it sound like women are dating ugly guys because they can’t get with the hot guys when a lot of the time the less attractive guys just have other things going for them to make them attractive besides physical appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:03 PM
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I’d say the former is more common, but maybe not as common as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:09 PM
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I have known guys who can’t get into relationships even though they can get casual sex. Usually they’re depressed though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:17 AM
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Probably a lot of women can’t either but thankfully I’m hot tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:58 PM
2

And big breasted women don’t have silicon boobs. Both are surgically altering
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:28 PM
2

I would be like “glad he’s comfortable being alone” and move on with life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:11 PM
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That’s one of the reasons why I don’t date weebs anymore lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:10 PM
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There’s also breast implant sickness and side affects to getting a boob job…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:09 PM
1

Ooh, rich finance stock trading guys. Not my type personally, but I know a lot of women would like that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:08 PM
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Cons are not the place to do that imo because it’s already in populated by OF girlies and cosplay baddies. Board game night and tech events have gotten me random attention lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:57 PM
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As long as you don’t get mad at women for having height, another thing people can’t control, as a standard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:51 PM
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Going to a nerd, male dominated event to experience Stacy privilege >>>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:48 PM
2

It’s only a small portion but it’s still annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:07 AM
1

Yeah I have definitely unknowingly hit on someone who was taken before, but obviously backed off once I found out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:07 AM
1

I think some women find how a guy acts in a relationship to be attractive, like noticing he is kind and caring
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:12 AM
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Not anyone I choose to know cause ew
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:09 AM
3

But aren’t women less open to being approached on dating apps too these days? I’ve heard dating app usage is going down, especially with women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:05 AM
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Most men I know have gotten more attention after getting into a relationship and I’m like a girl’s girl but the women who like taken guys are an L
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:00 AM
1

He looks like any other frat dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:55 PM
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If you’re hot then maybe it’ll happen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:22 PM
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I mean sometimes that can happen, but it also happens sometimes when the guy is hot but stupid or has a boring personality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:21 PM
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I think some guys need to realize that some women can also be shallow and hook up with someone they can’t see having anything serious with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:14 PM
1

The guy who invited me is 21
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:19 AM
1

Agreed on both unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:32 AM
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I feel like the only people who are super mad about the conviction are people who were going to vote for Trump anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:20 AM
1

I look younger than I am to most people so that makes me feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:02 AM
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Thanks, Gladboys :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:54 AM
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Is it creepy for a 24 almost 25 year old to go to a recent college grad’s party? I love parties and haven’t been to a good one in ages, but I feel so old
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:51 AM
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Idk how to rate you, I’d just say that you need a different hairstyle/beard
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:50 AM
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You date under 18 as an adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:14 PM
3

Most women I know don’t search for guys to talk to based on Instagram comments
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:09 PM
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21M 23F, so not too bad, but I’ve kissed with a larger age gap before
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:57 PM
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I think there should be a term for people who can find someone to have sex with but can’t find commitment. There’s some overlap with incels/femcels, but it’s a little different imo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:54 PM
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I’ve been to something similar recently and I think it’s a good place for women to go to meet people, but the gender ratio is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:53 PM
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All of the women I know want to be the hottest he’s ever dated
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:33 AM
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A girl. I don’t have as much experience dating women, so I don’t really know what I’m doing tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:21 AM
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No, I tried to plan one and realized I had to actually bring food and find out what my date wanted to eat all in a first date
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:26 AM
2

I would rather talk about my feelings to a tree rather than human. It’s called journaling (haha)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:11 AM
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Picnic dates are a bad idea if you are bad at planning btw
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:23 AM
2

That’s messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:22 AM
4

Go for the hinge pics in a suit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:45 AM
1

Abort or murder?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:42 AM
2

They’re being cucked by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:03 PM
5

Have fun! Just remember it’s similar to N count for some women but idk
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:04 AM
2

Irl sex is so much better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:03 AM
6

If technology stopped working you’d probably watch in a corner
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:02 AM
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Men who watch porn are cucks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:43 AM
1

If women have more unrealistic standards than men, why are gay men considered more attractive than straight men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 10:16 PM
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I think they think it’ll impress their friends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:27 PM
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Fake incel if you care about her smoking especially if she’s cute
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:33 PM
1

Yeah, glad he didn’t die
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:38 PM
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Lmao actually close, he got upset I was breaking up with him when I caught him cheating and tried hanging himself from my ceiling fan
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:35 PM
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Ok, usually you better get that started before you turn 45
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:12 PM
3

Men on here get so mad when women also have their dating struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:11 PM
1

No shit Sherlock that’s why I deleted the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:08 PM
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What if the options end up not liking me after they get to know me? Fucking stupid for thinking people can’t decide to work on themselves after they notice a pattern
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:50 PM
1

I like Habits by Tove Lo all the time but even more when I am heartbroken
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:20 PM
1

I put him between two pieces of bread, ez
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:42 PM
2

So why is men’s mental health something we should focus on when almost twice as many women are depressed? Wouldn’t it just be a general mental health crisis?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:00 PM
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I wouldn’t dare him because he looks past the wall, but maybe a 5 or 6
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:51 PM
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I think most men are boring but a lot more women are interesting, it probably depends on their interests. Also, nothing wrong with questioning your sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:38 PM
1

Nice! Hope he can get some Botox there too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:23 PM
1

You mean hair loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:09 PM
2

I just don’t like old crusties (if they’re men)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:01 PM
1

I’m 24
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:59 PM
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He’s physically past the wall though, yuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:59 PM
1

I know, can’t wait to lose all of my value’
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:58 PM
1

Me irl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:20 PM
1

Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:15 PM
7

Rejected a guy for being 30, he’s past the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:08 PM
1

Ermmmmm so currently in between but I used to be the twice a day type of girl ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:08 AM
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I’m not on birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:02 AM
2

I’ve gotten a few roses, don’t think I’ve ever been swamped
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:54 PM
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My goal right now is to become less depressed, thinking of starting therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:51 PM
2

Tbf, religion is a bit part of how some people see the world. I am an atheist and I would have trouble dating someone who is more religious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:51 PM
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Idk I’ve kind of given up. If it happens I won’t stop it, but most people aren’t trying to date a depressed adhd college drop out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:50 PM
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That makes sense, I didn’t match with way too many people just due to time constraints and I get overwhelmed chatting to too many people at a time, not sure if I was in standouts though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:49 PM
1

You hate women who delete the apps or who can’t find anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:34 PM
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Deleted my dating apps. I’ve had hinge for 3 years and now I’m free
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:23 PM
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Next time I hear some guys talking about ass vs tits, I’m going to bring up abs or arms
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:51 AM
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I get “cute” as a compliment more than “sexy”. I have dark blonde hair and hazel eyes. Im 5’4 and a bit lanky
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:13 AM
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Most of men’s dating issues would be solved if men as a whole started to be less easy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:07 AM
1

What
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:24 PM
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How does stating that men are more shallow than women imply that women don’t care about looks? Do you hear “women generally need more sleep than men” and think men don’t have to sleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:15 PM
1

Christopher
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:37 PM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:55 PM
1

Likely
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:55 PM
1

The whole outfit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:20 PM
1

Has anyone ever rejected anyone for being out of their league?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:53 PM
1

Maybe some women have it and some don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:21 PM
1

Nah, mostly bad for me because I thought it was with someone who actually liked me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:29 PM
1

I didn’t say sexlessversary, I said singleversary. Big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:16 PM
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It was more of a talking stage. We were never anything close to official
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:16 PM
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Just realized I missed my 3 year singleversary yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:55 PM
1

I feel like it’s everyone in America. Consumerism has gotten so much worse in the internet age too I feel like
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:54 PM
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I wish there were more hobbies for adults besides over consuming. Why does it feel like half of my conversations with friends and acquaintances is about their shopping habits?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:55 AM
3

I wish I got dreams like that. I just dream of exploring long corridors
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:36 PM
1

No, I’m pretty gullible a lot of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:35 PM
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Go to another church if you’ve already exhausted the pool of singles at your current one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:08 PM
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Why are the responses to this so mad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:26 PM
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Go 2 church
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:21 PM
1

It’s fine to be sad about things, and it can be understandable to be sad about not being desired. What is not fine is taking things out on everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:23 PM
1

You guys always say this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:21 PM
1

Start going to lesbian bars
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:18 PM
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Well women don’t find that respectable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:13 PM
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I think it’s dumb because I was raised to believe that my intelligence and personality mattered and not to care about looks so much, but I picked up on the obvious subtext that looks are what get people interested in you. Like sorry you missed that, don’t take it out on everyone else when you’re disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:09 PM
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Shouldn’t you save all of the repeats for the kissless virgin because they wouldn’t probably be hearing any repeats since they’ve never had a kiss?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:22 AM
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How can I love somebody if they’ve said the same thing to 200 other people? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:55 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:22 AM
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Alright, this has convinced me to never settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:22 AM
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I think they’re sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:20 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:19 AM
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Anything with dead animals is a huge no from me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:35 AM
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I want to get a tattoo of Petey Piranha on my arm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:35 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:20 AM
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What if the man is Danny Devito?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:54 PM
2

High count woman with tattoos and nice fake boobs who wants to settle down with lil ol me would be my dream
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:53 PM
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Everyone knows that also having a vendetta against women who don’t want to fuck you helps with getting laid and is also great for men’s mental health and would never impede on a man’s ability to get with a soulmate who might not be the most conventionally attractive but still lovable!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:45 PM
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Sounds good, wise man who knows everything about women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:35 PM
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So true, everyone knows that women love men who listen to weird podcasts and rant about how they can’t get laid!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:11 PM
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I’ve been hit on by “charming” middle aged men, doesn’t mean that I like it. Like I said, different people have different opinions. You can’t tell me what I like, you don’t even know me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:07 PM
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When men my age hit on me at the bar, I might be mildly annoyed, but I’m not going to call them creeps like I would some old man hitting on me at the bar or man my age hitting on me when I’m working
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:06 PM
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I never consented to get hit on by some weird old man, yet I still get hit on by them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:58 PM
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I’m talking about a specific situation, not men being called creeps in general
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:39 PM
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Men when they hear their actions have consequences 😡 and the consequence isn’t even bad for them, it’s just women feeling uncomfortable and thinking they’re creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:37 PM
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They’re not going to think you’re pleasant to look at either, but hey, we can’t all be winners!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:36 PM
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The women are generally telling age appropriate men to flirt with them irl, not old farts lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:35 PM
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I feel that, I don’t have much in common with 18 year olds even at 24
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:34 PM
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It’s gross and uncomfortable, especially if the comments are sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:47 PM
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I don’t think most of them care, but there was a guy complaining that some receptionists thought old men hitting on them were creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:47 PM
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Everyone has different opinions, but most of my friends who are women would still think it was weird
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:46 PM
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Glad you’re excited for that! My condolences to the future generation of women who have to still put up with this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:34 PM
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If you’re a weird old man hitting on women in their 20s, don’t get mad when they think you’re an old creep. If you want to avoid having people think you’re an old creep, maybe choose women your own age to hit on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:31 PM
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No, they should go find someone their own old age and leave me tf alone, or else I’m going to think they’re creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:28 PM
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Some men have human empathy towards others!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:25 PM
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Yeah if you’re old and crusty, I’m going to hate you for trying to flirt with me. Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:24 PM
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If you’re living with a lazy bum, it’s probably a turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:18 PM
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Like about the fact that they’re ugly or my interactions with them in daily life as people? I don’t think about the fact that they’re ugly unless they do something like asking me out or trying to hit on me, but I have to interact with people of differing attraction levels all the time, so I think about them then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:39 PM
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How dare she exist in your presence without offering her coochie to you, a deserving man! That wicked wench!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:45 PM
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Well I don’t like that though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:32 AM
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That’s alright, you don’t have to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:35 PM
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Loser behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:13 PM
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Nah, more bumble and hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:53 PM
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Yeah, that’s why I try to meet people irl more than on apps. Having apps doesn’t mean I can’t also meet people irl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:52 PM
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Yeah, but who tf has time to go on dates with 50 people? Not me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:51 PM
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Until they learn about what my unmedicated adhd entails! That’s why I like it when people read my profile first
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:59 PM
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Idk, I’d like to say my profile still gives a bit of an idea that I’m a bit of a nerd who is a little disorganized, but I might have to check out the 8 swipes a day app And I agree, I think it’s really unromantic too. Ideally I’d meet people through friends, but I don’t have too many in my city currently
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:58 PM
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Hinge gives out one rose per week (hinge’s version of a superlike) so I just hope the people who give me roses are just using their weekly rose on me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:56 PM
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Yes, but if they’re liking fifty people a day, it still gives me the ick because I want someone who wants me rather than being ok with 50 people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:52 PM
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It’s a special like that shows extra interest. People either get only a few of them to give out or they have to pay for them. I would be less impressed if someone paid for them rather than using their one super like a week
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:51 PM
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It’s a special like that shows extra interest. People either get only a few of them to give out or they have to pay for them. I would be less impressed if someone paid for them rather than using their one super like a week
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:50 PM
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Commit a crime
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:45 PM
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I’ve decided to only take super swipes from men seriously these days, cause I know they hand right swipes out like candy on Halloween. I like people who show extra interest in me instead of settling for whoever will swipe right on them back
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:43 PM
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I only whine and cry because I want to show that dating sucks for everyone not just men. He probably just wanted something casual too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:37 AM
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The guy who hit on me at work waited until after hours to ask again outside my building. I feel bad and I don’t think he meant to be creepy but like ahhhhh that is just so awkward. I hate rejecting people. It makes me feel bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:25 AM
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Yeah, it made it awkward for both me and him. I avoided the question around his friends
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:29 AM
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Oh noooo, a potential client at the place I work at recognized me from dating apps and asked for my number. I ended up telling him I don’t give out my number at work and it was the most awkward exchange ever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:37 PM
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Reddit doesn’t care about you? 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:16 PM
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Her sexual value? Her reproductive value?What value do women have that men don’t have?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:15 PM
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Does your school have a vending machine?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:09 PM
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A lot of guys here who claim to wish they were women actually probably just wish they were attracted to men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:08 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:52 PM
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Like I just know they would be a little slutty if they could!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:51 PM
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I’m monogamous, but in a situation where everyone’s cool with it, they’re allowed to go for it. No one’s going to stop them!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:26 PM
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Still thirsty. No one wants a guy who also has the hots for their bestie (or at least I don’t)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:13 PM
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I hate the “it’s ok not to be ok” song so much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:27 PM
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Idk, I get the ick when there’s a guy who has a crush on everyone in the friend group cause it’s weird and sad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:26 PM
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That’s why I’m not choosing a beggar
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:18 PM
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Yeah, never seen a woman in her 30s or above wear a dress in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:00 PM
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I’m going to wait it out for someone who chooses me and not just anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:59 PM
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See, this guy knows women!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:58 PM
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Being seen as just a someone isn’t necessarily fun either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:57 PM
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Ooh, I see. Also wasn’t trying to be rude btw, my wording seemed a bit off
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:57 PM
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As soon as women reach the age of 21, it’s pants only
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:42 PM
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Bro how much do you shop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:38 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:38 PM
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It’s so hard to want someone who wants literally anyone and everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:37 PM
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As a blonde, guys who think like this and are that obsessed with blondes like this are a red flag to me and seem kind of racist, plus people often like to be seen as more than their hair color
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:42 PM
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Maybe from your perspective, but some people are a little bit pickier about the interests of a potential partner. Maybe everyone is compatible to you because you’re not interested in anything more serious? I don’t swipe right on guys who mention sports too much on their profiles because I find that to be a super boring topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:28 PM
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Sure, but if getting sex is the only good part of all of the tough, grueling process of dating, is all of that effort really worth the reward if there are other alternatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:14 PM
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Mine is around 90 wpm, which is pretty good. Top 5 percentile sounds pretty great, I’m trying to find any statistics on that actually
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:34 PM
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If you feel that way, just get a fleshlight atp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:24 PM
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Exactly, it’s way easier to avoid matching with people you don’t like if you think for a second before you match
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:23 PM
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Crazy, evil, and somehow shallow!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:22 PM
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Then swipe left on them! Don’t give them attention when they’re writing lazy ass bios
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:22 PM
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I barely get any matches because I’m incompatible with most people. I don’t need 1000 bad matches who have nothing in common with me, I need one good one I can commit to who I know likes me back and isn’t just throwing himself at literally everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:43 PM
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The thing is, if all men were pickier, women would probably be more likely to swipe right on more people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:42 PM
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I feel like I can imagine that looking cute but also I don’t know much about fashion!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:40 PM
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If men collectively decided to actually read profiles on dating apps instead of swiping right on everyone, I think they would have a more enjoyable experience with the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:06 PM
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I know, I get sad when I have to sit and do nothing sober
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:49 PM
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Me too, it’s such a good compliment. He even started asking me about my wpm, which I love to brag about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:49 PM
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Nah, two different people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:42 PM
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I feel like every decade goes by so slowly and painfully
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:19 PM
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Got sworn at but then had a resident compliment my typing speed. Guess it cancels out and I can feel neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:19 PM
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Nice, I’m recently out but I need to head to a dispensary
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:18 PM
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Live resin sounds delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:23 PM
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Thank you, can’t wait for the invite
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:23 PM
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I also hate it when old men check me out. I am young and they are old and creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:22 PM
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Because real breathing men often act like the guys on here and hate women or just want to stick their pps in me then leave
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:22 PM
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I would be less viscerally disgusted, but still disgusted on some level. A different type of disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:21 PM
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I’m wearing my winter coat everywhere these days
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:20 PM
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Maybe I’ll get myself some for Valentine’s Day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:19 PM
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Sex is best when you’re in love imo. That is true, plenty of people at the bars. You might have to do the approaching though!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:48 PM
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So stylish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:43 PM
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Bruh, how do you think real men compare to LEVI fucking ACKERMAN?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:24 PM
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As long as I get sex robots too. Maybe one male looking robot and one female looking one for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:23 PM
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The shape and length is a little frumpy for my tastes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:21 PM
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I judge people for falling so easily for stupid trends
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:19 PM
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I would be mildly jealous of them, but also happy for them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:17 PM
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It makes me so sad/angry when old men check me out when they’re with their wives. So terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:16 PM
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All the weed I smoke still hasn’t induced it yet. I may be doomed to fail at schitzo-maxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:14 PM
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I’m an aunt to my rooommate’s cat but she isn’t home half of the week, so the cat is starting to like me better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:12 PM
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Yeah, I get the manipulative part too. I would feel wrong exchanging sex for resources on a personal level. And just remember, OLD is designed to keep you on it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:12 PM
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I can find plenty of people who want to stick their dicks in me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:31 PM
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I’m going to start moping around and blaming everyone else too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:27 PM
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24
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:48 PM
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I’ve already started getting back to drinking more than I want to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:26 PM
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That is true. I try to stay hopeful
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:25 PM
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I’m sure it’s hard for young girls to stay away from stuff like that when they’re comparing themselves to grown women they see online
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:25 PM
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Life is so long and it kills me to wonder if I might spend the rest of it alone, but I could honestly have some fun as a cat lady
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:20 PM
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Goddamn, I wasn’t allowed to wear makeup until I turned 12. 9 sounds so young for that 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:17 PM
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I’m going to start doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:17 PM
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They had no idea what I looked like, only that I was a woman whose kink was taking money from men. And honestly that sounds kind of sad, I’m glad you chose not to take her offer. Maybe I’m a girl but that would make me feel sad and undesired
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:16 PM
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Have you heard about the Sephora children? They sound mean
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:14 PM
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Male privilege is not being a good parent to your kids yet getting credit for being “not a deadbeat”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:08 PM
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I think it’s because I’m a side sleeper
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:08 PM
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I made a joke on Yik yak back in the day that my kink was men giving me money and one man reached out and offered to give me money but I felt too bad to accept
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:03 PM
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I don’t go to the gym but shirts are flowy and I can imagine them getting caught on the equipment or something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:01 PM
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You only started hating us once you started caring about sex? Sounds like an average ppd man experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:59 PM
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Idk any old ppl ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:58 PM
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Yeah I only was there for like an hour
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:13 AM
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Oh I went home like a while ago
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:40 AM
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Idk what that means but I think I look alright
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:49 AM
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Oh my god when they’re gentle with animals 😍😍😍♥️💙💗🖤💛💞
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:19 AM
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Two tiers below maybe idk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:17 AM
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Men who are good with children >>>. I don’t even want kids but like idk maybe it’s biology
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:14 AM
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If they’re flirting I’m gonna be mad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:12 AM
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Aw shucks. No u
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:11 AM
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I wish the problem was my face
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:07 AM
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Lmao y’all need to stop thinking only people of a certain body type can be hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:06 AM
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I know, but I know that I’m cute so I choose not to be offended
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:52 PM
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I went to a bar for an hour and no one approached a lonely woman to give her company!!!! Female privilege is FAKE and I am so lonely tbh but at least I proved y’all wrong so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:48 PM
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I think my sad and lonely face got mixed up with my bitch who hates everyone face unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:47 PM
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I’m at the bar rn and no one has been speaking to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:19 PM
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I pullled out the big card
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:17 PM
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How do you know you wouldn’t still be attracted to women as a woman? You’re attracted to them now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:14 PM
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Why don’t you choose to be with men now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:56 PM
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No hate though! Just would probably clash with my personality a little
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:18 PM
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I just get sad around smart people who use their brains to funnel more money into shitty corporations
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:14 PM
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It depends on the date
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:09 PM
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A cool degree that isn’t something like finance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:09 PM
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Would woman you be attracted to men, women, or everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:09 PM
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Being able to pick up grad students at bars or not determines the difficulty of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:08 PM
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I look cute today. Might go to the neighborhood dive bar and pick up a nice grad student (after I get off work)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:01 PM
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People these days would tell her to budget better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:57 PM
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Back when I was in a relationship, I didn’t let that stop me from having fun with friends. I just made sure people who approached me knew I had a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:42 PM
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Ugh, I hate people who control their partner’s ability to see friends like that. Like what do they think the friends are going to say when their partner asks for relationship advice? Definitely not “you guys should work it out to stay together!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:34 PM
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I get off work at either 6 or 7 most days, so not too long after 5. We don’t get a paid lunch, so that adds an hour to my workday. I feel like it’s partially difficult because single people and people in relationships often do different activities? I know some friends who won’t go out to clubs anymore now that they’re in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:23 PM
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Friends who become hermits as soon as they get into a relationship suck. Just because you get back from work at 5 PM doesn’t mean you can’t go out for dinner with a friend you haven’t seen since November. I get back later than that and I’m still open to getting dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:11 PM
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Hold these pregnant women accountable for getting fat! Grrrr
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:44 PM
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Idk, there’s the “bop lore” trend on tiktok and other guys having weird ideas like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:00 PM
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Yum!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:00 PM
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Oh, sorry to hear about that. I wonder if it’s just residual or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:59 PM
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That’s what I like to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:59 PM
1

Do you smoke?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:39 PM
1

Taking public transportation is my work out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:38 PM
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I love how women are supposed to look for marriage and be pure when they’re in their late teens or earlier 20s but men are expected to fuck around when they’re young. Like who are the young women supposed to marry if all of the men are fucking around?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:37 PM
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Willing to connect with others and be vulnerable enough to get past the “so do you have any siblings” phase. Also over any past relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:29 PM
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That’s so odd. What does it smell like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:03 PM
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I can’t personally
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:02 PM
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I’ve gotten cheated on and had a few friends get cheated on, so sadly I know that cheating is pretty common these days. It’s depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:56 PM
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No, does your nose have to be stuffy for that? Are you just smelling your boogers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:55 PM
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Are those matches emotionally available and interested in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:54 PM
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She attempted to which is still ultra shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:49 PM
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Do you ever just taste your own tongue and wonder if the inside of your mouth is as neutral as you thought
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:48 PM
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Well I’m sorry you’re surrounded by shitty people then. I don’t know many cheaters, but maybe I just got lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:47 PM
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I think it’s everyone dying under the crushing weight of capitalism in decay plus women are more likely to get help for their dying under the crushing weight of decaying capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:46 PM
3

I’m sorry you were cheated on. I know it’s not fun. Just remember it says more about the person who cheated rather than you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:23 PM
1

Those are the only people on the dating market these days
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:20 PM
1

Happy birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:20 PM
5

Snape was an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:04 AM
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So it was technically a “cute” version of the Waluigi outfit with no mustache, but the people seem to like it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:47 AM
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I’m getting so many more super likes with my waluigi costume on my profile. A lot of hinge people telling me they have a Waluigi kink now. Didn’t know waluigi was popular like that, but he is pretty sexy, so I guess it makes sense (also is attracting more nerds, which is nice)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:22 AM
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I’ve been tempted to write erotica. Readers are more forgiving of grammar and plot errors, plus it makes a lot of money
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:56 PM
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No we don’t, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:55 PM
1

They have specific cultural reasons for that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:38 PM
1

That’s why I want to wait until I develop a crush on someone I actually already know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:05 PM
1

Why would most people choose sons
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:49 PM
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So true, I always forget to include the random old men on the street
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:34 PM
1

Ooh, good suggestion. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:06 PM
2

Jeez, I don’t think that’s going to be something I can afford as long as I don’t have my degree. Good luck to you if you decide to make the move out there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:05 PM
2

Maybe one day when I can afford it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:54 PM
2

I can’t deal with anymore people who randomly are moving away soon
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:47 PM
1

No, he’s somewhat good looking, but some of the tags he’s interested seem cringey. He saw me in a vegan singles group
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:46 PM
2

I like gymnastics and ice skating a little at least, because they do cool flips and spins. That’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:45 PM
5

I’ve never been a sports person. I get how some people can enjoy playing them, but watching sports? So boring. I’d rather watch a movie
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:44 PM
2

I like going to the bar or doing a fun seasonal activity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:43 PM
1

I don’t date people who don’t drink
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:41 PM
1

Octomom son
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:37 PM
1

Got asked on a date on the Meetup app, that’s a first
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:36 PM
2

Maybe this is hetereophobic but I think it’s only cute to match when gay couples match
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:24 PM
3

Nah, you should’ve bought one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:23 PM
28

Keep the romance alive and remember to “preheat the oven” if you want your “food warmed”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:12 PM
3

Woman behavior!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:41 PM
1

Meh, I don’t think so? I don’t really dare super macho gender role-y straight men either, so maybe that’s why I can’t tell the difference as much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:15 PM
1

Yeah, I have dated (but not made it official) with bisexual men before
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:45 PM
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Oh… I guess I meant looking for a third. I haven’t seen any MM or FF couples looking for a third (at least for women, I am not a man so haven’t seen the other side as much)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:27 AM
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I meant opposite sex couples… oops
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:15 AM
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And saved for the last picture 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:14 AM
1

The same sex couple can also both be bi. And I haven’t seen any lesbians looking for a threesome
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:14 AM
1

Also, have any of the men here come across a couple looking for a man on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:07 AM
1

There are bi people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:05 AM
1

As a woman who dates other women, I see so many opposite sex couples looking for someone to have a threesome with them. Oops at the “straight couple” thing though, cause usually the woman is bi
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:02 AM
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Why are unicorn hunters always opposite sex couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:55 AM
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I black out at like 5-7 shots worth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:17 AM
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He looks like his pics are edited
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:16 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:09 AM
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I’m sorry for your pain even though it’s kind of funny ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:08 AM
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What’s she supposed to do, call herself ugly if she’s not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:44 AM
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I don’t remember a specific example, but the men on this sub don’t know what a dump actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:41 AM
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It’s projection
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:13 AM
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Plenty of women say size matters. Not to every woman , though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:58 PM
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Asexual people also desire things like money
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:58 PM
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You know skinny people can also get hungry, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:56 PM
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Nah, they’re going to go to the buffet with me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:53 PM
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Wow, pretty edgy! Glad you have someone though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:51 PM
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Awww, so sweet. Glad there’s someone out there who’ll keep the JP guys from becoming incels
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:40 PM
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Yeah, it’s almost like being “red pilled” is unappealing to most women! Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:36 PM
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I would be pretty annoyed then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:10 PM
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If it’s a class for university, I would accept the reschedule. It’s the beginning of the school year for a lot of people, so maybe they didn’t have their class schedule yet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:09 PM
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Secrets are fun though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:08 PM
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Idk, you seem pretty angry with women, but not as bad as some people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:07 PM
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No, I don’t remember who that is tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:44 PM
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That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:43 PM
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Very dual
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:43 PM
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Ooooh are you down to share?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:15 PM
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It’s a secret
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:15 PM
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If all of the PPD guys were in my city, I feel like I would actually be able to date one of them. But besides him, most of you guys are scary and angry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:54 PM
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Probably the brown bear based on weight, but maybe the Siberian tiger if it has a sneak advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:53 PM
2

Idk, I didn’t think I could afford NYC either, so I have no idea where the best neighborhoods are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:09 PM
2

NYC has so many single women, so it’s the opposite of the Bay Area
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:50 PM
1

Thinking with your penis is apparently the height of rationality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:50 PM
1

It hurts my head
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:49 PM
2

Then hell yeah, I think it’s a cute dress
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:48 PM
1

I’m too poor for the Bay Area :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:47 PM
1

Thanks, it really is rough out here for the lover girls
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:14 PM
2

Depends on if they’re taking you somewhere a little nicer because I hate dressing cute when my date didn’t try
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:12 PM
1

Basically lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:10 PM
1

I think they’re jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:09 PM
1

I forgot that I asked that question lol but makes me feel a bit better about getting casual zoned once again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:08 PM
1

I didn’t know that men glaring at guys who are with women is a thing, but that explains some of the weird looks my dates have gotten before
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:47 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:46 PM
1

Yes it is. I keep seeing my sister in law’s sister because we keep incidentally moving to the same place
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:46 PM
1

Bumble
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:59 PM
3

So sad that I can find people I know on dating apps so easily in my big ass city
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:31 AM
3

I thought I was saving money on wine but it’s just 7%
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:38 AM
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How can people tell if they’re attractive or just approachable looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:32 AM
6

I like introverts with a vivid inner world and extroverts with a vivid inner world. I guess it depends on the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:18 PM
9

I personally don’t want to make someone else pay for everything on a date. However, I don’t want a man who seems stingy with his money. I would rather be in a relationship where we can treat each other generously while not nickel and diming each other. While I like to offer to split the check, I have asked people out on dates and paid for both of us because I was the asker, so I don’t see much wrong with wanting to treat someone that you chose to take out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:16 PM
3

How come the cold can scare away my bus but not the creepy cat callers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:40 PM
1

How are we supposed to tell which ones have no dating experience to not manipulate us with? Do I have to go around asking men if they’re virgins with no options?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:19 PM
1

Because they’re Stacy chasers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:52 PM
1

What other problems could I have if I have options? How am I supposed to tell who is a good guy or not when a lot of guys are experts at making themselves sound like good people?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:52 PM
3

Exactly. But people act like only hot men can mistreat women here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:48 PM
1

My brothers do (or did, one is married) just fine with getting matches
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:43 PM
3

Recently I’ve had trouble with wanting a relationship and people don’t tell me they only want a short term relationship because they’re moving in the next couple of months until later on. It ends up hurting my feelings a lot and wasting my time. I also have been cheated on (not by some sexy Chad, he was an average but insecure guy) and gotten with other average people who happen to have commitment issues. I do my best to filter out people who would do that to me, but they still slip through the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:17 PM
4

People don’t commit for plenty of reasons. I know some guys who haven’t gotten laid in ages who still wouldn’t commit to the girls that liked them back
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:09 PM
3

And then if you get with Uglybutt, they’ll say that you’re betabuxxing or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:57 PM
10

Women: sometimes we struggle with dating too. It isn’t just a walk in the park for us Men on here: uhm, it’s because you went with CHAD isn’t it? You’re claiming that you got with Showerless Smith and he treated you poorly, well Showerless Smith is still a Chad! You actually need to go for Uglybutt Jones if you want someone to treat you right! You can find them by making your dating app bio say “looking for a virgin with no social skills” so you can find someone with no other options who would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:53 PM
1

They don’t want to stick around
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:51 PM
1

Options are the least of my problems…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:46 PM
1

It doesn’t matter where my standards are at, it’s shit either way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:35 PM
3

Everyone has commitment issues these days (or maybe I’m just not worth committing to, I have no idea)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:19 PM
6

I am literally thin and dating is hell on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:17 PM
2

It happened with the last two guys I liked and now the current guy I’m seeing. I guess that’s the problem with dating other people in their 20s, they’re always moving around. I just wish I didn’t get attached so easily. I sure do hope that one day I can find someone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:34 PM
2

It’s so mean :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:31 PM
3

It’s evil and it keeps happening to me 🙃it shouldn’t take me this long to find someone who can actually commit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:19 PM
3

“Oh btw I’m planning on moving to Arkansas after this summer :)” GOD WHY CANT YOU MENTION THAT EARLIER or see that I want a relationship and leave me tf aloneeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:11 PM
1

Hiding from you idk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:27 PM
1

Maybe become more normal first
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:55 PM
1

No. I don’t really fantasize about people like that in general anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:46 PM
1

If I haven’t gotten any of my games blocked yet, do you think they care? I’ve been at my job for almost 3 months
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:32 PM
1

Yeah, I used to be so obsessed with my exes and had only eyes for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:28 PM
1

Idk, that’s my ideal relationship too, but I don’t think I could date you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:10 PM
3

Plenty of the men back in the olden days went off to war as virgins…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:07 PM
1

Any suggestions for little browser games I can play at work? I get interrupted a lot to actually do my job, so nothing that can’t be paused or anything. My phone battery is starting to have trouble lasting the whole day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:01 PM
4

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:59 PM
1

At least you aren’t a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:58 PM
1

I wanna give his little forehead a kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:50 PM
1

Do you watch porn while you’re in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:40 PM
1

I know one woman who has 150k+ followers on Instagram. She was a college friend’s roommate and she seemed pretty normal. We mainly talked about partying and weed, but my friend told me she did have a sugar daddy. While she did like money and getting money from men, she wasn’t some evil supervillain or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:33 PM
3

He must know what he’s talking about because he owns a lot of cars!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:24 PM
2

Gotta prove your masculinity by having more legos than women 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:23 PM
3

What?? Why are you projecting all of this onto Instagram models who probably have never done anything to you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:21 PM
4

I think some of the stereotype might have to do with the fact that women are more likely to be the household shoppers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:50 PM
1

Can you provide a source with the literature?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:48 PM
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Yeah, that’s gotta suck for them. But it’s definitely not other people’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:50 PM
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Idk why incels get mad at Stacy for rejecting them for Chad when everyone’s just trying to get with the hottest person they can get. It’s not like the incel wants the below average looking girl either. He would reject the ugly girl for Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:09 PM
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He would also reject Beth for Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:06 PM
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hell yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:50 PM
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That’s number 11 for me. I’m not too much of a lone traveler
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:19 PM
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I can get it for free (feeeeeemail privilege)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:10 PM
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See? It’s not that hard to just answer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:09 PM
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Like it is pretty personal? You personally spend a lot of your time at work. I don’t give a fuck about where people work or how much money they make, but it’s just a conversation topic, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:05 PM
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It’s number 8
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:03 PM
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How dare people ask you how you spend 40+ hours a week
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:01 PM
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If there’s no way to tell, why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:49 PM
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Because people also need to be educated for after they get married and we don’t want all of the unwanted pregnancies from people who do want to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:31 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:29 PM
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It was better than I expected for a red state. I mainly got info on STIs and birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:26 PM
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My dream job is to be a court jester
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:24 PM
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They want me to handle stuff that isn’t really in the job description but aren’t explaining well what needs to be done. I’ve given a couple of residents incorrect information because idk what to do. It’s my first office job and so frustrating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:54 PM
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I hate working like how come I get no actual training and I have to figure shit out with no background or instructions? Do all jobs not train or did I just get stuck with jobs that have shitty training?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:37 PM
3

If I gave those guys a chance back in my early 20s they would’ve broken up with me by now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:45 AM
1

I’m bi. I love people of all sorts of genders and presentations
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:56 AM
2

I wish I could clone my consciousness and stick it into another body so I could date myself. I would be willing to become a switch for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:42 AM
3

This is stuff that makes women stay away from men 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:38 AM
1

I also miss when I at least could pretend like hinge is for relationships. Now I just see a lot of people wanting short term relationships and even threesomes. So annoying. Wish they could get booted off back to tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:01 PM
7

How come guys on here complain they’re virgins and would go for anyone at this point while simultaneously putting down women who don’t meet their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:59 PM
1

I’m mad cause people who just want to fuck should be on tinder and get off hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:56 PM
1

Yeah, I try to only check myself out to that extent when the building looks empty ish
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:50 PM
3

Walked to and from the bus stop
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:12 PM
1

Wtf is a hungry face?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:05 PM
3

I love making kissy faces into windows as I stare at my pretty outfit and check myself out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:58 PM
8

Boys just don’t get that you can get so much serotonin from staring at your hot ass reflection with your hot ass outfit as you pass by reflective windows
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:50 PM
4

We are the ones susceptible to media influence and destructive propaganda? Where did the incel movement come from, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:47 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:38 PM
2

They want all of the other guys to think their gf is frumpy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:37 PM
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They just know! Without sources or anything! They must be geniuses!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:28 PM
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I can’t ever see why anyone would want to cheat on you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:25 PM
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Idk, maybe to get money from the creator fund
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:23 PM
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Pro-life people just don’t give a fuck if pregnant people die, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:22 PM
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Wow, you set a trap and these evil women didn’t fall for it! Maybe next time you will expose their wicked ways
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:01 PM
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What did I get from imagining all of that? Cheating on your spouse is bad, including with a celebrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:14 PM
1

It’s so unfair that men are so slutty yet don’t get slut shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:07 PM
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I just try to treat everyone nicely in public spaces, so it is weird to me when people are grumpy at me for no actual reason. Not because I think they all want to fuck me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:05 PM
2

To be fair, she might not check bumble everyday and wants to make sure her matches don’t just disappear because you have to check bumble every 24 hours for matches
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:51 PM
12

How are men more likely to honor the 90 day rule? And I thought you were trying to convince people to do the 90 day rule in the first place, not trying to convince people to stick with it if they claim to follow the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:24 PM
18

Maybe we should police men’s sexualities more if we are trying to get rid of whores. They’re the ones on the internet shouting about how they want sex all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:09 PM
3

God I miss Yik Yak
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:30 AM
1

All of the hot people I find on dating apps at least are boring
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:09 AM
1

I just wish these hot people would have a crumb of personality or people could stop judging me when I go for people “below my league” idek
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:52 PM
1

Don’t people like agreeable people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:36 PM
2

I think it’s easier to be less shallow when you’re less attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:35 PM
1

Is a hair system basically a wig?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:58 PM
2

How easy is it for guys to pay to get hair back if they’re bald?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:46 PM
3

That’s rough because that’s their only personality trait on hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:42 PM
3

Exactly. Or I would wonder if they let in outside food at the bar
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:41 PM
3

You need to move to my city, there are so many of them. They only like to talk about where they travel to and shit though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:38 PM
7

I would probably be confused because I am slow like that sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:37 PM
2

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:35 PM
3

There aren’t too many women out there like that, but a few have such low self esteem that they get a kick out of thinking they’re better than the women who is being cheated on
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:33 PM
5

I hate finance bros so I’m biased but accountant sounds marginally better to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:31 PM
1

Do you have to have a degree for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:30 PM
2

So dreamy 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:22 PM
1

I feel like people would be so mean
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:21 PM
1

Sounds stressful
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:20 PM
1

Idk, there are a lot of women who revel in being the other woman, but a lot of guys are very desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:20 PM
1

Oh no not Kanye
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:18 PM
2

I still live kind of like I used to when I was in college before I dropped out. I also don’t eat beef
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:18 PM
1

$17 an hour but it’s not bad with a roommate even in my city. At least I find myself attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:53 PM
3

Sounds like something an 11 year old would think is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:52 PM
2

I more felt attracted to him because I was bored, his car kind of justified things for me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:42 PM
1

Idek what’s going on with that but I bet I’m on Olivia’s side
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:41 PM
1

I have a husband now??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:36 PM
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Idk, one guy once hit on me by telling me I could ride around in his mustang and I was like “huh, I guess that could be fun”, but that was more because I was bored in general. Cars don’t usually appeal to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:36 PM
1

Why the fuck would anyone be into that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:13 PM
2

Taylor swift only cares about feminism when it directly affects her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:12 PM
1

It’s been a while since I’ve been in a relationship, but I would be better at complimenting, playful teasing, and being flirty with touch (ie feeling up muscles or something)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:10 PM
1

Sure, buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:26 PM
1

Ideally there is no crime and people are nice to each other, but life doesn’t work out like that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:26 PM
1

Most sorority girl types I know don’t go for their friends’ leftovers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:12 PM
2

Yes, sailors back in the day were totally known for staying loyal to their women and not sleeping with women they saw during their travels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:53 PM
1

Reminds me of religious people who would apparently go around assaulting and murdering people if they didn’t believe in god
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:49 PM
1

I am so much better at flirting once I’m in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:30 PM
3

Lol when the fuck has that happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:26 PM
3

A lot of men cheat on their wives as they age and a lot of men find love with someone their age when they’re older. I think it depends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:03 PM
3

I like it when someone I’m dating tells me I should wear something again or they would like me in a certain outfit. Makes me feel hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:02 PM
3

Where are the people defending her?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:58 PM
3

People who care that much about celebrities are fucking weird. Their parasocial relationship shouldn’t get so bad to threaten people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:44 PM
1

I encourage them to shoot their shot if I think they are likely to succeed. If they are going for someone I don’t think will reciprocate, I just don’t say anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:17 PM
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I get validation, but i want an objective opinion to know where I stand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:15 PM
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Fuck I wish there was a way to objectively see how attractive I am
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:32 PM
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Don’t let them know you have a thing for blondes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:29 PM
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Colleges usually care, but it depends on which colleges you aim for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:22 PM
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Yep, and she became the most decorated gymnast in World Championships history!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:21 PM
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It depends on the grade inflation at your school
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:17 PM
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Idk who Simone bile’s husband is but I sure do know who Simone bile is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:17 PM
1

It’s ok, I still had a good time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:05 PM
2

I thought I was ugly until college. Social media didn’t change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:04 PM
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Idk, I got mostly ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:46 PM
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Oh I think she meant movie theaters
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:42 PM
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Damn, they can’t wait a single year? Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:34 PM
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Get some VR goggles and a good fleshlight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:33 PM
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Cause she was the most attractive or something idk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:30 PM
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You want pity sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:29 PM
2

Most of the guys in my high school wanted to date the most popular girl in school
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:22 PM
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They aren’t thirsty in the same way men are but yeah, no attraction to women from straight women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:21 PM
4

There are. They’re called pickmes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:17 PM
2

https://news.gallup.com/poll/389792/lgbt-identification-ticks-up.aspx Straight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:17 PM
4

She’s allowed to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:02 PM
3

Why are you slapping the poor bears :(
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:59 PM
2

Most women aren’t bi (including gen z women)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:58 PM
4

Yeah my only two emotions are “argggg I’m so hongry” and “hehe lemme falsify my entire life”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:40 PM
1

I think it would be a fun experiment!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:38 PM
4

Women can’t love, they can only eat hot chips and lie
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:36 PM
2

I got shivers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:35 PM
2

There are so many stupid people of all genders who are easily marketed towards. We are a society full of mindless consumers. It isn’t a woman specific thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:33 PM
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Coupons for a fleshlight at the fleshlight store
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:16 PM
4

I’m not a parent but I think it would be funny to just put a bunch of babies in a hat and parents get to keep whichever baby they draw from the hat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:15 PM
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Sports are boring to me so it’s a matter of personal preference and anime has some weird shit with women a lot of the time. Gaming is cool though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:06 PM
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Wtf do you mean by mean girl? I think mean people are more likely to be critical of stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:58 PM
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How is it women’s fault that people (usually men) like posts of hot women? They’re viral because they’re hot and men like hot women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:45 PM
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Waaaat??? I thought men’s only hobbies were thinking about naked women and wanting to stick their dicks in naked women???? You’re telling me they’re full fledged human beings with their own thoughts and emotions? Crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:27 PM
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I hope so too. I am just trying to exist in this world like everyone else. The fact that I’m an attractive woman shouldn’t advantage nor disadvantage me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:07 PM
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I’ve flirted for free drinks before. Does that count? Coworkers have hit on me before, but it’s never affected my work load and I haven’t gotten promoted Also, is the fact that cute girls blow up on tiktok their faults, or the fault of all of the people liking videos with pretty women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:00 PM
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Some of us have mild social anxiety and don’t like being perceived
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:45 AM
4

Oh my lord send the tatted women my way please
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:24 AM
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Boring people make me want to do drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:22 AM
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Some of them probably do, some of them probably don’t. It probably depends
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:55 PM
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I hate when people have basic ass answers on their dating profiles that have nothing to do with compatibility. What’s liking or hating pineapple on pizza gotta do with being compatible to date on Hinge? If it’s something basic like “loves animals”, at least that can help narrow things down if you don’t like animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:54 PM
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I think it depends on the hot women, because I know some feminist baddies. It usually takes effort to appeal to the male gaze, so I’m sure some people who like men more go out of their way to look appealing to them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:47 PM
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https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/scisignal.4156ec19#:~:text=Even%20though%20the%20tears%20could,functional%20activation%20in%20the%20brain. They actually lower testosterone and arousal in men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:34 PM
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Damn it. Maybe I should’ve started crying at the gay bar. I’ve still had bi (or maybe straight guys just visiting) guys hit on me there, but never while crying at the gay bars
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:17 PM
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Wait I have had one guy who did try to approach me while I was crying. It’s worked in most situations, though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:13 PM
2

Start crying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:12 PM
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Yeah, there are no bows or anything on a fucking Stanley cup
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:05 PM
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Gen Alpha is evil istg
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:47 PM
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They’re usually just funny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:46 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:27 PM
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I wish I was some childless millennial’s housecat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:08 PM
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I actually just need to get my shit together and be better at cleaning. Also gotta change my style to look more gay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:04 PM
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It really depends imo. I know plenty of attractive women with less attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:59 PM
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Unfortunately for me, I’m not as popular with the ladies as I am the men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:57 PM
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Ok, so any guy who has ever been in a relationship is a Chad, got it. So I shouldn’t chase anyone because they will one day become Chad if I dare them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:42 PM
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And the reason isn’t because they weren’t Chads, it’s because they treated me poorly and one was flirting with his buddy’s ex (yes, ugly guys can cheat too)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:39 PM
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The bread is actually pain
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:32 PM
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Why don’t you guys believe that women have dated non-Chads before? If a woman dates someone, they automatically turn into a Chad? Like I didnt want to say it because it’s rude, but one of my last boyfriends was a shy guy who was in discord groups and the other was a little more charismatic than the first, but my friends considered him unattractive. I can attract people in “higher leagues” these days, but I don’t automatically go with them just because they’re high status. You guys make no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:32 PM
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He’s pan
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:00 PM
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He has other options besides women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:51 PM
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Who ever said I dated Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:51 PM
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I don’t think society would collapse if any one individual stopped working, or else there would be an apocalypse any time someone important dies or retires. If a large number of women took the week off, a lot of things would close and not run optimally
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:47 PM
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Reading this, I’ve realized I’ve had long relationships, but no successful ones
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:44 PM
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I mean, I would hope it would be his choice too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:43 PM
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I have a job too, this society is also being maintained on my back and the backs of many other women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:41 PM
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Because I’m an adult and swearing on the internet is not against the rules, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:36 PM
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Should I go on a date with this grad student from bumble? He seems cool and nerdy, which I like. But I am also socially anxious and haven’t been chatting with him for long
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:35 PM
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When the fuck has a man had to fight for me or defend me? Men can cook and clean, just say you don’t want to cook or clean. I don’t like cooking or cleaning either, but I do that because I need to feed myself and live in a habitable environment as a grown ass adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:31 PM
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Valuing looks isn’t something men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:54 PM
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They get mad when women start to imitate their behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:19 AM
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I was trying my best to not be rude about it but like goddamn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:18 AM
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A conspiracy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:13 AM
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I guess that’s fair. I don’t know if I would consider them to be mermaids, but I’m sure there are some weird, undiscovered animals in our oceans
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:46 PM
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My coworker doesn’t believe in dinosaurs. He believes in mermaids, though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:30 PM
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I get so bored with that large of a gap between seeing someone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:51 PM
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If I had hacking skills, I’d take down all of the major porn sites just to see if World War III would happen for the lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:29 PM
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I’d probably move to a small, religious town for the best options. You would’ve loved my hometown where plenty of people want to keep their virginities for a while and girls break up with guys for watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:25 PM
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Ooh what does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:17 PM
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I like making sure people are sexually compatible on my end though. What if I wait forever and they want to call me “mommy” or something? I wouldn’t be able to deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:15 PM
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Wow, just what young women want, a sad, 30 year old, antifeminist man! I’m out of the age range you mentioned, but I started noticing bad behavior of men online and their anger towards women and sex in my mid teen years. Those young women have likely already been “indoctrinated”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:53 PM
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Have you ever lied about your political opinions to get someone to like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:16 AM
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Yeah I love her but I think I need to make more friends in my city because I think l need other human company
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:21 AM
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Lol not my roommate saying she understands why people cheat when my last relationship ended because of that and hurt me a lot 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:07 AM
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I’m 24 though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:47 AM
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That is true, I guess I meant to say I’m surprised it turned into a trend because there are some more conservative people who say stuff like that all the time, but still understandable to be offended
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:42 AM
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Why are so many people so offended by the modest wedding dress woman saying that “immodest brides” were ugly? They wouldn’t last an hour in a smaller town in a red state
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:25 AM
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I would feel so comfortable around him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:07 AM
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I have a huge crush on Mychal the librarian from tiktok for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:52 AM
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A-line is so classy imo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:50 AM
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I think I would think it’s actually very cute, but I wouldn’t be mad if it didn’t happen (I think). But idk, it’s been a hot minute since I’ve thought about potentially marrying someone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:49 AM
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It’s always an amazing feeling when you can find one you can get hundreds of hours of playtime on so you don’t have to search for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:47 AM
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That would be super cute. Would it be more form fitting or a line?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:44 AM
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No, cause I don’t think I would cry seeing my imaginary wife walking down the aisle, so I’m not doing those double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:42 AM
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That’s why indie games are the best
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:38 AM
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As long as I get to take pictures in a super fancy dress (and my spouse too if they are a dress type of person)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:38 AM
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Yeah, I definitely think it’s possible for men to put themselves in a woman’s shoes still!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:36 AM
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Idk, maybe Jean Valjean from Les Miserables or Truman from the Truman Show. For some reason I can’t think of too many examples of any gender right now. In my opinion, it’s probably easier for women to see themselves in male characters than vise versa, as most media is pretty male-centric (movies with female protagonists are seen as “girl movies” while movies with male protagonists are just movies)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:53 AM
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I mainly use ig for people I’m already friends or acquaintances with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:39 AM
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I already missed day 1
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:35 AM
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