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Yeah, my line of thought was we were fucking before she fucked him for about 2 months so she fucked him while ignoring my texts. I was just wondering if this should disqualify her forever as she hasnt done anything since. I guess I'm just trying to rationalize because I like her.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 05:30 AM
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That's what I'd assume, but we're at uni and I dont see her as seeing me as a bb/provider. This girl gets insane amounts of attention so her initiating contact with these motherly pictures is just a little strange to me as I havent spoken to her enough for her to see me as a provider, and I'm pretty confident the most she hears about me is positive(fucking her friends right). I guess fuck it I'll go for it and see and what happens.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 11:29 PM
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the amount you wrote for a single girl indicates oneitis also, go to asktrp when you want to, you know, asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 08:06 AM
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Ever been a black guy in a predominately non black school? They do flock to touch your hair lmao
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 06:15 AM
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to have fun and meet people
/r/askTRP02/07/15 05:29 AM
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By hypothetical you mean you're an Asian that hasn't had success dating because you're a low smv male with the self-fulfilling prophecy of "white women don't like minorities online or offline" so you defeat yourself? If yes, and the answer is obviously yes by your post history, fuck yourself and stop sulking. Go improve yourself and stop obsessing over your race and maybe, just maybe, you'll find some success.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 04:11 AM
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Experiencing real hypergamy when you're what she thinks to be the lesser man is definitely when the real anger phase starts.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 01:58 AM
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Did you recently catch oneitis and have your heart broken? This happened to me some time after "swallowing" the pill and it was terrible. My advice to get out of this slump is this: start lifting and eating right. You also need to understand that the only reason you're feeling like this is because you're letting yourself. Find something that you really want to do, and do it. Make a long term goal and work towards it everyday.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 06:15 AM
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Can't find it bro. Maybe it wasn't a scientific study and just anecdotal evidence :/ my take on it is this: it only affects you if you let it. don't dwell on it, there's no point in dwelling on the past. if you truly want to wait(which you shouldn't) then wait and be happy doing it.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 06:05 AM
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I can't find it but I remember a while back on the main sub, there was a post about males that miss out on sex in their teenage and early 20 years turn out differently with their brain growth.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 05:47 AM
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Practice, Practice, Practice. Talk to everyone you see. Everyone. Make small conversation with everyone and you'll get better.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 05:22 AM
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You don't want it bad enough then. When you want it, and i mean really want it, you'll get it done. When you want to be better as much you wanna fucking breathe, you'll better yourself.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 05:20 AM
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Thanks, this did further clarify what you meant. Correct me if I'm still wrong but, a system is like a checklist of things you can accomplish everyday while a goal isn't something that can be completed today. In completing the systems, they put you closer to your goal. I do agree with you and this was an interesting take on goals and how to approach them. I've never fully looked at it from a day by day basis(I want to gain weight, so my systems are lifting everyday and eating a slight caloric su…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 04:00 AM
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I'm not sure I fully understand what the point of this thread is. The advice given in this subreddit is to make goals(like lose 20 pounds of fat from your example) and start dieting and lifting to get there(a system). Literally nobody here is advocating setting goals and waiting for them to achieve themselves. We give advice to set goals and tell you how to achieve them. You're basically arguing semantics. Also, update the format of this post to include tl;dr, body, and lessons learned.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 03:33 AM
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i still hope to know someday people who will appreciate what i am for what i am. lmao read the sidebar
/r/askTRP30/06/15 08:57 PM
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Expect a lot of "you've changed" and "you're a changed man" comments made to you. Also expect plenty of shit-tests so they can see if you're actually changed. I recently went to a party with some people from high school(i was a massive loser in high school) and it was amazing how things changed over the course of a year. i was getting tons of the you've changed comments, eyes from girls that previously thought i was invisible, girls introducing themselves to me and trying to get close, guys givi…
/r/askTRP30/06/15 08:38 PM
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I've been thinking this for a while. Even if you could just google the answers, you're still reading a little bit of important material and that'd be better than the idiots posting without reading anything.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 07:26 PM
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You did a 180* Regardless, though, I agree. AskTRP has been flooded recently with people that haven't even glanced at the sidebar and are asking ridiculously stupid questions. "I told a girl my partner count and she won't believe me" What the fuck? Did you not even read the tl;dr of the fucking sidebar? Do you have autism? I understand that it's summer so there's going to be an influx of new members but god damn, at least look at the "sidebar for dummies" post.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 07:21 PM
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If you'd like to learn more on the exercise he outlined above, search "The 3 Essential State Control Exercises That Will Improve Every Area Of Your Life" on the main sub.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 06:45 PM
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https://www.t-nation.com/training/truth-about-bulking
/r/askTRP30/06/15 02:40 AM
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Yeah, vascularity is a big indicator. Also is the amount of fat you can feel if you squeeze the back of your tricep, about an inch from your belly button, and outer thigh. It's going to be difficult, especially when mom isn't there to cook dinner every night but it is achievable. If I had to guess, I'm a little under 9% bf at 6'1 160 and I'm gaining weight at a steady pace and my abs are becoming more visible every week(used to be skinnyfat so never had abs)
/r/askTRP30/06/15 02:36 AM
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If you bulk cleanly and already have a low body fat, then yes. Eat as cleanly as possible while getting the right amount of calories and doing abs 2-3 times a week and slowly but surely they'll start to show. The reason is because you're not eating terrible shit and you're gaining weight(mostly muscle) slowly, you're not going to be packing on much fat. The key point here, however, is already having a low body fat percentage.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 02:21 AM
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lmao assassins creed af you deserve an upvote solely for that
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 01:57 AM
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Yeah, I'm not sure how to respond to things like that or "It's not like you act like you want to see me" for example. Just treat it like a normal shit test and A&A?
/r/askTRP29/06/15 06:11 PM
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Then go MGTOW. We don't care what you do.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 05:01 AM
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No, that would be commenting in your own thread 4 times instead of editing your post. Next time just laugh and say "You won't." and take her to your place.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 04:17 AM
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Well, one, use a condom always. And two, screen them. Don't always fuck the first girl that you can. Try to make sure she's sane enough to not accuse you of rape or other bullshit.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:59 AM
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She's the same as any other girl fam, ask her out and escalate. If it doesn't work out, move on.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 11:48 PM
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Are you having sex? Continue having sex. Are you not having sex? Attempt to have sex. If you cannot, next. Pretty straightforward if you ask me
/r/askTRP28/06/15 10:09 PM
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You can lead a horse to water...
/r/askTRP28/06/15 08:58 PM
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People just need to stop being lazy fucks and stop asking questions answered in the sidebar, which is required reading. It's fine, I suppose. Trp is much like gyms in the real world. People come half-heartily(not read and internalize the sidebar) for a while then quit. Less competition.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 07:42 PM
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The things oneitis does. Your relationship is basically over OP, get over her asap.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 07:34 PM
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If you don't understand the point of a monogamous relationship, don't enter one. Nobody is forcing you into one.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 06:57 PM
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This whole post sounds like a melodramatic teenager wrote it. You're literally just wallowing in self-pity like a child. You don't have a passion? What the fuck do you expect us to do about that? Stop bitching and go find it yourself.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 06:56 PM
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These types of threads give me cancer. "I know nobody is gonna have the answer to this but..." As long as it fucking takes.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 06:28 PM
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That's what I got out of the conversation. She just got broken up with and wanted some dick but OP destroyed his chances at that with his replies.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 06:10 PM
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I don't know why we even have a sidebar. It's very apparent that the majority of posters that ask questions here don't even glance at it.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 05:58 PM
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The answer to your question is simple: stop telling them you want a relationship with them and that other shit you keep saying.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 02:55 AM
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/u/pogiface Why the fuck would you go and find his daughter and badmouth him to her? You're a fucking child that doesn't deserve my advice, so you won't receive it. I also hope that nobody else here gives you advice because, clearly, you're not mature enough to handle it anyway.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 12:10 AM
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Or you could opt for the simpler solution: Don't get into an ltr.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 11:31 PM
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Are you the real writer for thecollegeplayer? If so, I'd like to say good shit on the site. I've been following for a while and you post some high quality advice for university guys. It's also pretty good to see that you're also a RedPill follower. A lot of your advice aligns with trp's advice but with a younger, more university guy directed spin. I recommend it to anyone here attending college, or planning to. Good luck with your second book and keep putting out good articles.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 11:26 PM
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Maybe outside, idk
/r/askTRP27/06/15 11:11 PM
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If a girl proposes this, she is forever a plate. Do not get emotionally attached and don't ltr her.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 10:11 PM
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Neither. I'm the fucking man.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 08:10 PM
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You just made a simple role sound much more complicated than it really is. Congratulations. gonna guess the downvotes are from people that dont understand league. "dino gnar semi tank top jungle with high teleport and flash mechanics" isn't a thing. You can't both top and jungle and adding "dino" and "semi" is just adding arbitrary words to make the role appear more difficult. Not to mention "high teleport mechanics" is just a laughable thing to say. Clearly, we all know that the majority of wom…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 08:02 PM
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Beta Bux and Cock Carousal. Both are terms defined in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 06:42 AM
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Read the fucking sidebar before you post again.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 06:23 AM
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You sound like a women with a BB on the side for when she's done riding the CC. You need to make a choice. Do you want her in your life or do you want to continue to fuck other girls? There's no point in stringing her along if you don't intend to commit.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 06:13 AM
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It's fiction.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 05:56 AM
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Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 03:42 AM
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What does creatine intake have to do with red meat?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 01:44 AM
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Everything after the third paragraph is you acting like a pathetic child, never do it again.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 12:07 AM
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This would answer 95% of the questions on this sub.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 06:24 PM
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It will not work. If asking her out on a date and getting rejected is what it's going to take for you to get that, then so be it. You have oneitis for this girl and an insane scarcity mentality. This is not the only girl in the world. You need to forget about her and start focusing on multiple other women.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 05:08 AM
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A lot of people start this way, it's okay. It hurts to find out that most of what you've been raised to believe about 51% of the world's population is false. Continue to read and ponder on your past experiences that confirm trp's truth. Remember that one time you were really nice to that girl you really liked but she said you were just friends then fucked the guy that didn't care about her? AWALT. The thing that helped me the most was what I noted above. I remembered a whole lot of things from m…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 04:56 AM
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This is going to sting a bit but: You're her beta orbiter. Cut contact with her, you're not gaining anything from the relationship while she gains all your attention. Start by reading the sidebar. When she removed your hand from her waist, it was her rejecting you. If you really don't want to believe me, or the other advice you're going to receive in this thread, then text her and set up a meet. From the very start of it, escalate. If and when she rejects you, you know I'm correct.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 04:51 AM
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I second /u/abdada
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:57 AM
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I too like to post on subs without first looking at any other thread or glancing the thread requirements.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 01:21 AM
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Lol what? Everyone knows that jacked dude that can barely speak coherent sentences to females and still gets laid. Game is required less and less the more aesthetic you are.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 01:18 AM
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Maintain frame always. But yes, just don't respond and tell her you're busy if she persists in texting you.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 12:58 AM
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I definitely agree with you about not getting down about it. It's something that I can improve so that's what I'm doing, I'm not sulking about it.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 12:28 AM
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Really take note* of this comment OP. Chances are one of your first successes after swallowing the pill is going to result in very intense oneitis. It happens to the majority of Red Pillers that were inexperienced previous to the pill. Understand why you're feeling the way you do(if it happens) and learn from it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 10:19 PM
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yes
/r/askTRP25/06/15 10:04 PM
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Exactly. I read a comment similar a week or two back on this sub from a guy that said he read it on facebook from a SJW. It's absolutely ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 09:01 PM
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they are less manipulative than Body builders because lets be honest no one is hunting and gathering with those muscle these days. This comment gave me cancer, which isn't a term I use lightly.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 08:51 PM
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Post your height and weight. You're eating a vegetarian diet that only consists of 1400 calories a day, what the fuck do you expect? Eat meat. Get a better diet with more calories so your muscles will have the required fuel for growth before trying steroids.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 06:17 AM
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Good fucking post. I specifically enjoyed how instead of wallowing over the time you spent in ltrs in high school and college, you accepted it for what it was and opted to move forward. This is what separates the people that have really internalized the pill and the people that haven't. Accept reality and the present for what it is. As for me, I'm also a year into the pill. Came here almost right after graduating high school, as a kissless virgin, because of a terrible prom experience and have d…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 06:04 AM
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Read The Sex God Method
/r/askTRP25/06/15 12:47 AM
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I was pretty destroyed at first, but once I got over it, I realized that it was one of the best things that has ever happened to me. It's very difficult to realize at first but being dumped/cheated on is a very necessary step to becoming a fully red pill man. It hurts like a bitch at the time and you hate the girl but when you look back, you almost want to thank her. Without her, you wouldn't be the man you are today. I know it sucks OP, but be glad it happened when it did and not later. What yo…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 12:43 AM
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meet me at x at y and find out
/r/askTRP24/06/15 04:39 AM
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What's your hypertrophy program?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 12:30 AM
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This hurts. Just measured my arms yesterday and they came at 13 inches. I'll see you in a few months with another inch or two.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 12:25 AM
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I have no problem with her calling me annoying, she only does so when I ignore her texts. However, I do have a problem with her second text. To me she's basically saying "If you still want to meet and fuck, you have to give me more attention via text message". She's basically trying to use sex as a bargaining chip, and that's just straight disrespect.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 12:00 AM
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Danial Craig Daniel Craig is not ugly imo
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:32 AM
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You don't get upset at a lion hunting in the wild, it's in its nature. The same applies to women, why get upset at hypergamy? It's in their nature. Use your knowledge to your advantage.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:25 AM
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How can you just sit the fuck down and study math? Well the answer is simple: You sit the fuck down and study math. Obviously nobody likes to sit and study for hours on end but you have to do it and the more you do it, the easier it will become.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:11 AM
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We have the same outlook on texting, with similar results. Thanks for the reply and keep up the good work.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:27 AM
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How'd you reply to the second one?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 02:26 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 01:42 AM
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Why does /u/Chad_Thundercock69 post on asktrp without reading the sidebar of trp? The answer is in there.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 01:41 AM
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Accomplishing your mission. Stop bitching about the stories, nobody cares if you believe them or not. If you are of high enough value, you will be able to find attractive women when you're older.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 11:42 PM
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Meditate. Helps keep a clear mind so when people attempt to stir you up over petty things, it doesn't affect you. Also, remember that women behave mostly like children so you should treat them as such and not take what they say seriously, just laugh at them.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 11:34 PM
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A weekly post containing the various shit-tests that we receive would be a great addition to this sub. I always enjoy reading the shit-tests that are posted on here and the responses to learn from how others respond and to further increase my knowledge of possible shit-tests for the future. Good thread.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 11:11 PM
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Continue lifting and perfect your diet to include foods that up your natural T and lower your estrogen levels then get a retest in a few months. If your t is still low, either deal with it or start using steroids.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 05:26 AM
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I'd wager it's the dinosaur part. "Animals have been doing that since the prehistoric era" sounds better to me. Idk what it is about that sentence though either, lol.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 01:28 AM
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Great post, I like how you used what you learned from previous posts to get what you wanted and then described how they helped you learn. This is, imo, the perfect format for field reports.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 01:22 AM
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Don't do drugs irresponsibly is what he means.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 01:13 AM
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Yes. Because I don't compare myself to other men. Those men are not me and if a girl chooses one of them over me? It's her loss.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 11:15 PM
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Confidence comes from results. Lifting is an easy way to measure results if you're doing it correctly, especially if you're just starting(beginner gains). When you look good, you feel good causing you to be more confident.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 11:06 PM
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Then I apologize for the false accusation. I just don't understand what you're trying to accomplish with this thread. Trp advocates both lifting and making more money, it's just recommending lifting first because it's faster to get results.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 11:04 PM
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If you lift for a year and a half straight and it doesn't affect you, you're doing something terribly wrong.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 10:49 PM
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It doesn't matter what you disagree with. Lifting scientifically increases your testosterone levels and with a correct diet that minimizes your estrogen levels(that trp also advises), benefits will be had. Trp does indeed advise men to improve their careers to make more money. Seems to me like you're pretty well off money wise and are trying to rationalize why you don't lift.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 10:48 PM
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Lifting is the quickest way to see tangible results and increase self-confidence. It also increases your testosterone levels which has a magnitude of benefits. Making more money is a more difficult goal that takes a much longer time to achieve. You start one step at a time, and lifting helps build discipline that is the foundation of the temple you're building.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 09:52 PM
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After any instance of disrespect from your sister towards your youngest sister, go to your house and tell Janet to fuck off. If you don't care about your relationship with Janet(which you shouldn't if she's as much of a bitch as you made her out to be) tell her she's a loser and has no place speaking to Sally like that. Basically make her feel as bad about it as possible but don't argue with her. Treat her like a child, this will only work, however, if you're successful yourself a man that comma…
/r/askTRP21/06/15 09:47 PM
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Ahh, sorry I didn't understand the question. How much you see your plates is up to you but when you have multiple you're going to see each individual one less and less. Remember the more you see them, the more likely they are to try to get you to commit sooner. My advice is see your plates no more than 3 times a week each.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 09:07 PM
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Watch as the rest of the replies, from people that do fully read it, agree with me. Now let's wait and see if I actually had to read it to be correct.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 08:53 PM
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It's all good lol, not everybody is going to agree with all of my opinions which is something trp taught me. For the record, though, I upvoted your post because it is a really good idea but seeing as how the majority of the world is blue and won't ever go red, I don't think it happens enough. Maybe it could work if it also worked for reports of people unplugging and their experiences after(sort of a modified field report if you will).
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 08:49 PM
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I didn't read most of the thread but just from the title and first few sentences: No. You're not going to marry this girl and you're only going to miss out on countless opportunities by being in an ltr during your uni years. Edit: Let me elaborate on why I was able to assess your situation without reading the majority of your post. You are the prize. Keep improving yourself and you will find better girls in your future. You're in one of the best places to get pussy in your life right now and was…
/r/askTRP21/06/15 08:42 PM
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While this is a good idea, I don't think it happens enough to warrant it's own flair.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 07:15 PM
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If you want to see Jurassic World, then see it. Text her saying "Jurassic World at 8, meet at the theater at 7:45 then sushi after" Chances are she's gonna try to change the movie, do not waver. This is a shit-test and tell her you're going to see Jurassic World, whether she comes or not. Also, do not catch feelings. Realize she is post-wall looking for a BB so when you don't commit, this will fall.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 07:07 PM
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Unless your text game is spot-on, don't text her. It's literally 4 days that she's away. Ignore her "Hiiii" texts and when she's gonna be back in a day or two, setup another date and escalate escalate escalate.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 07:03 PM
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Own your hobbies. If you like Magic, be proud of that shit.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 06:01 PM
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Well, one, don't shit where you eat. Do not have relations with coworkers, ever. Taking the pussy off the pedestal is a process done by learning that women aren't special. Read the sidebar of the main sub to help aid you in this but realize it's going to take some time to internalize. Not falling in love is a different task entirely. Even after taking women off the pedestal and swallowing trp, I caught oneitis twice. The second one almost destroyed me but I learned a massive amount from it. The …
/r/askTRP21/06/15 08:12 AM
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When time permits, could you provide your insight? I'd greatly appreciate it. Also, thanks for the advice guys. If anyone cares for an update: I didn't call and around 10 minutes after the specified time, she snapped me a blank picture which was clearly to get my attention and call her. After not responding to that, she texted me about 20 minutes later "good night" to which I didn't reply and that was followed by a "...." 10 minutes later. I think you can guess what my response was(hint: there w…
/r/askTRP21/06/15 08:01 AM
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This was a pretty huge shit-test. She was trying to pull you into her frame and make you her orbiter. By making it seem like you haven't decided if you want her yet, it would get her hamster spinning and make her question herself causing her to start qualifying herself to you. This is if she's attracted to you, of course. I'm not sure if this one could be saved so you did the right thing anyway. Always have options and never expend too much effort on one girl, especially if they pull some shit l…
/r/askTRP21/06/15 06:15 AM
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"what makes you think i want to have sex with you? youre gonna have to buy me a drink to make up for that ridiculous comment"
/r/askTRP21/06/15 06:00 AM
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You continue to read and reread the sidebar to internalize the material. This is going to be a slow process, and you will fail and revert but it's all a part of learning. The key is not to linger on your failures but brush them off, learn from them, and keep moving forward.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 04:11 AM
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Why is this getting downvoted? His response was perfect and what he instructed OP to do is also the next correct action.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 03:21 AM
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Why are you bitching and not accepting the advice he gave, which you asked for?
/r/askTRP21/06/15 01:45 AM
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Not everything is a shit-test, she just didn't want to dance with you.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 12:39 AM
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"I'm not your boyfriend, I don't want to hear about your problems."
/r/askTRP20/06/15 06:48 PM
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I was the same way in high school. I was an incredibly low tier beta that went home everyday to play league of legends because I didn't have any real friends to hang out with. Started reading trp in June of 2014(a year ago). I started half-heartily lifting and trying to build some confidence. I also tried to implement trp at my college orientation and it worked pretty well but not as well as I'd liked(much like you). I simply didn't have the experience or social skills to be where I wanted to be…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 06:44 AM
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Having sex with a high value man is the ultimate form of attention and validation which women seek. Sluts know that high value men will not stick around with sex but they want their attention so much that they'll have sex with them to get it.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 05:33 AM
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Some people just won't like you. No matter how much you improve yourself, some personalities will just clash with yours and they won't want you to be around. Take no mind to it, as your real friends(the people that truly like you) will invite you.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 05:29 AM
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Wasn't meant to be unwelcoming but there's been an influx of new members posting without even so much as glancing at the sidebar or rules. If you had, you'd know where to start.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 07:28 AM
13

You start where everybody else does; the sidebar. You're not special, why did you make a thread?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 06:54 AM
1

This thread is basically about your lack of confidence in sex, with a few words added. Go to askTRP if you have any questions or need assistance and 2. Read The Sex God Method and get into shape. You'll perform drastically better.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 06:31 AM
3

First, start with the sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 06:22 AM
-1

Anger phase. You'll get over it.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 06:00 AM
10

Universities are fucked for blue pillers you mean. If you're red you will thrive.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 03:59 AM
1

I'd suggest monk mode. Cut her out of your life(literally all contact) and start to focus on yourself. Read, lift, improve your diet, work, get a hobby. You'll start to learn that you don't need women in your life and all you really need is yourself. Happiness is self-imposed.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 03:33 PM
3

10/10 comparison I believe The Red Pill began as a way to attract women but it's certainly evolved to focus more on ourselves. People will still continue to hate trp, though, and that's fine. Let the lower 80% of men stay there.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 02:09 AM
2

Bettering your frame comes with practice and experience. Always be aware of your thoughts and try to ask for advice as little as possible. You learn through experience and when you fail, you learn more. The more experiences you go through, the better your frame because you'll have more to draw from and will know what to do the next time something similar happens. Bettering your frame comes from mindfulness.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 01:44 AM
4

Stop wallowing in self pity and next her. Obviously it's going to be difficult after you've invested so much time but it needs to be done. Realize that you don't need her and that there are literally millions of girls better than her.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 09:08 PM
2

Hypergamy. Read the sidebar and you'll understand. For now, though, just know that it's in a woman's nature to try to secure the highest value male possible. If you're in a relationship with a girl and your value starts to depreciate or even if she thinks she can do better than you, she will attempt to branch swing.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 09:43 PM
3

Stop wasting your time and everyone else's here. Search "Text" or "Text game" and you'll find plenty of answers. The main one you'll find, however, is to only text for logistics.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 01:57 AM
2

This is terrible advice. Basing your self-confidence on female attention is exactly what trp preaches against. Confidence comes from accomplishments. Start lifting and as you start to lift more and make gains, you'll become more confident. Get a hobby and as you get better at it, you'll become more confident. Stop basing your worth on female(or anybody) attention.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 09:39 PM
7

Spend as much time as possible occupied. Whether that be reading, studying, lifting, cooking a meal, whatever. Do it and your thoughts will be on your current activity and not her. Oneitis is often made worse as you remain inactive and linger on the thoughts of her. The busier you are, the less time you have to think about her.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 02:51 AM
1

3 points exactly. There is no number scale that we can tell you about. If you don't look good with your current complexion, make the corrective measures to improve it. Spray tan or whatever you need to do if you can't go into the sun.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 12:51 AM
1

Me.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 11:50 PM
3

They don't accomplish anything and have the potential to get you into deep shit. They aren't worth it. If you really want, send a shirtless pic instead.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 07:22 AM
4

You're 14, you're too young for most of this to make any sense to you. I suggest subscribing to trp and leaving, not returning until your 16th birthday. Even that age is arbitrary though, come back when you feel its the time. Be incredibly grateful that you found this sub when you did. Start building your empire now. Do everything you possibly can in high school; join clubs and lead them, play multiple sports, get great grades. Start meditating. Start lifting and take it(and your diet) as seriou…
/r/askTRP13/06/15 04:51 AM
0

Don't let her give you head. Put a condom on as soon as you know you're going to have sex and you'll be fine. Also, lights off. It sucks because you know it's nothing bad but it will still instill fear in others based on ignorance. If she does see them and ask, give her the facts and tell her it's not contagious.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 07:30 PM
84

If this sub and asktrp do go down, it was worth it while it lasted. I learned a lot from you guys and completely turned my life around for the better. Thanks guys, as one of the younger guys here I learned something from every post and greatly appreciate the effort put in to try to help the young men like me. I realize that there is a failsafe in place but we won't be as connected as we are now through Reddit. Good luck in the rest of your Red Pill journeys gentleman.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:22 PM
1

Reverse discrimination is indeed a thing but the more you have to offer, the less likely it is to happen to you.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 06:59 PM
1

I didn't read any of this but it sounds like the onset of oneitis. Pursue other women, then once you've fucked three you should pursue this girl.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 07:26 AM
3

Do you know what a plate is?
/r/askTRP10/06/15 05:24 AM
1

I was agreeing with you lol
/r/askTRP10/06/15 05:15 AM
0

This "this isn't oneitis but there's this one girl..."
/r/askTRP10/06/15 05:06 AM
1

You read and you actively try to learn what you're reading. If you have to, go over something multiple times until you feel you really understand it. Then you have to experience it and practice.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 02:18 AM
9

You clearly don't know the difference between motivation and discipline. Motivation fades. How many times have you seen somebody watch a video, get super motivated to get jacked, go to the gym once or twice then stop? Motivation is good to start things, but discipline finishes them. Discipline is doing things, even though you don't want to. I don't think anybody wants to go to the gym every single day but the disciplined go because they know it's what the body needs. It's the same for your studi…
/r/askTRP09/06/15 07:10 AM
2

Yeah, get complacent. Why improve yourself if there's no need for it externally? Oh wait, the red pill isn't for external sources. It's for you.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 06:48 AM
3

Do you want to be with her(Barring oneitis) Yes: Don't break up with her No: Break up with her
/r/askTRP09/06/15 06:18 AM
1

Holding frame is the most important when first meeting a girl because she hasn't invested anything in you yet so forgetting about you is incredibly easy with no loss to her. After you've fucked a few times, there's more leeway for breaking frame but you still need to be on top of your game.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 04:43 AM
5

The same reason you're attracted to wide hips and big tits.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 03:03 AM
1

How was The Game and How to win friends? Which would you recommend I read first? But read Models by Mark Manson.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:42 AM
1

what kind of supplements are we talking about here
/r/askTRP09/06/15 01:23 AM
1

The book, along with this sub, helped me realize that there is nothing to gain from being nervous when it comes to sex or anything in life. Being confident, or at least pretending to be, and doing what you want will get both of you off as if you've been there a million times before. Specifically, though, the book details the 4 things that great sex has: Dominance, Emotion, Variety, and Immersion. Dominance: Girls love when you're dominant and throw them around. If you want to change positions or…
/r/askTRP08/06/15 06:34 PM
2

I can feel the pain that Stevie felt when you told him. I was that guy. It was a few months after swallowing trp and it fueled me to become the man I am now. It fueled my self-improvement and I'm glad it happened. Sometimes you have to actually experience the things that the Red Pill says happens to believe them and I'm glad you weren't on the receiving end. Keep up the improvement bro and you'll have many stories like this to tell.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 07:21 AM
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Trust me man, almost nobody likes the aggressive and loud black women. Keep in mind, though, that all of them aren't like that. It's even worse if you're black(or part) yourself as they feel they're obligated to you and if you deny them they attempt to ostracize you for not liking your own race. The best advice I can give you is to just ignore them. If they touch you, tell them that you don't want to be touched. The most important thing is to not back down to these types of women.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 05:50 AM
1

I don't understand what you're asking but I'll gladly aid you if you clarify the question.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 05:45 AM
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This. You made yourself look childish because you, yourself, allowed yourself to be used by her. If you were a woman you would do the exact same thing. If this was really necessary for you to fully swallow the pill, then so be it. Continue to read the sidebar material and you'll do well.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 03:47 AM
7

Tell him you have something to do after work and can't give him a ride. If you do him favors, and he won't reciprocate, he can fuck off.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 03:20 AM
1

Why would you take Phenibut? Why do you need a crutch?
/r/askTRP08/06/15 03:19 AM
2

Exactly. For the men here that think what I, and the Op, said is manipulating women just think that it's exactly what women are doing with their looks.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:05 AM
2

Reflect on your life for a moment and look how far being passive aggressive has gotten you. I'd give you valid advice if you actually attempted to take trp and internalize it's values instead of coming here once every few months to ask a stupid question(troll).
/r/askTRP08/06/15 02:03 AM
3

Normally I don't, but I felt the need to go through your post history. Stop frequenting forever alone and stop watching porn.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 01:54 AM
6

This is what the men that complain about height, race, and other unchangeable factors should really read and internalize. Bettering yourself also means excelling at your craft which will usually generate quite a bit of money for you. Don't fret over what you can change and be the best at what you can. Use your biggest tools, your commitment and your money, as a lure to attract the women you want to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 01:39 AM
2

Become Chad.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 01:03 AM
2

Sounds like you dodged a bullet
/r/askTRP07/06/15 10:53 PM
15

She didn't want to give you her number in the first place but it was easier to give it to you than reject you in person. She didn't reschedule the date, move on.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 10:37 PM
2

Don't be nervous or think about it too much, as that will only make the experience worse. The best advice is to literally do what you want. Focus on your pleasure and what feels good to you. If you want to change positions, do so. Be dominant and you'll both enjoy it. Also, read The Sex God Method. I read it as a virgin and it helped me not be nervous at all when the time came. DEVI, Dominance Emotion Variety Immersion, remember it.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 10:33 PM
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The amount of red flags. Is she fucking every other dude in the McDonald's bathroom but she won't have sex with you? She sees you as a lesser man. Is she known for being a cool girl but doesn't put out to just anybody? She knows what her value is and doesn't give it away to just anybody. The only time you should ever accept waiting for sex(3 dates max, normally) is if you know that she's a high value woman that doesn't have a high number and you're looking for a ltr.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 09:27 PM
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This is exactly what you should do. I know it's difficult to get up and leave when you're in bed with a girl and she's putting up lmr but if you do, you'll respect yourself a lot more and she will too.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 08:46 PM
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You're rationalizing. You're being a bitch that's settling for cuddling instead of sex and she doesn't respect you for it. If she's making you wait for sex, you're doing something wrong. http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/
/r/askTRP07/06/15 08:34 PM
3

Basically brush her off as if she's not important. The majority of guys in her life treat her like a princess so she'll wonder why you're different and start to validate herself to you.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 07:37 PM
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Plates fall. When she realized you weren't going to commit to her, she left. It can be a tough lesson, especially since it was your first plate but it needs to be learned so you don't get too emotionally attached to them. It seems like you're doing okay, so keep on keepin' on and go plate some other girls.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 07:52 AM
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If a girl is putting up lmr, the best course of action is to say something like "k" or agree and amplify her asd("im not having sex with you" or "im not a slut") with "what kind of man do you think i am" then continue escalating after a few minutes. If she really isn't going to have sex with you, you kick the girl out or leave as you said.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 07:49 AM
16

Did you let her know about this rule? And if you're both exclusive towards each other, she's not a plate by definition.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 04:36 AM
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She's a plate, she can(and it should be expected that she) sleep with other people. You should not be hurt when a plate fucks another guy. Two+ or none. She's not a plate if she's the only one.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 04:23 AM
1

Nobody respond to him, he's made this same topic before. http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/37t8vq/i_am_fucking_up/
/r/askTRP07/06/15 03:07 AM
6

RSDTyler is one of the most linked to pua's from here. He sets a really good example and shows the newly unplugged that you don't have to say the perfect things to attract women.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 03:05 AM
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The only thing different with these types of girls is you do not neg them. They don't have the self-esteem for it and it will drive them away.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 01:53 AM
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My previous post came off as rude, I apologize. As for advice: Tell them you're busy. You don't owe anyone anything so don't even feel forced to respond to them if they're only using you for attention/validation.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 01:24 AM
3

I doubt you actually read it because if you did then the solution is simple. You stop letting girls who aren't attracted to you waste your time.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 12:42 AM
1

Read "Plate Spinning: The other side of the coin" on the main sub.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 12:32 AM
6

These threads are so fucking stupid. If you see a girl you're attracted to, white or not, then go try to game her. By not trying because of whatever bullshit preconceived notions you have, you're missing opportunities.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 11:29 PM
3

Just be confident and friendly. Picking up women should be like a game to you, have fun with it. If you take it too seriously, you're going to fuck up. Remember to have fun on the date and if it doesn't work out, there are literally billions of other women out there. There have been a few posts on the main sub about game recently; look up "Understanding the Alpha/Beta Dichotomy" and "Why Game is Easy: We're Playing Against Women"
/r/askTRP06/06/15 10:51 PM
1

So what kind of pills do you sell exactly?
/r/askTRP06/06/15 05:37 AM
1

Did you actually do this? It sounds brilliant.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 04:59 AM
2

The last time a girl asked me if I only wanted her for sex I replied with "You're chill to hang out with but without sex, there's no hanging out." She proceeded to initiate sex. I'd also like more possible and better responses to this question though.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 04:23 AM
1

How is it pouting? This girl had nothing to offer OP other than sex and when she wouldn't give it to him, she had to leave.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 04:09 AM
5

Time for some introspection. Think about why you get nervous? Do you not want to mess up or say the wrong thing? You still have the pussy on a pedestal and want to say the "perfect thing". You do not need to be perfect all the time. Everybody makes mistakes. Stop taking picking up girls so seriously, it should be fun for you. Start thinking of it as a game and remember you're the prize.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 08:36 PM
2

If it's bothering you that much, look into buying a hooker. Otherwise, stop all masturbating and start cold approaching.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 08:34 PM
12

How old are you? Stop watching porn and masturbating.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 06:52 PM
2

Instead of complaining about the problem, find a solution. Start giving out the best advice you can to combat the bad advice that's given. Really, it's one of the things trp preaches the most.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 06:44 PM
1

I hope you're trolling. You're her beta bitch that she'll go back when Chad starts fucking a different girl. She isn't attracted to you anymore and will only use you for validation with maybe a few cases of duty sex sprinkled in. She doesn't respect you and I can see why, because clearly you don't respect yourself either. If you're not going to follow the advice given to you here, don't ask for advice
/r/askTRP05/06/15 07:40 AM
1

If you have any self worth, you will not fucking do that. It pisses me off that you're even contemplating it, and will probably do it even though this whole sub is going to advise against it. You have oneitis. You need to pursue other women and your feelings for this girl will dissipate. This girl doesn't want to fuck you anymore because, in her opinion, she found someone better(although I suspect you caught feelings and openly displayed them to her which destroyed her attraction towards you). T…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 07:14 AM
1

As you fuck other women, you'll start to realize that this girl isn't as special as you think and your feelings will fade. Treat as you would any other coworker. If she still touches you, tell her stop.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 05:09 AM
1

Read the second sentence of my first comment.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 04:57 AM
4

The simple fact that you wrote this amount for one girl means you have oneitis. Pursue other women. Don't shit where you eat. You should wait until she's gone to try to plate her. Looks like she's just leading you on for validation and doesn't have any intentions of fucking you anymore . But the only way to know for sure is to ask her out and if she flakes or says she's busy without attempting to reschedule, Next. After your first hookup, you should have waited longer to contact and set up a dat…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 04:11 AM
1

You have to accept that time is constantly moving forward, much like you have to accept AWALT. You can't change it and lingering on it is wasted time and energy that could have been used bettering yourself.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 04:01 AM
5

I am planning on bettering myself for my own health and benefit but that will be after college The fuck is this? You're going to intentionally wait to better yourself? Stop being a bitch and start doing everything you can, today. As for topic at hand, you're still not fully unplugged yet. You still long for the Disney love that doesn't exist. Keep reading the sidebar. Somewhere deep inside me, I also desire this and it's only led to oneitis and pain. Get over it and your life will improve substa…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 03:13 AM
2

What would you do if a child tried to argue with you?
/r/askTRP05/06/15 03:07 AM
4

Don't argue with them, ever.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 02:14 AM
1

Ahh, makes sense. Just wondering as I'm always open to learning more about supplements and their potential positives/negatives.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:59 AM
1

In your opinion, what's wrong with creatine?
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:39 AM
1

I see you've read The Power of Now. Try reading it /u/BhiQ .
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 05:57 PM
16

Just a heads up if you'd like to retain your anonymity; your name is written at the end of Chapter 1.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 07:36 AM
5

She's postwall looking for a betabux. Next the fuck out of her.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 03:56 AM
7

That's she's told you about.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 01:18 AM
5

love you too
/r/askTRP03/06/15 08:09 PM
1

Look to naturally increase your testosterone and decrease your estrogen levels first.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 05:39 AM
1

There are multiple mistakes here. -Stop using faces so much -Don't backtrack when she said "Girls. Plural". Own that shit like a man. A high value single man is always speaking to multiple women at the same time. -Stop giving her compliments for free; "I make exceptions for special girls." Why is this girl special? She's not. It looks to me that you've fucked this one up heavily but when in doubt, ask her out and if she flakes and doesn't request a future date, next. "Hey I'm going to X place at…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 05:00 AM
5

Be incredibly grateful that you found this sub when you did. Start building your empire now. Do everything you possibly can in high school; join clubs and lead them, play multiple sports, get great grades. Start meditating. Start lifting and take it(and your diet) as seriously as possible. Start reading the sidebar and other useful works of nonfiction. Do not blame others for your actions, take accountability. Do not be afraid of failure as you'll learn more from it than success. Be confident. I…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 04:00 AM
2

It is factual that watching porn does affect your dopamine levels which raises the baseline for homeostasis.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 02:25 AM
0

The best way to obtain the best body is to do both. Keep doing what you're doing but start going to the gym too.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 02:11 AM
1

She's a grown woman who makes her own decisions. Those decisions have consequences.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 09:56 PM
1

Do you think there's anything to gain by texting her back something along the lines of her not getting another one or something like that? Normally I do not apologize but I felt it necessary in this case so I'm not very familiar with the aftermath. Any recommendation for a response?
/r/askTRP02/06/15 09:08 PM
3

When I'm in a predicament and don't know how to respond to a woman when she says something like this, I just respond with "lol". Seems to work every time.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 08:41 PM
2

I don't think it's beta shaming as she always initiates the "hangouts" that turn into fucks and I'm always very sexual when talking to her which wouldn't happen if she actually perceived me as beta. You may be correct, though. It's definitely something I'll think about in further interactions with her and cut her out if she thinks of me that way. Thanks for the insight both of you, it's greatly appreciated.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 08:37 PM
1

I supposed the (previous) first four sentences were just me feeding my ego. Thanks for catching that as it's also something I need to work on.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 08:12 PM
2

Crying is fine, if the reason is proper. Your dad died and you're at his funeral? Of course it's okay to cry(don't be a whiny bitch though). You see a spider? Don't fucking cry.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 03:32 AM
2

You stop being a bitch because you know the rewards are greater than the regret you'll face if you continue to not go to the gym. Work out, read, study hard.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 02:55 AM
0

He's clearly doing something right in his work so take the student role and listen to what he has to tell you. Stop getting so worked up over "alpha or beta", read the fucking sidebar before you come back.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 02:04 AM
5

Tell them you're healthier/look better than them and they should follow in your footsteps. You shouldn't take what they say about lifting seriously anyway, it's your life and you're clearly doing something right in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 02:00 AM
3

She doesn't understand her own nature. She didn't knowingly raise you as a nice, beta. Women actually think they want "nice guys" so don't blame your mother for making you that way. A woman can not raise a man. If anything, blame your father for not raising you correctly. You shouldn't put any energy towards the past, though, as it isn't something you can change. Accept what has happened in the past and how you were raised and look to the future where you constantly improve yourself and become t…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 09:30 PM
9

What does this offer to the sub; besides a huge, almost unreadable, wall of text?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 09:25 PM
2

Stating your height and weight would help tremendously when asking for help of this kind. But if you're trying to gain, head over to http://stronglifts.com/5x5/
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 07:33 PM
3

after saying I'm immature and can't do shit on my own That shit should never fly. Stand up straight and look her dead in the eye and tell her to never disrespect you like that again. If she does, immediate next.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:01 PM
6

Physical escalation is almost never necessary, especially when it comes to a known drama starter.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 08:19 AM
3

Well, first off, don't neg women with low self-esteem as it will completely drive them away. Next you should understand how negging works. When you tease a girl, it shows good social knowledge because you know how far to go without overdoing it(you'll learn the limit with practice) and it also shows you have a good sense of humor/don't take life too seriously.(playful mastery) It also separates you from supplicating men that do everything to try to win them over. There's more to it but you can e…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 08:17 AM
3

It's basically the same for me in my hometown(but not as severe) seeing as I bloomed late and was incredibly beta until I discovered Trp the summer before going into uni at a city far from my home. I'm the fucking man up there. I say this because you shouldn't take these people seriously. They knew a previous, weaker version of yourself and that image will probably never change. The best advice I can give you is to keep improving yourself and get the fuck out of there as soon as you can. Why can…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 07:17 AM
50

I'd laugh in her face and tell her I didn't know she was that funny.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 05:52 AM
8

Don't use logic with women when it comes to relationships. If she wants to go to the party, let her. She should know that any misconduct will result in her losing you.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 05:45 AM
2

Nobody wants to hear you bitch here.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:34 AM
1

I'd show up wearing clothes to cover it and make it known that you were leaving early because of something relating to your work(or something)
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:21 AM
2

This is damn good advice. I've never thought about (fake) rejecting a woman like that after getting some lmr as this has happened to me frequently in the past. Thanks.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:16 AM
7

It's something you can't change, much like height and ethnicity, so get the fuck over it. Make it as appealing as you can(eyebrows done, good facial hair if you can grow it, good bf so your cheekbones show, good haircut) and then stop focusing on it. Use your valuable time and energy on improving yourself in ways that you can change(body, education, game).
/r/askTRP01/06/15 01:57 AM
0

Tell her you're gonna be in town on x date and when you're finished with what you came for you're gonna go to the beach and she should join you.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 01:51 AM
8

If you don't want to be seen with her, don't be seen with her. Tell her to meet you at your house for a movie or something. I want to turn this into a plate since I have a real target in one of my friend groups The beginning of oneitis. Why is this other girl a "real target"?
/r/askTRP01/06/15 01:47 AM
1

Why wouldn't you take ANYTHING you read on here with a grain of salt, troll post or not? Read through the things on here but form your own opinions. Read and actually internalize /r/TheRedPill sidebar.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 10:20 PM
2

Being hated by lesser men shouldn't bother you, or anyone. Unless they have something to offer you, of course.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 09:16 PM
1

Jesus, sounds like you do have it rough. Have you thought about changing your location, maybe teaching in another city/state if you could find a decent job there/
/r/askTRP31/05/15 08:11 PM
17

It was clearly a playful name calling, without malicious intent. No need to get butthurt at every single thing a girl says. The girl is just trying to get his attention back since she's not getting as much from him anymore.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 06:25 AM
5

Stop being boring be openly sexual from the start. Tease the girls in a playful way and they'll start to come. Keep in mind, at first, shit tests are very difficult to identify so agree and amplify constantly to get in the habit of it.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 06:23 AM
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Obviously she notices that you've changed and it's getting to her. Right now you're playing a weak form of dread game; her hamster is running wild with thoughts such as "why isn't he responding to me?! Is he with another girl??" Just play dumb and if she asks why you're taking longer to respond, tell her you've been busy(which you should actually be lifting weights, reading, etc). Focus on her actions, not her words. Since you're new, I'd recommend reading through the entire /r/TheRedPill sideba…
/r/askTRP31/05/15 06:03 AM
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Why wouldn't you make a move? Are you happy with your current, sexless relationship with her? You're very clearly not. If you keep doing the same thing, the same result will keep happening. Make a move and if she isn't down for the cause, next her.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 04:08 AM
1

In one word: Insecurity
/r/askTRP31/05/15 03:48 AM
1

Could you expand on the "disadvantageous motion" please? I'm not sure I understand what that means
/r/askTRP31/05/15 03:14 AM
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Fucking girls with boyfriends is all up to you. Some prefer not to do it because they don't want to hurt their fellow man or because of the potential dangers(boyfriend could potentially harm you). If you want to do it, do it but know the risks. And for the shit tests, I leave you this. http://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/askTRP31/05/15 03:11 AM
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That's good. When a woman says that, it just means she wants your attention. When you're taking a long time to reply(or if you ignore her) you're depriving her of your attention which makes her want it, and you, more. Keep it up man, sounds like you're doing well.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 03:02 AM
6

Either make it sexual: "Because that ass" or just say something like "Because I want to."
/r/askTRP31/05/15 02:41 AM
6

He said you have oneitis. This isn't good. If you don't want to rid yourself of a problem that you know you have, get the fuck out.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 01:19 AM
3

Speed dating is, clearly, all about first impressions. Use good posture, be confident, and, most importantly, don't take it too seriously. Have fun and you'll do well.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 09:06 PM
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You mean you're bad at socializing and insecure with yourself so you make yourself think this as a defense mechanism so you don't have to accept your flaws and get better. Continue this behavior and I doubt you'll get anywhere. Edit: Ahh sorry, I forgot to include a solution to your problem. Read the sidebar and "The Power of Now". It'll help you separate your thoughts(what's causing you to think this bullshit) from how you really feel.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 07:50 AM
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i know it's kinda hard bro but try to keep this mindset. if you pursue this girl further(unless she contacts you) it'll only make you look weak and desperate. good luck man, kill it at the event.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 07:29 AM
2

All you can do now is wait. You messed up very severely and nothing you do now can fix that. If you wait long enough, maybe she'll come around. I was in a similar situation as you where I got blacked out and ended up drunk texting a plate(she wasn't really a plate as she was the only one, so I started catching feelings) that I wanted to be with her and I pretty much begged to go see her. Realizing I fucked up beyond repair, I immediately stopped contacting her and when I did see her, it was a si…
/r/askTRP30/05/15 06:40 AM
2

Amused mastery. Just laugh it off and agree and amplify it. If something someone says does affect you, it's time for some introspection as to why it hurt you. Think about why what they said hurt you and root the insecurity out of you.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 04:01 AM
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The fact that you wrote so much about her means you still give way too much of a fuck about her.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:12 AM
4

The best response for the legs text would have been something like "come over and maybe i'll ice it for you" then proceed to escalate when she arrives if she flakes or doesn't respond, next.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 08:58 PM
1

Think about why you're scared. What's going to happen if you make a move and it doesn't work? The girl might reject you but she'll respect you more for trying than really wanting her but being too scared to make a move. Now think about the rewards you'll reap if you do make that move and it turns out successful. Your fear is irrational and is only caused by one person: you.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 09:29 PM
0

This is the MOST helpful post about college I've ever read on here http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2b4qas/college_guys_stop_thinking_pua_start_thinking/
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:44 AM
1

If you read the sidebar(read, not skim) then you'll understand what AWALT means.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 07:53 PM
4

Meditate. Meditate. Meditate.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 05:34 AM
6

Or you could increase your testosterone and lower your estrogen levels naturally.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 10:37 PM
1

Naps are only good if done correctly; google it. Napping for too long makes you feel tired and drains you of energy.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 08:02 AM
3

Cause they're hot and show interest in me. I'm not going to not fuck a girl just because he also has.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:14 AM
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