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Say they were being lame tonight
/r/seduction02/04/16 02:00 AM
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Never thought about it like this
/r/seduction13/03/16 02:25 AM
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i used to put a focus on getting the number before meeting up, but have found that there's no point. you're already talking with them through a medium, who cares if that medium is an app, facebook, or SMS. just plan it all out, when it comes time to meet either communicating logistics through tinder or she'll give you her preferred method. Anecdotal but every tinder convo i tried "forcing" a number grab, even when the convo was going well, sort of died. your goal is not the number, it's to meet …
/r/seduction03/03/16 05:51 PM
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The only "rating system" you should use is 1 or 0. You want to fuck them or you don't. You're too concerned with what others think. Are you attracted to her/interested in her or not?
/r/seduction15/02/16 08:34 AM
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upvoted for puerto rican girls
/r/seduction01/02/16 09:37 PM
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Ah I see
/r/seduction27/01/16 01:33 PM
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did you mean needy and not nerdy?
/r/seduction26/01/16 09:24 PM
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I worry about this because he bolded the first statement when I feel the emphasis should be on the other statement. I'm correcting it the way I think it should be A true mark of a player is a man who can experience emotions without becoming emotional. Learning how to make a girl fall for you and and knowing how to handle it in a masculine manner is next level game. Otherwise I think this is solid material and like @codyhayse said I'd like to see more stuff like this
/r/seduction21/01/16 11:15 PM
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Be able to talk about yourself. Be able to define who you are, what you do, and what you are about. These are necessary skills to have, not only for the dating world but for the interviewing world as well. Just be careful to not constantly talk about yourself and let her get some words in. can be a slippery slope if thats how you start handling every conversation.
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:50 PM
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the fact that he reached out shows that you did not come on too strong. would not let it deter you in the future. who knows what hes got going on
/r/seduction14/01/16 10:23 PM
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He found me on instagram because I also model but was surprised to discover I was not an idiot. off topic, but do you mind me asking for some details on how that interaction went?
/r/seduction11/01/16 09:57 PM
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Spoken like someone who's approached repeats
/r/seduction09/01/16 04:48 AM
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It's not the same as a sports high five. You sort of give her hand a squeeze after the high five
/r/seduction09/01/16 04:47 AM
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No one should feel down on their cake day, PM me a text and interaction and I'll see what's good
/r/seduction06/01/16 09:31 PM
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DON'T WAIT UNTIL THE END. it can put this weird pressure on you and her. like evil said in here, during a high point just go for it. my last date I kissed the girl as we walked out to our uber to the restaurant. kissing her before the date got going made us both more comfortable i think. its risky, but if you maintain frame and stay cool it should be worth it
/r/seduction04/01/16 06:42 PM
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very good point about not always having to respond. this is the biggest thing I've learned from text game. she will hit you up again if she's interested so don't respond to weak texts if you feel you're forcing the convo.
/r/seduction04/01/16 06:13 PM
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came here to comment on that point. Going from a habitual texter to someone who purposely planned waiting on texts, I'll say just do what comes naturally. It's not good to text her back before she even gets a chance to reread what she just sent you, but you also don't want half the day to go by before you've each sent one message. IMO, waiting ~ 10 or 15 minutes is probably the sweet spot. Especially for online dating apps, waiting for too long will lead to the girl forgetting about you and ther…
/r/seduction04/01/16 06:08 PM
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never thought i'd see Seinfeld fueled advice in this sub, kudos
/r/seduction04/01/16 05:55 PM
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hm never thought of this. good transition could be asking a group for a lighter. instant in
/r/seduction28/12/15 09:47 PM
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everyone is going to push you for the threesome, and to be honest it's probably within reach. they're cool enough to just brush this off and both find you attractive obviously. when you meet up with them, try to reciprocate that "chilled out" attitude. be fun and outcome independent and what not. you got this. follow up please
/r/seduction17/12/15 05:36 PM
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its an incomplete critique without pointing out specifics.
/r/seduction30/11/15 08:32 PM
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most girls will take it as a compliment
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:12 PM
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dont get too fucked up if you want to keep tight game.
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:05 PM
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Geez, buy him dinner first at least
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:03 PM
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your ufc post is deleted I think
/r/seduction16/11/15 05:08 PM
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yeah it can be harder, but i like to know that I can do it. I put some stuff in the edits that are also good tips i think. hope it helps
/r/seduction15/11/15 06:49 PM
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how did your night with your old buddy go? I edited the post with my follow up
/r/seduction15/11/15 06:45 PM
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this is very nicely thought out and put together. the only thing that I would add is that meditating can be even more effective during a "monk mode" period. it sets out time to focus on you while also resting up your body.
/r/seduction10/11/15 03:42 PM
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now that you've got her interested make sure you don't get too overeager (11/10, deserve a do-over)
/r/seduction09/11/15 05:40 PM
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that ended a lot better than i expected... opening a sleeping woman might not go as well next time haha but good shit way to think outside of the box
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:24 PM
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i like it, nice to tie it in with outcome independence and frame control. Curious about 2). What do you do to tie these girls into your inside joke/story. for instance, i imagine some girls will reply to "remember that time in the bahamas" with something like "ummm no." or "i have no idea what you're talking about" do you just shrug that off and insist? I think i'd find myself saying something like "oh of course you remember. we stayed next door to each other and hit all of the pool parties". if…
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:05 PM
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it's seddit for high school, essentially.
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:55 PM
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for future reference /r/highseddit can help you out with these situations
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:49 PM
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you might have better results posting this in /r/highseddit
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:46 PM
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we have slept in the same bed a few times recently and it seemed like bodily contact was trying to be made on both sides. bruh. so much wrong here. you don't want to step on toes but you're sleeping in the same bed as this guy's girl? I know you wouldn't be cool with it if you were in his shoes, so what's actually stopping you here? you're either super friendzoned (platonic sleeping and constant texting) or you just don't want to feel guilty for making a move. be direct. she possibly doesn't wan…
/r/seduction05/11/15 07:09 PM
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maintaining firm eye contact is definitely core to "doing it right" perhaps with a smirk on
/r/seduction05/11/15 05:44 PM
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came here to say this... boy is still tripping
/r/seduction02/11/15 05:48 PM
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You could make a joke about it like "you know I'm just using you because getting two for myself would seem fat" or "I think I'm their number one customer"
/r/seduction28/10/15 07:46 PM
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.... and proceed through life not giving a fuck, in turn slaying the hoards of women flocking to your composed and confident self?
/r/seduction27/10/15 06:44 PM
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This gives him incredible deep just wondering what you meant by this. depth?
/r/seduction27/10/15 05:14 PM
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going to be honest i didn't like a lot of these. what's with all of the "retard" lines. come on son... the zoo line is bad on so many levels. few of these are alright
/r/seduction27/10/15 05:12 PM
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i'm getting lost in the wording of your post but I think I get the general jist of your message and I agree. Actually came up in a text conversation yesterday in which the girl was being sort of flakey. i joked about her needing to sleep on it for a few days then very seriously told her I thought she was fucking around with me. she insisted she wasnt and tried scheduling a date right after that.
/r/seduction27/10/15 05:05 PM
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1) if you invite her out and its something not too expensive just pay for it. if you do a combo date thing (like dinner and a concert) and dont want to shell out mad money you could say something to her like i'll get dinner if you get the tickets. unless she's poor or a bitch this shouldnt be an issue. 2) there's gotta be something around your campus (a school sports game, hiking, or people watching if you really have nothing else) 3) dont tell the girl outright that you just want to fuck. wont …
/r/seduction27/10/15 04:59 PM
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Shouldn't you be telling us? How did the date end? Obviously not with her nipples out.. Edit: seriously though it could be a sign that she is sexually comfortable, which I take as a good sign
/r/seduction27/10/15 04:41 PM
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I would show your intentions here. Flip-flopping in between the girls will end up biting you in the ass since they are friends. Just tell her you thought her friend was cool/cute/you're interested. Last time I talked with two chicks I generally asked for their numbers and they made me choose. So i turned to one of them and said, "you're really cute and everything, but I want your friends number" and gave my phone to the other one. neither seemed upset with this situation. I think its what they w…
/r/seduction26/10/15 04:44 PM
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What did you text her? This post inspired me to break some rules tonight.. And I met twins. Fuckk
/r/seduction25/10/15 07:46 AM
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1) just start walking up to them without thinking. If your feet start leading you there you have to think about what to say instead of thinking of excuses. Plus it'd also look a little weird for you to be walking up to them then stop and turn around. 2) the calling thing felt weird to me. Almost if you're not confident enough that she gave you a real number. I've done the calling thing but that was just so they had my number and I wouldn't have to text her. I like the initiative to get her numbe…
/r/seduction24/10/15 04:39 PM
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Keep us posted. Interested to see how it goes
/r/seduction24/10/15 04:35 PM
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thanks. i'll admit outcome independence is an achilles heel for me as well. i have noticed it isn't that much of an issue when you're actually having fun. so do things that you love and good things will follow. you can fake it 'til you make it but nothing can emulate a genuine smile from enjoying yourself, and girls will pick up on that E: a word
/r/seduction22/10/15 06:50 PM
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I guess just take a step back. meditate some maybe. You have to recognize the value in yourself. you're the fucking shit and girls have to recognize that. it'll take away neediness if you see these women as equals or as people who are deserving of your attention instead of the other way around
/r/seduction22/10/15 05:47 PM
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I was one of the people (only person?) who responded to that post. I decided to do my first FR today if you guys wanna check it out and tell me what you think. I do agree that the former state of the sub used to be better/more advanced. it was a post like this that inspired me to write my post so hopefully these posts will in turn inspire further.
/r/seduction22/10/15 04:40 PM
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never seen this advice on here, i like it. especially the bit about getting hurt sometimes. good reminder. this is also another way to assume attraction. don't second guess. if she blows it one more time then I would eject though. act like it doesn't faze you and don't give her another chance. thats how you end up needy and hurt
/r/seduction21/10/15 09:42 PM
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haha that's awesome how did he do that?
/r/seduction21/10/15 09:13 PM
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I would say there is definitely a lot more preaching of fundamentals now (expected with the youngins starting school). however, if you go through some of the seemingly basic posts you can still find some advanced knowledge within the comments. I find myself sifting through posts trying to help then being surprised by someone nailing the issue on the head and even offering advice that can be applied beyond the situation or context.
/r/seduction21/10/15 05:56 PM
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Are you leaving a good enough of an impression initially/in person?
/r/seduction21/10/15 05:47 PM
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where do you usually find these women?
/r/seduction21/10/15 05:38 PM
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you could playfully tell her that some angel of a woman will have taken your heart by then, but maybe you'll hit her up at 40 if things didnt work out
/r/seduction21/10/15 05:18 PM
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would you consider yourself good looking or do you attribute it to the package of being established as someone who has their shit together? also where do you meet these women?
/r/seduction21/10/15 05:15 PM
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this is how i've started thinking about it: she's got about a billion other guys texting her that basic shit. hey how was spring break? if she's already into you then this might pass but if you're trying to get a foot in the metaphorical door, then this is a soft, pathetic attempt. You have to find some sort of way to create value and/or pull her into wanting to talk to you. try to be funny, creative, outlandish, bold, and original. running with your spring break example, I might change your tex…
/r/seduction21/10/15 02:06 PM
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yeah there's a reason I led off with that one. so simple yet conveys your intentions and shows you have some balls
/r/seduction21/10/15 01:52 PM
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ya I like that change. confidence
/r/seduction21/10/15 01:50 PM
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Hate to say it but most people are probably going to have dates, do you not? Just have fun, genuine fun, by yourself or with a date and people will notice. Other people are there to have fun too, be the person that brings it out. Work the room, say what's up to everyone, don't be afraid to dance.
/r/seduction21/10/15 02:58 AM
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"I just noticed you from across the room and I would've been kicking myself all day if I didn't come over and say hi. so hi" "you know I actually almost wore the same thing today, that would've been embarrassing" "you look entirely too interesting to be [sitting, standing, waiting] here by yourself" "my friends are running late, can I flirt with you for a couple minutes?"
/r/seduction20/10/15 06:29 PM
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suggestions for the upcoming colder months?
/r/seduction20/10/15 02:51 PM
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yeah give a little woo! i would just say try not to keep your feet planted. simple movements can go a long way with a bold smirk and a little passion. it helps if you're seeing music that you actually wanted to see performed.
/r/seduction20/10/15 02:36 PM
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yeah seriously, there really is no reason to raise a hand to a woman. they are just people, you should be nonreactive. just shrug it off and keep going on with your life.
/r/seduction20/10/15 02:34 PM
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If she's bootycalling you then this is very hard to fuck up. Hug her at the door, read her body language. Lead her in by the hand but don't force it. This is 100% unless you act weird
/r/seduction17/10/15 01:10 AM
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unless you got friend zoned already, make a joke about it. escalate so she knows your intentions. could say something like "didnt realize you need a warm up for our date". you'll know whether or not to eject just because she is either toxic or not interested
/r/seduction16/10/15 10:13 PM
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TL;DW? At work and can't look at it
/r/seduction14/10/15 04:37 PM
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where did you go from SF?
/r/seduction12/10/15 03:59 PM
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Easy replacement with "you're missing out", yes?
/r/seduction29/09/15 07:11 PM
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just tried it. she responded with, "i will be now just because you said please."
/r/seduction15/09/15 01:28 AM
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solid post. I do have a question though: as someone who is employed, where do you find the time to day game? Put differently, when are you day gaming? Weekends? I can definitely see girls more receptive as they aren't rushing to class or something like that. Edit: As a follow up, do girls ever ask you why you're campus then if you're not a student? I guess I would respond by saying that I that I was visiting an old friend.
/r/seduction25/08/15 01:29 PM
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This sub needs more comments such as this one. This helps a ton of people, myself included. Thanks man Super late edit: a word
/r/seduction17/07/15 01:23 AM
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Calling arrives at a point. At the end of your 5-10 minute call you will have established a date, set a tone, etc. texting can drag on for hours and kill the vibe. Everyone texts now I like standing out some
/r/seduction03/09/14 11:43 PM
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Interested in knowing. Specifically if your history comes up about getting tested
/r/seduction25/07/14 03:33 PM
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This.... Isn't bad
/r/seduction03/07/14 03:40 AM
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Instead you suggest?
/r/seduction09/01/14 09:02 PM
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obviously can't speak to women that you're dealing with but I also go to school in the PA area close-ish to Philly and have experienced similar things. However, I also dealt with this in high school and i've found its very hard to "turn the image". my recommendation is to not try to change and just be you. girls always end up swinging around to see what all the hype is about then you can change her perception. the only way to change what people think is to change one person at a time.
/r/seduction11/09/13 05:57 PM
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just do you. as u/PsyanideInk said elsewhere in this thread: only your approach matters. it doesn't matter if she's talking to 100 other guys or 1, if you're not coming in confident then she is going to write you off regardless
/r/seduction16/08/13 03:39 PM
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honest answer, how do you respond to these people?
/r/seduction16/08/13 03:35 PM
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It's really advice for people who have no trouble attracting girls or opening them but have issues closing. no sarcasm. this is pretty crucial. wouldn't recommend to those who are trying to attract, it would probably come off as creepy. but i've seen tons of guys who like you said just can't close and I think this would be really helpful to them
/r/seduction19/07/13 07:40 PM
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so you just flat out say "i find you very attractive"?
/r/seduction19/07/13 03:33 PM
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How did you lure the second girl into the convo?
/r/seduction11/07/13 12:04 AM
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