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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | My lack of success with girls depresses meFound the chubby chaser (or you're just full of shit). | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Best way to get back into it after 2 months off?Been there. It's actually a good thing. Go talk to every hot chick you see. | /r/seduction | 06/09/15 07:47 AM |
| 5 | Don't Be This Guy [3rd person FR]I know. I've stopped. Mostly. Ok, sometimes. | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 03:38 AM |
| 4 | Don't Be This Guy [3rd person FR]Good on you man. About five years a random stranger had to do that to me. Opened my eyes. So since I never got thank him, my thanks to you. | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 03:34 AM |
| 5 | Female friends; how do I make those friendships work and what should I expect?I can't speak for the rest of you but I have many female friends that I was never looking for anything more with. I like hanging out with them and I do invite them to hang out in exactly those situations. You are spot on about it happening naturally though, the OP's scenario is a bit weird sounding. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Female friends; how do I make those friendships work and what should I expect?Women have trouble believing guys want to actually be just friends. They are used to being in control of that decision. You basically have to prove it, not just say it. Best way is usually to help them meet guys. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 09:00 PM |
| 0 | For /r/seduction.../r/shittyseduction and /r/shittypickuplines should able to help. | /r/seduction | 09/07/15 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Going out on your own, getting asked "are you here by yourself?""I make friends easily." | /r/seduction | 04/07/15 07:54 PM |
| 8 | How do I meet woman alone.Turn it into an advantage, you have a reason to talk to anyone/everyone: hey, my friends canceled on me last minute and i'm on my own, how's your night going? Just go with it. You're only the weird loner if you feel you are (it helps if you talk to everyone, not just girls). Truth is, I prefer being solo a lot of the time. | /r/seduction | 12/06/15 07:18 PM |
| 4 | How to calm nervesUsed to have that sort of issue. What I did was this: strike up a convo with a random stranger in the store (out of her sight), doesn't matter who/about what. Yes, it'll be awkward, who cares? Then go talk to the hot girl, you won't be nervous. | /r/seduction | 12/06/15 07:09 PM |
| 11 | She liked me, please help!Tell yourself to count to 3 and fucking go on 2. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 08:54 AM |
| 1 | So did I blow it?I agree, but he already screwed up the no contact part, so i think his best hope is that. I don't know though, I hold to no texting once a date is set, so I'm out of my experience on this one. | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Any tips to get into 'best-self' mode?No masturbating day of and lift some weights beforehand, I keep some 20lb ones at home just for ten mins of light lifting a couple hiurs before going out. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 11:06 PM |
| 1 | So did I blow it?To be fair though, I don't have many details so maybe all week is too long. I definitely think you should go quiet for a bit and see if she contacts you. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 11:01 PM |
| 1 | So did I blow it?If she texts you, answer as normal (maybe not right away though). If she doesn't initiate, you don't either. Ideally, she'll be wondering why you're quiet. Mystery is good. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 11:00 PM |
| 1 | So did I blow it?Don't initiate contact until day of the date. Then just say "so, when should I pick you up?". Do not say anything like, "hey, are we still on for tonight?". | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 10:46 PM |
| 1 | girls plan'sYou can try just saying something like, "well, i'll be at such and such around such and such time if you're looking for something to do". I'm thinking bar scene stuff. Also, as someone else ssid, she sounds depressed, so I'm not sure pursuit is the best idea. | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Picking up outside of nightlife?I don't if it's practical for you but I got past a lot of anxiety issues, both women related and in general, by getting a dog and going to dog parks. Conversation starters are automatic, "hey, cute dog", etc. | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 01:25 AM |
| 13 | How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you?Exactly. Now act like they all are the ones who think you're a 10 (and realize they never believe you think they are) | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:27 PM |
| 25 | How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you?I honestly don't find her that hot. 7 or 8 in my book. And I'd bet some of my 10s are 7s to you. See my point? | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Need your help.Dude, you've missed the point of this sub completely. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 02:53 PM |
| 2 | how to be less confrontational when qualifying?Quick followup: always put her on the spot. | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 10:08 AM |
| 8 | how to be less confrontational when qualifying?I tend towards things like "So what is it about you I find so attractive?" works like a charm (username related) | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 10:03 AM |
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