This is a cautionary tale about being careful about who you sleep with. I have a good friend,Tom that I've been close to since we were kids. We were both having lunch one day last week and he told me he found out that his girlfriend was cheating on him and he caught her by looking at her text messages. He then looked the guy up through facebook and told me about the guy. The guy sounded awfully familiar to someone who works for me. I told Tom this and I asked to see the guy's facebook. Turns out it was him. Tom asked me to fire the guy; the employee was always nice to me, but I place a very high value on friendships so I fired him. Better to be safe than sorry and sleep with a girl who has a boyfriend.