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I too have made some truly monsterous mistakes in the past. Hell... as recently as even as this month I lost my biggest client who was paying 90% of my firms income (and I have three hungry staff as well). Was it completely my fault ? No. But could I have done things differently to have perhaps kept them on board ? Very very probably. Will I do things differently next time ? Hell yes. Make mistakes. DO NOT fail to learn from them. And keep fighting.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 07:39 AM
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Imagine you go to a restaurant that will make your favourite food. And when you order, the server says "Now, every time you go to any restaurant now, forever, you'll get the same food everytime". Why not want to eat something different from time to time ? This doesn't change your favourite food does it ?
/r/askTRP10/08/20 12:45 PM
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2 hours of blowing up the phone on text (had blocked her on whatsapp / messenger). "I did nothing wrong" "Go back to ...." (previous gf) "Are you going back to ...?" "... is nothing to me" "you don't come to me with clean hands" "what else did you find?" "I am loyal and faithful to you" etc etc etc
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 12:44 PM
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It gets better... The friend she was bragging to has two sons and the youngest one now (14) is starting to get in trouble with the police as she has no discipline with them and extending that forward I think she use to not put my LTR straight with a "wtf are you doing - that's not the way to behave if you want to keep a man"
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 12:29 PM
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"The only thing better than 'good pussy' is new pussy...And the only thing better than 'new pussy' is 2 pussies.” -Tristan Thompson
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 12:28 PM
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Tom Ford. Its hella expensive but that's because its good, lasts long and noone else wears it. I was in a bar a few weeks ago and a girl I know from work came searching for me as she caught the slightest scent of it - not as I had bathed in it but because its that good. Every girl I've been with in the last 12 months since I've started wearing it absolutely adores it.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 09:51 AM
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so.. unless someone suggests the perfect response, then no response is the best respone 99% of the time
/r/askTRP27/06/17 10:32 PM
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if you check my post history this is exactly what happens
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 09:52 AM
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next up "this one trick will ..... "
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 07:04 AM
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wow. my line is "hey my friend and his girlfriend are just having a rather personal discussion outside and i didnt want to get involved so do you mind me joining you until they come in?".... but i may switch to yours....
/r/askTRP12/05/17 05:09 PM
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short answer as on mobile: would she do it with brad pitt or george clooney ? if so then become as close as you can, dread, and then either do it, leave it or accept it
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 12:17 AM
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Thanks - I think I might be able to manage the "just be white" part and am in pretty good shape (although am over 40 now).. Still put a lot of kids to shame with my lifts versus theirs though.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 08:10 AM
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It would be more amusing if it were actually fiction. excellently written - please do more.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 02:46 AM
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oh wow. i thought one marriage and one ltr would have won but you sir....
/r/askTRP26/01/17 01:11 PM
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gonna steal this one for bumble and report back ...
/r/askTRP14/01/17 03:43 PM
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First: well done on deleting the number in the first place. I wish I did a purge more often. If it were me, I'd send back something like "crazy busy. you ?" and then not reply for a few days if she sends another. I dont actually think you have anything to lose by replying unless it triggers oneitis but as you arent that close then it sounds as if thats not the case.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 04:42 PM
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also ... he's getting mad at his dad for "selling off his inheritance" .. entitled much ??
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 10:24 AM
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She's clearly gotten away with it most of her life because she's incredibly hot, but a guy like Jesse isn't going to be fazed by her looks and therefor doesn't tolerate the incompetence like some guys might. this. its always amusing to see the uncovering / realisation of "ah maybe i actually need talent to do this job"
/r/askTRP25/12/16 11:11 AM
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imho another text is definitely a losing move. as much as you feel the need to make sure she notices you, do not text. I know youve already agreed, but am just reinforcing the point.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 06:57 PM
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Omg. This is what i needed to read right now. I have a huge internal conflict going on and this has helped me understand why.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 08:41 AM
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Lol Left with a studio appt ? Try out and out bankruptcy. Then you can talk to me about being destroyed. However my lifts are now their life time best and aint no one can take that from me.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 04:57 PM
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46 yr old checking in. Was on average always "fit" but only started lifting seriously 2 - 3 years ago and HOLY SHITBALLS the difference in everything is night and day. My only regret was not starting 20 years ago... but c'est la vie.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 05:27 PM
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Dont get a sitter. Get a live in aupair. Cheap as chips (ie 100 usd per week). Kids will love her and missus will immeadiately change ways. Dont be a creepy dad around her (im sure your not but just saying the obvious). Have had aupairs for 5+ years now and never looked back. Pm if you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/16 10:58 AM
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Easiest way ive found to sexualise the conversation is to steer it to the subject of animals and then come out with some weird animal sex facts ... coz they do some pretty fucked up things but as its "nature" then its not a jarring transition
/r/askTRP28/11/16 09:23 AM
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Dude. The guy is fucked. Take screen shots and images of all the threats. If you think he is serious (genuinely) go to the police. Violence and threats of violence are serious offences. At the least, if you are not going to see the police, give a copy of the threats to someone you trust in case you end up in a hospital.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:11 PM
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Which nudes were those ? I mean there were so many but which ones exactly ?
/r/askTRP13/11/16 07:06 PM
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Rumour has it that some of us are even 45+ and lift 5 or 6 times a week
/r/askTRP11/11/16 10:27 AM
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You may be better directing this to /r/fitness
/r/askTRP08/11/16 03:14 PM
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Yay drag flags are my fave too . esp. as 99% of the gym rats cant do em.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 06:28 PM
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Yay for another > 40 red piller. Is there a sub for us ?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 01:48 PM
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I think that so far every response has been correct. Upgoats for all
/r/askTRP26/09/16 04:55 PM
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Im not sure why you were down voted. Down votes are not for disagreeing with someone; they're for use when the comment detracts from the post. I understand your concern, but what if I were to tell you that its not just about gaming women, its about improving your life. Better sex, better experiences, better everything. PS I like the quote about the bulimic... I may have to steal that !
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 02:45 PM
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All he had to say was "yeah id go away. With your fitter younger sister". Job done
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 08:51 PM
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They are absolute fucking leeches.. "Sure let's sit down and talk about how much of an ass your ex-partner is. We're on the clock btw" (I didn't fall for this, but I know ex-wife did). Her barrister actually mentioned that the size of her legal expenses was a significant part of how much she would actually be "gaining" from the divorce proceedings.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 10:37 PM
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Not this one. But this happens all the time so wouldn't be surprised if you got me mistaken. I don't think I'd like to put my daughter on TV for these reasons though.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 10:34 PM
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It's so fucking crazy. Miss or be late with one maintenance payment and there's a real risk you can get completely fucked from the legal recourse, but if the wife doesn't let you near the daughter, all the courts do is maybe write them a letter every now and then. It's fucked. Tell your friend of a friend this: Every time he wants to write something or tell his kid something, send it to an email address that he's made. It can be pics, random shit, anything (and especially pics of stuff that he's…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 10:33 PM
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Lol. You think I'm that stupid ??
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 10:28 PM
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Ah ok.. So to give you a clue.. Here was her "favourite joke" she told on our wedding day... Groom : "Hey guys - guess what - it's my wedding day and my wife just gave me the best blow job ever" Bride : "Hey girls - guess what - I've just given my last blow job ever". So yeah that should give you an idea. I take responsibility for being suckered in. She was always pushing the relationship "forward" just baby steps at a time and I always thought I could reverse it when I needed to.. but I was a f…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 10:28 PM
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Hey - if I have made you think twice .. then my job here is done.. Sort of ..
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 10:25 PM
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The positives are "aint gonna make that mistake again". So I have not much left from where I was but .. the ship is now heading in the right direction, lifts are going up, health is pretty good... It could always be a shit load worse.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 10:23 PM
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Prenups are considered in the divorce settlement (in the UK) but are in no way binding.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 10:22 PM
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The court can act "on your behalf" and basically give the ex "your permission" to leave the country if they are happy that certain qualifications are met - ie it's for the "right reasons" etc etc. But of course, the lawyers write all the paperwork and they know what boxes to tick so that the court will approve it. Also, the maintenance payment is recognised in the US as well, so I can't just stop that. The "good" news is that I negotiated it without any reference to inflation .. but of course FM…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 10:21 PM
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lol. my revenge is living a better life and not giving a shit about hers. Which is basically what I'm doing. I'd rather see her get old, fat and ugly and my kid realise what a bitch she really is.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:22 PM
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Sorry, didn't make it clear. She racked up the credit card debt. She returned to the US where she was a citizen "as she felt more at home there". The real reason doesn't matter as basically, the lawyer will coach you into what to say which will tick the boxes for the court to agree.. It's fucked.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:21 PM
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1) No 2) Fairly often.. but so did I so that was half the fun (at the beginning) 3) I think her parents were pretty solid actually. In fact, her mother had a better idea of keeping house than she did (and often lectured her about it as well).
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:20 PM
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The UK and US are known to the family lawyers as the "best places to get divorced" .. if you are female.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:19 PM
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True dat. In fact... Child and spousal maintenance TRUMPS any other debt repayment you have (lol including rent I think!!)
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:17 PM
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Thanks and yes that's the point. There are some griefers in this thread but the support outweighs those by about 20 to 1.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:16 PM
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So much so. Seriously .. nowadays what are the financial benefits for the man in getting married? A slightly better tax code? That's it ???
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:15 PM
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Thanks. I appreciate your comments.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:14 PM
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I meant that if you bailed the country, were found guilty of fraud or as another has said, fuck up your credit rating, it can be real difficult getting a job in what you do, and almost impossible to "trade down" for a lower job.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:13 PM
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Yeah I guess if I had know the total cost, and had spent maybe 12+ months planning then this would have been a better (but riskier) option. The thing is, all it takes is for your "friend" to help you actually spend that money (on him) or he'll dob you in and then suddenly you're fucked both ways. But.. not saying that it wouldn't have worked though.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:12 PM
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So .. I knew I was going to be accused of sensationalism etc. Here's how it worked out. These figures are all GBP. Equity in the flat - 200k. Her side proposes that she gets 60% to her, 40% for me. I can argue about this if I want, so I get (say) another 5%. 45% for me of 200k is 90k. If I want, I can argue more. Each letter takes approx 1 hr to discuss, draft, send and the read the response at approx 600 / hour. This adds up pretty fucking quickly. So, out of everything, I get 90k. But wait, my…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:08 PM
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This is such a cliche.. And you've read it god knows how many times before.. but the sex just started getting less and less frequent etc. Then came the excuses (and this is no bullshit). "It's too early, it's too late, I'm too dirty, I'm too clean, I'm too sleepy, I'm too awake (?)...". So like each time there was an excuse, I was stupid enough to think "eliminate the excuse and surely the sex will happen". Nope. I was just the idiot BB.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 12:04 AM
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Ah believe me it's getting better. I just want to sway some of our readers to the "hmm maybe I should give this a bit more thought" frame of mind.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 12:01 AM
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Here's the craziest fucked up thing. Let's say the judge says "right mr, you gotta pay X on this date every month and mrs you need to allow mr to see daughter on this schedule". You leave the courtroom and mrs doesn't keep her word. All that happens is you go back to court (each time) and the judge says "ok so you haven't done as you've asked so far.. please start doing it now". Repeat ad fucking naseum. There is NO penalty at all on the wife, because they are gods gift to the world right ??! Le…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 12:00 AM
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You think of pretty much every possibility .. Almost. The only one I didn't think of (before it was too late) was leaving the job, taking a year off and retraining as a divorce lawyer and then doing my own divorce - or at least asking one of my new lawyer friends to help out... Then I would have been a great deal better off and also a divorce lawyer as well, so I could have made a shit load off other people's mistakes. If anybody is reading this and considering a divorce ... consider the above. …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 11:56 PM
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Relationship wasn't solid at all. Loads of red flags... but I was just clueless and didn't see them or consider them. Hindsight may be 20/20 but I didn't realise exactly how fucked up the legal system was when divorcing.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 11:38 PM
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Ah I could go into shitloads but I'll keep it short. ex would always try and minimize visitations to the daughter. Three times a week, then twice then she tried to make it once. No phone calls, skype etc. Had to go to court six times before they really got pissed off and stated daughter could stay at my place. She would offer the daughter to me for extra days .. but she would say that she would get bored.. and that if I gave her some money then that meant she could do something (ie exchange cash…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 11:21 PM
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Thanks. I know I'll never be where I could have been now .. The apartment that got disposed of during the firesale is now worth over 1.5M USD... and I would own 90% of that fucker now (ie just a small mortgage to pay). However, I have a well paying job now, the maintenance for the daughter is not index linked (so it's not going up each year .. ie in real terms, that means it's getting less). My lifts are the best they've ever been and I have a few side projects that I'm hoping have some traction…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 11:14 PM
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This is exactly what i consider when motivating myself for anything that might be a challenge... And not just for women... For a career, for an interview... "How can I be better than my imaginary twin?"
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 06:26 PM
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He's demonstrating he cant communicate with her as adult to adult. Maybe its him , maybe its her . its not good for the long term though so he needs to sort it out. Next time it happens he needs to get his point across and hold frame and maybe reduce the baby to trivial matters so he can phase them out completely
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:11 PM
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Prenups are (and I quote from a barrister friend of mine who writes prenups) "taken into consideration" during a divorce. That worthless family heirloom that's been in your family forever ? Yeah you'll probably get to keep that no question. The family home that she's been adding value to by decorating, doing up etc etc ? That's a trickier one. Losing 10% of her spousal maintenance per kg of weight gained after marriage ? Yeah that'll be laughed out of court...
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:06 PM
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Addendum. She was WAing me like crazy no less than 2 minutes ago. Please can we try to be friends, why not etc? I really couldn't be assed replying etc. Anyway - she ends with "I have to know now if we are going to try to be friends - you need to tell me now". So .. as I am never going to follow an ultimatum I said "no".. 2 seconds later I am blocked. I hope that this is the last I hear of her. The "Hell my blood pressure went up from reading it" resonated with me. That's all the fuck she does t…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 10:58 PM
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Trust but verify is an LTR strategy, not a plate strategy man lol Still learning.. Still get the strategies confused. You're right.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 10:32 PM
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toxic is exactly how I would describe her impact on my life. She has to go.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 10:32 PM
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jeez. the moment you point out the highlights like that .. It's so obvious.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 10:27 PM
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Just so you (and all the responses below) : I appreciate the analysis and advice for this.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 10:27 PM
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Because for me, it's a transition. I can't undo decades of programming just after reading the sidebar a few times. Sure, this time I bothered about calling out her bullshit.. next time I hope to have progressed to the shortness of "Sorry I don't see a drama class in my schedule today".
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 12:54 AM
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Lol thanks. "The road to self improvement only begins when you realise the road never ends". I've only been on this road for a few months and have so much to learn and then begins the struggle to form it into habit.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 12:51 AM
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I post on her to get the impartial direct statements such as this. And if I am honest: yes sometimes I'm that dense as I'm still having trouble separating the looks from the person.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 12:28 AM
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Yep but it's good to be reminded. At least I passed the first stage of not digressing into orbiter. I'm hoping to get three of the GFTOW over the next week just as certain friends are in town and am visiting family (who live by another FWB) .. the other seven though is going to be a bit trickier.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 12:11 AM
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Well .. it's about kids and what the hell to do with relationships that involve kids. The reason I'm asking for advice from older RPers is that they may have a good idea what damage events have on their kids upbringing. It's easy to say "put yourself first" but if some of your life enjoyment comes from having kids ... well it becomes a little bit more complicated.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 12:05 AM
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Yep. I mean .. what's the point right ? I guess I could have found out who she banged the previous night or who she's planning to bang the next night but what good would that do me ?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 10:56 PM
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Hey I've moved on as much as I can .. and I hope I didn't appear to be a whinging loser - I don't think I did - but thought I'd add a bit of back story just for reference. Of course I was an absolute fucking idiot and I have a kid with the ex (hence the divorce rape) but that's fact - not a "omg I'm so can't deal with this". Having a kid fucks you completely over as you can never ever cut off from the b*tch .. unless you want to cut off from the kid too. Believe me, everything I read on these su…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 10:55 PM
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My squats are shit (can do 3 or 4 reps at 80kg on a good day). I skip leg day a lot. I've been working on upper body now for way too long, but man it is soo fucking addictive getting that bit into shape. I'm only 5'6" so that's why I'm on the light side. I guess a lot of people talk shit on fitness and rp .. but "I aint got time for that shit".. I'm after advice and learning and what would the point be if that advice was for someone who wasn't me ?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 10:51 PM
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I now weigh 66kg. I bench 85kg, DL 130kg and squat .. not so much. I have visible abs that you can see the shape through decent clothes, and that makes a BP / RP stuff even more obvious. My awesome life was fucking awesome until I got married .. and then divorce raped. I was a poster child BP guy. Now I'm just trying to put the pieces back together.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 11:29 AM
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Straight to the point. I wouldn't have it any other way.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 06:14 PM
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I've been lurking for probably around 12 months now. Reading, learning, understanding, accepting etc. Now I'm getting ready to ask shit that isn't the usual high school bullshit "does this girl fancy me" or "how do you tinder". It's an essay though.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 06:13 PM
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I have been married and I have a kid with the ex. Two or three times I've been over to see kid etc and there's been drinks involved. She got pretty damn drunk and I've got slightly drunk. One time she's lying in the bed, naked, literally trying to drag me in. I would rather put my dick in a blender then screw her again. The shit I had to go through to get a divorce in the first place means I'd rather just walk out and ring a call girl then go there again. That particular time I had another girl …
/r/askTRP10/05/16 06:11 PM
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