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What are the characteristics of a theta male?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:12 AM
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Are you a smegma male DBZ? Go give yourself a good wash.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:58 AM
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Just learned about sigma, gamma and omega males today. What type of male are you my fellow PPDers?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:53 AM
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I think I’m the only non anime obsessive on here. What’s the deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:41 AM
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Never had this happen cause I’ve only had two LTRs and not any FWB situations or anything, but just want to say I absolutely saw this coming. You’ve been falling hard all summer. Such a shame it can’t work out my dude. Look after yourself. Think you’ll meet someone you click with as well again, but it won’t happen overnight. Lick your wounds then get back out there in a bit. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:52 AM
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100%. Old cock for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:56 PM
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You have no empathy if you believe that because you’ve read some shit on two x that makes you feel bad, that rape victims deserve to read this sort of shit on here. Two wrongs and all that. The OPs point is gross and misogynistic and no amount of misandrist shit on TwoX makes this ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:52 AM
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I didn’t mention anything about both sides so don’t know what you’re talking about man. My point is generalising that all women who’ve been raped would laugh at a soldier losing his genitals in a horrifying accident is not a point based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:39 AM
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Thanks for writing this out. I was just too gobsmacked to even respond. The OPs argument is entirely based on his own emotion and has no basis in fact whatsoever. The fact that he can’t see that is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:35 AM
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Well in his youth apparently paid for lots of abortions cause he was constantly knocking women up. According to him anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:04 AM
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I hear ya mate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:08 PM
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Waiters, chefs, bartenders.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:16 PM
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What? What makes you say you’re a rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:16 PM
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Usually people who got over addictions say exactly that IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:15 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:15 PM
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Living with them for a long period before marriage and kids. The mask slips sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:12 PM
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My ex studied chemistry but was amazing at guitar. Guitar game is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:10 PM
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Are you pro or anti marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:09 PM
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What do you like? What genres? Artists?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:53 PM
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Lots of things depending on how deep your relationship is. Attending things you’re at even when she has a paper she needs to write or work in the morning really early. Helping you with something like reading your college work for typos when she’s actually quite busy with her own shit or driving you to the airport in the early hours even when it’s completely out of her way and she might be late for something. Watching/reading something she isn’t really interested in because you’re really into it …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:51 PM
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Going out of her way for you. Repeatedly. Genuinely inconveniencing herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:31 PM
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What different expectations in responsibilities are you referring to that you believe are reason for removing equal voting rights on the basis or sex or race?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:27 PM
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Anyone with the opinion woman shouldn’t have equal voting rights to men is a misogynist in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:19 PM
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Q4M: what made the best sex you’ve had the best sex you’ve had?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:34 PM
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My ex messaged me telling me he still loves me during covid. We broke up in 2013.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:30 PM
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Wait. Are you seeing her or aren’t you? How did you not know her size?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:35 AM
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Whisky is correct too. Scottish whisky blows pretty much everything else out of the water too so I have to say it’s my preferred spelling 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:24 AM
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This happened to me. I said he should go talk to his girlfriend and not ask me about it cause I didn’t want involved
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:19 AM
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Correct me if I’m wrong (May differ from country to country to) but I think that’s only the case if you find out it’s yours, and stay and raise the kid anyway. If you leave when you find out You’re not the dad, I think it’s different. Could be wrong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:21 AM
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One of the things I don’t get about the fear of paternity fraud thing is in the vast majority of countries you don’t need a mum’s permission to swab for DNA. Just do it quietly after changing it’s nappy (sorry, diaper for you yanks) pay the $100 and hey presto, you’re a dad. Or not. What’s the issue here? What am I not getting? P.s. I asked on this sub once how many actual fathers of children had done this. The answer was zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:03 AM
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This was pretty common among gen X couples but is much less common now and you’re unlikely to hear the above scenario at all. You don’t seem to be in a couple though. You seem to live with your mom. So a lot of the stuff I’m saying won’t be applicable. Cause she’ll just make you do it anyway. You need to find a woman who enjoys housework. That actually gets some level of satisfaction from a clean house. Prides herself on it. You can’t do absolutely zero. It will breed resentment in every woman e…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:49 AM
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I didn’t know he’d dated her. Ok. Cool. This is starting to make more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:04 PM
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How have I went my whole like not knowing who Andrew Tate is or even hearing his name to seeing shit about him everyday. What did he do to go so viral?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:32 PM
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He asked to marry me towards the end when he could feel me slipping away and was trying to lock me down for good. I think I probably already had one foot out the door by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:14 AM
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Have you been to a college party? Or are you talking out of your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:04 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:29 PM
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College parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:14 PM
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My ex asked to marry me so I assume I’m marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:12 PM
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Ok. At least copy the comments over saying husband needs therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:09 PM
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Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:45 PM
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Stay away from boys who play guitar!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:35 PM
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To not date my ex and to mine bitcoin while it was worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:30 PM
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No. I have an IUD. And o trust my partner not to fuck anyone else. So no worries about STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:52 PM
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Really? People need to get touch grass if they’re memorising stories from strangers on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:16 AM
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Shitty break up stories - what’s the worst way you broke up with someone or they broke up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:10 AM
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If my partner publicly cheated on me like this, I’d leave. It’s just too humiliating. I also wouldn’t date someone in the limelight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:30 PM
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Please, please tell me this is sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:24 PM
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Politician cheats?!? Well I never.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:17 PM
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Most ppd women appear to be in relationships so I’m not sure this question will have many people to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:09 PM
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I’ve been on here a lot less recently and I’m wondering if that means I’m back to be unknown but looks like I’m still odd enough to be relatively known on here. Gross eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:21 PM
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I asked first 😾
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:09 PM
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What one am I?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:48 PM
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Anyone ever tell you how annoying you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:41 PM
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Madam. I’m never been more insulted. 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:37 PM
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Bodyfat obviously. Height involves surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:36 PM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:33 PM
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😔😔😔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:26 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:16 PM
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Really? Ok. I’ll downvote on your behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:15 PM
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I’m not gonna report downvoters 😂😂 there is definitely one there. They just don’t want it to be abused
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:12 PM
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Doing a survey. Upvote me if you recognise me as a regular PPDer. Downvote me if you don’t recognise my handle at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:05 PM
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I asked this question in the daily once “men with kids, have you DNA tested your child”. 100% said no and they wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:50 AM
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Schizophrenia often doesn’t show til late 20s/early 30s. And lots of people have kids by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:03 AM
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As I’ve said. I only got it wrong once and I’m in a happy relationship now with a guy I initiated with over 8 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:11 PM
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Touching my arm or leg while talking, laughing at my jokes, showing interest in what I’m saying, snatching glances of me when they think I can’t see, offering to buy me a drink. For the guys I met a few times before asking them out they might have “in jokes”with me, send me funny messages between meetings, frequently sit next to me at events we go to. Men don’t tend to make the effort to do these things if they not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:47 PM
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I know loads of married couples that met at work, it’s common AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:50 PM
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I’m just British. Not aggressive. We like to swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:07 PM
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Very good point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:38 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:19 PM
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Go by whatever the fuck you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:16 PM
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Depends on the crime and circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:36 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:35 PM
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I think I probably needed to have casual once so that I could see it wasn’t for me. That way I’m not worrying about “what if”. I know what I’ve got is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:27 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:14 PM
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Do you consider all of the above difficult to achieve in a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:57 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:14 PM
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This is a shitposting subreddit. What do you want from me? Let me make a joke ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:00 PM
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I’m not sure what you’re asking but I’ll try and clarify my position. I think a lot of people were overly sheltered in their youth and are tremendously naive if they have got to adulthood before finding out looks matter. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:54 PM
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I don’t understand your question. I’m not angry at men 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:47 PM
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Cause apparently some people grew up in a magical fairy land where looks didn’t matter and are surprised pikachu face when they finally realise it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:41 PM
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I’m mostly fine with age gaps I just think in some cases they’re a bit icky and sometimes illegal. A 23 year old with a 43 year old is fine. But a 43 year old with an 18 year old is weird in my personal opinion cause I think teens are too young for that. I don’t think it should be illegal or anything. I’m just gonna side eye it if I see it. Emmanuel macrons wife groomed him. As did Sam taylor to Aaron johnson. Woody Allen and his step daughter is another example. Adults going after teens is gros…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:19 PM
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The two are not related. I would be equally grossed out by a gay couple with a massive age gap. James Randi for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:12 PM
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Yes. I’m pro gay rights. What has that got to do with age gaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:04 PM
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I don’t think that thinking homosexual relationships are ok has anything to do with a double standard on age gap relationships. You’re not being very clear. Is English your second language?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:01 PM
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No. What’s that got to do with anything though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:58 PM
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Does homosexuality get a pass? I’ve not mentioned any gay couples at all dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:57 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/comments/u3mm8p/thoughts_on_aaron_taylor_johnson_and_sam_taylor/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:34 AM
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I see that all the time tbh. We must just go to different places on the internet 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:32 AM
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I find it weird. Sam and Aaron Taylor Johnson for example, or Cheryl Cole and that 1Directipn guy. The Emmanuel Macron thing is gross as fuck too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:30 AM
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Yeah I heard about Roosh. Does he still sell his books even after the conversion?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:01 AM
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Delete this. If they see it’s you, they’ll block your new account.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:14 AM
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Oooh thanks. This is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:14 AM
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Yeah. This is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:22 AM
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I am interested in PUA. Not from an actual “using it” perspective (I’m a taken woman), but just to read what type of advice PUAs are actually giving out cause I find it pretty fascinating. Does anyone have any recs?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:21 AM
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I think this is decent advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:12 AM
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Yup. Tbh. I’ve never met a blue piller who didn’t think this tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:02 AM
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Most of the men I’ve asked out have said yes. One said no. I wasn’t nervous. I thought I was getting IOIs in all the cases. I obviously misread one of those. What made me decide to do it? I like shy boys. They’re usually too shy to do the actual approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:00 AM
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Have you asked them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:55 AM
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I agree with you. Plan to do the exact same as this when I’m married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:41 PM
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Murderer?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:11 PM
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Who is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:26 PM
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I think women that can’t cum don’t wank enough tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:07 PM
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That’s not the same as what I’m talking about tbh. Both men and women’s sex drives can change from the beginning to end of a relationship. But if they’re low libido before you marry them, then don’t be surprised when they remain low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:54 PM
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Guys that struggle to cum consistently should go to a doctor. Check it’s not something more serious. IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:48 PM
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Am I saying it’s never happened ever? No. Am I saying it’s so rare as to be stupid to worry about? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:32 PM
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I said it’s not a common phenomena. You’re the one making a statement that it is. Ok. Then prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:30 PM
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VICTORY
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:28 PM
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As always Lift, you are 100% correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:26 PM
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Isn’t (I can go all day 😂)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:25 PM
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This isn’t evidence mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:24 PM
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Name one piece of evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:06 PM
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It really isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:01 PM
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Yeah cause this sub is highly accurate and normal /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:00 PM
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It’s not happening though. So don’t worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:53 PM
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Exactly. Most people need to feel secure and safe to do kinky stuff. You’re not finding that with a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:47 PM
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I sincerely doubt this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:47 PM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:43 PM
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As I’ve said before. It’s really easy to avoid this line of questioning. Change the subject, be coy. You don’t need to lie. And you’re too nice of a person. I think you’d not be a very good liar anyway mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:42 PM
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I don’t believe there is a huge seam of women doing anal or choke fucking with a ONS that demand only missionary from their husband. It’s not happening. It’s all in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:41 PM
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Yeah. Why the hell else would I be here? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:35 AM
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Nah. I’m generally quite chill. The kookier the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:22 AM
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Yeah but that’s why it’s interesting IMO. I love reading shit I disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:16 AM
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No. That’s why I want to know the reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:12 AM
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Ok. Most defund the police people I’ve spoken to say neither men or women should be in prison. I want to know what specific reasons they gave for men still needing to go to prison and not women. Cause it’s just not a point of view I’ve ever come across before
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:04 AM
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Can’t find anything on it from a quick Google. I’d be interested to see what reasons they gave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:13 AM
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Can you say what channel or whatever it was in. I want to see if there’s an article on it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:09 AM
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What pill are you? You’re a difficult one to pin down on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:07 AM
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How do this tie in to the male suicide rate in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:49 AM
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Are people still able to get food stamps if they’re working? Or is it like an unemployment thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:50 PM
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How poor?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:45 PM
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How low?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:45 PM
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How do you qualify for food stamps?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:36 PM
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People who spend lots of money on useless tat are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:06 PM
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My partner had a breakdown a few years ago. And I still had to beg him to got therapy after it cause he considered it “weak”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:50 AM
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Yeah maybe something evolutionary. Maybe my cavewoman brain is like “this guy doesn’t like you enough so won’t stick around to care for your kids which means they’ll be taken off by hyenas or starve to death”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:52 PM
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What turned you Christian?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:46 PM
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Well I assume so. You put it together haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:46 PM
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Nah. Read the God Delusion aged 19 and it got rid of any wavering feelings about a presence of a God.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:36 PM
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Yeah. It is weird. Probably illogical. But that’s how it felt. Also I’m one women. As I said, plenty of girls love casual. It’s just not for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:35 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:32 PM
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I read a book on the history of the bible out of genuine interest while I was devout, and realised it was written by man and not god. So then I started to read about the gnostic gospels etc. just seemed to me the bible, and it’s points about Jesus were contradictory. And the gospels we have were picked entirely due to politics. After that I considered myself a believer in God but not a Christian. Then I read Dawkins, watched Hitchens etc. that got me the rest of the way to atheism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:31 PM
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He actually liked me for me and wasn’t just trying to fuck. I was more than a hole to him. Which in both my casual sex experiences, I didn’t feel. I felt used even though I’d consented if you get what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:28 PM
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Yes. Once a week. I only go for funerals and weddings now. I stopped going aged 17 (in my 30s now) but I’d consider myself pretty devout until then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:21 PM
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Erm. I tried it twice cause after the first time I thought it was maybe just that guy I didn’t like. But after the second time I realised it was because we didn’t have a genuine connection. I couldn’t teach him how I like it (to be able to cum) which I’m able to do in an LTR and in the cold, hard light of the morning it just made me feel icky. Wouldn’t do it again if I was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:20 PM
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Good list. Agree with lots here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:07 PM
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I didn’t like it but I know women who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:57 PM
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Oooh why? First person that’s answered this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:57 PM
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What would make you not keen to do it? What factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:25 PM
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Q4A how would you feel about dating a widow/widower.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:18 PM
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No. Can you spell it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:00 PM
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Q4M: do you like tattoos on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:59 PM
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I was not expecting this detailed of a response 😂😂 thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:45 PM
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Purplish, do you find fat women need bigger dicks to feel satisfied. It was a comment made on My post numerous times yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:36 PM
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Yeah. If sex is really high priority to you then obviously it wouldn’t work for you. I agree, life is short. We all gotta do what makes us happy whilst also treating our loved ones with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:32 PM
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It should go as long as you’re willing to accept. If this guy can’t handle 3 months of no sex, he needs to tel his partner as soon as he can so they can discuss options. My partner had pretty low sex drive for about 6 months there due to meds. I was fine waiting cause he’s great and I love him. But maybe if it had gotten to 2 or 3 years I would have felt differently. In which case, I’d tell him I need more attention and he can either step it up or we need to look at breaking up or me getting it …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:28 PM
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If you think her having a night out means she’ll fuck someone else…leave her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:23 PM
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Nah. They know too much of my secrets
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:22 PM
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Naaaaah. Even if you’re having a rough patch sex wise, you tell your partner you need more attention before you go off and get it somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:18 PM
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This is my point too. I love being fingered. So how could a guys dick be too small?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:58 AM
2

Depends how picky. If they man doesn’t eat a single vegetable I’m not keen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:57 AM
1

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:06 PM
1

I’m a woman 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:00 PM
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Literally every engineer I know, man or woman, is married. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:30 PM
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100% agree with you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:01 PM
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I didn’t specify women. Just a nice thing you’ve heard. I’m trying to give my loved ones more compliments where I can and I like to see what people find meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:58 PM
2

I don’t think this is widespread enough to make a huge difference tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:56 PM
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Yeah. That’s a great one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:55 PM
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I’ll go with mines. I met up with a friend of mine and got to meet his new boyfriend. We were having a conversation and I said something (I can’t remember what it was) but it got a big laugh from the new bf and he turned round to my friend and said “you were right when you said I’d bloody love her”. It was like getting a compliment from two people simultaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:53 PM
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Workmates? Teachers? Friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:50 PM
0

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:44 PM
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Awww Lift. Stories about your wife warm my soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:41 PM
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Good on you for healthy boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:39 PM
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What’s the best compliment you ever received. The one that made you feel happiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:38 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:37 PM
3

Yeah. This is what I thought tbh. So thank you for your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:27 PM
8

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:42 PM
1

I don’t have a dick mate. But thanks for taking part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:41 PM
1

Yeah. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:46 PM
1

I’m asking everyone. I’m seeing most women here say they don’t care tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:57 PM
1

Asking cause lots of men I talk to on here we’re telling me they were too small for casual when they were above average and I found it hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:56 PM
1

I agree with you mate. But I’m having loads of guys tell me it’s an issue so what am I to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:52 PM
4

I was interested in true crime, that got me interested in incel terrorism, that lead me to here. The bat shit takes are what keep me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:13 AM
2

5’3 Uk girl here. Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:26 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:08 PM
2

Just a fun question to break up all the hatred on here. I can’t say it’s something I worry about personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:48 AM
2

Ever seen mean girls? That.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:37 AM
2

Q4M: thicc thighs or thigh gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:35 AM
2

I think my partner is the most gorgeous man in the world but even I have to admit it’s unlikely I’ve actually managed to snag the most gorgeous man to ever live. It’s a hold over from our ancestors. If you’re ancestors were the type to pair deeply, this was a benefit to your genetic line as it would give the offspring two parents which means a higher survival chance. The cocktail of happy hormones and attraction hormones you get from being with your partner were of evolutionary benefit to your D…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:55 AM
2

No need to apologise for preferences my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:47 AM
2

Erm. Depends on if the individual woman thinks that’s cool or not. He’s doing better than a man who looks like him who isn’t playing guitar IMO. But I don’t think it would put you up a full point on the scale or anything. It would just nudge him up a little bit. I still consider him pretty average for his age. All things considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:46 AM
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He’s probably average for a man in his late50s/60s tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:42 AM
3

Q4M do you find abs on women attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:35 AM
2

Hmm. That’s interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:34 AM
1

Most people find that attractive though…no?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:33 AM
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What’s something you absolutely love about your partner that you think most people wouldn’t find particularly attractive? I’ll go first. His fashion sense. He’s basically living in free t shirts from suppliers that he got at conferences and bargain bin shirts from TK Maxx. And I can’t get enough of it. I don’t find people who obsess over designer labels at all attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:26 AM
2

Mate, you started messaging me. Not the other way around. I send my photos on here to people I trust. Not people clearly looking to doxx “uppity” women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:54 AM
2

Tinder didn’t exist. Instagram wasn’t as popular. His abuse left my self esteem crippled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:46 AM
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That’s not how abuse works mate. Please read into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:40 AM
2

No he was in my league. He was just emotionally abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:32 AM
3

I’m on the opposite side of this. My ex bullied me into spending all my money on him. I bought him stuff constantly. Christmas and birthday presents were £100s. If I spent less he’d moan that I didn’t love him. When I got with my current partner, it was close to Christmas and I told him I was spending only £20 on him and I wanted him to do the same. He was actually really happy to not have that obligation to spend lots on me as he had very little money when we got together. Definitely love my cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:08 AM
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Q4M Do you flirt with people you aren’t attracted to and wouldn’t fuck even if given the chance? If yes, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:13 PM
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I’ve had sexual contact with a guy I’m not attracted to before. You just have to be drunk enough to make bad decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:52 PM
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Depends. Can he talk to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:16 PM
1

Yeah. I just find it awkward if someone I don’t find attractive asks me out. I don’t like hurting people’s feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:14 AM
2

He is so anxious about directions and getting lost that if tell him to get to the place we are going he needs to go right, he will check it on Google maps anyway, before going right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:27 AM
1

Shitposting on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:59 PM
2

No. He was a chav.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:26 PM
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Female. From early childhood. I remember a friend being bullied for being fat and having bad clothes aged 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:54 PM
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Erm. He was definitely very pushy but I didn’t say no straight away. I ended up going down on him (no idea why) and then I think I sort of sobered a little or came to my senses and told him I didn’t want to have sex with him so he left (very annoyed). I don’t think the guys a rapist or anything. But the whole thing is a bit iffy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:49 PM
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4/5 guys I slept with I wasn’t attracted to straight away. 1 of those 4 I actively found gross but ended up getting in a drunk situation with him which I regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:35 PM
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Do you mean the. I want a wife but not a single friend guy. He’s been quiet recently if he’s still here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:54 AM
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Awkward men are my kryptonite. Seeing there awkwardness melts my heart and I want to see how flustered he gets when I start getting sexy with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:36 AM
2

I can’t type 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:21 PM
3

What do you do if you have one friend flirt incessantly with another friend of the opposite sex who you know is not interested. Should I tell them it’s a lost cause? Or let them keep trying?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:18 PM
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THIS WHOLE COURTROOM IS OUT OF ORDER
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:55 PM
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Never settle. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:46 PM
1

Hahaha. Not like that at all in my case. He’s into it. He says it makes the orgasm he finally gets AMAZING.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:40 PM
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He should do as he pleases. You get one shot at life. If fucking lots of women will bring you joy during your short existence…get at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:36 PM
1

I’m into BDSM. So choking, slapping, humiliation is hot to me. I enjoy choking, slapping and humiliating my boyfriend too. Most of my sex is me dominating my bf. I often lock up his cock for days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:34 PM
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I was friends with my abuser for 10 years before we got together. We were in the same social group, got on insanely well and had all the same interests. I thought I knew him really well after years of sitting up to the early hours chatting online, sharing our fears and hopes. He was funny, talented and kind. On our first date he was too nervous to even kiss me. It was cute and endearing and I fell head over heels. For the first 6 months, everything was amazing. He made me feel happy and loved. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:02 AM
1

I was just pretending I was an evil immortal person with super powers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:55 PM
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No. Like all my other vaccines I’ve ever had, they’ve only made me STRONGER mwa hah ha ha ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:16 PM
1

Who’s the oldest celebrity that gets you horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:32 PM
5

Had a few days away from here. Is it still psychopathic? Or have we all found Jesus?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:25 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:57 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:08 PM
2

No. They’re both tories.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:50 PM
2

Me too. Some personalities just aren’t compatible and it’s totally fine being rejected for not matching personalities with someone. “You’re alright and you’re attractive but we wouldn’t get along together. We’re too different” Looks would make me feel like shit. “You’re a nice girl but you’re too ugly for me to want to bone”. That would be horrible to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:17 PM
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So it’s between Liz “Pork Markets” Truss the zombie ghost of Thatcher and Dishy Rishi the millionaire tax avoider for PM. What a wonderful country I live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:12 PM
1

No. They suck here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:22 PM
2

No. I live in a “don’t go to the police” community.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:56 AM
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I had to change my locks after my breakup following texts like this (“I’m on my way to your house, you deserve the consequences of your actions” etc. Fucking terrifying. I have some nightmares to this day about him burning down my house with me in it. Thankfully moved many miles away from him and didn’t pass on my address to acquaintances of his, so I’m good now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:09 AM
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At my work you just hire the one who interviews better. Who you vibe with the most. Cause you have to work with these people every day. It doesn’t directly affect the wage of the people doing interviewing and hiring typically if you’re in a medium or large business so the hirers don’t tend to care about sex. Small businesses tend to offer piss poor maternity leave pay anyway and you’re more likely to be interviewed by the actual business owner so it is probably a lot worse. But if a business has…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:20 AM
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I think everyone has a story of getting laughed at (jokingly) for having a Buckie which makes you more reluctant to give/receive. This increases older you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:08 PM
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Congrats!! Now go forth and help your fellow man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:26 PM
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I can’t tell if you’re trolling but it’s better to rise above it and say “objectification of both sexes is bad because it places unreasonable expectations on men and women” than throw the toys out the pram and say “women do it to men so I thinks it’s fine for men to do it too”. Both are shit. Anyway, that’s what I choose you do 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:57 PM
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Speak for yourself - I love this shit 😂 it just doesn’t sound like something Eulen would say so I’m interested in seeing if she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:27 AM
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Was it in the daily or on a thread? I’ll have a rummage through her comments while I wait on my bus
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:24 AM
5

You seem angrier than normal today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:09 AM
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I did a post a while ago and about 70% of the guys on here that answered it were shooting for below their looks level and 30% admitted they only go after hotter women. I’ve since deleted the post so can’t link it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:16 AM
1

Not really a fair comparison. The 2002 campaign is for Valentine’s Day. If you look at the 2022 Valentine’s Day campaign it’ll be closer to the top one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:22 AM
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It’s not to do with bare minimum. You can say basically nothing and not be doing silent treatment. Silent treatment is point blank refusing to answer questions. Avoiding eye contact, passive aggressiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:06 PM
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That’s fine. Silent treatment has huffy anger and refusing to answer questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:57 PM
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My ex would give me the silent treatment for days. Definitely a dumping offence in all following dating/relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:01 PM
5

I meant as a high schooler
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:24 PM
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I don’t. And I never had sex at high school. So that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:06 PM
2

When I was that age, I also lived at home with my parents, so I LTR’d a guy that lived at home but wouldn’t have done casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:02 PM
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The issue is you aren’t having casual sex with a guy who lives at their parents because you aren’t going to want to meet mum and dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:10 PM
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In both cases I think you should be able to sue. It seems like you can. https://www.smb.london/news/what-are-a-fathers-rights-against-paternity-fraud/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:04 PM
2

Q4W what physical male feature do you find yourself looking at most? Arms? Butt? Eyes? I love a wide back so much that I got horny there typing that sentence and thinking about my partner’s back. Off for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:41 AM
2

Yeah. What the aardvark said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:46 AM
1

Are there any Gen Zers here? Why y’all not fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:01 AM
2

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, people on this sub really underestimate confidence and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:58 AM
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Spoilsport
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:40 AM
3

I’m into pegging
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:35 AM
1

For a politician he was good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:33 AM
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I don’t know what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:29 AM
3

Yeah. People here be salty. Welcome back!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:19 AM
5

Yeah it would be 😂 mines was a 5 hour public transport journey each way. Jet would have been nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:35 AM
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Depends on many things. You need to have the correct personality for it. You must be independent. It does not work for needy people. You must be trusting. You need to be organised. Book visits as frequently as possible and well in advance to keep down costs. A job which allows some flexibility for you to take time off to travel is good. You need to have an end date for when you’ll be together in mind. It can’t go on forever and having a date in mind makes it easier to deal with. It’s possible bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:03 AM
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I think I’m probably an outlier in that I’m happy with a fat dude tbh. I don’t see too many other people with that take.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:18 PM
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I find fat and thin men attractive so I don’t care about body at all 🤷‍♀️ my bf is obese and has a face I will never tire of looking at.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:14 PM
1

Face.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:05 PM
1

Never. I would l. But I’ve never had to cause my friends and partner and parents generally love a holiday and are happy to join.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:58 PM
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My hit rate is 50% so not great, not terrible that’s a passing grade in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:53 PM
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Touching his arm, leg , hand. Making flirty jokes. For example, say he says he was doing some DIY that day when we’re having small talk I might say “I like a man who’s good with his hands” wink wink nudge nudge. Lots of eye contact, fluttery eyelashes, straight up eye fucking. If he isn’t getting the hint, asking for a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:36 PM
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I don’t think you’re going to get many people here disagreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:32 PM
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Looked at the OPs other posts and the woman is an alcoholic and a narcissist who sees her daughter as competition apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:49 PM
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B
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:16 PM
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Woohoo!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:04 PM
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Rather a live pussy than a dead hero
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:59 PM
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I’d want him and I to barricade ourselves in our room and call the police. He’s too important. Shit is replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:11 PM
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Then you’re missing out on all the free labour orbiters provide girl - get yourself some guy friends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:59 PM
2

So what…disabled people get no friends? Think about what you’re saying for like a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:54 PM
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You don’t think women and men can be friends because some men are rapists? What? What a genuinely terrible take.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:23 PM
3

99999%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:41 AM
1

She’s pure cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:42 AM
1

Make this woman PM. It’s what we deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:36 AM
0

Name a time and place baby
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:27 AM
2

It’s a quote from The Room
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:10 AM
4

You can be confronted for any behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:57 AM
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Question for virgins. What’s the closest call you’ve had to losing your virginity? Any time where you think if you’d played it a literal differently you could have gotten some?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:07 PM
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I don’t really agree with the premise of your question so I’m struggling to respond if I’m honest. I want (and have) male friends because I’ve met lots of men in my life who make good friends. It’s not cause they’re men. It’s cause they’re fun, interesting, friendly individuals. I haven’t seen many people say they want male friendship for the sake of it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:33 AM
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17-21. Just cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:22 PM
0

I’m talking about the UK Conservative Party leadership election which is what I think Decoy is referencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:50 PM
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Cause if they run it on what they’re actually going to do (cuts to public services, no help for fuel bills) then people won’t vote for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:29 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:18 PM
3

I probably couldn’t figure that out but it’s very male heavy at the moment. I can go days without talking to another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:50 PM
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CMV men care way more about dick size than women do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:02 PM
1

Yeah. The style does not mesh well with me at all. I think you can be polite when you pushback. You don’t need to scream/shout when challenging ideas/opinions etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:57 AM
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I do not get the popularity of Joe Rogan. He is such a softball interviewer. Put some pressure on them. Dial up the heat. He is just so dull.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:04 AM
3

Yes. Very much so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:25 AM
2

He told me purplish possum and Mrs Drgree had an affair 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:22 AM
2

Ignore him. Talking about him int main thread just encourages it. He’s been doing it for weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:17 AM
1

Jesus. That sounds horrendous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:58 AM
1

Yeah. I’d never forgive an affair either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:43 AM
1

Yeah maybe. I would like to have sex with a woman but I’m happy to not because I love him to pieces and would never want to cause him pain. If he cheated and still wanted to remain together, I suppose it would be a guilt free way to try that out. I don’t have a woman in mind or anything and I’ll happily die having never touched a vagina because monogamy suits me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:41 AM
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I don’t want to sleep with someone else. I’m happy in a monogamous relationship. But it goes both ways. I expect monogamy from him too. That’s the deal. If he has a slip up, I think the least I’d be owed is a free pass to do the same should I want to. Maybe I wouldn’t want to when it actually came to it. But that’s how I see it. He’d be free to leave if he wasn’t happy with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:32 AM
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I don’t know. I very recently realised I like women as well as men so maybe I’d take it as an opportunity to try that out 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:27 AM
2

Yeah. This is exactly how I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:06 AM
2

Yeah I think this is what I’d be like too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:55 AM
0

Q4A: If your SO cheated but admitted it and apologised, would you stay?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:33 AM
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Explain it away all you want. Cheating is a shitty thing to do. Leave your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:15 AM
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I didn’t realise she was a single mother but I knew this was the guy that clearly thinks he should be able to cheat on his wife with no consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:21 AM
2

I’m about to marry mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:43 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:06 PM
1

I’m not passive aggressive. It’s genuine thanks. Again. Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:46 PM
1

I wasn’t suggesting it would affect your life mate. Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:40 PM
1

22
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:38 PM
3

I enjoyed it. But it seems like I was lucky enough to find a guy who didn’t care about n count as much as he acted about me fucking him. This seems rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:35 PM
1

You’ve given me an idea for a post. Watch this space.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:34 PM
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As u/SmarmyPapsmears says, guys really care about n count. Pretending they don’t is naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:29 PM
8

Based on the n count discussion lots of men here have, I was hopelessly naive on the dating market when I happily had sex on the first date. I honestly didn’t realise I should have been withholding or I’d have zero respect. If I ever become single again, then sex on the first date is a definite no, and I’ll discourage my female friends and family to do it too. Thank you PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:26 PM
6

The way I like to see it is that there is no such thing as perfect, but there is such a thing as perfect for you. So many of my female friends/family are with men that I just would not be compatible with. Doesn’t mean they’re bad, or I’m picky. Just that we wouldn’t be a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:24 AM
2

Glad I’m not the only Cringelord here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:17 AM
2

I know. 16 year old me is a fucking embarrassment. 31 year old me isn’t much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:37 AM
6

True story. I “cosmic ordered” my partner when I was 16. I wrote a big list of everything I wanted in a boyfriend, hid it in my favourite book and did weird magic on it (criiiinge). Found it recently when clearing out my childhood books. It’s basically a full on description of my fiancé 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:21 AM
1

5, 31
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:10 AM
1

How long til she leaves?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:10 AM
1

Woman here. I agree. Exact same for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:56 PM
1

Yes. He’d have to be intelligent but I’m fine being more intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:17 PM
3

Probably not. When I had tinder I left swiped on guys who were built for example cause I’d assume he would expect me to also be super fit and I wouldn’t be keen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:33 PM
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What about women who just straight up outearn their partner from the start?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:01 AM
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You’re too good to me u/jackedsoon
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:48 AM
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Have you listened to his apology? He genuinely seemed to accept he did something wrong. Louis CK, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:30 AM
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Who did this? Is it on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:35 AM
4

He tried to stab me mate. Fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:33 AM
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Q4me Why am I like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:23 AM
1

My ex has still not managed to find another woman crazy enough to date him 9 years on, and I am happy about that. Cause it saves me warning anyone off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:07 AM
2

Average woman here who thinks her partner is the hottest guy in the world. Have you heard of boyfriend goggles? It’s likely that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:42 AM
2

Wouldn’t care. I’m 5’3. Everyone is tall from down here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:49 PM
2

Don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:01 PM
1

Would you date a woman who wears it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:48 AM
1

I’m curious for men on here’s opinions on makeup. A lot of hate for it gets bandied about so if you can clarify a few things that’s be great. Do you date women who wear lots of makeup? Would you prefer women don’t wear make up at all? Or use it for just social gatherings like parties etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:58 AM
2

Meh. I seem to meet average dudes attractiveness requirements for LTRs so I’ll assume I’m average 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:50 AM
1

Murder!Death!Kill!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:46 AM
2

You need to flirt back of you want to know. You can do it in a way that have plausible deniability. If he makes jokey jokes about your sex appeal, you can do it to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:44 AM
3

I think if I didn’t already have a lot of great men in my life, this sub would have made me go full Dworkin 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:41 AM
1

The next season of Bridgerton is that. Not made yet but will fall under that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:39 AM
6

I must be ugly then cause my personality is 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:32 AM
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I suspect this is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:45 PM
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A lot of these guys already say they’re red pill so that doesn’t seem to work as specific advice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:56 PM
1

Well this is what makes this question difficult I say. Cause many men want different things. Let’s just say getting an LTR for the sake of argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:35 PM
1

How have your friends met people? Would you say you’re a similar attractiveness to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:05 PM
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Never. Any guy I had sex with prior to commitment, I had sex with in full knowledge he owed me nothing. This includes my current partner who I had fooled around with prior to even going on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:30 AM
3

The trouble I see with them is that they make money from not letting people match up straight away. They need guys to feel like they’re not getting anywhere so they’ll pay. And this can have a massive impact on self image/mental health etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:49 AM
2

9 times in one day. I was in a LDR so when we got together it was non stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:14 PM
1

My partner knows shit all about cars as he can’t drive but I always enjoy seeing him do DIY and gardening. those both count in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:26 PM
2

No it’s neutral, not unmasculine. But being able to do it is masculine I’d say. It’s a turn on to see a guy work with his hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:20 PM
1

Is it just based on how she acted? Or is there physical evidence? I haven’t followed the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:38 PM
2

We live and hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:43 AM
2

Someone called Ben Wallace. But it’s hard to say. The competition hasn’t even started yet. Only a couple have indicated they’ll run. It’s a hard one to guess. Also I’m not English. I’m a Scot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:20 AM
2

How am I meant to work at a time like this? I just want to watch the news 😭 I want him to cry like May.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:53 AM
2

Ah fuck him. He’s a massive cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:51 AM
4

No. It’s for 10000 reasons. He lost some elections recently, and he hired a guy who sexually assaulted some men when drunk when he knew the guy was dodgy. So his cabinet all resigned. But only cause they want to run for prime minister themselves,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:50 AM
0

Depends on the mood. Sometimes I’m done in 5 minutes. Sometimes 20 minutes where some of that I’m straddling his face and some of that I’m lying back and enjoying it is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:36 AM
3

That’s always the power I choose when asked about it. Hiro Nakumura from Heroes’ power is the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:33 AM
2

How is this not a definition of a high value male though? I don’t really get what you mean. I copy pasted it from the first search term on Google when I searched FDS HVM. If there’s another definition I’d be keen to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:32 AM
6

So Boris Johnson is resigning today! Halle-fucking-lujah. Actually cringeworthy how long he clinged onto some semblance of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:14 AM
1

Yup. Hard agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:39 AM
3

No. My partner and I aren’t big texters. Once a day typically if I’m away for work. We phone if I’m away 2 days though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:18 AM
3

It’s because HVM as defined by FDS and HVM as defined by red pill are entirely different. There was this post ages ago where a guy asked if you’d rather be with a HVM as part of a harem, a LVM with commitment or alone. Everyone picked alone and the guy got annoyed because they way he read it was women would rather be alone than in a committed relationship with an ugly guy. But that’s not what women meant. They mean they’d rather be alone than with someone abusive, unkind etc. and that if a man i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:15 AM
3

Not for me no. Raising kids with this guy. Dont want that influence in my wee ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:40 PM
3

If you mean he’s a racist or something…then he can go fuck himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:30 PM
2

I’d knock myself out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:05 PM
1

I was telling Smarmy about my bra size yesterday in a group chat and we all agreed that I have more of a genetic deformity than a set of tits 😂 So this is a call back, not a brag.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:59 PM
2

I can’t without two sports bras 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:52 PM
1

But you can do it secretly, they still weren’t keen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:10 PM
2

I asked the guys in relationships on here if they’d get a paternity test if their wives/girlfriends got girlfriends and they mostly said no. As much as guys seem to fear it, I don’t think testing even amongst PPDers is too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:06 PM
5

Absolutely no fucking excuse for lying about paternity. Actual scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:36 PM
2

You, me and Mrs Drgree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:09 AM
2

This entire sub is a car accident
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:01 AM
2

Literally look at any information I’ve posted and find where I’ve said he’s earning more than me. It’s not my fault you can’t distinguish between female posters so assume they’re all the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:56 AM
3

Why do people rubberneck car accidents?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:54 AM
2

I earn more than 25% his salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:07 AM
2

Yes. Of course. But again I’m not naive. Men without work for a long time tend to have terrible mental health because they’re so used to contributing to the household and now feel worthless. It can lead to depression/anxiety. Bankruptcy, financial hardship etc can break up otherwise happy couples. I never want to be in this position. I’ve done a lot to ensure we will never face financial hardship. Both of our salaries are insured so that either of us take ill health, we have a period of time wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:07 AM
1

I grew up in a divorced household. I never believed the Disney dream of love conquers all. Life is hard. People who were perfectly compatible while dating as young and carefree individuals can collapse in a marriage when faced with childcare, work stress, ill health, alcoholism etc etc. I think committing to someone for life is a solemn vow, and I do not ever want a divorce. The way to minimise that is to find a man who I’m compatible with in every way. I’ve thankfully done that. It doesn’t soun…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:45 AM
5

You tell me. Why do you not care about the things I’ve mentioned? I think they’re pretty crucial but obviously you attach less importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:36 AM
2

I want my partner to be financially stable because I’m financially stable and I want us to be compatible in how we spend, invest and save our money. I will be taking a year off work to look after a newborn at some point so I need him to be able to look after the mortgage while I’m doing that. I want to be able to retire with him at a good age. Not have him working into his late 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:31 AM
5

Yeah. She knew she hadn’t cheated so took a dna test herself. Obviously then found out it wasn’t their kid they’d been raising. Horrible stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:15 AM
3

Cause everyone else is and I like to conform
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:50 PM
4

I have a pretty dude. No chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:31 PM
1

6 months I did the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:25 PM
2

5 with both. My makeup is super light. Like barely any.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:19 PM
1

Yeah of course. But a pretty fat dude is getting picked over an ugly jacked one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:31 PM
2

No. And it’s not that I find muscular guys unattractive. I just prioritise a pretty face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:18 PM
1

That’s one of his issues yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:52 PM
4

Liberal engineer here and I have this argument with my liberal non engineer partner all the time. He’s massively against nuclear power. It’s something we will never agree on but he’s cute and makes me laugh so it’s all good 😂 rigorous debates are good foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:21 PM
2

Yes. But I’d pay for guide. I think they’re probably fine with women in most places as long as you’re covered. But I would pay for a guide for peace of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:08 PM
1

What age are you now? Would you say they’re as intense as teenage crushes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:38 AM
1

Yeah. I did it aged 16. Went on one date with the guy and he just didn’t live up to my imagined hype. Poor guy. If I hadn’t had unrealistic standards for him maybe I’d have given him more of a shot. Ah well. Alls well that ends well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:33 AM
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With regards to obsessive crushes/infatuation. Have you experienced this? How did it manifest? What age were you at the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:57 AM
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Hi Leo 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:56 AM
3

So you don’t think all men are horrible then? Just men you’d consider for dating? Have I understood you correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:13 AM
5

You don’t have male friends, family members, role models that you love or respect? You need to be sexually involved with a man to have positive feelings towards him? Can’t relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:08 AM
1

This. I’m like the opposite of a misanthrope. I have a generally high opinion of most humans. Men and women. Sadly, there are assholes out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:54 AM
2

What a great little straw man you got there. Signed, A women who thinks most guys are pretty great actually
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:53 AM
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So I had never heard of it before so it seems to be referring to having a crush if I’ve understood the Wikipedia right. I would say it’s true, cause I’ve experienced an obsessive crush. Is it useful? Maybe? It makes your highly motivated to pursue a relationship I guess? But if the object of your desire doesn’t reciprocate, then I think it can be pretty destructive if you can’t handle it emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:39 AM
3

Hey dude, you need to respond to CMVs or the mods will delete your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:14 AM
3

The girls I know that do that, do it cause their mother did it, and their mother did it and so on. It’s like the only thing they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:33 AM
7

You haven’t been clear what you mean here. What emotional pain are you discussing? Lying to get sec then leaving them? Emotional abuse within a relatonship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:13 AM
2

As I said, I don’t care. I’d pick either if there’s literally no other distinguishing factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:35 PM
1

You seem to doubt me but it’s honestly true 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:20 PM
3

Body type is least important aspect to me. So absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:22 PM
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My age preference has went up as I’ve gotten older so I guess my physical preference has changed. Like I’m fine with some face wrinkles, some grey or thinning hair etc. I wasn’t fine with that when younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:57 PM
2

I’m currently engaged to a marginally obese man with a beautiful head of hair. So I’d say that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:21 AM
1

Being desired makes me hornier and therefore more likely to want sex. Yes it’s possible for me to want it and desire it independently, however, the rational part of my brain would find ways to back out of it. “You have work early tomorrow, he lives in bla bla bla and that’s extortionate to get a taxi home from etc etc.” I wouldn’t pursue it if the guy didn’t seem interested enough to escalate cause it didn’t seem worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:03 AM
1

Man or woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:54 PM
1

Woman or man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:35 PM
1

What’s the age of the oldest virgin you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:31 PM
2

I don’t have black friends cause the population is 97% white where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:15 PM
3

70% male
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:15 PM
1

Nah preselection would mean he’s got several girls wouldn’t it? What I mean is his friends have paired up with my friends, so he’s only got me? You get me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:31 AM
3

What do you do if you’re in a straight and happy relationship for years from 20s to present but then realise you’re maybe a teeny bit bi in your 30s. Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:43 PM
2

Very cute smarmy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:49 AM
3

Q4M: how do you feel when a woman calls you cute? Asking cause almost every guy I’ve ever dated I would call cute and he would generally see it as an almost insult. Like I didn’t think he was manly or something. Is this normal? Or are the guys I’ve dated just easily triggered?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:33 AM
1

Why is it so bad? I’m meant to be flying to Heathrow next month. That looks fucking horrendous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:57 AM
6

I have had casual sex twice. I didn’t enjoy it and wouldn’t do it again if I was single but here’s what had to happen for me to want to. His friends were already flirting/dancing with my friends. The fact that the two groups had sort of moulded made it feel safer some what. No idea why. Safety in numbers? I had to be the right level of drunk. Not too sober or I wouldn’t have done it. Not too drunk or my friends would have made sure I got home ok. He had to be attractive or I had to at least thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:33 AM
0

Vote 1 for otter mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:57 AM
1

Turned out he had phimosis so it became clear he’d lied because he wasn’t able to “get it in” so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:45 AM
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Had this conversation with you before pal. Lie if you want, but you may struggle to keep up the pretence as your clothes come off. Source: my ex lied about his experience then couldn’t manage for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:37 PM
4

Nah. It’s not worse but it’s as bad because it’s not an acceptable reason for betrayal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:01 PM
6

People in the service industry. They’re all fucking each other’s brains out. In my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:27 PM
6

You seem to have a very idealised idea of what European men look like. Have you been?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:09 PM
1

Hahaha 🤣 I mean it as a general rule of thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:48 PM
1

This is my issue with 99% of studies and is why I agree with the above statement
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:11 PM
1

Confirmation bias. You read the things you already agree with to reinforce your beliefs. You dismiss the things you disagree with outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:10 PM
0

Hard agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:04 PM
3

I’d prefer he went full disco and started wearing platform boots and flares.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:30 PM
2

It is. But he’s a glutton for punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:28 AM
1

My partner likes me digging my nails into his dick 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:26 AM
1

I’ve never done this so I can’t answer your question. That being said, I know my boyfriend’s ex well so maybe that’s why I’m really not threatened by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:07 AM
1

No. If they’re broken up then I assume it’s done. What do you mean by digging up relationship history?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:05 AM
1

I’m 31, so I’d prefer he’d had at least one LTR lasting over a year. If he’d had zero LTRs it would sound like he likes to play the field and isn’t looking to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:02 AM
2

One night I was walking home alone when a drunk football fan I was passing in the street came right up to my face and said “give me a blowjob”. I jumped back, shocked at the invasion of space and overtly sexual manner. I did feel scared/threatened because although he didn’t threaten physical violence explicitly, his tone, manner, drunkenness were worrying and I thought things might escalate. Is this a catcall? Threat of physical violence? Neither? Someone shouting “hello gorgeous” from the oppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:58 AM
2

This has always annoyed me. I fucking HATE it. I agree with your comment but from a female perspective, it feels infantilising and is encouraging women to be scared to walk out their front door. I point blank refuse to be scared living my life. I walk home in the dark a lot. I keep my wits about me, stick to brightly lit streets etc. of course but am I fuck sitting at home scared to move because it’s dark when for significant parts of the year it’s dark at 4 fucking pm. Arggghhh! Sorry you’ve cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:40 AM
2

It’s of very little importance, however, I live in a 97% white area so it’s unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:27 AM
2

How good is his English?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:36 AM
3

People want different shit. Someone may have fucked once in the past year but still consider themselves unsuccessful. Someone might not have had a girlfriend but still consider himself successful as he wasn’t aiming to get one. If you can think of an objective success measure, I’m all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:54 PM
2

You’re happy, or you’re not happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:50 PM
6

Q4 guys who aren’t successful with women. Do you believe your looks are 100% the cause of your issues? Or do you think personality/mental health/physical health plays a larger part?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:46 PM
3

No nuance. Only anger 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:43 PM
7

To be fair, if people do say it they’re called a liar so there’s little incentive to speak up 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:59 PM
2

Yeah. This is true. I only say that’s blue pulled because everyone here says it but I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:34 PM
4

More likely men. My female friends don’t tend to have strong opinions on much. Don’t follow politics or anything. Barely read the news, whereas my male friends read a lot of politics etc. so are more likely to doom scroll and argue on twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:05 PM
2

100% in agreement
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:03 PM
5

I don’t think this is saying you can’t have female friends. I think it’s just taking the piss out of guys who never make a move on a woman they’re interested in, pretend to be friends, and then get pissed when she gets with the guy who actually made a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:10 AM
3

Yeah, I didn’t realise that people grew up thinking looks don’t matter. Can’t relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:02 AM
3

Dammit!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:43 AM
2

I’d rather he just did the DNA test behind my back. Why’s he telling me he’s doing it? He doesn’t need my permission. And I’m presumably a shattered mess from hours of childbirth. I can’t imagine I’m going to be logical and collected at a time like where I’m ripped vagina to asshole and my partner is asking me to prove it’s his. Just go do the test and keep me out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:37 AM
5

This is why I say bluepilled despite the fact I have never believed that being nice gets you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:30 AM
1

is it this comment here you’re referencing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:04 PM
3

Bad orbiter 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:25 PM
3

Whattttt?!? I thought I just needed tits and proximity. This is bullshit 😭😭 I don’t wanna work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:13 PM
10

Men of PPD. I now declare you all my beta orbiters. You must now give me 1/5 of your income in bitcoin at your earliest convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:54 PM
3

I don’t post it myself but I like seeing my friends and family enjoying the little things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:28 PM
1

So the random pays for both of you or just themself?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:56 PM
2

Erm. We got racists here too sadly. Maybe best asking some UK black dudes their experiences as they’ll know better than me. u/jackedsoon and u/decoy88
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:40 PM
1

In my part of the UK, it’s an even split. Especially if you go for drinks. One person buys drink one, the next person buys drink two and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:37 PM
2

Meh. Different areas are different. Paying half and half is typical in my part of the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:29 PM
2

Ok. How does this argue my point though? Mostly, for just guys, it’s not gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:13 PM
3

I approach too but generally women don’t. Like it or not, we aren’t the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:12 PM
8

This is why I hate the “women should approach more” CMVs. Yeah, maybe they should, maybe they shouldn’t, but they aren’t gonna. So there’s no point discussing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:46 PM
3

Yes. Probably do these combined more than PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:04 PM
0

I never implied that it happens “usually”. I wouldn’t suggest a woman goes in expecting a long term relationship if she has sex on the first date. I don’t see this issue as long as people aren’t being naive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:30 PM
5

I tried casual sex a couple times and just didn’t enjoy it. I enjoyed having sex with someone I cared about more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:25 PM
6

I don’t know either but it happens every time without fail. I had one guy get so furious he slid into my DMs demanding to know how many STIs and abortions I’d had from having sex on the first date 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:12 PM
2

This is why you’re one of my favourites here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:02 PM
3

It’s that or FDSers not liking me being easy. I’ll never know for sure though 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:53 PM
10

I always love getting downvoted for saying I had sex with my partner on the first date cause I never know what side is doing the downvoting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:51 PM
2

This applies to basically 99% of women in the UK with a driving license.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:36 PM
1

This is why I had sex my partner very quickly. I didn’t want a relationship with a guy who’d judge me for finding him attractive enough to fuck on the first date. Thankfully, he was cool with it,
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:35 PM
3

I mean, objectively, no. The police putting you in prison for that my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:20 PM
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I told them recently and they had had no idea (this was 9 years ago so they’re much calmer about the situation). I was careful about the women I told at the time too for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:47 PM
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An interesting component to the “do you expect a male friend to chase down a thief” thread. When I was leaving my abusive ex boyfriend who’d threatened to murder me, I told none of my male family or friends about the threat. I only told my female friends and family. This is because I knew that my male family, specifically my father would likely physically assault my ex if they knew he’d threatened me and I was concerned my dad would end up with a criminal record or jail time. I wonder if this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:53 PM
21

No. Not worth it. He could get hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:23 PM
3

They use the Rhythm method.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:10 PM
2

I’ve never eaten Kraft but I can only guess the answer is yes. I really want to try the Kraft Mac n Cheese cause it’s referenced on so many shows though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:09 PM
1

When I was younger for sure but as you grow older you grow less tolerant of that shit IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:43 PM
2

Ehh…zero. I don’t think my fiancé would have been too happy with me bringing random French dudes back to the hotel 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:36 PM
2

I mean, I visited India a few years ago and I’d say that the cities in India I visited smelled worse than the vast majority of European ones I’ve visited. That being said, Venice is probably the worst I’ve been to 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:20 PM
2

No. Only an issue if he’s addicted and it’s having a negative impact on other aspects of his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:15 PM
2

Lots of lovely wine and art galleries though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:13 PM
2

Meh. No worse than any other European city as expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:12 PM
1

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 happy pride!! Are you two an item?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:56 AM
1

I’m back from France. What did I miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:53 AM
5

I agree with this. Recently met a 5’6 guy, and I would have assumed 5’8. I’m only 5’3 so I find it hard to judge height other than “are you taller than me or are you a lot taller than me?”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:34 AM
1

But if you’re better looking than the 6’2 guy and she’s like 5’3, then you’re likely the one getting picked yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:58 AM
1

Hahaha 🤣 just asking for a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:42 AM
1

How significantly would you say it limits your options?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:35 AM
2

I have a question for the guys that consider themselves to be average height, what height are you and do you think being average in height hinders your dating life more/less than other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:24 AM
1

Yeah this is a good response 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:45 PM
2

No. In for a penny, in for a pound.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:06 PM
7

You don’t know my partner 😂😂 we differ on many things. Part of how we hooked up was a heated political discussion that we vehemently disagreed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:29 PM
2

Let’s get down to Business Smarmy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:53 PM
15

Me personally? Intellectual curiosity, well read, has a hobby that involves his brain, interest in current affairs, critical thinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:52 PM
2

How did you find a wife if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:34 PM
3

Snorted tea through my nostrils reading this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:27 PM
1

I can edit it back. All for some military hardware along with my sausage rolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:02 PM
4

I’m all for this global Congress. Will there be a buffet?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:58 PM
3

https://www.statista.com/chart/amp/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-couples/ I stand corrected - 39%. Still a massive chunk IMO but if you don’t like it don’t use it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:49 PM
1

an unwanted suitor is easily dealt with tbh. Loudly talking about how great my bf is gets rid of those types quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:26 PM
2

I’m in a relationship and when I hear a guy who I think is attractive looking do himself down, I do tell him I think he is attractive. Should I keep quiet instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:18 PM
2

How is this disagreeing with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:59 PM
0

Like 50% of relationships these days are from OLD so you’re the one giving bad advice mate 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:50 PM
3

Meh. I live in another European city. I think they’re all much the same tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:05 PM
4

I don’t know. All my high n count friends are married or in LTRs though and all my low n count friends bar one are single 🤷‍♀️ I think men generally do care about their partners previous experiences but most stick their fingers in their ears and sing “la la la” really loudly if confronted with it. Like, if they don’t think about it they don’t have to worry. And if it’s brought up it can cause a break up or a meltdown or similar. Edit: I think figuringmylife is probably correct in her estimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:03 PM
1

The stench of delicious pastries? What you talking about my man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:47 PM
1

Deal 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:43 PM
3

What thread? I want to go have a look
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:31 PM
1

Speak for yourself. I give great advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:22 PM
3

Right all, I’m going to Paris tomorrow so if you see me on here over the weekend, I want you to absolutely slaughter me for being a fucking weirdo who sits on PPD when she should be drinking wine, eating croissants, looking at paintings and fucking her fiancé. Thank you in advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:21 PM
7

Are there are a lot of gay women on here? I mostly notice straight folks to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:17 PM
4

I never said that’s what women give as advice. That’s what OP said, so take it up with him. Additionally I’m 100% fine with men deciding for themselves it’s not worth the time and effort. Again, this isn’t what the post is about. It’s about women not giving advice. A man who’s decided it’s not worth the effort does not need dating advice as he’s not trying to date. So obviously this advice would be useless to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:00 PM
4

On line dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:25 AM
4

Well some people struggle with even the basics mate. They need to hear this. Maybe you don’t, but others 100% do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:33 AM
3

Height doesn’t directly correlate with penis size. Please stop worrying about this. Women are clueless about cock size. Seriously. I have been with my partner 8 years and have no clue what size he is, never mind how he compares. You seem to want to sabotage yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:48 AM
5

How is it awful? Awful would imply it’s actively hindering you. If you followed that advice you’re sure as shit doing better than the guys not doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:43 AM
2

That’s not unlikely as picking for height is something a woman can actively do. You can’t actively pick for cock size unless you heard from someone else a guy had a big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:21 AM
1

Is that your penis size?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:14 AM
4

68 percent of men measure between 4.5 and 5.8, with the other 32% split between smaller and bigger. She’s only had sex with 3 guys including you. It’s unlikely she’s found a 6+in her limited experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:51 AM
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Please do not worry about this. I beg you. I have had sex with 5 men and have NO FUCKING IDEA who was biggest and who was smallest. They’re all so close in size, it’s imfuckingpossible to distinguish. The vast, vast majority of men are average. In all likelihood, you are average and they were average. There is still a chance one was bigger, but chances are it was so small a difference she wouldn’t even notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:36 AM
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Every woman is different but there are general rules of thumb for attractiveness. For example, I can say men like bigger tits. This is not 100% true. There are gay men, asexual men, men who prefer small tits, men who are all about the ass and aren’t too bothered by tits, men who like big tits but have an upper threshold of how big they’d want those tits to be. But…as a general rule…all things being equal..most men are picking a c-cup over and a-cup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:29 AM
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I’m sorry, but how does giving the advice “use tinder, go to a party, get a hobby” sabotage average man? If a guy isn’t doing those things, then they aren’t going to get anyone. About a month ago I did a survey on here where I asked the men unsuccessful in dating if they approached or did OLD. One quarter said they did neither. As a woman, I feel perfectly happy giving those men the advice “use OLD, or get out and socialise more” because they straight up aren’t doing it and a woman isn’t just go…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:16 AM
1

This was the answer I was looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:56 PM
3

Awww. You’re a lovely soul so you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:50 PM
3

Yeah. It’s not good for me those rating threads
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:47 PM
1

Second this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:43 PM
2

You and me both friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:40 PM
3

It’s gotten to the point I can guess what everyone is going to post as soon as I see these topics come up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:27 PM
2

100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:27 PM
1

Here here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:22 PM
2

If you could, what post topic would you ban from PPD for being boring as fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:15 PM
1

Yeah. Then and now. My mum is better looking than my step mum and my dad is better looking than my step dad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:05 PM
5

Most low n women I know are single. One is in a relationship with a rich guy 14 years her senior. He looks good for his age but he’s a dickhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:29 PM
1

I say this all the time but get told I’m lying. Fully agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:18 PM
2

I mean, you’re defo superior to a lot of them. Someone of the folks here are crazy. The regulars are alright though 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:10 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:29 PM
2

What does LMR mean
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:55 PM
2

Is this not what a baby cam is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:46 PM
1

Yeah I said in another comment 35+ is probably a better figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:16 PM
1

Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:11 PM
2

Yeah. Fair enough. That’s my point though. If you aren’t fine with being alone, then it’s maybe something you want to reconsider. But you do you friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:07 PM
1

Yeah. Not full custody though. But if they had joint custody sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:59 AM
2

Loads of people meet later in life - orange paisley on here for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:47 AM
1

Yeah. I’d say in my 20s, not a fucking chance. But open to the idea now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:46 AM
0

Yeah I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:46 AM
2

Tim Minchin ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:39 AM
1

Obv people should have whatever preference they want. I just think past a certain point, it’ll be a pretty hard preference to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:21 AM
3

There’s a song called “If I didn’t have you someone else would do” that summarises this in a humorous manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:05 AM
0

Tbf most people I know had kids around 31/32 and I’ve only met two divorced people my age so maybe my statement should be for 35+.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:02 AM
1

Sure, I always understand that people are allowed their preferences. I just think that some preferences are going to seriously hinder an attempt at getting an LTR. But of course, if someone doesn’t want to step-parent, they should avoid single parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:30 AM
5

I think having a preference under the age of 30 to not date single parents is probably fine but above 30, that’s going to seriously whittle down your already smaller dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:11 AM
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Can’t CYV because I agree cold approaching is fine as long as you take no for an answer. Which is what you said. There’s nothing unreasonable about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:48 AM
1

Keep practicing talking to women, even with the knowledge it might not work out. The more you talk to women, the better you get. If you just isolate from women for a prolonged period of time it’ll be much harder to get back up on that horse. To stop the rejection feeling so bad, view the entire thing as a science experiment. Or something like musical instrument or foreign language practice. You’re not trying to get it perfect every time, you just want to see improvement. Change the mindset. Chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:22 AM
1

Fair play.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:14 AM
1

I should do this too. Some of these guys are clearly mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:13 AM
1

Yeah. I wasn’t too concerned about the jacked or the fatter girl getting polarising ratings cause they aren’t to everyone’s tastes but the others…like what more do these guys want? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:11 AM
1

Because you are healthy and clearly I’m mental 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:10 AM
1

Read the comments https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/vh59ke/daily_community_chat_megathread/id7acfo/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:07 PM
2

My explain it. Some of these dudes be haaaarrrsh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:59 PM
1

You sound much healthier than me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:58 PM
1

Wow. Why is that? I used to think average for myself but seeing instagram models and people with picture perfect bodies get 5s and 6s has opened my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:49 PM
1

Yeah. I really should ignore this place. Sadly I’m going to internalise it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:48 PM
3

Q4A does anyone else after seeing rating threads on here have a worse opinion than they previously had about their own appearance? I used to think I was a distinctly average 5/10 but a couple months in here and I am now down at a 3 or 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:24 PM
3

Very much so. I fin me average looking people attractive and as long as someone can hold a conversation, I’ll say yes to being asked out. This is why I have been in a relationship 12/13 years of my adult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:04 PM
1

I thought you were losing your mind for a second giving them 1s and 2s 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:39 PM
1

I’m assuming this is a ranking rather than 1-10 rating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:19 PM
1

It’s a quirk of Reddit. Giving a number and a period at the start of a comment is viewed differently on desktop/mobile etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:20 PM
1

I’ve met maybe 2 women obsessed with their partners. No, never been obsessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:12 PM
1

Q4M struggling to date/hookup etc. What is your ONE biggest obstacle if you had to pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:19 PM
5

I mean, if that’s the logic you may as well say “I cheated cause I wanted to lol”. There’s no point justifying shit to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:13 PM
4

Doesn’t matter if you think it’s justified dude. If she doesn’t think it’s justified she’ll just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:07 PM
4

If you go to see the same comedians multiple times, you realise they have about 5 set responses for hecklers they regurgitate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:41 AM
1

From what I can see below, there’s only one woman claiming they’re average. So not sure that’s representative of all women on here never mind all women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:21 AM
2

What does shallow on everything else as well mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:11 AM
4

The way I see it, because 40 year old men tend to have let themselves go, by putting in some effort you automatically become much hotter than other men in your age group. I’ve maybe misunderstood this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:35 AM
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Are you one of the guys I was talking about? I.e. concerned about approaching? I’m interested to know how these concerns affect day-to-day behaviour. Would you just never approach anyone as a result of this for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:57 AM
5

There’s a common issue on here that I just do not understand and would like some insight. Why do people care what people they barely know think of them? Qs like “how can a guy not get labelled a jerk for not wanting to be exclusive”, “how can a guy approach a girl without being labelled creepy” etc. Like, you can’t please everyone all the time. You can be a perfectly reasonable human and still have others dislike you or be mean about you. Approach who you want, commit to who you want, dump who y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:27 AM
2

Yeah. It is more effort for me in all the ways you’ve said. But the thing about being a woman means that if I’m too tired, not feeling dominant, just want a quick fuck I can still get that. In which case, obviously he has to make more physical effort than me. Which balances it a bit more. I’d still say it’s about 75/25 effort to me. I’m happy doing it though and not about to moan about it or anything. It’s fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:09 PM
3

As a woman who enjoys femdom, the sheer amount of stamina you need to fuck someone on a soft surface for that length of time is something I did not appreciate until I tried it for myself with a strap on. Honestly. It’s impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:58 PM
3

I can’t say if I do or not. I’ve been with 5 guys who I assume were all average cause I honestly couldn’t tell you who was big/small out of the bunch. I can say none of them were too big or too small. I didn’t come with two of them but don’t think that was dick size related. One was a one night stand in a foreign country where we had to be quick before the person I was sharing a hotel with came back. The other person I gave a blowjob and he didn’t reciprocate in any way so unlikely to orgasm fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:40 PM
2

It was 100% down to him. Not only was I more than happy with it, I hadn’t asked to measure it. I’m laughing now as it’s funny to have someone lie straight to your face about something you can both see. But yeah. His dick was fine. Zero complaints. His personality was garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:29 PM
4

Not my current partner. My first partner did out of curiosity and he was about 5’, but lied to me and said he was 6’. Even though I could clearly see it and know how measuring tapes work 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:14 PM
1

Unsolicited? So like, to randoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:32 PM
1

Yes one of the reasons. But one specific member of the opposite gender, my fiancé.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:20 PM
1

No. Only received them from men I was already sexting as a natural progression of sexting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:43 PM
1

6’ish, no idea on dick size but I’m assuming average, middle class, median salary, BMI about 31, doesn’t go to the gym so no idea what he’d bench if he did go, gorgeous face and hair. Definitely above average with regards to facial attractiveness. Terrible dress sense 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:27 AM
1

Sex. I’m intermittent fasting so no food til 1pm and I would not be able to resist if a pizza turned up on the doorstep.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:14 AM
7

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:08 AM
1

Yeah cut off contact Op. She’s not leaving him. And if she did, who’s to say she wouldn’t do the same to you down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:51 AM
3

Hey dude, wasn’t suggesting it was your fault. That fucking sucks though. What horrible people. I just saw someone write this on another sub and thought it would be interesting to discuss if people here agree or disagree with the premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:41 AM
1

If this ain’t love I don’t know what is!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:35 AM
5

Do any of you think there’s any truth that the most jealous people in relationships are the most likely to cheat themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:32 AM
2

He sounds unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:26 AM
4

The issue is too big for one woman can be the absolute sweet spot for another. Men have small, average, big dicks. Women have small, average, big vaginas. I’m not saying size doesn’t matter, but I have never been with a guy where penis size was an issue. I think all guys I’ve been with are in the 4-5.5 range and all of them gave me pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:03 AM
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No. I knew I was unattractive when I was younger. It did not surprise me men weren’t interested. I still managed to get a boyfriend though, who was similarly not traditionally attractive (I found him attractive but my family/friends often commented that he was ugly and fat). When I had my glow up, the last year of my relationship with my ex, it was actually a result of him continually telling me how disgusting I was. That I was fat, my hair was a mess, my clothes were unflattering, I didn’t know…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:40 AM
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Most of the replies are suggesting the woman needs therapy from what I can see. She’s clearly fucked in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:14 PM
2

My partner’s parents are religious and would disown him if we had kids out of wedlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:30 PM
6

Based on the recent post I want to ask - Are men with trades doing badly in the dating market? All the plumbers, electricians etc. I know are married or in an LTR so I haven’t seen it personally but interested in what other people have witnessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:27 PM
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I have no idea what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:45 PM
0

Not my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:36 PM
0

Question for men in LTRs. Your current wife/girlfriend tells you she’s pregnant. Are you getting a paternity test?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:24 PM
1

Love this response.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:26 PM
2

I’ll never be caught!! Mwa ha ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:04 PM
2

I don’t mind getting a private test. Just wouldn’t want to do 23andme.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:01 PM
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I’m against 23andme cause I don’t trust that private companies won’t sell that data on at some point and my DNA is a pretty fucking big piece of data to have. Also the police will more and more use 23andme following the successful apprehension of the Golden State Killer and I don’t want to police or the state having their hands on this data. Fuck all to do with paternity issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:59 AM
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Are people cheering him on? I haven’t seen that. Fucked up if true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:07 AM
0

What’s the TLDR on the Ezra Miller situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:12 AM
1

How does no nut do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:23 AM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/vf9inx/cmv_men_that_are_tender_and_loving_in_the_bedroom/icuroo9/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 also said here that I think he should let her take charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:51 AM
3

I do!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:50 AM
1

That’s a good point. In that case I’m adding it to my list. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:39 PM
1

Cool I’ll give it a whirl then. Do you like the monologue though. Seems clunky to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:17 PM
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The guy who made th post. He’s worried he’s bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:59 PM
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He doesn’t want to be rough or dominant though. Think that’s his concern. Is that cause he doesn’t want to do that he’s considered bad in bed in his eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:39 PM
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You can switch it up in other ways. Let her take charge for example. Sex toys. Watching porn together. Anything really. Mix it up. See what you enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:46 PM
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Serious question, do you need to ask the mother for a paternity test to happen in most cases? I know some countries have laws in place but is this the norm or the exception?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:39 PM
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Why not both? Variety is the spice of life. A guy doing the same thing every time is forgettable, a guy switching it up keeps you on your toes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:25 PM
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I didn’t say that either. I say once a certain level of hotness is reached, other factors come in to play. Looks are obviously very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:48 PM
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Is the rest of the book good? The monologue is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:10 AM
1

C. I’m a 5 now so being a 6 and remaining a 6 til old age sounds sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:06 AM
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I’ve never read/watched Gone Girl so googled that monologue. What terrible fucking writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:32 AM
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It’s designed to make money. Not get people relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:47 AM
1

Since 12th August 2021 semi regularly. From March regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:46 AM
1

My commute is walking down the hall hahah. Would love to be able to pop abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:18 AM
2

Yeah that’s fine: we were all 15 once 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:17 PM
1

Superpower, transport at a thought. Give up orgasms? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:12 PM
1

What age? 😂😂 where you one? A 30 year old chav is different from a 15 year old one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:10 PM
2

Ahh. One other Scottish person. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:08 PM
3

This is what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:07 PM
3

If I want an ltr with a dude, I want to meet mum and dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:55 PM
2

Are you from Scotland btw. I remember it used to say you were tartan pulled lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:52 PM
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I said earlier tonight I thought status was important in dating and I got a lot of disagreement. I think the UK obsession on class (of which I’m a part of) is very specific to this country. I would not date a chav if they were the last man on earth. He could be 10/10 looks and I’m not attracted. Can’t say you’re the same for chav women but I think it’s an interesting topic for the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:47 PM
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I think it also said lesbian sex lasts hours. So it’s like long, seldom occasions. I’m maybe making that up though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:39 PM
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Agreeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:29 PM
3

tldr what’s this guy’s deal. Do other PPDers agree women aren’t sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:27 PM
1

Do you think it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:22 PM
2

Don’t see it as bad…however. I would not have casual sex with a man who lived with his parents, you’re Christian though so that’s not as big a deal in your community hopefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:20 PM
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You high?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:02 PM
1

Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:52 PM
2

Is this UK girl? Are you the same person or have I got you mixed up?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:38 PM
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Are people saying women aren’t sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:33 PM
2

?????
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:33 PM
2

Yeah. I wasn’t part of inceltear either. I just found it after the Plymouth shooting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:04 PM
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Yeah I came from true crime too. Jake Davis (incel shooter) > inceltear > here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:54 PM
1

Caffeine. Alcohol. Love. Edit. Forgot about Tramadol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:51 PM
1

Q4A: how did you find this place? I found through inceltear for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:49 PM
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My favourite English word in a Scottish accent is Girl. Girrrrrriil. Is how it sounds. Ask that next time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:41 PM
1

Are you Uk too?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:37 PM
2

Yup 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:30 PM
1

If they were trying to have a wank on hardest difficulty? I believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:29 PM
1

Scotland. You get bell peppers but other varieties require specialist shops in cities. They’re not in big supermarkets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:26 PM
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I’m so jealous of Americans and the amount of oeppers they can buy. Any time I watch Binging with Babish he has about 8 peppers he needs for a recipe and I’d be lucky if I could find one here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:23 PM
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Haha. Sorry. I meant dating advice. Thank you blud!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:08 PM
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Who’s offering advice here? I wholeheartedly agree with you. Advice here is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:01 PM
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Nearly every. Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:49 PM
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I think a lot of People on here would be much happier if they stopped following hot TikTok girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:38 PM
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Peter is much fatter IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:08 PM
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I went onto r/rateme and found an average dude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:51 PM
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I agree. I’m not douching it. But a little water to rinse out the cum is necessary if you don’t want to smell of cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:40 PM
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Don’t bring up “is sex a need?”. It summons Lillth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:08 PM
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Sounds like a good way to get AIIIIIIIiIDS (said in a Rich Evans from Red Letter Media voice)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:34 PM
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Politicians and comedians is a good way to do it actually
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:22 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:09 PM
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How can you tell she’ll gain weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:09 PM
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Thanks for your answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:59 PM
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You can find average women on the internet dude. It’s not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:34 PM
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You won’t get a straight answer here. I’ve tried to pin this down before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:15 PM
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Fair enough man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:54 PM
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Why are you not just answering my thread? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:51 PM
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See, I think this is so foreign to me because being with a guy so much more attractive than me would make me even more insecure. Each to their own I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:25 PM
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I have a lot of fun with my shower head in the mornings in that area and that keeps me clean too. Double win.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:23 PM
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No. My very little experience in hookups has confirmed it’s not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:19 PM
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I’ve seen a lot of men on here say women are buoyed up by social media, that it gives them an inflated sense of self worth, makes them entitled, less like to accept average man because their DMs (even average women’s DMs) are chock full of thirsty men. Why then does pretty much every study into it suggest women have worse self esteem if they are a regular user of social media? That it makes them feel less attractive? Makes them more prone to eating disorders etc. How does this affect the dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:17 PM
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Ah that’s interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:25 PM
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I don’t think you give women enough credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:19 PM
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Erectile dysfunction. Is offensive? What? If anyone I’ve been with is struggling, I just go get them a water and chill for a bit then try again later.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:19 PM
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Absolutely. Like. All the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:17 PM
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I can assure you men are not any different in that respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:10 PM
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Yeah. The majority in that post said they didn’t. So it seems like I’m an odd one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:44 PM
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Yeah I get a pulse most of the time bur sometimes it’s like a aching pain. Bloody weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:43 PM
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I love that so muchZ
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:41 PM
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Yeah it’s definitely not all the time so maybe it’s something to do with my cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:40 PM
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Amazing! I didn’t know it had a name!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:38 PM
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Q4W: I saw this post asking if “blue balls” for women were a thing and pretty much all the responses said no. Now, I might have misunderstood what blue balls are but I thought it was something along the lines of a physical pain if you cant have sex. If I’m really horny and we aren’t getting to penetration fast enough my cervix starts to ache, like it’s actually sore and it often gets me to skip foreplay cause I just NEED it in me. Is this just a me thing? Do other women here experience similar? …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:33 PM
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It’s a hypothetical mate. Just interested in the responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:58 PM
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Ok. But I’m not sure many people would date someone who they know is in love with someone else - you get me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:35 PM
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Yeah. There’s definitely something not adding up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:25 PM
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I dunno. You feel lonely? Want kids and need a mother for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:17 PM
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What happens if after a few months you’re still in love. Would you never date again?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:17 PM
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Haha fair enough. If you don’t believe in love that makes the question a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:10 PM
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Changed it from “moral” to “best”. Moral the answer is obviously 2. But best could mean best for you, rather than best for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:09 PM
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Would you never get an LTR again if you couldn’t get over an ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:07 PM
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Yup. Girls who are literal instagram models being called a 4/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:07 PM
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Ok but say you date someone. It gets to the point t when you’re thinking about moving in with them. You’re still in love with your ex. Then what? When do you call it off? Or do you make it down the aisle with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:04 PM
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You don’t think there’s men who cant get over their ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:03 PM
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Changed the q slightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:02 PM
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If you couldn’t get over an ex would you never date again?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:02 PM
1

Would you do that if alpha widowered
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:01 PM
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What’s the best thing to do when you have been “alpha widowed”. I.e. still harbour feelings for an ex? Date again as soon as you like and let the person you’re dating think you’re over it? Wait until you’re over it (which you may never be) and maybe dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:57 PM
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Bad. It’s always bad here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:54 PM
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Yes. People insanely judgemental. Calling ordinary weight people fat as fuck etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:54 PM
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Jesus. You’re whatever fits whatever narrative they’re trying to push. You get lots of women? Then you’re a Chad? You struggle? Then your grotesque etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:53 PM
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Even if you’re the hottest thing ever, you are still below average on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:51 PM
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I scrolled back to a few of the rating posts here and fuck me. The amount of people on here with deluded ideas about what average looks like is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:39 PM
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Fuck sake. EAT for Christ sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:38 PM
1

What height are you. 130 is crazy low.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:36 PM
2

Was talking to a male stripper once and the horror stories he told me about older predatorial women were horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:28 PM
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No. I’m just a bit more science-y than spiritual-y. Each to their own but I’m obviously not compatible with spiritual men. And they’re not compatible with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:27 PM
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I can. It’s my opinion dude. I see them both as essentially useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:18 PM
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Q4A - when you lost your virginity, was it with someone you knew well/dated or was it with a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:54 PM
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Nah. Doesn’t annoy me. It’s funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:53 PM
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Can’t believe I now have this nickname 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:21 PM
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https://realitycalc.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:03 PM
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Yes but I can’t remember what it’s called. You got standards bro or something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:02 PM
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Are there any Q4M that men want to ask but can’t post cause it’s against sub rules? If it’s interesting enough I might ask it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:40 PM
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I mean, there’s a lot. In the UK, I’d like to see increased paternity leave and paternity pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:11 PM
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Sameeee
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:45 PM
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Well I can only speak for myself - the reason I “don’t admit it” is because I do want equality 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:21 PM
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I’m not on tiktok mate. So makes sense the non materialistic, less status driven women aren’t on social media doesn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:05 AM
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I’m not going to base if this is a widespread thing based on a random Reddit thread. As I said, I’ve never dealt with this. In my 13 years of having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:31 AM
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This. Do these people exist? I have NEVER heard of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:19 AM
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Spiritual to me means something different. I don’t mind a guy who can look inward and analyse his own well-being/thought processes. I wouldn’t get on with a guy who’s religious or into pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:10 AM
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I make enough money to look after myself and I’m very unmaterialistic, so the second dude if you take out all the spiritual stuff I guess. I’m really not spiritual and I’m not attracted to guys who are spiritual. Similar to guys getting annoyed at girls obsessed with astrology I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:03 AM
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I don’t date men who don’t shower and don’t wipe their ass. Pretty simple. Also never met a guy like this. So it’s been pretty easy tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:54 AM
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Only -2. I think I said women and men generally date their looksmatch in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:44 PM
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My partner dated older women before me. He is an old soul, so he found older women generally shared more of his interests/tastes. He also found they were much better at communicating what they actually wanted. He said he felt younger women expected him to be a mind reader, in bed and in life. Older women generally knew what they wanted and verbalised it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:38 PM
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Think you said it best a few weeks ago. Blue and purple are pretty much the same. At least I think it was you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:53 AM
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Naaaah. They’ll just say he’s getting dead bedroomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:36 AM
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Yup. I live in a country with free university tuition, free dental check ups, free eye check ups, free healthcare in general, free baby clothes and books when you get pregnant and is it fuck communist 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:58 PM
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Oohh. Is that tied into insurance? The US medical system hurts my brain it’s so complicated haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:52 PM
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Think that’s a particular issue in the US. Calling the Dems left always makes me wince.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:50 PM
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In my country you get free prescription drugs. But that’s nothing to do with gender I’m afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:48 PM
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Am I? Do you have the stats? Or are you basing this on ✨v i b e s✨? From what I can see online, 40-50% of women seem to earn the same or more than their partner. Seeing as men on average earn more than women, this seems pretty reasonable to me. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:11 PM
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Leftist woman here dating a guy earning 25% less than me. Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:03 PM
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He said “complaining about not being able to get a girl”. It doesn’t matter what the reason is (dating is difficult, magical curse, hypergamy) you are still complaining about not being able to get a girl. It’s pretty rife. I don’t really think what you’ve said negates anything I said tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:57 AM
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What subreddit are you on? That’s basically half the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:38 AM
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Yeah, but I think the science around bringing them back is horrendous. There’s a reason they’re repressed. Leave them be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:16 AM
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Real one: 5 Fake one: it’s very hard to say. Do I assume every random guy that came up to dance with me in a nightclub was trying to fuck? Every guy I kissed? What about guy on the street that followed me and asked for a blow job? What about my male teacher when I was 14 who used to stroke my hair and tell me I was beautiful? What about my work colleague that groped my leg at a works night out and told me how jealous his wife was of me (I have no idea who his wife is and how she would know me to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:22 PM
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I’m assuming it was just reverse image searches which don’t take any time. If they pieced together lots of info to find them on LinkedIn or something, that’s unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:58 AM
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I don’t know, but I think I’ve known when they guy I’m with isn’t enjoying himself. I wouldn’t say the guys have always known whether I was enjoying myself. But that’s generally cause if I’m having bad sex, I’ll fake it to get it over with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:50 AM
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It’s because he’s abusive so cheating is fine in the eyes of the movie watcher. People don’t take men’s abuse seriously so it’s not typically portrayed for anything other than laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:01 PM
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“Her body was not my type” You have a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:44 PM
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Well it sounds like you have more lined up. Also I’m sure you have previously said you don’t have a type. Maybe mixing you up with someone else though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:42 PM
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I was single for a year. Had a couple of ONS. When I started dating seriously again I had a boyfriend within the month. Almost zero time on the dating market In my 13 years of adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:30 AM
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This is my thoughts too. People can be red pill for traditional conservative reasons (against casual sex etc) or because they’re hardcore into evolutionary biology. One is likely Christian, the other Atheist. It’s fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:15 AM
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Are you generally happy when not asleep? Or would you say it’s stress through the day and stress at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:11 AM
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There’s probably age appropriate books or websites on it to help with that sort of thing. I remember finding my mum’s Cosmopolitan magazine when I was 13 and reading an article on masturbation tips along side a page about blow job tips. Not sure that was entirely age appropriate for me but I’ve turned out ok. Ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:08 AM
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What are the religious persuasions on here? Mainly atheist? Or Christian? And does that impact whether you’re red or blue pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:19 AM
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I think like half of the women on PPD are off the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:12 AM
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When you’re constantly looking up to see peoples faces, your struggle to differentiate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:27 PM
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I’m 5’3. Met someone at 5’6 recently and I assumed he was 5’8 or something before he told me. I’m so short my entire understanding of men and women’s height is fucked. Tell me whatever height. As long as it’s only +2 inches I’ll likely believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:49 PM
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Similar for me - drama but no police. Although I specifically broke up with my ex in public cause I knew he was going to take it badly and I wanted witnesses. It definitely could have gotten to the police involvement stage if I’d done it at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:50 PM
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In my opinion, there’s no time limit. I was friends with my partner for 3 years before we got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:19 PM
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Depends on what you look like tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:38 PM
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I’m specifically talking about men who say women are physically unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:34 AM
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I mean, this is a hypothetical as I do like men. I’m trying to get my head into the mindset of men who feel this way about women. Are they just wanting incubators?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:49 AM
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I don’t hate men - I love men. I said “if” meaning I absolutely don’t hate men. I’m reflecting on the attitudes of men on here who hate the personality, and character of women and also say women are unattractive. Why is sex with someone you do not like personally or aesthetically something to want? You know what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:47 AM
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If I didn’t like the company of men, and didn’t find men attractive sexually, then why would I care that I can’t get one? For sex purposes? I can get myself off no problem. To combat loneliness? If I don’t like the company of men, surely I should combat loneliness by spending time with women? Is it to have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:29 AM
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Is that not what warm approach is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:03 AM
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I asked around my female friendship group. 80% of my female friends have never asked a guy out before in their life, 20% had (warm approach). Obviously not scientifically important or anything as my friendship group is hardly representative but it just made me think of the guys on here who say they never approach and they don’t use tinder. What are you expecting to happen? Cause from what I can see, women just aren’t approaching random dudes at the rates you need to get someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:54 AM
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You Christians and your eternal damnation! Chill out man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:28 PM
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not-too-tall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:11 AM
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When will we allow female toplessness in the same way as male toplessness? I’m done with this double standard 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:06 AM
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I can buy 10000 skirts and they all suit. Finding a top that fits my boobs is truly impossible. Every dress I buy need to be taken to a seamstress.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:21 AM
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Women should eat their boyfriends? Whaaaaaatt?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 09:26 AM
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Erm. I don’t think I’ve come across people who hate their exes more than me. Everyone else I know tends to just not bring them up anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:57 AM
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My ex told all our mutual friends I left him for someone else. One of his friends came up to me in a bar and told me I should be ashamed of myself. Told him the reason I left my ex was because he was crazy, not for another man. Eventually everyone could see my ex was full of shit because the man I “left him for” apparently turned out to be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:42 AM
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I wasn’t being underhanded dude. Just curious who you got advice from and what it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:40 AM
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For the most part yes but I’d shave for special occasions. Say I was wearing a strappy or short dress to a wedding or if I was on a beach holiday, I’d shave. But I live in a cold country where I’m mostly covered so I’d be fine with keeping my hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:31 AM
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Never heard an you one say something like that to a stranger. I don’t hang out with bullies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:53 PM
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Don’t really understand what you mean. You think being a doormat for a transactional relationship would be fulfilling?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:25 PM
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Yeah that sounds grim
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:18 PM
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What the fuck is wrong with your mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:54 PM
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Would you say this is good or bad advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:16 PM
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They go on at us for only wanting them for money and then when we say we make our own money so we aren’t reliant on them they get mad again. No pleasing them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:28 PM
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There’s no point arguing against my Grandmother. She’s dead and would have been unlikely to frequent this sub had she been alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:22 PM
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Ok. Do you find your fathers advice useful?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:53 AM
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Some people have just got “it”. Whatever “it” is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:52 AM
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Yeah autism definitely puts dating on hard mode,
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:51 AM
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They told you to kill yourself!? Holy fuck. Was this IRL people? Supposed friends? Strangers? Family? That’s absolutely fucked up. Sorry you went through that dude and your illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:48 AM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:47 AM
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Who told you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:32 AM
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I’m assuming the sort of oppressive atmosphere is not great for your dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:32 AM
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Seems like pretty reasonable advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:27 AM
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Hmm. A lot of the guys on here say being 6’4 is basically a guarantee of sex. I’m assuming you disagree with this given your own personal experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:13 AM
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And was this how it worked out? Or did you feel a bit blindsided?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:01 AM
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I had a glow up in my early twenties. I loved the change in how I was treated/perceived tbh. A lot of people on this sub seem to be pretty upset by it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:00 AM
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Interesting. I expect a lot of parents don’t share this sort of information with their kids tbh. Think I’m probably a bit abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:59 AM
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Can you edit that middle sentence. It’s a bit confusingly written. So yeah, you’re the exact person my post is referencing then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:57 AM
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Yeah. I was told this by my grandmother. She also told me sex was overrated and that it’s the woman’s fault in all cases of pre-marital sex. Also threatened to disown me if I ever got pregnant outside of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:55 AM
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This sounds easier said than done for introverts. Did you find this advice useful?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:44 AM
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Did you find this useful?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:43 AM
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Yeah my granny was obsessed with my weight too. That generation are pretty ruthless. My sex Ed came from Cosmo (catholic school not fond of sex Ed).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:43 AM
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Was being polite useful advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:38 AM
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I think that would put you off women for life 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:38 AM
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Is that what your parents said to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:37 AM
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We met aged 8, should I have straight fucked him then and there? I didn’t make him wait for shit. He made a move when I turned 18 and I reciprocated immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:08 PM
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I’ve had sex with 5 men so I’ll break it down. After knowing him for decade and he started to cuddle me. I didn’t want to. Don’t know why I did it. Low self esteem? Drunkenness? when he kissed me (about 20 minutes into meeting him) when he kissed me (about 5 minutes into meeting him) when he took my hand in his (3 years after meeting him) What I’ve learned from this breakdown is my sexuality is pretty reactive. If you flirt hard enough with me and I’m single, then you’re probably getting sex if …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:48 AM
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If I ever feel jealous, I recognise it as illogical and bury it. Never mention it to anyone. I trust my partner completely and he trusts me. No amount of same sex friendships changes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:09 AM
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robin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:38 PM
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Robin from Stranger Things? Higher than average? Average?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:35 PM
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David Tennant, James Acaster, Ben Whishaw, Richard Ayoade.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:43 PM
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When I say I want to be with someone interesting, I mean someone who talks about stuff that’s interesting to me. My partner and I talk about politics, cinema, books. I find the things he says interesting. Others would find him very dull obviously. I don’t think when people say the want someone interesting they mean some party animal. They just mean someone they can hold a conversation with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:02 PM
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Girl here. I didn’t have close male friends or brothers til my very late teens. I was hopeless with guys until I got to university. Then I was in a STEM course surrounded by then. Sink or swim time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:01 AM
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Travelling to London for work tomorrow first thing and I’m so bloody excited. First work trip since covid began! We are getting back to normal baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:32 PM
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A guy that wants to wear a maid costume out and about is an exhibitionist. A guy that wants to wear it at home because it’s taboo is most likely shy and submissive, which I do like. I have “made” (consensually) my partner wear a maids costume, heels etc at home every once in a while. Absolutely no one would expect this sort of behaviour from him who knows him. I think it’s hot but I don’t know many women who share this opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:32 PM
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Nah. I like shy, submissive guys and the dressing up in a maids costume out and about it a bit too exhibitionist for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:19 PM
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Q4M: what man has the ideal build in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:13 PM
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Hater is a bit strong. I just think they guy is a bit of a knob.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:11 PM
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Enjoy your dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:00 PM
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Florence is gorgeous. Where in Spain are you heading to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:56 PM
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I don’t know why biologically that would be the case but it’s not my experience with dealing with people in meds. Never taken any myself so don’t know for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:55 PM
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My partner is on anxiety meds and I don’t think he’d ever manage without them. Give them a shot, if you don’t like the side effects you can always come off them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:48 PM
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Fucking hell, this response 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:42 PM
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If you don’t like people in general, you’re unlikely to find a wife. You may not like that, but it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:38 PM
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19% of women in their 30s and 40s are single. Is that really so high? Seems like most are finding someone who meets their requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:09 AM
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I think when people say the bar is low they’re talking specifically about the incidences where men do something like babysit their own kids or make dinner once a year and then their wife/gf posts on social media something like “Mike is such a good dad, he babysat the kids while I went to the dentist today”. And you’re looking at it like, well they’re his fucking kids too. Why does he get a round of applause for basic decency. I haven’t heard people say the bar is low when discussing deciding who…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:21 AM
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My issue too. I don’t have a scale. You’re either attractive or unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:50 PM
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Not my type at all. Not into muscles. But looking at it objectively, I can see him being attractive to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:42 PM
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Two years to figure what out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:53 PM
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I don’t value sex over those things either though. I just value all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:12 AM
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I’m a sex on the first date gal for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:43 AM
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If you don’t have sex before marriage you won’t know if he’s any good? Don’t you want to sample the goods before committing someone for the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:31 AM
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There are different types of Chad I think it’s been agreed here numerous times. Rocker Chad, artistic Chad, jock Chad. Is there a nerd Chad archetype and if so what does that look like? The guy who wouldn’t do well outside of the geeky sci if loving anime girls but cleans up at comic con. What’s his appearance/personality? Or is he not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:09 PM
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Who phones for a pizza these days? Are you from the 90s?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:27 AM
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I honestly feel like I’m speaking to aliens who learned everything about humanity from 4chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:58 AM
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I remember the day I handed in my thesis. Had no idea what to do with myself hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:25 AM
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The victim mentality of some of the people on here is wild to me. How do you get around day-to-day with that massive fucking chip on your shoulder?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:24 AM
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Only reason I watched Seinfeld was cause a guy I liked kept talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:48 AM
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Ahh. Not a romcom fan but I might make an exception for Gandolfini because I’m genuinely intrigued to see him in another role.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:23 AM
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He said he likes one of the topics. I’d focus on that one and ignore the rest tbh. That way it’s not too fake and he’ll worry less.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:22 AM
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I don’t know if he’s that overweight anymore but yeah I like him for sure. I’m not into weed though so not sure how compatible we’d be 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:17 AM
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He’s too scary. Maybe if I saw him act in another part I’d be into it (unlikely given he’s dead) but to me he feels like an actual real mob boss. Like he might kill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:01 AM
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No. He was probably close to underweight. But the guy I was in an LTR with before that (3 years long) was obese when we got together and throughout the relationship. So it isn’t just “fiancé goggles” or whatever. I can and do find fat men sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:39 AM
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Only John Goodman in the Flinstones Movie for me. And he has to wear the Fred costume.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:30 AM
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Nah. Not a Chris Farley fan so you’re safe there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:24 AM
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James Gandolfini plays a psychopath too fucking well so not for me thank you hahaha 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:21 AM
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Men who go after fat women are rarer than dudes who go after thin women. I have dated fat guys in past and have sex with an obese man on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:18 AM
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If I say Jonah Hill circa 2014 is that ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:51 AM
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Most of my friends do not follow politics whatsoever. Never mind only following similar leaning sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:45 AM
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I see a lot of love for fat women from certain elements on the sub so I’ve decided my new campaign is to do the same for some fat dudes I would bang given the following: if I was single he was single somehow we met he was into me. Day 1: Haley Joel Osment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:42 AM
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All guys I’ve been in LTRs with I was friends with for years first, so assuming he could be social enough to make it into my mixed sex friend group so I could get to know him, very likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:31 AM
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If I didn’t already have a loving boyfriend, great male friends, family and colleagues this sub would absolutely fuck with my idea of what men are like so I would suggest taking a break dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:49 AM
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If you can’t tell from the photos, she’s fat. If she was thin, she’d have put up a photo showing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:32 AM
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Have you ever considered Christian Mingle?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 05:23 PM
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Maybe another feminist group. FDS are explicitly against it. You’d get torn apart if you posted something pro sex work on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 05:00 PM
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FDSers hate sex work generally do they not? I’ve never seen someone pro sex work on FDS. They hate porn too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:52 PM
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Perfect description 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:07 PM
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The guy is absolutely his own worst enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:07 PM
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That’s fucking hilarious. Absolutely not. If there’s cum on my face it’s because he wanted to cum on my face. Not to help the aging process. SPF 30, water and sleep. It’s all that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:06 PM
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Flamingcoochies - forever in our hearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:51 PM
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What advice would you give him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:51 PM
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I find genuine enjoyment in reading viewpoints I disagree with and find shitposting funny. There’s a lot of both of those things here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:50 PM
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I’m in Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:39 PM
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Does that mean he doesn’t want a blow job ever either? Or is it different when it’s your own cum? https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/uqma6j/what_are_the_chances_that_my_gf_sucked_another/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:33 PM
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It rains constantly where I live so I’m always happy for the respite tbh. But I don’t like summer either cause I’m pale as hell and burn almost instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:11 PM
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Not often. I think a more common occurrence is people going on a date out of politeness rather pity. But even that I think is rare,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:40 PM
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My favourites are people who did a Facebook IQ test and share it on there. When you click on it the questions are always insanely easy. I cringe every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:40 PM
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Wouldn’t put up with cheating. I have a friend that caught herpes from her fiancé due to his wandering ways. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:20 PM
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Cue the violins 🎻
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:09 PM
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Sorry!! Please be careful and don’t get fired haha. Honestly feel so sorry for all those people who can’t work from home. My 11am coffee and orgasm is crucial to my mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:04 PM
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I have never attempted to do it standing up on my own but my BF once made me come with a vibrator whilst my arms were tied up to a door frame and I was standing. He had to immediately let me down as my legs gave way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:38 PM
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PPD’s days are numbered and have been for a while. I’ll be here til lights out though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:36 PM
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Really? I don’t have any cameras in mine. And if I did, I’d tell the person I was living with. Is that even legal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:57 PM
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He had cameras in the house mate. Guy is a psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:54 PM
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If it wasn’t the American spelling I’d assume this was my ex. He once had a very similar reaction to me ordering a pizza for us when he was coming home. I tried to order it so it would arrive shortly after him but it got to my place about 25 minutes before him. Flipped his lid. Threw pizza at the wall. Screamed that if I cared about him I’d have waited til he was there to order him a pizza, that I was a selfish bitch etc. weirdly, I didn’t break up with him over it but fucking wish I did. Good o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:51 PM
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Excuses, excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:38 PM
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I volunteer at a suicide hotline and the number of reasons why men kill themselves are numerous. Financial issues, relationship issues, health problems. There’s not an easy solution as there’s not one cause. Better mental health services are need for sure. But no one wants to pay for it. It’s fucking tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:00 PM
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This is me too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:12 PM
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Was she romantically involved with them? Or paid? Or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:57 PM
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Yeah I agree. Hours worked are a better way of doing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:44 PM
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If this is what life as a beta is like I don’t get what all the complaining is about. I’m having a great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:32 PM
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Yeah. I do about 80% and he does about 20% I’d say. If he worked less hours, he’d step it up a bit more I imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:24 PM
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That “lesser earning person should do all the housework” thread is a bit baffling to me. I earn more than my partner but he works a 40 hour week and I work 37.5 hours. The thought that I would have more free time than him and just watch him tidy up around me is so weird. I enjoy spending time with him. If he’s working more hours and doing all the chores, I’d never have quality time with him. Makes sense that I do more cleaning while he’s still at work and that way when he’s home we can do someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:20 PM
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You know when a movie is hyped for ages and you expect it to be amazing but because you got your hopes up, it ends up not meeting your expectations? I think people can do this with sex. It’s great, I love it. But it’s important to keep it in perspective. Y’know? I have a virgin friend who seems to think it will be the most amazing and romantic thing in the world when she finally does it. It will likely be a bit “meh” tbh, Your first time is a bit awkward and nerve wracking. A lot of people don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:06 AM
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It’s important to those that attach importance to it. So yeah, it’s important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:58 AM
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I have split the bill on every single date except one I’ve been on. And the only reason he paid for that was because we were running late and it would have taken too much time to buy our £8 cinema ticket separately. In the UK, a man will typically buy the first drink if you’re in a bar, then you buy the second and so on. It’s called “rounds” and is pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:16 AM
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I don’t think that. I’m a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:42 PM
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Just want to go out on a limb here and say the vast majority guys arent pathetic simps buying random women loads of gifts for the opportunity to sniff her armpit. Believe it or not, the vast majority have some semblance of self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:15 PM
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I think women with endometriosis and people with any other disability should get whatever leave they need. Typical periods need some paracetamol and access to a bathroom and not time off IMO. But some women are crippled with periods due to other conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:17 AM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:37 AM
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Rich people are constantly belittled and shamed. Hahahahahahahahahahaha. Ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:27 PM
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Yeah. Generically handsome white guy with nice hair is pretty accurate. When we got together he had one of those builds guys have in their late teens/early twenties where they eat constantly and don’t exercise but remain slim. His metabolism has caught up with him now though and he has to watch what he’s eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:17 PM
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5’11.5
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:25 PM
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So yeah, I wouldn’t be interested in you for example. But plenty other dudes on here seem fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:18 AM
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My boyfriend was approached by 100% of the women he dated so he must have had 100% rejection rate if he was approaching. I am not surprised he did badly on the few occasions he approached as he can rub people (men and women) up the wrong way a lot (brings up religion, politics often which a lot of people don’t like to discuss). He was cheated on by his ex who I had a few classes with at uni and knew a little. I remember speaking to her around the time just before she cheated on him and she had a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:30 AM
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Depends what he’s posting. If he’s AWALTing etc. then not interested. If he’s making measured responses to the insanity on here, then that’s fine. There’s guys on here who even when I don’t 100% of the time agree with them, I can at least see why they think what they think. Others are just unhinged and refuse to respond to logic and I have no interest in them. But they wouldn’t like me either. So everyone’s happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:20 AM
2

Things are rarely as simple as we like them to be when it comes to ethics. That’s why there’s no right answer to the trolley problem. In all cases it’s about striking a balance. I believe given that someone has been given adequate time to seek an abortion and the increase in viability at this stage, then 22 weeks strikes the right balance of bodily autonomy issues. This is 2 weeks less than is currently allowed in my country so I’m not fully in line with that but overall I think allowing abortio…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:04 AM
2

Around 20 weeks, if delivered, in a good hospital with the right facilities and a bit of luck, a baby can live. Prior to that, it has no ability to live without being dependent on the womb. I think that’s the logic behind it. Most people seem to have abortion long before the 5 months mark though. It’s showing at that point. People will notice and abortion is taboo enough to not want to advertise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:06 AM
1

Hey dude. Have you considered anti-depressants. You sound like you’re in a pretty hopeless place. Might be worth talking to a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:44 AM
5

How can a girl say no to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:08 PM
1

Sending it with no run up is probably a bit cocky. Is there a way you can casually slip it into conversation and then she might ask to see the article herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:59 PM
2

In your personal view
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:48 PM
2

What makes someone “wife material”?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:46 PM
2

Who said that? Never heard something so wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:23 PM
3

Catholics fucking? That’s hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:03 PM
1

How are the insulting the LGBT community?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:02 PM
1

Oh so is it a religious thing then? I thought it must be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:46 PM
3

I know this’ll sound like I’m being an ass but I’m genuinely interested in where you’re coming from here. Why are you so invested in this issue? You bring it up almost every day on the sub. Is it a religious thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:04 PM
3

There was a good example in the UK of policemen calling a guy in their team “the rapist” on their WhatsApp group and in person and messaging each other some other really questionable shit. The guy then kidnapped, raped and murdered a women he picked up off the street using his police identification. Think a lot of the discourse around that was that if a guy is frequently exposing himself to others and being really fucking creepy, then maybe call him out or some shit. Report him to the boss so he…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:36 PM
2

Sorry for having a life outside of Reddit! I don’t know what you mean by SJW type?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:20 PM
0

I’m a feminist and I love men. No hatred whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:29 PM
0

No. I don’t do this but if I notice a girl is flirting with my male friends and showing she’s interested and he’s sitting there fucking clueless, I always take the guy to the side and let him know what’s what in case he’s interested and oblivious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:07 PM
0

In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:44 AM
1

My ex looked a lot like the Plymouth shooter in the UK. So odd hearing someone say they’re too ugly for sex when you were in a 3 year relationship with his doppelgänger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:43 AM
1

How did you want it to end?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:18 AM
1

Does anyone have examples of negging?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:17 AM
1

Is this a repost? I’m sure I saw you post this before
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:43 AM
1

Thigh gap…opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:56 PM
1

How does that show in typical pick up situations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:40 PM
4

I don’t know him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:25 PM
1

My plan is to do a full thread on Monday so for the last time, what is asshole behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:23 PM
2

Yeah it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:50 PM
2

Not if he consents
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:43 PM
2

Ball stomping with heels
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:40 PM
0

But guys are stronger. We need something to even the playing field to make it entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:35 PM
3

I don’t know. My wrestling experience is naked play fighting with my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:34 PM
0

Is it fair game to punch your balls?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:31 PM
1

Yeah that’s abuse. Fucking horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:29 PM
1

Yeah that’s abhorrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:26 PM
1

Disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:17 PM
2

Um . Is that controversial?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:09 PM
1

He looks after those kids so we’ll. And the hair. Oh yeah!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:08 PM
1

All my friends still at uni were 100% at home, no IRL classes. Obviously clubs weren’t shut whole time but still impactful I would think. I was in an LTR so obviously not experiencing all this first hand,
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:07 PM
1

Can someone give me a 1 sentence explanation of who he was?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:58 PM
1

Yeah watching her attempt to fuck Billy thinking “no one is saying no here”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:55 PM
1

No worries. Easy done.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:51 PM
1

Yeah it’s definitely not impossible to do so, but thinking of overall numbers makes me feel sad for a lot of folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:49 PM
1

Watching Stranger Things all the way through for a 5th time because I am a simp for Steve Harrington:
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:45 PM
1

Yeah I agree. I don’t think most pro life people say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:42 PM
1

NI had different openings to Scotland. I should have been clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:37 PM
1

I never said that. So you’re lying now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:34 PM
1

Ok so 43% of US women. Gotcha, thanks for being clearer. Majority are pro choice. Great stuff. That’s what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:32 PM
3

Yes I would if it was a good college. Then fly them home if they needed help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:22 PM
1

Naaaah. I get crazy sometimes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:21 PM
2

Someone else just gave me a link saying it’s 20%. Try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:20 PM
3

So 19% women want it to be illegal. That’s a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:12 PM
2

Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:51 PM
0

I cannot find any info in Google that 50% of women are pro life. I did Google it. You’re not telling the truth. Or being deliberately obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:49 PM
2

It’s interesting to follow for sure. I just don’t want to make my mind up on who was the asshole til then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:48 PM
2

Why can’t we just wait for the judicial outcome and documentaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:43 PM
2

In the UK, school, university , night clubs were closed for almost two years. That’s where I found literally all of my dates/sex/relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:35 PM
2

That was the figures I’d seen. Which is why j was confused about the other dudes statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:32 PM
1

Very scientific.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:30 PM
1

No. I don’t think that. I want to know where the “roughly half of women” figure is from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:27 PM
1

Most sociable years of my life. Clubs, house parties. How were young people meant to meet?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:25 PM
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I don’t think you’re biased. Most socialising gets done at that age. You’ve been fucked over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:24 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:20 PM
5

How significant an impact has covid played on young sexless guys? I feel like a lot of 18-22 year olds would have had sex if they’d had the social life of older people. I have so much empathy for a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:17 PM
1

What is a kilt girl? I’m Scottish so genuinely intrigued!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:10 PM
0

Woman here. Yes I would have. He is 100% my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:02 PM
1

You’ve been aging up under covid mate. You’ve had a fucking horrible time of it. I feel very sorry for guys your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:46 PM
1

I see a lot of people on here say they started younger so makes me feel like I was a late bloomer. Probably not true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:28 PM
4

All the guys I’ve dated I either met in high school (two), saw in a nightclub and brought them over to dance with me (two), Tinder when I had it for two short weeks (one) and I finally started dating my partner after that who was in my circle of friends I met at university. I haven’t dated many guys as I have had two long term relationships which add up to 12 years together and I’m 31 and only started dating age 18. So yeah, not much wiggle room.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:01 PM
1

I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:36 PM
4

Yup. I did/do all of these things too. Found a guy at 23 who met all my requirements. Still with him now 8 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:35 PM
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I’m a woman from the UK who would describe myself as feminist and my view matches yours. I do all these things. I have a happy, fulfilling life as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:33 PM
1

Just had brunch with a friend and asked to see her tinder out of curiosity. So many guys with the same selfie 3 times, poor angles, bad lighting. Or 3 photos in which sunglasses are taking up the whole face. Or just one good gym selfie like they have no other personality or hobbies. Outwardly hostile or overly sexual stuff in the bio or no bio at all. Directly stating they’re married or in a relationship. Straight up not combed their hair, really overweight (I don’t mind this but friend does) or…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:07 AM
0

I don’t see why withholding sex from your presumably liberal partner helps anything. I always roll my eyes when I see this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:15 AM
0

Ah happy you guys click so well. Is this the UK girl or have I mixed you up with someone else? If so, I know she’s leaving soon but you should organise a trip to UK while you guys are still in touch and in good terms. Free accommodation and tour guide. What’s not to like?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:12 AM
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There’s loads of them saying they’re against casual sex but indulging anyway. Seen enough holier than thou Christian’s be caught in a sex scandal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:59 AM
1

A guy who works out to that level probably isn’t going to come with me for beer and pizza so I’ll say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:33 AM
2

Dudes name is chunksempire. The response makes sense given that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:35 PM
2

She said she isn’t having sex with again until she gets her tubes tied - like babe, don’t have sex with him again. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:34 PM
0

Where is this quote from? That person needs out of there IMMEDIATELY.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:23 PM
1

“The concept of toxic masculinity… refer to certain cultural norms that are associated with harm to society and men themselves. “ Guy is paying because it is a cultural norm that man pays for the first date. So ticks the first box. Does it tick the second box that it harms society and men to do this cultural norm? I think a lot of dudes here would say paying for dates does negatively impact themselves or even society so it would be toxic masculinity to people who believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:34 PM
1

I hate poo and fart jokes so much. I actually can’t watch a lot of Tim and Eric cause I watched the movie and there was like 10 minutes of pooping in it and I got grossed out. I can now only watch clips of their stuff I know want have that in it upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:08 PM
3

So many dudes (particularly on here) that have hang ups about it too cause they’re worried “it’s gay”. I find it strange that a woman stimulating the prostate is somehow “gay” but people worry about what worries them I guess. I will continue to partake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:08 PM
1

It’s only manipulative if he thought in his head he was lying for sex. Is he lying for sex in scenario 1?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:47 AM
2

I feign interest in stuff and give fake compliments to friends/family/work colleagues. It’s minimal effort and gets a good response.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:38 AM
1

Scenarios 2-4 are not manipulative IMO. Bit rude to not text but whatever. I’ve been ghosted once. I was annoyed for a day and got over it. It’s not manipulative. In scenario 1, did he say he wanted to be in a relationship with her? Then sleep and ghost her? If so it’s only manipulative if he knew from the start he didn’t want to be in a relationship with her and knew he was lying to get sex. If he just said in passing “I want to be in a relationship with someone eventually” and then slept with …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:32 AM
2

Yeah, I’m having a party for it. Well 4 friends and my partner haha so a gathering. Got some flag bunting and some teeny toothpick flags to put in the euro snacks I’ve bought (arancini with Italy flags, pierogis with polish flags etc.) Taking it to a whole other level this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:44 AM
1

Is it proportional representation in Aus? I’m assuming it is given the reference to a “preference card”?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:36 AM
2

Also - I do the exact same with regards to TV license - Elections and Eurovision haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:29 AM
1

It’s because labour are dead in Scotland and I would rather cut off an arm than elect a Tory (ex mining town resident). I would prefer the independence question was left another 5 years or so as it was promised to be a “vote for a generation” and I don’t think it’s fair to have another one so soon. But if they force a referendum, I’ll vote to leave the UK. I can’t see how they’ll do that though. The UK government does not want to grant one and I’m fine with that for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:28 AM
2

Just back from voting SNP at the local elections. Now going to browse #dogsatpollingstations and eat some pancakes. Love an election!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:20 AM
3

You should definitely keep up the weight loss dude if you’re looking for slim women. Although, I don’t see the issue with asking out girls even at the bigger size you are unless it’s affecting your mental health significantly to get rejected. Practice makes perfect after all, I’ve even see guys on this sub say the flirt a teeny bit with older women they are 100% not attracted to get better at it in general. You don’t have to marry the girls you’re talking to. Just chat, see what gets positive re…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:41 AM
1

One. I grew up in a household where if you were getting bullied or someone hit you then you had full freedom to beat them up. In fact, when I went home to my grandmother, she said if I didn’t beat my bully up, that my grandmother herself would hit me. Was a decent enough incentive. I hit my bully. She never touched me again, so solid advice grandma even if you were a bit crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:51 AM
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Nah I like it. I like how hard and fast he orgasms from it. Makes me feel like I’ve done a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:55 PM
2

Someone else describe it as sexual market value (SMV) and relationship market value (RMV) so think a few of you guys are in agreement there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:53 PM
1

Ok so body rates higher for you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:51 PM
2

I’ve asked a few people what they mean by asshole behaviour and a lot of is “low key insult her” so teasing and “acting like you don’t care” so being confident. I wouldn’t describe it as asshole behaviour. I’m with you. I think it’s good fun all round.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:49 PM
1

So definitely bangable then haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:18 PM
3

Yeah that’s fucked up. Suing a teacher for literally teaching definitions. Madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:14 PM
2

So face is higher rating for you? Maybe an overall 6 or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:08 PM
4

Yeah. But it’s a 10 for you, and a 5 for you. This is about your subjective opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:08 PM
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Settle this question for me guys. A woman is a 5 in the face and a 10 in the body. Is the overall rating 7.5 or does one attribute have a higher weighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:00 PM
2

I typo’d was and wasn’t. Edited now. I agree with what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:57 PM
2

There’s probably not a uniform response. I’d definitely rate face higher personally. I also find overweight dudes attractive (not massively so but BMI of 30ish and below is fine). But dudes here seem to love a hot body quite a lot so maybe they’d rate it higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:55 PM
3

Ok. Well I think the law should state teachers can answer straightforward definitional questions but can’t proselytise. I think the existing law is poorly written based on this conversation in all honesty when I hadn’t even really read about it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:53 PM
2

When my mum said it to me it wasnt a man hating thing. Its a little giggle that maybe a boy likes you. I never remember feeling bad feelings towards a dude when this was said. I mean, I love when my boyfriend teases me and play fights. I’m not casting judgement on anybody. Just wondering if this is a chicken and egg thing, maybe 1% contributing to the behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:51 PM
2

In what way is he radicalised? If he’s not hurting anyone, leave him to his shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:47 PM
1

I said “one possible reason” in my OP. As in one of maybe a number of reasons? Do you think it’s maybe even 1% or the issue? Or 0%. That was my question my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:39 PM
3

5 in the face and 10 in the body is 7.5. Seems reasonable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:35 PM
1

It has “nothing to do with with mean being receptive to men that act that way”? Ok I disagree, I think women are receptive to men who tease/play fight. And you seem to agree. Be clearer in your wording.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:27 PM
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I disagree. Kids are going to see this stuff around. They’re going to ask questions. I’m not suggesting the teacher shows them gay porn, but if they ask what the word gay means or about Timmy’s parents, a straightforward response would be beneficial. “Gay means two people of the same sex who love each other. Now where is your maths homework?”. Done and dusted. I was 6 when I asked a teacher what gay meant. He gave me that exact response. I shrugged and went back to my reading book. It’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:25 PM
1

Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:21 PM
1

Ok so you’re agreeing with me. Then why are you saying “this has nothing to do with it reciprocating the behaviour”? That’s why I’m confused my man. The rest of your paragraph made complete sense and it’s obviously clearer now with your second comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:20 PM
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