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Yeah mate - I know I need to improve going forward. Like I say in the post above, I am annoyed at my self for losing it like that. This isn't how I would usually act. I think the buildup of the b.s that's been happening tipped me over the edge.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:28 AM
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Yeah I get you bro, completely agree - I would think actions wise sex would drop off/her being "too busy" would increase, girls nights would increase too etc - That doesn't seem to be happening tho - Her actions haven't changed much except of her bitchy snappy attitude recently. She just changed her contraceptive pill in the last month or so - This might be having an impact but surely I shouldn't have to put up with her shit behaviour because of the "pill"...
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:26 AM
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I was thinking this as well - but she is always posting me on her social media/telling me how much she loves me/sex is still great/still makes time for me etc... Wouldn't this stuff start to drop off too if this was the case?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 12:10 AM
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Great advice - when have you ever heard someone talking to you about a surgery they performed on their ass? idiot.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:50 AM
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Can't say this - not allowed to fly in/out of my country atm. Yes - she is the only one who sees me every week, multiple times a week. Others I couldn't care less about, I can disappear if I want.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:36 AM
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surgery for ass related problems - most painful thing i've ever experienced...
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:32 AM
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You posted this exact same story a couple of days ago on a different account... Move on mate.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:30 PM
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With bar/club girls, I find I am way more successful with closing on the same night than if I get her number and try to set something else up for another day. Most of the club girls are flakey AF, so get them on the night while they are primed and ready to go. You are overthinking it way too much. Just go out have fun and let it all naturally take place.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:19 AM
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"sexual tension has been escalating for the last year or so". Bro wtf does this even mean? That screams beta. Sack up, isolate and escalate with her. You either get in or you get rejected. Good luck.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:07 AM
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Clear troll thread, surely you can all tell...
/r/askTRP24/02/20 02:44 AM
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Ahahahah this is brilliant.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 04:51 AM
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That's rough bro - All the best to you, sounds like you're on the right path ahead. How did you find out about it all?
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:44 AM
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When you say "dont forget boundaries" - what boundaries are you referring to? If I start setting boundaries and she isn't even my LTR, don't I look too controlling here? Other prospects are not worthy of dates or LTR - so just use them for sex when I want it... Yes although I had to wait 4 dates for it (because she was putting on the good girl act - that I have been referring too) - This is unusual territory for me, because I can usually f-close after 1 or 2 dates.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 12:11 PM
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I believe she has only ever had 1 BF of 2 years - No other boyfriends. I haven't really asked her anything about why they broke up etc -
/r/askTRP27/01/20 12:06 PM
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Hit her up with "pls respond" - Sure that will work.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 12:59 AM
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Such an obvious troll post. U cuck.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:42 PM
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I am 28 and have had success with girls aged 20-22. I tend to avoid telling them how old I actually am and just let them "guess" and go with it (they usually guess 25-26). I prefer this age bracket, but with this age bracket comes a lot of immaturity/red flags. I have yet to find any girl in this age bracket that could be considered for an LTR.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 05:55 AM
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If you really need to know my age I am 28. Only reason I mentioned my salary because I am not a deadbeat and can take care of myself, have my own place etc -
/r/askTRP07/10/19 10:21 PM
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Yeah ok that's fair - it would be a lot easier to understand this if he wasnt more than twice her age with kids and a downgrade in looks though... she isnt bad looking and could do better than me and 10000x better than him... Ah well it is what it is.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:33 PM
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Yep - finance manager hoping to be promoted to CFO in a couple of years.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 10:48 AM
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Her parents split in the last year and I am pretty sure it was because her dad cheated. Should have picked up that she had daddy issues...
/r/askTRP07/10/19 10:39 AM
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Massive shot to the ego you are 100% right. I would completely understand if she went for someone more attractive/better body/higher pay/single etc - but it feels like she has downgraded in all aspects. Massive wtf? The fact that he has kids as well I thought would be a deal breaker for a girl her age - it all makes 0 sense to me? But yes, of course I am on no contact and moving on from her. Still pisses me off though.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:51 AM
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Thanks for the words of encouragement bro. It just has me completely confused and has hit my ego. I would have thought a girl her age would be more likely to ride the CC then to settle down for an "old beta bux".... No idea if he is rich, but I would assume so, because I cannot for the life of me see how he is any better than me physically (unless he has a monster cock).
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:07 AM
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She clearly sees you as the "back-up option". Rode the CC for a bit, decided to try things with a few new guys and nothing has worked out, so she goes back to you. If things were good with this "rich snob" do you think she'd be contacting you again? Anyway, you already stated you can't trust her, so I would not consider this girl for anything more than a plate.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 02:12 AM
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If you're struggling and don't want to make things worse, get yourself some cialias....
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:42 AM
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Haha bro, this happened almost two months ago. I saw this chick again at an event with friends - It started off well (we were hooking up as per usual), then went as bad as it could ever go, she got real drugged up, hooked up with another guy, which threw me off and I completely lost frame. Have not contacted, seen or heard from her since that night (4-5 weeks ago). Fuck her.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 06:48 AM
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Of course if they're interested you won't need to say that, but with that behaviour she is clearly displaying low interest, so there is no point pursuing or asking again. Put the ball back in her court, soft next and if she comes back with an offer to meet, go from there. How would you handle it differently?
/r/askTRP29/07/19 07:40 AM
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You should have left the ball back in her court with a "no worries, hit me up when you're free" text and proceeded to soft next.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:59 AM
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Best way to deal with this without actually "blocking/deleting" her: Mute their stories on Snapchat/Instagram. Unfollow on Fbook. Done this recently with a chick I was heavily involved with and it has helped me get over her without looking butthurt.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:23 AM
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Not gonna lie, this made me laugh. Sounds like a troll post.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 04:58 AM
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"Watched movies from midnight till noon" - Yes, of course that's all that happened. ​ She is definitely spinning you as a plate - You need to face that reality, accept it or next before you get in too deep with a chick riding the CC.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 05:32 AM
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When you want her to next you.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 12:20 AM
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Yeah sounds about right - She is quick to get on the CC when they are on their breaks/or things aren't going well - but will always go back... Pretty damaged herself I would have thought.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 02:09 AM
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Sounds like he is already in love... My suggestion is to pull back. Text her less, see her less, fuck other girls etc until your emotional investment with her decreases. Nothing worse than catching feelings for someone that you know is only FWB/plate material - can really mess with your head.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 02:13 PM
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Pump and dump her sure, but do not get involved emotionally again with her at all.. She sounds like severely damaged goods
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:24 PM
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She pushed for the talk, But I was not ready to go exclusive with her (only had been dating for 2-3 months but wanted to continue dating her) - She didn't handle it well so flaking/shit-tests/jealousy tests increased and it just got real messy.. ​ Final straw for me was 2 weeks ago, we were out together at an event with the group, she was all over me as per usual - then halfway through the night, she decided it would be a good idea to kiss another guy infront of me and hand her number out to him…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 03:51 AM
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Thanks for this advice - you're right, if I avoid and act butthurt she knows she has a strangle hold on me. Need to act like I DGAF.... Cheers bro!
/r/askTRP07/07/19 11:10 PM
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Agree with this advice.. I was in a relationship for about 8-9 years which ended poorly because I was so beta, she used to walk all over me and then it clicked to me that enough was enough and walked away. I look back on it now and seriously can't believe the shit I was being put through by her (Definitely BPD). NEVER AGAIN. ​ We broke up around 2 and a half years ago - It broke me for around 6 months to a year, but since then I have felt so much better and the feelings for her have subsided com…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:14 AM
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"We talk every night on the phone as well"... You could be giving off the emotional support friend-zone vibe - Have you escalated with this girl before?
/r/askTRP25/06/19 07:52 AM
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Yeah fair enough bro. She already thinks you're way more invested than she is, so texting her out of the blue asking her to go away with you would be a complete fail IMO. I guess you could try asking to hang out again and if she says no/busy, you know to move on..
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:24 AM
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Definitely do not just ask her on the trip out of nowhere - No chance of success there. How long has it been since you have spoken to her?
/r/askTRP20/06/19 10:57 PM
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Needed a post like this bro - I have severe confidence issues because of my honker. Most likely getting surgery on it next month - Do you mind me asking how much it cost ya and where you got it done? Bloody expensive here in AUS
/r/askTRP19/06/19 06:39 AM
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I am not sure that this is a good idea.... What are you trying to achieve by doing this? Are you trying to show her that you are not interested in her? If a girl did this to me, I would next her 100%..
/r/askTRP17/06/19 05:35 AM
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Start getting worried when I don't want to have sex with you..
/r/askTRP13/06/19 05:02 AM
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I am going through the exact same thing as you bro. Recent girl I was seeing for roughly 3-4 months pushed me for the "talk" multiple times until I gave in and told her I enjoyed her company, would like to see where this goes etc - It went drastically downhill from there. Have not seen her since that day (2 weeks ago) and can tell she has lost interest/attraction... I told her we should just go back to being very casual, which she agreed. Currently in no contact and do not plan on breaking it. H…
/r/askTRP13/06/19 12:30 AM
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Troll post
/r/askTRP12/06/19 11:23 PM
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I did soft next last week, she contacted me again after 4 days of no contact (we would usually speak every day/every other day) - I tried to schedule a meet up again but she was "busy" (which is BS), but still wanted to text back and forth.... I said there's no point texting back and forth if we're both too busy to meet. She said it's become "complicated" for her now that she has feelings for me etc. I put the idea out there that we should go back to being casual (no dates/talking so often etc) …
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:09 AM
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She is pulling back for whatever reason (could be another guy in the picture, maybe you are showing signs of being too needy etc), so you also need to do the same. The more you smother her by calling her and texting her even though she is not replying, the less likely you will hear from her again. Go and do your own thing and she will be back soon enough.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 05:06 AM
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Have a feeling that this chick could be lying about being in an "open relationship" - Most likely been cheating on her BF, is feeling a guilty about it, so is now pulling away? Consent story seems like BS to me...
/r/askTRP05/06/19 11:26 PM
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I was in a relationship for about 6 years and something similar happened towards the start of our relationship (about a year or two in) - I was like you and thought I could get past it, but never did in the end - we ended up fighting consistently over trust issues and it got to the point where I had enough and we broke it off. It's been about two years since we broke up and she has tried several times to get back with me - I decline every time because I will never be able to trust her. Even to t…
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:37 AM
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Yeah I get that - but why is she still trying to keep the contact between us going if she is losing interest?? That is what I am real confused about - usually I would see a decrease in initiating contact/questions/longer response times/no more compliments, but this has not happened - it just went from me asking her out again to "i'm busy this week" and then her trying to change the convo about my upcoming birthday (which is very unusual from her). ​ It is my birthday next week which she has been…
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:06 AM
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Agreed - but I am a little confused here? I know I fucked up that night, but she was the one to initiate conversation the next morning after the incident - my initial thought was that I was going to wait a few days and then try talk to her again... Then after she gave me the "I'm busy" response - she still tried to talk to me like nothing was wrong/initiating convo/asking questions etc. Is she trying to pull me into "orbiter" status now?
/r/askTRP15/05/19 01:57 AM
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Cannot see how this will end well.. I had a friend who was fucking around with a chick in an LTR (6 years) she dropped her boyfriend for him.. They dated for about 1 year and then she was off monkey branching to someone else from her work. If a girl has been cheating on her LTR for you, what stops her from doing the same to you if you become exclusive? Stay away IMO.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:32 AM
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