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There is not a one-size-fits-all answer, and if you need one you're going to be disappointed by reality. But being in good health, working on your self esteem, working on social skills are no brainers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:13 AM
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It's almost as if women are individuals, and different things work with different women or something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:19 AM
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Why are all the threads talking about women like they are animals? Lol why is every other thread talking about the cock carousel and how mad you are that women fuck? Your narrative is false to begin with, changing it is an improvement, knuckledragger
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/21 10:31 PM
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Feminism is about people being able to make choices. There's not a sex partner quota. And no one is pushing that. Many women who "sleep around" don't even claim to be feminists, and many trad stay-at-home moms are self-proclaim feminism. It is complex, and not feminism = women sleeping around. Some women "responding" that way is just anecdotal and does not speak for a huge, unorganized group of people. They also are responding like that because MGTOW men openly hate women and want control. The r…
/r/EverydayMisandry10/09/21 07:15 PM
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Yet it is empowering for men to be promiscuous? Also there isn't a need to 'respond' to a literal hate group about their opinions of women. Women can fuck as much as they want, or not. It's about choices, and you and the feminist in OP miss the mark.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/09/21 09:06 AM
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hypergamy Women are allowed to fuck whoever they want. Sorry, douchebag.
/r/MGTOW228/09/20 11:35 PM
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Individual/one-off experiences and statistics still can't paint half the human race as bad. "Field report" also implies research. TRP isn't running tested, peer-reviewed studies. They are just regular people, misapplying psychology to other people in order to not take accountability for their own failings and insecurities. You meeting a couple of shitty people =/= women are shitty. It doesn't need "more thought" beyond, "Well, that didn't work out. But they weren't right for me so that's cool."
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 12:35 PM
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We all have a cringe phase as kids, some never grow out of it because that would require self-admittance of wrongdoing, and self-reflection.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/20 01:00 PM
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They talk about women like they are animals, without the ability to feel or reason. This is basic dehumanization. Being able to see your 'enemy' (how they see it) as less human gives them vindication for trying to destroy or control them.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/20 12:58 PM
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Thanks. I have a lot of friends lost in this fog. I hope they come back someday.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/20 12:45 PM
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Most of it is the information consumed. Taking in terrible information that confirms horrible workdviews, v. taking in new information that disproves those prior views. It starts by Googling "why are women x, y, z" or "why are men more x, y z, than women" - pseudoscientific/opinion-created insecurities being Googled disguised as "research/facts/pills". They have to have a reason to stop and intake different information. Someone changes their mind. They tire of their own unhappiness loop. They ma…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/20 12:01 PM
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I think you misread his statement. Lol
/r/ExRedPill08/09/20 09:42 PM
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You don't think generalizing half the human population, and erasing the other half's equal-if-not-worse participation (as if men NEVER gaslight, no siree), is not somehow a "personal attack", to most people? It is extremely silly to say generalizing, rude shit about people and then say "Why can't people be civil?" when they call you a dipshit. And guess what, the "one thing thats not that bad" is still commonly associated with groups who openly hate women! So there's that. "Why can't people be c…
/r/ExRedPill08/09/20 09:39 PM
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Are they peer-reviewed? Or just the observations of randos? Anyway, look up confirmation bias and try to avoid it. Women are not animals, and that is an absolutely disgusting viewpoint. I could link a million cases where men cheat on women, they did it since the dawn of time. It used to be common for men to have mistresses, and women were looked down on for doing the same. Men also more commonly murder than women. Are more commonly molesters than women, commit rape more often than women. Would y…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/20 04:13 AM
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You keep saying "theories are confirmed" but those theories were pilfered from areas of legit psychology. You have zero understanding of any of it as a result. It is skewed from the very beginning, so the premise is bullshit. I am NC with my family in general. Toxic people =/= women are terrible. Anyone can be terrible. Or awesome. Men murder. Rape. Subjugate women, children, people different from them. It would be wrong for women to generalize men and call them "animals" for this behavior. Why …
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 10:22 PM
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I'm sorry you went through that. I left an online community for similiar reasons. They started trying to find me and hurt me IRL, because girl. Ruin my life. Demodded me from our forum, locked me out from multiple things, stopped even engaging me as a human being. They were my only friends. I have PTSD and have difficulty maintaining friendships as a result of not wanting to leave my house often. Thanks TRP.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/20 11:10 AM
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If there weren't a market for it, it wouldn't be a job. You want to use women, don't get mad if they use you right back.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/20 11:49 PM
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Sorry what's the difference
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 10:19 PM
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Smiling 😀 or laughing 🤣 is an act 🎭 of supplication. This is one 1️⃣ of the ways ↕ chimps introduce 🤗🤓 themselves to a superior 🤖 alpha 😤 chimp, btw 😛 (grinning 😁 or extending their palms 🌴 to the alpha 😼) Similarly, notice 👉👈🥺 how human 🧒 alphas 😱 make 🛠 a joke 🤡 and everyone 👍 ELSE 😩 laughs 😂. This is because the social ❤ interaction 🍆💦 was dominated by the alpha 😤 and all 🙌 the other humans 🧒 then show 👀 their approval 👍🏾 by laughing 😂 / smiling 😀. In the old 👴 times ⏰ if they didn't accept 🤝…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 10:18 PM
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Only because you don't care about friendships, dingdong. If you did, there wouldn't be rejection-feelings, just adult-feelings of, "Oh. They aren't attracted to me, but at least I have a new friend."
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 12:24 PM
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"The female did not fuck me, therefore your advice did not work" - the guy pretending to be friends with people in order to fuck them Men and women can be friends If you value women as humans with the same rich inner experiences as yourself, anyway This is the same mentality as someone not asking their partner what they want in the bedroom because you think you just know better what they want? Somehow? This is how dudes turn to jackhammering in bed. Lol
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 09:48 AM
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Individuals* Men and women don't come off some assembly line which makes us all react the same Seeing women as humans would be a good start tbh for most people
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 09:43 AM
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They also confuse "nice" with "pretending to be nice to get sex".
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 09:40 AM
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The emotional bond from losing one's virginity (which is not even a guarantee, it depends on the person) is not the same as allowing an emotional bond to happen naturally, allowing them to make CHOICES So if two people who are virgins fuck, you guys think it's some magical, special experience? What if they don't even know each other? Lol happens all the time Why would I rather choose to be the Xth guy who she will change at the slightest inconvenience? So it is about manipulation, and wanting to…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/20 07:50 PM
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How many cherry fields do you wander through every day
/r/ExRedPill16/08/20 07:27 PM
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Too bad it's all bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/20 07:24 PM
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OP, it is 100% comparing to past experiences. Teenagers date/fall in love with people they didn't lose their virginities to, all the time. Teenagers are dumb, impulsive, and pretty quick to fall in love. The intensity doesn't make it more valuable. Many of them don't experience movie-drama level love. I didn't. If you want a virgin, instead of someone experienced, and you are a self-proclaimed incel or follow TRP, it is about control. You are trying to control the outcome of a situation by wanti…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/20 07:23 PM
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Go to r/MensLib instead. You are wasting time with a literal hate sub/group. If I found out a guy was into this shit, and he wanted to date me, I would basically never speak to him again. Not taking the chance that you're "only picking and choosing" talking points from people who I have seen joke that rape is consensual if the girl is ugly. That women who have sex have loose pussies. That women "hit a wall" at 30 (have you seen older men? They don't all look like George Clooney, they look like f…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/20 06:20 PM
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Keep in mind these coaches are aiming for shock value and clicks by saying outrageous, degrading things about women. There's a 99 percent chance they still treat women with common decency while in interactions with them. The issue isn't so much RP or it's coaches, it has a lot to do with how you handle and interpret what you're learning from them. Yeah they totally treat women decently in their interactions with them because they are trying to trick them into being part of a "stable". This is ca…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/20 06:13 PM
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Lol fair enough man, I was like jeez dude, blink twice if you need help okay But please remember it's not a zero-sum game Other people having sex doesn't mean the amount of possible sex has gone down in the world And referring to women/sex with women as a commidity, or in this way: a raw material or primary agricultural product that can be bought and sold, such as copper or coffee Is a little out there for me, dog, it makes it seem like you're trying to get a piece of currency other people are t…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/20 09:18 PM
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Have you considered upping your protein and working out more, if this is a sore spot in your confidence? Everyone should do cardio, stretch and lift weights, male or female, for a healthy body well into your upper years.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/20 11:39 AM
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Well, yeah. People expect semi-normal reactions and social cues, which is interest/happiness. Being shy =/= being cold. That's a choice. Go out of your comfort zone.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/20 11:37 AM
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Referring to women as a "human commodity"... jesus, dude. Read SOMETHING ELSE. ANYTHING ELSE.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/20 11:36 AM
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The thing is, other men perpetuate these things far more than women ever have. It's crabs in a bucket. The explanations don't provide real comfort, but reasons not to change and stay miserable. I hope you guys can move past it. Hating women won't help you find happiness, regardless. More hate doesn't create less hate in your overall life. Stop going to these things and reading them. Find new truths that are less superficial.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/20 11:34 AM
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I am good though so women should make with the sex
/r/ExRedPill30/07/20 01:25 AM
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And accept any response gracefully.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 01:42 PM
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TRP makes up a bunch of pseudo-psychology or cherrypick unusual data points to create sexist narratives TRP points to the "evidence" that they created to excuse their shitty behavior and justify dehumanizing others TRP posts 654321976 threads about the hypergamy of women because nobody wants a gaslighting, insecure, controlling manchild for a partner (and them not having a gf is evidence that all women are out banging Chad) TRP turns to the "ask out 100 women and one will have low enough standar…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 09:01 AM
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What a childish viewpoint.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/20 10:51 PM
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It depends, do you think that: Women are individuals with their own experiences, feelings, thoughts and choices. I am also an individual and would not want to be generalized over something sexist. I am a decent human being. I think I should be able to control if women can have sex. Pick one. Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/hs0evb/im_currently_talking_to_a_girl_whos_personality_i/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share You want to juggle women but complain about hyper…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/20 01:07 PM
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Redpill is also sexist.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 02:04 AM
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"It's just how you are" is TERRIBLE ADVICE Most opinions and behaviors can change, and if you don't care aboit changing horrible ones, that makes you a bad person Who I've had sex with is not "part of who I am", I am my own person And this mentality started for this person in TRP. So it is TRP. What even is this post
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 11:08 AM
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The dude judging someone for sex they had before a relationship originated from the Red Pill, not "preferences" It's almost as if context matters, do you know what sub you are on lol
/r/ExRedPill12/07/20 12:42 AM
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No
/r/ExRedPill12/07/20 12:19 AM
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People don't mold and adapt their sexual preferences based on their partners It also doesn't always have to be intimate, even in a relationship
/r/ExRedPill12/07/20 12:18 AM
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How would it affect you
/r/ExRedPill12/07/20 12:17 AM
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It developed into the second thing as a way to justify the shittiness imo Someone's sexual history is not about you Get tested together, then fuck each other, and enjoy it You shouldn't even care To care about that is insecurity
/r/ExRedPill12/07/20 12:12 AM
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You could also take responsibility for it. People are pretty aware of how "bad" TRP is.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/20 08:51 AM
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Sometimes people need more time. Why does he need to make a decision/get emotionally invested before it's even a thing? What relationship? Why is it playing a game to just not be decided about what you want? Lol K
/r/ExRedPill29/06/20 05:50 PM
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Why are you only listening to TRP jackasses lol Confirmation bias is real
/r/ExRedPill27/06/20 11:17 AM
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TRP confirms bias, not reality or how other people will actually behave. Women are individuals, just like men. There's no "If you do A, then B will happen, because 99% of women like this" magic bullet, except maybe kindness.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/20 11:16 AM
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Dude, sexism doesn't help here.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 11:11 PM
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His #1 criteria for a girlfriend is how many people they've slept with. That is unhealthy and sexist.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 11:09 PM
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Why do you even ask them? Honestly, what is the difference between 1 dick 10000 times and 10000 different dicks? The body doesn't know. Also, don't conflate enjoying sex with cheating. Both are very different choices. You are just insecure, but you don't have to remain so. Stop searching out information (which may not even be true!) to confirm your biases. Truthfully, you are clearly scared of getting hurt, but that is a risk literally everyone takes. You can't blame others' promiscuity/enjoying…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 11:07 PM
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"Females" Imagine thinking women are people you are so right my whole mindset is changed thank you sagely gentleman tips fedora By the way I'm a woman and didn't lose my virginity until after college lol swallow that pill ya dumb fuck
/r/ExRedPill23/06/20 02:42 AM
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"If you dont believe TRP men, go to this biased video of TRP followers, hard at work in the cherry fields finding their "data", as they are not data scientists but kitchen shift managers from Chili's"
/r/ExRedPill18/06/20 12:12 PM
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Sexism and racism are always bedfellows. Another one for my Bingo card.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/20 12:10 PM
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Hey, you're angry and bitter and don't know what you're talking about
/r/ExRedPill18/06/20 12:09 PM
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Okay boomer
/r/ExRedPill18/06/20 12:09 PM
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Well prepared with a FULL diaper.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/20 12:08 PM
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Check out r/MensLib, way healthier discussion sub.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/20 12:06 PM
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PROOF 🤔 that women 🤷‍♀️ are BAD 😷 and should be kept in CAGES 🇺🇸 because they had sex 🔥 before MARRIAGE 🥺 and I am INSECURE 😳 so I say sex MAKES THEM UNCLEAN 🤮 to preserve my ego 😇
/r/ExRedPill18/06/20 12:05 PM
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You said you aren't interested in keeping your friendships with women, because you aren't dating/having sex with them. Maybe, start by seeing people as individuals with their own feelings, thoughts and experiences. They are giving you friendship, you say you enjoy that, and they don't owe you anything else. Frankly, you may not even deserve to be their friend if you'd drop them over TRP. Stop surrounding yourself with angry, hateful nonsense. It 'makes sense' to you because of confirmation bias.…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/20 11:59 AM
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seethes in barely-contained anger about women I'm good.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 07:56 PM
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"Women dont date down" "Women are in abusive relationships with bad boys who abuse them, they get off on it" Please ask them to pick one
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 07:55 PM
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This guy talks about being superficial as a negative, yet TRP screams about "hitting the wall" as if reaching age 30 is a dealbreaker And noooo focusing on superficial things but how many dicks you had in you, huh? Getting whiplash over here
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 07:54 PM
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What if they were married 5 times? Is it okay then? Is sex with 1 dick 5,000 times different to the vagina than 5,000 dicks 1 time each? 🤔
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 07:50 PM
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Ah, so you don't respect that women have choices, and you think sex is "unpure". Whew lad
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 07:49 PM
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You sound pretty weak bro
/r/ExRedPill16/06/20 09:54 PM
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Then you don't consider anyone else's feelings but your own. its simply not compromising your social life, even if your partner doesnt like it Let me quote you to you: the problem is undeniably you
/r/ExRedPill16/06/20 12:41 PM
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Divorce is healthy. Would it be better for incompatible people to stay together? Why do you care? Marriage is not even a religious ceremony in origin lmfao Regarding women having sex, hol up Bad behavior by what standards? Who is being harmed? Other than insecure men who fear being compared to past experiences Why are you upset, listen, you just want to control women, and you and other people like you have zero self control over your thought process, don't put the onus on women You get mad at gr…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/20 02:13 AM
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Everything? Women can have sex with whoever they want. Women can date whoever they want. Does it bother you that they have choices? Sorry that it's no longer the 1600s. Perhaps if you remove all electric devices from your home, you can LARP even further as a backwards-thinking peasant with no education, from a bygone era. And the rest of the world will benefit from no longer reading your inane, sexist theorycrafting.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/20 01:32 AM
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Fuck off, neckbeard.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/20 10:34 PM
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Just be honest, and have a conversation about it. Then you'll know how he feels. But be careful. Manipulative people are hard to read.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/20 10:50 PM
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And stop being an insecure narcissist.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/20 06:54 PM
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As weird as it is, happiness is a choice. Before people grab their pitchforks, I mean that we must seize the control we have. Change what we can. And you can change a mindset! If OP starts thinking these thoughts, he needs to be immediately challenging them with their opposite, or something positive. It's sitting and just thinking about this shit all the time that truly creates the mentality. Living isolated from others. When you make a habit of challenging shitty thoughts, eventually the habit …
/r/ExRedPill23/05/20 12:39 PM
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It is "playing the numbers game" in their mind, but instead of looking at people like coinflips for sex, check out the likely data we could extrapolate from their "hypothesis": The women who they "succeed with" are likely looking for that person's level of attractiveness to begin with (see them as an equal looksmatch), so their success is highly dependent on the will of the other person and what they find attractive. They worked on the approach and how to talk to women over time, inadvertently n…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/20 01:27 PM
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Yep, you have to be open to possible rejection. And not call them names and get mad if they reject you. Mutual respect, part as friends.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/20 10:53 PM
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So you think women can't guide you on what feels good during a sexual act? You think they don't know in that moment, "No, I don't like that" or "Yes, that feels good"? Lmao yes, women are the ones out of touch, here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:25 PM
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"The amount of women who complain about abusive guys"... read the OP.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/20 04:23 PM
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Someone disagreeing with you and telling you how your opinions coming off is not necessarily "projecting". You need to learn to accept criticism without taking it personally. You came here asking for opinions, did you just want people to confirm your bias? And "had to stop that so we can converse normally" hoo boy. If you talk like that, IRL to people then no wonder. You are using anecdotal evidence to make sweeping generalizations. Full stop. Your personal experiences don't add up to "everyone …
/r/ExRedPill12/05/20 02:45 PM
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See, women are not a hivemind. If you are dating/hooking up with girls from the same social circle then yeah, they probably would behave similarly, but even then, no guarantees. All human beings can make choices. Women are not some kind of creature you can study to understand them. You just have to talk to different people. It really sounds like you've been in one area, or dated one "type" of person in the same area forever. Don't do the same thing over and over and expect different results. But…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/20 02:38 PM
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I am perfectly calm. You can disagree without being angry. Maybe that is an issue in itself, that you see disagreement as a form of aggression. You said in your OP that you believe women are the ones playing "games" since they are the ones who seem to complain about it more. That logic does not make sense. Men and women can both do all of these things, good and bad. See people as individuals. You are walking the edge of feeling a sense of persecution, which will not help you think positively tow…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/20 02:30 PM
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Women are individuals. There are no tricks to just knowing who is going to do what. Look for red flags. If you are manipulative toward women, they can EASILY pick up on that, and treat you accordingly. There's no point in trying to figure out "why" you were cheated on. You should be generally working on yourself and being a whole person, without needing someone else. There's nothing to be gained by focusing on the negative. It will only make you bitter.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/20 02:25 PM
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You need to see people as individuals. There are shitty men and shitty women, decent men and decent women. Many people are well-adjusted. Being well-adjusted means you don't hate an entire group of people because of bad experiences. You are saying that women complain about abusive relationships and thus somehow deserve it?, yet here you are, acknowledging that it can happen to men too. Nobody asks to be abused. People often overtly manipulate others and hide their true selves, wait until the per…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/20 02:21 PM
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I'd just break it down with Socratic Method. Ask yourself why you think specific things, and assume them about women. Women are just people. There are good ones and bad ones, just like men. Women are also allowed to have sex. Without judgment. Dicks don't alter a vagina in any permanent way. Everyone should enjoy it safely and responsibly. Without shame. If someone made you feel ashamed for your sexual history, would you think them a kind person? Would that be attractive? When you don't want to …
/r/ExRedPill11/05/20 01:58 AM
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Here's a hint: it was a joke. Work on your personality and make your standards realistic.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/20 08:42 PM
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Guys shouldnt have a high count either. Going in so many vaginas makes their dicks shrink down to nothing, and who wants that? (/s)
/r/ExRedPill08/05/20 08:11 PM
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How am I gonna jackhammer these chicks for 30 seconds while my sweat droplets fall in their mouth if people start caring about women, fuck that
/r/ExRedPill08/05/20 08:09 PM
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I think that those guys fail to realize it's not the "treating women badly" that attracts them rather than the guy himself being so hot/attractive (hot body and charismatic personality) that women forgive him his "sins" just get a shot with him. Both genders forgive a multitude of things for other people in general, not just because they are physically attractive. But, if you just want to sleep with someone (and are using obvious methods to do so, like TRP etc) why would the other person care ab…
/r/ExRedPill08/05/20 08:05 PM
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This is the answer. If a thought comes up that is unhealthy, you have to actively choose to stop thinking about it. Until it's habitual, until it stops coming up. I had to do this with abandonment issues from childhood. It's definitely not easy. But over time it becomes second nature. Then, you don't think about it at all. You're just living your life. Everyone has insecurities, but the only way to fix them is giving ourselves the tools to do so. Just hoping it will go away on its own won't do m…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/20 03:05 PM
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As with most things, going out and actually speaking to people and getting to know them helps you find common ground much better than reading about them online, like they are a studied part of the animal kingdom, seen as separate "creatures".
/r/ExRedPill04/05/20 02:58 PM
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He knows he has genital warts, and instead of educating himself, he believes he "cured" it with a soldering iron. Not shaming for having a disease, just the stupidity.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/20 12:07 AM
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Yeah, it's feet first not head first.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/20 12:05 AM
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Are you people not trying to control the sexual movements of others, by shaming women into having less sex with people who don't neg them? Is it because you are concerned that being in those strong vaginas will whittle your peepees down to nothing from their crushing kegel strength? You should be. That's a real fear. Other than not having an inexperienced person to manipulate, I mean. Terrifying.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 01:10 PM
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Much information was lost in history because of religious zealots burning libraries during the Crusades. They didn't like new ideas. You guys think you're coming up with new things, but this is how men have always seen women: objects to exploit, without their own scopes of experience. Get used to the world changing. Because you guys are not in the libraries, you are trying to burn them.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 01:01 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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