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Red Pill Theoryjbpostv/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 05:40 PM
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Red Pill Theoryjbpostv/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 08:47 PM
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Red Pill Theoryjbpostv/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 01:06 AM
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Exactly same situation thanks for putting this out there
/r/seduction01/02/20 04:48 PM
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Read comment response above. Will reconsider my wording and proofread for tone next time.
/r/seduction26/01/20 06:12 PM
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Thanks a lot dude. The point of my comment is to expand upon your well written foundation of what dominance means at large, diving deeper into more challenging mindsets and practices in the community for those more ambitious or ready to take bigger steps. Everyone is entitled to their own unique viewpoint on dominance and mine is certainly not the only or most correct in any way. In fact I can distinguish four different types of dominant I and others take on, daddy, sir, master, primal, even mor…
/r/seduction26/01/20 06:11 PM
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I'm a dom and I appreciate the hats off to dominance but people should know this is a good beginner post for sex in general. As a formal dominant with an fetlife account, equipment and a fair amount of experience, alot of what people consider "vanilla" isn't even vanilla to true dominants, it's plain. Its more vanilla than vanilla. Alot of what you describe here I did intuitively before I even became more dominant so the dominance you describe is what vanilla is for me. If you have no dominance …
/r/seduction26/01/20 07:38 AM
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Bro damn, thanks
/r/seduction19/01/20 05:06 AM
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Tbh if anything going too slow is creepy and needy because if you got the number obviously you wanna ask her out and she knows you’re delaying only out of insecurity of success. I understand a slower approach on dating apps because they haven’t developed comfort in person and there’s so much competition but I think in real life, best thing to do is to propose meeting for this or that, no time just a thought, as why you’re getting the number. In today’s day and age, some girl you met at a bar may…
/r/seduction19/01/20 05:05 AM
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When all is said and done, you can't really learn this stuff from material. Success with women is a mental/emotional memory thing. Just like muscle memory but the mental and emotional. I've studied and spent alot of time contemplating game and sexual dynamics for 8 years and I've come to realize flirtation and seduction is far more emotional than it is verbal, physical or mental. This is why many people with highly "mental" orientations can struggle with game. It's not a problem of them being to…
/r/seduction07/01/20 05:48 AM
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Oh christ homie I'm sorry I cannot get yelled at by a woman its a big no no.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 12:38 AM
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This post is exactly why I left TRP. I've been red pilled for a while here but most of the community here sucks dick because despite having put on 20 lbs of muscle last summer, to suggest "go lift" being the cure of all problems with a girl suggests you have absolutely no ground to stand on and no experience with women at at all. If you think "just go lift" is what is gonna get you girls, you're living in high school insecurities and football team jealousy mental shit swamp and frankly you treat…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 12:30 AM
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Honestly definitely a mistake but I'd be more worried that OP thinks he did much wrong in managing this relationship up to that point. From report, sounds like he had a high attraction and was managing the relationship quite well but he had chosen a bad woman who would flip to easily. She will never have stable relationships she's a dud. To me, he, OP, is not.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 12:19 AM
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Hahaha
/r/seduction23/11/19 07:53 PM
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Whadda guy
/r/askTRP18/11/19 07:46 PM
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Gonna offer a buffer comment. I grew up in a very industrious/ambitious family and right now have a lot on my plate. It’s easy to hide from the failures and mental drain of dating focusing on your purpose when it’s life consuming. It’s good at times but sometimes I focus so heavily on “doing the work” and “my mission” that I don’t have time and don’t bother with women and don’t even feel too bad about it. Imbalance is key. Focus on your mission but don’t forget the prize.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 01:54 AM
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Ugh, told her no problem and asked for her # cuz Instagram dm is awk and we kinda know each other already. Figured she wouldn’t mind an orbiter but literally left unread for 16 hours wtff.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 10:51 PM
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Nah I was keeping myself busy with other plates and am trying to time the market. Actually pretty ballsy to ice a girl till she’s lost hope and have the guts to pick her up after pushing her down so to speak. Genuinely was too busy yeah I guess before would have been better but no girl who crushed for that long is gonna disqualify a potential branch swing due to inaction, standard brad Pitt rule. If brad Pitt knew a girl was crushing on him and she gave up, if he came back to date her at some po…
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:18 AM
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If this isn’t a shitpost very brave of you to come out like this.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:58 PM
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I agree but what do you mean by the fantasy exactly?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:56 PM
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Damn we've got very similar stats there my friend. I think it comes from the pleasure of the specialness of honeymoon phase relationships. We long for a sense of deep personal affection and connection and rather than letting it come to us once a relationship has grown strong we fantasize and impose it on a lay. Best not to fantasize or think too much about the girl and focus on getting action elsewhere. The less you think about a girl when you're not spending time with her, generally, the better…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:28 AM
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Honestly makes me wanna throw up the amount of frame control I need to with my mother. Makes me fucking hate her guts. Now I'm a 23 year old man, muscular 210 lbs 6'1" and she still tries to Child Frame me. I swear to God there should be a red pill exclusively for men to resist their mothers attempts to baby them and break their frame because they give them a sense of purpose. Its been great practice, picking apart the psychological motivations of my mother and her angles of attack because they'…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 03:04 AM
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I will also mention a unicorn of sorts. AWALT when it comes to attention and polygamous attraction of course but some hot girls have low n counts for one of two reasons: 1) Psychologically Well Adjusted: they have a great relatively trauma free upbringing and feel like they deserve more than a lay or deserve more than being a lay. These are the queen salmon. The finest catches. Odd how TRP deep down only teaches you to strategize for sluts. The barely crazy highly attractive girls want the whole…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:52 AM
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There’s this astonishing sexual technology out there called condoms. Basically, although they suck in terms of pleasure, you can have sex with girls without getting their stds until you’re close enough to ask for a STD results test without coming across wrong.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 08:04 PM
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What’s this on your third hand?
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:58 PM
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If you’re bigger than him look at him like he’s made such a foolish mistake and laugh at him. Give him a chance to submit and apologize and if he’s still gettin cocky get physical.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:48 PM
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All this was vaguely reasonable until the sexually frustrated part. When girls get off the carousel they start adopting LTR screening activity. Maybe she rode the carousel too hard and got hurt as many girls do. But with that “tend to make people sexually frustrated” comment she’s just rubbing it in your face and maintaining frame as you walk away. If she’s not your cup of tea dump it in the harbor.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:31 PM
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There is an idea of a red pilled man. Some kind of abstraction, but there is no “being myself” only an entity, something illusory. And though I can hide my beta past and you can shake my hand and feel my dominant grip grasping yours and maybe you can even sense our SMV’s are probably comparable... I simply am not. There.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 03:28 AM
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I’ve seen relationships “survive” this but an LDR girlfriend on a college campus is dangerous. Unless you’ve developed some solid sense of having futures with each other, being soulmates I’m talking really serious we’re probably gonna marry each other sentimental game, break it off. We’re so young and couples aren’t meant to be apart.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 04:03 PM
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I’m in this situation myself. 1. Be one of the cool people. Make friends with the cool people, like yourself, and be one of the the fun ones. 2. Make friends with everyone. Just go chit chat and politic, 30 seconds just to check in with people. Smile make life seem like it’s going well and easily for you (best if it actually is) 3. Project SMV. Put your best foot forward. Dress well. Smell good. Groom good. 4. Establish biddies. In social circle game I think this is key. Find girls who you’re no…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 03:56 PM
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Yo personally in the same situation I hear you man... rough being around great potential plates but in the back of your head what if I didn’t study enough what if I get distracted. It’s brutal. Focus on school and don’t beat yourself up.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 01:14 AM
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Dude I don’t know how you don’t get laid with a chick who grabbed your dick take her for drinks escalate and fuck her into her box spring
/r/askTRP08/08/19 01:11 AM
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Ha! Dude she’s not even being subtle, that’s disrespectful. I’d dread hard and reflect on how you’ve changed l
/r/askTRP08/08/19 01:00 AM
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Although my game confidence is inconsistent and something I’m working on, in bed there’s a mental space I get into that let’s me go quite far with chicks on the first lay. Some call it domspace but for me it’s comes from the confidence that once she’s dtf she’s in the bag and I can go full runaway train alpha. Last two chicks I banged let me do things like shove 3 fingers in their ass, spanking, hair pulling, daddy name calling, face fucking with a vibrator, dirty talking and spitting on my dick…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 11:34 PM
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*comment
/r/askTRP06/08/19 02:41 AM
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I'm sure you only meant in the sense that autistic people aren't as proficient socializing and dating. I work in healthcare and medical diagnoses take on an advanced context and realness for me. But even still, most people making 6 figures don't even think to say things like that anymore, they have to grow up. Strive for better, aim high and stay classy.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 08:44 PM
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I think there's something telling that you didn't feel compelled to sleep with her. Its one of two things: You have sexual blockage. Something I definitely struggle with. For fear of rejection, the anxiety that often accompanies escalation and sometimes the power that accompanies rejecting someone, you've developed sexual shutdown as a soothing defense mechanism. You can't drown in a river if theres a dam upstream. Problem is you can't go fishing either. Try to think of your attraction and sexua…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 08:36 PM
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Glad thesatellite23 had the frame to laugh this off but you're a jackass dude. People on this forum jumping to autism suspicions makes me feel like people on TRP are more likely to suspect they might have mild autism than the general population. 1.7% of people have autism and someone strikes out due to fear, apathy or sexual dysfunction of the psyche and now they're mentally handicapped. Or maybe you just have project self-loathing and soothe how insecure you feel about yourself by putting peopl…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 08:33 PM
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Depends on the time frame. If you guys are in the same school or workplace, doing this over a week or two can work out but it runs the risk of wasting time feeding girls attention when they might not reciprocate. On the other hand, becoming direct too immediately is going to kill any sense of mystery/intrigue and only works with excruciatingly high SMV men. Balance is key.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:18 AM
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Hey there man. This post really hits deep. It describes what I like to consider every self-respecting hard working man's worst fear: that he will work his ass off to become a great man objectively and for women, but whether it's a hot cheating wife or utter failure, he can never win. I know you can't feel the emotion in these characters but I'm really sorry. In terms of improving your outcomes, I'd say there's something I didn't see any of in this post: your career and purpose. But first, there'…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:02 AM
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Another thing to realize about hot chicks. People can diversify their self esteem however they want. For guys if you take a hit in your esteem about your looks, you've still got plenty of SMV esteems to carry you on. Lets say you get a little out of shape. Eh whatever you'll fix it. You still have the esteem of your money, your clothes, your career, your buddies, your hobbies and your game to carry your self-confidence. You've put your eggs in many baskets. Hot girls figure they can put almost a…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 05:02 PM
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Something I've realized consistently about women. Women will literally lie about their desires, make your job to seduce them harder and shit test because they deeply want the thrill of a man who is confident to pursue sex even if it's unlikely to happen. By saying no hookups no hookups if she hooks up with you she has the added arousal of you being confident and dominant enough to see through it and make the move. To women, a guy who can't overcome resistance is like a chick with tiny tits. She …
/r/askTRP30/07/19 04:30 PM
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Ill tell you man. I'm a chad on the outside and a recovering beta on the inside. I get fair attention from hot chicks but I'm always blown away by the lack of attention from so many average chicks. They don't think they stand a chance homie. They think why even bother signaling interest because they're insecure of their value relative to yours. At least that's what it looks like to them.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 04:23 PM
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Hey man. Gotta hand it to you I feel this so hard. Right now at a real tough academic program at an elite school and trying to lift and meal prep. As much as you wanna believe you can do it all, you can’t do it all and sleep and if you don’t sleep you can’t do it all. At school, when I’m studying, sitting in class, walking around, I tell myself to be on my purpose and don’t let girls get in the way; only approach when you’ve got the rest of your life sorted out. Guess what. That never happens. O…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 11:53 AM
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Thank you so much for this post man. I'm in recovery of the nice guy/asshole complex created by manipulative losers who gaslight women as cruel and heartless just because they don't like lousy men who try to make up for it with supplicant kindness. These terminologies and bitterness toward "chad" "alpha fucks" and "hypergamy" is at the crux of what holds so many men back. Theres an animosity toward that which they are trying to become and it prevents it entirely. Figure out what it is women real…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 12:31 AM
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Its empowering to have sex with guys who think of you as nothing more than a sex object because it communicates abundance and turns them on. Feminism is a form of woman's internal struggle against the emotionally damaging and societally debilitating dimension of their sexual preferences. Since so many men have become blue pilled many women are afraid to be submissive because they're afraid they won't find an alpha so they need a backup ideology to make them feel empowered when they're not under …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 02:15 PM
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This rationale is a great example of the incongruous and illogical nature of women. Today's women will shamelessly justify anything they do even if it doesn't make sense because deep down they were never meant to. Biologically men were meant to make sense of the world, divide it, make ends meet, establish rules and ethical constructs, etc. Men hold themselves to rational integrity and its a prison sometimes in a world where we need to listen to women more even when they don't make sense. ​ On th…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 02:08 PM
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Really can't think of a better example for the fallacy of "the unicorn"
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 01:59 PM
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Women naturally have lower self esteem than men, the root of their desire for submission and humiliation in sex but this is a 12'x24' red flag for BPD and incredibly profound and dark trauma that will wreak havoc on you. I'd hold off on this and make sure she's a backup in your mind. In other news, God is dead.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:53 PM
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Don’t think you understand the article. Fuckem all refers to your mindset towards getting those 1-2 plates. Irl I don’t think any more than 3 or 4 active plates is consistently sustainable for a man working on his SMV.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 12:49 PM
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Stop right there. What you’re experiencing is normal and isn’t specific to you. Women are truly always testing their men. Houses get reappraised. Stock values change. The price of oil fluctuates. Women want to test your value which can change just the same and they are subconsciously wired to by evolutionary psychology. It’s the way of the female. Consider this a paradigm not a problem.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 12:03 PM
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Because we are evaluated in terms of our value to society and a mentally troubled man is not that.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 12:01 PM
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Undifferentiate
/r/askTRP11/06/19 11:59 AM
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Fuck a 4. Refer to my most recent post. You’ve probably lost touch with female energy which is sad. You can be having sex right now.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 11:58 AM
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Sounds like me when I was just swallowing the pill. Just do your best and I’m sure you don’t respect people who don’t deserve it either. Conditional love is the driving force in people doing more than what’s necessary and being great.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/19 11:57 AM
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This is very true and remains in the form of beta bucks but birth control has allowed a parallel secondary strategy aligned with conventional primordial alpha traits for the sake of the pleasure it brings.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 02:25 PM
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Clearly not understanding the article
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 03:28 AM
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Hope that doesn’t happen next time! Keep it up
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 03:13 PM
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Hit relentlessly on HB 3-6’s at social events. Idk where you live but find sober group events where day game is more acceptable because there’s a group/community mentality
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 03:12 PM
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Duuude that’s awesome. This is a huge factor for me: the freaky/kinkiness. My last LTR was a little overweight, not fat not obese but overweight, but I turned her into a sub and things got freaky as hell. A decent looking woman who lets you fuck like a man is just as alluring as a hot woman who doesn’t like to gag (srsly?)
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 03:09 PM
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You know what man I agree with you wholeheartedly but this site is primarily about the fact that these approaches aren’t beneficial for maximum success in the sexual arena from a preternatural evolutionary perspective. We regulated the sexual marketplace and now that it’s deregulated and choice driven choice will favor those who echo evolutionarily ingrained traits useful or not.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 02:06 AM
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Yeah great point man. Even though some chicks fantasize about rape and some even practice CNC, it only takes one and your life is literally over. Be careful with alcohol and make sure she has a good time in bed.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 01:46 AM
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Some smoke-shows suck in bed too. What’s a 9 who won’t do anal compared to a 7 who will. Point is looks are worth something but not everything.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 01:44 AM
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Wow I got shootas out here bang bang
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 01:38 AM
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Just out of curiosity what would constitute evidence of consent?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 09:15 PM
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My analogy is this (excuse the morbidness): if you try to snipe one target you get one shot and they all scatter. But if you use a shotgun, you hit multiple and can keep firing at the ones you didn’t miss. Sniping=oneitis shotgun=abundance
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 08:25 PM
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By shit hitting the fan you mean....
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 08:21 PM
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The thrill, the feeling, the energy and for the practice, abundance, reference experience. I’m not talking about fucking HB 2’s but if you’re in a dry spell do whatever you fricking can and mentally approach all women as if their HB doesn’t matter.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 08:11 PM
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Is that Aesop’s fables
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 07:18 PM
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Most my my posts are making meaning of platitudes lazy people throw around here thanks!
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 06:13 PM
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Hey dude. Haha not an incel actually a very good looking dude horrified by the fact that a bunch of chicks in relationships stare at me in school. And it's specifically them. Trying to burn "sexual strategy is amoral" into my mental frame so just venting my process towards accepting it.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 08:46 PM
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No good deed goes unpunished
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 12:43 AM
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Tbh sexual non-monogamy is the way to go. You demonstrate abundance and security by fostering this in a LTR/marriage and can choose to include competition in the bedroom as often as you want. When you think about it, it’s that lack of competition, jealousy, mystery and excitement that nullifies attraction in captivity. Spice it up and have a harem. Make your wife your filthy whore again.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 06:40 PM
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The sad thing about marriage and commitment is even a SMV 8/9 will get boring for an HB 8 because it’s the same guy. Currently getting heavy heavy IOI’s from this HB8 in a 5 yr ltr with a college athlete all american chad but even if we’re just as good looking and he’s got more invested, you can’t maintain attraction without fostering uncertainty, dread and drama for women. They need the emotional rollercoaster like they’re in some dumb fucking rom com, so she’s ogling me like he’s a nobody.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 06:37 PM
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Gonna go out on a limb here and you guys oughta hear this out. Women aren’t repulsed by horny objectifying “misogynistic” men who only care about sex. Chad cannot be creepy. Up your SMV and once to break into territory start pouring out raw sexual energy and be proud like it’s just “a guy thing” and masculine to be a goddamn horn dog, because it is and it’s hilarious. Chicks want high SMV guys to be “creepy” with them, that’s called game. Treat yourself like Johnny Bravo except it’s cool whether…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 11:31 PM
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TRP is really system of interacting with the world that primes you to simultaneously be successful with women so your sense of relativism really says anything will work which is false. I guess your approach is a bit more Russell Brandian. He gives a lot of compliments but you end up with girls who don’t want you, they want the validation you’re giving them and will sleep with him to keep it flowing. This wears off once she’s convinced you like her and she has no work to do or reason to behave we…
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:35 AM
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I’m gonna have to dramatically disagree with you here man. Being really kind with a massive compliment opener isn’t confident it’s obviously manipulative and doesn’t demonstrate high value. Any girl who can win over a guy to demonstrate such over the top interest and destroy any sense of mystery from mere looks knows it’s either insincere or that she’s the prize and pedestalized by you. And “I hope you talk to me soon”? I don’t think you understand confidence too well. Do a little research on sp…
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:14 AM
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23 year old male manifests with acute onset oneitis as evidenced by scarcity fantasizing beginning 3 days before admission. Patient has a sexual history of 4 LTRs 8 lays, 34 days since last lay and moderate practical abundance. Patient reports sentimental feelings, potential plate idealization (PPI) and recurrent rejection aversive approach anxiety. Prescribed abundance talk therapy and go think about 10 other girls.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 10:36 PM
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Thank you. Setting boundaries, responding when you want to and calling out bullshit isn’t mistreatment or being shitty it’s just a dynamic.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:23 PM
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One of the best compliments I could’ve gotten. Yeah there’s a lot of anger, bitterness, narrow thinking and exaggeration on here that makes TRP really edgy and unhelpful. We were born to fuck it’s a big deal but it shouldn’t be too far from our grasp/understanding knowing that.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 02:35 AM
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Yeah I guess so man but saying alpha isn’t worth defining because its woman’s ballpark to define it doesn’t really help anyone become alpha, lol.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 09:09 PM
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One of the hardest parts of swallowing TRP is that you can’t talk to girls to process it and you would just sound like a bummer to friends or parents who are too wrapped up in their own viewpoint to understand and are to philosophically attached to TBP. The reality is so harsh people don’t even want to begin to connect the dots because it threatens their faith in a blissful misguidance. TRP should be a place that allows grieving and mourning as necessary to grow into TRP properly without fear of…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 09:02 PM
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Wow never heard of the sigmas and omegas. Quite the comment here! I guess as someone who’s been trading beta for alpha since about the middle of high school, I wanted to share that being cocky, funny, non-needy, making fun of things and people, bluntly speaking your judgments on things and not having to smile and be deliberately nice to people isn’t some intentional set of behaviors anymore it’s just how I do and it’s better to work your way up gradually so it doesn’t become too incongruent. I s…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 02:28 PM
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Even in that last phrase a sense a passive aggression towards alphas that stems from identification with beta/gamma and jealousy of alphas. The idea here is it’s often better to be naturally somewhat alpha than unnaturally super alpha, because only betas do that.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 02:18 PM
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I always say treat every girl like an HB 6
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:06 PM
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Pro tip: if you’re really into a girl, get over it. Don’t have oneitis but this HB8 has been staring at me for months and we met which basically forces me to make a move or hold peace now that we know each other. Now I start getting mad into her and don’t wanna fuck it up because I’ve never been eye fucked for so long by someone this sexy. Now she gets to see alpha me with my friends but she rolls around and I clam a bit. I need to mentally give up liking her or really come to terms with her bei…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 09:47 AM
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Behavior is mood based as well and can deviate from someone’s personality
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 09:29 AM
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Great advice. My favorite passed shit test of all time and biggest TRP moment for me was when I was out drinking and checking out my friend’s friend’s big exposed tits for most of the night and she calls me out “are you gonna stare at my tits all night?” And I said “I mean I’d love to they look great but if it makes you feel uncomfortable I’ll stop.” Making out 15 seconds later.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:01 AM
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I think it’s even part of the pill swallow depression: this notion that you have to become a jerk or an “asshole”. Plenty of the guys i knew slaying hotties were friendly dudes
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 03:52 AM
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Dude I totally agree with you on this. The hard part is working hard all the time, constant self improvement, chores, commutes and the overall 14 hour shift that is an alpha mans work but still coming across like you’re walking in the park and flipping over to chilled out confident sexual energy with all the stress. I know they can sense the stress but I don’t think it’s SMV it’s also the energies that typically accompany SMV
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 01:25 AM
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Honestly man. Wow. Thanks for sharing something so raw here. I'm sorry you're feeling this way the red pill can breed nihilism in all of us but this nihilism, feeling like there's no point to all of this comes from setting goals at superficial levels governed by socially darwinistic and competitive forces. Sometimes when I feel like the whole SMV, LMS genetic rat race that is the animal kingdom is a crazy uphill battle I wonder if its worth pursuing at all and question the worth of being one of …
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 09:18 PM
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I’m so sorry man this post makes me wanna cry remembering my transition. What you should know is that a lot of TBP is problematic because of its reliance on emotion and sacrifice out of weakness but it doesn’t mean you cannot love a woman. TRP describes the ruthless monster that is human sexuality and people can control it and ignore it to an extent but today many girls control it less and fewer control it at all. We had sexual dynamics on a leash with arranged marriage, prefeminism and serial m…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 02:21 PM
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Baskin in the glow at goon lagoon as they say man. Love to hear some of your wackiest stunt convos
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 02:13 PM
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Hey dw man happened to me too sometimes the fish just ain’t biting. You can dm it to me to discuss, sounds like you put a lot of heart into it
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 02:10 PM
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WHOA
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:23 AM
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Rather than not giving a fuck "have fun no matter what", "keep your head up" or "treat the game like a playground". I just think the whole not give a fuck is applied as a smug negative attitude which can make you withdraw. People take these phrases literally and assume you shouldn't pay any mind to plates or chicks.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 01:13 AM
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Yeah gaming with no intent to close is super useful because its how you should game with intent to close: free from outcome. Allows you to work on the psychological memory (like muscle memory) of how it feels and the mindset that works without the pain. Plus its fun because you can tinker with it when "it doesn't count".
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 12:46 AM
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Nah just proceed onward and treat her as plate 3
/r/askTRP20/04/19 11:45 PM
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Because its fun!
/r/askTRP20/04/19 11:42 PM
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Mission: Introduce as self, sign a girls tits because you were dared to and "you miss tour".
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 11:33 PM
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Bro so sorry can't stand friends who think approaching and gaming is outside the box totally kills the vibe. I don’t blame anyone for caving under beta friend shame
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 11:18 PM
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HAHAHA and I LOVE the fuckshit nonsense. Approach an HB 8 and describe yourself as a complete fucking loser with hilarious details like "writing a screenplay about what its like to live with my parents and have a Pez dispenser where my dick should be" and when your buddy's laughing his ass off and she accuses you of lying and you say "Yeah I need to make getting laid harder, its no fun anymore as my actual self." Then pull another chick into set and introduce the HB 8 as a complete weirdo as wel…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 10:59 PM
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Eh man here's what I think. You're definitely right to an extent but here's what I think. IMO "Not giving a fuck" is one of the shittiest mindsets in TRP. It reeks of this pissed off intentionally abrasive assholish attitude thats no fun to put on. Truth is you do give a fuck and that's ok. The problem is giving too much of a fuck about specifically her approval. Her approval is only an invisible sliver of the approval of the collective women. Its ok to want something too, the question is do you…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 10:51 PM
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Np man I can’t stand the offended douchebag read the sidebar guys why even comment at all
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 10:22 PM
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Have you ever taken any psychedelics or dissociatives? No judgement guilty as charged
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 10:20 PM
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You can’t develop practical abundance without psychological abundance
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 09:39 PM
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They're addicted to the validation and loyal to their instincts and feelings they will gaslight, lie and cognitive dissonance themselves into believing they are being loyal but this is all no rules for the vast majority of them. Theres nothing ethical, moral or fair about the way women sleep because society doesn't punish it anymore.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 09:15 PM
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Not necessarily older guys but here's the deal: Women aren't loyal, they do as much as the feel isn't truly cheating. They never enter oneitis or a monogamous mindset completely from a psychological perspective. They are always scouting and even those who don't cheat will let things progress into everything short of cheating.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 09:10 PM
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Hey gotta thank you so much for this post man. I've had girls that give basically no IOI's other than sticking around then go home and plow and girls who got all touchy and flirty and get blown out. You don't know what will happen until you pull the trigger. Learning more and more that you can't rely at all on IOI's because some girls show more some girls show none. Some girls are more liberated and dominant and will give heavier IOI's and facilitate a bit other more submissive will show none an…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 08:14 PM
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The oldest man surviving cystic fibrosis no wonder she’s seeing him if you know what I mean. Bux again
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 01:51 AM
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Good lord surrendered frame right in that text. Not sue her if she tells the truth? Whatever arrangements she wants? He should’ve spoken with his lawyer before he spoke with her at all.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 01:16 AM
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To the North Pole, fuck it what else is there to do
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 01:47 AM
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Outstanding post. Many men, myself included, are afraid to open up and exude their sexual energy because if they get rejected it strikes them in a state of such vulnerability. Then, its not your height, clothes, looks, money etc its the idea of sexual engagement with you that turns her off. Direct hit. Nothing hurts more than a rejection inflicted on a man present and intoxicated by that magical lustful energy field between you as a close draws near. Don't avoid this. Its worth it for when it wo…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 01:47 AM
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As much as this article is true, not everything that's true is relevant or useful towards a particular goal. In my RP journey I've trained myself to see the marketplace, women, men and all the darkness that surrounds these things, as what they are, and not what they should be or why its wrong. This is about sexual strategy not sexual ethics. The cure for red pill anger, depression is considering everything you view as true, and worth learning from. Like you're in a classroom. You're not gonna ch…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 01:32 AM
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Very reassuring thanks
/r/askTRP12/04/19 10:54 PM
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Thanks dude great encouragement. When I take IOI's and IOD's at face value this chick seems all over the place. Do you think chicks would intentionally pepper in overt signs of low interest (boyfriend mention, not stop to chat when it makes sense, cutting off convos) to see which line of I's you believe? I guess I do the same thing a lot but I hate my own medicine, drives me up a wall. Hella disorienting when a chick eye fucks you then you accidentally get to walk home with her for 2-3 minutes f…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 07:53 PM
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What do you think is the difference in her slipping it in conversation and a hard stop IHAB tbh I’m more on team not go for girls in LTR’s because it’s messy and she can jerk you around with a perfect excuse and you look like a creep PLUS lower success rate with loyal girls but what’s your take tha chick is EYEFUCKING me
/r/askTRP10/04/19 03:03 AM
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Another good perspective thanks. Gonna play aloof.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 02:43 AM
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Yeah her boyf has his own place and we both live with our parents so I can go off SMV and novelty mostly but the logistics are fucking awful and I can’t stand it
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:31 AM
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Check-out?
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:23 AM
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Hey man love the honesty you rarely see it here. I’d focus on building up to a point when you can talk dirty to a girl before going for it. Men have the monstrous desire to have sex whenever but it needs to be cultivated in a woman. As “alpha” as it is to just go for it because it’s what you want to do, women love the feeling of having sexual tension and energy like we do but they need you to bring it to the table. “Learning” dirty talk isn’t easy and is too technical for success. Rather I’d foc…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 06:59 PM
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“Wow so forward of you. I appreciate the offer, I’m pretty freaky too but I don’t have threesomes with other guys.” ->sarcastic joke frame to turning down threesome (push) but prefer something else that’s also kinky (pull).if she’s laughing ”No seriously if I were a girl I’d be asking for threesomes with two guys all the time. I’m sure that’s what you’d prefer it’s really hot. Why compete when you could have to hot guys stuffed in you?”
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 01:11 AM
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Totally agree with you man. Really important point. IMO if you get this line early enough that it’s not a serious sunk cost, you’re better off walking because it’s a pathway of less resistance and higher potential success. If you’re working on SMV, consider the abundance that there are plenty of girls who won’t push you away this hard and throw a IHAB at you. Consider if you want a woman who’s going to seriously tax your game skills. She better be worth it and often she’s not. Remember that if y…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 12:59 AM
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I think this one is best because it hijacks a woman’s fundamental core currency: attention. Women REALLY don’t want to turn down attention and feel stifled by a protective boyfriend. Great framing.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 12:45 AM
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Highly selective and evaluative sperm collectors
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 01:45 AM
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Intelligence could be controlled for too that’s an alpha trait I’d say. It correlates heavily with income
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 12:49 AM
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I know they’re not and I know they’re dependent on men psychologically and the strong woman trend is making them miserable. That’s a good point too. I’d really love to be Christian/Catholic because I think a lot of Christian voices and leaders have been blindsided by gynocentrism and overblown appeal to romantic virtues as opposed to the practical aspects of marriage as “Love”. I still have gripes with chastity and think sexuality needs to be rediscussed seriously since marriage typically happen…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 12:47 AM
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They don’t want their cover blown it’s part of the shit test charade that is the blue pill. If women were to universally acknowledge TRP as true they’d risk disdain or outcasting from the beta bucks comfy husbands they’ve enjoyed the resources and company of for at least a century.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 12:37 AM
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Sometimes I imagine a dystopian future where cuck porn and increased acceptance of genetic engineering lopside this so far that married couples go sperm shopping for IVF pregnancies in an alpha sperm market provided by alphas. Kind of where we’re headed with decreased fertility rates and recent advances in gene therapy to optimize human genetics. You could shop for all your classic SMV markers now sorted out at a genetic level like height, conventionally attractive facial features, longevity gen…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 12:35 AM
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You could basically make a hypergamy heat map with tinder data and run a regression analysis with other geographic and location based data variables to determine the highest determinants of hypergamy (income, gender ratios, etc). Would be beautiful
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 12:27 AM
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Really depends on where you are. Depending on usage of swipe apps, progressive attitudes towards promiscuity, moral attitudes surrounding selfishness and dating mores, anonymity caused by lack of community, the relative SMV of the men and women in an area, the 80/20 rule can really lopside in either direction. Some local SMV 8s who would slay in a rural area (good looks, 6’0”+, low 100k range salary, moderately well tuned game, above average but somewhat flawed inner game, good but not remarkabl…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 12:14 AM
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I agree and it is a 19th century invention however I believe the Christian ideology of today’s day has integrated Christ’s message into modern marital relations in a way that’s very blue pill and unworkable with evolutionary psychology. You’d be hard pressed to find a chaste Christian girl in America who will do without romance and lovey dovey stuff, which is not all bad in all circumstances, because it’s what they’ve been promised in sacrifice of lust. A deeper more profound and pure love that …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 11:53 PM
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Yeah I’d agree with that. I think Christianity can be a purple pill with elements of not focusing entirely on your wife but oneitis isn’t just about not focusing your whole life on a woman it’s about not focusing your whole sexual strategy on one woman, and therefore on many women, which reflects abundance and causes dread in the form of someone seeing you have options whether you exercise them or not. But as much as I work my own strategy on avoidance and low neediness, I find the erotic denial…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 11:01 PM
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I studied PUA which integrates alot of RP knowledge in the second half of high school so I've only had 1 truly BP relationship. But its most important to normalize a lifestyle and practices that acts in a RP on your LTR while on autopilot. Last LTR I had was always whining about me not spending enough time with her because I was on my grind. Case in point low neediness upper hand. Also from developing porn tastes sexgodmethod/dominance was always my default in bed; never felt comfortable doing o…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 10:27 PM
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I'm a red piller who used to be Catholic but TRP has shattered my faith in a Christian God or the use of Christianity entirely. Sexual strategy is amoral and sex as a phenomena is completely earthly and base. Sexuality is biological/psychological/cultural and pays no mind to a guy who came up with some really beautiful and impactful messages for civilization a little over 2000 years ago. I'm still a fan of Christ b/c his message of how to live and treat one another is fantastic but I look throug…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 10:14 PM
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Hey dude, commented earlier. Just wanna say ignore all the blunt tone deaf comments from guys who can’t empathize that this was disorienting af for you and it’s impossible to not let it churn in your head. It reflects poorly on them any guy that can keep an LTR for 5 years with a chick who works out has plenty to show for himself.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 09:52 PM
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Totally agree with you dude. 2 points lower is a sweet spot because even if they’re average looking as long as their in decent shape you get a committed girlfriend and all it’s perks without all the abundance driven drama and constant work of a girl your SMV who could blow out your best self for a guy 2 points higher than you. 2 points lower give better sex, act more feminine, play less games and are less bitchy. Why? They’re afraid to lose you so they behave and please. Just a way better time
/r/askTRP30/03/19 09:48 PM
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Really hard to hear this man especially with that many years. Proof that women will wear a mask to protect their situation and their outrageous abundance. She probably played still in love for a bit acting as she always does but she was checked out internally until her hand grasped the next branch. Really makes you think about the whole “women cannot genuinely love men” theory but it’s such a dark worldview.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 09:43 PM
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Definitely agree part of why I dressed preppy in college but seems Super cliche in nyc
/r/askTRP30/03/19 09:05 PM
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It’s unfortunate we men have to stoop to the level of the female games and play to their tone but it’s necessary. I favor SMV and LMS as the core of my strategy because that way you have a great life for yourself regardless of women (low dependence/being on purpose). If you’ve ever read seduction by Robert Greene, a must, in the intro he notes that seduction is a relatively new phenomena for men who in the past simply competed on LMS and acquired women as property agreed to marriage between fami…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:13 PM
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Unfortunately this beautiful relationship is incongruent with raw sexual desire. LTR’s are for stability and companionship which kills intrigue and excitement. I feel bad for you because it seems you had your shit together and were redpilled from an SMV standpoint in your relationship but whether it’s a guy with higher SMV or simply the intrigue of the unknown and thrill that comes with a novel guy, which never goes away, a woman will not stay unless she can’t do better or there’s constant dread…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 05:11 PM
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Lol thanks man honestly sometimes you can't win on this sub you either admit a misstep, seek guidance from fellow men and get childishly ridiculed by insecure dudes or talk about some success with good principles and now you're "probably lying" or "not a place to go on bragging". Sadder than some guys being virgins/weird on here is them acting tough to sooth their insecurity. Can't win em' all
/r/askTRP24/03/19 08:58 PM
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HAHAHA. Ya know honestly I had fun for most of last night and was looking for some pointers but reading through your comments I feel bad because you seem like a very angry and hateful person. If you feel like that's a good fit for you go for it but I can't imagine what a wreck and excuse of a man someone would have to be to spend so much time intellectually curb stomping strangers on the internet. Maybe its alpha maybe its not but I judge someone's advice based on how satisfied they seem with li…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 07:41 PM
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Haha, last time we hung out with friends I ended up alone with her walking to a date I had planned and she tried to invite herself on it. Then dm's me to give her my # to get live updates. Later text her joking that my date wishes she came and liked her threesome date idea. Invites me out 5 days later. Very helpful of you shrimp dick.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:41 PM
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Oh I can smell it
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:11 PM
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Thinks I'm super handsome and hits on me all the time, he's dated alot of gamers in the past and considers me a breath of fresh air when my dad's not around. Thanks for the help
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:17 AM
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Sometimes them sometimes me. I've encountered 2 chicks who were thrown off by the dark masculine sexgodmethod energy and it was too much for them but other than equally,
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:15 AM
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I feel like I grew to like it from my pornography watching habits when I was a teen and it became my default sexual style. Sometimes I wish less rigorous love making sex was more pleasing and I wonder if maybe it could be if (1) I didn't condition myself to like something else and (2) if women liked it at all. Which I'm pretty sure they don't. I like it but even though I don't feel like doing it all the time I do it to please women.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:53 PM
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You think she’d say shit like that “nice try (my name) boy” to asd and neg? Ehh I’ve had my fair share of mixed signals as test but I know this is gay af but she’s a friend and I don’t know if she’s just attention whoring
/r/askTRP18/03/19 09:23 PM
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Yeah I know but we're in a social circle together she's not a rando
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:59 PM
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Are you complaining about them being dumb and selfish or more that they’re slutty? Are you looking for quality girls for an LTR or plates?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:39 PM
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If a girl is shit testing this hard it’s borderline shitty behavior. Women will risk losing you a bit to test if you’re worthy but she’d only fuck with your head this hard if she believed she totally had you and has the frame to make herself a manipulative gatekeeper and tease. Go no contact and back out. A shitty orange might be hard to juice but at what point is the juice not worth the squeeze? Take a path of less resistance because this sounds like you have a lot invested in this and you have…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:32 PM
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You think moving forward with this chick I should assume the blow out was genuine and play plausible deniability, which I kept, that I’m just flirty and joking around or commit to it. I’m much more inclined to take an L as an L and stop gaming a chick than risk a double L hypothesizing it’s mind games.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:00 PM
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It’s impossible to compare but one part of NoFap is the semen retention community who advocate it as a form of building life force to succeed. I’m sure visually speaking Hefner’s done everything you can humanly see in porn so as long as you don’t get addicted to the media form and convert porn to plates it’s no longer a problem imo.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 01:49 AM
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Whatever floats your boat totally agree. I wanted to punch a fucking hole in the wall after day 16.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 01:47 AM
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Looking forward to Thursday
/r/TheRedPill17/03/19 04:32 PM
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Back in high school this chick at a girls school asked me how she should ask this guy to prom cuz he was my buddy. got her on track. Next day she asks me to her prom instead I agree. Made out profusively on the way to after prom and fucked her in an unfinished home covered in sawdust. Sometimes it’s a jealousy test but that’s certainly possible.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 06:41 PM
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Success with women is one of the only pursuits that is best achieved in the pursuit of other things. PUA's talk alot about "inner game" and "outer game" but I think the most important game is lateral game, that which cuts across everything, and that's everything you do in your life when you''re not picking up a girl. Your life marinates your essence, its hard to fake an essence the veil falls that's why women shit test. PUA is good technique but it comes from the wrong place and is fundamentally…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 08:39 AM
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You’re being too good. Goodness. You know Jesus and stuff. It’s a good thing it means you have a soul. No one said getting laid regularly had anything to do with having a soul. In more cases than not, the contrary.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 06:34 AM
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Love how at the end it frames this like it’s a test of empathy and the girls were by that measure better than the guys. As if emotional consideration and not hurting peoples feelings altogether trumps honesty, truth, candidness. Study basically confirms that while men are assholes women are liars.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 06:30 AM
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Absolutely. SMV development is core and must be constant but if you’ve ever lived in New York you’d know you should make as much as possible and if you can get a discount you take it
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 05:34 PM
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I don't think you're inexperienced man you sound pretty experienced to me. I imagine its tough to go through college without getting laid and I'd be shocked if anyone on this forum was a virgin, but you seem to talk a lot about virginity for someone who I imagine sees it as state lost long ago and outside the radar of your thought process. Virginity is a high school phenomena lol how old are you?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 01:18 PM
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Most jobs are soul crushing, ruin your sense of free agency and hedonia as a man and aren’t interesting to talk about. Certain careers like DJing you smoke, drink, network and marinate in the nightlife environment all the time so you’re candy to women looking for fun. If you have a professional job your income will be consistent but having a side swag so to speak could be useful in breaking out of shirt and tie spreadsheet and tps report beta provider psych.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 11:11 AM
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I think in the future for the sake of contributing to the group I’ll field report on past successes with plates and analysis as field reports, rather than what’s current but speculative. I’m looking forward to posting about female bdsm psych, feminist submissives, a first night lay guide I’ve honed and the like but I haven’t wanted to fuck this up and have been a little tip toed in my new environment. Thanks for the accountability.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 11:07 AM
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I totally agree on your approach and another commenter who adviced to tread lightly because rejection spreads as fast as attraction in a closed environment. I suppose that’s part of the resistance in me. You can fire your weapon like a madman night/day gaming but circle gaming keeps score. I’m testing waters with 1-2 now. I had this experience where I hooked up with 3 girls on the same sports team in a month and after the 3rd one, the 1st one got possessive, angry and made drama and threats amon…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 10:59 AM
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Thanks this is some good perspective on not undervaluing yourself. I’m gonna focus on inner game “being enough” talk and not thinking about any competition. I have no reason to believe you’re more experienced than me but I’m not gonna speculate on your sexual experience because you haven’t insecurely bragged about your sexual history where it wasn’t due. If you happen to be very experienced than I’m cheering for you but if I were doing well with women, I wouldn’t waste a second questioning a str…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 10:51 AM
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It’s a definite must many would say. I’m still quite early in the book, listening to it. I’m in the part on choosing your seduction type. Raised some clarity on different angles people use to be seductive because it’s really not one size fits all. Some styles are almost opposites even but it’s about how you slice it.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 03:42 AM
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I agree dude it’ll be an interesting journey and I hope to report back! Won’t be my first, but this is different than some of my past less communal experiences. I don’t think I’m fucking them yet obviously, but law of attraction helps and I’ll see what happens :)
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 02:47 AM
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Yeah honestly that’s my plan too. A lot of the side effects of taking steroids are noted for people who are stacking and cycling for years. I can’t imagine taking 5 different kinds of steroids simultaneously. If you do lighter doses, less often and implement high quality pct and tapering you should be at a substantially lower risk for impotence, cardiac hypertrophy etc but homework’s really important.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:10 PM
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Also as much as a lift now, I realize that getting big AND shredded even at freight train testosterone levels takes an obsessive amount of effort. I'm not really "shredded" I just have some good tone and about 14% bf so some definition but only the outline of the abs. At 27 just get on the juice. Everyone I ask about recommends the book Anabolics by William Llewellyn and to do an outrageous amount of homework before fucking with your balls.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:04 PM
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I'm 23 and many say it's too early to start juicing in terms of maintaining health in the long term. Many people recommend this book Oddly enough, I don't think lack of good looks, confidence and good jobs are why there are sexless marriages. There are plenty of people with two or one of those facets getting laid regularly in their marriages. Sexless marriages arise from the lack of any reason to fuck. Women use sex as a bartering chip for secured validation, resources, secured commitment and se…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:53 PM
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Many will say this is new in some way but its not. Women have always been physically attracted to approximately 15% of guys. Consider women as college. Every college wants the top 15% of the candidates out there but many of them will have to settle for lesser students. Once these students matriculate everything is fine until one of the 15% comes along and she cheats on her 40%ter. Now while in the past dating was somewhat more monogamous, now the acceptance of students matriculating at multiple …
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:04 PM
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I doubt this woman would be so ratchet and low value without having giving off some red flags. If you're looking for an LTR as an abundance man, qualification is the order of the day. Qualify Qualify Qualify. Make it your default move. Show you're putting pressure for her to prove herself in comparison to the dozens of other options you have. Women do this because they know you can take it physically and want to see if you will put up with it. Important to note: think about how abundance you mus…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:56 PM
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This is gonna be a hard concept to wrap your head around but women don’t date guys who they “like” they date guys they are attracted to, and often those men they don’t like in certain ways. All you need to do to break your niceness is remember all the women in abusive relationships, chasing and hoping for men who have no interest in them, shallow flings with “bad boys” who are obnoxious and vaguely disrespectful. I hate the nice guy/bad boy complex but seriously people who think highly of themse…
/r/seduction10/03/19 11:17 PM
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Biggest tip I could give you immediately is to masturbate less
/r/askTRP24/02/19 05:02 AM
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Ok that’s some good advice. Back in college I had a lot more first date lays but recently getting held at second has been a weird change I need to develop a response to. I’ve been in the attitude of persistence because I don’t want to have discovered a great night of good game was a waste of time with minimal yield. The whole LMR concept arose as how to overcome it, but I agree getting reluctant to fuck vibes makes me nervous about proceeding and want to call it off. I don’t want to have to call…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:04 PM
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It’s a field report which I guess you read all of to discover how shitty it was. This forum is about game and sex if you weren’t aware. I gave a field report to show things were going well for most of it then caved. You have any experience of interest evaporating after a 5 hour period of high interest?
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:47 PM
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It’s so hilarious when girls play hard to get who can’t afford to. I’ve seen literal 3’s and 4’s play hard to get and standards game for above average looking guys because they read it online like WOMAN you cannot afford to make this less than easy 😂 honestly I’d even rather invest in an easy 6 than a hard 9 I mean who knows how much time and mental energy i could end up wasting getting jerked around by a 9 trying to lasso me into orbiting
/r/askTRP22/02/19 01:42 AM
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Hey man great question. I just overcame a huge mental block in my approach anxiety today. I had it really bad dude. I think I know how you feel. Like a weirdo. Like a creeper. But something totally changed that today for me. ​ Your approach anxiety doesn't come from a place of thinking you're a creep for seeking out sex. It doesn't come from a place of thinking women will reject you. It comes from a place of thinking people will reject you. From a place of believing its weird to communicating wi…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:51 PM
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I just had this incredible afternoon of pickup and got the easiest number I've ever gotten. It literally fell into my hands but that's how the best game works. Great game isn't about technique, strategy, form or all these complicated PUA things. Learning them can help you alot but if you're consciously implementing techniques, tricks etc, you're going to fail on a massive scale. In a way, great game isn't even "deliberate" in the process of it working. ​ BIGGEST TIP on being chilled and charisma…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:31 PM
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Do you want to have sex
/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:16 PM
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Follow the moisture and environment of your dick as reference for what to do. That's it. This is about getting laid we're animals there's nothing to be shy about with it.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:13 PM
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It depends on what school you’re going to. Business degrees from top 20 undergrad programs push kids into great employment opportunities regardless but don’t change just for the major clout. If you actually like programming go for it it’s the best thing to Major in now because it’s a skill. but realize the competition is incredibly steep.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:59 AM
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Btw I just saw a similar example of this today. Talking to this girl who has a bad and we’re just friends but she shit tests me because girls are always on the look out for options. DHV is important but pay very close attention to the frame. If a girl is holding the frame by giving you an opportunity to DHV she can rob the power by making you qualify yourself because she now controls the conversation.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:56 AM
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Honestly shit testing about physical escalation is a hard next for me. If a girl is brushing you off to see if you’ll persist physically she’s basically testing to see if you’re alpha enough to dominate her and impose your will on her. That’s called rape, and some women fantasize about it! Difference is if a girl is gonna play hard to get with escalation just listen to her signs and be free to walk away if you’re not getting what you want. Women who shit test with hard to get are dangerous in th…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:49 AM
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This might blow you away but dates will let the clock run down and just watch you run the ball around field and end the game before you get to the end zone for the sake of milking you for attention
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:45 AM
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Tbh never had an LTR longest 1 yr so I guess I don’t even know what a 3 year relationship feels like
/r/askTRP17/02/19 10:52 PM
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.... thank you
/r/askTRP17/02/19 10:51 PM
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One thing I struggle to overcome with self-delusion is my rigid attachment to reality. If I'm deluding myself then I'm constantly being proven wrong by my life experiences and that's tumultuous for me because I find solace in knowing the truth. When I delude myself through affirmation, I realize I can't believe my affirmations because they get proven wrong all the time. For me, it collapses any sense of internal integrity and honest interpretation of the world before me. Anyone have trouble gett…
/r/seduction17/02/19 03:59 AM
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I don’t think most women are evil whores I’ve had 4 girlfriends and I’ve never been cheated on of course many are quite nice. Even really high SMV men get cheated on btw it’s not always branch swinging sometimes it’s boredom because people get bored of the same person. I’m wondering if sexual monogamy is really the way to go
/r/askTRP17/02/19 03:07 AM
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Brutal and women staying? Or guys desiring promiscuity?
/r/askTRP17/02/19 02:38 AM
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Thanks man if you're trying to spin plates spin plates. People only get into LTR's to decrease the likelihood of plate breaking and to develop an emotional connection. So if you want to destroy that emotional connection why did you commit in the first place. You could seek a woman ok with a polygamous relationship. Be open about your plate spinning and make your engagement about how you both love sex. But don't cheat.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 02:02 AM
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Never saw cheating so uniformly condoned in any other setting. I think since women are biologically driven to achieve intercourse with a small selection of high SMV males and men are biologically driven to have intercourse with as many women as possible, not spinning plates by definition implies a degradation of potential SMV that could be developed. But, women being the testing creatures they are have endorsed monogamy as a social construct to trap and ensnare alpha fucks and beta bucks. Techni…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:57 AM
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Get rest and start thinking about your surroundings as something to laugh at. But above all get sleep. I can’t game for shit sleep deprived or hungover anymore.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 06:15 AM
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I know and he gets a pass for his first lay but I’ll tell you what last week I soft nexted a chick for holding me at second base on a second date because plenty of tinder and bumble matches will sleep on the first date or definitely second. And btw, the dick thinks in abundance the brain thinks in oneitis. Your dick doesn’t stop getting hard for other chicks when you commit, your mind overrides the dick with exclusivity
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 07:21 PM
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The idea here is to stimulate them and make them react emotionally. The substance, maturity or even appropriateness matters less than if they feel stimulated and you feel confident with it. It's honestly really annoying to have to go around dumbing yourself down or not even making sense. Its an internal shift in the mind and its hard not to feel distant, better and manipulative of women walking around stirring their emotional pots you yourself lack as a emotionally mature, stoic man. I love to j…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:29 PM
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Incredible analysis. Honestly even though people obsess about 9’s and 10’s they’re a wreck unless you’re a solid 10. I’ve always enjoyed dating chicks 3 points lower than me where hypergamy is strong because even if they’re average looking they’re loyal af, put out and freakily like mad because they’re insecure you’ll leave and don’t set up nearly as much shit testing and mind games. They subconsciously become sexually adventurous, behave themselves, adore you and are open about their efforts to…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:22 PM
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All that matters is that you're pursuing opportunities that have a high ROI and minimizing opportunities with a low ROI. If she's holding you back and maintaining your attention there's little to no ROI. So if you want let her stay around no problem she's an orbiter, but make her ante up if she wants you to pursue her. Don't accept orbiter frame because she must "like you" if she's still sticking around for you to hit on her. It's sexual deal making.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:09 PM
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This isn't actually a reflection of what she wants from a man but what she wants to be. She wants a top 2% alpha male but because of her SMV, she's incapable of finding one or one who will commit. So this is actually signaling SMV grief so she'll bargain and seek men who will treat her like the only girl in the world, only problem is they're never going to be the guys she wants that from. So she'll flip flop between enjoying the pleasure of complete devotion (beta orbiter energy) and the alpha m…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:05 PM
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Depends on the tone of voice she said it in but honestly giving into the whole playing hard to get ploy actually degenerates SMV and hypergamy. By telling you to stop flirting with her she's either not interested or manipulating you into trying harder, chasing and playing into a frame where she is the prize. Honestly, if she was concerned about maintaining your attraction and pursuit she wouldn't have risked it by telling you to stop. IF she's playing hard to get, she thinks she's got you in the…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:52 PM
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Hey understandable man. It was probably amazing. First times are magic times in comparison I can promise you. But as special as your first home run is, the hall of fame is about hitting the most home runs
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:00 PM
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Not to denigrate what may have been a perfectly wonderful relationship but I can’t comprehend people LTRing people who live any more than 45 minutes away from them by car. Where’s the practicality or even enjoyment of a love that seems “destined” despite distance. That LDR says I’m willing to be celibate for months or a year at a time and she was probably fucking guys within 6 months of that time as well. There’s plenty of fish in the sea but please guys don’t swim too far it’s desperate. Swim a…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 12:47 PM
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Thanks man, I like it most because I open that set knowing I’m not aiming to close, so there’s 0 outcome dependence if you will. Opening without intent to close in that set shakes any confidence bugs and you can go into it knowing slyly that you’re gonna pull this fuck shit 90 seconds in. You can’t lose frame if you keep it then walk away with it. it’s just fun bundy grin
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:55 AM
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If you’re a high SMV man one of the most impactful tricks I’ve ever played in a social circle, school, workplace environment are what I call the “The Hike and Audible” and “Ding Dong Ditch”. Works if you’ve got good SMV: Hike and Audible: Hike: in a bar, open social environment, etc direct open a girl and lay on some attraction boldly. Don’t show you’re won over but bleed your cards, create man to woman, 1-2 instances of kino, STRONG moderately sexual eye contact. Qualify briefly let your attrac…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 09:30 PM
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I agree but not entirely. I brood more during close. It’s not useful to smile intentionally to portray happiness but during seduction but it’s still important to grin to show confidence. Smiling during building attraction and rapport is totally normal. But if you don’t think so, enjoy never being happy when you’re with women. I don’t think you should laugh or show any emotion either, chicks love miserable men with chips on their shoulder and no range of expression like you.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:05 PM
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Great point. Guys I’m sure you can think of a girl who’s hot and seems haughty, bitchy and acts like she knows she’s hot. That’s what a handsome but intimidatingly non smiley guy is to a girl. She probably thinks you’re hot and wants to fuck but she’s intimidated by you and will be a little nervous talking to you.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:48 PM
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Definitely possible but I’ve had situations where girls have been bitchy, rude and disinterested then ended up hooking up with them. It’s a toss up
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:46 PM
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This could be a whole post unto itself. 6’0” 180 lbs lean, broad frame,very dense short beard and handsome face. I’ve been told some women find my confidence “intimidating” and that I’m “assertive”. Im often the leader in a group setting but can tend to be domineering and bulldoze the unexpressed input of submissive people. All of these things are great during seduction and sex but when you’re first meeting a girl she wants to know first and foremost you mean no harm, can carry a positive conver…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:06 PM
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Totally agree with you dude. Caught this chick checking me out remorselessly several times in the same room. Approaches me with her friend while I’m in a group I say something then completely cold shoulder her. 3 days later I sit next to her just because we know each other and she tells me “we need to be sitting in our groups” “oh I didn’t know I can’t find my group” “also I don’t want to sit with you” and laughing with her friend. Some clueless girls shit test and play hard to get when you’re n…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 02:22 PM
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I notice that most girls are actually rather nervous to talk to me and I think it comes from this place of not being sure I would approve of them because of my looks. I also have testing hard ass face which girls consider hot but unapproachable and unfriendly. I fix it by being more friendly in conversations than I assume is necessary because if not I’d be rude af. I feel like they’re more friendly to my less attractive friends because they definitely do not see me as a friend, just like you’d b…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 02:16 PM
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Finish him! 😂
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:59 PM
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I'm gonna say absolutely dude. I got to second with a Catholic plate on a second date and soft nexted her for not putting out. Go for the kiss on the first date every. Single. Time. If one date can't make a girl want to KISS you, it was a waste of time and failure. Sounds to me from your language "but no kiss" that you haven't gone for one. Girls will kiss most guys they consider attractive if they're feeling in a good mood. Sorry to say she's probably going to flake and I don't know what kind o…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 11:12 PM
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Tbh TRP/PUA has really battered my faith in Christianity because success with women even in marriage involves bargaining your vocation of marriage (commitment/emotional investment/love) with sex. Marriage game involves the same covert manipulation namely dread game, abundance mindset even though your spouse should be the sole focus of your vocation of marriage (oneitis) and negging. Not saying these things are bad but they certainly disagree with Christianity. To boot, TRP advocates for implemen…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:45 PM
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Hey dude. So brave for you to say this stuff because it bothers me too. Alot of people here would say suck it up and drink the cool aid but I know that's not easy nor something you necessarily want to do. I'm guessing like me you grew up in a religious household that instilled values, lofty ideals and fairytale moralistic stories about what it means to be good and that people value others of character, dignity and virtue. Same here. Taking the pill sent me into a dark night of the soul with simi…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:23 PM
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I think the same should be said about homicide. Women are glorifying ted bundy for being hot/handsome and charming over his new documentary. Now we’ve got even worse with Zach Efron’s movie to really get the tingles going. If you watch the Netflix documentary you’ll see he had a girl defend him in court and agree to marry him during a trial for the murder of several women. He also had many women come to watch because it was “fascinating”. When men see women get excited about characters like Ted …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 05:48 AM
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I can confirm. Feminists aren’t women who are displeased with masculinity, they are displeased that they haven’t benefitted from it. They’ve been given betas and haven’t been able to secure alpha LTR’s because the hotter or more intentionally appealing girls have. It’s so wild to see a girl you’re plowing holding a sign that says “girls just wanna have fun(damental) human rights” advocating female em(powerment) then pleasure you by your stern command addressing you as sir, a patriarchal title of…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 10:29 PM
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The whole overcome the need for external validation mumbo jumbo is as cliche, meaningless and ill worded as “be confident”. No one knows what this means and it seems impossible. That’s because it is. Our limbic system is an internal system regulating our fundamental instincts to survive thrive and multiply. It’s been shown across all social animal species that social isolation and lack of belongingness causes decreased survival outcomes, health and mood in outwardly emotional animals. We are no …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/19 12:59 AM
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Values and the ability to provide become worthless when postmodernism has made Christianity reason for social ostracism and objective morality has been relativized. Moral relativism is a misnomer. It means everyone can individually determine what’s moral which translated into action among the secular is in the vast majority of cases, narcissism. It’s a fundamental operating mode of animals. Focus rigidly on your SMV and game. Money, status, looks, sexual communication and opportunism. TRP is fun…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 01:43 AM
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Women can’t find good men because they choose men who will dump them for someone else or better. It’s a subconscious marker of hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 02:45 PM
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I’ll add, it takes a lot of rejection as well. There’s practically nothing that will get you over rejection than mileage. Over time another blowout is so meaningless they start happening less because you weren’t even worried it was gonna happen. You become numb to it but only from pain. At that point you’re just trying to have a good time and either way you leave fulfilled or to a lay, and her sensing that is why it’ll probably be the latter. Thank you
/r/seduction22/01/19 03:02 AM
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Fair man it’s good to acknowledge you can’t control this shit properly when there’s so much you don’t know about the competition and where it stands. It’s part of the game with online game
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 10:52 PM
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I love this just for how dumb it is. Everyone go send this to a tinder match just to laugh about it #abundance
/r/seduction21/01/19 10:15 PM
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You guys sniff what’s t sniff sniff hmm is that sni what’s that smell sniff oh it’s oneitis. Welcome back man take it easy on yourself
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 10:12 PM
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The problem with this post is that regardless of how bold and “bad boy” you are if women sense your behavior is self consciously deliberate and thus outcome seeking it doesn’t matter how alpha you are man. Bold is desperate when you’re deciding to be bold to get laid and they can sense it. What really turns women on is subcommunications of abundance and success in the rest of your life such that seducing her is just a low exertion extension of your all day winning mindset. Newbies get all hot st…
/r/seduction21/01/19 10:08 PM
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I slammed an okcupid chick after a bowling date and months later she became my girlfriend for a year. I hate the “nice guys” label it’s a form of gaslighting your weakness, anxious, approval seeking and scarcity behavior under the guise of being nice, making yourself a victim of her not appreciating your wonderful marshmallow and strawberries personality.
/r/seduction20/01/19 04:58 AM
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Yeah it definitely matters dude women want you to lead and show her a good time and it’s psychologically hard to lead an interaction on foreign territory. At best you can lie “your roommates have people over ;)” for ONS’s and head to her place but if a chick has her own place and you don’t that’s a fucked dynamic tbh unless she’s like a college student.
/r/seduction20/01/19 04:53 AM
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Fuck that guy man keep lifting. If you’re into fitness you can always talk to chicks about your exercise. Draws her attention to her body when you talk about moves and if you’re talking and standing great opportunity for kino.
/r/seduction20/01/19 04:49 AM
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Yeah if you start out of left field and weird instead kino like that’s pretty much par for the course
/r/seduction17/01/19 09:35 PM
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I started watching RSD about 6 years ago. If I were you, I'd focus on some of Tyler's early videos. My favorites for orientation are his Boston video "How to have wild nights out" and "Friendly and Cool Method" and "Wakeup for Hardcase Newbies". Alot of his infield videos focus on technical outer game and more complicated inner game stuff but I think alot of people fail to build a foundation and philosophy of game that drives their inner/outer game to successful outcomes. I like Tyler because he…
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:37 PM
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I'd really doubt you can peak in your early twenties. Late twenties I'd say should be your aim. Why "peak"? Keep improving! I'm 23. When I go on OkCupid I see girls 18-23 regularly have their filter set to find guys their age (or 2 years older)-32. Why would they pursue "potential value" when they can date "proven value"? This is all assuming you are improving as a man every year. Think about how you could improve yourself in 4 years and realize you're competing against men like that future vers…
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:29 PM
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All of this sounds utterly terrifying gotta be more subtle for these situations. I would never braid a girls hair and I'd pretty much only say this shit to a girlfriend or chick I've been on several dates with.
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:23 PM
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You know what man thank you so much for acknowledging the randomness. I think it’s easy for us to beat ourselves up thinking there’s something we could have done to have succeeded with a certain plate but there’s virtually no way to know exactly how to game each girl be it pace, style, offering positive value or push pull asshole yadda yadda. Then puas and rp’s say OOH you’ve just gotta improve your game or Brad Pitt rule but guess what only one person is motherfucking Brad Pitt. So yeah improve…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 01:21 AM
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Bro what kind of manipulative psychopath tries to approach women for sexual opportunities? Don’t you know you can make love to a realistic inanimate sex robot you have complete control and dominion over?
/r/seduction16/01/19 09:33 PM
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Yeah man don’t you know you have to consent to be offered a business transaction. That’s economic harassment. Also if you get drunk and order food and regret it the next day, you can get a refund because you were drunk. Also the place you got food gets shutdown.
/r/seduction16/01/19 09:27 PM
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Hey man. Exactly what I’ve been thinking the past 6 months. I’m sure I can get laid too. But for the sake of focusing on raising SMV so in 4-6 years I will become that ultimate competitor I’m up against, I think it makes sense to game college chicks who are still in the bubble since I’ve already gotten one degree and have several years on them. Hypergamy states that I’m pretty much fucked with a girl my age who has a full time job unless it’s a ONS because I would be considered dating down even …
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:21 PM
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I’m reluctant to concede these are the only guys getting laid. I’m sure there’s plenty of attractive mid twenties guys with their own place and good game that are getting laid without being in the literal SMV stratosphere of elite circles and seven figure salaries. Thank you for your advice. SMV definitely needs upgrading and I’m basically a freshman to the adult world and have time. But yes hypergamy in NYC is as steep as the rent.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 07:33 PM
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Hell I mean if she’s tryna get tied to the roof and driven an hour out of the way absolutely but they’re agreeing to meet half way for a reason
/r/askTRP16/01/19 05:31 PM
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Did this with my ex as part of a multi location date and she invited me to plow her in the bathroom. Honestly probably means she’s horny and wouldn’t mind getting hit on by girls for whatever reason be it she’s bi or just freaky
/r/askTRP16/01/19 05:26 PM
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Hey bud congrats on your mission 😂. First off this shits HILARIOUS. If this pans out legendary lay story. I’d recommend an Airbnb if that works in your area and tell her it’s one of your real estate investments or if she seems skanky and compliant with early escalation tell her you booked it and it was cheap.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 05:21 PM
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As much as TRP can blend with MGTOW and assert we should never get married, marriage has been part of curbing the outrageous index of hypergamy that could be occurring right now. We have planes, phones, trains, dms and the internet providing women a means of selecting and positioning themselves for the alpha male. Without certain civilizational implementations, with today’s logistics women would be draining cum from the top 1% alone. But, marriage has made it a societal expectation that we know …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 10:17 PM
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Sexual Marketplace Value meaning how desirable you are as a potential mate. For guys fitness, money, lifestyle, clothes, social status and game are all areas to improve SMV.
/r/seduction10/01/19 12:02 AM
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hey great comment man I feel you so much on this one. The unfortunate part is you can do everything to raise your SMV and manipulate the love of your life to staying attracted to you trying to maintain the chase by remaining the prize and creating emotional drama but as you know that’s not what loves all about. Long term relationships and “love” are diametrically opposed to sexual attraction which is a dirty, primal and evolutionary biological force that doesn’t line up with logic or the civiliz…
/r/seduction09/01/19 11:51 PM
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Honestly as much as we can define alpha as the orientation to successfully spin hella plates and never settle down, that's only in a sexual sense. Eliminating the alpha value of being wealthy, well known and powerful if it's not being converted into lays is only a way to undermine the success of others. TRP is an approach to one facet of life and it's not a lens through which to view everything at all times. If you spent literally all your time towards the goal of getting laid, you'd die knowing…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 06:44 PM
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You don’t share your insecurities with a woman you’ve just met, if ever
/r/seduction09/01/19 04:29 PM
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Hey man, I think everyone who’s taken the redpill has had a hard time swallowing the way society has evolved to make us replaceable and dismissible entertainment and validation nodes. I had my own dark night of the soul contemplating sociological, cultural and evolutionary psychological facets of changes in sexual dynamics in the West and it burned a hole in me. But eventually, I realized as wrong as it is there’s nothing I can do about it and it’s best I enjoy and play this game from the frame …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 04:20 PM
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Dude get off prank seduction and get on real seduction material. Kino escalation, triangular eye contact and channel sexual energy at her before you go for it.
/r/seduction04/01/19 03:05 PM
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I had a breakthrough to fix this problem recently. I realized that my default approach to life and its tasks is as labor. By this I mean I process anything I put mental and intentional effort into as subtly work/goal oriented. It’s a state of mind. I think man is conditioned this way to provide and to be productive which isn’t beta at all. While mating was less of a persuasive enterprise when our minds evolved to kill our enemies with rocks and hunt, that resource and violence themed hierarchy h…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 03:01 PM
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This OP is utter bullshit. Alpha/beta doesn’t only involve SMV but MV at large. What kind of pompous internet troll no fapping to his own image could assign a 58 year old man beta status because he isn’t spinning plates. The outrageous majority of people his age spinning plates have no respect, authority or value to society. Jordan Peterson is intellectually powerful and his work don’t get shot into a latex bag. The guys making millions and causing a ripple in the ideological direction of millio…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 05:02 AM
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Excellent walkthrough post. For new guys or even intermediates feeling a little nervousness, it can be common for your face to freeze during set, which doesn’t look “calm and collected”. It demonstrates fear, catatonia and can be avoided with some go to facial body language defaults. Whenever qualifying a girl, which is great bang for your buck imo, I give this pensive/mildly disapproving eye brows furrowed glance that basically says “I’m not just gonna nod my head and smile pleasantly, I hope y…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 02:32 PM
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Good point man. Also PUA companies make money selling another circumstantial opportunity to game even if it’s less effective. More products more money. Tbh the majority of sexually successful men now and obviously in the past have never been exposed to the PUA community, which has helped me a lot having gone to all boys schools my whole youth, but some of which should be taken with a grain of salt.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 09:04 PM
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That’s awesome dude, it definitely takes balls to daygame and to approach. What I’m saying is the ROI is higher on cold approaches in social situations making it more efficient of your time. Props to you for having the courage and endurance to day game but for me it makes more sense to strike when the iron’s hot even though there’s other competition.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 08:56 PM
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As much as daygame can be good for abundance, I believe direct daygame is inherently low SMV. The only other people talking to strangers on the streets are beggars and charity/activism panhandlers. A direct daygame approach begs the questions: Do you have anything to do? Why not? Why wouldn’t you approach women when they’re definitively more receptive to socializing at bars or social events? Do you have somewhere to be? Do you have a job? Don’t you know I have things to do? One question I ask my…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 08:02 PM
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The TRP way would be to dump this emotional vampire because you don’t deserve disrespect at that level. It might have gotten this bad because he’s blue pilled but it sounds more likely she was a bad egg on top of it. Proceed forward in your life actively and shamelessly qualifying if a woman will likely behave within the standards you define and if she starts to veer off don’t be shy about withdrawing your favor. If you don’t like how a ltr/plate is behaving (obviously be fair and be honest with…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/18 09:05 PM
4

They don’t want losers, that’s the test
/r/TheRedPill24/12/18 01:25 AM
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I saw this really batshit quote on some models story the other day: “She hasn’t won you over until she stops annoying you.” Basically saying she won’t consider her work done until you let her cave in your frame, fail shit tests out of fatigue of the stupid mind games, become a compliance doormat to an emotional tyrant and normalize her shitty behavior which acts as a test if you still have the standards to call her out on it. An ex of mine once confessed she got turned on when I would yell at he…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 08:55 PM
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I’m currently renovating my belief system; some helpful points I’ve discovered. Your self belief system isn’t right, by definition. Anything you believe about yourself or others can and probably has been true at some point and untrue at other point. Most importantly, all of your self beliefs and beliefs about others are reflective of the past, and therefore don’t reflect any truth about the now. And you don’t know the truth about yourself or others now either because we’re limited in our underst…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 01:17 AM
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Did you know they did surgery on a grape
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 03:43 PM
6

It’s so hard to get out of the rational/logical thought frame but it’s literally just a stream of emotions and the emotions words bring up. Women like Shakespeare because it doesn’t make sense but makes them feel something.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 03:37 PM
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Stumbled upon nonsequitor game without realizing it. 2 years back I had this outer game technique where I’d slightly slow down my speech and make my gestures flowing then gracefully make a fist in front of me and say “boom” where it fits in conversation then shift to direct eye contact. If you look through body language, the fist communicates dominance, power, aggression and paired with this explosive onomatopoeia and direct sexual eye contact got these crazy reactions like “omg what’s your name…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 03:23 PM
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It’s probably 20% in less populated areas aka the vast majority of the country but way lower in cities. I’m a 6’1” conventionally attractive stubble bearded 23 year old in New York and get steady matches but can’t get a HB5+ tinder lay. I fall into the “hot enough to be worthy of paying her attention” bracket but not “so hot I better act now.” Why? 20% of men in these apps is tens of thousands of guys in New York. With some girls on tinder/bumble ONLY for attention, it’s about 3% of guys doing w…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 02:57 PM
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I’m a 23 year old 6’1” conventionally attractive guy with a stubble beard and good pics (not photo shoot quality) swiping in NYC. Not bragging though because the problem is that there’s tens of thousands of guys like me in a 5-10 mile radius but also thousands of guys with single digit body fat pics and super interesting production level pics in their late 20’s. I’m getting steady matches swiping HB5+ but no replies, flake on number close or no meetups. I’m right swipeable, but since the top 1-5…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 03:49 PM
6

Understanding the human as an evolved primate like any other animal, one can reflect to realize all our actions are motivated by avoidance of death (health), competing for rank in terms of physical, resource and social capital (LMS), and cashing in on procreation with it. This fact is obscured by the incredibly advanced society we’ve made as hyper-intelligent animals and our conscious mind itself, but the limbic and reptilian parts of the brain, shared by all animals, drive the content of our “h…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 06:26 PM
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Really like the one word technique. You can only memorize a pickup line but after that, having word targets can help generate an emotional charge. To have fun, sometimes a friend and I will challenge each other to use a short phrase, word or topic in every approach, usually something shocking or funny like it’s impractical jokers. Helps a lot with self amusement, focuses you on process over outcome and builds a sense that this is all for fun. It’ll put a little grin on your face up until you com…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 06:11 PM
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