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Congrats your husband and other men aren’t women. Men notice women’s bodies. Women are treated differently than them. It’s absolutely coloring book kindergarten clown world to pretend like a man wearing compression leggings at the gym would have the same effect as the kind of dress OP is talking about. I’m a woman and I can’t help staring. I’ve seen girl’s buttholes through see through clothing and shorts so high and tight could see their vulva through them. It’s legitimate to wonder why people …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:33 AM
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But she went to the school of life
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/21 04:47 PM
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Her number one interest listed: mental health awareness. Lol. Well at least she’s aware!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 03:23 AM
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Thats one of the most horrible stories I’ve ever heard. Death to anyone who harms or enables the harm of kids
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 02:32 AM
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Biologically & historically women who were sexually available to men who were pussies lacked protection and resources. Women are primed to be repulsed by men who are perceived as low value. Of course there are kind, honest, giving, & good men who also maintain their strength but many women had no safe masculine presence in their lives, and thus their views are utterly distorted. They’d rather gamble with an asshole they have to chase who cheats on them than an adoring dope
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 05:14 PM
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The really sad thing is her daughter has a much higher statistical chance of getting abused than most children… by a lot. Predators seek out dopey single mother’s like this, and it doesn’t help she’s advertising that she’s having a girl. And she’ll probably have pictures of her on the dating app once she’s born (which is SO stupid and should be illegal.) it’s fucked up and unfair
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 04:47 PM
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She’s a pig. Flat out. I don’t always connect to the even steven arguments (what if a guy said that etc) bc men and women are different, but in this case it’s totally applicable. She’s ick
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 05:24 AM
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This one’s kyna sad, usually (not always bc only fans makes it way to easy and normie girls get groomed into stupidity) but usually girls in porn are drug addicts who were sexually abused as kids. Like 9/10 its the case. Its still dishonest on her part, but the whole industry is really sickening.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 04:57 AM
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If you have to ask..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 04:51 AM
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Its edited heavily. Right under her belly button is blurred, her waist juts in at a bizarre angle, her upper arms have these weird gaps bc she tried to make her boobs bigger…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 04:50 AM
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What does this have to do with women
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 04:47 AM
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I’m really struggling with this! I’m so lucky I’m engaged but have barely any women to put in my wedding, its lonely out here
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 03:13 AM
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So funny story… I got kicked off of FDS because I LIKED A POST from r/redpillwomen …. The irony was that the advice on the latter subreddit helped me meet my fianceè and honestly changed my life. I want to have a happy life with a high value man, but I also want him ti be ecstatically happy too, and the red pill sub emphasizes how to make a man happy (something that deeply offended fds)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 03:12 AM
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Getting married to a high value woman is absolutely peak status symbol, having children and raising them well, as a contrast to this degenerate selfish culture, building something real and meaningful as a legacy is most excellent in the deepest meaning of the word. Men who invest time in themselves to afford to be picky and have the upmost standards can find that diamond in the rough and make a beautiful life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 03:03 AM
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Which are severely photoshopped, and badly at that. Look at the warped couch cousins and the inconsistencies around her waist hips and arms. Lol double homicide
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 02:11 AM
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Too bad that husband constantly cheated on her with teenagers and treated her like trash =|
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/21 03:27 AM
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Look into microneedling, laser, or plasma treatments for your skin. Get a derm to prescribe you the strongest retinol possible. Replace alcohol with bone broth (distinct form of broth that contains huge amounts of collagen) and exercise & stretch to release collagen-blocking cortisol. There’s no hard fast rule that you have to hit the wall at X age. Women have grace and beauty across their 30s if they take care of themselves. Reverse aging is a thing, look into it and lmk if you have questions
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/21 03:20 AM
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Tread lightly though, a lot of men would sense this is over compensating and feel like you’re trying to nurse his back to health.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/21 03:15 AM
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I got banned from r/femaledatingstategy for the same reason lollll. Which is funny bc they always shit on girls for going after low value men and kind of mimic the philosophy here, (they insist men pay on dates etc.) but have a way more overtly feminist perspective
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/21 03:13 AM
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Right, there’s a strategic way to do so for sure. You want to balance an investment in your self with a low risk of debt.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/21 03:10 AM
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We live in a patriarchal society, porn shouldnt follow you around. still goes by same name generated specifically for porn 3-4 yrs after her “retirement”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 02:10 AM
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I disagree with you, necessary laborers are highly respectable in my book, particularly those who take pride in their work. Porn is unfit for the sanitation workers to wipe their boots in
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 02:07 AM
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The L is ultimately on him, he allowed his wife to do this without immediately leaving wtf
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 02:05 AM
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Successful where? Male “actors” barely get paid. Even the women don’t make very much. Around $900 a shoot maybe if you’re in good standing, that’s nothing for the price of the lifelong trauma humiliation & torment to your peace of mind. You’re only successful as long as you’re working, and there’s a reason their “careers” are all short lived, they have to use prescription pain pills to get through each day. Watch the documentary movie hot girls wanted on netflix. Its fucked up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 01:51 AM
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I’m only 5’6” and I feel this haha. For some reason most guys at my high school were absolutely miniature and I felt like a giantess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 01:27 AM
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You know her body is photoshopped, like a lot. She probably has a small / medium build but the curve of her elbow at her waist is deformed and her hips look totally off. Once you know what basic body photoshop looks like you’ll never be able to unsee it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 01:23 AM
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Are you talking about evan rachel wood and marilyn mason?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/20 05:10 AM
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It’s not a crime for a women to have had a few boyfriends before. That’s not what this back and forth debate about someone’s past is about. It’s less about which particular activity she’s engaged with than her character. Most men, hell- most people providing they’re sane- want someone who respects themselves, takes care of their bodies, works to better themselves, and surrounds themselves with good people. Abusing yourself with excess, whether it’s over the top drinking, sleeping with people who…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/20 05:04 AM
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Who’s gonna tell her a full package means loaded with good qualities (kind, smart, funny, pretty, etc) Not loaded with massive amounts of sperm and financial baggage
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/20 11:58 PM
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No offense to your ex or the state of ohio but this does not narrow it down whatsoever
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/20 04:22 AM
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In a way its somewhat more “ethical” than porn, but I think the real draw is that its personal and can be customized. The most popular girls on there arent out of this world hot, but the ones who hustle. A lot of them make even more communicating than the pics and videos themselves. Our society breeds loneliness more than ever. Men and women still have innate biological drives, unbalanced in women it creates a toxic reliance on attention and in men it creates a desperate pervasive simp-ness. The…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 07:09 PM
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Shes probably 20 and has her facebook listing her age as 23 to match the fake ID she’s been using since high school. Either way- R E D F L A G
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/20 09:29 PM
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It’s crazy she straight up tells you she got pregnant from a tinder fuck. “Oooh present day update!” Indicates the profile (and pic prOBABLY) precedes eazy-e. Like by a lot. A toddler is at least 2 years old, 9 months in gestation. She’s been at this shit for a while, those puppies have seen a lotta mileage
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/20 05:08 AM
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Hence “present day update.” The profile precedes the pregnancy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/20 05:06 AM
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Nah its gotta be a trouple situation
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/20 03:21 PM
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I get your point but. Plenty of dudes are beta losers that leach of the government / their families and friends. Its not unreasonable for a woman to not want a broke busted alcoholic dipshit who barely has a dick to raise children with. But the good men have high standards as well, absolutely fair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/19 03:58 AM
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Theres more nuance to variants in ideology than that. For example, some women that would say theyre feminists abhor pornograhy and think its exploitative and misogynistic. Some feminists completely lean into it and see it as women exploring their sexuality. Then there are women that dont describe themselves as feminists at all but may hold beliefs that specifically single out benefits for women (i.e. virtures of chivalry, motherhood, femininity, etc.) and likewise women who call themselves femin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/19 04:09 AM
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Your title bro. Holy shit. Did ya pass 3rd grade?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/19 11:18 PM
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Plenty dont subscribe to the dogma of late 00s feminism
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/19 11:11 PM
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Yeah as if our current culture is the direct fault of anyone who criticizes it. Completely asinine statement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/19 11:10 PM
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Kids have a funny way of turning out differently than expected. A lot of traditionally- minded red pilled kind of women were raised by people like this and got sick of it and rebelled.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/19 11:07 PM
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Lol. How so?
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:11 AM
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These are beta “what would you do if you won the lotto” questions. There’s always a hotter girl. You could get with the hottest girl in the world and she’ll depreciate in looks as well eventually and the next hottest will come up and so on. rp men in LTRs get something better out of it than fucking random chicks, unless / until they dont and then its back to the grind. The point is any alpha in an LTR could leave and fuck models if he wants to. The point is that he gets more out of the LTR and d…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:10 AM
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Is anyone else deeply concerned her range starts at 16?! It seems pretty likely she’s american which clearly draws the consent line at 18.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/19 12:18 PM
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Its really sad, and they typically have the most kids. Barely parented and shoved into special ed where the highest concentration of money, teachers, and resources are. And the cycle continues
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/19 03:53 PM
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Not to be cruel but just remember the special ed kids from school grow up. A lotttt of them have babies, probably moreso then the straight A girls going to grad school until they get ivf at 40 yrs old
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/19 10:07 PM
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Feminine women in america can make a killing nowadays. During the past world wars women had insane competition, now I look around and between landwhales and instathots, a kind hearted young woman who respects others and takes good care of her health and wellbeing has pretty much got it made. The eastern european girls RP raves about would do well here, but theyd run into the inverse problem with beta males and shallow losers
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/19 08:31 PM
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22 years old, goddamn. How.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/19 08:25 PM
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Thats one serious jawline
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/19 07:54 PM
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Such a bummer that these are the people who are having the most children. I work with kids in a lower income area and i cant tell you how many special ed people grow up to repopulate like rabbits and send their 7 kids to school with rotten food and dirt on their face while the educated part of the population is waiting forever / never to have kids and all these “smart” women are having one autistic child in their 40s via artificial insemination and calling it quits. Im telling you we’re about to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/19 02:15 PM
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Shes how old?? More like 27... minutes from death
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/19 12:12 PM
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Profession “nonya.” Watch what happens if a guy were to answer that to: Whats your height? Whats YOUR job? / how much do you make?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/19 04:38 AM
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Its actually pretty cool she turned being in jail into a job and got clean, busting the revolving door stereo type. Glad her shit is slightly more together and our tax dollars werent paying for her cot. Still wouldnt touch her with a ten foot pole though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/19 04:36 AM
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More like a complete bad ball
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/19 02:00 AM
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At least she put her weight out there honestly vs trying to pretend behind old / edited photos and then showing up on a date inflated beyond belief
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/19 01:57 AM
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Marital status: separated. Sounds about right
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/19 01:55 PM
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Another reason why men who have sex with randos (condoms rip all the fckn time) skeeve me out
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/19 01:54 PM
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One scary thing is she wants more kids who she has a high percentage of transmitting her disease to via childbirth and breastfeeding... something tells me she’ll probably get her wish
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/19 01:52 PM
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Imagine being the kids of that woman having to read that every day feeling humiliated rejected and resentful. So sad
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/19 01:19 AM
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Since they cant play up the youthful virginal angle the strategy is to play up how maternal and responsible they are, but still fun! If youre not looking for something swipe left etc
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 07:52 PM
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Its crazy how you can tell shes fat from just that little slice of a picture
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/19 12:48 AM
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Yeah but you showing more skin isn’t inherently interesting or sexy to women the way the inverse is so irrelevant comparison
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/19 08:10 PM
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She’s trying to shame guys who imply that her kid is baggage (albeit by beating them to punch and doing it for them.) and virtue signal that she’s an A1 greAt mom who kicked those losers to the curb. (Also fishing for compliments with the sigh my sad rant is over... :( and performativly humble bragging... “did I mention I do wifey shit?”) She’s waiting for the white knight to swoop in and say “aw that guy was such a jerk“ and be swindled by her sad bio and try to reel him in hook line and sinker…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 05:36 AM
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The crazy thing is, people are swiping right on this, and posts like these. If they weren’t getting the attention they ordered they’d figure it out reeeeal quick and change strategies. But they’re slow on the uptake that they’re responsible for who they attract, the lowlifes and desperatos who’ll do and say anything for a chance to sleep with anyone. Thats why it takes rock bottom, when its already too late for reflection to occur most of the time, but by then smarter, younger, hotter girls figu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 05:29 AM
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Wow. I worked at an elementary school for a while and multiple teachers recognized privately in the teachers lounge that Aidens are categorically the absolute worst... thats so spot on
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/19 03:51 PM
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I know there’s a no blaming betas rule on this sub... but at some point you have to look at who’s feeding the animals. Do you blame them for getting fat and aggressive?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/19 08:57 PM
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The comment that got shafted to the side- how the happiest relationships were among women with “housewife jobs” was actually the most insightful. The happiest relationships balance masculine ambition with women embodying their highest expression of femininity- creativity and passion projects with the backbone of homemaking, taking on a lower stress job to ideally accommodate nurturing a family. It’s very sad that many aspects of modern feminism turn against actual femininity. Though kind-hearted…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/19 04:55 AM
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4 different women. I got all this after 10 minutes on tinder. Its bleak out there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/19 04:45 AM
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Thats what the last guy thought who’s now on the hook for a pair of twins being raised by a creature who’s spending her on the job as a full time mommy hours scanning tinder for the next victim. I really dont get the blaisé attitude supposedly RP guys have to fucking anything and everything. It shows no discipline or self control to take such a risk, as well as lowering your value and losing self respect for yourself. Anyone can get pregnant. Condoms dont protect against a lot of the permanent S…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/19 02:33 PM
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Plenty of kids want tattoos that realize by the time they’re adults would be a bad idea. Keep making it clear you discourage it, she wants to do it to honor you, your disapproval would counteract that. Maybe brainstorm some other cool bonding thing you guys could do together when she turns 18, like take a trip somewhere
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/19 02:25 PM
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Regardless of whether she cheats on you, even if she goes full into nun mode, it spirals your relationship out of the real world into a fantasy land. If theres a timeline for the LTR to be over (within the next year ideally) and you’re with someone completely committed, loyal beyond shadow of a doubt, and able to be self disciplined, you still only have a small percentage chance of it not being a failure.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 09:06 PM
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If you identify as beta you might be presenting a conflicting image, especially with your height. A lot of would-be feminine women can act more naggy-bitchy-etc when around guys who bring it out by not adopting their own masculine polarity. All the shit about women acting masculine has a counterpart- its the result of the feminization in men women are involuntarily reacting to. Bitches dont phase masculine men, that behavior isnt tolerated and it either changes, or the whole girl gets dropped.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 09:03 PM
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You’re joking about the hoodies right?
/r/askTRP15/08/19 09:00 PM
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This has to be fake
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/19 06:29 PM
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No argument there, though a girl who lists it on a dating profile almost guaranteed to be crude and masculine
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/19 03:36 PM
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Listing TV shows / foods you like arent personality traits
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/19 03:19 PM
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Someone ezplain how this broad is going on international vacations on a stay at home mom salary +childcare...?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/19 07:16 PM
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Can someone please explain her tattoo i am LOST
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/19 07:10 PM
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She had me until her anthem was “all time low”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/19 07:07 PM
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More telling is the suggestion that “well its not so bad when you consider it was 12 guys a year from 14-20” the post isnt an explanation of regret on her part, and she utterly fails to see why itd give him pause. They dont view sex the same way and that makes them incompatible. I wonder if theres an update or reveal in the comments sectsh of what he ended up doing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/19 09:26 PM
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Notice the top comments, all “forced” to do stuff they didnt want to and defending her for being comfortable enough to open up about .... being a prude?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/19 12:50 PM
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Her bio is a joke you numbskulls jesus
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/19 04:12 AM
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The lie shes trying to convince herself, “he can do whatever he wants im okay with that”. 👌🏻
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/19 04:00 AM
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Quack
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/19 03:30 AM
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Could any of those ailments have to do with “smokes often?” Also “full time mama” and “prefers not to say” in regards to a car are hilarious red flags
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/19 03:27 AM
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In a way its even harder for her bc she’s attractive. (For now, and not for long.) she’s used to being the pretty pretty princess and has no idea that the ol wall is about to slam her dreams of an alpha step daddy in the dust. She doesnt even realize how ridiculous her harley quinn costume looks next to a desperate bulletin that says she wants a serious relationship. She thinks she has just as much right to be picky as a woman 10 years her junior, in the prime of her life / fertility. Her 10 yea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/19 03:25 AM
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Catch 22 women get walloped with. Bank on your career and lose out on a family. Focus on better yourself and being a good wife and mom, the man isnt guaranteed. Most people choose the devil they know vs the unknown, even if its the one thing that could make them happy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/19 03:17 AM
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Also how easy it is for a condom to rip or slip. BC malfunctions all the time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/19 03:13 AM
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The desperation is rampant
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/19 03:07 AM
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Aw jeez. “Smokes often.” And then monologues about breastfeeding. The terrifying thing is there 100% are men swiping / who would swipe right. Desperate and likely despicable cretins like some Jared the subway guy motherfuckers and other bottom feeders looking for whatever slop they can scoop up from the trough
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/19 03:06 AM
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I actually feel like this girl might be special ed (not even trying to put her down)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/19 03:02 AM
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Did you find out by her sharing that or through a 3rd party? The later is pretty damning
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 02:57 PM
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I dont pity her for being a lier and treating her husband like a chump (no BJS ever?!) she created a horrible reality for herself like so many others in this generation, its just a shame women get it in their heads that its desirable bc of the rampant fuckedupness of the culture theyre raised in. Makes vetting all the more crucial
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 02:56 PM
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Oh man. She breezed right over all the shit that hurt him the most and focused all on her, the woe is me game. No mention of the neglect in intimacy, the lying, the lack of baseline fun and adventure. No wonder dude is spiraling out, he’s putting the pieces together and shes a bigger fraud than even she knows
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 03:20 AM
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How is it white knighting to say her fucked up choices resulted in a fucked up situation and people should learn from this. And not white knighting to not want this to happen to other people
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 03:18 AM
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Religious is fine. Psychologists are fine. People who dont engage in conversations with their children and let them grow and flourish with both boundaries and independence are usually fucked from either end of political spectrum. Amazing how many “libertarians” (not saying you are) don’t understand parenting concepts. Its not about micromanaging your children into being your mirror or letting your kids deteriorate to the point of what either of those girls did in college. Theres a spiritual cris…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 03:17 AM
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Yeah a lot of commenters are just slut shaming saying she got what she deserved etc. Its not the behavior (tho thats super unideal) its the lying that really set her up to fail. She must have felt a monkey on her back for years wondering if and when her past life would be exposed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 02:36 AM
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This story reads like an aesob’s fable. And its actually pretty sad. If she had better guidance, (religious parents that force your choices and control you dont count) she might have made decisions that showed she respected her body. Someone has to really hate themselves to befriend to guys who backmail you for fun. She tried to become the person her parents were forcing her to be on her own terms, but as is so often true for women- those lessons have to learned young or its often too late. They…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 02:28 AM
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Wellp you probably looked like a total pussy and i’m sure she’ll be laughing about you to the next foreign “friend” she makes. No wonder she doesnt respect you, you’re below the level of one of her girlfriends
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:05 PM
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Regardless of whatever this girl did you don’t leave a girl alone at a bus stop at 4am wtf? At least show her a semblance of masculinity before you go no contact / apply dread / do whatever you want to do.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:18 PM
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Massive, unbelievable liability. If you ever piss her off or plate her and she doesnt like it, she’s completely liable to say you attacked her. Do you think people will believe you or her?
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:43 AM
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It really is sad that so many people have lives like this. The unhappiness is a contagious disease
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/19 03:08 AM
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She looks great for her age, but thats the problem, is that her age is too high to compete with the women in their 40s, 30, maybe even 20s that the kind of men she wants have access to. She’ll likely have to sacrifice looks, success, or accept an older guy to find the companionship she desires
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/19 02:23 AM
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Well then theres a higher chance she was straight up hitting on you vs just kind of dutifully going through the “nooo you werent ugly” motions, so all the more reason to stay cool headed and relaxed about this
/r/askTRP30/07/19 05:43 AM
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This Past Weekend with Theo Vonn Congratulations from Chris D’elia Joe Rogan Experience
/r/askTRP30/07/19 05:19 AM
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You have no excuse to be bored. Read a book. Have conversations with other people. Explore, walk around, go hiking, do interesting shit. If you’re bored - you’re a boring person. Put down the phone and stop whining like a baby about a vacation mommy and daddy probably paid for
/r/askTRP30/07/19 05:17 AM
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Idc that this isnt your girl, you’re not at all in your frame, evidenced by your supposedly beta roommate laying down the law and you coming onto reddit with your tail between your legs for validation that you’re manly and he sucks. Anyone who would have respected you would have had a conversation. Fix your shit
/r/askTRP30/07/19 05:15 AM
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I find the appreciation shy people get from someone bringing them out of their shell comfortably to be amazing. Find a banter, or even a gateway through an activity. It’ll open them up when you’re totally in your own frame, exuding an ease and playfulness they can adapt into.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 05:12 AM
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She’s flirting with you. It’s either a test, a game, or a straight up hint but either way its an opportunity. You have to stay in the reins, build her desire by having the presence of being in control. “Win” at flirting by making her more nervous than she makes you. (Nervous excited, not nervous uncomfortable obviously) you fucked up by telling her your sob story about being ugly once, thats bordering the territory of fishing for compliments, like a girl would. unless it was told like some hilar…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 05:09 AM
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Yeah any girl worth her salt should already be a) not fucking other men and b) have a fitness regime. This is basic, basic shit. Bare minimum vetting qualifies. You’re both a mess and probably deserve each other at the states you’re at. If you want to level up you need to start working your ass off and get some higher standards
/r/askTRP30/07/19 05:00 AM
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There’s a difference between open-mindedness about sex and dating someone who straight up doesn’t care about who she shares herself with. This guy she got chlamydia from didn’t give a shit about her enough to either a) be fucking multiple people or b) not get his health in order before sleeping with her, or both. According to you, if I remember correctly, she didn’t even bother to get checked until you asked her. the girl doesn’t even give a shit about her own health (including potentially perma…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 04:55 AM
1

Do you have an idea of who gave who the disease? Does she?
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:13 AM
2

Scan your memory methodically, without touching down into the sentimental, and asses the other times when she displayed impulsivity, lack of self discipline, lack of fidelity to the truth, pettiness, and an immature capacity on her emotions. These were qualities she almost certainly displayed in moments throughout your time together you dismissed at the time, but will vet out carefully next time.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:04 AM
4

Girls dgaf about scars or asymmetry. Own it. But your beard is too patchy, clean that up
/r/askTRP25/07/19 02:25 PM
0

You’re a reflection of the people you call friends. This guy is a manipulative sociopath and truly sucks. Having game isnt tricking women in south america and potentially ruining 100s of lives, including those of innocent children.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 02:22 PM
1

You want the regular sex of a relationship without liking the girl you’re in a ltr with enough to keep it, meaning you’re unconfident that you can get it anywhere else. If you think that, They do too
/r/askTRP25/07/19 02:19 PM
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Yeah she’s got major hangups. You can’t and shouldn’t plate a girl like this if you’re not willing to stroke her head while she sobs in your lap after sex because she feels guilty. If you dont see her as a potential girlfriend its a bad idea to try to ease her into sex
/r/askTRP25/07/19 02:15 PM
1

Well they’re out there. You can find a lot on Instagram and Twitter but if you don’t live in a major city the chances of high caliber and thorough arent so great
/r/askTRP25/07/19 02:13 PM
1

This is ridiculously naive. You don’t know her cycle, she could have gotten her period the day after you had sex in which case she’d be off now. Also pathetically stupid and borderline desperate to continue to have sex after the condom ripped. No plan b I’m guessing either. Reach out if you actually wanna see her again, don’t if you don’t. Theres nothing you can do now if she actually is pregnant, other than urge her to abort, meaning you’ll be paying for it. And don’t be an asshole and skimp on…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 02:10 PM
1

Depends on why she’s a virgin. 21 is young enough that she might just not have had the connection and attraction enough with someone yet. (You yourself admit theres no chemistry, so she’s 1000% picking up on that.) OR there could be religious elements to her celibacy. Some girls are straight up terrified of sex and aren’t particularly religious, just squeamish, though they’re open if someone can make them comfortable enough. She might not be the one if she’s looking for a serious commitment and …
/r/askTRP25/07/19 02:05 PM
1

Bc hookers don’t care, they’re not attracted to you, they’re not emotionally uninvested, you’re spending money to masturbate with someone else’s body. It won’t be like sex unless you pretend that she wants you. Think of the average client she has and what a loser he probably is. Not to mention the likelihood of disease (there are several skin to skin that spread even with condom use) Vs an average looking girl who is desperate to sleep with you and eager for your satisfaction and approval who’d …
/r/askTRP25/07/19 01:58 PM
1

You’re underestimating the level of emotional desire that builds in women that may build slower in men. Have you ever argued with a girl, you’re mad at her and she knows she’s in the wrong and then next minute she’s crawling into your lap? Or experienced romance done right? Meaning- composed in your frame and embodying masculinity, and controlled the build of her desire? Thinking a girl who feels really attracted to her man has a huge spike in testosterone means you’re thinking of women like men…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 01:48 PM
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Women are loyal to pair bonds, which develop a number of ways, the most intense maybe being through sex. Hypersexuality, fickleness, dishonesty and immaturity are qualities indicative that they may lack fidelity and should be vetted out
/r/askTRP24/07/19 08:42 PM
2

That’s also a bad sign that she heard your answer and then verbally expressed to you that she’s ignoring what you said and pressing forward on her shitty plan without regard. Doubt this is one-off behavior though, she’s never done anything like this (in terms of not respecting your calls / challenging your leadership before?) As to why.... there’s a few possible scenarios from my perspective A. She wants to rub it in her ex’s face. As much as it’s flattering to be the guy she’s bragging about ha…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:00 PM
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Pretty women are still women yknow. They need love and respect too. The cute less intimidating ones get bombarded while everyones so intimidated by someone gorgeous the only people who reach out to her are total creeps and drooling orbiters. You dont need to neg her but treating her like a person and not a goddess while maintaining your own frame and interests is appealing
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:45 PM
1

If you were really just looking the profile would have been totally anonymous and undetectable. You know tinders based on location and putting your face and name on it means at some subconscious level you knew and wanted to be caught. Or you’re a feckless moron. Why are you looking in the first place, just curiosity? Or waiting to get tempted enough to leave which you created the perfect situation to do. Sounds like you sabotaged it pretty throughly. Ask yourself why
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:39 PM
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She called you selfish? That’s a bad sign that boundaries aren’t set and you’re about to marry this one. Interesting that she asked your permission and then shat on your answer. Women do tend to take control during the wedding planning and thats partially why they go so crazy. Could be a shit test here for you to be a leader rn and take initiative in planning and most of all making choices. With an jealousy rich twist of throwing her ex in there. Dont need to fly off the handle in an emotional s…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 12:26 PM
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