Hey men. First background so you know where Im coming from.

Im 30, found out about trp about 5 months ago after looking into ways to improve my body language, posture etc.

Loved it, ate it all up, read all the sidebar, the all time top posts, especially anything by gaylubeoil, illimitable man and archwinger. No more Mr nice guy, book of pook, 48 laws etc. I Feel its mostly internalized now.

Quit porn, started lifting, started reading drawing etc. Thanks to good genetics and some manual labor jobs I already had muscle just horrible frame and posture so Ive been progressing quickly.

FR time. Coming out of monk mode I hit up the bar after work last Thursday night (I work evening shift). Meet some friends that are celebrating over in the corner but I notice an older post wall blonde giving me IOIs. Friends leave its last call, I sit next to her during a funny story introduced myself and that was pretty much that. She came home with me, we talked for a while and then fucked for hours.

About her, attractive blonde, blue eyes, was there in a dress showing off her very healthy legs, sober I had her pegged at 36, turns out shes 45.

She was married for over 15 years, couple kids both in high school, just graduated law school, and bartends a few nights at a local bar I rarely go to. Sex was great, best ive had this year so Im thinking plate. Oh yeah she is actually intelligent and fun to talk to. Think Erin Brockavich but ten years older.

So she lets me know that she's bartending Saturday night (last night) and to drop by if I want a repeat session. Didn't go. I do however show up for last call at the bar I met her at and shes there having closed early. Talk for a min, cops show up we all leave. Friend request on FB, accepted, quick message that shes welcome over. She comes over, total repeat, talk about her cuckold brother, law school etc..fuck for hours (not bragging, still porn desensitized)

Great times. So things are looking good, she would be my first plate If I keep this going.

So I wake up today, and I have a message from her saying she doesn't feel like studying for the BAR, but would rather go to the movies with me.

Normally, I'd ignore or say no.

Thing is, I do want to see Jurassic world, and theres this new sushi place nextdoor I've been wanting to try for a long time.

Basically I got an invite to something I want to do, but I also want to plate. Meeting 3 times in 4 days seems excessive, not to mention the obvious date style escalation. What do?