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Honesty is a masculine property, and besides that, lack of righteousness in a man is a sign of weakness. Yes sexual strategy is amoral, however, you will never be truly respected by society or your peers as a male if you act without virtue.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:15 PM
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One year LTR, 33/24 years old. We fuck between 10-15 times per week. Half that on period weeks. Can’t remember the last night I fell asleep or took a nap without some type of sexual intimacy. I made it my culture this time around.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 12:59 AM
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It depends on your level of respect for her and your intuition in her response, at least for me it does. If it were a hotel I’d just invite her to the hotel bar and that solves the problem. If no, in your mind next her and find another date for the rest of the night. She might still come back around. If it were my home? Unless she has strength of reputation, she is usually asking for more, not me. I don’t risk the question without knowing the answer. Usually I date down and play a stronger hand …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 07:31 PM
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Please recommend a brand of male heels to go with that eye shadow.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 12:04 AM
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You should link to this post next time you share a success story for context. Sometimes it just depends who is there (and who they are with perhaps more importantly). From what you shared, there weren’t any big mistakes. Even with high SMV, you can only take so much responsibility for the context.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 06:50 PM
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Regardless of making out, you were talking about her with other guys. That action builds orbiter trust, not alpha respect. The close was problematic because it seemed forced. Next time you might want to portray abundance for the evening or week, “I have a huge day at the office tomorrow, but had a great time tonight”. In today’s hypergamy dating scene, girls, especially tinder sluts, don’t want to appear as such, so they might wait for a second or third date - even with Chad Thundercock. Give th…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 06:32 PM
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In today’s clown world, the theology of an alpha role only lives as long as you give it credibility in your life. Females in my family and social circle are raised to respond negatively to #metoo, overt hypergamy, wage gap lies, and feminist propaganda early and often. Edit: typo, and will check the videos
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 03:49 PM
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The question is, what's more important to you: the comfort level achieved by the relationship, or the freedom of not having your behaviour and mental space controlled by circumstances you have created? The only females that I’ve seen not curb alpha behavior are those with tried and true alpha male boyfriends or husbands. They can’t do it if they try. They will complain, but for the most part they get the fuck out of the way of / bow down to his life lifestyle conflicts, and follow his lead. I ca…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 01:04 AM
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I use an excuse of being busy, and if that doesn’t work, an indirect push away from their friends once they catch feels, and the issue rights itself. “Let’s hang out with your friends that aren’t looking for other dick.” This ends casual shit shows, and shifts socializing to boring double dates. Nobody likes double dates, and these fade with time.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 11:41 PM
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Seriously? I’ve been beta with a girl or two, and all she did was get upset for an hour and fuck me when she calmed down. Never had one leave without ghosting or forcing her hand.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 11:23 PM
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Fucking on point. I know it’s abstract but it’s accurate generally, at least. If you break sequence on even low hanging everyday shit it can cause problems for a woman that felt invested at all in the activity. Something as simple as, stop by this store, then a friends, then grab a drink, rearranged or optimized, is catastrophic to most females.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 01:34 AM
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Get after it brother
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 01:29 AM
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I agree with your interpretation. “Do what you gotta do” is the phrase I’ve heard from a HB with too high a body count. There was no shame or remorse for her cum dumpster years, even though it pushes away the vast majority of eligible males.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 01:17 AM
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Solid comment and post. In America, outside of third wave feminism and hip hop queens, I don’t know of any sane women that remain proud of riding the cock carousel later in life, late pregnancy planning and management, or divorce. If they aren’t a complete train wreck they will bury it all. They don’t mention these major life topics in conversation because they are ashamed of their decisions and their results. The disconnect is time. Most women don’t plan for the future during their prime years.…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 09:23 PM
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If it were me, I’d invite them to dinner, cook a mean BBQ, tell them they are always going to be a part of your family, bla, bla, bla. Then I’d bust out a map with markers of the nearest fast food restaurants, subsidized rental units, and community colleges and ask them which one they plan on applying to. I’ll even drive them to the interviews. After that, my conscience is clear.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 04:59 PM
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Impressive list here; and these are the ones reported. I can’t blame them for being attracted to imported dick. They get a guy that’s average height, dark, poor, and displaced. Great start. With an average IQ of 85 in many regions, and a family history of bilateral racism and the opposite of feminism. Oops. What could go wrong? Rape your ten year old daughter? Check. Rape you, too? Check. metoo Because my choices don’t affect me.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 12:07 AM
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I broadcast “confidence, beastly, wealthy, and fun/happy” and that works well for my aura. If you miss the fun/happy part you will miss younger chicks.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 09:16 PM
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A loyal unicorn while in honeymoon phase and while she is a unicorn feels better than a plate. That’s biology. Most males disdain used and abused females as partners, which is why they are best as plates. This rings true across cultures and generations. Practically speaking, college sluts are a dime a dozen, always available, and easily found and replaced throughout a males prime if not beyond. Regarding fun in bed in college... if you a beast, sex is easily trained with any female regardless of…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 09:01 PM
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Well put, thanks for the laugh too. “Buttergolem”, “hamplanet”, and “evolutionary fuckup”, fucking on point mate
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 07:15 PM
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A lot of young bucks don’t understand the responsibility “bestowed” by modern society on the male in an LTR. In the US at least, where the average father is missing or beta, a female will not have skill sets or experience required for a successful LTR because she will have never learned it in the home, and she will have spent her teen years focused on aesthetics and/or hypergamy. Self esteem, self respect, financial responsibility or independence, resolve, self motivated work ethic, the ability …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 06:53 PM
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The unicorns are temporary. Glimpse them occasionally after 18, but never after 19, and never for longer than a moment. They grow up in a protective, two-parent, alpha father bubble, with an extremely loyal mother, time consuming extracurriculars like gymnastics, piano, etc, and high quality, slut-free friend circles (near impossible to find in today’s world). You’d be brave, to say the least, to bet on finding one with those odds.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 04:10 PM
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Why are most of them chubby? Of course there are outliers, but this question needs to be answered.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 04:04 PM
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Simple works best for me. I don’t want another super intellectual feminist: “6 foot, 180, athletic, love friends, family, and country music” My four pictures are of me in social situations with friends, family, females, and my dog. They demonstrate happiness, wealth, travel, trust.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 02:02 AM
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To clarify for readers, I’m not talking tough, no need to here.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 12:04 AM
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Star struck by a female? What are you sixteen? I’m only partly kidding. If you ever hit your prime, if you max out your SMV, you will not view females the same way as you do today. You will have abundance mentality that allows you to see a pretty face as something to be appreciated temporarily. Same understanding goes for plate or LTR or wife, regardless of loyalty. Because you will know from experience that the attractive face will come with a cost. With high levels of insecurity, dopamine addi…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 11:24 PM
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Great work, and keep spreading the good word.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 10:28 PM
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Almost. Highly attractive females will underestimate the effect of hypergamy and social media, the impact of the wall, and their diminishing social value over time, and this can be used in your favor. Never, ever be intimidated by a chick that is only a few SMV above you. In a couple years, it will be the opposite. In person, proceed with confidence and focus on her as a complete person; her looks are temporary. Conversation about other things always. Her story, all that. Don’t be her beta orbit…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 10:11 PM
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Anything beyond “plate or die”, first month of college hypergamy, gaming married sluts 101 gets shit on here. I have been brainstorming “plate promotion” to LTR from a RP perspective for a few months. Someday I’ll write the post, just don’t have time for more than a passing comment at this point.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 07:50 PM
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She had an actual assault event when she was 11, and I’d avoided the subject for a bit. That is why it surprised me.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 04:03 PM
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This is straight up regret from her, nothing more, nothing less. But you are right, Ansari plays a weak hand with neediness and awkward comedy. Of course a girl is going to second guess what she does with a guy like this.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 03:55 PM
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Upvote for a fantastic title. I usually don’t laugh in the mornings.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 03:46 PM
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Previously, I thought she gave a fuck. Mind blown.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 03:44 PM
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Lower her expectation for feels from the start, and she will thank you for it later. In other words, train a women in the phases of love, as well as your expectations for her behavior, and she’ll follow you a bit better. AWALT still applies.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 03:22 PM
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That a girl doesn’t give a fuck, and that I fuck.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 03:17 PM
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As women further distance themselves from men, they will be forced to enter (and remain in) the workforce in greater numbers. Unfortunately for them, in the workplace, they are the worst team players consistently (social hierarchy formation failure), and have low drive when there is pressure to perform. Even with intensive training, their average performance will never exceed that of a below average beta male. It takes a gaggle of women to overwhelm a corporate hierarchy that males have built, a…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 04:54 PM
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I had a theory that women know they are walking a thin line with the #metoo movement (that the movement is diluted by its pop/media frenzy), and I wanted to test it in bed. This week, after wave after wave of #metoo propaganda, I finally caved. It started when my LTR slapped my ass during her usual pounding, and I stopped, stared her down and said, “Me, too” without a smile. She got hornier yet, aggressive even. When we finished, I mentioned that I might consider that assault in the future, and …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 10:41 PM
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Solidarity would be to own your masculinity with a stoic frame when confronted, and, beyond this, treat women as the feminine, weaker, emotional sex. Legally, libel, slander, and defamation of character punishments still need to apply to females that cannot prove their #metoo experiences in a court of law. The same goes for men, and any entity that disparages another without just cause.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 10:23 PM
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To set the record straight... A hypergamy chick just presents more risk, nothing more, nothing less. She’s still manageable, like every other female. The crux of the issue is that due to their biology females aren’t sure how to be happy in an LTR, which is why it takes strong leadership from a male to stabilize things. If you are not a beast of a man with higher SMV than her’s it will be more difficult to do so because she will have more social power by default (until she hits the wall).
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 10:17 PM
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The inner animal still lives, but the weight of female post-wall aesthetics limits what can be achieved. Women hate denial more than their inner animal, and will actively avoid both post-wall. Someone “stable”, a “good person”, a “provider” becomes the stated objective for multiple reasons. Of course they long for an alpha, and will not remain loyal to a beta, but their actions tell the truth.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 04:17 PM
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Interact with others in a variety of settings. Maintain your frame and confidence. Join a sport league or club or whatever. Practice posture, tone, presentation. Expand your horizons. Read about the Laws of Power to develop your awareness. Have some fun with it - it will come sooner than you think.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 06:12 AM
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Corrected: In their prime, the closest equivalent to female aesthetics is male aesthetics. Post wall, the closest equivalent to female aesthetics is a passable provider figure.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 05:14 AM
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Test the waters a bit. It’s not as divisive as you think. I was pleasantly surprised to find about half my friends and probably ninety percent of my extended family unplugged. The only ones that aren’t are post-wall females or males too young or feminine to ascend to an alpha status just yet.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 04:44 AM
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Value as defined by strength of frame, physical power, and economic potential matter more than any combination of other attributes in my opinion. If you are a beast of a man, girls don’t give a fuck what you say.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 04:35 AM
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Game comes quicker when you develop social skills in a variety of situations (including work, sports, social activities), a bigger and better physique, and a naturally dominant but fun frame. If you get smoked by another dudes SMV, just take notes and come back better next time.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 02:14 AM
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So true. And the slow trickle truth is murder on trust. I don’t blame them, hypergamy trains the deceit.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 10:49 PM
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Every “near perfect” girl that I’ve dated has covered her flaws, hypergamy, or unpaid debts (financial or otherwise) like a masterful manipulator. It’s like clockwork, the way they reveal these things. Right on time, when you get a little unicorn fever. Hormones and time numb shortcomings, and women use these to their advantage. You can shift the balance with awareness of their tactics and abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 10:04 PM
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The well raised ones will tend to be locked up in LTR’s with high value males during their prime. They know the drill.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 02:55 AM
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Honestly, I don’t think many understand the impact. The rush of a few years of hypergamy fucks trumps the next eighty years with a high quality mate. Their options diminish by the year, by the body count, and by the baggage they bring along. Instead of forever young, it’s forever a plate.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 02:26 AM
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A female’s family structure can predict hypergamy behavior like clockwork. Does she have an alpha father figure that she respects? Does she have a moral (read: loyal) mother that she respects? Are there zero divorces or out of wedlock children in the family or close extended family? Did she avoid traumatic events, alcohol and drug use, or otherwise bad activities during her formative years? If yes to the above, AWALT still applies but hypergamy behavior can be curbed to a degree, especially if s…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 10:08 PM
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AWALT does not guarantee cock carousel. It means there is a tendency to behave a certain way. It takes a hella strong father figure and religious mother to train a girl to keep her clothes on during her prime.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 09:58 PM
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Don’t put the cart before the horse. Success for a male is enhanced by fitness, strength, testosterone. All of these contribute to how you “look”, which is easily recognizable by a visible jawline. Fat slob animals won’t have one.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 09:49 PM
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Advice here almost always starts with lift, frame, and mission. Confidence doesn’t mean shit if you can’t back it up. Jawline will get you laid but little else.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 09:39 PM
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There are many shades of alpha. Social power, pure confidence, and the potential for violence never hurt your odds.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 09:47 PM
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They have no clue about the cost of their sexual value until it vanishes.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 09:41 PM
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True - having your choice of 10’s or relative HB’s means that the pressure is off. No hypergamy regret from the female. For the rest of the world, pursuit is now a risk.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 04:56 PM
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Until proven in court with hard evidence, I assume that #metoo news cycles are based on either female power plays or emotions of regret due to hypergamy activity with blue pill males of varying degrees.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 04:00 PM
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I agree, but most people think of “game” as development of your mechanics and skill in social situations with women. They think of it as a tactic that can be possessed and improved upon but that is narrow in its definition and use case. Social skill as a whole goes well beyond this common definition off”game” to include work, school, family, friends, etc. “Gaming” work? I’ll see you right through you and fire you. How well do you present your ideas to the CEO of your company? How did you manage …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 03:37 PM
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You got that high SMV, women will jump you, plate or LTR, doesn’t matter...
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 03:19 PM
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Confrontational behavior means that you aren’t afraid to maintain your frame. All women love this. In an LTR you just do it better, more calmly.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 07:08 PM
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Don’t forget about structural damage: She’s ridden the cock carrousel for years, and has more misalignment than you can possibly hope to fix.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 07:06 PM
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SMV as an aggregate matters more than any individual component. In your prime, working on “game” is probably the lowest form of improvement you can focus on. Fitness, frame control, wealth, happiness, overall social skill, net more confidence and pussy than a pickup approach or line.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:06 PM
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Shhhh.... concepts like “righteousness” give purple pillers and female’s around these parts ptsd.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 11:38 PM
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James Bond Game makes pussy wet all over the globe. A little badass, protective, mysterious, and wreckless. The perfect balance of excitement and dread.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 09:03 PM
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I especially liked the following quote from the link: Hypergamy is not monogamy in the human sense. Although there may be only one “alpha male” at the top of the pack at any given time, which one it is changes over time. In human terms, this means the female is fickle, infatuated with no more than one man at any given time, but not naturally loyal...” This is not to say that Aziz is an alpha male, but rather that this female’s feelings toward him evolved with time. Her regret became more pronoun…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 08:57 PM
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I’d sue her too. The #metoo movement is empowering feelings over law and order. This is a female that is bitter about her past hypergamy choices. Post wall, post prime, or full of regret, females act this way as they see their options and value diminishing by the year. It’s why you see so many older women leading the charge.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 05:41 PM
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They all about that famous dick aura... until it fades, then it’s time for some bitter revenge.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 05:31 PM
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Selfies are for females and blue pill males. End of story.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 05:03 PM
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Red pill dominance in bed 101: strength of frame by leading her to meet your needs power when repositioning her body prowess by mixing both soft and firm moments, eg know when to kiss and when to pull her hair like a savage controlled aggression when you are climaxing together
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 04:59 PM
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Removed the mis, makes more sense now: ...to punish every kind of male sexual conduct
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 04:15 PM
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A neighbor girl chooses to engage in hypergamy instead of developing her other qualities. Hot or not, good riddance, to her. She took the easy road, and the only reason anybody cares is because she has a vagina. The opposite would be a man robbing a woman because he’s stronger, instead of getting real job. I have no sympathy for either.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 03:43 PM
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At my work, there is a group of about forty software and systems engineers. They are “led” by three women. Way over their head in social and technical competence. However, they do a great job of approving time sheets, already defined expenses, and otherwise staying the fuck out of the way.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 03:32 PM
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Women are attracted to men with power, money, fame, success, more than men are attracted to women with the same attributes. At this point, if a woman says she was sexually assaulted without hard evidence, I’m going to assume she merely regrets her decision to get naked for a rich blue pill until proven in court.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 03:29 PM
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Women are becoming a liability in more ways than one. If I’m running a business, any business, I’m taking scrupulous notes.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 02:45 AM
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Good post. I will point out one thing. The biology that tends to be disregarded here is that are zero genetic alphas without a strong desire to reproduce in order to gain offspring. At some point, an alpha wants offspring and is willing to pay for it. The cost of “providing” to this end is built into the mission. It doesn’t transform him into a beta buck suddenly. The duality isn’t that strict. For RP 101ers and young bucks it might be, but graduate to your prime and women get wet regardless.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 03:07 PM
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This was my first question: what are the statues and trends in prior “white male” cases, if any?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 06:59 PM
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This one will be fun to watch. The below commentary from feminist Cordelia Fine strikes a chord: His summary of the differences between the sexes, she says, was “more accurate and nuanced than what you sometimes find in the popular literature”. Some of Damore’s ideas, she adds, are “very familiar to me as part of my day-to-day research, and are not seen as especially controversial. So there was something quite extraordinary about someone losing their job for putting forward a view that is part o…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 06:43 PM
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For sure. Alpha males operate in a completely different world, and the rules are bent to their will. AWALT still applies, but betas and most TRP members still have to understand, females do not have very many alphas to choose from, and their opportunities have diminished to the lowest point in history. Female behavior around an alpha reflects this, and traditional AWALT fears of hamstering and hypergamy are not the same. The power dynamics shift entirely to the opposite.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 04:29 PM
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Image tends to matter more to females than males. Because they often do not have to work (read: value beyond sex or image) for their gains, the perception of status, wealth, adventure, confidence, is as if not more important than the intrinsic value. The image and extrinsic value is in the comparison to her friends, colleagues, social circle. This can be applied across the board, in terms of dating activities, travel, cars, clothes, etc, and can be used to your advantage to not only save time an…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 04:10 PM
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I know this girl. Good values, dance and gymnastics every day of her life until 18, homecoming and prom queen, gorgeous, popular, funny, top of her nursing class, married her one and only high school boyfriend that went on to play professional ball. They have millions together. Starting a family now. He commands her loyalty beyond anything you could imagine. Women that sink their claws into an alpha are not like that, with an alpha. Edit: Bring on the downvotes. Alphas know loyalty like betas wi…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 08:47 PM
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Stages of grief can be quick. When I was a teenager I went from “Baby, I love you, we are soul mates”, to “I don’t give a fuck about you or anything that you do” in ten minutes. I lost respect for her, and gained respect for myself, in a moment. Never looked back, never felt a thing at all about her thereafter.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 08:15 PM
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Marriage or not, you missed the point. In nature, there are no alphas without offspring. In nature, territorial alphas will destroy competition to protect their offspring and mates. In society, the thing to remember, is that human alpha males are no different. We are fucking savages. Women respect this attitude, believe it or not, because it guarantees stability for their offspring. Whether you pick well, develop from a boy into an alpha, and have offspring within the constructs of marriage or w…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 05:32 PM
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Reminds me of the phrase “grit”. Few men earn the title.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 03:04 AM
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Women have power by their sexuality for ten years in their prime, and decline thereafter. Men that toil during those years reap the rewards for decades.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 11:14 PM
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In today’s world of instant gratification, if you are in an LTR, you cannot get complacent with an HB. You have to up the ante, keep excitement dread we’ll balanced, or boredom will lead her to look elsewhere. Western women will fuck up a good thing, even a beta with alpha potential, because of a passing emotion.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 07:00 PM
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Alternate conclusion: Have confidence in yourself, and don’t be afraid to approach hotter women. However, do so with awareness, and understand that SMV factors into power dynamics in a relationship. If you want to consistently fuck 9’s, you had better bring more to the table than a strategy of “pass shit tests”.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 06:55 PM
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Transitioning from a boy into a man means that you take time to remove fear, excuses, and obstacles from your path. Incels that are complaining, whining, blaming, and bitching have not crossed the threshold. To fully mature takes years, but, damn, when you get there, it is worth it.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 03:11 AM
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What if there were legal protection, reimbursement for damages, and punishment for accusation from slander and defamation of character, provided there is circumstantial or weak evidence to the contrary? Oh wait, that would level the playing field for males. We can’t have that, now, can we.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 04:46 PM
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Classic country music is chalk full of red pill, benevolent alphas. If you want a way to separate men from boys in modern music, do a pulse check for the singer’s lyrics, mission, and purpose. Bragging about spinning plates and getting money, whining about an ex, and constant anger phase nonsense are things that a teenager can do well enough.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 12:01 AM
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I work in IT, and my department of forty is run by three women, all 45+ years old. They do not lead key initiatives or projects; they provide vacation approval, voice concern about employees being overworked, and generally stay out of the way.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 11:55 PM
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Plan to in a post in the future. Plate spinning is a walk in the park in comparison to a well executed LTR.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 11:31 PM
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Get money, get buff, get bitches. Don’t get mad. This is not economics. It’s biology.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 04:32 PM
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Both work if you are a high value male, same as in life. IG is more effective if you are well rounded, social, fun, traveled. You risk validating girls, though, so can be a runaround. Tinder/Bumble is more effective if you have an attractive face. It’s more direct. Quicker. Pussy is ready the day of, unlike IG, which can be a slow play.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 04:27 PM
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This list is great list for teenagers. As an adult male, I can make and break every single one of these - when and how I choose - and it makes no difference in my trajectory with a female.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 04:22 PM
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You see comrade, in Russia girl buy you drink.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 01:11 AM
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Promoting a plate to an LTR is one of the riskiest things a man can do. Big topics that I would add: - training acceptable codes of conduct - removing and managing risk with class - subliminal excitement/dread requirement - rock solid support for your mission - leading from the front, and the back - social circle considerations Not a bad start, but missing a lot.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 07:40 PM
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The title says it all. Cold approach ceased in meaning to me the second I hit 25 years old, employed, and “fit”. Tune that SMV all the way, and watch them come. Your build, confidence, and presence will attract women to you.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 02:51 AM
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The answer is much simpler than the series of questions makes it out to be. Done well, an alpha male’s SMV rises steadily after 25, and for the very best, continues the trend even as silver hair and wrinkles show. Done well, a gorgeous female’s SMV drops steadily after 25, and for the very best, continues to plummet no matter what she does. A high value male can remain there for three, even four decades, and take the top 1% of females for his preference along the way. This is not the case for mo…
/r/askTRP28/12/17 12:06 AM
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Substance abuse is more dangerous in an LTR than any other attribute. I’d rather save a hoe than deal with that shit.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 11:56 PM
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right·eous·ness (ˈrīCHəsnəs) noun the quality of being morally right or justifiable In contrast, unrighteousness is a failure to adhere to moral principles.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 04:14 PM
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The cheating posts are the archetype for, “consensual amorality” in dating. It’s not capitalism or survival of the fittest, it’s disregard for a common code of ethics. Nothing more nothing less. Your posts should act as a warning signal for males that have lost the respect and loyalty of their females. Edit: to those downvoting, if you are a high SMV male, lack of righteousness is a sign of weakness. Pussy is widely available regardless.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 01:36 AM
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Good point. Only thing is that attitude doesn’t reveal things that intentionally are in the closet, that’s why I’m curious what has burned you all. I’ve yet to meet a girl that didn’t partially obscure perceived dealbreakers or negatives.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 11:38 PM
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Do you mean alpha father figure? Cause I’m not going to pick my nose and wipe it on Linda’s shirt ever again.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 03:42 AM
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You sound ready for the pill. Regardless of age and upbringing, the biggest difference that you notice between colleagues or friends with missing alpha figures is the lack of “manly” experiences that build “manly” attributes. These attributes can be rebuilt by following the sidebar material in this sub, eg lift, mission, frame, plates, power, etc as it suits your objectives. I would encourage you to focus on - Defining and conquering your mission daily - Lifting to gain strength, fitness, and co…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 06:31 PM
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There are different types of shit tests. Test of frame strength Test of frame agility The key difference: A strength test has a long term nuance to it, eg commitment to leadership, mission, work, and culture, advancing SMV, happiness, and righteousness. An agility test has a shorter time horizon, eg, emotional or social support, flexibility for “small things”, approval or validation. Edit: word count
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 05:25 PM
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Foreign men (and their power/money/SMV) are in general held in higher regard than their domestic male counterparts in most countries.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 04:03 PM
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“Take the pussy off the pedestal”
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 04:01 PM
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“The man child” is spot on. The male’s right of passage is indeed missing. When does a boy become a man in Western society? “When you can vote” “When you get a drink” “When you get a job” “When you get a car” “When you get a girl” Hardly measure of a “man” when a woman can do the same.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 03:37 AM
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I got it now - the other women watching is pretty cool actually.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 11:31 PM
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saveahoe Perfect tag for when she “is done clubbing and partying” and looking for “the one”.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 11:26 PM
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He survived the test, but did he maintain frame? I don’t know. He entered into her frame, which was an emotional and public dialog about her with another cock. Stoicism during this topic is not the same as frame strength, where she is on your terms. Edit: to those downvoting, this is a legitimate question. Do you like talking about your girl with other guys? I mention this as a boundary.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 05:35 PM
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His frame broke down, but that’s not the biggest issue in this case. This is a behavior and boundary issue. Her shifting an LTR holiday to a hypergamy holiday is an action that is out of character for any decent girl. And. She. Knows it. There are a lot of betas here that don’t mind their girl clubbing or girls nighting without them: in an LTR, that’s straight blue pill behavior. If this were me, I either plate her, or I reset the LTR boundary of no clubbing / overnight parties without each othe…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 04:51 PM
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Fitness is relative to age. Being in shape for a 50 year old SVP is not the same as a 35 year old Director. I don’t see many intellectual beta fatties getting promoted past “lead”, or “middle manager”, regardless of height.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 12:12 AM
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In what line of work? The male SVP’s, VP’s, and Directors in my organization are in phenomenal shape for their age. They are between five feet tall and six feet tall, highly social, competent in multiple aspects of business, and confident.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 09:29 PM
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“Family first” as an offhanded or manipulative comment is the worst. Females that harvest every spare second of downtime do not understand the damage that they are doing nor the power dynamics required in a healthy relationship with a male.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 04:46 PM
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Beta bucks will happen at any age. This is for the alphas in the room. — Pro tip #2: For high SMV girls, follow up with, “And here I am getting more handsome by the year.” This shifts perceived SMV (and abundance) from them to you in a fun way. Tread softly.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 10:18 PM
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The confidence of tall males in corporate America is what gets the promotion. Tall, dorky, beta, antisocial males do not receive promotions. The single best thing that you can do at any height is to get swol, then get shredded, which will give you that big dick leadership swagger.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 05:50 PM
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Support from a female or beta caretaker is insufficient to develop male attributes of frame strength, leadership, physical power, and mission. The end effect of a missing alpha figure is lost time for child cucks; instead of naturally launching to become high value males by their late twenties and growing their SMV through adulthood, development occurs much later, if ever. The outliers are typically athletes or military personnel that find structure and ‘male attribute training’ through stronger…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 04:28 PM
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Just swinging back to this. There’s some garbage in every sub. It’s not all bad of course. When a guy did everything right according to feminist law, got good at listening and bending over, worshipped her, got a decent job, paid for everything, did yoga with her, and still got burned, what is he going to do? He’s going to go through phases of grief, and that is reflected in the comments and posts here. Some guys are stuck in the anger phase and have trust issues. Some guys haven’t fully evolved …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 04:04 PM
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Plot twist: Slaying subpar women is a self esteem boost for men with low self esteem.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 12:30 AM
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Pro tip: tease (in a fun way) in order to level set your hotter plates and LTR’s with a hard dose of reality on this topic. Be sure they respect you before saying this: “You have probably been pretty all your life, but beauty fades quickly after [her age]. Hope you have a plan B.” Use with caution.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 12:08 AM
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Thriving requires adherence to the tenants found in this sub over time. You don’t get to fast forward to nuance or refinement before tackling the risk of onetis, AWALT, unicorns, etc, first.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 11:56 PM
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Agree. Maintaining frame is managing the situation well enough that they leave without escalation, and your girl gushes at your social prowess. She’s not your girl anyways.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 04:53 PM
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tldr: because of onetis, road head is worth the risk of hospitalization
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 04:31 PM
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Body count never was an indicator for success in life.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 10:31 PM
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True. The scale shifts as your SMV goes up. Shredded with social competence never goes out of style. In 10/10 situations it helps. Dancing is helpful, but at a certain point, it’s not a factor.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 05:54 PM
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Partially true. None of this requires true narcissism; it requires narcissistic tendencies. Dancing only matters for cold approach, and doesn’t matter when you have high SMV. A powerful, high SMV, ripped male can stand still or flail on a dance floor and females will flock. Otherwise accurate.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 04:32 PM
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Get after it. Also... curing onetis doesnt mean the end of romance, it just means that you understand that the girl is human.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 03:51 AM
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If niggas hate then let them hate and watch the pussy pile up. -50 cent
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 09:53 PM
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Quality over quantity bois
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 09:48 PM
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Dead bedroom is comprised of two types of bois: men with a weak frame (strength of leadership is mandatory, even if she is a bloody feminist) men with a weak body (physical strength and fitness equal more sex, now and always)
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 08:06 PM
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Some of the stuff harms new and younger readers and members more than it helps the original poster. This content needs to be deleted. Describing an instance of female hypergamy or manipulation or deceit is fine, if it’s poor content it will be downvoted anyways. But that’s a lot different than a call to arms or beta bigot rant.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 07:51 PM
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Started ‘Brutality’ training program targeting DL and Squat for mass. Don’t have all the machines in the garage gym yet, but can cover 80% of it. For one day last week, weighed over 180 lbs. Previously weighed 150 to 165 (6’, competing in endurance sports). Workout reference: https://www.muscleandstrength.com/workouts/brutality-squat-deadlift-workout
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 03:30 PM
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The word “real” is a projection. Replace the word “real” with “my” and the phrase becomes more accurate. “My women wear the pants.”
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 03:19 PM
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What the fuck is number three about son.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 03:13 PM
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A red pill or alpha male has a completely different experience with women than a beta. The venting and rants that the bois post reflect this difference.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 03:09 PM
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For reader reference: solipsism [sol-ip-siz-uh m] noun - the theory that only the self exists, or can be proved to exist. - extreme preoccupation with and indulgence of one's feelings, desires, etc.; egoistic self-absorption. empathy [em-puh-thee] noun - the psychological identification with or vicarious experiencing of the feelings, thoughts, or attitudes of another. - the imaginative ascribing to an object, as a natural object or work of art, feelings or attitudes present in oneself
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 02:58 PM
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Strength training, training for mass, stamina, health. I watched my grandpa put on lean muscle mass at age 70, and he looked like a badass with gray and white hair. He mentioned women treating him differently. At 70. This is a foundational component for women at any age.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:51 PM
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Supportive, nurturing, and loyal... When they ready, they ready. Question is, is that what you want? Family is underrated and underrepresented here at TRP, so it really just depends on your mission and readiness. The married red pill is another sub to consider, too.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:50 PM
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The quote about the post workout drink is followed by most athlete and builders because it works. However, for you, I would recommend that you rethink lifting. The effects of age and the frequency of injury can be managed.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 07:08 AM
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Billions of Asian and Latin chicks shorter than you.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 07:00 AM
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Three is perfect. One primary, and two in the wings.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:59 AM
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If you like a girl enough to be an LTR, and she is on you like white on rice - extra time/interest/etc - test the waters. “We would make a good couple.” “What are we doing for Christmas?” Lead her into the conversation if you are afraid to ask directly.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:53 AM
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You need to be socially competent and have a social or family circle that goes beyond your dog. You do not need to be a loud, overindulgent extravert. Choosing to spend time on your mission, or whatever, alone, is up to you, but get out once a week at minimum. Have lunch with colleagues, visit family, celebrate a holiday, something.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:45 AM
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When your SMV is high enough, women come, and your mission, frame, and lifestyle only reinforce this. At a certain point, game and cold approach cease to contribute to the quantity and quality of women available to you.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:33 AM
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Boys need an excuse. Men just do it. Also... What your girl doin on Friday girls night and Saturday when you gone, baking cookies?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:15 AM
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Improvement starts with strength of frame, and builds to managing well whatever else you value in life. If your mission is off the interstellar radar, that’s no better or worse than if it’s to make the best burrito in your city. Women will always be there to fuck a winner.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:03 AM
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Could also be a fucked up way to devalue a HB if you beta or have low SMV / self esteem
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 02:19 AM
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I won’t plate for long let alone LTR without a phone up policy. And I audit the fuck out of their life initially. It’s my ass on the line, not them.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 02:11 AM
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“My girl” is the proper usage. A red pill or alpha does not deal with, he owns his life.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 02:07 AM
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Porn is either addiction or medication. No reason for either in a healthy alpha male.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 02:04 AM
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Be a true alpha man. Don’t settle. Don’t maintain beta qualities, she never wanted them to begin with. Be an alpha and break her such that she fantasizes about you while fucking her beta provider husband for decades to come. Leave your legacy.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:54 AM
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Those voluntarily remaining weak drive the bitches into my arms. I humbly thank you, whoever you are.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:49 AM
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Are you both past the butterflies? This can take a couple years for some couples. Do you both want kids? This should be a requirement for you. Does your family embrace her? This adds stability. Is she loyal as fuck (for a woman)?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:22 PM
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Preaching to the choir. I have instituted it for a few years across a couple girls and always wanted to share war stories.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:00 PM
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Does your sample size include high SMV cock at thirty? In terms of SMV, most women at thirty are declining. In terms of SMV, most men at thirty are appreciating. After thirty, the game is over. If women rode the cock carrousel, they will be further devalued. They will drop down to banging beta males, caretakers, or give up altogether. This is not the case for men.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 10:28 PM
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Of course, a month dating is a plate. A week off increases the tension early on.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 04:39 PM
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In an LTR you go beyond the first attraction phase. Games still work but require tact. Continued romantic requires that your time together remain free from conflict and confusion for the most part. This is hard for betas and younger guys to do. Conflict comes from frame instability and poor communication approaches, and confusion comes from lack of consistency and leadership. Gaming time together can add excitement, but is a weak method to do so in an LTR. There are better ways to add attraction…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 04:33 PM
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Commit some high quality time for a while?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 05:46 AM
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This post is a partial truth. Ignoring a woman for a period of time increases the intensity of attraction, assuming you have it, during initial encounters. However, ignoring a spinning plate for too long will give her justification to seek cock elsewhere. And ignoring an LTR too often or for too long will kill her butterflies right quick.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 10:35 PM
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Only point would be that there is hardship that comes from defaulting to “zero” that is tough for many to overcome: Bottoming out from addiction Divorce and the psychological and financial pain that follows Incarceration due to crime or health reasons Destruction of family or culture With the above you will be weaker than at any point in life, and the odds of you leaving better off than you started (socioeconomically, happier, healthier, stronger) are lower for the remainder. I would gladly take…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 10:12 PM
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She might be attractive but will have a high body count and corresponding baggage.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 09:34 PM
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You could have a demographic problem, or be talking about guys that party drink heavily or married young and let themselves go.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 08:50 PM
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A woman at thirty has given her best years to other dick. A man at thirty has just started the prime of his life. There is no question what he should do next.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 03:27 PM
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They are literally everywhere. What are you waiting for?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 03:20 PM
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It doesn’t take a mental trick to do this. You are surrounded by betas, feminists, and sluts. Over time, they will each devalue. Being even an average RP male you will appreciate beyond them quickly. Within a decade they will be irrelevant to you.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:13 PM
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Right, new rules of flirtation, touching, hugging won’t fix the #metoo problem. The crux of the issue is the authority of a single person to socially judge, convict, sentence without a trial. The burden of proof needs to be more than, “I felt like he was flirting with me” or “I felt uncomfortable” or similar. It needs to be much stronger, nearing assault or rape, for it to warrant the destruction of a career.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 04:40 PM
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There is a difference between alpha territorial behavior and beta mate guarding. You want to avoid another cock in your girl, but there’s a right way and wrong to go about it. Useful points of interest that could benefit from additional dialog: territorial behavior defined risk management of plate risk management of an LTR abundance mentality as a litmus test transparency as a tenant etc
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 04:09 PM
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One thing I’d note. An alpha is territorial. This is different than mate guarding from a place of weakness. In abundance, if an alpha says no clubbing to a woman, it’s for the purpose of managing risk. Edit: word choice.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 11:12 PM
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The dad bod and skinny nerd is something feminists love to promote for power in a relationship. This past year, I trained hard in between work and travel, and put on fifteen pounds of muscle. So 6’ 165 to 180 in about six months. Always been fit, never big. What difference it makes. Two things happened with the increased muscle mass: Before in public settings, I would be noticed but not approached or gawked at. Now girls literally turn their body toward me, stand closer (ie in an airport), open …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 10:46 PM
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Emotionally and physically men know to remain steady and restrained for survival as well as teamwork. With points of disagreement between men, when tempers start to flare, people can get badly injured or killed. Far safer and more effective to work together.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 07:33 PM
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And more likely to ride the CC socially and lean on looks rather than skill for income,
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 06:38 PM
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In college, some of my friends and I made a similar system that defined our potential around campus. It was thirty points (ten for each category), and consisted of; looks personality/character (social) intelligence (money) This scale leveled the playing field and gave us confidence and frame to approach. A 10/10 or 9/10 HB in looks probably has not developed her personality (4/10, not funny, deceitful, insecure, rides the CC) and intelligence score (3/10, communications major, debt spending), me…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 04:32 PM
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In a parallel universe, the article went on to define “toxic femininity” as; Aggrandizing emotion for disagreement Manipulation through deceit Dependency and codependency Power obtained from sexualization Edit: femininity
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 04:21 PM
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Write this chick off. She’s gone for now, probably ever, and won’t truly respect you for years. You have a long ways to go. Do not go back to an LTR until you laugh at the text you posted. Not being funny at all. Until then, for your own sake, swallow the pill. Don’t worry about your current beliefs or paradigms that are in conflict. Forget the conflict. Disregard it. Follow the high level tenants. Set and work toward your mission, build and test your frame, be social, and get strong. Strengthen…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 02:42 AM
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Early dating you can flirt with questions at the right time, it doesn’t have to be direct. Drinking when they horny and talking it’ll be more natural. Girls love to talk about themselves.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 12:03 AM
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I’ve been there man. The fastest way to judge is how often they get off by themselves. If her answer is daily, you are all set. It’s probably three or four times daily when she is bored. Ideally, she would be difficult but not impossible for you to bring to orgasm so that the sex lasts longer (for your purposes).
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 11:55 PM
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If I were you, I’d promote a high sex drive plate to LTR and fuck constantly. Don’t get too attached, just use it for sex. Tell her you will not look at porn and keep your word gold. This way you have an outlet, sex, and a mission, which is reinforced one and the same. The above works for me, I haven’t looked at porn in a year, although her sex drive started above mine, so your mileage may very.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 11:30 PM
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So vagina means +3 on SMV scale to a blue pill male
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 08:14 PM
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How’s a 4/10 get with a 7/10? That math don’t work where I’m from
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 06:42 PM
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I never realized this but it’s true. Women only appreciate romantic gestures that they have earned. Unless of course you have her income beat by an order of magnitude, don’t go out of your way for a plate that has done nothing to deserve it.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 02:36 AM
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The part about women and children testing your frame is on point. My father told me once that there were two types of parents: those that keep their cool consistently, and those that lose it. I think this notion extends to all types of people and is what makes the difference a “grown up” and a “man child” today. How often are you acting irrationally, fearful, phased, escalating needlessly, or bending to another’s will? Frame strength anywhere in life is one of the primary measures of your progre…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 11:15 PM
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Victimhood is a religion for many these days. A banner for the third wave feminists, “impoverished” minorities, and anyone that couldn’t find happiness in their iPhone. During times of abundance in all walks of life, to fuck your own up, it must surely be someone else’s fault.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 10:55 PM
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It’s a tremendous benefit in both relationships and life. Today, my girl uses the metaphor of a tower for my frame (her understanding of frame). A tower as in a safe fortress or castle. In the past, as a younger guy, it was more like a tiki hut. Safe harbor and freedom from harm were less likely.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 04:53 PM
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It’s not a red flag, and passing the test depends on your threshold for talking about her past experiences. My tolerance is extremely low. Past the first conversation on the topic to clarify bodycount and LTRs. I instruct them never to bring it up ever again. This goes for clubs, parties, dates, experiences, anything dick related. Generally, I think this type of thing is a shit test but sometimes it’s innocent and accidental, so my response is always the same: a firm, “don’t go there”.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:55 PM
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Righteousness goes further than deceit, and commands respect that cannot be replicated with other behavior. The disconnect in this sub comes from bois trying to work above their SMV grade When your SMV is high enough, she won’t care what your answer is
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 12:49 AM
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Lies of omission are common from women, but are typically unnecessary for men in the dating game. What are you so ashamed of or needy for that you cannot be straightforward? Some here will disagree, but if you have a high enough SMV deceit becomes a character flaw that will devalue you over time. — Edit: Good response and wisdom in the comment below. To those downvoting, I get it, and have been there. You gain power through deceit. We’ve all been there. Its useful, utilitarian, whatever. Still. …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 12:30 AM
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I internalize it through lifting now. Before jokingly I’d demand an apology from the girl for riding the CC. They always give it.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 08:18 PM
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Primal instinct? I was ready to fight after seeing the pictures. I’m calm 99% of the time. Unphased by lower SMV girl histories.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 06:34 PM
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Congrats on the promotion. Do remember that respect is earned. In the professional space, a write-up can create a long term enemy that works against you. Use it sparingly. Lead with other methods if possible.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:47 PM
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The baby clock beats harder and louder than anything else for these women. They will change their “preferences” to accommodate blue pill dick the second they realize their SMV has fallen due to body count and age. I applaud them for not sounding bitter.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:32 PM
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If your eyes didn’t water at the end of “Independence Day” you’re a god damn commie Otherwise I agree
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:26 PM
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Absolutely. Google “grease the groove” and weightlifting, or the like. The strongest mother fuckers pound for pound practice this technique for strength gains without muscle pump. I would also recommend using hand strength exercises if you can’t complete full lifts. Grip strength is way underrated.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:19 PM
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Until they aren’t, youth are always beta
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:07 PM
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I don’t think this tells the whole story, tho I get why people take it to this level. The ability to remain cool, collected, calm amidst chaos is a skill set. It requires experience and practice to develop, and has benefits for you and also those around you. It is not inherent. A strong frame takes time and effort, and positively reinforces work, social, and family circles. Likewise, selfishness in ones mission and path in life, within the same line of thinking and constructs, does the same. aga…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 04:53 PM
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You are not a beautiful and unique snowflake. Most women are thrilled to fuck a driven beta, let alone a beta with potential. On a personal note, browsing images of her past bois only infuriated me, though, so do that with caution.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 04:32 PM
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I lost respect for you when you rated yourself so confidently, and used porn stars as an example. Women with too strong a self image, or those that have ridden the CC for too long, are always unstable. Regardless, every woman that I’ve dated between 18-30 has been highly sexual without my help. As a plate or LTR, they not only initiate sex often, they stoke the fire with passing grinds, ass slaps, and kisses when time doesn’t permit the full shebang. There is zero manipulation in this act; they …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 03:39 PM
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You don’t know if she is LTR material yet. Psychologically you need to demote her to “potential plate material” until she proves that she is worthy for plate status. It will help keep your game crisp and create tension for her. Next sorority or whatever party, bring the big boy pants and make a move if she is receptive. Don’t drink too much. Keep it fun, hold your frame, and be confident. Down the road, if she proves loyal, happy, consistent, fucks when and how you please, she can sign up for an…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 01:50 AM
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At some point, I hope all of the texts/communication that has been intercepted and stored in NSA archives becomes indexed and searchable. A veritable gold mine of relationship comedy awaits.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 10:39 PM
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Don’t worry. She’ll find another beta she can big spoon within a couple years.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 10:32 PM
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As a man, I don’t give a fuck about her easier access to sex. The more cock, the more she devalues. Surrounded by betas, hoes, and feminists, I’m the prize now.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 10:17 PM
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It’s a process that takes time, years potentially. Evaluate yourself. How strong are you mentally, emotionally, physically, compared to your peers? Where can you improve?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 09:50 PM
-1

Musk’s wealth does not fluctuate in terms of power or security with divorce or dating. If it did, he would change his behavior. I suspect that psychologically he has paid a price because of separation from his offspring. He has mentioned loneliness or companionship as a value in the past. Edit: offspring comment
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 06:30 PM
2

Money gives you security and power, but it does not turn you into a beast of a man. In a perfect world, you develop both sets of attributes.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 06:25 PM
6

The availability of sex is greater, but I don’t think it’s a good thing with respect to pair bonding, which is a biological imperative if you want a stable LTR or later on a family. Every girl that I’ve dated with a low body count has had a strong self-image, been more transparent about her history, and expressed a natural desire to support my mission, regardless of her own. Those riding the hypergamy train have to deal with the impact of their choices, and it directly affects their self worth, …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 06:24 PM
1

I agree. Sexual history matters. It’s true about the bragging and deceit (low vs high count). I don’t hold the deceit against them any longer. I used to be more righteous about it. Today I don’t care. They all used. You fuck up the pair bond that many times as an attractive woman, you’d be embarrassed too. However, a partner count of three by mid twenties, for an attractive woman, is going to be tough to find. Doesn’t make her unicorn either. I have seen HBs running hypergamy do a hard 180 for a…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 05:54 PM
1

I never said to accept cheating. I said to lower your expectations for body count.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 03:27 PM
1

He’s a beta with a mission, work ethic, and vision to see it through. This does not resolve other problems with his fitness, presence, sensitivity, awkwardness, tendency to miscalculate, etc.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 03:25 PM
5

He already got onetis. Now it’s up to him to make the decision to lower his standards or move on. Remember that by college, nearly all available women have a sexual history. A high body count sucks to deal with if you like the girl for LTR material, no doubt, but you need to lower your expectations. The cock carousel is their biology.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 06:07 AM
7

I agree about life’s challenges. This is a young forum, with many youthful opinions, stories, and boasts, but the theories extend to all ages. You are judged by your peers, after all. I would never compare my success with women to a twenty year old beta. In later years, how well you advance as a man, grow a family, retire, maintain a happy existence can be improved by the principles and theories found here.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 01:40 AM
1

Lols are one indicator of this, but so is something simpler. Time. If she spends more time on you (glance, dialog, body language), greater than other males around her, she has communicated more than enough to go on. Of course, it’s up to you to lead the conversation, build trust, and fuck her well, but that’s on you now.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 12:17 AM
55

In any relationship with a woman, the more shit tests that you pass, generally, the less severe that they are when they are initiated the faster she comes around after emotional breakdown the more she thinks about or initiates sex on her own the more power you have in the relationship the less energy you waste on the relationship the more time you devote to your mission Additionally, the experience of passing shit tests is transferable. You gain frame strength and agility across other genres, at…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 11:34 PM
1

The word ‘manipulation’ ought to be traded with ‘persuasion’ or ‘motivation’ here to dampen the blow. To this day, I believe that outright deception is unnecessary in sexual strategy. The quantity of pussy available to you is unprecedented. You don’t need to masquerade or obscure to be successful.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 11:15 PM
11

Money helps you to obtain power. It does not make you into a beast of a man. Musk is a sort of split personality in this regard.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 10:46 PM
54

A pair bonded alpha is like winning the fucking lottery for a woman.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 06:47 PM
3

Bro. Dating multiple plates doesn’t require being sneaky. You can be straightforward with women, eg, “you seem like long term material, but I want to get to know you better first”. Also you don’t have divulge anything in the first month and some anyways, it’s plain and simple privacy until you know her better. She is the risk, not you. You are allowed to stay guarded without being a fraud. Besides, honesty and integrity will only earn you respect over the long haul. Leave that other type of mani…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 05:39 PM
16

Upvoted for your humility, although your interpretation of why she fucked you and didn’t return for more might have been off. A field report that shows failure is a goldmine for learning and growth.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 05:36 PM
169

It’s simple. Men really start to hit their stride at 28-32 in terms of value, and can appreciate from there even. Women tend to depreciate in terms of looks from that point. Any woman that depended too greatly on her looks in her twenties is bound to have a little bitterness in her when she is older.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 05:31 PM
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Solid report, I’ll add a different angle to this. Beautiful women have common traits that make them straightforward to game and date in an LTR as well. It’s not all glass half empty. 1) They are insecure when it comes to most character and personality attributes because they know they are most often judged on their looks. Compliments that target these, or tease their inadequacies, are effective here. After a joke, drop a “Damn, I didn’t know you were so funny.” or similar. One example. 2) They h…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 03:05 PM
5

The red pill isn’t going anywhere. Trash accumulates with time. The whining, anger, and manipulation from betas and third wave feminists will continue of course, as always. That’s not a problem. Use that downvote and moderate accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 12:08 AM
2

Red Pill as a triage ward, I like it. Still. The blood needs to be cleaned, the bodies need to be dumped more often. Every system that functions well overtime has garbage collection and a maintenance crew. Toss out the whiny, bitchy, beta trash.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 11:55 PM
6

Concur, ban him. I don’t mind the occasional flare against divorce rape but this is over the top.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 11:32 PM
4

They were brutal warriors for their causes, and held leadership roles with respect from their peers. They could have looked like Dennis the Menace and been viewed as attractive with these attributes.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 07:24 PM
2

I would start by crushing your insecurities one by one. This is up to you and you alone. It allows your to be fearless, and have abundance mentality if the goings get rough. Only then can you set the tone for the relationship. Don’t like her bringing up her hypergamy years or her ex? Good luck banning it from conversation until you have her respect. You are the foundation for your LTR’s success or failure, as she will end up despising you if she leads, criticizes frequently, or demands more from…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 04:15 PM
5

Girls night, girls weekend, male friends, gay best friend, this is systemic behavior. Hypergamy activity ends under my roof.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 07:18 PM
20

Every single girl wants a wolf hound, a beast of man, whether she admits it to herself or not. That is the fucking truth. Don’t let feminism or your blue pill cultural aspirations convince you otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 10:03 PM
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The day my woman has a sleepover at another persons house is the day she is nexted. If kids are involved counseling is a requirement for due diligence, otherwise, this is straight blue pill behavior. He dumb.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 08:47 PM
2

Interesting post, appreciate it. The dollar gift exchange is brilliant, and forces her to marinate, which she’ll do that regardless if she into you. What’s this about acclimating to an HB8 after 50 sessions tho? Early stages, you could knock that out in a couple weeks. Good things come and go, great things take time. Sounds more like fast food culture to me. What other quotes did you find useful?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 08:40 PM
-1

The rewards are different. Spinning plates, you get excitement and fun, sure, but at some point in your life, it’s not easier than an autopilot LTR that supports your mission. Abundance both ways. You can always change your preference. You decide what you want. Edit: for the betas that think an LTR warrants a downvote, always remember that your plate is fucking someone else
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 06:57 PM
24

Secret. Weak enough for a beta man, but made for an alpha woman
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 05:43 PM
8

300 push-ups in a single workout 300 dl, on the way to 400 next year GF is constantly feeling my ass and shoulders after gaining muscle mass
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 04:16 PM
4

The workplace flirt and romance is so fucking dangerous for your career and reputation. With the OP’s line of thinking, without blue pill validation and alpha tension, the #metoo trend will force women to be judged more by their output and skills in the office. For women that work in male dominated fields, your gender and looks are now a negative attribute. In the past, this wasn’t the case. But today it’s different. If I’m building a team, and have to choose, I’d rather have an ugly girl that p…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 03:59 PM
1

You have to show up, practice, put forth effort. Spend some time working from coffee shops to get your cold approach up to speed, interact with women at stores and malls, joining outdoor activities or co-ed teams. In these environments, work on gaining trust and building respect quickly, within a sentence or two for new girls. Get some plates spinning.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 03:38 PM
1

Well your SMV goes down without family or community backing.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 09:05 PM
7

Reminds me of https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-JmNKGfFj7w Of course, you can’t be too selfish and too vain without consequence. Sacrifice and authenticity are built into the constructs of family and community, and these are meaningful attributes to carry with you. If you are void of either you might have a problem.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 08:17 PM
21

I would take it a step further. Honesty is the fundamental difference between a strong and weak frame. While there are ways to strengthen frame with patience and confidence, you will never be truly respected until others know that your word is gold.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:23 PM
33

In your house, your word is law. I have noted that most women, even feminists, will fall in line behind an alpha or what appears to be an alpha relatively quickly. Most women don’t like to lead these sorts of discussions, or have deep opinions on them, or be held responsible for the consequence of leading them. There are some exceptions to this, but generally speaking. They don’t want to define their success criteria, or yours. They want a man to do this. Therefore, most women don’t mind being t…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 11:26 PM
6

They might but it doesn’t matter. A tall, confident, pretty boy inverts the game without much effort. Women will gravitate toward you in social settings. At a bar, at the grocery store, waiting for a delayed plane, at a concert, etc.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 11:15 PM
13

Good summary here. One more thing to note is that if you have established yourself well, women will respect the boundaries and rules of conduct that you set. You can move boundaries as needed.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 05:50 PM
15

Disagree for several reasons: 1) Studies show that men don’t find women with a high body count as attractive, regardless of culture. Polygamy would only worsen this in the context of women. 2) even today, HB’s that run the hypergamy gene will stop mid-stride for alpha or what they perceive to be an alpha in order to start a family. 3) Past the age of 30, her SMV drops with time, and this forces women to remain loyal. Branch swinging is harder. This of course assumes that he is not a beta boy. 4)…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:04 PM
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They cover family history, past excess, weakness at work or at the university, or health. After university, the baby clock forces them to cover hypergamy tracks. A woman with more than a few partners is high risk for an LTR or family. No reason to be honest when you snare a biggun’. The only ones that I’ve found with more than shred of integrity (to start with, they learn quickly or they get dropped) are younger and haven’t been broken by feminism or a dozen partners. Edit: clarity
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 02:06 AM
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Every single woman that I’ve dated has lied, whether through omission or falsehood. The very best of them in terms of looks and attributes - scholar athletes, a doctor, a Christian runway model - withheld critical information for months at times, manipulation to the finest. Is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 01:30 AM
1

Not a bad post, but number thirteen is indefensible.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 10:31 PM
66

I agree with the premise here. As a power play, a well timed compliment is far less effective in conversation than a well timed criticism. Younger and beta boys will tend to mess up both, none the wiser.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 01:52 AM
0

Having a family isn’t blue pill advice. My son forced my life onto a level that I didn’t know existed before his birth. The pride, the power and drive, the desire to win went into overdrive, and led to fulfillment of more than just high value pussy.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 12:44 AM
19

It’s a little different for Asians, especially if they have family in low income circles. Loyalty, submissiveness, responsibility to their alpha and breadwinner is defined as a good quality at an early age. In my experience deception is minimal. It’s not that way for Soviet block and Eastern Europeans however.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 09:09 PM
2

In an LTR the leverage is different. Her SMV / beauty devalues with time, her submission increases with time, while your dominance both socially and in the relationship as a male goes up.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 01:22 AM
1

Upvote. Great fucking advice. The only sexual connotation in my workplace from the last few years has been female driven and initiated. It’s not worth the risk. Just drop the topic when it comes up and don’t get cornered. In one of our office on the east coast, there aren’t too many attractive men, and the girls hang out with our group willingly. I️ willingly decline lunch and happy hour with them. It’s my career at risk, not their’s.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 08:41 PM
9

I don’t think it’s one sided for the RP male or alpha at all. The stability of your frame and mission can diminish most anything a woman throws your way. Patience, consistency through her emotional up and downs, power in your physical presence. It has nothing to do with how hot she is. If anything, the hotter she is, the more power you have to control her sense of value in terms of beauty, compliments, long term devaluation with age, teasing, etc.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 08:04 PM
14

Seeing through the fog of war is only part of the equation. Girls aren’t inherently bad cause they are out looking for a stronger alpha, because they mask their insecurities, or because they have a beta male in their life. When you find a high value plate that respects you, they will adhere to your preferences over their preferences, and your assessment of past, present, and future standards of conduct. Whether or not you choose to accept her past or current flaws is up to you.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 10:41 PM
2

$100,000 is nothing for freedom. Lucky it wasn’t ten times that
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 09:13 PM
1

Wait does Sasha lurk or post here?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 09:09 PM
6

California is the best place for this to happen. A million Asian imports that understand RP gender dynamics will step in to replace the #metoo crowd. Instant karma for the feminists that can’t take responsibility for riding the cock carousel to the top.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 05:01 PM
22

Ah, got it. You should thank her for the motivation it will give you to become a beast in your life, and not waste time with a dead end LTR. Don’t waste another second her. Change your paradigm.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 04:24 PM
23

Stay positive for your future. Unless she is a nine or ten, a failed four year relationship during a girls prime is a death knell for her finding an alpha to settle down with. Her loss - she knows it. That’s why she said that. True, you probably fucked things up along the way, but don’t worry about that now. Next time you will be a different person. It’s time to get selfish, improve your frame, mission, life and future, and not enter into an LTR any time soon. Time to fuck beautiful women - ther…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 04:14 PM
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Over time technology will expose people for who they truly are. Imaging software already can forecast what people will look like at 20, 30, 40, 50 and also at 10, 20, 30 pounds over weight. It’s just getting started. Wait until software gets fed social media posts, audio recordings, family data, etc. a couple years from now you’ll have a good idea of risk as it relates to your plate. Makeup removal is just the beginning. You would be a fool not to use this as a defensive tool for plates and LTR …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 03:27 PM
3

Female caretaker qualities can temporarily overcome branch swinging in LTR’s. I’ve seen it last decades with cancer. Your girl (is she the one with the gun that has threesomes?) could be signaling more than LTR, so be careful. Edit: word choice cause stacy has selective hearing
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 08:12 PM
22

I work in software engineering, from smaller startups to fortune 500’s to federal agencies. In my line of work women tend to fail, or worse, be less respected, more than men at key positions requiring leadership, systems and software development, deep troubleshooting, and break-fix tasks. In supporting roles, they do just fine. Communication memo’s, light tracking, end user support. The long term employees tend to keep their heads down and minimize push back. They act how beta males act.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 07:58 PM
3

Don’t justify your frame. And don’t talk politics in general. Waste of time, energy, etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 06:51 PM
2

Hormone management is no different than a diet. Everything in moderation.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 06:42 PM
3

Keto done poorly will devour your muscle mass. In 2018, based on overwhelming evidence, I plan to run it at the end of two month build cycles to shred fat, but acknowledge that I also drop muscle mass in the process.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 05:36 PM
10

In my view, a true RP would neither brag about nor fuck with a married woman. As an investment, she will be high risk, high uncertainty, possibly hiding flaws, with low return. Best case, you get an emotional and dopamine high from the risk. Worst case, if she is a HVF, you will have an alpha in the background that won’t take kindly to your involvement.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 05:31 PM
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It’s a very straightforward boundary. She is too decline all advances because her alpha said so. When I’m not around, my girl gets attention and invites for coffee, lunch, happy hour, going out, and study sessions at work and school. She is a high value female, courteous, educated, happy, and hot. First month, I asked her what would happen if guys tried that in front of me. I answered my own question; they wouldn’t disrespect me, and she will not either. Guy-girl friendships are not tolerated.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 06:32 PM
5

Ageee... over time, LTR quantity and quality (sexual skill develops with time) can far exceed any mix of plates.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 03:27 AM
2

Good point. It’s because the open LTR lifestyle is not especially appealing to many, male and female included.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 03:06 PM
6

Not necessarily, it’s just a point of risk. You don’t have to be insecure about it, but if you want the strongest possible relationship you have to remove risk over time.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 02:35 PM
14

Clubbing should be removed to stabilize the LTR. Girls night or not, doesn’t matter. It’s a lie of omission or misdirection to think otherwise, something very easy to do early as a plate.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 04:40 AM
1

True for body count, but tough to cook the rest. If you command her respect, she eventually will reveal lifestyle, family, friends, education, social media history, credit history, and others. Yes, even the good girls will tend to hide snap, fb, and insta initially, but they must be exposed and secured. If you feel like a beta and want to respect her privacy, I urge you not to for plate promotion. Think as if your Dad were talking to your mom about a stalker, or guys asking to meet up with her, …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 02:45 PM
1

“The VAST majority of my subs and plates are married women that aren't getting what they need at home. Like, 80-90%” I agree with the point about fucking your wife well, but do not underestimate marriage. A coworker did this for a while, and it ended with his skull fractured. He didn’t realize the husband was on the way home.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 11:54 PM
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Plate promotion and analysis deserves its own side bar, if not it’s own subreddit. Any post on the topic gets an upvote from me.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 06:15 PM
1

They’ll never outrun a man tho
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 12:37 AM
12

Gotta audit her books if you are serious about a long term investment. Math doesn’t lie.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 12:20 AM
3

It takes one alpha heartbreak or that damned baby clock to set them straight.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 12:02 AM
15

“Slowly improving” Knuckles for massive gains in a short time frame.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 11:59 PM
21

Weak/provider and missing father also means different things for communication. Weak/provider fathers can leave a legacy of a girl with a very strong frame, meaning an unwillingness to submit to mistakes. Her communication skills will exceed understanding of stable male female relationships. Absent fathers, rather,leave a legacy of a girl without a model for male behavior as well as a moral compass to guide. This makes them vulnerable to defining right and wrong on your terms (a good thing if yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 10:48 PM
59

What kind of man doesn’t smirk when they open that stuck jar of jam for their woman?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 07:07 PM
1

The truth will set you free. It might also sting a bit, to learn that hypergamy has an Achilles heel.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 06:49 PM
1

Look. Mission is the foundation of any RP approach. You can’t have a strong frame without it. Confidence to engage women is built from both. That’s why “owning your shit” matters. Complaining, exhaustion, overcommitment, insecurity these are common enemies that will fuck up your day, your date, your week.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 03:03 PM
4

College girls all start out wanting a pretty boy. Eventually, they will want the complete package. The baby clock will tick. They will still want the best they can achieve. A competitive alpha male at 7/10 appearance will bury a 10/10 pretty fuck boy and any beta by every other categorical measure. Women know this, they aren’t stupid. If they are running hypergamy, they will stop mid-stride for an alpha. I watched it happen all through college. That to me is RP 101 more than anything. You can el…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 07:16 AM
8

Appearance is affected by body composition, posture, energy levels, too. It is enhanced by confidence. It is enhanced by the right social circles and lifestyle choices. This is not much different from earning potential and personality.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 07:06 AM
1

Balance is key. Yes you have to own shit your first and foremost, and that will require young bucks to either remove distractions or reduce hobbies in order to free up time and energy for your mission. The born and bred red RP guys that I’ve known are rarely tired and overcommitted for more than a day or two. They aren’t drunk or high all the time. They aren’t running on empty, “Going hard or going home.” Interaction with women is simpler when you have a compelling life and foundation to work fr…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 03:30 AM
4

Whining and revealing weakness is horrible for early dating and plate spinning. It positions you into a best friend light straight away. It’s exactly what girls seeking beta males are looking for. They will fall in love over that shit a dozen before they realize what’s missing.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 08:33 PM
10

Works: Complete mission objectives with a vengeance that day or week. Train like a gorilla. Finish office goals like an SVP climbing the ladder. Research the next overseas trip. Fix something. Stop by Grandma’s house to say hello. Whatever it is, own it fully. Doesn’t work: When I was younger, in college, I would center on the date. Prepare, script. Change a bunch of clothes. Don’t do that. Don’t show up drunk or high. Just be yourself, which is more than enough. Remember: She is in your presenc…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 08:27 PM
1

Before if possible. However, only after reputation beyond the initial attraction is established. That can be a couple dates for younger ones. I’m interviewing them more than they are me. I feared rejection initially but after a couple dates with 9/10s, after a couple hard no’s, and a couple girls change their tone mid-flight to the positive, better understood the approach. A lot of girls have missing father figures remember. A lot genuinely want a man, too.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 05:46 AM
6

Can you get back up on the podium and expand more on “negative utility territory”? Knuckles for a solid metaphor thus far.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 04:34 PM
12

Previously, I would have made a statement like yours. After having my son, I continued to feel locked in for a year or so. It was a beta, resource-limited, weak mentality to be honest. At some point I just owned it, and life has exploded since then. Granted I have 50% custody and a good family structure in town, so maybe I’m an outlier. But the last three years have been my absolute best, far exceeding my past, with more travel, athletics, achievements, women, and overall manhood than one could …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 03:47 PM
14

If I were the OP, I’d leave her, and be more careful. You don’t know what’s on the other side of that text. Edit: to clarify, the story is solid, useful as a cautionary tale, and also, the beta buck imagery is spot on. Still, alls fair in love and war.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 03:27 PM
6

It all comes down to respect. Abundance mentality and a strong frame command respect from females. In an LTR there are nuances to loyalty and reassurance that she will seek as well. These are strengthened if you have abundance, and weakened if you reassure from a place of isolation.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 08:52 PM
1

Instagram + cake = instacake Or perhaps it should be instaplate
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 08:42 PM
2

Social media will manifest the risk. Less headache overall to plate at best, avoid at worst. The lack of personality and insecurity (need for likes) takes energy and time to overcome in an LTR. Let a BP deal with that shit.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 02:08 PM
3

The progression or order was solid. If you break it up, keep that for context for each successive video. Good work.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 05:46 AM
3

If it’s LTR, I’d take a page from my Dad’s playbook. “In this house... [insert the law of the land]”. It could be that she just doesn’t understand the respect for family and tradition that’s required, and if she wants it to last, she will fall in line and support you.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 08:51 PM
3

Nothing to do with beta or alpha. The point I was making for the OP was to not waste too much energy on vindication. Growth would be to stay focused on himself, and choose straightforward interactions with women, loyal, disloyal, honest, dishonest, grateful, or otherwise ungrateful. Mutually beneficial means that you are advancing to an extent greater than or equal to their advancement.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 08:24 PM
10

In active social circles the prettiest women tend to need a bit more validation as their identity is tied to looks, rather than other strengths. If they have a weak family or moral background, this translates to increased traffic in bars and clubs, social networks, and dating applications, which in turn results in more opportunities to use sex to this end. When you are seeking long term commitment and low body count from the pretty ones, double check their family and friends. The context never l…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:54 PM
10

When a man’s mission involves destruction, hatred, or harm to the innocent, he has missed the point. TRP is not about vindictive destruction in any way. Edit: removed the cognitive dissonance for clarity.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:43 PM
3

She is dating other people in my opinion. If I were you, I would too.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:34 PM
7

Body count has a direct impact on whether a girl is marriage material to a lot of us. Both in terms of pair bonding, and also the decision to take easy street, regardless of personal history or reasons.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 01:36 AM
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There’s this trend of empathizing with the 24 hour news cycle of regular events in a beta male or self centered woman’s life. It’s rampant in the office, at school, anywhere really. Exchanges of envy, shame, sadness, over normal things. An individual with a mission in life will not have time for this. They will avoid it, or shut it down with a strong frame. Still. The big events in your colleagues, friends, and family’s lives will evoke empathy, pride, joy, sadness, all the same. I would be susp…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 11:56 PM
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My view is that an alpha won’t tolerate competition, and a real woman understands this and bends to meet his nature. She is warned once to empty the trash, her phone, social media, and dating app catalog. Any source of potential competition is to remain open and exposed or the account deleted entirely.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 09:24 PM
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I bet the dream is crushed by the time they get through college. Reality hits. Dick ain’t enough.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 08:57 PM
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Good held frame through shit tests twice last week (ltr of 10 months) had a four day travel work week with long hours and managed 1600 push-ups and two hard city runs noted increasing pattern for approval and deference from betas and alphas at work no alcohol for five months sold or donated unused high value gear (for write off) to keep focused on mission Bad ten more or less wasted hours on a plane still coming to terms with hypergamy that I did not realize until 8 months into relationship re: …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 03:31 PM
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