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victim blamer. lol.
/r/MensRights12/10/15 03:57 AM
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she can be rehabed and named. Sucks for her but that's what happens when you do something really shitty. Weird. Honestly If I were the father of a son dating a girl like that I would definitely want to tell my son to be cautious, regardless of whether she was officially rehabed or not. It's too bad, but reality is full of "too bad"s.
/r/MensRights12/10/15 03:54 AM
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Rehabilitate her and name her. It's not about ruining her life. It's about protecting others lives from being ruined by her in the future.
/r/MensRights12/10/15 03:49 AM
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My first instinct would be to tell her, in a light-hearted way, that you know what she did, that it's pathetic, and then laugh at her for seeking the approval of such a chump. Then I'd tell her to go fuck him if she is really that self-loathing, but it would come with stipulations like STD testing if you were to ever have sex with her again. Then laugh at her again and tell her to get her shit together, hit the gym, get some goals that excite her and get to work. Because you deserve and can get …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 02:52 PM
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"hi husband, how was work?" "Well wife, turns out co-worker has the hots for me lol." *careless smile *say as little as possible to her follow-up questions *tease her playfully and relentlessly
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 08:20 PM
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What's a man to do? Whatever the fuck he wants.
/r/MensRights23/07/15 05:46 PM
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No one worth respecting gives a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 04:04 AM
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"Go fuck yourself. - Masturbation Culture Activist"
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 08:28 PM
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Money in any form is entirely subject to the value humans give it. A piece of paper, a shiny yellow rock, some metal with a stamp of a guy leading an army. As long as people agree on its value it's money. So yes, Federal Reserve Notes are real money, because hundreds of millions of people use them to buy shit.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 05:55 PM
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turns out gay men are men too.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 04:31 PM
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Agreed. In his case leaving the other part off would be wise. I approached it as a guy in a happy stable LTR, so I get a loooot more comfort tests, and it's more like 50/50 shit tests to comfort tests. I look at the line like this. First sentence = passing a shit test "She was the one flirting with me, not my problem I'm a sexy motherfucker." Next two sentences = passing a comfort test "In fact, take it as a compliment. You have what all these other bitches want."
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 02:57 PM
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since buckets is too good to flirt, he should just start with talking. Talk to other girls. Talk to other girls in front of his girl. When buckets gets a high enough SMV just talking will elicit flirtatiousness from the girls, then he has plausible deniability. Then if Girl gets huffy "She was the one flirting with me, not my problem I'm a sexy motherfucker. In fact, take it as a compliment. You have what all these other bitches want."
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 10:35 PM
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Agreed. Too many posts here about the most inane societal bullshit. TRPers are just people like everyone else and love feeling righteous anger whenever they can sufficiently justify it. HAMSTER.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 04:14 PM
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just treat it like a shit test. IE something shitty that is hard to ignore. Work out your ignoring muscle :)
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 04:13 PM
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Find something you can get lost in. Your aim is specifically the feeling of "flow". It isVERY therapeutic. Visual arts of any kind. Music. Crafting wood etc. Whatever grabs you long enough to get to that place. Also. Try 3.5 grams psilocybin with a trusted friend or two, in nature, in a comfortable setting after taking a day or two to unwind and unplug from day to day stresses. It will help renew your sense of wonder and joy. Help you find new vigor for life.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:31 PM
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this is why it's important in LTRs to for each party to provide variety for each other. It's possible, difficult, and rewarding.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 05:11 PM
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Very cool. I just set up my sellers and FBA account. I know there's a ton of courses and guides available. Do you have any favorites or recommendations?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 04:35 PM
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Are you just doing basic arbitrage with amazon? Buying discounted items and then shipping them to FBA for them to handle? Curious because im getting into importing/ecommerce myself.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 03:33 PM
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"Yes I started lifting weights and getting in shape and reading books on self improvement because we were not having sex but even when we start having sex again (said matter of fact with complete confidence) I am still moving forward with my self improvement plan." ^ maximum word count for a response. Less would likely be better. Especially if complete confidence isn't an option in the moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 04:02 AM
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as mildly interesting as an update would be, not being on reddit is a good thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 03:59 AM
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Why wouldn't you want to travel the world? I can't think of one reason not to do so. Why don't you do it?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 10:01 PM
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It should be presumed he is innocent, given that he has not been proven guilty.
/r/MensRights19/05/15 06:09 PM
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It's a step in the right direction though. When even an ok script exploring one of many very interesting possible outcomes of strong AI, turns out pretty well, there will likely be more, and better, to come. Which is good in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 02:51 PM
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This is way too focused on the woman. If a relationship is lagging a bit, or you've been too "beta" in the ways he describes, then the way to inject "alpha" is to give yourself more time to focus on improving yourself. That's it. No need to do these fucking pathetic manipulation games where you feign distraction or "partially neglect her" or "appear happy as fuck".
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 09:25 PM
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EDIT: If a man needs to play these games, I'd say he should dump her not because of any fault of hers, but because he desperately needs a few months of monk mode. Real self improvement. Agreed. You can accomplish the same result by genuinely refocusing on improving yourself and making more time for yourself. That's all that really needs to happen. Non of this micro strategy BS that revolves 100% around getting a woman to be attracted to you. "When you see her, be distracted with something else."…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 09:14 PM
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Or don't wink. Stare them down with a slightly too serious look and expect them to accept it. For the laughs.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 10:40 PM
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That's awesome. Yeah this is what I'm looking. A big goal, set of habits, etc that can last a lifetime. Something that will always be #1 priority in spite of what anyone else wants you to do.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 10:00 PM
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Yeah good call. Maybe it's not essential, but certainly a bonus if you can find one.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 06:41 PM
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How do you measure what "good" is for you? Have specific goals for your mini farm and eating good food?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 06:32 PM
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Nice. How do you track your progress, or measure yourself against you mission? I want to be a man that knows what he wants and how to get it. I'm curious about what you want. Are you still working on defining that?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 06:30 PM
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I think it's best not to think of either party as having a problem. It's just acknowledging what is and being ok with it. I don't have a problem if a 9 doesn't want a LTR with me. And she doesn't have a problem if she believes she can do better.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 05:42 PM
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But that's just playing into the sexist stereotype of women as caretakers and "nurturers". lol.
/r/MensRights05/05/15 02:28 PM
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Yeah exactly my thought process, and I like how you ran with it. And thanks for the kind words. But here's the thing, like all groups of like minded individuals we also fall into this trap of thinking that what "they" (other groups) do or think is "against nature", or unnatural. So we have this emergence of alternate ideas that challenge the current social structures. Some people might think of it as just the next phase in a totally natural evolution. And I think they're right in a way. But for …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 04:57 AM
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What I always find so silly is the notion that culture doesn't naturally emerge from the biologically driven behaviors of a group of humans interacting with one another.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 06:06 PM
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Grab your wife, kiss her hard, then tell her you're planning an adventure to fucking (insert awesome place) and just go. I'd recommend going alone. Barring cheating on her, think of kickass shit to do and then do it. It's her responsibility to keep up. If she doesn't keep up, you're still having a great time because you're doing things that excite YOU.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 08:37 PM
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A fellow exmormon :) I strongly recommend studying and practicing stoicism. Just like with mormonism it's easy to get stuck in a toxic anger phase for too long. It's far better to accept reality, get past the intense emotions quickly, and jump into focused self improvement. Be strong.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/15 10:02 PM
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Egalitarian movements are natural, very normal, challenges to existing hierarchies. And when successful they restructure hierarchies, but of course never eliminate them.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 06:40 PM
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You may not. Are not cultural and social forms of equality born of nature as well? And therefore just as natural as any hierarchy? Hierarchy doesn't come without a lot of accompanying struggle, same with these pushes for equality. I'm not arguing in favor any movement, I'm only saying they're just as natural as anything else. It's pure delusional hubris to say we can produce anything "unnatural". What we can do is talk about these different trends in terms of goals, consequences, pragmatism, hap…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 04:46 PM
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intense hiking + cannabis changed my life. Seriously. I had always enjoyed hiking... but never enough to love it or to get to the mountains on a regular basis. Then I discovered weed later in life (grew up in a very religious culture where weed = hell) and used it on an intense hike. I fell in love. It completely changed my emotional relationship with exercise and the outdoors. And now a few years later I'm still madly in love with the outdoors, even when I'm not high. It's just magical. It help…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:54 PM
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lol. no. Stop trying to control others with your toothless rules. It's pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 05:18 PM
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Well yeah... deliberately thinking about all the new women you can fuck gives you that mentality.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 02:48 PM
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You can't change what turns women on. You can only choose whether or not to become what turns women on.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 04:36 AM
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Better yet, immediately think of all the new women you can fuck 100% guilt free. EDIT: If a LTR asked for a break I would just start treating her like a plate from then on. I'd only clarify anything If she asked about being exclusive again. Her: "Can we be exclusive again?" Me: "No thanks." laughing as I push her head to my dick. Her: "Are you seeing other women?" Me: "Yes." laughing as I push her head to my dick. etc.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:09 AM
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We don't talk much about how men suck, because that's already being talked about basically everywhere. We talk about how men suck on an individual level, and when we do we talk about it it's almost exclusively in the context of finding real solutions for the problem of our shittiness, and encouraging each to do the gritty, hard work of self-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 08:25 PM
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What is a man's use for having fuck buddies? Spreading his seed. fun. satisfying his biological drive. These fuck buddies are typically sluts that aren't LTR material. What is a woman's use for having a lot of male "friends"? Security and resources for her and potential children. Cheap or free emotional and financial support. These male "friends" are typically commitment sluts that aren't LTR material to the woman. TRP too often tries to make men seem better than women. Or only point out what ma…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 06:15 PM
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Also you can tell by the language and style of writing, that most people on this forum posting are young and hey, if you are young, every 10 years later you know that 10 years before you were retarded compared to 10 years ahead. This is a perfect example of what you're saying.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:06 PM
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lol. That's how you should reply to her. "lol." Then forget about it and go do kickass shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 06:07 PM
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Just keep in mind all the women who will say the very same thing about betas that shovel their snow, pay for their meals, do endless shit for them without the slightest hint of sexual interest from the woman.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 03:49 PM
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I often wonder how many hot, fuckable women there are in the world. I suggest you wonder the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 06:39 PM
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Stop worrying about it. Go do kickass shit.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 03:17 PM
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I just think of it like this: A man likes to have sex with many women. A variety. A small percentage of women will be LTR potential. A woman likes to get commitment from many men. A variety. A small percentage of these men are men she will want to have sex with. Sex is to men, what commitment is to women.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 07:01 PM
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"Do not stop working if you get the commitment" 100%. I'm in a great exclusive LTR with my girl. There have been a few times where I've questioned her commitment to creating an awesome relationship and future together (normal relationship stuff), and it's always those times I feel more detached, and more willing to entertain the idea of going back to being single and having a variety of women in my life. This isn't a deliberate thought process. Just how I feel when she's more ... "meh" towards m…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 09:21 PM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_true_Scotsman
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 03:20 PM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_true_Scotsman
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 03:20 PM
-9

Maybe women aren't the caricature TRP makes them out to be.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 08:54 PM
1

... UNLESS YOU JUST DO NOT GIVE A FUCK WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF YOU. Holy shit you guys. Stop trying to convince men here they have to be little bitches eager to qualify themselves to you and all the vaginas of the world. It's not about "exuding IDGAF". It's not about "seeming like" anything. You're a fucking insecure pathetic little bitch if you think that's the goal. Be it. Own it. Like a fucking man. Everything from liking that one song by Britney Spear's producers, teletubbies, or mother fucking…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 07:47 PM
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Maybe he doesn't give a fuck what you think of him either lol.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 04:13 PM
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Unless you just don't give a fuck what a shitty bar cunt thinks of you... there's an exceptional circumstance.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 03:59 PM
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that's when being a self-motivated, hard-working, non-complainer becomes essential. I know the whole "make your accomplishments look effortless" thing, but when you start being around woman more and more, like an LTR, then you need to make the hard work and effort you put in, that she will inevitably see, look like it's a given for you. That means doing the hard work, day in and day out, without complaint.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:14 PM
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100% agreed. Also, psychedelics used with respect can add an entirely new level of gunk cleaning thoroughness.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:22 PM
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Make it a squat rack with a permanent 200 lbs or something on it. 5 reps gets you in. :) "Yup, still stronger than women. Privilege intact."
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 03:28 PM
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... he's answering the question "Why am I getting this email from Uber?" ... Feminists complain more than men, so company's will react more to them.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 06:11 PM
0

Hank Moody
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 08:33 PM
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"Well, I fucked one woman into multiple orgasms this morning. So there's that."
/r/MGTOW10/03/15 05:18 PM
-2

Good.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 05:55 PM
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Governments are inevitable, whether we call them governments or not. The minute a group of people hire a "private" security firm for protection in an anarcho capitalist society is the minute that society is right back on track with where we are now.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 07:22 PM
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There have been many "alpha" men with high pitched voices. Abraham Lincoln for example. But perhaps they are exceptions.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 06:46 PM
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Well, not every man thinks its amazing or cool to fuck the shittiest gutter women they can find. But if that's your thing then great. Better if she's with you or OP bro than annoying me.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 11:10 PM
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TIL "hate" = meh
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 11:05 PM
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"She admits (after prodding) that she was prowling bars looking for 'something, she didn't know what' ha." Hopefully not a baby.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 08:51 PM
-3

Would you say a football is artificial? A stadium?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 08:10 PM
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Sounds like I'm on the right track. Next step for my LTR and I is moving within ~1 mile of each other. The closest we'll ever get to cohabitation is probably two small cottages on the same large property. We're pretty cool.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 10:49 PM
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"You probably have a drug problem." Yes, I think you do. I recommend 3.5 grams of psilocybin and a couple joints, in a peaceful, comfortable, beautiful place (outdoors, in nature), with pleasant music, some healthy snacks you like, and maybe a close friend or two. That'll rip you out of your funk. Guaranteed.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 06:52 PM
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Why the fuck would you assume healthy relationship = comfortable and beta? All the chodes who assume that get fat and lazy in a relationship. Because they're fucking idiots. The asshats are coming out of the woodwork...
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:48 PM
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Of course I see them. They're the gutter club cunts I referred to...
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:45 PM
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Just to add... Too much of TRP is gyno centric. This dude is insecure because his -focus- is women, and not life satisfaction. Too many men here think life satisfaction = getting their dick in the orifices of women. He will not succeed as long as his world revolves around getting his dick wet. So, fuck SMV. Dude needs some emotional independence. Stoicism. And that means no longer giving any fucks about SMV, HBs, being "Alpha" or whatever. Once a man reaches that independence it's much easier to…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 05:10 PM
-1

Here we have one of the many asshats of trp.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 03:28 PM
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I think this is the reason we have a great opportunity. We can be good men, we can be kind, AND we can have a mission in life that we prioritize over women, have an almost vicious self-respect, and powerful outcome independence when it comes to women. This is what women want in a man. This is the kind of man that can resolve those competing desires for them. And it's totally achievable. There are so many asshats here that think you HAVE to be an asshole to get women. The assholes get women, gutt…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 04:50 PM
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eh...
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 10:59 PM
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I can, but I recommend going to the original stoics. I love Letters from a Stoic. Spent all last summer hiking the foothills where I live, listening to Seneca after work.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 10:28 PM
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I think everyone here ought to start practicing stoicism as their first behavioral change after being introduced to TRP. I was fortunate enough to get into stoicism about 6 months before finding TRP and Ive found that TRP is merely a nice accessory to my stoicism practice and not the other way around. r/TRP can set men up for even more failure with a nearly singular focus on women. I think the core concepts are sound, and the guys explicating the concepts are doing great work, but there isn't ne…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:10 PM
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Getting really high, watching great comedians, and laughing so hard for so long that all the muscles in my head hurt.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 07:42 PM
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My protocol for stuff like this is to immediately go into a kind of social monk mode and create distance. Meditate a lot. Get as close to that outcome independence as you can. And not out of anger. Don't let your anger destroy you, or lead you to do anything stupid. Lift hard. Do any kind of physical exercise HARD. Let her initiate all contact for a week, but don't go over board and completely ignore her out of spite. Just show her that when she does stupid shit like that, she doesn't get any of…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 10:50 PM
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the thing that gets me about all these FRs is how all the dudes are just great at sex like it's nothing. I am not.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 04:18 PM
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No. Hot women almost never compliment, and when they do compliment it's usually from a perspective of condescension.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 11:20 PM
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No you shouldn't. A flake should not claim any more of your energy. The faster you can let it go, forgot about her, and get lost in a healthy pursuit the better. Create something, go meet new women, read something dense, exercise, study. Life's too short to live with mild anxiety about flaky, unreliable women.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 07:10 AM
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I completely disagree. I would agree with "Once you commit unconditionally..." But doing that is just plain nonsensical. If you make it clear that you don't put up with bullshit, demonstrate a willingness to walk away, clearly express and enforce boundaries, maintain a high standard for a LTR, then hell no does committing make you beta in her eyes. In my relationship my commitment is to always be working hard on my personal goals, protect, occasionally provide, and be sexually exclusive. And tho…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 01:55 AM
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You're amazing. I want to be just like you. Can I suck your dick too? Maybe you can tie me up. hnnnnnnng give it to me TRPtophan!I WANT I WANT I NEEED I NEEEEEEED.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 02:27 AM
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It's a good eye opener for what's possible though. Building little money machine businesses that you can outsource so you can pursue other things, that aren't necessarily all about making more money.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 04:24 PM
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how about unverified anecdote.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 04:08 PM
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Amen. I try to bring some sanity to the sub in my own small way. The longer I'm here the less defensive I get about it with the crazies who shit all over it. Sure TRP is amoral. Doesn't mean I have to like evil, manipulative assholes here. However "alpha" they are. Fuck them. Fuck OP. Yay you're getting your dick in more than one woman, and treating them like shit. How fucking ordinary.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 07:03 PM
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I think that's the wrong way of thinking about it when it comes to LTRs. Being "alpha" doesn't mean you can't be a kind person, interested in keeping your mate happy and satisfied. If you are driven, dominant, stoic, self respecting etc and also kind, generous, and willing to make your mate happy I don't see anything "beta" about that. I don't understand why so many TRPers think alpha = selfish asshole in all cases.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 04:11 PM
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Ive felt the same way too with my LTR, but we've been able to work it out. And it came down to me being willing to soften up a bit. It can be easy for us here to go too far the other way. Be too hard, too stoic. Dudes here talk about shit tests way more than comfort tests, but I think its far closer to 50/50 than we think. And if you're being stoic, less emotionally available, working hard on yourself, your goals, enforcing boundaries etc then comfort tests are often MORE frequent than shit test…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 10:36 PM
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"I guess if I fully embraced the red pill philosophy and assuming it is the truth, time would heal the pain of being slapped hard in the face by the realisation that nothing is genuine." You clearly do not understand this collection of ideas called (stupidly in my opinion) The Red Pill. It is easier to be more genuine, and find more genuine people to associate with, by accepting a lot of what you find here.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 11:14 PM
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and to you too: There are many gay men that will be manlier, more "red pill", more dominant than you will ever be you stupid little bitch.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 10:50 PM
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There are many gay men that will be manlier, more "red pill", more dominant than you will ever be you stupid little bitch.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 10:49 PM
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What? What the fuck is wrong with being happy? As well as stoic? Who the fuck cares what "happy" sounds like? I'm happy. And I pursue things that make me happy. I must be a woman... lol
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 05:46 PM
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Amen. To add: While this FR turns out really well, I also think it's important to be completely ok with the situation if it doesn't flow your direction on a certain night. His friends really helped him out in this situation. Allowed him to sit back and score with ease when the time was right. If they hadn't talked his value up so much the other alpha dude may very well have been the one to score. Which would've been just fine. I have a similar personality. Quieter, but not shy, comfortable sayin…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 10:41 PM
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this is a great idea my brother and I were talking about. I recently found a cheap, kickass little cabin listed on airbnb about 3 hours from where I live. Taking my GF there for a weekend away as a Christmas present. But my brother and I were talking about how great it would be to get a cabin like that for a week or more and just be completely alone there. Read, write, exercise, read, write, practice new skills, read, cook, maybe some psilocybin and weed, and so on. Just to do a really deep rebo…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:04 PM
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who is their charismatic leader?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 09:54 PM
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"You have a choice to make. If you didn't have an incentive to get to the top 20% by now gentlemen, I don't know what will give you that drive." You make it sound like being in the top 20% is the only way to live a happy, fulfilled life. There are many men who just don't give a fuck what women think of them, regardless of how women would rate them.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 09:49 PM
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Lift heavy. You're right, running doesn't work very quickly for losing body fat and retaining muscle.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 07:20 PM
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Such are the problems of absurd resource surpluses. Thanks oil.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:18 PM
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War. Bloody, horrific war. That will change women too. And men. I think everyone here should watch Fury.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:09 PM
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Yes. However, you guys aren't the only ones with this totally common idea. Also, you likely have no fucking clue the kinds and amounts of truly insane baggage you'd be dealing with, with "plates" or otherwise. ex mormon living in slc.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 01:24 AM
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they have nothing figured out. dont delude yourslef into thinking an actually oppressive and sexist culture that favors a tiny amount of men with power is in any way a good place to go for the men here. You have no fucking clue what it means to hate that cult if you say you think they have it figured in the same sentence. ex mormon living in slc.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 01:23 AM
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How do I overcome the fear of rejection? Go get rejected. On purpose. A lot.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 11:29 PM
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I have been experiencing this the last couple weeks. Been wiped out after work, and it's taken a bit of a toll on my LTR, sex drive, attitude generally. It's a matter of priorities. So to get myself in a better place, I prioritized lifting, sleep, sauna time, eating VERY healthy while still allowing indulgences. After a couple days of kicking ass at work and getting those in every day, I'm back on my game. I still get stressed out and tired sooner than I want, but Ive carved out a better attitud…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 10:58 PM
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Such a good tip right there. Be alpha. I'm going to implement this nuanced technique tonight!
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 04:03 PM
1

progress, however you define it, for its own sake is happiness. That's the point of success. To succeed.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 11:14 PM
10

Start with stoicism. A stoic is hard to read. He doesn't wear his feelings on his sleeve. He dominates his feelings, controls them. When you are in control you can then begin deliberately implementing unpredictability, because you are not subject to the whims of your emotions. Even a predictable but stoic man will be more unpredictable to people they're getting to know, than the non stoic man. Contrast with the man who is not -deliberately- unpredictable. He is out of control. He is not stoic. H…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:01 PM
1

eh, I'd leave immediately too. No time for uninterested women, taken women, or liars.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 05:33 PM
15

Fuck islam. I want to see it undermined and destroyed. And fuck you, you stupid prick. Go be a missionary somewhere else.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:25 PM
15

Amen. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pyrrhic_victory Law 9: Win through your actions - never through argument
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 04:37 PM
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Law 4: Always say less than necessary.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 11:27 PM
15

STOP MANIPULATING WOMEN BY IMPROVING YOURSELF YOU HOMICIDAL LOSER!!!!! :O))))))
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 04:07 PM
9

Eh. there will always be more betas than alphas. It's all good. I can bro it up with my beta friends. Its only when the topic comes to sex, dating etc that they get more repulsive.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 03:47 PM
1

Meditate. Cultivate stronger stoic qualities. Also, I find that with most annoying assholes the best way to handle them picking at you is to enthusiastically accept any an all criticisms, -almost- to the point of absurdity, but not quite. And then once you've humored their assholery enough just go into lock down and tell them to fuck off, with the most genuine smile you can muster, cause you need to work now. But HEY GREAT JOKES BRO YOU'RE SO CUTE HAHAHA. thumbs up
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 03:39 PM
8

Also bullshit. Focus only on improving yourself. As women perceive you as a valuable, attractive man it will take care of itself without having to erode them in anyway.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 06:27 PM
4

Kindness and generosity are abso-fucking-lutely not beta traits. Kindness and generosity from a beta is manipulative, because they do it with an expectation of reward, pussy, some form of reciprocity. What I can't fucking stand here is all the legitimate scum assholes that think being an asshole is the only way to get their penis in vagina. It's not. Kindness and generosity IS the way to forge lasting, healthy relationships. What they don't say is you have to take care of yourself first, have se…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 05:14 PM
12

What am I to do Have friends. Bros. And then have bro time where you can vent all you want. Recuperate. Then back to your woman. All too often men think that they must have extreme intimacy in every aspect of life with their LTR women. This is not true. That kind of intimacy leads to broken relationships. A healthy LTR requires both parties to have AT LEAST 1 good friend outside the relationship (in my opinion).
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:07 PM
2

in my opinion, when you qualify a boring person as someone that doesn't care about sports or video games, you're the fucking boring one. But yeah, agreed on principles.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 06:32 PM
1

No need to manufacture feminist outrage. There is already feminist outrage when it comes to female under-representation in STEM fields. And they blame it on sexist patriarchy, rather than looking to biological differences as a potential selector for STEM interest or disinterest.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:37 PM
1

No. I don't focus on the fact that women are sluts. Because not all women are sluts.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 05:15 PM
2

the other TRP answer would be to stop intimacy AND leave immediately.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:48 PM
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And of course, they don't explain the consequences. That they will be worth far less to a "nice guy", that they won't be physically attracted to a "nice guy". They'll just be 30 something, used up, shitty, entitled women discarded by men of even a semblance of quality for the sluts they are.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:52 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/Ow3gov8.png "She's talking about criteria for settling down and raising a family vs. criteria for casual dating. Not sinister at all." lol. Good to see some sane commenters over there though.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:27 PM
5

Amen. Same story here. Associating weed with hiking, listening to epic music, charging up giant fucking mountains several times per week, saved my life. Lost 50 lbs, look great, have sexy, sweet, kickass girlfriend, good job, businesses that are just now starting to get serious traction... Yeah, drugs are tools that can be used in extremely positive, sustainable ways. Just have to respect their power for good and bad.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 04:36 PM
1

Amen. Part of accepting reality is also accepting exactly where we are in life (women, money, etc). It isn't until we can be honest with ourselves about our station in life that we can begin the hard work of genuine, lasting change.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 09:44 PM
2

That's some healthy relationship shit right there :) A good, psychologically healthy woman will understand that for most men, sex is the doorway to the emotional intimacy and commitment she craves.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 09:06 PM
1

Links/citations would be cool.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 05:55 PM
6

On top of all the shit I have to do to keep a woman happy Sounds like you're doing it wrong. If "all the shit you have to do" is only motivated by keeping a woman happy, then you've built your life with seriously flawed motivations, as impressive as your life is.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 09:19 PM
9

I was told by my GF recently that i can be really intense sometimes, and I can, but I don't mean to be. She said I exude "Don't fuck with me or I will fuck you up". And she's said on multiple occasions that I'm "scary". Always explaining immediately she doesn't feel like shes in danger or anything. So, she's never said it's a good thing. But I like it. I want to be intimidating honestly. I think menacing can be done right. Women generally want menacing men on their side. Protection, safety etc.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:21 PM
2

This is relevant: "And so mental contrasting pushes back against one of the great, disempowering lies of positive thinking: that transformative change, personal or societal, can be made effortless. It can’t. In fact, Oettingen’s research suggests, convincing yourself that life’s meant to be easy just makes it appreciably harder. The best way to quench your thirst for change, it seems, is to remind yourself that the glass is still half empty." http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/oliver-burke…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 06:11 PM
3

Misogynist = a person who dislikes, despises, or is strongly prejudiced against women.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 04:20 PM
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TRP is all about the strategy of one night stands and how to "game" (read: manipulate) women. You're wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 06:22 PM
3

Women would be better off spending that 3/4 of their time doing whatever the fuck they want. I'd prefer women spend time on their phones if that's what they're genuinely interested in doing. Pre-selection :)
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 05:53 PM
1

ive found a lot of women are simply insecure about potentially bleeding all over the guy they really like. Makes sense. Especially makes sense if they got shit for it from another guy in the past.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 12:44 AM
4

Good point. I should probably leave this place.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 06:42 PM
10

lol I'll do whatever the fuck I want. This ship is sinking under the dead weight of people complaining about things the way they are and not making things better for themselves. ... This is not going to be a friendly post contributing to the circle jerk sweeping through TRP right now http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_pot_calling_the_kettle_black I just dont really care dude :)
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 06:33 PM
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this has got to be one of the silliest things tons of people are extremely serious about.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 06:23 PM
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based on this work http://global.oup.com/academic/product/the-evolutionary-biology-of-human-female-sexuality-9780195340990;jsessionid=B7B8E1DF4386B9558BE35603CCD9EB6F?cc=us&lang=en& "Explains how women's sexuality is dual purpose in design--to select mates for genetic quality, and to enlist male resources"
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:56 PM
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This is not going to be a friendly post contributing to the circle jerk sweeping through TRP right now. I'm not looking to make friends. I'm going to lay out some serious shit and you're going to read along. You might even learn something. Yes we get it you're a hardcore mr badass. I can't count how many posts start with this "prepare yourself to hear something hard" BS. Also, good advice (referring to your post). Yes, take responsibility. Good. Hooray.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:57 PM
2

Well she's "single and having fun" right now. So I would be willing to bet that a nigga can get them digits.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 10:28 PM
1

do it for all the benefits that come from being prime breeding stock, including the sexual reasons.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 09:44 PM
16

Don't fool yourself by going too far the other way. Those of us who are interested in LTRs are looking for rare women. And they exist. Doesn't mean they're unicorns. Just better than most other women.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:10 PM
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DEM SNUGGLES. As much as people here love talking about FUCKING and being all stoic and shit. I think all the other affectionate stuff is great too. I fuck hard. I also snuggle hard.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 03:40 PM
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Yes. You sound like one of my friends... I aim for quarterly with psilocybin in a beautiful, natural, secluded place with my closest friends. More ritualistic/therapeutic than anything. No more than 4 of us. And I use marijuana on a regular basis to get me on strenuous hikes, and getting to sleep (insomniac). far from making me lazy or demotivating me mj helps me get my priorities straight. I'm currently working on getting mys usage down to about once per week. I'm pretty sure people like you an…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 03:25 PM
3

if you want feedback, post images of what you have.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 10:58 PM
7

I think that is one of the healthiest ways to view shit tests. Instead of lashing out against them like they're some flaw of all women, use them as an indication that you can do and be better. It turns the shit test into a lens through which you view things that are in your control.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:26 PM
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What i find funny about that comment "women are not dogs..." is that both dogs and humans are pretty intelligent mammals. We're not sooooooooooooooooooo different that things that work positively dogs don't also work positively for humans of both fucking genders.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 07:56 PM
1

Be VERY judicious with your time around potential mates. Be quick to go to radio silence. Disappear and go work on cool shit. Meet new people. That kind of thing.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 04:50 PM
0

"For the Stoics, 'reason' meant not only using logic, but also understanding the processes of nature—the logos, or universal reason, inherent in all things. Living according to reason and virtue, they held, is to live in harmony with the divine order of the universe, in recognition of the common reason and essential value of all people. The four cardinal virtues of the Stoic philosophy are wisdom (Sophia), courage (Andreia), justice (Dikaiosyne), and temperance (Sophrosyne), a classification der…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:56 PM
4

I left mormonism about 3 years a go. It's been a long journey. I'm a nice guy but in the last year I've started aggressively defending my self-resepct (among other things like pursuing health and money goals more aggressively). That means I can sometimes be seen as an asshole when I'm standing up for myself, but I don't think I'm an asshole, and neither do my friends or girlfriend. You can be a kind, generous, magnanimous, alpha male. That's what I strive to be. I want to embody the stoic virtue…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:16 PM
5

Take classes for something. Go to meetup groups consistently. Dancing lessons. Literally endless opportunities to find decent people to hang out with. Or, if you want to skip all that, start your own group. Then you're the leader. Its fucking difficult, but if you're consistent, and not an asshole to people it will grow.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 10:33 PM
2

No need to deal with it at all. You have better things to expend your emotional energy on.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 10:16 PM
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Why I'm not quitting the red pill: Because I'm capable of gleaning valuable, actionable information regardless of whether I agree or disagree with others approaches.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 09:24 PM
1

"make"? Just get your own drink, and if she wants one she can figure out how to make that happen.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 07:36 PM
8

Think empire builders. Think "others are taken care of as a consequence of selfishly taking care of yourself"
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 07:28 PM
9

This is not something to worry about for the simple fact that you can do nothing about it. Now go do man shit.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 10:37 PM
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Ah yes. Good insight. Have a booty shot. http://i.imgur.com/aEW3VUL.jpg
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 04:29 PM
5

Humility is the key to tangible progress. Keep it up brother.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 04:22 PM
5

Amen. I celebrate my successes with my woman, not to get her validation, but because im just fucking excited about it. Far from turning her off, it inspires her to seek similar successes for herself.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 03:44 PM
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I disagree with the introversion part. Introversion =/= shy or cowardly. You have accept it and learn to love that part of yourself. And develop some confidence like any other person. Introversion simply means you lose energy being in social situations rather than gain energy like extroverts. As an introvert myself I think of social situations like a sniper rather than someone blasting away with a shotgun. Spend time surveying the situation and choose your target/s. Also introverts can gain a lo…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 08:43 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/RCNbzu4.gif
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 08:08 PM
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Yes you can be all those things. But you must always -clearly- put your own needs first. Command respect. Become a benevolent King archetype, and you can shower your women in kindness, and they will not stray. But you MUST demonstrate that you are a man that will immediately and firmly stand up for yourself, and quickly remove from your life any trespassers, including those close to you. My current GF saw my text ending my last romantic interest, after she went crazy. It was firm, cold, and cord…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:42 PM
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