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merrill1400/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:49 AM
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and what would you do if you thought you weren't getting her best? that is the point here. Would you just be like "okay honey, and can't ask for more, because that would be kinda beta ...I guess"
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 08:15 PM
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So what do you think the solution was here, because I am curious. Guys here insist that a husband should be assertive, take control, set the tone, and make sure they are getting her best then when a guy goes and does that, you sit back and say it is "Billy Beta ultimatum" that is just incoherent nonsense, and it is why people laugh at this stuff and don't take it seriously
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 08:09 PM
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I was headed for a potential DB and put a stop to it. That is what assertive, confident men do. Wasn't whining about it, I fixed it. Things have greatly improved, as I just described in this thread. but it is funny you stalk my threads like someone looking for a piece of man-ass
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 08:05 PM
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and are you naive enough to think a BBC hasn't been in your wife's mouth before you married her or are you even married? I'd be surprised
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 08:01 PM
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OK --we have pretty regular sex, when the kids don't get in the way trust me: she enjoys the sex
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 07:47 PM
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talk about schizophrenic: you guys make all these waves about being assertive and alpha, and he second a guy gives you a good example you call him "domineering" what is this a feminist forum now lol
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 07:25 PM
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Most married guys I know, especially the ones who are BP, have pretty lousy sex lives. My journey to the redpill (both in terms of this stuff and other stuff) started years ago, and helped me assert myself, become more alpha, and has improved both my life and marriage tremendously. What you say about abundance is 100% true. When I was single (engaged) and pretty blue-pilled, I had a talk with my future wife about N counts, sexual history, expectations, etc. Her N count was double mine, and while…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 06:36 PM
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One thing to remember: people with insane bodies, go to insane lengths to get those bodies, and being in a relationship with him will be exhausting "Wash-board" abs are achieved through radical dieting (forget about going out to eat, or even eating together), intensive exercise 7 days a week, including loads of cardio (dude spending 14-20 hours a week in the gym), and supplements. I had wash-board abs in my early 20s, so I know what it takes. Forget about going out for a beer I once dated a chic…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:26 PM
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I would be more interested to know what the girl was FOR rather than what she was against. I know a lot of right-wing people who hate Trump with a passion, so being against Trump doesn't mean a person is some raging leftist or Bernie supporter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:07 PM
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No, but there should be agreement and cooperation on fundamental things, and matters of ethics. Too many guys out there are passive and cucky when it it comes to their women. The wife is out at a march with a pussy hat on while he stays home and cleans the kitchen then these dudes end up with dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:02 PM
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Well there are degrees to all of this obviously. Immigration is not bad on some universal, conceptual level. I have a lot of immigrants in my area, and most are upper-middle-class, educated, etc. Many are Muslim. They don't cause any problems. But when immigration becomes a political tool, aka importing impoverished and uneducated people in order to get more votes for your political party, it is a bad thing. Likewise, uncontrolled, indiscriminate mass-immigration is disruptive to the country. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:56 PM
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I am pretty selective about who I hang out with these days. I have my "group" and we look out for each other (both men and women)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:48 PM
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yeaaahhh not going to doxx myself but this isn't about the definition or history of ideology. The original post has nothing to do with that. And I'm not sure what you mean by American anti-intellectualism. I've lived in Europe and it isn't much better, so spare me the snobbery. At least the US isn't being overrun and turned into a 3d world country (yet). We aren't throwing people into jail for writing history books, or altering the facts of news stories to promote some leftist narrative on the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:43 PM
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I don't think men should sleep around
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:45 PM
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I have a PhD in Rhetoric with a focus on classical and late-imperial (no lie), so yeah, I can actually challenge that definition. I've published in this area as well. Used to teach at a university. The term ideology is derived from logos --and the former was not used in the classical period in any way that we use it now. Likewise, there is no uniform definition of that term, just as there is no uniform definition of the word rhetoric. A common definition of rhetoric might be "the art of persuasi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:44 PM
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well people can hate a given politician and still be OK ideologically. I am not a big fan of Trump either, but I wouldn't care if a woman voted for him Women tend to be politically involved but ideologically shallow. Same is true for lot of men. We have reason to be cynical about politicians, but we should hold to a firm ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:26 PM
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lol, not a Fascist. Maybe a Ciceronian eclecticist with some nationalistic impulses. I am a cultural bigot in some ways. Oh and believe me, there isn't a shortage of Fascist women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:24 PM
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so partisan politics nonsense the stuff that comes out of those places doesn't even count as ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:22 PM
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My wife was a feminist back in the day, and still has some of those ideas floating around in her head. Like the other poster indicated, people change, and she certainly did. She saw her feminist friends get into bad marriages and divorce, sleep around, get abortions and STDs, raise the kids poorly, etc. An ideology based on hardcore identity politics, antagonism, and power-grabs can lead to bad places. MGTOW is the male equivalent of feminism So my wife abandoned a lot of those ideas, started ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:21 PM
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Of all my guy friends, I know of only one that cheated on his wife (they are now divorced). I did not approve, even though she was garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:12 PM
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There are far better definitions of ideology than that, and more expansive readings. Let's look at Weaver's statement: "Every man in a culture has three levels of conscious reflection: his specific ideas about things, his general beliefs, and his metaphysical dream. The first constitutes his worldliness, the second is applied to certain choices as they present themselves and the third which is the most important is his intuitive feeling about the immanent nature of reality. Without this it is im…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:09 PM
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that is a good point that many people miss there are guys out there who are not in the 20% of attractiveness--not even close, but who are getting lots of sex. They are aggressive, manipulative, and probably have a lot of resources
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:51 PM
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I didn't think much about casual sex distribution or 80/20 when I was younger (before RP) The 20% situation is a consequence of mimetic desire and culture. There are three components to female mating strategy Mimetic desire: women desire men that other women desire, just as men desire things that other men desire (never thought about buying that Corvette until my buddy got one--now I want one). A girl might not find a guy attractive until one of her friends goes after that guy. Then he suddenly …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:41 PM
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While it is possible to have friends with different ideologies and political opinions, there are limitations As I've gotten older, my tolerance and acceptance of bad ideas has lessened. If a person is a clueless neoliberal, that is one thing. If they are some raging leftist who wants to disenfranchise me, flood my country with a hostile population in an effort to destabilize the sociopolitical fabric of the country, denigrate my culture, etc. I am not going to have that person in my home or arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:29 PM
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I think you are confusing religion with an ideology a bit. Sure, religions have ideological components, but ideology is concerned with the practical realm of civic and political life. My ideology is not the reason I live--it tells me how to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:21 PM
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what is TD and CTH?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:18 PM
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But I think if there is an ideological and political divide, it is going to cause problems in the long run Not for people that a basic bitch moderates who only care about football and shopping, but for people with strong convictions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:18 PM
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Everyone "settles" on some issues. Unless the girl is the body of mortal sin + the mind of Aristotle, you aren't going to find perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:45 AM
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it takes some discipline. I've had trouble with it in the past (temper) I tend to be nice and easy-going, but if guys insult me or piss me off, I go from 0 to 100 in 5 seconds, and that isn't good. I'm not a huge guy, but I was a semi-pro fighter back in the day and do know how to dish it out But the best policy is to keep your cool, give a condescending, sarcastic smile, and remove yourself from the situation. In some cases, you can give a witty response back to them, but that typically causes …
/r/askTRP06/12/19 01:03 AM
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Sounds like degenerate post-modernist nonsense mixed with 3rd wave feminism No, we don't have to become swingers, poly, whatever. We need to fix our society and our women. Women are quick to say the "love" word when they don't even know what that means. Some men do the same. Those people then cheat, because it wasn't love, it was lust or infatuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:38 AM
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it really is a kind of caste system at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:25 AM
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well yes, FWB is better than a string of ONS but women should be focusing on LTRs with men of quality, even if the relationship burns out pretty quickly
/r/askTRP26/11/19 12:05 AM
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everything from sneaking people across the border of East Germany to engaging in certain activities the neoliberal West German government wasn't particularly cool with.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 12:04 AM
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well if no woman is marriage material, it doesn't even matter at that point but FWB is slut behavior
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:03 PM
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Yes, I have some female friends. Some of them have been around since my college days. Aside from my wife, my best friend is a girl (probably), but I am careful not to let "conditions" develop which would lead to anything romantic, or any unwarranted emotions. I am committed to my marriage and family. When I was in my late teens, I had a strange relationship with a girl in Europe. It was during a wild time, and we were involved in some pretty dangerous political stuff. We were more than friends b…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 07:59 PM
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Dude, she had a FWB before you. That isn't a chick who is marriage material
/r/askTRP25/11/19 07:51 PM
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I was always a "nice guy" to some degree, in the sense I wasn't pump-and-dumping women, belittling them, getting into lots of conflicts, trouble with the law, etc. And it took me a while to figure out the whole dating scene and how to handle convert contracts, assertiveness, etc. It starts with a simple rule: if your trust is violated, there is no remedy. You can extend trust to a girl, but if she violates it even once, you walk. And you do this with a clear mind and without emotion, because as …
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:32 PM
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women shouldn't be getting with fu**boys and low-quality men. They should get some level of commitment, take it slow, formulate meaningful relationships, and ultimately work towards marriage. it isn't rocket science. It is impulse control, discipline, and maturity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 06:08 PM
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a guy can always ask when the time comes. If you think marriage might be a possibility, you have a right to know, and she should know about the your history as well. Now girls lie about this stuff for sure, but unless the guy is oblivious, he will get a general idea about her sexual history, and the bullshit detector will go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 06:06 PM
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nah, no intention of cheating. She is a platonic friend and I am her Doctor Who to her Clara
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 06:03 PM
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A man can have unattached, casual relationships, and it won't impact him very much. If a woman has those relationships, it decreases her SMV and overall value. Quality men don't look at women who have had FWBs, one-night-stands, etc. as marriage material, or even LTR material. And any guy who countersignals this in some attempt at white-knighting the thots is lying. Virtually every guy I have ever known, and most I interact with online feel this way. They view women with low N counts, a history …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 04:01 PM
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not true --some men do care about this stuff. I find cooking fascinating, even though I can't cook worth anything. My wife makes Persian and Indian cuisine and all sorts of delicious stuff. And some men dance (swing dancing, western, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:24 PM
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this is generally true, although there are exceptions The women who are very sexually adventurous and flirtatious are simply using sex as a hobby and defining character trait in order to make up for everything else they lack. I always hated having to be the one who entertained the girl, always set the schedule, etc. If a girl does not have deep interests of her own, and want to include you in it, she is generally boring and high maintenance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:21 PM
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I've been married for 15 years and I have both male and female friends, some of which are very close. I always gravitated towards women who feel deeply about things, have strong opinions and convictions, etc. But most of the women my friends dated were boring, lacked personality and charisma, and weren't particularly cultured. I have a buddy who is very wealthy and cultured. He married some chick who was pretty much from a white-trash family, isn't even all that attractive, and wasn't college ed…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:14 PM
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most women yes, but not all. There is a large segment that have no intention on getting into LTRs, want to sleep around, and won't commit. Probably around 20% or so. Those are the women that typically end up with these fuckbois. Almost all my friends in college, both male and female, were into LTRs. A few of them had some short-term encounters (dated a girl for a couple weeks, etc.), but that wasn't the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 01:59 AM
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I think ya'll are missing some important things here If you are getting ready to settle down, and are in a LTR that might be headed for marriage, you need to look at more than sexual attraction, your girl/guy's sexual history, current or potential income, etc. What about? The family that he/or she is coming from? A good family with a good reputation? A wealthy family? Cultured? Or is he or she from a trashy, lower-class family with tons of dysfunction and drama? I married "up" socioeconomically …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:26 PM
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it is pretty easy to detect if a women (or man) has a high N-count. Once you get to know them, figure them out, and get a little history, the slut alarm will start going off (unless you are clueless)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:42 PM
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not all men encourage each other to sleep with as many women as possible. Likewise, not all men try to bang every woman he meets. I was very selective in the women I dated, and only got a N count of 8 (married now). I wasn't too concerned with the N counts of girlfriends, especially ones I didn't date for long, but with my future wife, I wanted to see a reasonable number, and I didn't want someone who had done really reckless stuff sexually (threesomes, getting banged in the nightclub bathroom, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:54 PM
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as if she isn't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 12:25 AM
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men prioritize charisma, which is more than looks. Why is Emilia Clarke impossibly desirable? Not simply because she is nice to look at, or has dangerous curves, but because she is elegant, refined, bright, friendly, and engaging. Her smile is adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 11:57 PM
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How much of this is due to rising rates of obesity among males, and the leftist indoctrination in the schools (turning boys into effeminate beta-males)? How many of these 30% are spending time playing video games vs. getting out and meeting girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 11:27 PM
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seriously dude, stop trampling on women. Short term gains and are going to lead to long-term misery.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:43 AM
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It is very simple: stop treating human beings as objects, and start treating them as human beings. This whole thing is predicated on the idea that a man and woman can't fall in love, and that they will be forever in vicious competition. The latter can be true in most instances, but there are exceptions. A great man once wrote: "...that is why authentic love presents itself as unrenounceable, and to this degree it is happiness ...the lover, even the most unhappy of lovers, thinks that his love ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 01:12 AM
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Before I got married, I was dating a girl for about 6 weeks or so, and we finally ended up in bed. I gave her some oral, and after that she seemed to freeze up. I wasn't requiring that she reciprocate, and I would have been cool with the night ending there, but she then told me that she had been molested as a girl. Yeah, awkward. The timing was bad to say the least. And the relationship was over ...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:15 AM
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I'm a guy, but I can't help but to chime in ... 5/10: Robin Wright (only because she is older now), and Tobey Maguire 8/10: Rose Leslie and Kit Harrington 10 / 10: Antje Traue (she is a bit older now, but when young ...oh boy) and Henry Cavill
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 12:40 AM
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N count doesn't matter as much as the details and circumstances in which that count was achieved. Which gets into some dicey territory, because a lot of people (especially women) don't want to divulge details. I told my fiance before we got married that I had slept with 8 girls including her, almost all LTR situations (a couple I dated for a few months tops). She told me her number was between 12 and 15 (if I remember correctly). Now I did want to know few things: were any of these partners FWBs…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 12:27 AM
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As with any theory, elements might be correct or insightful, and other parts might be nonsense. RP falls into this. I wouldn't necessarily call myself completely red-pilled on women, but I do have my concerns. Girls are more promiscuous now (despite what some studies indicate), less committed to their men, hypergamous, and suspicious. Like many guys, I simply dismissed these realities for a long time, or fell into the trap of lowering my standards. Despite being happily married (for the most par…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 03:33 PM
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only time (that I know of) that I got cheated on, the chick ended up marrying the dude a couple years later. I recently checked up on her social media. Turns out the dude dumped her for a younger model 5 months after she gave birth to their child. So she is now a single mother. What goes around comes around
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:28 PM
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