Success stories

re1ser · 2018-08-28T10:47:23+00:00

Until 24 I was a chubby homebody in a LTR living in EE earning 1-3k/mo. Slurping 2 liters of coke per day and just wasting life away being too comfortable with my LTR and money. Playing video games, freelancing, banging my LTR and just living comfortable life. But I was not happy.

So I bought one way ticket to Southeast Asia and left everything behind. Shortly afterwards discovered TRP and similar stuff. I started implementing some of it and it was an instant improvement. A true eye opener.

My n-count literally increased tenfold in a timespan of a year since then. I went from incel who doesn't understand girls to someone who can navigate through that.

I've been working remotely, full time traveling and living in different countries in Europe and Asia since then. Met lots of awesome people, it definitely changed my perception of the world and helped me grow as a person.

Dated and lived with a BPD chick for a while, she totally destroyed my frame and put me into some dark corners of depression and anxiety. I've learnt a lot of things from this experience and rebuilt myself from the scratch since then. Definitely one of most valuable lessons in my life, a true blessing in disguise. Dealing with normal people now is a breeze.

I've established myself and people respect me in business. This month I made north of 20k USD. I'm still struggling to find motivation to train but I go at least 2-3 times per week to the gym now and my looks are above average.

I can consistently get laid with 7s without any hassle. However, I'm still struggling a bit with anxiety around hot girls and cold approaches.

I also toned down implementation of TRP concepts (consider myself more of a purple pill now). I am in state of mind where I have childlike playfulness and kindness but strong frame at the same time.

Looking back at where I was 5 years ago, I've improved tenfold in every aspect of my life.

I wouldn't call this a success story since I don't think there's such thing unless you're Brad Pitt. There will always be a room for improvement and as men our mission is to not steer of that path.

But looking back at where I was 5 years ago, damn things have changed a lot.

StrifePrevails · 2018-08-28T11:05:37+00:00

Yup. I commented something like this on another askTRP post but I'm always down to share. I used to be an awkward, "gay best friend" type of guy. I had friends, but we were all in the same boat, complaining about how women just want the popular guys and fuckboys.

As it happened though, one day I was feeling especially sorry for myself and found out about PUA on the Internet. I was thrilled. Going on seddit and seeing all the success stories really gave me hope. So I practiced my game, put myself out there and I got a bit of success. Girls that hadn't known me before were charmed, I got my first kiss, things were looking up. But it was literally just a front, I was the same bitch I always was at school, no one respected me and only my friends really liked me. Then I hit 17.

I was a really late bloomer so I only grew into my height when I was nearly 18. I went from one of the shortest guys in class to one of the tallest over the course of a year. Now, like any good beta, I had to be kept in my place. I'd always get comments like "He thinks he's hot now" or "Don't act up, we know who you really are" and it worked. Even though I was tall and attractive now, I was still that short skinny kid in their eyes. Around this time, my friends started working out and I wanted to join in, but hadn't the faintest clue how to start. So I searched up ways to gain muscle fast on reddit search tool and lo, I saw a TRP post. I then went down this rabbit hole and my eyes were opened. This sounds like hyperbole but I swear I saw everything in a different light.

After taking the pill, I realised what was missing. I got treated like a bitch because I allowed myself to get treated like a bitch. After a shit ton of posts, I finally got it in my head that I need frame, I need confidence and I need to polish up my game. The results were literally like magic. There was some pushback of course (I think it helped that I tower over a lot of people now) but I became a pretty popular guy. Puberty did wonders for my friends too so they were pretty hot (they still had the bitch mentality but I guess people are more willing to give it a pass if there's a high value male in their group) and our group shot up the social ladder.

I think what cemented my new position in school is when this new girl showed up and she was like model tier hot. It was to the point where us guys had a meeting in someone's room (it was a boarding school) and when asked who's gunning for this girl, 80% of the room put their hands up. But I got her first. From that point on, I was one of the "cool" guys. I showed my friends all the PUA shit I learned, hoping they'd also find their way here (rule 1 of fight club: Don't talk about fight club) and they also got a bunch of their firsts.

The confidence I've gotten from here, the knowledge of social maneuvering, the game I've learned, it has improved my quality of life in a way I literally cannot put in words. Whenever someone asks about this place, I always gush like a teenage girl because I cannot imagine how shit my life would be without TRP. It's changed me for the better

rad_dynamic · 2018-08-28T11:09:41+00:00

Found TRP in March 2018. Used to be a skinny nice guy, thinking offering cuddles to girls would make them fancy me. Now I'm a visibly muscular guy who women chase(although I've had many, many many !!!! way fucking loads of rejections). I used to be a guy who follows and complained when things didn't go my way. Now I'm much better at being a leader of people and getting done what I want to be done.

Lots of ups and downs this year. I've slacked at times but always slapped myself on the wrist and gone back to improving as much as possible each day.

This has been the best year of my life. I'm more confident, more people like me, I get more attention from girls, I stop wasting my time, I've realised the important things in my life and the things that don't matter one bit.

I have a long way to go, I don't think I'll ever be the person I want to be because I always want to improve.

Slipstream17X · 2018-08-28T10:50:52+00:00

I’m married so the goalposts are different. But in a year of TRP, my confidence is way up, my self esteem is way up, and I get laid a lot more.

thesmithofwords · 2018-08-28T14:56:13+00:00

1 year ago I was 21, a kissless virgin, 300 pounds at 6'0. Absolute incel video game (dota 2) addict.

Discovered trp, started lifting and did monk mode for 10 months. Dropped down to 190 at 15% bf. Started getting female attention and confidence was boosted immensely as a result. Got the balls to ask out a female friend I was semi-orbiting who started showing IOIs at the new me. Had my first kiss with her and the next date lost my virginity with her. Still fuck a few times a week.

I limit my video game playing to 2 hours a day which is still too much but working on it, my social circle has grown and so have my social skills. People genuinely enjoy my company which feels amazing.

Basically I have trp to thank for being the happiest I have ever been. I wake up every day with a smile and a list of things to do, whereas before I would wake up like a robot booting up and play dota for 14 hours.

abudun79 · 2018-08-28T08:05:53+00:00

VERY RARE. But it does happen. Every once in a while someone reports back and yo ucan see actual progres they made in understanding and implementation. I like that very much. But this is not common. You're more likely to find something like that on the main sub.

Most people asking are helpless losers and asking on reddit doesn't change that. This sub attracts people who get nothing done in their life - but drinking, fapping, complaining and procrastinating. That's how they find TRP. But no meme and no sub converts you. There's a reason they're in that fucked up situation and that is not, that no one ever told them how life works, it's usually because they have never had to take consequences. And asking here doesn't change that as well. Only very few people will ever change. So, there is rarely a success ever happening. A big bunch of them doesn't understand the answers. And a bigger bunch doesn't even respond to the comments and ask the same shit again next week or disappear.

I guess the introduction of many posters is the closest you get to a success story. You know... when they tell how discovering this sub last week turned their lives around and they are now muscular chads, sweating abundances mentality and fucking HB12s all day. It's just with that one special girl they've seen on Instagram, what should they text her?

Flintblood · 2018-08-28T12:45:05+00:00

You’ll find a lot more success stories and field reports at the main sub. This sub is for newbies and for people who are having issues implementing TRP.

freew33zy · 2018-08-28T15:36:47+00:00

I couldn't talk to a girl in HS without feeling a ton of anxiety. I didn't have my first kiss until after HS--fuck, I probably only hugged a girl like once. I had a few friends and spent most weekends alone. I didn't go to any Proms. I orbited a couple different chicks I liked for full years before determining they didn't like me and moving on (funny enough: the first chick turned out to be a lesbian.)

Wanted a fresh start, got one in college. I spammed approaching chicks when I first got to college--earned a creepy rep quickly. I was autistic as fuck (not literally--no disrespect.) Anyways, gained some experience, saw some success in the form of makeouts and such but no sex--though only because I'd been turning it down from HB5 chicks. Anyways, kept grinding, eventually started to see incremental success throughout my first year of college. Got into decent shape but nothing special--5'9", bench about 200 @ 165 pounds and 15% body fat.

But by the end of the year, my lays started to add up. I went a couple months to start without a lay, but then I got a couple. A couple months later, a couple more. And a couple more. Ended up banging a HB8 who's exactly my type that freshman year, plated her for some months, and then finesse'd a one-way open relationship where I've banged double digit girls while with her the last two years and also had sex 10x per week with a HB8 the last couple years.

Still can't consistently pull true hotties (HB8+) but I'm not sure how many people can and my sex life went from nonexistent to pretty great. I couldn't touch a female before and now I have threesomes, bang a HB8 constantly, and have side dishes that tend to be either HB6s or HB7s with more 6s than 7s. I am not the ultimate Alpha, but I went from being completely invisible to being a guy with whom 95% of the male population would trade places. It feels really nice, and I definitely had to earn it.

priapula · 2018-08-28T22:31:59+00:00

There's tons

Title	Success stories
Author	Sendmoneytofly
Upvotes	26
Comments	34
Date	August 28, 2018 7:27 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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