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Trust me on this: don’t shit where you eat! Especially when you are a recovering nice guy. Don’t do it! It backfires. There are plenty fish outside of your working environment
/r/askTRP03/01/18 09:28 PM
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They do those discount for every new members. The best is to choose some decent ones for that cheap price. Let me know which one you choose
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:50 PM
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If you can afford it there are programming boot camps for example in New York City. 2-3 weeks combined with vacation. I’m pretty sure there are boot camps also available in Poland. But udemy is just great. Start from there.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:46 PM
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Depends what you want to learn. I’m learning Unity3D for games programming. My recommendation : Choose those with high rates and lots of comments.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:41 PM
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Do what you love and what makes you happy. If you think this job helps you to achieve your goals: go for it
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:25 PM
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This
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:06 PM
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Check udemy. I used to be a programmer and refreshed it using some courses on udemy. There are plenty of very good courses for beginners. Try it.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:05 PM
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This
/r/askTRP03/01/18 05:03 PM
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Bro, that’s hell of a question. If it’s your hobby, it’s your hobby.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 05:02 PM
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Feeling shocked is okay. Swallowing the pill is making you first feel shocked then you realize the truth. But this can take time. Maybe you first have to go through hell (which happened in my case). But the whole concept is the truth. Do yourself a favor and stop watching porn. This can mess everything up. And if something scared you, do it.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 03:57 PM
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This
/r/askTRP03/01/18 03:49 PM
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This
/r/askTRP31/12/17 11:27 PM
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Don’t worry bro. It’s a normal day. Nothing special. I hate New Year’s Eve. That’s why I went out yesterday with my best buddy and had big party. Today I’m chilling at home. But if you feel lonely: go out to a bar bro
/r/askTRP31/12/17 11:26 PM
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Loved this
/r/askTRP31/12/17 07:17 PM
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Thanks for this posting. We all have faced that neediness is the killer #1 for girls. However, I think neediness is one of these nice guy behavior/traits. Thus: The underlying result of being not able to escalate and scared of rejection. I’m particularly interested WHY this is the case for most men these days? I am also interested about any research that has been done (psychology).
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 11:09 AM
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No Make money out of this art
/r/askTRP29/12/17 11:56 AM
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This
/r/askTRP29/12/17 11:56 AM
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For example 2 I would answer: great, I’m not interested in you anyway. And approach other girls
/r/askTRP29/12/17 11:12 AM
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First of all, I injured because I didn’t exercise and had a job where I sit most of the time. I had a disc herniation (worst case). The best is to strengthen your core muscles. I’m doing Pilates and some special exercises. When you lift, be careful to do the exercises correctly. Keep you back straight. If you are having any back issues, avoid these exercises that stresses your back for a while. Everything is possible.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 01:03 AM
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Full story: I grew up within a migrant community in Germany and these guys couldn’t enter the street where I lived with my parents. And also some other badass guys (from our community) stymied them to chase after me. Some weeks later I asked one of the badass guys in my community to help me with this case and we then had a discussion and both sides agreed to end it up there. Bro, I don’t mind if you believe it or not. But this incident was the turning point in my life. I ended up studying and re…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 02:29 PM
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Honestly, I was reading the heading and thought:”yes, male friends are good but only if they are not BPed.” Have some very good friends and recently spent two days with them. Got physically sick. They were complaining, talking about rubbish shit and made me feel like to avoid them as much as I can. Of course I didn’t tell them but will decrease the time i will spend with them. Once a month is okay. But not very week or even every day. It feels like they never did any progress in life. I am (not …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 10:33 AM
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Hitting the gym is great. I have some serious back issues and can’t make most of the exercises I used to do when I was younger (like deadlift). But: I go every day. I adapted my exercises to my injury and do other stuff like Pilates and swimming as well. There is no excuse ffs. Go and hit the gym
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 10:29 AM
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Get a professional resume and cover letter advisor. Paid 400 bucks and got a job that I was actually looking for. The ROI was immense. Tripled my salary. And bcos of the new job I got a new job starting next March. Again: salary increase and climbing the ladder. Of course the resume and cover letter are the very first steps. The interviews are more important and the reference calls the new employer is making. But having a solid basis is crucial
/r/askTRP28/12/17 10:26 AM
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Thanks for sharing. Never fight. It can end up very badly. Been through this 15 yrs ago. Had some trouble with some serious bad guys here in Germany. Knocked out the wrong person. Couldn’t leave the house for weeks afterwards. Valuable lesson. If I ever experience a situation where I know it can end up with a fight I tell the person to either leave me alone or this will be his worst night for years. Then I leave the place or change the location. Luckily I never get any stress from other guys bco…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 10:22 AM
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TRP community is above everything Thanks brothers Merry Christmas
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 08:41 PM
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Great 👍
/r/askTRP19/12/17 07:01 AM
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Switzerland not a problem
/r/askTRP16/12/17 10:44 PM
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Im bald for 20 yrs. Been fat, but lost weight. It’s all about frame brother.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 07:10 PM
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Clubbing. Bars. Just go where these people go and approach them.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 02:49 PM
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Clubs, bars. Everywhere actually. But I’m not into online gaming
/r/askTRP16/12/17 10:58 AM
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There is no wall for males. Only in your head. I’m 35 and dating 19-24 old girls.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 07:50 AM
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Same boat. I’m an uncle of two. Ifs great to have them around and seeing them growing up. Love them. But raising a child ? Not sure if I ever want that myself
/r/askTRP16/12/17 07:47 AM
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Bald for 20 yrs now. Sometimes people try to make jokes. I then get really serious and they stop. Or I ignore. And they stop. Very rarely I do respond in a funny way, depending on the situation. But honestly, I do not give a fuck.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 07:45 AM
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Hahahaha lmao exactly this
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:13 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 09:59 AM
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I do drink. But never when I meet a girl. Drinking messes everything up.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 11:25 AM
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this
/r/askTRP12/12/17 11:18 AM
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I often go to a museum. I want to do something that i like and she could join. Period
/r/askTRP11/12/17 08:31 PM
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Update: Situation as follows: had attraction with her, we were at a party, I didn’t escalate, acted bluepilled (see above). I think she tried to orbit me (or I thought, not sure. Question is related to this). I ignored her afterwards. Seen her every day so far. Two days ago she wanted to get in contact again and wanted me to talk to her. It was obvious. (#1) Ignored her again (physically as well as virtually). Now she is super pissed and ignoring me. (#2) Can an expert translates this? When she …
/r/askTRP09/12/17 02:46 PM
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Sounds familiar to me :/ I am simply dumb to understand whether she is trying to orbit or flake on me. Tbh I messed it up by not escalating just recently and now she is doing the CC. I ignore her completely. Maybe this means I am already too invested in her or that her reaction affects me. Dunno.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 05:36 PM
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Amen brother Great find and post
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 07:58 AM
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Then do meditation. Seriously. It helps against mind wandering
/r/askTRP07/12/17 12:06 PM
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Same for me. Never had a male role model. Get male friends outside your circle Get hobbies Do what you really wanted to do when you were a young boy.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 12:06 PM
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Meditation Get hobbies Stop watching porn Talk to people and especially women as often as you can
/r/askTRP07/12/17 12:04 PM
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Thanks. But to some degree I am feeling that this isn’t the right thing to do. It feels like it shows that the whole situation affects me.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 08:57 PM
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Oh yeah. Fair enough brother. Thanks for this
/r/askTRP06/12/17 03:50 PM
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even if she soon won’t be a co-worker anymore?
/r/askTRP06/12/17 03:40 PM
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Do you think that really ever would happen? I mean an ex-plate asking what you are doing out of the blue?
/r/askTRP06/12/17 08:08 AM
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This
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:47 PM
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This
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:44 PM
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I used to smile a lot and stopped doing it. I still do smile but not as often as before. I am fucking serious and I am a fucking warrior. Once I leave my flat I am feeling I am entering a fucking war zone. No one can give me a fuck. When I meet people and get into great talking, and it gets funny, i laugh. I am not a robot. My recommendation is to not smile too much.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:43 PM
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Read „No more Mr. Nice Guy“. Will change your life. To answer your question: brother. You deserve everything on earth. You are unique, you are great and strong. Stop watching porn, go out as often as you can. Get a hobby and talk to as many people as people.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:39 PM
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Wise words. Should’ve read it before :/
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:51 PM
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How to best read the archive on the site? I would start from ISSUE 01 and go upwards.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 07:31 AM
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Brother, this link was worth a gold.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 07:41 PM
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The topic and discussion in here is pure gold. I had the same question just yesterday.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 02:49 PM
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Yesterday I didn’t answer any message of her. Actually, I was having a bad hangover anyway so I wasn’t into answering any message at all. I wanted to meet another plate at a party in the evening but had to cancel it as well. Guys, alcohol is shit
/r/askTRP02/12/17 11:21 AM
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Edited. See above
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:03 PM
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Wise words and I agree with this. But for the newbies : how to distinguish proper invest of a woman in you from trying her to make you her orbiter. Of course it depends on the situation (and most importantly your frame) of woman to proper define whether she is really investing in you or trying to make you her orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 09:13 AM
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I liked that one
/r/askTRP25/11/17 09:04 AM
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Exactly
/r/askTRP23/11/17 07:54 AM
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Ignore messages ffs
/r/askTRP23/11/17 07:50 AM
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Nothing wrong Normal
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:14 AM
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He banged her good I guess
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 06:10 PM
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Next
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:05 AM
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Trust me. Travel. Alone. Get your stuff and fly somewhere. Unknown place. Doesn’t matter you ever wanted to visited the place or not. Go to the next airport and book a ticket and fly somewhere. Get out of your comfort zone and get connected with people you do not know. I know how you feel. Been or if I am honest with you, still I am in the same situation. It’s the way we live these days. Completely disconnected from the outside world. You can spend your whole weekend at home and entertain yourse…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 07:30 PM
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Yeah. somehow important. Nevertheless I would do ignore him or at least say „I guess we have same taste in women. Especially those who can’t get enough of sex.“ Blabla. Hold your frame and ignore him
/r/askTRP14/10/17 08:13 AM
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If she’s asking to go to your place say „okay“. Go to the fcking hotel and check in. Do not comment. If she asks why hotel? „I regularly check in in this hotel bcos the view is amazing and they have best chef in earth here.“ I would never ever say why I wouldn’t/couldnt bring girls to my place. Never.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 08:09 AM
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I don’t care. I wouldn’t even ask her about the evening.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 08:05 AM
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My reason is simple: have a meaningful and happy life on a meta level. One day I want to have my own venture capital fund and enough money and time to buy a sailing ship to sail. And before I die I want to be in space. Maybe dying on mars. Wud be awesome as fck Edit: just read OPs background. Dude, get a therapist, get a dog, go exercising and spend time outside (travel to places where you haven't been before). It's all in your hand. Insecurity is within you. You can't change the world. What you…
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:01 AM
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Depends. Usually nothing. Just ignoring. If he says something, I even then ignore it. If he physically wants to fight, I would first laugh and warn him that, if he touches me, I will broke his nose.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 10:59 AM
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This
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:26 AM
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Why asking her or reminding her ? Ignore it. My response would be ignoring it and when she still texts: "eat an apple" or "have you ever seen your bunghole in a mirror?" Works perfect in German language. Something that doesn't make any sense. Seriously, if someone says or writes me "I'm mad at you" without telling me why I usually ignore it.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 07:50 AM
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This
/r/askTRP15/09/17 06:10 AM
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Next. Bang another girl
/r/askTRP10/09/17 11:05 AM
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You should do what you really want to do. What are your hobbies? Focus on that. You like playing basketball? Join a club. You like theatre? Join a theatre club. You like hiking? Go and hike Just do what you love and don't focus on outside, rather inside. Do what is really good for you. Also do something different. Never been in a certain city? Book a damn ticket and fly there. Alone! If you feel anxiety: DO IT! Ppl that join you along your journey will come automatically. Trust me. Be yourself, …
/r/askTRP10/09/17 11:02 AM
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Then read "No more Mr Nice guy" Trust me, it's worth it
/r/askTRP09/09/17 02:42 PM
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Thanks. Following this subreddit and other forums and books and also considering my childhood experiences I am pretty aware it will take years. I know it. 15 years of blue pill behavior can't be eliminated within 4 weeks. However, if I ever will ask a question again here, I won't tell I "consumed" the pill. Rather I just ask my question without giving any background information.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 09:08 AM
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Didn't say I'm super alpha. Having this sub Reddit is to ask and learn. I am pretty sure the change isn't a digital signal like 0 to 1. It's a progress. In my case, I am pretty sure it will take months, maybe years to get to a stage I'm comfortable with. But just wanted to double check. If this isn't desired here, I think that you should change the name of the name of this subreddit Instead of blaming, you should tell me what would be the best approach?
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:35 PM
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Okay. It's tough but what I realized was, that I am consciously better recognizing such stuff and avoid getting emotional.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 04:14 PM
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Easiest way to increase testosterone is to do exercise (Bodybuilding), especially the big muscles (gluteus etc).
/r/askTRP07/09/17 09:24 PM
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Not your responsibility pal. Leave it.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 11:50 AM
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I somehow had a funny and satisfying feeling: that poor ex-guy. Hahahaha Be happy you got rid of her and learned a good lesson
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 10:17 AM
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This
/r/askTRP05/09/17 04:10 PM
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Thanks for your reply. Just came back from workout and ordered the book. But started reading the manipulated man. It's such a hassle to fall back. I guess I have to put more attention to "action" and "reflecting" to reprogram my subconsciousness.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 03:54 PM
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What helped me is to lower my voice and slow down. In the past I was literally shouting and was talking fast
/r/askTRP03/09/17 08:20 AM
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I guess it's valid to mention your points. But what would you do differently in such a situation? I'm really interested in your opinion.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 07:42 AM
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Exactly. It's leading. In business world we have Leaders. Does it mean that all others are slaves? No. I want to be in control of the relationship. That's my goal and it makes so fucking sense
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 04:50 PM
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Sick. I mean, everyone has a phone these days. I would agree that not all have social media accounts but a phone number ? C'mon. My ex has no accounts on fb or whatsoever
/r/askTRP30/08/17 08:55 AM
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Well, It's the belief system that gets questioned or changed while consuming TRP. Most people are struggling when someone or something is questioning a belief system that has manifested.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 10:46 AM
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Yeah. Then do this. It's your vacation. You deserved it. You worked hard and now enjoy it. Don't spend too much time with her while on the trip. If you can, have sex with her if she invests. But keep in mind it's your vacation and your doing something good do you!
/r/askTRP27/08/17 09:45 AM
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Wouldn't do it. I would rather fly somewhere else and enjoy my vacation. I deserve it. Or would fly with her and bang other girls there. Don't get influenced by her drama
/r/askTRP27/08/17 09:42 AM
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No, I wouldn't. I would document anything I get. Then I would talk to him face to face and tell him if he doesn't stop, I will bring it up at our boss or HR. Don't know where you life and how your company is structured but this is what I would do. Giving him the chance to get normal and work normal. If he doesn't accept I would then talk to the boss/HR and invite the bully as well. Be professional at work.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 07:23 AM
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Corrected
/r/askTRP25/08/17 03:09 PM
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Discovered this as well. I just consumed TRP recently but I always had this sick feeling about movies and TV in general. Now, I physically throw up when I see this. Sometimes I have the feeling this has been done on purpose. There is a hidden agenda. Don't know. It's simply sick.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 02:52 PM
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You can do it. First thing is you realized it. Now consume the RP
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 06:12 PM
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Exactly. I've been through this many times. Happened again just recently. You may need to read this: https://whoresoftheinternet.wordpress.com/2014/01/20/how-to-stop-being-a-girls-beta-orbiter-without-her-knowing-it-in-seven-difficult-steps/ I liked it very much and helped. Also dating other girls helps a lot.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:25 AM
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In what ways? To some extent I agree as I am not the most handsome guy and still get IOI. But a big blonde alpha guy gets more IOI then me
/r/askTRP21/08/17 06:36 AM
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