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This is like Twitter for social reject women leave us alone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:33 PM

I've seen worse. Meth is a hell of a drug lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:40 PM
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No wonder it's all about looks now tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:22 PM
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All men have to offer is good dick. There, I said it. Men are usually useless financially, emotionally, and in whatever other possible ways there are to be in a relationship. "Hurr durr you're after moneybags" first of all no. I am not a class traitor. Dick is the only thing of value men can bring to the table. Just my 2 cents
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:50 PM
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People usually accept what they believe they’re allowed to have. Me in every facet of life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:06 PM
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I am still processing the last year or so and dreading the holidays. But I'm still making shmoney so it's all good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:55 PM
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I still believe men have an innate higher status than women in the hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:27 PM
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No I actually think what you're feeling is contempt. It's women who are bitter and resentful of men from what I can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:17 PM
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I think empathy is a buzzword online people use to get their way primarily. Either gender does this as well. To them, empathy = I deserve to get away with my bad behavior because MUH TRAUMATIC PAST Like bitch tf. I have diagnosed PTSD and I don't expect people to like me or care about me at all. Gives off big ego energy imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:15 PM
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Common psychology concept summed up: Resentment is directed at people with perceived higher status; anger is directed at people with perceived equal status; contempt is directed at people with perceived lower status. Anger and hatred are interchangeable in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:09 PM
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Anecdotal examples are worthless and you appear to be set in your ways so no thanks, I will not attempt to change your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:04 PM
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And yet manosphere guys hear a bad story about women and instantly it's AWALT. "Don't lump us in with Chad!!!" fart noises
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:02 PM
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I dont think mentioning looks or attractiveness as a natural product of conversation is banned but maybe I'm wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:00 PM
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No they are saying they feel contempt which implies they see women as beneath them in either the social hierarchy, as a product of nature, or some weird nebulous moral bullshit sense of the word. Hatred implies equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:58 PM
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What's the L word? Also a lot of girls I knew dated felons and high school dropouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:36 PM
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Well I'm not fully back to being a Marxist, it's a process, but they are exploiting private property at the expense of regular working people. Driving prices up while providing essentially nothing of value
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:21 PM
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I never said they are accurate or not. They very well could have some truth to them, given we live in a neoliberal capitalist hellhole.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:11 PM
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I decided against it. I might regret it later maybe or maybe I'll forget about it, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:07 PM
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Knowing the government they'll probably tax it heavily and make the payments so low they aren't even worth it. Then bump up inflation by printing trillions extra to devalue the debt they went in paying off lonely guys who didn't get asked to the Sadie Hawkins dance in middle/high school. The governments mo is "ugh, we have to help people? We need to make it a rip off so they stop asking for more"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:03 PM
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It depends on what type of person you are going for. If you're after working class types you don't even need a high school diploma. Just do grunt work all day and you'll find someone on your economic level to struggle with. If you're aiming for middle class or above you need at least community College or useful job training. And even that's not a guarantee... But that's more general life improvement not really improving JUST to get with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:58 PM
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Wow that would be a deep scar. I'd never trust men again in her shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:54 PM
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Ultra masculine way to turn free market capitalism into having something to do with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:52 PM
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Some guys like women with short hair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:24 PM
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30? Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:24 PM
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I'm not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:23 PM
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But I really need to pick up something after work idk if I can put it off for 3 hours wah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:01 PM
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I just can't make up my mind if I really want less than 60 dollars more. I don't know if it would make a difference in hitting my savings goal. I'm torn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:00 PM
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I support draft dodgers btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:58 PM
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I missed out on my opportunity to get dicked down by hot, sweaty Brazilians. WHAT AM I GONNA DO????????? Nah, I prefer shitposting on reddit. I'd never travel anywhere lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:57 PM
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I think in response to the TikTok he should push her down the stairs or perhaps in front of a locomotive, preferably a train.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:55 PM
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I can do that thing he did where he tried making restaurant staff uncomfortable with his bad jokes. You know as part of his method acting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:51 PM
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I need to get "damaged" tattooed on my forehead so I can be like the Jared Leto joker
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:46 PM

Disagree. There was further stratification based on social status, caste, what your job/role was, and gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:45 PM
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Debating taking on 3 additional hours at my amazon shift today. 3 hours is a long time though...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:43 PM
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0% bodyfat is impossible. And yes in terms of SMV not being fat makes my value different from theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:32 PM
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Stop whining
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:31 PM

Honestly we need more violence and protests.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:29 AM

I've heard lesbians on dating apps behave the same way straight women do. Too selective, won't give you a chance etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:21 AM

No I've dated a woman as a woman though. Pretty similar dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:17 AM

No it also promotes this hyper individualistic viewpoint where you have to become better than other guys to get women. Its definitely a byproduct of capitalism in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:27 AM

The whole point of the red pill is trying to beat other men at almost any cost. It also promotes acquiring as much wealth as possible. Theres no class solidarity there at all. And they also don't really think highly of women either. Seems like a bummer to be isolated like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:22 AM

That's not emotional that's being a Marxist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:14 AM

I think thinking of your spouse as an employee and you as their bourgeois master suggests an exploitative relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:54 AM

And yet manosphere guys have no class solidarity. Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:52 AM

I don't care if I am nitpicking, I just say the first thing that comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:10 AM

Is a spouse the same as an employee?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:46 AM

Should marriages last 6 months instead
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:42 AM

It could be worse but it's not looking good. Recessed temples can be pulled off reasonably well but it looks like the front of his hairline is receding as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:09 AM

Yeah well they might last my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:08 AM

I dont struggle with the idea of good things being impermanent but it's a lot harder for me to believe bad things are not permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:44 AM

My parents are still together after over 30 years so even if my mom stopped liking my dad she still stuck with him. I am guessing that having a lull in interest in your spouse is a common but not really talked about phenomenon. At the end of the day people can and do still decide to stay. Whether that's out of convenience or whatever, I don't know. Plenty of marriages last longer than 4-7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:41 AM

People don't like people who are different from them, and since being racist is a huge no no, sexism is a lot more acceptable. So you can take out your frustrations in life on other people who are different but not the wrong kind of different ykwim
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:33 AM

I don't interact with that many people on the day to day, I only have to call a couple people per day and sometimes drive to a place to take photos and notes. The vast majority of my day is sitting at my desk waiting to be called/emailed back. If I worked customer service I would have to deal with angry people right? And I'd have to take calls all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:31 AM

Some guys handle it pretty well in my experience. The ones who don't will usually move on when they get a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:13 AM

I cant find a job like that. Insurance call centers want people back in the office and they're in Idaho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:08 AM

Yes I will need to reference kropotkin in my leftist analysis of the dating market as well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:59 PM

I actually have a ton of shit to get updated/informed about. I took a very extensive break from this stuff after the last election
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:57 PM

I can feel the Marxism coming back into my soul. Probs gonna hop on leftist Twitter to read overly verbose memes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:51 PM
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I still have class solidarity with my fellow proletarians so I've never sought out a wealthy man. I feel as though that would make me a class traitor. So I am fine with men who make around the same as I do, which is not a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:49 PM
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I just find these upper middle class women complaining they can't find a guy richer than them irritating. So many thinkpieces about these poor wealthy women unable to find prince charming making 200k per year. Spoiled brats.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:47 PM
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Low key
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:41 PM
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I don't think it's that simple. Most young women want a guy who makes a lot more than them, yet most of them don't end up with a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:08 PM
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High wealth people don't go to college? I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:00 PM
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I think in college and on tinder those guys are fucking high n women on the down low.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:57 PM
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Like what percentile of earners are you talking about? I was thinking top 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:53 PM
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5
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:49 PM
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No I thought guys will sleep with slutty women but won't want to date her. So she can fuck rich and poor guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:43 PM
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I'm just explaining the female/my perspective you don't have to relate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:39 PM
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No poor guys care too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:36 PM
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I think they mostly focus on women who are physically attractive. Other women basically don't exist to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:33 PM
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Yeah thats what they say. But when I was at my lowest bmi 17.4 I wasn't fielding offers from 6 figure earners. Rich guys date women of a similar socioeconomic background.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:12 PM
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Most high earners don't want to shack up with someone who makes 30k per year. People on here may deny it but it's the truth. Class divides in America very much do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:09 PM
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These are rich people problems from my perspective. I make far less than 75k per year and it will probably take me 10 years to even get there. If I keep working 2 jobs I won't even make 75k and this schedule is starting to break me mentally and physically. So yeah no sympathy from me. Your social circle should have plenty of economically viable men to choose from anyways. Bourgeois scum
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:03 PM
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Sad? I mean if you want more drama maybe idk. You just want to be ticked off sometimes. You don't always have to get your way ykwim
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:57 PM
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I'm a man magnet so I just have to show interest in one of the ones who likes me and boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:54 PM
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I like being mad sometimes so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:52 PM
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This sub made me even more confused about my self rating tbh. "You're ugly/average/hot" from multiple ppl on here. I guess I am polarizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:19 PM
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Looking younger than you are during your developmental years to your mid 20s can definitely set some people back in that regard. They thought they'd look young forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:19 PM
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Yeah weight loss is hard and a slow process.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:15 PM
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It shows that neotenous features typically do not age well on men or women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:01 PM
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"Don't be a free agent in life, let the blackpill guide you"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:54 PM
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I actually don't know lol. They are all over the place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:46 PM
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Age of consent laws in your state might be as low as 16
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:41 PM
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Oh hey now I can say my fear of my apartment flooding again is rational. I'm going to throw this gotcha at my fiance. Thanks man!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:33 PM
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Just make friends with the upperclassmen at your local high school. You can buy alcohol now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:29 PM
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One comes before the other
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:28 PM
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Men regardless of their experience level will potentially give low n women preferential treatment. But low n men can get FOMO, jealous, judgmental about high n women. Therefore high n women should only go for high n men. This is the conclusion I have come to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:26 PM
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Not really a RIP, men don't like experienced women anyways. Not a loss imo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:21 PM
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Yeah at your age finding a low n woman is a lot easier. And if you go for 18 (which is normal age gap) you can potentially find virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:20 PM
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I thought men's preference for low n or virgin women was innate and not a reaction to women's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:15 PM
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You're 21 right? A lot of women your age are sub 3 n. If that's still too high for you you can go for an 18 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:10 PM
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From experience it is better if the guy is more experienced than the woman. For the most part there's a lot less resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:09 PM
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I mean guys don't like women who are too experienced. They resent it too much. I think this rule is a general one but if you're going to hold it against her you shouldn't be together
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:08 PM
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Inexperienced men have no business getting with experienced women in my opinion. The dynamic only works if it's an experienced man with an inexperienced woman, and otherwise the experience levels should be roughly equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:58 PM
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The rules are 1. Be attractive, 2. Don't be unattractive. If you are 1, you need to be clean and treat her well, which is step 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:14 PM
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Seen a couple things by him. Idk lol he seems fine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:13 PM
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Schizoposting and having the occasional mentally ill guy threaten to commit suicide in your DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:04 PM
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I dont think it would add anything to the discussions here lol. I don't bring it up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:02 PM
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Empathy doesn't change my taste in men at all so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:43 PM
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It'll probably all come out during Timmy's second or third Christmas after they have a baby. It will get ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:32 PM
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I don't think she wants him to have a horrible relationship. She can just see the huge contrast between his life and hers. It is natural but somewhat juvenile. It will probably bleed into their relationship for years to come if she can't get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:22 PM
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https://sexvalues.github.io/results.html?attract=53.6&drive=68.8&dominant=25.0&deviance=65.6&affect=56.3 Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:13 PM
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Nah that's relatable. Her not liking his relationship with his family is due to her comparing it to her relationship with her family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:09 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:56 PM
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You might get lucky if a 5'11" girl wants a short man. Some do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:05 AM
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They aren't dwarves. They are normal proportionally they are just small
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:57 AM
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No but we usually talk further apart than that. Kissing is where I have to move my head back uncomfortably far. So I think 6ft is my limit on how tall I can date
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:46 AM
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I have my Chad already lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:57 AM
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I wasn't intending on being an it just so happens woman. I was planning on being with a guy who was 5'8" forever, then a 5'10" guy forever, and they just kept going up in 2" increments for some reason. I actually don't know what happened
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:47 AM
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Hes 6 ft or 183cm and I am 5'2" or 157cm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:44 AM
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The paternity testing shit is making me pray to Jesus I end up being infertile so I don't have to give some MYAN piece of mind about my fidelity that he suddenly cares about. If you're gonna ask for a paternity test at least be consistent. Accuse me of cheating at least 3 times before I get pregnant otherwise I will doubt your commitment to the bit. "You're pregnant, I know I never mentioned I thought you were cheating before but now I think you're cheating!" Selfish. Risk the relationship befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:41 AM
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USA. Average height here is 5'9"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:35 AM
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Very below average height women below 5 ft tall might.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:34 AM
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Yeah those are two very average heights where I am from. You wouldn't stick out in a crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:33 AM
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Hmm no I disagree. Those women wanted a guy who was a normal amount taller than them. Which is why they selected them. I am a below average height woman and I have been attracted to mostly average height men because they are about a head taller than me. My fiance is a head and shoulders taller than me so it took some getting used to after dating mostly average height guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:26 AM
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Oh I like Bladee. This bpd chick I follow on Twitter recommended him and 100 gecs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:19 AM
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I think it depends. Most short guys get with below average height women. Unfortunately there are also tall guys who like short women. Short men don't have that kind of pull, only rarely can they get with a tall woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:10 AM

I am actually not really joking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:08 AM
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That is true but there are still women out there who are as short as 4'8-4'10. Those women are so short they are kind of abnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:06 AM
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I feel like maybe if I was younger I might have but I'm too old, jaded, post wall now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:02 AM

I agree with what you're saying. I only like guys who look like they are a skater or possibly Italian most of the time. If I don't feel my heart being ripped out of my chest the second I glance at him and sense his deep seated mommy issues the first conversation I'm just not interested. They also get bonus points for committing crimes as well. Borderline personality disorder men please contact me and threaten suicide in my DMs 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:58 AM
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He is good looking enough to where I don't think he's a truecel. He might be a chadlitelet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:52 AM
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It's very important to me that my friends agree that the guy I like is attractive. If they don't I'm still going for it, but I need my home girls approval before I feel really good about it. I just want people to play along with my delusions is that too much to ask????
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:51 AM
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You don't look like a true cel to me tbh. You are above average facially in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:48 AM
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They are definitely decent looking but kind of nerdy/alt. Unsurprising considering what they are looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:33 AM
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My morbidly obese friend tells me about that site and that he meets women on there. He would prefer a woman his size but he accepts healthy weight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:31 AM
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No im fairly certain most people here are real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:29 AM
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No I haven't as far as I know. I can still lift and push heavy packages
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:29 AM
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No they are on a fat kink website looking to meet fat guys on purpose. It's a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:28 AM
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Yeah but these women want to pump and dump my friend. They won't be seen with him in public. They just use him to fulfill their fantasies then discard him. I assume they actually find it attractive but know it looks bad to be a normal sized person with a morbidly obese person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:24 AM
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That's controlling af. I thought they found fatness attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:19 AM
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I should reach my goal weight by January if my current rate of loss remains consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:18 AM
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Oh yeah now I remember. I guess it's performing your gender roles not your overall behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:18 AM
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No lol. It's just a really weird kink in my opinion. Weight gain takes months
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:15 AM
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No I don't know about that tbh. I just know that there are healthy weight women who have a sexual fetish for fat guys. Counter to what people on here believe. Much like a lot of men who like fat girls they keep it under wraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:14 AM
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I heard somewhere that this blind woman the poster knew always crushed on the hottest guys despite not being able to see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:13 AM
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Just take up methamphetamine for recreational purposes and you'll be underweight in no time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:11 AM
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No I only like guys with a low bodyfat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:09 AM
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I wish I had your abilities. My weight fluctuates too much for my liking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:07 AM
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It's just on my mind a lot. Nickocado avocado, my friend, it comes up a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:05 AM
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You naturally have a low appetite which is actually a good thing since it means you won't become obese. They actually think hunger and the ability to control hunger are genetic now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:05 AM
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Yeah the girl I knew who liked fat guys wanted to be beat up sexually. Like actually beaten. "Avoid my face I have work tomorrow teehee" type shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:03 AM
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Shes being sneaky about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:59 AM
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You just need to consistently eat 4-6k calories over a period of years to reach that weight if I had to guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:58 AM
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I mean that is my assumption. He's told me he's considered better looking than other fat guys on there. But if these people are looking to fulfill their fetish of feeding a 300-500 lb guy their options are already limited. Only a handful of really fat people are happy about it and actively try to reach and maintain those weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:57 AM
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He always wanted to be fat though. His dream is reaching 600 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:50 AM
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I think some fat guys are considered more attractive than others even in that community. I assume my friend is a top 10% fat guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:49 AM
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My friend does this. It worked for him. Unironically he's fucked more healthy weight women than some guys on here. He's the one they want to smash and dash because they have a weird kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:47 AM
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Hey its a weird life path to choose but it worked for him. Sometimes you need to take risks and go down the experimental route
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:45 AM
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Just develop a feeder fetish and gain 300 lbs and have sex with women you meet on weird fat people forums who don't wanna be seen with you in public bc they're normal weight. Fatmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:42 AM
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She might be one of those feeder chicks I wouldn't rule it out that she might spit in his mouth. Maybe even chew up and spit his Wendy's order in there like a mommy bird
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:32 AM
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Let's do another Marxist evaluation of the dating market again. Actually we should get weird with it, how about anarchism? Kropotkin
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:22 AM
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I have to cope somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:13 AM
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Literally nothing. That's worth all the c sections in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:11 AM
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Male privilege: -strength -get more respect naturally -almost always regarded with higher status -easier to get a better paying job with no college Female privilege: -simps -simps -simps -more clothing options/your behavior is less scrutinized Looks roughly equal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:49 AM
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It wasn't the looks it was the chronological age going up and realizing guys my age preferred 3 years younger. I looked 5 years younger than my actual age at 18-19, so like a middle schooler. Other people mistook me for an underage person until I was 22-23. Looking significantly younger than your actual age is not really a flex when you are still young. It also means you might age poorly when you start getting fine lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:28 AM
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I felt post wall at age 21
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:20 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:19 AM
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Yeah it really sucks getting older. I thought I was post wall at 21 to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:12 AM
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Oh like honestly 19-20. I'm practically ancient now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:09 AM
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Being the palest isn't a flex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:04 AM
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I'm mostly weirded out I can't see his ears
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:56 AM
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His haircut is a bit dorky
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:46 AM
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Sometimes guys would mention another girl he seemed to be interested in. I would not change my behavior though, I was usually fairly confident I was the favorite. So not technically I guess. Don't show your cards and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:27 AM
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I am looking up average looking celebrities and they are all too attractive to be average, and then there's Lena Dunham and Amy Schumer being below average. I don't think I can name one, I'd have to look at actresses for side characters on sitcoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:02 PM

Just popping in to say I think Lena Dunham is far below average, and should not be used as a metric for average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:46 PM

I knew originally I wanted $2500, but according to my calculations I should be able to make $5400-6000 if I work through peak season. Part of me really wants more money and the other part is just beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:22 PM

what do you do as a self employed guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:09 PM

I really want that bag so I'm doing everything possible to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:56 PM

I think they know that average women are not really that attractive, they just know they are unlikely to get better. If they thought they could get a better looking girl, they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:53 PM
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not yet. they wont mention if they have suspects during an ongoing investigation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:51 PM
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I really wanted to rebuild my savings account, so I sold my soul lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:51 PM

This is one of the main reasons I am not Christian anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:49 PM
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No I am a newspaper reporter/journalist, my second job is at Amazon overnight shift. I preferred working at Amazon in the middle of the night because there's no possible overlap between that and potential reporter projects that can happen late at night but before midnight, and the fact that it isn't a customer facing job.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:47 PM

Probably trying to rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:45 PM

Are you still a student?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:44 PM
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Onlyfans mom would get me bullied, I guess a slut daughter wouldn't really be so bad because that's not sex work though. But it's still not a life I'd want for my daughter. Prostitute sister is more discreet. Provided she enjoyed the job I could tolerate it. I wouldn't cut someone off for their sexual habits though as long as it's all consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:43 PM

Yeah. It was a little awkward though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:42 PM

Eh you get to sit at a desk, potentially work from home too. Nurse can't be WFH. Nursing is a physical job and those tend to be unpleasant in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:30 PM

I already am splitting the cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:25 PM

Yeah but they aren't that well respected. I think people want the status that comes with being an engineer. Men don't envy nurses who have to clean up piss and shit all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:21 PM
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I imagine these experiments take a lot of time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:20 PM

I need to find a way to make enough at one job after I am done working 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:19 PM

I recall a popular girl getting like 6 candy grams while everyone else got nothing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:10 PM

Is it a problem when a male dominated field is male dominated (CS, eng) but not when a female dominated field is female dominated (nursing, teaching)? The issue is that STEM is a lucrative field where you can make a lot of money and it doesn't rely on your physical capabilities. That's why they're upset women aren't in STEM more, they want women to be able to make 6 figures. Teaching doesn't pay that much so it doesn't matter if there's less men, nursing pays a bit more but usually nothing crazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:08 PM

I see so many people on here who are doing really well in terms of money so I feel like I've fallen behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:01 PM

I was thinking more like the money you need to move to a new apartment. First last security deposit. 6 months sounds aspirational. But I'm working 2 jobs and I don't know how long I will still be healthy enough to work both. I will wait until I am feeling a lot worse to quit though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:55 PM

I've heard bad things about homes for disabled adults, but I'd probably choose that one anyways. Being a burden on your family will cause them to resent you and hate you over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:45 PM

If they both will have a good career that will make them enough money, I will hedge my bets on the 6/10 incel. At least at that looks level maybe he can turn his life around. I kind of doubt it though. But he also won't have to deal with all the negative consequences of being ugly which could really lower his quality of life. If he still wants to be a bitch he can be but at least he won't suffer as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:40 PM

Depends on which one seems to have the best life outcome in terms of career prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:29 PM

I gave it up voluntarily so that I could have more options in the future. It's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:25 PM

tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:07 PM

If I keep losing weight like I am right now I should hit my goal by January.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:28 PM

No we are renting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:20 PM

I get 5k to 10k steps in on Amazon days. Even the days I am just standing and pushing packages. But also, 7 hours of pushing packages probably burns at least 400 calories if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:07 PM

Yeah being a journalist is having important business leaders and politicians be on their best behavior during an interview but basically living paycheck to paycheck as a lower income person. There's a lot of dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:04 PM

I think having enough money to walk away from a situation you find intolerable is priceless. No matter how bad things get, being able to leave is a great freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:01 PM

I am just scared of the rug being pulled out from under me so I need more money as fast as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:54 PM

I'm almost there so I guess this is a crappy Friday for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:53 PM

Yes but that's no guarantee of finding a new place. Only the items you own in your place are insured, insurance won't pay for a new place I don't think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:53 PM

Weight loss is a lot easier when you work a physical job no matter what size you are in my opinion. Another reason to keep working at amazon is the increased calorie burn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:51 PM
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I knew 2 popular, social, good looking drug dealers who had a lot of women so that might have skewed my perception. I also knew a good looking former cokehead who was a part of that lifestyle as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:41 PM

Yeah when people call their mom "mother" I think they are either in a strange enmeshed relationship or they are distancing themselves from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:35 PM
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Yeah I woke up and my left calf was extremely stiff and in pain whenever I was standing up lol. Turns out getting random excruciating cramps is a consequence of my lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:32 PM

My aunt called my grandma "mother". I think they had a big falling out at one point and it seems more formal I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:29 PM

I have to double check my calorie log because I haven't really been paying attention to it that much but yeah some days I probably only eat 700 calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:28 PM
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It never does. Dark web dealers are usually good about that, if their products ever tested positive someone would write a review that called them out on it and they would probably get taken off the site. It's better safe than sorry though in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:26 PM

I feel like the best safety net is probably first, last and security deposit for a new place should a disaster happen and the place you're living gets flooded or burned down. So I'd actually need closer to 5000 for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:15 PM
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I only have fentanyl test strips on me rn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:12 PM

So it's been 2 days since I pulled a double shift and I am still extremely sluggish and feeling fatigued. After this next week I should have saved $2500. Should I quit my second job or does that make me weak? If I work through Christmas I should be able to save around $6000. This is a really hard choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:10 PM
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I want to do my own dating app experiments with mid and attractive women and mid and attractive men but I feel like my fiance will find it annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:02 PM
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For the most part, it's criminals who don't get caught or who manage to get off. Like drug dealers who are definitely participating in crime but can realistically avoid going to prison during their career. The smarter ones who don't get caught are what women are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:56 PM
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I don't think I was ever really about the single life. 90% of the time I was single I wanted a boyfriend. At the point where I was like "ok, I might be done with men forever" I met my fiance. So I assume I have always wanted to be paired.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:54 PM

Overpopulation was a problem on the world scale, but it was actually not really a problem since our world can potentially support up to 12 billion (?). Population collapse is something that happens to specific countries which can threaten their economic growth. Though it is questionable whether permanent growth is even sustainable or desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:52 PM
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This stuff might actually have meth in it since I bought it off the dark web.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:49 PM
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I'm willing to trade long term health for short term gains. What do you really expect me to do, just wait 2 years to save the money I need saved?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:48 PM
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Only adderall
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:07 PM
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No I was beat after working 3 15-18 hour days in a row.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:05 PM
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Figured out what happened to my leg. Apparently I had a cramp in the middle of the night that woke me up. I can't remember this happening at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:03 PM
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Oh I love it when mentally ill guys try to get my attention in the DMs by saying they bought an AR and are feeling suicidal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:02 PM
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Oh I like Yu Yu Hakusho. Really fun series
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:00 PM
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There was no anthrax apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:59 PM
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Sister
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:55 PM

That's more than a biweekly paycheck for me. I'm poor af.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:53 PM

Yeah I went when one of my coworkers at home depot was quitting to go back to college. The strippers were nice and shoved their boobs in my face
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:48 PM
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Yeah it happened in a few counties. They think it's a domestic terrorist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:45 PM
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If he's dumber than me he needs to be sexy, if he's smarter than me he can't be better looking than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:42 PM

Oh yeah and there's other benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:09 AM

You need to play it cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:50 AM

I also wasn't that into short girl tall guy dynamics but there's definitely benefits that come with tall guys so I'm like well 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:27 AM

Oh yeah. Sales tax also is disproportionately worse for poorer people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:25 AM

I dated average height guys but it doesn't count bc the guy I'm marrying is 6 ft lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:15 AM

Oh I know. I didn't want 0.02% more sales tax either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:01 AM

Being an extrovert must be overwhelming. You only have so many hours in a day to spend with so many people who want you around
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:48 AM

They have it a lot easier. Not necessarily "Chad" but good looking guys who have social skills. You quickly learn that being attractive from the beginning gives you a lot more opportunities and helps you develop better social skills than other people too. They will also sometimes complain when they get too much attention and get overwhelmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:43 AM

Americans will never willingly be taxed more is the conclusion I've come to lol. They're like "yeah we complain about crime all day and ask for more officers and a bigger jail but you actually want us to pay slightly more for goods and services? Get bent!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:38 AM

So a couple weeks ago, maybe 2 weeks or so, I did an article about a new measure that was on the ballot for an increased sales tax to expand the jail we have in our county (and provide funding for more law enforcement). Anyways, it didn't pass, and I'm watching this city council meeting where they talk about how much they need more officers and now they are mentioning that the jail we have in our county is always so full of people that people often get arrested and end up back on the street the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:36 AM

Some people get really fat and once you're really fat it's basically impossible to lose weight and maintain the loss
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:27 AM

Oh wow. Should I try to contact someone who works at one of those facilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:13 AM

I might get fat tho 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:39 AM

Ah, opiates are pretty not great to be into recreationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:30 AM

> He’s one of those who put a baby in her and then lost all attraction once she became the mother of his child. new fear unlocked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:28 AM

What kind of drugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:18 AM

Incels biggest weakness is high inhibition imo there's always something in the way of them going after what they want. Drugs remove that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:18 AM

It's not like it's good advice in the normal sense of being an upstanding citizen and not dying or whatever, but if you're cool committing crimes and potentially dying or ending up in jail there's no limits to how hard you can go in that scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:07 AM

It really depends on what they are replying to. Some women write novels worth of shit on here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:03 AM

Oh that does sound fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:02 AM

I think doing drugs and becoming a lowlife degenerate would kick a lot of these incels' SMV into high gear. They could go from 0 to high n in about a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:01 AM

It's because for every dating problem women have, like say they really liked this guy and decided to have sex with him and he's not responding to their texts anymore, guys will be like "YOU JUST GOT PUMP AND DUMPED BY CHAD" Or "my husband doesn't do the laundry even though I cook and clean and take my kids to soccer practice!" the response would be: WOW YOU SHOULD HAVE VETTED BETTER IN THE BEGINNING FOR GUYS WHO CAN DO LAUNDRY. DUMBASS GETTING CLOWNED ON AGAIN
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:56 AM

I talk about and recommend people to do drugs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:53 AM

Wow you must be joking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:52 AM

If I were to become an investigative journalist, what topic would I investigate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:08 AM
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I don't think there's a correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:48 PM
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The main reason I don't have pets is because if they get sick the vet bill will be too much for me to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:19 PM
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I keep saying I have a huge forehead but apparently other people don't notice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:55 PM
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What's happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:31 PM
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No in like 5 years. Not looking forward to getting discriminated against lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:29 PM
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Yeah I like leanness but not necessarily a lot of muscle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:18 PM
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College and high school dropouts make more money than me. I am not looking forward to probably getting fired when I get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:12 PM
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Looks like it's happening in Oregon and Georgia too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:23 PM
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Yeah we just need more information about the envelope and if there are potential suspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:20 PM
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Turns out there have been multiple incidents of this across the state. Other counties have had the same thing happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:16 PM
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I get 3 hours of sleep Monday and Tuesday, then I get 11 hours of sleep on Wednesday. After that it's anywhere from 6-10 hours of sleep per night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:10 PM
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No he's the one sitting on the chair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:08 PM
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Our county elections office got sent an envelope filled with white powder that tested positive for fentanyl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:07 PM
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Well as adults you can't easily replace a several years long friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:06 PM
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I get to call the FBI today lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:00 PM
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It changes definition based on who is using it. For people online it means "I deserve to get away with everything I do because muh past trauma".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:19 PM
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Depression is rarely bad enough to where you can't work. Your performance may suffer but you're better off continuing to make money. Rarely is depression so bad that you can't move or take a shower or whatever, at that point it's a disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:10 PM
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Yeah every guy I dated knew a cheater who was friends with him. They never condone the action but they won't cut him off. They usually give him some kind of "tough love" speech whenever that guy has problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:06 PM
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It's pretty normal in my opinion. I usually date guys my own age or 1 year younger though for some reason. I did date a guy 3 years older for like half a year though. In my perfect world IDGAF how old people are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:00 PM
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When I was in middle/high school I knew to avoid the popular guys. Saw too many of my friends get burned crushing on them. Then a guy who looked popular but actually wasn't started giving me attention and I was really confused lol. Ah the good old days
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:56 PM
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It's a Canadian coffee shop. It also sells donuts and sandwiches.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:54 PM
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Yeah if you are in an LTR and cohabitate, married or not you have to learn to make sacrifices and compromise on some stuff. If the relationship is worth it it will be easier to do that so you have to weigh pros and cons. If you're not built for LTRs (some aren't) then you should not cohabitate and live apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:19 PM
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People on here have a chip on their shoulder and want other people to suffer "like I did". It's not a very generous life philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:17 PM
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Nice for my bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:14 PM
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No he looks like a regular guy you'd run into at Tim Hortons who you used to go to high school with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:11 PM
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Those non latex synthetic ones are too thick
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:06 PM
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Lifestyles of the poor and low status lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:05 PM
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69 hours of work LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:21 PM
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It feels like really stiff and painful. I'm actually standing in place most of my amazon shift lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:21 PM
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I meant my leg 🤣🤣🤣 MY LEG!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:06 PM
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I need to get to the minimum acceptable BMI at any cost
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:59 PM
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My left calf is in a tremendous amount of pain. Jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:58 PM
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That ones a lot harder to determine. I've gotten ratings from other people all numbers from 5 to 10. Somewhere above average I would guess, 6-7 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:57 PM
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I'm on my sigma male grindset
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:43 PM
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Depends on the scale you use. TRM scale or normal people scale? Bc on TRM I could be anywhere from a 4.5 to a 5.9.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:39 PM
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Some guys prefer 30+ women so it's not really a loss if you don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:35 PM
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Big dicks are a lot to handle. Some women can't handle them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:20 PM
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Idk I am physically attracted to all the guys I've dated. I don't know what other women do. Close their eyes and think of the Queen? People tell me the guys I think are attractive are average or only slightly above even tho I think they are gorgeous. I can't figure it out anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:37 AM
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Most guys aren't ugly, I just don't care about them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:20 AM
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Why u think that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:39 AM
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Lmao all your medical paperwork xeroxed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:32 AM
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I'd have to update my flair multiple times per week if we added weight. You don't want people getting the wrong idea
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:08 AM
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C H I L L O U T M A N
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:05 AM
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Most people live subpar lives that no one would really envy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:00 AM
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Chill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:57 AM
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I wasn't even here 3 years ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:57 AM
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I think turning a straight man gay is a very common gay guy fantasy. There's lots of gay porn that has the words "straight guy" in the title for example. Many gay guys have secret crushes on straight guys, etc. It's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:45 AM
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I disagree. With proper bone structure I think it can look good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:42 AM
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You've been posting on here all day about how much you hate your life and how much you hate other people. I think I noticed you doing this over 12 hours ago even. It's really been an all day thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:39 AM
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Men will always care more how other men see them than how women see them. Guys on here will try to disagree but they respect other men's opinions a lot more than any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:35 AM
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I don't understand ASMR but her duck kissy face is cringe. I don't think being pathetic is anything to be ashamed of though. We are all pathetic in our own way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:31 AM
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Theyre trying to weed out homophobes ig
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:30 AM
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It's funny bc when you're like 21 and living at home and working some shitty retail job and have 3k in savings you're like "I don't need a man to make any money, it's all about how he makes me feel". A lot of women here are still like that but that's just because they probably make enough to support 2 people on their own. But when you're both poor, and you suddenly get hit financially for some reason, you will start to question your entire life. Money IS important, it DOES make people happier, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:28 AM
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People whose muscles bring their bmi to overweight are more common than you think. My fiance bmi is 25.something and he has no gut whatsoever and he's not even super muscular or anything, he's just got more natural muscle mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:18 AM
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I just want to be as skinny as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:14 AM
2

Shit like this will make you want to ghost your entire extended family
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:12 AM
1

Tell me!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:11 AM
1

🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:02 AM
1

I wanna know though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:00 AM
1

What's happening
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:53 AM
4

QFM: dumbest shit you think is hilarious go!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:46 AM
2

I can't even figure out what the "average" amount of rizz is, I wouldn't jump to that conclusion. I'm very confused
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:43 AM
1

Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:43 AM
1

They don't care what she thinks pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:42 AM
2

Oh like negative rizz? I assume most people don't have much rizz at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:40 AM
5

No offense but why would you expect to have rizz?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:33 AM
2

Yeah it's a big no no thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:32 AM
1

Solve this issue by dating guys dumber than you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:29 AM
1

IDK I can imagine someone not doing something they really want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:11 AM
2

I know a lot of drug people. Funnily enough the guy in my story used to be a total square nerdy incel type guy who finally lost his v card to a below average coworker in a park at night. He probs would have fit in on here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:46 AM
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A very tiny minority of people can make millions of dollars, an even tinier minority can make billions of dollars. There aren't very many "self made" teenaged millionaires out there. But most people still end up dating someone at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:31 AM
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Shit can get really weird and awkward in co-ed social groups. For example, this guy I know was friends with this other guy I know, and they moved in with guy 1's really hot sister. Unfortunately she was probably doing percs or methadone or some shit, and he wrote this dumb journal entry about being into her or whatever and left it on the ground for her to find. She walks in while faded and then is like "Do you want to fuck?" So he fucked his friend's sister and ended up simping for her for liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:24 AM
2

Replace ugly with average and you're almost there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:20 AM
1

47
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:57 PM
1

Mostly older at my main job. I don't really talk to them that much other than the editor
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:46 PM
1

Not that I know of but some people def stopped showing up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:25 PM
4

Old people in general make customer service excruciating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:18 PM
0

No most men are average which is just not particularly titillating for us. Especially in the US where the average guy is 5'9" and 200 lbs. Borderline obese. Not that the average woman is any better though. But normal weight women aren't interested in fat guys generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:13 PM
1

I hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:55 PM
1

My mom also talks to me like she thinks I'm mentally handicapped. I really don't like either of them tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:40 PM
1

A lot of people who do podcasts are just them hanging out with their friends. They don't have any experts or anything, or if they do, they also start shooting the shit with them rather than focusing on the point of the episode. Very annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:38 PM
1

Low key hoping the lack of adequate sleep fires up a manic episode
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:32 PM
4

Weirdo new wave polyamory bullshit strikes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:29 PM
1

Your story is actually kind of heartbreaking ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:27 PM
1

I don't even know what to say about them other than they just wouldn't stop hounding me my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:26 PM
2

The reason I can do it right now is because I was out of work for a long time before this, and before that, all my jobs were in customer service. I could barely tolerate 30 hours of working customer service. Now that both my jobs are not customer service, it feels very easy to do both at once, emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:24 PM
1

I'm really looking forward to going home tonight. It's like my mini friday because I'm done with my second job for the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:20 PM
1

I am probably projecting my own exhaustion then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:18 PM
2

People forget that incels also deal with social rejection in general most of the time. Having other people read that something is "off" about you no matter what you do is pretty miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:14 PM
2

I might just be projecting my own exhaustion onto them then. I also have anemia.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:09 PM
2

Kind of. Sometimes you are wrong and they look worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:56 PM
1

It just seems like the lifestyle would wear you down over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:54 PM
1

Everyone I know who is successful in life, aka socially adept with a good social network, was always like that since school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:53 PM
2

Yeah I imagine a life of non-stop rejections and constant disrespect is very tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:44 PM
3

Is being an incel mentally exhausting? Sometimes I read about what guys on here's lives are like and I am just like, "if that were me, I'd probably want to take 12 hour long naps all the time."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:30 PM
1

I have always been a low status person, people treat me like I am a mentally handicapped child all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:23 PM
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They haven't done shit so far. After a few more years of spinning my wheels in the mud, I'm calling it quits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:10 PM
1

Even if you do, that means you were born a winner anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:05 PM
1

I believe fate is predetermined.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:04 PM
1

Even the month you were born in can have a snowball effect on you growing up. Also, I blame everything wrong with me on being the product of old guy sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:04 PM
1

Yeah my grandparents on my dad's side were stunners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:00 PM

People are born winners or losers. It's determined from birth in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:32 PM

Shitting on me for my grades is where my relationship with my parents went sour. There's other stuff but that was what really started me on disliking them as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:28 PM

I finally had my sleep schedule down to where I'd be asleep by 8pm and get 4 hours of sleep. Then this dumbass election night happened at 8 and went to 11. The 5 free hours I had were in the middle of the day during broad daylight. I actually really hate it when my schedule gets interfered with. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:21 PM

I just recall being like 17 years old and lurking /r9k/ a lot, then I found this place and remembered all the incel slang I learned. I did a lot of research on the blackpill and incels because they are my ADHD special interest. The way incels behave on /r9k/ and .is really makes you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:15 PM

I have to be awake for 42 hours starting midnight yesterday. I took a 40 minute nap last night (doesn't count less than an hour). My joints are hurting a lot worse than usual. I feel like I need another adderall. A little pick me up. Bc otherwise I will pass out at my desk lol I fucking hate election night. I wish I was warned about it earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:47 PM

My monotone voice is creepy. It fits my personality which is trash
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:43 PM
1

They have cameras everywhere. You can assume you are always being watched. I talk to like a couple people there but there's a lot of people and everyone is busy all shift. I'm a diverter at induct so I'm next to other people but I have to focus on pushing packages with a certain letter on the tag to the other side of the conveyor belt. It is very repetitive work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:41 PM

They were all reasonably successful with women at a young age. My current bf is low n by choice, but he had several girlfriends in high school. The other guys are all high n.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:27 PM
1

You cant have everything in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:06 PM
1

Pretty hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:06 PM
1

I WANNA DO IT! EVERYONE ELSE GETS TO! WHY NOT ME
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:01 PM
1

I'm willing to betabux any 9 or 10 (to me) guy who is down on his luck. Bonus points if he has a drug problem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:59 PM
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Nope. Unfortunately. The entire thing is organized by a computer program. It monitors how efficient you are at stowing packages and tells the managers to start writing you up/prepare to fire you. I like how impersonal it is. I'm here to make money and that's it, I'm not trying to find a "work family".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:57 PM
3

Never tried it but there is something degenerate about it that piques my interest. I will probably never try it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:55 PM
3

List of places to take a woman on a first date: Roybertitos A place where each plate starts at $50 These women want men with money. I personally am okay living in poverty and potentially supporting a hobosexual until he completely drains me emotionally. As long as he's good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:54 PM
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Attraction is involuntary. I actually don't care if other people only value me for my looks, I am actually fairly confident that I am an interesting person to talk to. If they don't respect me I just get rid of them. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:51 PM
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People who only talk about their jobs all day are dull. When I'm home from work I'm ready to focus on anything else pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:48 PM
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It's actually a lot more enjoyable than the jobs I worked before I got my degree. There's no customer service, you show up, do the task, and go home and you don't have to say a word to anyone. This would have been a way better first job for me than cashiering at home depot. It also pays halfway decent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:45 PM
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That this is what I would have done if he just fucking let me take over finding a place. I also want the money that I had at the beginning of the year back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:43 PM
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Oh yeah so many of my friends have a bipolar mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:41 PM
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I dont talk about my feelings with anyone in real life. I've been burned too many times for that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:39 PM
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I also have something to prove as well which keeps me fired up to keep doing it no matter how miserable or sleep deprived I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:35 PM
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Yeah or older gen x. My folks had me at a later age so most of my peers parents were not boomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:34 PM
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I do have an office job during the day. I needed to build a savings account, and it would have taken too long to save the amount I want to save working just that job.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:32 PM
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Taking care of sick relatives often falls on women. Men are allowed to focus on their careers and make money, which benefits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:44 AM
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If it weren't for adderall I probably wouldn't be able to survive this schedule. Today concludes week 5 of working 2 jobs. Just like, 8 more to go I think? Before peak season ends and amazon starts firing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:42 AM
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Most parents in the US are not great. Usually the mom is emotionally unstable and screams, and the dad is an asshole. Just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:39 AM
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I always hated going to church since I was a really young kid. I finally had enough at 17 and stopped attending. I'm never going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:37 AM
1

Average American is overweight bordering on obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:33 AM
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I have. Most people are fat. The average bmi is overweight bordering on obese for both men and women. Which is subpar in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:32 AM

People don't know how to deal with suicidal ppl fr. You just shower them with validation then go home
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:57 AM

MY LEG!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:43 AM

If I get sciatica at Amazon I'm sacrificing myself on the conveyor belt. Goodbye world!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:32 AM

Love is nothing but emotion. So if women can't love, men can't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:17 AM

Makes women sound like an amusement park ride to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:16 AM

Betabuxx. At least he'll have money and won't be a lower middle class scrub
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:19 AM

There is nothing more soul crushing than being a cashier. You can't even walk around so you have 0 autonomy, if you need to use the bathroom you have to ask your bosses permission, you get told when to take your breaks, and you have to deal with abuse from customers. I've had a lot of jobs but cashiering was the worst by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:42 AM

Yeah I tried having a sales job but it was a lot lower stakes than that. I never developed actual sales skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:27 AM

Do you make commission?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:31 AM

I would throw myself into the fires of hell for eternity for 50k in my bank account rn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:18 AM

They are going to try every avenue they possibly can to try and get women to fuck them. However, a "cool" job like a musician, an MMA fighter, or some other "bad boy" type of thing is a lot better than being a financial analyst or a fancy accountant for increasing SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:53 AM

No matter how bad my life gets, at least I'm not working retail. I'll say the same thing when I'm in the hospital, the prison, or the morgue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:50 AM
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Describe the perfect pair of breasts, in detail please.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:25 AM

Even thinking about my partner doing this makes me angry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:23 AM

Wrong post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:20 AM

Yeah less than 10 hours between shifts is pretty rough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:03 AM

I don't want all over body herpes. I'll be tainted forever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:00 AM

That's not emotional cheating because the motivation behind it is sexual. Emotional cheating is where you start flirting and develop feelings for a coworker or someone else you know and you indulge in like, basically like a talking phase with them. But you don't have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:59 AM
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I am just here for the regular users who are here all the time. I like them even if they don't all like me. I would try to detach myself emotionally from the dating topics if it is upsetting you too much, but if you can't do that then you might want to take a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:54 AM

Oh no I just remembered the Down Syndrome guy who worked with a special disability support thing at my old job at Holiday Inn was really into me. He worked in the restaurant as a dishwasher and would sometimes eat day old fries off of the room service people would leave in the hallway after they were done with it. That wasn't a fun experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:38 AM

I dont feel like making a list
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:38 PM

So you'd like to be a brokie in a struggle love relationship? Financial problems are a huge strain on relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:02 PM

Yeah these guys were super likable to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:01 PM

If you have a huge fucking emergency that can get pretty expensive. If you're not saving anything and can only afford to live subsistence level paycheck to paycheck that's really bad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:58 PM
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I actually don't consider our attractiveness levels in comparison. I prefer to think he is as attracted to me as I am to him. Thats about it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:55 PM

Oh yeah we were all pretty young and despite not being 6'4" with a jaw of steel these guys were popular with women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:47 PM
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Some blackpill autistic incel said we are looksmatched so I guess that's confirmation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:43 PM
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Definitely a strong 8
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:40 PM
1

I have so many wild stories. My life used to be a lot more interesting than it is now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:39 PM
1

Subjectively he was a solid 9 objectively he's probably a 7 at best
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:36 PM
1

Being the craziest person I've ever met
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:34 PM
1

Idk my scale is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:33 PM

Do guys with high n counts always count as Chad or do they need to be 6'4" with a square jaw
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:28 PM
1

They are traditionally regressive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:20 PM
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No they face a lot of shitty things. I just don't trust reactionaries in general
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:18 PM
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I dont value men for their money. I value them as trophies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:14 PM
1

Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:38 PM
1

I just meet people in real life and get a feel for them before we start dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:16 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:49 PM
1

In other parts of the world, men are still inherently of higher status than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:42 PM
2

No I'm on birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:21 PM
1

That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:16 PM
2

I'm happy I'm opting for the Vegas wedding
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:11 PM
2

No men are also sex/beauty objects in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:07 PM
1

I really don't know. Boredom
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:05 PM
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On a global scale? No. In Western culture? A decent chunk of younger women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:02 PM
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The only one I can think of is that I find it annoying when Walter White goes on and on about fAmIlY
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:34 PM
2

Yeah I agree with you tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:28 PM
3

Yeah I never understood that misconception.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:05 PM
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So a comment about men being misogynist posited that men "fear that women really could be better than us". I'm like ???? Misogynist men absolutely do not fear women "being better" than them. I'm trying to figure out what he's talking about and I really can't figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:04 PM
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It's just meaningless in a dominance hierarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:01 PM
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I feel like that's not enough of a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:59 PM
1

What's the logic behind that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:58 PM
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I've been thinking about this for a while. QFM: what possible reason would a guy think women are better than men? Usually only guys who dislike other men think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:57 PM
1

Rather have a 28 year old who broke off her engagement GOD!! DAMMIIIIIIIIIIIT!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:48 PM
5

Probs entertain him with questions about his beliefs. Then quietly go home and block on everything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:41 PM
1

I'm just trying to put myself in a 30 something unsuccessful guys shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:37 PM
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The biggest red flag is that she ended an engagement at age 30. If I want a wife and kids, someone so flippant with commitment is not a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:20 PM
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They never will. It's a schedule II substance which means you have to jump through hoops. God forbid someone stole your prescription bottle from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:01 PM
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Yeah its kind of a sacrifice. If you decide to take it all the time as it's prescribed that ties you to it. If there's a shortage or the pharmacy can't fill your prescription for some reason you are SOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:58 PM
3

The best way to deal with homeless people is to give them homes actually. This was proven by a program in Utah which gave homeless people their own small houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:56 PM
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Mentally disturbed people and addicts can't really be expected to use normal people logic. It's the nature of their disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:52 PM
1

The more freaky sex you've had, the more interesting you are in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:46 PM
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I've heard that tech might come back after a year or so. I think the risk is worth it. Yeah I also feel you on t breaks, I try to take a few days off every week from adderall. But it's really been helping my weight loss
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:44 PM
2

People don't like the homeless and there's more and more of them every year. Apparently seeing a beggar on the side of the road doesn't register as human in our brains. Like we don't view homeless people as people on a neurological level
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:42 PM
1

Nope. They stay out of that business and I don't let them know about my relationships that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:38 PM
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I feel you on the long days and stimulants part. I'm still in the honeymoon phase with adderall so I'm okay for now. But I think a gap year is fine. It might be a little harder to find a job but once you get one you can start planning on trading up. That's what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:37 PM
2

Only after Thanksgiving thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:35 PM
1

I like ruining things
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:33 PM
2

No its not necessarily hate. I think its partially cultural and partially just a natural disdain (for lack of a better word) for people who are different from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:33 PM
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"Women are better than men" what the fuck? I do not understand why any man would think this unless he's an ultra leftist or a closeted trans woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:42 AM
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I think most guys are misogynistic. That's not really an accusation in my opinion, I just think it's the truth. Incel misogyny is a different flavor from raunchy douchebag misogyny. But they both don't like women that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:41 AM
2

His dick is phat as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:37 AM
2

I dont know, I can't remember when I weighed myself last
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:07 AM
2

Still unable. I'm not changing my flair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:07 AM
1

I'm losing weight so fast. I AM FINALLY IN CONTROL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:51 AM
3

It's actually really frustrating to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:27 AM
4

Can confirm. On reddit at large not this sub in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:24 AM
3

Just go to therapy bro get cock and ball torture CBT therapy from a hooker it'll fix your confidence issues bro Just rub your ball sweat on your décolletage women love that musky smell bro Just stop fapping bro Women can smell your pheromones bro Just buy grey market estradiol online bro Just become a girl bro Just be a breedable twink bro All weird advice that's not particularly bluepilled but I've seen it online none the less.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:17 AM
2

Yeah that sounds a lot better than waking up at fucking 5 or 6 am every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:10 AM
1

I actually am not desirable in my opinion. But by desirable you mean partnered right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:02 AM
1

I still don't have a perfectly flat stomach
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:59 AM
1

I'm going for heroin chic and I will finally get rid of it. Even if it takes liposuction
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:56 AM
1

What time did your school open?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:53 AM
1

No I've tried huffing computer duster before. I'm not better than anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:53 AM
1

I got my fiance right after I went through a dramatic goth phase with new hair, new piercings, new clothes. I guess that counts as work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:44 AM
1

It's probably just the way her particular school grades things. A lot of schools have weird dumb bullshit. My school had very weird times for arriving to and leaving class. 1st period started at 7:27 am and final period ended at 2:06 pm. I wish I was joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:39 AM
1

No I'm not that lame. I like Anakin Skywalker.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:54 PM
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Based on personality alone a lot of people here would make good ltrs. However, they aren't unhinged in the right way for me to be like "Oh wow, I need to know more about this person"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:29 PM
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I am the poors. It's no fun mogging obese people either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:27 PM
1

That looks like a solid middle class income to me. They make a lot at the 10 year mark as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:26 PM
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Actually no lol. I had no way to get home and nowhere in particular to be. Usually, I would spend a lot of effort trying to trick my mom into thinking I was sick. I always ended up missing too many days to where they would give me a warning or whatever. But I really didn't like school at all tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:25 PM
1

Wait I thought you were blackpilled lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:00 PM
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Oh I was all over the place depending on how old I was. Phases where I was a really good student, then average, then below average, then back to being a good student. My mental state went through several phases. No I don't think it makes them less attractive, they make decent money and they get a lot of time off which is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:59 PM
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Oh yeah I've been watching that guy. He sounds like he's a poster on here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:43 PM
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Oh man this reminds me of several women I've seen out in public who look like hotter versions of me. It's frustrating as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:40 PM
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I mean I guess some incels might actually be transwomen but I don't think promoting transitioning to mentally unwell desperate people is a good idea tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:39 PM
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They would need to be feminine and have a full head of hair. Apparently groomers target teens in incel forums and spaces to try and turn them into femboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:26 PM
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I actually don't know the actual numbers since guys lie about it. Big is I guess 7, small is 4.5 according to what they told me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:16 PM
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phat winkie
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:09 PM
1

Damn that's like 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:08 PM
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Could be a government psyop to make sexually frustrated men neutralized. There are so many possibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:31 PM
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Who is that???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:30 PM
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Idk I just see it mentioned in incel spaces occasionally, then I saw the transmaxxing page on incel wiki
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:27 PM
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Some people online act as though this is the answer to your problems but I think its actually pedophiles trying to turn teenagers into femboys according to other ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:26 PM
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I used to lurk /r9k/ all the time. I think this was prior to the blackpill being a thing, in like 2015?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:25 PM
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Idk I don't get butterflies anymore and we are having discussions on what to do about health insurance, delegating chores, and other boring adult shit. It's boring but it's life I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:24 PM
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Yeah taking advantage of young, insecure people who are a part of a group that gets no sympathy. Sounds like a goldmine for perverts tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:21 PM
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I've seen an article about it on the incel wiki where two former incels became women and detailed their sexual exploits. It's marketed as "if you're REALLY desperate" or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:17 PM
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That's just fucking weird. What the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:16 PM
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Why do some people think that telling incels to go trans is a good idea? What the fuck are they thinking lol. I don't understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:10 PM
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Basically having an extramarital flirtationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:43 PM
2

I don't care really either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:57 PM
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If you hang out on the daily thread there are other women who aren't really here to insult incels. There are a few who do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:52 PM

Welcome to being married /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:15 PM
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I discovered this subreddit because it popped up on my front page and the title of the post was intriguing. I was like oh wait, I used to hang out on 4chan's /r9k/ board when I was like 17. So I knew who Chad and Stacy were. I then had to learn even more redpill and blackpill terminology so I could keep up with the conversations on here. I had a lot of free time on my hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:15 PM

People just don't like empathizing with men over romantic struggles because it "feels" socially unacceptable for men to talk about how hard it is to find a gf. I think the fact that not being able to find a partner doesn't seem like an urgent problem that needs immediate solving and is not a traumatic event (like your mom dying or getting jumped/assaulted on your walk home) that it's not "worth" talking about I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:01 PM
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Eh, I've been relatively successful for a woman in dating (not that many first dates, straight to relationship/commitment with men I found genuinely attractive) but the rest of my life is trash and I like talking to people on here. I actually tend to get along with blackpillers decently well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:50 PM

Dated insecure guys before and wow they really know how to wear you down into a nub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:41 PM

It depends on what kind of job, but if you are working for a wage you'd want to work the full 40 and possibly overtime so you can have a full paycheck. For salaried individuals I have no clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:07 PM

Chicken Marsala, potato and leek soup, chicken corn soup, steak bites
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:47 PM
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The issue with that is that you'll give more attention to the better looking one and the meh one will feel left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:53 PM
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Most people who are dedicated to saying "I've tried that" or "I can't do that" are completely hopeless and I just give up on them. This applies to non incel issues as well. Incels also don't want female or normie advice so don't give them anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:51 PM
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This is true even for squares in my experience. Everyone wants to say "I've changed! I've changed! I'm a better person now!" Even when they really are the same, they just think changed behavior is the same as changed personality. Under pressure they will break.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:35 PM
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I dont pay attention to the data. My opinions are solely formed based on personal experiences. I don't feel ashamed of that or anything, I'm not trying to out science people on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:39 AM
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No my bmi is below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:34 AM
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No I work 68 hour weeks. I usually don't have time to go shopping. Blah blah gotcha wah wah. Truly completely average people with no unique traits are unappealing to almost everyone, including other average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:33 AM
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Very few people have that happen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:47 AM
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In fact it usually makes them a worse person if we are being completely honest. Trust issues, hypervigilance, going into fight or flight mode are all negative traits. Better person as in socially acceptable, aids in social cohesion and doesn't cause problems for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:40 AM
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It does not make them a better person though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:37 AM
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I guess some of them are worried about a Lord of the Flies scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:36 AM
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Oh I know. I expect to not know everything. But if I do know someone and they fucked me over, I know they can do it and it just takes the right circumstances for them to do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:35 AM
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I've been through ego death but I didn't really change afterwards. Your personality, motivations, how you process information does not change is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:34 AM
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I'm straight but I'm still choosing to be stranded with 5 men. It's about surviving for 2 weeks with nothing after all. I want to have the best odds Several more comments like this. Yes men would be better off with other men on an island provided they can trust each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:28 AM
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I think it can apply to both good, bad, and neutral actions. Like if you are at your core conflict avoidant you can never be trusted to stand up for someone else. If you're not great with money you can never be trusted with someone else's money. And so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:23 AM
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I've been thinking about this concept a lot over the past few years. I think if someone does something immoral or hurts someone else for personal gain, it does not matter how much they insist they can change or that they have changed. They will always take advantage of others under the right circumstances. All it takes is some external pressure and they will break.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:18 AM
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Found that post. So many women tell themselves this cope of "its in the past, I'm changed now." It's like how addicts change their behavior by not doing drugs or alcohol anymore, but are still disasters internally. Once you get in the habit or gain a reputation other people will never let it go. You're basically tainted by your past choices forever. If we told people the truth which is that you can't really get better internally, chaos would ensue because there is legitimately no justification f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:15 AM
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All this talk of "I'm a changed person now because I don't do X thing I used to". Well you're already tainted forever and most people can't change on a deep level. Oh, you changed your behavior or habits. But the part of you that got you into doing those habits stays the same. You cannot change who you are in any fundamental or significant way. Whatever "bad" thing you did that you don't do anymore, you still have the propensity to do something else that's equally bad or worse. And because you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:03 AM
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I say let people be delusional. Nothing you tell them will make them "get it". Some people just have to experience the hurt first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:30 AM
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Yeah thats to be expected. Anytime one partner becomes way more successful than the other. They will likely leave the less successful person behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:26 AM
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Probably pretty common I think. People generally see sex workers in a negative light.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:24 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:18 AM

I wish random fucks online would send me 500 dollars. I'd hit my savings goal a week faster
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:50 AM

Doing drugs while pregnant is a crime if the drugs are scheduled and she has no prescription
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:24 AM

You're back!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:24 AM

YES FINALLY A GUY WHO DOESNT WASTE EVERY SUNDAY WATCHING THE GAME HALLELUJAH
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:07 AM
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A guy who can easily get women interested in him, he often has multiple options at any given time, he's usually a player type, and good looking is a must.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:38 PM
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Potential for what? Getting a certain career path or potential to "be a better person" or whatever the fuck? I judge the career path thing on their past ability to achieve goals like getting good grades or accomplishing things professionally. Them being a better person or whatever is stupid. People don't change. Ever. You're stuck as what you are for life and for the vast majority that will never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:34 PM
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Yeah drug addicts are messy af. It's like being high makes them less responsible for themselves or something
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:31 PM
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If you wouldn't admit it in public or to your family it's definitely shameful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:28 PM
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Are you actually incel? The involuntary celibate part?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:19 PM
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Yeah it feels like I don't belong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:18 PM
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Yeah this was back in 2017 maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:17 PM
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"A bit overweight is better than skinny!" I don't know how to explain how wrong this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:17 PM
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I feel nothing looking at this. Something is off
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:01 PM
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No broke guys will still complain all day then say paying for sex is against their moral code or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:51 PM
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I'm gonna disagreeable Maxx until I'm the one bending him over
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:21 PM
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People don't realize how big of a deal it is to simply not be fat. That is by far the average man's worst quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:15 PM
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I prefer to look at dead average. Its an important comparison point, because I am below average in a few key areas. Or really one key area.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:11 PM
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On paper they aren't appealing but maybe they are charming. Oh wait, the man above is only average charisma which is to say he has none. No one with purely average traits all around is particularly appealing to real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:08 PM
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I'm not single. I have a guy who is taller than average, slimmer than average, and is more dedicated to housework than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:07 PM
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It's the dead average American man. His pastimes include drinking beer, watching sports, and reminiscing about his high school junior varsity football days. A lot of guys here think they are average but they usually offer a lot more than a truly average man. Most of the people here seem to be higher income than average for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:05 PM
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Everyone should have roughly the same level of agreeableness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:02 PM
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Oh yeah I have seen that play out before. Happens a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:43 AM
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I actually don't like open communication. You say "let's have open communication" and then neither of you do it, so it seems pointless. Why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:42 AM
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It was harmless it just ruined outings because he was being unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:33 AM
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Nah he was a present father who wasn't abusive. He was just moody
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:32 AM
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Yeah but this guy sounds very typical
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:29 AM
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24
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:54 AM
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I'd cheer him on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:47 AM
2

He sounds even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:46 AM
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I actually don't care about being healthy or "good" or whatever. I just want to say fuck it and do what I want. People are always trying to control my life and I want them booted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:46 AM
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Nope that's the way I want to live 100%. Honestly everyone in my life has let me down at one point or another, I should be allowed to let them down too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:40 AM
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I dont want all men's salaries to double I want mine to double. I'd rather have control over my own resources than rely on some dope to give me an allowance. I want my own money, him making more does not benefit me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:37 AM
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If full autonomy is not possible I don't want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:33 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:20 AM
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For some of them I think it is sexual attraction. I have a 500 lb friend and he's had sex with several normal weight women but he's kind of like their dirty secret and they don't want to be seen with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:05 AM
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I'm actually not disagreeable, on my OCEAN score I'm 65th percentile in agreeableness so a bit above average. There are just things I am not willing to compromise on like me having full autonomy to spend my money on certain things and do certain things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:03 AM
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Idk whenever people on here talk about average guys I am like "who would be happy just being average". Average means you failed at life in my opinion. Sometimes they say average isn't a flat 5 in looks, it includes 6s and 7s. I'm like wow way to move the goalposts guys. Now I imagine this guy: https://preview.redd.it/jhve678s9hyb1.jpeg?width=861&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c15475fd54f46113227b0ec4da7dce4ba617ff23
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:00 AM
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I was born middle/UMC but I'm not particularly ambitious so now I'm poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:57 AM
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The comments saying fat guys make women feel more feminine are by women. Mostly women who are into fat guys (they exist).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:54 AM
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He'd probably be a free spirit who is not controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:52 AM
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People need to stay in their lanes and stop trying to make me leave mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:46 AM
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Some posts on here about if fat is a deterrent for women. They say being overweight makes men bigger which makes women feel more feminine. I was looking at it and I was like "wow that's weird. I prefer men with a low bodyfat percentage and have never strayed from that preference once". Fat ruins your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:44 AM
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She might not like him but there are millions more just like her. He has to find one who tolerates his bad jokes and wants to grab him a beer from the fridge every day for the rest of their mediocre lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:42 AM
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Most of the people I know irl are good looking in my opinion. It's mostly hot poor people from broken or dysfunctional homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:41 AM
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Men can be smart and some of them are smarter than me. Does that mean they know how to run my life? Nope!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:39 AM
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I keep hearing that women are more likely to tolerate overweight guys. I am not sure what's true anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:38 AM
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Hey. I like men. As people. I do not trust any man to run my life for me. They are too incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:33 AM
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This is above average for my social circle in terms of income, most people I know are lower middle class. Average in terms of education. Below average in terms of weight (as in most people i know arent fat). Thankfully they have more colorful personalities than that blando I described.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:31 AM
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Average woman is overweight and nothing special. She might be able to get a different fat guy who makes 70k instead of 55k if she's at the right place at the right time. That's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:27 AM
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The completely and totally average guy I mentioned is perfect for his 5'4" 170 lb 100 iq receptionist looksmatch. If he wants a healthy weight woman God help him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:24 AM
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No its the weight to height ratio I am mentioning. If she was say, 6'2" (freakishly tall but whatever) her bmi at that weight would be in the healthy range rather than bordering on obese
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:20 AM
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Yeah I really like the deconstruction of gender roles to be honest. I don't want to be relegated to having to play dumb my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:19 AM
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It was just a guesstimate 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:17 AM
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I am lower middle class though which is below average. I am not sure how that alters my ranking, if that equalizes me to be with a truly average guy. I am not overweight and have a reasonably high IQ. Hard to say what's more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:16 AM
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Yet the average schlubby guy is married to his equally schlubby woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:11 AM
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I prioritize making shmoney. Most guys I date do not make enough money and even if they did they wouldn't share it with me. Why would I stop chasing that bag???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:10 AM
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Did I say anything about average women? I am talking about his appeal to me. He is not smart enough for me and he's also too fat for me as well. Average woman is similarly undesirable since she's 5'4" and 170 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:08 AM
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No women need to look out for themselves. No one else will do it for us. Men certainly look out for themselves first and foremost.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:00 AM
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Average guys are average. They offer: 55k salary more or less 5'9" 200 lbs of mostly fat Average levels of nice Average levels of generosity Average IQ of 100 Average hobbies and interests (probably cars and sports and vidya) Average sense of humor (jokes land like half the time) Average education (college drop out. Probs wanted to major in business or another average field) Average ability to fix appliances (can only fix simple things, everything complex must be attempted several times before c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:57 AM
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And they now choose because they do not trust men to have their backs if they relinquish the material world to men. Yeah I feel this. Men actually do not have our best interests in mind. Inb4 dogpiled
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:44 AM
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She should dump her hubbie and go through a wild lesbian phase. They don't call it dirty 30 for nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:35 AM
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Healthy as in below a BMI of 25
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:55 AM
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"Blah blah women have it worse" "Blah blah men have it worse" Just becomes a lot of noise eventually. I don't care if other people are getting laid just fundamentally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:29 AM
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Yeah I don't think I could ever do what you do lmao, I moved to the other side of the state and haven't made a new irl friend in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:28 AM
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What post is this from
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:23 AM
1

Used to be a Socialist, upgraded to communist/marxist-leninist, then I moved into anarchy and anarcho communism. I used to hang out on leftist Twitter and am used to that style of lecture. Eventually I became disillusioned with all of that stuff so now I have been avoiding politics and don't keep up with world events at all. Now I am a reporter for a local newspaper so I try to keep a neutral stance on all of the elections and ballot measures I have to cover in my stories. At the micro level thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:59 AM
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You would need excellent skills, the right products, and the right lighting to look completely different. Some might need prosthetic features. Everyday people out in daylight don't usually completely transform their facial features on a daily basis. Your underlying bone structure will almost always be evident. I would have to see her before and after pics to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:35 AM
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Only one of what??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:16 AM
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In my personal real life experience most guys are able to find an acceptable girl in the west for an LTR. Online though it seems like a lot of guys are doing worse. It's hard to know what's going on to be honest. But I'm a healthy weight Western woman so that means most of my experiences are totally foreign to people on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:15 AM
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Which one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:06 AM
2

My bf likes cooking a lot. Ironically the one guy I know who can't cook is 500 lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:04 AM
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From what I can gather it's mostly Evo psyche and Evo bio
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:52 AM
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Not that I've noticed, I guess men's definition is looser since a lot of them are okay with mildly overweight women who have good fat distribution. However there's still guys who want only lower end healthy bmi and nothing else. And with women they are hypercritical of themselves so even if she's definitely not overweight at all she still "feels" fat. But then there's the body positivity movement and "small fats" and "large fats". It's really hard to figure out who is stricter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:38 AM
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Some people define "fat" as morbidly obese and some people define it as higher end of healthy bmi. Really depends on the individual
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:32 AM
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I like guys who look brooding. Guys who get moody all of a sudden are attractive to me. My dad did that all the time when I was a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:29 AM
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I agree with this. I am attracted to people who are attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:27 AM
2

I always thought the hot exes were suddenly the worst asshole of all time after its over, and the ugly exes are just kind of irrelevant and forgotten about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:26 AM
2

Nice butt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:24 AM
1

What's the best source to learn about the red pill that isn't obnoxious people on YouTube?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:23 AM
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I mean as an adult with no social ties to a new place it takes a while before someone will talk to you. Like in an adult art class for example (personal experience) it takes a few sessions before someone will try to talk to me. Same thing happens at work. When I was a teenager and met other teenagers they were a lot more eager to talk to me right away. Bars and clubs are fundamentally different than a hobby club or meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:21 AM
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Yeah it comes off as toxic positivity. You know that feeling when you're really down or tired or whatever and suddenly some loud asshole is there acting like a clown trying to make everyone laugh? It's like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:14 AM
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They just want to feel like their despair is valid. Eventually they might want to improve their situation but for the moment they'd prefer to embrace the void
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:06 AM
2

It only takes like 10-15 minutes so it's easy to fit in time for harassing people on reddit into a relatively busy schedule
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:55 AM
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Don't even bother, I would rather just tell them it's over than do that. Some guys will start spamming my notifications by going through all of my old comments
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:49 AM

I dont feel bad about this at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:36 AM

Sometimes I don't bother if I know I'm gonna come home and take a shower. No one gets close enough to me to smell me really
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:31 AM
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I thought he was attractive and we developed an emotional bond. I also wanted to lose my virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:25 AM

some people have a hard time transitioning from teens to 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:16 AM
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I don't see how what he said was unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:05 AM

Men with female friends are more likely to understand female social dynamics and behavior. Not like a red pill guy knowing "female nature" but know the ins and outs and details of how women interact with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:46 PM
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No we didn't get high together. Sometimes he'd show up high.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:35 PM

I think its about social proof, men can prove they are trust worthy by having female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:29 PM
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Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:26 PM

Tag?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:21 PM

She doesn't look good in the first pic imo. I feel like I look better than her and I look like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:17 PM

It makes a decent difference but she looks off in the second photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:14 PM

Of comparing her sex appeal to a skinnyfat guy. They are both the same in my opinion. I am only envious of women with flat stomachs and a good hip to waist ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:09 PM

She won't be toned and probably won't have a flat stomach so what's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:06 PM

I disagree I've dated more than 1 good looking guy with an attractive sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:47 PM

The three on the left are acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:47 PM

I am actually very perceptive of when other women are flirting with a guy. I don't get emotional about it but the guy is always surprised or acts like it can't be true when I mention it to him later, rarely he will say that I am correct. It's also never waitresses, it will be women he knows from work or someone from his social circle. I've never been wrong also, the woman would always come out about it at some point later on. Women also are bad at hiding their feelings or interest which makes th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:44 PM

I like it until we are out and about and he starts talking to someone and I want to go the fuck home already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:22 PM

15% or less. I don't know what those shapes mean
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:20 PM

Low bodyfat with good shoulder to hip ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:17 PM

"Bad body" to most people means overweight, so even if they have a good face, it's ruined by fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:11 PM

??? I sacrifice my time energy and resources too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:35 PM
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I dont have enough disposable income for any of this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:34 PM
1

And be a 5'2" guy? No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:26 PM
1

Compulsive liars are more interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:20 PM
1

How do you make 25/hr but always be broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:15 PM
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Some of these women you guys talk about who banged every guy but couldn't get commitment sound like fucking losers tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:10 PM
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No I had sex with him because I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:08 PM
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Getting validation via sex with hot guys seems pretty pointless if they don't want to date you lol. You have to meet attractive men irl and be considered physically attractive in their opinion, which is easier to discern if you meet them at work or through friends than via an app. And you have to have an interesting personality as well to keep them interested. She has 0 game at all if she fucked dozens of guys and couldn't get any of them to stay. Complete L life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:21 PM
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I dont really have that good of a reason other than just not fitting in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:12 PM

I just think people need to be more aware if their SO is way more or less experienced than them. The less experienced partner usually gets FOMO or resents the more experienced one and the experienced one can kind of look down on the less experienced one. People need to be aware of this and not go in blind assuming everything will magically be okay "because they understand" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:06 PM
2

No I live the struggle love lifestyle with every relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:53 PM
3

I miss skinny jeans skater look
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:06 PM
2

Sounds like my male counterpart. I bet I'd like him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:04 PM
1

I think the tax situation will be fine because I am not doing this long term
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:59 PM
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I just realized eventually that if I wanted to earn more money the best thing to do other than whine and have to wait to get a better job I should just get a second job. The money from my second job direct deposits into a savings account and I don't use it. I am hoping to save 4-8 thousand dollars at which point I will stop working the second job and have my nest egg for emergencies or think about potential investments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:48 PM
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Did he make jokes about benzos
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:42 PM
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My reality is my reality. Other people don't see it the same way, but this is what I have observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:24 PM
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Disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:23 PM
1

Aesthetic vs unaesthetic vaginas is a real thing. Some guys value it highly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:17 PM
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I'm on here during my breaks at the warehouse and I browse this place at the office I work at. This is my #1 distraction from life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:16 PM
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I dont believe it will happen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:14 PM
1

Labia does matter to men. They make jokes about roast beef and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:10 PM
1

I dont expect things to improve. I need to keep my expectations as low as possible or I'll get beaten again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:09 PM
1

I work 6 days a week, 3 of those are 15-18 hour days
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:09 PM
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My dream is to make 60k per year and not having to put in any overtime to achieve that. That's it basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:07 PM
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Food banks are only open when I am at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:05 PM
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As if you can just one day decide to be rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:02 PM
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It's not really "maturing" if it feels like life is just wearing you down over time. Oh yes, I'm more mature now, what that really means is life has beaten me down too many times and I'm not about to stand back up to get clocked in the face again. Lower your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:02 PM
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I just see all these hypothetical situations of "what would you do if your bf got laid off" and I'm like... "starve?" It's not even conceivable to me, but yall UMC people can dream about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:55 PM
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He is 6'3" so not short
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:53 PM
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It took me a long time to finish my bachelor's and I spent a year looking for a job in my field and found nothing. I got a job in a related field but it barely pays more than minimum wage and I'm working at amazon on the side. My family are mostly successful college educated people who went to better universities and have actual careers and I'm kind of the family failure. I am considering cutting off my entire family for good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:47 PM
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Whenever guys say "just don't be fat" I am like well what about hip to waist ratio, boob size, ass shape, labia minora size and color, nipple/areola size and color, thigh gap, hip dips and all the other shit that's just genetics 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:41 PM
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I own basically nothing lol. Just a 15 year old car
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:37 PM
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Lol having a stay at home anything is financially impossible in my relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:33 PM
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Yeah I had a few friends but most people's parents were friends with other parents who had kids in their peer group. My only sibling is significantly older than me so I was always the only kid anywhere they took me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:32 PM
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You haven't said anything that weird other than the typical blackpill talking points. I guess I am comparing you to those blackpillers who are clearly having a psychotic episode who post deranged shit on here about how women deserve to die or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:30 PM
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I can kind of relate bc I was a late bloomer and it turns out I'm a late bloomer or a dud in other areas of life as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:23 PM
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My mom was 36 so def age gap from my dad but not like young young ykwim
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:20 PM
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I am reasonably self aware that I make other people uncomfortable or upset sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:20 PM
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Did you at least get to hang out with and play with other kids a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:19 PM

I dont know I never spent years of my life going for casual. Casual sex is usually like something you have in between ltrs. Most people don't spend that long of a time only pursuing casual and if they do their n count is like 30+ by age 23. They are good ltr candidates for each other in my opinion. Hugely mismatched experience levels are usually not conductive to ltrs. Like someone with n = 2 should not be with an n = 40
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:17 PM
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That's a normal age to have kids these days
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:13 PM
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Yeah being the child of older parents sucks. You don't get to socialize as much because they only take you to stuff old people like to do, you feel lonely among your peers. It's very isolating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:12 PM
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Nah my dad was 47 when I was born. I blame his old man sperm on why I am such a fuckup in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:10 PM
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My dad was 47 when I was born. I'm a product of that old guy sperm and look how I turned out. JUST WARNING YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:08 PM
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AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:06 PM
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I've heard of a woman ripping her urethra and her clit during childbirth and that really makes me want to kms
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:33 PM
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Link to study?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:27 PM
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No I think self aware as in they know where their motivations come from and the effect their behavior has on other people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:23 PM
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The fact is, that most people do not want to imagine unattractive people having sex or being sexual Someone tell this to Lena Dunham and Amy Schumer please
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:13 PM
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Men preferring women 5-10 years younger can't really start until the guy is 23-28, because age of consent is 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:49 PM
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You just need to delusionmaxx or try getting drunk all day so you always have beer goggles on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:25 AM
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Makes sense, alcoholism is a disgusting disease lol. I am not sure my fiance likes emotional instability because he wants someone easier to get. I think he likes the emotional highs and lows. He is genuinely attracted to emotional instability (as long as the person demonstrating that characteristic is physically attractive of course, an ugly unstable person is someone no one else likes).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:11 AM
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You have to do exposure therapy or basically deal with uncomfortable situations and start making the right choices over a period of time. It will take a long time before you feel totally confident
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:02 AM
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My advice isn't really meant for women who are only interested in extracting resources from guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:59 AM
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Yeah thats not really a positive thing to identify with. It kind of reeks of disordered thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:34 AM
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Most people who hate the opposite sex either have a lot of baggage or are just extremely ignorant and are too inexperienced to know better. Either way their perspective is too narrow. Traumatized people are hard to talk to because they are in fight or flight mode constantly, ignorant people are hard to talk to because they are fucking stupid. It's a toss up in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:32 AM
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The first four are traits that are relatively easy to find in guys who are not assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:22 AM
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I think she's an interesting figure but definitely not a role model unless you're into dying tragically
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:20 AM
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Theres a spectrum between being nice and being a psychotic murderer. There are guys who are naturally morally grey, who can act rude or dominant in certain situations but not others. Where is this black and white thinking coming from? It does not take years to develop some nice traits and some maladjusted traits. Most people are neither good nor bad. Find yourself a non doormat who doesn't kill puppies? That's not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:14 AM
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I'm a woman here. I get love goggles really bad so I genuinely think the guys I date look better than male models. Idk how yall survive not being like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:11 AM
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Firey redhead is a big trope, I assume guys see it and think she is feisty. Feisty women usually like aggressive guys or guys who will push back against them when they are being unreasonable. So they are probably playing into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:44 AM
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Going for the best genes is the woman's natural biological imperative though. Going for money means disregarding your own biological imperative in exchange for money. The point of sex is to exchange genetic information, John wants to do that but due to his circumstances he feels that paying is the only way rather than finding a genuine mutual attraction. If you think like this that means you think all non paid sex is also prostitution because most people have sex due to attraction. And a beta bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:38 AM
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I think most guys correlate archetypes with specific traits. I know a lot of guys who like blonde women for example and they tend to prefer a more happy, uplifting type. And guys who like brunettes tend to prefer introverted and/or cynical women. My fiance likes goth women who are suffering from mental health problems. I actually don't know what is attractive about being a psychiatric case but it seems like there are a lot of men who are very interested in that specifically. I can't really knock…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:23 AM
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I mean the things I described are all part of looks. Sexy to some guys is tall red heads with big boobs, to others it's dark haired women with a beautiful face. There's some common themes though. Tall is usually sexy or beautiful, short is usually cute or sexy. Some guys like tight athletic asses (cute/ beautiful), some like big fat asses (sexy/cute). And there's usually some personality traits guys really like, some like bitchy/mean, others like meek shy girls, and sometimes they like really sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:02 AM
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He would have to actually exchange something for that to be a valid argument. Chad does not lose his physical attractiveness to have sex. A John has to give money away and now he's poorer as a result to bang a prostitute. Banging a hot guy does not make the woman more attractive either. If anything it makes her less desirable if the guys on here are any measure of what men value. Women are giving away their sexual purity in exchange for fucking Chad. Chad only gains from this interaction, he los…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:48 AM
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I know a guy who likes busty/curvy short girls and tall slender model types. The facial characteristics he likes are similar to each other though. Rounded jawline, long nose, smaller eyes. Slavic looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:35 AM
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I think most people have a recognizable pattern of common characteristics they are attracted to. A lot of guys I know have multiple types, usually one that is "cute, lovable, adorable" and one that's "sexy, alluring, hot". Some of them have a "graceful, elegant, beautiful" type as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:32 AM
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I know that feeling pretty well. I feel you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:29 AM
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Looks is not currency as it is an immutable characteristic and not something you earn. Obviously in the dating market looks are "valuable" because they bypass money and resources and get you real affection and desire. Theres a huge difference between fucking someone who thinks you're hot and someone you had to pay to fuck you. Like an ocean of difference. Chad isn't exchanging anything he has to give up for sex. He fucks, and he's still just as attractive as he was before. Meanwhile a John is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:26 AM
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No thanks fuck that I don't want to have the stigma of herpes so even if it's "not a big deal" medically I will pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:16 AM
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I am currently using adderall to get through excruciating workdays and I notice even during the time it's wearing off you can't sleep for the first week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:11 AM
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Oh yeah, I prefer guys who have more dating and sexual experience than me. They have more to talk about and my history is usually kind of vanilla/nothing special in comparison. I have a few couple year long gaps in my dating life as well. I am very particular about who I date and I am very motivated to turn it into a long term relationship. I am pretty ruthless when it comes to getting what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:07 AM
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Yeah coke makes you feel crazy af. The comedown is kind of atrocious tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:00 AM
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If it weren't for hormonal birth control I don't know what I'd do. I don't like condoms either 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:59 AM
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I was 17 he was 16. He made minimum wage as a courtesy clerk at Safeway, so probably like 9 dollars an hour for maybe 8 or 16 hours a week. This was first sexual experiences in general not PIV. Just looked it up, 9.04 per hour the first year and 9.19 the second year, I don't know if he got any raises during that time but let's calculate: 9.04 x 8 = 72.32, over 4 weeks it's 289.28. Let's take off 13% for taxes and there's no state income tax here so roughly 251.67 per month sometimes a little mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:55 AM
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Oh I actually hate it when junkies replace their drug of choice with Jesus. It feels disingenuous for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:39 AM
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It's not my fault. I'm cracking up lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:35 AM
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I was over here thinking guys didn't like condoms. It's whatever though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:32 AM
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I've done coke a couple times and maybe fucked on it once? It wasn't memorable, coke just doesn't do it for me for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:31 AM
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I think heroin ruins your dick game for life tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:29 AM
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No I think those are a part of her skirt. You can tell because the strings are dipping too far towards the center of her abdomen, if it was a thong they would dip more towards the sides because what she is wearing is high waisted. If that was a thong she'd have a serious front wedgie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:25 AM
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If she's on birth control she's getting dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:23 AM
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Oh yeah I've talked to young good looking guys and they've all met a 50 year old woman they consider a stone cold fox before. I think most men do find older women (at least a handful) to be very attractive in a unique way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:22 AM
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Idk maybe she thinks you're broke
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:19 AM
1

I like ketamine sex or GHB sex more. But I'm dark sided so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:18 AM
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It's a lot of useful information you can use to extrapolate how he might end up feeling about you and where the relationship will go. You should actually compare yourself to his exes as long as you can remain rational and measured. Not everyone can but its very useful to know where you are in the hierarchy of women he's been with. Ideally you want to be at the top within a year of dating, so you need to be aware of how to get him to like you more than the other ones. Which is also information yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:12 AM
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I don't agree with the concept of not talking about exes. You learn *so* much about someone through talking about their past relationships. Honestly I want to know when your last relationship was and what happened for it to end on the first date. How they talk about this says a lot about their emotional state, their maturity, and what they are about as a person. This is extremely accurate. I always get information about exes. Names, when and for how long they dated, how and why they broke up, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:04 AM
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6 ft flat. Tall but not too tall
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:31 AM
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They do definitely but most women care about facial looks a decent amount, there's a sizable minority that don't care as much about it and want a 6'4" guy at any cost but they are still the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:26 AM
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Also one of the reasons face might be more important is social media and selfies, as well as TV and film. People develop their tastes looking at close up shots of faces from a young age. I think it will be even more important in a few years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:21 AM
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The seasons change and a bunch of women who prefer face over height joined.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:18 AM
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I haven't noticed a difference but I'm on progesterone only bc so idk if that has any impact
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:01 AM
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Older women don't play games, go after what they want, have a high sex drive, and provide a great sexual experience. That's more or less what they offer to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:52 PM
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This is gross 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:50 PM
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Unfortunately I fart in my sleep sometimes so that may not be avoidable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:47 PM
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Apparently I fart in my sleep sometimes which sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:46 PM
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I'm working 2 jobs currently so I'd have to extend the amount of time I am working 2 jobs, I'm planning on going back to one job in a few weeks. But yeah I'd cover it. He would need to find a new job ASAP because I'm getting worn out from the lack of sleep/rest working 2 jobs. If he didn't I might actually start suffering negative health effects from working this schedule for a prolongued period of time so it's kind of imperative that he also works. I'm not like a lot of the people on here who c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:39 PM
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Date: don't poop, only fart if you're outside and can be away from him for a few seconds Boyfriend: poop discretely, farting indoors ok as long as he can't hear or smell it Husband: poop like normal, farting indoors ok as long as he can't see or smell it Farting in cars should be avoided if possible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:32 PM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:16 PM
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What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:15 PM
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I never went on a lot of first dates with a lot of guys or anything I'd always just go with the best guy out of the ones who I knew liked me. Dating people you're friends with is a solid strategy for women, not so much for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:14 PM
1

he won't accept that he's unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:12 PM
1

Oh shit lol I don't think I've ever made a guy gain weight before
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:10 PM
1

Noooo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:05 PM
1

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:05 PM
1

What are they saying. Rizzler?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:04 PM
1

He has that crazy metabolism
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:51 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/jngajqoap7yb1.png?width=1414&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6e21aa4565a076b646c6d6928f43bf983b3cf780
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:49 PM
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Yeah everyone I've been with has been around my age and had not much money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:47 PM
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Yeah he was 509 lbs last time we talked. He's into that feeder shit so he wants to get even heavier if possible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:45 PM
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Nice boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:42 PM
1

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:37 PM
1

What
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:36 PM
2

Probably not. There's hot people all over the country there's just less of them in less densely populated areas
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:36 PM

Another wonderful schizopost from iamslightlysad. What are you talking about???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:35 PM
2

Lol no way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:33 PM
1

I bet they'd clean off everything I can't finish from my plate every time no matter how disgusting it was. This is why I love my 500 lb friend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:32 PM
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Men's role in my life, the most important thing they can do, is be my personal "get out of guilt free" dumpster for all the food and snacks I can't finish. It's not a deal breaker if you eat like a bird but there's just something about a dumpster man I like
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:30 PM
1

I imagine she has a cute tight ass but not a phat booty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:27 PM
3

How would that be enforced
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:26 PM
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Oh yeah I'd prefer a boyfriend who can be my personal dumpster for all the food I can't finish. So much less guilt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:09 PM
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Just take it home in a box and have it for lunch the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:07 PM
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No I am intensely jealous of them and their ability to stay slim so effortlessly. Also I like people who trigger my desire to stop eating, helps keep my eye on the prize (21% bf)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:01 PM
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People who have anxiety either love weed or it makes their anxiety worse. Most people like weed so it's not that common but it is a potential side effect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:57 PM
1

You'll probably be fine. Just don't panic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:54 PM
1

Depends on what the strain is and how it interacts with your brain chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:50 PM
2

I have like 300 hours in that game from like ... 5 years ago. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:49 PM
1

He could have aged better if he wasn't so feminine and youthful when younger. Those kinds of features age poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:47 PM
2

We call that "twink death" where I'm from
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:46 PM
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I like minecraft but don't really play many games other than that. Not much of a gaymer gorl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:45 PM
2

I'm excited for the alcoholic part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:40 PM
4

Lots of guys mock female preferences as well. There's nothing anyone can do to change the preference
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:32 PM
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I think it's because he's a celebrity people decided they don't like anymore due to his dating habits or whatever. I really don't care about him to be honest, whenever he is used as an example of "male behavior" it's like, he's a famous multimillionaire. He's not a normal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:53 PM
1

Sounds like most office jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:32 PM
1

What's your profession
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:25 PM
2

Okay I will return to commenting under automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:08 PM
3

The cosmetic surgery industry would not be as popular as it is if middle aged women with a good income weren't getting procedures done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:00 PM
1

Sounds like a regular midlife crisis to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:52 PM
2

Earning within a certain income bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:50 PM
1

At work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:38 PM
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These hypotheticals are getting more and more outlandish every day. I don't care, I will never meet someone in a similar situation to this so what the fuck am I supposed to think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:30 PM
2

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:26 PM
3

Thanks it was inspired from a comment on one of my posts in the daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:24 PM
2

My flair has "women" in it. Is that really not enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:21 PM
6

I mean I dated a guy whose mom was an alcoholic pill head. He sent me a video of her shooting up while she was crashing on the couch of the woman he was living with at the time. That was a lot to process for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:16 PM
2

Don't most people start out as bluepilled and then only a select few discover the red pill and the black pill? Most people are delusional then, it's not anything special to be delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:08 PM
1

American Psycho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:07 PM
1

If you are conflict avoidant like me it can be really hard to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:55 PM
1

I hope so, I am going to try to achieve the heroin chic look.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:27 PM
1

Win what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:17 PM
1

I'm not blue pilled but I am also not red pilled. The best most useful advice I have is to get into drug culture if you just want to get laid. People don't notice your awkwardness when they are fucked up. It's not great advice for the other parts of life though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:17 PM
1

It's a fancy pants app for rich people with influence and status. I doubt most people here have used it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:13 PM
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Emotional labor is, "managing emotions during interactions (e.g., organizational outsiders) to achieve professional goals and conform to work role requirements"). Being emotionally supportive outside of a work or labor role is not emotional labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:04 PM
1

24
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:01 PM
1

You will still have to tell people your chronological age, and that comes with assumptions about you no matter what you look like in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:42 PM
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It can just be a mental toll. Some women are sensitive to that and just paying for your own food might mitigate him potentially feeling swindled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:34 PM
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If the guy pays he will have leverage to complain about it. Obviously he's not entitled to sex either way but if he pays and then you say "not interested" and stop dating him he can complain he spent 80 dollars at Applebee's online.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:30 PM
1

Yeah all the features that make you look really young age incredibly badly. People tell me I "will still look 18 at 30" but I'm calling bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:19 PM
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Oh yeah the same thing happened to me. But once you start looking 17-18 it starts getting easier. I am just worried that I will suddenly go from looking forever underage, to normal, and then suddenly look really fucking old. That will mean I never actually got to have a prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:16 PM
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I actually haven't been paying attention to age-gap threads for a while now, only briefly look at "wall" posts. I mean the fact is that you can get simps at any age, you can have your dms exploding and get 9999+ matches on tinder. There are high end escorts who are pushing 50 and still get clients. But a lot of guys talk about how early 20s women are the best, sometimes they talk about even younger women on other sites, talking about jb and stuff like that. 45 year old women often get cheated on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:13 PM
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If I was single and 50+ I'd probably just commit to the single life. There's no point in trying to date at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:08 PM
2

I thought it was commonly accepted that aging affects women more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:06 PM
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It took years for me to start looking like an adult, it wasn't a sudden transition. People always say that looking too young for your age is a secret blessing but honestly you still have to tell people your chronological age anyways. So what if you look 21 at 25? People will hear "25" and they will make a completely different list of assumptions about you than if you had said "21".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:56 PM
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If they never get laid ever they often can't move past it. It makes sense, losing your virginity is a big milestone for people. After it happens you're like "that was it?" and move on, but I can understand why people are so insecure about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:54 PM
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I mean everyone looks young in college, but looking like a fucking child is awful...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:50 PM
2

I haven't had that many breakups. Like 3 major ones but they all flattened me for months afterwards. I usually don't like to date again until it's been a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:47 PM
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It's not really a travesty for anyone but the guys experiencing it. For people in general it's kind of the natural order of things. Nature is cruel lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:45 PM

I got psychological damage from my high school relationship so I guess I've been post wall since age 17. Sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:41 PM

At 18 people thought I looked 13. It actually felt really awful when I was 19 and heading into a college class and the dean of the school was like "wow you look so young. I thought you were in middle school." JFC that was painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:38 PM

22-24ish. I finally started looking like an adult at that age. Before that people thought I was underage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:37 PM

I was never under any illusion that short or ugly guys had it a lot worse than average and attractive guys. But I really don't know what to say to guys like that though, "sorry it's not your fault but you will have a lot more trouble with romance, sex, and dating than other guys who did literally nothing to earn it" seems like a tough pill to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:32 PM

Yeah I disagree with that. If you're dying on the side of the road you'd ask anyone to call an ambulance for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:22 PM

I'm a woman so my perception of looks is a bit different. I think most people look their best at around 24-27 when their face fully matures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:21 PM

Psychological wall? Whats that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:19 PM

I like jobs with downtime but only if I am allowed to browse the internet mindlessly or have some kind of distraction. Working at amazon, my last shift was as a "push" associate, which means that they stacked packages on a conveyor belt and all the packages marked "C" or "D" got pushed to the other side of the conveyor belt. That is all I did for 7 hours. It gave me too much time to ruminate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:19 PM

How is me feeling sympathy for guys who are 5'3'' but still not dating them going to make them feel better in any meaningful way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:16 PM

Genitals in porn look better than the nudes posted to r/normalnudes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:14 PM

No I have always understood that younger = better to most men. When I was 21 I knew guys preferred 18 year olds, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:13 PM

I thought 27 was post wall. I'm confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:07 PM

You would think women becoming more like men by prioritizing looks would make men better able to relate to us, but instead the opposite has happened. There's an entire movement for guys who think their looks aren't up to par. Kind of fucked up but it's whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:45 PM

Theres probably some other busy work you can do. Follow up calls, emails, scheduling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:41 PM

I mean she didn't hate men but she gets violent and physically abusive with her older brother when she doesn't get her way or things are going bad. Definitely a solid 9 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:38 PM

I dont think it's necessarily settling more like being realistic about your own age and going for things other than just looks. But women always want to be improving, they always want to become hotter and have their glow up but that chart shows them they can't really improve that much past age 24. A bit depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:31 PM

Makes sense. The good looking guys get a lot more attention, this has been true since middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:28 PM

I've never been a receptionist but I applied for several receptionist jobs. They seemed more complicated than what she says but maybe I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:27 PM

I need my emotional support himbo or else things are going to get ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:21 PM

I guess it's the implicit message of "you're only really hot for a very brief couple year window and after that you're leftovers" mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:19 PM

Probably take a nap or get some McDonald's to make me feel better. Or, go online.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:15 PM
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Lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:14 PM
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Oooh I have my nails done but they aren't claw shaped.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:13 PM
1

PERFECT
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:12 PM
1

No average and unattractive men still shoot their shot with Stacy. Just because you think she's too far out of your league to try doesn't mean other men around your same attractiveness level are the same way. Most of the people who are interested in a given person will be less attractive than them. That's just how it works. Occasionally someone looksmatched or slightly above your level will be interested, and those are the people you end up dating for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:03 PM
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Okay so imagine you are a single woman at a bar. You see a guy who is mildly drunk but decent looking so you keep looking at him until you make eye contact. He will approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:52 PM

If I am feeling off despite everything being good, it's probably drug related (could be aftereffects, mild wds, or a bad high). The answer is to do more drugs and escape that feeling. If you do enough drugs you'll get mindfucked but eventually you get used to it. I almost never feel normal anymore but I am also working 68 hours a week with no rest fueled by adderall, greed, and abject hopelessness. I might just decide to blow all my extra money on something stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:50 PM

Mismatched libidos can destroy a relationship. The higher libido partner will feel rejected, unwanted, unattractive, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:36 PM
2

How old?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:33 AM
1

High blood pressure, addictive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:57 AM
1

It does not feel that way to me but that's whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:29 AM
1

It makes you extremely focused, calm, alert, improves memory. Its basically a wonder drug for studying and doing projects.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:28 AM
1

What was your major in undergrad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:22 AM
1

You described my fiance perfectly. He also works in the trades and is a massive stoner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:18 AM
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Idk I abused my adderall prescription and that freed up a lot of time for me. My major was also visual communication design and I knew a lot of the shit already from years of art and Adobe classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:17 AM
2

With cheap hair extensions and all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:11 AM
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My work ethic is okay I guess. All time I am not making money is basically worthless to me, that is what I tell myself to get through working 16 hour days. Character is shit, and it's even worse now that I am sleep deprived and barely eating. So I guess I am just below average rather than total shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:09 AM
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Oh my god. That could be my new flair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:02 AM
2

Oh yeah scrapbooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:01 AM
2

What do you define as low status?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:58 AM
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His pickup truck is filled with crap so there's no room
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:53 AM
2

What options are there? Real estate agents and sales people need people skills and extroversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:53 AM
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I'm working 2 jobs I am pretty low status lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:50 AM
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Eh. Thinking "midwestern mom" things. Maybe I should sit in on a PTA meeting or something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:48 AM
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Men have a lot of options for making 80k without college. Women with no college degree are SOL. That's why more women attend college these days
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:47 AM
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I realized I became the ultimate lower middle class white woman this week. I worked 68 hours but still found time to make a cheeseburger casserole (extremely midwestern) for a work potluck and bring it in hot. What other things do lower middle class white women do? Being obese is not an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:41 AM
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My skill is like. Painting and writing. Neither pay well. Being an artistic person is a huge waste of a life on someone low status such as myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:40 AM
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Because college is a time where you don't have to work full time and can just fuck around and have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:33 AM
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I have to go through a 99% rejection rate applying for jobs. Its not the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:31 AM
2

I'm shocked she didn't block me when I was insulting polyamorous people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:30 AM
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How would a woman make decent money with no college degree? Men have the trades but there's no equivalent for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:27 AM

Oh whoops
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:26 AM

Should I try to upgrade to being trailer trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:16 AM

I realized I became the ultimate lower middle class white woman this week. I worked 68 hours but still found time to make a cheeseburger casserole (extremely midwestern) for a work potluck and bring it in hot. What other things do lower middle class white women do? Being obese is not an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:15 AM
2

I am lower middle class and most women I know make less than 50k.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:40 AM
1

In my personal life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:30 AM
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If they end up together she will not be able to afford the lifestyle they live on her own. Just because she makes enough to live an OK life on her own doesn't mean she is satisfied with that. Women want a high earning man because they don't want to live in a 1 bedroom apartment in a mediocre area for the rest of their lives. At least this is my interpretation of why women want a guy who makes 6 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:22 AM

If you are low libido I am guessing the woman you end up with will be much higher libido than you. Not sure why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:19 AM

So in relationships where the woman is ugly, they are both more likely to cheat on each other. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:12 AM
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Women from UMC families but are just starting out in their careers don't make 6 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:09 AM

Yeah I almost mentioned the n = 2 people in my comment but I decided to leave it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:57 AM
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A woman with a less affluent background.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:53 AM

I have to think about this for a minute
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:50 AM

Idk a lot of people say promiscuity is okay and not an indicator of future infidelity on reddit but when I look up promiscuity on Google it's a bunch of studies about the negative impact it has. People who slept around before they got married are more likely to cheat according to statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:45 AM
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Those are the guys working class women aspire to be with. UMC women don't appreciate them like a woman living a more humble life would.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:36 AM

Inb4 reddit post: "my husband discovered I had a gang bang with 6 ex convicts" to r/relationshipadvice. Video evidence and all. Also plot twist she's pregnant. Predictable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:34 AM

All the women are saying "absolutely not" and then there's this guy. Way to flip the script
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:26 AM

It's a science mumbo jumbo word for people who are more okay with/seek out casual sex or sex outside of a committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:24 AM

I will probably forget about it and a few months from now there will be banana peels on my car and I'll get kidnapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:19 AM

People who are high on sociosexuality are probably more likely to cheat. BPD people are also often serial cheaters. People who use sex as validation probably can't stop cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:17 AM

Some women are hypervigilant to this stuff. Others might not even be aware of it. Otherwise this kind of trap wouldn't work. I didn't know about this before but I'm making a mental note of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:12 AM
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I'm over here overdosing on pathos
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:08 AM

I notice girls who date felons are usually not very smart. The smarter women who like bad boys go for the guys who don't end up getting caught lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:02 AM

She sounds like one of my friends with a much lower count but still only dates felons. She's extremely attractive but she also can get physically abusive and screams when things aren't going well for her. Her mom had borderline personality disorder so it figures she ended up the way she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:50 AM

My 5'9" good looking ex boyfriend was always getting a lot of female attention much to his 6ft (a little above-) average looking friends chagrin. I've seen that dynamic ^ several times afterwards as well. I think face is more important than height as long as you're not significantly below average in that department.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:44 AM

How promiscuous are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:38 AM

I avoid low libido guys like the plague. That arrangement is unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:34 AM
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What is the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:11 AM

Used to but we don't see each other anymore. I actually can't remember her name. I dont know, probably. She was living in Seattle downtown near the international district so I'm sure she's seen some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:07 AM

It's an odd but satisfying dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:05 AM

I just know it's better to be on roughly equal footing with a guy. Someone who can relate to your life experiences and maybe had it even worse than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:00 AM

I love these kinds of edits
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:58 AM

But the opposite is common. Who wants a happy ending in their book? I prefer things ending in tragedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:56 AM

I feel like romance would be a better genre if there was higher stakes for the characters beyond "will they won't they?" I like high drama, like the Sopranos and Breaking Bad where the stakes are "they end up in prison or die".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:55 AM

Which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:53 AM

My scale sometimes changes the weight while the food is still on it. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:52 AM

I dont like the idea but I'm an outlier and kind of a weirdo so can't extrapolate based off me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:48 AM

That is the exact type of vibe I am going for. Path of destruction type shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:38 AM

Yeah I'm trying to lose weight. I started working at amazon so I'm no longer sedentary so I can afford to ballpark guess now and still lose weight. Weighing food is extremely mentally taxing on me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:36 AM

I also dislike it when I know things aren't being measured correctly. I stopped letting my bf cook for me because it was so stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:32 AM

It will mostly be the man corrupting the woman or gay guys, which I am not opposed to necessarily. But the woman turning the guy bad is pretty uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:30 AM

I haven't read that much romance to be honest. I used to in middle school read fanfiction and fiction written for online that was about romance but I prefer crime dramas and fantasy genres. Nowadays I mostly like shit like Taxi Driver and Nightcrawler. So loner guys who are maladjusted committing crimes basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:29 AM

Just so you have something to put in your calorie logging app when the food is only measurable by milliliters. Sometimes shit like a casserole is only measurable by milliliters what the fuck is up with that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:22 AM

Only 11 comments. Wow such a rich genre. If I am reading a romance book or erotic novel it needs to be like the peak of perfection in the craft. I need to experience all the emotions and be shook for weeks afterwards. Anything less and meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:20 AM

The fantasy always ends with one or both of us dying tragically anyways so no need to worry about the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:15 AM

I do like guys wearing beanies but usually they have longish hair underneath. I like that kind of carhartt chic look somewhere between like, a carpenter and a skater. That aesthetic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:11 AM

Honestly it's kind of hard to say because they were all roughly the same attractiveness level in my opinion. Edit: the "ugliest" is a 7, hottest is an 8-8.5. My rating? I don't know, I can't rate myself accurately. No I do not want to know what my rating is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:04 AM

Corruption
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:01 AM
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90% of CEOs are 6ft+ You cant reach the same level of life success if you are 5'6" than if you were 6 ft
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:59 PM

Theres so much more heightened emotions and drama as he slips further and further away from God. Call me emperor Palpatine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:52 PM

I'm always evil in my fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:30 PM

It would basically create another Baby Boom imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:21 PM

Broke: Turning a murderer into an upstanding citizen Woke: Just dating the upstanding citizen to begin with Bespoke: Turning the upstanding citizen into a murderer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:20 PM

And there are no romance/erotic books about turning a good boy to the dark side. Lame
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:10 PM

Guys with the potential to be a bad boy after you ruin them >>>>>>> all the others
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:07 PM

I mean if you want to participate in hookup culture but don't want to put in the effort, why should anyone have sympathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:31 PM

I actually did not realize the bar was so high to participate in hookup culture for men. I recall a few years ago one of my friends who was always talking about how ugly he is and how no girls liked him finally got a BPD gf who dumped him and he had a villainous hoe phase/revenge arc where he ran through about 15 girls off of tinder afterwards. I was like "I guess if the guy who says he is ugly can do it, anyone can!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:21 PM

"Just go to grad school and be a forever college student!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:16 PM

I am curious about this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:14 PM

I don't doubt that a higher percentage of incels are truly ugly compared to the general population, but they almost never post photos of themselves online so that makes it seem like it's mostly normal looking guys. Unfortunately that leads to people online telling incels who are actually probably completely fucked that they just need to be more confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:10 PM

People want to send me their pics. IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:06 PM

I have just met some incels online who send me photos and they are usually decent looking, enough to where if they were at a party or whatever it is not inconceivable that there would be women there who would be receptive to being approached by them. Really, truly ugly guys never send pics. So my perception is kind of distorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:01 PM

I don't really push the personality is all you need shit on here. You need to meet a looks threshold first before your personality matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:57 PM

I think what he wants is possible for a male 6 or a guy who can fit into a specific niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:56 PM
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I can DM you the photo he sent me if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:55 PM

There was a mentalcel who started messaging me a few weeks ago who was Chad level attractive he just did not leave his apartment for like 2 years. He was convinced he was subhuman. Unsurprisingly when he went out and cold approached he got a blowjob on his first try. There are always outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:52 PM

It is really hard for me to fully understand the guys who talk about how ugly they are online when there's no photographic evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:45 PM
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Guys also use random questionnaires and statistics on here, all the time, every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:33 PM
1

That gets really fucked up when it gets combined with DDlg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:24 PM
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Adult baby diaper lover?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:14 PM
1

Yeah losing my v card was not really that fun of an experience tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:08 PM
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Technically they bring less since their salary can't afford to take care of a family of 4 or buy a house all on their own. My fiance "uplevels" my life because he was able to get us an apartment in a bad situation. IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:03 PM
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Why lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:58 PM
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The "average women" in this scenario are probably the top 10% in terms of sociosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:54 PM
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Upper Middle Class and Middle Class
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:50 PM
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I don't make anywhere near 6 figures and neither does my fiance. Making that much money only really matters for attracting UMC and some MC women, who are the ones who write all the articles about "economically unattractive men" in those magazines you guys are always citing, because they have money and appealing to people with money is most publisher's MO. Working class and lower middle class women probably can't even dream of getting a guy that makes that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:44 PM
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This is a debate sub about dating and sex. Other people's preferences kind of have to be considered in order to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:39 PM
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I really like this singer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:37 PM
2

I am 100% willing to pay my way in drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:30 PM
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She was married to him so there was an expectation of fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:21 PM
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I've just been using cash for that. Should I get a checkbook?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:20 PM
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I don't think they fit in with the definition of a Chad because they weren't 6ft+ with a really square jaw. They were niche appeal guys (emo/goth) but they were attractive enough that there were other women interested in them. I am just saying the idea that women are unaware the guys they like are attractive to other women is not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:05 PM
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I was always aware that the guys I liked were also being pursued by other women and knew that they could end up with someone else easily. I wasn't really thinking about other guys and how much attention they get though to be honest. You need to be aware of your competition so you don't get too complacent and end up with him slipping through your fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:59 PM
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Depending on the situation, it's either a deliberate misrepresentation of facts for sympathy, or it could just be a complete lack of self awareness. Your example was just way more on the deliberate misrepresentation side of the spectrum. I know how addicts think, they are usually more self aware than they seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:54 PM
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I actually don't think it is attractive to men. Men are uncomfortable with it, but they are more willing to look past it in women. Some guys who are "fixers" like it because they think it adds emotional depth and they can be the hero or whatever but those guys aren't the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:52 PM
2

Baby trappers are not known for their ability to think logically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:45 PM
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I think the addict situation is fundamentally different from people who blame other people for the trouble in their lives. The woman you described sounds like she wants people to give her money so she is spinning a sob story to extract donations from people who don't know her real situation. As a heroin addict she is also either high, coming down from a high, or going through withdrawals which distort her ability to accurately assess herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:41 PM
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I think she knows she is lying. Addicts are very crafty and good at manipulation/lying. An addict man would likely say the same kind of thing. It's not that she's not self-aware, she is trying to deceive other people in order to get something out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:29 PM
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Child support is one of those things that I don't think anyone can get out of. The non primary parent will always have to fork over cash each month because those are the rules I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:26 PM
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I can understand wanting to explore kinks your committed partner is not interested in. The idea of going your whole life without trying them does seem a bit depressing. I don't support cheating though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:22 PM
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But plastic surgery is still a for profit endeavor that isn't covered by insurance. Eventually they will want to sell more surgeries to more customers, and the price will need to be reduced so they can get a higher volume customer base. That is my thinking at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:20 PM
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I feel like OP thinks being more masculine is better and women should adopt more masculine traits, but then if they do, he will complain that women are too masculine now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:17 PM
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I would often opt to not eat breakfast at all since I was usually waking up late for school anyways. Helped keep me slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:15 PM
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/s?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:10 PM
1

Yeah I asked my old therapist about how often married people cheat, he said over half do (the people he meets are of a certain demographic so that could explain why the number is so high). He said the motivation is that cheating sex is more naughty to a lot of people, and that men often cheat to explore sexual fantasies they can't enact with their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:10 PM
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Perhaps men should try to be more agreeable and women should try to be more disagreeable. Oh wait, that's also bad for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:08 PM
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I think it will be a lot more worth it when they develop newer techniques to mitigate the potential risks of the surgery and when the cost of the surgery goes down (if it ever does). The guys who take the risks nowadays are extremely desperate or just not risk averse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:06 PM
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Are there enough healthy and stable women out there for those guys? Unhealthy people should be with unhealthy people and vice versa in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:05 PM
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I don't think most women find men who are doormats to be attractive unless she's some kind of domme.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:03 PM
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I just think of cash and my bank account as two separate money sources. Usually I will take the cash out of my bank account and it naturally gets deducted that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:02 PM
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No he was a communist/socialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:56 PM
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I think people who have affairs despite being married, having kids, a job and a ton of obligations are probably more motivated than other people. They have more energy just naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:56 PM
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How do you have a boyfriend or a husband that has no expectations of you? I thought relationships always have expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:52 PM
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I recall my elementary school had french toast sticks you could dip in a maple syrup cup. Those were good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:51 PM
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It's only a risk for the higher earning partner. If you find someone who makes the same or more than you, the risks are mitigated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:48 PM
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Yeah I admire your dedication. I hope you find someone soon
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:47 PM
1

I've heard it's still very expensive in Greece and Turkey and that the standards for surgery there are different from over here, meaning there's a higher risk of complications.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:46 PM
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I just think it's like an admission that you don't value yourself, that you have no value to your partner, and trying to revel in that realization. It also goes against our natural biological desire for (men) not having your woman get pregnant by another man (women) not having your man get another woman pregnant. That is why I think it is unnatural. With group sex or threesomes at least everyone gets to participate/have pleasure. There are also cuckolds in my dms trying to proposition me to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:43 PM
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Yeah but not everyone can save that much money. Most people live paycheck to paycheck. Plus, saving that much could take years. If I was a man and I wanted to be 6ft, I'd want to be tall for my prime years 21-35.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:35 PM
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How? Most people live low key lives and don't cause a lot of trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:29 PM
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I am a woman in the typical man's position of not really caring about getting married, but he really wants to because of his religion. I don't really have any assets to lose so it's whatever in my opinion. If I had like a huge savings account or owned property or something it might be different. My sister's husband is trying to divorce her for the 3rd time and he says he wants to go after her retirement account. He is the lower earner so he stands to gain financially from the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:27 PM
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I was always late to school so that's probably why I missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:21 PM
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Actually not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:20 PM
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I'm looking at my local school district's school lunch menu page and I am honestly kind of shocked public schools serve breakfast as well. I don't think my elementary school served breakfast, is this a new thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:18 PM
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It will increase the size of your masseter muscles which will make your face wider and your jaw will look bigger so I would say probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:15 PM
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The average woman probably works 40 hours a week as a receptionist, a nurse, a teacher or maybe she stocks shelves at Walmart. She probably isn't loud or obnoxious and mostly sticks to her social circle and doesn't cause that much trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:14 PM
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It is prohibitively expensive. It's like almost 100 k for that, basically the same as tuition at an Ivy League University.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:11 PM
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It's an alternative lifestyle but I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:09 PM
2

You know what your comment on horse faces is actually true. Does your face height depend on hgh levels?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:08 PM
2

There are a lot of sobering statistics on height and life outcomes related to mental health, income, job advancement etc. It's not just a disadvantage in dating, it's a disadvantage in life in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:07 PM
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I saw a Rehab Room video that was addressing his video on short > tall and it pretty much ripped him a new asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:06 PM
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What even is a hobby group? Is it like taking adult classes? I've taken adult art classes before many times and I only made 1 or 2 friends over the course of several years. But I take high level intermediate or advanced art classes for learning specific techniques in a given artistic medium (oil, acrylic, charcoal, pastel, graphite). I have heard that at the artilier program which is basically like a full time school that people would leave their wives/husbands for someone they met doing that, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:02 PM
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I probably should have used something that had fat in it to make it less dry. All these low fat diet products don't work lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:55 PM
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Isn't that the guy that made the video about why being short is "scientifically better" than being tall despite the fact that every 2 inches below average a man is, his odds of committing suicide increase 9%?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:53 PM
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I don't like cucking in general. I find it disgusting and unnatural. Threesomes or group sex is okay I guess, not that I am into it, just that it does not viscerally disgust me the same way that cucking does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:52 PM
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Chunk chicken in general is very dry in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:50 PM
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I like turning chunk chicken into a chicken salad. I made a huge bowl of salad for like 200 calories using fat free greek yoghurt instead of mayo/sour cream + chunk chicken. It's so dry though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:46 PM
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No sympathy for cuckolds. I wish they would gtfo my dms
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:44 PM
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Okay that's a bigger sacrifice than loaning a cheap bottle of wine or buying a $1.25 pregnancy test. He needs to figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:40 PM
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Are you willing to self-sacrifice for his sake in return? If so the relationship is unbalanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:36 PM
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I've lurked .is. I did find that one guy complaining about how he was stalking an escort and got blacklisted funny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:33 PM
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Tell that to my 500 lb friend who does feeder kink stuff with normal weight women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:27 PM
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Canned chunk chicken is really cheap lol. I have like 6 cans in my pantry. Will try this out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:26 PM
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He just kept talking about how crazy Vili Fualaau was lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:24 PM
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I've had it a lot and I want to branch out into other poverty meals. Or rather, lower middle class white people food ykwim
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:22 PM
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"celebrate the fact they aren't lying cheating whores" as if that takes a ton of effort on our part. Cheating takes more effort than not cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:20 PM
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I would question how serious he was about me. 3 and 5 demonstrate extreme stinginess which I can't deal with. I can only deal with a normal amount of stinginess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:18 PM
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I like good homecooked food, foreign food, I have a diverse palate. But I also enjoy garbage food as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:11 PM
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In my experience it's basically a relationship where you go on dates and meet their friends but the relationship is not defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:35 PM
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Mary Kay Letourneau was a teacher in the area I grew up in. I recall my friends brother in law talking about her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:32 PM
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I kind of want to try poverty food beyond kraft mac n cheese. Is hamburger helper any good?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:31 PM
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21-23% is my goal. I am losing weight (down 12 lbs) and I would like to hit that bf%
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:24 PM
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It hasn't helped me in my life at all, so in my opinion it doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:22 PM
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So a couch potato with a healthy (19-21) BMI who's never been to the gym is fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:06 AM
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Yeah I suppose the support group would be for men over age 40. Apparently first time fathers over age 40 are extremely rare
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:03 AM
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We don't go on dates, we stay in on the weekends and get fucked up on drugs that won't show up on his works random drug test.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:41 AM
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He is still lower n than the guys I used to date. My bf from working at holiday Inn had 22 bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:31 AM
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A lot of guys actually envision themselves having kids one day. I would imagine for a guy like that, realizing you will never have them is like a bit devastating ykwim
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:20 AM
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They are broke men, kind of like scrubs in that one song.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:16 AM
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That is a lot more depressing than just being sad you can't get laid at age 20. I'm getting emotional over here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:14 AM
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Okay you actually make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:09 AM
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I am thinking fitness Instagram but less "extra". Kind of like this I guess? fitnass
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:08 AM
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