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| 131 | 1 month into seduction, status update | PedophilePriest | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 05:57 PM | |
| 5 | Handling Plate Formation? | PedophilePriest | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 06:50 PM | |
| 5 | How to deal with attracted and unattractive coworker ? | PedophilePriest | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 04:12 PM | |
| 1 | Just failed a big shit test...I think | PedophilePriest | /r/askTRP | 31/07/15 06:22 AM | |
| 0 | Just a long thought | PedophilePriest | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 07:39 AM | |
| 0 | Are you afraid of your own violence? I am | PedophilePriest | /r/askTRP | 20/04/15 07:11 AM | |
| 0 | Tips for oneitis? | PedophilePriest | /r/askTRP | 13/12/15 08:14 PM | |
| 0 | [FR] not typical, still proud. | PedophilePriest | /r/seduction | 16/11/14 04:21 PM | |
| 0 | SJW's. Obstacle or Oppurtunity? | PedophilePriest | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/16 10:15 AM |
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| 3 | Planning for the Post-Quarantine EraThis has always been the only viable option. Locking everything down was simply to buy us time to get our ducks in a row, which we sorta mostly didnt do, but continued shutdowns are counterproductive at this point. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/20 12:11 PM |
| 1 | I quit gaming a month ago: my backstory and the results so farGood point about f2p. Its alot easier for our brains to contain something that has a clearly defined beginning middle and end. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/18 05:30 AM |
| 5 | I quit gaming a month ago: my backstory and the results so farAs a 32 year old gamer, yes you can game responsibly and in moderation and its fine, but for most people that doesn't mean you can just sit down and play whatever you want. Some games are simply addictive, and harder to time manage around. MMOs are to be avoided, games like path of exile and league of legends and pretty much any competitive multiplayer games, as well as building games(Minecraft, terraria, rimworld) and open world rpgs(witcher, skyrim, fallout) are all games better avoided, as th… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Swallowing the pill with kids? RP aware already but never had it done? Get a genetic test today!Ive heard there's some controversy over these cheap over the counter DNA tests. Companies can request your DNA to deny you insurance for example if you have certain markers. Raises some huge privacy issues for me. Is anyone here more knowledgeable on the subject? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/18 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Singer Seal groped her breasts in salad-spinner visit, actress Birdsall saysThe salad spinner stands out to me. Every girl has a salad spinner in their kitchen, yet ive never seen one used. Even my mother who has made salads daily for 40+ years owns and has never used one. So she was in a bind and needed her spinner back, so she walked over, then upon asking for it back, went inside? The spinner was a pretext, basic girl sexual strategy to leave something unimportant at a mans place that you must absolutely have back, My guess, she came in looking for sex, he was probab… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/18 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Not Having Women in Your Life May Make You Unhappy, but a Woman Will Never Bring You True Happiness.I feel yeah man, it's a bitch to stay motivated once it's no longer excited and women don't seem special to you. That said I see it as temporary lapse, frame is stronger than ever...just don't give a fuck to put in effort. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/17 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Tips To Look After Your Husband - (Excerpts from a 1950's Home Economics text book)the ideal situation is one in which women run the household, through and through. Not in a way that enslaves men, but one that frees men to take risks, knowing their wives are more than capable of caring for their children without them. Women need support and protection, but men need peace and quiet and resolve. There are absolutely benefits of cohabitation...they've just been eroded and disincentivized over time. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/17 08:43 AM |
| 10 | Tips To Look After Your Husband - (Excerpts from a 1950's Home Economics text book)I don't hate feminism. First of all I am a male so it doesn't effect me. Secondly I love women, especially feminine women, feminine energy is something beautiful that I can not recreate in my life, and I'm better for having experienced it. However "feminism" isn't about celebrating female traits, or embracing the feminine or female nature. It's about promoting masculine traits among women while rediculing the feminine, and criminalizing masculine behavior among men while indoctrinating submissiv… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/17 07:59 AM |
| 5 | If you weren't sure there's a war on men, check it out: "Hey, white guys: New Year's Resolutions" -MTVI don't have the link, but there was a great article I read after the election about racism in America over the past 40 years has not been a consensus but rather a detante. Basically his argument was that whites agreed, that they would not criticize or target minority-only groups, charities, funds etc. (affirmative action essentially) and would not engage in outright open racism. If anyone broke those rules, fellow whites would ostracize and punish the offender, kind of the new scarlet letter. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/16 05:22 PM |
| 1 | If you weren't sure there's a war on men, check it out: "Hey, white guys: New Year's Resolutions" -MTVehh. kinda. Christianity is pretty fucked too. After the fall of the Roman empire the church took over pretty much everywhere in Europe. They owned all the land and refused to let natural resources be exploited, they had a monopoly on literarcy, education, medicine and science, and made sure everyone, Kings included were illiterate and warlike. century after century with next to nothing invented or created that wasn't meant for war. Once people realized shit like the weather could be explained o… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/16 05:03 PM |
| 14 | If you weren't sure there's a war on men, check it out: "Hey, white guys: New Year's Resolutions" -MTVIn the past if a girl told me she had been raped in the past, I always followed up asking it was "date-rape" or "alley-rape". Its always either date rape, or they were underage with someone older, usually teenage years but met a few that claimed they were molested as small children. I don't care enough to ask anymore, it's not useful information. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/16 04:48 PM |
| 2 | An Economic Analysis of the Welfare State - Will Atlas Shrug?I think your underestimating the child support payments. two kids is typically around 30% of pre tax income. Ohh and the husband still has to pay income taxes on it. gennerally with two kids your looking at cutting your after tax paycheck in half, and the courts wI'll not allow you to lower your payments by taking a lower paying job. You can't pay. you go to jail. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 06:10 PM |
| 1 | The pre-fuck conversation is one big autism screening testwhat are you talking about. People aren't born as either alcoholics or not. It is a drug that will by an large effect you in the same exact way. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/16 05:29 AM |
| 1 | The pre-fuck conversation is one big autism screening testIt is genetic for sure, but it has more to do with how long you've drank heavily for than anything else. Changes your brain over time. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/16 03:53 AM |
| 2 | The pre-fuck conversation is one big autism screening testMight be true Idk. in my experience it only takes a drink or two for most people to become obnoxious if your sober. If you have two and everyone else has 4, we'll yeah then that works. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 05:42 PM |
| 5 | The pre-fuck conversation is one big autism screening testyes it does. But if your goal is to have an idgaf attitude, all the time, or at least on command in your life, learning that skill while drinking and transitioning that too your sober self is a hell of a lot harder than just developing that skill as your sober self in the long run. Also ive seen it lead alot of people into alcoholism because they feel like they can only be fun and social while drinking. For me personally I'm more fun, more confident and have a stronger dgaf attitude now when I'm… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 05:29 PM |
| 1 | The pre-fuck conversation is one big autism screening testDead wrong on your first point. Women fucking love it when you make fun of other people to them. Especially if your perceptive and witty about it, shows your not seeking others validation, your putting yourself above others, which is how she wants to see you, and it gives her that dirty secret feeling all women fucking crave. Your giving voice to what she's already thinking but would never say, and you just showed the social intelligence that you get it. I'd reread no more mr. nice guy if you th… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 04:58 PM |
| 4 | The pre-fuck conversation is one big autism screening testAs an alcoholic, let me tell you drinking is not the crutch you think it is. You sound like an idiot to everyone that isn't drunker than you, it just sounds good to you because your innebriated. In addition it will actually hurt your real social skills, as practice while in an altered state will not carry over to your sober self, no matter how much you want them to. Social events are overrated, if your within speaking distance of a single person, you can socialize, make banter, laugh etc. Just p… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Common-law couples as good as married in B.C.I Really, really hope your right. I look at the younger generation of 18-22 year Olds doesn't give me a lot of hope of them standing up for themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/16 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Mystery ManI'm not saying your wrong here, because I don't think you are, I agree with most of your analysis. I do however have an issue with the mindset this approach entails. Of course she's not going to continue looking up to you if your constantly qualifying yourself to her. I tend to keep my plates at a distance, but not to appear mysterious, but because they have to constantly qualify themselves to me. If I get sick, I don't hide it, I use it as an opportunity to have a plate make some homemade chick… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/16 05:02 PM |
| 19 | The pussy responses to the "Warlord" post show that you don't believe in yourselves and that is the problemThank you for this. I've stopped visiting TRP regularly over the last 9 months or so. The content just wasn't speaking to me anymore whereas 18-24 months ago I would read at least one solid post every single day. So yesterday I drop in for a check after haven't been here in a week's and I find this amazing post right at the top. Something that spoke to me, something that inspired me, that brought a smile to my face and caused me to think and alter my own perspective. I immediately saved it to re… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/16 06:57 AM |
| 1 | What is the best way to counteract being a really ugly motherfucker?Roseacea is not a big deal bro. It bothers you far more than anyone else. I'm older 31 but I have it as well and yes it has good and bad days but it's permanent. Do you know who else has had roseacea? Bill Clinton and he slayed more than you or I have ever even fantasized about. By all means treat it(I dont) but in my experience people only care about it if you do. Also fix your sleep if you wake up looking like you have 2 black eyes. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/16 04:04 PM |
| 5 | "Sexual Assault" is Why I'm Endorsing Donald Trump for President of the United Statesthat's the day supreme Court legalized gay marriage in all 50 states correct? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/16 10:02 PM |
| 19 | Why does the world lie about the structure of male/female relationshipsMore than that. Women are born with intrinsic value, they are all young with vaginas at some point. They just have to not fuck it up getting huge. They project that onto men, thinking are worth is intrinsic, so any sense of self improvement is cheating/lying even though almost every man has to work hard for what he is, It doesn't translate to their lizard brain. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/16 12:42 PM |
| 7 | HumanSockPuppet's Guide to Teasing BitchesIt also shows that you are not taking them seriously, instantly putting you above them which is the natural state where their lizard brain creates lust. An obvious and playful lie can be an absolute panty dropper. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Study Says Women 77% as Productive As MenYeah that's bullshit, sounds like the feminist narrative. If you look at industries women make 70% of what men do due to holding different positions. you honestly think men and women are starting at the same pay? That Men are given a 40-50% raise and women almost nothing because of attendance? No, this bullshit is feminists looking at the medical field and getting pissed off that doctors make more than nurses. They are pushing that narrative so that eventually we can overpay women for inferior w… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/16 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Study Says Women 77% as Productive As MenI don't want to disparage here, but your example is far from ubiquitous. Women aren't paid less for doing the same job, they are paid less for holding lower positions... In my lab there are 6 men to 2 women, and those women work there asses off, and absolutely do more work then the men. Mostly because they lack prioritization skills, they think that everything is important when it's clearly not. Are these outliers? of course, but women get paid less more so for how their brain works rather than … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/16 11:05 AM |
| 1 | 10 Things That Will Fuck Up Your Life and Make You An Average Sexless Loser.I'm not into pickup at all, but regardless TRP is first and foremost sexual strategy, don't think that's ever been up for debate. It's not a self help club. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/16 06:43 AM |
| 0 | 10 Things That Will Fuck Up Your Life and Make You An Average Sexless Loser.Your missing the larger point here. If your just starting out, you need to work on your physique, your style, grooming, social network and frame. All of which will help you with women, and all of which involve investing in yourself first. If your working 60+ hours a week your handicapping yourself when that time could be better spent than a few extra bucks. Don't set yourself up for failure. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/16 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Millennials Are Poor?Don't get me wrong I think owning your own place is badass and the way to go. My point was that a vibrant housing market depends on 25-40 year Olds buying homes, and for now they still are. However as debt ridden millenials start reaching 35 in 2020 your going to see home purchases nosedive sharply except in certain urban communities. low interest rates don't mean jack if you have no capital, poor credit, or still in debt which is where that demo will be in 5 years, 10, 15. As far as suburbs I'm… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/16 06:23 AM |
| 3 | Millennials Are Poor?The housing market is going to crash in the next few years. Your right about millenials and debt. Paying off student loans till your 33 means there are no savings for a down payment. If you can't get a 30 year mortgage by 35 why would you buy? To pay it off when your 75? The milenials that are going to buy are going to do so in their 40's with 15 and 20 year mortgages or they buy in their 20s on pure debt houses they won't be able to keep. With marriage rates the way they are the suburbs are goi… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Don’t keep up with the Joneses: appearances over substanceI feel like this needs to be repeated. Americans especially have this obsession with the new, and paying full price for it. I do this with clothes. I shop at secondhand stores, I can buy 10 designer(calvin Klein and up) button downs and 5 jeans for about 60 bucks and an hour of my time. If it doesn't fit right, I donate it or throw it away. My typical outfit costs me about 10 dollars not counting shoes and I'm almost always the best dressed at work, bars, around my friends. Don't waste your mone… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/16 05:22 PM |
| 53 | HumanSockPuppet's Guide to Teasing BitchesI wanted to comment on your second point about it must be something that's obviously untrue. Women are very attracted to liars. For most women lying is their most sharply honed skill. Telling a woman an obvious lie, doesn't have to be teasing or sexual. Telling your cute office coworker that your a secret agent, the girl in the country that your a ninja or your band groupie that your a wealthy cattle rancher all work wonders as well. Men don't typically lie about themselves that way because they… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 06:05 PM |
| 0 | NYT: "Why Men Want to Marry Melanias and Raise Ivankas"-- Hmmmmm....It doesn't matter whether you are right or not. you understand that don't you? get off the Internet for awhile, go fishing, hike a mountain, go swimming whatever. Obsessing over things your powerless to change is unhealthy and leads to a victim mentality. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/16 06:07 PM |
| -2 | NYT: "Why Men Want to Marry Melanias and Raise Ivankas"-- Hmmmmm....I love my conspiracy theories as much as the next guy...honestly it's fun to believe in ghosts, aliens and the Knights templar too. This is not the time or the place...being open to outside the box frameworks may have been what brought you to The Red Pill in the first place but it's not going to get you laid. It is not a path that will lead to the uncovering of your own masculinity, nor will it provide you with self worth or self determination. Ya know, the basic tenets of happiness as prescribe… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/16 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer ConsequencesOnce again you've just opened my eyes archwinger. I never really understood when things weren't going well with my ex and I was ready to leave, all of her friends thought everything was perfect and we were banging everday. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/16 08:16 PM |
| 14 | A Very Beta Weddingexactly. a permenant once a year vacation fund. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/16 05:43 PM |
| 8 | 35% of young adult men in America now live with their parentsIve lived on my own for years and moved home a few years ago. I love it. I get to know my parents as adults, and live a high quality of life. girls don't mind, plates dont mind they usually love my old folks. The thing it made me realize is, I don't plan to marry, and don't care to cohabit....so why would I want to own a house? I mean ever. If you gave me a million dollars I wouldn't move out from my parents, what the hell would I do with a two bedroom that I live in alone? Men don't need much t… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Doesn't traditional marriage pretty much disprove 90% of redpill?As An Older Red piller with a much older dad I think an issue that's often missed here is how much things have changed for men from there grandparents generation. There was no real tv back then, no cellphones no videogames none of that crap. If you wanted electronic entertainment you listened to a story on the radio. Or maybe made a trip to the movies which was a big deal. Likewise schools weren't designed then to make boys passive consumers, they were predominantly concerned with indoctrinating… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 05:44 PM |
| 5 | [Crosspost from MGTOW] The beta thirst is realI think something that gets overlooked here is the ease of travel coupled with social media. I can go to work and have the highest SMV there. I can go a bar or a gathering and have the highest SMV. But I'm not competiting against just the men I see. I'm competiting against every man in a 20 mile radius. I don't get to observe the most successful men, you often don't get to see the behavior that nabs the girl right in front of you. No wonder most men are clueless. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 06:38 AM |
| 1 | "What's his secret?"I think that girls kinda interpret it as the equivalent of the smokes how stunner chick that never gives anyone the time of day. I've had that experience once years ago where after my oneitis stomped on my heart, I swore off all women and refused to look at or acknowledge them for maybe 6 months. keep in mind at the time I was overweight, bad skin, no style and an alcoholic. Constant IOIs everywhere. The hottest girl around was always trying to get my attention. On the subway, customers at work … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/16 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Birth controlled women significantly reduced the demand for masculine menBirth control for women does have hormonal implications for women. When a woman is ovulating, she gets tingles from genetic markers, muscles, dominance and the like. On birth control the lizard brain is providing less input, tingles are much weaker and so she chooses with her eyes, picking the most aesthetic choice instead of picking with her vagina. It's like asking a guy who the prettiest girl is after he just finished jacking off for the tenth time that day and he has no sexual interest left.… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/16 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Tips for oneitis?Yeah, I know that. What I'm asking for are tips on moving on, because I'm struggling with it. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Tips for oneitis?True. Theres alot about her that I haven't seen in the same girl in years...hard to maintain abundance when other girls don't have what I'm looking for. Still its true alot was built up in my head. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Blue pill envy....Your more than welcome to be a beta. Beta's still get laid, they have girlfriends. The problem is(and you know this internally if you examine your past relationships) that betas are never happy with their relationships, and being cheated on is a very real and constant concern. Trp is mostly about maximizing your return on investment. How to get the best sex with the least investment, and protecting yourself emotionally and legally. If that doesn't interest you that's fine, but know that your nex… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Might Be In A Jam. Married Female Coworker is After Me.I work with a lot of women. Modern corporate environment, although not as bad as some. Your mistake has been in avoiding her and ignoring the one person everyone else gives a shit about. Yea don't shit where you eat is a maxim here, but in the corporate world you need to keep your friends close and your enemies closer. You want the attractive married women to pine for you. It's work, as bored as you may get its doubled for the average woman. Let them have their eye candy and tingles, she's marri… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 06:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you be strong, silent, and mysterious yet still be an interesting conversationalist?Hmm. I still struggle with this myself. In my experience no one begins eye contact with me without me motioning for it first, unless they are already comfortable with me, or trying to threaten me. At work, walking down the hallways opposite someone I've been friends with for years, they won't say a word If I'm deadeyed forward. I have to cock my head, make eye contact first, have them come "unintentionally" across my gaze or what have you. I wouldn't recommend the inside smile as a default. You … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 08:13 AM |
| 21 | How do you be strong, silent, and mysterious yet still be an interesting conversationalist?This. Get comfortable with your body. A raised eyebrow and a single shoulder shrug can make a girl burst out in laughter and tingles if applied correctly. But remember your not a monkey using sign language flailing all over the place either. Calm, slow controlled movements. Think James Bond, he could seduce a woman by picking up his martini with his body language and eye contact. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 05:47 PM |
| 22 | How do you be strong, silent, and mysterious yet still be an interesting conversationalist?As far as looking friendly and approachable I've had the same problem. If you look like a badass smiling makes you look dumb. A tip I've found from the Charisma Myth thats been working well for me, is when Im talking to someone I imagine myself smiling in my head without actually doing it. It'll make just a subtle change in your facial muscles and eyes and so far I've noticed a big difference in the responses I'm getting, people going from cautious to open almost like flipping a switch. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Fight For The Cause!Investment cost in the individual has become intolerably high to where the individuals family must bear the full brunt of it for him to even be considered. There's a reason apprenticeships have disappeared almost entirely. It is no longer acceptable to recognize raw talent and assist with the time and resources to turn that person into a great asset. In turn we lose our mentors, our next generation of leaders. Men taught by men, to be a man. This used to be normal behavior, everywhere, everyday.… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 07:26 AM |
| 4 | Fight For The Cause!I wasn't trying to denigrate. Its a dangerous game you play when you take all hope away, a disfigured man who 60 years ago might of just been an alcoholic, petty criminal, or degenerate gambler/whorer is now just as likely to lock himself inside preparing for a murder/suicide spree. If you have never once in your life felt powerful or acknowledged, have never felt another's desire or kindness...and then you realize their is no hope? Sacrificing yourself isn't that big of a price to pay to have i… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 07:03 AM |
| 7 | Fight For The Cause!Your point is valid, but clearly this decision has been made before, a top 20% harem society can still keep up population growth, likely with superior genetics. Establishing lifelong monogamy with strict female controls benefits the middle 30-80th percentile. Making them productive for society and to give the bottom 30 hope. If your 5 points away from the threshold of a woman your still going to try, If your 55 pts away you just might kill yourself. My guess is that technologically we simply don… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 04:38 PM |
| 15 | Treat workplace women like they are invisibleGreat advice. Id say the "gentleman" vibe really depends on your company's culture. My place is pretty loose, the work is horribly boring, and employees dating is very common. Goofing off, joking around is great to break up the monotony. If your red pill, lifting and dressing well just your posture is going to make you stand out. That brunette bombshell down the hall thats happily married with two kids? She's bored as hell, she needs eye-candy too. Let her check you out, make her laugh and give … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 06:50 PM |
| 16 | "Women Don't Want The Truth™, They Want To Be Lied To"Women love liars. Telling an obvious lie, about something you have no reason to lie about creates instant tingles. Women lie constantly, ever listened to a group of women talk? Its all lies, thats how they communicate. Showing a woman you can play along in one of her favorite games is a big deal, and you can have a ton of fun with it. If you tell a girl at a bar your a secret agent, she knows immediately that your lying, but unlike a guy she will play along and prod you with questions to see how… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/15 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Men have started ill treating me except for my two best friendsI've had a similar development recently. A year ago, I was the quiet calm guy in the corner who never caused drama, but could still get laid with 5s and 6s occasionally due to good symmetry. Dozens of men have my back because I am loyal and a "good" guy. Now that I have asserted myself and come out of my shell sexually I can tell other men feel threatened. In the last 6 weeks Ive recieved threats from two different men over their girlfriends, and a third incident that got physical after he threa… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 05:35 PM |
| 4 | Craigslist ad : "A potential husband should be"Women have sex for a huge variety of reasons because women seek so much more from a relationship. Protection, resources, validation, status and securing commitment to those benefits are all legitimate reasons for a woman to have sex. But women can also enjoy sex just for the act itself, like men do. Pure animal lust is not created by the numbers in your bank account, or the names in your phone. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 05:32 PM |
| 9 | Craigslist ad : "A potential husband should be"Ohh confidence and Charisma are absolutely key. I would argue that they have a multiplying effect. But to think because of your personality it makes no difference whether your 100lbs overweight or if you have 6 pack abs is ludicrous. Sure maybe you can still pull tail, but if you think the quality you get vs. The effort you put in is the same then I have a wonderful investment opportunity for you. Unfortunately I see it becoming a more common mindset. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 05:25 PM |
| 17 | Craigslist ad : "A potential husband should be"Ive noticed this behavior among both BP men and women lately. There seems to be this universal belief that the opposite sex doesn't care about looks. Even on this sub I see people claiming looks do not count, its all attitude and frame. Fat ugly men who think women only respond to personality. They are the same as that short haired crude mouthed hambeast that thinks she deserves the alpha for her virtues of having a vagina and vulgar humor. I know too many men with the trappings of adults, a hom… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with attracted and unattractive coworker ?I'm inclined to agree although Its not very believable at my company. Co workers date all the time, her cousin is dating one. A few coworkers have gotten married after hooking up. Just a few weeks ago a new girl started and within a week was dating the guy in charge of her training. I'm honestly worried that if she takes it at face value she will quit so that we can date. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Just failed a big shit test...I thinkYeah your right. Im still not used to that level of intense attention from women I want I suppose. 2 mins in shes locked in deep eye contact, has been holding my hand and is rubbing my inner thigh with her knee. All directly in front of her man who's to busy fingerfucking his phone to introduce himself. She just kept firing off compliment after compliment, I was naturally deflecting, agreeing and amplifying then that just came out. Old instincts I guess. Still have work to do. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/15 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Just failed a big shit test...I thinkThats good advice, I do have high standards. The problem with entertaining the fatties is they expect you to take them home, that night, in like 15 mins. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/15 02:16 PM |
| 0 | Men's Wrongs in the Media: Marvel's Ant-ManHow would a woman earn my seed for free? You want to frame this however you want, but bottom line she's fucking you or somebody else. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/15 05:54 AM |
| -9 | Men's Wrongs in the Media: Marvel's Ant-ManOk I'm sure that I am in the minority on this one here. I don't have any problem with this, I haven't seen the film but as you have described the situation Im comfortable. For thousands of years men have sired bastards...genetically equal children that are outcast socially. Do men clamor and fight to find their bastards so they can lend their support? Fuck no, we pretend they don't exist for the most part, If anything we would rather not know. So You want a legitimate child? One thats born to a … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/15 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Go out alone.Your on the right path. A night out drinking shouldn't be you meeting old friends...but you going out on your own willing to create new adventures. Im a bit of a loner. But I would far prefer going to a new bar alone...I'll make new friends or I won't. Rather than bring people I know who only serve to hold me back in group frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/15 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Study shows parents prioritize daughters in tough economic timesThis is anecdotal and just based on my observations living in a very working-class area. Families here, while not poor, have to make a lot of either or decisions with money. These families also tend to be larger, having 5 or 6 kids is common enough to not think twice about it. What Ive noticed is, famalies will pay for their daughters, take out equity loans and everything else so they can go to a four year school fully paid, usually a state school 30 mins away. Do these girls live at home? No of… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Handling Plate Formation?Fair enough. As I do not have other plates at the moment I feel I need to be careful setting boundaries from the start. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Handling Plate Formation?Thank you. This is great advice, reminds me that the captain isn't just in charge of his officers, but his whole crew...and everyone else around him. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Handling Plate Formation?Its more of a frequency question. No problem saying no and just going by myself. Im more looking for trp wisdom on how much to engage when starting a new plate. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Need Alpha Male Advice!Im hardly mainstream red pill, so take this with a grain of salt. Telling your woman to not drink anything when shes explicitly going out to drink is fucking pathetic. Wedding drinking events are debacherous by nature, if she agreed to not drink she would just stay home. Your also a being butthurt about the details. Your a man your not helpless, next weekend shes tries to stick you with the kids...let her go out, but you hire a babysitter and leave the state, do what you want. Dont tell her just… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/15 11:12 PM |
| 2 | What did you ever do to deserve being called a man?Makes me think what effect the nearly constant wars the world has had until recently, played in controlling women's Hypergamy. 100 women for every 75 men makes a far more competitive environment. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/15 04:33 PM |
| 1 | For all men with high standards and little experience, try to date women you don't like.Make sure she still has a waistline if you have to bang a fatty. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/15 03:48 PM |
| 2 | The Recovering Beta's Roadmap...also, why you should game all women in your life.Thank you for this post. This is exactly what I needed to read today. I've recently come down from my honeymoon period of excitement and I have done my fair share of overgaming without rapport building and it slapped me into a rut. This is great advice on moving forward without either going monk mode or starting from the beginning rereading everything. I especially like the reminder to be fun, and the importance of building attraction in those you dont care about. I think I went too far in the a… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Can someone possibly explain the correlation between social activism and being overweight/unattractive?Fat people like to throw their weight around, I do mean that literally. They simply get used to taking up more space than other people, and translate that into a right. In my experience really heavy people are either very quiet and shy lacking any confidence. Or they are loud, obnoxious, opinionated and often bossy. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/15 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Jesus, women are just so open to cuckoldry it's not even funny!Exactly. It is a viable strategy for more than just the woman. For the Alpha he gets great sex without ever being asked for commitment. If pregnancy ensues he gets to spread his seed and have a child who will be provided for and raised in a two parent household with no drain on the Alpha's time or resources. Even the Beta benefits some by attaching his name and legacy to more attractive and genetically superior children. The problem of course is the Beta not being complicit in this arrangement, … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Fuck unicorns, let me get the best of the rest.Your treating a guideline as a commandment. Pook mentions several times that he almost exclusively gamed women he worked with. You don't know my situation or the risks involved in dating at my work place. If you have nothing constructive to add then just lurk. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Fuck unicorns, let me get the best of the rest.Fair point about the plausible deniability. Definitely not my best moment and as I already said in my post, This is where I fucked up. She wasn't upset because she doesn't like me. She got upset for putting her in that position, and she didn't want to let that conversation unfold. Out of respect for her boyfriend. To me if im not interested in you, or your not interested in me, I pay very little attention to you. I work with alot of people, we work in seperately but adjoining departments. I see … | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Birth control influences women to choose different partners.I would argue that when women become pregnant and have a baby they typically become disgusted with their man and begin seeking AF. They hate their man because of the constant 9 month+ supplication. He probably didn't stand up to her once during after pregnancy. Also her now far less attractive body? That's his fault too, he did this to her. Now shes a mother, responsible for another life. Her days are boring, shes lost respect and attraction to her man and shes very aware of just how rapidly the… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 04:11 PM |
| 27 | [FR]: You only exist to women if they want something from youAlthough I don't disagree with your conclusions, I think you may be reading too much into this. Put yourself in the shoes of the person recieving your invitations to catch up. As a guy, ohh shit my old buddy wants to grab a beer. I should do that. As a female, hmmm one of my old orbiters wants to get together for drinks? A. Im in the market for new dick and he's gotten really hot based on his profile pics...sure hell yeah. B. I have good dick/provider and this guy who always had a crush on me bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Date the hottest woman you can HANDLEI couldn't agree more. I'm currently still in monk mode and struggling to create best habits, so I've cut women out for the moment. That said however there are these 3 young hotties I know. All 3 have pretty faces, are skinny with very nice racks, and all three have a ridiculously amazing ass. Great pornstar bodies, 8.5s basically, aged 21, 22 and 23. All three have boyfriends, yet all three have made it clear they want to fuck/branch swing to me. 21 is short and petite, the one im most attracte… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 05:35 PM |
| 2 | "I wanted to cry on his shoulder, not the other way around."I agree that for the most part being stoic is the best choice. However I do feel anger has a place, and should not always be pushed aside. Not a tantrum or violent outburst, but a tempered and controlled seething still has a place in my life. Not sure what it does for the triangles. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Being a BB is not just about the money.I think these criteria are more central to BB than money. Its the supplication that kills attraction, the money will just keep them around when they don't want to fuck anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Ridiculously good looking problems.This is something I personally need to work on. My biggest problem is Im a loner who genuinely doesn't like most people. Im very stoic and have a calm idgaf attitude. Ive become very comfortable with myself, but how do you make others comfortable with you when its clear those social interactions are meaningless to you? I hadn't realized it before, Alpha type men tend to show me respect, but the hostility from beta men is palpable. So far I've just ignored it, who wants approval or friendships wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 05:58 PM |
| 6 | Women are not the enemyShe is just temporary. Everyone is, your friends, your co-workers, your parents and siblings...even your children will leave you at the first opportunity. The only person who is even capable of permanence is you. It may not be convenient but it is true. You better learn to love, and be comfortable only loving yourself. After that, not before is when you are meant to bring others into your world. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 04:49 AM |
| 52 | Women are not the enemyI think its important to understand that any meaningful relationship can only end in heartbreak or death for one or both partners. Knowing that going into a relationship, that is the price of admission and you will never know when the bill comes due. As long as you come to terms with that and find it an acceptable price I have no problems with a LTR. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 07:33 PM |
| 4 | Empathy is reserved for men already doing well.Not trying to answer for OP, but ive similarly had some big results in a short period of time. I think it may be age related. If your under 25 your smv has a ceiling because of your age. Im 29 and started reading trp a few months back. Just starting monk mode and its been night and day. Frame, body language and an assertive unflinching attitude will catapult both men and women's respect for you. So much of the material here is about becoming a real Man. If your 20 years old you cant be one, your… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Read the red pill, now I am Angry at everythingListen, I swallowed the pill before you, but at a later age than you are. It blows but I am thankful. I thought I was years past my anger phase, and then today I decided to reread "manipulated man" by Esther Vilar today while I was at work. I generally love my job and love my coworkers, and It took me a while to figure out I was in such a nasty condescending mood towards everyone because of what I had been reading on my breaks. It's an important read, and one that I think is required, but the sh… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/15 06:35 AM |
| 0 | How to Profit from "Cuckolding"Thanks for the informative post. Its hard to find good information on what some of the real tangible side benefits are of being a stud. Its too bad this seems so controversial, I found it useful and would like to see more material like this here. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 04:57 PM |
| -4 | Gay men vs Feminism: An unexpected ally"Homophobia" isn't as much about fear or prejudice as you think it is. If I'm a 7, I don't want female friends hanging around me who are 3's and 4's. I wouldn't fuck them if I was blackout drunk, in fact I would consider it rape if a 3 managed to sleep with me. As a gay man, you are automatically a 0. I can build a strong male relationship as a 7, with another male who is a 2, by mentoring and educating him. I don't have to be afraid to share my knowledge and experience. If I did that with a fem… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/15 06:54 AM |
| 1 | I am really starting to wonder why I want women around me other than to have sex with them.I'm no redpill expert, I'm relatively new here after spending years MGOTW trying to figure my own shit out. However after digesting the material I think women are more useful than I had previously thought. Yeah women aren't your equals, they will never be your perfect compliment or soulmate, but you already knew that, deep down. Women are great for all of the menial constant tasks we have to perform, and they don't mind doing them because it's close to their mental level anyway. Think of all the… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 05:38 AM |
| 3 | What are women good for? [Serious]I think nurturing can be looked at two ways, trying to help someone through a difficult issue(weakness), or encouragement and support to aid you on a strength. The first kind women hate, the second kind can be really pleasant. My friends new girl, knows he works hard, she shows up to his work everyday with something she cooked herself to give him on his break. A male friend would never do that. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 12:49 AM |
| 16 | Treating Women Like DogsThis made me laugh. When my ex was being overly dramatic I used to either take her for a walk, or down to the park to toss a frisbee. Never knew why it worked but it always calmed her down. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 05:18 PM |
| 1 | TRP shower thought: Women's advice to "just be yourself" is probably the most self-serving advice of all time.I think its genuinely honest advice actually. Since women dont have to put in the blood sweat and tears just to figure out who they are this makes sense to me. They do want males to just be themselves, and thats certainly what top alphas do. What they dont realize is that they want a man whose been fully actualized, someone who knows exactly who he is, whose reached most of his potential, to be honest and direct. If you've let your body go, forgotten your passions, hold your tongue and dont expr… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Beta, sexless man from /r/deadbedrooms accidentally discovers dread game and, big surprise, it's working.I agree with everything you said, except the 3 time minimum. Too low you can do that in one day. If your living together in a committed relationship, i'd go with a 7-10 time minimum. Also knocking out girls with my dick is a pretty amazing feeling. That should be the goal every time you hit it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Race whining is awful but I don't think we should snub all discussions about race involving attraction and sexual strategy.I think a lot of it is cultural. I live in a rural northern mostly white part of the world. The main professions for men are the military, prisons, the trades or drug dealing. The women either work in the hospitals, are social workers or welfare queens. Men are expected to be large here, your expected to do almost all of your house and car repairs, to cut down trees and chop them up for firewood, to hunt and fish for food. Alot of the young women leave, if they can go to college, they do and don… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Beta bf who almost got cuckolded by Mario Balotelli mistakenly thinks he can negotiate attraction by publicly outing his gf into not cheating on himnot saying I would give a free pass to a girl that did this. Fuck off see ya later. I was just saying having a girl cheat on you with a far higher SMV guy isn't that surprising. It is what it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/15 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Flat share with a girl?It's definitely possible although it can get complicated. The trick is you have to go in day one thinking of her as untouchable pussy. She's your cousin, or your half sister that you never knew growing up. You can't try to game her, she's your fucking roommate. That said it doesn't really matter to them how many girls you bring home, unless she's a fat ugly feminist she won't get butt-hurt about it. A man would be a preferable roommate, but I'll take a normal looking female over a betabux anyday… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/15 05:43 PM |
| -3 | Beta bf who almost got cuckolded by Mario Balotelli mistakenly thinks he can negotiate attraction by publicly outing his gf into not cheating on himI don't think this is that hard to understand. If Jessica Biel reached out to me via facebook, wanting to spread her legs for me. I would bang her and expect my girl to understand, hey it's Jessica fucking Biel, I get a free pass on that one. Makes me wonder though, dating a girl with an active instagram page would be a red flag/I'm going to deal with hotter guys wanting to bang my girl all the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/15 05:29 PM |
| 3 | The Hierarchy of WomenThere is no perfect woman. But there are plenty of beautiful 18-20 year old virgins, who for religious reasons have been raised to want nothing more than an old school marriage where they stay home, cook, clean and have babies. Divorce is not an option for these women since they would be ostracized from their large extended families. They dont care if their husband is older than them, and you dont have to be religious to marry them. Oh and they will work if they feel they need to, but they won't… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 05:17 PM |
| 18 | Just Say “No Thanks” To The Friend-ZoneYou can take it a step further as well. Whenever a girl suggests to me that were friends, or should be friends my answer is always "No. I cant be friends with any woman unless I have already slept with her." | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Living with dad for a semester... Seems to be a huge turnoff and I lack logistics. What do I do?Living with your parents isn't really a big deal. Lots of young people do so. Extended famalies are becoming common ( In the US anyway). Dont make a big deal about that said...going into monk mode isn't a bad idea, just dont let a good opportunity pass you by because your worried about your living situation. | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 05:35 PM |
| 3 | If men are attracted to breasts and butt in a woman, then what do women look for in a man?In my experience, men tend to focus more on individual traits. I can find a girl smoking hot if she has a great rack or ass, regardless of everything else. Girls tend to be more wide eyed and peripheral. They look at your eyes hair teeth shoulders back chest abs forearms hands ass thighs cock and feet. But their really looking at how your put together as a whole more so than any particular trait the way men do. | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Turning hot girls downI'm not saying this is your problem, but I have a friend who has a similar issue. He's an attractive guy, always smiling and having fun, he has no problem approaching the hottest girl in the room and immediately engaging with her, making her laugh, touching her all the rest. All of his stuff works, the problem is, once it starts working really well, he thinks the girls are easy, or slutty, and he is done, immediately shuts them off and moves on. I don't believe he is a practitioner of game, he d… | /r/seduction | 02/12/14 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Going from a HB9.5 to picking up girls not as attractiveInteresting thought. When I go out I use a simple yes, no system. As in yes I would take them home tonight or no I wouldn't. The zero one thing makes even more sense, since I still tend to qualify the yes girls in order of magnitude. | /r/seduction | 29/11/14 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Unsure about my motives + reasons behind getting into this....I need help! :OMy advice, is since your coming into this as a virign, and seem to have zero confidence with women, which is fine. Is to check out the best of side of Seduction, ignore all the PUA stuff completely, only read the inner game material, check out some links to others sites you find there, and read their inner game material. Work out, eat right and start trying to figure out a personal style for yourself that you enjoy. Spend six months working on yourself, you don't ever have to approach or even ta… | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 08:10 AM |
| 3 | I have a problem with becoming complacent after I've hooked a girl.Complacent as in you don't care about a girl very much after you've hooked up? Yeah as I've become older, I tend to put less effort in, focus more on myself, and have a lot less tolerance for the BS girls love to pull. I think of it as in improvement myself, I'm not going to sacrifice myself for someone else, I'm going to do whatever I can for myself, and others are welcome for the ride. | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Having problems beeing an AlphaIf you have recently come out of your shell, being more social, telling jokes more this is normal. There was a post on this subreddit recently about a "lag" time between progress being made, and becoming comfortable accepting it and embracing and being yourself within that role, despite the positive feedback. I'm personally going through this with my male friends. I'm 29 years old, and I'm generally a loner, I float between various other groups, all of whom are centered on one Alpha male. Recent… | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 07:52 AM |
| 3 | Having problems beeing an AlphaBottom line, your 18, and you have no fucking clue. I sure didn't at 18, I didn't know what I liked, what I loved, what my passions were, what parts of me I wanted to improve or enhance or what I was proud of. By definition, you can't be full Alpha as an 18 year old...your still a kid growing into yourself, a lot of this advice is about being a man, an adult. Don't worry about it it's going to take time. A common mistake I'm seeing is people focusing on the big picture instead of the details. Th… | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 07:23 AM |
| 2 | How do you efficiently use a wingwoman?Honestly wing women are a lot tougher if you've never slept with them. I'd take a HB6 that I've fooled around with and shown a great time too, over an HB8.5 that I've never messed around with. Other women can tell and will gauge the woman for what you can do in bed. In your situation, she shouldn't really need to do anything, just hang out and talk to you, spend the first ten minutes with you, you both wander and mingle, and she comes back to you regardless of what guy approaches her, that alone… | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 07:07 AM |
| 4 | Girls are not my priority, I feel like this harms my game more than anything else.Theres nothing wrong with your approach. Do what you want to do, if you happen to meet girls while your doing your thing, and they want to join in your activities fine. You shouldn't sacrifice your passions to spend more time with women. | /r/seduction | 24/11/14 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Where and with who to try out my recently acquired skills?I do this at my job, since I work with alot of women of varying ages and attractiveness. I talk and lightly flirt with the cute ones, the fat ones, the old ladies and the smokeshow. No need to be nervous because im not interested in dating a coworker, I dont care if they want me or not, im just being friendly and enjoying myself. If I have a good fun day at work, its like turning on easy mode for pickup after that. | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 05:48 PM |
| 6 | Where and with who to try out my recently acquired skills?Women that you see around often and dont want to ask out are great practice. Yeah your not trying to close, but you can still work on your body language, humor, abundance, and become comfortable talking to the hottest girl around, all without the pressure of trying to escalate, because you dont want to. | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Best places to go out when alone?Dive bar would be my first choice. There's usually two within close vicinity, one where people fight alot, you want the other one. Dives aren't very clicky, its normal to mingle and talk to anyone. Good for making friends as well as meeting girls. | /r/seduction | 18/11/14 06:18 PM |
| 2 | [FR] not typical, still proud.One of them is a coke dealer who's done time, the second is an ex con who spent over 10 years in federal prison, the third is a prison guard at maximum security prison. I have personally seen all three of them whip some serious ass, and the smallest one has 50lbs on me. They aren't friends with each other, in fact they don't particularly like each other, but they are all friends with me. | /r/seduction | 16/11/14 08:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] not typical, still proud.It's a subtle difference I know. That would have been normal. That's what happened in the past, this was different. They made me the center of attention, I didn't ask for it. I was sitting there by myself, and then suddenly there was a beautiful girlfriend sitting to me left, and attractive wife on my right, and three men I respect behind me, all 5 trying to engage with me, not each other. For me, this subreddit is more about self improvement, raising my value in the eyes of both men and women, … | /r/seduction | 16/11/14 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor Locator 2014. Find awesome buddies for sarging!Northern Worcester county. | /r/seduction | 16/11/14 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you, personally, qualify girls?Agreed both are viable, but dog person is definitely preffered over cat. | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 05:48 PM |
| 4 | How do you, personally, qualify girls?I assume your not talking about one night stands. Physical aside, that goes for personal preference, there are several things I personally look for aka green flags to see if shes worth keeping around. Bisexuality is definitely a good green flag, shows shes a sexual open-minded person, and open to a not purely monogamous relationship. Its pretty easy to figure out especially after you've slept together. Make a comment about another beautiful woman or ask her opinion on a girl. Its also a good sta… | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Two part question on older womenOlder women are great. They are discreet, and just looking for a good lay in general. They've been around the game long enough that there isn't too much drama. They are also alot more experienced sexually and are more comfortable with themselves in my opinion Things to look out for...if your meeting them out at bars, odds are many of these Older women are married. Some will absolutely still bang you, others are just looking for an ego boost, trying to prove that they still got it and could pull … | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Being Too Confident...becomes Cocky?Don't tone down your confidence, sounds to me like your flirting too much, try to being that down, talk instead of flirting, let your confident body language and smile do the seducing for you. | /r/seduction | 10/11/14 06:11 PM |
| 74 | Anyone here who *didn't* grow up being social and mingling with girls (i.e. hard-mode seduction)?I think this is the vast majority of this sub...If you grew up being social and mingling you likely have been getting decent results your whole life, so why bother looking into it? The good news is, this stuff actually does work, it takes time, more the further back you are, but eventually you will be pulling threesomes, first night fuck closes like it's just another tuesday. | /r/seduction | 10/11/14 07:42 AM |
| 3 | Should you compete for a girl?Personally, I would join in, make my presence known, flirt for a second then walk away to go do something more interesting. Lets her know that your there, that your interested, but your not going to waste your time competing with these men, that you'd rather enjoy yourself and have fun. Ideally, you will have her coming up to you later, if not, every other girl in the room watched you introduce yourself and then dismiss her, and will be intrigued. | /r/seduction | 10/11/14 01:26 AM |
| 2 | One day, you'll go from a zero to a heroThe comment about whether the girl likes you or not hits home for me. A lot of the comments on this site are to assume interest until proven otherwise. Which is fine but it doesn't go far enough, still looking for her approval. I liken It to a job interview, where getting the job is getting a girlfriend. Im transitioning from the mindset of being the guy going into the interview, having to justify my qualifications and prove my worth, to being the guy conducting the interview. | /r/seduction | 08/11/14 11:22 PM |
| 14 | Girls are likely MORE nervous than you. Even the hot ones.A general rule. The hotter a woman is, the more insecure she is. If you see a perfect ten. Is she confident and secure, if she spent an hour on her makeup, another on her hair, another hour on her clothing, and an hour earlier on her daily workout routine? Shes the hottest woman in the room because she is so concerned about men finding her attractive. . .add in the lack of attention she gets because men write her off as out of their leauge. Often a hb10 is less self assured than your average hb6… | /r/seduction | 08/11/14 11:12 PM |
| 1 | What do you do to encourage repeat business with girls?Orgasms...seriously though if she doesn't have better sex with you the first time, than what she is currently used to, she has no reason to come back. Stay your calm confident sexy self. Dont treat her special afterwards or make a big deal out of the mind blowing sex you had. Also I think its important to be discreet. Women dont want to get a reputation. That cute girl you took home from the bar might have a boyfriend or an ex, a new relationship interest or coworker that doesn't need to hear th… | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, I'm DTF tonight. What should I do?Signalling that your DTF is what most guys do...and its the quickest way to not get laid | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Learning From My Mistake [For ANYONE getting friendzoned/Oneitis]So you've taken her down off of that pedestal, and now that your treating her as an equal, your wondering why you were so interested in the first place, you can't find a reason other than you want to have sex with her. Great progress. | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Learning From My Mistake [For ANYONE getting friendzoned/Oneitis]Just something to think about. You dont have to change your mindset that you can no longer have female friends. I have many more female friends then I used to, but they fit exclusively into two groups. Women im not sexually attracted to, or women ive already slept with. There are lots of cool interesting attractive women out there that may not be a good fit for a relationship. Having sex, especially if its good, gets the tension out of the way and makes for a much better friendship. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Learning From My Mistake [For ANYONE getting friendzoned/Oneitis]great feedback...This is an important early step. If a girl that your romantically interested in, gives you any sort of response that makes you commit to the friend-zone, that's what you will forever be in. The only correct response, is to reply that you have enough friends(idc if it's a teddybear) That you don't think of her that way, you would rather lose her forever than be friendzoned. The fucked up thing, is that only when you are willing to toss a beautiful woman aside, that is when they w… | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 08:02 AM |
| -1 | How To Be More Physically Attractive In 6 Unusual Steps (really)great article.. Just wanted to point out I'm a man with BO issues, I used to smoke cigarettes, now I smoke a pipe. I don't wear cologne, but the smoke mixing with my natural smell seams to be attractive. It also a solid in, with any girl with grand-daddy issues...which is almost all of them. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 07:48 AM |
| 8 | Something a Female Friend Told MeAgreed I had this work recently as well. Was out at the bar and it was closing time, this heavy chick that was in a group of people I was talking to inside was hanging around me while I smoked. I didn't care whether she said yes or no. Just told her, "hey I'm going home, you want to come over and give me a blowjob? She couldn't say yes fast enough. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 04:37 AM |
| 1 | I have a decent build and I'm healthy. Is it worth it to get ripped?Being in shape makes you more attractive, confident, improves your body language, posture etc. Its pretty basic that it will get more girls attracted to you and allow you to get more attractive women. | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 06:25 PM |
| 18 | Something a Female Friend Told MeSaying what you want and asking for permission are two separate things. | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 06:18 PM |
| 73 | Something a Female Friend Told MeYep. A man is expected to be clear, concise and direct. | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 06:17 PM |
| 1 | women systematically break up with me after making outIm kinda new to seduction myself so im definitely no expert. One thing I have been noticing, is that escalation is pretty much mandatory. Its expected that when you've been given the propper opening that you go for it. Its her job to say no, maybe another night. Not escalating when making out is a huge red flag for girls, and will send them running. From their point of view, your either terrible in bed, have no confidence in yourself, are dealing with major issues, or you dont find her attractiv… | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How much of a difference will bulking up make?Working out will make your face more attractive. You dont have to get bulky either...even if you stay the same size but get cut it will help. The skin tightens up, and your cheekbones and Jawline become more pronounced. Also more definition will show in your neck, and trust me necks can be very sexy. Also where did you hear that only the face matters and women dont care about the body? That hasn't been my experience at all, and being in shape means better performance in bed and more fun for you. | /r/seduction | 29/10/14 05:44 PM |
| 2 | I can get laid. I can't get laid twice.Best guess is your making it weird for them by opening up in the morning after. Your too concerned with what they think of you. The morning after...keep it casual, take them out for breakfast and move on with whatever you have to do for the day. You shouldn't be treating women any differently after you have sex with them than you did before. If you do your just letting them know you were faking it before just to sleep with them...not good. If you want sex to not be a big deal, dont make a big de… | /r/seduction | 28/10/14 06:44 PM |
| 1 | 1 month into seduction, status updateHonestly I don't think so, I think I look good, but I've been putting in effort to how I look for over a year, and last month started with some of the seduction strategies I learned here. 2 years ago, when I didn't care? Hell I still have a beer gut, but I was fat had pimples all over my face and a neckbeard. looks aren't really genetic for men, more like a diary of your experiences. | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 11:37 PM |
| 1 | 1 month into seduction, status updategood for you. It's not talking to every single person, it's more if you pass by someone you know, instead of a head nod or whatever, it's making sure you say hi every single time, ask them how their day is, and keep going. The more people you interact with, the easier it gets for that day, for that hour regardless of the person your talking to. | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 11:32 PM |
| 1 | 1 month into seduction, status updategood for you. It's not talking to every single person, it's more if you pass by someone you know, instead of a head nod or whatever, it's making sure you say hi every single time, ask them how their day is, and keep going. The more people you interact with, the easier it gets for that day, for that hour regardless of the person your talking to. | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 11:32 PM |
| 2 | 1 month into seduction, status updateIt's actually a catholic day care center for battered children. | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 11:29 PM |
| 4 | K-close girl on party, F-Close on 1st dateThis...plus the whole making her wait 2 hours for sex is a big red flag for her especially when you then claim your too tired. A girl you've already kissed and established that connection with...like you said she couldn't say yes fast enough when you asked her to come home, meaning she had already been waiting too long, you should've ripped her clothes off the second you closed the door. | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 06:48 PM |
| 1 | 1 month into seduction, status updateI posted a link to the guide I read in one of the other comments. | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 07:42 PM |
| 1 | 1 month into seduction, status updateThanks bro, the whole thing is a process, just have to stay motivated and stay with it. | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 07:40 PM |
| 1 | 1 month into seduction, status updatebest of seddit posts mostly | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 07:38 PM |
| 2 | 1 month into seduction, status updateI try to walk around with just a half smirk on my face, turning to grin, turning to full smile depending on how other peoples faces react. Always try to have a slightly more expressive smile than the person your talking to, if they match yours, escalate. | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 07:37 PM |
| 4 | 1 month into seduction, status updateI already had a good amount of muscle, just haven't worked out at all in almost a year, so starting up again has given me good results and fixing my alignment posture goes a long way I think. Mostly it was just putting myself out there, and the confidence that has been coming from the results of that. | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 07:32 PM |
| 2 | 1 month into seduction, status updateI live in new england, yeah it's cold, but I think manning up is important, I don't walk any faster just because it's raining or it's cold outside, it's not a big deal. | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 07:27 PM |
| 2 | 1 month into seduction, status updateNot as good, you look like a bouncer instead of looking like a boss. | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 07:26 PM |
| 2 | 1 month into seduction, status updatehttp://www.girlschase.com/content/how-have-sexy-walk-drives-women-nuts this is what I read and used a few days back. | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 07:20 PM |
| 2 | 1 month into seduction, status updateYeah not my idea, never been with a married woman before. The best I can describe it is, when you honestly and genuinely don't care if you ever talk or speak to that woman, she will pick up on it, your not trying to get her attention at all. She'll wonder what makes you so special, especially if she's hot and used to lots of male attention, why your above her, why she isn't anything worth paying attention to from you. Now If I happen to in whatever else I'm doing pass by while I'm heading to the… | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 07:14 PM |
| 9 | 1 month into seduction, status updateI workout everyday before work, within the first hour of waking up I always make sure I do a few sets, gets the blood flowing and helps with posture, confidence. I'm also one of those lucky fucks that puts on muscle very quickly. I work on posture, head back, almost tilted back, chest pointed up, legs apart, arm movement. It work the same when sitting or walking, take up as much space as you can while also being as calm and relaxed as possible. I'm doing everything slower, constantly slow down e… | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 07:08 PM |
| 3 | 1 month into seduction, status updateI've always considered myself above average looking, but nothing too special. I forgot to mention in my post that I also started working out everyday, nothing crazy but a good 15-20 min workout to get the bloodflowing and enough to be sore the next day. Last week a girl at the bar approached me by saying I look like james franco from the side. I'm shorter and stockier than that, but my beard does grow similar to franco's. I've also gotten russel crowe and gerard butler in the past. So something … | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 06:35 PM |
| 7 | Gaming in college without a social circle.Just happy I could be of help. Hope it goes well for you, if it doesn't believe me when I say you will learn a ton regardless, about people, relationships, and yourself. The most important thing is to never retract, you have a penis, just put yourself out there. | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 06:00 AM |
| 50 | Gaming in college without a social circle.Your only there for a year, you dont weekend there or plan on making any lasting friendships. This might be one of the best opportunities for day game you'll ever get. Your reputation will be irrelevant shortly after you get one. Won't ever happen again once your working, or where your living for the next ten years, regardless of how populous it is. Just hang out and go for it. In my experience in smaller closer knit communities day game is more effective because Its rarer and more ballsy. Guys … | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 04:08 AM |
| 1 | While in Korea I learned a neat trickThis is pretty much my game here in the states. I live in a rural area where everyone pretty much knows everyone (except me). Any single girl out at the bar will likely have at least a male cousin present, even if they dont speak or acknowledge each other. I show up, talk to my male friends, their girlfriends or wives and just have fun and laugh a lot. 9 times out of 10 I get approached by the hottest girl at the bar. Another tip, if a woman enters your zone, interact with her regardless of whet… | /r/seduction | 20/10/14 05:06 PM |
| 2 | [Mini-FR] I friendzoned a virginSounds pretty typical to me, although most these women don't have the discipline to last this long. If you feel you've found a keeper, then you probably have. I once had a girlfriend make me wait 2 months before actual penetration.(slut before that, and I saw her every day) Totally worth it, putting in the time to show your not all about instant gratification with sex will net you hundreds of hours of amazing mind-blowing sex. FYI in my experience all women have emotional issues, single, married… | /r/seduction | 18/10/14 08:59 AM |
| 1 | The Curse of the Wingman?No expert here. Just my 2c. Race may be a factor. Especially in a place like Georgia, being white is seen as higher status, so if the two of you are equal in all other respects, your buddy may be seen as having higher value, giving him the edge. Think of it like if meet two hb9 s that both want to home with me, ones a blonde and the others Asian. Im taking the asian girl home every time. The hb9 blonde is still a smokeshow, but the asian is much rarer out where I live. But my best guess is somet… | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 04:11 PM |
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