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Nothing really I guess. It just boggles my mind that no one seems to have a problem with this kind of thing. You're gone and she's inviting men over, jesus.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 10:22 AM
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No offence, but those two images could be taken on the same day. You've just flexed and adjusted the stance. You may have lost weight too, but you can't see it there.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 11:16 AM
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The big error here is dating this woman. Words cannot describe how much bad news she is.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 11:14 AM
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AWALT - women are like cats, they go to who ever feeds them, it is their nature. All women work by deflection, they always twist the argument and intentionally misquote. Example. This is actually a really good tactic she is using. This is entirely true. For instance if you say something to her "You didn't do xx" she'll immediately reply "No, YOU didn't do xx" despite that making no sense. If she's in a bitchy mood, saying something like "You're starting a fight, i'm not interested" they will res…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 10:17 AM
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Avoid "travel" women like the plague. It usually implies great promiscuity as women who focus on travel rarely have steady boyfriends. At the very least it means she is expensive and going to drain you of your money with her travel ambitions and if she's young enough she's likely to up and leave for another country altogether. Regardless there is no positives dating someone who loves to travel (unless you too love it).
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 11:31 AM
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You'd think women would rush to take advantage of this. But I do think when they're hot at a young age they just assume there is something inherently special about them that will never go away.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 11:16 PM
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I think plenty of men repair it, but when they transcend do they really self actualize that part about themselves? I'm not so sure, I never did. Because once you've seen both sides its very hard to 'unsee' how the relatively unattractive man is treated. Thats quite fine, I think it gives you perspective.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 11:15 PM
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8-10s usually get the man they want, no reason to slut it up. Agreed. Its funny, most mega attractive women are actually quite wholesome. They don't feel the need to dress overly sexual or carry on in that way, they often have very minimal social media presence. The attention finds them, they don't need to encourage it. The 7 with bolt on tits will make sure she has 100 images of herself a day.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 11:13 PM
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Most women have less attractive orbiters. Even a 7 is likely to have a few 4s that hang around to take images with them. I didn't really get it at first, because no one focuses on the 4s, they just look at the 7, but then you see imagines with just three 4s and you actually do get it. When gangs of only ugly women hang around one another it really does stand out.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 11:11 PM
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Women really play up this 'conventionally' hot thing. I once had a fat chick I know refer to one of her friends as "The sort of woman I'd find attractive" who was slim and good looking. You mean the sort of woman practically every man finds attractive?
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 11:10 PM
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Living together and relationships are more or less tilted to what is better for women. Living together makes it easier to control their man.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 04:04 AM
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The problem is civil law marriage is equally hostile in most societies. Sure, its not as sharp of a knife as full on Marriage, but it can inflict significant pain.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 07:34 AM
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Probably not the same scale. A 6 is a girl who is probably slim and has a decent body, but not a standout face.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 12:20 AM
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Doesn't exist really. I do think there is a class of women who are nice, honest, trustworthy but I think its below HB6. One of my friends is dating long term someone who I think personality wise is the epitome of what women should be, but I'd struggle to call her a HB5. 6's still get way too much social media attention.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 07:38 AM
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Yes and no. I don't think most men here live it to the extent they want us to believe but I think most men have lived it to some reason. If you go to college, are good looking and have some semblance of social skills you can get laid. I struggled with women most of my life and I got laid in college, I wouldn't say 'constantly' but for a few years I never had any trouble finding women. Although little did I know it was in fact a bubble that pops when you leave college, even with a good job in the…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 07:35 AM
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But first of all, a lot of these hot women have all sorts of problems so even if you quite enjoy sex, dealing with them is like dealing with a tumor. This a thousand times. And you're welcoming it into your life. When you have sex with them you're opening yourself up to being 'linked' with them not just as a sexual partner but also as a person. They sometimes appear fairly normal on first glance but they can be really fucked up inside. Despite what society tells you I do think women who hang out…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 07:28 AM
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Once you start ignoring the words they use and start understanding how they're feeling, you can maintain control in whatever nonsense "argument" they waste your time with. Yeah that seems about right actually. Constant talk about how the discussion was framed incorrectly due to her current emotional state, basically admitting to her feeling she has the right to be rude as hell whenever she's in a bad mood.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 01:40 PM
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I was hoping for some form of civil end to our clash so we can continue to work together in some fashion. But it seems since she is completely unwilling i'll just have to move ahead with zero respect for her and as above, treat her like a child.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 01:39 PM
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Anti feminism is becoming an increasing norm for self respecting men. Only the most beta are ok with feminism.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 02:46 PM
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Ideal male image is forged on endless hard work plus genetics, women just have to stay thin.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 02:44 PM
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It's crazy how early people age if they get a lot of sun. It really can be difficult to tell 25 and 40 apart
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 02:35 PM
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I think it's a major reason behind scarcity these days. Look at family pictures from your grandparents, I bet everyone is attractive, even the "lesser attractive" people back then are still fairly thin and good looking. I swear the average women from the 50s are a 7+ by today's standards. No wonder there was a good looking woman for every man, they were all thin and fit.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 02:33 PM
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There is so much bullshit on here anyway, the truly successful men are the ones likely not bragging about how awesome their life is and just giving good advice to other men. A lot of the members who truly rabbit on about how great they are are not even vaguely believable.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 01:59 PM
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Men should always use protection. The risks just aren't worth it.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:29 PM
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She blocked him because she told either told her friend or the other guy about him, and under the impression that hes a friend. Ah yes, that classic excuse. Women always have these 'weird' guys texting them 'inappropriate' things they'd rather not face.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 12:06 AM
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You did yourself a favor, who'd want to date someone that shared every aspect of your dating online?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 09:45 PM
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Sometimes even though you know the right thing to do it's very easy to do the wrong thing. Don't sweat it, you got laid, you got Some knowledge, it didn't ultimately cost you anything, move on with your life. I still find her blocking you on Facebook weird, as that's a pretty major move and there was nothing to really cause a split.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 09:42 PM
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The vast majority of people on here (I'm talking 99.9%) aren't Alphas. They're just guys reading a website trying to improve themselves. If even a bit of TRP seeps into their conscious and they dump the girl they'd other wise date, if they ignore her instead of asking her to take them back, if they hit the gym and stand up tall with some self confidence then it's working. Alphas typically lead and help those around them, they're the pack leader. I think this comment shows which side of the camp …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 09:39 PM
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Oh yeah, most religious people are down handing out soup at the soup kitchen because they're actually all really good people! Not wasting their time at a church in a collective circlejerk about how great their beliefs are.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 09:30 PM
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He's funny, but he's no better than the feminists in that he goes on beating a dead horse against religious people, fighting a war against straw men that's already been won for decades. While they are still out there and control significant power its not won. I don't understand with having to show religion respect, its literally snake oil and its out there to take your power and money.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 07:24 AM
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You know, this probably marks the peak of BB. Women have just gotten so entitled and out of control ... men are wising up, TRP concepts are spreading. The problem is with more women than men getting tertiary education its getting harder and harder for them to find men who are a few pay grades above them. If women earn more than men very very very few women will be able to date up.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 07:22 AM
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Don't put yourself in that position, if you're only casually dating it's not worth it, if she fucks around who cares it won't last anyway. If you're in a long term relationship you'll get your chances. Installing a key logger will make you look like a stalker
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 01:03 PM
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You don't need to argue, you tell them and make them feel the consequences if they don't agree. Most women will push the boundaries as far as she can. Once you show her you're willing to walk she will know not to push them further
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 09:38 AM
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I consider a high n-count on par with: history of cheating, alpha widowed, unrealized fantasies, unusual sexual behavior (e.g. threesomes, public sex), desire to continue riding the CC, and behavior altering habits (e.g. drug/alcohol problems). High n-count is simply used because it indicates many of these red flags may be present, even if you are unaware of them. A high number count is usually just a flashing message of a shitty personality. When you need to dump your partner regularly its an a…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:14 AM
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Women mostly just keep you around for attention and the possibility of resources, there is no real friendship.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:48 PM
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The craziest thing to me in that whole video is the feminist trying to get her head around the discrimination faced by men and just not believing it exists. I genuinely think she doesn't believe men can be discriminated against.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:32 AM
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I actually wish they wouldn't try and overlap mens rights and the red pill, the red pill while having that overlap is more a mens strategy how to best live in the world kind of place. Its not necessarily a mens rights exclusive discussion.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:28 AM
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Having an outsider advocate for an issue will always carry more weight than an insider. When you advocate for issues that hurt you, its effectively just self survival you're advocating, when you advocate something that doesn't benefit you, thats speaking loudly of the issue.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:27 AM
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Thats fine. I expected nothing else. However I have never really experienced first hand this level of emotional response to a negative situation. More just a personal experience thing than any sort of knowledge we didn't know.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 04:19 AM
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The expecting in return is the key bit. If you're nice, you get enjoyment out of helping others and you don't want anything and can continue to act in a nonchalant way then great. But the second you start to feel bitter about their lack of return on investment (because lets be realistic, there is no such thing in social relationships, you can be the best friend with someone for 3 years and they might still drop you when it suits them) then people will start to resent you. Being a nice guy is fin…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 03:17 AM
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The best way I've learnt to form relationships is with a simple rule, if people don't want me, I place no obligation to have me. If you don't want to associate with me anymore thats perfectly fine, if you're busy thats perfectly fine i'll just stop trying in that particular space, if we don't get a long anymore or whatever thats perfectly fine. Thats not to say I let people walk on me, but if they are busy, don't want to hang, don't want to put much effort in, I'll just do the same to them. I'm …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 03:11 AM
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Typical guy looking for permission to continue to date her. He's putting himself in danger of horrid STDs too. I don't buy that she's doing nothing wrong here, she's being deceitful and using the catch of 'non monogamy' to try and get around it. quote from thread Listen, she's doing it for the money. She doesn't like these guys, she's not interested in them romantically, she probably isn't even attracted to them, they are walking wallets to her. Again not understanding the difference, this is li…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 06:14 AM
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A 20 year old waitress has no appreciation for the difficulty of being a dentist. To them it's just another thing. Thats surprisingly profound and very true. I of course knew that based on interactions with people who have never tried to chase any sort of profession, but I don't think I've seen it stated so accurately and plainly before.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 07:41 AM
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Its really not that much of a big deal either, plenty of 'models' who have done maybe some photoshoots for a D grade magazine or modelled some cloths aren't anything special.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 05:28 AM
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However, the farming of people’s good nature requires a constant supply of new people. Like the hunter gatherer cultures, once they have taken the good will from an individual, the person no longer has this resource to be taken again. this is so very true. Its not just applicable to supermodels, but to all women. They will only hang around someone to the extent they get optimal resources from them. Once people start to see through them they cut them out.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 05:27 AM
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an education can sometimes lead women not to greater deepening of self-awareness, but to greater heights of self-delusion. Its both. Educated women think they have a right to a high grade man, without realizing their education in no way increases their sex appeal. They take a more authoritarian attitude because they're now empowered and in charge and they better understand the female's advantages and how to manipulate men with them. Lets be honest, most women around 20 who aren't educated don't …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 01:31 AM
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Yeah I re-read this thread and decided to remove it, I do agree its a bit off course for TRP. I didn't really express what I wanted to say particularly well. Romance isn't the word.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 03:45 AM
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They basically want you as an accessory, you're the boyfriend accessory that never gets appreciated and as long as you stick around thats all they really care about. Those high powered women treat their boyfriends in a very sociopathic way.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 04:05 AM
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The feminine imperative is strong with her talk, and while she doesn't frame the discussion around women who cheat, it's clear that's what this is constructed around. It's just a whole lot of rationalization hamster to justify and excuse cheating. All those are terms men wouldn't use. We don't care about 'feeling alive'... whatever that means or any other D grade rationalizations. Men typically cheat because their partners stops sleeping with them. Its fairly simple. If you entered a negotiation…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 02:51 AM
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They think that their 100k paycheck entitles them to a 500k husband. The unfortunate reality is if the husband earns 500k he doesn't care what his partner earns. He's just going to pick the hottest girlfriend available, be it she earns 200k, 100k, or 0.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 01:58 AM
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Most women still don't grasp that men don't find their job attractive. In fact, its quite the opposite, men will often find the type of high powered female position a turn off, as being a male with less earning capacity than your girlfriend/wife is seen as shameful in this society.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 01:57 AM
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Between 7 and 11 guys for an attractive girl (8.5 / 10) at age 26 is about as low as you are going to find. You don't know she's slept with 7-10. You're 'estimating'. That you claim she didn't remember you is bizarre. Even if it may slip your mind momentarily, when meeting the person you would remember. Either she's dishonest and playing some type of power game, or she's slept with hundreds of men to the point she genuinely can't remember. Either way, why are you dating this woman?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 07:01 AM
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While many no doubt find it frustrating, I take issue more with them saying the statements rather than not following up on them. People change and quite often in the opening stages of relationships people hide who they really are. The key point I took from OP is that women don't say those things because they mean them, they say them to secure commitment from you and by doing so feel less attraction to you instantly. Once they have your resources locked down their relationship effort starts to wa…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 01:53 AM
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No doubt. I've slept with twice that many women and I remember all of them, the situations, were and why (although I must admit, I have forgotten the name of a couple, but I can remember who they are very clearly).
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 01:21 AM
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At her age, sleeping with 6-10 other guys would already make her a slut. You may loosen your scale a bit to make things more "acceptable", but realize that she's promiscuous. She only has slightly more restraint than other "free spirits". That and he has no idea what her numbers are based on what he just said. He was just 'estimating'. I don't know about women, but as a guy who has slept with around 20 women I can tell you I remember everyone of them. There is no way she would forget multiple se…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 01:20 AM
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Its not like she has a shit memory - she is a doctor trained from a top university. She isn't a total whore either (she only had slept with one man up until age 24, she doesn't go out drinking, all her friends are christians, etc). And I've seen enough power plays to know was not a power-play. This sounds tough to believe.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 01:18 AM
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Spot on. I've had women say this only for our relationship to be on the rocks weeks later. Take statements like that as basically meaning that she's into you in this particular moment and that's it.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 12:02 PM
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Yes and no. When you're in a relationship you tend to do relationship things, not because you don't want to, but because women don't tend to like being taken to the gym. Hell, even the act of seeing them often involves driving and eating out. I'm not saying you should buy expensive holidays you don't want, but people tend to do things together
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 03:03 PM
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It still costs you a lot, because say you split some things 50;50 (and you shout them on others) you are still doing a lot of things you wouldn't otherwise do. Holidays aren't cheap, when most men are content to stay at home
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 02:28 PM
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And the biggest cost on earth. Women. People often doubt how much girlfriends cost, especially in the post modern world were women do actually pay for half of the stuff a lot of the time. But it seems living the lifestyle you need to maintain a girlfriend is very expensive indeed. I was shocked how much spare cash I had when first leaving a 3 year relationship.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 12:42 PM
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I understand its validation. But it does seem somewhat counter intuitive for women who already get a lot of validation to reduce their appeal to any potential high quality male just based on validation from some neck beards.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 07:43 AM
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He looks more or less the same in both images to me. Maybe some clear pectoral growth but that could just be posture and lighting.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 03:12 AM
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Thats why women are never ok with something unless someone else has experienced it. When they are faced with a situation which they don't know a single other person that has been through it they become very uncomfortable with the situation. I've always found this a fairly strange phenomenon.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 03:10 AM
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The 'male wall' is around 70. Its very hard for men to look extremely masculine after that. But considering the average male life expectancy is in the high 70s thats not a bad run.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 04:42 AM
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Women will never stop complaining, the past privilege they experienced is now gone, like any benefit anyone provides them once they've lived it it doesn't exist anymore, so they get to work on leveraging any possible future privilege. The most ridiculous thing is 30 year old women wanting to be cast as 20 year olds. They're not only lying to themselves, but everyone else too.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 04:40 AM
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Fucking painful to remember, not just for the ideals lost, now, mostly for how damn stupid I was. Experience creates sensible behavior. Part of the 'pill' is that you should be open and trusting. Neither gender should be trusted openly.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 11:32 AM
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Exactly. Although its a bit of a catch 22 unfortunately, she'll want you back, but you can never take her back.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 09:45 AM
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I don't really know who is best to LTR. Obviously the high partner count women are the worst. But the previously ugly ducklings, the women who market themselves based on 'innocence' trying to snag a high pay man and the 'deeply committed relationship women' all have their own pitfalls.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 03:22 AM
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I feel like you are correctly pointing out some major differences, just not the conclusion. Women communicate differently than men. They don't communicate in the exact way we do, and thus when they are put up against communicating in situations where we excel, they sometimes (many times?) fail. Women tend to communicate more on subtext, while men are direct and want resolution. Women consider men 'dumb' for not understanding their methods of communication, but usually the men just don't care. Th…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 03:11 AM
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I don't find women are particularly good at coming to conclusions from conversations. If they have an issue and you work through it with them if they don't 'feel' the issue has been resolved to them it hasn't, even if in actuality the issue has been resolved. The feeling of an outcome is what they prioritize over an actual outcome. This is a very early trait you have to learn with women. Sometimes a conversation in which you set out a key plan to actually solve the issue they come to you for won…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 03:07 AM
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Exactly. Men think they're having 'great conversations' with attractive women, but the conversations are actually boring as bat shit. Its just that any form of positive conversation is viewed as good for these men, as women are often so difficult to talk too the conversation just drags along. When you look at these 'great conversations' objectively, they would be deemed a poor conversation with a man. Having said that, you rarely get those types of conversations in male-male situations. Women ta…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 03:05 AM
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Ugly ducklings who had to develop a personality and sense of humor before coming out as a swan. Yes and no. These women often have personalities, but they are far more experienced at manipulation and game tactics.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 03:01 AM
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Once kids are involved it gets far more difficult than in a casual relationship. Good on you for making the step though, it sounds like she was a terrible mother anyway.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 12:18 AM
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Now she's trying to put her mind at rest.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 01:14 AM
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It's funny, for all the good in the relationship, she was one of the worst women I ever dated. At the core of it, all women are just selfish and trying to get what they want. (the same as all people really) A lot of the good relationship/bad relationship, good women/bad women is just a matter of perspective. Strangely enough, I find the promiscuous women to be generally better people than the 'long term relationship material' women. Its like they don't take themselves as seriously. Not saying yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 01:12 AM
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Dude, that's actually a GREAT QUESTION. Why WERE you with her? I find most of us would have stories like this from the BP days. Women are very good at knowing what they can get away with without ever being pushed over 'you're dumped' threshold. They leave some doubt what their intentions was or spin a situation they 'don't want the attention'. The whole 'don't go through my stuff' is so ridiculous. While I would agree doing it regularly is a very bad idea and will lead to extreme distrust, if yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 01:09 AM
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1) A history of successful long term relationships. A prior relationship that was a shit storm is not a past successful relationships. You want happy, medium-long term past relationships that are seen as genuinely successful. Avoid someone with a history of flings, short lived and train-wreck relationships. People idiolize virgins, but often a few past partners is far better. I don't get the virgin hype, but then again most virgins in the age of women i date (20-25) are just weirdos. 2) Strong m…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 09:23 AM
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Its a bigger insult to a woman than it is a man because men care relatively far less about social standing and the opinion of their peers. If you look at male interests they're most likely thing thats are enjoyed alone while women's core life revolves around their interacting with others, gossiping, going to 'events' (usually sitting around and gossiping) posting pictures on social media and getting positive feedback etc etc. If you take that away from them, they have nothing. While some men do …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:53 AM
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Its not really surprising when you think about it from an evolutionary perspective, men are hunters, women mind to the tribe. Hunters obviously need a physical strength and speed advantage, but they also need more cunning, better reflexes, better capacity to endure mental torment, better endurance both mental and physical etc etc. Men have been training at this tasks for all our time existing as humans and tens of millions of years prior to that in any species with clearly defined gender roles. …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 01:08 AM
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You have to look at what men really fear when they fear cheating so badly. What they are basically doing is projecting "I can't live without this relationship", so they fear having to end it for whatever reason as life shattering. While no men wants to be cheated on, the more experience and women you get the less you care. I had suspicions a girl I was dating a few months back cheated on me, I could have found out but after you dump them whats the difference. You move on and you quickly realize …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:58 AM
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Beta men, especially undercover betas, will fuck you just as much as a woman will. Anything they can use against you they will. Beta men are more harmful than any women you let in your life imo. They take take take and the second they get a chance to stab you in the back for the slightest shot at pussy they will do it. The second they get pussy long term they'll dump you and you won't exist.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:56 AM
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I've seen this shit go down, and it's definitely an eye opening realization of how easily and quickly women will cheat, and easy it is for them to just rationalize it away. Men do too. I don't think humans really feel that bad about cheating. We feel bad about getting caught.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:55 AM
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My view has always been trust short term, distrust long term. What do I mean? Short term there are far more potential benefits by accepting the knowledge she can cheat and being content with the fact you'll find out. Being untrusting and constantly alert of her will hasten the process and take any satisfaction from the relationship. But long term, someone you're going to be with for multiple years you need to do quite a solid long term screening to see if she actually is cheating. This is just f…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:53 AM
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Men learned a long time ago that acting based on emotions did not lead to good decisions.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 12:59 AM
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This is why they tend to be poor at making decisions. They try and find happyness emotion and escape stress emotion. Women will avoid making decisions with potential benefit to avoid the potential short term harm of unhappyness, or they'll wreck long term stability for short term happyness. I'm not saying they're alone in this, but it becomes increasingly apparent when speaking to women how much they emphasize how they 'feel' about any particular situation.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 12:57 AM
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I do think they feel emotions very strongly. You look at women when they're getting something they want and there is clear utter joy to them, joy that I'm not so sure I feel when I'm getting things my way. But like all 'emotional highs' the strongest highs are often followed by the lowest lows. This is true of both genders and why its better to be 'content' than 'happy' quite often as spikes and pitfalls of emotions aren't enjoyable. Women seek out these spikes far more often imo, when they're n…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 12:54 AM
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Its a balancing act. Its ok in short doses, but you can't do it constantly.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 01:59 AM
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Thats true. It may not happen on the first compliment, but the more interest you show the less attractive they will view you.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 06:36 AM
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While it is obviously a ridiculous double standard, it does seem bred into humans to react to any violence against women with extreme anger. I have noticed it in myself, not from afar but when you see it in person you get this rush of adrenalin that wants to do something. Its impossible to logic out thousands of generations of evolutionary reactions and I think we can continue to get used to any sort of attacks against 'women are wonderful' either verbal of physical to be met with this type of r…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 01:59 AM
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It is, because as long as its coming from a place of security and not one of desperation/needyness I've never had any issue giving people compliments. But it does seem to be a huge turn off for nearly every relationship.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 01:37 AM
37

I do agree with this. The problem isn't necessarily to do with sleeping around (although it doesn't help) the problem has always been the comparison to an idolized version of a past relationship. Unless that relationship ended due to utter boredom of the guy she will likely view it as a what-if and you will be compared to its highs not its lows. From experience, the best way to judge her potential suitability for a LTR is her friends. Does she have friends who are settled in relationship, or are…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 04:54 AM
4

Women don't really care. They get male attention so they logic themselves into thinking that's enough
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 12:38 PM
4

I agree people over rate women a lot. Realistically most women they consider above average pretty like you said is a 6, the standout women a 7 or an 8 at absolute most.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 12:36 PM
3

While I can understand the frustration at their backwards ass logic, I do kind of get were they are coming from. What it boils down to is them saying they don't get any enjoyment from sex with average to unattractive men, so when men say that its easy for them to have enjoyable, casual sex, we're incorrect because they only get enjoyment from the top percent of men. Which makes a lot of sense, since men can father practically endless children we have evolved to not be particularly picky, but sin…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 07:17 AM
1

There is no destination, it's just a continuing journey until we die
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 02:37 PM
8

I enjoyed it. He's basically saying that no one cares until you actually make it, which is true. Society will listen to people they respect generally over someone who is right.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 02:37 PM
30

There are plenty of accidental alphas. They're just moderately high value men with options. Most of them have plenty of beta traits too, but all that really separates them at the end of the day is SMV.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 01:51 PM
52

I can now speak from experience. If your only choice is between porn or a single mom?? Go with the porn I dated a single mom. You know how most women have that period of 6 months before they reveal their true expectations so by that point you're already invested? For single mothers thats basically 2 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 11:22 PM
16

Studies after studies proves this. Got any source for these studies? I know this is TRP so saying things like this are just accepted, but I prefer actual studies when making claims like this.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 11:21 PM
1

Pre selection infers interest in you in a sexual fashion. What images with women usually infer is 'friend' selection.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:16 AM
7

There are so many things that only work in person. I'm not a naturally top 20% attractive guy, so I need that other stuff to get a girl interested. But a lot of that other stuff is really effective. Voice, body language, then of course kino. I'd be, rather, I was, lost without all that. Its not just looks, its mystery too. The best way to get women is for them to be interested in you, not you be interested in them. By being forced to open with some bland generic line you've given that up. Once t…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:15 AM
4

Having said all that, Tinder isn't an ideal way to meet women - it's lazy and passive - you're at their mercy and you aren't able to use anything but your looks to attract attention - that's a female dating strategy. You're better off hitting bars and clubs - at least you know what you're getting and she can't hide behind camera angles, old pictures or photoshop. Its vastly overrated. I know a few genuinely attractive guys who have no trouble hooking up and even they say their results on tinder …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:12 AM
9

Being a slut, man or woman, brings you into some unspoken slut society where everyone knows you and loves you and a few hate you. I Being homeless also does the same thing, but there is a difference between a culture you want to be part of and one you don't. I've dipped my toes in the water of that group of people through some women I've unfortunately dated over the years. I know what you're saying, often the people in those societies are miserable and often have a variety of substances abuses. …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:04 AM
1

Very true, I didn't consider that factor.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:50 AM
8

The only icing for men is, getting laid doesn't mean the same for women as it does for men. If you look at it as the same thing only they have it easier its easy to feel jealous, but getting laid for women is both shamed and doesn't add value. A lot of getting laid for men is that we feel socially powerful from it, but the inverse is true for women.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:48 AM
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I wouldn't really say 'leeches' as I do think they provide benefits for their men (well, they used to anyway in our parents and grandparents generation) but I do think the hardest thing to internalize is that women will judge you by their standards when they have capacity to be complete failures in life and just date a high quality man based on their looks. Even if women choose not to do that, they always know they have that fallback option. As men there is no fallback for us.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:45 AM
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Women want a man that improves their life, that enhances their social standing, that drastically increases their spending capacity and makes their life more interesting. Men struggle with that concept. As a man you are basically limited to your own achievements in life, whatever you do will be the most you are. Women have it very differently, they can attach themselves like a symbiotic relationship and increase all their achievements to the level of their man. Think how often you hear of them ta…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:23 AM
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The reality is women really do have it on easy mode. I'm still not sure I quite understand how even undesirable women manage to lock down men considering there are equal amount of each gender, but every women I know who bloated up drastically in their 20s still managed to marry a man clearly above their SMV. The only conclusion I take from it is simple, don't define yourself by the women you date and do not sacrifice your life for women. Men will never have it as easy as even your average women …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:20 AM
1

The situation is rarely better for the new guy. A lot of men lose sight of this.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:27 AM
1

Women feel can like their experiences in a relationship are so unique and individual. Seemingly nearly ever women you speak to feels their situation is 'unique' and 'special'. Hell, most even then project these feelings onto external relationships, including people they know. How often do you hear that their friends have 'such special relationships' when a quick glance shows the relationship to be very run of the mill.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:24 AM
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Its absolutely a key risk of dating, not just rejected in the first part of dating, but rejected in the later part too. I usually just try and do the slow withdraw for this reason, they think they're dumping you and it works out well for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 01:31 PM
12

Either way, what you did was reminding her of her being seriously at risk of staying alone. Very true. She's actually very good looking for her age, I was actually a little put off she was openly hitting on me. But women that age are just a baby trap, they get pregnant you can be certain they are keeping the baby.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 01:30 PM
3

I agree completely. I don't think I clarified well in the post, but we don't work 'together' she works at a company I have to deal with through my work, but her job is vital to mine so avoiding will be hard. TRP has taught me a lot about holding frame, I knew not to give in prior, but it makes a huge difference to mirror it with your body, put on a confident pose and show no emotional reaction, just give them a blank stare and seem indifferent. it really does work wonders. Most men by default ov…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 01:29 PM
10

I'm starting to realize that to men (at least medium quality men anyway) women in their 30s act kind of like how women in their 20s see men of that age. Despite, obvious etc. Hopefully the situation will cool down, but I'm not going to 'fix it'.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 04:29 AM
7

Lets not label every speaking up for male rights as advertising. If he has an anterior motive, maybe, but plenty of feminist 'writers, bloggers, analyst' do what they do to generate revenue.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 09:04 AM
1

For most women, Feminism has done its job. They have equal (or superior) rights in most areas only now if you're a feminism you are actually limiting your opportunities in life. That was never the plan.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 11:35 AM
7

They hate that fact too. Watch them rage if a 50 year old man dates a 40 year old woman. Any age difference is the devil.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 01:39 PM
9

Whenever anyone ever tells me my actions are out of insecurity I know they have an agenda. People use that word typically as a cover up to marginalize your usually rational suspicion. I mean, how many times are the 'insecure' guys right anyway? "He's insecure I'm cheating on him" turns out she was cheating on him...
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 04:59 AM
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I don't call that being insecure, I call that being realistic. You are realistic about her pass. If she's had 50 men even if you're above average in looks, sexual performance etc she will have by the numbers been with 10 or more men who are more attractive and better in bed. Thats undeniable. Women like to talk like women with experience are more open to 'being with the one' and 'sexual adventureness' but from personal experience having dated a few of these high partner count women in my life th…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 11:20 PM
1

I think this is a common thing. First you feel guilt for all the time you wasted and want to make up for it, and you become almost obsessed with self improvement and work. This is more or less what it comes to. Now when I skip a day in the gym I feel incredible guilt over it, that comes from a decade of routine and it creates motivation that you know you're going to get your ass into the gym the next day. The more 'ok' you get with doing nothing, the more you will let yourself slip.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 09:53 AM
1

TRP encourages men to improve their life to increasing their enjoyment. There seems to be great conflict about what 'improved' actually is. If you can manage a good job, being fit but also having fun and enjoying yourself that is perfectly ok.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 09:51 AM
3

The only moment in life that we have is now. The past and future are just memories and ideas. Complaining about things is what makes people really lose respect for you. My experience is the general average chump (or chumpette) really wants you to moan about how much you hate your life, as it makes them feel more justified. Yet, whatever your position in life is, if you're calm and ok with it they find that very uncomfortable.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 09:50 AM
11

In college she was more attractive, got more attention and had tons of betas to do all the actual work and a few alphas to plow the shit out of her. Its true. Women in college recruit men to do the work for them. I had a few women I noticed doing this well before I had any idea of TRP content, it struck me as kind of odd they felt the need to lead men on to try and get them to do the work. I did the work because I wanted good grades, not because I thought it would result in sex.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 09:48 AM
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I'm a man, I have a successful job but I also miss college. There is just something about doing nothing all day, fun parties, great social scene, hot women, good supply of sex, no obligations etc. The difference I have noticed is that men move on, know its over and focus on building a life, while women seek to repeat that 'state' following college. They mostly do this by traveling. So they finish college and within 5 years of working you can be sure a decent number will be 'working abroad' or 'g…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 09:46 AM
8

Yep, it's lower quality women with high partner counts. High quality women snag boyfriend after boyfriend.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 04:35 PM
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I do wonder what the real reason we hate high partner women is. I know we like to make it sound logical, like it demonstrates a lack of fitness, but I think it's deeper than that. Most men just find it emotionally revolting. Even if she was the most loyal woman in the world I'm not so sure it would change your feelings towards the situation.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 04:29 PM
1

What purpose would him staying at your place achieve? He's better to stay at home.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 09:06 AM
4

There is nothing that will drive chicks away more than putting all this effort into caring what they want. Show a lack of interest, go about your life. If you live a good life women will come.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 07:51 AM
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Of course they do. It's our damn fault. Stop worshipping pussy. Its a real shame that men don't understand this. If you stopped giving them attention all the time they would stop lapping it up. I do my bit by giving women no attention they do not earn, but when there are 10 other thirsty guys around the corner they could care less? I'm unsure if this lack of attention I give a vast majority of women makes me seem confident or passive and insecure. I sure as hell know when they go attention grabb…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 03:30 PM
1

Many women are happy their husbands are in prison - getting their just desserts - there is no greater revenge is there? Although this is a stretch, women do love to see their exs suffer and I have no understanding why. I've never cared about ex girlfriends but like any human I don't take pleasure out of their failure. I take more pleasure out of them getting a guy and leaving me alone (there is nothing worse than exs tampering in your life). Women don't seem to think this way, its like they want…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 06:56 AM
2

Great post. One of the best I've seen on here really.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 05:01 AM
6

It does, but not that we want to try and reduce attraction as a method of judging suitability. I have no problem with women that aren't attracted to short men, that is their decision. But on the flip side they can't moan when men aren't attracted to anything they aren't attracted to.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 12:03 PM
5

Not just chicken. If you're that skinny, dirty bulk your shit. Make a big two months of it then measure tdee afterwards, go from there. I wouldn't necessarily recommend a dirty bulk, but rather a slow consistent gain of around 5-10lbs a month. No one wants to gain fat, even thin people.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 09:42 AM
2

I was thinking the same thing. Hell, 140lbs at that height is still fairly thin.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 09:41 AM
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I don't understand why anybody bothers with a "breakup." I just fade a girl out. Works best for both of us. Even if she's angry about it, not like she can say anything without sounding like a paranoid asshole. Yeah I've been on both ends of the fade out. Its fine if you're just dating but its fairly brutal thing to do to someone you're actually in a relationship with and usually makes the other party look completely beta and pathetic as they question whats going on. The one effective fade out is…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 09:38 AM
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I hate the comparisons of height to weight anyway. One is something you are born with and can't change, the other is something that is entirely within your control. Women seem to have working to increase attractiveness, you notice a theme of female attractiveness being effectively genetic and environmental factors (Born with good looks and often lucking into a family that teaches them how to eat properly and not be fat) while all male attractiveness is built on work, motivation and effort. Even …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 09:35 AM
6

If you are continually improving yourself I have found your 'level' of living consistently moves away from your past exs who are generally losing desirability with age. I've not had the problem of looking back with regret, not that I care what they do simply because their lives have been fairly predictable. Women still have a huge safety net in society and some beta chump will date them sooner or later.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 06:33 AM
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Women have set themselves up a fairly poor deal. They need a relationship to be happy. Listen to females talk for any short period of time and they will mention how miserable they are single, yet they have collectively destroyed any notion of classical relationships. Most men who withdraw from dating women are perfectly fine. They might miss sex occasionally but often they find themselves more content with life.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 06:32 AM
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Height also makes no difference. Thats just nonsense. Women naturally assign positive personality traits to tall men even before they speak. "Assertive" "Mysterious". Height isn't the only element of attractiveness, but women certainly comment on it.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 05:40 AM
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They're into you and pissed you're not making a move. This is most likely the truth. I was shocked once I put self improvement in how many women were vying for my attention. I know typical men brag of women effectively offering themselves to you but they were. Not old undesirable women either, women my own age with stable relationships. It really does open your eyes to how easy it is when you're doing a good job with employment and fitness.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 05:38 AM
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But don't take it to heart if you don't get pushback towards your improvement. I must admit, while I did of course get pushback from people I weren't that close to ("Don't get too big", "Eat a balanced died (junk food)", "You work too much") generally people were quite supportive and wanted to attach themselves to you.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 05:35 AM
1

Fair point. Its not on the stereotype of promiscuity = likely to cheat. Its just from personal experience and experience of those I know most of their cheating girlfriends have been very lazy at doing any sort of cover up. As in, they don't even clear the messages out of their phone. There is no 'master plan' of using a second phone to hide the cheating or anything like that. You don't really have to be a detective to catch them.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 01:42 AM
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I suspect a lot of the kickback of any sort of checking still comes mostly from female programming. For instance women really push the agenda of 'don't check on me'. 'why don't you just ask me'. They often make out as if snooping is worse than their cheating. "You're an untrusting boyfriend!" while fucking Chad... I don't think there is anything wrong with keeping informed, as long as like you said, you don't start getting paranoid and obsessive with it. Women are typically fairly bad at coverin…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 05:29 PM
-5

At that point just dump her. Being cheated on sucks but you can usually tell if someone is faithful based on their actions. If she's going around at midnight, going missing and seems get constant attention then thats one thing. Her cheating isn't going to kill you unless you've got full on oneitis and are hunting for a wife.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 05:03 AM
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The problem ultimately is that its easy in theory but hard in practice. Most of the issues with it somehow come from men actually starting to invest something in the women they are dating. I think we've all had shorter relationships that didn't mean a lot to us. In that situation suspect behavior is easily overlooked or ignored, because you don't really care. You know its not a long term thing so if she decides to do that stuff its not worth the mental hassle dealing with anyway. But when you're…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 04:58 AM
7

Its a very hard line to walk that whole trust v verify trade off. Even with a TRP mindset I do think there has to be some element of trust that stems from you being a high quality male that she's happy to be with. However on the flip side if her phone is going off constantly it doesn't hurt to take a glance at it. Whenever I hear stories of men getting cheated on its usually blatantly clear whats going on and they're just being ignorant.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 01:29 AM
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While this is very good advice (and by all means, if you're fairly sure go for it) I do think ultimately this kind of stuff ends up poorly 9/10 times. Because she will go somewhere that you've never even considered and it will make you very suspicious. I'm not saying be ignorant or don't do basic checks on your girlfriend to see if she's cheating (the whole 'trust me don't snoop' stuff is the biggest bullshit spill on earth) I think more than likely in this case you'll find something that doesn'…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 01:26 AM
7

Its funny, despite most Indian men being very 'beta' and friendly, I do find a lot of them very focused. They may have submissive traits but they're not really 'loser' beta men like you so often see in the west. I also don't get that feeling of resentment from them. Its like they're confident and happy about their attitude. They have managed to keep Indian culture alive in the US despite the overwhelming surroundings. Having said that, most young Indians are trying to break free. The parents kee…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 03:44 AM
1

most women (at least women my age), average about 5 sexual partners before marriage, not the 10-20 (or more) we preach. I don't know about that. Even fairly 'innocent' girls often have way more than 5 sexual partners.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 12:31 PM
1

I agree completely that its best to not show any care about their opinions, but it doesn't mean its not worth thinking about prior.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 11:50 AM
34

A lot of guys approach life with that attitude, hunting for the loyal HB7. Unfortunately I find HB7's aren't typically any more loyal than any other women, they just have fewer options. Its a very sad shame. I'm not sure if there is any level of women you have to date to find loyalty, sure a HB5 is loyal if you treat her well, but if anything those women just seek attention because they're so starved of it.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 08:21 AM
2

I'll never understand for the life of me why women wait until you both have a new partner only trying to get back into your life. They do it even if they have a new boyfriend. I genuinely don't understand it. Oneitis as a whole is fairly easy to kill once you have an abundance mentality, even if you're not the guy who has 5 options at once, its fairly easy to understand oneitis once you are aware of it and know what it is. I think most of the concepts TRP tries to kill effectively bundle togethe…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 12:49 PM
1

Yeah I agree. I'm big into educating people, but most don't want to her any of this stuff. They want to live in their 'ideal' world. I'd heavily recommend not mentioning anything to do with TRP.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 06:06 AM
3

It really depends who you associate with. When you have a lot of 'female friends' and 'beta guy friends' all they want to talk about is who you like, who you're trying to get with, how your relationship is going, why its failing etc etc. They want to hear how unhappy you are single. But when you cut all that noise out of your life you quickly kind of forget about the ridiculous 'dating scene'.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 05:03 AM
4

It still shocks me how rude and naggy most women are. Whenever I'm out in a public environment that has couples its usually just the men trying to enjoy their day and the women complaining about shit. It used to frustrate me why the men let them speak to them that way, but I've given up trying to understand.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 04:59 AM
3

Meanwhile I am thinking of the benifits of being single (freedom, economy, different women etc) and how they never seem to use that advantage. They are just chasing skanks and getting rejected. I don't think anyone here would claim most men have their shit together or genuinely are single by choice. Some are, but most men are single because they lack capacity to find any women.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 04:57 AM
2

Women as a whole seem rather divided on their own product of late. My mother will still give me the "You need to get married and settle down" spill, but on the other hand she's fairly wary of women who are out to marry and take half of my property. So I don't even know if she understands her own stance on the issue. She's consistently warned against letting someone move in with me and have claim to half my property. Realistically the "You need a woman to be happy" is the female company line. The…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 04:55 AM
10

While, TRP and others like it (I had learnt TRP style material long before TRP existed) certainly woke me up and taught me how pathetic some of my behaviors were, it does make it harder to relate to other people, particularly women on a social level. When people talk about "The one", "the right man/woman", "Unbreakable love", and all that kind of stuff I just kind of switch off. The problem is most people operate like this, even women who don't act on it like to talk about that kind of thing. Mo…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 03:26 AM
3

I do think there is an element of looking after women that is done in an alpha, non white knight way. When you see actual unfairness being dished out in a social situation you are seen highly in (a workplace for instance) and you speak out about it and take action, you aren't being a 'white knight' necessarily, rather you're just using your stance as a high quality male to look after others. You should do this to both genders, as taking the protective stance actually cements your role as being t…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 10:49 AM
4

When you hear the whole 'dad bod' shit I can almost understand the rationalization and what it means to men. To want the hot body and the short term relationship you have to be selfish in a TRP way. Because when you present to most men "You can do this and have commitment free sex, or you can spend all your time, effort and cash and get her to marry you". What it basically turns into is what you give, against what you get. Some guys seem more than happy to give 1000x more than the fit body oppon…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 03:37 AM
1

It's not that they don't care at all, rather their level of care increases with both the closeness and the amount of perceived earning capacity. If you were inheriting a million dollars in two years time, I think they'd be fairly interested. 5 years? Less so. Women regularly place bets on who will be a winner, but like any gambling it depends on who is the best bet and when they're likely to get their return of interest.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 10:28 PM
5

Live a high quality life. Be sociable, clean cut, fit, motivated etc. But the key thing in my view is try and focus on that when you're meeting new people. If you read here you have a fairly good idea of the attributes people respond positively to, so make sure you turn them on (confident stance, deep voice, solid handshake, personable attitude) etc.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 03:14 PM
1

You sound like you're deeply falling into oneitis. Her 'music tastes' and 'lifting game' means shit all for her being a good girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 01:54 AM
7

LTRs are a huge gift YOU give to a woman. Exactly. The only way to have successful relationships is if she thinks she's getting a good deal by forming a relationship. That only ever works if she's the one that has to fight for it and initiate the relationship. Men should have a sex focused goal with no expectations of anymore unless she starts actively pushing for it. You often find if you carry this mindset, she will want the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 01:51 AM
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Of course. That is just a follow on. When you realize how dependent they are, you kind of understand why they are always dating. Be it modern women or just women fullstop, there is practically no such thing as a women who is 'just happy being single'. Even if they currently aren't sleeping with someone they are no doubt using their single status to leverage emotional support.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 04:24 PM
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A bachelor is a not an unhappy guy, a bachelorette is. Women are never really single. They always have 'that thing' with so and so and 'casually seeing' another guy on the side. The only women who are truly single are very ugly women and even they manage to date low value men. It was a common desire of mine when I was younger, to find a women who is happy being alone and waits periods of time between dating to find the right guy. But I've now realized this doesn't exist. Every decent looking wom…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 03:35 PM
6

A woman has very little to offer to a man. A lot of it is that sort of unconscious spell they still hold over men. I'm very well educated in the little benefit of relationships and actively practice it. Every relationship I have is purposely at arms length. But I still undeniably feel that rush of adrenalin when an attractive women flirts with you, you can almost feel your conscious defenses shutting down and that little voice inside going "It might work out, it'll be ok, look she seems interest…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 03:32 PM
2

And like the workhorse/mule the people who use them are unable to carry the load alone. Men have the option to walk out of this agreement. Yet they don't.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 03:25 PM
11

Its not at all surprising most women see relationships as a very positive thing, they derive basically nothing but benefits from them. When they are single their life is undoubtedly harder. When in a relationship most men just give and give. What do these women give in return? Usually nothing more than the men's infatuation with the idea of romance with her.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 03:22 PM
2

In practical experience I have found women to be quite sympathetic right up until the point that it disadvantages them to do so. What do I mean? Well if there is a man suffering hardship, I do find that they will try and 'help' that man within the realm of their control, but they won't go out of their way or put themselves out in any way. So for instance if a guy is suffering bullying say, they will sympathize to the point that they will know how shitty it is and convey this to the guy, but they…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 09:31 AM
1

that there's no such thing as a cute innocent girl (they're all promiscuous) I think deep down most people knew that was a lie anyway. Even the girls that portrayed themselves as innocent were always involved with several men. You were searching for a mirage.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 01:39 AM
1

Agreed. Maybe he's trying to do cringe comedy? I know a lot of comedy generates that reaction.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 12:40 AM
1

Yeah he's hard to respect because he plays the atypical beta boy who can't get a girl if their life depends on it. The thing I can stand is he reminds me of most guys at age 19 who have no idea how to interact with women and think piling them with attention will win their hand,
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 02:15 PM
4

I don't think his stature and 'attitude' help. If he was tall and bit he would come across as more powerful, but because he's so small and he always has to have these goofy faces it makes him even look more pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 04:30 PM
3

Good point. I've always thought if you made it you should date a regular down to earth girl, not a celebrity. But atleast if you date another celebrity that is wealthy independently then you know they're not in it for the money.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 04:04 PM
83

Aziz Ansari Aziz is so incredibly cringy. Most comedians have an element of TRP about them, but Aziz comes across like a guy who has never been laid. Considering how famous and wealthy he is he should be slaying, not getting put into the friend zone.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 12:38 PM
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I find it funny women say this as most of them border on what they would consider cheating as just part of their normal operating procedure. For instance they may not be sleeping with guys, but they're certainly draining them for emotional attention and carrying on emotional relationships with these men. I have very little doubt 99% of women would cheat given the correct operating circumstances. Having said that, as a guy I actually don't recommend cheating and being deceptive about it. Men live…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:17 PM
3

The orbiters are all glad you're gone, they're hoping for their chance too. The only guy friends a girl should have is gay friends. If they're straight they should be acquaintances at most.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 03:50 PM
2

Expanding on that title, avoiding onetis is also about having multiple options. Always pursue women in twos (or more). Having multiple options keeps both honest and allows you to avoid any form of pedistiling.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 10:37 AM
3

Attention plate spinning is not just social acceptable, its encouraged. I'm sure many of you have been involved in situations we're you're the 'guy friend'. All the family loves you! The dad speaks of what a great young lad you are, but you're not getting laid. The only time the family actually starts to be negative towards you is when you change from her spinning you as an attention plate to actually getting laid, all of a sudden then you become the bad guy in the eyes of her parents because no…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:47 AM
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