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Until 24 I was a chubby homebody in a LTR living in EE earning 1-3k/mo. Slurping 2 liters of coke per day and just wasting life away being too comfortable with my LTR and money. Playing video games, freelancing, banging my LTR and just living comfortable life. But I was not happy. So I bought one way ticket to Southeast Asia and left everything behind. Shortly afterwards discovered TRP and similar stuff. I started implementing some of it and it was an instant improvement. A true eye opener. My n…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 10:47 AM
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I disagree. I think she's 3 at best.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 09:25 PM
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I don't think these are shit tests. Seems like an insecure person with some serious self doubts. I would not consider LTRing this girl.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 12:32 AM
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Lol gtfo.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 11:50 AM
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You're overthinking it. Treat him just like you treat every other human. Also, you have a great opportunity to test your girlfriends fidelity.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 01:21 PM
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I don't think many men are well informed about BPD inside and out and the consequences it can bring. So my estimate is that 80%+ would date her thinking they "can handle her". Personally, I'd rather put my dick in a microwave than date a BPD chick again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 01:39 PM
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Read about codepedency as well, you possibly have traits of it.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 04:38 PM
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No problem. May be worth a look to read about cluster B disorders (especially BPD and NPD) in women.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 09:02 AM
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Hey buddy, I was there and I feel you. It sucks. You invested so much of yourself into her, for what? Nothing. Right now you feel a mix of emotions - confusion, sadness, anger, you still crave for her, you still want to fix it. But you can't. She was never yours and she will never be. She doesn't have same moral values as you. Don't even trick yourself for one second that she does. You've been meticulously manipulated and gaslighted all the way along. I know that right now you may not rationaliz…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:56 AM
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Key questions here are how old are you and are you truly happy with your LTR (I'd guess not since you're already asking this question here and thinking to bang a sidechick)? If you're under 30, good looking and HB9 isn't a complete bimbo I'd say drop the LTR and go have fun with HB9. One more experience with a hot chick who can potentially be a LTR in the future. If you're above 30, have weak abudance mentality and looks, and/or are happy with your LTR then soft next the HB9.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 10:38 PM
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And don't forget to tip your fedora on the way out.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:50 PM
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Because you're insecure & weird. Your posts here reek of it.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:45 PM
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You should be able to answer this for yourself - in this situation accepting advice from the internet is a bad idea. It depends on how your interaction went and your gut feeling about her. This either can come to you natural (which did not if you're asking for an advice here) or you develop and adjust it over time by interacting with women and people in general.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 05:22 PM
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Your behavior changed towards more edgy and assholish, which is perceived badly between your acquaintances. They're bitter because they see you improving. It's one of these two reasons, or both.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 11:54 AM
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How exactly did you contribute with this comment to the OP's question?
/r/askTRP08/04/18 11:43 AM
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It's a game on a nightmare mode only if you LTR a slut or otherwise unsuitable woman for LTR.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 11:29 AM
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Yes, trust is only one of the factors in the whole equation. Some women are suitable for LTR material, some are not. Western women tend to be more untrustworthy and have weaker nurturing qualities than the women who grew up in more traditional cultures.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 11:26 AM
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Having healthy boundaries and grown ass adult expectations from each other. You cannot "not give a shit" about LTR if you want to maintain monogamous relationship without it becoming into dysfunctional hell. It takes two to tango.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 11:19 AM
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It's a polarizing photo and you automatically preselect DTF girls. But that's the 95% of the girls on tinder, so yeah, if you're shredded and after easy lays, it definitely works.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:09 AM
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Not really - you're the man, you want something, in this case you want to see her again - you tell her that directly. No bullshit, no games. Women can recognize and respect this.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:05 PM
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It's not a necessity, but I have a great IG and it definitely works, especially for online dating.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 03:48 PM
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Then don't get launched into the orbit on the festivals if she's going with you. Basically what @Morphs_ said. If you say that you generally get along fine, tone it down with drugs when you're with her.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 03:29 PM
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Why do you want to be in a LTR with a woman that you're clearly incompatible with? Find someone to whom your interests align better with each other. Different opinions about drug intake is pretty heavy topic when it comes to LTR and you either find common ground or break it up.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 03:19 PM
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You sound bitter, buddy.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:45 PM
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2 weeks no contact is way too long time especially if you made it past first base on a first date. It's possible that she lost interest in the meantime. You probably should have escalated to bring her back to your place on a 2nd date. Meet with her on Sunday, if she flakes again, ghost her.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 09:08 AM
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My dude. Stop hamstering it for her. She spent 10+ years in abusive relationships. It's not something that happened to her by a chance. It was her choice. Even if she wasn't mentally unstable beforehand, do you think that a lifetime of abuse didn't leave a toll on her well being? The ultimate question here is do you really think that you can't find better woman and settle down with someone who empirically proved that she is not an ideal partner for you and will potentially ruin your life further…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:34 PM
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I get where you are coming from and I would say go for it if it makes you happy. However, pay attention about one thing here - this woman was in relationship with abusive guy for 10 years. You would think she learned the lesson. But no, she picked equally abusive one again. Sure, they may have been abusive. But what does this tell you about her?
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:16 PM
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Yes, it's a thing. No, you should not do it. Mirroring, inconsistency between her past and who she is with you, and the whole "damsel in distress" appearance are early tell tale signs of cluster B disordered person. She checks all three. Whats with all the should I LTR crazy single mom posts today.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 08:31 PM
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You didn't fuck up, sounds like basic ASD. Possibly she needs a bit more time to get comfortable. Next time you meet her act normally as you would and build rapport/comfort with her and you're golden.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 08:04 PM
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Yeah, understandable. You want her, but she's inconsistent. So you have two options from my point of view: 1) Easy way which will potentially make you miserable in a long run Meet up with her and attempt to have an adult talk. Tell her what you told me. That you're looking for a stable and consistent partner. Lay all your expectations down as a grown ass man to her. Be 100% sure and confident about what you're going to say. You wont come off as needy, but as a man who knows what he wants and is …
/r/askTRP18/03/18 02:38 PM
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You come from a wrong angle at the issue. She doesn't respond to your calls and doesn't respect your time. That's not a shit test. She's either not interested in you romantically or just a shitty human being. Possibly both.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 02:20 PM
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Divorced, has a kid, post wall, inconsistency in her behavior during the first month. Why do you want to pursue this?
/r/askTRP18/03/18 02:13 PM
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I assume you live on the west, because where I lived (most of the Europe and SEA) there's virtually zero to none of that shit. From time to time a wild entitled snowflake appears on my radar (either over Tinder or social environment) but it is usually glaringly obvious almost immediately that she's nuts. So what I would recommend is to try to vet a woman as soon as you can - usually you can figure out during first few minutes of interaction if they lean towards radical feminism or shit similar t…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 06:01 PM
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I would not waste my early twenties going to the college and being locked down in one place for nearly 6 years, just because thats what society expected me to do. About my work and career, I'd jump ships much faster and without any remorse, instead being stuck at one position for years due to being "friends" with my clients and accepting shitty terms (which were still awesome back then for my student life). I would lift and eat healthy, instead eating shitty food and downing 2 liters of coke eve…
/r/askTRP11/03/18 12:49 PM
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80% of the RP philosophy is golden and can be applied to life and women, but then there is that 20% which is over the top. This 20% is what I meant by saying "RP-alike domineering behavior". This part of RP is tailored towards eliminating affective and cognitive empathy, which is NOT good in a long run and will prevent you to maintain any kind of healthy interpersonal relationship. You have to be capable to empathize with your partner, consider his/her POV and react appropriately. Relationships …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:53 AM
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Way less entitled, more thoughtful and self aware. I don't have to drill down through 10 layers of fake personalities and masks to get to the real person as I have to with most of the North American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 07:52 PM
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Domineering behavior is not the same as dominant behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 07:33 PM
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It is one of the factors, yes. I believe that most of the hardcore redpillers out there are overcompensating for their unresolved deep rooted insecurities. I'll even take freedom to say that prevalent condition here is codependency. By externalizing their RP-alike domineering behavior they attract only insecure/incomplete partners and shun the healthy ones. Further down the road they get the needed validation by the former ones, so they get the mental image that everything works as it should and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 03:25 PM
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With that in mind, would you say it's fair to claim that RPers are recovering nice guys? Yes. I was raised as a Mr. Nice Guy and was wondering why the fuck most of the girls DON'T SEE HOW NICE I AM. Then I discovered RP (about 4 years ago) and everything suddenly made sense. It was like someone gave me a cheat code for life. I quadrupled my n-count in a time span of a year. I was absolutely astounded by this. So I started applying RP even harder to my life and this was the moment when I started …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 02:06 PM
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You can definitely find to rent an accommodation anywhere in SEA without signing up any kind of lease, and you can rent either monthly or tri-monthly without any issues.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 02:19 PM
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95% chance you'll get fucked, from my experience. I've spent 3 months there. Had lots of short term flings and one consistent girl that I was seeing for almost whole duration of my stay there and my feeling is that there is a huge chance they look at you as a ticket out of there. Since I hope that you're moving there because of the other reasons (not because of her?!) my advice to go and look at her as a fun, don't LTR or commit to anything with her whatsoever until you're absofuckinglutely sure…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 12:14 PM
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That photo is outright creepy. And it makes you look like a douche.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 11:22 PM
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Congratz.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 12:07 PM
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Your thread is ridiculous. There is no substance, no real question. You literally listened to some random internet person telling you to shave your head because you will "stand out from the crowd". That doesn't sound like you know what you're doing. Read the sidebar, get a grasp on what TRP really is. Work on your inner game first. I've just checked your profile here on reddit. You use some weird ass "privacy script" that deletes everything you write here after a day or two. Who does that kind o…
/r/askTRP03/05/16 07:26 PM
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Or maybe don't be a dumbfuck that listens to everything people say in here. Learn what works for you, and what doesn't. Get some self confidence.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 06:27 PM
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Ignore her.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 03:10 PM
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You have my daily vote from the Philippines.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/04/15 08:45 AM
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Don't go in details, except if they really don't seem interested. I'm an IT contractor, working remotely and currently traveling around SE Asia. When girl asks me what do I do, I usually respond something like: "IT Engineer. Working from my laptop while I travel around." Usually I get pretty positive reactions. I tried showing what I actually do, like, showing the apps I make, etc., to the girls that I already f-closed with, and not a single of them seemed interested or amused. So I stopped doin…
/r/seduction11/04/15 12:09 PM
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Big chunk of texting nowadays goes over whatsapp or similar non-sms apps.. How did you plan to tackle on that?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 10:32 PM
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