Hey everyone, I came across this sub a little over a month ago, starting reading the best of posts, and checking out a lot of the articles that are linked to from here. What really connected with me is the inner game material, as opposed to the PUA tactical stuff, which is not my style.

Anyway for the past month, Ive been focusing a lot on my inner game, body posture, body language, smile, and tonality stuff and just talking to lots of people. I'm not trying to pick anyone up, haven't asked anyone for their number, just focusing on myself and building myself up until I feel I'm ready.

It's definitely working, I get checked out a lot around town, all the women at work are always looking and smiling at me(I work with about 60 people, half women) and when I go out to a bar, women are approaching me and introducing themselves.

2 months ago, none of this was the case, and honestly I was starting to get depressed because I've had very minimal success over the past year and was honestly of the mindset that I wasn't capable of landing a girl that was actually pretty enough for me to have any interest in.

So last night I head to the bar after work(I work second shift) and a girl from work whom I'm very friendly with showed up as well. Shes married and has a kid and just recently moved to town, so I go over and talk to her since she doesn't know anyone else there.

She's asking me all about what kind of girls I like, what my hobbies are outside of work, and tells me that she thinks I'm the hottest guy at work.

At the end of the night, before were both leaving to go home, she actually told me I have to stop being so distracting at work. She said I need to stop wearing nice clothes, stop smiling and talking to her, and stop walking the way that I do because it's interfering with her work.

She said that the other day, after passing me in the hall she was so lost that our boss came over to check on her make sure she was alright, she told she just needed a minute.

I've never had a compliment like that in my entire life, and I can't believe how much has changed for me in just a single month. Hell I only started working on my walking posture two days ago and she even mentioned it. Just wanted to say thank you everyone, this stuff really does work, even better than I had imagined. Keep it up.