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silversum1/r/askTRP02/06/18 07:06 PM
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For starters your 19 so calm the fuck down, you have plenty of time. Just start trying different hobbies and experiences and don’t over think it. After you start trying new things you’ll have more to relate to people about.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 02:03 AM
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Trolling trolling trolling, rawhide!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/20 02:39 PM
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Wise words as always
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/19 05:12 AM
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Excellent post, you highlighted the real gold: ​ Women believe that because they are more emotional, somehow emotional acuity is their forte. It's not. Emotional volatility is, Moreover you used YOUR strength (literally and figuratively) which is the physical side of things to move the inertia as well. In sales they teach us things like houses and cars are emotional purchases, and the best salesman I have seen are very active and boisterous individuals. Not erratic like a crackhead but will grab…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/19 09:53 PM
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You need to check out married red pill, and if she doesn’t come around after instituting the concepts found there move on.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:28 AM
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Thanks for taking the time to post this. I’ve read it a few times over the past few days and ruminated over some of the things you’ve posted. I’d say I’m at an intermediate stage after a year of reading and applying what I’ve learned. I’ve always been the type that understands the steps better if I can see the process as a whole, and you laid it out eloquently. I can relate to your early blue pill mishaps as well as I have been what has been labeled as a career beta more or less. I think the mos…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/19 06:02 PM
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I’m glad you posted that, I hadn’t read it in awhile and it’s a great refresh.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/19 07:48 PM
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I read all the posts and thank all the contributors for their input. I think my two biggest takeaways were from u/SteelSharpensSteel and u/ImNotSlash on dressing and finance respectively. I revamped my wardrobe and have had several positive comments from men and women alike. My budget is now on track and fully uploaded on Mint so I’m on pace to pay off my house quickly and still take a vacation. Also u/Rpeed was kind enough to take some personal time to give me some tips on cutting to get shredd…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/19 08:08 PM
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OYS ​ Age: 29 Height: 71in Weight: 171lb BF: 16% (navy method) ​ Physical Been having fun in the gym, after the write-up by u/Red-Curious I downloaded the bodbot app and it has definitely helped me address a few weak-spots in my lifting, namely my abs which I had largely ignored to this point, but also strengthening my shoulders which has helped my rotator cuff issue. The cool part about bodbot is you can easily switch the workouts to a home vs gym workout which I've utilized twice when I have a…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 05:53 PM
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Good fucking write up.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/19 06:41 PM
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Thanks for the tip, I’ll check it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 03:02 PM
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OYS ​ Checking in after a couple weeks of not posting. I have been keeping towards my mission and following with the 60 DOD challenge, and slammed busy with life an work. This has been my first off day in awhile and a good opportunity to post again. ​ Stats: 6'0" Weight: 170 BP: 175lbx2 SQ 225lbx10 DL 275lbx4 ​ Physical Cut has been going well following my winter bulk. I'm down from the 179lbs I was at but with some new muscle to show for it. I'm not where I want to be strength or size wise but …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 10:54 PM
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Great post. This is definitely been the area of dread that has been the most challenging. But I got the overalls, Hawaiian shirts, and rain boots on the way. Should be set for summer.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/19 08:07 PM
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That last sentence would have been good in your write up too.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/19 12:10 AM
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This is a great write up, should almost be it’s own post. There’s definitely a few things that echo in my own life. Thank you for posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/19 12:18 AM
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There’s a lot of information over a limited area, it’s awesome thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/19 06:14 AM
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I’m skinny fat, I used to be really fat so I understand the difference. I’ve been planning on a cut for April, approximately 4 weeks. I have visible shoulders/ chest muscles but no 6-pack. I’ve never had a 6 pack my entire life so that’s my short term goal for leaning out. I’m going with intermittent fasting, lots of good unprocessed foods, and a calorie deficit. Thank you for your input.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 09:12 PM
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Question for you regarding intermittent fasting and the anabolic window. Due to my schedule I generally work out in the morning, but I’ve read that you want to have protein within 30 mins of the end of your workout to maximize muscle gains. Is it really that important to get protein that soon after working out or can I wait until closer to 12 or 2 for my first meal so that I can keep with a fasting cycle of 8/16?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 07:42 PM
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OYS ​ Stats: 5'11" 178lbs BP: 175x2 SQ: 245x6 DL: 275x3 OHP: 110x6 ​ Physical I think I've finally got my supplements dialed in. I'm taking a ZMA supplement at night and a multivitamin/ fish oil- vitamin d in the morning. I've definitely noticed an increase in stamina at the gym, and by finally being regular with the fish-oil/vD I've found some libido thats been non-existent the past couple months. I've switched my work-out up a bit, doing a little lower weight but more reps for a couple weeks. …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 07:36 PM
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Easy there, guys like this are our bread and butter at the dealership. One of my favorite closing lines for guy's "happy wife, happy life amirite??"
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 07:03 PM
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“Compulsive gambler” hits the nail on the head. In the moment I’m sure it doesn’t seem that way but that’s exactly what it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/19 08:47 PM
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His compilation is in the sidebar
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/19 08:50 PM
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Easy to write and regurgitate, harder to put in practice
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/19 06:32 PM
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To build off your cancer metaphor one of the bigger sources of unhappiness in my own life was lack of OI and looking for validation from others. Constantly looking for approval from my SO, my boss, friends, parents, etc.. I’m what jackten would’ve called an autistic sperg, I had it bad. Even recently I realized making posts on reddit are looking for validation. Being my own mental point of origin, and able to judge my own actions by my standards decreased my stress significantly.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/19 05:07 PM
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I’m in
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 05:43 PM
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I stayed out until I was ready to go home, that part was fine. It was the flip in her dialogue that caught me off guard. I guess I should just ignore the complaining passenger.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 07:36 PM
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OYS Stats: 5'11" 178lbs BP: 175x2 SQ: 245x6 DL: 275x3 OHP: 110x6 Physical: Lifted well through Friday morning, have taken the last 4 days off. Friday was my birthday so we celebrated that evening, then worked a full 10 the next day, and after getting off drove 3 hours to SF. So both lifting and diet has been out of sorts the last few days. Plan on going to the gym tomorrow morning, getting the diet back on track today with the meal prep I knocked out yesterday. Nothing else in this section. Fram…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/19 05:07 PM
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OYS Stats: 5'11" 178lbs BP: 175x2 SQ: 245x6 DL: 275x3 OHP: 110x6 Physical After healing and recovering from the stomach flu the last week at the gym has been great. I love being able to hit weights hard in the morning, puts me in a great state of mind for the day. I was surprised to see a slight up-tick in strength this week, but I guess I shouldn't be. I have been really working on my form, using a lot of information provided by guy's here and things I've found online. After addressing some wea…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/19 11:50 PM
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OYS Stats: Height: 5'11" Weight: 178lbs BP: 170x4 SQ: 225x10 OHP: 105x6 Physical: The Last couple weeks have been a roller coaster here. Five weeks ago I injured my rotator cuff, took three days off and went back to working out. Three weeks ago I re-injured it to the extent I had to take a week and a half off of any upper body workouts. This experience forced me to look up some good ways to stretch, learning that static stretching is a poor way to go. Three days after I started going to the gym …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 04:12 PM
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The irony in your first line “things are cyclical” made me chuckle. I think for this sub reddit it’s pronounced because of people joining and leaving over time.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/19 09:48 PM
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I’d say yes, but I know that if I start slipping backwards and not owning my shit that things will deteriorate. Semper vigilans.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/19 05:13 PM
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Just plan cool shit, and be funny. I do stupid impressions on the fly or make fun of people which makes us both laugh. As far as injecting fun, plan cool things to do. We went to an escape room the other week, or a spontaneous night out to dinner last week. We’ve both cut out drinking which has made it more challenging to find things to do, but in a positive way. In short don’t be boring.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/19 08:46 PM
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“If your relationships can be described as a ‘day to day grind’” This is the most important part in my opinion. Mine did begin to grind until I began leading the relationship by setting boundaries and injecting some fun. In fact a couple weeks ago she told me she never felt closer. Womanese for you’re making me wet. But the truth is it’s felt like less of a grind and more of something to look forward to for me as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/19 03:24 PM
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Solid post and links (although the first link didn’t work for me). We are truly masters of our own destiny. It’s hard to internalize and act on that, but most things in life worth having are difficult to achieve.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/19 06:00 PM
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OYS Stats -28 years old -6'0" -181lbs Lifts BP:175x2 DL: 275x4 SQ: 245x6 OHP: 115x3 Physical Gym still cooking along. With the supplement on a bulk cycle its been moving forward. All my lifts went up, also put on 8lbs of weight in three weeks, most of it muscle but a little fat too. Also been going harder now that I've gotten stronger. I've been bulking so 3 square meals a day, 2 peanut butter sandwiches, and jerky and nuts to snack on. Having the extra food has made an impact because I'm still …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 03:05 AM
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I like this, thank-you for sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/19 12:48 AM
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OYS # 22 Stats 6'0" 176lbs BP: 165x5 DL: 275x3 Sq: 225x5 OHP: 105x5 Physical: Gym has been going well. I'm up another pound, that's been a pound a week with the new test booster I'm using. Lifts are up too. BP and OHP are up 10lbs. I've been very disciplined about meal prepping, keeping a calorie surplus. Still going to the gym 5-6 days a week. Had comments from the in-laws about my increasing size which is cool. Still plan on bulking through February then initiating a cut. I've never had a 6-pa…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 06:28 PM
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You have some good things in here, I’m glad you posted. For the serious shitty comfort tests you either have to ignore them or a&a, there’s no real other options. I’ve noticed actually giving comfort tends to increase their frequency.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 03:28 PM
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Good post, the fashion shit test part made me chuckle. I wear slacks and button ups at work, I only get clothes at men’s wearhouse which is the only decent clothing store for me in 100 miles of our little town. Where do you get your off work clothes at? This tends to be my challenge. This and foot wear.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/19 01:45 AM
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Funny that’s what Cam was saying. I think I’ll definitely look at these two combinations as a cheaper alternative. I just have to dial in the amounts because it’s definitely helped.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/19 02:26 AM
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Thank you for your input, I appreciate it. I think both of you are right, all these ingredients can be sourced much cheaper. Question- have you noticed any changes in your sleep patterns? I seem to be waking up in the middle of the night every night.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 11:01 PM
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Me personally (maybe it’s my sub 30 age) have no idea what you’re talking about. That being said I haven’t had traditional media in years so...
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 05:30 AM
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I have creatine in my pre-workout, I’ll double check on it’s specific composition later. Thank you for your input btw. I’ve only just started learning about how zinc and vitamin d can be so vital to test production
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 01:10 AM
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You definitely bring up some good points, especially on the hormone side of things. I’m definitely not going to use this as a long term solution, just hopefully something to get me kick started. Some irony you might appreciate tho is that I did use a gift card to make a purchase.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 10:39 PM
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Yeah I’ve been doing a ppl program with squats and DL’s on leg day. When I got blood work done test came in at 402, which from what I’ve read is fairly low for a 28yo male. Especially after lifting for almost 6 months prior to getting blood work. This is what I just started using. My brother in law suggested it. It has important things like zinc and vitamin d and some other things. I just hope it’s not all in my head.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 06:46 PM
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OYS #21 Stats: 28 yo, 6'0", 175lb Lifts: SQ: 225lb DL: 255lb BP: 175lb Mission: To be a strong man in all areas of my life. Physically, Emotionally, Spiritually. Vision: To be financially secure and build a kick ass life for myself, and anyone who wants to come along. Physical: When I did blood-work this last September I found out that my T-levels came in at 402 I've been looking for ways to get a natural boost outside of TRT. Started one this week that had an immediate effect on my lifts, espec…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 05:03 PM
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Just looked up Nicola method, seems legit. Thank you for posting that. One of the better things I’ve gleaned from asktrp lately.
/r/askMRP30/12/18 03:34 AM
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It works for her dad and her mom (dad doesn’t drink) and her brother and his wife (he doesn’t drink) but remains to be seen. I’ve never been the type to get outrageously drunk, if anything after reading what other men have posted I’m even less likely, but I still like to. When I was a little younger I even home brewed which was a nice past time for me. I’ll tell you what I told her: $5000 for your ring is a cheap price to pay to get away from someone who abuses alcohol. So if she can do it fine,…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/18 11:06 PM
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OYS #20- 6 Months in Height: 6' Weight: 173lbs DL: 275lb BP: 170lb Sq: 220lb Review of everything this far and a review of what might be called a main event. I discovered TRP in late May of this year, and found the concepts intriguing. When I found MRP I found something that definitely clicked. I've always had enthusiastic sex, but lacked the leadership qualities to point the ship in the direction I wanted. Even then I took a bit to really get going, until my friend who had been cucked by his LT…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/18 07:30 PM
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That was really well written, and a good point. I think OP presumed that the reader was already confident, but you have a good point that often what attracts people to this place are insecurities (myself included)
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 02:54 PM
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This has been a slow realization and even slower adaption if mine, I’m glad you put it into words though
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/18 04:10 PM
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Put a reminder in your phone for her 18th bday. Lots of game and feels in the meantime.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 05:43 PM
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I think you touched on some good points here. I think it’s especially prevalent for my generation (millennials) because the blue pill conditioning had really crashed down on us. I was fortunate to have a father that was born in the 40’s and had a much more traditional outlook on things. This in turn led me to be much more reliant on myself to create the life I want. Moreover why I could relate to red pull so much, even if previously I had the fundamentals wrong. So many of my contemporaries can’…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/18 05:59 PM
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OYS #19 Height: 6' Weight: 172lbs DL: 275lbx 5 SQ: 225lbx 6 BP 160lb x3 This weeks OYS is going to be a reflection on frame more than anything. I live a few miles from a town that got completely wiped out in California by a wildfire. So while I am doxing myself a bit its been a learning lesson. I imagine if you don't live in the area it's not a huge deal but so far over 7000 structures have been destroyed and over 40 people CONFIRMED dead, and that total is rising. Two of my brothers, two of my …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/18 05:52 PM
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OYS #18 Height: 6' Weight: 175lbs DL: 275x5 BP 160x3 SQ: 225 Physical Still learning in the gym, but keeping at it. I realized that the pain in my left leg came from poor form on squats. My knees are going forward over my ankles, rather than my ass sitting back. So i dropped weight a little to perfect my form before moving back up. Pretty stoked that my BP is slowly increasing, its been a weak area my whole life so to see some progress is encouraging. I weighed myself as well earlier this week a…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 07:08 PM
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OYS #17 Height: 6' Weight: 172lbs DL: 275 BP 155 SQ: 245 Physical: A good place to start with owning my shit. I admit that in the last couple weeks my focus has wavered in pursuing my physical goals. I haven't stayed on top of my diet, letting my self eat fast processed crap. I notice a drop in motivation and energy levels following this. Also while being consistent in going to the gym, I am just going through the motions, I need to begin pushing myself to really see the goals I want. Moving for…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/18 09:14 PM
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For what it’s worth in my experience sometimes you can get a carmax to step on their dick and buy your car from you despite the engine issue. Might be a good way to re-coup some lost $. Or you could always try your hand at craigslist. I’m surprised that your not considering Subaru for the awd in Minnesota.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 04:56 PM
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No, both the mortgage and deed are going to be in my name. We are engaged but have no set date for getting married, maybe the year 2020. My more blue pill self thought that getting engaged who be a good idea, I found the red pill 3 months later after being thoroughly frustrated with my relationship. Since applying the principles and ideas here I’ve seen a lot of improvements in myself, my life, and relationship. Really the reoccurring issue is her drinking problem. It’s gotten better, but it’s n…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 09:02 PM
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OYS #16 28 years old, 6', 171lbs DL: 275x4 BP: 155x6 SQ: 245x 3 Physical Finally got the results in for my Testosterone, coming in at 402ng/ml. The blood work was pulled 9/14 following 5 months of lifting and following a Test increasing diet and vitamin/mineral protocol. This is definitely disappointing, I can only imagine where the level was at prior to lifting. I've noticed that my mood swings have minimized and my confidence is up, I can't imagine how it is when your levels are in the 8-900 r…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 06:55 PM
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That jackten post is fucking gold.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 05:11 PM
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OYS #15 Age: 28 Height: 6' Weight 171lb DL: 275 SQ: 235 x 6 BP 155 x 6 Physical Weight is slowly creeping up, fluctuating from 170-173 now. With a few tweaks to my form on BP I have improved ever so slightly getting a few more reps out which is encouraging. Adjusting my schedule to include a meal prior to lifting is driving both weight and lifting gains. Meal prep is still on point. I think in this area I have most things down, it's just a matter of grinding at this point. I will continue to eat…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 04:05 PM
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I can definitely relate to the comments. My LTR would call me an asshole and 20 mins later we’re fucking like rabbits. It’s a trip at first, but only because it’s so counter intuitive to the blue pill conditioning.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 03:23 PM
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?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/18 06:57 PM
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There’s even an app developed or being developed: link . I do think it’s sad that it’s come to that. Bring a condom and make sure you got cell reception...
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/18 06:54 PM
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Two paths to the same goal is what it sounds like. I think you both have good points, and two tests are better than one. If she clears both avenues then it’s that much better. Thank you for your input.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/18 08:16 PM
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You have two solid points there. Framing things in terms of “my girl” would be very effective, it assumes that she’s mine and what behavior that entails. I think you have a good point too on using the word need and the connotation there. I’ll definitely incorporate both of these. I think if I had this last time it would’ve gone over smoother. This time it came out a little harsh, so while I did accomplish my goal, it wasn’t as neat and tidy as it could’ve been. Also on the weight gain I would ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 06:37 PM
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OYS #14 Age: 28 Weight: 171lbs DL: 275lbx2 SQ: 225lb x6 BP: 155lb x 3 Physical After reading the link on BP from /u/rocknrollchuck I have moved down the weight a little and upped the volume. I'm applying a couple other things I've read as well to ideally improve both my form and amount of weight I can handle. I think I'm moving the needle again, albeit slowly. Overall I've seen improvements in other area's such as squat and deadlift so I know i'm making progress, and I'm still hitting the gym 5-…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 05:15 PM
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Him and /u/jacktenofhearts. I didn’t agree with everything they said but they did bring a lot of good shit to the table.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 02:53 PM
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Good repost and reminder
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 02:38 PM
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Body language is huge, and not limited to gender dynamics. That being said the idea of what a particular photo focuses on (talk about frame amirite) is a concept my feeble brain has completely missed and very interesting. I think it can be over thought and someone could go full autistic and freak out on their own pics. Thank you for posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/18 07:37 PM
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I had no idea this was around, glad you posted this.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 06:01 PM
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OYS #13 Height: 6' Weight:170lbs DL: 275lbx2 BP: 155lbx3 SQ: 225x6 Physical Seem to be stalling in my BP, I've been stuck at the same weight for the last three weeks, which is frustrating because I'm well aware that I suck in this area. After researching video's and programs yesterday I have a couple things I'm going to tweak to improve. I think I'm trying to do too much weight and need to back off so I can increase my volume. I'm going to really focus on form as well I think my elbows are facin…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 05:59 PM
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Your question is admittedly pretty lame, personally I think saying its "compulsive" gives you an out saying it's not under your control, or you are not responsible. It is and you are. Next time you start reaching your hands in your pants, go lift. If you come home and still feel the "compulsion" turn around and go back to the gym. You obviously have too much time on your hands. Get to work. Fag.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 07:34 PM
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One of the ugliest people I've met was a top salesman, confidence will over-ride looks in sales and with women.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:14 PM
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“A happy woman means a miserable man, a happy man makes for a happy woman” - Patrice O’Neil. I had fun listening to him argue with people. Not everything he said was dead on but he had some fun little nuggets like that. As far as hitting the wall, if your looking for an LTR their mom can be a good indication of how age will treat them. My LTR’s mom is in her 50’s and still looking good.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 01:44 AM
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OYS #12 Height: 6' Weight: 168lbs DL: 245x6 BP 155lbsx6 SQ: 185x6 Physical Gym still a constant in my life, 5-6 days a week. Took this morning off however to go get blood drawn and tested, finally looking forward to knowing precisely where my T levels and other metrics stand. Been eating a lot and seeing minimal weight increase, just trying to be patient here because I know I'm eating plenty. 3500 calories a day with 180-270g's of protein. Putting on roughly 1.5-2lbs/month. Personal development.…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/18 05:33 PM
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Yeah I eat like a king, get 6-8 hours of sleep every night, and lift 4-5 days a week. Tbh I’ve felt much better when I brought those things under control, but have also thought that I might be on the low end of T production my whole life, which is why I’m considering. But I like my balls, my LTR likes them too, especially resting on her chin. Two more questions and I’ll leave it alone. Obviously things have improved, are there any problems planning vacations or outings? Also do you have to stay …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/18 09:38 PM
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Thank you for putting this together. Since I began reading red pill forums I’ve begun contemplating doing TRT, I’m getting my hormone levels checked at the end of this month. Lifting has definitely improved some of my symptoms but ED seems to be the one I can’t shake. I’ve changed my diet, bacon and eggs in the morning, plenty of steak and other proteins throughout the week. So essentially trying all the natural routes first to see where i stand when I get tested. Two questions I’d like to bounc…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/18 09:15 PM
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What that means in practice, especially in my relationship, is that I do things for my wife not because they make her happy, but because it makes me happy that she is happy. It's a value add loop. This frame of mind was and is very important to me, I’ve gotten better at internalizing it. Being frankly selfish, owning it, is important for self actualization and the relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/18 05:22 PM
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Well no employer matched retirement, so currently I dump in IRAs at the end of the year. Do have hmo health. My draw towards cds was to keep the money relatively liquid to use in buying a house next year.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 02:25 PM
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Shop online, dealers generally whore out their cars to online peeps, especially new vehicles. Then set up a time to test drive it. If you like it give it a go. Warranties can be good depending on what kind of car you buy. Basic Honda, no need, suped up bmw might be a good idea. Source: work in the biz
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 10:59 PM
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I appreciate your feedback, I know there is room for growth.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 10:19 PM
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I’m going to own the butt-hurt, no excuses there. Posting it and analyzing it will prep me for a better response in the future. What I ended up doing was cleaning the house myself because it needed to be done and I want a clean house. When I spoke with her later I told her she needed to clean when she told me she would, that it takes the both of us to keep the house clean. This was about 8 days ago and she’s stepped up doing dishes/ laundry/ cleaning since. Now the goal is to make sure this isn’…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 09:43 PM
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OYS #11 Recovering Beta Height: 6' Weight: 170lbs DL: 245lbx6 BP: 145lbx6 SQ: 225lbx6 Overall I think I've turned the corner from playing T-ball to swinging at live pitches and getting base hits. Still a long, long way to go but making progress Physical: Good: Tracking Macro's more closely and getting protein closer to 150g-200g a day has helped me increase my weight finally. Also led to some gains in my lifts. Both weigh and lifts are a long way off from my goal but I am making progress, albeit…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 05:21 PM
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Thank you for posting that, it was interesting on a few levels. If you have any other good ones like that I’d be grateful if you’d post them or PM me. Question; do you try and work RP literature in to your curriculum? I’m sure you can’t talk about it openly, but do you work tid bits like this in for the young men in your classrooms?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 07:56 PM
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Too bad he deleted the account. Would’ve been nice to explore his journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/18 01:52 AM
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Fuck me that’s awesome. Thank you for the link.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/18 01:57 AM
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I think you have the correct analysis of the situation, unless he’s beating around the bush and his wife is irresponsible with money. But he didn’t say that. Personally creating a budget spreadsheet helped me find holes and plug them. Also helped me create the rainy day fund.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/18 02:44 PM
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No more like you don’t have the best control of your drinking and I’m tired of your shit move. This has been the issue in the past, I don’t care who she hangs out with. Little shit being half assing things around the house, not doing what she told me she would. I used to stay silent and not say anything and resent her. I’m realizing that I need to be vocal and kill my covert contracts.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 02:51 AM
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OYS # 10 Height: 6' Weight: 168lbs DL: 275lbs BP 160lbs Squat 240lbs Recovering Beta Physical Diet and exercise have been going well. I slipped up twice at work and didn't have a meal I brought from home, one day resulted in a burger, the other a salad. I'm going to own this and take advantage of my day off tomorrow to make sure that I have meals prepped for the next week. Working running and biking back into my workouts, as well as squats and dead lifts. My achilles tendon was bothering me for …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 01:27 AM
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Helpful and poignant as always. You’re right about the boundaries. I’ll have to think on it and address things as they come up.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 08:49 PM
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Yes muscle tone is improving, chest/ shoulders/ back look bigger. Waist is still 31”. I think I fall into the skinny-fat category because you can’t see a 6-pack but an definition is starting to show in the abs. Quitting smokes is hard but even after a week I’m noticing a difference in energy levels and breathing. Wanting to improve in my lifts has helped my discipline in staying away. Edit: definitely need to work on getting more sleep that you mentioned.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 06:04 PM
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OYS #9 Height: 6' Weight: 168lbs BP: 160lb DL: 275lb Squat: 220lb Career Beta Physical Going strong in the gym 5-days a week. Still seeing slight increases in all my lifts. At the beginning of next month my buddy and I are going to start a push/pull regimen rather than focusing on certain area's (i.e. back, arms, etc.). Thanks in large from the information I've been able to gather from posts on this sub-reddit, I realized a few weeks ago we weren't working out as effective as possible and talked…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 03:37 PM
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I’m trying to get away from being a butthurt fag and keeping covert contracts so I’m trying to address the things I want head on. You said the manager approach didn’t work, I agree it’s a poor attempt. What did work for you?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 04:59 PM
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For me the phase 1 link to /u/jacktenofhearts really hit home. Back to the drawing board.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 04:42 PM
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Thank you for posting this dancing monkey link, what a rabbit hole (monkey hole?). Saw a lot of similarities to my own situation there.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 02:40 PM
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OYS #8 Height: 6' Weight: 168lb BP: 155lb DL: 275 x 1 Squat: 245 x 5 Career Beta Reading: Found the precursor post compiled by /u/RBuddDwyer and explored the Hawaii Dave's post, this has helped shed some light on my situation. My biggest take away was to find and begin enjoying hobbies. Finally finished WISNIFG and have started to apply those techniques in my personal and professional life. Also started the book Brave New World for reading prior to bed to help broaden my view on things in the wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/18 08:38 PM
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Fair enough, and thank you. I’m gonna keep working on and unfucking myself. My plan as of two weeks ago was to go the full three months to get my shit together and when that process had run its course. As you mentioned for a high value male getting pussy is like turning on a faucet, well I don’t fit that description. Outside of a good job and spending the last few months lifting I really haven’t implemented the full red pill life style. I need to begin hobbies, finish the major side bar material…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 04:08 PM
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I’ve been very stupid, this is true. That’s why I’m here to sort this shit out. I’m trying to give myself at least a few months to get my own shit together before I walk away from my 4 year relationship. I will admit her drinking and lack of responsibility are two huge red flags. Puking on here helps me see things clearly.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 07:33 PM
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Constant available sex. She cooks and cleans periodically. Does the laundry. Arranges and organizes our living space. I pay the bills, manage the finances. I cook and clean as well. I maintain our garden. Is there something more specific you are looking for? I’m having a hard time finding anything either of us really bring to the table.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 07:30 PM
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I’ve made some poor decisions along the way. I guess me proposing I thought maybe I could fix things, as another user put it “captain save a ho”. When it didn’t work I ended up finding this place back in May. My issues aren’t really from lack of sex, there’s plenty of that. I think overall I’ve derived value and validation from being in a relationship. It’s only been since I’ve been here that things have become clear. My LTR isn’t a bad person, she has good qualities. But her alcohol use totally…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 06:23 PM
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OYS #7 Height 6' | Age 28 | Weight 168lbs | BP 155lbs x 3 | Squat 245lbs x 5 | DL 275 x 1 CAREER BETA Fitness Still going strong at the gym. 5-days a week, taking Tues/Fri off. My BP isn't anywhere close to where I want it to be, but its still 20lbs over where I started in May, almost to my body weight. Been researching shoulder exercises to aid my increase here. I seem to have plateau's followed by a spike in being able to lift more. Hit a new PR for DL which I thought was cool. Also have put o…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 04:42 PM
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Best response I’ve read here. Or rather the one that fits my view the most. JBP got me on the path to self improvement almost 9 months before I found TRP. I wonder if I’d have found it if I hadn’t heard JBP first. A lot of his sentiments are echoed here. Although not everything he talks about is correct, even if it’s 80% he’s still way ahead of anyone else we’ve seen to this point.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 12:09 AM
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Tim Ferris wrote about this in his book the 4-hour body. He tested low for sperm count and got it back up. Increased fat intake, eating Brazil nuts. but the biggest take away I got was that he stopped keeping his cell phone in his pocket. He said after 8 weeks with these changes his sperm levels increased. It’s anecdotal but might be something to it. Tim Ferris did a similar experiment with his testosterone levels. I’ll edit my post when I get home with the specifics. I’m going to the doc next w…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/18 12:57 AM
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OYS # 6 Age: 28 | Height: 6' |Weight: 165lbs |BP: 145 x 5 | SQ: 225 x 5 | DL 1RM 265 Physical The gym has become my temple. I go 5 days a week, no excuses. Progress in arms and back have been good, plateauing in my chest. Going to mix more chest in on days other than chest day. Going to also add in more SQ and DL, from what I've read this will release a natural growth hormone. Have a doctors appointment set for the beginning of Aug to get a physical and get my testosterone checked. I've always w…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/18 03:15 PM
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Options to lead her constructively into the kind of lifestyle you think you should both have. As of right now we haven't set a date and have agreed upon a two year engagment so I have time to sort this out. The other half of this equation is me. I have been the beta of beta's when it comes to this relationship. I have several stories that would make you cringe. I haven't stepped up and been a leader. The rule of thumb here has been for every year of beta, it takes a month to clear shit up. Well …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 04:31 PM
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You’re right, I could be balls deep in the sunk cost fallacy. I have seen positives in the past couple months: she’s started going to the gym, she’s taken initiative in meal prepping to save money and eat better, she started a trade school that in a 9 month span will land her a position that will double or triple her income. If things regress or bad behaviors resurface then we are in absolute agreement, but I can’t expect a month of improving myself to wash away 3 years of being captain Beta.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 04:25 PM
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There is no set date, and an agreed upon time of two years. I've read several times that for every year of Beta it should be a minimum of a month to set the ship on course. I'm on month one. I don't take your advice lightly.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 03:13 PM
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Thank-you for the advice. You are right, adding extra words to sound smart makes me look dumb. I'll keep it in mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 03:11 PM
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Good job, Mr. Beta Bucks - step right on in there and take care of it for her. That's why she had the conversation with you - "she feels like a failure." She's manipulating you with guilt so you'll solve her financial mess for her. 6 months ago you would've hit the nail on the head, and I'll openly admit my failure and "betaness" for the first several years of this relationship. That being said I found TRP in May, and I think it only really started kicking in at the beginning of this month. To c…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 03:08 PM
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Age- 28/ Weight- 165lbs/ LTR-3.5 years/ Found TRP in May. Physical Slowly progressing in the gym but seeing results, and so are others. Saw a friend who I hadn't seen in a couple months who noticed that I'm getting bigger. Same with a co-worker. This has stroked my ego so I'm trying to not let it go to my head. It does give me some extra motivation to go to the gym. My BP has gone up which is cool as this was my weakest area in the beginning. I'm now at 145lbs x 5 whereas I started at 125lbs x 5…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 04:10 PM
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I’m new at RP so take it with a grain of salt, but I was feeling the same way with my LTR, which ultimately directed me to TRP. I’ve noticed an improvement with said symptoms in the past month after I started being a better leader and seeing behaviors in her that I like. Just my experience but might give you food for thought.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 03:03 PM
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Thank you for your well thought out and detailed response. I’ve been thinking about it this morning for a couple hours. It sounds melodramatic but I’ve pledged to myself to start applying what you’ve detailed. There’s been times I’ve thrived on emotions and times it’s held me back. Stoicism hasn’t come naturally to me, however from the readings on here I’ve come to understand that emotions are in the realm of women and instead of letting them control me I need to control them. Easier said than d…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/18 06:21 PM
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I was doing free weights, and 20lbs over what I’d done before. I think it was mostly bad form and having taken a week off lifting on my trip. It was stupid. I was definitely bottling emotions which is why I wanted to go to the gym. But this led to a lot of weight not doing proper form. While I did feel better after leaving I could’ve accomplished my goal without hurting myself. Live and learn on this one. Question /u/mindfulbutgutless other than meditation how do you process emotions in a good w…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/18 03:33 AM
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I have to say that I agree and sales has fundamentally shaped my life. I started at a car dealership fresh out of college and as beta as they get. Being surrounded by sales guys was perfect. After a year my confidence had shot through the roof. All the college girls I could never get became much more accessible (I live in a college town). That being said applying it to women hasn’t been perfect (why I’m here). To expand on the ‘no’ you were talking about, it became my best tool. People asked for…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 03:25 AM
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OYS #4 Age: 28/ LTR of 3.5 years/ Found RP in May. Physical Missed a few days at the gym due to us going to my folks cabin for 4 days for the 4th of July weekend. Did manage to do a workout one of the mornings. Running uphill at 5000 ft added elevation certainly kicked my ass. Found some big rocks to do curls, skull crushers, weighted squats, and weighted push-ups. Fucked my self up yesterday at the gym. Had a bad day at work so I took me and the woman to the gym. Tried going Rambo on squats and…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 04:07 PM
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I definitely didn’t go full on with the RP, just some of the things like Hypergamy and focusing on oneself. But yeah no bones. He’s the only person I’ve ever mentioned it to, and only cuz he was in a real bad spot. The others around me I don’t at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/18 07:51 PM
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Thank you for the reply. I took some time to feel the pain, cried by myself in the shower, and moved on. Seneca was a smart guy, it did gel a little.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/18 07:37 PM
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Thanks for the response, it pretty much described my friends descent into his own personal hell. I tried telling him about som RP things I learned but he was on the war path of self destruction.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/18 07:36 PM
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OYS #4 28 years old, 3 year LTR, Found Redpill in May Physical 6'/ 166lbs/ DL 255lbs x 3/ OHP 95lbs x 5/ Squat 260lbs x 5/ BF% 12 via Navy Added 3lbs of muscle since listening to RedPill and switching to heavy lifting. My goal is to get to 175lbs and not fat. Have been progressing in the house of Iron. Maintaing the 5x5 but including other excercises I've found in the Candito. Ran 5 miles the other day in 105 degree heat, was a cathartic process, more on that later but still glad I have my runne…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/18 12:58 AM
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So feminism is the biggest shit test in history?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 04:30 AM
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Thanks for putting in the efforts mods. The subsequent commentary is fucking hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 12:44 AM
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The nerd in me wants to know what the quote is.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 12:27 AM
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Yeah the one and only time mine did was when she was wasted.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 08:33 PM
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OYS #3 28years/ Weight 163lb/ BF% 12/ DL- 245lb x 3/ Squat 245lb x 5/ BP 125x 10 Physical- Lifting has been going well. After feed back and suggestions from MRP members I have focused more on increasing weight rather than reps. I have had good progress increasing both squat and deadlift by 20lbs. The deadlift was particularly nasty so I'll give that weight a couple more go's before I up it again. Diet has been on point. Spent several hours meal-prepping yesterday to make sure there is no cheatin…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/18 06:23 PM
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Same here. Initially it really pissed me off. Going to college while busting my ass 50 hours a week on a farm was frustrating seeing all these kids having there parents pay there way while they slacked off and partied. It wasn’t until I was a little older that I really appreciated that hard work did for me. Red pill validates this. However it also has exposed other weaknesses in my thinking, some that are hard to address. But I’ll be damned if I don’t try my hardest to.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 06:34 PM
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I think you definitely have some good points. Anecdotally I probably would’ve been much more bluepilled if I hadn’t gotten a job doing farm labor straight out of high school. When I graduated I was severely overweight and content being an incel of sorts. The demanding physical labor helped me shed 70lbs and put hard work into a whole new light. Now that I have a good paying cushy office job I appreciate what hard work really is and the value of being in shape. In the short time I’ve been reading…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 03:21 PM
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Your right maybe I did need to, it was my condition on returning home or not. To clarify about vision I was referring more to establishing said boundary. I was going to go into my expectations of home life as well but I think I’ll keep it simple as you suggested. I am taking stock, unfortunately it took a metaphorical slap to the face to do it. Blue pill conditioning I suppose. We have a good friendship, but she lacks in acting like an adult with most things. That’s part of said vision I wanted …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 06:38 PM
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I went and smoked a cigarette with a buddy of mine in town. He’s about 10 years older than me and a man I look up to. It calmed me down and helped me think rationally. I called her before heading back and told her I wasn’t going to talk to her tonight while she was drunk (her drinking has been the major point of contention in our relationship) because nothing gets resolved while one of us is intoxicated. I held firm to this when I arrived and went to bed. We talked this morning about how she cro…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 06:04 PM
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I’m still learning about lifting so I’m uneducated about the high vs low reps and it’s relation to weight loss. I’ve always been skinny so never worried about it. You’re right tho I need to fucking lift for me, not them. I’ve read NMMNG but I’ll read it again. We had a fight last night into this morning about boundaries and her crossing them. I did let my anger get the best of me a couple of times, but all in all I held frame much better than I would’ve a month ago. Staying calm and STFU seems t…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 03:36 PM
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I put the brakes on sex altogether a month ago because there was a “mistake” with her pill prescription. Now her prescription has come in but I haven’t been monitoring her intake. I’ll start counting the pills to make sure she’s fully back on before I have sex again.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 03:30 PM
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Fair enough. I’ve been giving playing some thought. I think if I create other options for myself it will result in less anger on my part from her bad behavior. This is another redpill concept I’m struggling to swallow.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 03:27 PM
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OYS #2 28 years old/ engaged/ discovered red-pill about 7 weeks ago. Start with Physical 163lbs DL-225x5 Squat- 225x5 Bench- 150x20 Finally got a buddy I work out with to do the 5x5 with me, he loved it. We've been doing high number of reps this past month because the two I work out with are 50-70lbs heavier than me and trying to lose weight. I've been challenged (100 reps of a 40lbs non stop is surprisingly tough) But looking forward to the transition to heavier weights so I can gain some. Kept…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 03:24 AM
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Watched pumping iron, you have to admit he was impressive.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 06:03 PM
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Jordan Peterson does a great lecture on Pinocchio and it’s relation to male archetypes, going into the ocean of chaos (aka women) to rescue his father. The early ones definitely had pro male messages. However I think OP is right that over the years they’ve devolved into worse narratives. EDIT https://youtu.be/bV16NEWld8Q That’s the link to the particular part of his lecture I was referring to. However there’s two other two hour lectures preceding this talking about Pinocchio. Takes awhile to get…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 03:59 PM
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Yeah check Terry Crews, he’s part of it
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 01:40 AM
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Thank you, just ordered it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/18 05:55 PM
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This is one thing I’m disappointed I never had a mentor for, I never had a male mentor that impressed upon me the importance of physical fitness, I stumbled into it myself.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 04:09 PM
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I think that’s pretty spot on. I have a copy of “meditations” by MA that I need to pick back up.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/18 02:32 AM
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That’s very good advice thank you. That’s another area I’m working on is maintaining my calm and composure. When she raises her voice I start getting irritated. How do you do this?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/18 01:04 AM
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Thank you for the advice, I’ve definitely been giving it some serious thought. And after reading about “divorce rape” which my own father has gone through im going to be very careful. We have a 2 year engagement planned so it gives me time before we get that far. Part of it comes from the changes in me. I think prior to the red pill I would’ve been much more inclined to drop things and roll over. There’s been a change in my attitude/behavior that is definitely deviating from our past norm. That …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/18 01:02 AM
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OYS #1 Age: 28 Height: 5'11" Weight: 165 DL: 150x15 SQ: 135x20 BP: 135x 20 Background: I think I've been on the Red Pill track for awhile. I had purchased "The Game" back in 2012, NMMNG in 2015 and countless other things over the years. Found TRP about 4 weeks ago, felt like putting on glasses for the first time. Like I knew some of these things, now I can see them clearly and defined, and see how they all connect. That being said I have been going through the sidebar almost daily and have learn…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 04:47 PM
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I hate to admit it but I would like some pointers from the more experienced redpill men as well.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 02:15 AM
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If you like canned chili definitely check the label, my GF used to buy bitch tit chili, the main ingredient in it was overwhelmingly soy
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 03:13 PM
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Thank you for suggesting this, it was an amazing read. I found an online pdf format for it: https://bradfordframke.files.wordpress.com/2014/01/king-warrior-magician-lover.pdf
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 10:02 PM
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I only stumbled on the red pill a couple weeks ago, although I was already on its trajectory I think. One of the things that it’s helped me conceptualize is leading and training my LTR. If I can ask, what moments or forms has this taken for you?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 03:11 PM
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Aside from working there are definitely other positive ways to be productive but still enjoying life. I remember the first time I travelled abroad spending a week in New Zealand and a week in Fiji. It was a game changer. I didn’t spend one day looking at a computer or binging Netflix. I saw some of the most beautiful landscapes in the world. The tallest peaks in New Zealand, to their fjords in the south. Beautiful tropical beaches, scuba diving in Fiji. I guess what I’m trying to say is travelin…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 04:18 PM
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He’s subtracting prepubescent years
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 04:08 PM
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Retaliation is swift and effective.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/11/17 04:06 AM
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