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You bet! I'm so passionate about this stuff! :)
/r/seduction19/03/14 09:15 PM
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You care too much what people think. You crave their approval. But it doesn't matter what anyone thinks. And approval is bullshit. It does nothing for you in the end. Weird? Strike that bullshit word out of your vocabulary. Frankly, a real man doesn't have the time to care about weird. He's doing his own thing and anything he does is cool << that's the mindset you need. Yeah, fear of rejection/embarrassment is context-based. You might be comfortable delivering a prepared speech in front of 1000 …
/r/seduction16/03/14 02:30 AM
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That's called fear of embarrassment... not any better. You gotta burn that shit out of your system fast. Why should you care? 1 person, 20 people, 200 people? Oh, right, you have this image of yourself as being perfect and noble and loved by the world. Totally natural, but if you run from the fear, it will haunt you forever. Gotta bite the bullet. Eventually if you bite the bullet enough times you still stop caring.
/r/seduction16/03/14 12:34 AM
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Masturbate more! Stop going in there with a loaded gun.
/r/seduction11/03/14 12:49 PM
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I have done an RSD bootcamp in Austin with Nathan. He's no longer with RSD. It was a good experience, but I wish I got more. I've also attended RSD worldsummit and Tyler's, Julien's, and Alex's HotSeats. The HotSeats are unquestionable MANDATORY for anyone serious about cold approach. Here's the bottom line about pickup bootcamps. They are mostly geared towards newbies. If you don't know what you're doing and you have bad AA and you don't understand the fundamentals of game, and you don't have a…
/r/seduction11/03/14 10:54 AM
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Nice dude! Woot!
/r/seduction10/03/14 05:07 PM
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I'm curious what kind of "data"? There can be no data aside from what the PUA tells you, which is hearsay, not to mention potentially skewed by the fact that he is an instructor whose income depends almost entirely on his perception in the community for being exceptionally good with girls. You have to take any number an instructor gives you and cut it down A LOT. Many instructors don't give numbers, and that's probably for good reason... their low numbers would shock you. But please don't interp…
/r/seduction10/03/14 05:33 AM
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95%?! Even on warm approaches that's waaaay too generous. Julian wouldn't have a rate that high. But let's ignore warm approach because it has little to do with pickup. Pickup is cold approach really. For cold approach, I would say less then 1/200 realistically. Unless you are really really good. To be clear, I'm talking open to actual sex, not just pull. All PUA numbers are greatly, greatly exaggerated. It's like asking guys to accurately report penis size. They're gonna start measuring from th…
/r/seduction10/03/14 05:19 AM
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Reminds me of Tyler's video about Taking A Real Man's Blowout: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nO02ZXSmo9g This is a very advanced topic. You can't take a real man's blowout until you know WHO you really are. When you're running "game", you are not authentic at all.
/r/seduction10/03/14 05:09 AM
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"NO!!! STOP IT!!!" << that is a hard no. A real no is said with gravity. You feel it. You know she hates you. It's not something you can easily ignore. Soft nos are playful and long-winded and filled with justifications. Example of soft no: "No, please... stop... we can't. I have work tomorrow. I have to get up early to walk my dog."
/r/seduction10/03/14 04:59 AM
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I used to be in Dallas, now in Vegas. If you want to meet some dedicated guys in Dallas, check out DallasPUA: http://www.dallaspua.com Subscribe to the forums and introduce yourself.
/r/seduction10/03/14 03:17 AM
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RSD is really all you need. Watch all their videos, participate in the RSD nation forums, and GO OUT, GO OUT, GO OUT! << this is all you need to do to get good with girls even if you have zero experience, like I did when I started. If you do the above consistently for several years, you will get so good.
/r/seduction10/03/14 03:15 AM
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Yes! OMG YES! Every RSD event is gold. World Summit 2013 was sick! Tyler's HotSeat is sick. Julien's HotSeat is sick. Tyler's FreeTours are super motivating and FREE!
/r/seduction10/03/14 03:12 AM
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A bit cynical I would say. I think most girls are very sweet and really don't want to hurt your feelings. Just like the OP doesn't want to hurt this girls feelings. He is trying to be compassionate because he empathizes with her. He genuinely doesn't want her to feel bad, or injure herself. Deep down, all of us care about each other and want to be good. And this is especially true for girls. They are loving creatures.
/r/seduction10/03/14 02:55 AM
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Interesting point. Girls also ride their emotions, which can be highly inconsistent. One hour she feels playful and flirty. The next hour she is sad. The next hour she is serious. The next hour she feels playful again. So yeah, good luck getting a solid date from that dynamic. And yes, they are indecisive too. Just like us guys can be, but even worse. And they are highly social, so they always got some silly plans to hang out with friends.
/r/seduction10/03/14 02:52 AM
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Yeah, been there myself. Ugh... So ugly and painful. But we all gotta go through it as newbies. It helps when you understand WHY this happens, which is why I suggested doing this exercise. When you see the other side, you're like Whooaaaaa!!! And then, Ewwwwwww!!!
/r/seduction09/03/14 06:18 PM
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Why would you say "Sleepover"? Why?! Why?! You might as well have texted her: "Me wants penis in u vaginer." You made her the prize and the slut. Next move: Ask her to meet you at a coffeeshop or some casual day2 location that's NEAR your place. Have a proper day2 and then pull her home under pretext of anything non-sexual.
/r/seduction09/03/14 03:15 PM
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For the guys on this sub who are needy, please read the OP's message again and imagine that YOU are that clingy girl!!! You are doing everything that clingy girl is doing and getting the same reactions that the OP is giving the girl. And now analyze all your past flakes and sets from that perspective. Hot girls feel exactly the same way about you as the OP feels about this clingy girl. That should open your eyes. Except for girls it's x10 worse because they REALLY don't like to be dickish. They …
/r/seduction09/03/14 03:06 PM
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Tell them, "Sure, I'm tall, but actually my dick is the size of a baby carrot." ;)
/r/seduction09/03/14 02:58 PM
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I agree. You kinda set yourself up man. Once you start paying, you are kinda stuck becau Now you set the trend and if you break it, you risk offending her. Sometimes that will offend her so much that it will kill the mood and destroy the set/date forever. So you gotta develop a sense for this. This isn't a moral issue. This is a practical issue. If she is offended (even if she's mooching) it will still destroy the set. So you gotta ask yourself, is a $20 bill worth destroying a sure chance for s…
/r/seduction09/03/14 09:22 AM
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Yes, they aren't even rejections, just obstacles of life: logistics. "But what if her dad WAS actually there to pick her up?" That's what I was already assuming. Your objective is to get into the car with her and Dad. Awkward? Maybe. So what? Come up with a plausible excuse like, "We are going swimming in your pool." What's he gonna say, No? If you can isolate her and fall asleep near her, your chances of sex are 1000% better than if you don't. You go with her no matter what. Or you get her to c…
/r/seduction09/03/14 08:58 AM
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"...but it all happened pretty fucking quickly..." That is why you don't get laid very often. You are not handling the logistical challenges responsively. You need to be like Neo in the Matrix, dodging every bullet (excuse) she throws at you. And her excuses will be numerous and completely out of the blue. You have to get better at handling anything that comes at you any second. For example, her Dad could randomly arrive to take her home as you're dancing with her. So? What do you do? You think …
/r/seduction09/03/14 06:59 AM
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Lol. I love sex. I think guys and girls should have lots of sex. The "club slut coke whore" bit is rhetorical flourish.
/r/seduction09/03/14 06:33 AM
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This is the issue of blame vs. responsibility. Always take 100% full responsibility, but NEVER blame yourself. You might say, "Same difference." But no! It's a HUGE difference. Blame involves criticism and judgement, and wishing to change the past. Responsibility is emotionless. You just accept that you are responsible and this has no affect on your emotional state whatsoever. For example: You bombed a set because you said something stupid? Okay. That was your doing. So what? Why should you feel…
/r/seduction09/03/14 06:26 AM
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Not really, I find anger very easy to control, personally. I try to keep things entertaining sometimes and make very firm points because I know that otherwise your mind might make excuses like... "Oh, but he didn't really mean that." And then that lets you escape from the truth. I my own mind, every point is extremely nuanced. But that level of nuance be beyond most people to practically absorb. Perhaps I should trust you guys more to appreciate subtle analysis? I think I will try that. I'm stil…
/r/seduction09/03/14 04:15 AM
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Tell your friend: "Whether you think you can, or think you can't, you're right." -- Henry Ford Total limiting belief bullshit. One of THE BEST guys I know is tiny, like 5 ft 2 in. He's this short little Indian/Pakistani guy who has the attitude of a fucking King Cobra. He even postures like a snake. He's extremely aggressive and direct with girls. He'll just go up to them and OWN them completely. He is so good it's unbelievable. My jaw always drops when I see him work a set. Wow! I'm 6'2" and I …
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:06 PM
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Clubs by far. Then bars. Kinda depends on where you live. I live in Vegas so it's insane here all the time. You [OP] are in highschool, so you should really be macking on girls at school during lunch and whatnot. That's like shooting fish in a barrel. As far as during the day out in public? That's tough... any approaches you make during the day will have about the same effectiveness as Mall Game, so no real difference between Mall, Street, Park, Beach. Coffee shops are probably your best bet if …
/r/seduction08/03/14 07:57 PM
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Take it like a man and recommit yourself to fixing your scarcity problem. If you had even 2 other potential girls in your life, you would not care about that girl at all. So this is ultimately a scarcity problem. Don't run from the pain. Feel it. Let it hurt. Then recommit to going out more. You are waayyy too needy to be so invested in one girl that you haven't even has sex with. I know you just want a quick fix of sex and love, but look at how much its making you suffer. Ask and answer for you…
/r/seduction08/03/14 07:14 PM
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Kinda the same difference, no? I just don't see a need to state those things explicitly. Intent is obvious from the way you carry the interaction. If you straight up asked every girl who wanted to have sex with you, "Are you interested in having sex with me?" you would lose A LOT of girls. Girls hate knowing what's coming that bluntly. They need excuses and plausible deniability. Only very rarely can you be THAT blunt, and NEVER during the day. When you do a ballsy approach like that, girls imme…
/r/seduction08/03/14 06:39 PM
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Too much ego in this debate. I have stated what I believe to be true.
/r/seduction08/03/14 06:19 PM
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Ah... Mall Game! I like to go very direct at the mall. You run past the set as they walk. Make sure you give them plenty of space as you run ahead of them. Then you do a quick u-turn and stop them dead cold. This is what you say: "Hey, stop!" [pause] [make sure they stop completely] "Excuse me... Look, I know this sounds random... but... I was just walking past over there and I saw you [point to hottest girl] and I thought you were freaking adorable! I just had to come meet you. I know I would r…
/r/seduction08/03/14 06:04 PM
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Why make out with a girl unless you can close her? It's almost as bad as fingering a girl in the club and not closing. Do you really think you'll get another shot? If you're making out hard with her and not closing her the same night, why would you expect her to call you back? Think like a girl for a minute... That's so freaking awkward for them. You realize that the next logical step from there is straight up sex at your place, right? It's like they know you're calling them for a booty-call. Th…
/r/seduction08/03/14 05:38 PM
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Yes, you should befriend her friends. No disagreement there. After you go out for a few years, you'll hit a point where you see that clothing doesn't affect your results and that you were dressing nice just to uphold your own self-image. Then you will tend to dress down a bit. You could say I'm selling my outlook on life, but hey, I'm okay with that. Some of the concepts I've learned over the last 5 years are so powerful I can't in good conscience not share them :)
/r/seduction08/03/14 03:23 PM
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I'm not selling any product. I do coach people, but not on pick-up issues. I'm not pitching anything. Just sharing my knowledge. Also, I'm not sure why you believe selling a product would make me more likely to support the inner game side of the debate. There are many outer game products out there for sale. It's not all confidence. You should learn outer game. You should know how to hold eye-contact for example, how to claw girls in, and how to move them and screen for logistics. But clothing? N…
/r/seduction08/03/14 02:49 PM
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A guy detached from outcome but who is fat, bald, smelly, badly-dressed, and has no friends will be more attractive than a needy but perfectly groomed, handsome guy, with a circle of friends. It's SHOCKING how true this is. Your mind won't believe it until you go out a lot and see total scumbags pulling 10s for a dirty bathroom lay while you are standing there perfectly dressed with your 6-pack, scanning the room for girls in desperation. But yeah, dress nice. For you, not the girl. All she care…
/r/seduction08/03/14 12:48 PM
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Yes! You are seeing the light. You are sensing the truth that your whole life you have been a hamster caught in a wheel chasing an imaginary piece of cheese. You might be ready to watch this video: An Extremely Advanced Definition Of Happiness https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5WSlkzz2_Bk
/r/seduction08/03/14 12:35 PM
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So what? Why should you not be happy anyways even if you are just like everyone else? Stop trying so hard to sustain your self-image of being special. You are just lying to yourself and it's emotionally draining. Aren't you tired of pretending to be someone you're not? Do you really think others don't see through you? This actually goes deeper than conceptual understanding. You need to actually have an experience of being. Once you experience yourself without ego, you will see the Matrix and all…
/r/seduction08/03/14 12:31 PM
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Very true. If you just want sex. Go get sex. Many hardcore players are shitty, immature people. Yet they get tons of girls. So it's not like girls will only give you sex if you are the perfect man. You don't need to be a good human being to have sex with a random 21 year old drunk club slut coke whore. Then again. When you've got your life together -- when you've really mastered your psychology -- you will be soooo grounded that your game will skyrocket! And of course, this is what you MUST do i…
/r/seduction08/03/14 12:26 PM
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Ahaha! It's true! I am Russian, so maybe that's why? I'm also ~3.5% Neanderthal according to 23andme.com :)
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:45 AM
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Yes! You need to find your True Life Purpose! This should be the focus of your life as a man, not girls. Girls must be secondary or even tertiary. I find this to be a huge problem with guys in the pick-up community. They don't have any purpose. So they cannot ever be real men. How do you know if you've found your true life purpose? This... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wuoNDHTW9ak
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:42 AM
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I made the video based on the enlightenment work that I am doing. When you raise your level of consciousness, you understand the truth -- that you are already complete and all your striving for pussy or anything else in life is just a distraction to satisfy your ego. This resonates with you because it is actually the deep truth. So as great as pick-up is, and as much of it as I've done, ultimately it CANNOT succeed. It will NEVER succeed in making you happy. Why? Because it's based on the false …
/r/seduction08/03/14 02:23 AM
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Yes, meditation is good. But if you suck at picking up girls, I recommend you do pick-up hardcore for a few years and have as much sex as possible to get it out of your system. Sometimes, you get to the highest levels of self-understanding you have to exhaust your base desires. You should not really crave sex or companionship. You only crave it right now because you are like a starving man who craves a scrap of food. Your sexual needs are actually every quickly satisfied. It's the higher needs t…
/r/seduction08/03/14 02:17 AM
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