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17	A Clarification on Rule 6: No examples from fiction or lyrics. The Office is an incredible show but I can't imagine how many boys and men have stayed in the friend zone with an undeserving, taken chick because of Jim Halpert's influence. It's painful to watch	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/18 03:34 PM
3	A Clarification on Rule 6: No examples from fiction or lyrics. At least for the first few seasons of GOT, things end pretty badly for the white knights	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/18 03:32 PM
3	Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 30 It's tough for me to want to use covert contracts which is something covered in NMMNG as an orbiter tactic. You end up mad that she's not holding up her side of a deal she's not aware of. I felt like I turned into a needy bitch who couldn't say he's annoyed about something. The alternate method is demoting per "How to Manage Your Bitches" on the sidebar. That feels like the nuclear option. So how do you firmly express you're not OK with some behavior without showing she's rattled you? I don't kn…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/18 05:56 PM
28	You can't sidebar and monk mode your way to success - eventually you have to step out into the real world. And the real world is not as easy as it seems. A guide on how to make the transition. Writing down the shit tests you heard after a night out plus 3 clever responses to them is a great way to internalize improvement. I need to get back into that process but it helped at the time I was doing it.	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/18 11:36 PM
2	askTRP Megathread April 04 How would you act towards her if you had later that day struck up conversations with 3 new girls? Probably indifferent. That's how you should be, not act.	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/18 05:09 PM
1	Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread March 19 Short thought but fun game I play the first few times I take a girl back to my place: I live in an apartment in a big complex. When we walk into the building and onto the correct floor, I'll slow down so she walks in front and say "let's see if you can guess which apartment it is." You let her lead you up and down the hallways while she keeps looking back for clues that you're headed the right way... hint: give her nothing. I'll even make wrong turns behind her or walk past my apartment to reall…	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/18 08:51 PM
1	askTRP Megathread March 21 Regarding your edit, if your friend did in fact invite you out, I'd reply "cool, i'll be out" and then just assume she's not coming while you look for new women. If she does end up coming, great. Either way she should be put on the back burner while you find new girls	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/18 08:35 PM
1	Getting Over Her Man I just had a breakup, and have some buddies offering to take me out this weekend. I said no as the last thing I want to do is go out to meet girls but you're absolutely right and I need to force it. Thank you for this comment.	/r/TheRedPill	19/03/18 04:17 PM
4	The Curve of Looks,Money,Status, Game I think you're already enlightened and I'm coming to terms with this myself. When you start out on the improvement path, you're motivated by either sex with new women or revenge on your one-itis. I get it--it's not the most bad ass or valiant motivation for online messageboards but it's an effective motivator. However, once your improvement gives you a taste of success in work, finances, physique, dating, etc., you will see how awesome your life could get and attention from women becomes less th…	/r/TheRedPill	31/01/18 05:51 PM
1	Beta boss? I got the perfect RP training ground and I'm wasting it Read Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink & Leif Babin. It's a business leadership and self-discipline book written by badass ex navy seals. Made me 10x the manager I was. It really changed my life	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/17 05:59 PM
2	askTRP Megathread September 27 Great advice from a hot busty angel. This book changed my life	/r/TheRedPill	29/09/17 05:11 PM
25	Don't ever consider what she says Happened to me last week at a wedding: "You can come over for a drink but we're not having sex." Smile "Sounds good." We had sex.	/r/TheRedPill	30/06/17 02:14 PM
1	askTRP Megathread June 28 People knock it but I did it for a while and more or less enjoyed it. Really depends on the gym you pick so I'd check around on yelp and read reviews. Aim for small classes and good, attentive instructors. There is much less instruction in large classes which is where incorrect form develops and people get hurt. Try a couple free classes at different ones until you find a nice fit. It is a great way to meet people and learn to squat, but don't count on the girls being petite athletic types. You …	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/17 03:35 PM
2	askTRP Megathread June 28 Stay at hostels and always go to the social dinners & later, the pub crawls. Expand your social circle to everyone within the hostel (easy since everyone is backpacking and want a group to hit the nightlife with) so when you crawl to a bar, you know almost everyone there. It's easy from there -- float around the bar as the most popular guy there and do your typical game.	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/17 02:54 PM
3	If You Don't Feel Like Going to the Gym Today then Just Think of John. I've read quite a few business books but Extreme Ownership was the best leadership book I've read. He puts into words the attitude needed to lead a small team. Incredibly helpful.	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/17 09:42 PM
3	The never ending shit tests I have experienced while losing weight Exactly, and see it as a gift that you're sorting your real supporting friends from the people who just kept you around to feel good about themselves. Keep meeting new people, you'll be starting fresh in their minds and won't experience the same bullshit where old "friends" try to pull you back into the role they've established for you.	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/17 02:33 PM
2	The never ending shit tests I have experienced while losing weight Or: "Then what's YOUR excuse?"	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/17 02:30 PM
4	Nobody talks to hot women The problem with this sort of "research" is you're taking a girl's word for it. Girls always play this woe-is-me, "where are all my suitors" crap to get a positive sympathetic response from you. However, you can keep thinking this if it encourages you to approach. I personally don't believe hot women have as few options as you're stating here, but I do assume my improved SMV makes me at least one of the top tier guys to approach these hot women. My fav post on theredpill is "The Intelligent Alph…	/r/TheRedPill	26/05/17 02:20 PM
1	askTRP Megathread May 24 For sure. Try to make progress in each role, but you can certainly focus the majority of your efforts on one role for a time period. Lifting was a constant but I started my focus on work because I had a review in 4 months, and then got a promotion. I didn't want the raise to go to waste, so I got really into budgeting & investing. After I was saving a decent amount per month, I knew I had to start playing with the money and planned trips & started new hobbies. As challenges become manageable, yo…	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 11:49 PM
2	askTRP Megathread May 24 I typed the wordy response below out and then re-read your question and realized I didn't answer the hobby-specific question. My advice is to just pick one, try a new class and give it a shot for 2 months. Once you have a handle on that, pick a new one and give that a shot for 2 months. After a year, you will have conversational experience in 6 new hobbies. Here's a good thought for motivation: what if you had started a year ago and could talk intelligently about 6 hobbies today? I also whole-he…	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 08:41 PM
3	Field Report - Less is more I've noticed that a good night ALWAYS starts with me immediately escalating/approaching the very first girl who shows signs of interest. It gets my mind right and like a domino effect, I end up approaching several. Just focus on getting the first one out of the way.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 05:42 PM
5	NoFap has made me a new person. Just so I'm clear, do these streaks include abstaining from actual sex as well? In your experience, do you see the same benefits if you're not masturbating but having sex consistently (let's say once a week)?	/r/TheRedPill	18/05/17 07:46 PM
2	Hard Work Pays Off Congrats man. It's crazy how setting a good routine and having goals in different facets of your life will just produce results over time. It's almost like you build a habit machine that's fueled by time and it just churns out rewards. Anyway, have you tried Jordan Peterson's self-authoring program? I just started it and it certainly added some clarity to the highs and lows of my past (something it seems like you've already partly achieved). Check it out & clean your room	/r/TheRedPill	16/05/17 05:10 PM
3	Crabs in a bucket: You have absolutely no idea how tough it is to be great in life until you pursue greatness and see how many people try to talk you out of it. The recent Joe Rogan podcast with Jordan B Peterson touches on some of the ways society tries to shame excellence. A lot of these detractors are simply people who can't compete in the sexual marketplace / power hierarchy	/r/TheRedPill	16/05/17 04:04 PM
14	askTRP Megathread May 10 If you get the vibe that the first date lay is on the table, go for it. But generally I use the first date (weeknight) to build some rapport and escalate (especially if it's a first time meeting from an online date). Then I invite them to meet up when I'm out at bars on the weekend and usually close then. If you really prefer closing on the first date, it's tougher but I'd recommend hitting 2-3 venues or moving around the bar to give the feel of multiple dates in a 1-2 hour timeframe. I can't im…	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/17 03:09 PM
2	AWALT Reminder for LTR's Every episode made me feel something - usually disgusted with humanity. Great show but I can only get through 1-2 episodes in one sitting	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/17 02:05 PM
1	If you put her on a pedestal then she has no choice but to look down on you Great post. What I have trouble with is how quickly the script flips to #2 for me. I went out with a girl, had a great date, had great sex at the end - casually thought to myself, "yea this one's cool and hot, she's clearly real into me. Got this in the bag, I'll keep her around" Literally two days later, she pulls back when I try to set something up and rather than finding it amusing or reacting in an indifferent way, I fall into category #2 immediately. I recognize this and realize I now have …	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/17 02:04 PM
1	Never tell her how much Money you make. Exactly, I came to the epiphany recently that while my job is well-paying, it's not going to get me the wealth I really want. My 9-5 is just funding my investments And yea, I need to switch to Robinhood. $7 a trade with Scottrade is annoying.	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/17 07:27 PM
1	Never tell her how much Money you make. Do you have other savings goals besides retirement that you put money into? YNAB makes you divide your money into pots of money to be used for upcoming expenses. I noticed if I wait till the end of the month to put leftover into savings, I don't save nearly as much. I start the month by putting money into the savings goal and leave the rest for expenses	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/17 05:41 PM
2	Never tell her how much Money you make. Honestly man, it coincided with losing my oneitis and deciding I'd spend my money on myself, traveling and a condo. Then I subscribed to ynab (a budgeting site and app, just like Mint) and you basically categorize your expenses and set monthly goals. It makes you take care of the stupid expenses: finally canceling those useless $10 subscriptions, arguing with insurance/cable to lower your bill, not volunteering to buy rounds when you know your cheaper friends won't get you back. It really was li…	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/17 05:35 PM
8	Never tell her how much Money you make. On the flipside, just heard about a wall-approaching pretty girl I dated once who jumped into an early engagement only to find out his porsche is a lease and he has no savings. Really though, men need to take control of their money. I can't believe how long I went just direct depositing paychecks and swiping my card on a whim. Have a plan and figure out what you can actually afford without fucking your future self	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/17 01:46 PM
50	AWALT Reminder for LTR's There is a Black Mirror episode about exactly this	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/17 08:30 PM
12	Intermittent Fasting 101 You've clearly done more research than me and thanks for the breakdown of intermittent fasting, but I think you should check this book out. I just finished "The Case Against Sugar" which explains why a simple caloric deficit is not actually the key to fat loss (there's also a Joe Rogan podcast where he interviews the author #904 w Gary Taubes). That calories in versus calories out logic would mean a calorie of protein/carb/fat/sugar has the same biological effect on your body that a different ca…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/17 02:34 PM
3	askTRP Megathread April 26 -Read No More Mr Nice Guy to learn about masculinity and boundaries (like most of us, you're probably stuck learning watered-down 'masculinity' from the 85% female teacher pool) -When picking a major & college, look at job placement & average starting income for students graduating THAT school for THAT industry. Don't "do what you love." You're 16, you don't know what you love. Do something you're somewhat interested in that gets paid. Maybe you'll get it right, or maybe you'll learn something a…	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/17 03:53 PM
11	Thundercock Frame Control Man, this was a great post and really captures the mindset you need before a night out to have fun and attract women. I'm going to re-read this before I go out tonight. Well done	/r/TheRedPill	31/03/17 10:24 PM
11	‘Everyday’ Highs: Alcohol, Cannabis, Coffee (Caffeine), Fitness, Masturbation, Oneitis, Sugar, and Video Games Just started "The Case Against Sugar" and it's incredible how the rapid increase in cases of obesity & deadly chronic diseases like diabetes can be traced in history almost exactly to a society's increased access to sugar. Sugar could very well be a toxin that we look back on with the same disgust as we do now with cigarettes	/r/TheRedPill	31/03/17 08:08 PM
3	Red Pill Literature Philip Larkin is the man "This Be The Verse" would definitely be appreciated on TRP	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/17 11:49 PM
13	Called "Peter Pan" on Facebook, and my response. I'm glad this worked out for you but this post is going to encourage others to engage irrational people on facebook. Do not do this.	/r/TheRedPill	24/03/17 04:10 PM
2	FR Old LTR to Plate with Abundance/Jealousy Interesting story and I have a couple thoughts as I've just finished Influence by Robert Cialdini: I'm curious if the social proof concept worked in the HB4's favor. Perhaps HB4's value was artificially higher because she's a bartender and has lots more status/connections in THAT setting than just about every female customer. The fact she was overly friendly and attentive to you specifically then gave YOU social proof. Note: always build rapport with the bartender Also, the part about asking out…	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/17 09:58 PM
3	Advice for going out lone wolf I took my roommate out after he got dumped, and he got emotional and left the venue while I was getting us beers. I approached two girls and said "My friend got sad and bailed, can you pretend to be my friends while I finish these beers" It actually built a lot of rapport quickly as we roleplayed being lifelong friends and I was insulted they didn't remember my occupation (hot air balloon pilot). Not a bad line if the girls are open to teasing and being playful	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/17 04:49 PM
38	Dealing With Shitheads and Mate Guarding Thanks for sharing that. A large tenant of Redpill is about putting yourself first and being the prize so I actually think it's weak to let a drunk guy upset you or let the opinion of your woman get you into no-win situations At least with bars, telling the bouncers "there's a drunk guy over there, he's getting creepy and grabbing girls" is enough to get the guy kicked out. Some of my more macho cop friends pull this move regularly.	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/17 04:59 PM
1	“You must keep running to stay in the same place” – the Red Queen effect Expanding on your idea a bit, if you set a challenging routine (work out at lunch everyday, spend a certain time everyday on Quadrant 2 activities at work, eat a healthy breakfast everyday), you will evolve and adapt to THAT routine until it's manageable. Once it's manageable, add to it or make the activities more challenging until you find that to be manageable. If you're upgrading your routine every couple months, after about a year of this you'll be easily taking on challenges and passively r…	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/17 03:47 PM
1	Unplug now Don't dwell too much on the past. It's out of your control. The past is the past. Celebrate your newfound freedom. Here's a tip, go through your finances and understand just how much you're saving by flying solo. Then spend a bit on yourself. Also - read No More Mr Nice Guy Thanks for sharing	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/17 03:51 PM
1	The utility of being Funny This is pretty much how I screen dating app matches. I just write things to entertain myself -- if she's into it, I set something up. If she's not, it likely wouldn't work in person and I got other matches to talk to anyway	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/17 03:44 PM
21	Slacking in one area of your life will snowball into the others. Start your day off strong and it will affect everything else. I struggle with this too but you can't dwell in the past. It's the difference between worrying about what you can control and worrying about what you can't. The past is not in your 'sphere of influence.' I agree a morning ritual and good start is key to habitual success, but don't let yourself have a bad day because you missed breakfast or didn't get something done yesterday or a girl rejected you five minutes ago. It helps me to say "I can't help what I did this morning/yesterday/last week, but…	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/17 03:24 PM
2	FR: A few months away from TRP, and I slowly fell back into a blue pill mindset Right around the middle of all these stories is the same pitfall about hiding your "horny scumbag" nature to avoid shame from a "potential mate." Girls try this shit test all the time. Turn the tables - "sexuality is natural" with a puzzled look on your face or just laugh to yourself. Good post but another lesson learned: there is literally nothing wrong with a man's naturally sexual mind. We have 17 times the testosterone that a woman has. Letting a girl curb those instincts is the ultimate way…	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/17 03:50 PM
31	I snooped at her messaging, and I'm know a better man thanks to it. I gotta admit I also think this way. Since I started sleeping with women that are way better than my initial one-itis, it just motivates me to find another.. and another.. and another	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/17 05:42 PM
1	The only oneitis in your life should be lifting. get phul of muscles That website also has good lessons how to do all the lifts. If you're going to do this or any program, I recommend writing down or using an app to track your progress. I uploaded the routines to an app (Strong app) and i just reload the routine each time & track my lifts week to week. It's super easy to just compete against yourself from last week and then bask in the glorious progress after a few months. e.g. I hit 5x105 on bent over row in Oct and I just hit 5x175. That's t…	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/17 01:26 AM
7	The only oneitis in your life should be lifting. I love Phul. A little over 3 months in and the results are amazing. Lower power day is a beast	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/17 09:28 PM
2	How do I stop being so competitive with other guys? There's a difference between being competitive and having a scarcity mentality. Yours sounds like the latter. Once you realize there's enough women/success/weights to go around for the few successful men, you stop worrying about other men's success. With that said, healthy competition to fuel your gains is not a bad thing. Just make sure your validation comes from within rather than from outlifting bros at the gym. My recommendation is write down your lifts and then compete against yourself from…	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/17 04:39 PM
9	Dear Men: Never Take Advice From Men About Women That You Never See With Women! I haven't seen anyone on here with a woman... Also, how am I the first to point this out?	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/17 03:10 PM
11	I drowned in pussy on New Years Eve. Thanks TRP! You weren't intrigued by what makes a girl a 7.7?	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/17 11:21 PM
5	The Real Crisis of Masculinity I have the same dilemma with presenting some of these ideas to my father but he sounds a bit different. He was a very accommodating, not-exciting provider to my mom till she got bored and thought the sex n the city divorce fantasy would help her recapture her youth. He was devastated but doing better now. My advice to you for connecting with your father on this stuff is to present scenarios from your own dating experiences as if you're stumbling upon these redpill conclusions yourself. He'll lik…	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/16 03:25 PM
3	Eventually all women show their true colors - My Story I went through this exact scenario and it's frustrating to think how much of my life was wasted playing those games. No More Mr Nice Guy is worth a read. It addresses the futility & frustration of hiding your needs and thinking women owe you something just because you're nice to them. Very eye opening, check it out	/r/TheRedPill	22/12/16 03:26 PM
11	Festive seasons are upon us; wrap your red pill in a bluish hue That used to work for me. Just wait till your late twenties when being single is the exception rather than the rule. Holidays is a time for relatives, neighbors, hairdressers etc to give their unsolicited, sagely relationship advice	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/16 05:13 PM
29	Are you her safe bet? ^ What he said but wrap it up	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/16 10:00 PM
2	Pro tip: Do not Snapchat a girl who has friendzoned you multiple times while she's on a date with a guy she's just met. You're expanding on my point about how men are shamed into hiding their needs, like sex, but drawing a different conclusion. Check out the book, he goes into my point and yours in much more detail. It's a good read, man	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/16 08:36 PM
14	Pro tip: Do not Snapchat a girl who has friendzoned you multiple times while she's on a date with a guy she's just met. A common theme in No More Mr Nice Guy is how guys have been shamed into hiding their needs but then they resent women for not meeting those needs they've hidden. That essentially happens with the friendzone. Girls use lines like "you just want me for sex?! ughh" to shame guys into acting like they're not interested in sex with a "friend." Guys don't express their need for a non-platonic relationship and then girls don't address that need. I agree women are enablers, but the man is to blame for n…	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/16 04:37 PM
5	10 Benefits Of Reading: One Of The Most Red Pill Things You Can Do In Your Spare Time If you have a long commute, audiobooks while driving will change your life. Mix business/investing books in with detective/sci-fi books to really engage your mind in hours that would otherwise be lost just listening to music.	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/16 08:47 PM
3	The problems of being better looking than your girlfriend just replace the girl with a friendlier one. I'm 27 and this is still my philosophy. Well said	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/16 05:47 PM
2	Money doesn't increase your SMV, only your RMV. Success in the workplace and making money is a key part of self-improvement. Threatening successful people with the possibility "you might be beta-bux" just makes you seem jaded and unsuccessful. Make money, spend it on yourself, don't flash your money with new women.	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/16 03:21 PM
4	Jay Gatsby Syndrome is the Blue Pill Monk Mode At the end of my monk mode, I liked my successful self 100x more than the lapdog version of myself that I was with my oneitis. I now associate that particular girl with that weak version of myself. I have zero interest in even interacting with her just because I'm terrified to regress and waste another day of my life being that weak-ass pussy again To summarize: hate might get you started, but the rewards will make you never want to go back	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/16 02:42 PM
4	Overcoming LMR as a Wealthy High SMV Male Buying in Los Angeles is a bit of an endeavor	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/16 03:43 PM
7	Overcoming LMR as a Wealthy High SMV Male Nailed it. I don't drive a fancy car. Had a plate recently start to distance herself from me, but then she reignited things with a fury when she found out through other channels I make six figures in my 20s. A flashy car would probably improve my SMV on the surface, but I'd personally much rather buy my first condo in the next year	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/16 02:41 PM
2	FR: Took the plunge, broke up with BPD girlfriend I really struggle to understand parents' motivations when they take sides against their child who are clearly in an unhappy relationship. It took me way too long to realize my parents are just like any other people with usually terrible advice Anyway, you have one life, don't spend it being guilt-ed into a life you don't want. Great work on getting out	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/16 02:29 PM
2	This time from personalfinance sub: A guy buys a new car, goes out on vacation, dates; thus gets into 40k debt. Then he loses his job, no points for guessing what his gf did! Had a plate recommend I buy new instead of the used I wanted. My slightly disgusted response was "you sound expensive" before she spent the next 20 minutes trying to qualify herself	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/16 03:19 PM
3	What are your thoughts and experiences on social life, making new friends, and social circles for men as they leave the school/university setting? Many comments are recommending you keep only a few close friends, but as you get to your later 20s, those friends get married off or move away - essentially becoming less available or less interested in the things you're into (like going out and meeting women). At a certain point, non-ambitious people prefer to drink wine and binge netflix rather than be social on any given night. Definitely keep your close friends, but pick up hobbies, network or join sports teams to diversify your social circl…	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/16 02:17 PM
2	Stripper on okcupid invited me to her club. Now who's being naive	/r/askTRP	14/09/16 09:52 PM
2	I'm moving out on my own in 2 weeks. How can I best spend the next year of my life? r/personalfinance It doesn't get talked about much here but knowing how to manage your money in your 20s is key to living independently and having financial success	/r/askTRP	14/09/16 02:59 PM
2	A Few Tips on How to Move on From a Broken Relationship or Oneitis I think about it like plating my kryptonite. It's just bad news. I'm disgusted by the idea of reconnecting with my one-itis because I'm disgusted with the person I was around her. I can't risk going back to being that pathetic, needy bitch	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/16 02:16 PM
1	Having a small social circle while you were an Omega/Beta is a gift The perfect time to start is now	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/16 02:05 PM
0	The hitchhikers guide to European women Any advice you can give specifically about Prague? Heading there in a few weeks for the first time	/r/TheRedPill	09/09/16 03:19 PM
3	[FR] Recently gave a hard next to my oneitis When I was out there something clicked in my head that mentally changed me from a boy to a man. It was the best summer of my life and it never would have happened if I stayed mentally sheltered in my previous relationship. I probably wouldn't even have had the balls to accept the offer and move. Thank you for putting into words what I've been thinking recently. I had an ex who loved the crap out of me even though looking back, I wasn't in great shape and was zombie-ing through my career with no …	/r/TheRedPill	06/09/16 02:58 PM
3	Easiest bar pickup for a group of girls This is hilarious, well done	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/16 04:47 PM
3	"He's not conceited like you are" - shit test or something to think about? "what's not to love" I'd like to hear responses to this one. I get this test as well	/r/askTRP	02/09/16 02:03 PM
1	How to overcome infatuation? It sounds like it's a recurring theme so just think back to a previous flame and how not even 3 weeks later, you couldn't give two shits about her. It makes that period of infatuation much shorter when you can honestly think "I've been here before, good thing I won't care about this in a week." Then go get some plates.	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 08:03 PM
1	Is there such a thing as being an introvert/extrovert? Scrolled through and hoped to find this explanation. You can be an introvert who is social and parties, you just draw your energy from me time and small groups. People tend to misunderstand what extrovert v introvert actually means.	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 02:07 PM
62	Action Always Beats Intention - a cheat sheet on game / approaching These are great examples of openers, well done I actually use the "looking for a rich girl" line but end it with wanting to be a latin cabana/pool boy (I am very white) or a stay-at-home dad with no kids	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/16 03:05 PM
1	"Bro, don't worry. If I fuck your girl I will tell you" "if she was pathetic enough to fuck a guy like you, you wouldn't need my permission"	/r/askTRP	30/08/16 10:51 PM
1	Wtf am I doing???? A rant about goals, motivation, followed by a shot at advice I go through this periodically and here's my routine to stay focused. May be different for other people, but I get to work early on Monday and write out my weekly schedule (work meetings, social obligations, dates, etc.) a la 7 habits of highly effective people. I have weekly goals written out on the side of my schedule that I do my best to hit in my free time, and cross them off as the week goes on when I feel I've hit them. I usually get about 80% of them, which I'm happy with. I also re-liste…	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/16 02:42 PM
2	Punishing a plate who flakes on a scheduled meeting: soft next, something else? I had an online girl who bailed on me for our first meet. Usually I'm nice and accommodating, but this time I decided to kinda be a dick (or not tolerate the intolerable) so I didn't reply. She hit me up the next day with a hello text. I waited a day, and said "no you bailed." she replied with a bunch of qualifying crap about being a nice girl. I said something like "still waiting on an apology." She said how sorry she was (still qualifying) and I didn't respond. She asked me out the next day. S…	/r/askTRP	23/08/16 07:42 PM
2	Punishing a plate who flakes on a scheduled meeting: soft next, something else? The real question is how do you correct their behavior when they do hit you up again	/r/askTRP	23/08/16 07:11 PM
1	So you have oneitis? Here is your therapy I hear ya, I didn't expect the ultimatum to produce anything beneficial, but I felt the need to give her the opportunity to say yes rather than just ghost her. She needed to know my absence was her doing. Regardless, liberated as fuck nowadays	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/16 04:21 PM
1	So you have oneitis? Here is your therapy I think the turning point for me was when I read/realized it's not shameful to admit what you want, and to say "i want to have sex with you, I don't want friendship with you." I gave an ultimatum; she said no to a non-platonic relationship, so I said no to the friendship. Been liberated ever since.	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/16 02:58 PM
8	Massive red pill truths in a really unexpected place: a Tony Robbins documentary. My favorite moment is when he's talking about building your confidence to take on goals or live the life you want and he would just repeat to himself "I'm unstoppable. I'm unstoppable. I'm unstoppable." until he couldn't leave that mindset and it was ingrained in everything he did. A very small moment but for some reason, that stuck with me.	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/16 02:12 PM
9	Blast Past Every Shit Test Every time a woman says something that throws you off write it down in your cell phone and when you get home write down three funny responses you could have said. This will keep you sharp and eventually nothing will throw you off. Starting a running word doc where I do this. Great idea	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 05:29 PM
2	Don't last long in bed. I come from 1-3 minutes. How can I fix this? Any recommendations on where to find this book/audiobook? For whatever reason it's $150 on amazon..	/r/askTRP	12/08/16 02:29 PM
1	How to make small changes in your life (it works) High Plains Drifter - what a great shout	/r/askTRP	05/08/16 11:18 PM
3	Article from the Journal of Evolution and Human Behavior: Men pay more for younger prostitutes (Banned from sugar subreddit for this post) I think I'm going through that transition where time is more valuable than money... which makes me wonder what the breakeven point on time v money is. Earning $105k/year puts you at $1 every five minutes. Would you rather have a stupid 5 minute conversation or a dollar?	/r/TheRedPill	04/08/16 06:45 PM
1	Beware The Vindictive Beta While OP's story has a counterproductive ending, I think "Beware the Vindictive Beta" is still good advice. In college, a girl with a boyfriend kept hitting me up and flirting. I told her I'd only do anything with her if she was single because I'm not trying to get involved in a mess. She breaks up with the guy and we end up fooling around for a couple weeks. Despite holding to my values and an attempt to avoid drama, I still got fb message/phone call death threats from the kid and his roommate …	/r/TheRedPill	04/08/16 06:33 PM
4	The lies women tell nice guys. You forgot the "someday" line but otherwise a pretty comprehensive list	/r/TheRedPill	04/08/16 06:07 PM