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This is gonna be a trainwreck. I'll be here
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 08:52 PM
3

According to the GMVH, they're less different than men are
/r/MGTOW12/11/18 04:12 PM
2

Yeah it's childish, yes it's dumb, but it's a very real threat. Some dude got all up in my face because of it, luckily his friends talked him down, but idk what he was carrying. If he decided to stab me right there, all your advice would have gotten me is an appointment at the coroner's. It's context dependent.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 11:54 PM
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It's really context dependent. I've had experiences where keeping eye contact has led to a "This dude thinks he's tough" type situation but also where not keeping it has led to a "This dude's a bitch" type situation. I mostly keep eye contact, but never forget that whatever you do has a potential for backfire so learn to defuse situations regardless.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 09:43 PM
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Indeed. I like this post because BPers will look at it as an obvious LARP, some guy just putting fantasies in writing. And when we all chime in with our comparable, similar experiences, they'll just call it a circlejerk. It's actually a shame that most guys will go through life not knowing what it's like to walk down a street and be magnetic. They can't process that a mode of behavior that contrasts so starkly from what they've been fed their whole lives is objectively better. But whatever, a to…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 09:37 PM
3

Yeah not really sure what else OP was looking for. I'm much the same. Very sociable and talk to everyone but never about anything personal to me
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:55 PM
2

No one takes AWALT by its literal definition. It's a "all guns are loaded" type saying. Even if you have evidence to suggest a gun is not loaded, acting different will seriously hurt you. And hypergamy is a biological imperative, it can almost never be removed completely.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 07:34 AM
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Get it in your head that women are no different from normal people. Most guys pedestalise women and think they're "special" or some shit. Then set boundaries. Guys regularly let women walk all over them because "special" but you've already taken care of that so make your boundaries your absolute limit and take no shit, the same way you wouldn't if a guy decided to disregard your wishes. Now, learn game. I'm of the school of thought that opines kino and eye contact as way more important than what…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 07:31 AM
5

My dude, what? I can almost guarantee this is confirmation bias
/r/askTRP07/11/18 07:20 AM
3

Depends on how they see you. If you're a typical Eugene, they'll be like "Yeah that makes sense" and never think of it again. If you're a high SMV dude, they'll be surprised but intrigued as long as you don't come off as embarrassed, just be completely cool about it. A lot of girls like the idea of being a (high enough SMV) dude's first time so it could even help
/r/askTRP07/11/18 07:17 AM
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You're probably not high enough SMV. This girl is probably one of those "I don't really get along with other girls" professional beta spinners so you probably won't get anywhere as you are. These girls get off on the attention though, your play is to have one really good interaction with her, then just pull your attention away. These girls go nuts. But this is dependent on your SMV, she has to actually give a shit about your attention
/r/askTRP07/11/18 07:14 AM
5

"You're cool, we should hang sometime"
/r/askTRP07/11/18 07:09 AM
1

Yes, you need to access it from a computer and go through this bullshit quarantine warning then you'll be able to access it from mobile
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:02 PM
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The main sub got quarantined, you can't access it from mobile unless you first go to it on a computer and get through this bullshit warning. Also, this is a telling article. I'd suggest posting it on the main sub as an example of how to keep yourself safe. Sucks about his freelancing contract but at least he won't go to jail. And this new "guilty until proven innocent" paradigm is incredibly harmful. This poor guy is getting burned at the stake just because some whore wanted clout. Keep yourselv…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 07:11 PM
1

What is this
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:52 PM
7

Continue as you are. You've made your position clear and if she isn't fine with it, no one's holding a gun to her head
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:51 PM
6

Nothing to do but own up to it. Also, what does "a thing" mean? My friends have an explicit "Unless she's your girlfriend, she's fair game" rule to avoid awkward discussions like this but idk your situation. Is she like his plate? And would he even care that much?
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:48 PM
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It may well be, the only problem is that there's no "black" race. Using Africa as an example, the peoples there are more genetically diverse than anywhere else on earth. To the point that there's a good chance that a random white European is more genetically similar to someone from West Africa than that African is to someone from Southern Africa. The reason this confusion exists is because "black" communities outside of Africa (African Americans for example) are pretty homogeneous and create thi…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 06:00 PM
1

That's life as a guy. We have to carry the bulk of the seductive effort. It's either we shut up and bear it or just be celibate (or settle for some ugly girl that approaches you because let's face it, ugly girls have to)
/r/askTRP15/10/18 10:40 PM
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I do my best work in large groups. I'm a socially dominant sort of guy, I attract attention and steer conversation. However, this does make me a "target". Every alpha wannabe takes potshots, girls test you hard and (one of my friends is a master at this) more lowkey alphas, the james bond type guys, can "snipe" girls off the fringes of the group because it's easier to isolate when all her friends are focused on the life of the party in front of them. You'll sometimes be doing your thing then bli…
/r/askTRP15/10/18 10:37 PM
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That's boring. She's on Tinder, she's not looking for boring. Your response must make her feel something. She's not trying to introspect, she's finding her next dick appointment
/r/askTRP15/10/18 10:30 PM
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First of all, she's not a plate until you're having at least semi-regular sex with her. You have "cuddle buddies". If you're satisfied with that, that's your prerogative. But they're not plates. About not falling in love, you have to internalise the mantra that "She's not yours, it's just your turn". Until you can do this, you'll always find yourself thinking about these girls as if they're special
/r/askTRP15/10/18 10:27 PM
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To gain a plate, you just have to fuck regularly or semi-regularly while not really spending much time together outside of that. It's not terribly complicated. The f-close problem however, is worse. We've all been there and while it's not exactly helpful, literally the only advice is "Just do it". Read up on the escalation ladder and remember two steps forward, one step back. And about the hesitation, just count down from 6 in your head and go for it when you hit 0. It really helps to curb overt…
/r/askTRP15/10/18 10:22 PM
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You have several options. She's expecting a witty response of some kind, you could subvert those expectations by changing the subject completely (I do this quite a bit). Or you could just go along with it and make some short gag "Hopefully Chris Hansen". Problem is, where does the conversation go after that?
/r/askTRP15/10/18 10:17 PM
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You need independence before you can think about this rationally. Right now, you need this girl to keep your place. Work on getting that on lock by yourself then think about what her role in your life is. Make more time for your goals and get your discipline back on track. The way you describe her, she seems overdue for a next.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 10:07 PM
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Context my dude
/r/askTRP15/10/18 10:02 PM
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Any book about body language. You'll literally "see" power shifting as interactions go on. The one I read, I forget its name but it was written by Allan and Barbara Pease, is a good start.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 10:02 PM
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Dude, don't say that exactly. I meant any sort of answer that downplays the seriousness of your relationship. Something along the lines of "We're just having fun"
/r/askTRP15/10/18 09:58 PM
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This is probably a bad idea but seeing as you're gonna go through with it anyway, I think "Bring him, he can hold our stuff" or "Great, he can bake us some cookies" type answers are best. Basically, anything that acknowledges him but disregards their relationship
/r/askTRP15/10/18 09:56 PM
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Only women get status from whoever they're fucking. There's a reason we all know Bill Gates' wife but not Oprah's husband. Even Hillary was "Bill's Wife" up until she ran for president. Do whatever you want with this girl, if you get questioned, play it off as "Man, have you seen her ass?" informal type relationship
/r/askTRP15/10/18 09:53 PM
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Find interesting activities/clubs/hobbies and meet high-value guys through them. I can't say I was in your exact situation but my friend group as a whole went from the most stereotypical of nerds to a legitimate high social status group. We were observing friction from everyone. My advice is to disregard any challenges and keep doing as you're doing, they're just testing your frame to see if you're still the little bitch they always knew you as.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 09:46 PM
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That answer seems fine, but why wouldn't you just next? What's the point of making harder for yourself than it needs to be?
/r/askTRP15/10/18 09:41 PM
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Law 38-ing was fine when fourth-wave feminism was in it's infancy but now it's actively making life harder for us men. In an age where anyone can get MeToo'ed and even Superman faced backlash for making a perfectly reasonable statement, we can't be keeping our heads down, hoping it'll blow over. They're testing our boundaries and will keep escalating and escalating until we're turned into literal chattel slaves à la the Belgian Congo, as "reparations" for our centuries of oppressing women (hyper…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 06:46 PM
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"And God said unto Noah, The end of all flesh is come before me; for the earth is filled with violence through them; and, behold, I will destroy them with the earth. Make thee an ark of gopher wood . . . And, behold, I, even I, do bring a flood of waters upon the earth, to destroy all flesh, wherein is the breath of life, from under heaven; and every thing that is in the earth shall die. But with thee will I establish my covenant; and thou shalt come into the ark, thou, and thy sons, and thy wif…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 06:11 PM
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It certainly is, but you need an unshakeable frame. If a guy like me comes along, you can't lose the group else you'll be relegated to the side
/r/askTRP28/09/18 10:37 AM
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Isolate, escalate, penetrate. If you must, make out with her behind the school buildings so her interest stays high
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:59 PM
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It depends. If you're cool with plates or FWB's then you can just deflect or agree and amplify with every prying question. If you want an LTR, obviously you'll need to reveal some things
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:56 PM
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She's probably just an attention whore
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:54 PM
3

The only solution is forcing yourself to be bold. I used to be "that guy" on the periphery and I even had a slight stutter. But then I did the pua newbie challenge (meet one hundred new people in a week) and I realised it's not actually that hard to talk to people. But improvement will only come if you force it to. Godspeed OP
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:53 PM
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Mate. Even if you could do something with this girl (and don't get me wrong, you can't. You're so balls deep in the friendzone your taints are touching), you shouldn't want to. She's crazy. And I'm not sating this in the general "all women crazy" platitude way, this B is legit fucked in the head. You don't want to deal with this. And you need to go monk mode and work on yourself. You keep going beta because you're afraid to lose these women and you need to figure out why. Maybe you had a shitty …
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:48 PM
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Since most people don't hold eye contact with random people unless they're indicating a threat or interest. If she's not looking away in disgust, you can easily approach. In pua terms, she's "warm" and likely won't just reject you out of hand
/r/askTRP26/09/18 09:52 PM
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Look at their body language. Do they open up towards you, do they unconsciously primp themselves, push their chest out, touch their hair, make eye contact, smile. There's a whole list of things they could do to indicate interest, if you see more than one, that's basically the sign you need. Everyone should study body language, it adds an entirely new dimension to your game and you won't need to ask questions like this
/r/askTRP26/09/18 09:49 PM
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I say you should keep the group pictures. It shows that you're tall and shows that you have friends. If you're not model-tier attractive you need every last bit of SMV you can show. Also I think the professional picture thing is a good idea but you don't have to shell out cash for it, just ask a friend with a fancy camera. The pictures just have to look good. I believe u/OmLaLa wrote a guide to tinder on the main sub so check that out. Also that lack of self confidence is kinda telling. No girl …
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:50 PM
1

Are you in a country where being tall and fit isn't unique? I tower over most guys here but I'd be average af if I moved to like the Netherlands
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:11 PM
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Scarcity. Pussy in the hand is worth two in the wild. This guy needs abundance
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:40 PM
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I don't think the eye contact is that important, some people just suck at it, others look everyone in the eye. The first few seconds of conversation however, are telling as fuck
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:39 PM
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I don't have much wisdom but think of it in future cost-benefit terms. You stay in the LTR with your "sort of okay" job, and run the risk of her not valuing you as much, because you've proven that she's more important than your own interests. Assuming you get through this, you're probably gonna get married. Well half of all marriages fail and 72% of those divorces are initiated by the woman. So chances are, it won't end well. Then there's the job. Better connections, better money. Those connecti…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:37 PM
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It's tinder, so you either have shit pictures or you're ugly
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:29 PM
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Sure I don't mind
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:03 PM
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But did you look good? I gym but I'm still skinny af so no one would guess it
/r/askTRP26/09/18 04:06 PM
1

When you get back, go out with her and smash.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:48 PM
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Probably, if you don't get many matches. Though it could also be that your pictures are just bad.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:47 PM
1

How's your disposition? Are you generally dominant when comfortable or always just reserved? Because what I do is usually take over whatever group I'm in and get them talking about things I'm interested in but I'm bold to the point of absurdity so this might not be for everyone. Also, I'm 6'2 and being usually the tallest person there helps
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:43 PM
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Well why are you withdrawing attention? If it's a hard boundary she's crossed, either next or completely ignore so she knows she's fucked up. If it's a small thing you want to train her out of, just slow the attention down to a trickle so you have plausible deniability
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:39 PM
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Just say hey, if they're attractive. It's literally that easy. They're already indicating interest so it's not like you'll get rejected
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:36 PM
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RP is sort of an amalgamation of the elements of pua and mgtow that actively increase your SMV. Don't get me wrong, without pua, there'd be no Red Pill but I think we've improved on what they pioneered. So stick with us, we're the best option. Regarding women, do you live in a big city or some rural place in the mountains somewhere. Day game should be possible anywhere and even in the rare cases it isn't, there's always the night life or active sports. Also, if tinder isn't working, just don't u…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:35 PM
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Nothing will redpill you more than the night and day difference in how women behave in front of a dominant man they like vs someone else. Yes. This is the main reason I can't respect anyone who knows about the red pill but doesn't follow it. Its effects are instantaneously apparent and, if I'm being honest, a bit intoxicating. Great post though, OP. I read that post about transferring emotional states before this one and it seems like they're in agreement that fully believing that you're her bes…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 09:45 PM
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Basic Shit-Test 1: "Nah" This is on a good day even, generally I wouldn't even answer this. Shit-Test 2: "Who aren't I?" This isn't supposed to be a real answer, more like something to slightly confuse her and throw her off, so I can retake the frame. Shit-Test 3: "What's a girl?" I never answer questions like this when prompted by a girl. Usually only when in a deep conversation and I'm gaining her trust will I talk about past girls Intermediate All of these get the same answer. "Cool." Though …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 09:28 PM
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That is true, but these bottom 10% usually know that they're bottom 10%. An SMV that low invariably spills over into other areas of life. Those guys aren't the ones making posts like this. The middle-of-the-pack Eugenes however still have hope
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 08:01 PM
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You're arguing semantics. When this kind of post is made, the assumption is obviously that the girl is attractive, else the OP wouldn't want them
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 07:40 PM
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It is normal but you're exaggerating. Some girls do indeed have the equivalent of puppy dogs but most just have guys that they know wouldn't say no if they asked something that a lot of people would refuse. Not because they're such great friends but because he wants to jump her bones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 11:57 PM
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But I'm describing a non-boyfriend relationship. This is a pretty one sided "friendship" with many fringe benefits for the woman and the man is happy just breathing in her vicinity I guess. You may disagree but literally all my anecdotal evidence indicates that this is the case. The anecdotal evidence of a whole lot of the TRP sub too. We won't convince one another on this point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 11:31 PM
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No need to come here, I'll be at your doorstep in a day, m'lady
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 11:24 PM
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Tell her not to wear socks when you guys meet or something like that. It won't really achieve anything though, since you're already fucking she'll comply. LTR her if you want her "soul"
/r/askTRP18/09/18 10:54 PM
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Go and fuck her. Not sure what else you're looking for
/r/askTRP18/09/18 10:26 PM
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Because, most of the time, it is. Men are seen as the more dominant sex and have to lead in everything. Personally, idgaf if she orgasms or not but don't expect there to be some sort of "equal effort". My only advice is care less
/r/askTRP18/09/18 10:01 PM
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I was hoping for a better end to discussion than, "Grow up then come back". It's pretty condescending tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 09:58 PM
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i.e. He is orbiting her. I hooked up with a girl once who had nine close male friends. Seven of these had asked her out before and been rejected. One of the others was massively in love with her. She may just have been a shitty person, but she knew exactly how they all felt about her and actively exploited the fact. Nothing big but it was very obviously one-sided. That's the most extreme example but I see it repeated on a smaller scale literally every day. I've been in college for like three wee…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 09:52 PM
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Lol you're a bit confrontational. It's never been better for those of us in the top 20% of men either, don't get me wrong. The whole "early marriage, six kids" life isn't for me and this is probably the only time in history I have an acceptable alternative. But I disagree about the orbiter thing. Sure, attractive women get it naturally, but there's obviously something about an orbiter that you can't get from a random guy checking you out, or Aunt Jemima asking why such a pretty girl isn't marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 09:28 PM
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I disagree. Sure, you'll see women come out in droves when a hashtag like MenAreTrash or MeToo gets thrown around, but in general everyday situations, they don't bring that same energy. It's never been easier for women to get sex with a guy they find attractive or to get validation from an orbiter they're stringing along. I say, on their end at least, things have never been better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 09:06 PM
6

"Hey"
/r/askTRP18/09/18 08:11 PM
2

Don't stick to a script
/r/askTRP18/09/18 08:08 PM
11

You have the same problem I used to have (and still do to some extent). You still see TRP as this "thing" you use or "turn on". As such, it doesn't feel like a proper part of you. I went from the short skinny nerdy fuck to the tall, slightly less skinny popular fuckboy, but I'd still get nervous as all hell with social interaction outside of my friend group because I was consciously "using" TRP and trying to make sure I don't fuck anything up. It worked obviously, but until it's properly interna…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 08:07 PM
1

I disagree but I'd be interested to know why you think so
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 03:13 PM
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Don't. Go completely dark. The way you're going about this, as some sort of revenge crusade, will definitely make you backslide. She'll show the slightest bit of interest and you'll go right back to being a beta bitchboi because you'll have "proven yourself". It's a trap, don't do it
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:04 PM
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Be more creative. Throw out hypotheticals like "If this train crashed right now, how would you maximise your survival chances" or other dumb shit. Something close enough to your current situation that it makes sense to be thinking about but fantastical enough to pique interest. It's an opener. It doesn't need to be perfect, just get her talking. About your third point, you need to work light teasing into your game. It provides enough push that you don't just come off as some supplicating beta bu…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:01 PM
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Well, you're honest and bold, I can respect that. Use your fingers. I don't like eating pussy but it does work when trying to make a girl cum and the girl will usually appreciate the effort even if it doesn't (this is second hand though, from my friends who do rug munch). Be more dominant in bed, sex is much more emotional for girls and ragdolling her will turn her on to the point that your three seconds might be enough. Godspeed OP
/r/askTRP16/09/18 07:01 AM
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Get new friends. I was lucky enough to have friends who supported my ascent into RPdom even though they're BP. We've just agreed to disagree about women but they love the confidence and game I've developed. Idk about your friendship dynamic but try getting them into pua first. It's like RPlite and the small success will make them question their notions
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:54 AM
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For day game I use the indirect approach and it actually works out 30-40% of the time. It doesn't work most of the time but I get enough success that it's worth it. I only use indirect because I live for the chase and the binary choice that direct gives takes all the fun out of seduction for me. For the record, I disagree with your assertion that direct won't work. I can guarantee that it's because you don't have much value (either in looks, status or sheer force of personality). Work on your pe…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:46 AM
1

You can but imo it's not worth it. You'd need a buffer of at least the better part of a year for their image of you to slightly fade and then you can't make any mistakes because they will test your new frame hard. To this day, I've never encountered bigger shit tests as when I was swallowing the pill and changing my image in school. With friends it's a bit more complicated. Are these your close friends or "outside the inner circle" friends? The former should support any positive changes (unless …
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:13 AM
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No wait stop. Don't be all "Yeah I totally have sex bro", it should be more implied. Read u/orangespeaches comment
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:06 AM
1

I'm never dishonest about my intentions. Pretty much everyone knows that "I don't do relationships" and I've actually never had a girlfriend. Everyone I hook up with knows the deal specifically because of my reputation. I don't regard it as a bad thing since it's true. I certainly do keep up contact (it's not like I have a choice, I share classes with a lot of them) and am pretty friendly with past girls. However I'm wary of actual friendships with girls because of previous bad experience. I use…
/r/askTRP14/09/18 06:30 PM
1

Yes. Higher risk almost always equals higher reward and tbh none of the situations you've described have much chance of backfire. Unless you have a crippling fear of rejection, these are all extremely low stakes
/r/askTRP14/09/18 06:10 PM
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Lol why are you questioning this? She thinks you're out of her league and gets all the validation she needs just by the fact that you keep going back. She doesn't need more and neither should you
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:59 PM
1

The answer to all of these is the same. You're too passive
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:54 PM
1

Invite her out and shoot your shot. Texting sucks
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:52 PM
5

It's all up to you. He has nothing to do with how attractive she'll find you. The most he can do is introduce
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:51 PM
7

I kino everyone. Obviously I won't escalate with guys or girls I don't want but human beings love touch. Specifically the touch of someone they perceive as higher value. Don't be weird about it though
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:30 PM
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Idk about you guys all I saw was bitch bitch bitch whine whine Why do I bleed once a month?
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:58 PM
5

Like the other guy said, it's probably fake. And if it's not, he's rich
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:55 PM
2

This is the only time "Just be yourself" is valid advice. Obviously, you'll change a bit to relate to them more, it's a natural phenomenon, literally every human does it. But don't be an "actor"
/r/askTRP06/09/18 01:53 PM
1

Yup, one or the other. The only exception are childhood friends because iirc you're biologically programmed not to find people you spent lots of time with as a child attractive (as a way to recognise family and combat incest)
/r/askTRP06/09/18 12:41 PM
1

You don't have to like someone to charm them. Just keep a basic level of game running like low level kino or something and don't escalate. They'll eat that shit up
/r/askTRP06/09/18 11:07 AM
3

Game the friends too. Ideally, you'd be the alpha in that social context and they'd all want a piece of you, but if that's not possible just charm them all or maybe get a wingman to distract them
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:52 AM
81

Just ignore them. You're not going after children, these are adults that know what they're doing. No doubt, if a hot 19 year old showed interest in them, the story would change. Keep winning
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:43 AM
9

Of course there is, but it's meant to refer to platonic friendship. Unless you've grown up with a girl or you're homosexual, one half of the friendship will always be down to hook up with the other. You can have female friends, just make sure you're not the orbiter
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:22 AM
2

You literally just smiled mate. Idk what your starting point in this whole TRP thing is, but it's not as big a deal as you think it is. If you want her, talk to her after your workouts. I'm not sure what else you could be wanting to hear
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:11 AM
8

Nah, you did the right thing. She is definitely thinking about you and probably beating herself up over chasing you away. She'll probably reach out again
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:08 AM
7

Don't forget that she's running a business and keeping you there is making her richer. But just start being touchy back and see how she reacts
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:03 AM
3

Train her out of it. Go slightly colder towards her when she does and give her attention when she doesn't. BF Skinner didn't do all that amazing work just for us to not twist it for our own gain
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:02 AM
1

I'd tell him to read the red pill and believe. And also that he won't be a short piece of shit forever. Then maybe we'd both circlejerk about how good we look
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 07:54 AM
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A lawyer moonlighting as a gender relations specialist lmao. You should check out r/braincels if you want to play on hard mode. It's honestly one of the funniest places on reddit once you get all the jargon and in-jokes down, and they've basically given up. Who knows, maybe you'll succeed where everyone else hasn't
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:10 PM
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That makes sense. Though it still boggles my mind. Any guy can test this out himself and make the judgement. Idk about the RPWomen side of things but I'd expect it's the same. This isn't something that you have to look hard to see
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:04 PM
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Can I ask why? Most of my experience on this sub has basically been "Let's agree to disagree". I highly doubt anyone gets budged from their various pills
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:55 PM
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On mobile so I can't check, but are you a mod? You're pretty active in these comments
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:39 PM
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I'd argue most TRPers don't hate women. We even literally have a name for this phase because that's what it is. Just a phase. Any seasoned participant on the sub doesn't have the same vitriol that people still in the anger phase have towards women (or even the same that BPers have towards us)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 05:49 PM
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I say let's agree to disagree (that seems to be the theme of this whole sub lmao). I'm of the opinion that as the sub matures, the techniques and material in the toolbox get more refined and better suited for modern living. Of course, we aren't some monolith. One of the stickied posts right now is one espousing the virtues of critically evaluating every piece of information you get and there's argument about theory on practically every thread. But yeah, thanks for contributing I guess. Who knows…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 04:54 PM
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We have had different experiences then. When I go on the sub, I don't see people jerking themselves off about being so alpha. I see people "spreading the good news" so to speak. I'm kind of the same. If you check my comment history, I tell the story of how TRP bettered my life at nearby every opportunity. It's just wanting to spread the info I'd say
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 04:23 PM
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I was, but it was an example of the mindset. I don't jerk myself off about being super alpha but I certainly do about not being short any more. Those guys probably feel the same about their TRP-ness
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 04:20 PM
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Lol this is probably a minority. There's a post on askTRP right now where a guy in his story said he did shrooms. Only one comment out of like twenty (iirc) condemned his use of them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 04:18 PM
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See this is why I think this sub is a waste of time. It's nice to talk to the "other side" and see how they think but I can't exactly go over there and show you all the ways in which my life has improved (you could check my comment history though, I preach about this quite often). We have fundamentally differing views. I legitimately wonder why everyone isn't RP'ed and you think of it as "delusion". Neither of us will convince the other. I've gotten rid of a whole lot of my shortcomings but it s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 04:15 PM
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I'll use myself as an example. At 16 going on 17, I was one of the shortest guys in my class. And if you spend five minutes on r/short you'll realise it's not the best experience. At 17 going on 18, I guess my pituitary gland finally stepped the fuck up and I joined the 6'0 club. Now I'm 6'2 (hopefully still growing). Almost every day, I revel in not being short any more. My quality of life has improved so much it's insane. Even though I don't see much circlejerking on the main sub, I'd attribut…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 03:47 PM
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Tbh that's why a lot of us went there in the first place. None of us would need TRP if we were naturals. But most of us aren't so we go there to learn their behaviours and make our own lives better. And the whole point of TRP is self improvement. We don't make jokes about our shortcomings because we're actively trying to get rid of them. To make a bad example, rape victims don't often make rape jokes. We'll have to agree to disagree about embracing awkwardness being better for social interaction…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 03:37 PM
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Lol no argument there. "Read the sidebar" is one of the most repeated pieces of advice on asktrp because of this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 03:30 PM
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There are no TRP "tactics". Everything we do is learned from guys who are naturals. You obviously don't believe in the efficacy of the sub, but watch a natural at work and you're literally seeing TRP principles in action
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 03:28 PM
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AskTRP is specifically designed for the fuck ups. It's where people who aren't quite getting it or who've backslid can ask questions and get RP'ed answers. That's an example in bad faith mate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 03:25 PM
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Well yeah, of course you'd think it's garbage, you don't believe in the red pill. Most of what goes on there assumes that you've read the sidebar and have taken the pill. Same when I look at threads on TBP, I'm shocked. It's just different perspectives
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 03:21 PM
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I disagree. Sure, the sub itself is pretty serious (aside from GLO's posts) but look at the comment history of any user and you'll find them making jokes, interacting amiably with other users, all that good stuff. Unless it's specifically their TRP account, we're normal people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 03:14 PM
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I guess if you're not a guy you can't really go test the principles out for yourself and somehow I don't think you'll believe any FR's. Maybe go check out the female TRP sub, I've never been so I don't know what it's like but maybe they'll find a way to explain in a way you're prepared to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 03:11 PM
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This is probably true. Most FRs that get posted are failures. They do this so the community can judge and see where OP went wrong, to help for next time. Even when it reads like a bad erotic novel, we're the first guys to call it out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 03:05 PM
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At 6'1, you're a bit skinny. Idk much about nutrition at that age but try gain a bit more fat. You're probably not done growing and your body needs raw materials to break down. Fact check me though, this is speculation
/r/askTRP31/08/18 08:13 AM
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I think this falls under that small subsection of askTRP posts that actually aren't because of a fuck up on OP's part. She'll always prioritise taking care of her friend over you, a guy she just met. Shit like this is why you need a wingman. Failing that, just leave her, it's not worth the stress
/r/askTRP31/08/18 08:09 AM
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Wrong sub mate
/r/askTRP31/08/18 08:02 AM
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At least you're getting better. But you're still worried about this girl. In future, always have a plate or two in your back pocket so this shit doesn't happen again.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 07:56 AM
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There's not much you can do since its a "he said, she said" scenario. Just make it up to friend X somehow
/r/askTRP31/08/18 07:51 AM
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You're gonna have to go for broke at some point. I assume that since you were in her bed, she was dtf. Most girls won't make the first move so you will have to make the leap and kiss her. I'd suggest triangle gazing then just kissing her when she gets flustered. It's pretty nerve wracking the first time but it'll get easier OP Godspeed
/r/askTRP31/08/18 07:48 AM
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Tell her you want to meet up. If she's not down, next. "Chatting" is a waste of time when you haven't even met a girl
/r/askTRP31/08/18 07:43 AM
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Read this then ruminate on how you could have done better. It doesn't sound like she wanted a beta, you're just not attractive enough to be as rude as you were
/r/askTRP31/08/18 07:40 AM
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I'd say start smaller. Jumping directly from no talking to a late night underwear party is a ballsy move and you're evidently not ready. Success is really the only surefire way to gain confidence. You can meditate, lift, do whatever but if you don't believe you can actually succeed, shit like this happens.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 07:20 AM
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Not really. As long as you're overall dominant it doesn't matter. There's no point in sex if you're doing shit you don't enjoy and don't get it twisted, it is about your enjoyment
/r/askTRP31/08/18 07:13 AM
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Not just that. TRP is mainly a toolbox for optimising male sexual strategy. As in turns out, this spills over into a lot of things. Getting fit is more aesthetically pleasing, and it's also healthier. Gaining assets allows you to access higher quality women, but it's also nice being rich. Having power makes you attractive but it also gets you a lot of perks. This is true for practically every TRP principle. Most people come here to optimise their sex getting skills, but actually applying the pri…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 01:21 PM
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You simply change the scenario for your benefit. Example: A girl flakes on you. A story as old as time. Most guys would blow her up asking what happened. You, however, next her and go on the date with the other Tinder bunny you lined up that night. Example 2: A guy is trying to black ball you at work, blaming his inadequacies on you. Most guys would fall into his frame, flail around trying to defend themselves and get fired. You, however, simply pass along the correspondence showing how this guy…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:51 AM
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De-escalate, disengage. If that doesn't work, call over someone with authority (like a bouncer). If that doesn't work, run. Fighting should be the last resort since you don't know what they're carrying
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:41 AM
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You need women OP
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:35 AM
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Your friend might be a raging dick, or he might not be. Using myself as an example, my default status is "On". Game is an integral part of my behaviour now. To the point where, I once was winging my best friend but I didn't want to mess anything up for him so I tried turning myself "Off". According to him, I was autistic as fuck. So I do have some sympathy for that guy, and you say he did seem genuinely sorry. Maybe see how he acts around other attractive women. It might just be him not knowing …
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:33 AM
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Why not? I'd say exactly that.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:20 AM
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You're naïve. OP repeatedly tried de-escalation. He's not exactly in a situation where he can escalate even if he wanted to. If the supervisor had not shown up, he likely would have gotten hurt. He needs a recourse in situations like this. It may not work as intended but it's better than sitting there and taking a beating because some guy on the Internet said "Why can't we all just be friends?". I agree that mace isn't the best solution but he cannot carry a gun, a knife is probably just as bann…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 10:26 PM
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That's life mate. Maybe you wouldn't do this but there's someone out there who would. And they'd get further than you if you were in this situation. The universe isn't balanced, the world does not reward good living and shitty people win at life. It is what it is. By all means, live according to your moral code. I unironically respect that. But I read something a few days ago that resonated with me (I'm African). "There are poor Africans and there are lazy Africans. There are, however, no poor, …
/r/askTRP29/08/18 10:19 PM
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Shit dude. I'd say carry the mace. Unless you can hire a bodyguard, you're gonna need some way to protect yourself in situations like this. Extenuating circumstances (such as your handicap) should make it easy to prove that you had no recourse but to mace whichever drunk wannabe tough guy wants to push you around
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:51 PM
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Reading all these replies, I realise that you can't actually explain to someone how to dance, short of showing them dance moves. OP if you're serious, look up youtube videos, it's much easier if you can see it. Don't write dancing off completely, I've made out with quite a few girls without even saying a word, just dancing the fuck out of the venue. However, if you're not confident, it will be visible and you're better off not dancing
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:30 PM
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Well. You're short and crippled so that really limits your options. Have you considered carrying a gun?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:23 PM
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Join clubs. Make friends. Learn a new skill. It's literally all up to you. College was easier because of the forced social interaction and the closed community. After school life can be just as great, but you'll have to try
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:48 PM
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You could do what Mystery called "The freeze out". Basically play social circle game, set yourself up as a mini "leader of men" in your workplace and slowly cut him out. React less to what he says, ignore him at times and the rest of your office will follow. Try to get the (good) attentions of people higher up in the food chain than him, this gives you more credibility. Don't give him time of day, make sure that the social group you set up does not include him, maybe invite most of the office ou…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:17 PM
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It really depends where you are. If you're in some backwater, asscrack-of-nowhere town, you'll obviously look back with rose tinted glasses. Move to a big city where there are lot of exciting things happening. Make awesome friends who do awesome things. College should not be the peak of your life
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:01 PM
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The only way to get over a oneitis is to get different women. Your aversion to ONS' makes this harder but not impossible. Meet women at the gym, or the bookstore, or the café. Any place where a one night stand is not typically expected and you'll find high quality women
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:58 PM
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What.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:55 PM
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This is the right answer. Listen to this guy, OP
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:54 PM
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The mind literally boggles at how wrong you are
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:45 PM
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It's not. These guys are plain racists
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:44 PM
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It is possible but considering he's your boss, do you actually want a stronger frame than him? It will breed feelings of resentment and you don't want him crippling your career
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:39 PM
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Yeah, there's not much you can do against legitimate prejudice. Try to get a local business partner to deal with everyone else because it will be hard for you if you're absolutely set on going back
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:32 PM
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I'll just copy over a comment I made on another askTRP post. Make of it what you will. The idea is that "text game" doesn't exist. You cannot build attraction through text, only maintain and lose it. For your specific scenario, I'd keep radio silence then text her like a day or two before to make sure we're still on. "Text only for logistics" isn't an absolute rule, it's a way to minimise your chances of talking yourself out of her pants. Every Tom, Dick and Harry out there is texting her hoping…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:30 PM
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I would have sat us both in the back seats. That way there's no awkward reaching over the gearbox for kino, you can easily turn towards each other for eye contact and can get really close to one another if need be.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:25 PM
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I see your point, the chase is a big part of why I game in the first place. But I also know not to look a gift horse in the mouth. If OP is really that bothered, he should just keep her as a plate. Obviously he's considered some form of relationship with her, else he wouldn't care enough to make this post
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:55 PM
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I'm not seeing the problem here. Respect all over her face. Respect all over her tits. Give her all the respect you can produce
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:42 AM
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Oof. Yeah you're gonna have to take this L, OP. Girls don't make the first move, they create chances for you to make the first move. When she suggested waiting together in the car, she wanted you to make a move. When you started cuddling in the movie, she wanted you to make a move. You didn't make a move however and now she is less attracted to you. Take it as a learning experience
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:37 AM
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It really depends on you. I once made a promise to myself that I'd never get with a fattie and even at my lowest of low points, I haven't broken this. I wouldn't think my progress was any slower because of it, I'd still talk to, game, maybe even make out with these girls. They'd just never see the D. You can if you want to but my worry is that it sets a bad precedent for yourself. Fucking girls that you wouldn't want to be seen in public with is never a good thing
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:17 AM
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Just don't give a serious answer. Say you grow all 11 different herbs and spices for KFC or you're a parachute tester or something outlandish like that
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:12 AM
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You may have already fucked up with this one but in future, setting a sexual frame is impossible (actually just really fucking hard) without eye contact and kino (unless you're literally Casanova). Everything you did, continue doing that, just add a lingering gaze or a touch on her waist to make intent clear.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:03 AM
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You have issues you're not dealing with. I don't know everything about your life so I couldn't tell you what they are. But something you feel is unresolved or something you're unsatisfied with is causing you to break down. I'd say before going for professional help, find genuine friends. Whether that means putting yourself out there or reconnecting with old friends, you need to talk to someone that cares about you. Maybe even talk to your mom if you're still on good terms. But don't ignore this.…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:57 AM
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This is the greatest argument against this I've ever seen. Consider it stolen
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:49 AM
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As paradoxical as it may seem, they're both right but the contexts are different. Women want to be wanted. If a hot guy shows interest in them, they're all over that shit. What "setting a sexual frame" means is negotiating sex from a position of power, where you're the high value object she's chasing after. What the rational male article is talking about, is negotiating sex from a position of no power. No girl doesn't know that her beta orbiters want to fuck her. I've hooked up with a girl that …
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:17 PM
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Yeah, i agree you sounded like a butthurt bitch but it's done now. Don't think about it any more. Even if she starts begging just ignore her.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:01 PM
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Okay that's something I can work with. You have the same problem as one of my friends. With any interaction you're hoping will turn sexual, just assume attraction. Learn how to read body language and the girl will clearly show she has no interest in you if she doesn't. But if it's neutral or positive, assume she's attracted and take it from there. Use the search function to find the TRP posts about game, read as many as you can. HSP's guide to proper teasing is one of my favourites but like he s…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 10:52 PM
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It honestly depends. She may still have feelings for you or she may just have a huge hate boner. If you really want to do this, you're gonna have to be the first to contact. Text her when you're busy or preoccupied with something so you won't reply instantly and you won't overthink your messages. You could ask to meet just to "talk" or even say you want to get past all the bullshit in your past and have a clear conscience. Whatever it is, it has to give her plausible deniability so she can fool …
/r/askTRP28/08/18 10:36 PM
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What's your problem exactly? Can you not attract women? Do you not meet many women because of your hobbies? Because other than lifting (you seem skinny) and reading the rest of the sidebar, there's not much we can tell you. You sound like a normal person. If you need clarification on anything just ask one of the commenters
/r/askTRP28/08/18 10:05 PM
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This is a bad idea but just treat her how you would any other girl. Again though, you're playing yourself
/r/askTRP28/08/18 09:59 PM
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You're attractive. Rejoice
/r/askTRP28/08/18 09:57 PM
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The idea is that "text game" doesn't exist. You cannot build attraction through text, only maintain and lose it. For your specific scenario, I'd keep radio silence then text her like a day or two before to make sure we're still on. "Text only for logistics" isn't an absolute rule, it's a way to minimise your chances of talking yourself out of her pants. Every Tom, Dick and Harry out there is texting her hoping to get some. Be different
/r/askTRP28/08/18 09:56 PM
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She likes attention. The vast majority of women do. Just ignore it. If it gets to a point where you're uncomfortable and she won't change, leave.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 09:51 PM
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They are. In the sense that the reaction to them would be exactly the same. She covers her chest for guys that she finds unattractive because she doesn't want them peeking at the goods. She covers her chest when feeling threatened so as to "shrink" within herself, some atavistic urge to present a smaller target. Same outward reaction but different motivations. I agree that slightly threatening is much better than completely harmless but OP can't tell the difference. We'd need more context to say…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 09:36 PM
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Not in this lifetime
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:18 PM
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Does it matter?
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:18 PM
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You have to do shit and succeed. I'm confident I can get girls because I've gotten girls. I'm confident I can rock climb because I've climbed rocks. Before you actually do these things, any confidence you have will be baseless and easily dispelled. Go out and do
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:17 PM
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Yeah, you're either ugly or threatening, OP
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:14 PM
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Deal with it if and when it comes up. He might cry himself to sleep for a night or two but chances are nothing will happen. You don't need his "approval" to date his ex
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:06 PM
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If you're not still friends, why does it matter what he thinks? If he gets violent, report that fool. You're overthinking this
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:50 PM
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Nah, chicks are inordinately afraid of rejection. The way you describe it, it seems like she's made all the moves so far and is probably thinking you're not into her. The way she's set it up, she has plausible deniability and can tell herself it was just a gathering of friends. Unless there's context I'm missing, she's still dtf
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:46 PM
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You do have a point. I usually just assume they were successful (I'm a bit of an optimist). Though they may not report back here, after all, r/thankTRP exists for those types of posts. Idk about implementation but maybe the mods could put in the sidebar that it's good form to say how the advice worked out for you or how your situation has changed since posting. I agree that it's better to know that we're not just shouting into the wind
/r/askTRP28/08/18 04:30 PM
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Get some ultra thin condoms mate. You're literally playing Russian roulette with your penis
/r/askTRP28/08/18 12:46 PM
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Yeah I've been super quiet about TRP. It sucks because one of my friends is so attractive and he gets women quite easily. He's just painfully BP and his relationships always end in flames (usually with him getting cheated on). I keep dropping hints and even shared a link to a workout post on the main sub (he's a gym rat), hoping he'd be curious enough to read everything else but no dice. Another one of my friends is still a virgin and I can't tell him what he's doing wrong without going full RP.…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 12:35 PM
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You need more girls OP. The problem isn't with her, she can do whatever the fuck she wants. You however, have no abundance mentality. You wouldn't even care about this if you had more women or the confidence that you could get more women
/r/askTRP28/08/18 12:13 PM
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There are lots of resources on the main sub about game. Get your kino and eye contact up to par, learn how to approach on your own and with friends and you should be good as far as women are concerned
/r/askTRP28/08/18 12:05 PM
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It's up to you mate. But from the way you describe it, you do have a lot to learn. I'd say stick it out to the point that you can make a decent amount off commission, become a better salesman then leave. Despite his moral bullshit, your boss sounds like someone you should learn from and leaving while you can't be sure of your skills as a salesman is asking for unemployment. Just chill 'til you get your sales abilities up to scratch and get out
/r/askTRP28/08/18 12:01 PM
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Haven't seen the video because I'm on data, but I disagree. One of my friends is a hopeless romantic. Every girl he hooks up with, he catches feelings for and wifes up. Every relationship he's been in, I've predicted exactly how the relationship will end to a scary degree of accuracy. This friend of mine isn't even red pilled. Myself, I can point at any girl I get an ioi from and hook up with her 7 times out of 10. Cold approach, maybe 3-4 out of 10 This isn't because I'm some model. TRP just eq…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:53 AM
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Lol you're dumb as hell
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:40 AM
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I disagree. I don't think it's as rare as you purport. I posted my own success story below and I believe that most people who post here actually want to improve. That's like the only reason I comment here. Sure, a lot of them won't do shit, but the red pill isn't exactly something you can ignore. It proves itself to be true every time you go out, every time you even talk to another person. They'll come around because they have to. You can't know what the guys in the top 20% live like and then no…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:18 AM
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Yup. I commented something like this on another askTRP post but I'm always down to share. I used to be an awkward, "gay best friend" type of guy. I had friends, but we were all in the same boat, complaining about how women just want the popular guys and fuckboys. As it happened though, one day I was feeling especially sorry for myself and found out about PUA on the Internet. I was thrilled. Going on seddit and seeing all the success stories really gave me hope. So I practiced my game, put myself…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:05 AM
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You're overthinking this. Do you feel guilty? Then pay them. Do you not? Then don't. Don't listen to anyone imposing their moral values on you, just do what you feel like doing. (P.S. I'm of the opinion that you just scored a free meal and should be happy, but again, don't listen to me)
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:16 AM
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Lol what
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:13 AM
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Go get yourself checked mate. The only thing you can do is never contact them again
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:12 AM
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Why not? It's nothing obscene and you're visibly having a good time so they can't hurt. My only problem is the "gaming" of women on insta. You can't build attraction through text. Anything she feels is brought on by her initial feelings when she saw your pictures. Meet these women else you'll lose them
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:11 AM
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I second u/FieldLine. Make a post about this, you seem to have a good understanding of what you're talking about and the eloquence to make it understandable to everyone else
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:07 AM
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Don't shit where you eat, but if you're chilled with possibly fucking your work life up, as long as you want. When you get locked into a staring contest, keep it up just until she knows you're not flinching away, then smirk and continue on with whatever you were doing. If you're more confident, approach her and open while you're lost in each others eyes. Bonus points if you get her to come to you
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:04 AM
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Nah, but one of my Nigerian friends has. It's super fucked up especially since his country even still has old slave ships as an attraction. But yeah there are some crazies out there. I can handle slightly crazy but those queen of spades types can miss me. It's fun to laugh about after the fact (and we do, rest assured) but it can get deep
/r/askTRP26/08/18 11:59 PM
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Lol are you me? I was literally in your exact position. I was a late bloomer, painfully skinny and one of the shortest guys in my class until I hit 17. Then I guess puberty decided it'd repay me for the years of shit I'd taken. I'm 6'2, hot, great social life, charismatic, confident (those last three are all thanks to TRP). But yeah, when I started out the second chapter of my life, I hadn't even kissed a girl. The answer is always fake it 'til you make it. You actually have a better start than …
/r/askTRP26/08/18 11:50 PM
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Ignore her. She's probably one of those "I hang with guys because there's less drama" girls. An attention whore basically. It's possible to break through (two of my friends have done it) but it's honestly not worth the time, effort and inevitable shitstorm when it ends. Ignore her until the party and try one last time there. If nothing happens, wash your hands of this girl. She's the type to make you BP again
/r/askTRP26/08/18 11:20 PM
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Okay before you go on whatever you've planned with this girl, go to the main sub and just go through the sidebar. It's there because it works. You'll come away with a greater understanding of every female interaction you've had in your life and I'm not even joking. There's a reason we all say "Read The Sidebar"
/r/askTRP26/08/18 11:14 PM
1

Too off-putting No actually. The ones you read about are (ghetto) African American girls and from what I've heard, I wouldn't want them either but I'm legit African. I don't have a problem with black girls, it's just that white girls are the "path of least resistance". I even made an askTRP post about it some time ago (check my post history). Though I think it does partially have to do with a language barrier. I grew up in the UK and came back to my home country not too long ago so I'm more flue…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 11:11 PM
1

You don't get outcome independence right off the jump. I've been red pill for a couple years now and I'm still not outcome independent. However, it's a virtuous cycle that you just have to fake your way into. Act like you're outcome independent and you'll get girls. Once you have girls, you'll actually become outcome independent because you already have girls. This outcome independence will get you even more girls, etc ad infinitum. Eventually you'll get to the point where even if the worst happ…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 10:53 PM
8

I disagree, once he entered her house, (at least the way he describes it) he kinda just shrank. He wasn't the same fun, no fux given guy she met the previous night. She wouldn't have called him (a stranger she literally met last night) to come over if she didn't want something. She just didn't see it in OP. She didn't call him over just to reject him face to face. u/shorndog we've all been there but you're gonna have to take this L. I can't say how exactly you were different from the previous ni…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 10:46 PM
1

Dude it doesn't matter as long as you won't be nervously biting your nails every time she even glances at you. No lie, this post doesn't fill me with confidence in your game so I'd say bring her along to a group thing so there isn't as much pressure on you. Just be prepared, she will go find someone else if you act like a bitch
/r/askTRP26/08/18 10:26 PM
1

Like the other guy said, sidebar. But meet her, game her, plate her. You can't raise attraction via text
/r/askTRP26/08/18 10:12 PM
6

You don't even need an article mate, it's one of the basic tenets of game. Mystery was talking about this in like '02. Preselection. Women want what other women have. If you want to read more, just search it up but that's legit all you need to know
/r/askTRP26/08/18 10:10 PM
1

That is true. I guess I'm too used to being in an environment where everyone has game. It was dog-eat-dog back at my old school. To the point where the guys had an unwritten understanding that any guy who gets his girl taken won't start shit and exes are not off limits. I don't even know how guys survive without game. Yeah most interracial stuff isn't fetish but I've only been with white girls so I've met quite a few that I suspect to be "queens of spades". I'm a bit more wary as a result
/r/askTRP26/08/18 10:00 PM
4

It's just the implication I guess. I can't speak for blond guys but black guys have this "air of dominance". Blame popular media for portraying us as ripped, 6'4 thugs but lots of girls look at us and subconsciously ascribe more dominant personality traits to us. I actually see it more with girls who didn't grow up around black people and don't know that we also have the whole gamut of personalities. I've walked into a group of white acquaintances before and had all the girls start throwing ioi'…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 05:58 PM
1

Obviously some are more reliable than others but I get your point. Guess there's no way to know beyond a vague estimate unless you get professionally evaluated
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 12:25 PM
7

The answer is always Read The Sidebar. Seriously though OP, if you're as committed as you say you are, this should be a breeze for you. All the info is already out there
/r/askTRP21/08/18 11:57 AM
3

They don't need game. Go on r/Tinder and look for the posts about bumble, it's the same for nearly everyone
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:00 PM
3

You have several options. Agree and Amplify: Because you love me trademark smirk Pressure Flip: Why do I always do (insert something you always do for her) for you? Ignore: Either change the subject or distract her by kissing her, grabbing her and spinning her, etc
/r/askTRP20/08/18 12:59 PM
1

Read IllimitableMan's blog and the literature he recommends. I scored low on machiavellianism but really high on narcissism and psychopathy. His posts are really useful for understanding the why's and how's
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 12:21 PM
2

I disagree. I scored highly on the psychopathy and narcissism traits but average on machiavellianism. I started reading IllimitableMan and other machiavellian literature and brought it up higher than my narcissism score. It is learned behaviour
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 12:18 PM
4

This is part of why I don't check the main sub much any more. When I decided to take my break, guys there were talking about "sigma" and "lambda" males in serious conversation. All these classifications and labels don't matter at the macro level, idk why we even talk about them. There are alpha behaviours and beta behaviours. We all express both at various times. The only solution to a shitty SMP value is to have your alpha traits outweigh the beta ones. That's it. Not labelling yourself an "eps…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 11:38 AM
5

There is no "real" Chad. Whether you're a buff, tall Ivy Leaguer, a tatted up gangster bad boy or a short insanely charismatic dude, you're still Chad. Making all these arbitrary classifications just muddies the water. No one has universal appeal. A random girl might prefer the buff black guy to the tattooed Asian gangster but they're both still Chad and that's what she really prefers. Unless you're gonna explain further and I'm just missing the point, this post is useless
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 10:55 AM
30

This is it in a nutshell. OP they're both targeted by large but differing demographics. 50 year olds are getting messaged by all the over 30's on those sites and 18 year olds get messaged by all the other teens and twenty somethings. They don't generally mix
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 04:34 PM
2

My dude. I devoured the entire series of books in like a month of constant reading. Imagine how excited I was when I saw GRRM say that WoW is coming out soon. Then imagine my disappointment when I hear that it's been "coming soon" for the past couple years...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 05:02 PM
2

Mate, the entire point of this sub is acknowledging that males and females have different sexual strategies and how best to optimise our own. Guys are polygamous by nature. We're literally hardwired to chase even when we have pussy. I legitimately feel like you're just trolling because a literal cursory glance at the sidebar would reveal this
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:49 PM
2

What. When you have guys of comparable attractiveness around you and you're relying on your game, it's absolutely a chase. More than that, it's a fun chase. Good for you if you're above that but don't call people incels for preferring game over paying for pussy
/r/askTRP05/08/18 07:59 PM
2

I don't disagree with the practice, but it doesn't help you at all. There's no chase, you don't get the satisfaction of breaking through a bitch shield, I legit see it as basically Fapping 2.0
/r/askTRP05/08/18 07:32 PM
1

The mistake was how he handled it afterwards, not the comment itself. Yes, he miscalibrated, but either he didn't give off the right vibe or she simply wasn't attracted enough. I use the word bitch so much it's not even an insult any more and that transmits because no one (guy or girl) has ever had a problem. Granted, I don't live in the US so people are probably less sensitive here but on a date where they've been chatting for presumably hours and even made out, a light insult should not be a d…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 11:24 PM
1

Same thing I do with all the girls. Kino, eye contact, escalation. Obviously you need to calibrate it to the situation but, assuming you have your internal stuff on lock, that's all you need to do
/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:20 AM
1

Yeah that's a clean L. Take it as a learning experience. Any emotion (except maybe disgust) is better than no emotion
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:50 AM
1

Believe me, once you get more girls, you legitimately won't care
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:48 AM
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Two in particular. "She's never yours, it's just your turn" "Sperm is cheap. Eggs are valuable"
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:45 AM
3

It actually is though. Society actively strips the skills you need away from you so it just seems like an insurmountable task. Most guys answering askTRP questions can tell you that it's not hard, it just requires a set of skills you don't have and didn't even know were necessary
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:43 AM
1

Ignore what she says, look at what she does. Is her body language open? Flirty? Or closed off and uncomfortable? That tells you all you need to know about any "boyfriend" whether he's actually in the picture or not
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:38 AM
3

She's probably gonna message you again, but it's the beginning of the end. I say just enjoy it while it lasts mate, when she texts you just pick up where you left off but for now, use the extra time to find actual plates. If she's the only girl you're fucking, she's not a plate
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:14 AM
1

Only if you follow rules one and two. It's certainly possible, just ask yourself honestly if you're hot enough
/r/askTRP26/07/18 05:15 PM
1

No contact until next week and try again mate, if she still plays hard to get, next.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 05:13 PM
1

What are you asking?
/r/askTRP26/07/18 05:10 PM
1

This is the guy you should be listening to OP. A little advice about dancing, don't be self conscious. You could be doing the fucking chicken dance and as long as you're confident and having fun, the women will come (as cliché as it sounds, it works). And you should always isolate somehow. A makeout on the dance floor means less than a makeout anywhere else so don't assume you've sealed the deal. I don't even take numbers from clubs because girls will forget you the next day unless you smash Edi…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 05:04 PM
1

Take her hiking or some shit. Basically a fun activity that you'd do with a friend, let her know you appreciate what she's doing
/r/askTRP26/07/18 04:54 PM
3

Lol what? Why are you letting him treat you like this then? He's not only making you his bitch, he's making your whole team look bad. Is he worth more than every other member? Hell, is he worth more than your dignity? Get that guy out of there mate, he's putting your source of income in jeopardy
/r/askTRP26/07/18 04:51 PM
9

It matters less what you say but how you say it. Tell them you're a blushing virgin, tell them you're tapping into your inner Genghis Khan and impregnating a third of the known world, it doesn't matter. Just be confident af as you say it
/r/askTRP26/07/18 04:41 PM
5

It really depends on how your text game is. Personally, I believe that any sort of text game can only maintain and lose attraction levels, not build them but then again I've seen some guys do crazy shit. Be honest and ask yourself if you can keep her interest for an extended period of time through just text. If it were me, I'd go silent until the week before the meetup
/r/askTRP26/07/18 04:38 PM
2

Unless you can get him in shit deeper than his dad's influence, he basically can do whatever he wants. You only have three options. Leave, let him make you his bitch or get him in trouble. Problem is, getting him in trouble could backfire if you don't get him in deep enough water and he knows it was you. His dad might be willing to fuck you up to please his son. So I say either keep taking his shit or leave because this post doesn't fill me with the confidence that you're subtle enough to wreck …
/r/askTRP26/07/18 04:31 PM
1

Not endorsed, but if she's a plate, it doesn't really matter. She'll do whatever she wants, as plates do, and hopefully she doesn't break. Though it sounds like you're not really willing to lose her
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:38 PM
0

To expand on Willow's point, anything with RP in it. It does matter to the extent that if you're a meek, yes-man soyboy you're getting no pussy. But you could be a literal, sieg heil-ing Nazi and if you're RP enough, still crush
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:50 AM
3

Just dread her. Either she's in a mood because you ignored her or she found other dick. Whatever the reason, she'll come around once she realizes how lucky she is to have you (assuming you're of a respectable SMV)
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:45 AM
5

RP is amoral mate. He doesn't need your opinion on how what he's doing makes you feel
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:41 AM
1

You should read Red Rising by Pierce Brown. The first act is typical BP love bullshit but the rest is a great study of group dynamics and leadership. You can learn a lot about power from it
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:32 AM
3

Tbh, if she's your only option, you've already fucked up, because you won't be talking to her from a place of abundance. But to answer your question, tell her something like "Don't try to get me drunk and expect sex" or some other smokescreen. You both know why you're going out but she needs plausible deniability. Seriously though OP, get other girls. This post already hints of oneitis
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:30 AM
1

I'm a pretty outspoken guy, so people know exactly how I feel about feminism. As long as you bring enough value to the group (either alpha or near the top) it won't be that big a deal. Just don't be a bitch a about it
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:23 AM
4

So? She's a plate, she can do whatever the fuck she wants. If you have a problem (which tbh you wouldn't if she was just a plate) then next. She's not your girlfriend dude
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:20 AM
0

I discovered TRP in my teens as well. Everyone here is crazy if they think the lessons don't apply in high school either. You shouldn't have to get burned by a woman before you find your way here. Read the sub and lift mate. It made the last year and a half of high school literally the best years of my life. Not just with regards to women either. You learn to bring more value to friendships, take your education more seriously, I know it sounds like I'm gushing but it legitimately made my life be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:03 PM
1

What's the difference between being poly and having a "don't ask, don't tell" relationship? I consider myself poly because I generally don't care what a girl's doing when she's away from me. I'm not looking for love or anything like that and I'm hot enough to have options so it works for me. I always thought that was what being poly was
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 10:42 PM
19

Lol what. According to this, gangsters, drug users, bad boys of every variety would be incel as fuck. To debunk this all you need to do is go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:07 AM
1

I think it depends. I'm the oldest of four, with two sisters and a brother. They're basically little clones of me. They're assertive, a bit domineering, gregarious and confident, all typically masculine traits, even the girls. That being said, most of my life I've known a girl who grew up in an almost all female household (father, mother, two sisters) and she's the most tomboyish "I just understand guys better" type I've ever met. So I think it's very contextual and there are more factors than w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 11:38 PM
1

It sounds like a braincels thing. You'd think they were plastic surgeons the way they can discuss facial attributes and what's attractive vs what's not in such technical detail. Indeed, the only time (other than just now) I've seen the term "Hunter eyes" is on that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 06:19 PM
10

Again, completely ignoring all the points I rebutted and changing the subject but as I said, I'll play your game. So I was curious about your map and I wanted to check out its sources, after all, all good academic material is verifiable and peer reviewed. But wait. Its only "source" is a broken link. For all I know, you made this in MS paint with numbers you pulled out of your ass. All you've been giving me so far is the weakest evidence, the most tenuous connections and the most egregious falla…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 10:50 PM
17

But the precedent has been set. Women now have a monthly "get out of jail free" card from puberty to menopause. Things like this are why people are choosing to enjoy the decline
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 10:19 PM
11

Okay, I love how you completely changed the argument but I'm in an argumentative mood so it's cool. The article you linked is talking about a literal war zone. Congo probably got fucked the most because of colonialism and afterwards, all it's known is civil war and tyranny. That guy the journalist interviewed is part white, of course he'd be cool with the return of colonialism but most wouldn't. Why, you ask? Because black people under Belgian rule were actual chattel slaves. Their hands would g…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:34 PM
8

Damn, there's a lot to unpack here. That article is so wrong it's scary. But to rebut your main point, the Nguni tribes (Zulu, Xhosa, Swazi, etc) did settle here from Central Africa but it was before both the boers and the British. And even before that, both the Khoikhoi and the San peoples had already settled and spread roots here, to the point that that we don't even know when they came. So no, the land wasn't empty. I don't even know why we're arguing this, this is public record. Every kid in…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:09 PM
11

wut
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:13 PM
1

Seems to me like she's into you. You should hook up with her
/r/askTRP15/07/18 07:53 PM
5

Not sure if you're aware, but you're literally describing apartheid. This has happened. It was kind of a big deal
/r/askTRP15/07/18 07:50 PM
2

Okay I see what you're saying. I'm pretty young though and don't really plan on marriage (I am however aware that plans and people change). I'm mostly concerned with learning to be happy by myself (I think I'm addicted to the validation that seduction brings) before I even think of starting any sort of long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 06:59 PM
3

Problem is, you can't change these opinions with words and logic. These people only engage with emotions and "feelings" which is why I like this so much. OP sidestepped the ultimately useless "discussion" and gave her the feels she needed. When you fly in the face of what they think is right, it's not like they don't notice. They know that if they were congruent, they wouldn't be attracted to him but they are. What I was getting at is hopefully she (however unlikely) realizes that and isn't so q…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 06:41 PM
2

When you say "short term", what time period are you talking about, because I've been properly RP for about a year now and I've just been going from strength to strength
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 06:03 PM
7

Not really, but don't listen to me. Listen to The National Geographic and The Scientific American
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:59 PM
5

Honestly, I find just smelling clean is enough. Lots of women have told me I smell good when literally all I've done is shower and use an antiperspirant (which should tell you how bad the bottom 80% of guys are). Add that with some game and you're already head and shoulders above the overwhelming majority of guys. I'll look into this when my competition stops making it so easy
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 05:33 PM
28

Nice. Fighting is almost (!) always the wrong move. No wannabe tough guy is worth risking your life
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 05:28 PM
1

Guys there are myriad better ways to prove TRP. Don't soil your mind with such literature
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 05:24 PM
0

Body language is a bit complex. We don't know her baseline. Was she acting like this the moment you met, or did she change into acting like that? Tell us how her body language changed through the night, did she act this way with any other guys? Detail is king, though from the little info I do have, she seems nervous (the standing up and not keeping eye contact). Now this could either mean she's attracted and doesn't know how to deal or she's nervous because a strange man is accosting her. Her co…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:21 PM
2

Probably. Most people will agree to a lot if they're invested enough. My only question is why marry if you're gonna have side chicks anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 05:14 PM
7

I'm pretty sure you'd be able to do that no matter what colour they are. The whole concept of race identification is flawed because almost every country is ethnically different, with lots of countries having multiple ethnicities. Take Europe or Africa. You can't say Serbs are the same race as Italians, you can't say Nigerians are the same race as Mozambicans because they're ethnically, genetically, different.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:09 PM
5

What's the problem?
/r/askTRP15/07/18 03:47 PM
1

Sometimes it just doesn't work out mate. Maybe she's telling the truth and her mom's actually visiting but we both know that's pretty unlikely. Fact is, if she wants to make the meeting "safe", she doesn't want you enough
/r/askTRP15/07/18 02:49 PM
1

Nah. I'm polygamous so I don't see myself committing to one woman forever. I might just for tax purposes but I wouldn't live that way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 02:32 PM
2

We need more context mate
/r/askTRP15/07/18 02:27 PM
3

Yeah, she's on her way out, if she's not already gone. Take this as a lesson learned OP. She sees you as trying to be controlling when you're not even there, so she'll act out as a sort of "retaliation"
/r/askTRP15/07/18 02:25 PM
3

You've already fucked up. She wouldn't be trying to de-escalate the meeting if she actually wanted to fuck you. She's attempting to make you one of her orbiters. I say soft next because I think it's redeemable
/r/askTRP15/07/18 02:22 PM
4

Just ignore her until then. She's trying to make you believe you have competition, make you work harder and betafy yourself. In reality, she's just one of the many girls you're gaming, right?
/r/askTRP15/07/18 02:17 PM
2

It's a bit early, but I don't think she'll text you. Club girls, especially ones as hot as you seem to think, don't take initiative unless they're way more invested. Her sister is texting your friend so she's willfully ignoring you. Maybe she met a hotter guy, maybe she's just there to get her sister some dick, idk. I just don't see this as working out. As for what you could have done better, maybe isolated her so it's more personal and a higher investment in you. I've done the public make out t…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 11:29 AM
1

Very true actually. I think this may be it. Thanks for your response
/r/askTRP15/07/18 07:02 AM
2

Maybe, but I actually cannot overstate how much my quality of life has improved since becoming RP. So forgive me if I come off as overzealous because I believe everyone should see the same things I now see
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 07:00 AM
2

What's a race traitor?
/r/askTRP15/07/18 06:38 AM
1

Are Europeans more hypergamous than normal? Because literally no other demographic is as enamored with us as these girls seem to be
/r/askTRP14/07/18 11:33 PM
2

I can respect that. I doubt the whole "poverty of spirit" thing would gain mass appeal because I think humans are inherently selfish but not everyone is as cynical as me, maybe we'll crack the code in the future. I think we can count this as one of the few amicable exchanges of ideas on the internet. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 10:43 PM
3

I actually think incels are redeemable, they've just been dealt a shitty hand and think it's over. They just need the right friend to push them out of their inceldom
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 10:16 PM
4

I have to disagree here. Anecdotal, but TRP has improved my relations with women. I no longer expect things of them they either can't or won't provide. I'm more fun to be around and a way better conversationalist towards them than in my dark days. Hell, if you talk to a woman who knew me back then and a woman who knows me now, you'd think I'm two different people. Not valuing my bonds with them is a loss I regard as necessary in order to get out of the BP mindset and is something I'll gain back …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 10:13 PM
5

Well that's just not nice
/r/askTRP14/07/18 09:57 PM
3

I think I understand your point better. You're talking about having a base level of welfare i.e. accessible healthcare, decent education, etc, but also not arbitrarily taking away people's riches because "it's not fair". I can get behind that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 09:56 PM
10

I honestly think that most girls don't realise they're so incongruent but simply spout the party line because, aside from a few outliers, you can treat every girl like you did and most will eat it up. I'm convinced they see attraction not as we do, with certain actions having certain reactions, but as this ephemeral intangible "force" that either happens or doesn't. As such, they accept being treated like that because it's "preordained" and they think they'd feel the same even if you were to act…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 09:48 PM
4

I disagree with your first point. When people talk of equality, at least with regards to economics, I assume they mean implementing a system like Finland does, where there's a hard economic floor you can't fall past, but also a ceiling you can't rise above (iirc this ceiling is why Kimi Raikkonen, a famous racer, gave up his Finnish citizenship). Using Finlands example, this system obviously works. Sure it doesn't reward innovation and effort but then you can always just renounce citizenship. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 09:18 PM
1

I thought the whole reason this was a thing is because they try to replicate the "relationship closeness" with the blind love an animal gives. It's not the behavior itself that's a problem but the underlying issue it signifies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 09:07 PM
1

Well damn. So it's like this throughout the whole region? No wonder TRP has such crazy success stories. Literally two of my friends have had threesomes (I'm getting there slowly but surely) and I just assumed they found the right girls. If that whole society is like this I'm definitely going there at some point
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:39 PM
2

Surely feminism isn't so prevalent as to pussify an entire region. Didn't the whole RP movement start in countries like these?
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:29 PM
2

I can certainly see the argument here. I can't speak for other countries but in my language, we even have a word for guys that can't get girls because it's seen as such an integral skill to have. But what made these guys like women? Here, feminism isn't that big but surely it hasn't fucked an entire generation of guys in the West
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:26 PM
1

Can't deny the first but why are they pussies? These guys are all tall, blue eyed, blonde haired Aryan gods (gross exaggeration but you get the point). Girls dream about guys like them sweeping them off their feet. I'm obviously not about to complain but the split should at least be equal, we can't be getting literally all the pussy
/r/askTRP14/07/18 07:44 PM
1

I would if I could but he's said he's not sure if he wants to go out with us any more. I like to think I'm a great wingman, but I can't force him into making the effort, especially now that he's "above" going after women. But I'll get the others in on it, maybe we'll bust him out of this funk
/r/askTRP02/04/18 11:43 PM
1

Nah, just workout protein, but that should be safe.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 10:57 PM
1

I'll talk to him about it, thanks.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 10:33 PM
1

I'd say talk to your friend about going to the police or at least a councillor of some kind. If he carries a weapon when he comes to berate your friend, he's ready to escalate. I wouldn't recommend saying something to him while he's in his "angry" state, it'll just aggravate him and that's not something you want to do to someone who seems to have the intent to hurt somebody. And please don't try anything when the dad's calm either, he'll just take it out on your friend when he's angry again and …
/r/askTRP02/04/18 10:14 PM
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